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Hello

Good afternoon. How are you doing today?

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Hello

I've been better

Sounds like you might be having a rough day. Is there something specific on your mind?

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Hello I've been better

I've seen an increase in expenses recently and need to find a new job, however I really enjoy what I do. I'm just feeling very sad about it.

An uptick in expenses seems to be an issue for a lot of us right now. Glad to hear you enjoy your job. Sounds like you are a bit torn about leaving a great company. Do I understand that right?

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I need to leave my job as I do not make enough money, however I love my job and hate to leave.

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Hello I've been better I've seen an increase in expenses recently and need to find a new job, however I really enjoy what I do. I'm just feeling very sad about it.

That's right. It's hard to know what to do.

I can absolutely understand why your situation is difficult. Have you had a chance to talk with your manager about another opportunity within the company that provides higher compensation?

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I need to leave my job as I do not make enough money, however I love my job and hate to leave.

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Hello I've been better I've seen an increase in expenses recently and need to find a new job, however I really enjoy what I do. I'm just feeling very sad about it. That's right. It's hard to know what to do.

I've considered it, but I unfortunately work for a non-profit and the likelihood of them being able to offer another opportunity is pretty low. Do you think it would still be worth it to ask?

That's fantastic that you work for a non-profit. I've been looking to transition to an opportunity like that sometime in the future. It must be so fulfilling. I think asking would be a great first step.

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I need to leave my job as I do not make enough money, however I love my job and hate to leave.

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Hello I've been better I've seen an increase in expenses recently and need to find a new job, however I really enjoy what I do. I'm just feeling very sad about it. That's right. It's hard to know what to do. I've considered it, but I unfortunately work for a non-profit and the likelihood of them being able to offer another opportunity is pretty low. Do you think it would still be worth it to ask?

It's really nice to have mission driven work and would definitely recommend it. It's unfortunate that it's challenging for many non-profits to pay as much as they should. Thank you for the advice! I'm really hoping I don't have to leave.

As a secondary plan, have you had the chance to look at positions with similar non-profits?

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I need to leave my job as I do not make enough money, however I love my job and hate to leave.

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Hello I've been better I've seen an increase in expenses recently and need to find a new job, however I really enjoy what I do. I'm just feeling very sad about it. That's right. It's hard to know what to do. I've considered it, but I unfortunately work for a non-profit and the likelihood of them being able to offer another opportunity is pretty low. Do you think it would still be worth it to ask? It's really nice to have mission driven work and would definitely recommend it. It's unfortunate that it's challenging for many non-profits to pay as much as they should. Thank you for the advice! I'm really hoping I don't have to leave.

I have searched around a bit, but have come to find that there's not many similar non-profits where I live currently. I may consider relocating if it's the right job, but that's a lot of additional stress.

Additional stress right now certainly isn't anything anyone needs. You may want to consider looking at resources online that provide comparable salary information for your position. That would help with having a conversation with your current employer if you are being paid less than average. Since they are a non-profit, I'm sure they would want to do everything to help you with your financial situation.

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I need to leave my job as I do not make enough money, however I love my job and hate to leave.

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Hello I've been better I've seen an increase in expenses recently and need to find a new job, however I really enjoy what I do. I'm just feeling very sad about it. That's right. It's hard to know what to do. I've considered it, but I unfortunately work for a non-profit and the likelihood of them being able to offer another opportunity is pretty low. Do you think it would still be worth it to ask? It's really nice to have mission driven work and would definitely recommend it. It's unfortunate that it's challenging for many non-profits to pay as much as they should. Thank you for the advice! I'm really hoping I don't have to leave. I have searched around a bit, but have come to find that there's not many similar non-profits where I live currently. I may consider relocating if it's the right job, but that's a lot of additional stress.

That's a great idea - I have done some research but just kind of assumed most non-profits would be in the same boat. I'll do some looking around to see what I can find

That sounds like a great next step. Is there anything else on your mind that you'd like to chat about?

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I need to leave my job as I do not make enough money, however I love my job and hate to leave.

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Hello I've been better I've seen an increase in expenses recently and need to find a new job, however I really enjoy what I do. I'm just feeling very sad about it. That's right. It's hard to know what to do. I've considered it, but I unfortunately work for a non-profit and the likelihood of them being able to offer another opportunity is pretty low. Do you think it would still be worth it to ask? It's really nice to have mission driven work and would definitely recommend it. It's unfortunate that it's challenging for many non-profits to pay as much as they should. Thank you for the advice! I'm really hoping I don't have to leave. I have searched around a bit, but have come to find that there's not many similar non-profits where I live currently. I may consider relocating if it's the right job, but that's a lot of additional stress. That's a great idea - I have done some research but just kind of assumed most non-profits would be in the same boat. I'll do some looking around to see what I can find

That was all for today. Thank you for your help!

It was my pleasure. Have a wonderful rest of your day and keep your head high!

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I need to leave my job as I do not make enough money, however I love my job and hate to leave.

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Hello I've been better I've seen an increase in expenses recently and need to find a new job, however I really enjoy what I do. I'm just feeling very sad about it. That's right. It's hard to know what to do. I've considered it, but I unfortunately work for a non-profit and the likelihood of them being able to offer another opportunity is pretty low. Do you think it would still be worth it to ask? It's really nice to have mission driven work and would definitely recommend it. It's unfortunate that it's challenging for many non-profits to pay as much as they should. Thank you for the advice! I'm really hoping I don't have to leave. I have searched around a bit, but have come to find that there's not many similar non-profits where I live currently. I may consider relocating if it's the right job, but that's a lot of additional stress. That's a great idea - I have done some research but just kind of assumed most non-profits would be in the same boat. I'll do some looking around to see what I can find That was all for today. Thank you for your help!

Will do! I hope we can chat again some day!

It would be fantastic to hear how positive your situation turns out.

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I am doing ok. I just broke up with my girlfriend and sad about it

so I hear you are not feeling at all your best at the moment?

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I am doing ok. I just broke up with my girlfriend and sad about it

That is correct.

Do you feel as though you have no-one to talk to about this situation? I am happy to listen.

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I am doing ok. I just broke up with my girlfriend and sad about it That is correct.

I am so sad and just wonder why did it happen!!!

Do you have no idea? Do you think you might have done something wrong or perhaps she was being unfaithful to you?

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I am doing ok. I just broke up with my girlfriend and sad about it That is correct. I am so sad and just wonder why did it happen!!!

We had simple disagreement and both of us were keep fighting.. now I can not get over it.

Do you consider that there might be any hope for the two of you at all?

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I am doing ok. I just broke up with my girlfriend and sad about it That is correct. I am so sad and just wonder why did it happen!!! We had simple disagreement and both of us were keep fighting.. now I can not get over it.

I don't know. What should I do?

Well, I think you should give her some space but people do sometimes get back together after they've separated

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I am doing ok. I just broke up with my girlfriend and sad about it That is correct. I am so sad and just wonder why did it happen!!! We had simple disagreement and both of us were keep fighting.. now I can not get over it. I don't know. What should I do?

I see your point.

You really do need to give her some space though - don't crowd her

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I am doing ok. I just broke up with my girlfriend and sad about it That is correct. I am so sad and just wonder why did it happen!!! We had simple disagreement and both of us were keep fighting.. now I can not get over it. I don't know. What should I do? I see your point.

Should I call her directly? What should I say?

I would give her a little time. Maybe two or three days? She might need some time to clear her head

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I am doing ok. I just broke up with my girlfriend and sad about it That is correct. I am so sad and just wonder why did it happen!!! We had simple disagreement and both of us were keep fighting.. now I can not get over it. I don't know. What should I do? I see your point. Should I call her directly? What should I say?

That's a good idea. What should I say? Should I apologize?

Perhaps you could send flowers and a note asking her if she'd like to talk?

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I am doing ok. I just broke up with my girlfriend and sad about it That is correct. I am so sad and just wonder why did it happen!!! We had simple disagreement and both of us were keep fighting.. now I can not get over it. I don't know. What should I do? I see your point. Should I call her directly? What should I say? That's a good idea. What should I say? Should I apologize?

That's a good idea. I will try that. Thank you.

She might be feeling receptive to that but if she's not you might have to accept that it's over.

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry.

Hi Larry. What sort of job do you do?

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I'm sad that my job is not fulfilling and I feel like I am wasting my life.

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry.

I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility.

I have had jobs that seemed pointless as well. I was a sales assistant in a store constantly waiting for customers, it was boring! Just a paycheque with no fulfillment. I found it depressing as well.

I have had jobs that seemed pointless as well. I was a sales assistant in a store constantly waiting for customers, it was boring! Just a paycheque with no fulfillment. I found it depressing as well. So it sounds like you are finding no point to going in to work, and it's making you feel sad, am I correct?

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry. I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility.

Yes that is a very good summary of what is going on. And I am glad to see you can relate. While I am lucky to not work in sales since I know those jobs are extremely tough but the lack of reward is all the same.

Are there other jobs available in your area that you could apply for that are more up your alley?

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry. I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility. Yes that is a very good summary of what is going on. And I am glad to see you can relate. While I am lucky to not work in sales since I know those jobs are extremely tough but the lack of reward is all the same.

I have not seen anything worth jumping ship for. I am afraid of the old adage of the grass always looks greener from the other side of the fence. Meaning I leave this job and only find a worse job.

I see., yes that could be a risk for sure.have you spoken to your manager to see if there may be other opportunities in the manufacturing facility for you? I bet they would rather retrain you for a different position than lose you.

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry. I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility. Yes that is a very good summary of what is going on. And I am glad to see you can relate. While I am lucky to not work in sales since I know those jobs are extremely tough but the lack of reward is all the same. I have not seen anything worth jumping ship for. I am afraid of the old adage of the grass always looks greener from the other side of the fence. Meaning I leave this job and only find a worse job.

Unfortunately there are no other positions at the place I work. Yes my boss is very well aware of how unhappy I am. He is also unhappy and has been looking for jobs too. It isn't that great of a place to work at. I have had 3 different friends leave my place of employment, I've just been to lazy to leave too. It's a catch 22, too lazy to leave but due to feeling sad from being here I don't have the energy to try to leave.

Yes I can understand that. Sadness and depresion can lead one to feel depleted and lacking motivation to make change.

Yes I can understand that. Sadness and depresion can lead one to feel depleted and lacking motivation to make change. I have been depressed and lacking motivation in the past, I remember how it felt.

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry. I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility. Yes that is a very good summary of what is going on. And I am glad to see you can relate. While I am lucky to not work in sales since I know those jobs are extremely tough but the lack of reward is all the same. I have not seen anything worth jumping ship for. I am afraid of the old adage of the grass always looks greener from the other side of the fence. Meaning I leave this job and only find a worse job. Unfortunately there are no other positions at the place I work. Yes my boss is very well aware of how unhappy I am. He is also unhappy and has been looking for jobs too. It isn't that great of a place to work at. I have had 3 different friends leave my place of employment, I've just been to lazy to leave too. It's a catch 22, too lazy to leave but due to feeling sad from being here I don't have the energy to try to leave.

Yes, I see a psychologist and she does her best to help me but ultimately it is up to me to make the changes I need to in life.

Is there anything about your position that you could suggest improving to your boss, to make your job more interesting? Maybe some ideas you may have for streamlining the work or somethings?

Is there anything about your position that you could suggest improving to your boss, to make your job more interesting? Maybe some ideas you may have for streamlining the work or somethings? I'm glad to hear you have someone to talk to about it. Over time as you keep working on it I hope things will improve for you.

Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance

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I'm sad that my job is not fulfilling and I feel like I am wasting my life.

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry. I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility. Yes that is a very good summary of what is going on. And I am glad to see you can relate. While I am lucky to not work in sales since I know those jobs are extremely tough but the lack of reward is all the same. I have not seen anything worth jumping ship for. I am afraid of the old adage of the grass always looks greener from the other side of the fence. Meaning I leave this job and only find a worse job. Unfortunately there are no other positions at the place I work. Yes my boss is very well aware of how unhappy I am. He is also unhappy and has been looking for jobs too. It isn't that great of a place to work at. I have had 3 different friends leave my place of employment, I've just been to lazy to leave too. It's a catch 22, too lazy to leave but due to feeling sad from being here I don't have the energy to try to leave. Yes, I see a psychologist and she does her best to help me but ultimately it is up to me to make the changes I need to in life.

I've spoke things over with my boss, he has tried a few things. Currently we are in a holding pattern due to some upper management changes and we are awaiting to see how the new manager would like to run things.

oh I see. Do you have hobbies outside of work that you find fulfilling?

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I'm sad that my job is not fulfilling and I feel like I am wasting my life.

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry. I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility. Yes that is a very good summary of what is going on. And I am glad to see you can relate. While I am lucky to not work in sales since I know those jobs are extremely tough but the lack of reward is all the same. I have not seen anything worth jumping ship for. I am afraid of the old adage of the grass always looks greener from the other side of the fence. Meaning I leave this job and only find a worse job. Unfortunately there are no other positions at the place I work. Yes my boss is very well aware of how unhappy I am. He is also unhappy and has been looking for jobs too. It isn't that great of a place to work at. I have had 3 different friends leave my place of employment, I've just been to lazy to leave too. It's a catch 22, too lazy to leave but due to feeling sad from being here I don't have the energy to try to leave. Yes, I see a psychologist and she does her best to help me but ultimately it is up to me to make the changes I need to in life. I've spoke things over with my boss, he has tried a few things. Currently we are in a holding pattern due to some upper management changes and we are awaiting to see how the new manager would like to run things.

I have been slacking on that too. Just don't find pleasure in anything anymore. Now that it is spring time though hopefully that changes.

Lets hope the new manager improves things for you, it sounds like there is a ray of hope there!

Lets hope the new manager improves things for you, it sounds like there is a ray of hope there! Yes it's hard to get started on anything when we are down. I remember writing lists with very small goals on them. Small goals feel like mountains when we are down! Then I would work my way through that very short list and check things off if I could do them, which gave me a small lift of accomplishment.

Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry. I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility. Yes that is a very good summary of what is going on. And I am glad to see you can relate. While I am lucky to not work in sales since I know those jobs are extremely tough but the lack of reward is all the same. I have not seen anything worth jumping ship for. I am afraid of the old adage of the grass always looks greener from the other side of the fence. Meaning I leave this job and only find a worse job. Unfortunately there are no other positions at the place I work. Yes my boss is very well aware of how unhappy I am. He is also unhappy and has been looking for jobs too. It isn't that great of a place to work at. I have had 3 different friends leave my place of employment, I've just been to lazy to leave too. It's a catch 22, too lazy to leave but due to feeling sad from being here I don't have the energy to try to leave. Yes, I see a psychologist and she does her best to help me but ultimately it is up to me to make the changes I need to in life. I've spoke things over with my boss, he has tried a few things. Currently we are in a holding pattern due to some upper management changes and we are awaiting to see how the new manager would like to run things. I have been slacking on that too. Just don't find pleasure in anything anymore. Now that it is spring time though hopefully that changes.

I should start writing lists. I know that is a great tool for helping.

Lets hope the new manager can improve things. And your work with the psychologist is very positive, it's great you reached out for help, that is a strength. You've spoken with your boss. You are doing all the right things.

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry. I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility. Yes that is a very good summary of what is going on. And I am glad to see you can relate. While I am lucky to not work in sales since I know those jobs are extremely tough but the lack of reward is all the same. I have not seen anything worth jumping ship for. I am afraid of the old adage of the grass always looks greener from the other side of the fence. Meaning I leave this job and only find a worse job. Unfortunately there are no other positions at the place I work. Yes my boss is very well aware of how unhappy I am. He is also unhappy and has been looking for jobs too. It isn't that great of a place to work at. I have had 3 different friends leave my place of employment, I've just been to lazy to leave too. It's a catch 22, too lazy to leave but due to feeling sad from being here I don't have the energy to try to leave. Yes, I see a psychologist and she does her best to help me but ultimately it is up to me to make the changes I need to in life. I've spoke things over with my boss, he has tried a few things. Currently we are in a holding pattern due to some upper management changes and we are awaiting to see how the new manager would like to run things. I have been slacking on that too. Just don't find pleasure in anything anymore. Now that it is spring time though hopefully that changes. I should start writing lists. I know that is a great tool for helping.

Thank you for the encouragement .

you're very welcome, it's been a pleasure talking with you Larry.

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Hello. I am sad because my job is not rewarding. It is a dead-end job and I feel shameful anymore. I don't like talking about my job with anyone since it is so pointless. Hi Sharon. I'm Larry. I am a maintenance supervisor in a manufacturing facility. Yes that is a very good summary of what is going on. And I am glad to see you can relate. While I am lucky to not work in sales since I know those jobs are extremely tough but the lack of reward is all the same. I have not seen anything worth jumping ship for. I am afraid of the old adage of the grass always looks greener from the other side of the fence. Meaning I leave this job and only find a worse job. Unfortunately there are no other positions at the place I work. Yes my boss is very well aware of how unhappy I am. He is also unhappy and has been looking for jobs too. It isn't that great of a place to work at. I have had 3 different friends leave my place of employment, I've just been to lazy to leave too. It's a catch 22, too lazy to leave but due to feeling sad from being here I don't have the energy to try to leave. Yes, I see a psychologist and she does her best to help me but ultimately it is up to me to make the changes I need to in life. I've spoke things over with my boss, he has tried a few things. Currently we are in a holding pattern due to some upper management changes and we are awaiting to see how the new manager would like to run things. I have been slacking on that too. Just don't find pleasure in anything anymore. Now that it is spring time though hopefully that changes. I should start writing lists. I know that is a great tool for helping. Thank you for the encouragement .

Thank you for your help Sharon. Have a good day.

you too! take good care of yourself, bye

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person.

Did you sign the birth certificate?

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person.

No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not.

That is absolutely horrible, and I can understand the reasoning behind your emotions now. You are a wonderful soul to care so deeply. You deserve to be a Father.

That is absolutely horrible, and I can understand the reasoning behind your emotions now. You are a wonderful soul to care so deeply. You deserve to be a Father. Have you contacted any legal help?

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not.

Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case.

Ok that is one step closer to justice. When is that going to take place, and did you find out if that can be expedited?

Ok that is one step closer to justice. When is that going to take place, and did you find out if that can be expedited? Your child is so fortunate to have you. Keep fighting to win custody, I believe in you.

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not. Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case.

There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging.

I am proud of being able to say I spoke with someone like you today. I hope the rest of the world takes notes from you. If everyone cared like this, the world would be a better place. Thank you for being you:)

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not. Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case. There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging.

Thanks. I'm glad to have talked to you too.

Is there anything else going on, aside from this?

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Stress induced by a multitude of issues happening seemingly at once. This essentially started with a problem with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months.

4

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not. Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case. There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging. Thanks. I'm glad to have talked to you too.

Well, aside from that, I'm pretty stressed about school too.

What are you studying?

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not. Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case. There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging. Thanks. I'm glad to have talked to you too. Well, aside from that, I'm pretty stressed about school too.

Psychology

I studied psychology years ago, and it is eye opening. Stick with it, and pay attention. It will absolutely help your cause in court too!

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not. Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case. There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging. Thanks. I'm glad to have talked to you too. Well, aside from that, I'm pretty stressed about school too. Psychology

Thanks!

Anytime! Do you do anything for fun? Any hobbies?

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not. Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case. There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging. Thanks. I'm glad to have talked to you too. Well, aside from that, I'm pretty stressed about school too. Psychology Thanks!

I read. I also like to play video games or listen to music. Unfortunately most of my time is spent on schoolwork and taking care of other things. But when I do find some time, I usually play a video game or do some reading.

What are some of your favorites? That is definitely one of my escapes. It is a very healthy way to cope and find some peace among the chaos.

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not. Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case. There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging. Thanks. I'm glad to have talked to you too. Well, aside from that, I'm pretty stressed about school too. Psychology Thanks! I read. I also like to play video games or listen to music. Unfortunately most of my time is spent on schoolwork and taking care of other things. But when I do find some time, I usually play a video game or do some reading.

For reading, I like to read a variety of genres, like mysteries and self-help books. As for video games, I tend to play anything. Mostly, I've been playing to shut my brain off, so it's games like GTAV or Call of Duty.

Can I make a suggestion? From a fellow psych buff, I recommend any of the Uncharted games or Assassin's Creed games! You will melt into another world and it takes the stress away. Leaving you more energized to deal with real world problems!

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not. Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case. There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging. Thanks. I'm glad to have talked to you too. Well, aside from that, I'm pretty stressed about school too. Psychology Thanks! I read. I also like to play video games or listen to music. Unfortunately most of my time is spent on schoolwork and taking care of other things. But when I do find some time, I usually play a video game or do some reading. For reading, I like to read a variety of genres, like mysteries and self-help books. As for video games, I tend to play anything. Mostly, I've been playing to shut my brain off, so it's games like GTAV or Call of Duty.

That's a good idea. I actually just downloaded an Assassin's Creed game.

Great minds think alike! Is there anything else you wanted to bring up with me today?

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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person. No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not. Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case. There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging. Thanks. I'm glad to have talked to you too. Well, aside from that, I'm pretty stressed about school too. Psychology Thanks! I read. I also like to play video games or listen to music. Unfortunately most of my time is spent on schoolwork and taking care of other things. But when I do find some time, I usually play a video game or do some reading. For reading, I like to read a variety of genres, like mysteries and self-help books. As for video games, I tend to play anything. Mostly, I've been playing to shut my brain off, so it's games like GTAV or Call of Duty. That's a good idea. I actually just downloaded an Assassin's Creed game.

No. But thanks for listening to me.

Thank you for trusting me with your problems. I hope to have made you smile, even a little!

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Hi

hello, how are you?

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Hi

Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu

I'm doing ok, Is there anything you would like to chat about?

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My longtime partner revealed that they cheated on me during the pandemic and I've very very sad about it

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Hi Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu

Yeah my long time partner cheated on me recently and I just found out I havent been able to see them in awhile because of lock down and now they tell me this :(

That is horrible I am so sorry they done that to you

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Hi Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu Yeah my long time partner cheated on me recently and I just found out I havent been able to see them in awhile because of lock down and now they tell me this :(

thanks its just been such a hard couple of months because of the virus And now with this I just dont know what to do

I have been cheated on in the past and it always messes with your mind just know it is nothing to do with you it is all them, yes this virus is horrible on everyone it took us all by surprise at how bad it is

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Hi Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu Yeah my long time partner cheated on me recently and I just found out I havent been able to see them in awhile because of lock down and now they tell me this :( thanks its just been such a hard couple of months because of the virus And now with this I just dont know what to do

Yeah its an awful feeling and I just feel really sad

I know it's heartbreaking, have you reached out to a friend or family member sometimes opening up to someone close is the best way to let every feeling out

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Hi Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu Yeah my long time partner cheated on me recently and I just found out I havent been able to see them in awhile because of lock down and now they tell me this :( thanks its just been such a hard couple of months because of the virus And now with this I just dont know what to do Yeah its an awful feeling and I just feel really sad

I haven't spoken to anyone yet I dont want to bother anyone

don't ever think you are a bother to anyone. You are loved by those close to you and I am sure they would be great comfort during this.

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Hi Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu Yeah my long time partner cheated on me recently and I just found out I havent been able to see them in awhile because of lock down and now they tell me this :( thanks its just been such a hard couple of months because of the virus And now with this I just dont know what to do Yeah its an awful feeling and I just feel really sad I haven't spoken to anyone yet I dont want to bother anyone

Yeah I guess I should talk to someone about it what else do you think I should do?

When I got cheated on by my ex, I took time to build my self confidence up, build my happiness up, I wrote a letter telling him how it hurt and every feeling and then I ripped it up and threw it away it felt good getting my feelings out. it might help you to.

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Hi Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu Yeah my long time partner cheated on me recently and I just found out I havent been able to see them in awhile because of lock down and now they tell me this :( thanks its just been such a hard couple of months because of the virus And now with this I just dont know what to do Yeah its an awful feeling and I just feel really sad I haven't spoken to anyone yet I dont want to bother anyone Yeah I guess I should talk to someone about it what else do you think I should do?

Yeah maybe I should try that What else do you think would help?

letting them go is the major one you don't ever want to be with someone who cheats on you if they do it once and you forgive them they 9 times out of 10 will do it again

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Hi Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu Yeah my long time partner cheated on me recently and I just found out I havent been able to see them in awhile because of lock down and now they tell me this :( thanks its just been such a hard couple of months because of the virus And now with this I just dont know what to do Yeah its an awful feeling and I just feel really sad I haven't spoken to anyone yet I dont want to bother anyone Yeah I guess I should talk to someone about it what else do you think I should do? Yeah maybe I should try that What else do you think would help?

Yeah I definitely will not be going back to them They've hurt me too much and I wont be able to trust them again

exactly and once they break your trust it can't ever be fully repaired again you will always have that doubt in your mind about them

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Hi Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu Yeah my long time partner cheated on me recently and I just found out I havent been able to see them in awhile because of lock down and now they tell me this :( thanks its just been such a hard couple of months because of the virus And now with this I just dont know what to do Yeah its an awful feeling and I just feel really sad I haven't spoken to anyone yet I dont want to bother anyone Yeah I guess I should talk to someone about it what else do you think I should do? Yeah maybe I should try that What else do you think would help? Yeah I definitely will not be going back to them They've hurt me too much and I wont be able to trust them again

yeah thanks for sharing your experience with me I feel a little better now :)

you are very welcome I hope everything gets better for you. And that once your heart is healed you find someone who truly loves you and doesn't do that to you.

you are very welcome I hope everything gets better for you. And that once your heart is healed you find someone who truly loves you and doesn't do that to you. you are very welcome I hope everything gets better for you. And that once your heart is healed you find someone who truly loves you and doesn't do that to you.

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Hi Honestly I'm not doing too great hbu Yeah my long time partner cheated on me recently and I just found out I havent been able to see them in awhile because of lock down and now they tell me this :( thanks its just been such a hard couple of months because of the virus And now with this I just dont know what to do Yeah its an awful feeling and I just feel really sad I haven't spoken to anyone yet I dont want to bother anyone Yeah I guess I should talk to someone about it what else do you think I should do? Yeah maybe I should try that What else do you think would help? Yeah I definitely will not be going back to them They've hurt me too much and I wont be able to trust them again yeah thanks for sharing your experience with me I feel a little better now :)

Thank you :) Thank you for spending the time to chat with me I hope you have a great day

Anytime, I hope you have a great day as well

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Hello

Hi there. How are you doing today?

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Hello

I'm doing alright, and yourself?

I'm doing pretty well. Do you have anything going on today?

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Hello I'm doing alright, and yourself?

Yeah I ended up going biking earlier and now I am doing school work. How about you? Do you have anything going on today?

Oh biking is an excellent activity to do with everything going on. How are you feeling with it all? What are you studying in school? I'm just getting household chores done, nothing too exciting.

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Hello I'm doing alright, and yourself? Yeah I ended up going biking earlier and now I am doing school work. How about you? Do you have anything going on today?

I'm feeling alright. The current pandemic situation in my city has made it restricted to be with people other than immediate family so that's been tough. I'm currently studying finance and I'm loving it. I'm in my last year so I can't wait to finish that up

I understand that it is really difficult to be kept on lockdown.

I understand that it is really difficult to be kept on lockdown. Are you biking regularly to help with the feeling of being stuck inside?

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Hello I'm doing alright, and yourself? Yeah I ended up going biking earlier and now I am doing school work. How about you? Do you have anything going on today? I'm feeling alright. The current pandemic situation in my city has made it restricted to be with people other than immediate family so that's been tough. I'm currently studying finance and I'm loving it. I'm in my last year so I can't wait to finish that up

Yes. It's great that my city has a program where we can get a bike pass for $99/year. There are bike stations set up all over my city so that has helped with my sense of being cooped up. It's really helpful in these times to find something to keep yourself productive and mindful that things are going to get better

I agree, It's really great that you are finding ways to get out of the house.

I agree, It's really great that you are finding ways to get out of the house. Have you tried video chatting with the people you can't be around right now? That has really helped me not feel so alone right now.

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Hello I'm doing alright, and yourself? Yeah I ended up going biking earlier and now I am doing school work. How about you? Do you have anything going on today? I'm feeling alright. The current pandemic situation in my city has made it restricted to be with people other than immediate family so that's been tough. I'm currently studying finance and I'm loving it. I'm in my last year so I can't wait to finish that up Yes. It's great that my city has a program where we can get a bike pass for $99/year. There are bike stations set up all over my city so that has helped with my sense of being cooped up. It's really helpful in these times to find something to keep yourself productive and mindful that things are going to get better

I have and that has helped for me as well. I also have a dog so that has helped me have the feeling of being around "someone" even though they're not human. I haven't video chatted anyone in quite some time though, I probably will do that later on today!

Well, I think it's great that you are finding things like biking, playing with your dog, and video chatting to help get you through these times.

Well, I think it's great that you are finding things like biking, playing with your dog, and video chatting to help get you through these times. Lately, I've been focusing on self care a lot more to help with de stressing with everything going on. Have you tried this?

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Hello I'm doing alright, and yourself? Yeah I ended up going biking earlier and now I am doing school work. How about you? Do you have anything going on today? I'm feeling alright. The current pandemic situation in my city has made it restricted to be with people other than immediate family so that's been tough. I'm currently studying finance and I'm loving it. I'm in my last year so I can't wait to finish that up Yes. It's great that my city has a program where we can get a bike pass for $99/year. There are bike stations set up all over my city so that has helped with my sense of being cooped up. It's really helpful in these times to find something to keep yourself productive and mindful that things are going to get better I have and that has helped for me as well. I also have a dog so that has helped me have the feeling of being around "someone" even though they're not human. I haven't video chatted anyone in quite some time though, I probably will do that later on today!

I haven't tried that, I'll have to try something similar. I haven't been focusing on self care at all recently

Self care is so important even when there isn't a pandemic. It can help you connect with yourself and make you feel less overwhelmed and just give you YOU time. Some of my favorite ways to do this is listening to podcasts, meditating and focusing on my breathing, listening to music, and pamper myself with face masks etc.

Self care is so important even when there isn't a pandemic. It can help you connect with yourself and make you feel less overwhelmed and just give you YOU time. Some of my favorite ways to do this is listening to podcasts, meditating and focusing on my breathing, listening to music, and pamper myself with face masks etc. I suggest you practice self care starting once a week and work it up from there giving yourself at least an hour a day if you can

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Hello I'm doing alright, and yourself? Yeah I ended up going biking earlier and now I am doing school work. How about you? Do you have anything going on today? I'm feeling alright. The current pandemic situation in my city has made it restricted to be with people other than immediate family so that's been tough. I'm currently studying finance and I'm loving it. I'm in my last year so I can't wait to finish that up Yes. It's great that my city has a program where we can get a bike pass for $99/year. There are bike stations set up all over my city so that has helped with my sense of being cooped up. It's really helpful in these times to find something to keep yourself productive and mindful that things are going to get better I have and that has helped for me as well. I also have a dog so that has helped me have the feeling of being around "someone" even though they're not human. I haven't video chatted anyone in quite some time though, I probably will do that later on today! I haven't tried that, I'll have to try something similar. I haven't been focusing on self care at all recently

Do you have any recommendations for medicating? I've been looking to get into it as I know it has helped many people. But I haven't found any easy way to divulge into the topic. I appreciate you recommending that I spend an hour a day. I think something like this could better myself into living a much happier and fulfilled life.

I suggest listening to Jay shetty he is on most podcasts apps. personally, I use stitcher. If you can download a podcast app you can just type in "Meditation" and it will pull up several options to try out. Another great app is called MyLife Meditation by stop. breath. think. That's a great started meditation to try.

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Hello I'm doing alright, and yourself? Yeah I ended up going biking earlier and now I am doing school work. How about you? Do you have anything going on today? I'm feeling alright. The current pandemic situation in my city has made it restricted to be with people other than immediate family so that's been tough. I'm currently studying finance and I'm loving it. I'm in my last year so I can't wait to finish that up Yes. It's great that my city has a program where we can get a bike pass for $99/year. There are bike stations set up all over my city so that has helped with my sense of being cooped up. It's really helpful in these times to find something to keep yourself productive and mindful that things are going to get better I have and that has helped for me as well. I also have a dog so that has helped me have the feeling of being around "someone" even though they're not human. I haven't video chatted anyone in quite some time though, I probably will do that later on today! I haven't tried that, I'll have to try something similar. I haven't been focusing on self care at all recently Do you have any recommendations for medicating? I've been looking to get into it as I know it has helped many people. But I haven't found any easy way to divulge into the topic. I appreciate you recommending that I spend an hour a day. I think something like this could better myself into living a much happier and fulfilled life.

I think I'm going to try to start with your podcast that you recommended. I already listen to podcasts daily so that wouldn't be hard to fit into my routine! :)

It sounds like this could be something that would fit right in with your life and even help improve it. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do! There is so many great books out there and other podcasts as well about self care.

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Hello I'm doing alright, and yourself? Yeah I ended up going biking earlier and now I am doing school work. How about you? Do you have anything going on today? I'm feeling alright. The current pandemic situation in my city has made it restricted to be with people other than immediate family so that's been tough. I'm currently studying finance and I'm loving it. I'm in my last year so I can't wait to finish that up Yes. It's great that my city has a program where we can get a bike pass for $99/year. There are bike stations set up all over my city so that has helped with my sense of being cooped up. It's really helpful in these times to find something to keep yourself productive and mindful that things are going to get better I have and that has helped for me as well. I also have a dog so that has helped me have the feeling of being around "someone" even though they're not human. I haven't video chatted anyone in quite some time though, I probably will do that later on today! I haven't tried that, I'll have to try something similar. I haven't been focusing on self care at all recently Do you have any recommendations for medicating? I've been looking to get into it as I know it has helped many people. But I haven't found any easy way to divulge into the topic. I appreciate you recommending that I spend an hour a day. I think something like this could better myself into living a much happier and fulfilled life. I think I'm going to try to start with your podcast that you recommended. I already listen to podcasts daily so that wouldn't be hard to fit into my routine! :)

Thank you so much for all your help today and guiding me in the right direction. I truly am thankful for speaking with you today :)

I'm so glad I was able to help. Enjoy the rest of your day and remember to set aside sometime for yourself. It was great chatting with you.

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Hey

Hello! How are you doing today?

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Hey

I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful

That's great, especially around this time of the Holidays.

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Hey I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful

Yeah, it is good because of the holidays.

So, how are things in your life?

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Hey I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful Yeah, it is good because of the holidays.

Not to bad, just had a death in the family. Pretty bummed about it because we are a close to our extended family and can't visit one another to grieve

I'm very sorry to hear that. Not being able to be with family when something like that happens is incredibly difficult, those are the people you want to be around the most.

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Hey I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful Yeah, it is good because of the holidays. Not to bad, just had a death in the family. Pretty bummed about it because we are a close to our extended family and can't visit one another to grieve

Yeah, we just had a virtual funeral for him and it was painful to watch. We couldn't console those who needed it

I actually had a death in a family a few months ago as well, with a virtual funeral. I really empathize with the way you and your family are feeling. But you know, I tried to look at the virtual funeral as a way for so many people to pay tribute in a way they couldn't in person. People from all over ge t their chance to say goodbye.

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Hey I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful Yeah, it is good because of the holidays. Not to bad, just had a death in the family. Pretty bummed about it because we are a close to our extended family and can't visit one another to grieve Yeah, we just had a virtual funeral for him and it was painful to watch. We couldn't console those who needed it

Yeah thats a good way to look at it, the whole family was able to get together in one place and was able participate safely. We also chatted hours afterwards. I did feel better about it

Truly, everyone got to participate and pay tribute together. Virtually or not, you were all together.

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Hey I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful Yeah, it is good because of the holidays. Not to bad, just had a death in the family. Pretty bummed about it because we are a close to our extended family and can't visit one another to grieve Yeah, we just had a virtual funeral for him and it was painful to watch. We couldn't console those who needed it Yeah thats a good way to look at it, the whole family was able to get together in one place and was able participate safely. We also chatted hours afterwards. I did feel better about it

Yes it is, I do wish we can meet in person but COVID I do feel better though, this was the best case scenario. Got to meet everyone and say my goodbyes at least.

That's a great way to look at it. In a year where COVID had gotten in the way of so many plans, I think it's really great to try and extract the best experience we can.

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Hey I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful Yeah, it is good because of the holidays. Not to bad, just had a death in the family. Pretty bummed about it because we are a close to our extended family and can't visit one another to grieve Yeah, we just had a virtual funeral for him and it was painful to watch. We couldn't console those who needed it Yeah thats a good way to look at it, the whole family was able to get together in one place and was able participate safely. We also chatted hours afterwards. I did feel better about it Yes it is, I do wish we can meet in person but COVID I do feel better though, this was the best case scenario. Got to meet everyone and say my goodbyes at least.

Yeah try to stay safe together and reduce the spread of this diseases.

Exactly, trying to be safe together to keep everyone else safe. Looking out for one another is something this year has made really important.

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Hey I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful Yeah, it is good because of the holidays. Not to bad, just had a death in the family. Pretty bummed about it because we are a close to our extended family and can't visit one another to grieve Yeah, we just had a virtual funeral for him and it was painful to watch. We couldn't console those who needed it Yeah thats a good way to look at it, the whole family was able to get together in one place and was able participate safely. We also chatted hours afterwards. I did feel better about it Yes it is, I do wish we can meet in person but COVID I do feel better though, this was the best case scenario. Got to meet everyone and say my goodbyes at least. Yeah try to stay safe together and reduce the spread of this diseases.

Hopefully the cases start declining, it is not doing well for peoples mental health. Just had a friend die from mental illness.

I'm so sorry to hear that. How are you dealing with that loss?

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Hey I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful Yeah, it is good because of the holidays. Not to bad, just had a death in the family. Pretty bummed about it because we are a close to our extended family and can't visit one another to grieve Yeah, we just had a virtual funeral for him and it was painful to watch. We couldn't console those who needed it Yeah thats a good way to look at it, the whole family was able to get together in one place and was able participate safely. We also chatted hours afterwards. I did feel better about it Yes it is, I do wish we can meet in person but COVID I do feel better though, this was the best case scenario. Got to meet everyone and say my goodbyes at least. Yeah try to stay safe together and reduce the spread of this diseases. Hopefully the cases start declining, it is not doing well for peoples mental health. Just had a friend die from mental illness.

I'm doing alright, I feel my mental health is weakening as time goes by do to zero interaction and remote working. But staying strong and managing.

I'm glad to hear you're doing alright. The lack of human connection and socialization this past year has definitely been very difficult.

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Hey I'm doing alright, trying to stay cheerful Yeah, it is good because of the holidays. Not to bad, just had a death in the family. Pretty bummed about it because we are a close to our extended family and can't visit one another to grieve Yeah, we just had a virtual funeral for him and it was painful to watch. We couldn't console those who needed it Yeah thats a good way to look at it, the whole family was able to get together in one place and was able participate safely. We also chatted hours afterwards. I did feel better about it Yes it is, I do wish we can meet in person but COVID I do feel better though, this was the best case scenario. Got to meet everyone and say my goodbyes at least. Yeah try to stay safe together and reduce the spread of this diseases. Hopefully the cases start declining, it is not doing well for peoples mental health. Just had a friend die from mental illness. I'm doing alright, I feel my mental health is weakening as time goes by do to zero interaction and remote working. But staying strong and managing.

Yeah, thanks for the talk. I feel much better. It is good to talk things talk and get them off of your chest.

Absolutely no problem, getting your thoughts out and talking things out helps me so I'm glad I could help you.

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out

I can certainly understand your anxiety you are feeling right now

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out

its my masters program. its a hige deal

I would be freaking out too. When is your final . How far away is it?

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal

today i have 2 pages done out of 10

Do you have someone you could possibly study with?

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal today i have 2 pages done out of 10

i work fill time and i am a single mom its a paper i have to write due at 1am tomororw

I can certainly appreciate how overwhelmed you are feeling . When do you get a break from work?

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal today i have 2 pages done out of 10 i work fill time and i am a single mom its a paper i have to write due at 1am tomororw

i get off at 5 been here since 6am ugh i have tp get my kkiddsfeed them go over school stuff they go to bed at 8

You are doing an amazing job and most people couldn't handle it . I completely understand as a mom of two boys myself.

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal today i have 2 pages done out of 10 i work fill time and i am a single mom its a paper i have to write due at 1am tomororw i get off at 5 been here since 6am ugh i have tp get my kkiddsfeed them go over school stuff they go to bed at 8

im trying to set a good example for the kids since my husband was killed biut its so damn hard

You have so much on your plate and hard to keep up with everything you are telling me. .LOL. Please may I have a moment to try to help you

You have so much on your plate and hard to keep up with everything you are telling me. .LOL. Please may I have a moment to try to help you Could you ask a family member or neighbor or babysitter to help out ? Give you time to concentrate on paper Or how old is your oldest ? Could they watch or help get everyone to bed earlier?

Others, Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal today i have 2 pages done out of 10 i work fill time and i am a single mom its a paper i have to write due at 1am tomororw i get off at 5 been here since 6am ugh i have tp get my kkiddsfeed them go over school stuff they go to bed at 8 im trying to set a good example for the kids since my husband was killed biut its so damn hard

my family is 3 states away :/ i guess i could ask my neighbor debbie my oldest daughter is 8, then i have twin boys that are 5

Do you have any pto at work you could maybe ask boss to take off now ? or leave early ? Or take tomorrow off to have 3 day weekend to recuperiate?

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal today i have 2 pages done out of 10 i work fill time and i am a single mom its a paper i have to write due at 1am tomororw i get off at 5 been here since 6am ugh i have tp get my kkiddsfeed them go over school stuff they go to bed at 8 im trying to set a good example for the kids since my husband was killed biut its so damn hard my family is 3 states away :/ i guess i could ask my neighbor debbie my oldest daughter is 8, then i have twin boys that are 5

i guessi can have haley make them pb and j sandwiches tonight and put a movie on. that should hopefully buy me another hour... i have already used pto for the stupid digital learning days now i have to bring them to work with me next week which is more anxiety lol

I think that is a creative great way to gain some time and maybe ask Debbie to help with bedtime?

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal today i have 2 pages done out of 10 i work fill time and i am a single mom its a paper i have to write due at 1am tomororw i get off at 5 been here since 6am ugh i have tp get my kkiddsfeed them go over school stuff they go to bed at 8 im trying to set a good example for the kids since my husband was killed biut its so damn hard my family is 3 states away :/ i guess i could ask my neighbor debbie my oldest daughter is 8, then i have twin boys that are 5 i guessi can have haley make them pb and j sandwiches tonight and put a movie on. that should hopefully buy me another hour... i have already used pto for the stupid digital learning days now i have to bring them to work with me next week which is more anxiety lol

not a bad idea...thank you

Oh my you certainly do have a lot on your plate but after my conversation with you I know you can do it ! You are amazing and don't let anyone tell you differently/

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal today i have 2 pages done out of 10 i work fill time and i am a single mom its a paper i have to write due at 1am tomororw i get off at 5 been here since 6am ugh i have tp get my kkiddsfeed them go over school stuff they go to bed at 8 im trying to set a good example for the kids since my husband was killed biut its so damn hard my family is 3 states away :/ i guess i could ask my neighbor debbie my oldest daughter is 8, then i have twin boys that are 5 i guessi can have haley make them pb and j sandwiches tonight and put a movie on. that should hopefully buy me another hour... i have already used pto for the stupid digital learning days now i have to bring them to work with me next week which is more anxiety lol not a bad idea...thank you

have. her come over around 730 and help start getting them ready for bed hence why i am doing mturk at work... extra money whereever i can lol i feel guilty but i dont

Sounds like a plan

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal today i have 2 pages done out of 10 i work fill time and i am a single mom its a paper i have to write due at 1am tomororw i get off at 5 been here since 6am ugh i have tp get my kkiddsfeed them go over school stuff they go to bed at 8 im trying to set a good example for the kids since my husband was killed biut its so damn hard my family is 3 states away :/ i guess i could ask my neighbor debbie my oldest daughter is 8, then i have twin boys that are 5 i guessi can have haley make them pb and j sandwiches tonight and put a movie on. that should hopefully buy me another hour... i have already used pto for the stupid digital learning days now i have to bring them to work with me next week which is more anxiety lol not a bad idea...thank you have. her come over around 730 and help start getting them ready for bed hence why i am doing mturk at work... extra money whereever i can lol i feel guilty but i dont

it does, thank you for helping sort through it and make a plan

We all need extra money lol but especially you with being a single mom with 3 kids.

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what if i dont do good on my final this is my first year with student loans i am freaking out its my masters program. its a hige deal today i have 2 pages done out of 10 i work fill time and i am a single mom its a paper i have to write due at 1am tomororw i get off at 5 been here since 6am ugh i have tp get my kkiddsfeed them go over school stuff they go to bed at 8 im trying to set a good example for the kids since my husband was killed biut its so damn hard my family is 3 states away :/ i guess i could ask my neighbor debbie my oldest daughter is 8, then i have twin boys that are 5 i guessi can have haley make them pb and j sandwiches tonight and put a movie on. that should hopefully buy me another hour... i have already used pto for the stupid digital learning days now i have to bring them to work with me next week which is more anxiety lol not a bad idea...thank you have. her come over around 730 and help start getting them ready for bed hence why i am doing mturk at work... extra money whereever i can lol i feel guilty but i dont it does, thank you for helping sort through it and make a plan

and no child support :/ thanks agian

youre welcome good luck and I ll say a pray for you

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Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to.

I would love to help you, what is going on?

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Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to.

I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on

I am so sorry to hear that, how was she taken?

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Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on

She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken

I understand how you must feel betrayed.

I understand how you must feel betrayed. What kind of things have you done to try and overcome your betrayal?

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I got married to a woman that I loved so much ,this was five years ago after the death of my first wife. Unfortunately this woman lied to me that she was divorced but in real sense she was not divorced .After two yeas ,the husband appeared and messed my marriage to her. This put me into depression.

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Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken

Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression.

Have you tried searching online for groups of people who have gone through similar situations? Sometimes connecting to others online with these types of issues is a great way to help each other and yourself.

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I got married to a woman that I loved so much ,this was five years ago after the death of my first wife. Unfortunately this woman lied to me that she was divorced but in real sense she was not divorced .After two yeas ,the husband appeared and messed my marriage to her. This put me into depression.

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Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression.

This looks like a good idea. I have never tried online searches, I just depended on my doctors advice. I will try searching online to connect with people like me.

I am so happy to hear that. You deserve so much more, I want to you find happiness through all this.

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I got married to a woman that I loved so much ,this was five years ago after the death of my first wife. Unfortunately this woman lied to me that she was divorced but in real sense she was not divorced .After two yeas ,the husband appeared and messed my marriage to her. This put me into depression.

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Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression. This looks like a good idea. I have never tried online searches, I just depended on my doctors advice. I will try searching online to connect with people like me.

Yes my dear, I really miss to be happy, your advices are so helpful. I will try following them.

I have done this myself and it really did help me understand my feelings and know that I was not alone in how I was feeling. This can happen for you too.

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I got married to a woman that I loved so much ,this was five years ago after the death of my first wife. Unfortunately this woman lied to me that she was divorced but in real sense she was not divorced .After two yeas ,the husband appeared and messed my marriage to her. This put me into depression.

4

2

5

Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression. This looks like a good idea. I have never tried online searches, I just depended on my doctors advice. I will try searching online to connect with people like me. Yes my dear, I really miss to be happy, your advices are so helpful. I will try following them.

Sure i really have to do this soon. I really need help.

You sound like such a good caring person. I know you can get through this.

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I got married to a woman that I loved so much ,this was five years ago after the death of my first wife. Unfortunately this woman lied to me that she was divorced but in real sense she was not divorced .After two yeas ,the husband appeared and messed my marriage to her. This put me into depression.

4

2

5

Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression. This looks like a good idea. I have never tried online searches, I just depended on my doctors advice. I will try searching online to connect with people like me. Yes my dear, I really miss to be happy, your advices are so helpful. I will try following them. Sure i really have to do this soon. I really need help.

It is also good to know that this helped you. Now i believe that i will get help. Thanks for the complement. I trust that you are a good person too. Your kind words mean a lot to me.

From what I have found, connection to other people can help your perspective on thing/feelings/etc... so much.

From what I have found, connection to other people can help your perspective on thing/feelings/etc... so much. I feel your strength.

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I got married to a woman that I loved so much ,this was five years ago after the death of my first wife. Unfortunately this woman lied to me that she was divorced but in real sense she was not divorced .After two yeas ,the husband appeared and messed my marriage to her. This put me into depression.

4

2

5

Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression. This looks like a good idea. I have never tried online searches, I just depended on my doctors advice. I will try searching online to connect with people like me. Yes my dear, I really miss to be happy, your advices are so helpful. I will try following them. Sure i really have to do this soon. I really need help. It is also good to know that this helped you. Now i believe that i will get help. Thanks for the complement. I trust that you are a good person too. Your kind words mean a lot to me.

I am much humbled by your words .Thank you so much.

I New Year is a new beginning.

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4

2

5

Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression. This looks like a good idea. I have never tried online searches, I just depended on my doctors advice. I will try searching online to connect with people like me. Yes my dear, I really miss to be happy, your advices are so helpful. I will try following them. Sure i really have to do this soon. I really need help. It is also good to know that this helped you. Now i believe that i will get help. Thanks for the complement. I trust that you are a good person too. Your kind words mean a lot to me. I am much humbled by your words .Thank you so much.

Yes yes, New year new beginning trust that I will be okay.

I hope you have a wonderful Holiday and Happy New Year.

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4

2

5

Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression. This looks like a good idea. I have never tried online searches, I just depended on my doctors advice. I will try searching online to connect with people like me. Yes my dear, I really miss to be happy, your advices are so helpful. I will try following them. Sure i really have to do this soon. I really need help. It is also good to know that this helped you. Now i believe that i will get help. Thanks for the complement. I trust that you are a good person too. Your kind words mean a lot to me. I am much humbled by your words .Thank you so much. Yes yes, New year new beginning trust that I will be okay.

Thanks a lot for your sincere help. Happy new year too my dear. God bless you.

Take care!

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I got married to a woman that I loved so much ,this was five years ago after the death of my first wife. Unfortunately this woman lied to me that she was divorced but in real sense she was not divorced .After two yeas ,the husband appeared and messed my marriage to her. This put me into depression.

4

2

5

Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression. This looks like a good idea. I have never tried online searches, I just depended on my doctors advice. I will try searching online to connect with people like me. Yes my dear, I really miss to be happy, your advices are so helpful. I will try following them. Sure i really have to do this soon. I really need help. It is also good to know that this helped you. Now i believe that i will get help. Thanks for the complement. I trust that you are a good person too. Your kind words mean a lot to me. I am much humbled by your words .Thank you so much. Yes yes, New year new beginning trust that I will be okay. Thanks a lot for your sincere help. Happy new year too my dear. God bless you.

Take care too and please keep safe.

You too.

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4

2

5

Hallo, I am sad today. Kindly i need some one to talk to. I have been depressed for sometime now, after the wife i married was taken away from me.Kindly assist me on how i can move on She lied to me that she was divorced and i believed her, unfortunately a man appeared after three years claiming that she was his wife. That is how she was taken Yes. I feel so much betrayed. I have tried to attend counseling but my situation still worsens. Kindly advise me on better ways for managing depression. This looks like a good idea. I have never tried online searches, I just depended on my doctors advice. I will try searching online to connect with people like me. Yes my dear, I really miss to be happy, your advices are so helpful. I will try following them. Sure i really have to do this soon. I really need help. It is also good to know that this helped you. Now i believe that i will get help. Thanks for the complement. I trust that you are a good person too. Your kind words mean a lot to me. I am much humbled by your words .Thank you so much. Yes yes, New year new beginning trust that I will be okay. Thanks a lot for your sincere help. Happy new year too my dear. God bless you. Take care too and please keep safe.

Thank you.Bye.

Bye

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my friends call me a weirdo ,i usually keep to myself a lot ,i hardly mingle or relate with my friends which gets them pissed off a lot of time. i get worried about that often

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hello

I am still here. I'm supposed to be supporter.

I am still here. I'm supposed to be supporter. like, hello?

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