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1010
| 10 |
anger
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problems_with_friends
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I recently found out that my best friend has lied to me about her whole life, and when I invited to my home she finally told me the truth after staying for a month ad we were fighting for the entire month she stayed.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm sad and angry because I no longer talk to my best friend Well she was staying at my house for a month and we were constantly fighting so she just stopped talking to me Yes it is and then she began avoiding me while we were in the same house, so we started arguing again and I found out she's been lying to me since I've known her and I'm very upset. I don't think so, my parents think I was too harsh by deciding to end the friendship, it as if my own family doesn't understand. My other friend believed that it wasn't too harsh to end the friendship as they know I value honesty but it makes me feel angry that I was being used for so long and constantly lied to. I really love that quote, it's absolutely true; I think I will talk to my friend about the situation some more so I can fully get over it. Yes, I also realized that I wasn't angry with my friend but rather myself Because I basically allowed her to use me for seven years and kept lying to me or gave her space because I thought I was being a good friend. I feel like I was stupid to do that and soft Thank you very much, I'll continue to talk about the issue with my other friend, I really appreciate your wisdom.
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No thank you, enjoy the rest of your day
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You too!
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You too!
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Others
|
Others
| 11,825 |
happy
| 0.033773 | 0.000086 | 0.00003 | 0.965087 | 0.000676 | 0.000177 | 0.000171 |
1011
| 1 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
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I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back.
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I'm sorry to hear that, that is a rough situation to be dealing with.
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I'm sorry to hear that, that is a rough situation to be dealing with. What's very important for you to know is that you cannot control another person's actions.
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,827 |
neutral
| 0.157822 | 0.093807 | 0.009214 | 0.000797 | 0.400345 | 0.328369 | 0.009646 |
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1011
| 2 |
anxiety
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problems_with_friends
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I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back.
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It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore.
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It's difficult for those close to an alcoholic to watch them destroy themselves.
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It's difficult for those close to an alcoholic to watch them destroy themselves. I will tell you that you can only take care of yourself. And you can only be honest with them about how their actions affect you.
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Reflection of feelings, Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 11,828 |
sad
| 0.059098 | 0.004344 | 0.002798 | 0.000217 | 0.010965 | 0.92042 | 0.002158 |
1011
| 3 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
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I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back. It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore.
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He is a wonderful person when he isn't drinking, but is argumentative when they drink I do, we have talked over and over about how this affects both of us. And he cares when he is sober, but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep him from going back.
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You may need to take some time away from the friendship then. To show him you are serious that you can't tolerate the behavior any longer.
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You may need to take some time away from the friendship then. To show him you are serious that you can't tolerate the behavior any longer.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,829 |
angry
| 0.830789 | 0.032897 | 0.001479 | 0.000448 | 0.069261 | 0.053094 | 0.012032 |
1011
| 4 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back. It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore. He is a wonderful person when he isn't drinking, but is argumentative when they drink I do, we have talked over and over about how this affects both of us. And he cares when he is sober, but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep him from going back.
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I get that, but I am the person closest to him and he needs my support
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That's understandable. But if you continue trying the same solution over and over again, but are getting the same result...
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That's understandable. But if you continue trying the same solution over and over again, but are getting the same result...
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,830 |
neutral
| 0.063405 | 0.000317 | 0.000172 | 0.000255 | 0.928054 | 0.001765 | 0.006032 |
1011
| 5 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back. It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore. He is a wonderful person when he isn't drinking, but is argumentative when they drink I do, we have talked over and over about how this affects both of us. And he cares when he is sober, but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep him from going back. I get that, but I am the person closest to him and he needs my support
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true, but I do not think that not being here would help. it would only hurt him
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In that case, you should be sure to shore up your defenses and be prepared, because it will be hard. You are a good friend, but don't lose yourself to save him.
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In that case, you should be sure to shore up your defenses and be prepared, because it will be hard. You are a good friend, but don't lose yourself to save him. Consulting some literature for friends and family of alcoholics may be useful as well, Al-Anon or something like that.
|
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,831 |
angry
| 0.935782 | 0.00536 | 0.000658 | 0.000117 | 0.015928 | 0.040335 | 0.00182 |
1011
| 6 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back. It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore. He is a wonderful person when he isn't drinking, but is argumentative when they drink I do, we have talked over and over about how this affects both of us. And he cares when he is sober, but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep him from going back. I get that, but I am the person closest to him and he needs my support true, but I do not think that not being here would help. it would only hurt him
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That is a good idea. I do worry that he would be upset if I shared this with others he might know He is a really sweet person and worth the effort to help. he had a lot to give. has
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You should be able to find online Al-Anon groups, too.
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You should be able to find online Al-Anon groups, too. I'm sure he does. Don't forget that you do as well.
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Others, Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Others
| 11,832 |
fear
| 0.004894 | 0.001574 | 0.792953 | 0.000437 | 0.069461 | 0.126884 | 0.003796 |
1011
| 7 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back. It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore. He is a wonderful person when he isn't drinking, but is argumentative when they drink I do, we have talked over and over about how this affects both of us. And he cares when he is sober, but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep him from going back. I get that, but I am the person closest to him and he needs my support true, but I do not think that not being here would help. it would only hurt him That is a good idea. I do worry that he would be upset if I shared this with others he might know He is a really sweet person and worth the effort to help. he had a lot to give. has
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I had not thought of that. I thought you had to go to the meetings and that would be hard for me to do. I will definitely look into that! I appreciate the suggestion!
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It looks like they do offer online chats: http://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings
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It looks like they do offer online chats: http://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,833 |
happy
| 0.002959 | 0.000347 | 0.000194 | 0.952123 | 0.006164 | 0.010797 | 0.027417 |
1011
| 8 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back. It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore. He is a wonderful person when he isn't drinking, but is argumentative when they drink I do, we have talked over and over about how this affects both of us. And he cares when he is sober, but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep him from going back. I get that, but I am the person closest to him and he needs my support true, but I do not think that not being here would help. it would only hurt him That is a good idea. I do worry that he would be upset if I shared this with others he might know He is a really sweet person and worth the effort to help. he had a lot to give. has I had not thought of that. I thought you had to go to the meetings and that would be hard for me to do. I will definitely look into that! I appreciate the suggestion!
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And thank you for saying that I have things to give, I forget about myself in this sometimes Thank you so much for that information. I had no idea!
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So much like this chat here, you wouldn't even have to give your real name, nothing identifying, just support for you. Supporting an alcohol is exhausting, and you will need resources.
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So much like this chat here, you wouldn't even have to give your real name, nothing identifying, just support for you. Supporting an alcohol is exhausting, and you will need resources. And a place to vent.
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Others, Others
|
Others
| 11,834 |
happy
| 0.000274 | 0.000027 | 0.00002 | 0.996137 | 0.000129 | 0.000062 | 0.003351 |
1011
| 9 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back. It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore. He is a wonderful person when he isn't drinking, but is argumentative when they drink I do, we have talked over and over about how this affects both of us. And he cares when he is sober, but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep him from going back. I get that, but I am the person closest to him and he needs my support true, but I do not think that not being here would help. it would only hurt him That is a good idea. I do worry that he would be upset if I shared this with others he might know He is a really sweet person and worth the effort to help. he had a lot to give. has I had not thought of that. I thought you had to go to the meetings and that would be hard for me to do. I will definitely look into that! I appreciate the suggestion! And thank you for saying that I have things to give, I forget about myself in this sometimes Thank you so much for that information. I had no idea!
|
That is sooo true! Sometimes I just cry because I do not know what to do anymore.
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Try not to demonize your own frustrations, be easy on yourself when it comes to feeling upset with the situation, and continue trying to let him know that he hurts you when he behaves like that.
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Try not to demonize your own frustrations, be easy on yourself when it comes to feeling upset with the situation, and continue trying to let him know that he hurts you when he behaves like that.
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Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 11,835 |
sad
| 0.001349 | 0.000175 | 0.000189 | 0.001252 | 0.001409 | 0.994805 | 0.00082 |
1011
| 10 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back. It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore. He is a wonderful person when he isn't drinking, but is argumentative when they drink I do, we have talked over and over about how this affects both of us. And he cares when he is sober, but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep him from going back. I get that, but I am the person closest to him and he needs my support true, but I do not think that not being here would help. it would only hurt him That is a good idea. I do worry that he would be upset if I shared this with others he might know He is a really sweet person and worth the effort to help. he had a lot to give. has I had not thought of that. I thought you had to go to the meetings and that would be hard for me to do. I will definitely look into that! I appreciate the suggestion! And thank you for saying that I have things to give, I forget about myself in this sometimes Thank you so much for that information. I had no idea! That is sooo true! Sometimes I just cry because I do not know what to do anymore.
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Having a person to let me know I am not alone and give some support would be very helpful! That is great advice! I am going to look into that.
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Absolutely :-) I hope that it helps. You sound like a very kind-hearted person, and I understand that your situation is complex.
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Absolutely :-) I hope that it helps. You sound like a very kind-hearted person, and I understand that your situation is complex. Just remember that you are as deserving of relief as he is. They always tell you on an airplane to put on your oxygen mask first, then others in your group.
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Reflection of feelings, Others
|
Reflection of feelings
| 11,836 |
happy
| 0.001244 | 0.000128 | 0.000169 | 0.957991 | 0.035879 | 0.001146 | 0.003443 |
1011
| 11 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
I have a friend who is struggling with alcoholism. They try to quit and then end up going back.
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I have a friend who is an alcoholic and just can't seem to quit drinking. They quit for a couple of weeks but always seem to go back. It is. I care for them a great deal and do not like to see them this way. I just do not know how to help them anymore. He is a wonderful person when he isn't drinking, but is argumentative when they drink I do, we have talked over and over about how this affects both of us. And he cares when he is sober, but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep him from going back. I get that, but I am the person closest to him and he needs my support true, but I do not think that not being here would help. it would only hurt him That is a good idea. I do worry that he would be upset if I shared this with others he might know He is a really sweet person and worth the effort to help. he had a lot to give. has I had not thought of that. I thought you had to go to the meetings and that would be hard for me to do. I will definitely look into that! I appreciate the suggestion! And thank you for saying that I have things to give, I forget about myself in this sometimes Thank you so much for that information. I had no idea! That is sooo true! Sometimes I just cry because I do not know what to do anymore. Having a person to let me know I am not alone and give some support would be very helpful! That is great advice! I am going to look into that.
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And thank you for reminding me that I matter too! It helps very much! I can't thank you enough!
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I'm happy to hear that, I wish you luck and take care of yourself.
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I'm happy to hear that, I wish you luck and take care of yourself.
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Others
|
Others
| 11,837 |
happy
| 0.000275 | 0.000016 | 0.000011 | 0.999597 | 0.000038 | 0.000025 | 0.000039 |
1014
| 1 |
disgust
|
problems_with_friends
|
My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook
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I'm sorry to hear you are frustrated! I'm gonna do my best to understand and talk through your issue. :) Your friend is being a pain on face book in what way?
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I'm sorry to hear you are frustrated! I'm gonna do my best to understand and talk through your issue. :) Your friend is being a pain on face book in what way?
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Question
|
Question
| 11,863 |
angry
| 0.997367 | 0.000417 | 0.000028 | 0.000299 | 0.00082 | 0.000977 | 0.000092 |
|
1014
| 2 |
disgust
|
problems_with_friends
|
My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook
|
He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends.
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It sounds like he didn't use to blast his opinion in the past or include you in arguments, is that true?
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It sounds like he didn't use to blast his opinion in the past or include you in arguments, is that true?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,864 |
angry
| 0.991325 | 0.004321 | 0.000269 | 0.00004 | 0.000447 | 0.003534 | 0.000064 |
1014
| 3 |
disgust
|
problems_with_friends
|
My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends.
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That is true yes. It's like the world has to listen to his opinion and only his matters and he won't listen to reason. It's very frustrating and it makes me not want to talk to him. My eyes literally roll when I see a post from him.
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Oh I see! I get where you are coming from. I have a few friends that no matter how long you discuss, they won't let the conversation end unless "they are right." It seems like your friend doesn't like it when he is wrong?
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Oh I see! I get where you are coming from. I have a few friends that no matter how long you discuss, they won't let the conversation end unless "they are right." It seems like your friend doesn't like it when he is wrong?
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Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 11,865 |
angry
| 0.99541 | 0.002275 | 0.000058 | 0.000085 | 0.001291 | 0.00079 | 0.000093 |
1014
| 4 |
disgust
|
problems_with_friends
|
My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends. That is true yes. It's like the world has to listen to his opinion and only his matters and he won't listen to reason. It's very frustrating and it makes me not want to talk to him. My eyes literally roll when I see a post from him.
|
Absolutely and I'm not sure how to broach this with him. I actually feel like it is damaging his reputation. Other friends of ours feel the same way. Not sure what to do?
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Gotcha so not only are you frustrated with what he is doing, but you are also worried about his reputation! First of all, can I ask if he is just your friend online or if you hangout with him in person too?
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Gotcha so not only are you frustrated with what he is doing, but you are also worried about his reputation! First of all, can I ask if he is just your friend online or if you hangout with him in person too?
|
Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,866 |
sad
| 0.127719 | 0.00716 | 0.004756 | 0.001014 | 0.020035 | 0.521771 | 0.317544 |
1014
| 5 |
disgust
|
problems_with_friends
|
My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends. That is true yes. It's like the world has to listen to his opinion and only his matters and he won't listen to reason. It's very frustrating and it makes me not want to talk to him. My eyes literally roll when I see a post from him. Absolutely and I'm not sure how to broach this with him. I actually feel like it is damaging his reputation. Other friends of ours feel the same way. Not sure what to do?
|
That's correct. He is actually a close friend and I wonder what has changed recently to make him like this. I've known him for over 20 years.
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Okay I see. From personal experience, the best way to confront someone who likes to do most of their confrontations online, is in person. Since he is so used to almost "hiding" behind a screen, his feelings will be more vulnerable and real if you discuss your concerns in person.
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Okay I see. From personal experience, the best way to confront someone who likes to do most of their confrontations online, is in person. Since he is so used to almost "hiding" behind a screen, his feelings will be more vulnerable and real if you discuss your concerns in person.
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Others
|
Others
| 11,867 |
surprised
| 0.001119 | 0.000385 | 0.000142 | 0.000971 | 0.006023 | 0.000329 | 0.991031 |
1014
| 6 |
disgust
|
problems_with_friends
|
My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends. That is true yes. It's like the world has to listen to his opinion and only his matters and he won't listen to reason. It's very frustrating and it makes me not want to talk to him. My eyes literally roll when I see a post from him. Absolutely and I'm not sure how to broach this with him. I actually feel like it is damaging his reputation. Other friends of ours feel the same way. Not sure what to do? That's correct. He is actually a close friend and I wonder what has changed recently to make him like this. I've known him for over 20 years.
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Actually I've never thought of it like that. Perhaps a couple of us can have a conversation with him in person. Honestly some off his views are disgusting. I think this needs to stop.
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A suggestion I would make would be to hangout with him in person, and bring up the issues that you and your friends have been seeing. But it's important to not make him feel overwhelmed. Almost like he is being "ganged up on."
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A suggestion I would make would be to hangout with him in person, and bring up the issues that you and your friends have been seeing. But it's important to not make him feel overwhelmed. Almost like he is being "ganged up on."
|
Information
|
Information
| 11,868 |
disgusted
| 0.008288 | 0.988623 | 0.000066 | 0.000029 | 0.002282 | 0.000217 | 0.000495 |
1014
| 7 |
disgust
|
problems_with_friends
|
My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends. That is true yes. It's like the world has to listen to his opinion and only his matters and he won't listen to reason. It's very frustrating and it makes me not want to talk to him. My eyes literally roll when I see a post from him. Absolutely and I'm not sure how to broach this with him. I actually feel like it is damaging his reputation. Other friends of ours feel the same way. Not sure what to do? That's correct. He is actually a close friend and I wonder what has changed recently to make him like this. I've known him for over 20 years. Actually I've never thought of it like that. Perhaps a couple of us can have a conversation with him in person. Honestly some off his views are disgusting. I think this needs to stop.
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Yes that's good advice, I think we need to be tactful and raise it in the right way. Have you ever experienced something like this with a friend yourself?
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I can tell that you care about this person as a friend, but you are worried that the way he thinks and talks may ruin that in a way. Make sure to let him know these concerns! It will show him that you guys truly are doing it out of love.
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I can tell that you care about this person as a friend, but you are worried that the way he thinks and talks may ruin that in a way. Make sure to let him know these concerns! It will show him that you guys truly are doing it out of love. And yes I have actually had a very similar experience! Let me explain
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Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
|
Reflection of feelings
| 11,869 |
neutral
| 0.008967 | 0.000068 | 0.000096 | 0.000173 | 0.97715 | 0.001075 | 0.012471 |
1014
| 8 |
disgust
|
problems_with_friends
|
My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends. That is true yes. It's like the world has to listen to his opinion and only his matters and he won't listen to reason. It's very frustrating and it makes me not want to talk to him. My eyes literally roll when I see a post from him. Absolutely and I'm not sure how to broach this with him. I actually feel like it is damaging his reputation. Other friends of ours feel the same way. Not sure what to do? That's correct. He is actually a close friend and I wonder what has changed recently to make him like this. I've known him for over 20 years. Actually I've never thought of it like that. Perhaps a couple of us can have a conversation with him in person. Honestly some off his views are disgusting. I think this needs to stop. Yes that's good advice, I think we need to be tactful and raise it in the right way. Have you ever experienced something like this with a friend yourself?
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Ok sure please do
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One of my best friend's and roommate, had a very hard time separating friendship and roommate issues. It caused a lot of issues in the relationships with our friends. She had a tendency to discuss issues over text and didn't like doing it in person. But we realized, the problem with that is that you can't tell the emotion behind messages on a screen. But once we talked in person, our issues were solved because we could hear the intended emotions behind what we were saying
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One of my best friend's and roommate, had a very hard time separating friendship and roommate issues. It caused a lot of issues in the relationships with our friends. She had a tendency to discuss issues over text and didn't like doing it in person. But we realized, the problem with that is that you can't tell the emotion behind messages on a screen. But once we talked in person, our issues were solved because we could hear the intended emotions behind what we were saying
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 11,870 |
neutral
| 0.157999 | 0.000278 | 0.000557 | 0.327423 | 0.497623 | 0.000566 | 0.015554 |
1014
| 9 |
disgust
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problems_with_friends
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My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends. That is true yes. It's like the world has to listen to his opinion and only his matters and he won't listen to reason. It's very frustrating and it makes me not want to talk to him. My eyes literally roll when I see a post from him. Absolutely and I'm not sure how to broach this with him. I actually feel like it is damaging his reputation. Other friends of ours feel the same way. Not sure what to do? That's correct. He is actually a close friend and I wonder what has changed recently to make him like this. I've known him for over 20 years. Actually I've never thought of it like that. Perhaps a couple of us can have a conversation with him in person. Honestly some off his views are disgusting. I think this needs to stop. Yes that's good advice, I think we need to be tactful and raise it in the right way. Have you ever experienced something like this with a friend yourself? Ok sure please do
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Yeah that's useful. I think you are right in that the ambiguity of social interaction online makes him more inclined to say extreme thinks, perhaps to get a reaction. The more I think about it, perhaps this could be an indication that there is something he is dealing with and may be lashing out.
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Yes exactly. It sounds like he might have other reasonings behind his actions. And you guys talking to him as friends in person, would show him that you care and that he is in a safe environment. He doesn't need to be so extreme
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Yes exactly. It sounds like he might have other reasonings behind his actions. And you guys talking to him as friends in person, would show him that you care and that he is in a safe environment. He doesn't need to be so extreme
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,871 |
neutral
| 0.007396 | 0.000195 | 0.000243 | 0.00027 | 0.953027 | 0.00176 | 0.037107 |
1014
| 10 |
disgust
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problems_with_friends
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My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends. That is true yes. It's like the world has to listen to his opinion and only his matters and he won't listen to reason. It's very frustrating and it makes me not want to talk to him. My eyes literally roll when I see a post from him. Absolutely and I'm not sure how to broach this with him. I actually feel like it is damaging his reputation. Other friends of ours feel the same way. Not sure what to do? That's correct. He is actually a close friend and I wonder what has changed recently to make him like this. I've known him for over 20 years. Actually I've never thought of it like that. Perhaps a couple of us can have a conversation with him in person. Honestly some off his views are disgusting. I think this needs to stop. Yes that's good advice, I think we need to be tactful and raise it in the right way. Have you ever experienced something like this with a friend yourself? Ok sure please do Yeah that's useful. I think you are right in that the ambiguity of social interaction online makes him more inclined to say extreme thinks, perhaps to get a reaction. The more I think about it, perhaps this could be an indication that there is something he is dealing with and may be lashing out.
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Yeah I think that's definitely the way forward. Listen this has really helped so thanks for the suggestions and sharing your own experiences.
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Yes of course! I wish you the best in overcoming this hard time with your friend. I believe that you guys will be able to talk through it since it's a newer issue. :)
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Yes of course! I wish you the best in overcoming this hard time with your friend. I believe that you guys will be able to talk through it since it's a newer issue. :)
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,872 |
happy
| 0.006393 | 0.000188 | 0.000634 | 0.492901 | 0.452399 | 0.001711 | 0.045775 |
1014
| 11 |
disgust
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problems_with_friends
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My friend has started to get into political conversations on Facebook and I think he is embarrassing himself. He's spouting all these talking points without ever showing any interest in them before!
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
I'm good thanks but pretty frustrated too be honest. It's my friend who has taken to being a pain on Facebook He's all of a sudden got an opinion on everything and tries to pull me into arguments with other friends. That is true yes. It's like the world has to listen to his opinion and only his matters and he won't listen to reason. It's very frustrating and it makes me not want to talk to him. My eyes literally roll when I see a post from him. Absolutely and I'm not sure how to broach this with him. I actually feel like it is damaging his reputation. Other friends of ours feel the same way. Not sure what to do? That's correct. He is actually a close friend and I wonder what has changed recently to make him like this. I've known him for over 20 years. Actually I've never thought of it like that. Perhaps a couple of us can have a conversation with him in person. Honestly some off his views are disgusting. I think this needs to stop. Yes that's good advice, I think we need to be tactful and raise it in the right way. Have you ever experienced something like this with a friend yourself? Ok sure please do Yeah that's useful. I think you are right in that the ambiguity of social interaction online makes him more inclined to say extreme thinks, perhaps to get a reaction. The more I think about it, perhaps this could be an indication that there is something he is dealing with and may be lashing out. Yeah I think that's definitely the way forward. Listen this has really helped so thanks for the suggestions and sharing your own experiences.
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I hope so too. Nice to talk to you and thanks again.
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Of course! Have a good rest of your day
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Of course! Have a good rest of your day
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Others
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Others
| 11,873 |
happy
| 0.001163 | 0.000029 | 0.00002 | 0.997336 | 0.001263 | 0.000023 | 0.000165 |
1016
| 1 |
nervousness
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academic_pressure
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I'm stressed about my final grades and ongoing pressure to do well academically. I don't know how to motivate myself, as I'm too afraid of the outcome.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi :)
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Hiya! =) How are you doing, today?
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Hiya! =) How are you doing, today?
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Question
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Question
| 11,890 |
happy
| 0.000084 | 0.00003 | 0.000005 | 0.999471 | 0.000308 | 0.000032 | 0.00007 |
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1016
| 2 |
nervousness
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academic_pressure
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I'm stressed about my final grades and ongoing pressure to do well academically. I don't know how to motivate myself, as I'm too afraid of the outcome.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi :)
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I'm feeling really stressed about university, to be honest. I'm really struggling to find motivation to complete my assignments And it's stressing me out how little work I've completed even though deadlines are coming up.
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I totally understand that. Which year are you in?
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I totally understand that. Which year are you in?
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Question
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Question
| 11,891 |
angry
| 0.534003 | 0.000463 | 0.00153 | 0.000411 | 0.000336 | 0.463144 | 0.000112 |
1016
| 3 |
nervousness
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academic_pressure
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I'm stressed about my final grades and ongoing pressure to do well academically. I don't know how to motivate myself, as I'm too afraid of the outcome.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi :) I'm feeling really stressed about university, to be honest. I'm really struggling to find motivation to complete my assignments And it's stressing me out how little work I've completed even though deadlines are coming up.
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I'm in my final year, having to juggle my dissertation with what feels like a million other assignments
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Oh goodness, I can't imagine how stressful that would be. I've only gotten my associates, and I found that last semester to be a slough. But what kept me going was the relief and joy I would feel once I had that diploma in hand.
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Oh goodness, I can't imagine how stressful that would be. I've only gotten my associates, and I found that last semester to be a slough. But what kept me going was the relief and joy I would feel once I had that diploma in hand. Are there any study groups or classmates you can get together with, and basically make a night of it?
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,892 |
sad
| 0.369785 | 0.00139 | 0.03098 | 0.000773 | 0.000797 | 0.595047 | 0.001228 |
1016
| 4 |
nervousness
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academic_pressure
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I'm stressed about my final grades and ongoing pressure to do well academically. I don't know how to motivate myself, as I'm too afraid of the outcome.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi :) I'm feeling really stressed about university, to be honest. I'm really struggling to find motivation to complete my assignments And it's stressing me out how little work I've completed even though deadlines are coming up. I'm in my final year, having to juggle my dissertation with what feels like a million other assignments
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I don't really have any friends on the course, I'm pretty shy and don't really feel comfortable talking to anyone. I kinda promised myself to make more friends in my final year, but obviously circumstances have changed :/
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Very true, this year made everyone's expectations and plans go out the window lol
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Very true, this year made everyone's expectations and plans go out the window lol It might be time to put yourself out of your comfort zone, but start small. Are there any clubs or groups associated with your major? That way, you have some common ground to work with.
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,893 |
sad
| 0.002663 | 0.001644 | 0.000663 | 0.346149 | 0.001624 | 0.645832 | 0.001426 |
1016
| 5 |
nervousness
|
academic_pressure
|
I'm stressed about my final grades and ongoing pressure to do well academically. I don't know how to motivate myself, as I'm too afraid of the outcome.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi :) I'm feeling really stressed about university, to be honest. I'm really struggling to find motivation to complete my assignments And it's stressing me out how little work I've completed even though deadlines are coming up. I'm in my final year, having to juggle my dissertation with what feels like a million other assignments I don't really have any friends on the course, I'm pretty shy and don't really feel comfortable talking to anyone. I kinda promised myself to make more friends in my final year, but obviously circumstances have changed :/
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I'm honestly not sure, I guess I've always been too nervous to reach out to anyone. I'll have to have a look.
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That sounds like a good idea =) Even if you can't hold club meetings on campus or have any gatherings, maybe they hold their meetings over video calls. One plus side to that, is that you don't need to have your camera on to participate.
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That sounds like a good idea =) Even if you can't hold club meetings on campus or have any gatherings, maybe they hold their meetings over video calls. One plus side to that, is that you don't need to have your camera on to participate.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,894 |
fear
| 0.000164 | 0.000424 | 0.560949 | 0.000951 | 0.000592 | 0.00258 | 0.434341 |
1016
| 6 |
nervousness
|
academic_pressure
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I'm stressed about my final grades and ongoing pressure to do well academically. I don't know how to motivate myself, as I'm too afraid of the outcome.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi :) I'm feeling really stressed about university, to be honest. I'm really struggling to find motivation to complete my assignments And it's stressing me out how little work I've completed even though deadlines are coming up. I'm in my final year, having to juggle my dissertation with what feels like a million other assignments I don't really have any friends on the course, I'm pretty shy and don't really feel comfortable talking to anyone. I kinda promised myself to make more friends in my final year, but obviously circumstances have changed :/ I'm honestly not sure, I guess I've always been too nervous to reach out to anyone. I'll have to have a look.
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That's true. I also feel a bit nervous about my final grades, I've done well so far but just feel like this year might mess everything up.
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That's understandable, especially with how the past year has been. Everyone is on edge and everything feels so uncertain, but that's okay, because you're not alone =)
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That's understandable, especially with how the past year has been. Everyone is on edge and everything feels so uncertain, but that's okay, because you're not alone =) You said you're doing well so far? Take pride in that, and focus on that. "If I've been doing well so far, I must be doing something right. I'll just keep doing what I have been, and everything should work out in the end."
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,895 |
fear
| 0.000046 | 0.000047 | 0.999684 | 0.000079 | 0.000032 | 0.000072 | 0.000038 |
1016
| 7 |
nervousness
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academic_pressure
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I'm stressed about my final grades and ongoing pressure to do well academically. I don't know how to motivate myself, as I'm too afraid of the outcome.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi :) I'm feeling really stressed about university, to be honest. I'm really struggling to find motivation to complete my assignments And it's stressing me out how little work I've completed even though deadlines are coming up. I'm in my final year, having to juggle my dissertation with what feels like a million other assignments I don't really have any friends on the course, I'm pretty shy and don't really feel comfortable talking to anyone. I kinda promised myself to make more friends in my final year, but obviously circumstances have changed :/ I'm honestly not sure, I guess I've always been too nervous to reach out to anyone. I'll have to have a look. That's true. I also feel a bit nervous about my final grades, I've done well so far but just feel like this year might mess everything up.
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Yeah, I am really proud of what I've done so far but it just makes me worry that I won't meet my own expectations
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We can be our own worst critics, and that's never been truer than when we're facing a challenge. Self-doubt can be such a pain, but when I find I'm having trouble believing in myself and working toward my goals, I'll focus on what I already accomplished, and that helps give me that extra push to keep going
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We can be our own worst critics, and that's never been truer than when we're facing a challenge. Self-doubt can be such a pain, but when I find I'm having trouble believing in myself and working toward my goals, I'll focus on what I already accomplished, and that helps give me that extra push to keep going I might be an internet stranger, but I'm proud of you, too. =) You've got one and a half semesters to go! You've got this! I believe in you! <3
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Self-disclosure, Others
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Self-disclosure
| 11,896 |
fear
| 0.000078 | 0.000152 | 0.976378 | 0.006611 | 0.00014 | 0.016497 | 0.000145 |
1016
| 8 |
nervousness
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academic_pressure
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I'm stressed about my final grades and ongoing pressure to do well academically. I don't know how to motivate myself, as I'm too afraid of the outcome.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi :) I'm feeling really stressed about university, to be honest. I'm really struggling to find motivation to complete my assignments And it's stressing me out how little work I've completed even though deadlines are coming up. I'm in my final year, having to juggle my dissertation with what feels like a million other assignments I don't really have any friends on the course, I'm pretty shy and don't really feel comfortable talking to anyone. I kinda promised myself to make more friends in my final year, but obviously circumstances have changed :/ I'm honestly not sure, I guess I've always been too nervous to reach out to anyone. I'll have to have a look. That's true. I also feel a bit nervous about my final grades, I've done well so far but just feel like this year might mess everything up. Yeah, I am really proud of what I've done so far but it just makes me worry that I won't meet my own expectations
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Thank you, it's actually made me feel a lot better! :)
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You're very welcome, I'm glad I could help =)
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You're very welcome, I'm glad I could help =)
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Others
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Others
| 11,897 |
happy
| 0.000065 | 0.00002 | 0.000005 | 0.999734 | 0.000088 | 0.00003 | 0.00006 |
1017
| 1 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends
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Wow. I understand that is a difficult situation. What are your current thoughts and feelings right now?
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Wow. I understand that is a difficult situation. What are your current thoughts and feelings right now?
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,899 |
angry
| 0.850718 | 0.04137 | 0.000469 | 0.001256 | 0.07755 | 0.021902 | 0.006735 |
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1017
| 2 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends
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I want to tell her husband, or mine because we tell each other everything, but I dont want to make her mad.
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I understand that you want to communicate with your loved ones but are cautious of feelings and boundaries.
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I understand that you want to communicate with your loved ones but are cautious of feelings and boundaries.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,900 |
angry
| 0.940905 | 0.006402 | 0.000793 | 0.00014 | 0.042172 | 0.008013 | 0.001576 |
1017
| 3 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends I want to tell her husband, or mine because we tell each other everything, but I dont want to make her mad.
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Because of her actions I feel like I am not being honest with my husband.
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Have you talked to your friend about your feelings?
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Have you talked to your friend about your feelings?
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Question
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Question
| 11,901 |
sad
| 0.022601 | 0.039825 | 0.000306 | 0.000235 | 0.001713 | 0.934342 | 0.000978 |
1017
| 4 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends I want to tell her husband, or mine because we tell each other everything, but I dont want to make her mad. Because of her actions I feel like I am not being honest with my husband.
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Yes, she said its girl code.
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I understand that being honest is important. I always feel the need to share with my husband. Do you think this information will do more harm than good if shared?
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I understand that being honest is important. I always feel the need to share with my husband. Do you think this information will do more harm than good if shared?
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 11,902 |
neutral
| 0.008938 | 0.000072 | 0.000065 | 0.000794 | 0.986671 | 0.000605 | 0.002855 |
1017
| 5 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends I want to tell her husband, or mine because we tell each other everything, but I dont want to make her mad. Because of her actions I feel like I am not being honest with my husband. Yes, she said its girl code.
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Both. Her husband is a great guy and no one deserves to be treated like this. Her and I have been friends for more than 20 yrs.
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It is not easy to be put in a place where you feel you need to choose between two people. Do you think girl code or the husband-wife code is more important? What do you value most, holding a secret or honesty?
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It is not easy to be put in a place where you feel you need to choose between two people. Do you think girl code or the husband-wife code is more important? What do you value most, holding a secret or honesty?
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 11,903 |
angry
| 0.821397 | 0.039711 | 0.000503 | 0.000361 | 0.117637 | 0.018976 | 0.001415 |
1017
| 6 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends I want to tell her husband, or mine because we tell each other everything, but I dont want to make her mad. Because of her actions I feel like I am not being honest with my husband. Yes, she said its girl code. Both. Her husband is a great guy and no one deserves to be treated like this. Her and I have been friends for more than 20 yrs.
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Honesty, always.
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I agree with you. With that said, you trust your values and where they lie.
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I agree with you. With that said, you trust your values and where they lie.
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Information
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Information
| 11,904 |
neutral
| 0.009477 | 0.000272 | 0.000147 | 0.002303 | 0.959 | 0.003965 | 0.024836 |
1017
| 7 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends I want to tell her husband, or mine because we tell each other everything, but I dont want to make her mad. Because of her actions I feel like I am not being honest with my husband. Yes, she said its girl code. Both. Her husband is a great guy and no one deserves to be treated like this. Her and I have been friends for more than 20 yrs. Honesty, always.
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You are right. I just needed someone to confirm it with me. I would want someone to tell me if my husband was stepping out. And I can make new friends
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I think one step I would take if i was you would be to discuss the issue with your friend. I would tell her that as a friend, she should value your values. I would tell her the distress you feel.
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I think one step I would take if i was you would be to discuss the issue with your friend. I would tell her that as a friend, she should value your values. I would tell her the distress you feel.
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 11,905 |
neutral
| 0.005073 | 0.000061 | 0.000221 | 0.000197 | 0.986719 | 0.000982 | 0.006747 |
1017
| 8 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends I want to tell her husband, or mine because we tell each other everything, but I dont want to make her mad. Because of her actions I feel like I am not being honest with my husband. Yes, she said its girl code. Both. Her husband is a great guy and no one deserves to be treated like this. Her and I have been friends for more than 20 yrs. Honesty, always. You are right. I just needed someone to confirm it with me. I would want someone to tell me if my husband was stepping out. And I can make new friends
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You are right, but I think I will talk to my husband first.
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I think that is okay. I would do the same. I would also maybe explain why you were hesitant as well and the challenge the situation presented fro you.
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I think that is okay. I would do the same. I would also maybe explain why you were hesitant as well and the challenge the situation presented fro you.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,906 |
neutral
| 0.003284 | 0.000061 | 0.000171 | 0.00015 | 0.992758 | 0.000572 | 0.003005 |
1017
| 9 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends I want to tell her husband, or mine because we tell each other everything, but I dont want to make her mad. Because of her actions I feel like I am not being honest with my husband. Yes, she said its girl code. Both. Her husband is a great guy and no one deserves to be treated like this. Her and I have been friends for more than 20 yrs. Honesty, always. You are right. I just needed someone to confirm it with me. I would want someone to tell me if my husband was stepping out. And I can make new friends You are right, but I think I will talk to my husband first.
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I think he will understand. I hope by talking to him we can both talk to her
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Is she also friends with your husband?
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Is she also friends with your husband?
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Question
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Question
| 11,907 |
neutral
| 0.005702 | 0.000162 | 0.000275 | 0.000121 | 0.989872 | 0.001477 | 0.002389 |
1017
| 10 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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My friend is a lier and a cheater. I know it.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Okay. My friend is cheating on her husband, but the kicker is my husband and him are best friends I want to tell her husband, or mine because we tell each other everything, but I dont want to make her mad. Because of her actions I feel like I am not being honest with my husband. Yes, she said its girl code. Both. Her husband is a great guy and no one deserves to be treated like this. Her and I have been friends for more than 20 yrs. Honesty, always. You are right. I just needed someone to confirm it with me. I would want someone to tell me if my husband was stepping out. And I can make new friends You are right, but I think I will talk to my husband first. I think he will understand. I hope by talking to him we can both talk to her
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Yes. We all went to school together
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Okay. Working with your husband as a team and approaching her as a friend, would be how i would take action.
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Okay. Working with your husband as a team and approaching her as a friend, would be how i would take action.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 11,908 |
neutral
| 0.001831 | 0.000057 | 0.000143 | 0.004613 | 0.989318 | 0.000926 | 0.003112 |
1018
| 1 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
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I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work.
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What's been going on lately? Is something in particular there stressing you out?
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What's been going on lately? Is something in particular there stressing you out?
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| 11,910 |
sad
| 0.020276 | 0.000497 | 0.007899 | 0.064134 | 0.050954 | 0.852869 | 0.003372 |
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1018
| 2 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
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I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work.
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Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from.
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Oh wow, that wounds really rough. So you haven't been able to work in the same way since Corona? Do you have any ideas of things you could do to make ends meet?
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Oh wow, that wounds really rough. So you haven't been able to work in the same way since Corona? Do you have any ideas of things you could do to make ends meet?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,911 |
fear
| 0.000101 | 0.000039 | 0.999121 | 0.000049 | 0.000285 | 0.000347 | 0.000057 |
1018
| 3 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work. Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from.
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No, my work was through a hospital and they stopped my contract. I've been looking but not many places are hiring.
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Oh, I see. That does sound really rough. I would be feeling the exact same way you are in that situation and I'm sorry you're going through that. I know this sounds cliche, but I do believe that things will work out. I once heard, "It'll always work out in the end. If it hasn't worked out, it's not the end."
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Oh, I see. That does sound really rough. I would be feeling the exact same way you are in that situation and I'm sorry you're going through that. I know this sounds cliche, but I do believe that things will work out. I once heard, "It'll always work out in the end. If it hasn't worked out, it's not the end."
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,912 |
angry
| 0.527052 | 0.004968 | 0.019116 | 0.001447 | 0.085829 | 0.347139 | 0.014449 |
1018
| 4 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work. Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from. No, my work was through a hospital and they stopped my contract. I've been looking but not many places are hiring.
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Thank you. I appreciate your support and words. That's very true. Things haven't worked out yet so I just need to hang on.
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I know there were some grants and loans and things specifically set aside for small businesses for the pandemic. You might want to look into local resources and see if some are available to help you just to make ends meet for the time being?
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I know there were some grants and loans and things specifically set aside for small businesses for the pandemic. You might want to look into local resources and see if some are available to help you just to make ends meet for the time being?
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,913 |
sad
| 0.104405 | 0.00063 | 0.000875 | 0.074719 | 0.063111 | 0.735664 | 0.020595 |
1018
| 5 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work. Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from. No, my work was through a hospital and they stopped my contract. I've been looking but not many places are hiring. Thank you. I appreciate your support and words. That's very true. Things haven't worked out yet so I just need to hang on.
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Oh really?! I didn't know that. I'll have check that out. It's so hard to know where to turn to or where to find that kind of information. Is there a website or something? Just knowing there might be something out there to help gives me so much hope.
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There's so much information and disinformation out there, it can be really hard to discern help. There's one website: sba.gov that has several different options for pandemic relief for small businesses. I don't know what are you're in but there are some local resources available from my local government websites too, you might want to check that out too!
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There's so much information and disinformation out there, it can be really hard to discern help. There's one website: sba.gov that has several different options for pandemic relief for small businesses. I don't know what are you're in but there are some local resources available from my local government websites too, you might want to check that out too!
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,914 |
happy
| 0.002163 | 0.000489 | 0.001586 | 0.909161 | 0.00904 | 0.045077 | 0.032483 |
1018
| 6 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work. Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from. No, my work was through a hospital and they stopped my contract. I've been looking but not many places are hiring. Thank you. I appreciate your support and words. That's very true. Things haven't worked out yet so I just need to hang on. Oh really?! I didn't know that. I'll have check that out. It's so hard to know where to turn to or where to find that kind of information. Is there a website or something? Just knowing there might be something out there to help gives me so much hope.
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That is wonderful! Thank you so much for passing along that information. I've written the website down and I'll do some searching tonight! Just talking to you has brought my anxiety level down so much!
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Excellent, I hope you're able to find some relief through this difficult time! I have a friend who looked into it and was able to find a small grant to help him out!
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Excellent, I hope you're able to find some relief through this difficult time! I have a friend who looked into it and was able to find a small grant to help him out!
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Information
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Information
| 11,915 |
happy
| 0.000077 | 0.000013 | 0.000116 | 0.999596 | 0.00006 | 0.000084 | 0.000056 |
1018
| 7 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work. Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from. No, my work was through a hospital and they stopped my contract. I've been looking but not many places are hiring. Thank you. I appreciate your support and words. That's very true. Things haven't worked out yet so I just need to hang on. Oh really?! I didn't know that. I'll have check that out. It's so hard to know where to turn to or where to find that kind of information. Is there a website or something? Just knowing there might be something out there to help gives me so much hope. That is wonderful! Thank you so much for passing along that information. I've written the website down and I'll do some searching tonight! Just talking to you has brought my anxiety level down so much!
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That's hopeful to hear! Thank you! Do you know if there's another stimulus check coming? Those have helped me so much. It's also amazing what a kind person, who really listens and wants to help, can do for your well being as well!
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I have heard that another one is coming, and this one should be better than the last one. It's all dependent on income, so anyone that makes less than 80k a year should be getting the full amount according to what I've heard. I agree, they did help! Would that ease your burden a little bit if the next one comes soon?
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I have heard that another one is coming, and this one should be better than the last one. It's all dependent on income, so anyone that makes less than 80k a year should be getting the full amount according to what I've heard. I agree, they did help! Would that ease your burden a little bit if the next one comes soon?
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Information
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Information
| 11,916 |
happy
| 0.000213 | 0.000041 | 0.00002 | 0.996788 | 0.00151 | 0.000061 | 0.001366 |
1018
| 8 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work. Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from. No, my work was through a hospital and they stopped my contract. I've been looking but not many places are hiring. Thank you. I appreciate your support and words. That's very true. Things haven't worked out yet so I just need to hang on. Oh really?! I didn't know that. I'll have check that out. It's so hard to know where to turn to or where to find that kind of information. Is there a website or something? Just knowing there might be something out there to help gives me so much hope. That is wonderful! Thank you so much for passing along that information. I've written the website down and I'll do some searching tonight! Just talking to you has brought my anxiety level down so much! That's hopeful to hear! Thank you! Do you know if there's another stimulus check coming? Those have helped me so much. It's also amazing what a kind person, who really listens and wants to help, can do for your well being as well!
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Great! I will definitely qualify if that's the case. I would be able to pay rent if we get this check soon. It's been so hard making ends meet. Sometimes I get so overwhelmed I feel like I can't breathe. Any tips for that?
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Hang in there, I'm sure help is on the way and your positive attitude will help carry you until then, you seem like a really strong person. For me, I try taking really deep breaths and even meditating if it gets really bad. Have you ever tried anything like that?
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Hang in there, I'm sure help is on the way and your positive attitude will help carry you until then, you seem like a really strong person. For me, I try taking really deep breaths and even meditating if it gets really bad. Have you ever tried anything like that?
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,917 |
sad
| 0.036855 | 0.001795 | 0.034347 | 0.099452 | 0.119012 | 0.59505 | 0.113488 |
1018
| 9 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work. Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from. No, my work was through a hospital and they stopped my contract. I've been looking but not many places are hiring. Thank you. I appreciate your support and words. That's very true. Things haven't worked out yet so I just need to hang on. Oh really?! I didn't know that. I'll have check that out. It's so hard to know where to turn to or where to find that kind of information. Is there a website or something? Just knowing there might be something out there to help gives me so much hope. That is wonderful! Thank you so much for passing along that information. I've written the website down and I'll do some searching tonight! Just talking to you has brought my anxiety level down so much! That's hopeful to hear! Thank you! Do you know if there's another stimulus check coming? Those have helped me so much. It's also amazing what a kind person, who really listens and wants to help, can do for your well being as well! Great! I will definitely qualify if that's the case. I would be able to pay rent if we get this check soon. It's been so hard making ends meet. Sometimes I get so overwhelmed I feel like I can't breathe. Any tips for that?
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That's so kind of you to say. I try to stay positive and be strong but I often feel like I'm failing. It helps to hear words of support that I'm going to make it through this tough time. I've never meditate before. Do you listen to music or just silence. I would love to give that a shot. I try to take deep breaths. Oftentimes it helps but only for a moment. Maybe mediation could help me overall for longer periods of time.
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You're not failing as long as you're still trying and not giving up. All we can do sometimes is pick ourselves back up and keep plugging along. There are a few apps available that have calming music, stories to listen to, or even breath exercises to try. They are all over the app stores. It definitely helps me! Meditation has been proven to help a lot of people in stressful situations.
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You're not failing as long as you're still trying and not giving up. All we can do sometimes is pick ourselves back up and keep plugging along. There are a few apps available that have calming music, stories to listen to, or even breath exercises to try. They are all over the app stores. It definitely helps me! Meditation has been proven to help a lot of people in stressful situations.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,918 |
neutral
| 0.002794 | 0.000245 | 0.003415 | 0.004192 | 0.793356 | 0.174909 | 0.021088 |
1018
| 10 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work. Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from. No, my work was through a hospital and they stopped my contract. I've been looking but not many places are hiring. Thank you. I appreciate your support and words. That's very true. Things haven't worked out yet so I just need to hang on. Oh really?! I didn't know that. I'll have check that out. It's so hard to know where to turn to or where to find that kind of information. Is there a website or something? Just knowing there might be something out there to help gives me so much hope. That is wonderful! Thank you so much for passing along that information. I've written the website down and I'll do some searching tonight! Just talking to you has brought my anxiety level down so much! That's hopeful to hear! Thank you! Do you know if there's another stimulus check coming? Those have helped me so much. It's also amazing what a kind person, who really listens and wants to help, can do for your well being as well! Great! I will definitely qualify if that's the case. I would be able to pay rent if we get this check soon. It's been so hard making ends meet. Sometimes I get so overwhelmed I feel like I can't breathe. Any tips for that? That's so kind of you to say. I try to stay positive and be strong but I often feel like I'm failing. It helps to hear words of support that I'm going to make it through this tough time. I've never meditate before. Do you listen to music or just silence. I would love to give that a shot. I try to take deep breaths. Oftentimes it helps but only for a moment. Maybe mediation could help me overall for longer periods of time.
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That's so true! I'm going to write that down and post it on my fridge! Those are the words I'm going to live by for the next while. I'll look up some apps! Thank you for being such a great listener and supporter. I feel so much lighter and hopeful. I can't believe how much this has helped me. I look forward to chatting again soon. Thank you so much! You have no idea how grateful I am to you right now. I won't give up!
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Of course, so happy to be of help! Hopefully we can talk again soon and catch up on how you've been doing. It helps me a lot to know I'm helping others too, any kind of service always feels nice.
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Of course, so happy to be of help! Hopefully we can talk again soon and catch up on how you've been doing. It helps me a lot to know I'm helping others too, any kind of service always feels nice.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 11,919 |
happy
| 0.000044 | 0.000013 | 0.000007 | 0.999729 | 0.000072 | 0.000029 | 0.000106 |
1018
| 11 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I've been so blessed to have such a great job but thanks to Corona, my works has come to a screeching halt. I'm so anxious because I don't know when my next check will be or for how much. The pressure and stress is almost too much.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I'm doing OK. Just stressed about work. Ever since Corona hit, my work has come to a complete stop. I'm just so worried about where my next paycheck will come from. No, my work was through a hospital and they stopped my contract. I've been looking but not many places are hiring. Thank you. I appreciate your support and words. That's very true. Things haven't worked out yet so I just need to hang on. Oh really?! I didn't know that. I'll have check that out. It's so hard to know where to turn to or where to find that kind of information. Is there a website or something? Just knowing there might be something out there to help gives me so much hope. That is wonderful! Thank you so much for passing along that information. I've written the website down and I'll do some searching tonight! Just talking to you has brought my anxiety level down so much! That's hopeful to hear! Thank you! Do you know if there's another stimulus check coming? Those have helped me so much. It's also amazing what a kind person, who really listens and wants to help, can do for your well being as well! Great! I will definitely qualify if that's the case. I would be able to pay rent if we get this check soon. It's been so hard making ends meet. Sometimes I get so overwhelmed I feel like I can't breathe. Any tips for that? That's so kind of you to say. I try to stay positive and be strong but I often feel like I'm failing. It helps to hear words of support that I'm going to make it through this tough time. I've never meditate before. Do you listen to music or just silence. I would love to give that a shot. I try to take deep breaths. Oftentimes it helps but only for a moment. Maybe mediation could help me overall for longer periods of time. That's so true! I'm going to write that down and post it on my fridge! Those are the words I'm going to live by for the next while. I'll look up some apps! Thank you for being such a great listener and supporter. I feel so much lighter and hopeful. I can't believe how much this has helped me. I look forward to chatting again soon. Thank you so much! You have no idea how grateful I am to you right now. I won't give up!
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Thanks again! Have a great night!
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Thank you, you too!
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Thank you, you too!
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Others
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Others
| 11,920 |
happy
| 0.000141 | 0.000018 | 0.000007 | 0.999714 | 0.000062 | 0.000018 | 0.000039 |
1020
| 1 |
disgust
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breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day
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how ar you doing?
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how ar you doing?
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Others
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Others
| 11,931 |
neutral
| 0.012222 | 0.000455 | 0.000155 | 0.445937 | 0.538331 | 0.000502 | 0.002397 |
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1020
| 2 |
disgust
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breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
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Hello Good day
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I ma okay, and you?
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i'm doing ok. is there anything you wanted to talk about today?
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i'm doing ok. is there anything you wanted to talk about today?
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Question
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Question
| 11,932 |
angry
| 0.588543 | 0.000183 | 0.000366 | 0.004415 | 0.378042 | 0.000552 | 0.0279 |
1020
| 3 |
disgust
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breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
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Hello Good day I ma okay, and you?
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Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend
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i'm so sorry. when did you find out?
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i'm so sorry. when did you find out?
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Question
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Question
| 11,933 |
sad
| 0.36945 | 0.102896 | 0.001563 | 0.001484 | 0.105829 | 0.404094 | 0.014684 |
1020
| 4 |
disgust
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breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend
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a little bit over months now
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how are you feeling about it?
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how are you feeling about it?
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Question
| 11,934 |
neutral
| 0.00318 | 0.000096 | 0.000242 | 0.0002 | 0.972852 | 0.002261 | 0.021169 |
1020
| 5 |
disgust
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breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now
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Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex
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with your boyfriend or your friend? what's troubling you the most about the situation?
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with your boyfriend or your friend? what's troubling you the most about the situation?
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Question
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Question
| 11,935 |
disgusted
| 0.021403 | 0.977164 | 0.000095 | 0.000074 | 0.000829 | 0.000235 | 0.0002 |
1020
| 6 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex
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I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner
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you've had some time to sit with this, i understand completely that you are disgusted, but how have your felings changed since you found out?
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you've had some time to sit with this, i understand completely that you are disgusted, but how have your felings changed since you found out?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,936 |
angry
| 0.73876 | 0.066369 | 0.001033 | 0.000348 | 0.018467 | 0.03116 | 0.143863 |
1020
| 7 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner
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Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it
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are you spending time with them like you did before, have you talked to them>
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are you spending time with them like you did before, have you talked to them>
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Question
|
Question
| 11,937 |
disgusted
| 0.012432 | 0.985946 | 0.000102 | 0.000025 | 0.000958 | 0.00013 | 0.000406 |
1020
| 8 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it
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No im not I cant stand either of them
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even though it doesn't feel like it, affairs have little to nothing to do with the people who get hurt the most
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even though it doesn't feel like it, affairs have little to nothing to do with the people who get hurt the most it's not about you even though you got hurt the most
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Reflection of feelings, Information
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Reflection of feelings
| 11,938 |
angry
| 0.958706 | 0.021516 | 0.000317 | 0.000228 | 0.009903 | 0.008034 | 0.001297 |
1020
| 9 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them
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Okay
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the anger and betrayal are natural feelings
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the anger and betrayal are natural feelings
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 11,939 |
neutral
| 0.007047 | 0.000096 | 0.000109 | 0.000808 | 0.977806 | 0.00058 | 0.013553 |
1020
| 10 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay
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So you think i should have a conversation with them?
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if you want to maintain relationships, then you woudl have further converstations, but if you are ready to move on, nothing they can say will change what you need to do - move on
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if you want to maintain relationships, then you woudl have further converstations, but if you are ready to move on, nothing they can say will change what you need to do - move on
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,940 |
neutral
| 0.015045 | 0.000113 | 0.000227 | 0.000159 | 0.97622 | 0.000737 | 0.007499 |
1020
| 11 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
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My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them?
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I am not interesting in either relationship anymore
|
it sounds like you have moved on if you aren't talking to them, is that right?
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it sounds like you have moved on if you aren't talking to them, is that right?
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Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 11,941 |
angry
| 0.628318 | 0.003311 | 0.000896 | 0.000711 | 0.009187 | 0.356295 | 0.001283 |
1020
| 12 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them? I am not interesting in either relationship anymore
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and i also havent spoken to no one about it
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so i'd spend my energy working on myself.
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so i'd spend my energy working on myself.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,942 |
neutral
| 0.013304 | 0.000133 | 0.000217 | 0.000123 | 0.96771 | 0.002949 | 0.015564 |
1020
| 13 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them? I am not interesting in either relationship anymore and i also havent spoken to no one about it
|
i guess
|
what are somethings you can do to take care of you?
|
what are somethings you can do to take care of you?
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,943 |
neutral
| 0.005049 | 0.000064 | 0.000126 | 0.000264 | 0.97914 | 0.000867 | 0.01449 |
1020
| 14 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them? I am not interesting in either relationship anymore and i also havent spoken to no one about it i guess
|
work, meet new people, movies and do fun things
|
are there friends you can talk to about this? your parents? siblings?
|
are there friends you can talk to about this? your parents? siblings? seek out a support group, people you know who can and will take care of you when youare feeling low
|
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,944 |
happy
| 0.000067 | 0.000015 | 0.000008 | 0.999572 | 0.000228 | 0.00004 | 0.00007 |
1020
| 15 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them? I am not interesting in either relationship anymore and i also havent spoken to no one about it i guess work, meet new people, movies and do fun things
|
Siblings yes Nut i didnt go into full details yesss thank you so much for listening and advicing
|
people who care about you often don't need the details, just that you need them
|
people who care about you often don't need the details, just that you need them
|
Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,945 |
happy
| 0.000799 | 0.000013 | 0.000097 | 0.99865 | 0.000291 | 0.000067 | 0.000084 |
1020
| 16 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them? I am not interesting in either relationship anymore and i also havent spoken to no one about it i guess work, meet new people, movies and do fun things Siblings yes Nut i didnt go into full details yesss thank you so much for listening and advicing
|
Right I just told them it didnt work out and i am not giving details about reasons neither am i talki ng about my friend
|
and that's enough. until you are ready, you don't need to elaborate
|
and that's enough. until you are ready, you don't need to elaborate
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,946 |
sad
| 0.094368 | 0.002223 | 0.000994 | 0.00019 | 0.281717 | 0.611982 | 0.008527 |
1020
| 17 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them? I am not interesting in either relationship anymore and i also havent spoken to no one about it i guess work, meet new people, movies and do fun things Siblings yes Nut i didnt go into full details yesss thank you so much for listening and advicing Right I just told them it didnt work out and i am not giving details about reasons neither am i talki ng about my friend
|
yes you are right
|
it's really nobody ele's business
|
it's really nobody ele's business
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,947 |
neutral
| 0.022631 | 0.000084 | 0.0001 | 0.0005 | 0.95458 | 0.000664 | 0.021441 |
1020
| 18 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them? I am not interesting in either relationship anymore and i also havent spoken to no one about it i guess work, meet new people, movies and do fun things Siblings yes Nut i didnt go into full details yesss thank you so much for listening and advicing Right I just told them it didnt work out and i am not giving details about reasons neither am i talki ng about my friend yes you are right
|
yeaa you know people sometimes wana mind your own business
|
it's easier to see where others are going than it is ourselves sometimes
|
it's easier to see where others are going than it is ourselves sometimes because there's not the emotion clouding the way
|
Information, Providing Suggestions
|
Information
| 11,948 |
angry
| 0.998983 | 0.000134 | 0.00002 | 0.000066 | 0.000636 | 0.000129 | 0.000032 |
1020
| 19 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them? I am not interesting in either relationship anymore and i also havent spoken to no one about it i guess work, meet new people, movies and do fun things Siblings yes Nut i didnt go into full details yesss thank you so much for listening and advicing Right I just told them it didnt work out and i am not giving details about reasons neither am i talki ng about my friend yes you are right yeaa you know people sometimes wana mind your own business
|
yes you have been of tremendous help in helping me move around my thoughts
|
once you get the raw emotion out of a situation, it's easier to see things like they really are
|
once you get the raw emotion out of a situation, it's easier to see things like they really are
|
Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,949 |
happy
| 0.001884 | 0.000198 | 0.002778 | 0.818218 | 0.097358 | 0.001253 | 0.078312 |
1020
| 20 |
disgust
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My boyfriend stepped out on me, slept with my friend and still tried to emotionally blackmail me on it
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hello Good day I ma okay, and you? Yeaa in my description i stated that my boyfriend stepped out on me slept with my close friend a little bit over months now Disgusted not even sure who should bare more of my anger... my friend or ex I m not sure. why would my friend let it happen, and why would my boyfriend choose to disrespect me in that manner Changed in what aspect? I still detest both of them and to think he tried to emotionally blackmail me with it No im not I cant stand either of them Okay So you think i should have a conversation with them? I am not interesting in either relationship anymore and i also havent spoken to no one about it i guess work, meet new people, movies and do fun things Siblings yes Nut i didnt go into full details yesss thank you so much for listening and advicing Right I just told them it didnt work out and i am not giving details about reasons neither am i talki ng about my friend yes you are right yeaa you know people sometimes wana mind your own business yes you have been of tremendous help in helping me move around my thoughts
|
i guess so
|
i'm glad. plesae stay safe
|
i'm glad. plesae stay safe
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,950 |
neutral
| 0.007443 | 0.000081 | 0.000089 | 0.000448 | 0.975392 | 0.000813 | 0.015734 |
1021
| 1 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job
|
Right now, are you still employed?
|
Right now, are you still employed?
|
Question
|
Question
| 11,952 |
sad
| 0.004085 | 0.000331 | 0.078154 | 0.000312 | 0.002103 | 0.914507 | 0.000507 |
|
1021
| 2 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
i have been facing trouble in my job
|
yes
|
What kind of troubles are you facing at your job?
|
What kind of troubles are you facing at your job?
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,953 |
neutral
| 0.005629 | 0.000064 | 0.000172 | 0.003235 | 0.984833 | 0.000879 | 0.005188 |
1021
| 3 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes
|
there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees
|
Oh, I can understand how worried you must be! Do you think you will be laid off?
|
Oh, I can understand how worried you must be! Do you think you will be laid off?
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,954 |
sad
| 0.002085 | 0.000636 | 0.000332 | 0.000027 | 0.010196 | 0.986251 | 0.000473 |
1021
| 4 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
i have been facing trouble in my job there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees
|
yes
|
I am so very sorry to hear that. Do you mind me asking what type of job it is?
|
I am so very sorry to hear that. Do you mind me asking what type of job it is?
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,955 |
neutral
| 0.005629 | 0.000064 | 0.000172 | 0.003235 | 0.984833 | 0.000879 | 0.005188 |
1021
| 5 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees yes
|
i am working as a supervisor in a private manufacturing company currently working from home feeling so depressed regarding this issue
|
I have been in a similar situation and understand how scary it is. Have you been looking for another job or are you waiting to see if you are laid off?
|
I have been in a similar situation and understand how scary it is. Have you been looking for another job or are you waiting to see if you are laid off?
|
Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 11,956 |
sad
| 0.000154 | 0.000114 | 0.000045 | 0.000034 | 0.000093 | 0.999542 | 0.000019 |
1021
| 6 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees yes i am working as a supervisor in a private manufacturing company currently working from home feeling so depressed regarding this issue
|
yes i am trying for another job, but is not so easy to get in this covid 19 pandemic situation
|
Yes! The pandemic has turned the world upside down, it seems like.
|
Yes! The pandemic has turned the world upside down, it seems like.
|
Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 11,957 |
sad
| 0.070849 | 0.000766 | 0.013958 | 0.001118 | 0.069155 | 0.839537 | 0.004618 |
1021
| 7 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees yes i am working as a supervisor in a private manufacturing company currently working from home feeling so depressed regarding this issue yes i am trying for another job, but is not so easy to get in this covid 19 pandemic situation
|
yes that is main reason for depression
|
Have you thought of going back to school or have you completed your education?
|
Have you thought of going back to school or have you completed your education?
|
Question
|
Question
| 11,958 |
sad
| 0.002912 | 0.000352 | 0.001159 | 0.000241 | 0.029953 | 0.961217 | 0.004166 |
1021
| 8 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees yes i am working as a supervisor in a private manufacturing company currently working from home feeling so depressed regarding this issue yes i am trying for another job, but is not so easy to get in this covid 19 pandemic situation yes that is main reason for depression
|
i have completed my bachelor degree
|
I am so very sorry that you are struggling with depression.
|
I am so very sorry that you are struggling with depression.
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,959 |
happy
| 0.000044 | 0.000028 | 0.000014 | 0.999677 | 0.000058 | 0.000118 | 0.000061 |
1021
| 9 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees yes i am working as a supervisor in a private manufacturing company currently working from home feeling so depressed regarding this issue yes i am trying for another job, but is not so easy to get in this covid 19 pandemic situation yes that is main reason for depression i have completed my bachelor degree
|
yes, i cant know how to get normal from this depression
|
You have been a supervisor and you already have your degree, so you are ahead of lots of people. Have you been able to see a doctor or a therapist to talk to?
|
You have been a supervisor and you already have your degree, so you are ahead of lots of people. Have you been able to see a doctor or a therapist to talk to?
|
Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,960 |
sad
| 0.003407 | 0.00167 | 0.035193 | 0.000692 | 0.00828 | 0.665894 | 0.284864 |
1021
| 10 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees yes i am working as a supervisor in a private manufacturing company currently working from home feeling so depressed regarding this issue yes i am trying for another job, but is not so easy to get in this covid 19 pandemic situation yes that is main reason for depression i have completed my bachelor degree yes, i cant know how to get normal from this depression
|
yes ,
|
And I know that sounded presumptuous of me to say "you are ahead of lots of people", but it does seem like a "positive" in your favor.
|
And I know that sounded presumptuous of me to say "you are ahead of lots of people", but it does seem like a "positive" in your favor. I'm glad you have been able to talk to someone.
|
Information, Others
|
Information
| 11,961 |
neutral
| 0.008901 | 0.000063 | 0.000109 | 0.002375 | 0.982268 | 0.000632 | 0.005652 |
1021
| 11 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees yes i am working as a supervisor in a private manufacturing company currently working from home feeling so depressed regarding this issue yes i am trying for another job, but is not so easy to get in this covid 19 pandemic situation yes that is main reason for depression i have completed my bachelor degree yes, i cant know how to get normal from this depression yes ,
|
thank you i am also feeling so relieved while talking with you
|
I feel like the world is in some kind of "holding" pattern until the pandemic is under control.
|
I feel like the world is in some kind of "holding" pattern until the pandemic is under control. I'm glad just talking has made you feel a little better!
|
Others, Information
|
Others
| 11,962 |
happy
| 0.000022 | 0.000012 | 0.000006 | 0.999875 | 0.000032 | 0.000022 | 0.000032 |
1021
| 12 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees yes i am working as a supervisor in a private manufacturing company currently working from home feeling so depressed regarding this issue yes i am trying for another job, but is not so easy to get in this covid 19 pandemic situation yes that is main reason for depression i have completed my bachelor degree yes, i cant know how to get normal from this depression yes , thank you i am also feeling so relieved while talking with you
|
yes this pandemic situation gives more tough situations lets pray that the pandemic situation will come to an end soon
|
Amen to that!
|
Amen to that!
|
Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 11,963 |
neutral
| 0.000751 | 0.000041 | 0.000366 | 0.000215 | 0.996003 | 0.001926 | 0.000697 |
1021
| 13 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
there will be layoff to me
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
yes i have been facing trouble in my job yes there is an announcement that my company has decided to give layoff to 50 percent of their employees yes i am working as a supervisor in a private manufacturing company currently working from home feeling so depressed regarding this issue yes i am trying for another job, but is not so easy to get in this covid 19 pandemic situation yes that is main reason for depression i have completed my bachelor degree yes, i cant know how to get normal from this depression yes , thank you i am also feeling so relieved while talking with you yes this pandemic situation gives more tough situations lets pray that the pandemic situation will come to an end soon
|
amen thanks
|
I am hoping that you will find a new (and better!) job that you absolutely love! Stay safe...and positive!
|
I am hoping that you will find a new (and better!) job that you absolutely love! Stay safe...and positive!
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,964 |
happy
| 0.075973 | 0.000319 | 0.00053 | 0.811853 | 0.100701 | 0.00052 | 0.010104 |
1025
| 1 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I've been really struggling lately with how much everything has changed during the pandemic. the holidays don't feel the same
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
i've been feeling really depressed and lethargic lately the holidays feel like all work and no joy this year...it is hard being away from family
|
Can you explain to me more in depth what events are making you feel this way?
|
Can you explain to me more in depth what events are making you feel this way?
|
Question
|
Question
| 11,989 |
sad
| 0.000085 | 0.000038 | 0.000036 | 0.000054 | 0.000053 | 0.999718 | 0.000015 |
|
1025
| 2 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I've been really struggling lately with how much everything has changed during the pandemic. the holidays don't feel the same
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
i've been feeling really depressed and lethargic lately the holidays feel like all work and no joy this year...it is hard being away from family
|
the fact that there is a pandemic and travel is restricted, normally i would spend the holidays with my family but i will be alone this year there is still a lot of work to do but it feels like there is nothing to look forward to
|
I understand exactly how you feel since I am also unable to go fly out to see my family this Christmas.
|
I understand exactly how you feel since I am also unable to go fly out to see my family this Christmas. It sounds like you are very overwhelmed with the amount of work you have and having no break, correct?
|
Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings
|
Self-disclosure
| 11,990 |
sad
| 0.001161 | 0.000069 | 0.00011 | 0.028772 | 0.000416 | 0.969416 | 0.000056 |
1025
| 3 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I've been really struggling lately with how much everything has changed during the pandemic. the holidays don't feel the same
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
i've been feeling really depressed and lethargic lately the holidays feel like all work and no joy this year...it is hard being away from family the fact that there is a pandemic and travel is restricted, normally i would spend the holidays with my family but i will be alone this year there is still a lot of work to do but it feels like there is nothing to look forward to
|
it has been such a long year, i am just ready for things to improve. it is hard not having the usual coping mechanisms of socializing with friends or going out yes, that is part of it. the work wouldn't seem so bad if there was somethign to look forward to but every day feels the same
|
When I start to feel alone and missing my family or friends, I usually like the plan a skype or group facetime session right after I get off of work.
|
When I start to feel alone and missing my family or friends, I usually like the plan a skype or group facetime session right after I get off of work.
|
Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,991 |
sad
| 0.022427 | 0.0006 | 0.000907 | 0.027669 | 0.07196 | 0.873592 | 0.002845 |
1025
| 4 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I've been really struggling lately with how much everything has changed during the pandemic. the holidays don't feel the same
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
i've been feeling really depressed and lethargic lately the holidays feel like all work and no joy this year...it is hard being away from family the fact that there is a pandemic and travel is restricted, normally i would spend the holidays with my family but i will be alone this year there is still a lot of work to do but it feels like there is nothing to look forward to it has been such a long year, i am just ready for things to improve. it is hard not having the usual coping mechanisms of socializing with friends or going out yes, that is part of it. the work wouldn't seem so bad if there was somethign to look forward to but every day feels the same
|
i have tried to use zoom and facetime but video chat gives me anxiety
|
There are online resources to have some fun with friends too--many blogs suggest hosting a group game night or a shared movie night.
|
There are online resources to have some fun with friends too--many blogs suggest hosting a group game night or a shared movie night.
|
Information
|
Information
| 11,992 |
fear
| 0.000372 | 0.000282 | 0.97175 | 0.000168 | 0.002248 | 0.019289 | 0.005892 |
1025
| 5 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I've been really struggling lately with how much everything has changed during the pandemic. the holidays don't feel the same
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
i've been feeling really depressed and lethargic lately the holidays feel like all work and no joy this year...it is hard being away from family the fact that there is a pandemic and travel is restricted, normally i would spend the holidays with my family but i will be alone this year there is still a lot of work to do but it feels like there is nothing to look forward to it has been such a long year, i am just ready for things to improve. it is hard not having the usual coping mechanisms of socializing with friends or going out yes, that is part of it. the work wouldn't seem so bad if there was somethign to look forward to but every day feels the same i have tried to use zoom and facetime but video chat gives me anxiety
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that does sound a little better the winter makes it worse too, all the days are so dark and cold
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I am sure with a bit of trial and error, hosting a movie or game night would be a breeze for you too!
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I am sure with a bit of trial and error, hosting a movie or game night would be a breeze for you too!
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,993 |
angry
| 0.481589 | 0.024342 | 0.003953 | 0.000518 | 0.349966 | 0.08844 | 0.05119 |
1025
| 6 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I've been really struggling lately with how much everything has changed during the pandemic. the holidays don't feel the same
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
i've been feeling really depressed and lethargic lately the holidays feel like all work and no joy this year...it is hard being away from family the fact that there is a pandemic and travel is restricted, normally i would spend the holidays with my family but i will be alone this year there is still a lot of work to do but it feels like there is nothing to look forward to it has been such a long year, i am just ready for things to improve. it is hard not having the usual coping mechanisms of socializing with friends or going out yes, that is part of it. the work wouldn't seem so bad if there was somethign to look forward to but every day feels the same i have tried to use zoom and facetime but video chat gives me anxiety that does sound a little better the winter makes it worse too, all the days are so dark and cold
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i wish that i could spend more time outside, over the summer and fall it helped to get more fresh air and exercise
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Having this winter sadness, especially around holiday times, may be a sign of seasonal depression.
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Having this winter sadness, especially around holiday times, may be a sign of seasonal depression.
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Information
|
Information
| 11,994 |
sad
| 0.00072 | 0.000273 | 0.000794 | 0.014221 | 0.394276 | 0.58854 | 0.001177 |
1025
| 7 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I've been really struggling lately with how much everything has changed during the pandemic. the holidays don't feel the same
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
i've been feeling really depressed and lethargic lately the holidays feel like all work and no joy this year...it is hard being away from family the fact that there is a pandemic and travel is restricted, normally i would spend the holidays with my family but i will be alone this year there is still a lot of work to do but it feels like there is nothing to look forward to it has been such a long year, i am just ready for things to improve. it is hard not having the usual coping mechanisms of socializing with friends or going out yes, that is part of it. the work wouldn't seem so bad if there was somethign to look forward to but every day feels the same i have tried to use zoom and facetime but video chat gives me anxiety that does sound a little better the winter makes it worse too, all the days are so dark and cold i wish that i could spend more time outside, over the summer and fall it helped to get more fresh air and exercise
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i do usually experience depression in the winter and around the holidays. but the pandemic has made it harder to cope
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I have had seasonal depression in the past, and going on nature hikes and bike rides has helped me a lot.
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I have had seasonal depression in the past, and going on nature hikes and bike rides has helped me a lot. Maybe spending less time inside your home and grabbing some fresh air can relieve some of that anxiety and stress.
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Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
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Self-disclosure
| 11,995 |
sad
| 0.000326 | 0.000131 | 0.0004 | 0.000047 | 0.00093 | 0.997976 | 0.00019 |
1025
| 8 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I've been really struggling lately with how much everything has changed during the pandemic. the holidays don't feel the same
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
i've been feeling really depressed and lethargic lately the holidays feel like all work and no joy this year...it is hard being away from family the fact that there is a pandemic and travel is restricted, normally i would spend the holidays with my family but i will be alone this year there is still a lot of work to do but it feels like there is nothing to look forward to it has been such a long year, i am just ready for things to improve. it is hard not having the usual coping mechanisms of socializing with friends or going out yes, that is part of it. the work wouldn't seem so bad if there was somethign to look forward to but every day feels the same i have tried to use zoom and facetime but video chat gives me anxiety that does sound a little better the winter makes it worse too, all the days are so dark and cold i wish that i could spend more time outside, over the summer and fall it helped to get more fresh air and exercise i do usually experience depression in the winter and around the holidays. but the pandemic has made it harder to cope
|
it hasn't been too cold to go out...now that the days will start getting longer maybe there will be more time to get outside
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Research shows that physical activity greatly reduces stress!
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Research shows that physical activity greatly reduces stress! It sounds like going out more would be very beneficial to you!
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Information, Providing Suggestions
|
Information
| 11,996 |
neutral
| 0.000838 | 0.000092 | 0.000215 | 0.010373 | 0.985221 | 0.000638 | 0.002622 |
1026
| 1 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately.
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So you have some worries about life? Would you like to share them?
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So you have some worries about life? Would you like to share them?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,998 |
neutral
| 0.008366 | 0.000487 | 0.247708 | 0.001486 | 0.66071 | 0.018911 | 0.062332 |
|
1026
| 2 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately.
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I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames.
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Do you feel that perhaps you are playing video games as a distraction from how bad the world is at the moment?
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Do you feel that perhaps you are playing video games as a distraction from how bad the world is at the moment?
|
Question
|
Question
| 11,999 |
sad
| 0.034142 | 0.001679 | 0.004725 | 0.000216 | 0.004261 | 0.948372 | 0.006605 |
1026
| 3 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately. I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames.
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No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6.
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Ah, so it's a long term hobby? I do love gaming myself I have to admit.
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Ah, so it's a long term hobby? I do love gaming myself I have to admit. Could you perhaps set yourself some strict boundaries, like you can only do a certain number of hours of gaming a day?
|
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
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Self-disclosure
| 12,000 |
neutral
| 0.287965 | 0.000858 | 0.000463 | 0.001217 | 0.455816 | 0.010522 | 0.243159 |
1026
| 4 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately. I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames. No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6.
|
I tried, but my online rank not being where I want it gives me anxiety and I keep coming back Just one more match, just one more, I keep telling me
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It sounds like you might have a genuine addiction to gaming. Do you think you might benefit from some counselling? There are organisations that can help.
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It sounds like you might have a genuine addiction to gaming. Do you think you might benefit from some counselling? There are organisations that can help.
|
Information
|
Information
| 12,001 |
fear
| 0.004271 | 0.000399 | 0.644082 | 0.000689 | 0.011381 | 0.335829 | 0.003349 |
1026
| 5 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately. I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames. No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6. I tried, but my online rank not being where I want it gives me anxiety and I keep coming back Just one more match, just one more, I keep telling me
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Do you really think it's that severe?
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Well, if it is affecting your grades and the rest of your real life then it might be. And it's best to catch these things before they get worse.
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Well, if it is affecting your grades and the rest of your real life then it might be. And it's best to catch these things before they get worse.
|
Others
|
Others
| 12,002 |
neutral
| 0.291365 | 0.00232 | 0.008146 | 0.000552 | 0.474486 | 0.022 | 0.201132 |
1026
| 6 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately. I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames. No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6. I tried, but my online rank not being where I want it gives me anxiety and I keep coming back Just one more match, just one more, I keep telling me Do you really think it's that severe?
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The thing is, I keep telling myself I have enough time to get my school work done. But sooner than later I realize the assignments are already past their due date.
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Have you been getting into trouble with your teachers about this or has no-one noticed so far?
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Have you been getting into trouble with your teachers about this or has no-one noticed so far?
|
Question
|
Question
| 12,003 |
sad
| 0.028639 | 0.001453 | 0.002006 | 0.000178 | 0.002165 | 0.961335 | 0.004225 |
1026
| 7 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately. I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames. No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6. I tried, but my online rank not being where I want it gives me anxiety and I keep coming back Just one more match, just one more, I keep telling me Do you really think it's that severe? The thing is, I keep telling myself I have enough time to get my school work done. But sooner than later I realize the assignments are already past their due date.
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Yeah, I have. They say that I am either super invested on my school work or that I lack any signs of effort at times.
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Does your school have a counsellor?
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Does your school have a counsellor?
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Question
|
Question
| 12,004 |
neutral
| 0.014882 | 0.000105 | 0.000151 | 0.000295 | 0.967037 | 0.002908 | 0.014622 |
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