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I think I will be losing my job soon. I just read an email taking about the need for us to cut cost and also how we have not got any support from the government.
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Hello. I just found out that I will be losing my job. I have no clue what to do. Yes it is. We haven't gotten the funding form the government and we are a small business. I am not sure how to tell my wife. Yes and I also have to find some place else to work at. Not a bad idea. I will look into that for sure. I am not sure how long it will take to get it. I'm not to bad off because I do have savings but I am just worried that I will not be able to find any work around where I live and I don't want to move. Yes for sure. She has her job so it just would feel weird for me to be at home while she works. I never have thought about online work. That might be a good idea. That is a great idea. I am sure I can get references. My boss loves me. He said he is looking to help me any way he can.
I am going to look online for sure. I would like to work form home. I am sure with my IT degree I can find some online jobs.
It does have benefits you save money on transportation costs for example :)
It does have benefits you save money on transportation costs for example :) That is actually along the lines of what I'm doing on the low end of the totem pole Not the high paying jobs but the basic and intermediate seems to be a fair bit available I don't male much but Ihave flexible hours and still finishing my degree How are you currently feeling about your situation with a little bit of a plan in place?
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I think I will be losing my job soon. I just read an email taking about the need for us to cut cost and also how we have not got any support from the government.
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Hello. I just found out that I will be losing my job. I have no clue what to do. Yes it is. We haven't gotten the funding form the government and we are a small business. I am not sure how to tell my wife. Yes and I also have to find some place else to work at. Not a bad idea. I will look into that for sure. I am not sure how long it will take to get it. I'm not to bad off because I do have savings but I am just worried that I will not be able to find any work around where I live and I don't want to move. Yes for sure. She has her job so it just would feel weird for me to be at home while she works. I never have thought about online work. That might be a good idea. That is a great idea. I am sure I can get references. My boss loves me. He said he is looking to help me any way he can. I am going to look online for sure. I would like to work form home. I am sure with my IT degree I can find some online jobs.
that's awesome. I'm feeling a little better. Just so much to do now but at least I have an idea of what to do. I feel like with this plan my wife will not be so worried.
Maybe if you get your basic ideas together where your satisfied with it it will ease some of the difficulty of talking to your wife.
Maybe if you get your basic ideas together where your satisfied with it it will ease some of the difficulty of talking to your wife. I apologise we had the same idea
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I think I will be losing my job soon. I just read an email taking about the need for us to cut cost and also how we have not got any support from the government.
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Hello. I just found out that I will be losing my job. I have no clue what to do. Yes it is. We haven't gotten the funding form the government and we are a small business. I am not sure how to tell my wife. Yes and I also have to find some place else to work at. Not a bad idea. I will look into that for sure. I am not sure how long it will take to get it. I'm not to bad off because I do have savings but I am just worried that I will not be able to find any work around where I live and I don't want to move. Yes for sure. She has her job so it just would feel weird for me to be at home while she works. I never have thought about online work. That might be a good idea. That is a great idea. I am sure I can get references. My boss loves me. He said he is looking to help me any way he can. I am going to look online for sure. I would like to work form home. I am sure with my IT degree I can find some online jobs. that's awesome. I'm feeling a little better. Just so much to do now but at least I have an idea of what to do. I feel like with this plan my wife will not be so worried.
Yes. i plan on doing that this afternoon. Thank you so much. I am feeling way more at ease. I hope you have a wonderful day.
I hope your day goes great as well
I hope your day goes great as well
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Hi
How are you?
How are you?
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Hi
I am good. How are you?
I doing well. How may I help you?
I doing well. How may I help you?
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Hi I am good. How are you?
I had a fight with my best friend.
I understand that you have a dispute with your friend. Is that correct?
I understand that you have a dispute with your friend. Is that correct?
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Had a fight with friend.
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Hi I am good. How are you? I had a fight with my best friend.
Yes, She asked for a help and that day I couldn't make it.
What kind of help, if I may ask?
What kind of help, if I may ask?
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Had a fight with friend.
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Hi I am good. How are you? I had a fight with my best friend. Yes, She asked for a help and that day I couldn't make it.
She wanted me to take her for the shopping and I was busy that day. She thought I was making excuses
I completely understand your frustration. Sometime work life balance is overwhelming.
I completely understand your frustration. Sometime work life balance is overwhelming.
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Had a fight with friend.
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Hi I am good. How are you? I had a fight with my best friend. Yes, She asked for a help and that day I couldn't make it. She wanted me to take her for the shopping and I was busy that day. She thought I was making excuses
I was so upset that she was not ready to understand and created a fight . I was angry on her.
Have you discuss your frustration with her?
Have you discuss your frustration with her?
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Had a fight with friend.
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Hi I am good. How are you? I had a fight with my best friend. Yes, She asked for a help and that day I couldn't make it. She wanted me to take her for the shopping and I was busy that day. She thought I was making excuses I was so upset that she was not ready to understand and created a fight . I was angry on her.
yes, but still she thinks that I was making excuses that day. She is not ready to listen.
Experts says that when someone get emotional waiting some time might help reduce the tension.
Experts says that when someone get emotional waiting some time might help reduce the tension.
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Had a fight with friend.
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Hi I am good. How are you? I had a fight with my best friend. Yes, She asked for a help and that day I couldn't make it. She wanted me to take her for the shopping and I was busy that day. She thought I was making excuses I was so upset that she was not ready to understand and created a fight . I was angry on her. yes, but still she thinks that I was making excuses that day. She is not ready to listen.
You mean should I give her time?
That is correct. After some time, when emotion is down, you both can have a discussion about the incident.
That is correct. After some time, when emotion is down, you both can have a discussion about the incident.
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Had a fight with friend.
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Hi I am good. How are you? I had a fight with my best friend. Yes, She asked for a help and that day I couldn't make it. She wanted me to take her for the shopping and I was busy that day. She thought I was making excuses I was so upset that she was not ready to understand and created a fight . I was angry on her. yes, but still she thinks that I was making excuses that day. She is not ready to listen. You mean should I give her time?
We have been friends since childhood. For this reason I don't want to loose her. I will try your suggestion. Thanks
Thank you. Anything else I could help you with?
Thank you. Anything else I could help you with?
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Had a fight with friend.
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Hi I am good. How are you? I had a fight with my best friend. Yes, She asked for a help and that day I couldn't make it. She wanted me to take her for the shopping and I was busy that day. She thought I was making excuses I was so upset that she was not ready to understand and created a fight . I was angry on her. yes, but still she thinks that I was making excuses that day. She is not ready to listen. You mean should I give her time? We have been friends since childhood. For this reason I don't want to loose her. I will try your suggestion. Thanks
I will wait and try to talk to her after a while. Hope it will work. Do you have any other thought which I can try?
I don't have any at this point in time.
I don't have any at this point in time.
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Had a fight with friend.
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Hi I am good. How are you? I had a fight with my best friend. Yes, She asked for a help and that day I couldn't make it. She wanted me to take her for the shopping and I was busy that day. She thought I was making excuses I was so upset that she was not ready to understand and created a fight . I was angry on her. yes, but still she thinks that I was making excuses that day. She is not ready to listen. You mean should I give her time? We have been friends since childhood. For this reason I don't want to loose her. I will try your suggestion. Thanks I will wait and try to talk to her after a while. Hope it will work. Do you have any other thought which I can try?
No problem. Thanks for all your help. bye
Bye
Bye
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad.
May I ask the reason why you are mad?
May I ask the reason why you are mad?
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years
were their actions accidental or intentional?
were their actions accidental or intentional?
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years
Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL
Did you say anything offensive?
Did you say anything offensive?
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL
Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something
I see. If that is the case, create a personal meeting with you and your friends (the ones who banned you).
I see. If that is the case, create a personal meeting with you and your friends (the ones who banned you).
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something
My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend
just to clarify, are these online friends? Have you met them in person?
just to clarify, are these online friends? Have you met them in person?
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend
Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything
and now for that one friend, does he know the other friends personally?
and now for that one friend, does he know the other friends personally?
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything
Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying
I'm sorry to hear that.
I'm sorry to hear that.
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying
But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me.
The best advice I can give you is to try to get your friends together on a private group call. Then tell them that what they've heard was a complete misunderstanding. And tell them to unban you from playstation.
The best advice I can give you is to try to get your friends together on a private group call. Then tell them that what they've heard was a complete misunderstanding. And tell them to unban you from playstation. However, if they do not respect your response, then they can't really be relied on as your friends. They don't come to respect you so it is best for you to move on.
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me.
Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks
Nobody should demoralize another person and that is what your "online friends" are taking advantage of.
Nobody should demoralize another person and that is what your "online friends" are taking advantage of.
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks
Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games
Also send a report to Sony about the ban. I believe with the proof, they can appeal the ban for you!
Also send a report to Sony about the ban. I believe with the proof, they can appeal the ban for you!
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games
cuz of the warning... Like I can control what these people do when I'm offline. I did... they said they can't do anything and that I can just report them. Kind of sucks but I guess I will just stick my lane. Karma already banned someone in the group took $2000 worth of games so that gave me a good laugh
In that case just keep reporting them.
In that case just keep reporting them.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games cuz of the warning... Like I can control what these people do when I'm offline. I did... they said they can't do anything and that I can just report them. Kind of sucks but I guess I will just stick my lane. Karma already banned someone in the group took $2000 worth of games so that gave me a good laugh
I would but that would just get my nephew banned He still is at the point where he blames me it's crazy4
Ah I see! Don't get your nephew banned!
Ah I see! Don't get your nephew banned!
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games cuz of the warning... Like I can control what these people do when I'm offline. I did... they said they can't do anything and that I can just report them. Kind of sucks but I guess I will just stick my lane. Karma already banned someone in the group took $2000 worth of games so that gave me a good laugh I would but that would just get my nephew banned He still is at the point where he blames me it's crazy4
Yeah. He actually said he hates my guts and remove me from authorizing his games even though I paid for over 100 dollars of the content
how close are you to your nephew?
how close are you to your nephew?
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games cuz of the warning... Like I can control what these people do when I'm offline. I did... they said they can't do anything and that I can just report them. Kind of sucks but I guess I will just stick my lane. Karma already banned someone in the group took $2000 worth of games so that gave me a good laugh I would but that would just get my nephew banned He still is at the point where he blames me it's crazy4 Yeah. He actually said he hates my guts and remove me from authorizing his games even though I paid for over 100 dollars of the content
Very. Which is why I am more angry That he is siding with people who disrespect me that much
If he's relying on your payments for the content, then I suggest for you to stop the payments until he learns his lesson.
If he's relying on your payments for the content, then I suggest for you to stop the payments until he learns his lesson.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games cuz of the warning... Like I can control what these people do when I'm offline. I did... they said they can't do anything and that I can just report them. Kind of sucks but I guess I will just stick my lane. Karma already banned someone in the group took $2000 worth of games so that gave me a good laugh I would but that would just get my nephew banned He still is at the point where he blames me it's crazy4 Yeah. He actually said he hates my guts and remove me from authorizing his games even though I paid for over 100 dollars of the content Very. Which is why I am more angry That he is siding with people who disrespect me that much
Well my friend just said it's my fault for buying ourselves game on his account
He clearly does not respect you so you need to set up some discipline and ground rules.
He clearly does not respect you so you need to set up some discipline and ground rules.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games cuz of the warning... Like I can control what these people do when I'm offline. I did... they said they can't do anything and that I can just report them. Kind of sucks but I guess I will just stick my lane. Karma already banned someone in the group took $2000 worth of games so that gave me a good laugh I would but that would just get my nephew banned He still is at the point where he blames me it's crazy4 Yeah. He actually said he hates my guts and remove me from authorizing his games even though I paid for over 100 dollars of the content Very. Which is why I am more angry That he is siding with people who disrespect me that much Well my friend just said it's my fault for buying ourselves game on his account
that prick For now... I am just left on my own.
Honestly, he's your nephew. So the fault lies on his parents.
Honestly, he's your nephew. So the fault lies on his parents.
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games cuz of the warning... Like I can control what these people do when I'm offline. I did... they said they can't do anything and that I can just report them. Kind of sucks but I guess I will just stick my lane. Karma already banned someone in the group took $2000 worth of games so that gave me a good laugh I would but that would just get my nephew banned He still is at the point where he blames me it's crazy4 Yeah. He actually said he hates my guts and remove me from authorizing his games even though I paid for over 100 dollars of the content Very. Which is why I am more angry That he is siding with people who disrespect me that much Well my friend just said it's my fault for buying ourselves game on his account that prick For now... I am just left on my own.
Maybe so. I think he'll get around.
But I really do hope you get your account back. I'm sorry of how your online friends have treated you and your girlfriend.
But I really do hope you get your account back. I'm sorry of how your online friends have treated you and your girlfriend.
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games cuz of the warning... Like I can control what these people do when I'm offline. I did... they said they can't do anything and that I can just report them. Kind of sucks but I guess I will just stick my lane. Karma already banned someone in the group took $2000 worth of games so that gave me a good laugh I would but that would just get my nephew banned He still is at the point where he blames me it's crazy4 Yeah. He actually said he hates my guts and remove me from authorizing his games even though I paid for over 100 dollars of the content Very. Which is why I am more angry That he is siding with people who disrespect me that much Well my friend just said it's my fault for buying ourselves game on his account that prick For now... I am just left on my own. Maybe so. I think he'll get around.
Yeah. She started thinking all of my friends are like that but she figured out I have some good ones. Yeah. Thanks for the advice.
And I hope my advice/suggestions have been helpful!
And I hope my advice/suggestions have been helpful!
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My friends got me banned from PlayStation because I got a girlfriend.
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Kind of mad. My friends got me banned on Playstation People I've known for 4 years Intentional. First it started from one person cuz my friend put me on speaker about something and apparently I said something that made one person mad I was on a PHONE CALL Kind of. My friend asked what is up and my girlfriend of course was nosey and said bad cuz my mom is harassing us. I was saying my mom has been ripping me off and keeps threatening to kick me out. So I just said. I honestly am at the point where I don't care if she is around or not. So someone reported me for some bs thing on playstation cuz they think I must be trash if I don't love my mom or something My mom is kind of a draining person. I thought of being around because she has been going through low hemoglobin. But she keeps ruining my life I wish I could. I don't even know the jerk The rest of them then did it because they don't like my girlfriend Online friends I only know one the one who was on the phone with me he just can't keep a call private for anything Even my nephew who plays with those jerks was avoiding me because my girlfriend. yeah... So... my girlfriend has this condition and was in a hospital for high contamination in her blood from her bad liver. So she was talking weird. and everyone was calling her annoying But those insensentive morons don't care she literally almost died. Instead, everyone just keeps asking why am I with this disabled girl Like... she is better now. She just needed to recover People I knew for four years... going out of their way to mess with me. Yeah. I mostly tried to stay to my myself. Right now they're mad at me because they got all warnings from Sony since they did an investigation on how everyone speaks Even my own sister is giving me crap because my nephew almost lost thousands worth of games cuz of the warning... Like I can control what these people do when I'm offline. I did... they said they can't do anything and that I can just report them. Kind of sucks but I guess I will just stick my lane. Karma already banned someone in the group took $2000 worth of games so that gave me a good laugh I would but that would just get my nephew banned He still is at the point where he blames me it's crazy4 Yeah. He actually said he hates my guts and remove me from authorizing his games even though I paid for over 100 dollars of the content Very. Which is why I am more angry That he is siding with people who disrespect me that much Well my friend just said it's my fault for buying ourselves game on his account that prick For now... I am just left on my own. Maybe so. I think he'll get around. Yeah. She started thinking all of my friends are like that but she figured out I have some good ones. Yeah. Thanks for the advice.
It was thank you very much.
You're very welcome! If that is all you have for me now, you can end the conversation. It was nice conversating with you!
You're very welcome! If that is all you have for me now, you can end the conversation. It was nice conversating with you!
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hey there hello. good , and you_ cannot type today, sorry. Too much typing today
I am doing well. That is okay typing can be a bit of a pain.
I am doing well. That is okay typing can be a bit of a pain. Is there anyway i could convince you to type a little longer so that I may help you? I assure you that your typing skills are above par & I know you will knock it out of the park my friend!
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hey there hello. good , and you_ cannot type today, sorry. Too much typing today
great haha,
Awesome i am glad to have you back!
Awesome i am glad to have you back!
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hey there hello. good , and you_ cannot type today, sorry. Too much typing today great haha,
thanks I always have a second thought when I type It makes my typing speed slow as well
You are very welcome & why do have second thoughts when you type?
You are very welcome & why do have second thoughts when you type? The only thing that matters is that you made the effort to type reguardless of how well you feel your typing skills are. You should be proud of uourself! I myself use to struggle with typing. Do you think maybe you are being to hard on yourself?
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hey there hello. good , and you_ cannot type today, sorry. Too much typing today great haha, thanks I always have a second thought when I type It makes my typing speed slow as well
great advise, I think so I am sometimes hard on myself I think sometimes my head gets confused I wish I could have more clear mind
I Think alot of people could relate to how you feel.
I Think alot of people could relate to how you feel. May i suggest that before you start typing stop, close your eyes, take a deep breath in your nose hold it. then blow it out of your mouth. that should help clear your mind and rid yourself of all those jitters.
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hey there hello. good , and you_ cannot type today, sorry. Too much typing today great haha, thanks I always have a second thought when I type It makes my typing speed slow as well great advise, I think so I am sometimes hard on myself I think sometimes my head gets confused I wish I could have more clear mind
ohh 1 wow, I will definitely try that. It sounds like you're a doctor!" Whenever I get tense or need to relax, I might as well try that you know, all those relaxation music and teas and herbs don't work for me
Thank you that is very kind of you to say. I have just had alot of practice in dealing with anxiety. I agree the relaxtation music doesnt work for me either. Breathing seems to help me the most. Its natural and I can control it which I really like.
Thank you that is very kind of you to say. I have just had alot of practice in dealing with anxiety. I agree the relaxtation music doesnt work for me either. Breathing seems to help me the most. Its natural and I can control it which I really like.
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hey there hello. good , and you_ cannot type today, sorry. Too much typing today great haha, thanks I always have a second thought when I type It makes my typing speed slow as well great advise, I think so I am sometimes hard on myself I think sometimes my head gets confused I wish I could have more clear mind ohh 1 wow, I will definitely try that. It sounds like you're a doctor!" Whenever I get tense or need to relax, I might as well try that you know, all those relaxation music and teas and herbs don't work for me
yes the anxiety, that is what it is well, we both have experienced similar issue, cool I am practicing now. breath in, breath out....
Yes we have. I know many people deal with anxiety. It is not uncommon so therefore you are not alone my friend!
Yes we have. I know many people deal with anxiety. It is not uncommon so therefore you are not alone my friend! You are doing great! I am so proud of you!
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hey there hello. good , and you_ cannot type today, sorry. Too much typing today great haha, thanks I always have a second thought when I type It makes my typing speed slow as well great advise, I think so I am sometimes hard on myself I think sometimes my head gets confused I wish I could have more clear mind ohh 1 wow, I will definitely try that. It sounds like you're a doctor!" Whenever I get tense or need to relax, I might as well try that you know, all those relaxation music and teas and herbs don't work for me yes the anxiety, that is what it is well, we both have experienced similar issue, cool I am practicing now. breath in, breath out....
Great to hear!
How do you feel?
How do you feel?
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hey there hello. good , and you_ cannot type today, sorry. Too much typing today great haha, thanks I always have a second thought when I type It makes my typing speed slow as well great advise, I think so I am sometimes hard on myself I think sometimes my head gets confused I wish I could have more clear mind ohh 1 wow, I will definitely try that. It sounds like you're a doctor!" Whenever I get tense or need to relax, I might as well try that you know, all those relaxation music and teas and herbs don't work for me yes the anxiety, that is what it is well, we both have experienced similar issue, cool I am practicing now. breath in, breath out.... Great to hear!
I wasn't sure what it was but knowing that it is an anxiety, now I can handle it my kid woke up . I should go now.
Aw how precious! I am glad i could help you, enjoy the rest of your day my friend!
Aw how precious! I am glad i could help you, enjoy the rest of your day my friend!
Others
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breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little
I'm sorry to hear you are freaking out. Perhaps a friendly listening ear can encourage you?
I'm sorry to hear you are freaking out. Perhaps a friendly listening ear can encourage you? Why are you freaking out?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
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breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little
I think that'll help, yeah
Sometimes just a friend to hear you out and encourage you can really make a difference. Life has its ups and down.
Sometimes just a friend to hear you out and encourage you can really make a difference. Life has its ups and down.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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anxiety
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I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah
I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything
That's a difficult decision you have made.
That's a difficult decision you have made.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything
I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids
Have you tried to talk to him about the problem? Or a counselor?
Have you tried to talk to him about the problem? Or a counselor?
Question
Question
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anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids
I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me
I have worked at a domestic violence shelter before, the most dangerous time to leave a situation like this is when you leave. Do you have a plan in place?
I have worked at a domestic violence shelter before, the most dangerous time to leave a situation like this is when you leave. Do you have a plan in place?
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me
I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with
My husband used to be very controlling as well, I dragged him to counseling. He changed. He bucked at first, but eventually he went. We have gone a few times off and on over 20 years. We both came from broken homes.
My husband used to be very controlling as well, I dragged him to counseling. He changed. He bucked at first, but eventually he went. We have gone a few times off and on over 20 years. We both came from broken homes.
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Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with
I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying
Has he hurt you physically? or is he mainly emotionally abusive?
Has he hurt you physically? or is he mainly emotionally abusive?
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Question
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anxiety
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I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying
He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory
I'm glad to hear that. I can understand that you would be really stressed at this time, however, I do encourage you to get a good plan in place, and definitely get counseling.
I'm glad to hear that. I can understand that you would be really stressed at this time, however, I do encourage you to get a good plan in place, and definitely get counseling.
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Reflection of feelings
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9
anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory
I think that's the best idea
Yes, I had child abuse in my life too, I really think counseling saved our marriage, 3 times. But like, I said, he didn't want to go. However, the first time, I did leave and stay with a friend, and that convinced him I was serious.
Yes, I had child abuse in my life too, I really think counseling saved our marriage, 3 times. But like, I said, he didn't want to go. However, the first time, I did leave and stay with a friend, and that convinced him I was serious.
Self-disclosure
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I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea
that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend
I wish I could fix this, but I can't. The road will be rocky and I don't know how I would have made it without people to encourage and support me, so I'm glad a friend is willing to have you stay with them until you can get on your feet.
I wish I could fix this, but I can't. The road will be rocky and I don't know how I would have made it without people to encourage and support me, so I'm glad a friend is willing to have you stay with them until you can get on your feet.
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anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend
hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference
My husband really loved me, but coming from a broken home, he lost his mom when he was 12, so he thought controlling me was the solution, very messed up, but he had to learn to see that.
My husband really loved me, but coming from a broken home, he lost his mom when he was 12, so he thought controlling me was the solution, very messed up, but he had to learn to see that.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference
definitely that makes sense
He feared I would die or leave him or something, but once he saw that, and realized what he was doing was hurting me and making me want to leave, he changed. But honestly, I have never understood men and why they dont' see life the way we do. Sometimes it takes that objective person to help them see it.
He feared I would die or leave him or something, but once he saw that, and realized what he was doing was hurting me and making me want to leave, he changed. But honestly, I have never understood men and why they dont' see life the way we do. Sometimes it takes that objective person to help them see it.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference definitely that makes sense
I'm not convinced mine loves me, looking back it's beginning to seem like he was draining me for my income and labor
Ouch! That sounds painful to look at.
Ouch! That sounds painful to look at.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference definitely that makes sense I'm not convinced mine loves me, looking back it's beginning to seem like he was draining me for my income and labor
it is, I think I was super wrong about him and overlooked red flags
People who truly love others become willing to change. Sometimes it takes a DRASTIC measure to wake them up, like leaving. He has not heard you, so many he will "hear" it when you leave. But please be careful and have a plan.
People who truly love others become willing to change. Sometimes it takes a DRASTIC measure to wake them up, like leaving. He has not heard you, so many he will "hear" it when you leave. But please be careful and have a plan. How long have you been married?
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breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference definitely that makes sense I'm not convinced mine loves me, looking back it's beginning to seem like he was draining me for my income and labor it is, I think I was super wrong about him and overlooked red flags
eight years, together for 11
That's a long time. I will say a prayer for your safety and for you to get some help, hopefully he will join you. Marriage is a lot of work, but it can't be one person, it has to be two.
That's a long time. I will say a prayer for your safety and for you to get some help, hopefully he will join you. Marriage is a lot of work, but it can't be one person, it has to be two. Don't leave anything in writing around until after you leave.
Others, Providing Suggestions
Others
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I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference definitely that makes sense I'm not convinced mine loves me, looking back it's beginning to seem like he was draining me for my income and labor it is, I think I was super wrong about him and overlooked red flags eight years, together for 11
absolutely! definitely no paper trail, for sure
I believe in the power of prayer too. The Serenity prayer is a good one to help me let go of my fears and do what I can, leaving the rest to God.
I believe in the power of prayer too. The Serenity prayer is a good one to help me let go of my fears and do what I can, leaving the rest to God.
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Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference definitely that makes sense I'm not convinced mine loves me, looking back it's beginning to seem like he was draining me for my income and labor it is, I think I was super wrong about him and overlooked red flags eight years, together for 11 absolutely! definitely no paper trail, for sure
I know that one, it's helping me a lot too
If I worry and get upset, then I waste energy, I have had to learn to get distracted if I find myself on that worry train, call a friend, go for a walk, just not obsess, it goes nowhere.
If I worry and get upset, then I waste energy, I have had to learn to get distracted if I find myself on that worry train, call a friend, go for a walk, just not obsess, it goes nowhere. And I urge you to get a counselor.
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anxiety
breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference definitely that makes sense I'm not convinced mine loves me, looking back it's beginning to seem like he was draining me for my income and labor it is, I think I was super wrong about him and overlooked red flags eight years, together for 11 absolutely! definitely no paper trail, for sure I know that one, it's helping me a lot too
that's good advice! I will Thank you
You are welcome. Watch your thinking, when it goes off track, take charge, change your thinking, get up and move about and do something else because it's not healthy for you to worry. As you said, you freak out, and that is not good for you or your children.
You are welcome. Watch your thinking, when it goes off track, take charge, change your thinking, get up and move about and do something else because it's not healthy for you to worry. As you said, you freak out, and that is not good for you or your children.
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breakup_with_partner
I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
4
1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference definitely that makes sense I'm not convinced mine loves me, looking back it's beginning to seem like he was draining me for my income and labor it is, I think I was super wrong about him and overlooked red flags eight years, together for 11 absolutely! definitely no paper trail, for sure I know that one, it's helping me a lot too that's good advice! I will Thank you
definitely, I think I can do that! I feel a lot better!
It's a rough situation, it will be difficult, you seem very intelligent, have thought about this, are working on a plan and are able to discuss it. That's a big plus on yoru side.
It's a rough situation, it will be difficult, you seem very intelligent, have thought about this, are working on a plan and are able to discuss it. That's a big plus on yoru side.
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I'm planning to divorce my husband and I'm anxious about how it will go because he controls the money and we have children.
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1
5
5
hanging in there, kinda freaking out a little I think that'll help, yeah I decided to leave my husband, he keeps snapping at me and won't listen to me or let me do anything I'm worried how it'll go though because we have kids I've tried to talk to him about the control issues, but he doesn't listen. He doesn't know I'm planning to leave and I think he'll try to stop me I have some leads on apartments and some savings I'm putting aside, and a friend I plan on living with I haven't got 100% of the details worked out yet, but I'm trying He hasn't hurt me physically I often feel like he would but I'm also a child abuse survivor so it's hard to tell if that's true or just a memory I think that's the best idea that's a good thought, I wonder what he'd do if I stayed with a friend hey may not realize I'd leave at all me too, that's making all the difference definitely that makes sense I'm not convinced mine loves me, looking back it's beginning to seem like he was draining me for my income and labor it is, I think I was super wrong about him and overlooked red flags eight years, together for 11 absolutely! definitely no paper trail, for sure I know that one, it's helping me a lot too that's good advice! I will Thank you definitely, I think I can do that! I feel a lot better!
Thank you! I'm feeling a lot more confident!
I'm glad to hear it. Keep the faith, all will be well in due time! Sometimes rough roads really work out, but it never FEELS that way! You have a good night! :D
I'm glad to hear it. Keep the faith, all will be well in due time! Sometimes rough roads really work out, but it never FEELS that way! You have a good night! :D
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hello
how may I help you
how may I help you
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1103
2
fear
academic_pressure
i don't understand the course
4
1
5
5
hello
i have this course that freaks me out
okay
okay
Question
Question
12,908
fear
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0.000703
0.927092
0.00143
0.000922
0.00245
0.064245
1103
3
fear
academic_pressure
i don't understand the course
4
1
5
5
hello i have this course that freaks me out
its calculus and i dint seems to get it
yes the course is kind difficult
yes the course is kind difficult have you try to tell your friends or someone to put you through?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question
Restatement or Paraphrasing
12,909
surprised
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1103
4
fear
academic_pressure
i don't understand the course
4
1
5
5
hello i have this course that freaks me out its calculus and i dint seems to get it
i did have a friend that put me trough but still couldn't get it right
I know that you have done your best, but keep on trying more ways by telling someone
I know that you have done your best, but keep on trying more ways by telling someone I know that you have done your best, but keep on trying more ways by telling someone I know that you have done your best, but keep on trying more ways by telling someone
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,910
sad
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1103
5
fear
academic_pressure
i don't understand the course
4
1
5
5
hello i have this course that freaks me out its calculus and i dint seems to get it i did have a friend that put me trough but still couldn't get it right
how can i go about it if i don't get what i am being thought
I can see how anxious you are, just as i am chatting with you. You really need assistance to solve the course and pass very well.
I can see how anxious you are, just as i am chatting with you. You really need assistance to solve the course and pass very well. I can see how anxious you are, just as i am chatting with you. You really need assistance to solve the course and pass very well. I was also in that shoe, but you can try to move close to someone you think knows the course very well
Reflection of feelings, Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
Reflection of feelings
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surprised
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1103
6
fear
academic_pressure
i don't understand the course
4
1
5
5
hello i have this course that freaks me out its calculus and i dint seems to get it i did have a friend that put me trough but still couldn't get it right how can i go about it if i don't get what i am being thought
yes i am very anxious and scared
you have done best so far, you need to get rid of that fear to understand the course. You can even go online, like download some videos about the course, it will tutor you and really be of help
you have done best so far, you need to get rid of that fear to understand the course. You can even go online, like download some videos about the course, it will tutor you and really be of help hello
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,912
fear
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0.000042
0.999346
0.000083
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1103
7
fear
academic_pressure
i don't understand the course
4
1
5
5
hello i have this course that freaks me out its calculus and i dint seems to get it i did have a friend that put me trough but still couldn't get it right how can i go about it if i don't get what i am being thought yes i am very anxious and scared
yes i will try and download some video tutorial on youtube maybe that will help
definitely, it will be of help
definitely, it will be of help
Others
Others
12,913
neutral
0.000857
0.000033
0.000561
0.000362
0.994632
0.000594
0.002962
1103
8
fear
academic_pressure
i don't understand the course
4
1
5
5
hello i have this course that freaks me out its calculus and i dint seems to get it i did have a friend that put me trough but still couldn't get it right how can i go about it if i don't get what i am being thought yes i am very anxious and scared yes i will try and download some video tutorial on youtube maybe that will help
ok thanks for the advice
get your courage back, do not give room for fear.
get your courage back, do not give room for fear. you are welcome,
Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,914
neutral
0.081058
0.000216
0.000902
0.38841
0.47
0.001113
0.058301
1103
9
fear
academic_pressure
i don't understand the course
4
1
5
5
hello i have this course that freaks me out its calculus and i dint seems to get it i did have a friend that put me trough but still couldn't get it right how can i go about it if i don't get what i am being thought yes i am very anxious and scared yes i will try and download some video tutorial on youtube maybe that will help ok thanks for the advice
yea, will try and do that
I wish you the best luck
I wish you the best luck
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
12,915
neutral
0.003191
0.000061
0.00016
0.000972
0.993505
0.000562
0.001549
1103
10
fear
academic_pressure
i don't understand the course
4
1
5
5
hello i have this course that freaks me out its calculus and i dint seems to get it i did have a friend that put me trough but still couldn't get it right how can i go about it if i don't get what i am being thought yes i am very anxious and scared yes i will try and download some video tutorial on youtube maybe that will help ok thanks for the advice yea, will try and do that
thanks pal
bye
bye you can end the chat
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
12,916
happy
0.020779
0.000263
0.000058
0.820366
0.151566
0.00049
0.006479
1104
1
anxiety
academic_pressure
High expectations at work and little time to complete them
3
1
5
5
Hi
How can i support you today?
How can i support you today?
Question
Question
12,918
neutral
0.003783
0.000183
0.000154
0.031973
0.960893
0.000259
0.002756
1104
2
anxiety
academic_pressure
High expectations at work and little time to complete them
3
1
5
5
Hi
I'm just looking for a way to cope with the stresses of my job right now. I work in healthcare and have a lot to do and it feels like I have no time to get everything done
I see how that would be overwhelming.
I see how that would be overwhelming. It can help to just allow yourself a brief rest when you can.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,919
sad
0.014877
0.000139
0.002821
0.000109
0.000705
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0.000178
1104
3
anxiety
academic_pressure
High expectations at work and little time to complete them
3
1
5
5
Hi I'm just looking for a way to cope with the stresses of my job right now. I work in healthcare and have a lot to do and it feels like I have no time to get everything done
Do you have any good ideas to cope with stress?
I find it helpful to find even just five minutes in the morning or evening to meditate.
I find it helpful to find even just five minutes in the morning or evening to meditate. Some deep breathing to clearly our mind.
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
12,920
neutral
0.010298
0.000101
0.00156
0.000268
0.967506
0.006185
0.014082
1104
4
anxiety
academic_pressure
High expectations at work and little time to complete them
3
1
5
5
Hi I'm just looking for a way to cope with the stresses of my job right now. I work in healthcare and have a lot to do and it feels like I have no time to get everything done Do you have any good ideas to cope with stress?
What do you do in the moment when you are overwhelmed? I get so busy I feel like a mess and so unorganized
So you feel like everything is happening at once, so how can you get to anything at all?
So you feel like everything is happening at once, so how can you get to anything at all?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
12,921
sad
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1104
5
anxiety
academic_pressure
High expectations at work and little time to complete them
3
1
5
5
Hi I'm just looking for a way to cope with the stresses of my job right now. I work in healthcare and have a lot to do and it feels like I have no time to get everything done Do you have any good ideas to cope with stress? What do you do in the moment when you are overwhelmed? I get so busy I feel like a mess and so unorganized
I just feel like my work performance is suffering I'm supposed to get things done in a certain amount of time and I don't have the help I need to get everything done I work for a big company and corporate sets goals that cannot reasonably be met safely in the amount of time we are given with the lack of support
This can be a common stressful feeling in health care.
This can be a common stressful feeling in health care. Do you have anyone in the organization you would feel comfortable addressing the workload with?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,922
sad
0.000474
0.000073
0.000067
0.000051
0.000143
0.999171
0.00002
1104
6
anxiety
academic_pressure
High expectations at work and little time to complete them
3
1
5
5
Hi I'm just looking for a way to cope with the stresses of my job right now. I work in healthcare and have a lot to do and it feels like I have no time to get everything done Do you have any good ideas to cope with stress? What do you do in the moment when you are overwhelmed? I get so busy I feel like a mess and so unorganized I just feel like my work performance is suffering I'm supposed to get things done in a certain amount of time and I don't have the help I need to get everything done I work for a big company and corporate sets goals that cannot reasonably be met safely in the amount of time we are given with the lack of support
I do, but in the past when I have said something I wasn't given a solution, only asked what I think could be done I think we need more staff but they didn't think that was the solution
You are within your rights to only do what can be reasonablly expected with quality and safety in mind.
You are within your rights to only do what can be reasonablly expected with quality and safety in mind. It can be difficult, but do your best and do not allow a sense of pressure to impact you.
Information, Providing Suggestions
Information
12,923
angry
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0.00015
0.034889
0.021371
0.004647
1104
7
anxiety
academic_pressure
High expectations at work and little time to complete them
3
1
5
5
Hi I'm just looking for a way to cope with the stresses of my job right now. I work in healthcare and have a lot to do and it feels like I have no time to get everything done Do you have any good ideas to cope with stress? What do you do in the moment when you are overwhelmed? I get so busy I feel like a mess and so unorganized I just feel like my work performance is suffering I'm supposed to get things done in a certain amount of time and I don't have the help I need to get everything done I work for a big company and corporate sets goals that cannot reasonably be met safely in the amount of time we are given with the lack of support I do, but in the past when I have said something I wasn't given a solution, only asked what I think could be done I think we need more staff but they didn't think that was the solution
Thank you. I really needed to hear this!
I know how unrealistic corporate expectations can feel!
I know how unrealistic corporate expectations can feel!
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
12,924
happy
0.00011
0.000019
0.000006
0.999635
0.000116
0.00002
0.000096
1104
8
anxiety
academic_pressure
High expectations at work and little time to complete them
3
1
5
5
Hi I'm just looking for a way to cope with the stresses of my job right now. I work in healthcare and have a lot to do and it feels like I have no time to get everything done Do you have any good ideas to cope with stress? What do you do in the moment when you are overwhelmed? I get so busy I feel like a mess and so unorganized I just feel like my work performance is suffering I'm supposed to get things done in a certain amount of time and I don't have the help I need to get everything done I work for a big company and corporate sets goals that cannot reasonably be met safely in the amount of time we are given with the lack of support I do, but in the past when I have said something I wasn't given a solution, only asked what I think could be done I think we need more staff but they didn't think that was the solution Thank you. I really needed to hear this!
Thank you for taking the time to talk with me
You are very welcome. Have a lovely evening, thingscwill getvbetter for you!
You are very welcome. Have a lovely evening, thingscwill getvbetter for you!
Others
Others
12,925
happy
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0.000021
0.000017
0.999499
0.000151
0.000025
0.000159
1105
1
anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friends refuse to take the pandemic seriously
4
3
5
5
Hello How are you?
I'm doing well. How are you?
I'm doing well. How are you?
Question
Question
12,927
happy
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0.000078
0.988582
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1105
2
anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friends refuse to take the pandemic seriously
4
3
5
5
Hello How are you?
I'm actually not doing that great. I'm feeling pretty bad
I'm sorry to hear that, what's going on?
I'm sorry to hear that, what's going on?
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,928
sad
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1105
3
anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friends refuse to take the pandemic seriously
4
3
5
5
Hello How are you? I'm actually not doing that great. I'm feeling pretty bad
Well, I'm a little frustrated with my friends because they aren't taking the pandemic seriously. They think it's a hoax.
I see. I assume you are taking it seriously?
I see. I assume you are taking it seriously?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
12,929
angry
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0.001094
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0.000074
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1105
4
anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friends refuse to take the pandemic seriously
4
3
5
5
Hello How are you? I'm actually not doing that great. I'm feeling pretty bad Well, I'm a little frustrated with my friends because they aren't taking the pandemic seriously. They think it's a hoax.
Yes, I take it very seriously. I lost my grandfather to the illness earlier in the year and I also contracted it. I was sicker than I ever have been and I still can't smell or taste.
Oh wow, I'm very sorry to hear that! I'm sorry for your loss.
Oh wow, I'm very sorry to hear that! I'm sorry for your loss. Do your friends know that you were sick or that you lost a loved one?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,930
sad
0.000184
0.000127
0.000141
0.000037
0.000259
0.999191
0.000059
1105
5
anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friends refuse to take the pandemic seriously
4
3
5
5
Hello How are you? I'm actually not doing that great. I'm feeling pretty bad Well, I'm a little frustrated with my friends because they aren't taking the pandemic seriously. They think it's a hoax. Yes, I take it very seriously. I lost my grandfather to the illness earlier in the year and I also contracted it. I was sicker than I ever have been and I still can't smell or taste.
Yeah they do which is why it's so frustrating to hear them talk about it not being real. It really hurts
So they are not taking you seriously either then?
So they are not taking you seriously either then? That's really frustrating and I'm sorry to hear that. Do you have any friends who you can trust and talk to?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions
Restatement or Paraphrasing
12,931
angry
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1105
6
anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friends refuse to take the pandemic seriously
4
3
5
5
Hello How are you? I'm actually not doing that great. I'm feeling pretty bad Well, I'm a little frustrated with my friends because they aren't taking the pandemic seriously. They think it's a hoax. Yes, I take it very seriously. I lost my grandfather to the illness earlier in the year and I also contracted it. I was sicker than I ever have been and I still can't smell or taste. Yeah they do which is why it's so frustrating to hear them talk about it not being real. It really hurts
I do, I have a few newer friends that I've made recently that have had lost family members too. They don't seem to think it's a hoax.
That can certainly be difficult to talk about. But maybe you can build stronger relationships with them.
That can certainly be difficult to talk about. But maybe you can build stronger relationships with them. Friendships can change overtime and sometimes people who don't value the friendship can find themselves without friends.
Providing Suggestions, Information
Providing Suggestions
12,932
neutral
0.033345
0.000288
0.000178
0.00049
0.942495
0.003707
0.019497
1105
7
anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friends refuse to take the pandemic seriously
4
3
5
5
Hello How are you? I'm actually not doing that great. I'm feeling pretty bad Well, I'm a little frustrated with my friends because they aren't taking the pandemic seriously. They think it's a hoax. Yes, I take it very seriously. I lost my grandfather to the illness earlier in the year and I also contracted it. I was sicker than I ever have been and I still can't smell or taste. Yeah they do which is why it's so frustrating to hear them talk about it not being real. It really hurts I do, I have a few newer friends that I've made recently that have had lost family members too. They don't seem to think it's a hoax.
I know, it would be hard to say goodbye to them but I don't feel respected.
Maybe you don't have to say goodbye. Maybe you can just ignore them and see if any of them reach out to you.
Maybe you don't have to say goodbye. Maybe you can just ignore them and see if any of them reach out to you. You shouldn't have to feel bad in a friendship. Friends are supposed to support each other. If you aren't feeling support, maybe it's time to make new friends.
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
12,933
happy
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0.000217
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1105
8
anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friends refuse to take the pandemic seriously
4
3
5
5
Hello How are you? I'm actually not doing that great. I'm feeling pretty bad Well, I'm a little frustrated with my friends because they aren't taking the pandemic seriously. They think it's a hoax. Yes, I take it very seriously. I lost my grandfather to the illness earlier in the year and I also contracted it. I was sicker than I ever have been and I still can't smell or taste. Yeah they do which is why it's so frustrating to hear them talk about it not being real. It really hurts I do, I have a few newer friends that I've made recently that have had lost family members too. They don't seem to think it's a hoax. I know, it would be hard to say goodbye to them but I don't feel respected.
I think you're right, It's just hard to say goodbye to them. I may take your advice and just ignore them for a bit. My new friends seem to have better heads on their shoulders anyway and I like talking to them.
I think that's a great plan!
I think that's a great plan!
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
12,934
neutral
0.057244
0.001114
0.000505
0.002888
0.672103
0.25029
0.015856
1105
9
anxiety
problems_with_friends
my friends refuse to take the pandemic seriously
4
3
5
5
Hello How are you? I'm actually not doing that great. I'm feeling pretty bad Well, I'm a little frustrated with my friends because they aren't taking the pandemic seriously. They think it's a hoax. Yes, I take it very seriously. I lost my grandfather to the illness earlier in the year and I also contracted it. I was sicker than I ever have been and I still can't smell or taste. Yeah they do which is why it's so frustrating to hear them talk about it not being real. It really hurts I do, I have a few newer friends that I've made recently that have had lost family members too. They don't seem to think it's a hoax. I know, it would be hard to say goodbye to them but I don't feel respected. I think you're right, It's just hard to say goodbye to them. I may take your advice and just ignore them for a bit. My new friends seem to have better heads on their shoulders anyway and I like talking to them.
Thanks so much for your help!! I really appreciate it.
No problem! glad I could help!
No problem! glad I could help!
Others
Others
12,935
happy
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0.000016
0.000008
0.999587
0.00009
0.000021
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