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My current position will be eliminated within 6 months. I am very anxious and concerned that I will likely not find another position at mu current salary level.

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Hi. I'm a little stressed out at the moment over losing my job in the coming months. The company I work for is winding down. i'm on the old side to be looking for a job and i'm likely going to have to accept a lower salary, a longer commute and a heavier workload. In other words, I have a job I love, close to where I live that is very manageable. I can't sleep and I'm insanely anxious all of the time. I started looking for a job last week. I had a transition meeting today to pass on the little bit of my work that will be left to another person. I have 2 children; one who just started college this fall and another who is a junior in high school. my elderly mother lives with me also so I can't sell my house any time soon and move into something smaller and cheaper. I feel really trapped at the moment. i have friends and family close by. i don't like to burden people with my problems. I know i also don't adjust well to change and that doesn't help. breaking issues down into groups is helpful and may take away some of the enormity of everything. I've always been reluctant to ask for help or favors because i keep thinking there will always be a time down the road where i will need something more. it's helpful to have someone remind me that change isn't always a bad thing. thank you. I'll talk to some friends to see if anyone has some good budget cutting tricks. I'll continue to look for a job and i'll try to calm down a little for now. i am aware of many things including how truly fortunate i am to have my family, friends and health. I really appreciate your kind words and calming suggestions. thank you again. You too.

and you as well.

You're welcome! Have a great day.

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My current position will be eliminated within 6 months. I am very anxious and concerned that I will likely not find another position at mu current salary level.

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Hi. I'm a little stressed out at the moment over losing my job in the coming months. The company I work for is winding down. i'm on the old side to be looking for a job and i'm likely going to have to accept a lower salary, a longer commute and a heavier workload. In other words, I have a job I love, close to where I live that is very manageable. I can't sleep and I'm insanely anxious all of the time. I started looking for a job last week. I had a transition meeting today to pass on the little bit of my work that will be left to another person. I have 2 children; one who just started college this fall and another who is a junior in high school. my elderly mother lives with me also so I can't sell my house any time soon and move into something smaller and cheaper. I feel really trapped at the moment. i have friends and family close by. i don't like to burden people with my problems. I know i also don't adjust well to change and that doesn't help. breaking issues down into groups is helpful and may take away some of the enormity of everything. I've always been reluctant to ask for help or favors because i keep thinking there will always be a time down the road where i will need something more. it's helpful to have someone remind me that change isn't always a bad thing. thank you. I'll talk to some friends to see if anyone has some good budget cutting tricks. I'll continue to look for a job and i'll try to calm down a little for now. i am aware of many things including how truly fortunate i am to have my family, friends and health. I really appreciate your kind words and calming suggestions. thank you again. You too. and you as well.

Have a great day too!

I hope I was able to help.

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually

Tell me more please

Tell me more please What is causing the down trodden

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually

I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work.

May I ask if you r male or female

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work.

I'm female

What type work are u invloved with

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female

I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal

Special Ed is a very important position I commend u

Special Ed is a very important position I commend u Is the principal a strict person

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I do not like my boss, she is hateful.

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal

Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching.

Is she mean towards everyone

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I do not like my boss, she is hateful.

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching.

No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist

So u are working from home because of the COVID

So u are working from home because of the COVID Is she aware that you are a special ed teacher and not a normal teacher

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist

Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since

Seems like she is domineering . Tries to disrupt the class environment

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I do not like my boss, she is hateful.

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since

Yes! She is quick to divert blame away from herself and is not a good supporter of most teachers, except the ones she favors

So there a personality issue between her and you. She won't let the issue go

So there a personality issue between her and you. She won't let the issue go And you r not one of her favorites i guess How long have you been there

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since Yes! She is quick to divert blame away from herself and is not a good supporter of most teachers, except the ones she favors

No, she is pretty petty about it. It was actually easier to deal with when we were in school because I could avoid her. But now we have mandatory meetings... I am definitely not one of her favorites 1 1/2 years and normally I would change schools but the pandemic has made that harder

Is there anyone above her you could talk with

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since Yes! She is quick to divert blame away from herself and is not a good supporter of most teachers, except the ones she favors No, she is pretty petty about it. It was actually easier to deal with when we were in school because I could avoid her. But now we have mandatory meetings... I am definitely not one of her favorites 1 1/2 years and normally I would change schools but the pandemic has made that harder

There's no way I would do that... it would make things even worse for me

Have you checked with other schools and maybe submitted your resume online to ones that are far away as well

Have you checked with other schools and maybe submitted your resume online to ones that are far away as well I know with the virus it is hard Who do u know that u can talk with

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since Yes! She is quick to divert blame away from herself and is not a good supporter of most teachers, except the ones she favors No, she is pretty petty about it. It was actually easier to deal with when we were in school because I could avoid her. But now we have mandatory meetings... I am definitely not one of her favorites 1 1/2 years and normally I would change schools but the pandemic has made that harder There's no way I would do that... it would make things even worse for me

I have looked at other schools but it's hard to try and get a new position in my area. I have a close co-worker who feels the same way I do about her.

How many teachers are at your school

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I do not like my boss, she is hateful.

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since Yes! She is quick to divert blame away from herself and is not a good supporter of most teachers, except the ones she favors No, she is pretty petty about it. It was actually easier to deal with when we were in school because I could avoid her. But now we have mandatory meetings... I am definitely not one of her favorites 1 1/2 years and normally I would change schools but the pandemic has made that harder There's no way I would do that... it would make things even worse for me I have looked at other schools but it's hard to try and get a new position in my area. I have a close co-worker who feels the same way I do about her.

We text one another during our zoom meetings which does take some anxiety off of me there are 60

So is there a circle of teachers that you can chat with besides your co-worker

So is there a circle of teachers that you can chat with besides your co-worker Or is there a group who would snitch on you

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since Yes! She is quick to divert blame away from herself and is not a good supporter of most teachers, except the ones she favors No, she is pretty petty about it. It was actually easier to deal with when we were in school because I could avoid her. But now we have mandatory meetings... I am definitely not one of her favorites 1 1/2 years and normally I would change schools but the pandemic has made that harder There's no way I would do that... it would make things even worse for me I have looked at other schools but it's hard to try and get a new position in my area. I have a close co-worker who feels the same way I do about her. We text one another during our zoom meetings which does take some anxiety off of me there are 60

On some levels, but she is really the only one I trust

What would it take for you to talk with the principal to work things out

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I do not like my boss, she is hateful.

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since Yes! She is quick to divert blame away from herself and is not a good supporter of most teachers, except the ones she favors No, she is pretty petty about it. It was actually easier to deal with when we were in school because I could avoid her. But now we have mandatory meetings... I am definitely not one of her favorites 1 1/2 years and normally I would change schools but the pandemic has made that harder There's no way I would do that... it would make things even worse for me I have looked at other schools but it's hard to try and get a new position in my area. I have a close co-worker who feels the same way I do about her. We text one another during our zoom meetings which does take some anxiety off of me there are 60 On some levels, but she is really the only one I trust

Being a different person. I'm hoping the vaccine will bring the pandemic to an end and I can move on to another school

how many schools are in your district

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since Yes! She is quick to divert blame away from herself and is not a good supporter of most teachers, except the ones she favors No, she is pretty petty about it. It was actually easier to deal with when we were in school because I could avoid her. But now we have mandatory meetings... I am definitely not one of her favorites 1 1/2 years and normally I would change schools but the pandemic has made that harder There's no way I would do that... it would make things even worse for me I have looked at other schools but it's hard to try and get a new position in my area. I have a close co-worker who feels the same way I do about her. We text one another during our zoom meetings which does take some anxiety off of me there are 60 On some levels, but she is really the only one I trust Being a different person. I'm hoping the vaccine will bring the pandemic to an end and I can move on to another school

Thanks for your advice. I think I should vent more it does help, even with a stranger.

Do u anticipate schools reopening soon

Do u anticipate schools reopening soon U r welcome. I hoped it helped to release stress.

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Hello I'm a bit stressed actually I don't like my job. My boss gave me the impression that she was a decent lady when I interviewed and was hired on, but now I know she is pretty awful. It makes me dread going to work. I'm female I'm a special education teacher and I'm talking about my principal Thank you, it's especially hard having to do remote teaching. No, it's not that she is strict. She is disrespectful and a bit of a narcissist Yes, working from home but that doesn't make it less stressful to work. I have to attend zoom meetings with her several times per week and she can pop into any of my classes randomly She does know that but we had a negative interaction once and she's been horrible ever since Yes! She is quick to divert blame away from herself and is not a good supporter of most teachers, except the ones she favors No, she is pretty petty about it. It was actually easier to deal with when we were in school because I could avoid her. But now we have mandatory meetings... I am definitely not one of her favorites 1 1/2 years and normally I would change schools but the pandemic has made that harder There's no way I would do that... it would make things even worse for me I have looked at other schools but it's hard to try and get a new position in my area. I have a close co-worker who feels the same way I do about her. We text one another during our zoom meetings which does take some anxiety off of me there are 60 On some levels, but she is really the only one I trust Being a different person. I'm hoping the vaccine will bring the pandemic to an end and I can move on to another school Thanks for your advice. I think I should vent more it does help, even with a stranger.

thanks!

U sound like a wonderful person. Don't let her get to you.

U sound like a wonderful person. Don't let her get to you. Be Blessed

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now.

Hi there! I am here to chat :) What is on your mind?

Hi there! I am here to chat :) What is on your mind? Hi there! I am here to chat :) What is on your mind?

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now.

My partner ran off with another woman and I simply cannot get over it. Why did he do this to me?

I'm so sorry to hear that, that is really rough. He sounds like a real jerk if you ask me!

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now. My partner ran off with another woman and I simply cannot get over it. Why did he do this to me?

I know he could be at times and he did have a roving eye but I loved him and I miss him a huge amount, despite everything.

I get that, it's hard to understand why the people close to us do bad things.

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now. My partner ran off with another woman and I simply cannot get over it. Why did he do this to me? I know he could be at times and he did have a roving eye but I loved him and I miss him a huge amount, despite everything.

I think the biggest problem is that I keep wondering what his new girlfriend is like and if she is prettier or cleverer than me. I do not know what I did wrong.

You did nothing wrong. It's something wrong with him, if he did this to you, he'll probably do it again to her. Do you really want to be with someone that disregards your well being like that?

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now. My partner ran off with another woman and I simply cannot get over it. Why did he do this to me? I know he could be at times and he did have a roving eye but I loved him and I miss him a huge amount, despite everything. I think the biggest problem is that I keep wondering what his new girlfriend is like and if she is prettier or cleverer than me. I do not know what I did wrong.

That is a very sensible way to look at things .. I do rationally realise that. Irrationally I just want him to come back to me and say that he made a mistake, though!

I understand, it's easy to get sucked back into the nostalgic good memories of when things were at their best

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now. My partner ran off with another woman and I simply cannot get over it. Why did he do this to me? I know he could be at times and he did have a roving eye but I loved him and I miss him a huge amount, despite everything. I think the biggest problem is that I keep wondering what his new girlfriend is like and if she is prettier or cleverer than me. I do not know what I did wrong. That is a very sensible way to look at things .. I do rationally realise that. Irrationally I just want him to come back to me and say that he made a mistake, though!

That's exactly it! I keep thinking of all the good times we had together and the things that we did before her met Her. I just want those times to come around again even though I know they should not.

It really sucks, doesn't it? And it's not a walk in the park to get over someone when you've been so close to them. Breakups are kind of like a bad cut. They really hurt for a bit, but then a scar eventually forms over it and you start to forget about it.

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now. My partner ran off with another woman and I simply cannot get over it. Why did he do this to me? I know he could be at times and he did have a roving eye but I loved him and I miss him a huge amount, despite everything. I think the biggest problem is that I keep wondering what his new girlfriend is like and if she is prettier or cleverer than me. I do not know what I did wrong. That is a very sensible way to look at things .. I do rationally realise that. Irrationally I just want him to come back to me and say that he made a mistake, though! That's exactly it! I keep thinking of all the good times we had together and the things that we did before her met Her. I just want those times to come around again even though I know they should not.

Thank you - you are really helping me to understand how I am feeling. I think that perhaps the scar never goes away but yes, hopefully it will not hurt anymore one day

Do you have a group of friends, or activities to keep you busy while you're going through this? It helps to keep your mind distracted :)

Do you have a group of friends, or activities to keep you busy while you're going through this? It helps to keep your mind distracted :) And you are so welcome! I've been through my share of breakups too, it's never fun!

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now. My partner ran off with another woman and I simply cannot get over it. Why did he do this to me? I know he could be at times and he did have a roving eye but I loved him and I miss him a huge amount, despite everything. I think the biggest problem is that I keep wondering what his new girlfriend is like and if she is prettier or cleverer than me. I do not know what I did wrong. That is a very sensible way to look at things .. I do rationally realise that. Irrationally I just want him to come back to me and say that he made a mistake, though! That's exactly it! I keep thinking of all the good times we had together and the things that we did before her met Her. I just want those times to come around again even though I know they should not. Thank you - you are really helping me to understand how I am feeling. I think that perhaps the scar never goes away but yes, hopefully it will not hurt anymore one day

I do have some good friends but we also had some mutual friends who have been a bit distant with me since the break up. I guess that I really don't need them though, huh?

Friends come and they go, it doesn't have to be a game of choosing sides. Keep in touch with those that keep in touch with you. Or maybe reach out to some other friends you haven't connected with in awhile.

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now. My partner ran off with another woman and I simply cannot get over it. Why did he do this to me? I know he could be at times and he did have a roving eye but I loved him and I miss him a huge amount, despite everything. I think the biggest problem is that I keep wondering what his new girlfriend is like and if she is prettier or cleverer than me. I do not know what I did wrong. That is a very sensible way to look at things .. I do rationally realise that. Irrationally I just want him to come back to me and say that he made a mistake, though! That's exactly it! I keep thinking of all the good times we had together and the things that we did before her met Her. I just want those times to come around again even though I know they should not. Thank you - you are really helping me to understand how I am feeling. I think that perhaps the scar never goes away but yes, hopefully it will not hurt anymore one day I do have some good friends but we also had some mutual friends who have been a bit distant with me since the break up. I guess that I really don't need them though, huh?

That is good advice too. Or maybe I could do something to help me make new friends? Do you have any suggestions?

Totally! It helps to get into group activities, like hiking to going to the gym, or a book club.

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Hi there, I really need someone to talk to right now. My partner ran off with another woman and I simply cannot get over it. Why did he do this to me? I know he could be at times and he did have a roving eye but I loved him and I miss him a huge amount, despite everything. I think the biggest problem is that I keep wondering what his new girlfriend is like and if she is prettier or cleverer than me. I do not know what I did wrong. That is a very sensible way to look at things .. I do rationally realise that. Irrationally I just want him to come back to me and say that he made a mistake, though! That's exactly it! I keep thinking of all the good times we had together and the things that we did before her met Her. I just want those times to come around again even though I know they should not. Thank you - you are really helping me to understand how I am feeling. I think that perhaps the scar never goes away but yes, hopefully it will not hurt anymore one day I do have some good friends but we also had some mutual friends who have been a bit distant with me since the break up. I guess that I really don't need them though, huh? That is good advice too. Or maybe I could do something to help me make new friends? Do you have any suggestions?

I do love to read - I think that I will totally look into joining a book club. I would really like to meet new people, not to date specifically but just to be friends. Thank you so very much for having talked to me - I do feel a good deal more positive now. I know that there is a long way to go but I think that I can see the light now.

You are welcome! I hope you feel better and have a great night!

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really?

Hello! I'm doing well. How are you?

Hello! I'm doing well. How are you? I'll try to help in any way that I can. What seems to be troubling you?

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really?

I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney

Oh, dear. I'm so sorry to hear that.

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really? I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney

Spreading picture of mine in social media

Did you get your credit cards canceled once you found out what he had done?

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really? I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney Spreading picture of mine in social media

Yeah I did that but we had relationship of three years , we shared everything with each other. but he cheats me

It sounds like the two of you had problems for awhile before the breakup.

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really? I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney Spreading picture of mine in social media Yeah I did that but we had relationship of three years , we shared everything with each other. but he cheats me

He is threatening me he would post the nude picture of mine in social media.

If he makes that threat again, you might wish to inform him that "revenge porn" is a crime these days. If he knows that you might to go to the authorities, that might get him to leave you alone.

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My three years relationship ended last week , he betrayed me he had another affair , we discussed and break up . He misused my credit card he took my all money. he spreading fake news about me in social media.

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really? I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney Spreading picture of mine in social media Yeah I did that but we had relationship of three years , we shared everything with each other. but he cheats me He is threatening me he would post the nude picture of mine in social media.

thank you very for your care and concern , sure I will reply him as you said.

You seem like a very nice person. And his behavior is very toxic, to say the least. I know that things are hard right now, but things will get better. And you deserve to be with someone who will treat you with kindness and respect.

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really? I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney Spreading picture of mine in social media Yeah I did that but we had relationship of three years , we shared everything with each other. but he cheats me He is threatening me he would post the nude picture of mine in social media. thank you very for your care and concern , sure I will reply him as you said.

I lost my all saving and now I am jobless both make me mentally disturbed , I feel life meaningless and don't want to live in this world.

Try not to lose hope. It's hard out there, particularly with what the pandemic has done to the economy. But from what I've read today, more stimulus from the government is on the way, so that should help some.

Try not to lose hope. It's hard out there, particularly with what the pandemic has done to the economy. But from what I've read today, more stimulus from the government is on the way, so that should help some. Do you have anyone that you can talk to about what you're going through?

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My three years relationship ended last week , he betrayed me he had another affair , we discussed and break up . He misused my credit card he took my all money. he spreading fake news about me in social media.

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really? I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney Spreading picture of mine in social media Yeah I did that but we had relationship of three years , we shared everything with each other. but he cheats me He is threatening me he would post the nude picture of mine in social media. thank you very for your care and concern , sure I will reply him as you said. I lost my all saving and now I am jobless both make me mentally disturbed , I feel life meaningless and don't want to live in this world.

He had an affair but he spreading is fake news about me that I cheated him. I ashamed about myself and I can't able to mingle with my friends and family.

Don't let him make you feel ashamed. You've done nothing to warrant such a feeling. Maybe you should find someone outside of your social group to speak to.

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My three years relationship ended last week , he betrayed me he had another affair , we discussed and break up . He misused my credit card he took my all money. he spreading fake news about me in social media.

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really? I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney Spreading picture of mine in social media Yeah I did that but we had relationship of three years , we shared everything with each other. but he cheats me He is threatening me he would post the nude picture of mine in social media. thank you very for your care and concern , sure I will reply him as you said. I lost my all saving and now I am jobless both make me mentally disturbed , I feel life meaningless and don't want to live in this world. He had an affair but he spreading is fake news about me that I cheated him. I ashamed about myself and I can't able to mingle with my friends and family.

I can't able to face the all consequence all together, I need peace , where I could find?

There are places you can go to speak to people. Charitable organizations, clergy if you are religious, and call centers. Perhaps you could find one of those organizations locally to help you through this. Also, since they would be local, they might have more information about legal remedies you could pursue. Some of your ex's behavior sounds criminal...

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really? I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney Spreading picture of mine in social media Yeah I did that but we had relationship of three years , we shared everything with each other. but he cheats me He is threatening me he would post the nude picture of mine in social media. thank you very for your care and concern , sure I will reply him as you said. I lost my all saving and now I am jobless both make me mentally disturbed , I feel life meaningless and don't want to live in this world. He had an affair but he spreading is fake news about me that I cheated him. I ashamed about myself and I can't able to mingle with my friends and family. I can't able to face the all consequence all together, I need peace , where I could find?

People like you and your words touched my soul , thank you very much for your support and advice.

I glad I could be of some help. Just remember, you are a good and worthwhile person. You will come through this. I believe in you.

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hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really? I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney Spreading picture of mine in social media Yeah I did that but we had relationship of three years , we shared everything with each other. but he cheats me He is threatening me he would post the nude picture of mine in social media. thank you very for your care and concern , sure I will reply him as you said. I lost my all saving and now I am jobless both make me mentally disturbed , I feel life meaningless and don't want to live in this world. He had an affair but he spreading is fake news about me that I cheated him. I ashamed about myself and I can't able to mingle with my friends and family. I can't able to face the all consequence all together, I need peace , where I could find? People like you and your words touched my soul , thank you very much for your support and advice.

Yes I feel I am positively boosted up , thanks a lot for the kindness.

You are welcome. I hope you have a pleasant day, and many more going forward.

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Hi! How are you this evening?

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pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump

Sorry to hear that. How long have you been in a slump?

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hello pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump

Quite a while, of course it really got worse once the pandemic hit I am in a pretty bad marriage he is not supportive in any way. It's getting worse instead of better. I suppose I used to be able to distract myself with the outside world and right now I cant

I can understand that. It's been hard on a lot of people. Sometimes marriages need a bit of help during tough times, have you considered a counselor?

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hello pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump Quite a while, of course it really got worse once the pandemic hit I am in a pretty bad marriage he is not supportive in any way. It's getting worse instead of better. I suppose I used to be able to distract myself with the outside world and right now I cant

I have tried, he won't go again. We have before and it didn't really help. He argued with her

My husband and I have gone a few times and it really helped having an objective person give us a few tips. We learned a lot even in just a few short months. We set goals, achieved them and then years passed and went again.

My husband and I have gone a few times and it really helped having an objective person give us a few tips. We learned a lot even in just a few short months. We set goals, achieved them and then years passed and went again. That's too bad that he won't go again. I would still go for yourself. I have gone by myself because I needed extra help. And it's hard to deal with someone who doesn't want to grow and change.

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hello pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump Quite a while, of course it really got worse once the pandemic hit I am in a pretty bad marriage he is not supportive in any way. It's getting worse instead of better. I suppose I used to be able to distract myself with the outside world and right now I cant I have tried, he won't go again. We have before and it didn't really help. He argued with her

I am happy it worked for you :) I just dont see it working with us. Hes pretty stubborn. I also struggle with a severe auto immune disorder so that is always weighing on me as well

I had an auto immune disorder too, actually, the counseling helped that a lot. Emotions have a way of wreaking havoc on our bodies. And it sounds like life has been stressful for you lately.

I had an auto immune disorder too, actually, the counseling helped that a lot. Emotions have a way of wreaking havoc on our bodies. And it sounds like life has been stressful for you lately. Having a physical problem is really hard to deal with in addition to problems in marriage. Do you have any goals set?

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hello pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump Quite a while, of course it really got worse once the pandemic hit I am in a pretty bad marriage he is not supportive in any way. It's getting worse instead of better. I suppose I used to be able to distract myself with the outside world and right now I cant I have tried, he won't go again. We have before and it didn't really help. He argued with her I am happy it worked for you :) I just dont see it working with us. Hes pretty stubborn. I also struggle with a severe auto immune disorder so that is always weighing on me as well

Yes, stress is terrible for chronic illness. I had goals to get back in check with myself, I've been worried about everyone else for so long and not really about me. The pandemic haulted a lot of that. I used to take rides and go out and enjoy nature or something simple by myself to rejuvinate but it's harder now being worried to be around people. I also have an 8 and 1 year old. While they are my world, it's taxing having littles depend on you 24/7 without a breather :)

It sounds like you have a full plate with the little one. I know a lot of people are fearful now, but rest assured, children are really resilient to disease. The CDC has not even one record of a healthy child dying. Can you still go to the park and let them run and play? I think it's healthier to be around people then to isolate. That's my personal observation. It's really taking a toll on all of us emotionally to be distant.

It sounds like you have a full plate with the little one. I know a lot of people are fearful now, but rest assured, children are really resilient to disease. The CDC has not even one record of a healthy child dying. Can you still go to the park and let them run and play? I think it's healthier to be around people then to isolate. That's my personal observation. It's really taking a toll on all of us emotionally to be distant. little ones . . .

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hello pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump Quite a while, of course it really got worse once the pandemic hit I am in a pretty bad marriage he is not supportive in any way. It's getting worse instead of better. I suppose I used to be able to distract myself with the outside world and right now I cant I have tried, he won't go again. We have before and it didn't really help. He argued with her I am happy it worked for you :) I just dont see it working with us. Hes pretty stubborn. I also struggle with a severe auto immune disorder so that is always weighing on me as well Yes, stress is terrible for chronic illness. I had goals to get back in check with myself, I've been worried about everyone else for so long and not really about me. The pandemic haulted a lot of that. I used to take rides and go out and enjoy nature or something simple by myself to rejuvinate but it's harder now being worried to be around people. I also have an 8 and 1 year old. While they are my world, it's taxing having littles depend on you 24/7 without a breather :)

For a few months I eased up and let them play at the park, but we live in MI which is having another huge spike, especially our county. Thank goodness we have a pretty large yard for them to run and play in but I also know its not the same

One thing that comes to mind about your marriage is how I continued to work on myself, and surprisingly, some of the changes I made in myself helped my husband change. For example. I realized I didn't speak respectfully to him all the time. So I changed my tone. Sometimes I didn't FEEL respectful, but I read this book explaining how men really need that. So I changed me. And you know what, he really responded well to that. Became more kind and loving. I prayed a lot and that is one thing God showed me. I read a few books on what men were like and how I could help my marriage. My husband often oblivious, but when I worked on me and doing things that men like, he actually became a better man. Hard to explain.

One thing that comes to mind about your marriage is how I continued to work on myself, and surprisingly, some of the changes I made in myself helped my husband change. For example. I realized I didn't speak respectfully to him all the time. So I changed my tone. Sometimes I didn't FEEL respectful, but I read this book explaining how men really need that. So I changed me. And you know what, he really responded well to that. Became more kind and loving. I prayed a lot and that is one thing God showed me. I read a few books on what men were like and how I could help my marriage. My husband often oblivious, but when I worked on me and doing things that men like, he actually became a better man. Hard to explain. I would encourage you to write out some goals and things you want to change about yourself, ideas for you and your children to do. And fight the blues as hard as you can. I find that if I have a list of things I need to do, I can follow that even when I don't feel like it, and sometimes I get out of the slump.

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hello pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump Quite a while, of course it really got worse once the pandemic hit I am in a pretty bad marriage he is not supportive in any way. It's getting worse instead of better. I suppose I used to be able to distract myself with the outside world and right now I cant I have tried, he won't go again. We have before and it didn't really help. He argued with her I am happy it worked for you :) I just dont see it working with us. Hes pretty stubborn. I also struggle with a severe auto immune disorder so that is always weighing on me as well Yes, stress is terrible for chronic illness. I had goals to get back in check with myself, I've been worried about everyone else for so long and not really about me. The pandemic haulted a lot of that. I used to take rides and go out and enjoy nature or something simple by myself to rejuvinate but it's harder now being worried to be around people. I also have an 8 and 1 year old. While they are my world, it's taxing having littles depend on you 24/7 without a breather :) For a few months I eased up and let them play at the park, but we live in MI which is having another huge spike, especially our county. Thank goodness we have a pretty large yard for them to run and play in but I also know its not the same

It makes total sense. I have tried to do some research and yes work on myself as well. I have done a ton of praying. I do need to make new goals. They help me stay on track, thats for sure. Of course now that I'm home schooling my oldest I'm tearing my hair out there as welll. lol! I always had a huge amount of respect for teachers, but wow!

It sounds like you do know good things to do, and that sometimes you need that encouragement and and support. Do you have friends maybe to check in with? Just to chat. I have been doing that myself. Just phoning people to connect. It has helped so much. Just to say hi and share my life.

It sounds like you do know good things to do, and that sometimes you need that encouragement and and support. Do you have friends maybe to check in with? Just to chat. I have been doing that myself. Just phoning people to connect. It has helped so much. Just to say hi and share my life. Life has a way of handing us curveballs. It upsets us then we don't know what to do, we fall down and get in a slump. And I find that writing lists, making goals, calling friends, doing things differently, brainstorming solutions can help me get back on track.

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hello pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump Quite a while, of course it really got worse once the pandemic hit I am in a pretty bad marriage he is not supportive in any way. It's getting worse instead of better. I suppose I used to be able to distract myself with the outside world and right now I cant I have tried, he won't go again. We have before and it didn't really help. He argued with her I am happy it worked for you :) I just dont see it working with us. Hes pretty stubborn. I also struggle with a severe auto immune disorder so that is always weighing on me as well Yes, stress is terrible for chronic illness. I had goals to get back in check with myself, I've been worried about everyone else for so long and not really about me. The pandemic haulted a lot of that. I used to take rides and go out and enjoy nature or something simple by myself to rejuvinate but it's harder now being worried to be around people. I also have an 8 and 1 year old. While they are my world, it's taxing having littles depend on you 24/7 without a breather :) For a few months I eased up and let them play at the park, but we live in MI which is having another huge spike, especially our county. Thank goodness we have a pretty large yard for them to run and play in but I also know its not the same It makes total sense. I have tried to do some research and yes work on myself as well. I have done a ton of praying. I do need to make new goals. They help me stay on track, thats for sure. Of course now that I'm home schooling my oldest I'm tearing my hair out there as welll. lol! I always had a huge amount of respect for teachers, but wow!

I need to do that more! When my maternal grandma passed away in 2013 I kind of fell away from just calling people up. She was my go to person to call, always. She and my grandpa raised me and its been hard to pick up a phone knowing I cannot call her. Sounds weird I know

It is NOT weird. I'm like a granma to you! hahaha I'm almost 60. We need people in our lives, older, younger, all ages. We all learn from each other. Perhaps call and aunt and check in with them. Sometimes it makes us feel better to reach out and encourage others.

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hello pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump Quite a while, of course it really got worse once the pandemic hit I am in a pretty bad marriage he is not supportive in any way. It's getting worse instead of better. I suppose I used to be able to distract myself with the outside world and right now I cant I have tried, he won't go again. We have before and it didn't really help. He argued with her I am happy it worked for you :) I just dont see it working with us. Hes pretty stubborn. I also struggle with a severe auto immune disorder so that is always weighing on me as well Yes, stress is terrible for chronic illness. I had goals to get back in check with myself, I've been worried about everyone else for so long and not really about me. The pandemic haulted a lot of that. I used to take rides and go out and enjoy nature or something simple by myself to rejuvinate but it's harder now being worried to be around people. I also have an 8 and 1 year old. While they are my world, it's taxing having littles depend on you 24/7 without a breather :) For a few months I eased up and let them play at the park, but we live in MI which is having another huge spike, especially our county. Thank goodness we have a pretty large yard for them to run and play in but I also know its not the same It makes total sense. I have tried to do some research and yes work on myself as well. I have done a ton of praying. I do need to make new goals. They help me stay on track, thats for sure. Of course now that I'm home schooling my oldest I'm tearing my hair out there as welll. lol! I always had a huge amount of respect for teachers, but wow! I need to do that more! When my maternal grandma passed away in 2013 I kind of fell away from just calling people up. She was my go to person to call, always. She and my grandpa raised me and its been hard to pick up a phone knowing I cannot call her. Sounds weird I know

I will try to do this more, for sure! Thank you for this conversation, I feel like it has helped me remember the things I can do to start working on myself again!

As for your son and homeschooling, I'm sure you are challenged but think of this as a great opportunity. Perhaps teach him to cook? Make games up that are learning games about how to care for a home, perhaps repair things, all kinds of ideas. Perhaps have him test you on things.

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hello pretty depressed all in all. I dont know how to get out of this slump Quite a while, of course it really got worse once the pandemic hit I am in a pretty bad marriage he is not supportive in any way. It's getting worse instead of better. I suppose I used to be able to distract myself with the outside world and right now I cant I have tried, he won't go again. We have before and it didn't really help. He argued with her I am happy it worked for you :) I just dont see it working with us. Hes pretty stubborn. I also struggle with a severe auto immune disorder so that is always weighing on me as well Yes, stress is terrible for chronic illness. I had goals to get back in check with myself, I've been worried about everyone else for so long and not really about me. The pandemic haulted a lot of that. I used to take rides and go out and enjoy nature or something simple by myself to rejuvinate but it's harder now being worried to be around people. I also have an 8 and 1 year old. While they are my world, it's taxing having littles depend on you 24/7 without a breather :) For a few months I eased up and let them play at the park, but we live in MI which is having another huge spike, especially our county. Thank goodness we have a pretty large yard for them to run and play in but I also know its not the same It makes total sense. I have tried to do some research and yes work on myself as well. I have done a ton of praying. I do need to make new goals. They help me stay on track, thats for sure. Of course now that I'm home schooling my oldest I'm tearing my hair out there as welll. lol! I always had a huge amount of respect for teachers, but wow! I need to do that more! When my maternal grandma passed away in 2013 I kind of fell away from just calling people up. She was my go to person to call, always. She and my grandpa raised me and its been hard to pick up a phone knowing I cannot call her. Sounds weird I know I will try to do this more, for sure! Thank you for this conversation, I feel like it has helped me remember the things I can do to start working on myself again!

Sounds like a plan for sure :) I will do this, he would really enjoy it!

I'm glad I could encourage you. You sound very intelligent and caring. Marriage is hard work, so is motherhood, but it can be rewarding and fulfilling. Sometimes we lose track of that and we need ideas to perk us up again and help us remember our goals.

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How are you today

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You need to chat or is there an issue I an help you with?

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Ok. What do you want to chat about

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I am not sure

No you are uncertain about the chatting, what can we chat about

No you are uncertain about the chatting, what can we chat about Sometimes it helps to just talk.

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Hello I am ok. Could be better Chat would be ok I am not sure

I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house

Cold as in the bug or weather

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Hello I am ok. Could be better Chat would be ok I am not sure I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house

Sick. But the weather is also cold

I am in a southern state and it is chilly.

I am in a southern state and it is chilly. Where about are you from

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Hello I am ok. Could be better Chat would be ok I am not sure I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house Sick. But the weather is also cold

Northeast Ohio so it tends to be cold and gross up here

I can imagine especially with the storm hitting

I can imagine especially with the storm hitting I am in Georgia and the air is chilly

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Hello I am ok. Could be better Chat would be ok I am not sure I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house Sick. But the weather is also cold Northeast Ohio so it tends to be cold and gross up here

I'm definitely not prepared for the storm. It can be so hit or miss what they actually bring

Are you in the path of the storm

Are you in the path of the storm At least you are away from the east coast. They are going to get hit hard.

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Hello I am ok. Could be better Chat would be ok I am not sure I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house Sick. But the weather is also cold Northeast Ohio so it tends to be cold and gross up here I'm definitely not prepared for the storm. It can be so hit or miss what they actually bring

I am but I dont think it is supposed to be as bad by us. We are on the edge of it I think New York is supposed to get like two feet of snow

How much snow do you normally receive

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Hello I am ok. Could be better Chat would be ok I am not sure I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house Sick. But the weather is also cold Northeast Ohio so it tends to be cold and gross up here I'm definitely not prepared for the storm. It can be so hit or miss what they actually bring I am but I dont think it is supposed to be as bad by us. We are on the edge of it I think New York is supposed to get like two feet of snow

Normally when we get a storm it's only about 3-6 inches. I work further north though and it can get pretty bad sometimes

The direction shows heading towards New England and east coast. Ohio does not seem to be in the path.

The direction shows heading towards New England and east coast. Ohio does not seem to be in the path. Are you close to the lake

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Hello I am ok. Could be better Chat would be ok I am not sure I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house Sick. But the weather is also cold Northeast Ohio so it tends to be cold and gross up here I'm definitely not prepared for the storm. It can be so hit or miss what they actually bring I am but I dont think it is supposed to be as bad by us. We are on the edge of it I think New York is supposed to get like two feet of snow Normally when we get a storm it's only about 3-6 inches. I work further north though and it can get pretty bad sometimes

It may have changed since I checked. They said we were going to get a bit of it. I'm about an hour from the lake but for work we have stations in Cleveland, Geneva, and Ashtabula that are on the lake and it gets crazy

The northern part is near Erie

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Hello I am ok. Could be better Chat would be ok I am not sure I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house Sick. But the weather is also cold Northeast Ohio so it tends to be cold and gross up here I'm definitely not prepared for the storm. It can be so hit or miss what they actually bring I am but I dont think it is supposed to be as bad by us. We are on the edge of it I think New York is supposed to get like two feet of snow Normally when we get a storm it's only about 3-6 inches. I work further north though and it can get pretty bad sometimes It may have changed since I checked. They said we were going to get a bit of it. I'm about an hour from the lake but for work we have stations in Cleveland, Geneva, and Ashtabula that are on the lake and it gets crazy

Yep and it gets the lake effect snow and sometimes there isn't even a storm. Just if it is windy and cold

The lake effect snow is harder than the regular snow at times,

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Hello I am ok. Could be better Chat would be ok I am not sure I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house Sick. But the weather is also cold Northeast Ohio so it tends to be cold and gross up here I'm definitely not prepared for the storm. It can be so hit or miss what they actually bring I am but I dont think it is supposed to be as bad by us. We are on the edge of it I think New York is supposed to get like two feet of snow Normally when we get a storm it's only about 3-6 inches. I work further north though and it can get pretty bad sometimes It may have changed since I checked. They said we were going to get a bit of it. I'm about an hour from the lake but for work we have stations in Cleveland, Geneva, and Ashtabula that are on the lake and it gets crazy Yep and it gets the lake effect snow and sometimes there isn't even a storm. Just if it is windy and cold

It can be so sudden that its hard to keep up with and the roads are a mess

I am from upstate New York and it can get nasty when it comes across the lakes

I am from upstate New York and it can get nasty when it comes across the lakes Buffalo can get a foot of snow in an hour so can other areas east of Lake Erie

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night.

hello how are you?

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night.

doing well. hope you are.

thanks I'm fine , can you explain why you can't sleep

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are.

Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day.

try to make yourself relax and then try to sleep. don't think about next day

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day.

That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head.

did you ever try yoga?

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head.

I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down

try to read something boring novel it will help you in sleep

try to read something boring novel it will help you in sleep before sleeping

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down

Should I read fiction or nonfiction

I think nonfiction

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down Should I read fiction or nonfiction

Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start?

because same thing happen with me and i try it help me a lot

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down Should I read fiction or nonfiction Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start?

Ok I will try reading. If it doesnt help, what else should I try?

which topic is boring for you chose that one

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down Should I read fiction or nonfiction Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start? Ok I will try reading. If it doesnt help, what else should I try?

that's a good idea what is another option to help me fall asleep

try to go for running out side and make yourself busy in gym

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down Should I read fiction or nonfiction Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start? Ok I will try reading. If it doesnt help, what else should I try? that's a good idea what is another option to help me fall asleep

Getting more exerices is always a good idea. Maybe it would help clear my mind.

make yourself busy in other activity it will help you

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down Should I read fiction or nonfiction Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start? Ok I will try reading. If it doesnt help, what else should I try? that's a good idea what is another option to help me fall asleep Getting more exerices is always a good idea. Maybe it would help clear my mind.

Do you have any hobbies you suggest?

yes i like reading ,music , play games

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down Should I read fiction or nonfiction Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start? Ok I will try reading. If it doesnt help, what else should I try? that's a good idea what is another option to help me fall asleep Getting more exerices is always a good idea. Maybe it would help clear my mind. Do you have any hobbies you suggest?

What are your favorite games to try

what is your hobbies?

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down Should I read fiction or nonfiction Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start? Ok I will try reading. If it doesnt help, what else should I try? that's a good idea what is another option to help me fall asleep Getting more exerices is always a good idea. Maybe it would help clear my mind. Do you have any hobbies you suggest? What are your favorite games to try

I enjoy reading and doing crafts. I would like to add something new to help

i like to pay fortnight

i like to pay fortnight that's good

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down Should I read fiction or nonfiction Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start? Ok I will try reading. If it doesnt help, what else should I try? that's a good idea what is another option to help me fall asleep Getting more exerices is always a good idea. Maybe it would help clear my mind. Do you have any hobbies you suggest? What are your favorite games to try I enjoy reading and doing crafts. I would like to add something new to help

I do like video games Thank you for your help today

which one you like?

which one you like? Your welcome

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Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night. doing well. hope you are. Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day. That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head. I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down Should I read fiction or nonfiction Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start? Ok I will try reading. If it doesnt help, what else should I try? that's a good idea what is another option to help me fall asleep Getting more exerices is always a good idea. Maybe it would help clear my mind. Do you have any hobbies you suggest? What are your favorite games to try I enjoy reading and doing crafts. I would like to add something new to help I do like video games Thank you for your help today

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation.

what happened? can you describe it briefly so that i can understand?

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation.

i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult .

i think you really loved him and find it difficult to handle the situation. am i right?

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult .

yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation.

that's really hard. sounds like you are really stressed.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation.

yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion.

from what i have seen, you should divert your attention on something that you love the most. it will help you to overcome from this situation.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation. yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion.

yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that

just think about the things that makes you happy and try to spend more time on yourself. i this this will help you to do better.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation. yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion. yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that

i have to think about the happy moments.

yes. that is the best thing to do

yes. that is the best thing to do you are more important to you than anyone.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation. yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion. yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that i have to think about the happy moments.

yes it is right thing. yes i feel that.

hope you will feel better soon.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation. yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion. yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that i have to think about the happy moments. yes it is right thing. yes i feel that.

yes i feel that i will recover soon from the suitation

happy to hear that you are positive.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation. yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion. yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that i have to think about the happy moments. yes it is right thing. yes i feel that i will recover soon from the suitation

yes i feel that.

anything else you want to talk about?

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breakup with partner makes me to feel very bad and sad in the suitation.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation. yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion. yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that i have to think about the happy moments. yes it is right thing. yes i feel that. yes i feel that i will recover soon from the suitation yes i feel that.

nothing else is there.

have a happy day then.

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breakup with partner makes me to feel very bad and sad in the suitation.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation. yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion. yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that i have to think about the happy moments. yes it is right thing. yes i feel that. yes i feel that i will recover soon from the suitation yes i feel that. nothing else is there.

ok bye

bye

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breakup with partner makes me to feel very bad and sad in the suitation.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation. yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion. yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that i have to think about the happy moments. yes it is right thing. yes i feel that. yes i feel that i will recover soon from the suitation yes i feel that. nothing else is there. ok

bye

then just finish the convo

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breakup with partner makes me to feel very bad and sad in the suitation.

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i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation. i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult . yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation. yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion. yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that i have to think about the happy moments. yes it is right thing. yes i feel that. yes i feel that i will recover soon from the suitation yes i feel that. nothing else is there. ok bye bye

k i will finish it

thanks

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Good you?

I am well!

I am well! How can I help you today?

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Good you?

I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian

I am so sorry to hear that this has been going on.

I am so sorry to hear that this has been going on. How recently did the divorce take place?

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Recently divorced my husband of eight years after finding out he married another women overseas.

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Good you? I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian

two months ago

So you have children together and want to disconnect but that is a complicating factor?

So you have children together and want to disconnect but that is a complicating factor? It must be so tough to be going through what you are going through now, I am so sorry.

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Good you? I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian two months ago

Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends

Have you spoken to a professional? Is this something that you are able to do through your insurance or work?

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Good you? I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian two months ago Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends

I'm to embarassed to seek professional help I think i need time to control my emotions first

I completely understand. I have been in situations at work that I couldn't resolve due to the exact same reasons.

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Good you? I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian two months ago Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends I'm to embarassed to seek professional help I think i need time to control my emotions first

Thanks for understanding

Is there a way that you could seek help at work without anyone finding out?

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Recently divorced my husband of eight years after finding out he married another women overseas.

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Good you? I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian two months ago Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends I'm to embarassed to seek professional help I think i need time to control my emotions first Thanks for understanding

I might be, but I'm not really close with any coworkers. I work primarily remote and when I entered my current job COVID happened and I didnt really get the chance to get to know anyone all that well

Sometimes someone looking in from the outside can see things in a way that you might not be able to see since you are in the middle of the situation. I know that this has happened to me.

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Good you? I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian two months ago Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends I'm to embarassed to seek professional help I think i need time to control my emotions first Thanks for understanding I might be, but I'm not really close with any coworkers. I work primarily remote and when I entered my current job COVID happened and I didnt really get the chance to get to know anyone all that well

Thanks for your input It was a nice chatting with you today

Through work you may be able to speak to a professional counselor or therapist while just having a small co-pay.

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Recently divorced my husband of eight years after finding out he married another women overseas.

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Good you? I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian two months ago Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends I'm to embarassed to seek professional help I think i need time to control my emotions first Thanks for understanding I might be, but I'm not really close with any coworkers. I work primarily remote and when I entered my current job COVID happened and I didnt really get the chance to get to know anyone all that well Thanks for your input It was a nice chatting with you today

have a nice day

Have a nice day as well, I hope that you can get your issues resolved.

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