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Hi, I'm having trouble with this distance learning. It seems more difficult than in-class learning. Most of my teachers just post lessons on the classroom website, and there's not a lot of guided instruction. My grades are slipping. I'm used to getting mostly A's, and now I'm mainly making Cs. It has me really anxious. Yes, I'm so tired of it! I never thought I'd say this, but I'm ready to go back to school! We aren't doing in-class learning. My mom is high-risk so I'm not attending to minimize possible exposure. The option is there, but if you can't because of health reasons, they let you stay home and do online learning all week. For my mom's sake, that's what I'm doing. Hopefully she can get the vaccine soon. She's afraid of it because it's new, but she knows she has to get it. She's been talking to her doctor about setting up an appointment. I've heard the second dose can make you feel pretty gross, so that's what I'm worried about. I hope it doesn't affect her too bad.

Oh that's great! Does it hurt? I know I should get it eventually but I'm low on the priority list cuz I'm healthy. But I'm afraid to get it because I'm terrified of needles lol Thank you, you're too kind

Not at all. It is very easy. Easier than flu shot

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Distance learning is difficult. I'm having trouble with school and my grades seem to be dropping.

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Hi, I'm having trouble with this distance learning. It seems more difficult than in-class learning. Most of my teachers just post lessons on the classroom website, and there's not a lot of guided instruction. My grades are slipping. I'm used to getting mostly A's, and now I'm mainly making Cs. It has me really anxious. Yes, I'm so tired of it! I never thought I'd say this, but I'm ready to go back to school! We aren't doing in-class learning. My mom is high-risk so I'm not attending to minimize possible exposure. The option is there, but if you can't because of health reasons, they let you stay home and do online learning all week. For my mom's sake, that's what I'm doing. Hopefully she can get the vaccine soon. She's afraid of it because it's new, but she knows she has to get it. She's been talking to her doctor about setting up an appointment. I've heard the second dose can make you feel pretty gross, so that's what I'm worried about. I hope it doesn't affect her too bad. Oh that's great! Does it hurt? I know I should get it eventually but I'm low on the priority list cuz I'm healthy. But I'm afraid to get it because I'm terrified of needles lol Thank you, you're too kind

Oh, good. That does make me feel better. Thank you for that.

Your welcome

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Distance learning is difficult. I'm having trouble with school and my grades seem to be dropping.

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Hi, I'm having trouble with this distance learning. It seems more difficult than in-class learning. Most of my teachers just post lessons on the classroom website, and there's not a lot of guided instruction. My grades are slipping. I'm used to getting mostly A's, and now I'm mainly making Cs. It has me really anxious. Yes, I'm so tired of it! I never thought I'd say this, but I'm ready to go back to school! We aren't doing in-class learning. My mom is high-risk so I'm not attending to minimize possible exposure. The option is there, but if you can't because of health reasons, they let you stay home and do online learning all week. For my mom's sake, that's what I'm doing. Hopefully she can get the vaccine soon. She's afraid of it because it's new, but she knows she has to get it. She's been talking to her doctor about setting up an appointment. I've heard the second dose can make you feel pretty gross, so that's what I'm worried about. I hope it doesn't affect her too bad. Oh that's great! Does it hurt? I know I should get it eventually but I'm low on the priority list cuz I'm healthy. But I'm afraid to get it because I'm terrified of needles lol Thank you, you're too kind Oh, good. That does make me feel better. Thank you for that.

I hope once she's able to be vaccinated, I'll be able to get back in the classroom for learning. Then maybe my grades will improve Covid has had me very anxious the past year. School hasn't been as easy as it used to be, and I've been worried about my mom getting it.

Definitely. I am assuring you will be fine very soon.

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Distance learning is difficult. I'm having trouble with school and my grades seem to be dropping.

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Hi, I'm having trouble with this distance learning. It seems more difficult than in-class learning. Most of my teachers just post lessons on the classroom website, and there's not a lot of guided instruction. My grades are slipping. I'm used to getting mostly A's, and now I'm mainly making Cs. It has me really anxious. Yes, I'm so tired of it! I never thought I'd say this, but I'm ready to go back to school! We aren't doing in-class learning. My mom is high-risk so I'm not attending to minimize possible exposure. The option is there, but if you can't because of health reasons, they let you stay home and do online learning all week. For my mom's sake, that's what I'm doing. Hopefully she can get the vaccine soon. She's afraid of it because it's new, but she knows she has to get it. She's been talking to her doctor about setting up an appointment. I've heard the second dose can make you feel pretty gross, so that's what I'm worried about. I hope it doesn't affect her too bad. Oh that's great! Does it hurt? I know I should get it eventually but I'm low on the priority list cuz I'm healthy. But I'm afraid to get it because I'm terrified of needles lol Thank you, you're too kind Oh, good. That does make me feel better. Thank you for that. I hope once she's able to be vaccinated, I'll be able to get back in the classroom for learning. Then maybe my grades will improve Covid has had me very anxious the past year. School hasn't been as easy as it used to be, and I've been worried about my mom getting it.

Thank you for saying that. This has made me feel much better.

Good luck

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Good evening, how are you?

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They want me to work on a project with them. I agreed to it. Wondering how it will go.

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I'm good

What can I help you out with tonight?

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They want me to work on a project with them. I agreed to it. Wondering how it will go.

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hi I'm good

I'm a little nervous about accepting the project from my friend

That sounds like a complicated situation

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hi I'm good I'm a little nervous about accepting the project from my friend

it is

Is the project something you will become responsible for?

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hi I'm good I'm a little nervous about accepting the project from my friend it is

to a degree

Is that a responsibility you want to have, or is it a burden that is being thrust upon you?

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hi I'm good I'm a little nervous about accepting the project from my friend it is to a degree

both

Well, I think if it's truly a responsibility you want, you will work to live up to it as best you can.

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hi I'm good I'm a little nervous about accepting the project from my friend it is to a degree both

I will. It's the best thing for me to do at the moment. I'm very much needed

That's excellent, not many people can say that! It's starting to sound more and more like an opportunity for you to prove yourself :-)

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They want me to work on a project with them. I agreed to it. Wondering how it will go.

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hi I'm good I'm a little nervous about accepting the project from my friend it is to a degree both I will. It's the best thing for me to do at the moment. I'm very much needed

It will be to say the least. I might have to deal with people I don't like and who don't like me

That's an unfortunate part of most group projects, I hate to say. Interpersonal communication can be so hard. I have been a project manager in the past, and found that you have to consider Person XYZ did not wake up in the morning and decide to make your life harder.

That's an unfortunate part of most group projects, I hate to say. Interpersonal communication can be so hard. I have been a project manager in the past, and found that you have to consider Person XYZ did not wake up in the morning and decide to make your life harder. And as long as you can keep things polite and professional, everyone gets to go home separately, thankfully! Haha

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hi I'm good I'm a little nervous about accepting the project from my friend it is to a degree both I will. It's the best thing for me to do at the moment. I'm very much needed It will be to say the least. I might have to deal with people I don't like and who don't like me

That's a good point! lol

Foster the people around you that can provide you support, be a reliable producer and leader, and you will find that those that don't like you will move on. And, most importantly, you can only control how you respond/behave. If someone wants to instigate conflict, that will reflect poorly upon them.

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hi I'm good I'm a little nervous about accepting the project from my friend it is to a degree both I will. It's the best thing for me to do at the moment. I'm very much needed It will be to say the least. I might have to deal with people I don't like and who don't like me That's a good point! lol

So avoid them if they get hostile with me?

You can only engage with what abuse and hostility you accept. If you smile in response, it will make you feel better than if you internalize their aggression.

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hello, goodevening

How are you tonight?

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hello, goodevening

I'm feeling unwell, because I've been wanting to stop drinking but here I am with another glass Its so hard to stop I just to have a day without having any alcohol you know

So just to make sure I understand, you are having issues with your amount of drinking and are struggling to stop?

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hello, goodevening I'm feeling unwell, because I've been wanting to stop drinking but here I am with another glass Its so hard to stop I just to have a day without having any alcohol you know

Yes thats the issue

Is there anything specific that is causing the drinking?

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I can't go on a day without having a glass of alcohol

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hello, goodevening I'm feeling unwell, because I've been wanting to stop drinking but here I am with another glass Its so hard to stop I just to have a day without having any alcohol you know Yes thats the issue

When I feel down or just when I feel bored I want a drink But when I'm drinking with others I can't stop till I'm completely wasted

Just from chatting with you I can tell you are very disappointed and upset about this.

Just from chatting with you I can tell you are very disappointed and upset about this. I also used to struggle with the amount of drinking that I used to do.

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I can't go on a day without having a glass of alcohol

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hello, goodevening I'm feeling unwell, because I've been wanting to stop drinking but here I am with another glass Its so hard to stop I just to have a day without having any alcohol you know Yes thats the issue When I feel down or just when I feel bored I want a drink But when I'm drinking with others I can't stop till I'm completely wasted

Yeah. I want to lessen and then stop eventually How did you overcome it? Is it hard?

One thing I did was talked to my family about it and also spent a lot more time on my hobbies that didn't include any drinking at all.

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I can't go on a day without having a glass of alcohol

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hello, goodevening I'm feeling unwell, because I've been wanting to stop drinking but here I am with another glass Its so hard to stop I just to have a day without having any alcohol you know Yes thats the issue When I feel down or just when I feel bored I want a drink But when I'm drinking with others I can't stop till I'm completely wasted Yeah. I want to lessen and then stop eventually How did you overcome it? Is it hard?

Anything I should do when I suddenly get the urge to drink?

That was when I would focus on another hobby of mine, in my case I would either pick up a book and read or work on model cars

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I can't go on a day without having a glass of alcohol

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hello, goodevening I'm feeling unwell, because I've been wanting to stop drinking but here I am with another glass Its so hard to stop I just to have a day without having any alcohol you know Yes thats the issue When I feel down or just when I feel bored I want a drink But when I'm drinking with others I can't stop till I'm completely wasted Yeah. I want to lessen and then stop eventually How did you overcome it? Is it hard? Anything I should do when I suddenly get the urge to drink?

That's great. I love reading maybe I should immerse myself to it again and have soda water instead

Yes, I definitely think that will help!

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I can't go on a day without having a glass of alcohol

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hello, goodevening I'm feeling unwell, because I've been wanting to stop drinking but here I am with another glass Its so hard to stop I just to have a day without having any alcohol you know Yes thats the issue When I feel down or just when I feel bored I want a drink But when I'm drinking with others I can't stop till I'm completely wasted Yeah. I want to lessen and then stop eventually How did you overcome it? Is it hard? Anything I should do when I suddenly get the urge to drink? That's great. I love reading maybe I should immerse myself to it again and have soda water instead

Thank you for sharing that I hope I can improve as well

I know it is not an easy thing to do, but you are gonna do great!

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hello, goodevening I'm feeling unwell, because I've been wanting to stop drinking but here I am with another glass Its so hard to stop I just to have a day without having any alcohol you know Yes thats the issue When I feel down or just when I feel bored I want a drink But when I'm drinking with others I can't stop till I'm completely wasted Yeah. I want to lessen and then stop eventually How did you overcome it? Is it hard? Anything I should do when I suddenly get the urge to drink? That's great. I love reading maybe I should immerse myself to it again and have soda water instead Thank you for sharing that I hope I can improve as well

Yes, I sure hope so. Thank you have a good day!

You as well!

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Hello, how are you today?

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hello hi i am not feeling too well

I am sorry to hear. Why are you not feeling well?

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hi hello hi i am not feeling too well

I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me hello

I am so sorry. I have been in relationships before and cheated on and it is difficult. However, you can learn many valuable lessons on what you look for in your next relationship. It will make it stronger and better in the long run!

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hi hello hi i am not feeling too well I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me hello

i have not been able to get out of the house and i feel so upset and disgusted. i have a one month old child and i dont know what to do anymore. Should i leave him and how can i go on in life now helllo

I understand that it can be extremely difficult. Why do you feel you are unable to get out of the house? Would assistance caring for the child help you?

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hi hello hi i am not feeling too well I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me hello i have not been able to get out of the house and i feel so upset and disgusted. i have a one month old child and i dont know what to do anymore. Should i leave him and how can i go on in life now helllo

i feel ashamed and ugly and rejected . i dont want anyone else to take care of my child i feel so stuck in my life

You should not feel that way! You are a great parent for your child and going out and participating in a hobby that you both enjoy can possibly help.

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hi hello hi i am not feeling too well I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me hello i have not been able to get out of the house and i feel so upset and disgusted. i have a one month old child and i dont know what to do anymore. Should i leave him and how can i go on in life now helllo i feel ashamed and ugly and rejected . i dont want anyone else to take care of my child i feel so stuck in my life

yes I understand that but how do i deal with my marital issues i feel very sad about what has happened i have not eaten since yesterday

Do you think counseling could help fix your relationship? Eating is important and you should eat to receive the necessary vitamins and nutrients

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hi hello hi i am not feeling too well I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me hello i have not been able to get out of the house and i feel so upset and disgusted. i have a one month old child and i dont know what to do anymore. Should i leave him and how can i go on in life now helllo i feel ashamed and ugly and rejected . i dont want anyone else to take care of my child i feel so stuck in my life yes I understand that but how do i deal with my marital issues i feel very sad about what has happened i have not eaten since yesterday

i can try councelling should i still talk to my husband

Counseling can be a great option. If you feel that your relationship can be fixed and you are both committed to each other, counseling can be a great option for both of you. If you do not, some counseling for yourself may be a great option as well

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hi hello hi i am not feeling too well I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me hello i have not been able to get out of the house and i feel so upset and disgusted. i have a one month old child and i dont know what to do anymore. Should i leave him and how can i go on in life now helllo i feel ashamed and ugly and rejected . i dont want anyone else to take care of my child i feel so stuck in my life yes I understand that but how do i deal with my marital issues i feel very sad about what has happened i have not eaten since yesterday i can try councelling should i still talk to my husband

i will look into this. can you recommend a counceller hello

I do not have a recommendation due to potential geographical differences, but on google.com you can search counselors in your area and find some. The reviews may help you decide on a solution

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hi hello hi i am not feeling too well I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me hello i have not been able to get out of the house and i feel so upset and disgusted. i have a one month old child and i dont know what to do anymore. Should i leave him and how can i go on in life now helllo i feel ashamed and ugly and rejected . i dont want anyone else to take care of my child i feel so stuck in my life yes I understand that but how do i deal with my marital issues i feel very sad about what has happened i have not eaten since yesterday i can try councelling should i still talk to my husband i will look into this. can you recommend a counceller hello

should i tell my husband about this

If you feel it is necessary to discuss with your husband you can, but if you do not, you do not have to. You may be able to speak to a counselor and ask their opinion too

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hi hello hi i am not feeling too well I just found out that my husband has been cheating on me hello i have not been able to get out of the house and i feel so upset and disgusted. i have a one month old child and i dont know what to do anymore. Should i leave him and how can i go on in life now helllo i feel ashamed and ugly and rejected . i dont want anyone else to take care of my child i feel so stuck in my life yes I understand that but how do i deal with my marital issues i feel very sad about what has happened i have not eaten since yesterday i can try councelling should i still talk to my husband i will look into this. can you recommend a counceller hello should i tell my husband about this

i feel ashamed now when i look at myslef coz i feel that my husand cheated coz i am ugly

You should not feel that it is your fault. You are a great individual, and he made a decision which is now hurtful to you and your child.

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I used to love my boyfriend, but now I can't stand him. Why has this happened and how to break up with him without hurting his feelings much?

What changed to bring you to the point you can't stand him?

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I can't stand him!!!

5

1

5

I used to love my boyfriend, but now I can't stand him. Why has this happened and how to break up with him without hurting his feelings much?

I just find him extremely annoying. How he walks, talks, breathes even... I should have walked away from him earlier. He is very respectful, committed, sweet and loving, but I just don't feel anything towards him anymore.

That sounds like a really difficult and uncomfortable situation to be in.

That sounds like a really difficult and uncomfortable situation to be in. How long have you been together?

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breakup_with_partner

I can't stand him!!!

5

1

5

I used to love my boyfriend, but now I can't stand him. Why has this happened and how to break up with him without hurting his feelings much? I just find him extremely annoying. How he walks, talks, breathes even... I should have walked away from him earlier. He is very respectful, committed, sweet and loving, but I just don't feel anything towards him anymore.

Yes, it is. We've been together for 3 years. And he wants to get married and have children. It makes me anxious. I'm not ready for those things.

It's good you know where you're at and what you do, and do not, want.

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breakup_with_partner

I can't stand him!!!

5

1

5

I used to love my boyfriend, but now I can't stand him. Why has this happened and how to break up with him without hurting his feelings much? I just find him extremely annoying. How he walks, talks, breathes even... I should have walked away from him earlier. He is very respectful, committed, sweet and loving, but I just don't feel anything towards him anymore. Yes, it is. We've been together for 3 years. And he wants to get married and have children. It makes me anxious. I'm not ready for those things.

How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be him anymore???? How do I break up??? I don't want him to hate me.

When ending a relationship, we're not responsible for the other person's emotions. Whatever they feel, they feel, and we can't control that.

When ending a relationship, we're not responsible for the other person's emotions. Whatever they feel, they feel, and we can't control that. You need to do what is best for you.

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breakup_with_partner

I can't stand him!!!

5

1

5

I used to love my boyfriend, but now I can't stand him. Why has this happened and how to break up with him without hurting his feelings much? I just find him extremely annoying. How he walks, talks, breathes even... I should have walked away from him earlier. He is very respectful, committed, sweet and loving, but I just don't feel anything towards him anymore. Yes, it is. We've been together for 3 years. And he wants to get married and have children. It makes me anxious. I'm not ready for those things. How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be him anymore???? How do I break up??? I don't want him to hate me.

How about me? Will I regret breaking up with him? I've became a better person since we've met.

You might try talking to him and seeing if he has any awareness of your unhappiness, of you discomfort with his pushing for marriage and children when you're not ready.

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breakup_with_partner

I can't stand him!!!

5

1

5

I used to love my boyfriend, but now I can't stand him. Why has this happened and how to break up with him without hurting his feelings much? I just find him extremely annoying. How he walks, talks, breathes even... I should have walked away from him earlier. He is very respectful, committed, sweet and loving, but I just don't feel anything towards him anymore. Yes, it is. We've been together for 3 years. And he wants to get married and have children. It makes me anxious. I'm not ready for those things. How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be him anymore???? How do I break up??? I don't want him to hate me. How about me? Will I regret breaking up with him? I've became a better person since we've met.

I feel guilty to hurt his feelings and at the same time it pisses me off even more!

A good friend once told me that all normal, sane people feel guilt when ending a relationship when they're not happy. There is no pleasure in breaking someone's heart, especially when they haven't done anything really wrong.

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breakup_with_partner

I can't stand him!!!

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1

5

I used to love my boyfriend, but now I can't stand him. Why has this happened and how to break up with him without hurting his feelings much? I just find him extremely annoying. How he walks, talks, breathes even... I should have walked away from him earlier. He is very respectful, committed, sweet and loving, but I just don't feel anything towards him anymore. Yes, it is. We've been together for 3 years. And he wants to get married and have children. It makes me anxious. I'm not ready for those things. How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be him anymore???? How do I break up??? I don't want him to hate me. How about me? Will I regret breaking up with him? I've became a better person since we've met. I feel guilty to hurt his feelings and at the same time it pisses me off even more!

You're right. I should talk about it with him openly and tell him how I really feel.

It sounds like you're maybe not 100% certain you want to end things. That's where talking to him becomes important.

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breakup_with_partner

I can't stand him!!!

5

1

5

I used to love my boyfriend, but now I can't stand him. Why has this happened and how to break up with him without hurting his feelings much? I just find him extremely annoying. How he walks, talks, breathes even... I should have walked away from him earlier. He is very respectful, committed, sweet and loving, but I just don't feel anything towards him anymore. Yes, it is. We've been together for 3 years. And he wants to get married and have children. It makes me anxious. I'm not ready for those things. How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be him anymore???? How do I break up??? I don't want him to hate me. How about me? Will I regret breaking up with him? I've became a better person since we've met. I feel guilty to hurt his feelings and at the same time it pisses me off even more! You're right. I should talk about it with him openly and tell him how I really feel.

Maybe I'm afraid of being alone. Maybe things could have been different if it weren't for COVID. Maybe we spend TOO much time together.

And, if you do have a talk with him and later it becomes clear the relationship still can't work, it won't hit him as such a surprise when you choose to end things.

And, if you do have a talk with him and later it becomes clear the relationship still can't work, it won't hit him as such a surprise when you choose to end things. And, if you do have a talk with him and later it becomes clear the relationship still can't work, it won't hit him as such a surprise when you choose to end things. COVID has put a huge strain on a lot of relationships. People are stuck spending way more time together than they are used to, and there's really not much to do about it right now.

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breakup_with_partner

I can't stand him!!!

5

1

5

I used to love my boyfriend, but now I can't stand him. Why has this happened and how to break up with him without hurting his feelings much? I just find him extremely annoying. How he walks, talks, breathes even... I should have walked away from him earlier. He is very respectful, committed, sweet and loving, but I just don't feel anything towards him anymore. Yes, it is. We've been together for 3 years. And he wants to get married and have children. It makes me anxious. I'm not ready for those things. How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be him anymore???? How do I break up??? I don't want him to hate me. How about me? Will I regret breaking up with him? I've became a better person since we've met. I feel guilty to hurt his feelings and at the same time it pisses me off even more! You're right. I should talk about it with him openly and tell him how I really feel. Maybe I'm afraid of being alone. Maybe things could have been different if it weren't for COVID. Maybe we spend TOO much time together.

Thank you so much for listening me out and for wise advice. I will talk to him, tonight.

I think that's a good decision. I hope the two of you are able to come to a better understanding of where things are with your relationship.

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Hey there hows it going

Doing well thanks and yourself?

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Hey there hows it going

Im alright, just feeling a bit under the weather

What's going on?

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Hey there hows it going Im alright, just feeling a bit under the weather

Im just sad that I havent been able to see any of my friends since march

Oh I definitely know the feeling of not hanging out with friends. This has really been a bad year!

Oh I definitely know the feeling of not hanging out with friends. This has really been a bad year! Do you ever Zoom with your friends?

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Hey there hows it going Im alright, just feeling a bit under the weather Im just sad that I havent been able to see any of my friends since march

No not really I havent had a lot of time recently because of my studies :( I message them once in awhile om facebook but we havent chatted much

Messaging on Facebook isn't quite as fun as hanging out in person. I use Zoom to meetup with family and friends. I had never heard of it until this pandemic hit.

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Hey there hows it going Im alright, just feeling a bit under the weather Im just sad that I havent been able to see any of my friends since march No not really I havent had a lot of time recently because of my studies :( I message them once in awhile om facebook but we havent chatted much

Yeah i havent heard of it either before covid I use it sometimes for class but never for chatting with friends I just wish we could hang out again you know?

I most certainly do know! I just think to myself daily that this vaccine is going to get things back to normal. Hang on, we're almost there. In the meantime I suggest Zoom. It really does make things somewhat less isolating.

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Hey there hows it going Im alright, just feeling a bit under the weather Im just sad that I havent been able to see any of my friends since march No not really I havent had a lot of time recently because of my studies :( I message them once in awhile om facebook but we havent chatted much Yeah i havent heard of it either before covid I use it sometimes for class but never for chatting with friends I just wish we could hang out again you know?

Thank goodness the vaccine is being developed

We're almost there!

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Hey there hows it going Im alright, just feeling a bit under the weather Im just sad that I havent been able to see any of my friends since march No not really I havent had a lot of time recently because of my studies :( I message them once in awhile om facebook but we havent chatted much Yeah i havent heard of it either before covid I use it sometimes for class but never for chatting with friends I just wish we could hang out again you know? Thank goodness the vaccine is being developed

Yeah i guess ill give zoom a try do you and your friends do anything on zoom or just chat?

And if you have an iphone facetime some folks. Zoom and Facetime are my friends now. lol I almost daily at least Facetime my best friend. Especially in the evenings.

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Hey there hows it going Im alright, just feeling a bit under the weather Im just sad that I havent been able to see any of my friends since march No not really I havent had a lot of time recently because of my studies :( I message them once in awhile om facebook but we havent chatted much Yeah i havent heard of it either before covid I use it sometimes for class but never for chatting with friends I just wish we could hang out again you know? Thank goodness the vaccine is being developed Yeah i guess ill give zoom a try do you and your friends do anything on zoom or just chat?

Yeah I think ill try that Chatting with my friends and seeing them (online) will hopefully make me feel better thanks :)

I would try it. Also Meetup is doing virtual meetings.

I would try it. Also Meetup is doing virtual meetings. You're welcome! We have to look out for one another!

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Providing Suggestions

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Hey there hows it going Im alright, just feeling a bit under the weather Im just sad that I havent been able to see any of my friends since march No not really I havent had a lot of time recently because of my studies :( I message them once in awhile om facebook but we havent chatted much Yeah i havent heard of it either before covid I use it sometimes for class but never for chatting with friends I just wish we could hang out again you know? Thank goodness the vaccine is being developed Yeah i guess ill give zoom a try do you and your friends do anything on zoom or just chat? Yeah I think ill try that Chatting with my friends and seeing them (online) will hopefully make me feel better thanks :)

Ill give them a shot :) thanks for your time have a good day

Sounds good! You're more than welcome. You do the same

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hi how are you

I'm fine.

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hi how are you

i am facing a lot of depressino in my life

Ok. That sounds challenging. What do you think might be causing that?

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hi how are you i am facing a lot of depressino in my life

my husband is a very sadistic and abusive person who finds fault in everything i do

I'm sorry to hear that. How long have you been married?

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hi how are you i am facing a lot of depressino in my life my husband is a very sadistic and abusive person who finds fault in everything i do

Iam married for 5 yaers..and Iam not happy even a day

I'm sorry to hear that you are unhappy. What sorts of things does your husband say and do?

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hi how are you i am facing a lot of depressino in my life my husband is a very sadistic and abusive person who finds fault in everything i do Iam married for 5 yaers..and Iam not happy even a day

He is not very responsible at home and doesn't even bother to do his job sincerely..

You have more responsibility at home. You would like him to help you more at home. What kinds of things would you like him to do?

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hi how are you i am facing a lot of depressino in my life my husband is a very sadistic and abusive person who finds fault in everything i do Iam married for 5 yaers..and Iam not happy even a day He is not very responsible at home and doesn't even bother to do his job sincerely..

He is kind of sexually and physically abusing me for everything I do..and say..I want him to be a good husband and father to my kids..

This is a serious matter. Have you spoken to anyone in the local government about this?

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hi how are you i am facing a lot of depressino in my life my husband is a very sadistic and abusive person who finds fault in everything i do Iam married for 5 yaers..and Iam not happy even a day He is not very responsible at home and doesn't even bother to do his job sincerely.. He is kind of sexually and physically abusing me for everything I do..and say..I want him to be a good husband and father to my kids..

No Iam very scared to get out of this relationship thinking about my kids..

You need to be strong for the sake of your children. How old are they?

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hi how are you i am facing a lot of depressino in my life my husband is a very sadistic and abusive person who finds fault in everything i do Iam married for 5 yaers..and Iam not happy even a day He is not very responsible at home and doesn't even bother to do his job sincerely.. He is kind of sexually and physically abusing me for everything I do..and say..I want him to be a good husband and father to my kids.. No Iam very scared to get out of this relationship thinking about my kids..

can you tell me how to reach out to the government

There should be a website for the local gov't in your city. Also: there are NGOs that help people in abusive relationships. They can provide counseling and more.

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hi how are you i am facing a lot of depressino in my life my husband is a very sadistic and abusive person who finds fault in everything i do Iam married for 5 yaers..and Iam not happy even a day He is not very responsible at home and doesn't even bother to do his job sincerely.. He is kind of sexually and physically abusing me for everything I do..and say..I want him to be a good husband and father to my kids.. No Iam very scared to get out of this relationship thinking about my kids.. can you tell me how to reach out to the government

okay i will try to find them..also is there any peer support groups that you can suggest me

I would contact a local hospital. They might have a list of NGOs that manage support groups.

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hi how are you i am facing a lot of depressino in my life my husband is a very sadistic and abusive person who finds fault in everything i do Iam married for 5 yaers..and Iam not happy even a day He is not very responsible at home and doesn't even bother to do his job sincerely.. He is kind of sexually and physically abusing me for everything I do..and say..I want him to be a good husband and father to my kids.. No Iam very scared to get out of this relationship thinking about my kids.. can you tell me how to reach out to the government okay i will try to find them..also is there any peer support groups that you can suggest me

sure.. i will try to find for help. anything that i should consider

People want others to change, but usually that is too much to hope for. Important steps have to be taken by you first. The first step is to talk to someone and get perspective on your situation and learn what options you have.

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hi how are you i am facing a lot of depressino in my life my husband is a very sadistic and abusive person who finds fault in everything i do Iam married for 5 yaers..and Iam not happy even a day He is not very responsible at home and doesn't even bother to do his job sincerely.. He is kind of sexually and physically abusing me for everything I do..and say..I want him to be a good husband and father to my kids.. No Iam very scared to get out of this relationship thinking about my kids.. can you tell me how to reach out to the government okay i will try to find them..also is there any peer support groups that you can suggest me sure.. i will try to find for help. anything that i should consider

yes i understand.. thanks for the help today bye..

My pleasure. I'm glad I was able to help you.

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I have finals coming up soon and I also have a lot of other stuff going on in my life and I am very stressed.

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Hi

Hello! how are you feeling today?

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Hi

I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on.

It looks like you have a lot to do. Correct me if I am wrong.

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Hi I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on.

You would be correct. I have Spring Break coming up and then right after that I have to start getting ready for my finals. I am in my last year of college and I am feeling the pressure of having to become a real adult.

I can understand you very. well. It happen with all of us in such situation. Last year of the college really give lot of pressure.

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Hi I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on. You would be correct. I have Spring Break coming up and then right after that I have to start getting ready for my finals. I am in my last year of college and I am feeling the pressure of having to become a real adult.

College in general has been a struggle. I have to work a full time job at the same time I am going to school full time because my family couldn't afford to help me.

I am pretty sure you will do great in you exam and I can see that in your worries. You are not alone in this situation as colleges are so expensive so it's hard for parents to pay for it.

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Hi I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on. You would be correct. I have Spring Break coming up and then right after that I have to start getting ready for my finals. I am in my last year of college and I am feeling the pressure of having to become a real adult. College in general has been a struggle. I have to work a full time job at the same time I am going to school full time because my family couldn't afford to help me.

Yea, I hope your right. I just have a hard time coming up with a plan to study and work and still have time for a regular life.

When I was in college, I went throgh the same phase as you are facing. Even my parent couldn't afford my college expense. Yes, just concentrate on your study.

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Hi I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on. You would be correct. I have Spring Break coming up and then right after that I have to start getting ready for my finals. I am in my last year of college and I am feeling the pressure of having to become a real adult. College in general has been a struggle. I have to work a full time job at the same time I am going to school full time because my family couldn't afford to help me. Yea, I hope your right. I just have a hard time coming up with a plan to study and work and still have time for a regular life.

It helps to know that other people have had similar experiences to mine. It makes me feel less alone.

You are not alone. It is a phase of life. all have to go through it. Just stay focused and calm and motivated.

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Hi I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on. You would be correct. I have Spring Break coming up and then right after that I have to start getting ready for my finals. I am in my last year of college and I am feeling the pressure of having to become a real adult. College in general has been a struggle. I have to work a full time job at the same time I am going to school full time because my family couldn't afford to help me. Yea, I hope your right. I just have a hard time coming up with a plan to study and work and still have time for a regular life. It helps to know that other people have had similar experiences to mine. It makes me feel less alone.

Yea, maybe going on spring break will help to get my mind off all the work I have to do when I get back.

Enjoy your spring break and come up with freshness. I am pretty sure you will do very well.

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I have finals coming up soon and I also have a lot of other stuff going on in my life and I am very stressed.

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Hi I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on. You would be correct. I have Spring Break coming up and then right after that I have to start getting ready for my finals. I am in my last year of college and I am feeling the pressure of having to become a real adult. College in general has been a struggle. I have to work a full time job at the same time I am going to school full time because my family couldn't afford to help me. Yea, I hope your right. I just have a hard time coming up with a plan to study and work and still have time for a regular life. It helps to know that other people have had similar experiences to mine. It makes me feel less alone. Yea, maybe going on spring break will help to get my mind off all the work I have to do when I get back.

Thank you. I will. Do you have any suggestions on how I can plan for how to study once I get back? Should I see a doctor to get some medicine for my anxiety?

The best way to plan your study is to set the target for a particular day that you have to complete it. Once you achieve it, you will be motivated and it will help you to do more work. you can take doctors opinion if it's required. you can take few breaks to relax youself in middle.

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I have finals coming up soon and I also have a lot of other stuff going on in my life and I am very stressed.

4

2

5

Hi I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on. You would be correct. I have Spring Break coming up and then right after that I have to start getting ready for my finals. I am in my last year of college and I am feeling the pressure of having to become a real adult. College in general has been a struggle. I have to work a full time job at the same time I am going to school full time because my family couldn't afford to help me. Yea, I hope your right. I just have a hard time coming up with a plan to study and work and still have time for a regular life. It helps to know that other people have had similar experiences to mine. It makes me feel less alone. Yea, maybe going on spring break will help to get my mind off all the work I have to do when I get back. Thank you. I will. Do you have any suggestions on how I can plan for how to study once I get back? Should I see a doctor to get some medicine for my anxiety?

That's good advice. Thank you. I will try to put some of this to good use.

My best wishes are there with you. May God give all success that you wished for.

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I have finals coming up soon and I also have a lot of other stuff going on in my life and I am very stressed.

4

2

5

Hi I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on. You would be correct. I have Spring Break coming up and then right after that I have to start getting ready for my finals. I am in my last year of college and I am feeling the pressure of having to become a real adult. College in general has been a struggle. I have to work a full time job at the same time I am going to school full time because my family couldn't afford to help me. Yea, I hope your right. I just have a hard time coming up with a plan to study and work and still have time for a regular life. It helps to know that other people have had similar experiences to mine. It makes me feel less alone. Yea, maybe going on spring break will help to get my mind off all the work I have to do when I get back. Thank you. I will. Do you have any suggestions on how I can plan for how to study once I get back? Should I see a doctor to get some medicine for my anxiety? That's good advice. Thank you. I will try to put some of this to good use.

Thank you so much for your insight. I will be praying for a good outcome.

you will get it for sure! is there anything else I can help you with?

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anxiety

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I have finals coming up soon and I also have a lot of other stuff going on in my life and I am very stressed.

4

2

5

Hi I am pretty anxious lately. I have a lot of stuff going on. You would be correct. I have Spring Break coming up and then right after that I have to start getting ready for my finals. I am in my last year of college and I am feeling the pressure of having to become a real adult. College in general has been a struggle. I have to work a full time job at the same time I am going to school full time because my family couldn't afford to help me. Yea, I hope your right. I just have a hard time coming up with a plan to study and work and still have time for a regular life. It helps to know that other people have had similar experiences to mine. It makes me feel less alone. Yea, maybe going on spring break will help to get my mind off all the work I have to do when I get back. Thank you. I will. Do you have any suggestions on how I can plan for how to study once I get back? Should I see a doctor to get some medicine for my anxiety? That's good advice. Thank you. I will try to put some of this to good use. Thank you so much for your insight. I will be praying for a good outcome.

I think you have eased my mind a little. I feel better. Thanks. Have a wonderful evening.

All my pleasure! Wonderful evening to you too

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i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me?

I'm sorry to hear this. When did your boyfriend break up with you?

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i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me?

last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts

Breakups always hurt. They can be very painful, how long were you together?

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my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

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1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts

almost for 2 years. this is sad right?

It's very sad and your emotions will take a toll, but you have to set some goals so you don't fall into a funk. Do you have a good support system?

It's very sad and your emotions will take a toll, but you have to set some goals so you don't fall into a funk. Do you have a good support system? Did he give a reason for the breakup?

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my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

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1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts almost for 2 years. this is sad right?

no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either.

Are you telling me he just said "I am breaking up with you" then never said why and left?

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my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

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1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts almost for 2 years. this is sad right? no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either.

he thinks everything is casual . we were happy. he is behaving like this all of a sudden. what should i think then ?

I think he doesn't know what he wants and thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. It is disrespectful to you. And hurtful. You say you have no support, don't you have friends? Family?

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my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

5

1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts almost for 2 years. this is sad right? no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either. he thinks everything is casual . we were happy. he is behaving like this all of a sudden. what should i think then ?

i don't have a family. i am living alone in a city where am working. i have not met anyone because of the pandemic.

I think you might want to join an online support group then. Do you have any goals or aspirations that you are working on apart from your relationship? Because it will be painful to move forward, but if you have some goals, that can help you from falling into a slump.

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sadness

breakup_with_partner

my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

5

1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts almost for 2 years. this is sad right? no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either. he thinks everything is casual . we were happy. he is behaving like this all of a sudden. what should i think then ? i don't have a family. i am living alone in a city where am working. i have not met anyone because of the pandemic.

i think i should set some goals and engage in daily activities like meditation and yoga. i am thinking about contacting a medical assistance too. i can't overcome it by myself. i am really grateful for your support and kind words. i feel somewhat positive. i was in need of someone like this.

You are welcome. I am happily married now, but I had my fair share of breakups. They hurt my self esteem. I had to work hard to not let that happen. And do my best to grieve, but not get stuck there.

You are welcome. I am happily married now, but I had my fair share of breakups. They hurt my self esteem. I had to work hard to not let that happen. And do my best to grieve, but not get stuck there. If a man did not want to be with me, I took it hard as rejection, but in the long run, if he does not want to be with me, I don't want to be with him, but that takes time, and you need friends to encourage you.

Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure

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my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

5

1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts almost for 2 years. this is sad right? no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either. he thinks everything is casual . we were happy. he is behaving like this all of a sudden. what should i think then ? i don't have a family. i am living alone in a city where am working. i have not met anyone because of the pandemic. i think i should set some goals and engage in daily activities like meditation and yoga. i am thinking about contacting a medical assistance too. i can't overcome it by myself. i am really grateful for your support and kind words. i feel somewhat positive. i was in need of someone like this.

you really are a strong person. yes. if i follow him, i will be the one to get hurt. its time for me to accept the reality.

Thank you. I'm older, been through a LOT of hard knocks. You will be stronger too, right now you are hurting, in time you will see more clearly.

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my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

5

1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts almost for 2 years. this is sad right? no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either. he thinks everything is casual . we were happy. he is behaving like this all of a sudden. what should i think then ? i don't have a family. i am living alone in a city where am working. i have not met anyone because of the pandemic. i think i should set some goals and engage in daily activities like meditation and yoga. i am thinking about contacting a medical assistance too. i can't overcome it by myself. i am really grateful for your support and kind words. i feel somewhat positive. i was in need of someone like this. you really are a strong person. yes. if i follow him, i will be the one to get hurt. its time for me to accept the reality.

hoping the same. i should be strong and take this as an experience to learn.

He hasn't told you why, so the problem lies in him, not you. So do your best not to be hard on yourself. It is a shock to you now, but he never even communicated this with you over time, and he should have. that's what you want in a partner.

He hasn't told you why, so the problem lies in him, not you. So do your best not to be hard on yourself. It is a shock to you now, but he never even communicated this with you over time, and he should have. that's what you want in a partner. If a relationship has problems, you want someone to talk about he problems and work on them and grow as two people. He chose to walk away, that's immature and not what you want in a relationship. That is actually abusive.

Affirmation and Reassurance, Information

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my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

5

1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts almost for 2 years. this is sad right? no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either. he thinks everything is casual . we were happy. he is behaving like this all of a sudden. what should i think then ? i don't have a family. i am living alone in a city where am working. i have not met anyone because of the pandemic. i think i should set some goals and engage in daily activities like meditation and yoga. i am thinking about contacting a medical assistance too. i can't overcome it by myself. i am really grateful for your support and kind words. i feel somewhat positive. i was in need of someone like this. you really are a strong person. yes. if i follow him, i will be the one to get hurt. its time for me to accept the reality. hoping the same. i should be strong and take this as an experience to learn.

yes. its better to be alone than with a partner who didn't understand us. really you are awesome mam ! there is a lot to learn from you ! i feel like you can clearly see through my mind.

Thank you! You are so very kind! And you are very sweet too, willing to hear the truth! That is an admirable quality! You deserve a partner willing to work on problems, not a quitter.

Thank you! You are so very kind! And you are very sweet too, willing to hear the truth! That is an admirable quality! You deserve a partner willing to work on problems, not a quitter. Do take care of yourself! Find some friends, work hard at that, call old friends too. Just to say hi, call an old aunt or uncle and check in. Find community. That will help you.

Self-disclosure, Others

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my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

5

1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts almost for 2 years. this is sad right? no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either. he thinks everything is casual . we were happy. he is behaving like this all of a sudden. what should i think then ? i don't have a family. i am living alone in a city where am working. i have not met anyone because of the pandemic. i think i should set some goals and engage in daily activities like meditation and yoga. i am thinking about contacting a medical assistance too. i can't overcome it by myself. i am really grateful for your support and kind words. i feel somewhat positive. i was in need of someone like this. you really are a strong person. yes. if i follow him, i will be the one to get hurt. its time for me to accept the reality. hoping the same. i should be strong and take this as an experience to learn. yes. its better to be alone than with a partner who didn't understand us. really you are awesome mam ! there is a lot to learn from you ! i feel like you can clearly see through my mind.

i should take a break from this relationship issues and try to enjoy myself and heal from this. you are kind too mam !. your partner is really lucky to have you. sure mam. i will really try hard.

Yes! Don't hop into another relationship for a long time, months, even a year. Find out who you are. Be the woman you want to be. I prayed for my husband for a long time. God is good! :D I had a lot of bad ones before him!

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my partner broke up with me. i have no idea how am going to handle it.

5

1

5

i don't want to lie. am not good for sure. my boyfriend broke up with me. how could he do this to me? last week. we were like a lovey - dovey couple. it hurts almost for 2 years. this is sad right? no. he didn't told me anything. avoiding me all the time. i don't have a support system either. he thinks everything is casual . we were happy. he is behaving like this all of a sudden. what should i think then ? i don't have a family. i am living alone in a city where am working. i have not met anyone because of the pandemic. i think i should set some goals and engage in daily activities like meditation and yoga. i am thinking about contacting a medical assistance too. i can't overcome it by myself. i am really grateful for your support and kind words. i feel somewhat positive. i was in need of someone like this. you really are a strong person. yes. if i follow him, i will be the one to get hurt. its time for me to accept the reality. hoping the same. i should be strong and take this as an experience to learn. yes. its better to be alone than with a partner who didn't understand us. really you are awesome mam ! there is a lot to learn from you ! i feel like you can clearly see through my mind. i should take a break from this relationship issues and try to enjoy myself and heal from this. you are kind too mam !. your partner is really lucky to have you. sure mam. i will really try hard.

we all learn from our experiences. yes. i want to be emotionally independent. i should take a break and travel after this pandemic. hope you will be happy as well.

Thank you so much!

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For the last few weeks everything is an effort. I just can't get motivated. Why clean the house it will just get messed up again and no one else cares. I feel bad for my dog I don't even take him for walks anymore. Things that usually cheer me up or make me happy just seem pointless. No matter how hard I try I get nowhere. I just want to sleep until these feelings go away if they ever do

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Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone.

I am truly sorry you are feeling this way. Those feelings can be overwhelming. Have you tried talking to a professional about this?

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For the last few weeks everything is an effort. I just can't get motivated. Why clean the house it will just get messed up again and no one else cares. I feel bad for my dog I don't even take him for walks anymore. Things that usually cheer me up or make me happy just seem pointless. No matter how hard I try I get nowhere. I just want to sleep until these feelings go away if they ever do

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3

5

Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone.

I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now.

There are many therapists out there that work on a sliding scale based on your income. Some even offer free sessions. I would look into that for your local area. It also does not seem like your boyfriend is taking the issue seriously.

There are many therapists out there that work on a sliding scale based on your income. Some even offer free sessions. I would look into that for your local area. It also does not seem like your boyfriend is taking the issue seriously. I will tell you from experience, ignoring the issue is not going to help.

Providing Suggestions, Self-disclosure

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For the last few weeks everything is an effort. I just can't get motivated. Why clean the house it will just get messed up again and no one else cares. I feel bad for my dog I don't even take him for walks anymore. Things that usually cheer me up or make me happy just seem pointless. No matter how hard I try I get nowhere. I just want to sleep until these feelings go away if they ever do

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Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone. I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now.

I don't mean to put obstacles in the way of your help but I live 25 miles from town and there is no public transportation here and I don't have a car. You have felt like this before? How long did it last? What did you do to get better?

It lasts until you deal with it. I talked to someone to help me understand why an dhow i was feeling this way. Dont worry about putting obstacles for me heh im here to help you.

It lasts until you deal with it. I talked to someone to help me understand why an dhow i was feeling this way. Dont worry about putting obstacles for me heh im here to help you. One good thing covid has done for us is create a surge of telemedicine. I know my therapist along with many others are doing it this way now. It may not be as great as being in person but it helps having that ear to listen to you.

Self-disclosure, Information

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Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone. I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now. I don't mean to put obstacles in the way of your help but I live 25 miles from town and there is no public transportation here and I don't have a car. You have felt like this before? How long did it last? What did you do to get better?

I think I feel this way because I feel so stuck. I make a little money working remotely but not enough to make any big changes and the things I do don't ever last like the house is only clean for moments. You are right, one of my friends who has asthma started getting her meds through an online doctor and I am sure therapists are on line also, she said her doctor is even reasonable and less than her normal office visit that is something I can look into.

I can relate to that, spend 8 hours cleaning the place up for my 10 year old to tear it all down in 10 minutes. Jobs are a whole other can of worms as well. May i suggest though that, even though big goals are great to strive for, you set a bunch of smaller goals to complete?

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Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone. I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now. I don't mean to put obstacles in the way of your help but I live 25 miles from town and there is no public transportation here and I don't have a car. You have felt like this before? How long did it last? What did you do to get better? I think I feel this way because I feel so stuck. I make a little money working remotely but not enough to make any big changes and the things I do don't ever last like the house is only clean for moments. You are right, one of my friends who has asthma started getting her meds through an online doctor and I am sure therapists are on line also, she said her doctor is even reasonable and less than her normal office visit that is something I can look into.

What would be an example of a smaller goal? Enjoy your son my kids are grown and gone and it happens faster than you think.

Yea just last year they were a baby in my eyes ha. Maybe just even something as apply to 2 new jobs this week. Clean the kitchen on monday. Simple things.

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For the last few weeks everything is an effort. I just can't get motivated. Why clean the house it will just get messed up again and no one else cares. I feel bad for my dog I don't even take him for walks anymore. Things that usually cheer me up or make me happy just seem pointless. No matter how hard I try I get nowhere. I just want to sleep until these feelings go away if they ever do

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Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone. I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now. I don't mean to put obstacles in the way of your help but I live 25 miles from town and there is no public transportation here and I don't have a car. You have felt like this before? How long did it last? What did you do to get better? I think I feel this way because I feel so stuck. I make a little money working remotely but not enough to make any big changes and the things I do don't ever last like the house is only clean for moments. You are right, one of my friends who has asthma started getting her meds through an online doctor and I am sure therapists are on line also, she said her doctor is even reasonable and less than her normal office visit that is something I can look into. What would be an example of a smaller goal? Enjoy your son my kids are grown and gone and it happens faster than you think.

I don't really have big goals because they all seem too impossible to be realistic. Your small goals seem big to me. I can barely drag myself to the kitchen must let get motivated enough to clean it.

How about starting with just doing the dishes, or wiping down the counter?

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For the last few weeks everything is an effort. I just can't get motivated. Why clean the house it will just get messed up again and no one else cares. I feel bad for my dog I don't even take him for walks anymore. Things that usually cheer me up or make me happy just seem pointless. No matter how hard I try I get nowhere. I just want to sleep until these feelings go away if they ever do

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Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone. I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now. I don't mean to put obstacles in the way of your help but I live 25 miles from town and there is no public transportation here and I don't have a car. You have felt like this before? How long did it last? What did you do to get better? I think I feel this way because I feel so stuck. I make a little money working remotely but not enough to make any big changes and the things I do don't ever last like the house is only clean for moments. You are right, one of my friends who has asthma started getting her meds through an online doctor and I am sure therapists are on line also, she said her doctor is even reasonable and less than her normal office visit that is something I can look into. What would be an example of a smaller goal? Enjoy your son my kids are grown and gone and it happens faster than you think. I don't really have big goals because they all seem too impossible to be realistic. Your small goals seem big to me. I can barely drag myself to the kitchen must let get motivated enough to clean it.

That would be a simple goal, I could try for that, I think maybe I should make my first goal to find an online therapist with a sliding fee scale. Do you know if there are any kind of directories for online therapists? How long did it take for you to start to feel better after you started to get help?

Yes i think that would be a great first step. I would try a google search like "Therapists (My Area) Sliding Scale"

Yes i think that would be a great first step. I would try a google search like "Therapists (My Area) Sliding Scale" As for feeling better its different for everyone. I think it even took a couple months to recognize myself as worthy. Once you start feeling better about yourself it kind of snowballs in a good way.

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For the last few weeks everything is an effort. I just can't get motivated. Why clean the house it will just get messed up again and no one else cares. I feel bad for my dog I don't even take him for walks anymore. Things that usually cheer me up or make me happy just seem pointless. No matter how hard I try I get nowhere. I just want to sleep until these feelings go away if they ever do

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Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone. I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now. I don't mean to put obstacles in the way of your help but I live 25 miles from town and there is no public transportation here and I don't have a car. You have felt like this before? How long did it last? What did you do to get better? I think I feel this way because I feel so stuck. I make a little money working remotely but not enough to make any big changes and the things I do don't ever last like the house is only clean for moments. You are right, one of my friends who has asthma started getting her meds through an online doctor and I am sure therapists are on line also, she said her doctor is even reasonable and less than her normal office visit that is something I can look into. What would be an example of a smaller goal? Enjoy your son my kids are grown and gone and it happens faster than you think. I don't really have big goals because they all seem too impossible to be realistic. Your small goals seem big to me. I can barely drag myself to the kitchen must let get motivated enough to clean it. That would be a simple goal, I could try for that, I think maybe I should make my first goal to find an online therapist with a sliding fee scale. Do you know if there are any kind of directories for online therapists? How long did it take for you to start to feel better after you started to get help?

Thank you things don't seem quite as hopeless now and I don't feel so alone and misunderstood. You have a nice day and I am going to go do that search now.

Great! I hope for the best for you!

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Hi. I'm a little stressed out at the moment over losing my job in the coming months.

I'm sorry to hear about that! I can totally understand why you'd be stressed.

I'm sorry to hear about that! I can totally understand why you'd be stressed. Is it for certain that you will lose your job?

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Hi. I'm a little stressed out at the moment over losing my job in the coming months.

The company I work for is winding down. i'm on the old side to be looking for a job and i'm likely going to have to accept a lower salary, a longer commute and a heavier workload. In other words, I have a job I love, close to where I live that is very manageable. I can't sleep and I'm insanely anxious all of the time.

I can feel your anxiety, and I completely understand why you're feeling that way, but you don't know for sure that will be true. Have you started looking for a new job already?

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My current position will be eliminated within 6 months. I am very anxious and concerned that I will likely not find another position at mu current salary level.

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Hi. I'm a little stressed out at the moment over losing my job in the coming months. The company I work for is winding down. i'm on the old side to be looking for a job and i'm likely going to have to accept a lower salary, a longer commute and a heavier workload. In other words, I have a job I love, close to where I live that is very manageable. I can't sleep and I'm insanely anxious all of the time.

I started looking for a job last week. I had a transition meeting today to pass on the little bit of my work that will be left to another person. I have 2 children; one who just started college this fall and another who is a junior in high school. my elderly mother lives with me also so I can't sell my house any time soon and move into something smaller and cheaper. I feel really trapped at the moment.

It definitely sounds like you're being overwhelmed with a lot of responsibilities along with your job loss. It's definitely a lot of things to deal with all at once, but it would help to break things down so they're more manageable. Do you have anyone close by who can help you out?

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My current position will be eliminated within 6 months. I am very anxious and concerned that I will likely not find another position at mu current salary level.

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Hi. I'm a little stressed out at the moment over losing my job in the coming months. The company I work for is winding down. i'm on the old side to be looking for a job and i'm likely going to have to accept a lower salary, a longer commute and a heavier workload. In other words, I have a job I love, close to where I live that is very manageable. I can't sleep and I'm insanely anxious all of the time. I started looking for a job last week. I had a transition meeting today to pass on the little bit of my work that will be left to another person. I have 2 children; one who just started college this fall and another who is a junior in high school. my elderly mother lives with me also so I can't sell my house any time soon and move into something smaller and cheaper. I feel really trapped at the moment.

i have friends and family close by. i don't like to burden people with my problems. I know i also don't adjust well to change and that doesn't help. breaking issues down into groups is helpful and may take away some of the enormity of everything.

I understand completely. I used to bottle things up too, but I've learned that the people who love you won't think you're a burden if you ask for help or just to have someone blow off some steam.

I understand completely. I used to bottle things up too, but I've learned that the people who love you won't think you're a burden if you ask for help or just to have someone blow off some steam. Changes are definitely scary, but they can also be a great opportunity to do something different. Is there anything you want to try doing?

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Hi. I'm a little stressed out at the moment over losing my job in the coming months. The company I work for is winding down. i'm on the old side to be looking for a job and i'm likely going to have to accept a lower salary, a longer commute and a heavier workload. In other words, I have a job I love, close to where I live that is very manageable. I can't sleep and I'm insanely anxious all of the time. I started looking for a job last week. I had a transition meeting today to pass on the little bit of my work that will be left to another person. I have 2 children; one who just started college this fall and another who is a junior in high school. my elderly mother lives with me also so I can't sell my house any time soon and move into something smaller and cheaper. I feel really trapped at the moment. i have friends and family close by. i don't like to burden people with my problems. I know i also don't adjust well to change and that doesn't help. breaking issues down into groups is helpful and may take away some of the enormity of everything.

I've always been reluctant to ask for help or favors because i keep thinking there will always be a time down the road where i will need something more. it's helpful to have someone remind me that change isn't always a bad thing. thank you. I'll talk to some friends to see if anyone has some good budget cutting tricks. I'll continue to look for a job and i'll try to calm down a little for now.

It sounds like you're very self-aware and I think your friends and family will be very willing to lend a hand.

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My current position will be eliminated within 6 months. I am very anxious and concerned that I will likely not find another position at mu current salary level.

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Hi. I'm a little stressed out at the moment over losing my job in the coming months. The company I work for is winding down. i'm on the old side to be looking for a job and i'm likely going to have to accept a lower salary, a longer commute and a heavier workload. In other words, I have a job I love, close to where I live that is very manageable. I can't sleep and I'm insanely anxious all of the time. I started looking for a job last week. I had a transition meeting today to pass on the little bit of my work that will be left to another person. I have 2 children; one who just started college this fall and another who is a junior in high school. my elderly mother lives with me also so I can't sell my house any time soon and move into something smaller and cheaper. I feel really trapped at the moment. i have friends and family close by. i don't like to burden people with my problems. I know i also don't adjust well to change and that doesn't help. breaking issues down into groups is helpful and may take away some of the enormity of everything. I've always been reluctant to ask for help or favors because i keep thinking there will always be a time down the road where i will need something more. it's helpful to have someone remind me that change isn't always a bad thing. thank you. I'll talk to some friends to see if anyone has some good budget cutting tricks. I'll continue to look for a job and i'll try to calm down a little for now.

i am aware of many things including how truly fortunate i am to have my family, friends and health. I really appreciate your kind words and calming suggestions. thank you again.

Yes, your family, friends, and health are all really important! I hope you stay safe!

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Hi. I'm a little stressed out at the moment over losing my job in the coming months. The company I work for is winding down. i'm on the old side to be looking for a job and i'm likely going to have to accept a lower salary, a longer commute and a heavier workload. In other words, I have a job I love, close to where I live that is very manageable. I can't sleep and I'm insanely anxious all of the time. I started looking for a job last week. I had a transition meeting today to pass on the little bit of my work that will be left to another person. I have 2 children; one who just started college this fall and another who is a junior in high school. my elderly mother lives with me also so I can't sell my house any time soon and move into something smaller and cheaper. I feel really trapped at the moment. i have friends and family close by. i don't like to burden people with my problems. I know i also don't adjust well to change and that doesn't help. breaking issues down into groups is helpful and may take away some of the enormity of everything. I've always been reluctant to ask for help or favors because i keep thinking there will always be a time down the road where i will need something more. it's helpful to have someone remind me that change isn't always a bad thing. thank you. I'll talk to some friends to see if anyone has some good budget cutting tricks. I'll continue to look for a job and i'll try to calm down a little for now. i am aware of many things including how truly fortunate i am to have my family, friends and health. I really appreciate your kind words and calming suggestions. thank you again.

You too.

I hope you get to enjoy the coming holidays with your family and friends!

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