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1026
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anxiety
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academic_pressure
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I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately. I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames. No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6. I tried, but my online rank not being where I want it gives me anxiety and I keep coming back Just one more match, just one more, I keep telling me Do you really think it's that severe? The thing is, I keep telling myself I have enough time to get my school work done. But sooner than later I realize the assignments are already past their due date. Yeah, I have. They say that I am either super invested on my school work or that I lack any signs of effort at times.
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Yeah, they assigned me one.
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Do you feel that they have not been of any help?
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Do you feel that they have not been of any help? There are always external counsellors that you could speak to. How would you feel if, for instance, you were never allowed to game again? Would that significantly affect your quality of life?
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Question, Others
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Question
| 12,005 |
neutral
| 0.014198 | 0.000105 | 0.000184 | 0.000682 | 0.980123 | 0.000828 | 0.00388 |
1026
| 9 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
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I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately. I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames. No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6. I tried, but my online rank not being where I want it gives me anxiety and I keep coming back Just one more match, just one more, I keep telling me Do you really think it's that severe? The thing is, I keep telling myself I have enough time to get my school work done. But sooner than later I realize the assignments are already past their due date. Yeah, I have. They say that I am either super invested on my school work or that I lack any signs of effort at times. Yeah, they assigned me one.
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I really haven't reached out to them, so that's probably on me.
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I do understand that it can be very difficult to open up about having a problem
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I do understand that it can be very difficult to open up about having a problem
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,006 |
sad
| 0.2093 | 0.007442 | 0.000623 | 0.000273 | 0.090012 | 0.683201 | 0.00915 |
1026
| 10 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
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I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately. I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames. No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6. I tried, but my online rank not being where I want it gives me anxiety and I keep coming back Just one more match, just one more, I keep telling me Do you really think it's that severe? The thing is, I keep telling myself I have enough time to get my school work done. But sooner than later I realize the assignments are already past their due date. Yeah, I have. They say that I am either super invested on my school work or that I lack any signs of effort at times. Yeah, they assigned me one. I really haven't reached out to them, so that's probably on me.
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But I don't think I have a problem I just wanted to get plat in League of Legends My teammates suck sadly so I couldn't
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The trouble is that sometimes the person with a problem can be the last to actually realise it
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The trouble is that sometimes the person with a problem can be the last to actually realise it I hope that I've been able to give you something to think about :) It's been nice to talk!
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Others, Others
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Others
| 12,007 |
sad
| 0.012781 | 0.001831 | 0.000109 | 0.000129 | 0.005929 | 0.978539 | 0.000683 |
1026
| 11 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
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I keep failing online classes. Does it have to do with my videogames addiction?
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hello, I have been concerned lately. I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames. No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6. I tried, but my online rank not being where I want it gives me anxiety and I keep coming back Just one more match, just one more, I keep telling me Do you really think it's that severe? The thing is, I keep telling myself I have enough time to get my school work done. But sooner than later I realize the assignments are already past their due date. Yeah, I have. They say that I am either super invested on my school work or that I lack any signs of effort at times. Yeah, they assigned me one. I really haven't reached out to them, so that's probably on me. But I don't think I have a problem I just wanted to get plat in League of Legends My teammates suck sadly so I couldn't
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Thank you. Yeah I might talk to someone.
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You're welcome - enjoy the rest of your day!
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You're welcome - enjoy the rest of your day! Remember to press the button at the bottom :)
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Others, Others
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Others
| 12,008 |
neutral
| 0.004785 | 0.000076 | 0.000768 | 0.001041 | 0.9899 | 0.000285 | 0.003146 |
1027
| 1 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic.
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Hey there! That's a good topic to talk about. With everything that's been going on, it's normal to feel some anxiety.
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Hey there! That's a good topic to talk about. With everything that's been going on, it's normal to feel some anxiety. What do you think is one thing that is giving you a lot of anxiety?
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,009 |
fear
| 0.000841 | 0.000269 | 0.930796 | 0.002697 | 0.061744 | 0.002287 | 0.001366 |
|
1027
| 2 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic.
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Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid
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I'm sorry to hear that. Similar stuff is happening where I am, and I also get anxious hearing about it.
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I'm sorry to hear that. Similar stuff is happening where I am, and I also get anxious hearing about it.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,010 |
fear
| 0.000075 | 0.000032 | 0.999021 | 0.000143 | 0.000167 | 0.000463 | 0.000099 |
1027
| 3 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid
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And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well.
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What do you feel when you feel on guard and paranoid? Try to say some more about that if you can.
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What do you feel when you feel on guard and paranoid? Try to say some more about that if you can. Thanks, I hope the same for you.
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Question, Affirmation and Reassurance
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Question
| 12,011 |
neutral
| 0.000686 | 0.000051 | 0.00008 | 0.000185 | 0.998217 | 0.000306 | 0.000476 |
1027
| 4 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well.
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I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March.
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Yeah, that makes sense. When this was all new, the uncertainty probably made for more anxiety. Now that we know some more about what is safe and what isn't, maybe less so. But it doesn't mean the anxiety is gone, of course. It's still around in our day-to-day lives.
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Yeah, that makes sense. When this was all new, the uncertainty probably made for more anxiety. Now that we know some more about what is safe and what isn't, maybe less so. But it doesn't mean the anxiety is gone, of course. It's still around in our day-to-day lives. Well said. You feel stuck. The usual things you would do now are just not available to you.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing, Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 12,012 |
fear
| 0.000142 | 0.000281 | 0.699692 | 0.001787 | 0.000212 | 0.00164 | 0.296245 |
1027
| 5 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March.
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yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive
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I can rephrase some of this, if you don't mind. In a way, you're talking about activities that you may have used (gym, hikes, etc) to keep yourself in a good mood. Now that those don't seem available, you just don't have those opportunities to boost your mood. It makes sense that you would be feeling this way.
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I can rephrase some of this, if you don't mind. In a way, you're talking about activities that you may have used (gym, hikes, etc) to keep yourself in a good mood. Now that those don't seem available, you just don't have those opportunities to boost your mood. It makes sense that you would be feeling this way.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 12,013 |
sad
| 0.000436 | 0.000222 | 0.000029 | 0.00009 | 0.000569 | 0.998564 | 0.00009 |
1027
| 6 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive
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now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year.
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I think you explained yourself really well. Thanks for sharing how you've been feeling.
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I think you explained yourself really well. Thanks for sharing how you've been feeling.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,014 |
neutral
| 0.004613 | 0.00052 | 0.000215 | 0.0024 | 0.560873 | 0.002687 | 0.428693 |
1027
| 7 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year.
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yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening.
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Do you think if you went ahead anyway to the gym or out for runs that you would feel guilty for doing them?
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Do you think if you went ahead anyway to the gym or out for runs that you would feel guilty for doing them?
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Question
|
Question
| 12,015 |
angry
| 0.98255 | 0.000949 | 0.000035 | 0.001091 | 0.012919 | 0.00112 | 0.001335 |
1027
| 8 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening.
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We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that
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Yeah, and that just throws on another layer of why things are difficult right now. No one wants to feel guilty for doing things that could help themselves.
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Yeah, and that just throws on another layer of why things are difficult right now. No one wants to feel guilty for doing things that could help themselves.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 12,016 |
neutral
| 0.007719 | 0.000193 | 0.000357 | 0.000124 | 0.945126 | 0.002785 | 0.043696 |
1027
| 9 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that
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to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc.
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Have you ever heard of the phrase "black or white thinking?" As in, thinking that situations or people are completely good or completely bad? Or completely doable or completely impossible?
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Have you ever heard of the phrase "black or white thinking?" As in, thinking that situations or people are completely good or completely bad? Or completely doable or completely impossible?
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Question
|
Question
| 12,017 |
fear
| 0.000179 | 0.00005 | 0.998499 | 0.000193 | 0.000502 | 0.000397 | 0.00018 |
1027
| 10 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc.
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so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white
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Yeah, I think I understand that too. I get really frustrated hearing about people hosting big parties or not wearing masks because they think it's no big deal. They're putting others at risk.
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Yeah, I think I understand that too. I get really frustrated hearing about people hosting big parties or not wearing masks because they think it's no big deal. They're putting others at risk.
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Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc. so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white
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Because I either go out or I don't. I have to compromise my values and everything I worked hard to preserve for the last few months to go out, even if I put on extra protection etc. And I just rigidly refuse to compromise my values because I don't believe it's right. Because if I had done that, I would have done that already, and long ago. And even though it's really hard on me. yeah exactly. Because people are being selfish and are subjecting others to risks even if they don't care about themselves. but I know I am pretty extreme in my thinking. I really love the outdoors and I go out pretty often before the pandemic. But it's just that my own thinking is rigid and made up about it. But anyhow, that's the situation in a nutshell.
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I think we all do black-or-white thinking to some extent. We're wired to try and make sense of the world, and maybe our brains don't like to spend time on nuance and grey areas. We all tend to quickly categorize things into good or bad, easy or hard, black or white.
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I think we all do black-or-white thinking to some extent. We're wired to try and make sense of the world, and maybe our brains don't like to spend time on nuance and grey areas. We all tend to quickly categorize things into good or bad, easy or hard, black or white.
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Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc. so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white Because I either go out or I don't. I have to compromise my values and everything I worked hard to preserve for the last few months to go out, even if I put on extra protection etc. And I just rigidly refuse to compromise my values because I don't believe it's right. Because if I had done that, I would have done that already, and long ago. And even though it's really hard on me. yeah exactly. Because people are being selfish and are subjecting others to risks even if they don't care about themselves. but I know I am pretty extreme in my thinking. I really love the outdoors and I go out pretty often before the pandemic. But it's just that my own thinking is rigid and made up about it. But anyhow, that's the situation in a nutshell.
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yeah I understand your thinking with the grey areas as well. I suppose for this case, it's all black and white for me, no grea areas or compromises. that's good analysis by the way. But anyhow I am good to go then. Thank you so very much for understanding and for your valuable inputs.
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Does this time have to be a "waste" for you? With no productivity? That seems pretty extreme.
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Does this time have to be a "waste" for you? With no productivity? That seems pretty extreme.
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Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc. so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white Because I either go out or I don't. I have to compromise my values and everything I worked hard to preserve for the last few months to go out, even if I put on extra protection etc. And I just rigidly refuse to compromise my values because I don't believe it's right. Because if I had done that, I would have done that already, and long ago. And even though it's really hard on me. yeah exactly. Because people are being selfish and are subjecting others to risks even if they don't care about themselves. but I know I am pretty extreme in my thinking. I really love the outdoors and I go out pretty often before the pandemic. But it's just that my own thinking is rigid and made up about it. But anyhow, that's the situation in a nutshell. yeah I understand your thinking with the grey areas as well. I suppose for this case, it's all black and white for me, no grea areas or compromises. that's good analysis by the way. But anyhow I am good to go then. Thank you so very much for understanding and for your valuable inputs.
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it's a fascinating area though, fascinating thinking. I am also curious on the social and mental implications of this in the long-run but only time will tell there will be so much research and books written about our times. well I do a lot of "waste" at home. So I am quite sluggish and lazy and lost at home.
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Thanks for saying that! I liked talking with you, and we can wrap this up. I guess I'm saying you sound thoughtful and intelligent, I'm confident that you could find ways to get more out of this time if that's what you're wanting to do.
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Thanks for saying that! I liked talking with you, and we can wrap this up. I guess I'm saying you sound thoughtful and intelligent, I'm confident that you could find ways to get more out of this time if that's what you're wanting to do.
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Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc. so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white Because I either go out or I don't. I have to compromise my values and everything I worked hard to preserve for the last few months to go out, even if I put on extra protection etc. And I just rigidly refuse to compromise my values because I don't believe it's right. Because if I had done that, I would have done that already, and long ago. And even though it's really hard on me. yeah exactly. Because people are being selfish and are subjecting others to risks even if they don't care about themselves. but I know I am pretty extreme in my thinking. I really love the outdoors and I go out pretty often before the pandemic. But it's just that my own thinking is rigid and made up about it. But anyhow, that's the situation in a nutshell. yeah I understand your thinking with the grey areas as well. I suppose for this case, it's all black and white for me, no grea areas or compromises. that's good analysis by the way. But anyhow I am good to go then. Thank you so very much for understanding and for your valuable inputs. it's a fascinating area though, fascinating thinking. I am also curious on the social and mental implications of this in the long-run but only time will tell there will be so much research and books written about our times. well I do a lot of "waste" at home. So I am quite sluggish and lazy and lost at home.
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I am productive but not as driven or productive as before at home. for sure yeah. I am sure we can get through all this in one piece eventually. I was thinking this also that even though this is a very tough time, we will look back on this about years from now, and say wow, we got through all that!
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Not as productive? Of course! It's a pandemic. We all are. :) Hope you're not too hard on yourself right now.
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Not as productive? Of course! It's a pandemic. We all are. :) Hope you're not too hard on yourself right now.
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Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc. so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white Because I either go out or I don't. I have to compromise my values and everything I worked hard to preserve for the last few months to go out, even if I put on extra protection etc. And I just rigidly refuse to compromise my values because I don't believe it's right. Because if I had done that, I would have done that already, and long ago. And even though it's really hard on me. yeah exactly. Because people are being selfish and are subjecting others to risks even if they don't care about themselves. but I know I am pretty extreme in my thinking. I really love the outdoors and I go out pretty often before the pandemic. But it's just that my own thinking is rigid and made up about it. But anyhow, that's the situation in a nutshell. yeah I understand your thinking with the grey areas as well. I suppose for this case, it's all black and white for me, no grea areas or compromises. that's good analysis by the way. But anyhow I am good to go then. Thank you so very much for understanding and for your valuable inputs. it's a fascinating area though, fascinating thinking. I am also curious on the social and mental implications of this in the long-run but only time will tell there will be so much research and books written about our times. well I do a lot of "waste" at home. So I am quite sluggish and lazy and lost at home. I am productive but not as driven or productive as before at home. for sure yeah. I am sure we can get through all this in one piece eventually. I was thinking this also that even though this is a very tough time, we will look back on this about years from now, and say wow, we got through all that!
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no no I am okay thanks for asking I am just kind of spelling in out the details of my thinking and how my life has been so far I am actually okay so no worries
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Ha, exactly. Maybe we're not all thriving and getting rich and adding 15 pounds of muscle during this time. But we can get through it.
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Ha, exactly. Maybe we're not all thriving and getting rich and adding 15 pounds of muscle during this time. But we can get through it.
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Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc. so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white Because I either go out or I don't. I have to compromise my values and everything I worked hard to preserve for the last few months to go out, even if I put on extra protection etc. And I just rigidly refuse to compromise my values because I don't believe it's right. Because if I had done that, I would have done that already, and long ago. And even though it's really hard on me. yeah exactly. Because people are being selfish and are subjecting others to risks even if they don't care about themselves. but I know I am pretty extreme in my thinking. I really love the outdoors and I go out pretty often before the pandemic. But it's just that my own thinking is rigid and made up about it. But anyhow, that's the situation in a nutshell. yeah I understand your thinking with the grey areas as well. I suppose for this case, it's all black and white for me, no grea areas or compromises. that's good analysis by the way. But anyhow I am good to go then. Thank you so very much for understanding and for your valuable inputs. it's a fascinating area though, fascinating thinking. I am also curious on the social and mental implications of this in the long-run but only time will tell there will be so much research and books written about our times. well I do a lot of "waste" at home. So I am quite sluggish and lazy and lost at home. I am productive but not as driven or productive as before at home. for sure yeah. I am sure we can get through all this in one piece eventually. I was thinking this also that even though this is a very tough time, we will look back on this about years from now, and say wow, we got through all that! no no I am okay thanks for asking I am just kind of spelling in out the details of my thinking and how my life has been so far I am actually okay so no worries
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yup. Exactly. Lost time can always be made up later. okay then. I am good to go. Thanks again and thank you for your input. It does help to just kind of vent in a way.
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Before we quit, would you want to say one specific thing you know you can do today to help yourself out?
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Before we quit, would you want to say one specific thing you know you can do today to help yourself out?
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Question
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Question
| 12,024 |
neutral
| 0.005071 | 0.000134 | 0.000305 | 0.131078 | 0.858452 | 0.001233 | 0.003728 |
1027
| 17 |
anxiety
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ongoing_depression
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related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc. so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white Because I either go out or I don't. I have to compromise my values and everything I worked hard to preserve for the last few months to go out, even if I put on extra protection etc. And I just rigidly refuse to compromise my values because I don't believe it's right. Because if I had done that, I would have done that already, and long ago. And even though it's really hard on me. yeah exactly. Because people are being selfish and are subjecting others to risks even if they don't care about themselves. but I know I am pretty extreme in my thinking. I really love the outdoors and I go out pretty often before the pandemic. But it's just that my own thinking is rigid and made up about it. But anyhow, that's the situation in a nutshell. yeah I understand your thinking with the grey areas as well. I suppose for this case, it's all black and white for me, no grea areas or compromises. that's good analysis by the way. But anyhow I am good to go then. Thank you so very much for understanding and for your valuable inputs. it's a fascinating area though, fascinating thinking. I am also curious on the social and mental implications of this in the long-run but only time will tell there will be so much research and books written about our times. well I do a lot of "waste" at home. So I am quite sluggish and lazy and lost at home. I am productive but not as driven or productive as before at home. for sure yeah. I am sure we can get through all this in one piece eventually. I was thinking this also that even though this is a very tough time, we will look back on this about years from now, and say wow, we got through all that! no no I am okay thanks for asking I am just kind of spelling in out the details of my thinking and how my life has been so far I am actually okay so no worries yup. Exactly. Lost time can always be made up later. okay then. I am good to go. Thanks again and thank you for your input. It does help to just kind of vent in a way.
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Yeah for sure I worked out a little bit before I started the chat. I am also doing some online courses on my own time. So I will keep working hard on those. And I hope to get back more into the routine of working out. I really do think it helps my mood if I just make more time and motivation for that. And you seem intelligent and analytical also and you know what I mean. So I do appreciate your time and input
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Nice! Good job with those things.
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Nice! Good job with those things.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,025 |
happy
| 0.000756 | 0.000059 | 0.000105 | 0.972128 | 0.026021 | 0.000232 | 0.000699 |
1027
| 18 |
anxiety
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ongoing_depression
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related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc. so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white Because I either go out or I don't. I have to compromise my values and everything I worked hard to preserve for the last few months to go out, even if I put on extra protection etc. And I just rigidly refuse to compromise my values because I don't believe it's right. Because if I had done that, I would have done that already, and long ago. And even though it's really hard on me. yeah exactly. Because people are being selfish and are subjecting others to risks even if they don't care about themselves. but I know I am pretty extreme in my thinking. I really love the outdoors and I go out pretty often before the pandemic. But it's just that my own thinking is rigid and made up about it. But anyhow, that's the situation in a nutshell. yeah I understand your thinking with the grey areas as well. I suppose for this case, it's all black and white for me, no grea areas or compromises. that's good analysis by the way. But anyhow I am good to go then. Thank you so very much for understanding and for your valuable inputs. it's a fascinating area though, fascinating thinking. I am also curious on the social and mental implications of this in the long-run but only time will tell there will be so much research and books written about our times. well I do a lot of "waste" at home. So I am quite sluggish and lazy and lost at home. I am productive but not as driven or productive as before at home. for sure yeah. I am sure we can get through all this in one piece eventually. I was thinking this also that even though this is a very tough time, we will look back on this about years from now, and say wow, we got through all that! no no I am okay thanks for asking I am just kind of spelling in out the details of my thinking and how my life has been so far I am actually okay so no worries yup. Exactly. Lost time can always be made up later. okay then. I am good to go. Thanks again and thank you for your input. It does help to just kind of vent in a way. Yeah for sure I worked out a little bit before I started the chat. I am also doing some online courses on my own time. So I will keep working hard on those. And I hope to get back more into the routine of working out. I really do think it helps my mood if I just make more time and motivation for that. And you seem intelligent and analytical also and you know what I mean. So I do appreciate your time and input
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thanks. I hope you best of luck then with all your endeavours. I know we can all get through this time. Thank you. stay well and stay safe my friend
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Right on, same to you. It's okay to feel anxious right now. It's okay to feel unproductive right now. It's also okay to keep on doing the things that make you feel okay. Great job keeping up the workouts and the classes.
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Right on, same to you. It's okay to feel anxious right now. It's okay to feel unproductive right now. It's also okay to keep on doing the things that make you feel okay. Great job keeping up the workouts and the classes.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,026 |
neutral
| 0.001638 | 0.000049 | 0.000205 | 0.003711 | 0.99354 | 0.000274 | 0.000583 |
1027
| 19 |
anxiety
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ongoing_depression
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related to the current pandemic
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am here to discuss my anxiety over the current pandemic. Thank you very much for your understanding. Yeah it's tough especially with rising cases for the past two weeks or so in my city. I live in Canada and my city is pretty good so far and really low on numbers but have been seeing new cases every day for the last two weeks or so so that adds anxiety to me when I go out and I am more on guard and paranoid And we had a lock-down earlier this year and yet, with the exception of one province, every province remains operational at full speed despite lock-downs earlier, and now a lot of provinces are seeing record cases with the second wave. yeah I hope you get through this okay also and stay safe and well. I go out pretty much only when I have a purpose and personal admin/errands. I work about one or two days a week out of my home. So with the rising cases, I just feel anxious having to get out of the safety of my home. I was a lot more anxious earlier this year though. I am much more used to it at this time. And it's hard where everyday is the same for me and staying at home, without a change of pace like even simple walks outside, going to the gym, or going to hike or run etc. I pretty much missed out the whole year after March. My life has been on hold and I am just surprised that it's even november now, because it feels like I am still stuck in March. yeah I have been adjusting to it and the cases were down and even to zero in my city for most of the last few months, but there's definitely the start of a new community spread now. yes correct Plus there's a loss of routine or motivation. I procrastinate a lot and get lost in thought or lost without thought. I don't work out as much as I used to (inside or outside of home). I don't eat as well and my sleep pattern is not good at all (I sleep a lot later than I should). So I am disappointed in myself to say the least. and also feeling guilty to see myself waste my life and time this way and not being productive now I am more used to it of course, but this summarizes how I have been feeling for most of this year. yes you're right. That's exactly it. I think it's going to be this way for a long time. I see other people compromising and taking the risk to go out for walks or runs, and even to the gym. I could have done that for the last few months when we had zero cases for awhile, but I didn't want to gamble and compromise. And I still see those people as selfish when I choose to do what I think is right. yeah no worries. It's good that you understand and thank you for listening. We won't know more about the mental implications and the sociological aspects of the pandemic probably until years to come. I thought about that to the gym, I certainly would. Because it's indoors and I do feel it's unsafe as there are many equipment that others could touch. Running I felt that way because the path that I usually run on is narrow and other people walk through it also. However, I did have second thoughts about that when the case numbers were down. But I finally decided to keep doing it and stick to all outdoor trips for essential business. but that's just me, and I know we all have different personalities, preferences, and tolerances of risks and acceptances, etc. so in my opinion, I feel a little indignant at the people that have been going out frivolously like there's nothing going on, to even gamble their safety and their family's. Like I live in an apartment building, and the people around me and below me are always going out, even for the last few months. So I don't feel safe either but also indignant that others are doing what I could have done, but that I had compromised on for my safety and everyone else's safety. So I just didn't feel it was fair for them to do that when I could have done that anytime I wanted. black and white thinking...let me think for this pandemic, it's pretty much black and white Because I either go out or I don't. I have to compromise my values and everything I worked hard to preserve for the last few months to go out, even if I put on extra protection etc. And I just rigidly refuse to compromise my values because I don't believe it's right. Because if I had done that, I would have done that already, and long ago. And even though it's really hard on me. yeah exactly. Because people are being selfish and are subjecting others to risks even if they don't care about themselves. but I know I am pretty extreme in my thinking. I really love the outdoors and I go out pretty often before the pandemic. But it's just that my own thinking is rigid and made up about it. But anyhow, that's the situation in a nutshell. yeah I understand your thinking with the grey areas as well. I suppose for this case, it's all black and white for me, no grea areas or compromises. that's good analysis by the way. But anyhow I am good to go then. Thank you so very much for understanding and for your valuable inputs. it's a fascinating area though, fascinating thinking. I am also curious on the social and mental implications of this in the long-run but only time will tell there will be so much research and books written about our times. well I do a lot of "waste" at home. So I am quite sluggish and lazy and lost at home. I am productive but not as driven or productive as before at home. for sure yeah. I am sure we can get through all this in one piece eventually. I was thinking this also that even though this is a very tough time, we will look back on this about years from now, and say wow, we got through all that! no no I am okay thanks for asking I am just kind of spelling in out the details of my thinking and how my life has been so far I am actually okay so no worries yup. Exactly. Lost time can always be made up later. okay then. I am good to go. Thanks again and thank you for your input. It does help to just kind of vent in a way. Yeah for sure I worked out a little bit before I started the chat. I am also doing some online courses on my own time. So I will keep working hard on those. And I hope to get back more into the routine of working out. I really do think it helps my mood if I just make more time and motivation for that. And you seem intelligent and analytical also and you know what I mean. So I do appreciate your time and input thanks. I hope you best of luck then with all your endeavours. I know we can all get through this time. Thank you. stay well and stay safe my friend
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Thank you and all the best.
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Stay well and safe to you too! Take care.
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Stay well and safe to you too! Take care.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,027 |
happy
| 0.000584 | 0.000021 | 0.000011 | 0.999165 | 0.000123 | 0.000024 | 0.000071 |
1028
| 1 |
anxiety
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problems_with_friends
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The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future.
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That's a very understandable worry to have, and I'm sorry you're dealing with that right now.
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That's a very understandable worry to have, and I'm sorry you're dealing with that right now.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,029 |
fear
| 0.000132 | 0.000084 | 0.998434 | 0.000058 | 0.000745 | 0.000482 | 0.000066 |
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1028
| 2 |
anxiety
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problems_with_friends
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The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future.
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The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night.
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Is there a specific path or event in the future that you are worried about?
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Is there a specific path or event in the future that you are worried about?
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Question
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Question
| 12,030 |
fear
| 0.000873 | 0.000193 | 0.988818 | 0.000258 | 0.001431 | 0.008175 | 0.00025 |
1028
| 3 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future. The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night.
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Yes, how the pandemic will play out mostly.
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Things are very uncertain these days. I certainly have never experienced anything like it.
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Things are very uncertain these days. I certainly have never experienced anything like it.
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 12,031 |
neutral
| 0.002654 | 0.000041 | 0.000081 | 0.000449 | 0.992563 | 0.000703 | 0.00351 |
1028
| 4 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
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The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future. The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night. Yes, how the pandemic will play out mostly.
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I guess we are all in the same boat
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Personally, I have tried to lessen my anxiety by limiting my intake of news and social media. No matter what one might believe, there's always someone out there that's apparently going to take it to an extreme, and reading over and over about that is emotionally exhausting.
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Personally, I have tried to lessen my anxiety by limiting my intake of news and social media. No matter what one might believe, there's always someone out there that's apparently going to take it to an extreme, and reading over and over about that is emotionally exhausting.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 12,032 |
neutral
| 0.002807 | 0.000079 | 0.000201 | 0.000305 | 0.984094 | 0.002361 | 0.010154 |
1028
| 5 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
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The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future. The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night. Yes, how the pandemic will play out mostly. I guess we are all in the same boat
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I think that definitely plays into it. I want to be informed, but not diluged.
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Or constantly terrified.
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Or constantly terrified. We can't control the world, or even another person really, but we can control ourselves.
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Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions
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Reflection of feelings
| 12,033 |
neutral
| 0.008431 | 0.000105 | 0.000112 | 0.000191 | 0.983885 | 0.000734 | 0.006542 |
1028
| 6 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
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The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future. The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night. Yes, how the pandemic will play out mostly. I guess we are all in the same boat I think that definitely plays into it. I want to be informed, but not diluged.
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How do you comfort yourself that it's not that bad?
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Well, I don't try to deny the seriousness of the situation at all. But I do try to keep myself and my family healthy, physically and mentally, and maintain my close friendships via text/video.
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Well, I don't try to deny the seriousness of the situation at all. But I do try to keep myself and my family healthy, physically and mentally, and maintain my close friendships via text/video.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 12,034 |
neutral
| 0.010637 | 0.000326 | 0.001145 | 0.000581 | 0.954988 | 0.012429 | 0.019895 |
1028
| 7 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
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The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future. The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night. Yes, how the pandemic will play out mostly. I guess we are all in the same boat I think that definitely plays into it. I want to be informed, but not diluged. How do you comfort yourself that it's not that bad?
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Thanks for your insights. It is helpful to talk it out.
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And I schedule my day, even though I'm working and going to school from home. I schedule breaks to go out and enjoy the fresh air, dance like an idiot to some music, play with my dogs, or whatever is refreshing.
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And I schedule my day, even though I'm working and going to school from home. I schedule breaks to go out and enjoy the fresh air, dance like an idiot to some music, play with my dogs, or whatever is refreshing.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 12,035 |
happy
| 0.010531 | 0.000242 | 0.00059 | 0.68467 | 0.291265 | 0.002773 | 0.009929 |
1028
| 8 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
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The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future. The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night. Yes, how the pandemic will play out mostly. I guess we are all in the same boat I think that definitely plays into it. I want to be informed, but not diluged. How do you comfort yourself that it's not that bad? Thanks for your insights. It is helpful to talk it out.
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Now is the time to focus and be disciplined. I will take your advice.
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A routine has been really really helpful. I also make sure to get plenty of sunshine. As the winter comes in, we have shorter days and it feels suffocating.
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A routine has been really really helpful. I also make sure to get plenty of sunshine. As the winter comes in, we have shorter days and it feels suffocating.
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Others
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Others
| 12,036 |
neutral
| 0.001672 | 0.000037 | 0.00013 | 0.000316 | 0.995797 | 0.000389 | 0.00166 |
1028
| 9 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future. The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night. Yes, how the pandemic will play out mostly. I guess we are all in the same boat I think that definitely plays into it. I want to be informed, but not diluged. How do you comfort yourself that it's not that bad? Thanks for your insights. It is helpful to talk it out. Now is the time to focus and be disciplined. I will take your advice.
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Yes, the short days are a major depressant I feel like those around me dont understand my anxiety
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That must be frustrating. I've learned there are just some people I can't trust with my vulnerabilities.
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That must be frustrating. I've learned there are just some people I can't trust with my vulnerabilities.
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 12,037 |
sad
| 0.00045 | 0.000301 | 0.447065 | 0.002763 | 0.000575 | 0.547202 | 0.001644 |
1028
| 10 |
anxiety
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problems_with_friends
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The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future. The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night. Yes, how the pandemic will play out mostly. I guess we are all in the same boat I think that definitely plays into it. I want to be informed, but not diluged. How do you comfort yourself that it's not that bad? Thanks for your insights. It is helpful to talk it out. Now is the time to focus and be disciplined. I will take your advice. Yes, the short days are a major depressant I feel like those around me dont understand my anxiety
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I may overtrust
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But again, you cannot control how they react, you can only control yourself. And that's not to say you can turn off your emotions or anything, but once you let go of the idea that you can control someone else to your liking, you will feel better. Less out of control. Because that's a lot of what is disturbing about the pandemic. We have zero control over it.
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But again, you cannot control how they react, you can only control yourself. And that's not to say you can turn off your emotions or anything, but once you let go of the idea that you can control someone else to your liking, you will feel better. Less out of control. Because that's a lot of what is disturbing about the pandemic. We have zero control over it.
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 12,038 |
angry
| 0.769467 | 0.009341 | 0.001208 | 0.000229 | 0.033615 | 0.139524 | 0.046616 |
1028
| 11 |
anxiety
|
problems_with_friends
|
The current economic downturn has me worried for the future.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
I am really worried about the future. The pandemic and economic downturn keep me up at night. Yes, how the pandemic will play out mostly. I guess we are all in the same boat I think that definitely plays into it. I want to be informed, but not diluged. How do you comfort yourself that it's not that bad? Thanks for your insights. It is helpful to talk it out. Now is the time to focus and be disciplined. I will take your advice. Yes, the short days are a major depressant I feel like those around me dont understand my anxiety I may overtrust
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You're good at this. Thanks for your support. Ending chat when timer allows.
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Sure thing, I wish you luck, and thank you for the compliment :-)
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Sure thing, I wish you luck, and thank you for the compliment :-)
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Others
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Others
| 12,039 |
angry
| 0.997197 | 0.000056 | 0.000032 | 0.000997 | 0.001492 | 0.000119 | 0.000108 |
1032
| 1 |
depression
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ongoing_depression
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I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you??
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I am fine as well, thanks for asking. How may i support you today?
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I am fine as well, thanks for asking. How may i support you today?
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Question
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Question
| 12,080 |
happy
| 0.00305 | 0.000024 | 0.000037 | 0.996571 | 0.000216 | 0.000029 | 0.000073 |
|
1032
| 2 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you??
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I have been feeling very depressed and i don't know what to do.
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I understand. May I please know what is the cause of your depression?
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I understand. May I please know what is the cause of your depression?
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Question
|
Question
| 12,081 |
sad
| 0.000164 | 0.000097 | 0.000094 | 0.000025 | 0.000154 | 0.999413 | 0.000053 |
1032
| 3 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you?? I have been feeling very depressed and i don't know what to do.
|
I think the state of the world and not being able to go to work
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Yes. The world is in a pretty bad place due to the pandemic. It has caused infinite sufferings to numerous people.
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Yes. The world is in a pretty bad place due to the pandemic. It has caused infinite sufferings to numerous people.
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 12,082 |
sad
| 0.003832 | 0.001097 | 0.000283 | 0.000056 | 0.009257 | 0.980336 | 0.005138 |
1032
| 4 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you?? I have been feeling very depressed and i don't know what to do. I think the state of the world and not being able to go to work
|
How do I handle that/
|
We are all in this together. With proper emotional support, each of us can overcome these turbulent times.
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We are all in this together. With proper emotional support, each of us can overcome these turbulent times.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,083 |
neutral
| 0.194425 | 0.00047 | 0.001013 | 0.000933 | 0.605705 | 0.011723 | 0.18573 |
1032
| 5 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you?? I have been feeling very depressed and i don't know what to do. I think the state of the world and not being able to go to work How do I handle that/
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Any suggestions on things I can do? I feel so overwhelmed
|
It may seem pretty bad now with the cold weather setting in at many parts of the world. But there is a vaccine coming soon.
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It may seem pretty bad now with the cold weather setting in at many parts of the world. But there is a vaccine coming soon.
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Information
|
Information
| 12,084 |
surprised
| 0.000172 | 0.000468 | 0.312795 | 0.002005 | 0.000483 | 0.000752 | 0.683325 |
1032
| 6 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you?? I have been feeling very depressed and i don't know what to do. I think the state of the world and not being able to go to work How do I handle that/ Any suggestions on things I can do? I feel so overwhelmed
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I really do hope so, it's a glimmer of hope
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Think about the positive aspects of an effective vaccine. Do not stress too much about factors outside your control.
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Think about the positive aspects of an effective vaccine. Do not stress too much about factors outside your control. I know we can feel helpless at some times, but try to focus on things under YOUR control - like following health professional advise - masks, social distancing and general sanitization
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Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 12,085 |
neutral
| 0.001243 | 0.00035 | 0.000683 | 0.351621 | 0.64064 | 0.003663 | 0.001799 |
1032
| 7 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you?? I have been feeling very depressed and i don't know what to do. I think the state of the world and not being able to go to work How do I handle that/ Any suggestions on things I can do? I feel so overwhelmed I really do hope so, it's a glimmer of hope
|
That's true!! The masks and social distancing are very ehlpful. It's good to feel like i am doing my part. Not seeing family for the holidays will be very hard!!
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I agree. Family is our only an true source of strength. Being away from them can be really hard. But atleast, thanks to technology, they are only a video/phone call away.
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I agree. Family is our only an true source of strength. Being away from them can be really hard. But atleast, thanks to technology, they are only a video/phone call away. Regarding your job, I know a lot of jobs and industries have been affected. But at the same time, it has exploded demand in personal delivery services. If you are able to drive, would you be willing to explore the option of part time grocery/food delivery driver?
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Information, Question
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,086 |
sad
| 0.001307 | 0.000134 | 0.000078 | 0.003928 | 0.001633 | 0.992711 | 0.00021 |
1032
| 8 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you?? I have been feeling very depressed and i don't know what to do. I think the state of the world and not being able to go to work How do I handle that/ Any suggestions on things I can do? I feel so overwhelmed I really do hope so, it's a glimmer of hope That's true!! The masks and social distancing are very ehlpful. It's good to feel like i am doing my part. Not seeing family for the holidays will be very hard!!
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My business has been really busy but i am happy to have the distraction I miss going into the office and seeing people. it's very lonely
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Oh that's good to hear! I apologize for the assumption earlier.
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Oh that's good to hear! I apologize for the assumption earlier.
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Others
|
Others
| 12,087 |
sad
| 0.000572 | 0.000068 | 0.000068 | 0.015669 | 0.000593 | 0.982828 | 0.000201 |
1032
| 9 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you?? I have been feeling very depressed and i don't know what to do. I think the state of the world and not being able to go to work How do I handle that/ Any suggestions on things I can do? I feel so overwhelmed I really do hope so, it's a glimmer of hope That's true!! The masks and social distancing are very ehlpful. It's good to feel like i am doing my part. Not seeing family for the holidays will be very hard!! My business has been really busy but i am happy to have the distraction I miss going into the office and seeing people. it's very lonely
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Thank you for all your help today!!! You've been really inspiring
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I appreciate your feedback! Just hang in there and we shall overcome this :)
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I appreciate your feedback! Just hang in there and we shall overcome this :)
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Others
|
Others
| 12,088 |
happy
| 0.0002 | 0.000015 | 0.000011 | 0.999657 | 0.000048 | 0.000017 | 0.000052 |
1032
| 10 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am very depressed and i dont know what to do
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello, i am good, how are you?? I have been feeling very depressed and i don't know what to do. I think the state of the world and not being able to go to work How do I handle that/ Any suggestions on things I can do? I feel so overwhelmed I really do hope so, it's a glimmer of hope That's true!! The masks and social distancing are very ehlpful. It's good to feel like i am doing my part. Not seeing family for the holidays will be very hard!! My business has been really busy but i am happy to have the distraction I miss going into the office and seeing people. it's very lonely Thank you for all your help today!!! You've been really inspiring
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You too !! have a great day. Have you ever felt this way yourself/ I hope this is normal and other people are feeling that way too. I don't like to be alone.
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Yes, a lot of times! You are not alone in this.
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Yes, a lot of times! You are not alone in this.
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Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 12,089 |
happy
| 0.013253 | 0.000618 | 0.001078 | 0.506288 | 0.455542 | 0.018915 | 0.004305 |
1033
| 1 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet.
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Okay, I know the feeling! Can you at least make a start tonight? That will make you feel better.
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Okay, I know the feeling! Can you at least make a start tonight? That will make you feel better.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 12,091 |
fear
| 0.000096 | 0.00005 | 0.997492 | 0.000272 | 0.000377 | 0.001603 | 0.00011 |
|
1033
| 2 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet.
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That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals.
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Naughty! Though I must admit I understand that feeling too ;) Could you not at least rattle out a few paragraphs before you go?
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Naughty! Though I must admit I understand that feeling too ;) Could you not at least rattle out a few paragraphs before you go?
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,092 |
happy
| 0.002007 | 0.000494 | 0.000046 | 0.967257 | 0.025701 | 0.003473 | 0.001022 |
1033
| 3 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals.
|
That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first.
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And try not to overdo it or you won't be able to work tomorrow either and then you'll really be in trouble
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And try not to overdo it or you won't be able to work tomorrow either and then you'll really be in trouble Have you at least done some groundwork for the paper even if you've not started writing it yet?
|
Providing Suggestions, Question
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,093 |
neutral
| 0.003923 | 0.000379 | 0.000315 | 0.001103 | 0.813098 | 0.001316 | 0.179866 |
1033
| 4 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first.
|
I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk.
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Well at least you can continue mentally preparing for it when you are out tonight
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Well at least you can continue mentally preparing for it when you are out tonight Nobody ever INTENDS to get blackout drunk :D
|
Providing Suggestions, Information
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,094 |
neutral
| 0.013796 | 0.000279 | 0.000431 | 0.000653 | 0.966835 | 0.003527 | 0.014478 |
1033
| 5 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first. I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk.
|
Sometimes I intend to, but that is a different story. Yeah I could maybe get some ideas from friends too.
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And you never know, you might get a creative burst when you get back and rattle it off in one.
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And you never know, you might get a creative burst when you get back and rattle it off in one.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,095 |
neutral
| 0.001926 | 0.000039 | 0.00011 | 0.000906 | 0.992827 | 0.000407 | 0.003785 |
1033
| 6 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first. I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk. Sometimes I intend to, but that is a different story. Yeah I could maybe get some ideas from friends too.
|
Alcohol can make people creative. That's for sure.
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Oh yeah. Follow it up with a smoke and you'll be a regular Shakespeare. He was probably half cut all the time too.
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Oh yeah. Follow it up with a smoke and you'll be a regular Shakespeare. He was probably half cut all the time too.
|
Others
|
Others
| 12,096 |
neutral
| 0.011924 | 0.000865 | 0.00018 | 0.003955 | 0.949326 | 0.001371 | 0.032379 |
1033
| 7 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first. I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk. Sometimes I intend to, but that is a different story. Yeah I could maybe get some ideas from friends too. Alcohol can make people creative. That's for sure.
|
YEah or had some good mushrooms. I've been wanting to try shrooms just don 't have a good source
|
i live in a rural area with lots of forests :P
|
i live in a rural area with lots of forests :P
|
Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,097 |
sad
| 0.03693 | 0.003932 | 0.002664 | 0.006711 | 0.208112 | 0.66777 | 0.07388 |
1033
| 8 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first. I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk. Sometimes I intend to, but that is a different story. Yeah I could maybe get some ideas from friends too. Alcohol can make people creative. That's for sure. YEah or had some good mushrooms. I've been wanting to try shrooms just don 't have a good source
|
I've thought about growing my own but can't do that in the dorms....too risky.
|
Hmph I am not a very good counsellor am I? I should be telling you to stay in and work. But hey, life is short and beer is good.
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Hmph I am not a very good counsellor am I? I should be telling you to stay in and work. But hey, life is short and beer is good.
|
Others
|
Others
| 12,098 |
angry
| 0.537172 | 0.006015 | 0.049075 | 0.000986 | 0.233288 | 0.136002 | 0.037462 |
1033
| 9 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first. I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk. Sometimes I intend to, but that is a different story. Yeah I could maybe get some ideas from friends too. Alcohol can make people creative. That's for sure. YEah or had some good mushrooms. I've been wanting to try shrooms just don 't have a good source I've thought about growing my own but can't do that in the dorms....too risky.
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You gave some good advice . Nothing wrong with a little side chat to prove we are human.
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Of course :). Hmm it's been many years since I was in Uni. Too many.
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Of course :). Hmm it's been many years since I was in Uni. Too many.
|
Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,099 |
angry
| 0.524274 | 0.000548 | 0.000165 | 0.000406 | 0.458734 | 0.002529 | 0.013344 |
1033
| 10 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first. I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk. Sometimes I intend to, but that is a different story. Yeah I could maybe get some ideas from friends too. Alcohol can make people creative. That's for sure. YEah or had some good mushrooms. I've been wanting to try shrooms just don 't have a good source I've thought about growing my own but can't do that in the dorms....too risky. You gave some good advice . Nothing wrong with a little side chat to prove we are human.
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Probably not too much has changed besides the cost. But that's a whole different story about anxiety. Luckily I am going for engineering and have a half of a chance to get a job once I graduate next year.
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Ah it's a good field to be in. Do you suffer from anxiety generally or is it just over this paper?
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Ah it's a good field to be in. Do you suffer from anxiety generally or is it just over this paper?
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Question
|
Question
| 12,100 |
neutral
| 0.00671 | 0.000715 | 0.026385 | 0.431542 | 0.487016 | 0.03257 | 0.015063 |
1033
| 11 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first. I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk. Sometimes I intend to, but that is a different story. Yeah I could maybe get some ideas from friends too. Alcohol can make people creative. That's for sure. YEah or had some good mushrooms. I've been wanting to try shrooms just don 't have a good source I've thought about growing my own but can't do that in the dorms....too risky. You gave some good advice . Nothing wrong with a little side chat to prove we are human. Probably not too much has changed besides the cost. But that's a whole different story about anxiety. Luckily I am going for engineering and have a half of a chance to get a job once I graduate next year.
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Generally but it flairs up more around due dates naturally.
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and exams too I will bet. Does your school offer any free counselling?
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and exams too I will bet. Does your school offer any free counselling?
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Question
|
Question
| 12,101 |
neutral
| 0.002121 | 0.000062 | 0.000051 | 0.000813 | 0.99065 | 0.000787 | 0.005517 |
1033
| 12 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first. I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk. Sometimes I intend to, but that is a different story. Yeah I could maybe get some ideas from friends too. Alcohol can make people creative. That's for sure. YEah or had some good mushrooms. I've been wanting to try shrooms just don 't have a good source I've thought about growing my own but can't do that in the dorms....too risky. You gave some good advice . Nothing wrong with a little side chat to prove we are human. Probably not too much has changed besides the cost. But that's a whole different story about anxiety. Luckily I am going for engineering and have a half of a chance to get a job once I graduate next year. Generally but it flairs up more around due dates naturally.
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Yeah I never looked into it though. I probably should. Good idea.
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I wish you all the best with it and thanks for talking! Do enjoy your night out and don't overdo it ;)
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I wish you all the best with it and thanks for talking! Do enjoy your night out and don't overdo it ;)
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,102 |
neutral
| 0.014502 | 0.000361 | 0.000247 | 0.001675 | 0.8629 | 0.003806 | 0.116509 |
1033
| 13 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have a big paper due on Monday and I haven't started it yet. It is 50 pages long.
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello. I have a big paper due on Monday and I have anxiety over it since I didn't start it yet. That would make me feel better but I am going out drinking tonight with my college pals. That seems feasible. Figuring I had time to come on here and try to make some beer money first. I have read some source materials. Outlined some stuff in my head. Nothing down on paper yet. Yeah I am not planning on getting blackout drunk. Sometimes I intend to, but that is a different story. Yeah I could maybe get some ideas from friends too. Alcohol can make people creative. That's for sure. YEah or had some good mushrooms. I've been wanting to try shrooms just don 't have a good source I've thought about growing my own but can't do that in the dorms....too risky. You gave some good advice . Nothing wrong with a little side chat to prove we are human. Probably not too much has changed besides the cost. But that's a whole different story about anxiety. Luckily I am going for engineering and have a half of a chance to get a job once I graduate next year. Generally but it flairs up more around due dates naturally. Yeah I never looked into it though. I probably should. Good idea.
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Thank you for the help. I am going to start writing some paragraphs now!
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have fun :P (you have to be the one to press quit first, I can't this side)
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have fun :P (you have to be the one to press quit first, I can't this side)
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,103 |
happy
| 0.000412 | 0.000031 | 0.000008 | 0.99859 | 0.000789 | 0.000036 | 0.000134 |
1034
| 1 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline.
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You have some work related deadlines and you are worried about that. Correct me if I am wrong.
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You have some work related deadlines and you are worried about that. Correct me if I am wrong.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 12,105 |
sad
| 0.29231 | 0.000594 | 0.01345 | 0.000758 | 0.003028 | 0.689203 | 0.000658 |
|
1034
| 2 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline.
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That's exactly right. It's a deadline for a journal that I recently submitted a paper to.
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That must be really hard, but I know you will finish it on time.
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That must be really hard, but I know you will finish it on time.
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,106 |
neutral
| 0.026027 | 0.000117 | 0.000978 | 0.003789 | 0.931526 | 0.002905 | 0.034658 |
1034
| 3 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline. That's exactly right. It's a deadline for a journal that I recently submitted a paper to.
|
I know, I always get worked up about deadlines even though I rarely miss them. This one is a bit more important than usual, however. I am just so stressed!
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It seems it must be very challenging for you.
|
It seems it must be very challenging for you.
|
Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 12,107 |
angry
| 0.618198 | 0.000422 | 0.016569 | 0.000711 | 0.000559 | 0.363228 | 0.000313 |
1034
| 4 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline. That's exactly right. It's a deadline for a journal that I recently submitted a paper to. I know, I always get worked up about deadlines even though I rarely miss them. This one is a bit more important than usual, however. I am just so stressed!
|
Exactly! This is a big step for me in the PhD program I'm in, so it's definitely a bit more pressure than previous deadlines.
|
In such situation, I make the strategy by distributing the time and work load equally. That's how I stay energetic and motivated..
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In such situation, I make the strategy by distributing the time and work load equally. That's how I stay energetic and motivated..
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Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,108 |
fear
| 0.001195 | 0.000085 | 0.959717 | 0.035125 | 0.000714 | 0.002667 | 0.000499 |
1034
| 5 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline. That's exactly right. It's a deadline for a journal that I recently submitted a paper to. I know, I always get worked up about deadlines even though I rarely miss them. This one is a bit more important than usual, however. I am just so stressed! Exactly! This is a big step for me in the PhD program I'm in, so it's definitely a bit more pressure than previous deadlines.
|
That's a good idea. Do you mean just do a little bit each day?
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Take a rough estimate like how much can be done in a day. It will reduce your work load
|
Take a rough estimate like how much can be done in a day. It will reduce your work load
|
Others
|
Others
| 12,109 |
neutral
| 0.007604 | 0.000068 | 0.000071 | 0.000512 | 0.969328 | 0.000653 | 0.021763 |
1034
| 6 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline. That's exactly right. It's a deadline for a journal that I recently submitted a paper to. I know, I always get worked up about deadlines even though I rarely miss them. This one is a bit more important than usual, however. I am just so stressed! Exactly! This is a big step for me in the PhD program I'm in, so it's definitely a bit more pressure than previous deadlines. That's a good idea. Do you mean just do a little bit each day?
|
Well I have 30 more revisions to address and 15 more days to complete it. So, maybe I can make a goal of 2-3 revisions each day?
|
Apparently when we start working on such project, things start coming at right place itself.
|
Apparently when we start working on such project, things start coming at right place itself.
|
Information
|
Information
| 12,110 |
neutral
| 0.001672 | 0.000029 | 0.000113 | 0.000292 | 0.993832 | 0.000593 | 0.003469 |
1034
| 7 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline. That's exactly right. It's a deadline for a journal that I recently submitted a paper to. I know, I always get worked up about deadlines even though I rarely miss them. This one is a bit more important than usual, however. I am just so stressed! Exactly! This is a big step for me in the PhD program I'm in, so it's definitely a bit more pressure than previous deadlines. That's a good idea. Do you mean just do a little bit each day? Well I have 30 more revisions to address and 15 more days to complete it. So, maybe I can make a goal of 2-3 revisions each day?
|
Thank you, you have helped me make a trajectory for how to accomplish this. Although, I am still very anxious about the difficulty.
|
Don't think too much about the remaining, just focus on what you are doing presently.
|
Don't think too much about the remaining, just focus on what you are doing presently.
|
Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,111 |
fear
| 0.000035 | 0.000038 | 0.998826 | 0.000548 | 0.000089 | 0.00026 | 0.000204 |
1034
| 8 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline. That's exactly right. It's a deadline for a journal that I recently submitted a paper to. I know, I always get worked up about deadlines even though I rarely miss them. This one is a bit more important than usual, however. I am just so stressed! Exactly! This is a big step for me in the PhD program I'm in, so it's definitely a bit more pressure than previous deadlines. That's a good idea. Do you mean just do a little bit each day? Well I have 30 more revisions to address and 15 more days to complete it. So, maybe I can make a goal of 2-3 revisions each day? Thank you, you have helped me make a trajectory for how to accomplish this. Although, I am still very anxious about the difficulty.
|
Good idea, the present moment is better to focus on. Any recommendations on relaxation techniques?
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Try to take shot break or do deep breathing in middle. It will help you in staying energetic and focused.
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Try to take shot break or do deep breathing in middle. It will help you in staying energetic and focused.
|
Others
|
Others
| 12,112 |
neutral
| 0.000943 | 0.000043 | 0.000128 | 0.000705 | 0.990591 | 0.000815 | 0.006775 |
1034
| 9 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline. That's exactly right. It's a deadline for a journal that I recently submitted a paper to. I know, I always get worked up about deadlines even though I rarely miss them. This one is a bit more important than usual, however. I am just so stressed! Exactly! This is a big step for me in the PhD program I'm in, so it's definitely a bit more pressure than previous deadlines. That's a good idea. Do you mean just do a little bit each day? Well I have 30 more revisions to address and 15 more days to complete it. So, maybe I can make a goal of 2-3 revisions each day? Thank you, you have helped me make a trajectory for how to accomplish this. Although, I am still very anxious about the difficulty. Good idea, the present moment is better to focus on. Any recommendations on relaxation techniques?
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Yeah, like little incentives throughout. I think I will definitely incorporate deep breathing. Let me try now and I'll let you know how I feel.
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Sure! :)
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Sure! :)
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,113 |
neutral
| 0.000612 | 0.000074 | 0.000241 | 0.002337 | 0.992019 | 0.000339 | 0.004377 |
1034
| 10 |
anxiety
|
procrastination
|
I only have two weeks left to make major revisions to my scientific paper that was recently submitted to a journal. I am freaking out.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, I'm actually pretty stressed about an upcoming deadline. That's exactly right. It's a deadline for a journal that I recently submitted a paper to. I know, I always get worked up about deadlines even though I rarely miss them. This one is a bit more important than usual, however. I am just so stressed! Exactly! This is a big step for me in the PhD program I'm in, so it's definitely a bit more pressure than previous deadlines. That's a good idea. Do you mean just do a little bit each day? Well I have 30 more revisions to address and 15 more days to complete it. So, maybe I can make a goal of 2-3 revisions each day? Thank you, you have helped me make a trajectory for how to accomplish this. Although, I am still very anxious about the difficulty. Good idea, the present moment is better to focus on. Any recommendations on relaxation techniques? Yeah, like little incentives throughout. I think I will definitely incorporate deep breathing. Let me try now and I'll let you know how I feel.
|
Wow, I just did the breathing technique and I do feel more relaxed. Thanks for the advice!
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That's Great! Best wishes for you.
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That's Great! Best wishes for you.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 12,114 |
happy
| 0.000027 | 0.000013 | 0.000008 | 0.999734 | 0.000046 | 0.000017 | 0.000155 |
1035
| 1 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello
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how are you doing this morning
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how are you doing this morning
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Others
|
Others
| 12,115 |
neutral
| 0.004226 | 0.000116 | 0.000071 | 0.00422 | 0.989792 | 0.000161 | 0.001414 |
|
1035
| 2 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello
|
I am a little depressed just not feeling myself
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sorry to hear that, why are you soo down?
|
sorry to hear that, why are you soo down?
|
Question
|
Question
| 12,116 |
sad
| 0.000237 | 0.000203 | 0.000044 | 0.000036 | 0.000565 | 0.998814 | 0.000101 |
1035
| 3 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am a little depressed just not feeling myself
|
There are a lot of things, but for starters, my fiance that I've been with for 3 years cannot get married as planned because of the international border policy and she recently received 3rd degree burns her mother, father and herself all have COVID as well and her grandfather died of COVID and her grandmother is hospitalized her mom has lung cancer and it all makes me very upset
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if i heard you correctly, your fiancee which her family is going through a lot couldn't get married to you because of border restriction?
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if i heard you correctly, your fiancee which her family is going through a lot couldn't get married to you because of border restriction?
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 12,117 |
sad
| 0.000442 | 0.000111 | 0.000218 | 0.000044 | 0.003007 | 0.996114 | 0.000064 |
1035
| 4 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am a little depressed just not feeling myself There are a lot of things, but for starters, my fiance that I've been with for 3 years cannot get married as planned because of the international border policy and she recently received 3rd degree burns her mother, father and herself all have COVID as well and her grandfather died of COVID and her grandmother is hospitalized her mom has lung cancer and it all makes me very upset
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yes, that is correct
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i can see why you are soo depressed, i am soo sorry for what both you and your fiancee is going through
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i can see why you are soo depressed, i am soo sorry for what both you and your fiancee is going through
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Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 12,118 |
neutral
| 0.035373 | 0.000123 | 0.000175 | 0.000904 | 0.924887 | 0.001058 | 0.037479 |
1035
| 5 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am a little depressed just not feeling myself There are a lot of things, but for starters, my fiance that I've been with for 3 years cannot get married as planned because of the international border policy and she recently received 3rd degree burns her mother, father and herself all have COVID as well and her grandfather died of COVID and her grandmother is hospitalized her mom has lung cancer and it all makes me very upset yes, that is correct
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thanks it feels good to say it all out loud I think I need to develop a coping mechanism
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if i may ask, where is your fiancee from?
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if i may ask, where is your fiancee from?
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Question
|
Question
| 12,119 |
happy
| 0.000054 | 0.000016 | 0.000007 | 0.999673 | 0.00016 | 0.000037 | 0.000053 |
1035
| 6 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am a little depressed just not feeling myself There are a lot of things, but for starters, my fiance that I've been with for 3 years cannot get married as planned because of the international border policy and she recently received 3rd degree burns her mother, father and herself all have COVID as well and her grandfather died of COVID and her grandmother is hospitalized her mom has lung cancer and it all makes me very upset yes, that is correct thanks it feels good to say it all out loud I think I need to develop a coping mechanism
|
Indonesia
|
i have had of such scenario before, so what step have u taken to remedy the situation
|
i have had of such scenario before, so what step have u taken to remedy the situation
|
Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,120 |
sad
| 0.016346 | 0.017228 | 0.005865 | 0.000888 | 0.143811 | 0.807104 | 0.008758 |
1035
| 7 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am a little depressed just not feeling myself There are a lot of things, but for starters, my fiance that I've been with for 3 years cannot get married as planned because of the international border policy and she recently received 3rd degree burns her mother, father and herself all have COVID as well and her grandfather died of COVID and her grandmother is hospitalized her mom has lung cancer and it all makes me very upset yes, that is correct thanks it feels good to say it all out loud I think I need to develop a coping mechanism Indonesia
|
We are looking at other options via business visa but we don't know how that will go
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if you are an American, you can just go to Indonesia, get married to your beautiful fiancee and come back as a couple
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if you are an American, you can just go to Indonesia, get married to your beautiful fiancee and come back as a couple
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,121 |
surprised
| 0.001552 | 0.00021 | 0.002268 | 0.000768 | 0.069208 | 0.001184 | 0.92481 |
1035
| 8 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am a little depressed just not feeling myself There are a lot of things, but for starters, my fiance that I've been with for 3 years cannot get married as planned because of the international border policy and she recently received 3rd degree burns her mother, father and herself all have COVID as well and her grandfather died of COVID and her grandmother is hospitalized her mom has lung cancer and it all makes me very upset yes, that is correct thanks it feels good to say it all out loud I think I need to develop a coping mechanism Indonesia We are looking at other options via business visa but we don't know how that will go
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Yes but unfortunately the borders are closed due to covid currently
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ok. what about this: go to a country like Greece that allows American, tell your fiancee to meet you there. get married over there and spend your honeymoon there too
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ok. what about this: go to a country like Greece that allows American, tell your fiancee to meet you there. get married over there and spend your honeymoon there too
|
Information
|
Information
| 12,122 |
neutral
| 0.0012 | 0.000299 | 0.000417 | 0.000063 | 0.933626 | 0.063814 | 0.000581 |
1035
| 9 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am a little depressed just not feeling myself There are a lot of things, but for starters, my fiance that I've been with for 3 years cannot get married as planned because of the international border policy and she recently received 3rd degree burns her mother, father and herself all have COVID as well and her grandfather died of COVID and her grandmother is hospitalized her mom has lung cancer and it all makes me very upset yes, that is correct thanks it feels good to say it all out loud I think I need to develop a coping mechanism Indonesia We are looking at other options via business visa but we don't know how that will go Yes but unfortunately the borders are closed due to covid currently
|
Thats a great Idea!
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and if Greece didn't permit Indonesian, then you just go to Greece, wait there for two weeks and then leave for Indonesia.
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and if Greece didn't permit Indonesian, then you just go to Greece, wait there for two weeks and then leave for Indonesia.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,123 |
happy
| 0.000571 | 0.000029 | 0.000008 | 0.999067 | 0.000182 | 0.000041 | 0.000102 |
1035
| 10 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am a little depressed just not feeling myself There are a lot of things, but for starters, my fiance that I've been with for 3 years cannot get married as planned because of the international border policy and she recently received 3rd degree burns her mother, father and herself all have COVID as well and her grandfather died of COVID and her grandmother is hospitalized her mom has lung cancer and it all makes me very upset yes, that is correct thanks it feels good to say it all out loud I think I need to develop a coping mechanism Indonesia We are looking at other options via business visa but we don't know how that will go Yes but unfortunately the borders are closed due to covid currently Thats a great Idea!
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Thats a really good idea it was nice talking to you
|
i know you need to be with your fiancee during this hard time especially with what is going on with her family. But remember that you have to be strong for her.
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i know you need to be with your fiancee during this hard time especially with what is going on with her family. But remember that you have to be strong for her.
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,124 |
happy
| 0.000187 | 0.000018 | 0.000009 | 0.999694 | 0.000035 | 0.00002 | 0.000037 |
1035
| 11 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I am supposed to be getting married overseas but I cannot because of the border policy due to COVID
| 3 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I am a little depressed just not feeling myself There are a lot of things, but for starters, my fiance that I've been with for 3 years cannot get married as planned because of the international border policy and she recently received 3rd degree burns her mother, father and herself all have COVID as well and her grandfather died of COVID and her grandmother is hospitalized her mom has lung cancer and it all makes me very upset yes, that is correct thanks it feels good to say it all out loud I think I need to develop a coping mechanism Indonesia We are looking at other options via business visa but we don't know how that will go Yes but unfortunately the borders are closed due to covid currently Thats a great Idea! Thats a really good idea it was nice talking to you
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Thank you so much have a good day
|
you're welcome
|
you're welcome and do have a good day you self and stay safe
|
Others, Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Others
| 12,125 |
happy
| 0.000422 | 0.000019 | 0.000011 | 0.999424 | 0.000061 | 0.000022 | 0.000042 |
1036
| 1 |
anxiety
|
breakup_with_partner
|
I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u
|
I'm well. How can I help you?
|
I'm well. How can I help you?
|
Question
|
Question
| 12,127 |
happy
| 0.001181 | 0.000017 | 0.00003 | 0.99863 | 0.000063 | 0.000025 | 0.000053 |
|
1036
| 2 |
anxiety
|
breakup_with_partner
|
I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u
|
I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single
|
It sounds like you are struggling with deciding on your relationship with partners.
|
It sounds like you are struggling with deciding on your relationship with partners.
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 12,128 |
surprised
| 0.000688 | 0.000252 | 0.000757 | 0.000753 | 0.003027 | 0.000768 | 0.993756 |
1036
| 3 |
anxiety
|
breakup_with_partner
|
I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single
|
yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not
|
It's good you are asking yourself questions. What do you want out of the relationships?
|
It's good you are asking yourself questions. What do you want out of the relationships?
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,129 |
surprised
| 0.005498 | 0.000299 | 0.000394 | 0.000426 | 0.12121 | 0.004235 | 0.867938 |
1036
| 4 |
anxiety
|
breakup_with_partner
|
I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not
|
Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama.
|
It sounds like the relationships give you a lot of drama. What do you crave in a relationship?
|
It sounds like the relationships give you a lot of drama. What do you crave in a relationship?
|
Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 12,130 |
happy
| 0.007721 | 0.000598 | 0.00018 | 0.858021 | 0.109519 | 0.007874 | 0.016087 |
1036
| 5 |
anxiety
|
breakup_with_partner
|
I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama.
|
companionship and nonconditional support. committment and that is hard to find out here these days. a lot of guys want the physical without the commitment. I'm getting too old for those games
|
I understand where you are coming from. I've seen a lot of men in relationships not be so committed for real, but just like the physical part.
|
I understand where you are coming from. I've seen a lot of men in relationships not be so committed for real, but just like the physical part.
|
Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,131 |
neutral
| 0.009476 | 0.000102 | 0.000298 | 0.00015 | 0.956385 | 0.02999 | 0.003598 |
1036
| 6 |
anxiety
|
breakup_with_partner
|
I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama. companionship and nonconditional support. committment and that is hard to find out here these days. a lot of guys want the physical without the commitment. I'm getting too old for those games
|
yep. like my aunt said why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free. i've done that for years and im getting tired of it. not to mention my libido is slowing down so i see things clearer
|
Just from chatting with you, I see that you feel like you want more from the relationship and would like commitment on more than one level.
|
Just from chatting with you, I see that you feel like you want more from the relationship and would like commitment on more than one level.
|
Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 12,132 |
neutral
| 0.004794 | 0.000174 | 0.000095 | 0.001029 | 0.985137 | 0.001995 | 0.006776 |
1036
| 7 |
anxiety
|
breakup_with_partner
|
I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama. companionship and nonconditional support. committment and that is hard to find out here these days. a lot of guys want the physical without the commitment. I'm getting too old for those games yep. like my aunt said why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free. i've done that for years and im getting tired of it. not to mention my libido is slowing down so i see things clearer
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yes when it comes down to it. and i don't know if i will ever find it- especially these days. and i don't want to settle
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I had to look for someone who was committed in all areas and only figured this out after making mistakes. I can see you have really shown maturity in learning from your experiences.
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I had to look for someone who was committed in all areas and only figured this out after making mistakes. I can see you have really shown maturity in learning from your experiences.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 12,133 |
neutral
| 0.069131 | 0.000376 | 0.00452 | 0.000917 | 0.614089 | 0.107599 | 0.203368 |
1036
| 8 |
anxiety
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breakup_with_partner
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I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama. companionship and nonconditional support. committment and that is hard to find out here these days. a lot of guys want the physical without the commitment. I'm getting too old for those games yep. like my aunt said why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free. i've done that for years and im getting tired of it. not to mention my libido is slowing down so i see things clearer yes when it comes down to it. and i don't know if i will ever find it- especially these days. and i don't want to settle
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it's easy to settle when you're attracted to the guy. I have learned a lot from my past. I'm afraid the two might find out about each other. Not sure if it's a good thing or not
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From what I've seen having confidence in yourself and what you feel in your heart won't lie.
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From what I've seen having confidence in yourself and what you feel in your heart won't lie.
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Information
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Information
| 12,134 |
fear
| 0.000143 | 0.000071 | 0.997827 | 0.000124 | 0.00051 | 0.000618 | 0.000707 |
1036
| 9 |
anxiety
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breakup_with_partner
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I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama. companionship and nonconditional support. committment and that is hard to find out here these days. a lot of guys want the physical without the commitment. I'm getting too old for those games yep. like my aunt said why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free. i've done that for years and im getting tired of it. not to mention my libido is slowing down so i see things clearer yes when it comes down to it. and i don't know if i will ever find it- especially these days. and i don't want to settle it's easy to settle when you're attracted to the guy. I have learned a lot from my past. I'm afraid the two might find out about each other. Not sure if it's a good thing or not
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do you think it's good if they find out about each other? sometimes guys try harder when they know there is competition. sometimes it makes them run the other way
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Do you think one may have jealousy and get aggressive if he finds out? It's a personal decision that takes some thought.
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Do you think one may have jealousy and get aggressive if he finds out? It's a personal decision that takes some thought.
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Information
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Information
| 12,135 |
neutral
| 0.183611 | 0.000935 | 0.000489 | 0.000309 | 0.731045 | 0.006151 | 0.077461 |
1036
| 10 |
anxiety
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breakup_with_partner
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I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama. companionship and nonconditional support. committment and that is hard to find out here these days. a lot of guys want the physical without the commitment. I'm getting too old for those games yep. like my aunt said why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free. i've done that for years and im getting tired of it. not to mention my libido is slowing down so i see things clearer yes when it comes down to it. and i don't know if i will ever find it- especially these days. and i don't want to settle it's easy to settle when you're attracted to the guy. I have learned a lot from my past. I'm afraid the two might find out about each other. Not sure if it's a good thing or not do you think it's good if they find out about each other? sometimes guys try harder when they know there is competition. sometimes it makes them run the other way
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honestly im not sure. there is always that risk when doing that with guys. i better think long and hard before doing that!
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It sounds like you put a lot of thought into things which can be helpful in decision making.
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It sounds like you put a lot of thought into things which can be helpful in decision making.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,136 |
surprised
| 0.002622 | 0.000435 | 0.000205 | 0.002768 | 0.006111 | 0.000964 | 0.986896 |
1036
| 11 |
anxiety
|
breakup_with_partner
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I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama. companionship and nonconditional support. committment and that is hard to find out here these days. a lot of guys want the physical without the commitment. I'm getting too old for those games yep. like my aunt said why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free. i've done that for years and im getting tired of it. not to mention my libido is slowing down so i see things clearer yes when it comes down to it. and i don't know if i will ever find it- especially these days. and i don't want to settle it's easy to settle when you're attracted to the guy. I have learned a lot from my past. I'm afraid the two might find out about each other. Not sure if it's a good thing or not do you think it's good if they find out about each other? sometimes guys try harder when they know there is competition. sometimes it makes them run the other way honestly im not sure. there is always that risk when doing that with guys. i better think long and hard before doing that!
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i think so. keeps me out of some potential messes
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Can I help you with anything else?
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Can I help you with anything else?
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Others
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Others
| 12,137 |
neutral
| 0.009202 | 0.000105 | 0.000591 | 0.000268 | 0.972089 | 0.010763 | 0.006982 |
1036
| 12 |
anxiety
|
breakup_with_partner
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I broke up with a guy. I still talk to him. He might want me back-not sure. There is another guy who is interested in me now, However he's going through a divorce and keeps putting off seeing me.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
Hi im good How r u I'm a bit confused what I should do. I've been laying low for now. I think I guy I dated might still be interested. But there is another one who is interested now. But he hasn't stepped up yet. Not sure if I should forget about both of them and stay single yeah. not sure if either one is worth it or not Something normal! Im fine with being single too. It comes with a lot less drama. companionship and nonconditional support. committment and that is hard to find out here these days. a lot of guys want the physical without the commitment. I'm getting too old for those games yep. like my aunt said why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free. i've done that for years and im getting tired of it. not to mention my libido is slowing down so i see things clearer yes when it comes down to it. and i don't know if i will ever find it- especially these days. and i don't want to settle it's easy to settle when you're attracted to the guy. I have learned a lot from my past. I'm afraid the two might find out about each other. Not sure if it's a good thing or not do you think it's good if they find out about each other? sometimes guys try harder when they know there is competition. sometimes it makes them run the other way honestly im not sure. there is always that risk when doing that with guys. i better think long and hard before doing that! i think so. keeps me out of some potential messes
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not at the moment. thanks for your input! nity nite
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Have a good day.
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Have a good day.
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Others
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Others
| 12,138 |
happy
| 0.291897 | 0.000475 | 0.000217 | 0.631973 | 0.067451 | 0.004101 | 0.003885 |
1037
| 1 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
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I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you?
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Hello good how are you
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Hello good how are you
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Question
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Question
| 12,139 |
happy
| 0.007706 | 0.000056 | 0.00006 | 0.987584 | 0.004289 | 0.000052 | 0.000252 |
|
1037
| 2 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you?
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I'm okay. I'm a little bummed
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I'm sorry your bummed what's wrong?
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I'm sorry your bummed what's wrong?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 12,140 |
sad
| 0.005159 | 0.00035 | 0.000144 | 0.004754 | 0.006499 | 0.979721 | 0.003374 |
1037
| 3 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you? I'm okay. I'm a little bummed
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My employer has cut my pay for the year due to covid, but it's really starting to wear on me now
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I'm sorry to hear that this year seems to be rough when it comes to jobs
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I'm sorry to hear that this year seems to be rough when it comes to jobs
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,141 |
sad
| 0.230095 | 0.001615 | 0.001364 | 0.000112 | 0.0054 | 0.760934 | 0.000479 |
1037
| 4 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you? I'm okay. I'm a little bummed My employer has cut my pay for the year due to covid, but it's really starting to wear on me now
|
I'm high enough in the company to know how our business is doing and we are actually on pace to do better this year than last year
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I lost my job after 5 years due to COVID
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I lost my job after 5 years due to COVID
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Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,142 |
neutral
| 0.00356 | 0.000255 | 0.000161 | 0.074041 | 0.899155 | 0.003529 | 0.0193 |
1037
| 5 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you? I'm okay. I'm a little bummed My employer has cut my pay for the year due to covid, but it's really starting to wear on me now I'm high enough in the company to know how our business is doing and we are actually on pace to do better this year than last year
|
I'm sorry, that's horrible.
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Seriously? Have you tried discussing the issue with anyone at work?
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Seriously? Have you tried discussing the issue with anyone at work? Thank you it's okay I decided to use this time to get out of my comfort zone and explore new options.
|
Providing Suggestions, Self-disclosure
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,143 |
disgusted
| 0.232026 | 0.580383 | 0.098302 | 0.000979 | 0.004076 | 0.070524 | 0.01371 |
1037
| 6 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you? I'm okay. I'm a little bummed My employer has cut my pay for the year due to covid, but it's really starting to wear on me now I'm high enough in the company to know how our business is doing and we are actually on pace to do better this year than last year I'm sorry, that's horrible.
|
my company is only 13 people. I've talked to one coworker about it but he also quit recently. The president of our company knows that we are doing better than last year so I'm not sure why we are cutting pay. He released a company email saying that our business was down and that he needed to cut salries to save the business. but like I said, I see the numbers and we are doing better We are also on pace to do better next year too. We have higher customer bookings than we had this year. I've started looking but it's hard because it seems like there isn't much open
|
Is taking some online courses to up your skills make you more of an asset a possibility? Maybe that could help raise it back up?
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Is taking some online courses to up your skills make you more of an asset a possibility? Maybe that could help raise it back up?
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 12,144 |
surprised
| 0.022655 | 0.000838 | 0.000301 | 0.000469 | 0.051023 | 0.003898 | 0.920816 |
1037
| 7 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you? I'm okay. I'm a little bummed My employer has cut my pay for the year due to covid, but it's really starting to wear on me now I'm high enough in the company to know how our business is doing and we are actually on pace to do better this year than last year I'm sorry, that's horrible. my company is only 13 people. I've talked to one coworker about it but he also quit recently. The president of our company knows that we are doing better than last year so I'm not sure why we are cutting pay. He released a company email saying that our business was down and that he needed to cut salries to save the business. but like I said, I see the numbers and we are doing better We are also on pace to do better next year too. We have higher customer bookings than we had this year. I've started looking but it's hard because it seems like there isn't much open
|
It might be, that's a good idea.
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I to be honest started looking in to Remote work and found there there is alot more options now
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I to be honest started looking in to Remote work and found there there is alot more options now
|
Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,145 |
neutral
| 0.049818 | 0.000242 | 0.000191 | 0.000793 | 0.68848 | 0.002284 | 0.258191 |
1037
| 8 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you? I'm okay. I'm a little bummed My employer has cut my pay for the year due to covid, but it's really starting to wear on me now I'm high enough in the company to know how our business is doing and we are actually on pace to do better this year than last year I'm sorry, that's horrible. my company is only 13 people. I've talked to one coworker about it but he also quit recently. The president of our company knows that we are doing better than last year so I'm not sure why we are cutting pay. He released a company email saying that our business was down and that he needed to cut salries to save the business. but like I said, I see the numbers and we are doing better We are also on pace to do better next year too. We have higher customer bookings than we had this year. I've started looking but it's hard because it seems like there isn't much open It might be, that's a good idea.
|
Thats a really good idea, what kid of work did you do if you don't mind me asking? and are you finding anything similar for remote work?
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i have a degree in business so i have been looking more in anything computer related or business you of course have to be careful stick to companies you know or reputable job sites and of course if they want money it's not something you want to get into. But I do alot of call center type stuff or data entry. Coding is real big right now and there are alot of online courses you can take for free
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i have a degree in business so i have been looking more in anything computer related or business you of course have to be careful stick to companies you know or reputable job sites and of course if they want money it's not something you want to get into. But I do alot of call center type stuff or data entry. Coding is real big right now and there are alot of online courses you can take for free it's really just up to you what do you like to do or what would you like to do. Right now the possibilities are endless
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Self-disclosure, Others
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,146 |
neutral
| 0.006287 | 0.000065 | 0.000105 | 0.003771 | 0.950205 | 0.000528 | 0.039038 |
1037
| 9 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you? I'm okay. I'm a little bummed My employer has cut my pay for the year due to covid, but it's really starting to wear on me now I'm high enough in the company to know how our business is doing and we are actually on pace to do better this year than last year I'm sorry, that's horrible. my company is only 13 people. I've talked to one coworker about it but he also quit recently. The president of our company knows that we are doing better than last year so I'm not sure why we are cutting pay. He released a company email saying that our business was down and that he needed to cut salries to save the business. but like I said, I see the numbers and we are doing better We are also on pace to do better next year too. We have higher customer bookings than we had this year. I've started looking but it's hard because it seems like there isn't much open It might be, that's a good idea. Thats a really good idea, what kid of work did you do if you don't mind me asking? and are you finding anything similar for remote work?
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That's a good idea, I'll look into coding. I've been thinking about changing careers for a long time and maybe this is the catalyst I need.
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Exactly as i always say if the door closes try the window lol
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Exactly as i always say if the door closes try the window lol
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Others
|
Others
| 12,147 |
neutral
| 0.003507 | 0.00012 | 0.000532 | 0.022444 | 0.936363 | 0.001199 | 0.035837 |
1037
| 10 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
I'm bummed about my employer cutting my pay
| 5 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello how are you? I'm okay. I'm a little bummed My employer has cut my pay for the year due to covid, but it's really starting to wear on me now I'm high enough in the company to know how our business is doing and we are actually on pace to do better this year than last year I'm sorry, that's horrible. my company is only 13 people. I've talked to one coworker about it but he also quit recently. The president of our company knows that we are doing better than last year so I'm not sure why we are cutting pay. He released a company email saying that our business was down and that he needed to cut salries to save the business. but like I said, I see the numbers and we are doing better We are also on pace to do better next year too. We have higher customer bookings than we had this year. I've started looking but it's hard because it seems like there isn't much open It might be, that's a good idea. Thats a really good idea, what kid of work did you do if you don't mind me asking? and are you finding anything similar for remote work? That's a good idea, I'll look into coding. I've been thinking about changing careers for a long time and maybe this is the catalyst I need.
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Ha! that's a great line. I'm gonna use that. I appreciate your help with this.
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You just have to remember we can either be strong and come out on top of this or well... We want a positive solution :)
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You just have to remember we can either be strong and come out on top of this or well... We want a positive solution :) Anytime! Was there anything else i could help you with today?
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,148 |
happy
| 0.000962 | 0.000049 | 0.00001 | 0.998176 | 0.000598 | 0.000042 | 0.000163 |
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