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[ { "content": "Nakikisabat Lang po. **Excuse me guys**. 5 means average, generally. And 7 is considered attractive. Hindi po gaya ng school grades where in 75 is passing grade. \n\nCopy pasted from r/AskMen\n\n>\nThis scale is only about physical appearance; it doesn't take into account personality or anything else that can make a person attractive or unattractive.\n>\n*1 - Hideous.* Elephant man level ugliness. Like... something's seriously wrong with this person. Seeing a 1 ruins your day.\n>\n*2 - Incredibly Ugly.* The ugliest \"normal\" people. A lot of homeless people fall about here. This is probably the ugliest person you've seen this month. Their unattractiveness isn't enough to ruin your day, but it is usually enough to make you momentarily uncomfortable.\n>\n*3 - Ugly.* This is probably the ugliest person you come in day to day contact with. A lot of morbidly obese people fall in here. They aren't ugly enough to make you feel uncomfortable or really anything other than pity maybe.\n>\n*4 - Unattractive.* Not ugly per se, but definitely not attractive. A 4 is where hypothetically \"fuckable\" begins. If you were drunk, horny, and desperate enough and no one would ever know then fucking a 4 would be better than (or at least on par with) jerking off. You wouldn't be proud of it, but you could do it in theory.\n>\n*5 - Neutral.* Nothing really going for them, nothing really going against them either. Or maybe they have some attractive qualities mixed with some unattractive ones that ultimately balance out. Whatever it is, they're not ugly, but they're not anyone's first or second choice either. Personality can really make or break these people.\n>\n*6 - Kinda Cute.* Attractiveness is more subjective than unattractiveness, so this is where the scale gets a little harder to define. 6s are about where some people might not consider them attractive, but no one would consider them ugly. Oftentimes a 6 will have many attractive qualities hindered a bit by one decisively unattractive feature like a big nose or a lazy eye. As a rule, a 6 is always fuckable, but not always dateable.\n>\n*7 - Pretty/Handsome.* The most attractive person you come in day to day contact with is probably a 7. As a rule, a 7 is always dateable, but some people may feel the need to try for higher. \n>\n*8 - Very Good Looking.* The most attractive person you saw this month was probably an 8. You might even know one personally. These are the most attractive \"normal\" people. The difference between a 7 and 8 is this: if you see someone who is a 7, but not your type, you wouldn't really care... BUT if they were an 8, you'd notice regardless of whether you are specifically attracted to them or not. Most girls in \"you love, you lose\" threads are 8s.\n>\n*9 - Stunning.* Regardless of type and personal preference, when you see this person, you momentarily loose your train of thought and may even stop mid-sentence and stare. The most attractive person you've seen in the flesh this year or the most attractive person you've ever met in your life might have been a 9. This is the movie star and supermodel category; few of them exist in the wild.\n>\n*10 - Unicorn.* A 10 is kind of a mythical status; there aren't really any objective 10s. Except maybe Angelina Jolie. Basically a 10 is a 9 that's your type", "role": "user" }, { "content": "This is perfect! Thank you! Kaya nga most of regular people, I rate 4-6 lang e. Bihira ako umabot sa 7 unless super pretty/handsome. This comment is actually more or less in line with my rating.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Also being a vlogger or influencer isn’t considered a goal.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sana walang makakitang vlogger o influencer nitong comment ko pero I think they're vain and just make vids to gain popularity in the end.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Biggest non sexual turn off naman sakin is ung ganyang profile picture", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Amen.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "At hindi pala-makeup tulad ko! 🤣", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Well, baliktad ako. I find girls more beautiful pag walang masyadong kolorete.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Sure ka? Baka di mo alam yung iba naka \"Natural make-up\" look.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I don't get the point of a \"natural make-up\" look lols", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "It's funny when guys say they like the natural look rather than full make up like they think they're unique or some shit but still jerks off to women has full make up ahahahahahahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Jerking off to hotness with or without make-up is a totally different argument 🤔 haha", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Mga dentists din! Limited coverage ng card namin noon for dental procedures. One time, nagpa-schedule ako for cleaning. Di ko to dentist, naghanap lang ako ng accredited sa Makati. Shocked ako nung pagkatapos nya ako linisan, sabi nya ipapasta nya ipin ko. Yon, mukhang subpar pasta pa yung ginamit kasi pinalitan din nung dentist ko after.\n\nOkay lang naman kung tinanong nya muna ako kung mag-proceed ba kami. But no, diretcho talaga agad.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ok naman ako sa dentist ko, nagkataon lang na that time, dko afford yung 500 linis at pasta kaya sa UPM ma lang muna ako nagtyaga. Mahirap din kasi matagal ang pag aantay pero maayos naman. Wag lang maiinip at maiinis na habang naglelecture-an pa yung prof at estudyante sa hatap ng bibig ko at nakakangawit ngumanga ng matagal 😂😂\n\nShinare ko lang.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ako rin okay sa dentist ko. Ginamit ko lang ung libreng linis sa HMO ko. Once a year yun. Sayang din kasi. Kaso un nga. Pinastahan nya ipin ko kahit maayos pa pasta ko kasi alam nyang cover nung card ko.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "He's probably too ashamed to admit it. People like to hide the parts they don't like about themselves so other people can still like them. He's just scared to be vulnerable around you. Show a wee bit of compassion and see things from his side.\n\nIn my opinion, this should only be a concern when you two are married or engaged.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I am concerned kaya din medyo na hurt ako nung di nya nabanggit man lang. When I tried to ask further what are his plans moving forward and why he did it, parang naiinis pa sya and changed the topic.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Siguro kaya naiinis siya kasi bago pa lang yung pag alis niya. Ayaw niya muna pagusapan. Papalipasin niya muna yung emotion saglit tapos haharapin din naman niya after. Sabi mo career driven siya. Pag cereer driven ka tapos may problema anything about work it gets into you. Siguro pang cope niya muna is not to talk about it at all. Pahingahin mo muna", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "1. maging artista- naudlot kasi nung bata ako, gusto ko malaman if may potential ba talaga HAHAHA\n2. maging singer song writer-minsan kapag nag oopen mic ako, iniisip ko, na sana may maka discover sa \"talent\" ko hahaha\n3. makagawa ng pelikula/teleserye tungkol sa buhay ko- wala lang masyado kasing mmk, sarap gawan ng script\n4. maging national artist- ewan gusto ko lang\n5. maging life coach- masyado ako maraming echos sa buhay kaya ok siguro to hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Wait lang nag personality test ka na ba? Are you infj? Omg hahaha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "hinanap ko pa yung results nung 16 personalities ko sa email lol, INFP-A/T ako hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "INFP din ako tas I share the same goals with you except 1. Hahahaha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "HAHAHA cool naman!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Siguro, nawawalan na lang rin ng bigat yung ghosting dahil sa mga taong ginagawang big deal yung di pagrereply. You hit up someone from r4r? Di kayo vibes so di mo na nireplyan. I don't think that's ghosting. Naka-sex mo from dating app? That's ONS.\n\nAng ghosting e yung nilandi ka, nilandi mo, lumalabas kayo for how many months tapos bigla na lang di nag-reply. Yon ang ghosting for me.\n\nPero, again, sa akin lang 'to. Malamang madaming iba opinyon kesa sa akin.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "We’re on the same boat. Yan din para sakin ang ghosting, and in my own terms, wala pa akong strike. Pero one time may nakwento ako na something kagaya nung post ko sa taas, and may nagsabi sakin na, “multo ka pala”. Yun yung first time I learned about ghosting. Haha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yeah, kaya wala akong guilt sa di pagrereply pag di ko na ka-vibes yung tao. And honestly, sa panahon natin na 70% or more ng communication ay nagaganap online, I think, sobrang inevitable nya. \n\nKinda guilty sa 'real' ghosting nung mas bata ako kasi natakot ako dun sa kalandian ko for several reasons so, kinda not guilty about it.\n\nFor people who think na ghosting na yung non-reply ng kausap nyo, pano nyo ba gustong mangyari? Sabihin sa inyo na ayaw ka nang kausap? Paano and do I have to explain myself why? Kung may sex involved, anong inaasahan nyo on how the 'relationship' be terminated?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same thoughts actually. It takes guts to tell somebody na di ka nya type or di ka na nya feel kausap. I salute those who can. Kaso being upfront is not the end all be all solution. It creates more problems too. Ang sakit sa bangs di ba 😂", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I talked to a guy, who I know personally, and somehow, di kami nag-click. I am giving subtle hints na ayoko na syang kausap but he still refuses to stop messaging me. What I did is inignore ko yung messages nya sa messenger so I can just check it every end of the day. Napansin nya and asked me not to ignore it so I had to tell him. I was one of the awkwardest thing ever tapos nakikiusap pa to give him another chance. Eek, I have no time for that lol", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Bakit ikaw dapat ang mag-pills? Bakit hindi siya ang mag-condom?\n\nAnyway, don't stress about it na lang. Obvious naman na hindi pa siya ready magkaanak, which is understandable given the pandemic.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "My thoughts as well. Tho willing naman si ate girl mag-pills pero bakit parang ikaw lang may kasalanan sa scare?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Di ba? Bakit ba lagi nalang sa babae ang burden?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "😭😩", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Mag mo kaming iyakan friend! Sabihan mo ang bf mo na magcondom sya.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Thanks for sharing! Although I agree with most of your points, I think we should also consider those suffering with anxiety problems. Not everyone has the capacity to easily think that they have everything in control.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Happy cake day!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I just stopped texting her few months ago. Para akong tanga. Tama na yun 10 years na Sunud-sunuran. This time ako naman. Sarili ko naman. I don't wanna see her ever again. Feeling's just too strong. Di naman ako pinapansin.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Grabe yung 10years!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Petty yung pagiging gg nya sa pagtulog mo. Pero petty ka din for posting this here. Bagay kayo! Hope you work things out.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Short and concise advise. Nuff said. Both OP and SO need to matured. Parang yung mga nag-aaway na mag-jowa sa fb, nakapost lahat ng convo. hahaha", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Laughs in NGSB@25. Ok lang yan fren. Di ka nag-iisa.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "5 years na lang fren. Class Change ka na. Hayaan mo at tulungan kita. Ipapakilala ko sayo ang taong magpapabago sa buhay mo. Subok na ito at madaming buhay na ang kanyang nabago. \n\nFren, ito nga pala si u/ecqpamore. XD", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "so anong deal natin kay u/ecqpamore? Isa ba siyang relationship expert o naghahanap din? Haha\n\nAnd fren, naiistress ako pag-naisip kong mag 30 na ko. Wag kang ganyan. 😂 😂", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sakit bes! 28 na ako. NBSB (or NGSB, for that matter) pa rin! Hahaha less than 2 yrs na lang hahaha magagawan ba ng paraan u/ecqpamore? Joke!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Fren, apir tayo! Ahaha. May I know why?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Di ako alam! Baka 1/10 ako hahaha", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Don’t sweat it. Relationships are beautiful and exciting—but it can also be so problematic and all-consuming too. And crazy, sometimes. It’s really hard to tell these days, just saying. \n\nBuild yourself up first: mind, soul and financially. It’s more self-assuring to have all these settled before jumping on the dating scene. And it’s going to be easy once you’re there. Don’t skip ahead, otherwise you’ll go through the same cycle over again.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Seconding this", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "You're worrying too much on things that you shouldn't be. There's nothing wrong with you and you're doing fine, aside from your mental health problems. Don't make it too hard on yourself. Time will come that you'll fall in love. Instead of focusing on what you can see on the society, focus on the things that you can do for yourself.\n\nHaving 1 successful relationship is way better than having 10 failed relationships.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You make \"worrying\" sound like a plague to be avoided. Worrying is part of being human. Enough of this \"toxic positivity\" bovine ordure. And who says that the OP is being too hard on herself? Just because she is accepting or validating yung nararamdaman niya ay hard na siya sa sarili? \n\nAno ang indicator or proof mo na 1 successful relationship is \"way better\" than having 10 failed relationships? Ang tawag dito ay \"sweeping generalization\" and \"gliterring or glowing generality\" (type of logical fallacies).", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "You have ECQ, pandemic is at hand where mental health are falling here and there, and you want add more? Congrats for being a maso for yourself. Looks like you aren't tired of the negativity. OP is putting additional burden on herself by thinking she's not worthy for a relationship. Worrying is part of a human and our life, but inviting more isn't something you should justify. \n\nSiya na nagsabi, hindi maganda mental health niya, so ano gusto mo gawin? Pumasok siya sa relasyon? That's just adding more trouble. Sa tao na din nanggaling na huwag iasa sa karelasyon para umayos mental health mo. \n\nProof? So, you prefer to get hurt over and over again? Guess, you're the type of trying to justify emotions by applying logic. Why would you prefer to get hurt over and over again, then masked it in a pretense of \"experience\" \n\nThis sub wouldn't be flooding with failed relationship stories and looking for connections if they haven't underwent tons of failures in the first place.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Crappy comment. Enough said. Haha. Excuses, excuses.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Here's your internet points. Congrats.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Bwahahahaha! Internet points? Potah paki ko diyan. So juvenile!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Hey guys, reminder lang that there's no need for arguments sa post ko please. Assumptions are made towards someone na di mo kilala and it's okay to make assumptions unless di naman nakakasakit sa tao. I agree that overthinking is part of the human experience pero I've been told thousands of times na I worry too much for my own good. I literally cannot help it. Ganon talaga yun utak ko unfortunately. The main point of my post, which was kind of left unmentioned is that, I've never really lived sa totoo lang. I've spent a huge chunk of my life consumed by depression and anxiety na di ko talaga na-live yun teenage years ko. I'd rather get hurt by someone that I love, than not feel anything at all. To have someone accept you wholeheartedly, wouldn't that be the best feeling in the world? Kahit temporary lang yan, kahit ilang years lang yan. Naiiwan ako eh. It's hard to work on yourself kung wala ka din support system. Ayun lang naman point ko guys.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yan ang mahirap kasi sa Reddit kapag may mga nagdudunung-dunugan tapos pikon naman pala kapag may humirit at wala silang maipantapat na intelligent rejoinder...kaya will resort na lang sila to spewing \"ad hominems\" or kung ano mang trite or tasteless na pambubuska.\n\nBack to your concern...\n\nAs, you claim, \"you've never been in a relationship\" -- romantic man yan or intimate... but have you tried having a \"relationship\" first with yourself? Yung tipong, na-experience mo na ba or na-imagine kung paano makipag-relasyon sa sarili mo (try removing muna the variables or factors or justifications mo)?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "You know how they always say love yourself before you love somebody else... I feel like that isn't always true. I've never given myself that kind of relationship, no matter how hard I try. I guess my mind isn't wired that way. Siguro I just lack the support of another person. Paminsan naiisip ko na sana may kasama ako while I try to fix myself. If that makes sense.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I was not referring to that \"love yourself first\" cliche (self-love is automatic, involuntary, part of our surival mechanism). What I meant was, being at peace with yourself first, knowing the things that you can change and cannot alter (at least in the meantime), accepting the things that you cannot change (or those beyond your control) [see, The Serenity Prayer]... not listening to the opinions levied to you by others but able to self-criticize. \"Know thy self\" sabi nga ng isang philosopher. Sabi naman ni Sun Tzu (The Art of War): \"If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.\"\n\nAnd kadalasan, The Self or the Ego is the Enemy.\n\nTry reading \"Desiderata\" -- the one that begins with \"Go placidly amid the noise and haste and remember what peace there may be in silence.\"\n\nTry to silence the monsters in your head.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Someone’s sex life is their business, and none of ours.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hear hear!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Walang magdidisagree sayo dito because this is reddit. Post this in a catholic facebook group and they will condemn you to hell.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Alam ko na sagot ng kabila. Oh well.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Good luck sa friend mo, very backward thinking 😂\n\nMy thoughts? Why can’t people just be happy? Haha! Our society is very judgemental. I’m dating guy who’s not Filipino. Ako yung foreigner, hindi yung boy friend ko.\n\nI tried dating Filipino men abroad. Iba sya. I don’t like it, at all. Yung mga nakadate ko, dala nila yung very backward-patriarchal thinking dito. Ang problema, they don’t walk the talk. Nakakalungkot. Kasi may goals sila pero wala silang plans on how to achieve their goals. Yung mga dinate ko to ha! \n\nDun naman sa ibang lahi na nakadate ko, most of them are well versed, hard working and professional. Yung hindi ka mahihiya na sabihin na financially stable ka. And most of them don’t care even if you make more than them.\n\nSo yes, isa ko sa mga naka-angat sa kahirapan thank you parents for sending me to school and to myself for working hard to achieve my goals. Hindi na ako palamunin ni inay!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sa mga nadate mong Filipino diaspora at local so far, would you mind contrast and compare? Very curious. \n\nI mean, find mga Filipinos sa real life na nakakainteract ko sa work ay disente. Except tuwing, nagdedebate kami kasi no bars hold ahhaa pero ibang usapan yun.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Middle class and professional yung mga nameet ko na pinoy back home. Exactly kung ano yung description ko dun sa other nationalities na nakadate ko - well-versed, professional and has goals in life.\n\nYung mga pinoy naman dito, wala akong nameet so far na middle class at bachelor. May mga nireto sakin na okay naman daw but turns out hindi. Hindi kasi uso na sasabihin kung ano yung work dito. So gulatan na lang sa text or sa first date, hindi sila professionals. Hindi ko minamaliit yung work nila. Pero I work really hard, hindi naman pwede na ako ang bubuhay! Ganito ang thinking ko when I date men, in general. So nagtatanong ako kung ano balak nila sa buhay. Mostly ang sagot, okay na sila kasi andito sila. Pag binato naman sakin yung tanong, parang nakakahiya na sumagot. I can go on and on about my goals and dreams. One time nabanggit ko kung saang industry ako, si kuya automatic ang thinking yung thinking nya caregiver ako. Walang masama maging caregiver ha! Pero nung sinabi ko kung ano talaga ang work ko, nagulat sya. Nagtanong so malaki ang sahod mo? I felt really uncomfortable pero sabi ko na lang, comfortable ako sa sahod ko. Iba-iba ang reaction nila sa ganyan. Yung iba di nila trip na mas nakakaangat ka at hindi maniniwala sayo. Yung iba naman automatic ayaw na na kasi nakaka-lalake daw ako, masyado daw akong mataas.\n\nOne time, I played it cool nung may reto yung friend ko. Professional naman si kuya. Hindi ko sinabi kung ano ang work ko. Grabe ang litanya nya sakin about this and that. Natatawa na lang ako kasi alam ko yung nga bagay na yon especially sa nature yon ng work ko. Then nung nalaman nya na ang work ko, nagiba ang ihip ng hangin. Tinanong nya pano ko nagawa yon? Sure daw ba talaga ako sa papers ko, etc. \n\nI can go on and on with my experience. But so far, hindi sila maganda. Hahaha!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ahhhh more on sa class difference nagcaclash. \n\nI guess kapag nacompare ang buhay diyan sa Pinas, magiging complacent yung tao kapag nasa inyo na. \n\nPero di ko aakalain na wala kang namemeet na middle class o professional na pinoy diyan. I mean, sa Canada, may point system pa ata bago ka makapasok sa country. Parang need mo maging middle class and up kasi hindi pwede na dagdag ka sa welfare nila.\n\nAlso, the f. Ang sexist and parang walang bilib sa iyo ah hahaha.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yes, more on class difference nga siguro. Kasi may co-worker ako na puti, may nakwento sya tungkol dun sa isang hunting group na nasamahan nya. Mga puti na blue-collar workers. Hindi nya daw trip yung ugali and they also look down on women. Professional si co-worker, at lalake to ha! They also made him feel very uncomfortable.\n\nSa work ko naman, white-dominated. May mangilan-ngilan na gay guys na pinoy and pinays. I can’t date them. Pero ito yung mga tao na we see each other eye to eye. No bullshit whatsoever. And karamihan sa mga pinay na nakawork ko, pag single, they prefer dating other nationalities din. Not for the money or citizenship, kasi we have that in the bag already. Sadyang mailap lang talaga ang pinoy na professional, forward thinking at may goal sa buhay. \n\nYung middle class sa pinas, not automatically middle class sa Canada or kung saan man. So take their stories of “masarap mabuhay sa abroad” with a grain of salt. \n\nWala naman sakin kung wala silang bilib sakin. I know my worth and I won’t settle.", "role": "user" }, { "content": ">Wala naman sakin kung wala silang bilib sakin. I know my worth and I won’t settle.\n\nYasss guurrl.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Lumalabas ang inner tita ko! 😂😅", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hahaha. Actually, sana alam ng lahat kung ano halaga nila. Kuwawa nga iba na nagpapababa dahil sa ibang tao.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I've sort of been the other woman pero wala talaga akong idea na may girlfriend siya. Wala pa naman kami sa ligawan phase more like getting to know pa kami but he honestly told me na may girlfriend siya and payag daw ba kong maging kabit I was like wtf ????? Never ko pinangarap maging kabit ever. I blocked him since then but he kept on showing up at my school (college pa ko neto) to invite me for lunch, that's when I changed my number and made a new Facebook account.\n\nDi ko rin alam paano nila nagagawa na humanap pa ng iba. If you're unhappy with your relationship or tinging niyo may pagkukulang partner niyo, just have the balls and the decency to tell them the truth kesa yung mag chcheat pa kayo. Pwe.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That's good for you. Medyo red flag yung parang inisstalk ka nya sa school ah. Grabe yun. \n\nI totally agree na kung hindi kaya magcommit sa isang tao wag na lang pumasok sa relationship. I personally got cheated on and it's not cool talaga.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Hi, our future lawyer! I know how failing feels, like the end of the world diba? It's totally fine to be sad about it, feeling of loss yan eh. We all know you worked hard for it (this is an understatement, you gave ALL). Pero you know, you have all the time in the world to be sad, don't rush yourself to be okay just because they told you so. \n\nWhen you feel na you're ready, try again. Please don't be discouraged, I know you can do it. Finishing law school is a big achievement already, kahit stranger ako sayo sobrang nakakaproud yun, so don't stop there. Again, take all the time you need. Hindi naman race ang life. Alam mo ba yung \"I didn't come this far to only come this far\"? hahaha wala lang, parang bagay lang siya.\n\n(2020 is truly a big shit hole and walang magandang nangyayari so far, but it'll pass. Just keep on going!)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thanks for your encouragement. It helps a lot in this difficult times.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Pagod na. Hay. Gusto ng lumayo sa lahat magumpisa ulit ng panibago sa ibang lugar na walang kakilala.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same haha", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Menatlly drained... I have a job - wfh. I should be lucky pero puta, 9hrs amg shift pero nag ot ty ako ng 2-3 hrs. Everyday. Chat and email support ako, sabay yun. Unlike sa iba, half of shift chat lang then other half emails na. Sa situation ko, sabay. So para matapos mo ang emails mo, mag ot ty ka. Halos lahat ganon. Either papasok ka maaga or late ka mag log out - isa lang kinakalabasan non, ot ty. I am not after na sana bayaran ang ot at wag ty. Grateful na ako at may work. Pero iniisip ko pano pag tapos na wfh. Tapos taga Rizal pa ako eh sa Taguig ang office.\nNakaka stress. Nakaka putang ina ang workload. Pero, again, nagpapasalamat pa din ako at may work ako. Kung may option lang sana na iba....", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ano pala industry ng account mo? Retail?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Bpo sir", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same tayo, pero I am fortunate enough to have trusty leaders whom I was able to raise my private issues.\n\nAnd they try their best to accommodate me as well. Our supposed sched is 4 days, 11 hour shifts due to covid, ginawa sa akin is 5 days, 9 hours.\n\nIt does helo me a bit to be out of the phone. Nakaksuka kasi phonetime ng 11 hours", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "In a subtle way nag open naman ako pero the initial feedback i got is that laging may comparison. In the end, it didn't helped. Tsk.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Hindi bilang back-up dancer pero pinangarap ko maging isang member ng Sexbomb! Get get awww!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hahahaha! Mas cool na pangarap yan sing and dance! Laban laban!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Hahaha! Maachieve din natin ang pangarap nating maging dancers! 😂", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hahaha! Sa room ko lang ako nagpproduction number HAHAHH", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Scary! Pero I’m curious kung saan ka po nakatira? Is your place still under MECQ? 9pm is past curfew time na po diba or namodify din yun? Yang mga gagong yan baka kasi ganyang oras lumalabas kasi alam nilang wala na masyadong tao and they can easily get away with their crime. Let’s be extra cautious. I’m glad you’re safe.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hi, yes yes still in MECQ pa. Huhu\n\nTruly, I have no idea din regarding curfew times. I'll try to search on news articles about that. I impliedly thought that the curfew was lifted. I was at fault too i guess 😔😔 I shouldnt have gone out that late during these times. I was lenient. Iniisip ko kasi, \"may mga tao pa naman sa labas\". I can still hear trikes passing by. \n\nI got \"woke\" last night sa mga bagay na ganyan. Ayoko na. I wont do the same mistake again. Always keep your senses up. \n\nTotoo nga talaga ang kasabihan, \"Kailangan advance tayo mag isip\" 😭", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Totoo yan. Then biglang may magchachat sayo na akala mo nakakaengganyo ang pa 'Hi' at insert other horny message nila. Di naman ako nagdidiscriminate ng itsura since di ako maganda pero yung puro kahorny-han lang ang bukambibig, wlang substance kausap, gaganahan ka bang kasama yan sa kama? Then madalang sa phr4r ang guys na may utak kausap. Mas makikita mo sila on threads. Swertehan na lang kung may makilala kang ganon thru phr4r.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I had the lowest of the low kanina. Bungad is \"I wanna fuck you until I cum...\" and I was like, whut?! Sabi ko lang naman F4A Bored af. Sabi nya, 'ang hot kasi ng story mo fuck ka'. Gusto ko sanang patulan kaso blinock ko na lang.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "\"until I cum\"?? \"i\" pa!? Selfish ampots.. \n\nDi rin marunong magbasa since ganun ang reply sa'yo. Walang hiya talaga ibang naglu-lurk dun. Sana di na sila magtaka ba't walang pumapatol sa kanila. Kung tigang sila, sana may class rin, but that cannot be learned overnight. For some people, class is embedded in their personalities. May isa akong nakausap dati na nagreply sa nsfw na r4r ko who chatted me politely. Ang buting lalake, kaya friends kami. Di gaya sa iba, kupal.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Mismo! I mean, kaya ko naman makipag-sabayan sa NSFW pero, puta, lagay naman sa tama and sa natural na conversation. I didn't even asked for NSFW convo.\n\nSiguro he really had to say it agad kasi, as a loser, walang tumatagal sa mga kausap nyang hayup sya. G na g ako. Usto manakit hahaha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Wala silang alam tungkol sa ibang bagay kung puro nsfw topics ang alam nila. Sayang ang ilang buwan ng quarantine, di nila napagnilay-nilayan na baguhin yan. \n\nMay point ka rin dyan however, ANG DAMING lalake sa alasjuicy at r4r na ganon ang initial chat message.\n\nSana naman matuto na ang ganyang uri ng lalake. Wag din sana sila basta-bastang magmessage sa tigang na babae kasi ang tigang na babae may standards pa rin (standards personality-wise) which is di nila alam kaya wag silang mag-assume na papatusin sila agad dahil tigang rin si gurl.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "My experience naman is girls that are posting that they're bored and need someone to talk to, ends up me always bringing up convos tapos puro lang sila \"hahaha\", meron pa one time ang response nalang is \"I don't like asking questions\" ibang level hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Kapag sumasakit na likod mo kakabuhat sa convo, no matter how pretty that girl is, drop her. Be more of a classic man kesa simp. This should be a habit. 👌", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Indeed, we need more forward/confident ones that actually start convos too, aanhin yung maganda nga eh wala naman laman mga pinagsasabi.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Amen bro. Sure a good hell of a body is fine pero wala pa rin tatalo having someone who can make your head spin (no pun intended). Haha! Kapag naumay mga lalaki and they start realizing this, life would be better for them. Good luck, comrade!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "May nakakausap kayo??? 🤔", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I feel ya fam", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "diba", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Di ka.mageeffort walang magrereply\n\nMag eeffort ka di magrereply\n\nOver the top effort sa intro, wala parin", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "...I mean the fact that “CHUBBYSTRESS” is consistently a top comment whenever a woman makes a rant on r/CasualPH or r/Alasjuicy speaks volumes about the quality and lack of depth of most of the guys you’ll encounter here.\n\nAlso it’s the anonymity. Malakas loob magsalita ng kung ano-ano. They probably know they won’t get laid IRL so yung iba, conversation pa lang todo barubal na.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Enlighten me with the CHUBBYSTRESS please ilang beses ko na to nababasa and the word doesn't even make sense", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "-mataba ka, therefore panget ka at wala kang karapatang mag demand ng kung ano. \n\n-mataba ka lang. Dami mong satsat. Wag kang choosy. Just take it. \n\nVariations ng ganyan. It’s pretty stupid and paborito nilang gawing pambara or pang explain bakit may negative na experience ang babae. \n\nKaya always look at a redditor’s language and comment history. If you see “simp”, redpill, chubbystress... RUN. Incel yun. Bobo na nga, entitled at emotionally immature pa. Kahit pa may makita kang mahilig sya sa “intellectual at deep talks” or “sapiosexual” sya...run! 😂😂", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ohhh didnt know theres a word for it. My dad is a chubbystress. Tama ba yung pagkaganit ko ng word? \n\n“Mataba ka kaya pangit ka. Walang magkakagusto sayong lalaki!” Mga ganung linyahan", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "More of, if a woman says something negative about men, they say CHUBBYSTRESS, the context being “o eto nanaman may angal ng angal, mataba naman. Shut up na lang”\n\nYour dad is rude af, friend. Tell him wala syang pakelam sa katawan mo.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ohh i get it. So in a way, di na pwedeng umangal at magreklamo ang girl kasi mataba siya? Ang harsh naman nun.\n\n\nYup, rude talaga. Pero boomer eh. Paatras pa pag iisip", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "OP's phr4r post:\n\n> Sa sobrang bored ko, nagso-soundtrip na ako ng pop songs. Save me from this shithole! 😂\n\n**Any decent normal guy would skip this boring post of yours**. I know I would. The horny dedicated guys found it boring too so they checked on your profile to get *whatever personality* they could find. Three hours before this phr4r post, you posted something horny in r/alasjuicy. So they thought you were still in this horny state. Not to mention you are also a dedicated r/alasjuicy member.\n\nIf you want better fish, make sure to use high-quality bait. If you want to attract interesting well-mannered people, be an interesting well-mannered person. If you want a really decent wholesome man, you won't find them making posts in r/phr4r and they certainly don't subscribe to r/alasjuicy.\n\nIn conclusion: **Losers attract losers**. Here's your explanation.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "What the hell? Seryoso ka ba? Not because she's very open about her sexual life, pwede na siyang bastusin. Manners and respect, ayun lang naman sinasabi ni OP.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Youre turning this into a familiar debate about trash men, consent, women's sexual life, etc. So uunahan na kita, no. Stop with the linear thinking and just *focus* on OP's phr4r post.\n\nAll I'm asking from OP is to **manage her expectations**.\n\n> ganon ba talaga ka-walang conversation skills mga lalake doon?\n\nSagutin mo ito. Do you think OP's two-sentence phr4r post would make interesting conversational men to want to talk to her?\n\nI'm not justifying what trashy men do. Fuck these people. I'm just calling out OP to stop being so entitled and manage her expectations - **that she will not get normal guys who would want normal conversations from a two-sentence half-assed boring post. Especially from a place like r/phr4r where horny quarantine-cuckblocked guys abound.**\n\nTrashy men exist. But what needs to be said is: trashy women exist too. Most often than not, the two groups coexist together. Like attracts like.\n\nYou can still defend OP if you want. But I'm done. Nuff said.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I just miss eating alone. Random cravings. Strolling alone then discover interesting foods.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You can bring your lunch to your room so you can eat alone hehe", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ahmm. hindi eh, HAHA! \n\nWala yung sense of freedom? Dagdag din kasi yung feeling na, feeling ko nagrerebelde ako by spending my money sa kahit anong food na gusto kong kainin. Parang ganun.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "And here I am having a hard time getting a new chatmate sa phr4r hahah oh well. I guess problema rin talaga yung sobrang daming guys. the competition is too much and then there are these guys who drive the number of girls even lower.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I would assume you’re a guy? Bro, post something witty and different (not like those nsfw posts) I promise you girls kusa mag chat sa iyo :) I did it waaaay back, with a single post almost 10+ nag message sa akin na girls (decent ones).", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Shy type ako eh ahahah plus medyo super tito na so nahihiya ako lagay age ko hahaha, d pa ako convinced magsinungaling about my age \\^_^ and lastly parang sobrang dami naman masyado M4F posts, I'm surprised you even got 10+ replies.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yes sir, I used a throwaway account intro goes like this “Meron pa ba na mga decente dito?” Actually sir I feel like you’re a very decent man and ladies will be lucky to have you. IMO, Hindi advisable yung phr4r and the real keepers, they aren’t there 😕", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ka-chat lang naman I'm not looking for \"the one\" or the so called \"keepers\" so I guess meron pa naman sa phr4r pero siguro yung mga first timers lang at hindi yung matagal nang dun naghahahanap ng mga guys. Pero yeah, I guess try ko mag post one of these days.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Enablist din kasi mga punyetang mod dun. Inalis pa yung mga romantic-ish na posts eh yun na nga lang yung natitirang substance dun. Ginawang tinder amputa.\n\nSomeone make casual phr4r or something.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "So true. Dati I saw may post doon na matino, ni-lock. Petition to make a better sub haha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "https://www.reddit.com/r/phr4r/comments/frzwrc/27_f4a_bidding_goodbye/flyw4yd?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share\n\nI don't think this makes sense. Reply ng isang mod why nag auto lock sila. \n\nHay. I hope we get back the old phr4r.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I learned how to not give a fuck if I didn't learn any new skill during a pandemic. Everyone is so obsessed with productivity especially now, and I think not everyone has the luxury for it. \n\nBut if you were able to learn a new skill during a pandemic then good for you.\n\nFor those who did nothing, learned nothing new: IT'S OKAY. YOU DON'T HAVE TO FEEL BAD ABOUT IT", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Seconded. \n\nIt’s a freaking pandemic, not a holiday or vacation.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I tried painting kanina, as in mamintura pang karpentero not the artsy fartsy painting haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Gusto ko 'to. Hahaha", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Kung ito 'yung softbois na usually nahahanap sa dating apps... run. Been there, done that.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hahaha yeah and sadbois... Dated one and muntik na akong maubos sakanya hahaha daming issues wtf. Parang magazine.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "HAHAHAH this is gold. SHIT. 😂", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ughhhhh naging tanso ako... Ifyaknowwhat i mean..... Basta lets be careful of these 45 day old chicks pretending to be people.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Minsan yata OP depende sa love language.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "True. And above all, we [girls] appreciate consistency.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I agree,sis, sa consistency! Kaya OP, pasagutan mo na ng love language quiz si crush haha or tanungin mo sya, bilang open naman din siya sa'yo. Clear and open comm ay mahalaga para maaddress mo rin kung ano hinahanap/kailangan niya", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Inside joke nung mga dating IT classmates ko: \"Waw. Pentium 1\"", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Haha eto din samin! 😅", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Be awake for 24 hours then matulog ka sa gusto mong oras. Like say di ka makatulog edi push through mo na hanggang mag umaga then tulog ka sa preferred time mo like 9pm ganon", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yep this is what i do nung papalit palit shift ko.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Para sakin, parang natuto tayo sa mga titos/titas/relatives na mga excited magka-jowa/family pero medyo hirap financially. Most of us think siguro na we must be stable financially, mentally etc. before doing those things.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I agree! Especially for the financial standing. Jowa and marriage and can wait, but bills cannot.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Same, OP. Cheers. And when you try to explain to them, they will counter. Hindi sila papatalo and you will just end up agreeing (even if you don't) just to end the conversation.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Great to know hindi lang yung circle ko yung ganon. HAHAHA cheers! 🍻", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "May I ask, are you a girl or a boy? Some of my friends do not ask it because they think it is rude. Hahaha. Cheeeers! Single forevs is the best.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I'm a woman sir. Hahaha. Maybe not single forevs, but single and happy for now. 😊", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I'll drink to that. Yakult nga lang. Hahaha.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Palagi ko sinasabi sa mga ganitong relatives, hindi obligasyon ang pagpapakasal, option lang siya. My parents support me all the way. Kailangan mag-ipon at pagandahin ang trabaho, **dahil hindi pwedeng pambayad ng meralco ang pag-ibig**. ***Masaya nga kayong pamilya, wala ka naman mapakain/di mo naman mabigyan ng maayos na buhay ang mga anak mo.***\n\nPraktikal na dapat ngayon (pero dapat hindi rin naman mukhang pera! Kumbaga dapat stability muna ang inuuna hindi feelings, ang dami-daming tao sa mundo, hindi ka mauubusan). At your own time! Wag magmadali. Ayusin mo muna sarili mo. Tsaka, ano ngayon kung may mga jowa na ang mga relatives and friends mo? Mamamatay ba tayo kapag walang jowa?\n\nSana wag lagi pag-ibig ang uunahin ngayon ng mga kabataan. Yung mga profs ko, kailangan palagi lagyan ng mga interesting tales of love ang lecture para lang makuha ang atensyon ng mga students. Jusko. :(", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Last paragraph, very true. Hayst.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I respect people with \"traditional\" views but it's not one size fits all. I met my current SO sa dating app and more than a year na kami. Compared sa mga exes ko na in person ko talaga na-meet, 'di hamak na mas matino si current SO. Trauma inabot ko doon sa iba at dala-dala ko pa rin until now. Oo, maraming ogags sa dating app pero sa personal marami rin. To each his own talaga. :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same! Also met my SO on Tinder and we've been together for more than a year. Definitely an upgrade compared to my exes in ALL aspects. We didn't even go through the traditional get to know then ligaw phase, we kind of jumped in the dating phase agad and the next thing I knew, offical na pala kami haha.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Maple syrup > condensada tho. That golden goodness.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "*Real Maple syrup", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "As someone na galing probinsya, unang tapak ko sa Ayala, sobrang intimidating ng mga tao. Parang halos lahat naka chin-up, naka corporate attire, ang bibilis maglakad haha! Yung iba naman chill lang naglalakad habang may hawak na kape. Hayy, those days. \n\nNgayon, isa nako sa mga taong stress sa trabaho at lutang habang naglalakad diyan haha! Magkikita pa ulit tayo Ayala, see you soon. Babalik pa sa dati ang lahat, magsasawa ka ulit sa amin.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same feels! First time ko tumapak jan when we were looking for a company that would accept us for OJT. Iba yung feeling hehe.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Haha same, sabi ko obvious parang promi ako, kase nakatingala habang nag lalakad, minamasid yung gusali hahaha.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "HAHAHA shit. Even in my chosen profession, I feel so mediocre. \n\nPalagay ko nga kaya ko lang pinursue yung course ko nung college dahil sobrang interested ako sa field na yun that time. And now I'm so fucking bored of it. HUHU.\n\nIlang beses na rin akong nag balak magaral ulit na sobrang layo sa profession ko kasi baka iyon na yung \"true calling\" ko, then after some months mag iiba na naman ako ng interest and call it off. PUTA kakapagod na minsan. HAHAHA still, I enjoy every bit of it!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hehehe samedt :( ano yung tnry mo aralin in the past?", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "It depends. If being at my lowest point is causing issues in our relationship and it came to a point where I was already toxic for him, and I was dragging him down along with me, I would be more understanding of him wanting to break up. His mental health and well being matters just as much as mine. After all, two drowning people can't save each other. \n\nIf down the road we were to meet again and we were both in a better place, I think I would be open to trying again. \n\nIf he breaks up with me for anything less than that, then no, sorry. We are never ever getting back together.", "role": "user" }, { "content": ">After all, two drowning people can't save each other.\n\nAgree with this and this whole response. One should be stronger to be able to support the other. If both are mentally unable to cope then it would be best to fix themselves up before going into another relationship be it with another one or the same person. I know a couple who mutually broke up because both of them could not mentally care for the other. The key thing here that makes a reconciliation probable should they meet again is that they discussed it without anger and with understanding.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "So ang tawag nya sa mga buyers nya ay \"Suki Co?\"\nChar last na po. 😂", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Tawang tawa ako dito! Hahahahaha 😂", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "unpopular opinion: relationships shouldn't feel like obligations, we should learn to be emotionally self reliant\n\nkapit lang, take your time, let's all take this road to a healthy one", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Uhm not a relationship though. We're friends.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "The more it applies hehe", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "It’s the new generation version of astrology; Myers-Briggs is unsubstantiated and a pseudo-science/psychological test. Once believed on it as well lol", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Huh this is so.good to hear.. took that test a couple of days ago and i felt so bad being boxed in a certain personality type that described me as flighty and as someone who only belong in the arts.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I don’t think adhering to your preference is being shallow. She probably just wasn’t your type. It might have hurt but at least you were honest about it and didn’t result to ghosting her. Though it also depends on *how* you told her..\n\nAlso, swapping photos early on saves you this trouble next time 😅 since you’re considering the possibility of the connection to be something more if you both click.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Finally. Praise you op. \n\nI do think it's on the manner of how he said it to her. A strong woman who knows her value so well would not be uhm, totally(?), hurt by this remarks but would take this constructively.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "What a loving mother you have. \n\nAs an only child as well ganyan din naiisip ko paminsan minsan but when I look into it again it's better na only child ako kasi magulo din naman ang family ko. Heck katulong pa sakin nagturo mag po at opo haha.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Siguro di naman maiiwasan yung gulo kaso iba iba pa rin naman talaga yan. Sana okay ka & yung fam mo! :)", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "If I told you my story, you'd be very suprised how magulo it is Lol\n\nPero yes tama ka.No family/relationship is without quarrels or disagreements. It's how you cope with the problems that makes the bond stronger\n\nThank you! This Covid-19 pandemic hasn't really been good to us but staying strong is key. \n\nHope you and you're family is safe aswell. 😀", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You sound like someone na napalaki ng maayos. Being a parent din, isa sa concern namin yan na walang kapatid yung anak namin, kawawa walang kalaro. But we try to weigh things na rin na if mag anak pa kami, baka di namin maprovide ng maayos yung needs nila. Ganyan din probably iniisip ng parents mo. And ang sarap lang pakinggan na naiintindihan mo sila. \n\nWe are a young couple and we are always told na kami na may enough income to raise a family, ayaw mag anak ng marami. While yung ibang walang saktong income, andaming anak.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sobrang sweet pakinggan ng napalaki ng maayos, feeling ko kasi hindi ako ganun dahil may mga pagkukulang ako sa parents ko for sure at sakit din naman ako ng ulo nila minsan haha pero salamat! ❤️\n\nSa pagpa-pamilya naman, nasa sa inyo po yan kung gusto niyo pa dagdagan o hindi na. Tama naman na dapat pinag-iisipan din talaga muna. :)", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I abhorr flexing. It's so much better to be humble. You're watching somebody's highlight reel on social media. Build on your own pace, grow, and look for what makes you happy.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Haha one time nakita ko yung hs batchmate kong seaman na. Ofc they earn better than the average working filipino. Nagpost sya sa fb story nya kung ano pinamili nya sa japan na sobrang mura daw. Eh ang mahal kaya ng goods sa japan. So sabi ko na lang “weird flexx but okay”", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Would you like to try out UP telepsychotherapy services? They're offering free one-hour sessions for those who feel affected by the pandemic. I've tried it out and it helped me especially with my job hunting woes.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Can you share the link? Thank you.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "[Here you go ](https://www.up.edu.ph/upd-department-offers-free-counseling-in-a-time-of-physical-distancing/)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Appreciate it so much. Thank you!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "How much more when you thought you did something wrong kaya di ka nirereplyan? Turns out di naman pala? Fck overthinking!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "God I guess thats my problem. Inooverthink ko lahat", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Well, it’s not good na manghimasok sa relationship but for me, send it. Cheaters shouldn’t be tolerated + para mag ka idea din yung girl about the guy she’s with, it’s upon the girl’s discretion if mag s settle siya or makikipag break siya.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same opinion. Screenshot then press the send button.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Gonna miss those little devils disguised as nieces/nephews.\n\nI kinda have the same situation as yours. Being an adult, it's lonely.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "We gotta do what we gotta do to live tho hahahahaha", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Ibabad mo sa bigas for 3 days? Haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Haha Yeah with dasal too?", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "⠀⠀⢀⡤⢶⣶⣶⡄⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⢀⣠⣤⣤⣤⣿⣧⣀⣀⣀⣀⣀⣀⣀⣀⣤⡄⠀ ⢠⣾⡟⠋⠁⠀⠀⣸⠇⠈⣿⣿⡟⠉⠉⠉⠙⠻⣿⡀ ⢺⣿⡀⠀⠀⢀⡴⠋⠀⠀⣿⣿⡇⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠙⠇ ⠈⠛⠿⠶⠚⠋⣀⣤⣤⣤⣿⣿⣇⣀⣀⣴⡆⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠠⡞⠋⠀⠀⠀⣿⣿⡏⠉⠛⠻⣿⡀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⣿⣿⡇⠀⠀⠀⠈⠁⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⣠⣶⣶⣶⣶⡄⠀⠀⣿⣿⡇⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⢰⣿⠟⠉⠙⢿⡟⠀⠀⣿⣿⡇⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⢸⡟⠀⠀⠀⠘⠀⠀⠀⣿⣿⠃⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠈⢿⡄⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⣼⣿⠏⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠙⠷⠶⠶⠶⠿⠟⠉⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Noice! Hahaha ikaw may pinakamalaking F!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Hindi hobbies ang social media at chat online.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hahaha sorry sir. Hindi pala hobbies. Things that i do when im bored nalang.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Okay. Hmmmm. Try mo kaya gumawa ng food, magluto-luto, magmix mix. Gawa ng carrot ice cream.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Carrot ice cream hahaha! Am planning on learning how to bake sana sipagin na ako. Thank you sir for the suggestions!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Loving is easy. You just have to fall.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Oooh nice", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "You did this to yourself. \n\nMaybe evaluate that you may be the problem? \n\nYou see, you appear to have quite a strong tendency to want someone you can no longer have.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Agree.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "The best way to get over it is to never assume. Never assume that he will reciprocate your love. It's a one-sided love, you deserve more than that. The more you beg for his love the more he will take you for granted. You should realize your worth sooner and be happy on your own. Heal yourself first.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I need this!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "You don't get over it. You just get used to not having her around.\n\nSome days you'd find yourself missing her. You no longer cry but you don't smile either.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Exactly.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Lol. I'm glad I'm not popular enough to let people I'm not that smart.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Tingin ko kaya siya na-bash nang ganyan kasi pinapalabas niya sa mga taong “may alam” siya tungkol sa issue na yan.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Dunning Kruger effect", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Kaya kids, mag aral mabuti hindi puro pagwapo at pacute lang 😂 Laging lamang ang may alam, k?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "This is good \n\nI assume his target demography is as misinformed as he is. The backlash will serve them a quick know-what to the different terms used in relation to Covid.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I think he confused the meaning of mass testing with clinical trials. Yikes.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Cringeee pero yun nga yung akala niya", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Cringe talaga. With conviction pa yung explanation nya kung bakit ayaw nya sa mass testing. Hahaha sana nag-research man lang muna sya.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Triggered siya agad HAHAHA idek if the guy asking knows abt mass testing or nag play along na lang siya", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Your life, your pace.\n\nI feel like people who are in their mid-20s and still have their v card treat it as a \"flaw\" and that people will look down on them if they are one.\n\nVirginity isn't indicative of one's worth.\n\nIt's never a race, take your time.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I don't see it naman as my flaw, I think it's something to be proud of pa nga. I was just surprised when I started talking to people about sex and they're surprised I'm still V at 27 which makes me think if it's weird.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Report it to pnp not the local precint,", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I will! I CANT WAIT FOR THAT CREEP TO BE REPRIMANDED OR SMTHN.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I hate how accurate this is.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Don't worry. Me too. Lalo na nung una kong nakita yan.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "No. I miss this anime for real", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Maybe you miss the anime and you few years ago.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Palagay po flag ng China sa chest. Baka sabihin di tayo loyal", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Heatpress po ba or burda?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Burda po para mas embossed and shiny HAHAHA", "role": "user" }, { "content": "noted po mam! HAHAHAHAHAHA", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Ako si Carlo. Isa akong cheater. \n \nWala eh, kinailangan ko ng validation. So being the immature me, I cheated on every partner that I've had. Ang exciting kasi. Yung patago kayong magkikita, yung thrill. Pati yung sex putangina ang init. Sobrang init. \n\n \n*Bakit di mo na lang hiniwalayan ang current partner mo bago ka nagloko?* \n\nKasi no one wants to be the bad guy. Putanginang image yan - yung gusto mo ikaw lagi ang good guy. Gusto mo mag hihiwalay kayo dahil *kasalanan* niya. \n \nAnd then I met Her. \n \nAko si Carlo. Isa akong ex-cheater. \n \nTinamaan ako ng lintik. Ngayon lang ako nakaramdam ng ganito. Yung sobrang mahal na mahal mo ang isang tao na matatakot kang gumawa ng isang bagay na masasaktan siya. Mahirap nung umpisa kasi natakot ako na baka balikan ako ng karma pero nung kinalaunan eh naging kampante ako. Alam ko na siya na ang makakasama ko habangbuhay. Sobrang magkasundo kami. Niligawan ko siya ng halos isang taon bago naging kami. \n\nTumagal kami ng halos tatlong taon bago ko naramdaman na may nag bago. Yung mga tinanong sa akin ng mga exes ko dati eh yun na din ang bungad ko. \n\n*Okay lang ba tayo?* \n\nShe assured me na okay lang daw kami at wala daw ako dapat ikabahala. After a month of pag dududa and a bit of stalking eh nahuli ko siya. Napaamin din siya. Meron daw iba. Ang alam daw ni guy eh single siya. Guy was also in a relationship. \n \nHindi ko alam ang gagawin ko. Sobrang nagalit ako at napikon na naisahan ako. Ang deal kasi namin, maging upfront pag may natipuhang iba na. Same reason bakit di niya nagawang umamin sa akin - dahil sa putanginang *image* na yan. \n \nI asked everything nung nagkita kami. I needed to know every detail, kung paano nag umpisa. \n\n*Ka officemate niya, dun sila nagumpisa mag usap \n\n*After niya magsabi ng 'goodnight love, I love you' eh lalabas na pala siya para magkita sila. Tatambay lang daw sila sa QC circle, magkakape, magkkwentuhan. Dito ako mas nasaktan kesa sa nag sex sila. (Nag rrent kasi siya ng apartment along with some of her fellow co workers. South kami based pero sa QC ang trabaho niya.) \n\n*Sa boardinghouse ni guy unang may nangyari sa kanila. Meron siya that time. Goyo daw ang pinanood nila (ironic). \n\n*Biggest daw niya si guy ever. Sobrang nag aache all over daw siya pati bibig niya after nila. Yep, pati yun inalam ko. Putangina. \n\n*3 times daw may nangyari sa kanila. Ang dinahilan niya nun kung bakit di siya makakauwi sa weekend eh dahil gusto niya mag review para sa board and andami daw distractions sa bahay nila. \n \nAnyway, 8 months na ang nakakalipas pero ang sakit pa din. I know I deserve this. I'm really not sure if I'll be able to get over this pero pinipilit ko naman. Dinelete ko na ang lahat ng bagay that will remind me of her. \n \nFat chance of her seeing this pero S, kung nababasa mo man to, sana okay ka. Di pa kita mapapatawad ngayon pero eventually I know that I'll need to for my peace of mind. \n \nSorry napahaba. I needed to vent this out. Walang nakakaalam na kahit sino sa mga kaibigan ko nito. \n\n**TL;DR Cheaters get to taste their own medicine. Minsan eh na o-OD pa sila.**", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Wow. Thanks for sharing! I hope you learned your lesson na rin. You’ll be able to move on pero it’ll take awhile and you will be scarred forever. \n\nIf I may ask, sa mga pinagcheatan mo, pinagsisihan mo ba na niloko mo sila? Or parang wala lang sayo then you moved on to another girl", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yung totoo? Not at first. Masaya ako sa bago kong partner/s eh so wala akong paki sa mga nararamdaman nila. Sobrang selfish ko na all I cared about was my own happiness. Besides, di naman nila alam na niloko ko sila so okay lang - yan ang paulit ulit kong sinasabi sa sarili ko. Nung tumanda ako eh na realize ko kung gaano ako ka kupal.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I see. That's too sad haha.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Nakakatamad", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Eto talaga yun.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Never been in a relationship and I can say na nakakaadik maging single (sometimes I get all drained just by listening to my friends’ relationship probs). Also, haven’t met someone whom I genuinely connected with.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Apir tayo diyan, sizst!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "💖", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Filipinos love it. Exciting eh. We live in a postmodern monogamous culture where pre-marital sex is still frowned upon. Sex sells.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That's true, sex sells everywhere naman and not just here. I guess it's the culture nga that shames people's inner suppressed desires/personalities so people tend to look for \"exciting\" stuff. But even if that's the case, ang weird parin na it's often portrayed through affair/cheating plotlines na karamihan na ng movies/teleserye ganon.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "They are in the business to make money. There's no reason to stray away from a formula that generates money with minimal creative and production effort.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sad truth", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "A. Unconventional beauty\n\nB. Men get intimidated by her\n\nC. She doesn’t put herself out there", "role": "user" }, { "content": "How would I know kung intimidating ako? Ano bang possoble signs haha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Pag strong, independent woman who don’t need no man ka 😄", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I really find it hard to talk to an independent woman, yung grabe ang presence. Yung alam mo na ayaw nya talaga mabulabog ang buhay nya haha.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Isn't that an attractive quality for you?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Filipino men are usually still tied to traditional values and gender roles.\n\nMay instinct sila to protecc at takot silang ma attacc haha.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thank you for explaining hahaha i dont know how to put it into words eh.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I have a friend naman na almost perfect maganda naman pero hindi pang beauty queen na ganda simpleng ganda lang, matalino, mayaman, mabait, mahinahon magsalita pero hindi sya ligawin or what. \n\n​\n\nThe conclusion we had is that most guys might think of asking her out but is too intimidated or something ? or maybe they think our friend is next to mother Teresa na :D HAHAHAH", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Oohhh, that's interesting. Maybe marami din talagang nag aadmire sa kanya from afar.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I was a dead kid back in high school. I came from an all boys school, so everyone's drinking na pretty much kahit nung 2nd year pa lang. I didn't really go sa mga night out and I considered myself as an outcast. School bahay lang talaga ako literal. I became active sa student council and became a consistent honor student. Teacher's pet nga raw ako eh. I did bagged almost all the awards in graduation. Sobrang saya ko because all I care about is getting those awards. College came and everything fucked me up. I didn't perform well academically. I lost my drive. So I was a sore loser with no friends all throughout college life (hanggang ngayon naman). The thing is, nagreregret ako na hindi ako nag seize the moment nung high school. I regret not joining my classmates. I regret not making friends and preserving them. Now, I'm all alone without anyone to talk to. I'm immersing myself now here in reddit and with memes to cheer me up and ease my anxiety. Sobrang lungkot lang na sana nakipagkaibigan na lang ako sa maraming tao edi sana ngayon I have a group of friends I can talk to. Wala lang share lang. I don't have anyone to vent out lang.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Very much me but I never excelled in HS just enough during 1st year as top 1 in section of 20+ sections then gradually get lower till 4th year wherein just enough to participate on interschool quiz bee (public schools). Thou I was a Cum Laude in my College.\n\nAnd also while I am still got totally zero friends, I didn't regret anything at all on not making a friend.\n\nI thinking my introvertness + independent contributed to this. Totally not longing for anyone to share a moment or a shoulder to need aside from SO and family.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That's great. Besides, the internet is great companion. Memes and cute dog videos cheer us introverts. Lol", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Cheers dude! Likewise reddit and another form there maybe here's for you :)", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Solid talaga yun friends na nakilala mo during HS. Sila yun mga tao na kilala yun deeper self mo kahit madami ka ng pinagbago. \n\nIto yun sagot ko sa tanong mo: babaguhin ko yun pagiging takot ko sa rejection at di pagtake ng risks noong highschool.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I agree dude. Highschool friends are for keeps.\n\nMarami din akong hindi ni-risk nung highschool pero it turned out for the better.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Good for you :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "*Baka may mga bagay na mas nakikita talaga ang halaga kapag nawala na...*", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yeah... :)", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Hay yan sana plan namin kaso hiniwalayan ako HAHAHAHAHHAHA", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same HAHAHAHAA", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Quaranshit 🤷🏼‍♀️", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Keep that friend forever", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You don't have to tell me twice.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Okay na ako sa So-en. Locally made pa.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Meron ba online yung so-en? Legit supplier or something? Hahahah", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ayon sa fb page nila:\n\n\nhttps://shopee.ph/soenlingerie\n\nhttps://so-en.myshopify.com/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "The overwhelming loneliness is because you want someone to watch your life and someone you can share your experience with. You bought new clothes? You got praised on the job? Achieved something in life. But then again, you don't have someone to share the feelings of, \"oh, look baby, I bought this, it looks pretty, right?\" \"Hun, I was promoted at my job and as a celebration, let's go out and have dinner outside today\" and other things like that. \n\nFamily, friends, and colleagues recognition are of course in there, even self-love, but then again, there will always be an empty void of someone special you can share your feelings and life with, else people would not get married if being alone and self-love is enough.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "+1", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "r/wowthanksimcured", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same thoughts", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I live & work in the Philippines, but I'm really addicted to traveling here and abroad. Hindi ko pa naman nalibot ang buong mundo, pero marami-rami na ring napuntahan kahit papano outside of Asia. \n\nWhat helps me is to have a separate bank account for my travel funds. Wag na wag mangungutang para lang mag-travel. Kung walang pera, manahimik sa bahay. \n\nAnyways, regularly ako nagse-save sa account ko every payday para may pang-book agad ako ng airfare pag seat sale ng PAL or other airlines (Cathay, Delta, etc.). I never pay for airfares at full price. Bumibili lang ako pag may sale. So yes, bago pa ako magka-visa, may plane ticket na 'ko. I know it's risky kasi walang assurance na approved agad ang visa application ko. Pero yun din ang rason kung bakit motivated talaga ako na mag-save and planuhin nang maayos ang trip. At syempre, in my mind, hindi puwedeng ma-deny ang visa application kasi sayang ang binayad sa ticket. So far, thankfully, hindi pa ako nadedeny ever. \n\n\nAnother thing, i DIY all parts of the trip. Hindi ako umaasa sa mga travel agencies kasi additional gastos lang 'yan. I do a lot of research kasi isang way 'yan para mapababa ang cost ng trip. I regularly consult the TripAdvisor forum kasi malaking tulong ang input / suggestions ng mga tao dun, lalo ng mga posters na mga locals sa lugar na pupuntahan ko. \n\n\nHindi ako basta book lang nang book ng hotel or tours. I find the hotels nearest to most of the places I would go to, or at least walking distance sa train or bus stations. Salamat kay Google Maps. Tapos I book the least expensive hotel, pero yung maayos naman at safe. I check muna kung mas mura sa hotel booking apps (Agoda, Hotels.com, Booking.com) or sa mismong website ng hotel, then depende rin kung may kasama nang breakfast. Usually kinukuha ko 'yung may breakfast na.\n\nSa tours naman, may mga sites like Klook na palagi may inooffer na discounts sa tours, so I get those. Depende pa rin sa reviews, highly reliant din ako dyan.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "thank you sensei for your words of wisdom :D", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Ganito din kami turns out he’s gay:)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Awww better luck next time 😅", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Best of luck sa inyo op!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I met her here. We been talking for months now but it feels like years already. I'm going to marry her.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Lucky souls :) Congratulations in advance maam", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ma'am. 😁", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hehe noted po!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "So far, I never had a weird date but a very surreal date lol\n\n It was my first time to travel in Japan and decided to use tinder. I matched with a Japanese guy and decided to meet him up for dinner the next day. We met up at the train station after his work and had ramen. His English was very limited but he was passionate about cars that he talked about it the entire time. He never mentioned that he had one though, he just said that he liked GT cars and wanted to collect them. We decided to walk to his house after dinner because it wasn’t far from the station. I was already thinking that we would probably just hop on the bed together, ride him and mess around. Lol\n\nWhen he told me we had reached his house, the first thing I noticed was this shiny sleek silver sports car. Think of the cars you’d seen in fast and furious, ganong level lol He asked me if he could take me for a spin. Syempre I said yesss!!. And girl!! That was one of the best rides of my life —- I was in Kyoto, in a freaking loud sports car, with a Japanese guy I had never met before! How surreal could that be! We drove around the city and up to Mt. Hiei overlooking Kyoto. When we got to the top, we had coffee from the vending machine lol \n\nSorry this post became too long. This happened a little over a year ago and I can still remember it vividly hence the long and detailed post. Anyway, thank you for reading!!!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hope I can meet someone too when im in a foreign country 😄", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "1. Nagrereply ng \"K\"\n\n2. Yung hindi marunong magtapon sa tamang lagayan\n\n3. Yung hindi organized na folder/files", "role": "user" }, { "content": "All 3, yes ://", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Some people put up a facade when in a new relationship because they want to put their best foot forward and impress for fear of rejection.. But can you really pull off that act long-term? That's going to get old, fast. Eventually, it wears off and you see the person underneath.\n\nI'm not saying that's automatically what it is. It could also be you've passed the 'honeymoon stage' of your relationship. \n\nIf someone is affectionate by nature, no matter the circumstance, it will always show one way or another.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "FACTS 💯", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I gave up my own career when I have my kid...he's 6yrs old now ,got no regrets on being a full time mom,not having my own money but no amount would compensate for the time I am with him and in every step of the way..", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hello po, thank you so much for sharing this! Your child’s very lucky to have a mother like you 🙂", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "As much as I love my job, I'll never hesitate to drop it for my child. I am an only child and iniwan ako ng magulang ko sa grandparents ko until I was three. My mom stopped working nun to take care of me but she was always at the hospital and she eventually died when I was 12. My father was busy working kaya noong highschool, I was super close sa kasambahay namin. I don't have friends outside school noon so kapag weekends, I hangout with my ate and her other kasambahay friends. Di pa rin kami masyadong close ng tatay ko until now at mas close pa rin ako sa grandparents ko and tita ko na nag-alaga sa akin. \n\nSo, no. If i'll have a child, ako mismo mag-aalaga sa kanya. I learned from my parents' mistakes.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Gosh, I’m very sorry to hear what happened to your mom... I wish you’ll still get a chance to have some quality time with your dad pa rin but ayun nga eh, iba talaga kasi yung attachment sa atin ng mga nag alaga sa atin on those years. Hindi rin talaga kita masisi. There’s this awkwardness when we’re with them. \n\nThank you so much for sharing this!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Sometimes when we are with someone new (may it be kachat or fling or fubu) we get to live off the kilig feeling since di pa natin sila masyado kilala. This kilig moments will then feed our imaginations that will let us associate ourselves with them kaya hirap na hirap tayo once bigla silang nagbago. My advice to you is just open your eyes to who they really are. Chances are marami na palang red flags pero di lang natin napapansin. Once na naidentify mo na ung mga ayaw mo about sakanya then that'll help you move on or think about him less.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Omy, thanks for this. Sort of going through the same situation, and everything you said really makes sense, esp the red flags.. :(", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Kasi di ako attractive by filipino standards. Narealize ko to in my early twenties. Which is why when I went abroad to study and work, nashock ako when guys would approach me to be “friendly.” On the streets, at work (we used to get a lot of random volunteers because it was an NGO), even just eating out may nag-aapproach. Super culture shock. Sobrang na-boost confidence ko during those times haha. Pero balik Pinas na ko now kaya pangit na ulit ako. 😅", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Bakit sa ibang bansa uso beauty natin, dito hindi?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Grass is always greener on the other side ika nga. Notice how popular western and eastern beauty is here. Most (not saying all) guys here prefer/want “chinitas” or mga puti. Whereas abroad (caucasian dominated countries specifically), they’re more culturally diverse and are used to being surrounded by your average pretty white girls. Average-looking there pero pag dinala mo sa Pilipinas they go from 5/10 to 10/10, instant artista.\n\nTl;dr Cultural difference in perceptions of beauty.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I don't. Kahit wholesome pa or friendly. I used to years ago kasi I've been trying to be nice saka I don't want to offend them kasi we're in good terms naman. Pero narealize ko na I'm not really interested in their lives and I no longer want them to be part of mine, tas ayoko mag spark ng hope for closeness. Our chapter was over and done with.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I like this energy. After all wala din namang patutunguhan kung mag uusap pa ulit. Thanks.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Just be! Build a relationship with yourself first. Introspect. Ask yourself the hard questions! Discover your flaws and love yourself regardless.\n\nSabi nga ni Mama Ru - if you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else? (Can i get an amen up in here?)\n\nI think this is so important kapag magkakaroon ka man ng relationship with another person. Pag kilala mo sarili mo, and you're secure sa self image mo, you know what you want, you know what is 'non negotiable' for you, it sets a good foundation e. Para yung future relationship mo if magkaroon man it'll be built on the premise of partnership and not dependence. I think it's less toxic that way. Para ang atake nyo sa relationship as \"equals\" kayo who both bring their best to the table. Di yung nagiging clingy and jealous kasi kulang sa security sa sarili. \n\nSome people think it's so romantic hearing \"i need you, i cant live without you\" but i think it's more beautiful to hear \"i DON'T need you, i CAN live without you, but every day i CHOOSE to be with you\"\n\nPero okay na po ako, masyado ko na pong kilala self ko. I'm ready na po! help hahahaha cheret", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thank youuu 💕", "role": "assistant" } ]