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"content": "Single guy here and I'm preparing myself to be single for the rest of my damn life haha",
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"content": "Good advice. Gamitin ko na rin haha 😆",
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"content": "yess! i ship! hahaha",
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"content": "So how exactly is it affecting your relationship? I mean, what specific issues are you having trouble with?",
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"content": "This. Kulang yung kuwento.",
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"content": "Kahit kulang yung kwento makikita mo kung paano di niya matanggap tanggap na lower class sila. she need to accept herself kung saan siya lumaki at ang pamilya niya.",
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"content": "Kasi lower class ako OP may internet access nga lang.",
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"content": "You can talk about it naman to settle the differences. Last ex- ko is a highschool graduate tapos ako college graduate twice. Planning for Masters and another specialization pa. So, may disparity talaga pagdating sa education, but I keep reassuring her na don't let it mind her kasi kahit ano mangyari siya pa din pipiliin ko, even having a secret plan to send her to school, but meh, she did leave me na. \n\nSo ayun, what I wanted to point out is, nasa bf mo ang burden kasi nyan in the long term. Let's be realistic na, madami magsasabi sa kanya na bakit ikaw na mahirap, madami naman may kaya o mayaman na mapera dyan or sinasabi na ka-level niya, so bakit ikaw? In short, kailangan mo ng reassurance from him na whatever happens ikaw pa din talaga.\n\nOn your side naman, don't let poverty pull you down. Ipakita mo na may magandang prospective ka and outlook for the future. Yung mahirap ka, pero plano mo ganito or ganyan tapos working towards that goal kahit pakonti-konti. That's more than enough as an arsenal for you to go into battle and prove na hindi ka magiging burden or type na gold digger.",
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"content": "Wait...... hindi ba na offend yung ex mo dun sa secret plan niyo? Haha sorry na-bother ako lol",
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"content": "She didn't know and hindi ko na nasabi sa kanya. It should be my wedding gift. kapal ng mukha ko mangarap, dba? HAHAHAHA, tapos isang buwan lang iniwan na. It was from back then nung kami pa and then I've asked, kung mag-college siya, anong gusto niya na course, then she told me Psychology or Education. Since, there are times na nado-down talaga siya dahil nga sa lack of education.",
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"content": "Oh god buti hindi natuloy hahaha. I mean if ayaw niya magaral tapos yun pala gift mo nvm na imagine ko lang si girl hahahhaha mala rose ng 90 day fiance hehe",
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"content": "Actually, she wanted to, but they have no means kaya napilitan mag-work na after highschool.",
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"content": "I see. That’s niceeee kaso too late huehue hope she’s okay na",
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"content": "Sa totoo lang wala ng bearing ang edukasyon pag nasa tunay na buhay na. Sobrang kababawan na yun. Ang katayuan sa buhay yan ang totoong sasampal sayo sa araw araw. So far wala pa naman akong nakilalang tao na nakasabit sa kanya ang diploma nya araw araw.",
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"content": "r/ph has been conducting meet-up on Yellow Flame back then. Rule was, no need to reveal whoever you are in reddit. There's also some selfie thread whenever they feel like it and you can see the r/ph peeps there on whoever they are irl. \n\nAlthough, some of r/casualph lurkers are new names that I haven't encounter of, except for some, or maybe, they're just an alt.",
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"content": "Well, when we hear from the great Einkreuz, maybe he'll organise a meetup for us Casualfolks. Sana sa town centre. We are the opposite of the uppity ones, might as well form a GRMD2021 in the south. XD",
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"content": "Mas nakakatamad lumandi pag walang gana kausap mo sa kwento mo hehehe",
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"content": "I strongly agree to that. Hahaha",
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"content": "Online presscon para isang kwento nalang. 😜",
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"content": "Oh kaya GC sa lahat. Para isang bagsakan. Hahahaha",
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"content": "Korek haha!",
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"content": "Pwede din talk show para pwede din mag-invite ng witnesses, or gumawa ng re-enactment, hahaha\n\nAt least mas live yung pagkwento (with caution din sa mga sensitive parts of story)",
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"content": "And may mga testimonials from fellow redditors like it's your birthday. And and, may video ng a day in your life.",
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"content": "omg!!! I've been thinking of deactivating fb kasi it's tolerating fake news. the site itself does not protect you from it. pero I'm so addicted and it's ingrained in my life. ugh so frustrating!!!!",
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"content": "Truth!!! for me naman can't deactivate my fb pa kasi sa mga groups for CETs, kailangan ko ng updates which sa fb talaga naglalabas ng tips and updates huhu",
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"content": "Try creating an alternative account free from FB friends, but only follow the pages of colleges for the updates and join CETs-related groups for the tips and reviews. I did that when I was studying for the CETs last year.",
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"content": "> Dine out, order food thru LalaMove, finish that Netflix series... or be proactive with the signs of the times. Today, be Ronald Campo, Winston Ragos, Michelle Silvertino, Elmer Cordero, or even George Floyd. Today, let's condemn racism, injustice and discrimination.\n> \n> Independence Day is the best time to take a stand.\n> \n> \"More censorship may be a cure that's worse than the disease, for we would be surrendering freedom of judgement in exchange for peace of mind.\" -Nick Joaquin\n\nIt has something to do with Independence Day",
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"content": "Ayan yung nakita ko sa about kanina!!",
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"content": "Gawa tayo dito ng NRD hehe",
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"content": "Meron na [https://www.reddit.com/r/CasualPH/comments/h129ii/nightly\\_random\\_discussion\\_thread/](https://www.reddit.com/r/CasualPH/comments/h129ii/nightly_random_discussion_thread/)",
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"content": "oh i was beaten to it, rolf",
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"content": "[Ask Reddit of the night](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/h0sqoh/you_come_home_and_find_two_people_together_in/): You come home and find two people together in your bed, what do you say to them to make it as awkward as possible?",
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"content": "*Don't tell me you guys made something on my bed*",
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"content": "Male in bed: Ehhh a life?",
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"content": "Akala ko na-ban na ako sa r/PH kse di na ako nag-a-attendance.\n\nKaya eto na, PRESENT!!! 🙋🏼\n\nNamiss ko ang NRD. Aga na kse natutulog ng tita eh. 😂",
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"content": "Hala, same hahhahahaha. Akala ko rin banned ako eh. Restart pa ako ng restart sa app akala ko Internet connection lang namin.",
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"content": "True. Buti na lang nakapagtanong. Muntik ko na naman i-uninstall tapos reinstall ang Reddit. Di naman pala ako nag-iisa. Lol.",
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"content": "Napaisip tuloy ako kung may nagawa ba akong mali hahahaha.",
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"content": "Grabe un panic no? Hahahahaha",
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"content": "Hahahahaha saktong panic lang.",
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"content": "Whew, thanks for posting this! Akala ko banned na ako or something 😅 buti naisipan kong mag check sa sub to find some answer as to what could possibly happened. I'm not a regular here but now I'll visit more often.",
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"content": "Ako rin, hehe.",
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"content": "Lol mga feeling guilty ba tayo? 😂",
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"content": "That's a really clumsy way of trying to make a difference.",
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"content": "Agreed. They could have at least consulted with the community before deciding for themselves. What a silly idea.",
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"content": "Ew ang off. What kind of solidarity is this? Now more than ever, we shouldn't be silenced. We should speak tf up. Tuloy ang laban.",
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"content": "You felt it right? How unfair to lose your access to express your opinion? It stung you and left a mark that you have to speak up. I understand your initial reaction it feels off. You are not expecting it kaya it was off putting. \n\nThen i think the message of their intent was planted sau personally.",
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"content": "Ginaya nila yung ibang subs nung nag Black Out tuesday sila in support of #blacklivesmatter. To be honest i dont get it bakit kelangang mag-temporary shut down, di ba mas kelangan nga nating mag-speak up during these times??",
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"content": "Agreee this is our safe spce on the happenings. Parang ewan lang yung message they're trying to send, ang off noong timing.",
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"content": "If anything it's a reminder that some freedoms we take for granted can be taken away at anytime with neither warning nor reason. It's okay to be angry. It's okay to think this is wrong. If you feel indignant at being unable to speak out on reddit today, direct that anger at those who seek to take away freedom from you and others because unless something is done, this is going to be how things will be not just online, but more importantly in real life as well.",
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"content": "but problem is reddit isnt a right, its a service provided by a private entity, its not a public service nor a freedom per se",
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"content": "Yes but it is a platform where you can freely voice out your thoughts and opinions mostly anonymously. So, if you treat reddit as a place where you can voice out concerns and it is suddenly taken down for unknown reasons, would you be okay with it?",
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"content": "maybe it would be different if i had considered reddit a public space.\nproblem is that i consider reddit a private space and can be taken away from me at any time",
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"content": "Ironically, they want to celebrate independence day by shutting everyone's voices on the sub",
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"content": "Oopsies",
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"content": "Edit : 12 yan hindi 22. Sorry na. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂",
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"content": "back to the future bro",
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"content": "My 104 years old patient just passed away. We laid her out and she looks so peaceful. Bless her soul. 🙏",
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"content": "Sad but having lived for 104 years is a huge blessing. RIP to your patient.",
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"content": "Right! She even celebrated her birthday last wednesday hehe nakaabot pa xa but yeah she's in a better place :)",
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"content": "I can't tell how old you are, but I might be older than you (I'm in my 30s right now). I know I'm not THAT old, but as a guy who has his own family, I can kind of understand what your father went through. Back in my college days, I used to be very opinionated and idealistic about politics.\n\nI was one of those people who were very active in supporting Dick Gordon when he was running for president against Noynoy Aquino back in 2010. Back then, I really thought he was the right guy to run for president. He seemed like an intellectual like Gibo, but had the experience to show due to his tenure in the government and The Philippine Red Cross. I pushed so hard in advocating for this guy. I even argued with so much people on Facebook and I also tried convincing everyone around me to vote for the guy.\n\nLooking back, I'm certain that I was very stupid back then. We can see how Dick Gordon is doing right now and he's obviously not all that. He's had his ups and downs over the recent years, but I'm almost confident to say that there probably wouldn't be a difference if he had won the presidential elections back then.\n\nI'm happy that there was a time in my life when I was so passionate about our country that I tried my best to fight for it. However, I was also very naive back then. There were a lot of things that I didn't know and I mostly saw things in black and white when in reality, there is a huge grey area in politics. Worst case scenario, I was probably advocating for the wrong things and hurting my relationships with other people in the process.\n\nAs I grew older, life gave me a lot of stuff to worry about and I eventually found myself to be apathetic towards politics. As long as the people around me are fine and thriving, then I don't really care about everything else. After all, there's a limit to how much we can worry about, so it's better to put all of our resources into the things that affect us directly. It's not that I don't care about what happens to the country; It's just that I have so much on my plate already that I can only do so much.",
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"content": "Same dude. Sadly, they have this tirade going on right now wherein if you’re neutral then it makes you no different than the aggressors bullshit. Lmao. Y’all are gonna grow up too and worry about so much more, see if you’d still care about politics then. I’ve got enough problems as it is, especially with this pandemic. I care more about how I’m gonna be able to supplement my loss of income and stretch out my savings for the months I’m out of work than whether or not some bill passes or if a franchise gets renewed. 🤦🏻♀️",
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"content": "The message is true though. It's just that people forget to take into account that not everyone is in a position to take risks.",
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"content": "That and we’ve all had our fair share of being involved in politics. Most of us have been there after all. It’s great that the next generation are now in the position to voice out their views. What isn’t okay is vilifying others who doesn’t outright agree with their beliefs, or in this case, people who stay neutral. But then again, I guess that happens in every generation, sooo.",
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"content": "Normal mawalan ng kaibigan as you get older. You can't keep everyone in your life. That's life.",
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"content": "Totoo kata to for older generations?\n(parang ang reason lang kasi nila is losing contact info)",
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"content": "Depende kasi sa meaning ng friendship yan for you. If ang meaning ng friends ay kung may contact ka pa rin sa elem, hs and college friends and batchmates mo, ayun marami ka pa rin friends pagtanda. For me kasi, as you grow older, magkakaron kayo ng ibatibang paths na, di na same interest, di na rin makakausap pag may problema ka (yung mga pili na lang). Di ka na rin interesado sa mga buhay nila and vice versa. Masaya nung nagka-intersect buhay ninyo along the way pero darating yung time na maa-outgrow nyo yung isatisa. Tapos yung matitira iyon yung mga tunay na friends for life.",
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"content": "> Di ka na rin interesado sa buhay nila\n\nI guess that's what I meant. Very nice thought, thanks",
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"content": "Mukang mas mapapadalas na ko sa CasualPH ah. I like the atmosphere here. More secluded siya, thus more freeing. Hmm. Saya maging hideout to sa mapaghusgang mundo. Haha. ☾",
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"content": "Enjoy being outside the walled city, no? Well, I may not go back after the mods banished me there. Even if my weeks passed. I guess this is home. Welcome, little titanslayer to our new abode.",
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"content": "Oh no. Na-ban ka? HAHAHA. what went wrong??",
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"content": "I told some masasamang...words (which I admit was a boneheaded move) and well... one of them didn't like it. (clue: it had to do with a dystopian east asian nation).",
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"content": "Spill!",
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"content": "Well, I said that [*Content locked, please subscribe to my onlyfans account to unlock the remainder of this message*]",
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"content": "More like ghost stories",
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"content": "Hahaha yan madami 😅",
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"content": "With all of the experiences we have, it's kind hard to differentiate na on who's the *right* person, since everything will just be the same input naman. It will all start with the honeymoon phase, and if you choose to *press X to doubt*, before you know it, baka maging TOTGA na yung tao.\n\nThere's really no right or wrong answer on this dilemma, as human relationship is complicated after all. It's all about whether you will risk it or not.",
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"content": "Agree. \n\nMay naalala akong quote from one of my fave shows:\n\n\"If soulmates do exist, they're not found, they're made. People meet, they get a good feeling, and they get to work building a relationship.\"",
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"content": "1. Why even mention this if you don't plan on doing something about this?\n2. I mean, bruh, ayaw mo mag set ng scope ng sub, ayaw mo mag add ng rules and pag ganto ganto post ka lang, tapos maiinis ka pag di nabasa ng mga users yung mga hinaing mo kasi di mo ini-sticky. an labo e\n3. I don't understand this. So you want to be a mod, but you don't want to moderate? Can you invite more people to moderate to help you? I find it funny talaga na people think they \"own\" a sub kasi sila nauna nag-create. Di ka \"admin\" pre, \"moderator\" yung title mo. lol\n4. Nice.\n\nPS: I've read a comment na buddy-buddy yung mods ng r/Philippines at r/CasualPH. I dunno if that's true, pero kung totoo, nakakalungkot kasi eto nanaman tayo, isang barkada lang may yung control ng PH-related subs. And posibleng ayaw maki-pag compete nitong mod dun sa r/Philippines kasi planado na \"main\" PH sub ang r/Philippines. Probably why this mod is so against inviting more moderators kasi baka guluhin yung plans nila.\n\nWell, I hope naman na hindi true, kasi I've seen this mod do actual moderation when it comes to removing unwanted posts. And baka ayaw lang talaga ni Ser Mod nang dagdag reponsibilidad.",
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"content": "> PS: I've read a comment na buddy-buddy yung mods ng r/Philippines at r/CasualPH. I dunno if that's true, pero kung totoo, nakakalungkot kasi eto nanaman tayo, isang barkada lang may yung control ng PH-related subs.\n\nActually that's true. One of r/ph's mods is buddy with this sub's mod. \n\n> And posibleng ayaw maki-pag compete nitong mod dun sa r/Philippines kasi planado na \"main\" PH sub ang r/Philippines. Probably why this mod is so against inviting more moderators kasi baka guluhin yung plans nila.\n\n\nNah even within r/Philippines, it also has division. Although either of them deny such divisions exists.",
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"content": "I don't think so. As.. unfair as it may seem, in the end si guy pa rin ang adult. He should have known better.\n\nSource: was also a dumb 16-year old",
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"content": "So parang parent and child siya. Responsibility ng mas nakakatanda yung actions ng mas bata kasi di pa nila alam ang tama sa mali? And we can't let them decide for themselves?\n\nPero, pano kung ganto yung set up. The men, with benefit of the doubt, tumatanggi sila. Let's say several times. But our young ladies kept asking them or leading them on to engage with them 🤔 Since that clearly shows that the girls KNOW what they're in for and what they're about to do, will the blame still fall dun sa mga lalaki?\n\n#Justcurious",
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"content": "There's a reason why the kids aren't allowed to decide for themselves yet. They don't know any better.\n\n\nThat's like allowing your own offspring to engage in illegal activities kasi pinipilit eh, wala naman tayong magawa, hugas-kamay na tayo. Alam naman nilang mali diba, tapos ginawa pa rin? Bahala na sila.\n\nI don't think this is a case where it's man vs woman, tbh, more so sa age and level of maturity. If genders were reversed and it was a minor guy attempting to get with a grown woman, the blame will still fall on the woman.\n\nEdit: Kids should be guided pa rin pala haha because autonomy is key",
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"content": "Fair enough. I've seen cases against older women. Thanks for the insight.",
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"content": "Well, Dollerina was right. It's in the matter of age and maturity. Adults should have known better. Kung both parties have agreed on the situation and walang nagpumilit kaya napilitan na lang eh I guess that's better. I don't know if tama yang stance ko, pero that's my 2 cents about it.",
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"content": "I know my advice will be counterproductive and ida-downvote ako, but don't.\n\nThere will come a time na masasapawan na siya ng readings, at mas pipiliin na niyang mag-full time sa law school. Sa dami ng babasahin niyang cases and codals, darating yung panahon na kahit magkita lang kayo manghihinayang ka na - kasi yung oras na yun would have been used for studying.\n\nLearned that the hard way in my previous relationship; everything came to a head when she chose law school over me, putting an end to our four years.",
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"content": "Aww, sorry about what happened but thank you for this! Noted!!",
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"content": "*Time out muna, kakantot lang ako ng iba*",
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"content": "This.",
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"content": "Is.",
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"content": "Gospel.",
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"content": "Oh wow.",
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"content": "Damn",
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"content": "UwU",
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"content": "Trust and communication are key! As someone who’s had my fair share of toxic relationships, ang sarap magsettle down with someone’s who healthy and responsible. \n\nWag sakalin with what to wear and stuff. And wag hayaan ang pride na matapos ang isang argument without you guys actually talking. I hope you guys are happy! 💕",
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"content": "I will hold onto that, trust and communication. Para ma-clear man yung mga misunderstanding noh, hirap matulog ng maraming iniisip HAHA, I hope you are happy and well too in your relationship tol :)) Thanks!",
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"content": "Softbois, am I right? They just get women easily with all the pa-smartsy. I know a soft boy na hindi nga gwapo pero anlakas sa chiks kasi matalino!",
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"content": "Yung sad kasi is, these softbois will tell u they will change in the hopes of u staying with them pero wala naman mangyayari.\n\nKaya girls, if he's broken, you have no obligation to fix him. DI KAYO SI BOB THE BUILDER OK??? Qiqil ako ih HAHA",
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"content": "saka girl parang para sakin ang pangit ng dating kapag nagbabago lang yung tao para magstay ka. baguhin nya kasi dapat nyang baguhin, magstay ka man or not.",
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"content": "Those last (almost) 3 months ko sa bahay is killing me. Walang privacy. Di makatrabaho ng ayos. Panay pangungulit. Nakakastress. Nakakapraning na ewan. Ang daming puna. Main reason bakit I'd prefer working sa office rather than sa bahay.",
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"content": "IKR. Maybe its not their fault naman for wanting to nag me since im just around the area, but yun nga, its something that me going to the office CAN solve.",
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"content": "Tsaka payapa sa office. Work kung work lang. Di nagme-meddle yung issues and stuffs sa bahay. Yeah convenient sa bahay and all, pero mas maiigi kung work is work tsaka bahay is bahay. Separation of state and church ang peg hahaha.",
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"content": "Nope. Ayokong ma compromise ang values ko at yung values niya. \n\nSiguro dates or convos pwede pa. Pero dating for long term? Mukhang malabo.\n\n\nSyempre marupok ako. Baka lunukin ko lang din itong tina type ko 🤡",
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"content": "Ano pa po handa nyong lunukin?",
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"content": "Yung kakainin kong tanghalian mamaya.",
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"content": "Takpan ilong ko, at tingin ng masama sa katabi. ( ー̀֊ー́ )",
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"content": "sabay utot to assert dominance! hahaha",
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"content": "This manliligaw of mine (who was my best friend first) back then can always sense if i was going through something. Kahit na di kami nagkikita or nagkakausap, he has this intuition. Minsan he would just randomly message me asking if i’m okay kasi naramdaman daw niya na hindi ako okay.\n\nSo one night, he randomly asked me na naman if i was okay. Sabi ko hindi kasi i was going through a family problem. 5 mins later, he told me to get my jacket and come out of my dorm. and lo and behold, he was there in his car, pinapasakay ako. He didnt tell me where we were going pero we drove to Antipolo. \n\nWe went dun sa isang 24 hour-resto na overlooking yung Manila skyline. Grabe, ang ganda ng view. Yun daw yung safe place niya. He goes there pag magulo isip niya and he just wants peace. So he brought me there too, hoping na makatulong.\n\nKinilig ako kasi grabe, he’s from QC pa and before niya pa ako tanungin if i was okay, na-sense na daw niya na i wasn’t. So he drove to Taft (where i’m staying) agad.\n\nSuper ma-effort. 💖",
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"content": ">This manliligaw of mine \n\nSinagot mo ba? Kung hindi, akin na lang.",
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"content": "along the way, we realized na di kami compatible, di pa ako ready for a relationship again and stayed as friends 😅",
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"content": "Kanina, pagkagising. Bumangon ako para umihi. :D",
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"content": "This HAHAHAHA!! 🤣",
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"content": "Not me but my parents. Si mama is Catholic and si papa naman is Iglesia ni Cristo. Hndi gusto ng parents ni papa c mama because of religion pero wla naman sila nagawa. Pag kc INC ka you have to marry INC din and if not itiwalag ka nila. So ayun go pa din c papa. They got married sa catholic church and kmi got baptised as catholics din. Si papa naman tiniwalag sa church nila and he became catholic, although he wasn't formally baptised as one. Ung family nya wla naman nagawa pero kinondemn nila si papa, sabi he can't be saved kc he turned his back sa pagiging INC just to marry a catholic woman. But nah, sabi ni papa religion can't save you. They've been together na for 27 years. I guess it's worth it.",
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"content": "Rare moments when love conquers all ❤️",
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"content": "Totooo ❤",
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"content": "its because you only know the good stuff about the person.. it's easy to fall in love if you don't know the bad side of a person. take note, every person has some sort of bad and \"toxic\" side. believe it or not, it takes more than 6 months to know the true colors of a person.",
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"content": "I get you po haysss 😫",
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"content": "also sis, not to be that negative person pero ang baba yata ng standards mo for relationships if na-fall ka sa isang random internet dude in just 7 hours, pinaramdam lang naman sayo yung gusto mong maramdaman at pinarinig sayo yung gusto mong marinig. \n\nthat's some recipe for a heartbreak",
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"content": "Tas ano rin like hndi nman relationship agad yun hanap ko ehhh haha he sounded like he could be a great friend kase we clicked on a lotta topics",
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"content": "RELATE SISZT.",
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"content": "Ano gawa na tayo ng support group sis? 😂",
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"content": "Hahahah Damay damay na!🤣",
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"content": "> Gusto ko na sana lumandi after pandemic. \n\nSame.",
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"content": "Same (2)",
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"content": "Same (3)",
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"content": "Same(5)",
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"content": "Same(6)",
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"content": "Same (7) :(",
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"content": "Same (8)",
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"content": "Same (9)",
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"content": "Same (11)",
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"content": "Just be yourself! Also remember that if practically strangers kayo, he / she does not know anything about you so wag mo pangunahan yung thoughts mo na baka ayaw nya yung ganito ganyan. The 'right' person will like your quirkiness and what not hahaha Go to places na maraming tao for safety purposes din hahaha \n\nSobrang random nito pero i suggest na don't go to a ramen place for your first date kasi mahirap humigop HAHAHA nakakaconscious lol\n\nEnjoy, OP! :)",
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"content": "Are you saying I’ve been doing it wrong all this time??? Lol most of my first dates are sa ramen place! Haha\n\nWhat I do avoid on first date is samgyup place kasi malaki talaga ako sumubo kakaconscious 😂",
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"content": "Nakakaconscious kasi pag di mo macut yung noodle 😂😂 I did it twice (hay hay hahaha) and di ko naubos both HAHA I think it depends lang where we’re most comfy 😂 I’d probably choose samgyup over ramen for a first date minus yung fact na after mag samgyup, amoy pagkain pa rin hahaha",
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"content": "Haha sa bagay. Ako I can manage eating noodle naman in front of my date. Pag samgyup kasi dami ko nilalagay wrapping the lettuce and I need to really open my mouth wide para masubo lahat since ayoko sya kagatin 😂 Idk if matuturn on ba yung date ko(iykwim) or matuturn off cause I’ll look matakaw lol",
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"content": "I know the feeling! Lol 😂 Well i guess depends na lang din talaga if same wavelength kayo hahaha",
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"content": "Hi! \n\nMy first date with my fiancé was in this small amusement park sa QCMC. Kami lang and a family ang nandun so we got to ride a lot of rides! I wasn’t good with dates too kaya ang saya lang na hindi ‘yung trying to be social ang priority. It’s just having fun! We played shooting games din. Sharing experiences together is one step to getting rid of the awkwardness. After a few hours, nilibre niya ako dirty ice cream sa park and we talked about the experience :) it was like being with a friend. Tapos we got to talk about where we wanted to go next time too. Once you establish that connection, sobrang dali na mag-open up and maging chatty.\n\nGood luck 💕",
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"content": "Ang cute naman nito! ❤️🥺",
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"content": "I got unemployed yesterday. I cried when I woke up kaninang umaga. I feel and look normal bit deep inside I am sort of dying. But I know this will pass. Di na ako tulad ng dati na ganun kahina. I learned so much from what happened to me before. I am now prepared to face this kind of pain.",
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"content": "Good. Keep that attitude! Hoping for the best. :)",
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"content": "Thank you, dude ^^",
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"content": "Hmm me failing UPCAT and then went to another school. I thought it was the end. But i made amazing friends and experienced things too. :)",
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"content": "Samedt. Failing the upcat taught me a valuable lesson in life :)",
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"content": "And what lesson is that? Care to share?",
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"content": "How to handle failure like a pro 😂\n\nNo kidding though. I learned that you need to work hard on your goals and make backup plans. And, the universe doesn’t conspire just because you wanted something so badly. \n\nLastly, top university or not, you can still be successful as long as you put in the grind.",
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"content": "I earned my undergrad degree in Political Science and my Masters in Public Administration while working a full-time, 10pm - 7am online job! Most of the time I’d be walking to school and I would still be working. Heck, I was working while the graduation ceremony was taking place. It’s like taking care of a little baby — I can only sleep whenever there’s available time.\n\nI am still doing it in law school. Saying that it’s hard is an understatement, but trust me when I say that everything will fall into place someday. :) \n\nYakap. Kaya natin to.",
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"content": "Kudos! But I don't think that's very very unhealthy already? You literally don't sleep regularly anymore.. and if you do sleep, it's most likely 3 hours on the average everyday? May I ask if you experience any \"side effects\" of doing these for years?",
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"content": "Aw thanks! Also, great question! It is super unhealthy, but you really have to be smart with your time. \n\nDuring my early undergrad days, I had to operate on nothing but coffee and the shiny dream of becoming someone I truly want to be. \n\nTo answer your question, it was hard kasi my metabolism was slowing down, I developed unhealthy coping mechanisms (I started smoking— do not recommend!) and I had to give up a lot of my social life (while maintaining only the closest friends). Yun nga, I looked haggard ALL the time and I didn’t want to go on dates with my boyfriend kasi nga I wanted to study, sleep, work, tas repeat. \n\nActually, guminhawa naman life ko after sa undergrad. For my masters, I only had weekend classes so that was neat. Off ko kasi sa weekends. So I had more time to sleep, write my papers, read, make landi landi, etc. At this point my body was already used to sleeping staccato, so I’m super blessed because wala namang health problems regarding dun. Still smoking though, but it’s not an addiction na. Kontrolado na. Yung law school is online lang naman these days so medj maginhawa na rin kahit shit yung nangyayari sa mundo at sa bansa natin. \n\nMy best-kept secret is auditing my time. I learned this nung sophomore na ko sa undergrad and I’ve been doing this ever since. Here’s how it goes:\n\nEvery week, we have 168 hours. Minus mo yung time na gusto mong ilaan for the essentials: Work, study, classes, tas sleep; multiply those hours sa kung ilang days of the week mo gagamitin yung hours. \n\nFor me it was 8 hours for work, 5 days a week; 6 hours for study, 5 days a week; 8 hours for classes, 6 days a week; tas 6 hours sleep, 7 days a week. So:\n\n168 - (8 x 5) - (6 x 5) - (8 x 6) - (6 x 7)\n\n\n168 - 40 - 30 - 48 - 42 = 8 \n\nYung 8, extra hours ko yun all throughout my week. Using the facilities, kain, ligo, short gala, ganun. Minsan, kinukuha ko sa sleep time ko yung commute time ko. Basta inaaudit ko yung time ko. Kape lang talaga. Hehe",
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"content": "Thank you very much, ma'am! I learned so much!!",
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"content": "I guess for most girls it doesn't come into play really much than guys having a substance and the confidence they possess in their own alluring way, being impervious to their flaws.\n\n Way unlike most men ~~(who ditch smol boobs)~~.",
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"content": "Those aren't men. Those are boys.",
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"content": "oh. right.",
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"content": "I'd be lying if I said it wasn't. I can't date someone I don't find attractive at all. He doesn't need to be conventionally attractive, he just needs to be attractive to me.",
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"content": "Fair enough",
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"content": "Hindi ka back to zero. You're starting with experience.",
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"content": "Thank you. Yes meron na akong experience, and hopefully magamit ko ito in my future career.",
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"content": "Mine is someone will call without texting me.\n\nI know some are urgent especially when it’s work or family\n\nBut oftentimes I get calls such as “Musta na” \n\nIt’s really annoying for me",
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"content": "What i usually do is i’m on silent all the time but I put those important on favorite / emergency para sila lang magnonotify sa’kin hahaha not the best way to not talk to people pero i’d like to think it’s strategic chos",
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"content": "Yeah hahah \n\nI can’t really silent mine because my bosses are calling me. Sad life",
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"content": "Capitalism talaga no? Chos. Hahaha.",
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"content": "Sadly haha",
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"content": "Some of these aren't really irrational, but here goes:\n\n* Using the word \"toxic\" for any and all minor inconvenience. \n* Sloppy eaters. \n* People who wear ear phones pero dinig parin ng buong UV express yung music nya because it's too loud. \n* People who text/message na ang content lang is yung name mo, instead of just saying what they actually want to say. \n* Using po and opo as a way of trying to be \"cute\".\n* Disregarding dress codes at special events like weddings. \n* People na nang oobliga na mang libre yung may birthday.",
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"content": "last one's the reason bakit prinivate ko birthday ko sa lahat ng social media ko",
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"content": "I really don't mind taking my friends out to dinner or drinks, ayoko lang talaga yung ipaparamdam sakin na obligado ako.",
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"content": "turn-off sakin yung \"treat mo kami for dinner diba, kasi bday mo? sabihan mo kami para di na kami kumain ng lunch\" tangina lang hahahaah",
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"content": "Smartshaming, and the \"nosebleed\" mentalidad",
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"content": "what's a nosebleed mentality btw?",
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"content": "when you talk about something (especially in English) tapos sasabihan ka lang ng \"ay, nosebleed\". NAKAKAIRITAAAA HAHAHAAHHA",
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"content": "ohhh. haha. just realized i was wrong about my definition of smartshaming.",
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"content": "High school days. Was kinda a popular kid because I was a halfie & excelled in acads. May one time nasa isang tropa sila (like 3 of them?) na nagka crush sakin. I was really close to them all to the point na mas close ako sa kanila than my girl friends. Sobrang awkward because after their confessions, things never went back the way they were. Wasted friendship. Yung isa even bad-mouthed me after lol immature af. Long story short, I said strict ang parents ko (they really are). But actually, crush ko lang talaga yung isang friend nila na tahimik and didn’t show any interest in me.\n\nPlot twist: Crush nya rin pala ako, he confessed before our grad. We’re going 8 years now. Lol.",
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"content": "wait what?! he broke their bro code?! that's a bad sign.. basta tahimik nasa loob ang kulo..",
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"content": "Meh",
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"content": "When you say well off, it has to be middle class and above.\n\nIn my point of view, Everyone has the right to get the reliefs because \n1. Everyone is affected by the Pandemic\n2. Assuming, Taxes were used in order to buy reliefs. Moreover, whatever we buy there’s always tax included. So we are entitled to it. \n\n\nNow, should well off families receive\n\nMy legal answer is yes.\nBut for humanitarian reasons, I think well off should learn the concept of giving cause that’s the only way they can help others",
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"content": "I agree with u. Pati kami binibigyan ng isang sako ng bigas itlog at manok. Kinuha namin yunt first wave ng bigas. Pero noong second wave di na namin kinuha yung share namin",
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"content": "Nakita ko lang din, pinoy version. Hanapin mo partner na may ambition at goal. Like nag iipon para sa bahay o kotse, nagbabayad ng insurance or nagtitipid para sa future hindi yung kapag tinanong mo kung anong pangarap niya, ang sasabihin ay 'Ikaw'.",
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"content": "Hahaha laughtrip sa \"ikaw\"",
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"content": "Also, be that someone too :)",
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"content": "Girl: \"alagaan na lang kita.\"",
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"content": "A lot of women gusto ng lalaki na may stable na trabaho, may sariling bahay, may insurance, may ipon, etc etc but they themselves eh wala naman ng mga yan and not even making an effort to improve themselves. \n\nOo lalim ng hugot ko kasi ganyan gf ng kuya ko 😔",
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"content": "Kaya ganun ang gusto nila kasi wala sila nun. ✌️",
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"content": "Yup. But if u want someone who has something to offer eh sana u have something to offer din or at least show na u have ambitions too and u do something abt it. \n\nMaybe an unpopular opinion but it pisses me off when some girls are only after financially stable men para daw secure na ang future nila pero sila naman walang ginagawa para sa sarili nilang future.",
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"content": "Mga golddigger",
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"content": "Find someone who has a vault full of salonpas, white flower, efficascent oil and tiger balm.",
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"content": "Hahaha ooo nga naman. Always ready with the essentials 😅",
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"content": "I like how you failed to include how you’ve been talking to other guys, sexting with them, making plans to fuck. All these while still being in a relationship, no matter how shitty and toxic it is as you say. \n\nYou might have loved him before, but you don’t anymore. You don’t respect him either.",
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"content": "Curious then I checked the profile. Looking for tips on how to dirty talk to other guys.\n\nJust break up with him, girl. You don't need to cheat on someone, keep feeling sad and miserable, and you don't need to lead him on either.",
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"content": "People like him are the underrated ones that we should be our inspiration. The lola who graduated highschool, Tatay who passed the Bar Exam after 20 years and 8 attempts. Security Guard who did completed his education degree and many more.\n\nThose are the people who are the proof of how hard life is. Lack of privilege, resources, and even talent, knowledge, etc. and yet, they were able to find solutions to push through in life.\n\nThey are the ones who prove that age doesn't matter, hindrances are walls that can be destroyed. The real ones who depicted what is life from the bottom going above.\n\nThose who have nothing gained something by pushing through.",
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"content": "I hesitate to call this an inspiration because lack of basics or someone’s hard life...their reality...shouldn’t serve some purpose to shock comfortable people barely living their life into feeling inspired. \n\nSaw this yesterday and nakakagalit na people are required to go to work and sobrang limited ang means to do so if wala lang sasakyan. Malamang no work no pay pa si sir. Just glad that the original post was made w the purpose of offering a bike. Again, private entities stepping in where the gov’t failed. \n\nSafe public transport is a right.\n\nBut i do get your positive intent.",
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"content": "Ang sarap magmuni-muni after work habang naglalakad papuntang terminal sa Market Market. I miss. 😢",
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"content": "Aww same :(",
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"content": "We’re almost of the same age, naalala ko lng sinabi ng mentor ko sa school dati. He told me natural talaga for us (the youth) yung energy (to do sorts of things) and we should take advantage of it. \n\nEveything starts with an idea, next step is to write those down and construct plans to achieve what you have in mind. Once you’ve done it kasi you have a visual representation of the idea na and it’s actually pretty helpful. Will make you want to achieve \n/do it more 🙂",
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"content": "Adding more, grab that idea and pounce on it while you still have youth. Sure they will be obstacles along the way, but that's part of the challenge and be pragmatic.\n\nThing is, some of my former mentees are messaging me (sadly due to this pandemic), telling me how regretful they were not taking the leap and settled for the norm and practical option.\n\nBottom line, take risks while you're still young and free. The more you age, the more you'll be worrying about risks cause of the responsibilities you'll have then.\n\nEdit: fragment check",
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"content": "Yes I have to agree with this! Nako we’ve only got one shot in life, let’s make the most of it! Haha I’ve already failed 3 businesses na but who cares! At least I did something about the idea!",
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"content": "I wish my all my male relatives had a vasectomy after their first family or first kid.\n\nIf you cannot complete the food, education and healthcare needs of your 1st child from age 0-18 then you have no business having any more.\n\nIf you already have a first set of children with one partner why have another set with another?\n\nHaving a vasectomy or tubal ligation is the most adult thing anyone can do if they cannot support another person for at least 18 years. If had billions of dollars I would put up a charity for free permanent birth control for each income bracket.\n\nJust wish more people were like you. Not seeing children as \"gift from god\".\n\nThis country wouldn't be so fucking poor if households making less than 33k/month would have 1 kid or none.",
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"content": "Sadly, many still consider their kids as caretakers when they get old here. \n\nif you plan donate in the future, I recommend Likhaan Center for Women's Health",
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"content": "Let me earn my first billion and I will make it happen.\n\nWHO-compliant sex ed and family planing based on 2020 medical science for K-12 students 1 year before puberty and before marriage should be pushed with the following guidelines\n\nWhat both parents should do before having a kid\n\n* Finish vocational or college\n* Work for at least 2 years\n* Then get married\n* Birth space by 5-10 years\n\nIf the household makes\n\n* Less than 400,000/year then have 1 kid or less\n* Less than 800,000/year then have 2 kids or less\n* More than 800,000/year then have 3 kids or less\n\nBest case scenario would have about 80% of households following that while the worst case is about 20% of households following.\n\nEither way if it reduces the fertility rate to 2.0-2.1 births per mother then that would be awesome.",
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"content": "I respect your stand but the problem of being neutral is it tolerates the wrong doing of the oppressors.\n\nI know it’s not everyone’s responsibility for each individual to be on what side. However, it’s not about being to what party you belong to. It is about being nationalistic and caring for the next generations.\n\nPeople dissent because they see the injustices the government has given though us. But I don’t completely judge people who are neutral because I believe you still want to see PH to succeed.\n\nSo my point is, you don’t have to take sides. Stand to your convictions that you feel is right because that’s how democracy works.\n\nIn every 3 years, we elect “stupid” leaders for our country. If you don’t like his/her style of leadership, that’s okay. The beauty of democracy is when we start all of over again and make it better.",
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"content": "Nakakainis lang kasi when people question my reasons. Nakakainis and nakakatakot. Kasi I know why I my opinion matters, but does it really?\n\nOne factor that I hate about me is that I try to please people as much as possible. Ayaw kong ayawan ako ng tao. That's why napipilitan akong mag-pick ng side.",
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"content": "Yeah. You know you can’t please people. People will always say what their conviction is no matter what. \n\nSo I would advise you to when someone fights your conviction, just ignore it. You will not please everyone without a fight.\n\nAnd in the era of anxiety and mental health issues, it would suffice to be calm and quiet while standing up on your convictions",
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"content": "Kaya I don't really engage discussion and arguements about certain stuffs kasi nakakadrain. Di bale na yung sa bahay at mga kakilala kaysa sa ibang tao na di ka kilala.",
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"content": "Yeah. And some are even paid to do it.",
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"content": "kaya nga. Haaaay.\n\nActually hanga ako sa mga taong nakikipag-argue and still stand on what the believe in. Nakakatuwa yung lakas ng loob nila. Lakas ng loob na wala ako I guess.",
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"content": "Well they know they are compensated so I guess it’s not worth the energy\n\nHowever, I do choose my battles because I don’t want to waste all of my energy to get while compromising other important things",
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"content": "Ako naman naiwas na lang. One reason on why I abandoned my Facebook account. Nakakapagod tingnan ang news feed ko. Gusto ko sana mag-voice out, kaso yun nga nakakatakot makwestyon. Nakakatakot, nakakainis, nakakapagod, at nakakabalisa.",
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"content": "From what I read, you’re not neutral. You mentioned na you know what’s right and what’s wrong, so that’s already choosing side. In every argument there’s always sides, in some cases less evil than the other. I feel like you’re just afraid of being judged therefore refrains to comment and voice out your opinions. I hope someday you get to stand loud and proud! Other people are just better in voicing out there opinions, some don’t. That’s okay. But in bigger things where it matters, every voice is important to be heard 🙂",
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"content": "I sympathize and understand the wrong before judging if it is wrong or reasonable. Ewan. Sabi ng nanay ko malalim daw kasi ako masyadong mag-isip. Ang hirap kasing mag-judge basta-basta. Nakakatakot maghusga basta-basta.\n\nKaya siguro nasasabi ko din na neutral ako kasi nahihirapan ako g magsabi basta-basta sa mga bagay-bagay lalo na't wala akong alam regarding dun despite of me seeing and knowing that it is wrong or right.",
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"content": "If you know that they are right and wrong, how could you say na \"wala kang alam regarding dun\"? Shouldn't you judge something as right and wrong only when you know enough about the matter?",
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"content": ">>Kaya siguro nasasabi ko din na neutral ako kasi nahihirapan ako g magsabi basta-basta sa mga bagay-bagay...\n\n^as what I've said. \n\n>>Ang hirap kasing mag-judge basta-basta. Nakakatakot maghusga basta-basta..\n\n^as what I've also said.\n\nI can't explain myself any further. As what I've said, I know the difference between what is right and what is wrong. Also, I also know how to distinguish why things are right despite of people seeing it as wrong vis a vis.\n\nAll I want is the reason in order for me to judge. And/or, despite of me already judging, I want still want to know the reason to hnderstand the reason.\n\nKasi ayaw kong mag-jumo into conclusions basta-basta. I want to know more to understand more. Digging deeper towards the endless rabbit hole despite of me just going circles just to fully grasp and understand stuff.",
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"content": "Ngl, didn't get much of what you said lol. Anyways, you are not neutral just because you can't express your thoughts very well. You already have something in mind, you're just afraid to voice them out or unable to or even just plain old refusal to. And wdym that all you want is the reason in order for you to judge? Do you mean \"the point\"? \n\nAlso, just a tip, reddit helped me to practice expressing my thoughts. Discussions such as these will really help you. There is nothing to lose anyways since you are anonymous here.",
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"content": "Yes the point exactly.\n\nAll I'm saying is that each side has an opinion to offer so why not let them voice them out and listen. If it contradicts yours, then why not have a friendly and healthy discussion/conversation about it.\n\nAyaw ko lang mag-take ng side basta-basta. Kasi when it come to just being good and being and being bad eh there's also subcontext between them. In other words eh hindi lang sya binary. Complex ang lahat.\n\nI can't fully commit on a side without even contradicting something about it.\n\nBut yeah. Thank you for the tip. It is freeing to state something and be anonymous at the same time. I like it here.",
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"content": "Marites",
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"content": "Pwede rin. Tunog matapobre, mapera, at mapanghamak.",
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"content": "tunog nang-aaway ng customer service at teacher ng anak dahil mababa ang grade sa science jk jk",
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"content": "Yung tipo na gusto nilang honor student anak nila kahit di naman gumagawa.",
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"content": "Friend mo may sira, ano ba yan. Namiss niya ang point mo.\n\nOp, send a dck pic back. Works every time.",
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"content": "Inunfollow ko nga siya di ko kelangan ng \"friend\" na katulad niya. Hahahaha magawa ko yan next time.",
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"content": "Di ko gets yun mga nag sesend ng unsolicited dick pics",
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"content": "Exactly!!! Di ko alam para saan? Para ano?",
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"content": "Pag naka receive ka ulit ng unsolicited dick pic replyan mo ng ganito \"🔬\"\n\nPagpasensyahan mo na mga ganyan lalake, mga walang substance yan kaya titi lang kaya ioffer",
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"content": "That friend taking care of him is his girlfriend. Not to be nega but I dated so many people in the past and it turned out nangangati lang pala sila.",
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"content": "I feel the same way. That friend must be his girlfriend",
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"content": "The bar we set for men is too damn low",
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"content": "True. Women should be free to walk the streets without the idea that a man might do something ever crossing their minds.",
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"content": "If you were a DDS, and assuming we have the same access to things, I wouldn’t try to. \n\nIt’s 2020 and so much has happened since 2016—if none of those has made you stop to question your conviction, you’re comfortable as is, and you really should be ashamed. \nIt’s not my job to save your ego. \nIt’s been my job the past few years to read the news, question my biases, have difficult conversations with people who are actively curious about what’s going on. \nThe only time I’d engage with a DDS is if they actually asked questions. Doon may chance pa. \n\nBut yung “respect my opinion”/neutral ako Y oppress me/ change my mind sige nga”. Nope. Di ka biktima ng mga “woke”. Di ka biktima at all and no one should have to work hard to “sway” you or pander to you para di ka mapahiya. \n\nHabang lahat ng ito ay philisophical sayo, dami ng na apekto IRL. People have been dying and abused and neglected. So yup. Nope.\n\nTl;dr kung may triage ang morality ng tao, uunahin ko na yung may chance mag pull thru.",
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"content": "I agree to this. If you have the same access to information as much as I do and you still choose to be ignorant, that's on you. I would rather try to persuade/explain sa mga taong walang means to be properly informed.",
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"content": "r/alasjuicy, r/phgonewild, r/PHGoneWildCouples",
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"content": "ah yes, A Man of Culture",
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"content": "HAHAHAHAAHAH ah yes,",
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"content": "Same predicament. You know what's something you can't see? You are relying on others to fix you. Sadly, we're not in an ideal world that someone will go and say, \"I'll stay with you no matter how bad it gets.\" You're lucky if you have that someone.\n\nWe live in a world where people prefer a person who has everything or aka a full package individual. You can see most of the common advices right now, they don't want to carry an excess baggage to carry on with their life. \n\nReason why I can never forget this line from one of the proposal I've watched on youtube, \"You choose me when I had nothing, when there's a lot of complete person out there\"\n\nPut yourself first before anything else. In that way, you will see a better perspective and view point in life. Capitalize and invest in yourself, and something will surely happen.",
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"content": "i toatssss agree with this.",
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"content": "Di na. Ako naman laging nanunuyo before. He never messaged first when we had fights. Not anymore. Hahahaah",
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"content": "standing behind you on that one sis♡ HECK YEAH NOMORE",
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"content": "Reddit advice: Do not care much for your internet points.",
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"content": "Amen!!",
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"content": "TIL madali lang pala mag-pa fall ng isang tao. I've been having a hard time tapos ganun lang pala kasimple. lol",
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"content": "Lmao. That, along with weeks-of-consistent sweet gestures & words plus unnecessary efforts. Madali lang hulihin ang kiliti ng babae. Minsan nga, we can't differentiate what's genuine versus what's \"bored lang ako\" type of actions eh :)",
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"content": "Wag mo tayong ibuking please :( haha",
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"content": "Ay sorry friend. Hahaha",
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"content": "Pahingi naman ng tips, yan kasi prob ko ngayon. Napakababa ng confidence ko haha :(",
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"content": "Tips for what ba? Baka naman same lang tayo lol",
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"content": "Didn't know something can sound sickeningly sweet and grossly sexual at the same time \n\n*gags*",
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"content": "Lmao didn't realize til you mentioned it\n\n_gags_",
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"content": "In the end, “kasalanan mo nafall ka”",
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"content": "So true. Bakit daw kasi binibigyan ng meaning \n\n_cries in the corner_",
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"content": "Mga animal ack",
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"content": "I think it works both way. Easy to connect, easy to disconnect. You can definitely find genuine people here pero all the notion about that person can be shattered with a single doubt or argument. Seen and experienced that way too many times na nakakapagod. It makes me wanna believe nothing truly ever happened in real life.. it was just as if it is just inside my head.",
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"content": "Damn. This hit me right in the feels. *virtual hug*",
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"content": "*virtual hugsback* it takes some risk. May you find what youre looking for. Welcone to Reddit! 😅",
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"content": "I recently learned na ung dalawang arrow down button on the bottom-right of the screen leads you to the next thread (pag marami ang comments). And that you can move it by long pressing and dragging it to wherever you want",
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"content": "#TIL",
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"content": "The more you know",
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"content": "Respect and being a gentleman.",
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"content": "I think respect is a requirement on both sides. What does being a gentleman mean?",
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"content": "Being a gentleman is a choice. \n\nThe way you properly conduct yourself with women is already being a gentleman.",
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"content": "Kasi everytime my ex walked in front of me with booty shorts on, I would lightly squeeze her butt. Di naman siya nagcomplain or anything kaya di ako sure if bastos or what haha. Kaya nagwonder lang ako if that counts as not being a gentleman and if it's something pa na I have to ask for consent.",
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"content": "In context of my statement, being a gentleman is a proper decorum on what to act during parties, celebrations, and gathering.\n\nIn your case, I believe it’s more on a consent thing. If both parties agree then go, while if not it’s an assault diba? \n\nThough, in your case naman I wouldn’t count it as un gentleman-like kasi. But the rule is naman: never touch someone without a consent - regardless of any circumstance.",
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"content": ">Tiningnan ko lang yung kamay niya sa kamay ko na parang patay na isda.\n\nI'm sorry pero tawang-tawa ako dito. Na-imagine ko interaction niyo at yung expression sa mukha mo. Nakalimutan ko tuloy yung dapat kong i-ko-comment. 🤣",
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"content": "Sorry pero yun talaga yung pakiramdam ko noon eh. 😂 i was just sitting there beside him with no feelings at all. Poker face.",
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"content": "Ma turn on kanaman talaga sa ganyan. Pero huwag nyo nalang abalahin yung mga ganyang tao. Busy sila sa pag habol sa kanilang pangarap.",
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"content": "Inabala tas iiwan nu? Hayys",
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"content": "Hope you guys throw your trash properly",
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"content": "Bottle wasn't ours, but i personally don't go about throwing trash anywhere in public, it bothers me",
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"content": "Andami din kasing cigarette butts",
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"content": "I mean...... Yosihan eh. What do you expect?",
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"content": "Nag cocontribute na nga kayo sa air pollution tapos magkakalat pa kayo ng cancer sticks ? Cool na kayo nyan ?",
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"content": "Hey man... I just wanted to post a pic kasi miss ko na tropa ko and we'd bond over conversations and yosi. Yun lang naman. No need for an aggressive reply.",
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"content": "I don’t have problem with you smoking because it’s your body naman tsaka understandable naman mag smoke sa labas kasama ang mga friends mo dahil walang smoking area ang schools pero atleast dispose your cigs properly. Dami na ngang cigarette butts na nagkalat tapos dadagdagan nyo pa.",
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"content": "I know that naman. Di naman ako makalat na tao in general sa public eh. I dispose my cigarettes properly kung may tamang place akong pwedeng i-dispose. Kaso wala. Thanks kay nanay na nagtitinda dun, siya naglilinis. She sweeps the roads and yun area. Ayun lang.",
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"content": "Hindi excuse yung walang basurahan. Kung walang basurahan, dalhin mo hangga’t wala kang nakikitang proper na pagtapunan. Kahit may nagwawalis regularly, mali pa rin na magtapon sa daan.",
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"content": "^This. Pwede naman kasing bitbitin ang kalat kung walang basurahan eh, tulong na rin sa nag-lilinis para bawas kalat. Kaso lang mas “cool” na itapon ang yosi sa daan after last hit.",
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"content": "First I get my Vaseline lotion and prepare tissue. Then I remove my clothes, sit on the bed, put some lotion on my hand and massage my legs. Almost whole day kasi ako nakatayo.",
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"content": "Tangina akala ko leading to jakol na e",
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"content": "Please learn to control your spending lalo na sa current situation natin ngayon. Its going to get way worse lalo na with our crashing economy and worsening health situation. You will need every money you can save.",
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"content": "hii hehe thank you for your concernn! pero marami rin kasi talaga akong need bilhin na mas mura online than sa malls haha also, mas kaya sa budget na ispread ung spending over a few months kesa isang bagsakan lang",
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"content": "Yes. Eto lang ginawa ko buong quarantine haha, puros self-evaluation. I know why I am the way I am, I know what caused it, I know how it manifests itself, pero di ko alam pano ko aayusin sarili ko. And it sucks kasi nandiyan yung feeling na parang malapit mo na maabot ang sagot sa mga problema mo, kaso wala eh.",
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"content": "Haha yeah. Sometimes even a new problem stems from this frustration/tension of becoming \"too aware\". I've been kinda angsty and edgy these days. Although I like being edgy, I just dislike that I'm in shambles right now.",
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"content": "It really is true when people say ignorance is bliss. I noticed that the more self-aware you are, the more susceptible you can be to experiencing existential crises, even self-doubt, at least in my experience. The more you know the more you try and seek out answers but unfortunately the downside of that is, you develop more questions towards yourself, everything and everyone around you.",
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"content": "Ive pondered on this maxim so much. And I concur with everything you said. Too much, too much.",
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"content": "Right? Life was easier before I found out I had depression and anxiety.",
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"content": "No. Don't use confident and arrogant interchangeably because they are different. Did you know that a confident person is least likely to cheat because they are aware that they don't need to prove anything to anyone? They are contented with what they have.\n\nYung mga nagloloko habang nasa relasyon, sila yung mga may insecurity at di nila matanggap yon. They will cheat to prove to themselves na \"desirable\" pa rin sila kahit committed na.\n\nI have male and female friends na 10/10. Yung isa pwede mag join sa Ms. Universe, yung isa hawig ni Tony Labrusca and they are the faithful ones, sila pa niloko. Yung hawig ni Tony 5x niloko ng mga ex girlfriends nya sunod sunod. I therefore conclude na insecure yung mga nagloloko. May gusto patunayan sa sarili.",
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"content": "Wow, 10/10. Heaven sent ba ang mga tao na yan at perfect scores.",
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"content": "I think so. I realized they are both doing charity works pa. So saan ka pa? Bakit mo lolokohin yung mga ganitong tao. Tanga nila lol.",
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"content": "I think I find it funny because one can see this thing as a \"poster\" itself. It's kinda like saying \"never trust a guy from the internet, including me\"",
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"content": "Yeah right, for some person that aim to surround yourself with successful people and not being on one, means a lot from them as motivation to be on one, this poster invalidates those too.\n\nAlways this type of poster usual are just circlejerks, this and the original (that I haven't seen at all at this one is more usually shared).\n\nThey just make you feel good and ignore all other critic about you to be better.",
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"content": "Srsly, this capitalist system is so tiring. I don't want to be rich. I just want to live in a farm and care for animals, be happy and peaceful with the people I love.",
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"content": "Same but with Internet hahahaha",
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"content": "haha, aye",
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"content": "But what if the people you love are completely immersed with the capitalist system? They already internalized capitalism hahaha",
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"content": "Yun nga lang. It's a lil bit hard when you're not that ambitious but your family is expecting a lot from you. Their meaning of success differs from mine. I guess if things are like that, you just need to compromise. Pero hirap hahahaha",
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"content": "I get it. On the contrary, the saying \"you're the average of five people you spend the most time with\" is true to some degree. I love my friends to death but I also wish I explored more when I was younger. I wish I had more influence and guidance on things like money and fitness way earlier. I mean, I already don't get it from my family, I sure hope I learn something new from my friends and colleagues. \n\nAs you grow older, your circle gets smaller. You definitely don't need people to tell you how you live your life but it's good to keep people who add value to yours. And that 'value' may not always be the same as the things you like or want or are interested about, but getting different insights and fresh perspectives from other people that you would not otherwise have on your own is priceless.\n\nMaybe also the reason why people turn to Reddit for self improvement all the time? Because they seek advice that they don't necessarily have access to in real life.",
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"content": "> Because they seek advice that they don't necessarily have access to in real life.\n\nYou got me there, i am jobless walang malapitan at mahingan ng advice kaya mabuti at napunta ako sa reddit.",
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"content": "Pag pogi, prank. Pag panget, harassment.",
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"content": "Medyo totoo to. Haha. Pero hindi ako guilty dahil di pa naman ako naprank. Lol",
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"content": "Anong medyo haha rampant kaya to. As feminists demands equality di nila nakikita na hindi din naman nagiging fair ang mga babae sa lalake. Dami nga nag sasabi ng \"buntisin\" mo ko sa mga oppa pero pag \"miss pakantot\" game over na haha",
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"content": "GIRRRRRLLLL NAGEXPECT AKO SA ITSURA NYAAA HAHAHHA. Akala mo kung sinong gwapo na hot bod eh. Kainisssssss",
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"content": "Kilalang kilala nya target market nya. Yun lang. Hahaha",
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"content": "Dinaig niya mga nag MLM. Ilan condo kaya tinirhan nito? Hahaha",
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"content": "Holyshit HAHAHAHAHAHAAH nabiktima niya rin ako and good thing never kaming nagkita",
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"content": "Block him. ASAP. Currently he's cleansing. So deactivated lahat ng social media niya. Gawain niya to. He let's it blow over then pag tahimik na ulit on to the next batch of victims.",
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"content": "I blocked him already. Ang hassle niya as a person.",
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"content": "Oo girl, kawawa mga nanay ng anak niya. He uses a pity story na lagi siya nagbibigay pero super liit lang ng bigay niya and mas madalas walang bigay",
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"content": "With that face and bod? Holy crap. Girls, pumatol talaga kayo?",
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"content": "Either this guy is really a smooth talker like the women claim he is, or the women he's been with are desperate for some easily available action. I think it's both.",
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"content": "Malamang he's a smooth talker. Lamang talaga yung magaling magsalita kesa sa face value. Hay nako lakas ng loob",
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"content": "Gurl, kahit gaano ka smooth talker ang isang tao as long as you know where you stand, wala yan.",
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"content": "I know. Di ko naman sinabi na tama ginawa niya",
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"content": "Wala ka naman ngang sinabi.",
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"content": "> Magaling siya girls. Not just in bed, pero sa lahat ng aspeto.\n\nPara saan itong linya na ito. lol. \n\nAyoko manlait pero as a reader dito sa r/casualph, andaming matataas na standards na pinag-uusapan like with rating pa na 8/10 daw, tapos goals sa life, relationship na parang fairy tale na, etc.etc. Tapos nung nakita ko yung pic. Sorry, pero, totoo yung post nung isa dito na dapat taasan nga standards sa lalake. \n\nReality vs. Expectations na applicable sa dating ang tawag dito.",
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"content": "Hey, give him the benefit of the doubt. Baka nga 10/10 kasi maraming napaikot. Charot. Hahahahaha",
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"content": "HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA GANTO MUKHA NG MGA ASA PHR4R TAPOS SINASABI NILA 8/10 SILA HAHAHAHAGA",
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"content": "TRUEE HAHAHAHA",
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"content": "I prefer someone who is legitimately interested in conversing with me than someone who is only talking to me because they have nothing else to do.",
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"content": "Yeah same sentiment.",
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"content": "Kung malaking pera ang utang sa akin, why not?",
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"content": "I almost choked on my water. take my upvote",
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"content": "Pfft. Mahinang nilalang.\n\nSince birth.",
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"content": "Since fertilization.",
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"content": "LDR works as long as both are mature, can communicate well and doesn't lie.",
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"content": "Me countdown pa rin until it breaks and stop working. Lahat ng LDR na kilala ko even mine died when we weren't fast enough. IMO a relationship eventually needs physical togetherness otherwise naturally magdridrift apart ang couple... or worse me makakasingit.",
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"content": "Friends find it really embarrassing, but I don’t. I present, my winning answer 🏆 \n\nManager: so why do you want to work here?\n\nMe: For the money 💰 *insert ten thousand megawatt smile here*\n\nCan’t even remember how many times I’ve used it, but it’s such a good ice breaker. I always get the job too btw.",
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"content": "I wish I have that confidence. Haha!",
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"content": "Practice makes perfect. First time I blurted that out I was caught off guard. I just followed through. Wala eh, mas dyahe to take it back. The manager apparently loved it. Since then, I keep using that line and it works all the freaking time.",
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"content": "Isama mo na rin yung ube-cheese pandesal na WALA NAMANG UBE. FOOD COLOR LANG.",
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"content": "Tang-inang ube pandesal yan. Pinagawa ko si misis kasi nakakacurious sa fb daming nagpopost.\n\nHayop, yung kulay lang yung ube. Yung lasa normal pandesal lang na may cheese.",
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"content": "Baka naman kasi di nilagyan ni misis ng ube jam 😁",
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"content": "Sushi is \"sour rice\" and the combination of whatnot, Sashimi IS \"raw fish\". \n\n​\n\nNonetheless, it's kind of sacrilege.",
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"content": "Oo nga naman mas reasonable siguro yung hate kung *sashimi bake* ang tawag sa trend na ‘to HAHA",
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