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"content": "Determine your non-negotiables and don't bend them over a person thinking it'll change over time.",
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"content": "Louder (!!!!)",
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"content": "You don’t let someone get too close in the first place. Yung mga maghahanap ng comfort sa iba pag magkaaway sila ng SO nila, yung kakausapin lagi kahit wholesome lang. I mean it’s not bad to have friends, but yung mga bagay na dapat sa SO mo ginagawa, like updating about your day, reminders to eat their meals, share problems, hindi na dapat ginagawa sa iba. Madalas ganun nagsisimula yung mga cheating stories eh. Mga “hindi sinasadya” at “nangyari na lang”. Dapat may boundaries.",
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"content": "This. Kung alam mo na man lang na may risk then don't try to pursue it. Mindfulness is key.",
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"content": "Same man, same. I can cook and clean but no to laundry talaga.\n\nNaalala ko yung time na naghahandwash ako, bigla akong nakatulog sa sobrang boring ng pagkukusot ko.",
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"content": "Wow. 😯\n\nSana all. Haha. Di ako nakakatulog kasi binubuhos ko galit ko labada eh. \n\nI just probably hate the idea of doing laundry.",
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"content": "Most Filipinos are conservative and religious, in line with republican beliefs and Trump is the current icon of republicans. That is how I see it. Similar thought process with Duterte.",
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"content": "In the Philippines there's no clear divide between conservatives and liberals like in the US. Cuz you're right, Filipinos are conservative and religious. \n\nThe opposition itself is filled with people who are very conservative and religious.\n\nSo our version is more like, rich vs poor and discipline vs no discipline lmao!\n\nIt's mainly the \"iRoN FiST\", \"FaTHer of tHe MasSes\" and \"ReVeNGe aGaINst OlIGarChs\" narrative that they're capitalizing on. Ofc, the ever so gullible masa just love drinking the kool-aid.",
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"content": "I've been chatting with my Lolo and lola (1st Gen)and my cousins (2nd Gen). \nThe general sentiment of the first gens is that they worked hard just to get to where they are now so it's unfair that illegal immigrants gets the same privilege they have when they were just starting off. My Lolo said that \"they have it easy, all they had to do is sneak into the US meanwhile i had to go to college, pass the board, work hard to earn experience, etc.\" My lolo is also super gullible and have been a victim of scams, twice, most of their Facebook feeds have devolved into political rants, news shares, and the latest conspiracy theories. They're completely different now than how they were years ago. \nMeanwhile, my cousins are more emphatic about those illegal immigrants and see Trump as a terrible person and the worst president.",
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"content": "I believe Trump is a terrible human being. He cheated on all his wives, never paid his taxes except for one time he paid $750. He incessantly lies without impunity, he made fun of poor people, military, disable, women- everyone he deems inferior.",
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"content": "He's also a narcissistic sociopath like most of the most ruthless and evil leaders and people in general throughout history",
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"content": "\"don't mind my buttlicking sibling\"",
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"content": "I was hoping someone would notice her. Hehe.",
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"content": "May nag comment sa ibang cat sub na di ko na matandaan sa dami ng cat sub na naka join ako, na rare ang female na orange cat.",
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"content": "Oh. TIL.\nI wonder why that's the case?",
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"content": "I don't even know if it's true, pero marami dun nagsshare na boy yung orange cat nila",
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"content": "Next time I see this pretty girl again I'll make sure she knows how extra special she is :)",
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"content": "Agents ng VUL ngayon parang mga networking ang karakas.",
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"content": "Diba magpapa isip ka tuloy ehh",
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"content": "Magtapos ka muna ng pagaaral at maghanap ka ng magandang work after graduating. Pag stable ka na sa work, ask her out. She might see you as her lil bro kasi given the gap",
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"content": "this! :) on point",
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"content": "A funny thing happens when people stop looking for **“the one.”** When they can feel complete and whole on their own, they tend to attract a partner who pretty well fits the mold of “the one” without even trying.",
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"content": "This is soooo true!! Cheers!🍻",
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"content": "Sort some papers, buy a ring and propose",
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"content": "Ooohhh this is huge sana. How long have you been planning to do it?",
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"content": "Tas minsan maffeel mo pa na parang nag-settle na lang sila sa'yo? Hahaha. 🥲",
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"content": "No choice kuno. Buti sana kung ang ganda ng asal nila aside from that ill-thought compliment.",
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"content": "oh I remember this one guy, he told me,\n\n\"hindi ka naman talaga maganda, pero di naman yun yung hanap ko.\"\n\nOKAY\n\nbasta para sakin cute ako balakayojan 😤",
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"content": "Pogi ba sya? Feelings aside, pogi ba sya objectively?",
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"content": "no hhahahahah wops. hmm average looks.",
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"content": "Aba kapal ng mukha. \n\nMay guys rin akong nakausap dati sabi nila Pass sila sa akin. Kalevel ko lang naman sila face wise. Daming *ehem* chinito feel nila pogi sila pero average sila at best.",
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"content": "okay na ko sa cute in my book actually kahit di gwapo (in society's standards). basta may passion, personality, effort sa buhay, at most of all, napapatawa ako HHAHA\n\nmas okay yung masaya kausap kaysa gwapo tas parang robot 🥴",
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"content": "Agree ako dyan sa sinabi mo. Di naman lahat ng babae same ang definition ng gwapo. Di tayo naghahanap ng perky boobs at makinis na singit o may thigh gap. \n\nWag sa gwapo pero yun lang panlaban nya.",
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"content": "Sounds like a backhanded compliment from an insecure man? That's a red flag and maybe take note. 🤡",
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"content": "Agree. Either insecure or 0 ang social skills. Either way, wouldn't take that as a compliment.",
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"content": "Okay lang yan sis. Mas okay maging magisa than to be with someone who makes you feel lonely. Use these times to be truly happy even if it means you do things on your own most of the time. Best wishes!",
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"content": "Yaasss! In fairness ang sarap at ang saya maging single. Thanks! :)",
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"content": "Yung my post grad dahil nag aaral din daw sya post grad.nabasa.ko.kahapon, Natawa.lng ako, anung pag uusapan ba pag ganun?😂😂😂",
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"content": "Baka magkokopyahan 🤣",
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"content": "Minsan mas okay kausap simpleng tao lng... Yung witty and can carry a good conversation,.walang ere.\nYung di na need topic na mapag uusapan. Puro matatalino eh.🤣",
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"content": "This is why I never post in that subreddit. I respect that they have \"Preference\" as one person said from DRD in r/ph, it just seems to be so limiting and exclusive; as if they are more worthy and valuable. There are so many people who didn't graduate from Big 4 that are more decent, smarter and kind.",
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"content": "minsan nahihiya na ako na sabihin kung saan ako graduate kasi nkakahiya na yung mga nagbbrag ng school 🤣",
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"content": "must be a WORKING PROFESSIONAL tang ina tapos malaman laman mo tindera lang sa bangketa amputa... ayaw magpakatotoo sa sarili e...\n.\n.\n.\nmust be gwapo/maganda eh sya mismo dinaanan ng pison yung ilong... grabe sa standards eh.. halang pikot move kung sakaling mabuntis...\n\nkaya umalis ako dun... sub ng mga nagpapantasya ng illusions yun eh... kung can carry a convo, dapat si tito boy or dr. phil na lang kinausap nila... panigurado tameme sila don.. sex or chocolates ang gusto matanong sa kanila..",
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"content": "hahahahaahahah gagoooo legit tawang tawa ko hahaahha",
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"content": "totoo naman kasi... kala mo ang gaganda lalo nung mga babaeng maka demand... ang daming gusto pero ang tanong gusto ba sila?? hindi naman di ba...yung iba sasabihin chubby on the side pa pero pag nakita mo caterpillar sa taba...\n\n.\n.\n.\n.\n.\n tapos yung iba maka rate 8/10 eh yung totoo di pa aabot sa kalahati ng itsura dinamay pa nanay kasi sabi daw ng nanay friends at kung sinong mga shitty people around them...\n\nmagpakatotoo ka kung friends hanap mo talaga.. kung bored ka wag mo sayangin oras ng tao di ba?",
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"content": "hahahahaha taena mo sakit ng tyan ko sayo haahhaahaha gago legit “chubby” daw pero mataba talaga. iba ang chubby sa mataba ah hahahahaha. 8/10 kay mama hahah.",
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"content": "madaming beses na ako naloko dun kahit tinatapatan ko ng pagiging honest dun... tang ina pag di ka gwapo dun matik tablado ka dun.. exchange pics pa pero sa totoo ikaw lang naman magsesend... mga gago nga tao dun e... alam nyo yan... di lang ako naka experience nyan... mga gago amputa tapos mga feeling matalino pa.. gagamitan ka ng english words pag pinagtagalog mo puro pop trent language ang gamit hindi marunong gumamit ng tamang pangungusap.. mga trash at pathetic ... incredibly stupid at marvelously ridiculous yung mga people shit dun hahahah",
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"content": "Nasinok ako katatawa sa “marvelously ridiculous”.... 😂\nGang langit kasi tanaw nila eh. Mga elitista. 🤣",
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"content": "oh di ba... clickbait lang yung looking for friends pero basically naghahanap ng kavidjakol or kafinger online yung mga yon... nsfw at sfw yun.... siguro 99%libog at 1%sfw yung sub na yun hahahah",
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"content": "\"naghahanap ng sensible convo pero sila mismo ung senseless kausap\" -- sobrang daming ganito. yung ikaw lang magdadrive ng usapan, sasagot lang sya lagi walanjo",
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"content": "Ano tayo, interviewer?",
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"content": "Saktong sakto to. Eto nafefeel ko pag kausap yung mga ganun, para akong nag iinteview.",
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"content": "Kainis nga kasi one time naghanap ako ng makakausap sabi ko \"sana nagbubuhat rin ng convo\". May mga nagreply. Promising intro. Nung kinausap ko na, either about libog or di man lang marunong magstart ng topic. Ako yung tanong nang tanong para magflow ang convo. NagR4R pa ako no e ako pa rin pala naglilead ng convo namin. Sasabihin pa nila 'I don't know what to ask'. Punyetisima sabi mo pa conversationalist ka then di ka marunong magtanong?",
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"content": "Unsubstantiated claim, tingin ko lang naghahanap ng from Big 4 eh mga naghahanap ng rk or upper middle-class :)",
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"content": "Yung mga naghahanap ng taga big 4 mga taga UST yun. Kek",
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"content": "Hoy stereotype!",
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"content": "Being a stereotype doesn’t make it untrue. In fact it makes it more accurate to a degree.",
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"content": "Harmful and mudslinging tho.",
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"content": "Found the UST graduate.\n\nIn all seriousness it’s not harmful nor is it mudslinging. It’s done in jest from observations in this case.",
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"content": "Which still may lead to negative assumptions. Ang pangit lang na dahil dyan ay may prejudice or false notion agad sa mga taong graduate in that uni.\n\nKaya minsan tuloy, ang sarap na di sabihin kung saan ka graduate. Umay yung may judgement before knowing someone. Nasusukat na agad pagkatao mo sa inattendan mong school kahit malayo naman ng personality mo sa sinasabi nila. Ang pangit lang kasi ng dating.",
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"content": "Pangit lang dating ng ugali ng nireply-an mo.",
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"content": "Natatawa ko sa naghahanap ng sensible convo pero kung makareply one liner and walang kalaman laman. So panu magiging sensible ung convo nyo kung ayaw mag contribute ng kausap mo hahaha. Akala ata nila ung conversation is oneway street lang 😂\n\nKung sinu ung madaming hanap sila pa ung nakakaurat kausap LOL",
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"content": "Upvote for this. Sakit sa likod magbuhat ng convo na one liner ang mga sagot. Like wth, kung di ka interested, just say it. (mabait pa akong nagsabi ng goodnight lols)",
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"content": "Amen to this hahaha. Mga tao now ang daming gusto makuha with too little to no effort 😂",
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"content": "Truuuueee!! Tapos sasabihin na di ka naman maayos kausap kaya ghosted. Lols!",
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"content": "meron scammer talaga nag hahanap ng fubu tas oag chat mo bebentahan ka ng nudes tapos pag nag avail ka daw makikipag sex na sya sayo. its a traap!! taena dami libre nudes sa net bat ka bibili😂😂😂",
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"content": "Yep, madaming libre. Mas makinis pa. Magalit na magagalit dyan. Hahahaha",
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"content": "oo nga ahahahahaha kwela ng mga ganyan sarap kotongan.",
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"content": "There’s nothing wrong naman if mataas yung standards mo. Just make sure na ganun ka din sa standards na sinabi mo. Like you want fit, dapat fit ka din, 8/10 ikaw din dapat, professional ikaw din dapat. Do not ask for something you are not.",
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"content": "Naalala ko tuloy yung sa little women.\n\nYung linya don about love hahah na dapat same caste sa society etc or basta level kayo",
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"content": "Minsan mamimilit pa ng NSFW kahit SFW lang talaga.",
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"content": "This. Mga di yata marunong magbasa.",
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"content": "Meron din yung “looking for a good conversation” tapos mag ask ng photo sa TG. Tapos biglang pag di trip yung photo, wala na. Hahaha! Taas standards, men!",
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"content": "Huyyy. True yan! Pag di ka kagandahan na mukha, dry convo na 😂",
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"content": "Hindi lang! Minsan nga, nag cut na lang bigla ng convo. Wala nang reply-reply! 🤣 Somehow,ang hypocrite lang ng datingan. Haha! Sabagay, beauty is subjective. Lols",
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"content": "Lagi naman nakadepende sa itsura. Ganyan din ako dati pero natuto na ako mag entertain ng di nagbibase sa itsura. Mas masaya parin pag may same interest kayo tapos nagkocompliment yun personality niyo sa isat isa kahit as a friends lang ganon",
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"content": "Well, I agree naman. May factor din naman yung looks but it isn’t the end all be all of a good conversation. Admittedly, naging ganyan din ako noon. But as I grow older, I lean on more sa substance (how the other person answers and how he/she shares in the conversation, too, his/her willingness to share things, etc.)",
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"content": "Gusto daw ng constant potaena hindi naman sinabi na \"pogi na may car na matalino na mayaman na may 4 car na may 3 bahay na may 5 rest house na may 12 pack abs na constant\"\n\nAt potaena ang hirap magdala ng convo parang nagbubuhat ka ng isang bansa. \n\nLastly, di daw basehan look pero pag nakita ka na nila nawawalan na ng gana taenang yan.\n\n\nI understand naman standards, everybody has one pero god damn.",
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"content": "kung may car edi sana taxi driver na lang chinat nila diba... magrereply pa yun kasama ng bill nila sa sasakyan... hahahahah",
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"content": "Dagdag ko lang. May mga guys na ang preference nila petite or athletic type, tapos pag nakita mo description nila sa sarili nila, chubby to dad bod naman pala. Gets ko naman may preferences tayo pero wala lang, nakakatawa lang na nakakairita mga ganun",
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"content": "hahahaha ang chochoosy eh no? chaka nmn 🤣😂",
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"content": "Yeah... lakas magdemand, mga mukhang penguin naman",
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"content": "lmao. natawa ako sa mukhang penguin",
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"content": "I suppose meron akong talent sa panlalait ng mga tao",
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"content": "nasayo na ang korona 🤣🤣",
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"content": "Tangina. Triggered ako sa story na yan. Kapal ng mukha.",
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"content": "Parang kahit kelan, di ko kaya magmove on for Dr. Ging",
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"content": "And she posted it yata after Dr Ging announced her engagement naman. The nerve of Liz Uy, sana all may ganyang kakakapal na mukha.",
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"content": "Happy for Dr. Ging! What happened in the past may not be the most pleasant way to remove someone in your life pero at least dumating na rin ang nakalaan for her and her daughter. ♥️",
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"content": "❤️❤️❤️",
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"content": "Nakakamiss yun city lights but never the traffic. This day last year, lagi ako naka angkas kasi super traffic plus always raining!",
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"content": "oooh minsan nag aangkas din ako pero ang mahal kasi ng fare 🤣 pero yeah I miss the city not the traffic na nakakaiyak lalo na kapag umulan tapos nagbaha 🙃🙃🙃",
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"content": "Night shift pa naman ako, so madalas naulan pag gabi and grabe super traffic. Kakaangkas ko last year nag invest na ako sa motor raincoat 🤣",
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"content": "oooh wait buti nakaka pag book ka ng angkas? minsan kasi around 11pm ang hirap magbook walang rider na available 🙃🙃🙃 , pero niiice hahaha may pa raincoat hahaha how bout a helmet? haha",
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"content": "Hindi nako ako bumili ng helmet kasi may suki akong habal sa area namin. Raincoat lang talaga. Pero pag wala sya, dun lang ako mag book sa angkas 🤡 \n\nAfter covid, I might buy one na talaga kasi nagchange workplace nako",
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"content": "ooooh niice convenient din talaga na may suki hahaha\n\ninvestment din kasi ang helmet ngayon lalo na kung ang mode of transpo lagi ay by motor, pero extra careful ah while bumabyahe pati na kay kuya driver",
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"content": "Thank you! Naka WFH pa rin kami tapos kung mag on site may Shuttle naman. Balak ko nga mag motor na lang din kaso takot ako sa kalsada saka maliit lang ako baka super bigat ng motor for me 😂",
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"content": "haha same, I wanted to ride a motorbike kasi ang hirap talaga ng commute ngayon pero nakakatakot din kasi lalo na kapag may mga pasaway na mga malalaking sasakyan 😅 though wfh pa rin naman din kami, pero it's always good to have a mode of transportation di ba?",
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"content": "Yes. Saka hawak mo oras mo if ikaw mismo magmotor. Kaso ayun nga, ikaw maingat sa daan pero yun iba hindi. Takot pa naman ako pag bubusinahan ka. Nakakangarag like, sandale lang HAHAHAHAH",
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"content": "HAHAHAHHAA naimagine ko yung \"Sandale lang\" 🤣🤣🤣",
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"content": "Yung meme ni Maja ng \"Sandale\" HAHAHAH",
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"content": "Ang pinaka na miss ko is going out with friends after work and also the city lights lol",
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"content": "yesss the simple and small things dati na di na natin magawa sa ngayon",
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"content": "Yes. Neutrality helps the oppressor",
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"content": "This.",
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"content": "I honestly dont know any, and i have a lot of friends, many i met during my travels abroad, 69 countries, to be exact.\n\nIt gets tiring though ugghhh. And repetitive. Oftentimes, i find myself needing a breather from all the fancy places ive been in kaya, you know, i organised a soup kitchen in Tondo just last month. It feels good na makisalamuha with street kids. New experience. Malayo sa glitz and glamour, which im accustomed to.",
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"content": "Exactly like this! Nice comment",
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"content": "> What’s next for me?\n\nI dunno, maybe space exploration?",
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"content": "Hahaha! Or maybe underwater exploration",
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"content": "even on the days where youd like to hang back and not show up, REMEMBER YOUR SWELDO MATTERS.",
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"content": "sweldo if life. Literal.",
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"content": "Bulacan, magiikot kami ng father ko tomorrow sa barangay to help those kailangan ng repair or pampatibay ng bahay.\nWe have welding machine ready plus 50sticks ng bala, epoxy, sealant, rivet and other tools.",
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"content": "wow. salamat sa mga taong katulad niyo.",
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"content": "Laking squatter kasi kami, kaya alam namin na mas kailangan nila ng tulong ngayon.",
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"content": "You deserve the feeling you are currently experiencing right now, cheaters get what they deserve especially you. Manloloko ka ng partner sabay iiyak-iyak ka ngayon, kung di ka rin ba tarantado eh.\n\nIt's entirely your fault if something happens to her cause of what you did, man up and own up to your mistake, you're nothing but a spineless coward if you don't lol.",
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"content": "parang nauuso mga sad boy shit ngayon e.",
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"content": "Baket ba karamihan ng kabataan at young adults hayok na hayok sa deep and meaningful convos? I think that's one of the reasons you're failing. Sobrang fixated sa \"deep and meaningful convo\" na unknowingly, sila na yung pumapatay sa convo. Let that \"goal\" go. Just talk to this girl like a normal human being that you're interested in.\n\nIf may hobby ang kaibigan mo na interesado ka, anong ginagawa mo? Di ba nag tatanong ka pa mabuti sa ibang details ng hobby nya? Ganon din sa taong you're trying to date or you're interested in. Ano pang details sa buhay nya (na not too personal) ang gusto mong malaman na sa tingin mo baka mag clash kayo or magka vibe kayo? Mahilig ba sya sa aso kasi ikaw mahilig sa pusa? Marunong ba sya sa musical instruments kasi gusto mo ding matuto, may marerecommend ba sya? Nakapunta na ba syang LU kasi ikaw hindi pa at interesado ka. Mahilig ba sya mag online shopping ng kahit na anong item kasi ikaw palaipon ka.\n\nDon't force it. Mas lalo mong pinipilit i-maintain yung convo, mas nagiging dry. You need to read the mood as well. Kung ikaw lang madalas nag tatanong, stop and slow down.",
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"content": "Yes. This is the honest truth talaga. Yung \"go with the flow\" naman kasi makukuha mo lang once you get into a good conversation with the girl and every conversation starts with a simple hi or hello. Sa simula talaga mabababaw na bagay ang pag-uusapan niyo. Parang inuman lang yan, sa simula hindi pa sobrang madaldal mga tao but once the third or fourth bottle comes medyo marami nang sinasabi and mas malalim na ang kwentuhan.\n\nYung \"flow\" is ups and downs parang waves, dapat swabe lang hindi pwedeng deep lagi kasi malulunod ka",
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"content": "Alam.na nila na yung bra mo my butas..😂😂😂",
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"content": "😭😭",
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"content": ">It goes against the culture, and is deemed selfish. But I find that it being a kind of personal fulfillment can be selfish too, no?\n\nIt's not being selfish. Selfishness is having a child/children and not being able to raise them responsibly.",
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"content": "💯 Agree with you",
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"content": "My husband and I decided to be childfree. We have both been breadwinners all our lives (I still am unfortunately). We just want to enjoy the fruits of our labor for once. Children are time-consuming and expensive to raise. We prefer to spend our time, energy and money on things we love like starting a business to quit our corpo jobs and travel the world. Plus, it's not really an ideal world to raise a child in a world where climate change, automation, hate, crime, violence, rape, and discrimination prevail. We our content with our two cute dogs.",
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"content": "Was it something you decided after you got married or was it already a non-negotiable while still dating? \n\nYeah, it’s not really an ideal world to raise a child, that’s another reason. I think for me it’s tied with wanting to be free to do community work since ang gulo na nga ng world, you can’t remain unbothered by it.",
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"content": "Initially, we both wanted kids. We have been married for more than two years, and a lot of people have been pressuring us to have a baby. We always said we were just waiting for our house to be turned over, but this pandemic made us realize that remaining childfree is the right decision.\n\nGood for you for not being swayed by society, especially that our culture glorifies having a child and all the sacrifices it entails.",
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"content": "Since the pandemic happened, my husband and I will be on an indefinite childfree status kahit na we have funds. We never know what kinds of shit na maibabato sa amin in the coming years.\n\nYears of hardwork between us is sayang kung lahat mapupunta sa bata. You might call this selfish but we both dream of a life which is a bit fancy.\n\nSorry lang sa parents ko and my in-laws ko na maratagalan or walang pag asa silang magka-apo.",
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"content": "I see no problem on the 2nd <p>.",
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"content": "i'm pretty sure you already know what to do.",
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"content": "satrue",
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"content": "You are an adult. You are your own person and can live your own life.\n\nJust make sure you know what you are doing and be responsible for it.",
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"content": "yes, i do safe sex naman, me and my partner uses contraceptive",
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"content": "Yeah, that is one way of being responsible. \nAnother is with the consequences. Di naman lahat ng consequences eh negative. \n\nAnd problema lang talaga kapag salungat ka sa norm, mali ka according sa pananaw ng nakararami. And dahil iba ka, tendency is they make life harder for you.",
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"content": "Hindi naman nanay mo jojowain nung guy. So I think hindi naman kailangan magustuhan ng nanay mo yung lalake physically. Pero tama ka, bata kapa nga talaga. Ako nga 23 na hindi pa nakapag dala ng lalake sa bahay so ayun lang, okay lang yan. Push mo yan bb ghorl. 😂",
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"content": "upvote ko to. 23 na ako nung nagdala ako ng lalaki sa bahay. gusto ko kasi established na kami pareho para di naman kami ijudge ng pamilya ko hahaha mga matatanda kasi ganun talaga but anyway, push mo yan bhie. whatever makes you happy :)",
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"content": "Oh shet. Thanks for this sis, siguro makakpagdala ako ng lalake by 30. Kung aabutin ko pa hahaha anyway, ingat!",
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"content": "I just have to agree with you. Aminado ako minsan pag may magjowa akong nakikita sa public doing sweet mushy things sa isat isa, bumubulong nalang ako ng \"Sana all\" pero I guess may mga couples talaga na nakakakilig lang tignan kasi nagrereflect sa kanila yung love they have for each other 😊",
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"content": "amen siz! may PDA na genuinely nakakakilig at hindi nakakabwisit hahaha",
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"content": "*Lord, I've seen what you've done for others*",
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"content": "Lord, yes.",
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"content": "Devil's advocate:\n\n1. No more thrill and spice in your relationship. Boring sex life.\n2. Money doesn't buy happiness, maybe she's been wanting to start a family or atleast was waiting for you to put a ring on it.\n3. There's someone else that's giving her 1 & 2.",
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"content": "If someone's making her happy. I'll gladly let her go, kahit masakit.",
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"content": "Salute!",
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"content": "Would it be cheating din if nakikipagusap sa ex and nilalandi.siya ng ex. To a point na hindi niya sinasabi na may someone siya and its inappropriate na? Coz i used to date someone na talks to her ex tapos lagi ko niraraise yan and she would always shut me down by saying, \"were just friends, we re just talking im not cheating\"",
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"content": "Cheating po yan",
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"content": "I've always been active on social media. Yung friends ko updated sa mga achievements ko, sa mga ginagawa ko, etc. But months ago, I deactivated my Facebook and Twitter accounts because of my arrogant and egotistic batchmates. I also tend to flex my achievements, big or small, so I guess to some, I'm also like my egotistic batchmates. LOL. All I have left are my IG account and Reddit accounts.\n\nEver since I deactivated, I've been more productive. Achieved four pack abs, started a business, and learned two new languages to name a few. Less pressure din to keep up with trends so tipid din sa pera. It also feels great to live a more private life... Keeping them guessing. Am I doing bad? Am I doing good? Lol.\n\nI reactivate din naman once in a while para di lang madelete yung Twitter account ko. Hahaha.",
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"content": "Yung tipid talaga sa pera + narealize ko na wala din naman may pake sa highs and lows ng life ko.",
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"content": "I only have IG and Reddit din. Super toxic ng FB tsaka Twitter. I only deleted my apps, sa laptop nalang ako nag chcheck kapag kelangan. Sobrang dami kong namimiss na mga trends, minsan di ako maka relate sa mga topics ng friends ko sa mga group chats. Haha. But it’s fine, there’s joy in missing out. Lakas maka Tita. 😅",
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"content": "Yes sa una talaga feeling mo marami kang nami-miss out sa twitter. Pero kalaunan, you feel comfortable na rin kahit na marami ka na miss out ...\n\nBtw, pwede naman bisitahin ang twitter kahit di naka log in ... ako binibisita ko na lang for news. Pero di naka log in para di ko nakikita yung useless trends and magprocrastinate ako. Ang labo kasi ng balita sa facebook, puro showbiz news and toxic shit sa comments.\n\nSa facebook, school announcements only. That's it. Minsan memes pero mas gold ang memes sa reddit hahahaha.",
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"content": "as a person na arnd 10pm-11pm ang tulog and 6am-7am ang gising, masarap tbh. healthy and fresh sa pakiramdam tsaka hindi masakit sa ulo plus madami ako nagagawa since maaga nagsstart yung araw ko.",
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"content": "Agreed hehehe :3",
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"content": "How bout: Can you give me 3 dates? Date lang tayo ng 3 times. I really like you. Maybe we could get to know each other more in 3 dates. :)",
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"content": "Smooth. Gagana to OP.",
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"content": "brader mas weird kung ang sasabihin mo sa kanya e gusto mo lang sya maka-MU kesa sa sasabihin mo sa kanya na gusto mo sya maging gf\n\nyou are both adults brader walang masama kung sasabihin mo na interested ka sa kanya brader just dont be weird about it",
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"content": "Oo tama, baka isipin nya magghoghost ka din later on. Be clear na lang po.",
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"content": "anong tawag mo sa kanya in return? taas?",
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"content": "Kulang ka sa aruga 🤣",
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"content": "Dahil tumatanda na tayo. Gusto na lang natin ng mga bagay na nagsstay.",
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"content": "Totoo pero sa panahon ngayon, medyo mahirap i achieve yung ganun.",
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"content": "Nah. Baka sa maling lugar ka naghahanap.\n\nWag mo asahan na magtatagal yung mga gadget na binili mo sa bangketa",
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"content": "Nice try, mom",
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"content": "Hahaha lmao. It really is therapeutic to organise your things. It makes you think that you have your life under control haha (at least for me)\n\nYou should try it sometime yo",
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"content": "May pekpek.\n\nActually pwede din titi, wag lang mas malaki sa titi ko.",
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"content": "Ang benta nito",
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"content": "veiny arms/ hands 🥺",
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"content": "Oo! Saka veiny d.",
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"content": "🙈",
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"content": "Thanks for the offer, Mr. Betlog Jakol.",
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"content": "Sooooo, is it an aye or nay?",
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"content": "This is literally a picture I can hear and feel. One of the few things I appreciated during quarantine is solitude. I got to think about things and ponder on few existential quandaries. I can say it’s the best thing I’ve felt inside the dark corners of my room. \n\nI’m very happy you feel that extent of comfort being alone, OP. It’s a state that only few appreciate. :)))",
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"content": "It is. Some people are even afraid to be alone. Afraid that they might realize that they can't enjoy their own company. \n\nIt feels so good when you finally saved your self from the dark place. 😌\n\nThank you for the kind words btw. Bless your heart. ❤️",
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"content": "ibig sabihin nun ginagawa mo syang mundo mo. tigil mo na yan brad habang maaga.",
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"content": "Yeeaapp haha I second.\n\nBusy mga tao, you may have this connection pero that doesn't negate their schedule haha\n\nAnd actually yours too. Magreply sa naaakmang oras.",
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"content": "Of course it's just a phase. We won't be horny forever. It's a fact of life. 😜",
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"content": "You mean fuck of life?",
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"content": "Hahahaha! Opportunity missed!",
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"content": "When I realize na ang daming oras ang nasasayang sa pakikipagusap ko sa random stranger everyday, it became easier for me to leave. I can now leave the online world for a long time. Bumabalik na lang ako if I need something specific\n\nLet's face it, wala naman kinapuntahan yung mga late night talks na yan. Napuyat ka lang.",
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"content": ">Let's face it, wala naman kinapuntahan yung mga late night talks na yan. Napuyat ka lang.\n\nI think that's on you. Why bend your schedule over some stranger? Pwede pa din naman makipag usap without adjusting.",
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"content": "Ay hindi mo pa na experience yon? Yung akala mo magiging friend mo in real life kaya nag invest ka na ng time, then ended up to nothing kasi di ka pumayag makipagsex.",
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"content": "Like when you met up physically? No.\n\nIm just replying to your last line about \"pagpupuyat\" because of talking to a stranger.",
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"content": "Yes. Im just giving you a context. Hindi pa nagmemeet but when he's opening the idea of sex, then nagdecline ka, ayun, nawala na. \n\nCongrats to you. For not being as weak as me. Dont worry, im sleeping soundly now by 9:30 😉",
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"content": "Good on you, sweetie.",
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"content": "Wag mong ibase yung halaga mo dahil sa ibang tao. Mahalaga ka kahit wala sila.",
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"content": "This",
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"content": "Basta maging funny ka, tas sabihin mo, kaya mo siyang funnyndigan",
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"content": "Hahahahahahahaha dibaaaaaa!!! Ughhhh",
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"content": "I have a rule when it comes to debt.\n \nMagpapautang ako pero ng halagang ayos lang kahit hindi na ko mabayaran.\n\nDon't feel guilty, nakatulong ka na sa kanya noon. Pero you have your own problems too",
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"content": "That's my rule as well.",
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"content": "Eto na-stranded sa office hahahahaha dito kami natulog tapos pasok ulit for our next shift tanginang yan MABUHAY ANG MGA ALIPIN NG KAPITALISMO!!!!!!! HAHAHAHHHAHA Ingat kayo lahat utang na loob",
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"content": "Mukhang dito rin ako sa ospital matutulog. Hahaha. Mabuhay tayo! Hahahaha ingaaat!",
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"content": "Ingat OP!!!!!!!!💜❤️ THANK YOU FOR YOUR HARDWORK!!!!!!!",
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"content": "[Link to English version](https://i.imgur.com/UKCDPdo.jpg)\n\nEDIT: For those who were asking via DM, yes I do plan to sell prints of these as a fundraiser for typhoon relief efforts!\n\nEDIT 2: [Pre-order here](https://www.luciusfelimus.com/MAYNILA-2021-Calendar)",
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"content": "Interested! Ganda nito OP!",
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"content": "Unless u ask. Communicate (wow?)\n\nEwan sa pagkakaalala ko naglambing ako sa kanya to dress me, which he did naman HAHA",
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"content": "I dress my SO too. Parang ang dick move tignan pagbigla ka na lang alis haha",
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"content": "Saka ewan, ang cute lang hehe gusto ko rin talaga yung malambing hahahah",
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"content": "people embracing their sexual sides doesn’t give u the right to sexualize them.",
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"content": "apir",
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"content": "Sometimes, we outgrow our friends. Sometimes, our friends outgrow us. Enough na yung nagreach out ka sa kanya. Accept mo na lang na ganyan talaga minsan. Our circles change as we grow old. Move on ka na. Hope you'll be okay, OP.",
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"content": "Thank you so much ❤️",
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"content": "I'd bring this topic up to him if I were in your place as I'd rather know his true intentions and feelings about it. Huwag kang magpapadala sa mga salita niya, basahin mo yung mga galaw niya habang pinaguusapan niyong dalawa yang maselang topic na iyan. Kadalasan kung ano yung naobserbahan mo at ang kutob mo ay ang siyang tamang hinala.",
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"content": "gusto ko kaso di ko alam kung pano kapg babanggitin ko na yung about dun bigla akong natatakot :(",
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"content": "Hindi ko rin alam kung papaano dahil hindi pa ako nagkakarelasyon pero mas magandang hindi mo siya patagalin dahil mas magiging malala ang anxiety at jealousy mo.",
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"content": "Isukat mo sa 7-11 to show dominance. Charot.haha go lang pre. Better to be safe.",
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"content": "Hahaha taena",
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"content": "Ok lang yan as long as hindi ka muna mag-invest ng feelings. Going on dates is basically just having a good time with another person. It doesn't have to be someone you like, could be a friend of the opposite sex.\n\nNow, what you can do is go out with different people you like and check kung kanino ka magki-click. Mahirap talaga mag-rush into commitment, pero you will eventually meet that person worth investing time for.\n\nCheers",
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"content": "Yes that's what I have in mind. I just want to meet people. If we click then go. If Covid ends I might go to physical dating since I prefer meeting the person.",
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"content": "Same here. However I might not date for 1-2 years since my mother just got amputated so saka na muna ang pangchi-chicks ko haha.\n\nPero yeah, physical dating is key.",
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"content": "My dad also is a cheater. Really disappointed about him doing that to my mom also. Yes they are a good provider but not a good husband/lover to my mom. I wish there is divorce or easier annulment here in PH. That kind of abuse is one key for filing an annulment. Psychological/Mental Health abuse. If im in the place of my mom. I wouldnt tolerate just for the sake of my kids but for my mental health too. I just couldn't imagine myself being married to a cheater partner. I rather be alone with my kids than to have an abusive manipulative partner. Just my cent.\n\nAnyway. Keep strong and Be strong. Always take care of your mom.",
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"content": "Unfortunately my mom tolerated it because she has 6 children. And won’t be able to raise us all without the casual money given by my dad.\n\nThe difference now is that I stand up against my dad for any possibility of hurting my mom. This ECQ they argued during lunch and while my mom was walking away, my dad threw a mug directed at her and missed. Causing the mug to shatter into pieces. I ran up to my mom and shouted at my dad, cursing him for still being the same asshole as he was when he did the same to me years back (around 2011-2014) for saying out loud that he has a mistress. But as I’ve said, I would get a reasoning that I shouldn’t argue with him bec he has depression. Lol.",
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"content": "I'm sorry but your dad seems horrible, justifying cheating with depression?\n\nHow old are you and your siblings? I'd rather be working and living below my means but away from that kind of person. How about present that option with your mom?",
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"content": "I wouldn't know.\nWe will probably wait for each other to initiate a conversation, 5 hours later, we will get bored and leave in the same direction, it's going to be a silent awkward walk back home.",
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"content": "👀",
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"content": "Di ba kanser tong mga travel “vloggers”?",
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"content": "Based on experience, oo. pag lumalabas kami, its like 50% family bonding and 50% her work (taking pictures, taking selfies, taking videos, etc.) and this has been our routine for like almost five years? 🙄 so nakaka-umay na, lagi na lang buntot buntot kami sa kanya, and nakakawalang gana. don't get me wrong, I also like travelling but for leisure and chill, and not to be a personal assistant (and props for her stories). Haha Sobrang scripted, umay.",
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"content": "Im sorry for what you’re family is going thru. I come from a broken family myself, I was 10 when they seperated. \n\nFirst few years was hard, pero it gets better. Along the way maiintindihan niyo din kung bakit sila naghiwalay and at the same time matatanggap niyo na. Tpos eventually you’ll be happy for them. Kc kung iisipin mo, bkit nila ipagpapatuloy na magsama sila kung hnde na sila masaya pareho? Its just going to affect everyone in the family. Its good that they both talked to you guys abt the seperation, kc ibang parents d na kayo ssbhan. It clearly shows they both love you very much and it hurts them also that this is happening. \n\nSo eto lng mapapayo ko sayo, dont sulk over the fact na hiwalay na cla. Wag mong gawing problema palagi yun. U have to move on abt it, wag kang mag rebelde kc broken nga kayo. Sa huli kc ikaw lng mgccc, ikaw talo. Just continue to do good, focus on your studies. And pray. \n\nSana makatulong. \nGod bless!",
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"content": "Thank you po sa advice <3",
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"content": "If he wants to stay, he'll stay kahit wala kang gawing extra. Just be you. And don't get attached sa hindi mo pa namimeet ng personal. People can be different irl.",
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"content": "totoo po, kaya natatakot din ako. pwedeng di mag-work out irl. masyado pang maaga pero parang ganon po. parang attached na agad ako. yayakapin ko nalang 'tong sakit haha hay salamat po.",
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"content": "Iba pa rin yung nag spend kayo ng time irl, to gauge kung what they show online is what they really are. Totoo naman yung attachment kahit online but its better to see each other personally",
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"content": "true. noted on this po, kahit ako po di ko po maimagine sarili ko na ma-attach ng ganito kasi mas komportable ako na kilala ko talaga & di ko inexpect 'to first time ko rin po kasi. marami pa po akong dapat matutunan hays. salamat po ng madami.",
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"content": "Experience is the best teacher, enjoy your journey!",
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"content": "thank you so much! 🥺",
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"content": "One thing I learned about harassment, do not smile/fake laugh when dealing with them. Also, when they're laughing at you, ask them to explain why it's funny (don't smile while doing this). Apparently, di na nakakatawa kapag pinaexplain mo sa kanila yung pinagagawa nila.\n\nP.S. Since you're new asa ka pangtulungan ka ng HR against your seniors. Sasabihin lang nila na you can't jive with the culture of the company, which can be use against you.",
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"content": "One of their most annoying line is \"sir paisa naman\". I usually just laugh it out but I'll try your advice. Thank you!",
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"content": "Dude, my former boss harrassed me dati, and nung first instances when he's trying to get a reaction from me, I just laughed it off din. You know, corporate slave fake laugh. Big mistake. Harassers see that as a go signal to continue \"poking\" you until you give in or give up.",
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"content": "Toxic naman ng bosses and co-workers mo. There's nothing bad about it, sir. You did the right thing. A gentleman would do. Kudos to you. You're not the only one who feels that way. I also feel that way. Be the maaasahan one in this world full of toxic masculines. Be strong, and if kelangan mo mag-resign, do it. Tangina nung mga tulad nila.",
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"content": "I wish I could just resign like that but it was really hard to get this job and I dont think I can just throw it away :(",
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"content": "Pakatatag ka nalang, sir. You’re better than them, and mas malayo mararating mo. Just let them feel that there’s a safe space in that toxic environment. ✌🏽",
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