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"content": "let people enjoy it. kami ngang kapampangan di nagrereklamo sa paglagay nyo ng mayo at itlog sa sisig 😂",
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"content": "Agree haha\n\nKung di nagrereklamo ang Japan, let it be 😂",
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"content": "First, don't say you're boring! (Fine you can say it as a joke but don't really believe it!) We all have a story to tell. I personally find everyone interesting. Syempre some people talaga parang napaka overbest ng life - outliers naman yun. The rest of us - actually, majority of us - are \"average\" but we each have our own thing rin. It's just a matter of discovering the other person's quirks, dreams, fears, pet peeves, hobbies, etc. Also, conversations are two-way streets. Lahat ng participants may ambag. Baka you're beating yourself up too much rin pero di lang naman pala ikaw yung may kulang.\n\nShift your focus from being *interesting* to being *interested*. Genuine curiosity in other people will help you think of how to continue or lead a conversation. Minsan nga di ka na mauubusan ng tanong e haha. Just keep an open mind!\n\nConversing to some degree also requires you to open up. So don't be afraid to show some vulnerability.\n\nGive and take ang conversations. Try to notice lang if you or the conversational partner is dominating the conversation too much. Pakiramdaman mo rin if it's time for you to share na or just listen muna. Kung if ever yung kausap mo yung parang masyasong self centered - don't take it against them, wag ka magtampo, pabayaan mo na lang siya, still listen and then learn how NOT to be like them haha.\n\nTsaka omg just do it. Try not to overthink! And practice!! Lahat tayo insecure, tandaan mo yan hahaha. Pagalingan lang tayo magpanggap na we've all got it together. Don't worry if di ka pa super confident sa social/conversational skills mo -- sa totoo lang, no one really is.\n\n(Edit: omg sorry halos same na pala nung nagcomment kanina yung pinagsasabi ko huhu sorry po di ko po kinopya yon pramis HAHHA napakatagal ko lang talaga mag type)",
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"content": "“Shift your focus from being interesting to interested”\n\nAmen",
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"content": "i feel like masyado niro-romanticize nga ang pagkakaroon ng \"toyo\" ng isang tao. props to the other person for speaking up about it. \n\nwhile it's true we have to accept the other person for who they are and not what they could be, di rin naman nito ibig sabihin na self-improvement is completely off the table. nobody wants to deal with someone toxic.",
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"content": "Gosh. Sobrang totoo nito. I hope mag stop yung thinking na yung pagiging \"topakin\" is part of a personality. Lalo na sa mga girls.\n\nAlthough I disagree with \"accept me for who I am\" saying...um, NO. GIRL. SLAP YOURSELF. If you have toxic behavior, change yourself, or at least admit it and be aware. Always thrive for character development, it's okay to admit na you have wronged somebody in the past and learned from it.",
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"content": "I meant \"falling in love with potential\" lol, kinda like falling for an introvert and expecting them to be more out-going for you. may mga tao lang talagang incompatible, and we have qualities na parang inherent na talaga.\n\npero kung outright negative traits ang ayaw baguhin, then problema na yun.",
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"content": "Hindi ba obvious yung “outright negative traits” during dating pa lang? Or am I clairvoyant? Hahaha",
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"content": "red flags ba. pero ok lang toro naman tayo HAHAHAHA",
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"content": "Pero pinursue pa rin yung relationship thinking na it will get fixed? Hahah free therapy sana all",
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"content": "why pay for therapy when you can get a jowa to tell you \"ok lang yan baby\" for free HAHAHAHAHA",
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"content": "So what’s with the noise about toxic traits na ayaw maayos-ayos? Na pwede naman pala hindi maging problema if hindi nalang pinursue yung relationship kasi red flags?",
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"content": "self-improvement? if that were the case, and we would all avoid red flags, then you'll probably end up alone because you refuse to address your negative traits?\n\nor at least take yourself into accountability na ganito ka, you're not very easy to deal with and it's not that easy to better yourself, and acknowledge it, rather than go \"this is who I am, deal with it\".\n\nkasi what comes across sa text is the other person refuses to improve themselves. sure, you can't see toxic traits ASAP, but no one's obligated to stay with you if it's costing them their mental health too.",
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"content": "Ahwww I see okay okay",
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"content": "He's got the point, I mean we're not kids anymore, ang purpose naman ng relationship eh to practice marriage eh kung ganyan pa din hanggang kasal na kayo eh hindi naman maganda. Adjust sa attitudes, fix both of your problems, and grow as one. That's what a relationship is",
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"content": "Actually same, I understand the guy kasi he's like my boyf the way siya makipag-usap. Pinapaintindi niya sakin instead of tolerating me. Inaayos imbis na pagbigyan. Di naman kasi lagi na one side lang mag adjust eh dapat both.",
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"content": "Good naman yang ginagawa ng boyfriend mo, yung pinapaintindi imbis na tinotolerate. Kasi in the first place you're committed sa relationship to be as one not to blame on each other na kung ano yung mali o kung ano yung hindi nagagampanan sa relationship",
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"content": "Kasi minsan kaming babae is masyadong entitled na sasabihin \"babae kami, kami dapat iniintindi\" kaya yung iba sumusobra kaya masyado nnag toxic.",
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"content": "i get the point of the person na may toyo as well as the partner, the thing i find wrong here is the idea na sinabi nya na jinowa kita para ko mag grow ka. may messiah complex yung person na yun. you enter a relationship because you like the person now, not for what they can become. kasi if push comes to shove and the person doesnt live to the expectations you set for them, you will both just end up miserable.\n\nim not saying na dahil may toyo na sya eh hayaan na nya yun, im saying dont make your wish to change the person the reason for the relationship.",
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"content": ">the thing i find wrong here is the idea na sinabi nya na jinowa kita para ko mag grow ka. may messiah complex yung person na yun\n\nCame on here to say this. Buti naman may nakapansin nito. You're not there to fix that person.",
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"content": "Honestly ang hirap mag-judge na ganito lang ang context natin. Paano kung ang dahilan pala ng toyo ni gf ay yung lalaki? Eh di pareho lang silang *toxic*. Tapos self-righteous pa si bf (“jinowa kita para mag-grow ka”? gardening pala gusto lol). (And we say toxic lang dapat if it’s been going on for a long time, di yung parang wala lang sa mood ng isang araw.) So di ko rin masabi na “this one has said the right thing.” Baka pareho lang silang wrong, depending on the bigger picture.",
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"content": ">Tapos self-righteous pa si bf (“jinowa kita para mag-grow ka”? gardening pala gusto lol). \n\nLove this hahaha.",
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"content": "Love is not just a feeling. Love *(the feeling)* is the result of love *(the action)*. When you stop *the action*, *the feeling* will be lost. This means love takes effort, and for a couple to be in love, that effort should go both ways.\n\nAttraction is different. Attraction can start things, but attraction can only go so far. Think of courting. The action there is the *manliligaw* part. You do your part until love *(the feeling)* blossoms.\n\nAs for your question:\n\nI got my SO pregnant after 1 year of being together. She was never my *ideal girl*. We never had labels but we fooled around often resulting in a pregnancy.\n\nShe was very open to me. She told me she was worried and prepared for me to disappear. She was good to me so I tried to step up. I let go of the notion of *the ideal girl* and began to *live in reality*. For the first time in my life, I tried to be responsible - to do *the actions* needed. My life was made better of it and 10 years later we're pretty much still in love.",
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"content": "Uy ang ganda nito: I let go of the notion of *the ideal girl* and began to *live in reality*. For the first time in my life, I tried to be responsible - to do *the actions* needed. \n\nI stopped looking for the ideal girl a long time ago. I realised that when you still hold onto the notion of meeting your *ideal gir*l somewhere you'll tend to focus working more on what you have now.",
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"content": "Tapos iiwan ka ulit. Dadaan lang yan. Wag mo nang pansinin hahaha",
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"content": "Exactly!",
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"content": "Third the motion! hahaha wag na please",
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"content": "Dieting is a bad mindset/mentality kasi di siya sustainable at gumagana lang yon for short period of time. \"Mindfulness eating\" is a healthier option. Make sure na balance ang kinakain mo may protein, may carbs (good carbs like fiber, complex carbs) at may fat din (olive oil, avocado, peanut). It is all about proportions. Pagbigyan mo ang cravings mo pero dapat kung kakain ka ng pizza 1-2 slice lang then stop na. Drink lots of water. Exercise kahit 20 minutes lang everyday. \n\nStay happy and healthy!",
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"content": "Agree ako diyan. Kapag nagmamadaling magpapayat, diet, sure. Pero yung maintenance? Mindful eating na.",
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"content": "If she breaks up with you over something as petty as this, then she aint the one bro. But good for you cos u just dodged the bullet right there.",
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"content": "Ayo king/queen, u dropped this👉 👑",
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"content": "IMHO, if she's envious of the posts of other mag jowa who are being active on soc med, I think she has insecurity issues. For me, I won't mind if my SO would not \"flex\" me. The most important thing is your relationship in real life is actually good. But, no hate on those who want to post pics. Live and let live. Just my opinion. Plus, she should accept that you're not that comfortable. If she breaks up w you for the petty reason, then like another Redditor said: she might be ain't the one.",
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"content": "Exactly! Same thoughts was going through my mind.",
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"content": "I don't know your situation, but let me tell you about my youngest brother. \n\nHe used to be in a 4-year relationship with his college sweetheart. Never posted any mushy stuff on social media about her, although the GF would always tag him on her posts for birthdays, anniversaries, etc. They would sometimes argue about him not posting anything about her. I don't think he was embarassed by her looks or anything, because she was really cute & smart, and I'm pretty sure he was proud of her. But he kept telling her he just wasn't the post-about-your-personal-life type of guy. \n\nAnyway, after college, they broke up. It was amicable. They seemed to just have outgrown each other by then. \n\nLess than a year later, my brother started working for a company that would regularly send him to its offices in Europe. In one of his trips, he met this drop-dead gorgeous co-worker *(tall, bright blue eyes, blonde)* whom he would regularly get to see when he visited their offices in Sweden at least twice a year. The first time they met, he posted a photo of them on Facebook while dining in a restaurant when she first toured him around. Guess what? She is now his girlfriend, and he's been posting about her since. They're both based in London now and living together, but he still gets mushy about her on social media. 😊 \n\nAyun lang. I guess sometimes we'd meet people for whom we'd do things that we didn't normally do. \n\nBut then again, you should NEVER ever be pressured into doing something you aren't comfortable doing.",
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"content": "This is the type of stuff that makes me soft. Thanks for sharing my guy, i need all the help i can get. Ayo king/queen, u dropped this👉👑",
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"content": "I don’t want to sound like a bad influence pero minsan mas madaling mag-sorry kaysa magpaalam 😏",
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"content": "HAHAHAHA STORY OF MY LIFE",
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"content": "The plus side: they're 100% free, natural, and really effective.\n\nThe con: they're tough to swallow imo.",
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"content": "Heart pounding, throat thickening x_x",
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"content": "I think the medicine for those side effects is rest, ice, and a bunch of cream. ^_^",
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"content": "I think I've said this before and I'll say it again, smart guys are scarier than dumb ones.",
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"content": "I know~ tho tbh I just had this idea in my head so I wrote this. It’s not really a true to life experience haha! I can play this game too~",
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"content": "It's sad that we think we have to \"play along\" and that we'd have to be on top of \"the game\"\nI still stand on, just do whatever's genuinely you. You can't control how they are but you can control how you react to them.",
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"content": "That’s part of life. Either get played or play along the game",
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"content": "Not true. You can choose not to play the game and find someone who isn't playing as well.",
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"content": "Ah but where’s the fun in that?",
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"content": "This says you're in for the game as well. So, yeah, just do whatever's genuinely you.",
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"content": "Some didn’t know they were in a game and lost. What did they do? Learned the rules and this time, they can now play along. Let’s just have fun",
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"content": "Again, to each his own. I just don't like the idea of limiting the choices to play or be played, cause one can just not play (even if they are unknowingly being played with)",
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"content": "Maybe at some point there are signs that he is playing you but you chose to ignore it.\n Dont give too much credit on the ability of men to outplay you. You cant change them but you can change yourself. Outsmart them and learn from your mistakes.\nGuard your heart and body properly.",
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"content": "Thank you :)",
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"content": "Saaame. Lalo na fresh grad pa lang. Dami kong hopes dati pero turns out hindi pala ako kagalingan. 100+ applications, 5 interviews, 0 job offer.",
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"content": "Don’t worry. Darating din yun kung para sayo. 5 interviews? Wala yun, gain experience from it. Gawin mong reference yung mga tanong para sa isasagot mo sa mga susunod na interview. Hindi ko na mabilang kung ilan ang failed interviews ko dati, pero tuloy pa din hanggang natanggap.",
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"content": "Yeah nakakagulat lang kasi fresh grad haha pero oo nga nililist ko yung mga qs. Also mas gagalingan ko na mag-pretend na maging perfect sa interview mukhang yun gusto ng mga hr eh",
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"content": "https://markmanson.net/being-average\n\nyou should read this 🤗",
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"content": "I was about to recommend mark manson’s too. I can send you a copy of subtle art of not giving a f*ck! :)",
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"content": "Send me!",
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"content": "Email?:)",
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"content": "Me too please huhu",
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"content": "✨and that's on being hypersexual because you believe the only thing you can bring to a relationship is your body ✨🧚✨🧚",
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"content": "I also have another word for it., a \"CUNT\".",
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"content": "SLUT is better.",
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"content": "This.. wasn't what I meant but all right lol",
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"content": "Shopee. Lazada. And pera sa bank account.",
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"content": "yessss hahaha",
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"content": "First off, I am gay lol but anyway, I had a one night stand with a guy I was crushing on. Super gwapo nya as in Ian veneracion level Pero moreno version. It was a looonngg story how we ended up hooking up together but to make it short, when we were doing it, hindi ako naarouse because of my insecurity. I was overThinking. I was trying hard to please him. We eventually finished off but it wasn’t as great as I hoped for. Apparently, I was sabotaged by my insecurity. So lesson learned.. Dapat enjoy lang, ienjoy mo ang moment bahala na later if kung San pupunta ang relationship nyo Basta ang importante is both of you are having a good time. I think the same goes with dating. Don’t over think, enjoy mo lang :)",
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"content": "AWWWWW I love this!! 🙈",
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"content": "Sana makakantot ano pa ba",
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"content": "Sinong may gusto sayo eh DDS ka?",
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"content": "I believe in attraction at first sight haha. Love? (at least, my interpretation of it) Definitely, no. :))\n\nFor me sparks = attraction\nNot love.",
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"content": "Yeah, definitely attraction.. But it's a start OP 😉",
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"content": "Haha hindi ko na nakita si ate the last time I went there 😅",
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"content": "Baka naman nag bago lang sya ng shift hahaha",
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"content": "When a person loves you, YOU WILL KNOW. It will be solid, no in betweens. He/She will not go beating around the bush and play mind games with you. Don't take anything less than a SOLID YES.",
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"content": "This, *plus* you deserve to be loved and are worthy of attention and respect. Don't let anyone treat you like shit.",
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"content": "I relate to your username. 👍🏼",
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"content": "Kasi ang sarap nya.",
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"content": "Tangna tawang tawa ko sa comment mo hahahahahahahahaha",
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"content": "Andami kong friends na nagsabi kung kelan hindi sila naghahanap, saka dumadating yung mga jowa nila. Hindi ako naniniwala until na experience ko sya.\n\nInstead of focusing all your energy in finding a jowa, focus on yourself. Do things that you enjoy and just do the jowa hunting on the side.",
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"content": "You're right. :( dami ko din kasing time lalo ngayong quarantine eh. HAHAHA",
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"content": "You will find each other, OP. In the mean time, chill at enjoy ka lang jan 😉",
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"content": "Nung naumay na ko sa hookup culture, nagpray ako kay Lord na sana makilala ko na magiging asawa ko. Then I met my boyfriend while looking for work. Civil wedding soon ❤️",
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"content": "Congrats! Sana all! hahaha",
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"content": "Guilty. Number one ghoster ako. So sige let me challenge myself by responding to this.\n\n\"I feel like this is slowly dying and I'd rather cut it here. You won't hear back from me anymore pero thank you for your time.\"",
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"content": "saved for future use. thanks!",
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"content": "Time to make a change di ba. Let's not leave people hanging by suddenly disappearing... FADE OUT dapat. Disengage slowly and use the 'slow death' line above. In the future they will think for themselves na it is for the best.\n\nParang napakasama at detached kong tao sa part na to.",
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"content": "Hahahaha natawa ako sa \"slow death line\" parang finishing move sa isang game lang. So is death by statement going to be a thing in the near future hahahaah",
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"content": "May be the new \"it's not you, it's me\". An admission of defeat that it just isn't working, and won't work.\n\nA few other 'death' lines I've used:\n\n-The conversation is dead on arrival (cause fall out boy is the best reference)\n-I'd rather not see our relationship suffer a slow and painful death from our indecisiveness\n-Hope is deadly, and we can't just hope that things will be better for us. Sayang lang ang oras natin pareho. \n\n Another game reference: No amount of Phoenix downs can revive it. No 1UP can save us.\n\nIronically, im in a relationship right now.\n\nHow I'm wired for the time I've tried to go out with people, is to ditch. Got escape routes planned. I'm great at not following through, fading out and disappearing. \n\nThe challenge for me now is to make my current relationship last. Madali akong mapagod at sumuko, and tbh, ghosting/escaping contributed to me stunting my own emotional maturity.",
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"content": "i love the fall out boy reference!",
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"content": "Guysss... ghosting is a form of rejection. And unfortunately, rejection, no matter how subtle, quiet or nice it was done, is still going to hurt.",
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"content": "On the contrary, I think some rejections are lowkey fine. Parang \"oh okay, better luck next time.\" or so they say. Esp in the virtual world where everyone's meh. I guess the purpose is for it to not feel as bad if it really does hurt everyone in a way?",
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"content": "That entirely depends on who's on the receiving end, IMO. It's not something you can control. I mean, you can just suddenly stop talking to a person and if he/she is the kind that doesn't easily get attached or doesn't mind that people come and go, then that person wouldn't feel bad for being ghosted. On the other hand, if that person is someone who values the connection they made and have gotten attached, even if you let them down in the kindest way possible, they will still be hurt.\n\nI think it's best to be honest and explain to them how you feel without sounding callous. It may or may not hurt, but at least they were shown decency by having been told the truth and not some excuse, or simply leaving them in the dark.\n\nThen again, if both of you aren't as interested anymore, just let it die a natural death.",
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"content": "Oooh... this is somethings, I like it!",
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"content": "More of the latter. Personally, I wouldn’t want to commit to everything (even with family, friends, work). I will never be emotionally ready na itali ang sarili ko sa isang bagay, yung tipong wala na akong kawala.\n\nI would always want to have options just in case I’m mentally drained, like kung magttake ba ako ng break o gagawan ko ba ng paraan o pwede ba ako umalis. I know the world doesn’t work that way but that’s also why I don’t keep bonds even if people wanted to be with me kasi the moment I disclose na hindi ako committed to anything, they always think di ako seryoso. Maybe it’s just how I’m wired emotionally and mentally.",
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"content": "Is it because of a past experience? Ako kasi, after a break up I totally changed parang naging pragmatic na ewan. I think na trauma ako from giving my life to somebody tapos ang ending hindi rin nag work out. I became this person na ang tingin sa mga lalake ay sexual objects nothing more nothing less. Im in love pero i just cant bring myself to commit siguro im lucky kasi he's not demanding too much. Im just so afraid that one day he might ask and I wouldnt say yes. Bummer.",
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"content": "I can’t really say, pero it plays a role. Okay na naman ako ngayon, I had my fair share of blame sa past relationships ko. Pero ngayon parang hindi ko na magawang kumbinsihin sarili ko na “gusto” ko ng girlfriend kasi kaya ko na magcommit. More like “kailangan” ko na kasi napag-iiwanan na ko. Pero kasi di rin talaga ako ready to commit so I had this idea na wag na lang, since ayoko rin talaga magkapamilya (pero gusto ko ng anak tbh, kahit anak lang wag na asawa).\n\nMedyo lumaki lang ako sa idea na dapat hawak ko buhay ko, like dapat hindi kontrolado ng iba mga desisyon ko sa buhay, tipong hanggang impact lang kaya nila. Kasi kapag dumarating sa point na nagkakaroon na sila ng certain control sa buhay ko, nagssnap na agad ako and ang tendency umaalis ako.",
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"content": "This. OMG. I know myself too much that if i ever get in to a commited relationship wala na im going to give everything again. And I dont want that to happen. I aint going through the same shit. Parehas tayo in a way. So I kind of expected that im going to be single in a very very long while and it doesnt scare me at all. Solitude is my solace I guess. Thanks for sharing! 🙂",
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"content": "Being single kind of sucks hahahaha pero tinanggap ko na rin, di rin naman tama na mandamay ng tao kung di kayo same wavelength. Hope you’re doing okay!",
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"content": "May cons ang pagiging single pero may ups din naman sya so oks lang yan mga kapatid. The ideal person will come.",
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"content": "I have a few I can share! Pa-guest sa podcast if pwede. HAHA \n\n\nThe very first date again after I became single could be considered as my worst date. I had no idea how to do the dating moves again after being in a relationship for 4 years. \n\n\nI met her through Tinder. She was cute and considerably out of my league. She worked in a casino and was almost as tall as me. \n\n\nWe opted to go to Vikings (this isn't a good idea for a first date), and I even bought Ferrero as a gift. Yes, that's how fucking stupid I was. HAHA. \n\n\nAll throughout the dinner, she was fiddling on her phone. If she would talk, she would talk about this other guy that she was seeing. I just nodded and nodded since I didn't want to be the rude one. \n\n\nAfter dinner, most of the establishments in the mall were closed so we just walked. Again, she was still on her phone the whole time. I felt really bad about it and I just wanted to end it then and there. I suggested we go our separate ways na. We took a bus since same route (again, not a good idea) and we ended up sitting in different seats. \n\n\nI just waved goodbye when it was my stop. I didn't talk to her again after that. Cringe. HAHA",
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"content": "Major pet peeve ko talaga 'to, kahit sa mga friends or relatives pag magkakasama sa isang get-together or simpleng dining out. Aba, CEO ka ba ng isang malaking kompanya na sobrang busy kaya hindi mo mabitawan kahit sandali 'yang phone mo? \n\nTapos malalaman mo nag-status update lang pala sa Facebook at IG with caption: \"Having a fun dinner date with friends at _____. Missed these guys!\" \n\nWell, we're not having fun with you because you obviously didn't miss us. Sana nag-stay ka na lang sa bahay kasama phone mo. Plastik!",
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"content": "All for show lang pala :( hahaha\n\nDi ko din gets. Common decency dapat yun pag may kasama kang iba outside.",
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"content": "1. I think the core of \"everything is political\" stems to the definition of politics, which is anything relating to power relations or struggle. With humans as social beings, everything we do and think not only affect ourselves but everyone in the society. And we can relate that on how we understand society, which has pretty big bulk on socioeconomic and political systems. Not a pol sci major pero pol systems and affiliations are like groups with the same societal goals e.g. pro-drug war, anti-China policies, etc. Hence, when we say someone is apolitical, they might not consider other people's ideologies and just go on with their lives. In PH context, we can say people are labelled apolitical when they do not wanna meddle and discuss about the political arena mainly how the govt works and acts. But that is crazy. Hahaha. Everything we do is associated with the govt. Example would be K12 educ. Not a strong force gave a halt to the transition. It was decided by the govt. The govt had the power to push for it despite unpolished and weakening current educ system back then. Some pips will not care about it coz they weren't affected by the decision. Probably they were done with HS or what. Eventually, they would realize they need to fund their younger siblings' school or interact with pips with poorly handled K12 educ. Education affects everyone on every level of the society. Just like politics, whoever is in position or has power. Right now, politics decide to what shows you can watch on tv, what vehicle you can ride going to work if any, or how much will you be paying from your own pocket if you ever get infected by any disease. Anything that has power and tries to control you is politics.\n2. I'm an anarchist. I do not believe in any form of hierarchy or class system. I do not support governments as well. I also support the abolition of money to dismantle oppressive economic and financial systems. I believe that humans must evolve to set their lives to be the freest as possible. For me, it is the highest form of universal society possible when people will act based on selfless morals and responsibilities.",
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"content": "Can't help but think na masyasong idealistic ang anarchistic perspective mo, but it makes sense.",
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"content": "I don't care that much.\n\nWe eat according to what we like. We don't eat for foreigners. \n\nWe're simply not impressed or allured by the preparation of the other country's cuisines. It's not because we don't find them interesting -- we just don't care.",
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"content": ">We eat according to what we like. We don't eat for foreigners. \n\nI share this sentiment. Also, crispy pata and lechon are lit, man.",
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"content": "Who hurt you?",
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"content": "https://youtu.be/hkEJmUDX47U\n\nMost probably this song jk haha\n\n\nGood question though. I mostly hurt myself by not curbing my expectations. This is the internet after all.",
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"content": "Ganito din ako nung may trabaho pa ako basta ang pinaka importante para sa akin ZERO DEBT ang buhay ko.",
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"content": "Mas mahalaga naman talaga na wala kang utang. That should be a staple nowadays",
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"content": "Nothing wrong with living a simple and modest life. If you are happy with what you have and what you do, so be it. However, being simple and modest doesn't mean being irresponsible with you finances or your future. Live life as you want to but consider your future needs when you're planning ahead.",
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"content": "I’m not planning on having much. Balak ko lang accumulate as much as I can without putting it anywhere else, as in kahit nakadeposit lang sa banko for easy accessibility. Everything else, okay na ko. I’m not interested in earning.",
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"content": "It's nice to know that youre not pressured with the rising hustle culture. Each person kasi has their own aspirations and fears. \n\nThere are people who knows what they want, and with that, they set game plans on how to be in the place they want to be in. Halimbawa, they want to have their own house in 5 years time, so they hustle to earn the needed amount to buy a house or to pay the loan. \n\nTheee are also people who knows what they dont want kaya they take such measures to avoid those. Halimbawa, they dont want na by 40, 9-5 job pa din bumubuhay sa kanila, so they invest on stock market or start small businesses. May mga tao din na ayaw yung magiging burden sila sa pamilya nila in case magkaroon ng malubhang disease so they get insurance for themselves para in case anything happens.\n\nMeron din ung mga naranasan mamuhay sa hirap for all his life and ayaw niya na danasin un ng mga magiging anak niya or he wants to end the 'pag pinanganak kang mahirap, mamamatay kang mahirap' mindset. \n\nMeron din, just preparing for the future or for the rainy days like this pandemic. Imagine if isa ka sa affected ng pandemic na to and wala kang ibang source of income and good for 6 months lang EF mo tapos tumagal ng 1 and a half years ung pandemic, nakaka stress di ba kahit imagine mo palang. \n\nIt varies from person to person :)",
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"content": "I am actually aware of everybody's personal goals, kasi I have one myself. Pero siguro difference is I'm not allowing myself to get drained in the present just to have a 'fruitful' future. I actually believe na I can do that without mental/emotional/physical repercussions. \n\nRegarding sa pandemic, alam mo bang mas thankful ako na liquid assets ang meron ako, hindi something na kailangan ko pang palaguin or hintayin. I can easily sell my stuff, I can easily withdraw whenever needed. Kasi imagine, if nilaan ko sa investments or whatever lahat ng ipinagtrabaho ko, and saktong wala akong trabaho at walang wala ako, hindi ko naman sila makukuha basta-basta. I also know na there are terms na pwede mo i-claim kapag malala na ang sitwasyon pero sa panahon ngayon, it's optimal kung kaya mo agad maglabas ng pera. Mas masstress ako kung hahanapan ko pa ng paraan na mai-encash lahat ng nilagay ko kaysa readily available siya.",
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"content": "I think that's the point of investing/having other sources of income that most people pursue nowadays. I, myself, invested on an apartment (i inherited the lot from my parents though) so i get extra from that. Lucky for me din na my day job wasnt affected by the layoffs but if umabot man sa point na yun, i wont be needing to touch(withdraw) my savings nor have to sell properties kasi may ibang stream ng income. I also do stocks. Di ako trader kaya namumula ung portfolio ko ngayon. Pero ung money that i put in there, i made sure na hindi ko kakailanganin anytime soon. Kumbaga, money na kahit totally mawala man, hindi ako malulugmok.",
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"content": "Pero kasi, how come na hindi ka totally malulugmok sa perang ilalagay mo? Kahit sabihin nating di mo siya immediately na kailangan, kahit 10k lang yan, it can feed you for a month. Imagine kung hawak mo yan instead na nakalaan sa investments. \n\nI know na doing that poses a lot of risk, and it reaaaally pays off kapag maganda ang takbo at alam mo ginagawa mo, pero kasi sa panahon ngayon, no matter how small the amount it can be a huge impact. May stocks ako, actually. Pero if mawawala yun, kahit kalahating daang libo lang yun, iiyakan ko yun kasi lagi kong iisipin na sana pera na lang siya. Kasi kung lalago siya, di rin naman ako ganoon na matutuwa. Idk, being practical lang siguro.",
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"content": "Investing despite having insufficient liquid assets means you have poor financial discipline. I would argue na sa mga nangyayari sa Pilipinas ngayon I just don't think it's wise to settle. Yes, don't compromise your health or family is a given, pero di rin magandang maging nasa kumportable ka lang. Advice ko lang to start checking out r/phinvest or r/FIRE",
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"content": "Tambay ako sa mga subs na yan recently, and it just confirms whatever I learned about investments. It’s not worth the stress and the anxiety. Pinipilit kong baguhin isip ko kasi baka naman talaga hindi ako financially literate pero it just doesn’t work for me.\n\nTo say na hindi magandang nasa kumportable ka lang is somehow a glorified mindset na you actually need to risk what you can, but I’d really rather keep it as something I can liquidate easily. Just those subs alone make me anxious as fuck and I can’t stomach how much I need to “monitor” how my money will go around while I can keep it with me the whole time.",
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"content": "It's not a glorified mindset, it's simple financial literacy. It's not risking what you can, but risking what you don't essentially need or will be needing any time sooner. You mentioned stocks, pero why would you even venture into stocks in the first place, those are high risk investments. You said iiyak ka if bumagsak yung stocks mo, why bother putting your money in there if yun yung nasa isip mo? It gives you stress and anxiety pero para kang nagsusugal ng pera mo basically by getting yourself into something you are not well prepared for.",
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"content": "Iiyakan ko yun kasi kahit hindi ko siya ginagamit, it could be of great value. I simply put it here kasi “kailangan” ko at dahil di ko nga naman ginagamit, I initially believed na okay lang and it’s worth giving a shot. I don’t mind kasi I can actually lose the money. More precisely, iiyakan ko yung thought na imbis na nakatabi na lang yung pera, nawala bigla. I don’t essentially need the money, but the actual thought that I might lose my money is what’s making me anxious. It will always be a “what if” scenario",
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"content": "Ang contradicting na you put your money in stocks, which is high risk naman talaga. Pero you also said na you value your peace of mind. With that approach, madadagdagan lang stressors mo. I agreed with your original post but your subsequent comments are rather off putting. Financial literacy is not just about studying something, it's building a habit or a mindset.",
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"content": "I agree na contradicting, but the reasons why I did it kasi kaya ko naman mawala yung pera, and sa panahon ngayon kapag wala kang ganyan, left out ka. I easily get pressured and all I can do is study the market. Putting actual work into it is the stressful part. \n\nHonestly, di naman siya nagiging stressful sa akin unless binabanggit. Parang nagiging reminder siya sa akin na “kulang” pa ginagawa ko while I can actually be contented. Nakakastress lalo kapag nakikita mo yung mga tao sa paligid mo na ganyan ginagawa and it makes you question your life decisions.",
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"content": "I believe everything is predetermined. But that does not mean I should lay back and let life run its course. How everything is predetermined is not my problem, it is outside of me, so I should actively seek out the right decisions, right thoughts, right actions, etc.\n\nI met my wife at my sister's wedding. I played the guitar during the reception and I had no idea that the stranger sitting there who I caught staring at me 4x would be my LDR gf for 6 years and now, my wife.\n\nWhat do I know about love? Little, but I do know that relationships do not form over bright screens. Coming from an LDR-formed relationship, I may sound like a hypocrite, but it's true. The minutes of finally seeing each other at the bus station, after a 12-hour commute, would always beat 2 years of cheesy heartfelt texts and chats. Get real, do the things you love which are praisable but do not do it for the praise, do it because you love it. Do not judge people, love even those who do not deserve it (Loving them does not mean tolerating them though or forcing yourself to believe that they are actually nice people, no.) People are attracted to genuineness, and do things for others out of love for them. Don't seek for approval or rewards, rather, teach yourself that loving is the reward, no matter how awful things could get, loving can only be done by the strong.\n\nThen when you find yourself surrounded by people with same interests, same outlooks, same energy, don't even think they are there to stay. Cherish them but don't imprison them, nothing revolves around you. Unless someone finally decides to.\n\nItinadhana ba kayo? By now you'll know, it's not your problem to consider. So go ahead and live.",
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"content": "This is so beautiful, thank you.",
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"content": "Why do I sense that her reasons are rooted in her own upbringing? I mean if she was raised properly, your mother wouldn't put you on such chained life. Am guessing you're her own child?\n\nSorry to say this but... **you have to battle with your mother.** Her reasons aren't fair for you since **it's her responsibility to give you the best welfare you deserved**. That alone **cannot be and should not be treated as her own investment.**\n\nSure she's proud of what you've accomplished. But **she isn't respecting you as an adult.** She is an adult herself and she had to look for herself.",
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"content": "She came from a conservative family. She wasn't able to finish college because she didn't liked her course (my lola chose it for her). And yes I am her own child. \n\nShe's full of herself. Di niya nakikita mali niya. I once told her that it is never my responsibility to send my other 4 siblings to college. Bakit ako? Bakit di yung mga kuya ko? Why not her? Di naman ako yung nakipagsex at nanganak (my dad is financially dead at may ibang binubuhay na). Kaloka but don't get me wrong. I love my siblings so much.",
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"content": ">She came from a conservative family.\n\nConservative or stingy / \"kuripot\"?\n\n​\n\n>she didn't liked her course (my lola chose it for her)\n\nAnd she's doing the same to you in a different way.\n\n​\n\n>And yes I am her own child.\n\nApologies, I meant only child which isn't.\n\n​\n\n>She's full of herself. Di niya nakikita mali niya.\n\nNo one will but you and your siblings.\n\n​\n\n>Bakit ako? Bakit di yung mga kuya ko? Why not her?\n\nSorry, but this should all be on your mother. Every child has their own right to independence.\n\nDid she stop working after you started earning and blame her age for it?",
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"content": "Conservative and traditional = HIGH respect to parents, parents are always right, andaming bawal, and dapat maganda reputation \n\nShe didn't stop. She's actually earning more than enough. Siguro kinain na siya ng greed lol",
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"content": "In our family and in my family, **respect goes both ways.** The child respects the parents or elders. Likewise, the parent or elders respects the decision of the child. Sure, we eventually preach how things are done but it's the child's call to follow it or not.\n\n​\n\n>andaming bawal\n\nWhat!? Are we still in the 90s? I think we're already in 22s which is youngster are empowered.\n\n​\n\n> dapat maganda reputation\n\nDid your elders or mother live by that?",
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"content": "I wish to have that kind of respect if I decide to have a family of my own. \n\nThey are stuck in the 90s huhu I am actually labeled as ungrateful and a rebel since I refuse to be like them (di lang pulis nag red-tag sakin waw)\n\nMy mom failed to have a decent reputation (iba iba kami ng tatay ng mga kapatid ko at basta madami siya issues)",
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"content": "Please don't tell me you're a nurse. Cause I have a friend who's a trophy daughter with that kind of family setting.",
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"content": "I'm not. Sobrang layo ng field na 'yan sa field ko. But I hope your friend gets into a better situation soon.",
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"content": "Jowain mo yung hinde \"hinde\" magspell ng hinde. Hinde ako yon.",
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"content": "Word.",
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"content": "Merong nagsulat na gumawa din nito sa RD. User sneakily unfollowed DDS pages on mom's PC and followed a bunch of other pages instead. User later caught her mom watching a bunch of puppy vids on fb from a page she subacribed to. So I guess it worked? Kulang lang sa hobbies yung ibang boomer kaya nalululong sa DDS pages? Di pa nila natutuklasan yung ibang kalibangan sa net?",
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"content": "I think so, too. I also feel like they get a sense of community by joining DDS pages. Ayun nga lang, eh toxic community IMO. Try ko din i-follow sa mga animal groups. Haha!",
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"content": "Lol. Pag nalaman ko na trip ako ng best friend ko, d na best friend yun. May malisha na eh. Either itapon nya feelings nya sakin, and we continue just being friends ng wala ng romantic intent at all, or icut off ko siya until mahimasmasan siya. And imma do this with or without an SO.",
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"content": "> And imma do this with or without an SO.\n\nThis!",
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"content": "Ang mahirap sa ganyan dapat yung SO mo sa sarili niya alam na dapat dumistansya. That's the way to deal with it. Wala naman sanang issue kung walang ulterior motive yung bestfriend, eh kaso meron so boundaries have to be set accordingly.\n\nYung sasabihin natin na...\n\n*\"Kasi best friend niya yan, as in ang tagal na since past life pa nila best friend na niya super sobra as in...\"*\n\nHindi valid yung ganyan reasoning especially if the best friend can't even respect boundaries. Sus... hindi puwede yung ganyan IMO.",
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"content": "I remember someone 😏 Dapat pa rin daw magkita kasi friends lang sila kahit alam niya na \"may feelings yung guy\" as in before pa naging kami.",
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"content": "Bakit naman ganun, Siiiir.",
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"content": "Ahahahaha hindi ko alam Sir. But who's dating now? Sila pota 😂",
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"content": "Grabe naman yon, Sir. Sakit naman non, Sir.",
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"content": "Siguro on how do you deal with it, similar kay mikasa. Your SO should know when to draw a line when it comes na sa mga friends with feelings heh.",
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"content": "May mga ganito palang lalaki, parang ito yung girl version na nagsasabing \"all men are trash\" but expect guys to treat her like a queen but we all know she's a bitch and not the good one 😂",
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"content": "I beg to disagree, you can also associate it to other genders. Moreover, men are trash.",
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"content": "Don’t downvote me into oblivion.\n\nBut, what good is there when people say men are trash? At a quick glance it’s a sweeping generalisation towards the male population, but we all know this isn’t accurate, and most likely isn’t your intent. Any gender is capable of all sorts of evil, after all. \n\nEnlighten me please?",
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"content": "It’s an attack to male supremacy which is something guys also enabled and enjoyed and made females suffer as shown in history. It should never be taken as a personal attack, but if the shoe fits...",
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"content": "Yeah that makes more sense. Still as a woman the “men are trash” line still doesn’t sit right with me.",
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"content": "Hala dami nyan sa r4r. Lol",
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"content": "Nagbabasa lang ako to see how desperate people nowadays to have fuck.",
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"content": "I remember, I posted there with a flair of *Strictly SFW* tapos may nag-PM sa akin if g ako sa sex on chat. Lol. Anyway, happy cake day sizt!",
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"content": "rif app doesn't display cake day. Thanks.",
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"content": "*sinuntok yung pader*",
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"content": "ta-tang ina talaga babe, pa-pasensya na \n\\* naiiyak \\*",
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"content": "kwentohan mo cya about other girls you are interested in.",
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"content": "yup! ganto ginagawa ng guy friends ko and vice versa. o kaya tawagin mo syang friend... \"friend, balita?\" = \"kamusta ka?\" hahaha",
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"content": "parang hindi ganun ka discouraging yung \"friend\", if the person is older mas ok kung tawagin mo na kuya or ate.",
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"content": "Mixed signals are NOs in disguise.",
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"content": "Couldn't agree more",
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"content": "Bat kasi ambilis bilis bitawan ng tao ung salitang “love.” When in fact, love is a process. And you have to go thru that process para malaman mong legit na nagmamahal ka. Connection could happen in an instant, but love? Love has to be developed.",
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"content": "Wordz 🔥",
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"content": "Una, wag mo isipin na kaya lang sumasama sayo eh dahil sa pera mo. Pangalawa, pumili ng topic na hindi pera related. Ayun. Haha.",
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"content": "I agree with the first point. I once accused my friend of being friends with me only because I help him with projects and assignments. Nasaktan talaga siya, tanong niya sakin \"Tinuturing kitang kaibigan. Paano kita tinitrato?\". Parang if I was in his shoes nakakapangibabaw sa pagkatao kung iniisip ng iba na mabait ka dahil may kapalit",
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"content": "Lucky you, the people that I thought of as real friends was only after my money and help. They needed sponsor for their gala, and so there I am pulling out money from my pocket. They needed some reviewers, there I am as well sharing PDF's of our lessons even tho it's considered illegal, risking it for the sake of friendship (I have different school from them so I have had subjects they have not yet taken). I would even receive late night calls from them asking for \"load\" kasi they're making their \"research\" daw. \n\n\nWhen they stopped receiving help from me, it was almost as if they didn't even knew me. Medyo masakit. Haha. Fk.",
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"content": "Bro, that’s fucked up. Naalala ko with my parents, they had this one business and they were forced to close it dati. Lol, pansin ko mga friends nila biglang nawala nalng ng parang bula... haaay. Ngayon kahit 2 lng yung friends ko, na consider ko sila as real ones. I hope you find real ones too bro. Ingat tayo with people...",
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"content": "I feel you. Toxic Filipino culture. Di ako panganay pero ako bumili ng bahay sa parents ko saka ako pa rin nagprovide sa kanila ngayon kahit may asawa na ‘ko. Dahil dito at sa ibang dahilan, ayoko na rin mag-anak. The cycle of poverty must end with me. For sure in their old age, sakin pa rin sila aasa.",
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"content": "Same same! Ayoko na rin. I was thinking hard before: \"Pano ko mabbreak ung cycle?\" Then days after days ng pagiisip it dawned upon me that di naman requirement ang maganak and at the same time mabbreak ko na ung cycle like a boss. Lol",
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"content": "Yes! Same thing. Not the panganay pero sa akin sila umaasa. My mom and grandma, sama mo pa mga pamangkin. Same realisation, never na mag anak. I’ll prepare for my retirement and never aasa sa anak or kamag anak. Pero sad to say kahit na sacrifice ko na pati lovelife ko for them,kinukutya pa din ako dahil ayaw daw nilang may “old maid” sa pamilya! Oh come on!",
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"content": "Kahit idonate mo ung isa mong kidney di pa rin sapat sa mga yan. That's what I've learned.",
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"content": "Same experience with my gf's family. Puro asa sa kanya kesyo siya yung may high earning job. Yung ibang kapatid niya nag-asawa kahit walang pera at pambuhay ng anak. Minsan binilhan ko pa ng diapers yung anak ng kapatid nya kasi naawa ako nung nakita kong bumibili ng tingi2x na EQ diapers. Shet ang kakapal ng mukha gumawa ng anak wala naman pambuhay, to think na nakapagtapos naman ng college so alam dapat niya yung practicality ng buhay.",
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"content": "I think its because of the way we were raised. Only a few can really stray away from the sex ed teachings. Also that almost everyone is a devout catholic, that they wouldnt abort. And no, adoption is not an option damn if youve seen the quality of adoption homes and not everyone gets adopted.",
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"content": "No idea if this is helpful, but it did work for some time in my case.\n\nPursue a passion, something that you really like to do (not something you took because of getting chances with women.)",
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"content": "oooh I can see the wisdom sa tip na 'to. Cool!",
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"content": "Thank you! And to add, having a passion project softens the blow of every rejection - you can redirect the frustration towards improving that project to your liking.",
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"content": "Kaya maraming babae na passion ang magmakeup or skincare or workout. Project nilang pagandahin ang sarili nila.",
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"content": "It's always the feeling of accomplishment, knowing that your efforts paid off.",
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"content": "Work hard. Improve yourself. Travel. Meet a lot of people. Enjoy your life. Value and love yourself.",
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"content": "paano mo malalaman pag ready kn?",
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"content": "Maybe if you’re not hung up on someone else anymore and you’re willing to risk getting hurt? Sorry, I’m not sure how to answer your question. I love love. I love being in love. I’m never not ready for love.",
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"content": "nice insight! :)",
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"content": "Alternate the use of left and right hands. Left-MWF, Right-TThS, Sunday-Rest",
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"content": "Kaloka! Hahahah",
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"content": "Agree! May nakachat ako recently, nag aayang mag Tagaytay. Sabi ko wag kasi hindi pa safe at baka marami pa siyanh maapektuhan. Sabi nia, okay lang daw yun kasi may alcohol naman daw at mask. I was like, tang*na, seryoso ka ba?!!! Blinock ko tuloy siya sa inis. 😤",
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"content": "May na-encounter din akong ganyan. Nag yayaya na mag coffee. Sabi ko hindi safe outside pero tuloy pa rin siya sa pag convince na okay lang naman. Haaaayst",
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"content": "Maiinis at madi-disappoint ka nalang talaga sa mga ganyang klase ng tao. Hayyy nalang talga. 🤦🏻♀️",
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"content": "Same gag\\* hahaha. Dito naman sa brgy namin araw araw na ulit nagbibidyoke mga kapitbahay sabay inuman tapos walang pake baranggay dahil parokyano nila ng magic powder yung mga kanto boys dito eh.\n\nKasambahay namin (which is kapitbahay din namin) angkulit din. Naghatid pa ng kamag-anak nya sa port sa may maynila tapos nilagnat plus ubo sipon after a day as in yung kaba namin intense. Yung ubo nya one time akala mo may TB na. Tapos sinuspend muna namin sya with pay, nagtampo pero sumunod naman. Pero guess what araw araw din fellowship sila ng mga chika friends nya dito hayup. \n\nClaim nya nung naka-usap ko one time eh nadadala naman daw sa steam bath yung bacteria\\*. Ayun jusko yung galit ko hindi sa kasambahay namin eh kundi dun sa mga pakalat ng pakalat ng kung ano anong fake news regarding treatment ng covid na kesyo dahon ng ganito ganyan gagaling ka na. Ode sana diba kung legit yung lahat ng ospital nagsteam bath at dahon nalang wala na lockdown lockdown!\n\n\\*Di po bacterial ang covid. Kaya nga po corona virus ang tawag.",
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"content": "Huehue. 'Yung kapitbahay rin namin ganyan, videoke tapos inom. Haaay.",
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"content": "I got catfished in a dating app 😂 so this guy has a really good looking profile picture and we matched. We kinda vibed and we started texting. He seemed pretty cool during this time until he started sending me subtle thirsty texts which I find really annoying. I’m straight-forward and I don’t have a filter so I was able to block this kind of advances. He still seemed pretty okay so I still talk to him, especially when I’m bored (I’m bad I know lol). Texts progressed into pictures (not nudes) and then one day, out of the blue, he started sending me pictures of himself. He. Looks. So. Much. Different. I asked him about it and he claimed that his profile picture was taken years ago. And I also asked about the dog and he said that he gave it away years ago. WTF. He then told me that he’s not really confident and he feels bad that he doesn’t meet the physical features that I like in a guy and so on and so forth. He also told me that rejecting him will bring down his confidence even more. Fucking manipulator move! So yes, I blocked him. \n\nYes, it’s probably ghosting but I really don’t like it when people try to manipulate me. I mean, who does?",
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"content": "Lol i got to talk to someone na he got catfished from his pov since when they met up, sobrang layo daw ng itsura sa sinend na photo. Parang it was taken like a decade ago lol so i suggest to do a videocall. This will be the confirmatory if you don’t want to be catfished",
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"content": "I try to meet people immediately. It’s way easier to decide if you meet them in person. With this one, I think I was extremely busy and whenever I am free, he’s the one who’s busy. Haha. I don’t immediately invest emotionally on people so it doesn’t really matter to me.",
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"content": "It’s good youre happy where you are now. But I dont think marriage should be antagonized like that? Ive known couples who kept their hobbies naman even after marriage hehe\n\nAt the end of the day, I guess it isnt just for everyone :)",
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"content": "either you have grossly misused the word \"antagonize\" which says you don't know what it means or you have completely missed the point of what the poster is trying to say. In which part of his statement has he became antagonistic? just because things don't align with your own points of view does not make it antagonistic. \n\nAnd in case you missed it, hobbies are not the main point of what he is trying to say. it was just an example of how people stop becoming \"people\" and end up becoming empty husks of their former selves. which I don't think is the main objective of getting married.",
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"content": "I meant, marriage doesnt always have to be viewed so negatively? Or rather, in a black and white manner na if u get married, u lose that sense of “self”. I agree it’s not the main objective of marriage either.\n\nI want to point out also how I said marriage is not for everyone hehe so if OP’s happy with his single life, it’s good.",
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"content": "there are two things that I would like to point out in what you said. first off, it was his personal take on the matter so it was never a \"black and white\" statement to begin with. he has merely pointed out observed facts from the people around him based on personal experience, and decided to share his thoughts. whether the matter holds true to others or not is another discussion on its own. \n\n​\n\nsecond, if you just read the post objectively, he never painted marriage in a negative light, but the people involved in said act. it's the despicable act of sucking the life out of your partner just so you could live off its convenience is the one thing he condemns! \n\nPlease know that I am not championing his cause in any shape, way, or form. but people who unceremoniously respond with an emotional outburst to a logically sound argument should be called out accordingly.",
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"content": "Oh. Im sorry you had to feel such outburst.",
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"content": "oh you don't have to be sorry at all. it's just something that I think we all should be checking ourselves with.",
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"content": "Yung manok ni daddy punyeta.",
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"content": "Yung FAVE anak ng dad mo? 🤣",
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"content": "Anyone who says money can't buy happiness doesn't know where to shop....\n\n>I’m jealous of rich people because they get to pursue their passions in life without having to work a grueling 40+ hours a week job literally just to get by.\n\nThat's a common misconception... rich people actually work more than just 40 hours a week to keep their business running optimally.",
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"content": "What about those cash grab youtubers who earns more than the average salary but only posts like once to thrice a week?",
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"content": "Well, kailangan din naman nilang mag-isip ng iko-content plus shooting and editing na rin.",
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"content": "By thinking you mean shop hauling, mukbang, reviewing items, playing games and partial nudity?",
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"content": "About this, I'm thinking that if more and more people start doing this and they all start getting millions of views there will be an inflation of sorts in the sense that the value of monetization is gonna go down gradually.\n\nI'm not sure if that makes sense but if you think about it, there is still a limit to how many companies and how much companies are willing to put into YouTube advertisements. No matter how high that is, eventually it may not be able to keep up with the number of contents with high amount of views.\n\nIf everyone starts making a bunch of vids with lousy content and as YouTube community grows and obtaining millions of views gets easier, the lower the value per view will get.\n\nYouTube is relatively new, sure it's been around for decades but compared to other industries that's been around longer, YouTube is still about to enter a phase of oversaturation and people who make lousy content and get millions of views are bringing it closer to that.\n\nI don't know much shit about how YouTube monetization works specifically so if anyone here wants to enlighten me please do.",
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"content": "Mag-aral ka muna",
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"content": "Says the person na masaagang lumandi. Lol",
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"content": "Shawshank Redemption, Interstellar, Stand by Me, Spirited Away, Truman Show, Fight Club, many more lol",
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"content": "I'm with you on Shawshank, recently watched Interstellar and immediately added it to my list. Haha",
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"content": "Both movies are amazing. I was a sobbing mess with Interstellar.",
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"content": "I feel ya. For me, it was the sense of wonder and existential dread that got to me. Hahaha the feels were great too.",
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"content": "Definitely. Space movies are awesome.",
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"content": "I feel ya. Tapos when you try to open up biglang matagal magreply or nakatulog or busy. Kaya wala as much as I want to share it ang ending ay nakekeep ko na lang sa sarili ko :(",
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"content": "When I tried to open up naman to strangers I got harsh judgements and called toxic lmao",
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"content": "I know the feeling OP! Just started to express myself to someone, sinendan ako ng quote about happiness by individuality. So sinabi ko na there is such thing as human principle for craving intimacy. Labo kasi eh.",
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"content": "Some people just wouldn’t understand what youre going through :(",
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"content": "Hi OP. Sorry to hear this. Sometimes, I also don’t respond to messages. Not because I don’t care. But because I’m also going through my own demons, and I just want to isolate from people.\n\nI hope you get the strength that you need to pull through.",
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"content": "Yes I get this a lot din that’s why I understand. It just sucks sometimes :(",
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"content": "Hi OP,\nAs a person who doesnt immediately reply to messages, let me just share that sometimes I feel so overwhelmed at work that I shut down once I'm off the clock. Maybe they're having a bad day or just want some personal time alone. Texting for me is just as tiring as talking to someone in person-- or even more tiring because I need to figure out how to communicate the tone, emotions, etc.",
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"content": "Exactly! Texting is actually more tiring according to my friend because it's difficult to depict emotions. My friend told me she'd rather have calls than text messages (or other messaging apps). And we are sometimes on the phone for more than an hour.",
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"content": "here i am struggling to find a job, and this is the first thing appeared on my timeline when i opened reddit aah shit..hahahaha\n\ncongrats!",
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"content": "Try mo na mag virtual job. I am not an expert, I can't even do HTML lol but I will try to answer your questions if you have any :)",
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"content": "kala nya cguro sa kusina punta mo for a snack.",
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"content": "Maybe. Kaya siguro sama ng loob nya kasi sa cr lang pala punta ko hahaha",
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"content": "To make sure you're safe, they watch your back. To them you're most vulnerable when pooping",
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"content": "Minsan antok na antok na sya pipilitin pa din nya bumangon para lang samahan ako 😆",
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"content": "Cats think their humans are stupid because they don’t “hunt” their own food 😂",
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"content": "I mean do you really want to keep talking to someone stupid enough to think you’re a dude in spite of you saying you’re not?\n\nIdk I’d count it as a blessing na lang...",
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"content": "No. Kaya I usually drop the convos, too. Once parang nag dududa sakin or something. I mean, I know catfishing happens a lot nowadays, pero I'm quite the honest person especially when it comes to stuff about myself. Unless need talaga mag white lies for security purposes. Thank you, though!",
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"content": "I get your frustration though! It’s hard enough to look for a connection then you have to deal with that too. Hang in there buddy!",
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"content": "Ang poop manageable naman as long as you pick the right litter sand, hindi yan babaho. Ang maganda pag pusa alaga, very low maintenance since siya na rin naglilinis ng sarili niya pati hindi kasing likot ng aso. Goodluck sa pag aalaga!",
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"content": "Yes, pero pede din naman itrain na magpoop sa inidoro tulad nung sa kakilala ko taray diba? 😂",
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"content": "Yes much better atleast wala nang gastos pag ganun hehe",
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"content": "Manglambing ka ng stray, matik lalapit sila sayo",
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"content": "True dami nyan sa mga schools",
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"content": "Hugs to all of us experiencing existential crisis 🤗",
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"content": "ohhhh yeah may term dito haha",
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"content": "🚩",
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"content": "Gusto ko lang talaga sabihin nararamdaman ko. DI ko alam kung ako ba yung may kasalanan. Feeling ko ang damot damot ko.",
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"content": "Huy hindi madamot friend. That's too much for someone who's earning more. And napakaliit na reason para pagawayan niyo yun. Pano na lang sa future, ikaw na lang laging magiipon? Definitely a red flag friend.",
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"content": "Nagaaway din kami dahil sa cheque. Yung savings account niya kasi hindi maapprove na maging checking account dahil hindi pasok sa maintaing balance withing 6 months dun sa banko, eh yung savings account ko pasok dun sa requirements para maging checking. Ang gusto niya mangyari savings account ko yung gagawing checking account tapos ako yung mag iissue ng cheque, babayaran nalang daw niya ako ng cash. Hindi ako pumayag tapos parang naguiguilt trip nanaman.",
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"content": "Nako miss. This really a red flag. If you don't want to run away then lets hope and pray na magbago sya or else mauubos ka pati laman ng bangko mo",
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"content": "6 digits income and still having hard time getting a 9k? Well bro.. 🚩🚩🚩you sure you need help than escape plan about this?",
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"content": "Di na dahilan niya kasi sakin kaya naamn niya bayaran sa next sweldo yung 9k. Ang naiisip ko naman kung kaya mo naman palang mag karoon ng 9k sa sweldo bakit ka pa mangungutang. Gusto niya kasi lagi instant gratification. \n\nDi na ako ngayon kinakausap. Feeling ko tuloy ang damot damot ko. Gusto ko na tuloy pautangin talaga ng 9k.",
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"content": "Kalma lang bro. Sorry but I have to be honest, medj crazy yang jowa mo. It has been done and let her have a little discipline herself. You only wanted her to be better. Makakaipon yan. And so she will learn to keep money para di siya mapraning. Basta ha. 🚩",
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"content": "ACtually ako yung babae, siya yung lalaki. hAHAHA. Oo ngae. gusto ko talaga matuto siyang mag manage ng pera niya. BTW 31 na siya ako 23 palang kaya medyo naiinis ako bakit hindi pa niya alam yung gantong stuff. Pero mahal ko naman siya, nagkakainitan lang kami pag usapang pera talaga.",
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"content": "Hahaha shet sorry. Funny to think talaga how those with less really got more. I mean.. yeah. Youre okay. Pero regardless sayo pa rin red flags namin. Bwahahaha! We will take you to the ship. Usually one issue leads to another. Sana maayos so that in due time you two would still have things to work together ♡",
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"content": "Oo ngae sana maayos pa. Medyo nakakapagod na din manermon. Magkaiba kasi kami ng view sa handling ng pera. hahahah",
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"content": "Hearts up OP. Tibayan mo puso mo and dont settle for future headaches ♡",
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"content": "Huuuuuge red flag, OP.",
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"content": "sadnu? Di ko alam kung paano ko sakany paparealize yung money management at yung delayed gratification. \n\nBTW 31 na siya ako 23 palang hahahaha. Senior na position niya sa industry namin.",
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"content": "Hirap naman niyan op pag mag-asawa na kayo.",
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"content": "lalo na kapag may conjugal assets na kayo, kung nabaon siya sa utang baka masama ka op",
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"content": "Mas bata ako sa jowa mo by a few years pero mahiya naman siya. 6-digit sweldo uutang pa sa mas mababa ang sahod ng 9k?\n\nBig red flag, and definitely not asawa material. Eww.",
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"content": "Mas malaki din kasi savings ko kaysa sakanya. Di pa kasi niya nabubuo savings niya. Basta nararamdaman ko ngayon ang damot ko. Naguguilty lang ako.",
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"content": "I'm 28 and wala akong trabaho since Feb, I still have some savings. \n\nPersonally, malaking kahihiyan para sa sarili ko kung sumesweldo ako ng ganyan kalaki at wala pa rin akong ipon. Ano ba pinag-gagastahan niya?",
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"content": "I’m married to a guy like your jowa. Please run as fast as you can.",
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"content": "Hay. Naiistress na ako sa away namin sa pera.",
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"content": "Mahirap talaga pag di kayo compatible lalo pagdating sa pagmanage ng finances.",
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"content": "I noticed Filipino managers love to use this concept as a way to bully you. Here in the US if your manager is a Filipino he/she would tel you “you should be grateful we hired you!”.",
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"content": "Napaka epal naman nyan. Sarap sampalin lol",
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"content": "Some people deserve to be ghosted and probably yung mga panay ang reklamo, won't even take the time to look at themselves and re-evaluate.",
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"content": "Hmmm true",
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"content": "It won’t end. And sa real life naman people come and go. How should this be different? We’re strangers talking online. \n\nParang ang bigat na requirement naman for someone to stick around ~no matter what~. Ghosting occurs kasi ayaw na tayo kausap. Isn’t it worse to be stuck with someone who doesn’t want to be around? \n\nYeah it sucks but develop din enough confidence to realise na ghosting is more about them—for being bad communicators, for not wanting to spend time together anymore—than you. It’s really not the end of the world if a conversation runs cold. Yeah sila favorite mo. Tapos? Naka pin na self-worth mo doon? Pano, sa sumunod sa kanila rin? And then the next person? And the next? See the pattern?\n\nDi kasalanan ng modern times at tech ang ghosting. Pinning heavy expectations on a single thing or person— that’s a problem as old as time. Tanong mo pa sa mas nakakatanda sa’yo. \n\nI’m a super average person lang and not much to look at. but you can bet your ass I wouldn’t engage with anyone na maraming hinanakit sa ghosting, or yung pa-deep agad. Ang impression sakin ng ganon self-absorbed at di good listener. \n\nDating sakin, di sya marunong tumaya. Kasi papasok pa lang, feeling nya lugi na sya.\n\nPS sorry ang haba but lord puro ghosting posts lately. This is my response to all of that.",
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"content": "I agree 100%! Dapat siguro meron ng Ghosting megathread. 😜",
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"content": "Daming standards \"is not exist\" naman ang grammar.",
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"content": "Baka kaya naghahanap ng teacher lol",
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"content": "Ewan ko ba. Nagsabi pa ng \"at least\" pero andaming demand. Tanga lang.",
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"content": "Kahit di pandemic, lagi talaga tayong may burden ☹️",
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"content": "tengene TRUE, lumala nga lang ngayon",
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"content": "If you have to ask it’s the latter I’m sorry to say.",
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"content": "Im wondering if its all in my head and im making things up or it really is that way haha sad lang",
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"content": "mas mura jumper",
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"content": "lmao!",
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"content": "I have cousin ganyan. Long term relationship. Busy with their own careers. As a person looking from the outside. I find it weird that they are not sweet or showy. Though I understand may tao tlga na ganon.\n\n35ish or more na din sila both. Tuwing mapaguusapan marriage. No comment lang sya.\n\nUntil one day, bigla nlang hindi nagparamdam. No texts calls Pati sa bahay or office pinagtataguan siya. \n\nSakit nun for my ate kung kelan 35 na sya saka sya iiwan. Nagpanic sya ng slight wala naman daw kasing lalake ang naghahanap ng older partner sa dami ng younger single girls sa pilipinas. \n\nNabanggit nya saken if maiibalik nya yung taon daw pala tinanong nya dati pa para di na syang oras nya. \n\nGood news is after a year of heartbreak. Naka hanap sya agad ng kapalit ayun 2 years old na anak nya :)",
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"content": "nicee happy for her <3",
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"content": "Gawa ka isa pang account tapos magpanggap kang babae tapos i-swipe right mo kapag lumabas na ang sarili mo. Hihi. Char. Hintay lang, may makakamatch ka rin diyan 😆",
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"content": "Malapit ko na gawin yan hahaha. Ilang buwan na pero wala talaga tang ina naman. Ano ba tong mukhang binigay saken hahaha",
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"content": "Mag face mask ka na lang sa profile mo para di kita buong mukha. Samahan mo na rin ng face shield.",
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"content": "Salamat sa idea hahaha sakto may picture akong ganon",
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"content": "I get it, but I think nagkaka problem lang dahil sa expectations natin. We can't really expect na every interaction we have with a person, no matter how good, is going turn into something. Sometimes a great conversation is just a great conversation. A connection doesn't have to turn into something more. I feel like we need to learn how to enjoy our time with people without expecting anything of it. Not everyone we meet is meant to stay or be a part of our lives.",
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"content": "Yes. I respect that we each have our own lives, but it'd be nice if we were let down slowly. \nAtleast maybe we'd have peace na we were not in the wrong or we are informed of mistakes that were made so we can change to be a better person pero that's just my take.\n\nI agree not everyone will stay but a nice parting would be nice.",
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"content": "I think issue parin with expectations. Kasi some people really don't think it's a big deal or that they owe you a goodbye or an explanation. Sometimes kasi yung akala natin na depth ng \"relationship\" isn't the same. Yung akala natin na something or genuine connection is just a normal/wala lang encounter for them. So naturally they don't feel any sort of obligation towards us. People just don't operate the same way. I think it would help if we communicated our expectation. Could be as simple as telling them to give you a heads up pag plano na nila mawala. Unfortunately kasi talaga, it doesn't naturally occur to some people.",
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"content": "Block the guy then tell his gf.",
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"content": "Hahaha agad agad",
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"content": "Maraming salamat sa pagbanggit ng mga hinaing mo. Valid ito. \n\nBilang graduate rin ng UP at guro ngayon sa isang SUC, yung mga ipinaglalaban ngayon sa social media ay umiikot lang sa mga mundo nila. Kakarampot lang talaga ang bumababa sa grassroots, at hindi pa iyon nagiging critical mass. Lobbying and advocacy work is good, pero ang tunay na labanan dito ay nasa mismong loob ng pamahalaan. Walang problema sa akin na maging maingay sa social media, karapatan ng bawat isa yan. But if you want to effect change, at the very least, you have to be in the system. There will be some caveats pero paunti-unti mong bubuuin ang advocacy mo sa loob.\n\nFor example, I am advocating for teacher quality. It's good to be vocal about it sa soc med and to educate people but I realized wala akong critical mass to really move for it. Then came the opportunity for actually creating a program for it. I joined that program-- nag-research, nagsulat, naghain sa DepEd and other key stakeholders. Voila, kakarampot man, may Philippine Professional Standards for Teachers na tayo.\n\nKaya nasasaktan ako every time kinukutya ang edukasyon natin. I know it's flawed but there are actual people like me who put all our efforts, energy, and even money to improve it.\n\n*Put action where your mouth is* \nKailangan ng Pilipinas ng magagaling na thinkers and managers. Hindi man malaki or grand ang position mo, you can be part of the change you're aiming.",
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"content": "Maraming salamat sa komento mo.\n\nNaiisip ko kasi, naninirahan sila sa maliit na \"bubble\" o high pedestal nila. Namuo na ang superiority complex nila to the point na nagiging batuhan na lang ng tae ang diskurso sa social media kaya sa edukasyon. They take in pride in being the \"yung mas nakakakaalam\" kaysa doon sa talagang lumubog sa masa. Nagiging gatekeepers sila ng knowledge at lumilitaw ang pagkaburgis nila at condescending attitude. They hate privileged people pero yung kung paano sila kumilos at magsalita, sobrang privileged ng attitude.",
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"content": "Yes, I understand this very well.\n\nThat's why I stopped engaging with people sa soc media. I have greater things to accomplish para mapaunlad ang bayan. Mas interesado akong marinig ang grassroots kase doon tayo makakakuha ng valid na hinaing at pangangailangan ng bayan. From time to time, I do voice out my frustrations sa pamahalaan kase I know na out of the line yung ginagawa (esp. the way they handle this pandemic). \n\n\nNow, I am fired up to create another proposal for proper citizenship/civics education haha.",
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"content": "7. Trillanes and binay",
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"content": "You read my mind kay Binay, thank you so much. Nagulat na lang ako at ang daming sumusuporta kay Binay eh ang daming ninakaw ng pamilya nyan",
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"content": "Baffled din ako that people would support Binay. Malapit sya sa tier ni Bong Revilla ehh, kaso since wala na sina Noy, di na sila nakasuhan masyado",
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"content": "I understand what youre trying to say, its annoying that activism has been made fashionable, it became superficial. I do not suppprt this administration, nor any past administration, I support good policy and polity and reject any i do not find beneficial. \n\nPeople who are being actvist because its cool and hip are the worse, they think they have the moral high ground because they read this and that, but they forget that many of this admins supporters arent as educated. \n\nThe thing that irritates me the most is that if you ask them why they think that this and that is wrong, they cannot tell you, they just think its cool, faux woke. They are no worse than blind supporters at times.",
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"content": "\"They forget that many of this admins supporters arent as educated\" - thank you so much for this. I am all for inclusive education para mas maintindihan nila kung paano ito makakaapekto sa kanila.",
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"content": "I get where you're both coming from, I really do. This had been my take ever since Duterte won and even during the drug war, unfortunately. *\"Teach them, don't antagonize them\"*.\n\nFast forward to 2020, this pandemic exposed the government even further than we even expected. They still don't listen, their supporters still don't listen. If not now, when? Yes, the anti-government people (a loud minority imo) may have a tendency to be obnoxious but considering everything that happened so far? I doubt that some people will ever really listen. People are dying left and right, we're running out of frontliners and hospital beds, we have billions worth of loans, we are jobless and barely surviving, and our territory is still being sold to China. What I'm saying is, this pandemic is \"the line\" being drawn that forced people to choose what they really believe and value.\n\nSabi nga, kung pagkatapos nito at fanatic ka pa rin, nothing in the world will change you. I think people are tired and past the point where they're still willing to teach. **People are way past angry and frustrated, just like when the other side was angry and frustrated and elected the \"totoong tao\" Digong Duterte as a protest vote against the \"disentes\" and \"daang matuwid\".** \n\nI'm not saying education is no longer important but there has to be a threshold when you realize that some people have zero receptiveness no matter what you say. And it's because some of them **really** believe that they are right, that you're the fake news and the troll, and that the values they care about (which are a complete opposite of yours) are the correct ones. Therefore, you're wrong, simple as that. Yung mga \"siguro terorista ka\" na banat? I think they really do believe that.\n\nIt's a combination of educational background AND more importantly, the clashing of values of liberals vs conservatives/ authoritarians vs libertarians, with the Philippines as a hodge-podge of cultural and political mess from decades/ centuries of various influences. As to who comes out on top, it's really just a cycle, tbh. Bonus reason is that everyone's at home and on social media, so that kinda amplifies everything.",
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"content": "Hi! Thank you for your take on the issue. Bali ang point ko lang naman is that kaya sila receptive sa mga bagay-bagay ay dahil hindi lamang sa hindi nila naiintindihan, kulang sila sa magandang edukasyon kaya di sila sanay sa mga ganyang usapan. They think na kung ano man ang sinasabi natin ngayon ay isa na namang korny na makabayang texto na pinapakain sa kanila. Kasi para sa akin, unfair din eh na kunyari kung hindi naman nakapagtapos ng pag-aaral, simple lang talaga kung mag-isip, walang conducive learning material like internet or gadget man lang, diba parang nakaasa na lang sila sa kung ano napapakinggan nila at di na sila maga-analyze sa mga nangyayari? Bali, pakiramdam nila inaaway natin sila. It's like talking to a child about this things, imbes na matuto sila, feel nila nanghaharrass lang tayo. Naiintindihan ko naman na talagang nakakaloka ang pagiging stubborn ng mga DDS friendship natin dyaan pero yung education kasi, hindi siya one time na uy nagbago na agad ang pananaw nila sa buhay because of a comment, a post, a lecture, or a pandemic, talagang kailangan tiyagaan talaga sa pagturo sa kanila. It involves letting them know na yung mga akala nilang katotohanan na matagal nilang pinaniwalaan at kinatandaan ay mali pala at buong buhay silang na nabuhay sa maling paniniwala. Lalo na sa mga matatandang yan, napakahirap turuan kasi nga nakatandaan nila at they will stand on it mamatay man sila agad.\n\nKaya napakahirap na proseso dahil iniiba mo din ang mindset nila. Pasasaan at darating din tayo sa magiging mas receptive pa sila. Kailangan tiyagain talaga.\n\nPero thank nga pala sa opinion mo and, pasensya kung yung reply ko ay walang paragraph break hahahahah",
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"content": "True, 100% sang-ayon ako sayo, pre-pandemic. I'm just saying na post-pandemic, medyo na lang haha. Yeah, patience pa rin hangga't kaya pero ang pinaka-solution pa rin sa hinaing mo ay itaas ang overall quality and access to affordable education ng pinas at ibaba ang poverty incidence. \n\n*Which is also exactly why ang hirap hindi magalit* kasi parang ang hopeless ng future ang pakiramdam kahit sa henerasyon pa ng mga apo natin. Sa sobrang dami ng pinatay, ikinulong, ipinabagsak, inutang, kinurakot, ibinentang isla. Or isipin mo kung doktor o nurse ka ngayong pandemic tapos yung DOH puro kapalpakan, tapos pagod na pagod ka na magsalba ng buhay. Tingin ko wala na rin silang paki sa masasaktang feelings ng iba, kung sagad na ang pagod at galit nila.\n\nPero kudos to you for bringing up a discourse like this.",
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"content": "Sana mabasa ng mas marami yung post na ito. Agree ako in all points lalo na sa number 1. Mayroon din kasing mali sa paglalahad ng mga facts yung iba, madalas **condescending** yung tono kaya sa halip na mabuksan yung isip ng mga pinagpapaliwanagan, mas lalong umiinit ang mga ulo nito. Naalala ko tuloy yung isa kong fb friend na kinukutya yung mga nagrereklamo na hindi pa makabayad sa meralco, kesyo meron namang online payment yada yada, dahil nga lockdown noon. Sana naglahad na lang ng steps kung paano nga makakabayad online para makita nung ibang hindi alam kung paano. Ganoon din yung ibang post na mga nagaaway na magkakapamilya. Alam na hindi magaling mag-ingles yung kapamilya pero kapag nakikipag-debate, english pa rin nang english. Paano magkakaintindihan?",
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"content": "Your last line! Yan yung sinasabi ko. English ng english, sa tingin ba nila maiintindihan sila. Maybe they could use simpler terms or simpler explanations kung bakit tayo as activists, gigil na gigil sa nangyayari. Again, education should be inclusive.\n\nMaraming salamat!",
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"content": "Ang pinaka-ayaw ko yung gagamit ng latin phrases/logical fallacy. As if nagmmatter kung 'ad hominem' or 'non-sequitur' or 'straw man fallacy' yung sinabi ng kaaway nila. \n\n**Person1:** Ad hominem yan! Bakit ka pa makikipagargumento kung ad hominem din naman ang atake mo?? \n**Troll:** La akong pake, pangit pa din mama mo. \n\nWhile pwedeng good yung intentions ni Person1, wala syang napala. Most likely, nainflate lang ego ni Person1 kasi 'napakita' nya kay troll na mas matalino sya and/or bobo si troll kasi gumagamit sya ng logical fallacies. Pero naeducate ba nya si Troll? Doubt it. \n\nDefeatist ba yung thinking na to? Possible. Pero ano ba ang alternative? Di pa ko sure. Pero I highly believe na hindi latin phrases yung way.",
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"content": "Atsaka, alam ba ng mga taong yan ang non-sequitur at ad hominem? Please. English discourse nga lang di pa maintindihan eh. Tiyagaan talaga sa pag-educate ng mga yan, matagal na proseso yan at unti-unti. Hindi yung papahiyain pa. Ano nangyari nung napahiya? Nagkaroon ba ng enlightenment? Naintindihan ba? Wala naman diba.",
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"content": "Side-stepping a little bit, your message would have been more effective without the pre-emptive messages: \n\n> I'm ready for my screenshots appearing on twitter and getting attacked for it. \n> I'll expect the twitter mob na i-cancel ako.. \n\nSounds too defensive and doesn't add at all to what you're trying to say. If anything, it just demonizes Twitter users into mindless slobs like our DDS friends. But I do acknowledge that those just show you ranting and emotions lang talaga.",
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"content": "Thank you for this. Kasi, parang ganyan din naman na papatunguhan ko ih :/ , anyway salamat, next time mas magiging straightforward na ako.",
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"content": "Finally, someone said it! Kakaumay yung hanap nang hanap ng jowa o kalandian, tapos magdadrama pag na-ghost sila. Ayusin muna dapat ang sarili. Maging complete at happy on your own. Nakaka-turn off kaya 'yung mga taong needy at desperate. Tapos tatanungin ang mga tao sa Reddit kung pangit ba sila, or may mali ba sa pagkatao nila kaya sila iniiwan. 🙄 \n\nSus, mag-self care muna, puwede ba! Tumingin sa salamin. Kung makita mo ba sarili mo, magugustuhan mo ba? Ayusin ang dapat ayusin. Huwag ipagdiinan na people should love you for who you are. Ano, kahit ang toxic mo, ineexpect mong magugustuhan ka pa rin? Jusko lang. Mabuhay sa realidad, utang na loob. \n\nAlso, nasa gitna tayo ng pandemic. Andami na ngang problema ng mundo, pero jojowain pa rin ang priority?",
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"content": "Sobrang nakakasawa kaya yung mga ghosting at hugot posts at screenshots.",
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"content": "Totoo, iyong mga videos though medyo nakakatawa pa rin hahaha",
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"content": "- You’ve dealt with abandonment in your childhood. You may have had a parent who wasn’t there when you needed it. \n- The thing that attracts you to someone in the first place is unlikely to make the relationship better. And sometimes, the very thing you were attracted to in the beginning is what makes the relationship difficult.\n- People who are unsure of how to take care of themselves emotionally will desperately reach out to someone else. They are constantly seeking approval and happiness from others.",
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"content": "Yeah, these are definitely reasons why people are easily attached but these SHOULDN'T be reasons why people should enter relationships or find kalandians. Because it will just basically amplify the issues they had to beging with. Don't burden the other person with all your issues.",
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"content": "With the salary you mentioned, you can move out and live in bedspace set-up, it is more like having the same living condition you have right now, but with other people, independence, and a fee.",
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"content": "I've thought about this but back then kasi I had an online job so I wasn't sure if kakayanin ko magwork pag ganun. I might try it after covid if I get a job that's far from here.",
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"content": "My biggest realization in life is my husband and I are a complete family. Due to this pandemic we realized we don’t want to bring another human being to this cruel world. We have been breadwinners all of our lives and haven’t really enjoyed the fruits of our labor. Instead, we can just focus on travelling, donating to/starting a charity and saving for our retirement.",
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"content": "Best of luck to your life po! 🥰",
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"content": "Pwede naman. Landi lang na hindi naconsummate.",
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"content": "Happy cake day!",
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"content": "Name a scam: \"wala naman syang balak sirain family nya, talagang fubu lang gusto nya\" \n\nLate bloomer ka nga kasi di mo pa ma-identify na malaking red flag to. You can have as many fubu as you want but don't go for married guys or those who are in a relationship. Respetuhin mo pa rin sarili mo. You shouldn't go that low.",
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"content": "Sabi nga din ng bestfriend ko, Dun ako sa 2nd kasi single at walang masasaktan. Ayoko man aminin kaso parang secretly nahuhulog ako dun sa first. Sino bang ayaw ng long term at seryoso 😞 parehas ko sila ka work, hindi ko alam kung paano iiwasan. Honestly kung maibabalik lang lahat hindi ko na gagawin to. Na pressure ako sa thought na kung kelan ako 30 saka ako single at walang sexperience, kahit nagka long term bf ako dati. Napatunayan naman nung ka fubu ko ngayon na siya nga nakauna. Hay. Sobrang gulo ng utak ko.",
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"content": "30 kana. Gosh. Get your shit together. Now isnt the time to make stupid mistakes dahil greater ang risks now. They wont see you as a late bloomer. Youre a grownass woman. Less ang tolerance ng tao sayo. Don’t be that teenage girl in an adult body.",
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"content": "😞 thanks. Gusto kong mauntog, at mag tino,pero pag andyan na siya, wala na.",
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"content": "choice mo yan. kahit iuntog ka sa konkreto di mo parin pipiliin maging tama. antayin mo pa talaga may mangyaring di kaaya aya. siguraduhin mo lang handa ka na someday malalaman ni wifey tas icacallout ka sa socmed at sisiraan ka.",
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