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[ { "content": "... which is why the safest route is to confirm whether or not they are just using this fancy word hyped by the Internet. Simply asking them what the term means will usually reveal their true identities.\n\n\n\n\nI've had multiple conversations that went on like:\n\n> Me: \"_Ah, sapiosexual ka? Ano ba 'yon? Lagi ko kasing naririnig 'yon._\"\n>\n> Them: \"_Wala. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA._\"\n\n\n\nAnd when asked what they would like to talk about, they just say \"_Anything_\", \"_Random_\", \"_Anything under the sun_\". You asking me why? I think it's because they lack knowledge on anything substantial. And one could never be a sapiosexual if they don't have any sort of deep understanding on any topic as they will never be able to engage in meaningful conversation with anyone.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same goes for those who require “deep convos only”, as what u/fernpot mentioned in one of her comments under her own post.\n\nEh, how deep do you actually want to go ba? And how deep is *deep* for you anyway? Kasi it varies from person to person, and one of you might end up disappointed in the long run because you set higher expectations than the other. You dive into the conversation expecting an anglerfish only to resurface with a herring. \n\nOP has a point re: people who value quality convos. But maybe ease up on the usage of the term *sapiosexual* kung sa huli, (1) small talk lang din pala kaya mong i-offer, and/or (2) you’re not entirely sure of the word’s meaning.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That was my point talaga. Ease up on “sapiosexual”. The word called and it’s tiredt and would like to take a break fr personal ads. \n\nOf course smart people are attractive. Intelligence is downright sexy and I’m a firm believer that conversation counts as foreplay. But yun nga LOL if you self label talaga. \n\nDo sexy people label themselves as sexy? Do smart/truly hot ones?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Maybe they do? Hahah!\nWould be interesting to put in a numerical value on it din.\nLike say:\n“i’d consider myself an 8.5/10 while wearing a suit, and a 6.33/10 sapio from Mondays through Thursdays, asn 9/10 sapio on Fridays and the weekend”. :))", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Nakipag break sa chat tapos gusto ng closure hahaha gago", "role": "user" }, { "content": "For some reason tawang tawa ako sa reply mo hahahaha", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "INTP, don't mean to be a buzzkill though but this is another form of glorified horoscope and has been disproven several times. Fun pa din pero should not be a basis for major decisions, and should not define other people. \n\nIt is too binary without respect to the complexities of personality and behaviour.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "INTJ here and I wish you can preach it in the INTJ sub. Grabe ang stuck up nila doon. Mas okay pa ang INTP.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Well the \"J\" for INTJs works then? Jk. Let them. They'll soon realize labelling themselves and confining themselves within a 4 lettered box limits their world.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I used to like the sub but it has gone to shit because of some close-minded and edgy posts by I guess, mostly teens lile INTJs are emotionless robots...just too pretentious imho.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Im against his attitude. Grabe manlait as a joke pero pag sya nabiro pikon naman. And di deserve ng mga pinoy yung movies nya hehe", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Namiss mo ba si Tado?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Mismo!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Baka naman joke lang yan, andami pwedeng pag tuunan nang galit sa mundo haha. I think people like this tend to value relatable experiences more than actual science. Similar din naman sa mga taong nauuto ng mga news articles dahil marunong lang sila gumamit nang browser. \n\nAng galit natin sa ignorance and misinformation ay hindi dapat directed sa mga biktima nito, kundi sa mga gustong magpalaganap nito at gustong gamitin ito sa makasarili nilang motibo.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Preach it, sister.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "stop thinking relationships just magically last years without compromise (and, yes, negotiations.) c'mon, people, adjustments are HEALTHY!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ofcourse comprise is important and some negotiations but I believe not to the point of pushing yourself too much to that person who doesn’t love you anymore 🙂", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "True", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Parehas tayo.\n\nMahilig ako mag-kalikot ng gadget at computers. Pero pag nakalikot ko na, nawawalan na ako ng interest. Hindi naman practical bili ako ng bili. Sinubukan ko mag video games, pero after 20 minutes, wala na ako interest. Ganun din sa movies at books.\n\nParang may hilig ako sa photography, pero sa bukid ako nakatira at wala naman masyadong interesting sa bayan namin. Kaya kung chance ako lumuwas ng Mania. Sinusulit ko yun ko yun pag kuha ng pictures.\n\nLumaki ako sa US and nandun ang friends ko. Kakabalik lang namin four years ago dito sa Pinas, hangang ngayon wala parin social life. Yun mga pinsan ko, either may trabaho o may batang inaalagaan.\n\nDinadaan ko na lang sa YouTube, Reddit, Facebook, at Twitter yun boredom ko. Pag wala ng fresh content, nagwawalis at lampaso na lang ako ng bahay, kahit di pa masyado marumi. \n\n\nPero ngayon, nanood ako ng tutorials sa YouTube kung paano mag restore ng mga lumang pictures. Kung marunong na ako. Pwede kong gawing business. Para may pang travel. :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "This sounds wholesome :)", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Maybe it's their way of coping? There are people who handle grief as if nothing ever happened. Work can distract them from thinking such heavy thoughts.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "true", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "We had an officemate who was shot because of a mugging incident. Hospital pa lang andun na yung team niya and the rest of our department asked for updates kung ano kalagayan niya. Some of us even donated blood para lang ma operahan siya agad2x but sadly he wasn't able to make it. For the rest of that week his team managed the preparations for his wake kasi his parents weren't there yet (their family is from Mindanao and he was working alone in Cebu). The rest of our department dedicated a day to visit his wake, and some of us even went along sa burial niya. I guess depende lang talaga yan sa culture ng company niyo. We treat each other like family kaya siguro ganun2x kami pag nag care sa officemates.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "True. It's not that we don't have a heart. One colleague died here in the office as well. Not work related and cause of death ni kuya. He had cancer developed through shit. He's lifestyle suck WAAAAAY back. Anyway, when we knew he had cancer and is not going well, we had fund raising activities for him. Almost everyone supported. He was given few months to live. But he survived for more than a year! \n\nWhen he died, many mourn. We even have a montage for him. Every year he is remembered because the fund raising activity is named after him. The funds goes to other colleagues who are in need.\n\nSo yeah. Hindi lahat pareparehas. My faith in humanity is still strong.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Yup, reddit PH population is composed of:\n\n* mostly depressed IT guys (probably virgins)\n\n* twitter sjw's (most likely \"middle-class\" katipuneros, or the tiger who insists on the label \"big 4\") \n\n* secretly horny christian girls (the ones with Corinthians in their fb profiles, and most likely a live.love.laugh hopeless romantic)\n\n* dota/lol computer shop boys\n\n* cod/halo overweight weeb gamers\n\n* mlm gym buff r/phinvest titos\n\n* and my personal favorite, the most fascinating online species for me: *the hubadera walrus*\n\nThe DDS minority here are most likely boomer OFW's. Boomers are the ones with a higher chance of being a DDS since all they have, and know, are Facebook and YouTube. And they lack the technological prowess to discern information that's easily available to them.\n\nThe misinformed DDS are victims, too. Sjw's who think about \"disowning\" their parents are a bunch of arrogant, impatient people. The real problem they should be directing their anger to are the paid DDS trolls.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Wow you really thought this through! So which one are you? /S", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "#I'm Chuck Fucking Santos\n\nBut in female form.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "So si Charo Santos?", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "It was around 3rd year college. I just got into\nA relationship and finals were approaching. All the stress that lead up to the finals accumulated and i was just a ball of stress. My girlfriend and I were on bad terms cause I was always on the edge and just rubbed me the wrong way. Sometimes i just go off cause of the littlest things. Anyway, fast forward to Calculus finals my friend since freshmen year, lets call her D, sat next to me before the test. Something about her seemed different that day, her hair looked extra nice ormmaybe shes using a different lipstick idk what but she looked stunning that day. I couldnt stop admiring her in my head. As the exams started i look over to my right and just admired how cute she looked when shes trying to think. 30 mins later into the test im stuck on a cerain question and suddenly my head fills up with everything that stressed me out, school, family, girlfriend etc. She caught me looking at her and we locked eyes for a moment. It was then, without even uttering a word she knew, she bit her lip and bent over and moved her long and smooth arm revealing the answer to number 75. It was D. All of the above. Goddamnit i knew it. And that was the story of how I cheated", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Haha got me. Great read", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I heard someone hooked up with someone and fucking cried while having sex. Woman doesnt want any of that drama so she ranted all about mental issue guy he had sex with. Now shes making a disclaimer that she doesnt want to have sex with men who have mental issues. Who's the asshole? You tell me.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "wat da fuck is dis. This is all so confusing.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "https://www.reddit.com/r/alasjuicy/comments/epssp2/finally_last_night_was_my_first_hookup_from/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Isn't that how we form a relationship nowadays? Dates, then hookup a few times, then we either get bored of each other or we magically upgrade to something more serious and committed. Or can we only form serious relationships outside of the internet? \n\nHow do I even know that a guy wants a serious relationship with me? When I show him my unfiltered thoughts and personality and he doesn't leave? Haha there should be like a manual for dating in our generation, I'm still confused and shit.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I'd say it's also the same back then. You'd meet people at bars and clubs, hookups, date all those stuff. Also a friend of a friend kind of stuff. It's just that our meeting place now is way more convenient, you could be shitting right now while posting you want to meet up someplace and fuck or something. I'd say it's easier to know their intention back then, maybe, I don't know, because you are actually seeing the person move and talk.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Not to be a debbie downer but I heard a lot of calls from Mo's podcast from women who married japanese guys. All of them migrated in Japan so they can build a family there with their husband but most of them had a hard time and their situation got worst. The most common issue is that their husband is so \"workaholic\" that they don't have time for their wife and even their kids. Most of them plan to return to the Philippines because of the situation which took a toll on their mental health.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "There’s still GTWM? Damn it has been almost a decade now", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yeah, S6 na.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Did your husband give consent to your online hubadera hobbies?", "role": "user" }, { "content": ">your \n\noh", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "If I can be frank with you, Ija, you sound like you’re blaming your marriage for all the sadness and bitterness that you’re feeling.\n\nIf I get it correctly, these things seem to be what’s causing your problem:\n1) your visa is taking some time to push through\n2) you’re still stuck in your IT job\n3) you’re in an LDR\n\nNone of whuch has to do with your marriage. If anything, your marriage seems to be a solution to these three things in that:\n1) you’ll get your visa BECAUSE you’re married to a Japanese guy\n2) you’ll have the option to quit your stressful job when you move to Japan\n3) LDR, I assume, has been your arrangement even BEFORE you get married. So, if anything, your marriage solves this, but is being held up by other things.\n\nSo, why would you fight with your husband over these things? What is it exactly that you expect from him?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "There are so many things i just didnt elaborate here because of it's just too private. I'm not getting enough emotional support from him because he doesn't know how to comfort generally.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ah, have you tried talking to him specifically about your love language and what he needs to do to emotionally support you?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Would not go on a second date with a guy/girl that associates me with sins/sinning lol 😂", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Definitely true!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Eat more fiber OP. Ang sarap kaya ng pakiramdam mag push out ng isang solid na shit. Best shits I've had nung nag meal prep ako ng laing for the whole week. Tmi pero I stand by what I said HAHA.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I agree balance diet is the way to go bro!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "They have their own definition of \"justice\". Matagal na yan. Kahit sa mga groupchat nila malakas sila mangpower trip. Hinahayaan lang din nila mangharass mga friends nila pag di rin nila type yung binubully. Puro chismis rin pero syempre lahat sila malinis. Yuck. \n\n\nIt's been years. Wala pa rin pagbabago.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "/r/sad", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Here's a sneak peek of /r/sad using the [top posts](https://np.reddit.com/r/sad/top/?sort=top&t=year) of the year!\n\n\\#1: [Doctor crying behind a hospital after not being able to save the life of a 19 year old boy](https://i.redd.it/1zgv4qsrgnt21.jpg) | [49 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/sad/comments/bfr2cq/doctor_crying_behind_a_hospital_after_not_being/) \n\\#2: [Maybe if](https://i.redd.it/ftk7pftph1z21.jpg) | [35 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/sad/comments/bq981a/maybe_if/) \n\\#3: [hAhAAHAHa](https://i.redd.it/7v5wn6xcrxp21.jpg) | [37 comments](https://np.reddit.com/r/sad/comments/b8ql4t/hahaahaha/)\n\n----\n^^I'm ^^a ^^bot, ^^beep ^^boop ^^| ^^Downvote ^^to ^^remove ^^| [^^Contact ^^me](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=sneakpeekbot) ^^| [^^Info](https://np.reddit.com/r/sneakpeekbot/) ^^| [^^Opt-out](https://np.reddit.com/r/sneakpeekbot/comments/ciakte/blacklist_vi/)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "The pace of online dating is honestly pretty fast—I guess that’s why it’s shallow. People go for what’s visually appealing to them, secondary yung lalim. I still think luck is a factor. I’ve met 2 people online (thanks reddit) and 1 was a miss for me, mostly a personality clash lang naman. I’m not on dating apps though, I think mas lalong mabilis masyado yun for me. \n\nLooks are one foot in the door/attractive bait, but utak and ugali are the one true hook. I hope you find your person, OP. \nIt really would be nice to be a choice and not just an option in these kinda fast times.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I am in the edge of giving up online dating, to be honest. \nThank you, you too goodluck to us!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "This is just my mere assumption regarding people who are failing after tons of dates, so don't take my word for this. \n\nMaybe, it's about your perception on possible partner and ideals you are looking for? People are unconsciously choosing people with the same qualities and characteristics over and over again, yeah, they may be this profession, that profession, but looking it at the deeper level, there are and will be similarities they are not aware of.\n\nAnother possibility is someone's way of looking a relationship. I tend to see that most of young ones tend to have mindset of ideal ones, like being the first and last While there's nothing wrong with that, reality isn't that nice to everyone, so it's not surprising if one's first experience is a failure and life changing, most of the time on a negative way. \n\nWhile people who are on the age of mid 20's to 30's are already being aggressive, since they tend to think that time is running out for looking on their potential partner. Seeing their colleagues, friends, and the social world, already achieving and meeting their long term SO's isn't helping at all. \n\nI don't know OP, pero in my perception, 15-16 failed dates is not being unlucky, since there's an unknown factor that is influencing for you to get the same results over and over again.\n\nIf I can suggest a thing, try to reassessed and do a critical and deep analysis on those dates, while knowing yourself by trying to see it on the other person perspective", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I don't know what to say...but I think you're right in everything you just mentioned. I'll keep this in mind. Thank you thank you <3", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "The target audience of Wowowin or even the previous Wowowee are the poor and the elderly. It's their own entertainment and they still hope Willie can give them free money. Pang masa talaga si Kuya Wil at hanggang nagbibigay siya ng pera, may mga tagasubaybay pa siya.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ito na lang yun. It's not for us. My grandma adores him. How generous he is, how handsome, how funny, etc. Pero kasi yun lang talaga ang napapanood niyo. Most of the time tulog siya and chika-galore sa mga kapitbahay. She's loyal to Will.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Aren't all live shows sa Philippines ay cringe worthy? Like eat bulaga and Showtime din. 😅 Haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ui there's gold in jose's humor in eat bulaga! 🙂 and you also have to admit it's a work of genius to have lasted this long. I think the show is older than i am. ✌️", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "nakakatawa yung situational comedy niya ngl. and that damn clip na nahulog siya sa ilog twice iirc hahahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "+1 dun sa nahulog sa ilog hahahahahahaha. I feel bad for laughing kasi ang dumi ng tubig :((((", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Naalala ko yun. Natataea tuloy ako ngayon", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Yung permanent bad breath... di na din ako magsisipilyo para quits", "role": "user" }, { "content": "HAHAHAHAHAHA", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Dress whatever way you want that makes you feel beautiful. Fuck whatever anyone else thinks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thank you girl 🤗😭", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Herd mentality. Pinoys are incapable of thinking beyond the herd. They want to fit in. They want to be accepted. Pinoys are sheep.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "This. A little unpopular opinion and you'll see yourself down way below. No reason to counter argue, since results will still be the same anyway.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "We have a ref in the office pantry. I like drinking ice-cold drinks (kahit water lang, pero mostly for DIY milk teas) so I bought and put an ice tray in the freezer.\n\nAll was fine and dandy until one day, the ice cubes kept being used and wasn't even replaced (i.e., di nilagyan uli ng tubig para mag-yelo ulit). The first time it happened, pinalitan ko lang and wasn't even mad about it. But it kept happening so much that when I wanted ice cubes, wala na akong makuha. :(\n\nOkay lang naman if my officemates wanted ice cubes, too. No biggie. But at least have the decency to put water back in the ice tray you just used.\n\nI had salt in my drawer (among other condiments). I put a LOT of salt in each of the slots(?) and waited for the culprit to react.\n\nA lot of people complained, some even got mad at me for putting salt. Lol", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Please put laxatives next time", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Work of the devil", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "\nPenetration is not required in rape", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Serious question: would staring/oogling at someone count as assault?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Hmmm i’d use sexual harassment as it is the broader term pero yep, you can be penalized for staring/oogling under the ‘Bawal Bastos’ Law. https://www.google.com.ph/amp/s/www.philstar.com/headlines/2019/10/28/1964058/implementing-rules-bawal-bastos-law-signed/amp/", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I don’t think it’s prosecutable based on that law?", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Finding a job as a (frankly below-average) fresh grad from a top university.\n\nYung expectation sayo ng magulang mo + yung tingin mo sa sarili mo + yung perceived expectations sayo sa magiging work mo, nagco-conflict. Hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "tangina same parallel universe ata to ikaw ata ako hahahahahahahaha anyway, goodluck saatin", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "what if i actually tried my best when i was in college? biggest what if ko yun. im actually a smart guy. but i enjoyed a lil bit too much. sayang haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "May I ask what your situation is now?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Im doing good now. Im a commercial pilot. Siguro kung nag tino ako before, nasa airline na ako ngayon. Mga kabatch ko kase mga “sir” ko na. Gets?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I see. I think you’re still in a good situation, if not great. I know it’s easier said than done but don’t think much about how ahead they’ve gone. Cheers!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yeah. But i couldnt take back the disappointment of my family which i think is truly the reason may gantong feels ako. I know naman we all have our own timelines pero diba? Biruin mo dati kong mga kainuman, ka copyahan na unahan na ako. As a man, we have that pride eh. Ewan maybe thats just me", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Everyone is underpaid here in general. They don't give importance sa mga nasa science, ganun. Engineers, doctors, etc. :(", "role": "user" }, { "content": "True, cadets and entry level engineers here are just a biiit above the minimum wage.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Bakit naman kadalasang tipo ng lalake ay “chinita”?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Bam. Nice one", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "A lot of people say Bench but beware OP, they have this habit of producing perfectly good essentials and then stamping some stupid BS on it lol. They'll make a perfectly nice collared shirt, for example, and then put a checkered pattern on the sleeves or a lion (their logo?) on the chest. \n\n\nOne brand that's often been called a cheaper Uniqlo is the Baleno brand that SM carries. Slightly lower quality but it's noticeably cheaper. Fair trade. Be warned though that I'm a guy, haven't had a look at the women's line- -but all clothes are unisex if you can pull it off. \n\n\nIf you wanna spend more, there's MUJI of course lol. \n\n\nI know H&M gets a bad rap but I find their basics ok enough. Aside from that, do have a look at Giordano as well.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Not really a fan of Bench because like what I mentioned in my comment above, the quality of their clothes are sub-par. 😅 Okay lang sana if they're low-priced but I noticed these days nakikipagsabayan na rin ang prices nila sa Uniqlo, H&M, etc.\n\nMuji naman for me is overpriced.\n\nI'll check Baleno. :) I see they have good plain shirts perfect for casual days. Maybe I'll try some.\n\nWill also check H&M. Haven't tried pa their basics line but the few I own from the brand lasts din naman.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Penshoppe is better than Bench.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I've been with my wife for 22 years with the last 14 as husband/wife.\n\nEarly in my relationship with her, the things I liked the least were often things that I struggled to communicate well about. Like, I'd feel trapped by the obligation to speak with her everyday, but I didn't know how to bring up my feelings so I just tried to live with that aching feeling of claustrophobia that would seep in every once in a while. \n\nAround the time we got married, I started to notice that being in a relationship sort of \"clipped\" the ends of potential adventures. When I was younger, I could go out with friends, meet a group of people, and spend the night following that group to new places/experiences. I realized that that was now not the case.\n\nNow, around the time when I've been married almost two decades, I realized that the feelings I had in the above paragraph were also related to my inability to talk to my wife openly about my feelings for fear of angering/disrupting the vibe. And the realization that all the problems that I've ever really had in the relationship are related to issues that I seem to have a hard time talking about.\n\nI've really tried to be open/honest these past few years, and it has done wonders for my relationship with my wife. We weren't going through any rough patches or anything, but just being able to openly talk about my feelings about having to call and check-in with her on a night out, and then to talk in a mature way with her about her needs in that situation and my desires is just like... amazing new ground for me.\n\nCommunication... it's a hell of a drug.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "This is why communication is very important to every relationship. Idk why some guys don't emotionally open up with their SO. The least i like about being in a relationship is this not being transparent to each other. If communicating to your SO on a daily basis is such a dragged, then tell them. I'd appreciate honesty any day than being unaware of your pent up emotions. Just a thought. Peace.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Fear of intimacy, trust issues. All these traumas are derived from their previous experiences they had with other people. It takes courage to be vulnerable with someone you love.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "If that's the case, it also takes the right person to be that vulnerable. Still, u have to let your SO know even just a gist of it about whatever frustrations you're going through. It is unfair that you're struggling all those issues alone not really good for ur mental health.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Apparently, it is easier said than done. How to determine the right person entails a huge risk. You would either be embraced for being vulnerable or be pushed away for they cannot handle your vulnerability and that would mean they are not yet ready. But it is still worth trying if you've got the determination to show your colors and intentions. \n\nLove does not hurt but the anxiety of getting hurt in the case of being vulnerable can hurt if you focus on that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "* Don't be a know-it-all\n* There is a thin grey area between being friendly with the boss and being a suck up\n* No one is better than you, nor you to them\n* Never stop learning\n* Office politics is a thing. Deal with it.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ano yung office politics?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Sportfest.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "_", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I'll keep that in mind", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Whatever you do, don't get persuaded to do networking!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Oh my God yes! Please refrain from joining Multi Level Pyramiding Schemes. Try going to r/AntiMLM to know what it is about.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Most of the time, it's better to be alone than be with people who do not understand you di ba?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Aye", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Yung guy na naghahanap ng banyo para makiligo, kasi nawalan daw ng tubig sa kanila.\n\nLaftrip gagu.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " [https://www.reddit.com/r/phr4r/comments/ex7whe/28\\_m4b\\_male\\_for\\_banyo\\_cubao/](https://www.reddit.com/r/phr4r/comments/ex7whe/28_m4b_male_for_banyo_cubao/) \n\nhe also did the M4T, male for takure and other funny posts from his other accounts. when it's weird and funny, it's him.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "WTF. HAHAHAHAHA\n\nCheck out the profile. It's crazy! Hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "https://www.reddit.com/u/natzcmxvi?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share\n\nAlso the cereal sa food court,tumbang preso at Chinese garter", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Gold mine. Hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "He's cool hehe", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "He seems very bored. Haha", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Curious, why is it so important to you that you’re labeled as asexual?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "not really i just feel wronged. it doesnt really matter now. but those guys are just so aggressive about it.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Well, at least you addressed the feeling. Now you know, there's nothing wrong about it. Right?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "No need dear. Men don't really care about the color. The fact that they can see your boobs, believe me they're already grateful for that.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Medyo naiinsecure talaga ako maybe because I used to watch porn a lot haha! Thank you for this :)", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Porn is not real life sweetie. They set an unrealistic standard, not just to women but also men. They're professionals and have a bunch of stuff done to them. Do you know that there's a software used for porn designed to just lighten assholes for scenes?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I didn't know about the software pero I'm aware na they are doing something to hide the imperfection ng skin. You know what's funny, I'm almost 30 and still insecure of my body.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "It's time for self acceptance, we're all about body positivity.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": ">3. Pag lumala yung mga away dito sa sub ilolock ko na lang etong sub.\n>\n\nI suggest blocking those users who escalate trouble rather than locking this sub :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That’s what I’m doing currently. However if shit will escalate to a point na I can’t do that it’s lockdown time\n\n1.Why not get other mods?\n\nI don’t have the time and patience to vet applicants.\n\n2.Why not hand over the sub instead?\n\nMy sub, my rules. This used to be a barren sub but people for the lack of a better term squatted in the sub after a certain someone advertised it.\n\n3.Why are you a selfish SOB?\n\nCapitalism ho!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Kumikita ba ang moderator kapag madaming members and engagement ang isang sub? curious lang", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Kung kumikita ang mods eh di sana active ako mag moderate and promote sa sub.\n\nSo yeah, nope.\n\nKaya nga self moderate na lang kayo mga d00ds", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "May scandal dati and /r/skincareaddiction about mods attempting to profit over the entire userbase. It can happen, but not directly through reddit. The most you get here sa subreddit is statistical data on visitors. Just try to make your own subreddit and you'l see what I mean, /u/Colencence", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "> Yung kalat nyo sa ibang sub, especially sa phr4r iwanan nyo nalang dun. Walang nangyayaring mabuti sa spillover ng kalat from what I’ve seen.\n\nIto talaga yun eh. Mga nagsusub ata dito karamihan galing sa r4r kaya pati ibang posts iisa lang halos meaning ng topic. Even the OP, kapag removed sa r4r dito dinadala. lol", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Because this annoying phr4r mod keeps advertising it.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Simple, phr4r is not for that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "This belongs to r/NiceGuys lmao", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I dunno man, i mean with the recent ph dramas, we have to find a solution and I think total nerds are the solution. shunning the musclebound jocks who can get laid anytime and choosing the \"nice guy\" megavirgin would help turn the tide against these fbois.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Women dont owe u sex or a relationship or anything bro. Just be a nice person for the sake of being nice.\n\n\"you're going to go through life thinking that girls don't like you because you're a nerd. And I want you to know, from the bottom of my heart, that that won't be true. It'll be because you're an asshole.\"\n-The Social Network, 2010", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I get that, though the message was not intended for me, but for one other redditor. I was just concerned about one redditor who is looking for fuccboi signs and stereotypically it's the jock types, the kingbadger-lookinh fools who would just go for a fucc and then ghost like casper. \n\nso I thought that if the opposite of a fuccboi is a nerdo, then maybe I may have solved her problem. not exactly the friendzoned friends, but just a socially awkward neckbeard would do. all that's needed to be done is for her to settle and she's set. no fboi, no drama ala skusta leak, just a guy who hangs on to her coattails and love. Problem solved?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "fuck this sounds like satire.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "While I might agree to your sentiments there are things that we have to be mindful of din pag ganito. A dumb question for you might not be dumb for others. Obviously yung sa example mo, dickswab is just grandstanding pero there are also people who genuinely can't comprehend as quickly as you. And if ganito yung attitude ng mga tao sa paligid nila, mas lalo silang mahihiya to ask their \"dumb\" question even if their intentions are sincere. Kaya ibang speaker they would say there are no \"wrong questions\". \n\npero i wholly get your point, don't generalize lang that people who ask dumb questions are dickswabs. maybe the more apt title would be \"Stop tolerating assholes \"asking dumb questions\" for the sake of asking. ;) nakakairita rin mga ganun, yung nagpapatagal lang ng meeting dahil gusto lang sya marinig magsalita kahit di kelangan.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "And for those who asks \"dumb\" questions shouldn't be afraid to ask those questions if you genuinely don't get a certain topic or point.\n\nMinsan kasi natatakot tayong magtanong kasi tingin natin magmumukha tayong tanga but for me it's better to look tanga now than later. I also ask questions on a point I want clarification para mas malinaw lang sa isip ko kasi baka mali ako ng intindi. And aminin natin kahit na sobrang obvious at perfectly laid out and well explained ang sinabi sa'yo we have those moments na hindi natin yun maintindihan. But if they're doing it on purpose then call them out, they're assholes.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I for one would rather have the people I work with ask dumb questions than do something dumb lol.\n\nIn a business meeting where you could get lost in the details, math and processes of achieving the goal, I'd be more comfortable if people confirm by asking questions.\n\n>BASTA ISIPIN MO KUNG DI KA MAGMUMUKHANG TANGA SA TANONG MO.\n\nOP's quote right here is quite distasteful IMO. As a business owner the way I see it is, if an employee puts his pride before asking a question, it might increase the chances of failure, it doesn't benefit the company/business at all.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I stop talking to people when the talks becomes a routine of *Good morning/afternoon/evening*, the *musta ka?* and the *anong gawa mo?*. I'm not saying that we should skip the pleasantries but after that, what now?\n\nI have people who I used to talk to everyday and would still talk to when I or they remember me and the conversation still flows naturally and it's not stuck sa pleasantries. Pleasantries are sometimes skipped na nga kase we start na with *Hoy!* or *Psst!*. Pero there are some talaga na can't hold my attention na. I don't have the patience for small talks kase.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hoy!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Hoy ka din oi!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Same experience. I think it's because of my short attention span caused by (too much) social media use. Hirap na ako magbasa ngayon ng libro unlike before na kahit buong araw akong magbasa, ok lang at nare-retain. Maybe try to sharpen the skills you have again and read books to refresh your mind.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same. Hirap na rin ako magconcentrate sa pagbabasa.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Same. Used to read 60-70 books in a year ngayon nahihirapan na ko mag focus. 😢", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I've probably said this once but I'll say it again: No place like home. Hehe", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yep. I was explaining to my cousin (immigrated young) when he visited me in Georgia. \"You grew up here and this (US) is home for you. Philippines is still home to me. I enjoy making a living here, but I'd still rather live back home.\"", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "What made you consider going back home despite a better life out there?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Lol. I'm in a hotel room right now. Just visiting. Often.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Oh I just claimed and assumed that you wanted to retire back here lol my bad! 😅\n\nEnjoy your stay in Manila!! Hope Dusit Thani is treating you well so far!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "😅 Well, you're not wrong. Making a living abroad, but I'm still of mind to retire here.. It's still decades away (or shorter if I win the lottery or make a killing in the stock market). And it looks like a complicating relationship between US and PH, so we'll see.\n\n\nRetirement costs are a big factor. Same reason why so many expats retire around developing countries.\n\n\nHahaha. Thank you! They always do. They're pretty vacant with the coronavirus scares messing up international travel, so I did score a nice upgrade.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "This is so accurate lol. Kung makakagain lang ba ng large amount of money in a short time e bakit pa ko magpapakahomesick. Anyways, akala ko din nung una dito ka na titira. Good luck OP!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Masaya pag yung nanay mo hindi ka inuubliga mag-bigay sakanila.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hehe, hindi po ako inubliga, I did it of my own volition. Sorry if you misunderstood. \nAng tanging obligation sa tingin ko sa magulang ko ay mahalin at respetuhin sila.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Actually hindi ko na misunderstood. I know na masaya ka na bigay mo sa nanay mo yan. Nasabi ko lang yan kasi nanay ko ganun AHHAHA inuubliga ako AHHA.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Oh I see, hehe. Sorry, ako pala yung di naka intindi.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Okay walang ka-late night talk kaya naghahanap ng kakampi, suit yourself.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "arayquhbeh", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Joke lang hahahahahaha sana magkaroon ka na rin nagpagpupuyatan maliban sa homework o trabaho", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sana nga. Kahit trabaho nalang. 🤣", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I suppose it can also be because of primal instincts. See, for us guys we look at the breasts, hips and butt but that's not without scientific reason, all those things mentioned visually indicate how a woman is capable of carrying and nurturing a child.\n\nSo I guess for women, it's the overall frame and size of the guy that tells them whether a guy is capable of protecting and providing -back in ancient times this would be hunting- for a family.\n\nThough the accuracy of these visual indicators are not guaranteed.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " “for us guys we look at the breasts, hips and butt “\n\n^^^this. i hate those posting just their pussies (binulatlat pa)\n\nwhat can we get from that? wala man lang ka art art\n\nwe get hard on on hows a womans body is presented", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "This. Next time lagyan ng filter at wag ibulatlat? 😂", "role": "user" }, { "content": "i dont mind looking at pussies but id prefer the whole body pic\n\nim sure its better to watch ST movies (my age is showing 😝) than watching porn\n\nat least give us sumthing to imagine (para naman gumana konti utak natin hindi lang puro kalibogan)", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Oh mga tito jan :)))", "role": "user" }, { "content": "*Don't be a pussy? Be a pussy!*\n\nMade me regret checking out this sub that day.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Saw that post, ending pala greet lang ng International Women's Day.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Can you send a link?? Haha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "It was posted a couple days ago, just do a bit of backtracking of the post history and you'll stumble upon it.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Anong title non?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yung may \"pussy\" sa title, you'll know when you see it. Nothing interesting in that post though.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "[May tinamaan](https://imgur.com/a/sDjInxr)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "**BOOM HEAD SHOT!**\n\nBaka naman kasi sinasapawan natin yung market. Sinasapawan nga ba natin?", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "You should also consider the fact that a lot of them lie about their age so they'd fit your age preference range. Could be the reason why they're mature looking for their stated age.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Like that time I checked a guy's post history. He was 28 a year ago, 26 months ago, and now he's 28 again.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Ganon din naman sa girls, 90% mataba. Pag nakipag exchange ng photo tapos di ka type ignore ka nalang. haha.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Blame the ~~fat~~ obesity acceptance movement.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "this post made me feel like the bacterias in the safeguard commercials.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "plural na ang bacteria, bacterium pag singular :)", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Need mo icollect lahat ng 7 dragon balls. Tapos hiling ka na mapasau si Ivana.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Nice one", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Because in a corporate world setting, kung walang medcert walang rest day or they cant take a proper sick leave lalo na sa mga bpo companies na mahirap mag-off. Kung tingin mong abuso yun sayo, just stick to your hospital or clinic rules. As a doctor you have the sound mind to decide.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Agree. I don’t understand why OP has to be so condescending though.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Feeling powerless si OP. Sya ung doctor, sya ung dapat masusunod sa mga ganyang sitwasyon. Kung ayaw nyang malagay sa panganib ung license nya, di wag bigyan ng med cert.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Just to add...\n\n\nAbraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: (from the bottom upwards) \n\nPhysiological\n\nSafety \n\nLove and belonging\n\nEsteem\n\nSelf-actualization\n\n\nNeeds at the bottom of the hierarchy must be satisfied and fulfilled before attending to the ones at the top. Less fortunate pinoys wouldn't care about the arts and such kung pangkain and safety eh wala sila.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Oh right, forgot about this one! Thank you! Yun nga eh, sadly, a lot of filipinos don't even get the most basic of needs.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I rate myself 1, cuz I'm the 1 for you......\n\n\\*facepalm\\* Sorry just bored and couldn't help myself.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ugh! I'm giving myself a 1 as well because I'm d 1 4 u <3 hahaha there are pick up lines you just gotta throw!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Sfx: 10 tenenen 10 10 10", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Mabuhay!! Nais ko lamang sabihin na hindi ka nag-iisa. Medyo same -- absolutely NO sa kids, jowa pwede naman if meron pero di ako jowang jowa at lalong di ko pipilitin makipag relasyon sa isang tao para lang masabing may jowa ako. \n\nI guess di sila talaga masisisi. For centuries yun naman talaga yung \"norm\". And it's not purely a filipino thing. Heck we were programmed thru evolution to want to have offspring and by extension, families. Lahat naman ng living organisms. But humanity has come so far that we get to have a choice now (thankGlob!).\n\nNgayon yung family ko tanggap naman na wala silang makukuhang apo mula sa akin haha. And i strive to empower those people na lang na pareho saken na gusto maging childfree4lyf, na baka mag-anak lang kasi napipilitan. Also educate/empower friends na they dont have to stay in bad relationships kasi akala nila di nila kaya on their own. Yonnn daming hanash.\n\nI'm curious though if you're asexual/aromantic?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Mabuhay, kapatid! Mismo dito, hindi rin ako jowang jowa at hindi ko siya hinahanap hanap. Maraming salamat sa pag empower sa mga katulad natin! Wag magpapadala sa mga pressure na kailangan mag asawa. Sana mabigyan ng lakas ang mga kaibigan nating nasa unhealthy relationships para unahin sarili nila :D\n\nHindi ako asexual/aromantic :)", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": ">Mabuhay, kapatid! Mismo dito, hindi rin ako jowang jowa at hindi ko siya hinahanap hanap.\n\nThat's good for you, yun nga lang pag bigla ka na-in love, baka kainin mo lahat ng sinabi mo sa post na'to ha. Just saying lol.\n\nBaka bigla makikita ko puro love quotes na pino-post mo....", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ilang beses na ako na-inlove. Haha wala na talaga to sa plano ko.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Lahat tayo may bagahe na dapat ikarga, brod.\n\nWag mo asahan na gumaan yung dala mo, kundi lumakas na lang ang balikat natin.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "💪💪❤", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "\"Ready to pair\".", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Tawang tawa ko, OP hahahahahhaa.\n\nMedyo kakaiba nga yung accent talaga nung mga ganun lol", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "HAHAHAHA bleUt0oH deWayS iS cOnNecTed sAcCesFuLeY", "role": "user" }, { "content": "connected UHH successfoleigh", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "HAHAHAHA", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Tropa siguro ni mommy divine yan", "role": "user" }, { "content": "hahahahahahahhahahaha bwisettttt 🤦", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Pathetic", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sobra.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Personally:\n\n1) passionate about something I approve of\n\n2) genuinely happy\n\n3) has a good grasp of what she wants\n\n4) has her own dreams and ambitions\n\n5) sweet and flirty. Knows when to enjoy things and when to take things seriously\n\n6) has a pretty good sense of her belief system and is not logically inconsistent\n\n7) smart. smart. smart\n\n8) cares more about getting know me than getting into a relationship with me\n\n9) knows how to respect other people\n\n10) has a genuine curiosity for life", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Still having a problem with Number 3. Im indecisive af 😩 so right now Im trying to focus on working myself. Thanks for your insight!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That’ll come. If number 3 is your main problem, then you wouldn’t have any issues attracting a partner :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I hope so! Hahaha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Just a thought though. Maybe #3 isn’t your main problem?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Maybe its confidence 😩", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Maybe..\nWhat other interests have you got ba?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I like baking. Thats it.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Maybe therein lies your problem", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That I am boring? 😩", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That you LIKE baking.\n\nWould you be attracted to a guy (or girl) who’s very driven in his passion for sharing the love or books to children, or to a guy (or girl) who LIKES basketball?\n\nEdit: gender inclusivity", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ohhhh okay. Maybe you're right, thats my problem. I guess I'll just work on it. In your perspective, what interests should i really be doing?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "What did you always want as a child before you lost that childish wonder? :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "To be honest, I just want to grow up back then. Hahaha\nRight now, I want to pursue something extraordinary. I want to pursue Law tho i am not that bright. But I'll work on it.:)", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Well then, there you go. :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "\"Any hole's a goal!\"\n\n- Trevor Philips\n\nKidding aside, physical attraction comes first and foremost. Beauty is subjective hence to each his own. What is deemed physically beautiful and attractive can be the opposite to another.\n\nNext is personality. For personality, I value emotional intelligence over intellect. A genius who has poor emotional intelligence can go down in flames in the blink of an eye. A genius with low emotional intelligence can be too stubborn to accept and improve their shortcomings. An emotionally intelligent person can overcome their shortcomings and improve on them.\n\nI also value those who aren't just book smart but also those who could think outside the box, those who aren't bound by the dictates of existing knowledge. Especially those who can and will question the facts and knowledge presented to them.\n\nI am attracted to introverted personalities. I see it as a sign of being able to internalize and reflect on one's self. A chance at seeing one's own shortcomings and knowing that it can be improved.\n\nI hate those who can only talk about superficial things, especially the material world and vanity. If they do, they better be classy about it and not full of sass and crass. \n\nIf they talk about fashion, it better be timeless fashion and not fast fashion. A good reference point would be the Italians and the French during the 60s.\n\nAll in all, for me, simplicity and elegance is key. Add to that being true to one's self.\n\nThis is Puss_Fondue and thank you for coming to my TED talk.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I think nakalampas na ako sa stage na physical attraction ung first priority. Had a couple of gfs before and mostly personality and direction in life ang nagiging turning point. So right now sa personality and command ako una naattract. Nag evolve yung preference due to experience i guess.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Tama. As you get older, personality and aspirations start to matter more.\n\nAlso, the person's aspirations usually dictate where they are in Maslow's hierarchy of needs. This is crucial when setting goals together as a couple.\n\nAs someone famous (forgot who) said, a couple shouldn't look and stare at one another if they want to go forward. They should be looking at the same horizon together.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I love the last line.\n\nYou must read a lot of books.\n\nThank you for sharing. I wasn't expecting anything but i got gold from you.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I never truly finished a lot of books. I easily loose interest.\n\nGlad to have given you an unexpected gold.\n\n*tips off hat*", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I just want someone who has her own thing going on. Whether it's her hobby, or her career that she is truly passionate about. Someone wouldn't mind leaving me alone for a bit too long because I like being alone. \"alone\" really is wanting not to be bothered, if they can hang out read a book or whatever while I focus on what I'm doing, then I'm ok with it. Probably the biggest dealbreaker. I just see too many peeps whose entire happiness depends on their other half. I'm not that kind of person.\n\nKnows someone having a different opinion than her isn't the end of the world. And all the good manners yada yada. I don't care where you graduated/ if you even graduated/ if you are smart. I'm an idiot ffs. As long as you don't mind understanding whatever it is you want to have an opinion about.\n\n&#x200B;\n\nedit: I also don't mind someone who doesn't have anything going on but is actively searching for it. Finding what makes you, you, can take your whole lifetime.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I also want the same as my partner!! 😩", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Say it like those old wartime letters.\n\nI don't have any samples pero I guess this is smooth???\n\n\"I went to the garden the other day. The flowers are all growing pretty well, especially that daffodil you so loved. It's really beautiful, but it'll be more so having you here to see them with.\"\n\nI TRIED", "role": "user" }, { "content": "THE COMMENTS THAT I LIVE FORRR", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Masarap lumayas brother. Since 17yo lumayas ako sa amin gawa ayaw nila ako pagaralin ng college, \"ano naman mapapala mo pag nagcollege ka?\" sabi ng parents ko, mainly my father. Nakagrad ako 24yo na, pero masarap sobra ang liberty promise. Up until now hiwalay ako sa parents ko.\n\nMagkakagalit kami nung lumayas ako. Bati na kami ng parents ko nung ininvite ko sila sa graduation (na decided akong hindi talaga sila imbitahin yet yung gf ko lang nagpakalma sa akin).\n\nGo go go, bro. Money will follow basta maging madiskarte ka lang and walang pride pride dito. Gogo go!!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Financially independent na ako. I just can't stand their being paranoid, manipulative and too conscious attitude. Sobrang ginagawa akong batang paslit! Malinis naman ako sa katawan pero pucha pagkain lang ng nakakamay pinpansin pa? Sino bang ndi mababadtrip dun? Tangina lang talaga.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yung nananahimik ka, wala kang ginagawang mali, nakakatulong ka naman sa bahay, pero gusto mong sumabog at magsalita ng masasamang words sa pagkapraning ng parents mo. Di mo maintindihan kung maselan ba sila", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Understandable na mga senior citizens na sila kaya sila nagiingat pero mas malakas pa sila sa kalabaw eh. Masyado lang paranoid na akala mo kawawa kami pag nagkasakit sila. Hello, sinecure na nga sila ng health benefits eh. Bad trip lang talaga. Sana pag tumanda ako at umabot sa edad nila hindi ko sila maging katulad.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "kayong mga bata kayo dapat matuto kayo sa kasabihan na \"grab every opportunity\" kaya nga sya opportunity kasi minsan lang yan dumating.\n\ntigil tigilan nyo na ang pagiisip ng \"baka iwan nya, baka magalit, baka hindi magustuhan, baka ganito, baka ganyan\"\n\nhindi nyo gawin - ano ano iniisip nyo tapos mastress kayo, malulungkot kayo. yun lang diba?\n\neh pano kung ginawa nyo, tapos positive outcome edi good! eh pano naman kung negative outcome? dyan papasok yung experience at learning nyo, dyan papasok yung mga pagkakataon na matututo kayo mag-isip kung pano iresolve ang isang bagay na hindi maganda.\n\nsa buhay natin mas maraming masaklap na bagay kaysa sa magagandang bagay.\n\nPero once na makamit nyo yung mga gusto nyo sa buhay kahit na maraming masakit na nangyaro sa inyo, sobrang sarap at saya ng feeling. alam nyo bakit? kasi hindi nyo mararamdaman ang tunay na kaligayahan kung hindi kayo makakaranas ng sakit.\n\nat the end of the day, just strike it, strike it hard!\n\npeace!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thank you po for this comment! I sure am scared of being rejected pero more than that, natatakot po ako sa magiging epekto no'n sa kaniya. As I've said, sobrang open po namin sa isa't isa. Marami po siyang pangarap at sobrang vulnerable niya. Natatakot po ako na magconfess at kung hindi mutual ang nararamdaman namin, he'll blame himself for everything. To be honest, I can accept the rejection po. I think I'm matured enough to handle that. I just can't be the reason for this hardworking man to be distracted.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "and what will happen, stress ka pa rin at the end of the day.\nthat's my point dear. you will dwell on things that do not produce any effect yet you yourself are drowned in dillema. it becomes a cycle.\n\nwhat i am suggesting to you kids is to make decisions that are practical and logical.\n\nand never tell me that being silent is the most practical way. \n\nalam mo bakit? kaibigan ka lang nya and yet ikaw yung kawawa? may problema yung friend mo personally and internally pero ikaw yung affected.\n\na TRUE MAN will never blame anyone even himself. that's the most stupid thing a man will ever do, blame himself except for life and death situation.\n\nre think girl and i hope you'll be a woman.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "One of the reasons why we need the divorce bill...", "role": "user" }, { "content": "At edukasyong pinansyal. Base mula sa mga kwento ng iba, napakamaluho talaga ng mga kapamilya nila at pa rin yung sarili kong pamilya ganyan din.\n\nEdit : clarity", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "And yet you still posted this to CasualPh. If you have a problem in a certain subreddit, might as well post your concerns there and you may influence positive change in that subreddit (or negative uproar).", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I disagree. There comes a certain point where hindi mo na kayang baguhin from the inside ang isang grupo. And yet at the same time, hindi ka naman makaalis sa influence nila so you have no other outlet for your emotional concerns.\n\nNot that this necessarily applies to the OP, but right now there’s no avenue to discuss concerns on r/philippines except sa cliques outside Reddit itself (used to be regular sa meetups).", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "gago\n\n&#x200B;\n\n^(ano ibigsabihin ng bardagulan?)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "teka pano yan mapaliit 🤣", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "hahahaha \\^ ito ata sa mobile, sa pc kasi maypipindutin ka lang", "role": "user" }, { "content": "^tengks! haha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "dikit mu pri \\^tengks hahahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "ayon ^potaena tao nako!!!!!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "OP, self improvement should never be done for someone else. Circumstances can change, but your motivation to improve yourself should not.\n\nDo it for yourself", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Up for this. \n\nAlways do this big changes for yourselffffff. Goodluck!!!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Up for you, too! Though I'm more of an Affogatto :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I'm a freelancer and I've always worked from home. I stay mostly at home even before: playing video games, reading books, watching netflix. But now na may quarantine and everyone is required to stay at home, I'm beginning to hate it. I'll go out more when this is over.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yan! ever considered climbing a mountain? :)", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I realized that I really *am* a homebody and introvert. \n\nNagkakainitan na dito sa bahay over the smallest stuff, probably because they’re itching to go outside, and I’m as relaxed as I’ve ever been because I only go out to buy stuff or meet with my friends (usually only 1-2 times a month, sometimes not at all). \n\nVideo games + movies + exercise + work = solb na ako", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You're lucky you have what it takes to survive a zombie apocalypse! :)\nSeriously though, good on you!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "It would actually remind you the person you where and your true intentions. My ex actually clicks screen shots of memorable convos and rubs it on my face later, I just get annoyed at times 🤣", "role": "user" }, { "content": "💯", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Relatable I suppose 🤣", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yes Cringey hahhaha", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "OMG yesss, sobrang seryoso ng usapan namin with proper punctuation marks pa. tapos ngayon puro baby talk na lang tapos minsan hindi pa coherent hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "The character development! Hahahaha", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "\"Oo baliw ako. Baliw na baliw sayo.\"", "role": "user" }, { "content": "ganire!!", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "“Ano bang naiambag mo?”", "role": "user" }, { "content": "focccc 😂😂", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Not all are fortunate to be given that kind of opportunity. I'd say weigh the pros and cons. Don't make a decision until you're completely sure.\n\nMy family and I are trying to migrate to a different country. That decision came from my desire to give my child a better chance at life.\n\nGood luck OP, may you and your loved ones stay safe in these trying times.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thanks! Hope it pans out for you and yours, too!\nWhere'd you wanna go pala, if you don't mind me asking?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Mississauga, ndun kasi relatives.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Agree with you on this. The 'Mother' in the HIMYM would provide a good character reference. Maybe instead of TOTGA, why not 'the One I thought was the One' or 'the One that almost have it rigth'. hahaha, I like your thoughts.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Instead of TOTGA, \"the One before the One\" 🤣", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "HAHAHA... what if meron pa before 'the One before the One'?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Eh di grouped together na sila, \"the Two before the One\"", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Or lagyan ng tag parang episodes ng Friends. Bago mo makilala si Forever, makaka10 seasons ka muna.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Same. If they were meant for you and if you were right for each other, you'd be together. Interesting to note here is that TOTGAs are usually one sided. It's usually just one person, pining for the object of his/her affection. \n\nI've never seen any of my exes/guys it didn't work out with as anyone other than people who weren't right for me. Because really, that's what they are. No point in romanticizing it.\n\nI consider it a red flag if someone I'm dating has a TOTGA. I'm not a placeholder nor a consolation price.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "👏👏👏 should have read this bago ako nakipaglandian kay koyang may totga HAHAHAHA anyway good point thaaanks", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "I wanna ask - anong mga topic yung gustong pag-usapan ng mga taong ayaw sa small talks? And how do you open them? \n\nI feel that I don't want to rush to these things by asking \"what is your life's philosophy?\" or something like that - it seems too forward.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You start with FORD first. Family, occupation, recreation, and dreams tapos kung may nakuha ka na cue doon sa answers nila, doon mo na ipasok yung trip mo itanong. Parang natural progression. Kunwari sinabi nya, \"i feel comfortable being alone.\" Edi isingit mo, what do you think of erikson's Isolation vs. Intimacy? What's your stand? Syempre expect mo medyo magpupull back kasi baffled sa tanong mo pero insist mo pa rin. Irl, keep nodding or look intently at the person youre talking to. There's a higher inclination for him/her to share info.\n\nWhen conversing with people irl, i skip pleasantries, para kasi sakin waste of time, lets cut to the chase and explore each others minds. Sexy ng taong articulate at maalam sa bagay bagay.\n\nYung topics na preferred instead of small talk ay more on getting to know the person, discourse on books, movies, beliefs, exchange ng trivia lalalala ganung range.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "The reply I needed. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "-katinko\n-omega pain killer\n- efficacent oil", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hi tita ✌", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "hello tanda! 🤞", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Old but gold 👌🏻", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "If you think and like an adult. Yes.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I very much agree to this.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "1.) Accept rejection on anything\n\n2.) The less you care, the less bullshit (people, politics, etc.)\n\n3.) Learn something new\n\n4.) Upgrade if there's a room for an upgrade. Do not settle for less and don't be contented on what you have (physique, appearance, diet, clothing)\n\n5.) Carpe diem (seize the day); live everyday like its the last day of your life, do stuff you wanted to do before the day ends (eat ice cream if the weather is cold or eat hot noodles when the weather is hot)\n\n6.) Save money and be frugal (you don't want to be an employee forever)\n\n7.) Avoid debt\n\n8.) Less or no social media\n\n9.) Don't compare yourself with others\n\n10.) Live life with no regrets, if there's someone you like tell him/her\n\n11.) Meeting people and making friends is hard as you grow older (you will meet a lot of strangers you thought are your friends)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Great Adult Advices 👍", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Someone once told me, Telegram is a graveyard for failed landians. 🤣🤣🤣", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Facts right here", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "F", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "For me, Telegram has jinx. Whenever Reddit chat is getting interesting, then lipat sa Tele, chat goes bland (even before exchanging photos). \n\nAko lang ba ganito?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same thing happens to me most of the time, tho i've kept a couple of constants. Depende na lang din siguro sa kausap kung magclick.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": ">constants\n\nThat's why I agree kay OP na Tele makes the best socmed friends. :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Wait, may kalandian kayo? hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "May landian pala sa telegram?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Start sa phr4r then lipat sa tg.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Case to case basis. For me, I’ll be marrying ‘yung kalandian ko sa Telegram from Reddit.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Wow! Sana may ma share mo yung full story here. :)", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I posted sa r4r, he reached out to me, and the rest is history. :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That's nice. :)", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "and men\\*", "role": "user" }, { "content": "🤷‍♀️", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Or yung feeling mo ikaw ang laging nauunang nagtetext, never ikaw ung itetext. Sa GC, no one acknowledges or even responds to your question or opinions.\n\nI think we've all felt that at one point or another in our lives. For me, mas naintensify lang ung feelings ko ng ganyan with this ecq. \n\nI've making my peace of being happy with myself, learning to enjoy things by myself and accepting that I'm not as likable or memorable as I thought I am. I have to be okay with that. I have to be okay that the affection and level of attention to other people that I give is not reciprocated especially when I needed it the most. I've decided to distance myself from them emotionally too. \n\nIt hurts but then you have to accept your value to them. If they act as if you are nothing to them, find the strength to walk away and find other people who will see your value.\n\nIve started journaling uli - my honest, ugliest and raw thoughts. I will probably burn it someday. Pero it helps release the heaviness na naramdaman ko. No benefit for me keeping everything inside.\n\nI hope it helps? Even if all I've done is just to let you know na di lang ikaw ang feeling a disposable friend...", "role": "user" }, { "content": "siguro nga kaya ko naiisip to dahil sa ECQ. And yes it's good to know that I'm not the only one who feels this way and I appreciate that your sharing your experience. I'm comfortable naman doing things on my own kaso nandon yung fear na parang di na ako makakahanap ng friends ngayon na makakavibes ko talaga. I know that sometimes adult world can be superficial", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "Was in a relationship with a toxic and abusive guy. I knew it then but I was afraid to leave because I thought no one was ever gonna \"\"love\"\" me again. I was also using this same excuse not to end the relationship.\n\nIt's been 2 and a half years, and I am so, soooooo glad I left. No one deserves to be abused by an egotistical, toxic partner.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "i feel you! *HUGSS*", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Thank you uwu", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "I find comparing to my past self a more realistic metric of how far I've gone in life. Comparing myself with others just harbours envy and endless pursuit of perceived happiness. Somehow mas at peace ako knowing I become a better me.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I second this.\n\nI’m a late bloomer. There was a point in my 20s that I felt like I was stuck between a rock and a hard place. Andami kong plano, pero puro drawing. Ang daming balakid sa daan at ang bagal ng usad ng career ko. And then suddenly, bigla ko na lang sila nalagpasan. I believe in God’s perfect timing. But you have to make your own opportunity. I’m still in my 20s btw haha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Everyone has their own pace. Be kinder to oneself and others.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "This post can't stop me because I can't read!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Oh well. How did you know what can't stop you?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "The joke was lost on you. :(", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sorry, my bad.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": ">Maybe he’s charming, smart, funny, even good-looking, and generous. But Girl, he made a commitment to someone else — a commitment so serious it involves a wedding and a possible lawsuit if he gets caught (and actually admits to his wrongdoing).\n\nA lot of mistresses find reasons to keep going - \"*He's nice naman kasi, he knows what he's doing, he's not getting enough sex and it's unfair, I'm here to help him the same way he makes me happy and completes me\"* \\- without really thinking about the repercussions. I hope they wake up one day - soon - and realize that this isn't the way. That they should find completion within themselves, that they should find happiness not through being validated by someone. \n\nGirl, his happiness and contentment is not your responsibility. He should be mature enough to make his own, and decent enough to keep this within his own household and his wife. \n\nDon't be an extra in a scene where you don't have any say, don't be a shadow within a spotlight that's not meant for you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "> Don't be an extra in a scene where you don't have any say, don't be a shadow within a spotlight that's not meant for you.\n\n\n- very well said!\ni hope anyone reading this who is in the same situation would find the strength to leave.", "role": "assistant" } ]
[ { "content": "At 27, nakakamiss talking to people so genuinely raw around 1am until 5 in the morning. Somewhere along the age, weve lost them.. some needed to settle, some have chosen another path and some never really had the courage to take risks.. like us.\n\nLike.. we knew exactly we like the person pero we have way too many excuses to be with person. To commit basically.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hi, 23 here, after reading your comment, I really need to braced myself for the possible outcome you just mentioned. That along the way, we lost people because their path no longer crosses ours. As someone younger than you, can you give me some advice on how to handle myself if such a time comes?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Find a partner. That should do the trick 🙂", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "Stagnant sa life walang plano, Wala sariling decision", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I know exactly how this feels. Still so proud of myself for being able to walk away kahit na may singsing nang nakalagay sa daliri ko, bago pa tuluyang maging legal yung binding. Lol", "role": "assistant" } ]