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3

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

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2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible

i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible

That is a long time to think about something, so you have given it a lot of time and thought. Have you mentioned it to your partner?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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81

4

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair

i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair

Sharing your feelings is important so thank you for making the effort today. It is not fair to prove a negative and that can be taxing. It sounds like you are a very patient person.

Affirmation and Reassurance

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81

5

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair I try to be patient, but i feel like i am wasting my life when i could be happy on my own or potentially with someone else in the future Im anxious about my daughter and my relationship with her if we split up

I try to be patient, but i feel like i am wasting my life when i could be happy on my own or potentially with someone else in the future Im anxious about my daughter and my relationship with her if we split up

You have spent a great deal of time trying to make things right with your partner and you have used a great deal of effort to make it work. You are also a very loving parent who cares greatly.

Reflection of feelings

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81

6

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair I try to be patient, but i feel like i am wasting my life when i could be happy on my own or potentially with someone else in the future Im anxious about my daughter and my relationship with her if we split up I know i need to be true to myself but its extremely difficult, i'm not sure how to start the process

I know i need to be true to myself but its extremely difficult, i'm not sure how to start the process

Yes, you are right. My parents split up later in life and I was happy to see my dad happy. I understand that isn't everyone story though. Do you have any close family members you can talk to about this? Or close friends?

Providing Suggestions

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high empathy, high relevance

81

7

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair I try to be patient, but i feel like i am wasting my life when i could be happy on my own or potentially with someone else in the future Im anxious about my daughter and my relationship with her if we split up I know i need to be true to myself but its extremely difficult, i'm not sure how to start the process unfortunately i pushed all my friends away for the sake of the relationship, again the insecurities meant i couldn't have my own time and space. I know my family would be supportive, but there are a lot of financial issues with divorce which worries me

unfortunately i pushed all my friends away for the sake of the relationship, again the insecurities meant i couldn't have my own time and space. I know my family would be supportive, but there are a lot of financial issues with divorce which worries me

Often times people turn to church or religion and support groups in order to connect with people from the same faith. Have you considered this avenue?

Providing Suggestions

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81

8

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair I try to be patient, but i feel like i am wasting my life when i could be happy on my own or potentially with someone else in the future Im anxious about my daughter and my relationship with her if we split up I know i need to be true to myself but its extremely difficult, i'm not sure how to start the process unfortunately i pushed all my friends away for the sake of the relationship, again the insecurities meant i couldn't have my own time and space. I know my family would be supportive, but there are a lot of financial issues with divorce which worries me Ive considered support groups, im a little embarrassed tho. I don't think religion would be much help to me

Ive considered support groups, im a little embarrassed tho. I don't think religion would be much help to me

I understand that you feel nervous about reaching out and thank you again for doing that here today. Sometimes close friends can be a good source of support. It can be hard repairing friendships though.

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81

9

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair I try to be patient, but i feel like i am wasting my life when i could be happy on my own or potentially with someone else in the future Im anxious about my daughter and my relationship with her if we split up I know i need to be true to myself but its extremely difficult, i'm not sure how to start the process unfortunately i pushed all my friends away for the sake of the relationship, again the insecurities meant i couldn't have my own time and space. I know my family would be supportive, but there are a lot of financial issues with divorce which worries me Ive considered support groups, im a little embarrassed tho. I don't think religion would be much help to me Maybe i should reach out again?

Maybe i should reach out again?

Yes, I would reach out to old friends who may be willing to give you insight into how they viewed things. Support groups can feel intimidating but are usually very welcoming and truly there to help people.

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81

10

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair I try to be patient, but i feel like i am wasting my life when i could be happy on my own or potentially with someone else in the future Im anxious about my daughter and my relationship with her if we split up I know i need to be true to myself but its extremely difficult, i'm not sure how to start the process unfortunately i pushed all my friends away for the sake of the relationship, again the insecurities meant i couldn't have my own time and space. I know my family would be supportive, but there are a lot of financial issues with divorce which worries me Ive considered support groups, im a little embarrassed tho. I don't think religion would be much help to me Maybe i should reach out again? i just hope my daughter is young enough to be able to adapt to her parents splitting up

i just hope my daughter is young enough to be able to adapt to her parents splitting up

Children are resilient and want their parents happy ultimately. You are a thoughtful person. Thank you for sharing your feelings today and being open to ideas and possible ways forward.

Affirmation and Reassurance

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high empathy, high relevance

81

11

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair I try to be patient, but i feel like i am wasting my life when i could be happy on my own or potentially with someone else in the future Im anxious about my daughter and my relationship with her if we split up I know i need to be true to myself but its extremely difficult, i'm not sure how to start the process unfortunately i pushed all my friends away for the sake of the relationship, again the insecurities meant i couldn't have my own time and space. I know my family would be supportive, but there are a lot of financial issues with divorce which worries me Ive considered support groups, im a little embarrassed tho. I don't think religion would be much help to me Maybe i should reach out again? i just hope my daughter is young enough to be able to adapt to her parents splitting up Thank you very much, you've given me a few options to consider on how to move forward. I'm feeling less anxious with your kind words of support

Thank you very much, you've given me a few options to consider on how to move forward. I'm feeling less anxious with your kind words of support

That is great news. We are always here to help.

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high empathy, high relevance

81

12

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety i've thought about this for the last year, things have been going downhill since. I think its starting to become noticible i tried to do it around 8 months ago but my partner convinced herself that it was because i was cheating on her. Her own insecurities put me under a lot of pressure to stay in the relationship to prove i wasn't having an affair I try to be patient, but i feel like i am wasting my life when i could be happy on my own or potentially with someone else in the future Im anxious about my daughter and my relationship with her if we split up I know i need to be true to myself but its extremely difficult, i'm not sure how to start the process unfortunately i pushed all my friends away for the sake of the relationship, again the insecurities meant i couldn't have my own time and space. I know my family would be supportive, but there are a lot of financial issues with divorce which worries me Ive considered support groups, im a little embarrassed tho. I don't think religion would be much help to me Maybe i should reach out again? i just hope my daughter is young enough to be able to adapt to her parents splitting up Thank you very much, you've given me a few options to consider on how to move forward. I'm feeling less anxious with your kind words of support thank you again, bye

thank you again, bye

You're welcome and good luck.

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82

1

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem

I'm sorry to hear that, can you tell me what it is?

Question

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82

2

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone

I am depressed and all alone

That's a hard situation to be in. Are you isolating due to the pandemic?

Question

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sad

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82

3

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away

I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away

That's really rough. It sounds like you did not get to have any closure whatsoever.

Reflection of feelings

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fear

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high empathy, high relevance

82

4

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom

yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom

There's a lot of dark stuff happening in and around your life. Do you have any things that you like to do on your own that calm you down?

Question

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82

5

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away

drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away

I have definitely been there.

Self-disclosure

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82

6

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness

everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness

It must seem like things are just piling on. Booze does this crazy thing where we think it's making things easier, but it's really making things 10x harder. 10x harder to process emotions, 10x harder to find the motivation, 10x harder to believe you are worth the effort to keep moving.

Self-disclosure

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82

7

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had

all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had

I think you could give the booze a break for a week, and see if you may see things in a different light. Zero judgment from me btw, I am also clearly on mturk, and I quit drinking in April after ten years of heavy heavy drinking. Almost lost my marriage to it. It's not easy, and I'm not preaching, but I am saying it was the best thing I could do to begin to improve my life and my health, mental and physical.

Self-disclosure

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82

8

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink

wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink

I'm really sorry you're feeling this poorly. If you could be doing anything at all right now, what would it be?

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82

9

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again

riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again

Oh shit I am so terrified of riding motorcycles

Oh shit I am so terrified of riding motorcycles Why can't you ride motorcycles any more?

Others, Question

Others

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82

10

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty

poverty

Ah, so you can still physically ride one! Your life isn't over, you are still breathing, you will ride a motorcycle again.

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82

11

depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year?

i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year?

Maybe you could rent one

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82

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depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year? or I could just steal one I would rather meet a woman that isnt a coocoo bird

or I could just steal one I would rather meet a woman that isnt a coocoo bird

Maybe there are other alternative modes of transportation you could take up

Providing Suggestions

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depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year? or I could just steal one I would rather meet a woman that isnt a coocoo bird well my car is about to die so it will be walking soon

well my car is about to die so it will be walking soon

Perhaps you'll meet someone on the bus?

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depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year? or I could just steal one I would rather meet a woman that isnt a coocoo bird well my car is about to die so it will be walking soon going over how horrible everything is for me all day has been a real treat that one really made me laugh

going over how horrible everything is for me all day has been a real treat that one really made me laugh

You didn't seem to be responding to actual solutions so I thought a joke might help :-)

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depression

ongoing_depression

I found my mom murdered on the side of her house

5

4

hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year? or I could just steal one I would rather meet a woman that isnt a coocoo bird well my car is about to die so it will be walking soon going over how horrible everything is for me all day has been a real treat that one really made me laugh there arent really any solutions, nothing women like more then a creepy guy talking to you on the bus

there arent really any solutions, nothing women like more then a creepy guy talking to you on the bus

You could be a peer-supporter instead of a seeker, you wouldn't have to talk about your personal stuff, and it's actually been kind of nice to just give people some advice in a vacuum.

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hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year? or I could just steal one I would rather meet a woman that isnt a coocoo bird well my car is about to die so it will be walking soon going over how horrible everything is for me all day has been a real treat that one really made me laugh there arent really any solutions, nothing women like more then a creepy guy talking to you on the bus I tried but I kept failing the test I have got so much going for me, If only the volcano hadnt come and destroyed what little I had left

I tried but I kept failing the test I have got so much going for me, If only the volcano hadnt come and destroyed what little I had left

That's horrible that happened to you, but don't you believe in yourself?

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hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year? or I could just steal one I would rather meet a woman that isnt a coocoo bird well my car is about to die so it will be walking soon going over how horrible everything is for me all day has been a real treat that one really made me laugh there arent really any solutions, nothing women like more then a creepy guy talking to you on the bus I tried but I kept failing the test I have got so much going for me, If only the volcano hadnt come and destroyed what little I had left no not really, nothing to believe in

no not really, nothing to believe in

You should, you said yourself that you have got so much going for you.

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hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year? or I could just steal one I would rather meet a woman that isnt a coocoo bird well my car is about to die so it will be walking soon going over how horrible everything is for me all day has been a real treat that one really made me laugh there arent really any solutions, nothing women like more then a creepy guy talking to you on the bus I tried but I kept failing the test I have got so much going for me, If only the volcano hadnt come and destroyed what little I had left no not really, nothing to believe in that was sarcasm, one of my only friends

that was sarcasm, one of my only friends

Ah I see

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hello I have a real pickle of a problem I am depressed and all alone I have been isolated for 2 years now ever since my wife decided to sneak out in the middle of the night and run away yeah what a peach she was, at least she didnt murder me like my brother did to my mom drinking is the only thing that takes the pain away everytime I say it cant get any worse I get a new illness all I have to look forward to is fighting for pennies on mturk all day, who would ever countinue if thats all they had wait till everything is taken away from you and your left with nothing and noone and see how you feel then, it might be time for a drink riding a motorcyle just one more thing I will never get to do again poverty i was riding a motorcyle next to my brother about two years before he murdered our mom, got hit by a car and nearly died santa is bringing money this year? or I could just steal one I would rather meet a woman that isnt a coocoo bird well my car is about to die so it will be walking soon going over how horrible everything is for me all day has been a real treat that one really made me laugh there arent really any solutions, nothing women like more then a creepy guy talking to you on the bus I tried but I kept failing the test I have got so much going for me, If only the volcano hadnt come and destroyed what little I had left no not really, nothing to believe in that was sarcasm, one of my only friends well I tortured you enough thanks for listening

well I tortured you enough thanks for listening

You're welcome, I hope things start getting better soon :-)

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

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Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you?

I am okay but feeling a little down at the moment. Is there anything that you'd like to talk about?

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

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Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend...

Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend...

Is there anything specific getting you down? How are things in your work and your personal relationships?

Is there anything specific getting you down? How are things in your work and your personal relationships? Oh I am sorry to hear that .. you are having a problem with a close friend?

Question, Restatement or Paraphrasing

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

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2

4

Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about?

Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about?

No I did not, can you tell me about it?

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

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2

4

Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again.

Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again.

Thank you, I would like to be able to help you but do not know what the problem is right now

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

3

2

4

Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again. I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable...

I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable...

Ah I see .. you feel as though you friend is dragging up things from the past which are no longer relevant to your friendship?

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

3

2

4

Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again. I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable... No, not at all. It's new stuff.

No, not at all. It's new stuff.

Oh I am sorry, I misunderstood. Can you tell me a little about the situation?

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

3

2

4

Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again. I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable... No, not at all. It's new stuff. We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him...

We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him...

What is it that he wants you to apologise for?

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problems_with_friends

I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

3

2

4

Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again. I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable... No, not at all. It's new stuff. We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him... But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before.

But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before.

ah I see. I have had problems and sometime negative interactions about Covid with some friends too. I think it's a very difficult time for everybody; we are all feeling the strain and might be more irritable than previously

ah I see. I have had problems and sometime negative interactions about Covid with some friends too. I think it's a very difficult time for everybody; we are all feeling the strain and might be more irritable than previously Can you see any way in which you can work around it and be friends again?

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

3

2

4

Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again. I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable... No, not at all. It's new stuff. We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him... But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before. Yes - he's always irritable! ha ha. So instead of answering, he launched into this thing about how COVID antibodies disappear, so the tests are pointless. I know there are some issues with the various tests. As it happens, I have a PhD in immunology, so I know a lot about this stuff... Yes - I want to be friends! It's not me...

Yes - he's always irritable! ha ha. So instead of answering, he launched into this thing about how COVID antibodies disappear, so the tests are pointless. I know there are some issues with the various tests. As it happens, I have a PhD in immunology, so I know a lot about this stuff... Yes - I want to be friends! It's not me...

I think that the tests are very necessary! Also social distancing and mask wearing at this time.

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problems_with_friends

I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

3

2

4

Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again. I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable... No, not at all. It's new stuff. We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him... But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before. Yes - he's always irritable! ha ha. So instead of answering, he launched into this thing about how COVID antibodies disappear, so the tests are pointless. I know there are some issues with the various tests. As it happens, I have a PhD in immunology, so I know a lot about this stuff... Yes - I want to be friends! It's not me... He started saying things that are just factually not correct. I get that the immune system is super complicated, and most people don't know much about it. But when I'd try to explain some things to him, he acted like I couldn't possibly know anything he didn't, after reading one Forbes article, and he started making personal attacks.

He started saying things that are just factually not correct. I get that the immune system is super complicated, and most people don't know much about it. But when I'd try to explain some things to him, he acted like I couldn't possibly know anything he didn't, after reading one Forbes article, and he started making personal attacks.

I think that perhaps you do not need this toxic person in your life. After fifteen years without him do you really feel you need to stay r reconciled?

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

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2

4

Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again. I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable... No, not at all. It's new stuff. We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him... But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before. Yes - he's always irritable! ha ha. So instead of answering, he launched into this thing about how COVID antibodies disappear, so the tests are pointless. I know there are some issues with the various tests. As it happens, I have a PhD in immunology, so I know a lot about this stuff... Yes - I want to be friends! It's not me... He started saying things that are just factually not correct. I get that the immune system is super complicated, and most people don't know much about it. But when I'd try to explain some things to him, he acted like I couldn't possibly know anything he didn't, after reading one Forbes article, and he started making personal attacks. I don't need him, no... But he's funny, and I don't have too many people in my life right now. I just moved to a new state where I literally know no one.

I don't need him, no... But he's funny, and I don't have too many people in my life right now. I just moved to a new state where I literally know no one.

In that case perhaps you can just agree to disagree on this topic? If you don't want to risk the friendship :). I hope I have been able to be of some help to you today and thank you for talking!

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

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Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again. I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable... No, not at all. It's new stuff. We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him... But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before. Yes - he's always irritable! ha ha. So instead of answering, he launched into this thing about how COVID antibodies disappear, so the tests are pointless. I know there are some issues with the various tests. As it happens, I have a PhD in immunology, so I know a lot about this stuff... Yes - I want to be friends! It's not me... He started saying things that are just factually not correct. I get that the immune system is super complicated, and most people don't know much about it. But when I'd try to explain some things to him, he acted like I couldn't possibly know anything he didn't, after reading one Forbes article, and he started making personal attacks. I don't need him, no... But he's funny, and I don't have too many people in my life right now. I just moved to a new state where I literally know no one. And I'm also hurt and annoyed that he thinks I have anything to apologize for, when I put up with his acid tongued comments, and just turn the other cheek. I agree we should just go on, but I'm not going to apologize, when I didn't do anything. Anyway - yes. I agree with you. Thanks for the talk. Take care!

And I'm also hurt and annoyed that he thinks I have anything to apologize for, when I put up with his acid tongued comments, and just turn the other cheek. I agree we should just go on, but I'm not going to apologize, when I didn't do anything. Anyway - yes. I agree with you. Thanks for the talk. Take care!

And you too!

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I have/had a friend who now lives on the opposite coast from me. After 15 years out of touch, we recently reconnected, and we chat by text, and met up a couple times. But now he's demanding an apology that I don't owe him.

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Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you? Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend... Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about? Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again. I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable... No, not at all. It's new stuff. We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him... But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before. Yes - he's always irritable! ha ha. So instead of answering, he launched into this thing about how COVID antibodies disappear, so the tests are pointless. I know there are some issues with the various tests. As it happens, I have a PhD in immunology, so I know a lot about this stuff... Yes - I want to be friends! It's not me... He started saying things that are just factually not correct. I get that the immune system is super complicated, and most people don't know much about it. But when I'd try to explain some things to him, he acted like I couldn't possibly know anything he didn't, after reading one Forbes article, and he started making personal attacks. I don't need him, no... But he's funny, and I don't have too many people in my life right now. I just moved to a new state where I literally know no one. And I'm also hurt and annoyed that he thinks I have anything to apologize for, when I put up with his acid tongued comments, and just turn the other cheek. I agree we should just go on, but I'm not going to apologize, when I didn't do anything. Anyway - yes. I agree with you. Thanks for the talk. Take care! Thanks. Bye...

Thanks. Bye...

bye!

bye! (only you can end the conversation .. I can not) Please can you quit or we will time out

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Hi, I'm struggling today.

I'm sorry to hear that. Anything in particular that is bothering you?

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Hi, I'm struggling today. I just feel worn out with everything I have to do. I don't know what else I can d to help my daughter.

I just feel worn out with everything I have to do. I don't know what else I can d to help my daughter.

I understand that you are feeling worn out and don't know what else you can do to help your child. Is there something specific going on or is it just life in general?

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Hi, I'm struggling today. I just feel worn out with everything I have to do. I don't know what else I can d to help my daughter. My daughter struggles with school work and memory. She learns differently and needs lots of support. I have contacted the school a number of times over the years but never really had any support or acknowledgement from them. I guess it's just an accumulation of things.

My daughter struggles with school work and memory. She learns differently and needs lots of support. I have contacted the school a number of times over the years but never really had any support or acknowledgement from them. I guess it's just an accumulation of things.

You have tried hard to help her and that is admirable. Don't beat yourself up and be proud of the things you have done for her.

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Hi, I'm struggling today. I just feel worn out with everything I have to do. I don't know what else I can d to help my daughter. My daughter struggles with school work and memory. She learns differently and needs lots of support. I have contacted the school a number of times over the years but never really had any support or acknowledgement from them. I guess it's just an accumulation of things. But what do I now. She's 17 and it's so difficult to give her the time and then encourage her to tell me when she needs help and for her to be willing to accept it.

But what do I now. She's 17 and it's so difficult to give her the time and then encourage her to tell me when she needs help and for her to be willing to accept it.

While I do not have kids, from what I have seen my friends and family do in this situation is try to find something that your daughter is interested in and attempt to build off of that. So instead of her learning to just learn, she is learning something that is relevant to her. Maybe that might spark something in her to come up with her way of learning since traditional methods aren't working.

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Worried about my daughter abd her academic struggles. She has a genetic condition and some learning differences. Struggling to cope to work and do day to day things and give her as much support as she needs.

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Hi, I'm struggling today. I just feel worn out with everything I have to do. I don't know what else I can d to help my daughter. My daughter struggles with school work and memory. She learns differently and needs lots of support. I have contacted the school a number of times over the years but never really had any support or acknowledgement from them. I guess it's just an accumulation of things. But what do I now. She's 17 and it's so difficult to give her the time and then encourage her to tell me when she needs help and for her to be willing to accept it. That is great advice. She does climb and hasn't been able to climb or see her friends with everything closed. I think as she will be able to again soon may be that will help her to relax and get back into it. She does learn through repetition but has lacked enthusiasm especially in the last few months.

That is great advice. She does climb and hasn't been able to climb or see her friends with everything closed. I think as she will be able to again soon may be that will help her to relax and get back into it. She does learn through repetition but has lacked enthusiasm especially in the last few months.

Having her go climbing more sounds like a good plan. Hopefully things are opening up around you now that the vaccine is becoming more common.

Having her go climbing more sounds like a good plan. Hopefully things are opening up around you now that the vaccine is becoming more common. Repetition is tough. I know I used a lot of flash cards as a way of learning through high-school and college. It's an old method but it can work.

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Hi, I'm struggling today. I just feel worn out with everything I have to do. I don't know what else I can d to help my daughter. My daughter struggles with school work and memory. She learns differently and needs lots of support. I have contacted the school a number of times over the years but never really had any support or acknowledgement from them. I guess it's just an accumulation of things. But what do I now. She's 17 and it's so difficult to give her the time and then encourage her to tell me when she needs help and for her to be willing to accept it. That is great advice. She does climb and hasn't been able to climb or see her friends with everything closed. I think as she will be able to again soon may be that will help her to relax and get back into it. She does learn through repetition but has lacked enthusiasm especially in the last few months. She had heart surgery as a baby so has actually had the vaccine herself as she's in the vulnerable category. I think she ends up spending so long making aide memoires that she then leaves herself so little time to actually study.

She had heart surgery as a baby so has actually had the vaccine herself as she's in the vulnerable category. I think she ends up spending so long making aide memoires that she then leaves herself so little time to actually study.

I can imagine after having heart surgery as a baby she wants to live life to it's fullest extent and prioritizes making memories over school. Does she ever talk about what her plans are for after high-school? At some point she will have to connect the dots of having to get a job to be able to go out and have fun, and unfortunately doing OK in school comes with that. That or a vocational school to learn a trade (what I personally did).

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5

Hi, I'm struggling today. I just feel worn out with everything I have to do. I don't know what else I can d to help my daughter. My daughter struggles with school work and memory. She learns differently and needs lots of support. I have contacted the school a number of times over the years but never really had any support or acknowledgement from them. I guess it's just an accumulation of things. But what do I now. She's 17 and it's so difficult to give her the time and then encourage her to tell me when she needs help and for her to be willing to accept it. That is great advice. She does climb and hasn't been able to climb or see her friends with everything closed. I think as she will be able to again soon may be that will help her to relax and get back into it. She does learn through repetition but has lacked enthusiasm especially in the last few months. She had heart surgery as a baby so has actually had the vaccine herself as she's in the vulnerable category. I think she ends up spending so long making aide memoires that she then leaves herself so little time to actually study. What did you do? Her interests are music and photography. Recently she has started a gardening club with the horticulture department at school. She does enjoy her social life well when she has been able to have it. She has had social ups and downs but apart from the epidemic she has been happier than in her earlier years at school. You are right she is becoming an adult and will find her place. At 17 I guess she doesn't have to decide just yet. You have certainly made me feel a bit more positive.

What did you do? Her interests are music and photography. Recently she has started a gardening club with the horticulture department at school. She does enjoy her social life well when she has been able to have it. She has had social ups and downs but apart from the epidemic she has been happier than in her earlier years at school. You are right she is becoming an adult and will find her place. At 17 I guess she doesn't have to decide just yet. You have certainly made me feel a bit more positive.

Sorry for the delay. I am glad you are feeling more positive. I was into cars so I went to vocational school to become an auto mechanic. After a couple years of that I realized I wasn't cut out for physical labor and went to college. But the knowledge from working on cars helped me understand things better at college since I had real world applications I could use it on.

Sorry for the delay. I am glad you are feeling more positive. I was into cars so I went to vocational school to become an auto mechanic. After a couple years of that I realized I wasn't cut out for physical labor and went to college. But the knowledge from working on cars helped me understand things better at college since I had real world applications I could use it on. Gardening and Horticulture is a great hobby! That definitely could cross over into some of her science classes to make things more interesting and relevant to her.

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Worried about my daughter abd her academic struggles. She has a genetic condition and some learning differences. Struggling to cope to work and do day to day things and give her as much support as she needs.

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3

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Hi, I'm struggling today. I just feel worn out with everything I have to do. I don't know what else I can d to help my daughter. My daughter struggles with school work and memory. She learns differently and needs lots of support. I have contacted the school a number of times over the years but never really had any support or acknowledgement from them. I guess it's just an accumulation of things. But what do I now. She's 17 and it's so difficult to give her the time and then encourage her to tell me when she needs help and for her to be willing to accept it. That is great advice. She does climb and hasn't been able to climb or see her friends with everything closed. I think as she will be able to again soon may be that will help her to relax and get back into it. She does learn through repetition but has lacked enthusiasm especially in the last few months. She had heart surgery as a baby so has actually had the vaccine herself as she's in the vulnerable category. I think she ends up spending so long making aide memoires that she then leaves herself so little time to actually study. What did you do? Her interests are music and photography. Recently she has started a gardening club with the horticulture department at school. She does enjoy her social life well when she has been able to have it. She has had social ups and downs but apart from the epidemic she has been happier than in her earlier years at school. You are right she is becoming an adult and will find her place. At 17 I guess she doesn't have to decide just yet. You have certainly made me feel a bit more positive. Thank you so much for your time and kindness today. You helped me refocus and some of the things you said were just what I needed to hear.

Thank you so much for your time and kindness today. You helped me refocus and some of the things you said were just what I needed to hear.

Glad I was able to help. Sometimes just having someone to bounce things off of makes a big difference. You have a good heart and good intentions. I wish you and your daughter the best.

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Worried about my daughter abd her academic struggles. She has a genetic condition and some learning differences. Struggling to cope to work and do day to day things and give her as much support as she needs.

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3

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Hi, I'm struggling today. I just feel worn out with everything I have to do. I don't know what else I can d to help my daughter. My daughter struggles with school work and memory. She learns differently and needs lots of support. I have contacted the school a number of times over the years but never really had any support or acknowledgement from them. I guess it's just an accumulation of things. But what do I now. She's 17 and it's so difficult to give her the time and then encourage her to tell me when she needs help and for her to be willing to accept it. That is great advice. She does climb and hasn't been able to climb or see her friends with everything closed. I think as she will be able to again soon may be that will help her to relax and get back into it. She does learn through repetition but has lacked enthusiasm especially in the last few months. She had heart surgery as a baby so has actually had the vaccine herself as she's in the vulnerable category. I think she ends up spending so long making aide memoires that she then leaves herself so little time to actually study. What did you do? Her interests are music and photography. Recently she has started a gardening club with the horticulture department at school. She does enjoy her social life well when she has been able to have it. She has had social ups and downs but apart from the epidemic she has been happier than in her earlier years at school. You are right she is becoming an adult and will find her place. At 17 I guess she doesn't have to decide just yet. You have certainly made me feel a bit more positive. Thank you so much for your time and kindness today. You helped me refocus and some of the things you said were just what I needed to hear. Thank you. Take care :-)

Thank you. Take care :-)

You're welcome. It was my pleasure.

You're welcome. It was my pleasure. Please hit the quit button and take the survey. I can not end the chat from my side. Thank you!

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i'm struggling with my depression, I can't seem to get a handle on it

I'm really sorry to hear that. What kinds of things have you been doing so far to manage your downswing?

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i'm struggling with my depression, I can't seem to get a handle on it I just keep reliving that moment in my head

I just keep reliving that moment in my head

Lots of obsessive, intrusive thoughts?

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i'm struggling with my depression, I can't seem to get a handle on it I just keep reliving that moment in my head yes, they just keep popping up can't stop it

yes, they just keep popping up can't stop it

When I get stuck in that loop, I try to change up my entire physical situation -- take a shower or a soak, change up my music if I'm listening to it. Kind of force my brain to take in a change.

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i'm struggling with my depression, I can't seem to get a handle on it I just keep reliving that moment in my head yes, they just keep popping up can't stop it I tried, I tried to keep myself busy, but boom my depressions hits me like a brick wall.

I tried, I tried to keep myself busy, but boom my depressions hits me like a brick wall.

Have you ever explored medication? I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder almost two years ago, and medication has made an enormous difference for me.

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i'm struggling with my depression, I can't seem to get a handle on it I just keep reliving that moment in my head yes, they just keep popping up can't stop it I tried, I tried to keep myself busy, but boom my depressions hits me like a brick wall. no my doctor prescribed me meds but it's not working. I will try meditation see it works. any more ideas?

no my doctor prescribed me meds but it's not working. I will try meditation see it works. any more ideas?

You should definitely see if the doctor can adjust your meds, I have ended up on a completely different type of medication than the one I tried first. But I understand. I think you should try getting out of the house and enjoying fresh air and physical activity. It won't cure your depression but it may help your headspace and your point of view.

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i'm struggling with my depression, I can't seem to get a handle on it I just keep reliving that moment in my head yes, they just keep popping up can't stop it I tried, I tried to keep myself busy, but boom my depressions hits me like a brick wall. no my doctor prescribed me meds but it's not working. I will try meditation see it works. any more ideas? hate taking meds. just keep reliving that moment. can't get it out of my head. it's killing

hate taking meds. just keep reliving that moment. can't get it out of my head. it's killing

Have you written it down? Like physically written it down? Sometimes when I have the obsessive thoughts, I'll do that and being able to see it "in real life" satisfies my brain.

Have you written it down? Like physically written it down? Sometimes when I have the obsessive thoughts, I'll do that and being able to see it "in real life" satisfies my brain. But if you're reliving a traumatic moment, it may be beneficial to seek out a licensed therapist who can help you process and move past the moment.

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i'm struggling with my depression, I can't seem to get a handle on it I just keep reliving that moment in my head yes, they just keep popping up can't stop it I tried, I tried to keep myself busy, but boom my depressions hits me like a brick wall. no my doctor prescribed me meds but it's not working. I will try meditation see it works. any more ideas? hate taking meds. just keep reliving that moment. can't get it out of my head. it's killing I will take your advice and right down my thoughts , maybe it will help the pain I have, I've been seeing a therapist. his not much help I think but it's someone I can talk too

I will take your advice and right down my thoughts , maybe it will help the pain I have, I've been seeing a therapist. his not much help I think but it's someone I can talk too

I hope it helps you out, you don't deserve to feel constant pain.

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i'm struggling with my depression, I can't seem to get a handle on it I just keep reliving that moment in my head yes, they just keep popping up can't stop it I tried, I tried to keep myself busy, but boom my depressions hits me like a brick wall. no my doctor prescribed me meds but it's not working. I will try meditation see it works. any more ideas? hate taking meds. just keep reliving that moment. can't get it out of my head. it's killing I will take your advice and right down my thoughts , maybe it will help the pain I have, I've been seeing a therapist. his not much help I think but it's someone I can talk too thank you I hope so too

thank you I hope so too

You seem motivated to get better, so I am confident you will be successful. You deserve to feel wonderful.

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i'm struggling with my depression, I can't seem to get a handle on it I just keep reliving that moment in my head yes, they just keep popping up can't stop it I tried, I tried to keep myself busy, but boom my depressions hits me like a brick wall. no my doctor prescribed me meds but it's not working. I will try meditation see it works. any more ideas? hate taking meds. just keep reliving that moment. can't get it out of my head. it's killing I will take your advice and right down my thoughts , maybe it will help the pain I have, I've been seeing a therapist. his not much help I think but it's someone I can talk too thank you I hope so too thanks for the confidence. I hope so to you've been very helpful

thanks for the confidence. I hope so to you've been very helpful

I'm glad to hear that! Thank you!

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I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex

I'm sorry to hear you are sad. What's going on? Maybe I can encourage you?

I'm sorry to hear you are sad. What's going on? Maybe I can encourage you? Ouch! So he wants to see his ex? Basically he is breaking up with you? How long did you date him?

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I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

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I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know

No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know

I'm so sorry to hear this. You must be full of all kinds of emotions now. What are your plans?

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I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

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I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated

i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated

I can understand your frustration. It happened to me before. And I've had girlfriends. They never change. They will apologize because they got caught, but they never really change.

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I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

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I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat?

But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat?

It's going to be very painful for a while because you have been invested 3 years in this relationship. Do you have friends to talk to that can encourage and support you?

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I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

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I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat? The messages were about meeting up for a photoshoot at the brooklyn bridge. is that cheating because he lied

The messages were about meeting up for a photoshoot at the brooklyn bridge. is that cheating because he lied

I find if they flirt, they already have cheated. Loyalty is something inside a person, or not. Very few will look inside themselves and see why they do this and want to change. If you were married, you would need counseling.

I find if they flirt, they already have cheated. Loyalty is something inside a person, or not. Very few will look inside themselves and see why they do this and want to change. If you were married, you would need counseling. Do you meet up with your exes?

Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings

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I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

5

1

5

I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat? The messages were about meeting up for a photoshoot at the brooklyn bridge. is that cheating because he lied i'm still friends with many of my exes, but he knows that and we all hang out together thats why it's weird that he lied

i'm still friends with many of my exes, but he knows that and we all hang out together thats why it's weird that he lied

He lied because he didn't want you to know the truth. Which is betrayal.

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I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

5

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5

I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat? The messages were about meeting up for a photoshoot at the brooklyn bridge. is that cheating because he lied i'm still friends with many of my exes, but he knows that and we all hang out together thats why it's weird that he lied also, when he gets home, how do i tell him how i found out. i mean, i literally got into his facebook without asking i just had this intuition that he was being suspicious

also, when he gets home, how do i tell him how i found out. i mean, i literally got into his facebook without asking i just had this intuition that he was being suspicious

It's a hot mess, is it not? Why did you feel you wanted to spy on him? Did you already mistrust him?

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I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

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1

5

I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat? The messages were about meeting up for a photoshoot at the brooklyn bridge. is that cheating because he lied i'm still friends with many of my exes, but he knows that and we all hang out together thats why it's weird that he lied also, when he gets home, how do i tell him how i found out. i mean, i literally got into his facebook without asking i just had this intuition that he was being suspicious well, it was weird that he got so dressed up to go hang out with friends it makes sense now that i know he went for a photoshoot

well, it was weird that he got so dressed up to go hang out with friends it makes sense now that i know he went for a photoshoot

Ok, so this is a HUGE red flag to you. You can ignore it, or not. Women KNOW when a man is cheating, so you had that inside of you. And you went with your hunch and now you have found he is dishonest.

Ok, so this is a HUGE red flag to you. You can ignore it, or not. Women KNOW when a man is cheating, so you had that inside of you. And you went with your hunch and now you have found he is dishonest. Was the photoshoot to have pictures of him?

Self-disclosure, Question

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I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

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1

5

I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat? The messages were about meeting up for a photoshoot at the brooklyn bridge. is that cheating because he lied i'm still friends with many of my exes, but he knows that and we all hang out together thats why it's weird that he lied also, when he gets home, how do i tell him how i found out. i mean, i literally got into his facebook without asking i just had this intuition that he was being suspicious well, it was weird that he got so dressed up to go hang out with friends it makes sense now that i know he went for a photoshoot yeah, she's a photographer she took all his headshots when he first moved to America, actually when they were together

yeah, she's a photographer she took all his headshots when he first moved to America, actually when they were together

I suppose it could be Christmas pictures of him for you? Or not. I personally feel honesty is the best policy, no matter what. I would come clean. I would tell him I sensed trouble and looked for it and found it.

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breakup_with_partner

I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

5

1

5

I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat? The messages were about meeting up for a photoshoot at the brooklyn bridge. is that cheating because he lied i'm still friends with many of my exes, but he knows that and we all hang out together thats why it's weird that he lied also, when he gets home, how do i tell him how i found out. i mean, i literally got into his facebook without asking i just had this intuition that he was being suspicious well, it was weird that he got so dressed up to go hang out with friends it makes sense now that i know he went for a photoshoot yeah, she's a photographer she took all his headshots when he first moved to America, actually when they were together i worry that i am jumping to conclusions.

i worry that i am jumping to conclusions.

You could be, but then you wouldn't have a feeling of mistrust, you would just be sensing a surprise.

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breakup_with_partner

I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

5

1

5

I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat? The messages were about meeting up for a photoshoot at the brooklyn bridge. is that cheating because he lied i'm still friends with many of my exes, but he knows that and we all hang out together thats why it's weird that he lied also, when he gets home, how do i tell him how i found out. i mean, i literally got into his facebook without asking i just had this intuition that he was being suspicious well, it was weird that he got so dressed up to go hang out with friends it makes sense now that i know he went for a photoshoot yeah, she's a photographer she took all his headshots when he first moved to America, actually when they were together i worry that i am jumping to conclusions. he may say: you are friends with ur exes, why can't i be friends with mine? he never said which friends he was going to see he also didnt offer to take me with him, though i always invite him when i hang out with my exes

he may say: you are friends with ur exes, why can't i be friends with mine? he never said which friends he was going to see he also didnt offer to take me with him, though i always invite him when i hang out with my exes

He could say that. And if he is lying, do you think he will begin to be honest? You will have to judge for yourself. If he is lying, he will continue to lie. And you will feel it inside of yourself. Is this the first time you felt this way? Or has this happened before?

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I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex and I don't know if I should break up with him or not.

5

1

5

I'm very sad. I found out my boyfriend went to see his ex No, i hacked his facebook. He told me he was going to hang out with friends. but i found out he lied we have been together for 3 years he doesn't know that i know i don't know yet tbh. i have never been cheated on before. we also live together so it's complicated But, how do I know for sure if he did cheat? The messages were about meeting up for a photoshoot at the brooklyn bridge. is that cheating because he lied i'm still friends with many of my exes, but he knows that and we all hang out together thats why it's weird that he lied also, when he gets home, how do i tell him how i found out. i mean, i literally got into his facebook without asking i just had this intuition that he was being suspicious well, it was weird that he got so dressed up to go hang out with friends it makes sense now that i know he went for a photoshoot yeah, she's a photographer she took all his headshots when he first moved to America, actually when they were together i worry that i am jumping to conclusions. he may say: you are friends with ur exes, why can't i be friends with mine? he never said which friends he was going to see he also didnt offer to take me with him, though i always invite him when i hang out with my exes never before. i guess ur right

never before. i guess ur right

I'm an older woman, almost 60. I've been married 20 years but I had a lot of boyfriends and I can tell you one thing, If they start to look elsewhere, run for the hills, they will continue to excuse their behavior, apologize, say they will change, and it just gets worse. I drove myself insane with worry, suspicion. I wanted someone to treasure me, not cheat and lie. Cheaters don't change their spots.

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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Hi there

Hello. How's it going?

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions

I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions

I can agree. There are so many places going back to where we were several months ago. Which state do you live in?

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now.

I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now.

I agree it's bad! Where I live in the US our numbers are going back up and the kids are being home schooled again. I just keep thinking this is temporary!

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now. Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation

Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation

I have to say it's hard to find motivation and I was in that spot at the beginning. With news of vaccines being introduced here shortly, that's what's keeping me afloat. Are you able to hang out with friends?

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ongoing_depression

Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now. Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation no not really because I'm not supposed to mix with people outside of my household. I could potentially try and meet them virtually online or on a video call is this something you've had much experience with?

no not really because I'm not supposed to mix with people outside of my household. I could potentially try and meet them virtually online or on a video call is this something you've had much experience with?

Oh very much so! Zoom and Facetime are my best friends right now. lol I think that's one of the reasons why I snapped out of my depression is because I started doing that more since we couldn't go out and do anything.

Self-disclosure

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ongoing_depression

Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now. Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation no not really because I'm not supposed to mix with people outside of my household. I could potentially try and meet them virtually online or on a video call is this something you've had much experience with? Ok that's interesting so you have also suffered with depression in the past? exactly how did you get out of it yourself?

Ok that's interesting so you have also suffered with depression in the past? exactly how did you get out of it yourself?

I downloaded Zoom around the end of May. The first two months were the worst. I had never heard of Zoom until a friend said we should have a virtual party so he organized it and there were 11 on the call. It was so much fun despite the fact.

I downloaded Zoom around the end of May. The first two months were the worst. I had never heard of Zoom until a friend said we should have a virtual party so he organized it and there were 11 on the call. It was so much fun despite the fact. Maybe organizing a "zoom party" would start to lift your spirits.

Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now. Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation no not really because I'm not supposed to mix with people outside of my household. I could potentially try and meet them virtually online or on a video call is this something you've had much experience with? Ok that's interesting so you have also suffered with depression in the past? exactly how did you get out of it yourself? that's a really good suggestion. I could also catch up with friends that haven't seen for a while. I think this would definitely work to boost my mood. The only problem is being depressed isn't something that I'm familiar with. what if it goes a little bit deeper than this?

that's a really good suggestion. I could also catch up with friends that haven't seen for a while. I think this would definitely work to boost my mood. The only problem is being depressed isn't something that I'm familiar with. what if it goes a little bit deeper than this?

Depression sucks I have to say! Just don't let it win. Since you say it's something you have never dealt with, you can fight it by staying upbeat and do something fun.

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now. Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation no not really because I'm not supposed to mix with people outside of my household. I could potentially try and meet them virtually online or on a video call is this something you've had much experience with? Ok that's interesting so you have also suffered with depression in the past? exactly how did you get out of it yourself? that's a really good suggestion. I could also catch up with friends that haven't seen for a while. I think this would definitely work to boost my mood. The only problem is being depressed isn't something that I'm familiar with. what if it goes a little bit deeper than this? Sure, or something conversations like this help perhaps a support group would be a good idea also?

Sure, or something conversations like this help perhaps a support group would be a good idea also?

Start off by not being hard on yourself for feeling the way you do. Music, tv and books does it for me - and zoom

Start off by not being hard on yourself for feeling the way you do. Music, tv and books does it for me - and zoom Most definitely. Do you have Meetup over there?

Self-disclosure, Question

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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4

Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now. Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation no not really because I'm not supposed to mix with people outside of my household. I could potentially try and meet them virtually online or on a video call is this something you've had much experience with? Ok that's interesting so you have also suffered with depression in the past? exactly how did you get out of it yourself? that's a really good suggestion. I could also catch up with friends that haven't seen for a while. I think this would definitely work to boost my mood. The only problem is being depressed isn't something that I'm familiar with. what if it goes a little bit deeper than this? Sure, or something conversations like this help perhaps a support group would be a good idea also? I've never heard of this, what is it?

I've never heard of this, what is it?

It's an app on mobile devices where you can (when there's no pandemic) meet up with folks who share common interests as yourself. Nowadays instead of meeting in person, they are doing virtual meetups. I do it with a book club.

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

4

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4

Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now. Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation no not really because I'm not supposed to mix with people outside of my household. I could potentially try and meet them virtually online or on a video call is this something you've had much experience with? Ok that's interesting so you have also suffered with depression in the past? exactly how did you get out of it yourself? that's a really good suggestion. I could also catch up with friends that haven't seen for a while. I think this would definitely work to boost my mood. The only problem is being depressed isn't something that I'm familiar with. what if it goes a little bit deeper than this? Sure, or something conversations like this help perhaps a support group would be a good idea also? I've never heard of this, what is it? I think something to take my mind off the current situation would be really good. I like the idea of a virtual book club. is it free?

I think something to take my mind off the current situation would be really good. I like the idea of a virtual book club. is it free?

Totally free!

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now. Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation no not really because I'm not supposed to mix with people outside of my household. I could potentially try and meet them virtually online or on a video call is this something you've had much experience with? Ok that's interesting so you have also suffered with depression in the past? exactly how did you get out of it yourself? that's a really good suggestion. I could also catch up with friends that haven't seen for a while. I think this would definitely work to boost my mood. The only problem is being depressed isn't something that I'm familiar with. what if it goes a little bit deeper than this? Sure, or something conversations like this help perhaps a support group would be a good idea also? I've never heard of this, what is it? I think something to take my mind off the current situation would be really good. I like the idea of a virtual book club. is it free? I like the sound of that, thanks for your help

I like the sound of that, thanks for your help

You are so welcome. Just don't let that depression get the best of you. You're stronger than it is.

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Coronavirus restrictions are getting me down and I've suffered from low motivation and can't seem to get positive about anything any more.

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4

Hi there I've not been doing great to be honest. I'm finding it hard to stay positive with all these constant lockdowns and restrictions I'm actually from the UK. I live in the North of the country near Manchester and things are bad here right now. Yes I suppose it does help to think it possible not for the long term but my friends seem to be dealing with it better than I am and I'm not quite sure why it's put me in such a sad emotional state. I should just get on with it but have very low motivation no not really because I'm not supposed to mix with people outside of my household. I could potentially try and meet them virtually online or on a video call is this something you've had much experience with? Ok that's interesting so you have also suffered with depression in the past? exactly how did you get out of it yourself? that's a really good suggestion. I could also catch up with friends that haven't seen for a while. I think this would definitely work to boost my mood. The only problem is being depressed isn't something that I'm familiar with. what if it goes a little bit deeper than this? Sure, or something conversations like this help perhaps a support group would be a good idea also? I've never heard of this, what is it? I think something to take my mind off the current situation would be really good. I like the idea of a virtual book club. is it free? I like the sound of that, thanks for your help thank you for the vote of confidence.

thank you for the vote of confidence.

Very welcome!

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it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

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hello

How are you friend?

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it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do

i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do

What' s your problem friend?

Affirmation and Reassurance

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3

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible

i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible

don't worry

don't worry Try to do your job enthusiastically..

Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance

Affirmation and Reassurance

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4

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going

the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going

Do you know of nay business you own?

Affirmation and Reassurance

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high empathy, high relevance

90

5

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going didnt get you

didnt get you

ok

Affirmation and Reassurance

1,043

neutral

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high empathy, high relevance

90

6

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going didnt get you i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet

i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet

don't worry, keep trying..

don't worry, keep trying.. Definitely get a good job, keep trying..

Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance

Affirmation and Reassurance

1,044

sad

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high empathy, high relevance

90

7

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going didnt get you i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet yes i am still trying every angle thanks, i will keep trying

yes i am still trying every angle thanks, i will keep trying

very good

very good All the best

Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance

Affirmation and Reassurance

1,045

angry

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0.00128

0.008165

0.235557

0.001154

0.003905

high empathy, high relevance

90

8

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going didnt get you i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet yes i am still trying every angle thanks, i will keep trying thanks good luck to you too nice talking to you

thanks good luck to you too nice talking to you

Thanks a lot friend...

Thanks a lot friend... me too..

Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance

Affirmation and Reassurance

1,046

happy

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0.000041

high empathy, high relevance

90

9

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going didnt get you i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet yes i am still trying every angle thanks, i will keep trying thanks good luck to you too nice talking to you and please is there any other way i can get job easily i have tried all my best

and please is there any other way i can get job easily i have tried all my best

Do you search on social web sites

Affirmation and Reassurance

1,047

sad

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0.008768

high empathy, high relevance

90

10

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going didnt get you i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet yes i am still trying every angle thanks, i will keep trying thanks good luck to you too nice talking to you and please is there any other way i can get job easily i have tried all my best no not yet

no not yet

give it a try and you will definitely get a good job

Affirmation and Reassurance

1,048

neutral

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0.006651

high empathy, high relevance

90

11

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going didnt get you i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet yes i am still trying every angle thanks, i will keep trying thanks good luck to you too nice talking to you and please is there any other way i can get job easily i have tried all my best no not yet ok, i will thanks for that

ok, i will thanks for that

ok good luck

Affirmation and Reassurance

1,049

angry

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0.211145

0.00343

0.000226

0.001385

high empathy, high relevance

90

12

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going didnt get you i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet yes i am still trying every angle thanks, i will keep trying thanks good luck to you too nice talking to you and please is there any other way i can get job easily i have tried all my best no not yet ok, i will thanks for that same here thanks

same here thanks

Hmm ok, anything else?

Affirmation and Reassurance

1,050

neutral

0.168793

0.000387

0.000715

0.020392

0.751222

0.000351

0.05814

high empathy, high relevance

90

13

depression

job_crisis

it has been difficult to get another job after i was furloughed

4

1

5

hello i am in depression friend, don't really know what else to do i was furloughed and getting another good job is like mission impossible the is no job anywhere i have to go to the food shelter last month that how bad things are going didnt get you i have been going all around looking for a part time job but nothing yet yes i am still trying every angle thanks, i will keep trying thanks good luck to you too nice talking to you and please is there any other way i can get job easily i have tried all my best no not yet ok, i will thanks for that same here thanks nothing at all you have been more than helpful

nothing at all you have been more than helpful

thank you,

thank you, ok bye, god bless you..

Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance

Affirmation and Reassurance

1,051

sad

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0.003847

0.009065

0.025856

0.033181

0.794978

0.011009

high empathy, high relevance

92

1

anxiety

ongoing_depression

I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

4

2

5

I am feeling a high level of anxiety.

I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?

Self-disclosure

1,064

fear

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high empathy, high relevance

92

2

anxiety

ongoing_depression

I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

4

2

5

I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.

My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all.

That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?

Question

1,065

fear

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high empathy, high relevance

92

3

anxiety

ongoing_depression

I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

4

2

5

I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.

Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.

There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?

Information

1,066

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