jordanfan/esconv_processed_all · Datasets at Hugging Face

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job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet

I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet

I try to find the best HIT which pays the most

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call

I have friends I can call

I would call them in order to get some cash while you go back on track

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice

Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice

Great names, they sound nice. A good friend is a treasure

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole.

Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole.

I always try to see the positive side of every situation, they always happen for a good reason

Self-disclosure

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past.

He had helped me in the past.

And do you live by yourself ?

Question

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103

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas

We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas

South america is awesome I love it. People there are very positive outgoing even though their countries are not developed

Providing Suggestions

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103

10

fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes

I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes

I love bananas I think we could live eating only fruits

I love bananas I think we could live eating only fruits vegan people only eat fruits and vegetables

Self-disclosure, Information

Self-disclosure

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103

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick!

I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick!

I sometimes do fasting it helps

Self-disclosure

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103

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick! Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm

Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm

I am sure you will find what you need soon

Providing Suggestions

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103

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick! Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm Last night I had a bad dream

Last night I had a bad dream

That is a great idea hope you invite me to have one of the fruits you grow

That is a great idea hope you invite me to have one of the fruits you grow What was it ? What was the bad dream about ?

Affirmation and Reassurance, Question, Question

Affirmation and Reassurance

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103

14

fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick! Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm Last night I had a bad dream That I only 467 gnomes That I only had I LOST ONE OF MY GNOMES I JUST LEFT HIM BEHIND

That I only 467 gnomes That I only had I LOST ONE OF MY GNOMES I JUST LEFT HIM BEHIND

I would be happy with all this gnomes

Providing Suggestions

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103

15

fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick! Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm Last night I had a bad dream That I only 467 gnomes That I only had I LOST ONE OF MY GNOMES I JUST LEFT HIM BEHIND SOMEWHERE SCARED AND CRYING IN THE RAIN

SOMEWHERE SCARED AND CRYING IN THE RAIN

Is it cold up there?

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103

16

fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick! Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm Last night I had a bad dream That I only 467 gnomes That I only had I LOST ONE OF MY GNOMES I JUST LEFT HIM BEHIND SOMEWHERE SCARED AND CRYING IN THE RAIN And then the HORRORS, the rest of my children starved RIGHT BEFORE MY EYES

And then the HORRORS, the rest of my children starved RIGHT BEFORE MY EYES

In these times of pandemic is good to be careful with temperature changes

Providing Suggestions

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103

17

fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

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I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick! Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm Last night I had a bad dream That I only 467 gnomes That I only had I LOST ONE OF MY GNOMES I JUST LEFT HIM BEHIND SOMEWHERE SCARED AND CRYING IN THE RAIN And then the HORRORS, the rest of my children starved RIGHT BEFORE MY EYES And then they SHRIVLED INTO NOTHING I was devastated

And then they SHRIVLED INTO NOTHING I was devastated

I would try to think about the good things life have

I would try to think about the good things life have Think that tomorrow the sun will shine again

Others, Providing Suggestions

Others

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103

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick! Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm Last night I had a bad dream That I only 467 gnomes That I only had I LOST ONE OF MY GNOMES I JUST LEFT HIM BEHIND SOMEWHERE SCARED AND CRYING IN THE RAIN And then the HORRORS, the rest of my children starved RIGHT BEFORE MY EYES And then they SHRIVLED INTO NOTHING I was devastated WOW you're right!!! Thank you so much for your help I have a new purpose

WOW you're right!!! Thank you so much for your help I have a new purpose

That's great to always have a new purpose, go get them!!

Providing Suggestions

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103

19

fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick! Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm Last night I had a bad dream That I only 467 gnomes That I only had I LOST ONE OF MY GNOMES I JUST LEFT HIM BEHIND SOMEWHERE SCARED AND CRYING IN THE RAIN And then the HORRORS, the rest of my children starved RIGHT BEFORE MY EYES And then they SHRIVLED INTO NOTHING I was devastated WOW you're right!!! Thank you so much for your help I have a new purpose I see the true goal of my life Thank you

I see the true goal of my life Thank you

Every dream that you have comes with the power to make it come true

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fear

job_crisis

My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana I work for amazon turk too. It's the only way I can afford my banana based diet I have friends I can call Their name are Plantain, Cavendish and Musa acuminata They are really nice Yes, those are all my girlfriends. I'm very good friend's with one of their husbands, Dole. He had helped me in the past. We took many great vacations to South and Central America to India, China and Africa Which is where all types of bananas grow. We flavored so many bananas I live alone. Just me and 349 garden knomes I need to support my garden gnomes children. They will starve if I can't find a job quick! Maybe I should move to South America and open my own farm Last night I had a bad dream That I only 467 gnomes That I only had I LOST ONE OF MY GNOMES I JUST LEFT HIM BEHIND SOMEWHERE SCARED AND CRYING IN THE RAIN And then the HORRORS, the rest of my children starved RIGHT BEFORE MY EYES And then they SHRIVLED INTO NOTHING I was devastated WOW you're right!!! Thank you so much for your help I have a new purpose I see the true goal of my life Thank you THANK YOU

THANK YOU

Thanks to you because you really make me open my eyes

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anxiety

job_crisis

I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind

Of course, would be glad to support

Of course, would be glad to support What's on your mind?

Others, Question

Others

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anxiety

job_crisis

I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself

Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself

I see, so sorry to hear that... How are you feeling due to that?

Question

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anxiety

job_crisis

I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid

I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid

Ah I understand, is there any temporary financial support available for you and your family?

Ah I understand, is there any temporary financial support available for you and your family? If I may suggest this, you can look into programs that help re-employ or support laid off workers in your country.

Question, Providing Suggestions

Question

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anxiety

job_crisis

I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet

Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet

I completely understand, I would also feel anxious if I were in this situation. It's an honorable thing that you've taken the initiative and are working hard to support your family.

Affirmation and Reassurance

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anxiety

job_crisis

I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man

Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man

If it makes you feel any better, there are a bunch of workshops that offer support, what little it may be. I'm not sure what country you are in, but I've seen some small organizations that give away grocery vouchers for those in need. Perhaps you could narrow your search to find those as well, if you haven't already

If it makes you feel any better, there are a bunch of workshops that offer support, what little it may be. I'm not sure what country you are in, but I've seen some small organizations that give away grocery vouchers for those in need. Perhaps you could narrow your search to find those as well, if you haven't already Alright, you might want to start by taking deep breaths, and remember that this will not be the end of it all Your wife's reassurance is very valid, and I'm sure she doesn't blame you. Getting laid off is no fault of your own, and at the least, your wife is still working, so you have a bit of time until things start to spiral

Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings

Providing Suggestions

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anxiety

job_crisis

I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths?

Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths?

Of course, breathing is the body's most calming function, you dont need a set amount of breaths, but take the time to be aware of the action and the stillness around you

Of course, breathing is the body's most calming function, you dont need a set amount of breaths, but take the time to be aware of the action and the stillness around you It would help more than you think it will In this time that you have, I think it would be nice to take the time you have with your family and enjoy it

Information, Information, Providing Suggestions

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job_crisis

I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths? I actually feel the support from my wife for which i am grateful but then my children are young to understand it all. I used to do a lot for them and constantly tell me to do the same but am unable cause it needs money It is quite unfortunate that in my family we are used to finding joy as a family outside the home setting which requires spending and this we are not able to meet it often times as we have had to reduce spending Apart from deep breaths, what other ways can i use to manage my anxiety?

I actually feel the support from my wife for which i am grateful but then my children are young to understand it all. I used to do a lot for them and constantly tell me to do the same but am unable cause it needs money It is quite unfortunate that in my family we are used to finding joy as a family outside the home setting which requires spending and this we are not able to meet it often times as we have had to reduce spending Apart from deep breaths, what other ways can i use to manage my anxiety?

Spending time actively playing with your kids would help, along with morning exercise (but nothing too strenuous) if you choose to do so

Spending time actively playing with your kids would help, along with morning exercise (but nothing too strenuous) if you choose to do so if you enjoy reading, I suggest taking the time to find a book that you used to enjoy and give it another read it will remind you of a time when you were in a good place, and hopefully project that feeling back to you

Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions, Others

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job_crisis

I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths? I actually feel the support from my wife for which i am grateful but then my children are young to understand it all. I used to do a lot for them and constantly tell me to do the same but am unable cause it needs money It is quite unfortunate that in my family we are used to finding joy as a family outside the home setting which requires spending and this we are not able to meet it often times as we have had to reduce spending Apart from deep breaths, what other ways can i use to manage my anxiety? Wow, am amazed! You mean anxiety can be managed so simply? Wanna give it a try

Wow, am amazed! You mean anxiety can be managed so simply? Wanna give it a try

I hope you do, positive attitude is the start to a healthy mind. This may not work for everything and the anxiety won't just disappear on day one or maybe ever, but these are steps you would want to start with :)

I hope you do, positive attitude is the start to a healthy mind. This may not work for everything and the anxiety won't just disappear on day one or maybe ever, but these are steps you would want to start with :) Coping with anxiety is what you make of it, remember to not beat yourself up about things you ultimately cannot control.

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anxiety

job_crisis

I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths? I actually feel the support from my wife for which i am grateful but then my children are young to understand it all. I used to do a lot for them and constantly tell me to do the same but am unable cause it needs money It is quite unfortunate that in my family we are used to finding joy as a family outside the home setting which requires spending and this we are not able to meet it often times as we have had to reduce spending Apart from deep breaths, what other ways can i use to manage my anxiety? Wow, am amazed! You mean anxiety can be managed so simply? Wanna give it a try sure. Let me adjust my attitude first and accept the situation. Hoping t cope with the situation in due course Much grateful for the support

sure. Let me adjust my attitude first and accept the situation. Hoping t cope with the situation in due course Much grateful for the support

exactly: "maintain a hopeful outlook and visualize what you want rather than what you fear" I really hope I was able to help even if it was a little bit

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I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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3

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4

hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths? I actually feel the support from my wife for which i am grateful but then my children are young to understand it all. I used to do a lot for them and constantly tell me to do the same but am unable cause it needs money It is quite unfortunate that in my family we are used to finding joy as a family outside the home setting which requires spending and this we are not able to meet it often times as we have had to reduce spending Apart from deep breaths, what other ways can i use to manage my anxiety? Wow, am amazed! You mean anxiety can be managed so simply? Wanna give it a try sure. Let me adjust my attitude first and accept the situation. Hoping t cope with the situation in due course Much grateful for the support That wasn`t little. It was much and am gonna try it out.

That wasn`t little. It was much and am gonna try it out.

I'm really glad :) and I hope it works out!

I'm really glad :) and I hope it works out! best of luck, and please take care of yourself

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I was laid off from work during the covi-19 period at a time when i least expected it and i wasthen finacially doen since i had spent a great portion of the money i had to settle bills and was planning to take an advance salary only to be informed i was stopped from working for an unknown period

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hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths? I actually feel the support from my wife for which i am grateful but then my children are young to understand it all. I used to do a lot for them and constantly tell me to do the same but am unable cause it needs money It is quite unfortunate that in my family we are used to finding joy as a family outside the home setting which requires spending and this we are not able to meet it often times as we have had to reduce spending Apart from deep breaths, what other ways can i use to manage my anxiety? Wow, am amazed! You mean anxiety can be managed so simply? Wanna give it a try sure. Let me adjust my attitude first and accept the situation. Hoping t cope with the situation in due course Much grateful for the support That wasn`t little. It was much and am gonna try it out. Sure. My hope too. Goodbye

Sure. My hope too. Goodbye

Bye, have a great day

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I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

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Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend..

I can understand that is very hurtful..can you tell me more about the help you need

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I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

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Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him.

My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him.

you can come out of breakup and have a start with new life..

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breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

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Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that

Can you provide me some resources on how to do that

Of course..Try getting talked to friends and family who can understand you..

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breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

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Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else?

Yes I can do that..anything else?

Yes..They are many online forums and groups who are having a lot of people facing similar issues..Talking to them makes you feel new and refreshed..

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breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

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Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that..

Yeah..I can try that..

I strongly believe that you will be fine with in no time..

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breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

4

3

5

Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so?

Do you really think so?

For sure..I am a real survivor of broken up relation ship..

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sadness

breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

4

3

5

Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest me how to get in to a new relationship when i commit next time..

Can you suggest me how to get in to a new relationship when i commit next time..

Be make sure the real attitude of the person.try to find some one with a kind nature..

Providing Suggestions

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sadness

breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

4

3

5

Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest me how to get in to a new relationship when i commit next time.. I will certainly keep in mind..

I will certainly keep in mind..

Yes..and you should be not in a hurry to commit in to a relationship which many people will do.

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sadness

breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

4

3

5

Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest me how to get in to a new relationship when i commit next time.. I will certainly keep in mind.. Yeah that is a statement to be remembered..

Yeah that is a statement to be remembered..

Is there anything else I can help you today?

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breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

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3

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Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest me how to get in to a new relationship when i commit next time.. I will certainly keep in mind.. Yeah that is a statement to be remembered.. can you tell me which men are more kind .

can you tell me which men are more kind .

Make sure to find a man who is not very bossy and gives importance to how you feel

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breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

4

3

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Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest me how to get in to a new relationship when i commit next time.. I will certainly keep in mind.. Yeah that is a statement to be remembered.. can you tell me which men are more kind . Sure..thank you for all the help.

Sure..thank you for all the help.

always welcome.Iam sure you will be alright..

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breakup_with_partner

I recently faced a breakup with my partner..

4

3

5

Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend.. My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him. Can you provide me some resources on how to do that Yes I can do that..anything else? Yeah..I can try that.. Do you really think so? Can you suggest me how to get in to a new relationship when i commit next time.. I will certainly keep in mind.. Yeah that is a statement to be remembered.. can you tell me which men are more kind . Sure..thank you for all the help. Thank you .bye..

Thank you .bye..

Bye.

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breakup_with_partner

My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

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5

Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago.

Have you confronted him about it yet?

Question

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disgust

breakup_with_partner

My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

5

1

5

Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked.

Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked.

Have you broken up yet?

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breakup_with_partner

My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

5

1

5

Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though.

No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though.

I think you should postpone the engagement as infidelity during marriage is far more painful

I think you should postpone the engagement as infidelity during marriage is far more painful You are strong if you are able to forgive him though because I know I wouldn't

Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure

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breakup_with_partner

My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

5

1

5

Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though. I have never been so blind sided. Maybe I should reconsider! I have had a guy after me for at least the last year but I never cheated! I really wanted to though.

I have never been so blind sided. Maybe I should reconsider! I have had a guy after me for at least the last year but I never cheated! I really wanted to though.

No you should never cheat, because you would be on the same wavelength as your boyfriend. Instead, if you like the other man then you should go where your feelings take you :)

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breakup_with_partner

My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

5

1

5

Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though. I have never been so blind sided. Maybe I should reconsider! I have had a guy after me for at least the last year but I never cheated! I really wanted to though. I am thinking that you are right. I feel like my whole world is upside down and I have wasted all this time with the wrong guy and the wrong best friend. I also wonder who else he might have cheated on my with.

I am thinking that you are right. I feel like my whole world is upside down and I have wasted all this time with the wrong guy and the wrong best friend. I also wonder who else he might have cheated on my with.

Yeah, that might be true, a relationship isn't healthy if you are cheated on

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breakup_with_partner

My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

5

1

5

Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though. I have never been so blind sided. Maybe I should reconsider! I have had a guy after me for at least the last year but I never cheated! I really wanted to though. I am thinking that you are right. I feel like my whole world is upside down and I have wasted all this time with the wrong guy and the wrong best friend. I also wonder who else he might have cheated on my with. I am so grossed out because I am a germaphobe to begin with. I have not slept with any other person in my whole life so I feel like I am ruined. I want to throw up when I think of him cheating on me. I want to get married and I have a timeline so I am also really confused on what to do if I dump him.

I am so grossed out because I am a germaphobe to begin with. I have not slept with any other person in my whole life so I feel like I am ruined. I want to throw up when I think of him cheating on me. I want to get married and I have a timeline so I am also really confused on what to do if I dump him.

To dump him is the best thing to do in my opinion. But always go where your heart is, because you won't be happy if you don't. If you do though, there are plenty men out there, and one of them is chasing you

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disgust

breakup_with_partner

My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

5

1

5

Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though. I have never been so blind sided. Maybe I should reconsider! I have had a guy after me for at least the last year but I never cheated! I really wanted to though. I am thinking that you are right. I feel like my whole world is upside down and I have wasted all this time with the wrong guy and the wrong best friend. I also wonder who else he might have cheated on my with. I am so grossed out because I am a germaphobe to begin with. I have not slept with any other person in my whole life so I feel like I am ruined. I want to throw up when I think of him cheating on me. I want to get married and I have a timeline so I am also really confused on what to do if I dump him. Yeah, the guy who liked me was super rich too! My boyfriend is telling me that he wants my best friend to still be in the wedding party too. She was suppose to be my maid of honor, no less.

Yeah, the guy who liked me was super rich too! My boyfriend is telling me that he wants my best friend to still be in the wedding party too. She was suppose to be my maid of honor, no less.

Yeah, but don't go with him because of he money though, genuinely get to know him first

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breakup_with_partner

My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

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Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though. I have never been so blind sided. Maybe I should reconsider! I have had a guy after me for at least the last year but I never cheated! I really wanted to though. I am thinking that you are right. I feel like my whole world is upside down and I have wasted all this time with the wrong guy and the wrong best friend. I also wonder who else he might have cheated on my with. I am so grossed out because I am a germaphobe to begin with. I have not slept with any other person in my whole life so I feel like I am ruined. I want to throw up when I think of him cheating on me. I want to get married and I have a timeline so I am also really confused on what to do if I dump him. Yeah, the guy who liked me was super rich too! My boyfriend is telling me that he wants my best friend to still be in the wedding party too. She was suppose to be my maid of honor, no less. I have compartmentalized my life and never thought of looking around at my other options. You are making really good points. I need to just stop and really look at my options. I never realized that I have options, it's not like i am even engaged yet.

I have compartmentalized my life and never thought of looking around at my other options. You are making really good points. I need to just stop and really look at my options. I never realized that I have options, it's not like i am even engaged yet.

Yeah, you have a lot of options at this stage, so always do what your heart is telling you at the end of the day

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My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

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Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though. I have never been so blind sided. Maybe I should reconsider! I have had a guy after me for at least the last year but I never cheated! I really wanted to though. I am thinking that you are right. I feel like my whole world is upside down and I have wasted all this time with the wrong guy and the wrong best friend. I also wonder who else he might have cheated on my with. I am so grossed out because I am a germaphobe to begin with. I have not slept with any other person in my whole life so I feel like I am ruined. I want to throw up when I think of him cheating on me. I want to get married and I have a timeline so I am also really confused on what to do if I dump him. Yeah, the guy who liked me was super rich too! My boyfriend is telling me that he wants my best friend to still be in the wedding party too. She was suppose to be my maid of honor, no less. I have compartmentalized my life and never thought of looking around at my other options. You are making really good points. I need to just stop and really look at my options. I never realized that I have options, it's not like i am even engaged yet. It feels good sharing how I feel with you because you don't have a dog in the fight so to speak.

It feels good sharing how I feel with you because you don't have a dog in the fight so to speak.

yeah, lool something like that ;). Glad your better

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My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago but I just found out. It was with my best friend and I am so grossed out and mad.

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Hi, I am having a really hard time. I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me a year ago. Yes, I told him that my best friend confessed it to me. It was my best friend and him. I was so shocked. No, I am so mad but I don't want to break up with him. I told my best friends that I never want to see her again though. My boyfriend and I have plans to get engaged this month. I am furious at him though. I have never been so blind sided. Maybe I should reconsider! I have had a guy after me for at least the last year but I never cheated! I really wanted to though. I am thinking that you are right. I feel like my whole world is upside down and I have wasted all this time with the wrong guy and the wrong best friend. I also wonder who else he might have cheated on my with. I am so grossed out because I am a germaphobe to begin with. I have not slept with any other person in my whole life so I feel like I am ruined. I want to throw up when I think of him cheating on me. I want to get married and I have a timeline so I am also really confused on what to do if I dump him. Yeah, the guy who liked me was super rich too! My boyfriend is telling me that he wants my best friend to still be in the wedding party too. She was suppose to be my maid of honor, no less. I have compartmentalized my life and never thought of looking around at my other options. You are making really good points. I need to just stop and really look at my options. I never realized that I have options, it's not like i am even engaged yet. It feels good sharing how I feel with you because you don't have a dog in the fight so to speak. I never listen to my heart and think that is a great place to start. I always have a plan and go with that but you are making a lot of sense. Thank you for your time today.

I never listen to my heart and think that is a great place to start. I always have a plan and go with that but you are making a lot of sense. Thank you for your time today.

Your welcome ;)

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Hi there, how's it going?

Hi, how are you?

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Not so good, you?

I am sorry to hear that. What is going on?

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Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability.

This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability.

So you are worried you may lose your job due to the pandemic, is that correct?

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Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee.

Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee.

It seems to me from chatting with you that you are extremely anxious about the situation.

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Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future.

Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future.

I completely understand as I was in the same situation when the pandemic started and I wasn't sure if I was going to keep my job.

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Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future. Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel like small businesses will be forced to shut down. Economy is getting worse. My anxiety is getting worse.

Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel like small businesses will be forced to shut down. Economy is getting worse. My anxiety is getting worse.

What industry do you currently work in?

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Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.

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Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future. Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel like small businesses will be forced to shut down. Economy is getting worse. My anxiety is getting worse. Finance.

Finance.

I know this is an extremely hard situation, but I know you can make it through it!

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Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.

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Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future. Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel like small businesses will be forced to shut down. Economy is getting worse. My anxiety is getting worse. Finance. I doubt it. But thanks for the positive vibes. Is there a lock down where you live?

I doubt it. But thanks for the positive vibes. Is there a lock down where you live?

Yes, we are currently in a lock down.

Yes, we are currently in a lock down. Have you had a talk with your supervisor about the situation?

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Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.

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Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future. Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel like small businesses will be forced to shut down. Economy is getting worse. My anxiety is getting worse. Finance. I doubt it. But thanks for the positive vibes. Is there a lock down where you live? Yes, but he can only do so much to be honest.

Yes, but he can only do so much to be honest.

Something I used to do when I was struggling with anxiety over this was come home and play video games, which is something I really enjoy doing. Have you tried to really dive into more activities that you enjoy?

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Due to this pandemic, I fear for my job.

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Hi there, how's it going? Not so good, you? This pandemic has me stressed about my job stability. Yes. My firm has already cut 15%. I am fearful I'll be next since I'm a low level employee. Yes, very. If I were to get fired. I have no idea what to do for my future. Where I live, we currently have a lock down. I feel like small businesses will be forced to shut down. Economy is getting worse. My anxiety is getting worse. Finance. I doubt it. But thanks for the positive vibes. Is there a lock down where you live? Yes, but he can only do so much to be honest. I do sometimes. Which games do you recommend?

I do sometimes. Which games do you recommend?

I play a lot of sports games, mostly racing.

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo

Hi, how are you doing?

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours.

I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours.

It sounds like it would be quite frustrating for your friend to talk way too much on the phone.

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it.

No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it.

My goodness! How do they respond when you ask to end the conversation?

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again!

I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again!

I wonder what it would be like for him if you hung up the phone even after he said he still wanted to talk.

I wonder what it would be like for him if you hung up the phone even after he said he still wanted to talk. Wow--that does sound annoying that he will repeat the same pattern the next time.

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily.

He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily.

That sounds really difficult if he gets offended so easily. I find it hard to talk to some of those kinds of friends.

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time."

I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time."

What do you get out of the friendship with this other person?

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past.

Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past.

That sounds like a lot that the two of you have been through. Were there other times that your friends was more equally responsive or attuned to you in conversations?

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change.

Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change.

I wonder if there is anything nice you could do for yourself when you are talking to him that would make it easier to talk to him.

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change. Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey?

Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey?

I can see that you are feeling upset and angry when he talks so much and that is totally understandable.

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change. Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey? I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition.

I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition.

Would it hurt his feelings to use a timer like that? It may for some other people.

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My friend is selfish and talks too much on the phone. It is annoying.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change. Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey? I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition. Yea, but I might be able to slip some humour in there to take the edge off because it is so silly.

Yea, but I might be able to slip some humour in there to take the edge off because it is so silly.

Humor is really helpful for a lot of people.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change. Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey? I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition. Yea, but I might be able to slip some humour in there to take the edge off because it is so silly. Any other ideas?

Any other ideas?

Sometimes, people draw or do something else distracting with their hands when talking to someone who dominates the conversation.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change. Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey? I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition. Yea, but I might be able to slip some humour in there to take the edge off because it is so silly. Any other ideas? So your option is to start just doing something else when he is talking? He might get the message in a subtle way?

So your option is to start just doing something else when he is talking? He might get the message in a subtle way?

Sometimes that is a less offensive way to retrain someone who is being obnoxious or dominant and yet who is easily offended. And, it can help preserve your sense of being grounded.

Sometimes that is a less offensive way to retrain someone who is being obnoxious or dominant and yet who is easily offended. And, it can help preserve your sense of being grounded. The strategy works well for me with some of my family members who seem like they will never change. But, with distraction, I enjoy them all the more.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change. Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey? I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition. Yea, but I might be able to slip some humour in there to take the edge off because it is so silly. Any other ideas? So your option is to start just doing something else when he is talking? He might get the message in a subtle way? This is true, and it isn't bade advice. Haha! That is funny. Yes, maybe I should find something to carry around with me that I can enjoy. I don't really like to draw...

This is true, and it isn't bade advice. Haha! That is funny. Yes, maybe I should find something to carry around with me that I can enjoy. I don't really like to draw...

Is there anything else that you like to do that would be distracting while also letting you somewhat participate in the conversation?

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change. Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey? I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition. Yea, but I might be able to slip some humour in there to take the edge off because it is so silly. Any other ideas? So your option is to start just doing something else when he is talking? He might get the message in a subtle way? This is true, and it isn't bade advice. Haha! That is funny. Yes, maybe I should find something to carry around with me that I can enjoy. I don't really like to draw... Yes, perhaps I should just use the internet when he starts talking too much. I have a phone.

Yes, perhaps I should just use the internet when he starts talking too much. I have a phone.

That sounds really helpful. Sometimes people also play phone games or with a fidget spinner. I like your idea of looking on the internet.

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change. Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey? I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition. Yea, but I might be able to slip some humour in there to take the edge off because it is so silly. Any other ideas? So your option is to start just doing something else when he is talking? He might get the message in a subtle way? This is true, and it isn't bade advice. Haha! That is funny. Yes, maybe I should find something to carry around with me that I can enjoy. I don't really like to draw... Yes, perhaps I should just use the internet when he starts talking too much. I have a phone. This solves the problem in person, but it doesn't solve the talks over the phone, but it has been 15 minutes now and this has been helpful enough. Thank you for your solutions. You have been very supportive and kind to me I don't want to take up any more of your time. It has been a good conversation.

This solves the problem in person, but it doesn't solve the talks over the phone, but it has been 15 minutes now and this has been helpful enough. Thank you for your solutions. You have been very supportive and kind to me I don't want to take up any more of your time. It has been a good conversation.

You are very welcome. I wish you all the best!

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Yo I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me. They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours. No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it. I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking! Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again! He will literally talk up to 10 minutes without letting you have a word in. As far as that advice, I have hung up, but he gets extremely offended easily. I'm at my wits end. I tell him all the time. "You talk too much. You gotta stop talking at me. You gotta give the other person a turn. You gotta respect other's time." Well, I've been friends with him for a long time. He's funny and can have interesting perspectives on things. Also, we have done a lot together in the past. Oh, yes, I have other friends in conversations who can take turns and understand the concept of time just fine. I just don't know what to do about this guy in particular. I still want to be his friend, but he just doesn't change. Do you think I should just have a timer that goes off at 1 minute and let it beep in his face if he goes on for too long to train him like a monkey? I just need a method. Talking to him is just not working. He is hard to condition. Yea, but I might be able to slip some humour in there to take the edge off because it is so silly. Any other ideas? So your option is to start just doing something else when he is talking? He might get the message in a subtle way? This is true, and it isn't bade advice. Haha! That is funny. Yes, maybe I should find something to carry around with me that I can enjoy. I don't really like to draw... Yes, perhaps I should just use the internet when he starts talking too much. I have a phone. This solves the problem in person, but it doesn't solve the talks over the phone, but it has been 15 minutes now and this has been helpful enough. Thank you for your solutions. You have been very supportive and kind to me I don't want to take up any more of your time. It has been a good conversation. Goodbye. You as well.

Goodbye. You as well.

Bye!

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Hi, how goes?

I'm doing fine, you can tell me your problems

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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood

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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each other all the time and sparks tend to fly. It's kind of awkward in the neighborhood.

Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each other all the time and sparks tend to fly. It's kind of awkward in the neighborhood.

Oooh that's a very complicated situation. They are both adults, I hope even with tension, they don't do anything inappropriate, do they?

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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood

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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each other all the time and sparks tend to fly. It's kind of awkward in the neighborhood. Well, the ex has gotten in the wife's face once or twice, but that's simmered down some. Part of the problem also is that the ex is simultaneously one of the smartest people I've ever met, and also a pretty serious alcoholic. So she's brilliant, but kind of emotionally stunted at the same time.

Well, the ex has gotten in the wife's face once or twice, but that's simmered down some. Part of the problem also is that the ex is simultaneously one of the smartest people I've ever met, and also a pretty serious alcoholic. So she's brilliant, but kind of emotionally stunted at the same time.

Ah, those people are the hardest to deal with. If it's too much, have you and your wife considered moving away?

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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood

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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each other all the time and sparks tend to fly. It's kind of awkward in the neighborhood. Well, the ex has gotten in the wife's face once or twice, but that's simmered down some. Part of the problem also is that the ex is simultaneously one of the smartest people I've ever met, and also a pretty serious alcoholic. So she's brilliant, but kind of emotionally stunted at the same time. Oh I can't imagine ever moving. We have a pretty terrific house. Plus I bought most of the neighboring houses over the years, so now it's kind of a whole compound. I don't know that there's any particular fix for this, it's just sort of something to live with I think.

Oh I can't imagine ever moving. We have a pretty terrific house. Plus I bought most of the neighboring houses over the years, so now it's kind of a whole compound. I don't know that there's any particular fix for this, it's just sort of something to live with I think.

I understand, you're in a very tough spot. Have your wife ever expressed her annoyance?

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My wife and I had a threeway with my ex, and they're kind of at each other's throats now. The ex lives on our block too, so it's slightly awkward in the neighborhood

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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each other all the time and sparks tend to fly. It's kind of awkward in the neighborhood. Well, the ex has gotten in the wife's face once or twice, but that's simmered down some. Part of the problem also is that the ex is simultaneously one of the smartest people I've ever met, and also a pretty serious alcoholic. So she's brilliant, but kind of emotionally stunted at the same time. Oh I can't imagine ever moving. We have a pretty terrific house. Plus I bought most of the neighboring houses over the years, so now it's kind of a whole compound. I don't know that there's any particular fix for this, it's just sort of something to live with I think. Oh a little bit. She's only mildly weirded out by the whole thing. It's a shame the ex has to be kind of problematic about everything. I mean otherwise we could all still hang out and whatnot

Oh a little bit. She's only mildly weirded out by the whole thing. It's a shame the ex has to be kind of problematic about everything. I mean otherwise we could all still hang out and whatnot

That's not too bad then. Your wife seems to be mature and understanding. If you can't do anything to completely avoid your ex, maybe your best choice is to limit seeing her as much as possible

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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each other all the time and sparks tend to fly. It's kind of awkward in the neighborhood. Well, the ex has gotten in the wife's face once or twice, but that's simmered down some. Part of the problem also is that the ex is simultaneously one of the smartest people I've ever met, and also a pretty serious alcoholic. So she's brilliant, but kind of emotionally stunted at the same time. Oh I can't imagine ever moving. We have a pretty terrific house. Plus I bought most of the neighboring houses over the years, so now it's kind of a whole compound. I don't know that there's any particular fix for this, it's just sort of something to live with I think. Oh a little bit. She's only mildly weirded out by the whole thing. It's a shame the ex has to be kind of problematic about everything. I mean otherwise we could all still hang out and whatnot That's pretty good advice I'd say!

That's pretty good advice I'd say!

You and your wife can hang out a bit further from your home. It's inconvenient but at least your time won't be interrupted by your ex

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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each other all the time and sparks tend to fly. It's kind of awkward in the neighborhood. Well, the ex has gotten in the wife's face once or twice, but that's simmered down some. Part of the problem also is that the ex is simultaneously one of the smartest people I've ever met, and also a pretty serious alcoholic. So she's brilliant, but kind of emotionally stunted at the same time. Oh I can't imagine ever moving. We have a pretty terrific house. Plus I bought most of the neighboring houses over the years, so now it's kind of a whole compound. I don't know that there's any particular fix for this, it's just sort of something to live with I think. Oh a little bit. She's only mildly weirded out by the whole thing. It's a shame the ex has to be kind of problematic about everything. I mean otherwise we could all still hang out and whatnot That's pretty good advice I'd say! Yes, that's a possibility as well I suppose. I think we're allowed to wrap this up at this point, if you like? Still with me? yooo hooo

Yes, that's a possibility as well I suppose. I think we're allowed to wrap this up at this point, if you like? Still with me? yooo hooo

I'm here

I'm here Of course if you think you're good with my advice

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Hi, how goes? Well, you see when I was dating my ex she and I had a threeway with the woman who was living in my mother-in-law apartment at the time. Well the ex and I broke up not too long after, and eventually the mother-in-law woman and I got married. My ex lives next door though, and her and my wife bump into each other all the time and sparks tend to fly. It's kind of awkward in the neighborhood. Well, the ex has gotten in the wife's face once or twice, but that's simmered down some. Part of the problem also is that the ex is simultaneously one of the smartest people I've ever met, and also a pretty serious alcoholic. So she's brilliant, but kind of emotionally stunted at the same time. Oh I can't imagine ever moving. We have a pretty terrific house. Plus I bought most of the neighboring houses over the years, so now it's kind of a whole compound. I don't know that there's any particular fix for this, it's just sort of something to live with I think. Oh a little bit. She's only mildly weirded out by the whole thing. It's a shame the ex has to be kind of problematic about everything. I mean otherwise we could all still hang out and whatnot That's pretty good advice I'd say! Yes, that's a possibility as well I suppose. I think we're allowed to wrap this up at this point, if you like? Still with me? yooo hooo oh ok, I think we need to chat a bit more in order to wrap things up

oh ok, I think we need to chat a bit more in order to wrap things up

Sure, is there anything else I can help you with?

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately.

Hello

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi

Hi

So just to ensure that I understand you correctly, you are feeling anxious about going to the store during the pandemic

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety

No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety

Okay, so just general anxiety about it then.

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir

Yessir

How long have you had this anxiety issue?

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store

Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store

Have you thought about looking for support groups with people who also have anxiety about being in public?

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store I have and I did

I have and I did

Have you thought about brining a friend with you to the store? Someone you are comfortable with? Having someone you are comfortable with may help to calm the anxiety while you are out.

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store I have and I did Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot

Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot

I have also had anxiety in the past when in public places, so I know how it feels to be anxious while out.

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store I have and I did Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot Yeah, it's definitely annoying. But it isn't JUST at the store. I was diagnosed with Panic Attack Disorder and even have attacks at home where I freak out. It's been better since I was on medication but I never feel completely....normal

Yeah, it's definitely annoying. But it isn't JUST at the store. I was diagnosed with Panic Attack Disorder and even have attacks at home where I freak out. It's been better since I was on medication but I never feel completely....normal

Another thing that may help is having some headphones in attached to your phone or an MP3 player so you can have some calming music or something in your ear while you are out.

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store I have and I did Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot Yeah, it's definitely annoying. But it isn't JUST at the store. I was diagnosed with Panic Attack Disorder and even have attacks at home where I freak out. It's been better since I was on medication but I never feel completely....normal That's actually a really good idea. Distractions definitely seem to be the way to go for me. That's probably why art helps so much

That's actually a really good idea. Distractions definitely seem to be the way to go for me. That's probably why art helps so much

I found that distractions were great for me too!

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store I have and I did Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot Yeah, it's definitely annoying. But it isn't JUST at the store. I was diagnosed with Panic Attack Disorder and even have attacks at home where I freak out. It's been better since I was on medication but I never feel completely....normal That's actually a really good idea. Distractions definitely seem to be the way to go for me. That's probably why art helps so much I wonder if it should be calming music or music that I generally feel like dancing too I know that sometimes calming music kinda makes me more centered and aware of myself which can exacerbate the problems sometimes. I usually listen to music loudly when Im in my car to help with the anxiety Of course, I always think its working then I get to the store and my hands hurt from gripping my steering wheel so hard XD

I wonder if it should be calming music or music that I generally feel like dancing too I know that sometimes calming music kinda makes me more centered and aware of myself which can exacerbate the problems sometimes. I usually listen to music loudly when Im in my car to help with the anxiety Of course, I always think its working then I get to the store and my hands hurt from gripping my steering wheel so hard XD

Whatever music you think would be best would be a good idea.

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store I have and I did Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot Yeah, it's definitely annoying. But it isn't JUST at the store. I was diagnosed with Panic Attack Disorder and even have attacks at home where I freak out. It's been better since I was on medication but I never feel completely....normal That's actually a really good idea. Distractions definitely seem to be the way to go for me. That's probably why art helps so much I wonder if it should be calming music or music that I generally feel like dancing too I know that sometimes calming music kinda makes me more centered and aware of myself which can exacerbate the problems sometimes. I usually listen to music loudly when Im in my car to help with the anxiety Of course, I always think its working then I get to the store and my hands hurt from gripping my steering wheel so hard XD I think a lot of my anxiety doesnt stem from social stuff but from a fear of death tbh What other distractions can you reccomend? *recommend

I think a lot of my anxiety doesnt stem from social stuff but from a fear of death tbh What other distractions can you reccomend? *recommend

Do you have a stress ball or something you can keep with you in your pocket while out?

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store I have and I did Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot Yeah, it's definitely annoying. But it isn't JUST at the store. I was diagnosed with Panic Attack Disorder and even have attacks at home where I freak out. It's been better since I was on medication but I never feel completely....normal That's actually a really good idea. Distractions definitely seem to be the way to go for me. That's probably why art helps so much I wonder if it should be calming music or music that I generally feel like dancing too I know that sometimes calming music kinda makes me more centered and aware of myself which can exacerbate the problems sometimes. I usually listen to music loudly when Im in my car to help with the anxiety Of course, I always think its working then I get to the store and my hands hurt from gripping my steering wheel so hard XD I think a lot of my anxiety doesnt stem from social stuff but from a fear of death tbh What other distractions can you reccomend? *recommend I don't!

I don't!

I think picking up one of those and having it with you might also help!

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store I have and I did Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot Yeah, it's definitely annoying. But it isn't JUST at the store. I was diagnosed with Panic Attack Disorder and even have attacks at home where I freak out. It's been better since I was on medication but I never feel completely....normal That's actually a really good idea. Distractions definitely seem to be the way to go for me. That's probably why art helps so much I wonder if it should be calming music or music that I generally feel like dancing too I know that sometimes calming music kinda makes me more centered and aware of myself which can exacerbate the problems sometimes. I usually listen to music loudly when Im in my car to help with the anxiety Of course, I always think its working then I get to the store and my hands hurt from gripping my steering wheel so hard XD I think a lot of my anxiety doesnt stem from social stuff but from a fear of death tbh What other distractions can you reccomend? *recommend I don't! That's a really good idea too. Thanks so much

That's a really good idea too. Thanks so much

You're very welcome!

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Going to the store gives me Panic Attacks! Driving also makes me highly anxious. I am on medication but this only seems to help moderately. Hi No. This has been going on before the pandemic COVID didn't cause my anxiety Yessir Only the past couple of years. It came on suddenly at a nail salon after I had an allergic reaction to a chemical in acrylic nails. Originally the doctors thought it was brain inflammation. What suggestions do you have for improving it? Meditation? Exercise? I do art. And never have anxiety when I'm painting, however, I cannot exactly do that at the store I have and I did Support groups don't really help stop the Panic Attacks. They cause all sorts of sensations. Fast heart rate, chills, shakes, My brain feels foggy and impersonal. I do go to the store often with my fiance :) That has helped a lot Yeah, it's definitely annoying. But it isn't JUST at the store. I was diagnosed with Panic Attack Disorder and even have attacks at home where I freak out. It's been better since I was on medication but I never feel completely....normal That's actually a really good idea. Distractions definitely seem to be the way to go for me. That's probably why art helps so much I wonder if it should be calming music or music that I generally feel like dancing too I know that sometimes calming music kinda makes me more centered and aware of myself which can exacerbate the problems sometimes. I usually listen to music loudly when Im in my car to help with the anxiety Of course, I always think its working then I get to the store and my hands hurt from gripping my steering wheel so hard XD I think a lot of my anxiety doesnt stem from social stuff but from a fear of death tbh What other distractions can you reccomend? *recommend I don't! That's a really good idea too. Thanks so much <3 Have a good one!

<3 Have a good one!

Thank you, you too!

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