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I'm good. Getting cold outside. Temp dropping over 20 degrees. Brr Oh no, I hate driving in the snow. Spun out one year- rather not drive in snow- at least when it's icy. My interest rate hit another credit card. Have to pay $80 more a month now Hoping to find more work so I can pay it off faster yeah cuz it was a no interest rate card and that expired so it started charging interest. I knew it was coming but need to work more hours now. The interest I pay every month will go down as I pay more of the principal off. I just hate it Yes and no. Cuz I know I will pay it off within 3 years at the most. Probably closer to two years. I just don't like to wait and want to pay it off sooner if possible Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them

Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them

I heard about Biden's plans as well! Luckily, I paid all of my debts already but I think it will be great for other people.

I heard about Biden's plans as well! Luckily, I paid all of my debts already but I think it will be great for other people. Perhaps if you are unable to find another job to reduce the principal, you could try setting aside a certain amount of money each month to put towards the amount owed?

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I'm good. Getting cold outside. Temp dropping over 20 degrees. Brr Oh no, I hate driving in the snow. Spun out one year- rather not drive in snow- at least when it's icy. My interest rate hit another credit card. Have to pay $80 more a month now Hoping to find more work so I can pay it off faster yeah cuz it was a no interest rate card and that expired so it started charging interest. I knew it was coming but need to work more hours now. The interest I pay every month will go down as I pay more of the principal off. I just hate it Yes and no. Cuz I know I will pay it off within 3 years at the most. Probably closer to two years. I just don't like to wait and want to pay it off sooner if possible Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them maybe they will reimburse you on what you paid I could if i really discipline myself to

maybe they will reimburse you on what you paid I could if i really discipline myself to

It's just a thought. Alternatively, I'm not sure if you typically get money for birthdays and the winter holidays, but you could commit some of that amount towards your principal amount.

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I need to make more money to pay off my credit cards.

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I'm good. Getting cold outside. Temp dropping over 20 degrees. Brr Oh no, I hate driving in the snow. Spun out one year- rather not drive in snow- at least when it's icy. My interest rate hit another credit card. Have to pay $80 more a month now Hoping to find more work so I can pay it off faster yeah cuz it was a no interest rate card and that expired so it started charging interest. I knew it was coming but need to work more hours now. The interest I pay every month will go down as I pay more of the principal off. I just hate it Yes and no. Cuz I know I will pay it off within 3 years at the most. Probably closer to two years. I just don't like to wait and want to pay it off sooner if possible Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them maybe they will reimburse you on what you paid I could if i really discipline myself to I get some but I spend the money on myself- like chocolate! itll prob take me 2-3 years to pay it off. if i go too much into discrectionary money i feel deprived

I get some but I spend the money on myself- like chocolate! itll prob take me 2-3 years to pay it off. if i go too much into discrectionary money i feel deprived

I understand that also. There needs to be some sort of balance.

I understand that also. There needs to be some sort of balance. However, it sounds like you are a smart person and will make sure to pay off the amount responsibly. Everything will be okay!

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I need to make more money to pay off my credit cards.

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I'm good. Getting cold outside. Temp dropping over 20 degrees. Brr Oh no, I hate driving in the snow. Spun out one year- rather not drive in snow- at least when it's icy. My interest rate hit another credit card. Have to pay $80 more a month now Hoping to find more work so I can pay it off faster yeah cuz it was a no interest rate card and that expired so it started charging interest. I knew it was coming but need to work more hours now. The interest I pay every month will go down as I pay more of the principal off. I just hate it Yes and no. Cuz I know I will pay it off within 3 years at the most. Probably closer to two years. I just don't like to wait and want to pay it off sooner if possible Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them maybe they will reimburse you on what you paid I could if i really discipline myself to I get some but I spend the money on myself- like chocolate! itll prob take me 2-3 years to pay it off. if i go too much into discrectionary money i feel deprived absolutely. the time will go by fast enough and it will be paid off. ill make sure not to run the credit cards so high next time

absolutely. the time will go by fast enough and it will be paid off. ill make sure not to run the credit cards so high next time

Sounds like you've learned an important lesson from this, and will work towards responsibly paying it off. I have faith in you!

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I need to make more money to pay off my credit cards.

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I'm good. Getting cold outside. Temp dropping over 20 degrees. Brr Oh no, I hate driving in the snow. Spun out one year- rather not drive in snow- at least when it's icy. My interest rate hit another credit card. Have to pay $80 more a month now Hoping to find more work so I can pay it off faster yeah cuz it was a no interest rate card and that expired so it started charging interest. I knew it was coming but need to work more hours now. The interest I pay every month will go down as I pay more of the principal off. I just hate it Yes and no. Cuz I know I will pay it off within 3 years at the most. Probably closer to two years. I just don't like to wait and want to pay it off sooner if possible Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them maybe they will reimburse you on what you paid I could if i really discipline myself to I get some but I spend the money on myself- like chocolate! itll prob take me 2-3 years to pay it off. if i go too much into discrectionary money i feel deprived absolutely. the time will go by fast enough and it will be paid off. ill make sure not to run the credit cards so high next time thank ya! I think I'm fairly responsible. I like to have nice things and my credit card bill proves it lol

thank ya! I think I'm fairly responsible. I like to have nice things and my credit card bill proves it lol

Just find the right balance between pleasure and responsibility and you will be just fine!

Just find the right balance between pleasure and responsibility and you will be just fine! Are you feeling a bit better now after chatting?

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I need to make more money to pay off my credit cards.

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I'm good. Getting cold outside. Temp dropping over 20 degrees. Brr Oh no, I hate driving in the snow. Spun out one year- rather not drive in snow- at least when it's icy. My interest rate hit another credit card. Have to pay $80 more a month now Hoping to find more work so I can pay it off faster yeah cuz it was a no interest rate card and that expired so it started charging interest. I knew it was coming but need to work more hours now. The interest I pay every month will go down as I pay more of the principal off. I just hate it Yes and no. Cuz I know I will pay it off within 3 years at the most. Probably closer to two years. I just don't like to wait and want to pay it off sooner if possible Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them maybe they will reimburse you on what you paid I could if i really discipline myself to I get some but I spend the money on myself- like chocolate! itll prob take me 2-3 years to pay it off. if i go too much into discrectionary money i feel deprived absolutely. the time will go by fast enough and it will be paid off. ill make sure not to run the credit cards so high next time thank ya! I think I'm fairly responsible. I like to have nice things and my credit card bill proves it lol yes very much so. thank ya! Have a great evening! Bye

yes very much so. thank ya! Have a great evening! Bye

You too!

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted!

I am really sorry to hear that. It seems to be happening to a lot of people right now. Do you have anything on the back burner?

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :(

No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :(

I would not take it personally - I have been struggling to find work too. I think it's the pandemic.

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews.

Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews.

Don't put yourself down! That is a really bad habit to get into when job hunting but i know how easy it is to do.

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews. Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them.

Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them.

Have you contemplated trying temping agencies? They pay might not be great but it is enough to get you by whilst you find something that you really want to do.

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews. Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them. That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that.

That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that.

I've done a fair bit of it before ... there are good and bad aspects. You get to go to a lot of different places but it's also difficult to make friends and get settled.

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I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I interviewed for.

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews. Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them. That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that. That does sound hard for me. I'm really shy around new people.

That does sound hard for me. I'm really shy around new people.

Me too. But the upside is you can pretty much choose your own hours

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I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I interviewed for.

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews. Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them. That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that. That does sound hard for me. I'm really shy around new people. How did you handle having to work with new people all of the time?

How did you handle having to work with new people all of the time?

To be honest it was not all that easy. I tended to keep my head down a lot and just smile vaguely when someone made eye contact.

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I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I interviewed for.

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews. Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them. That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that. That does sound hard for me. I'm really shy around new people. How did you handle having to work with new people all of the time? That sounds hard. I don't know if I can do that. It feels like I'll never get a job.

That sounds hard. I don't know if I can do that. It feels like I'll never get a job.

What about something that involves less physical contact? There's always gig work online.

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I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I interviewed for.

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews. Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them. That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that. That does sound hard for me. I'm really shy around new people. How did you handle having to work with new people all of the time? That sounds hard. I don't know if I can do that. It feels like I'll never get a job. I wouldn't know where to start with that. I feel like m ost "online" jobs are probably scams.

I wouldn't know where to start with that. I feel like m ost "online" jobs are probably scams.

I work on Amazon Mechanical Turk - if you're diligent you can make a fair few bucks there. Not sure it's a living wage though but you could try it

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews. Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them. That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that. That does sound hard for me. I'm really shy around new people. How did you handle having to work with new people all of the time? That sounds hard. I don't know if I can do that. It feels like I'll never get a job. I wouldn't know where to start with that. I feel like m ost "online" jobs are probably scams. I've heard of that. Thanks, maybe I'll check it out.

I've heard of that. Thanks, maybe I'll check it out.

Give it a go ..you've nothing to lose but your self respect :P

Give it a go ..you've nothing to lose but your self respect :P On that note I hope I have been able to be of some help to you today!

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I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I interviewed for.

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews. Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them. That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that. That does sound hard for me. I'm really shy around new people. How did you handle having to work with new people all of the time? That sounds hard. I don't know if I can do that. It feels like I'll never get a job. I wouldn't know where to start with that. I feel like m ost "online" jobs are probably scams. I've heard of that. Thanks, maybe I'll check it out. You have, thanks for listening and for the advice!

You have, thanks for listening and for the advice!

You're most welcome and I hope that everything picks up for you again soon!

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I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I interviewed for.

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I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted! No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :( Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews. Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them. That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that. That does sound hard for me. I'm really shy around new people. How did you handle having to work with new people all of the time? That sounds hard. I don't know if I can do that. It feels like I'll never get a job. I wouldn't know where to start with that. I feel like m ost "online" jobs are probably scams. I've heard of that. Thanks, maybe I'll check it out. You have, thanks for listening and for the advice! Thanks! Have a nice day :)

Thanks! Have a nice day :)

you too! (can you quit first, I can't from this end :P)

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hello

Hello. How are you today?

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too?

i'm fine how are you doing too?

Im glad to hear that. I am doing well today, thank you for asking!

Im glad to hear that. I am doing well today, thank you for asking! Is there something on your mind you'd like to chat about? I'm here to listen.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me

i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me

I'm sorry to hear that. Recovering from a break up can take a long time. How long were you together?

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years

4 years

That is a long time. I think its normal to take time to recover after a long relationship, after all it was a significant part of your life for 4 years.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married

yes, we were both planning on getting married

I've struggled with the same situation. Do you want to tell me what kind of feelings you are struggling with?

I've struggled with the same situation. Do you want to tell me what kind of feelings you are struggling with? That is a lot to deal with, I am so sorry.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup

i am very saddened by the breakup

I hear and feel your grief. Would you call it grief? Please let me know.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me

close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me

i understand. Grief is the emotion of sadness and loss, does that resonate with you?

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly

exactly

I was just going to ask you if you still see her, that must have been so difficult.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful

very difficult she looks soo beautiful

The hollidays were very hard for me after my break up, we were going to marry like you. Isort the season and all the expectations and memories of exacerbated the loss for me. Do you think that might be making you feel worse?

The hollidays were very hard for me after my break up, we were going to marry like you. Isort the season and all the expectations and memories of exacerbated the loss for me. Do you think that might be making you feel worse? Have you considered that You must be beautiful/handsome for her to be attracted to you.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect

i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect

I just want to say that the hollidays will be over soon and that may help.

I just want to say that the hollidays will be over soon and that may help. I'm sorry, it sounds like you loved her very much.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely

i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely

Experts say that feeling your feelings and talking about them is really good for you to help get over a long breakup. Also that it takes a year or more to process. So know that you are doing the right things.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really

really

I was really lonely after my breakup too. I had to make myself spend time with other people that cared about me like friends and family. Even though I kind of just wanted to stay sad making myself be around other people that reminded me of the good, perfect and lovable things about myself made me feel better and gave me hope. Maybe easing your lonliness would give you some relief?

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people

so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people

You sound like a sensitive and loving person. Those are wonderful qualities. I noticed them and we are strangers. I'm sure you have many more.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people you are soo kind

you are soo kind

It sounds like you don't feel like going out?

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people you are soo kind i dont know what i think of my self really i rally dont feel like going anywhere

i dont know what i think of my self really i rally dont feel like going anywhere

It's normal to feel the way you do as you sort out what happened and how to go forward.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people you are soo kind i dont know what i think of my self really i rally dont feel like going anywhere ok i will do that thanks

ok i will do that thanks

If you dont feel like being around people, what really helped me was reminding myself of the good things about myself. Sometimes I even made a list so I didn't forget. And staying distracted sometimes helped too. Experts say coming up with some goal or project really helps.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people you are soo kind i dont know what i think of my self really i rally dont feel like going anywhere ok i will do that thanks ok, thats a good idea

ok, thats a good idea

There are also so many articles and support on the internet, don't be afraid to just search "getting over a relationship" or 'bad breakup advice" there are so many people that have gone through this. Ypu are not alone.

There are also so many articles and support on the internet, don't be afraid to just search "getting over a relationship" or 'bad breakup advice" there are so many people that have gone through this. Ypu are not alone. I know that nothing I say can take away your pain or make it not have happened, but I care that you have these feelings and I care about you.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people you are soo kind i dont know what i think of my self really i rally dont feel like going anywhere ok i will do that thanks ok, thats a good idea thanks, i will check them out thanks for the show of love

thanks, i will check them out thanks for the show of love

you are welcome. i hope you feel supported and encouraged. I know this will get better for you. take care of and love yourself, friend. you are worth it.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people you are soo kind i dont know what i think of my self really i rally dont feel like going anywhere ok i will do that thanks ok, thats a good idea thanks, i will check them out thanks for the show of love i will do that. thanks

i will do that. thanks

and one last thing that worked for me was when I was really fixated on how perfect my ex was, i'd make a list of why they weren't and why we weren't good together. It made me think in a more balanced way.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people you are soo kind i dont know what i think of my self really i rally dont feel like going anywhere ok i will do that thanks ok, thats a good idea thanks, i will check them out thanks for the show of love i will do that. thanks really, and it worked? i will try that

really, and it worked? i will try that

yeah, it did work. even when all could see was how great my ex was i could at least see why we didn't work and i wanted us both to be happy so writing that stuff helped me keep it in perspective. Its been a privilege listening to you . i'm wishing you all good things.

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hello i'm fine how are you doing too? i had a breakup just a year ago and its taking its toll on me 4 years yes, we were both planning on getting married i am very saddened by the breakup close to grief but she is still alive i saw her last week and it was like a bomb was dropped on me exactly very difficult she looks soo beautiful i think our problem started when we moved in together i always felt soo lucky to have her because she is always perfect i loved her just too much and the holiday is not helping the matter because i felt soo lonely really so you are advising me to go out more and mixed up with people you are soo kind i dont know what i think of my self really i rally dont feel like going anywhere ok i will do that thanks ok, thats a good idea thanks, i will check them out thanks for the show of love i will do that. thanks really, and it worked? i will try that oh, thanks thanks for the advice i will work on it bye

oh, thanks thanks for the advice i will work on it bye

you're welcome. don't be afraid to reach out to others in this time, you are valuable. i hope you have a good rest of the week.

you're welcome. don't be afraid to reach out to others in this time, you are valuable. i hope you have a good rest of the week. bye

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night.

Hi Megan, sorry to hear you are feeling down. And having trouble falling asleep is something I go through from time to time, I'll share some tips I have if you like.

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat.

That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat.

Just curious how long have you been feeling down? And did you sleep okay before that?

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad.

I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad.

Okay so it sounds like your trouble sleeping has gotten worse since you started feeling low, and it's affecting your energy during the day then? Am I understanding you right?

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes.

That's exactly it, yes.

Here are some things I do....no coffee after noon...

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes. Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try.

Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try.

I exercise in the morning if I can, for me that's a walk, I always sleep better on days I walk....

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes. Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try. Okay sure, I work in a desk job so I reckon moving around and getting out could help.

Okay sure, I work in a desk job so I reckon moving around and getting out could help.

I LOVE coffee....had to wean myself back to maximum 3 cups in the morning though

I LOVE coffee....had to wean myself back to maximum 3 cups in the morning though Is your room quite dark? I got light blocking curtains....seems to help

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes. Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try. Okay sure, I work in a desk job so I reckon moving around and getting out could help. Yeah at the moment I'm on around 6 cups a day so I'll cut it to 5 for a while then go from there. My room is dark, I have black out blinds.

Yeah at the moment I'm on around 6 cups a day so I'll cut it to 5 for a while then go from there. My room is dark, I have black out blinds.

Okay sounds good :) I use this podcast that has this guy with such a relaxing voice, doing guided sleep meditations, it's called Tracks to Relax

Okay sounds good :) I use this podcast that has this guy with such a relaxing voice, doing guided sleep meditations, it's called Tracks to Relax there's a premium option but the free is just fine

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes. Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try. Okay sure, I work in a desk job so I reckon moving around and getting out could help. Yeah at the moment I'm on around 6 cups a day so I'll cut it to 5 for a while then go from there. My room is dark, I have black out blinds. Thanks for the suggestion, sometimes I listen to ASMR on youtube so I'm always looking for new things to listen to whilst falling asleep. I'll go for the free version.

Thanks for the suggestion, sometimes I listen to ASMR on youtube so I'm always looking for new things to listen to whilst falling asleep. I'll go for the free version.

whats ASMR?

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes. Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try. Okay sure, I work in a desk job so I reckon moving around and getting out could help. Yeah at the moment I'm on around 6 cups a day so I'll cut it to 5 for a while then go from there. My room is dark, I have black out blinds. Thanks for the suggestion, sometimes I listen to ASMR on youtube so I'm always looking for new things to listen to whilst falling asleep. I'll go for the free version. It's relaxing whispering, usually speaking or noises using objects. I find it very relaxing.

It's relaxing whispering, usually speaking or noises using objects. I find it very relaxing.

hmm I"ll have to check that out!

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes. Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try. Okay sure, I work in a desk job so I reckon moving around and getting out could help. Yeah at the moment I'm on around 6 cups a day so I'll cut it to 5 for a while then go from there. My room is dark, I have black out blinds. Thanks for the suggestion, sometimes I listen to ASMR on youtube so I'm always looking for new things to listen to whilst falling asleep. I'll go for the free version. It's relaxing whispering, usually speaking or noises using objects. I find it very relaxing. I think it helps me (usually), although not enough over the last few months unfortunately.

I think it helps me (usually), although not enough over the last few months unfortunately.

Have you spoken to your doctor about your low mood?

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes. Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try. Okay sure, I work in a desk job so I reckon moving around and getting out could help. Yeah at the moment I'm on around 6 cups a day so I'll cut it to 5 for a while then go from there. My room is dark, I have black out blinds. Thanks for the suggestion, sometimes I listen to ASMR on youtube so I'm always looking for new things to listen to whilst falling asleep. I'll go for the free version. It's relaxing whispering, usually speaking or noises using objects. I find it very relaxing. I think it helps me (usually), although not enough over the last few months unfortunately. Your tips have been helpful though I will definitely try to reduce the coffees and walk more. I have talked to my doctor about it but not for a while, maybe I should make an appointment.

Your tips have been helpful though I will definitely try to reduce the coffees and walk more. I have talked to my doctor about it but not for a while, maybe I should make an appointment.

It's really tough not sleeping and then being low energy all day, but I know you can get on top of it. There's good info online too if you google "sleep hygeine"

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes. Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try. Okay sure, I work in a desk job so I reckon moving around and getting out could help. Yeah at the moment I'm on around 6 cups a day so I'll cut it to 5 for a while then go from there. My room is dark, I have black out blinds. Thanks for the suggestion, sometimes I listen to ASMR on youtube so I'm always looking for new things to listen to whilst falling asleep. I'll go for the free version. It's relaxing whispering, usually speaking or noises using objects. I find it very relaxing. I think it helps me (usually), although not enough over the last few months unfortunately. Your tips have been helpful though I will definitely try to reduce the coffees and walk more. I have talked to my doctor about it but not for a while, maybe I should make an appointment. I'll try that after this chat, thanks

I'll try that after this chat, thanks

YOu're very welcome it's been a pleasure chatting with you

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Hi, I'm Megan. I'm just looking for some help really, I've been feeling down for a while and it's affecting my sleep. I feel tired during the day but cant fall or stay asleep at night. That would be great, I'd appreciate some tips. Nice to know other people are in the same boat. I think it's probably been around 6 months, but nothing that I can think triggered it. I have always had some problems with sleeping but it's never been this bad. That's exactly it, yes. Okay, I drink a lot of coffee so that's definitely something I'll try. Okay sure, I work in a desk job so I reckon moving around and getting out could help. Yeah at the moment I'm on around 6 cups a day so I'll cut it to 5 for a while then go from there. My room is dark, I have black out blinds. Thanks for the suggestion, sometimes I listen to ASMR on youtube so I'm always looking for new things to listen to whilst falling asleep. I'll go for the free version. It's relaxing whispering, usually speaking or noises using objects. I find it very relaxing. I think it helps me (usually), although not enough over the last few months unfortunately. Your tips have been helpful though I will definitely try to reduce the coffees and walk more. I have talked to my doctor about it but not for a while, maybe I should make an appointment. I'll try that after this chat, thanks It's been really helpful, thanks again for your help.

It's been really helpful, thanks again for your help.

Take care and I hope you sleep well soon!

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My company just laid off 5%. I fear I will be next. Anxiety is at all time highs.

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2

5

Hi, how's your day going?

Hi, my day is goin well.

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2

5

Hi, how's your day going? Good to hear, not so much for me.

Good to hear, not so much for me.

I am sorry to hear that, what is going on?

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My company just laid off 5%. I fear I will be next. Anxiety is at all time highs.

5

2

5

Hi, how's your day going? Good to hear, not so much for me. I am stressed about losing my job due to this pandemic.

I am stressed about losing my job due to this pandemic.

To be sure I understand correctly, you are worried you are going to lose your job because of COVID-19.

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My company just laid off 5%. I fear I will be next. Anxiety is at all time highs.

5

2

5

Hi, how's your day going? Good to hear, not so much for me. I am stressed about losing my job due to this pandemic. Yes, that's correct.

Yes, that's correct.

I completely understand this feeling as when the pandemic began I was also extremely worried about my job security as well.

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anxiety

job_crisis

My company just laid off 5%. I fear I will be next. Anxiety is at all time highs.

5

2

5

Hi, how's your day going? Good to hear, not so much for me. I am stressed about losing my job due to this pandemic. Yes, that's correct. My place just when into a lock down. I feel like small business will be crushed. Job stability is a big concern for me at the moment.

My place just when into a lock down. I feel like small business will be crushed. Job stability is a big concern for me at the moment.

I can definitely tell through chatting with you that you are extremely anxious about the situation.

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anxiety

job_crisis

My company just laid off 5%. I fear I will be next. Anxiety is at all time highs.

5

2

5

Hi, how's your day going? Good to hear, not so much for me. I am stressed about losing my job due to this pandemic. Yes, that's correct. My place just when into a lock down. I feel like small business will be crushed. Job stability is a big concern for me at the moment. Yes, indeed I am. If I were to get fired. Finding another job in this crisis would be rough.

Yes, indeed I am. If I were to get fired. Finding another job in this crisis would be rough.

What industry do you work in?

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131

7

anxiety

job_crisis

My company just laid off 5%. I fear I will be next. Anxiety is at all time highs.

5

2

5

Hi, how's your day going? Good to hear, not so much for me. I am stressed about losing my job due to this pandemic. Yes, that's correct. My place just when into a lock down. I feel like small business will be crushed. Job stability is a big concern for me at the moment. Yes, indeed I am. If I were to get fired. Finding another job in this crisis would be rough. Accounting. Low entry, bookkeeper.

Accounting. Low entry, bookkeeper.

Have you talked to your manager about the situation?

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131

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anxiety

job_crisis

My company just laid off 5%. I fear I will be next. Anxiety is at all time highs.

5

2

5

Hi, how's your day going? Good to hear, not so much for me. I am stressed about losing my job due to this pandemic. Yes, that's correct. My place just when into a lock down. I feel like small business will be crushed. Job stability is a big concern for me at the moment. Yes, indeed I am. If I were to get fired. Finding another job in this crisis would be rough. Accounting. Low entry, bookkeeper. No, my manager is very strict. I would not want to anger him. Many people felt his wraith already due to this pandemic.

No, my manager is very strict. I would not want to anger him. Many people felt his wraith already due to this pandemic.

I understand your anxiety due to this, but I know you can make it through this situation!

I understand your anxiety due to this, but I know you can make it through this situation! Have you talked to friends or family members about this? I found that when I was going through my anxiety, talking to my family was very useful.

Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions

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131

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anxiety

job_crisis

My company just laid off 5%. I fear I will be next. Anxiety is at all time highs.

5

2

5

Hi, how's your day going? Good to hear, not so much for me. I am stressed about losing my job due to this pandemic. Yes, that's correct. My place just when into a lock down. I feel like small business will be crushed. Job stability is a big concern for me at the moment. Yes, indeed I am. If I were to get fired. Finding another job in this crisis would be rough. Accounting. Low entry, bookkeeper. No, my manager is very strict. I would not want to anger him. Many people felt his wraith already due to this pandemic. No, but I've been taking medication for my anxiety.

No, but I've been taking medication for my anxiety.

I have been on anxiety medicine before and it definitely helped me as well.

Self-disclosure

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131

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anxiety

job_crisis

My company just laid off 5%. I fear I will be next. Anxiety is at all time highs.

5

2

5

Hi, how's your day going? Good to hear, not so much for me. I am stressed about losing my job due to this pandemic. Yes, that's correct. My place just when into a lock down. I feel like small business will be crushed. Job stability is a big concern for me at the moment. Yes, indeed I am. If I were to get fired. Finding another job in this crisis would be rough. Accounting. Low entry, bookkeeper. No, my manager is very strict. I would not want to anger him. Many people felt his wraith already due to this pandemic. No, but I've been taking medication for my anxiety. Good to hear, hopefully it will help me. It's only be a week since I start taking it.

Good to hear, hopefully it will help me. It's only be a week since I start taking it.

You can definitely get through this!

Affirmation and Reassurance

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132

1

anxiety

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Had addiction that lead to time in prison. Recently released but things are not falling in place. General anxiety disorder.

4

3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there?

YES, my name is Cheryl. How are ya today?

Others

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132

2

anxiety

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3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there? Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started.

Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started.

Is there something specific on your mind or heart? Maybe regarding the start of the Youtube Channel?

Is there something specific on your mind or heart? Maybe regarding the start of the Youtube Channel? By the way, what's your name?

Question, Question

Question

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132

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anxiety

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Had addiction that lead to time in prison. Recently released but things are not falling in place. General anxiety disorder.

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3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there? Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started. Situation is as described above; have an addiction issue which led to prison time. Trying to get back on track. Youtube channel is to share things I learned about religion as I took a deep dive with the time I had. Sorry, not wanting to share name. People told me I should become a minister or write a book. The Youtube channel is to share the insights.

Situation is as described above; have an addiction issue which led to prison time. Trying to get back on track. Youtube channel is to share things I learned about religion as I took a deep dive with the time I had. Sorry, not wanting to share name. People told me I should become a minister or write a book. The Youtube channel is to share the insights.

Oh no problem regarding the name. I'm sure that you could be helpful to so many. And it must be difficult getting back on track into the wide open world.

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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132

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

Had addiction that lead to time in prison. Recently released but things are not falling in place. General anxiety disorder.

4

3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there? Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started. Situation is as described above; have an addiction issue which led to prison time. Trying to get back on track. Youtube channel is to share things I learned about religion as I took a deep dive with the time I had. Sorry, not wanting to share name. People told me I should become a minister or write a book. The Youtube channel is to share the insights. America is unforgiving of mistakes initially. But we were a country founded on cast offs from other places. Assume you are in the States, or no?

America is unforgiving of mistakes initially. But we were a country founded on cast offs from other places. Assume you are in the States, or no?

For sure! It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders!

For sure! It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders! I am in the US yes. Do you have hopes of pursuing ministry at some point?

Affirmation and Reassurance, Others, Question

Affirmation and Reassurance

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132

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

Had addiction that lead to time in prison. Recently released but things are not falling in place. General anxiety disorder.

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3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there? Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started. Situation is as described above; have an addiction issue which led to prison time. Trying to get back on track. Youtube channel is to share things I learned about religion as I took a deep dive with the time I had. Sorry, not wanting to share name. People told me I should become a minister or write a book. The Youtube channel is to share the insights. America is unforgiving of mistakes initially. But we were a country founded on cast offs from other places. Assume you are in the States, or no? Problem is mainly no real source of income and covid-19 hasnt helped with job, or having outside association. On ministry I am of a faith without paid ministry. Hence the Youtube channel to reach out and share at the same time.

Problem is mainly no real source of income and covid-19 hasnt helped with job, or having outside association. On ministry I am of a faith without paid ministry. Hence the Youtube channel to reach out and share at the same time.

Knowing that there is a higher power takes the focus off of "me." I think this offers a better way of living.

Self-disclosure

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132

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

Had addiction that lead to time in prison. Recently released but things are not falling in place. General anxiety disorder.

4

3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there? Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started. Situation is as described above; have an addiction issue which led to prison time. Trying to get back on track. Youtube channel is to share things I learned about religion as I took a deep dive with the time I had. Sorry, not wanting to share name. People told me I should become a minister or write a book. The Youtube channel is to share the insights. America is unforgiving of mistakes initially. But we were a country founded on cast offs from other places. Assume you are in the States, or no? Problem is mainly no real source of income and covid-19 hasnt helped with job, or having outside association. On ministry I am of a faith without paid ministry. Hence the Youtube channel to reach out and share at the same time. Higher power- an AA term. Was in an AA group at prison even though addiction was different.

Higher power- an AA term. Was in an AA group at prison even though addiction was different.

Regarding work especially in the Covid world ... I know it is a struggle. So many are having hardships right now.

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132

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

Had addiction that lead to time in prison. Recently released but things are not falling in place. General anxiety disorder.

4

3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there? Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started. Situation is as described above; have an addiction issue which led to prison time. Trying to get back on track. Youtube channel is to share things I learned about religion as I took a deep dive with the time I had. Sorry, not wanting to share name. People told me I should become a minister or write a book. The Youtube channel is to share the insights. America is unforgiving of mistakes initially. But we were a country founded on cast offs from other places. Assume you are in the States, or no? Problem is mainly no real source of income and covid-19 hasnt helped with job, or having outside association. On ministry I am of a faith without paid ministry. Hence the Youtube channel to reach out and share at the same time. Higher power- an AA term. Was in an AA group at prison even though addiction was different. Yes, I know but still too easy to look at own situation when some are starving. Not an issue I have.

Yes, I know but still too easy to look at own situation when some are starving. Not an issue I have.

Well I personally believe in one Almighty God. It sounds like you are saying a higher power is sort of elusive.

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132

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

Had addiction that lead to time in prison. Recently released but things are not falling in place. General anxiety disorder.

4

3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there? Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started. Situation is as described above; have an addiction issue which led to prison time. Trying to get back on track. Youtube channel is to share things I learned about religion as I took a deep dive with the time I had. Sorry, not wanting to share name. People told me I should become a minister or write a book. The Youtube channel is to share the insights. America is unforgiving of mistakes initially. But we were a country founded on cast offs from other places. Assume you are in the States, or no? Problem is mainly no real source of income and covid-19 hasnt helped with job, or having outside association. On ministry I am of a faith without paid ministry. Hence the Youtube channel to reach out and share at the same time. Higher power- an AA term. Was in an AA group at prison even though addiction was different. Yes, I know but still too easy to look at own situation when some are starving. Not an issue I have. Yes, I believe in Yehovah as God. Some their higher power wasnt a god like entity.

Yes, I believe in Yehovah as God. Some their higher power wasnt a god like entity.

So I would like to encourage you on the Youtube channel idea.

Affirmation and Reassurance

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132

9

anxiety

ongoing_depression

Had addiction that lead to time in prison. Recently released but things are not falling in place. General anxiety disorder.

4

3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there? Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started. Situation is as described above; have an addiction issue which led to prison time. Trying to get back on track. Youtube channel is to share things I learned about religion as I took a deep dive with the time I had. Sorry, not wanting to share name. People told me I should become a minister or write a book. The Youtube channel is to share the insights. America is unforgiving of mistakes initially. But we were a country founded on cast offs from other places. Assume you are in the States, or no? Problem is mainly no real source of income and covid-19 hasnt helped with job, or having outside association. On ministry I am of a faith without paid ministry. Hence the Youtube channel to reach out and share at the same time. Higher power- an AA term. Was in an AA group at prison even though addiction was different. Yes, I know but still too easy to look at own situation when some are starving. Not an issue I have. Yes, I believe in Yehovah as God. Some their higher power wasnt a god like entity. Think we have timed out CHEERS

Think we have timed out CHEERS

You could be a blessing to so many others. And sometimes just by sharing our hardships, the knowledge we gained is embedded even more.

You could be a blessing to so many others. And sometimes just by sharing our hardships, the knowledge we gained is embedded even more. Have high hopes that it will all work out.

Affirmation and Reassurance, Others

Affirmation and Reassurance

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132

10

anxiety

ongoing_depression

Had addiction that lead to time in prison. Recently released but things are not falling in place. General anxiety disorder.

4

3

5

4

Hi. Is someone there? Doing ok. Trying to stay busy with a Youtube channel I just started. Situation is as described above; have an addiction issue which led to prison time. Trying to get back on track. Youtube channel is to share things I learned about religion as I took a deep dive with the time I had. Sorry, not wanting to share name. People told me I should become a minister or write a book. The Youtube channel is to share the insights. America is unforgiving of mistakes initially. But we were a country founded on cast offs from other places. Assume you are in the States, or no? Problem is mainly no real source of income and covid-19 hasnt helped with job, or having outside association. On ministry I am of a faith without paid ministry. Hence the Youtube channel to reach out and share at the same time. Higher power- an AA term. Was in an AA group at prison even though addiction was different. Yes, I know but still too easy to look at own situation when some are starving. Not an issue I have. Yes, I believe in Yehovah as God. Some their higher power wasnt a god like entity. Think we have timed out CHEERS Thanks for the answers. May god shine upon you and yours.

Thanks for the answers. May god shine upon you and yours.

;) Likewise my friend

Others

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depression

problems_with_friends

My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

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2

5

4

It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you?

I'm doing well, thank you for asking! Do you mind me asking what's going on that's making you feel sad?

Question

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depression

problems_with_friends

My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

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2

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It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you? I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more.

I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more.

It sounds like you feel as though you are being personally attacked/mistreated for something that you feel you handled correctly. Does that summarize what you're feeling?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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depression

problems_with_friends

My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

3

2

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It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you? I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more. Absolutely! You nailed it!

Absolutely! You nailed it!

I feel as though you absolutely did the right thing! If I were in your shoes, I would have done the exact same thing.

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depression

problems_with_friends

My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

3

2

5

4

It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you? I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more. Absolutely! You nailed it! Thank you! That makes me feel better! But, I don't know how to make my neighbors feel that way and I hate being the outcast.

Thank you! That makes me feel better! But, I don't know how to make my neighbors feel that way and I hate being the outcast.

I have neighbors who act in similar ways. They act as though they run the entire street, but they rent just like everyone else does here. Dealing with them can be very difficult at times.

Self-disclosure

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depression

problems_with_friends

My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

3

2

5

4

It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you? I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more. Absolutely! You nailed it! Thank you! That makes me feel better! But, I don't know how to make my neighbors feel that way and I hate being the outcast. Sounds like we live in the same neighborhood! Ha!

Sounds like we live in the same neighborhood! Ha!

Just based on what you're saying, I can completely understand why you feel the way that you do. In my opinion, you have every right to feel that way.

Just based on what you're saying, I can completely understand why you feel the way that you do. In my opinion, you have every right to feel that way. Haha! It's not fun at all to have neighbors who make you feel as though you're somehow less than them. I know exactly what that feels like.

Reflection of feelings, Others

Reflection of feelings

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depression

problems_with_friends

My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

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It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you? I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more. Absolutely! You nailed it! Thank you! That makes me feel better! But, I don't know how to make my neighbors feel that way and I hate being the outcast. Sounds like we live in the same neighborhood! Ha! Yep! That's how I feel. What should I do to get back in good graces with them?

Yep! That's how I feel. What should I do to get back in good graces with them?

I do know people who have gone through the exact same thing in the past. When another animal attacks one of your fur-babies, it's absolutely terrible. However, the fact that this woman was given the option to either get rid of her dog or move tells me that you are 100% correct in the way that you handled this situation. It's unfortunate for the woman, yes, but she should have had more control over her dog. It's bad enough when one animal is attacked, but when it's more than one, that's when you really know that it's a problem. Again, legally, she had to make a choice, and that's because she failed to properly secure her dog. I really don't feel as though you did anything wrong.

I do know people who have gone through the exact same thing in the past. When another animal attacks one of your fur-babies, it's absolutely terrible. However, the fact that this woman was given the option to either get rid of her dog or move tells me that you are 100% correct in the way that you handled this situation. It's unfortunate for the woman, yes, but she should have had more control over her dog. It's bad enough when one animal is attacked, but when it's more than one, that's when you really know that it's a problem. Again, legally, she had to make a choice, and that's because she failed to properly secure her dog. I really don't feel as though you did anything wrong. If I were you, I would ask to speak with the neighbors who have an issue with you face-to-face. I know it may be difficult, but I think that would be the best way to go about it. Are you on good terms with the other person whose dog was attacked?

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My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

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It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you? I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more. Absolutely! You nailed it! Thank you! That makes me feel better! But, I don't know how to make my neighbors feel that way and I hate being the outcast. Sounds like we live in the same neighborhood! Ha! Yep! That's how I feel. What should I do to get back in good graces with them? I totally agree with you! The woman is disabled and I think most of the neighbors feel sorry for her. I've seen her loose control of the dog before, but she never attacked another dog(s). I've even seem the dog pull her scooter over and the woman needed lots of help to get back into it. I think everyone feels sorry for her.

I totally agree with you! The woman is disabled and I think most of the neighbors feel sorry for her. I've seen her loose control of the dog before, but she never attacked another dog(s). I've even seem the dog pull her scooter over and the woman needed lots of help to get back into it. I think everyone feels sorry for her.

That probably has a lot to do with it. I would feel sorry for her too, as it is very sad in general. However, it doesn't excuse the fact that her animal attacked two other dogs.

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My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

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It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you? I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more. Absolutely! You nailed it! Thank you! That makes me feel better! But, I don't know how to make my neighbors feel that way and I hate being the outcast. Sounds like we live in the same neighborhood! Ha! Yep! That's how I feel. What should I do to get back in good graces with them? I totally agree with you! The woman is disabled and I think most of the neighbors feel sorry for her. I've seen her loose control of the dog before, but she never attacked another dog(s). I've even seem the dog pull her scooter over and the woman needed lots of help to get back into it. I think everyone feels sorry for her. I've talked to the neighbors face-to-face and they just think that I overreacted. The woman started getting her dog and private training and so they feel that she was trying. My point was that my dog weighs 15 pounds and her dog weighs 45 pounds and, if it happens again, I may not have a dog anymore. I don't want to wait until a dog is killed or badly injured. I told them exactly what you just said, but they are being mean! I guess I could try talking to them again. Maybe they've cooled off some.

I've talked to the neighbors face-to-face and they just think that I overreacted. The woman started getting her dog and private training and so they feel that she was trying. My point was that my dog weighs 15 pounds and her dog weighs 45 pounds and, if it happens again, I may not have a dog anymore. I don't want to wait until a dog is killed or badly injured. I told them exactly what you just said, but they are being mean! I guess I could try talking to them again. Maybe they've cooled off some.

That is absolutely terrible. In that case, I would just tell them that you refuse to allow another dog to possible injure or kill your own dog, so you did what was necessary to protect your fur-baby. Had you not done anything, this could have happened again, and the outcome may have been much worse. At that point, if they still don't respond kindly, I'd tell them that you still feel as though you did what needed to be done, that you understand why they are upset, but that you will always do whatever it takes to protect your dog. Hopefully, they will stop being mean. Even if they just stop talking to you completely, it's better than them harassing you or something along those lines. If they do start escalating their nasty behavior, I'd let the manager of your complex know that you're being mistreated. I always try to keep things calm and quiet, but I refuse to be taken advantage of or treated poorly.

That is absolutely terrible. In that case, I would just tell them that you refuse to allow another dog to possible injure or kill your own dog, so you did what was necessary to protect your fur-baby. Had you not done anything, this could have happened again, and the outcome may have been much worse. At that point, if they still don't respond kindly, I'd tell them that you still feel as though you did what needed to be done, that you understand why they are upset, but that you will always do whatever it takes to protect your dog. Hopefully, they will stop being mean. Even if they just stop talking to you completely, it's better than them harassing you or something along those lines. If they do start escalating their nasty behavior, I'd let the manager of your complex know that you're being mistreated. I always try to keep things calm and quiet, but I refuse to be taken advantage of or treated poorly. Personally, as I stated previously, I wholeheartedly believe that you did the right thing. If they're unable to see that, I'd try to just avoid contact with them unless it's necessary. I know it stinks and I'd be sad too, but unfortunately, some people just don't know how to let things go and seem to find joy in making other people upset. I'm so sorrry that you're dealing with all of this.

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My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

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It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you? I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more. Absolutely! You nailed it! Thank you! That makes me feel better! But, I don't know how to make my neighbors feel that way and I hate being the outcast. Sounds like we live in the same neighborhood! Ha! Yep! That's how I feel. What should I do to get back in good graces with them? I totally agree with you! The woman is disabled and I think most of the neighbors feel sorry for her. I've seen her loose control of the dog before, but she never attacked another dog(s). I've even seem the dog pull her scooter over and the woman needed lots of help to get back into it. I think everyone feels sorry for her. I've talked to the neighbors face-to-face and they just think that I overreacted. The woman started getting her dog and private training and so they feel that she was trying. My point was that my dog weighs 15 pounds and her dog weighs 45 pounds and, if it happens again, I may not have a dog anymore. I don't want to wait until a dog is killed or badly injured. I told them exactly what you just said, but they are being mean! I guess I could try talking to them again. Maybe they've cooled off some. Thank you so much! Those are really good suggestions. I'll do that and, hopefully, they will calm down. If not, I have other friends that live outside my neighborhood. And I can talk to the manager like you said. I appreciate your help today. And your validation that I did nothing wrong. I was beginning to second guess my actions.

Thank you so much! Those are really good suggestions. I'll do that and, hopefully, they will calm down. If not, I have other friends that live outside my neighborhood. And I can talk to the manager like you said. I appreciate your help today. And your validation that I did nothing wrong. I was beginning to second guess my actions.

I'm so glad that I was able to offer helpful suggestions! Hang in there. You sound like a strong person! I would definitely spend some time with your true friends who live outside of your neighborhood. I can assure you that if someone else's animal attacked one of mine, I would have done the exact same thing that you did.

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My neighbors are all mad at me, because I was the cause of a mutual friend being evicted from our complex. Her dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week. I reported the incident to apartment management and Animal Control. She was told to get rid of her dog or move. She elected to move, but continued to say that she "got kicked out because of me". I guess friends liked her more, because now I'm the "bad guy".

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It's a pretty day, but I'm sad. How are you? I don't like being blamed for something when I don't feel I did anything wrong. A neighbor's dog attacked my dog and another dog within a week and I reported it to our apartment manager and animal control. She was given the choice to get rid of her dog or move and she decided to move. But my neighbors are mad at me, because they think I overreacted. I guess they liked her more. Absolutely! You nailed it! Thank you! That makes me feel better! But, I don't know how to make my neighbors feel that way and I hate being the outcast. Sounds like we live in the same neighborhood! Ha! Yep! That's how I feel. What should I do to get back in good graces with them? I totally agree with you! The woman is disabled and I think most of the neighbors feel sorry for her. I've seen her loose control of the dog before, but she never attacked another dog(s). I've even seem the dog pull her scooter over and the woman needed lots of help to get back into it. I think everyone feels sorry for her. I've talked to the neighbors face-to-face and they just think that I overreacted. The woman started getting her dog and private training and so they feel that she was trying. My point was that my dog weighs 15 pounds and her dog weighs 45 pounds and, if it happens again, I may not have a dog anymore. I don't want to wait until a dog is killed or badly injured. I told them exactly what you just said, but they are being mean! I guess I could try talking to them again. Maybe they've cooled off some. Thank you so much! Those are really good suggestions. I'll do that and, hopefully, they will calm down. If not, I have other friends that live outside my neighborhood. And I can talk to the manager like you said. I appreciate your help today. And your validation that I did nothing wrong. I was beginning to second guess my actions. THANK YOU! Take care!

THANK YOU! Take care!

You're very welcome! You do the same. Have a wonderful day. Try to do things that make you smile! :)

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hi how are you?

how are you?

I am good , how is your side,

I am good , how is your side, how may be of help

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend.

Fine thank you I have problem with my friend.

okay, life is full of problems and challenges. Can you please tell me more about it.

okay, life is full of problems and challenges. Can you please tell me more about it. hello

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend. He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas.

He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas.

that is very bad of him

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend. He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas. very true Now my love relation has in very bad condition. what can I do now.?

very true Now my love relation has in very bad condition. what can I do now.?

Just from our conversations, I can see how hateful you are to that your friend behaviour

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend. He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas. very true Now my love relation has in very bad condition. what can I do now.? yes

yes

I was in that kind situation when my rusted friend fucked up

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend. He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas. very true Now my love relation has in very bad condition. what can I do now.? yes So I already broke up my friendship with him

So I already broke up my friendship with him

the major concern now is your girl friend, you need to try to let her trust you back. As much she loves you, she will forgive you

the major concern now is your girl friend, you need to try to let her trust you back. As much she loves you, she will forgive you plead her, let her know how bad your friend is.

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend. He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas. very true Now my love relation has in very bad condition. what can I do now.? yes So I already broke up my friendship with him yes sure, but how?

yes sure, but how?

confess the fact to your girlfriend and feel remorseful

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend. He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas. very true Now my love relation has in very bad condition. what can I do now.? yes So I already broke up my friendship with him yes sure, but how? ok I will try my best.

ok I will try my best.

distance yourself totally from bad company that cannot keep secret

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend. He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas. very true Now my love relation has in very bad condition. what can I do now.? yes So I already broke up my friendship with him yes sure, but how? ok I will try my best. I hope she will understand yeah

I hope she will understand yeah

Fidelity is most important in any relationship, open up to your girlfriend and if she refuse to forgive you, try to tell someone you know can talk to her.

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend. He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas. very true Now my love relation has in very bad condition. what can I do now.? yes So I already broke up my friendship with him yes sure, but how? ok I will try my best. I hope she will understand yeah yes I didn't want to see his face

yes I didn't want to see his face

Fidelity is most important in any relationship, open up to your girlfriend and if she refuse to forgive you, try to tell someone you know can talk to her.

Fidelity is most important in any relationship, open up to your girlfriend and if she refuse to forgive you, try to tell someone you know can talk to her. PLS END THE CHAT

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hi how are you? Fine thank you I have problem with my friend. He is such a negative character, he has shared my sensitive secrets with my girls friend, so that , she became upset, she didn't talk with me. I don't want to see his face, his name is Thomas. very true Now my love relation has in very bad condition. what can I do now.? yes So I already broke up my friendship with him yes sure, but how? ok I will try my best. I hope she will understand yeah yes I didn't want to see his face yes sure, Thank you for your kind words

yes sure, Thank you for your kind words

THANKS,

THANKS, BYE PLS END THE CHAT

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Hi there, could I ask you for some help?

hi! how are you doing today?

hi! how are you doing today? of course! Whst's up?

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Hi there, could I ask you for some help? Well not too great really. I am on furlough from my job because of the lockdown.

Well not too great really. I am on furlough from my job because of the lockdown.

how long ago did that happen?

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Hi there, could I ask you for some help? Well not too great really. I am on furlough from my job because of the lockdown. It has been happening for most of 2020. I briefly returned to work but now I am furloughed again! What should I do?

It has been happening for most of 2020. I briefly returned to work but now I am furloughed again! What should I do?

have you filed for unemployment or are you getting paid through your work?

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Hi there, could I ask you for some help? Well not too great really. I am on furlough from my job because of the lockdown. It has been happening for most of 2020. I briefly returned to work but now I am furloughed again! What should I do? I get a certain amount of my salary but it is not enough to pay for all my expenses. Additionally I am feeling really bad about the fact that I can't leave home very often.

I get a certain amount of my salary but it is not enough to pay for all my expenses. Additionally I am feeling really bad about the fact that I can't leave home very often.

not being able to go anywhere is hard. we are all feeling that right now. is it that you are feeling money woes or being cooped up - which bothers you most?

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Hi there, could I ask you for some help? Well not too great really. I am on furlough from my job because of the lockdown. It has been happening for most of 2020. I briefly returned to work but now I am furloughed again! What should I do? I get a certain amount of my salary but it is not enough to pay for all my expenses. Additionally I am feeling really bad about the fact that I can't leave home very often. I think it is a combination of both but - perhaps mostly the money worries. It would be ironic if we were to be made homeless at a time when we're not legally supposed to be outside for very long!

I think it is a combination of both but - perhaps mostly the money worries. It would be ironic if we were to be made homeless at a time when we're not legally supposed to be outside for very long!

indeed. you mentioned that the salary you are getting doesn't cover everything. is it not covering houseing expenses?

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Hi there, could I ask you for some help? Well not too great really. I am on furlough from my job because of the lockdown. It has been happening for most of 2020. I briefly returned to work but now I am furloughed again! What should I do? I get a certain amount of my salary but it is not enough to pay for all my expenses. Additionally I am feeling really bad about the fact that I can't leave home very often. I think it is a combination of both but - perhaps mostly the money worries. It would be ironic if we were to be made homeless at a time when we're not legally supposed to be outside for very long! We can just about scrape by on our mortgage but we were really struggling on other monthly expenses and are worried that some of them might not be paid by the bank.

We can just about scrape by on our mortgage but we were really struggling on other monthly expenses and are worried that some of them might not be paid by the bank.

it's very scary and stressful! when i have faced a money crisis i have paid mortgage first, car second and then talked to utilities and explained the situation, woudl that help

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