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My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

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Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him. I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face That's what my wife is also telling me. But what can I do then? I want to smash things now I don't want to cry sorry, I want hit something It would be great, unfortunately I don't go to gym Should I ring him and tell everything I feel about him? What do you thing I will then definitely ring him. Also I feel so sad because we have a lot of friends in common That's for sure but then friends need to decide who to invite He did a such stupid thing, now he now only myself and he is affected but also our friends

He did a such stupid thing, now he now only myself and he is affected but also our friends

That's very true. Don't bring the situation to your friends though because they had nothing to do with it. Only the friend who did the action should be affected.

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My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

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Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him. I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face That's what my wife is also telling me. But what can I do then? I want to smash things now I don't want to cry sorry, I want hit something It would be great, unfortunately I don't go to gym Should I ring him and tell everything I feel about him? What do you thing I will then definitely ring him. Also I feel so sad because we have a lot of friends in common That's for sure but then friends need to decide who to invite He did a such stupid thing, now he now only myself and he is affected but also our friends yeah true. Thank you for you help I will ring him soon

yeah true. Thank you for you help I will ring him soon

No problem, I really hope that you can get a peace of mind from this situation. I wish you the best of luck!

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I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship.

Have you been feeling this way for a while or is it a surprise change?

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I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it.

I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it.

So you have felt for a while that things aren't right in your relationship and you don't know how to end the relationship without hurting your girlfriend's feelings?

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I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it. That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do.

That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do.

I can tell that you are a nice person that cares for your girlfriend and you want the best for her. I think you want to be honest with her which is a good sign of maturity and integrity.

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I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it. That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do. Thanks for that. I do care for her which is why I don't want to upset her.

Thanks for that. I do care for her which is why I don't want to upset her.

Unfortunately this may be upsetting in the short term. I had a friend who had a similar issue. He wanted to end things with his girlfriend and they ended up having an honest conversation, which was upsetting at the time but they are still friends to this day and parted on good terms.

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breakup_with_partner

I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it. That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do. Thanks for that. I do care for her which is why I don't want to upset her. It is good that it is possible to do this and still become friends afterwards. I do worry about how this would go and am fearful that she will react badly. How would you go about it?

It is good that it is possible to do this and still become friends afterwards. I do worry about how this would go and am fearful that she will react badly. How would you go about it?

I think the best thing to do would just be honest about your feelings and start the conversation with her. I think you could also consider when is the right time to do this so that you minimise the affect that this may have on her.

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I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it. That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do. Thanks for that. I do care for her which is why I don't want to upset her. It is good that it is possible to do this and still become friends afterwards. I do worry about how this would go and am fearful that she will react badly. How would you go about it? I'm not sure what you mean by the right time. Is there ever a right time to do this?

I'm not sure what you mean by the right time. Is there ever a right time to do this?

People who have a negative experience at a key point in their lives, such as a birthday of Christmas, tend to remember that bad experience the following year. I mean choose an appropriate time to have the discussion.

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I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it. That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do. Thanks for that. I do care for her which is why I don't want to upset her. It is good that it is possible to do this and still become friends afterwards. I do worry about how this would go and am fearful that she will react badly. How would you go about it? I'm not sure what you mean by the right time. Is there ever a right time to do this? Ok I get it. Don't dump her on her birthday LOL. So I should just start the talk then, may be one evening?

Ok I get it. Don't dump her on her birthday LOL. So I should just start the talk then, may be one evening?

Yes when she is available to have a good talk about this. Do you have my friends that you can talk to about this?

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I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it. That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do. Thanks for that. I do care for her which is why I don't want to upset her. It is good that it is possible to do this and still become friends afterwards. I do worry about how this would go and am fearful that she will react badly. How would you go about it? I'm not sure what you mean by the right time. Is there ever a right time to do this? Ok I get it. Don't dump her on her birthday LOL. So I should just start the talk then, may be one evening? I do have some friends that know how I am feeling yes. Maybe they can help me come up with a plan off what to say.

I do have some friends that know how I am feeling yes. Maybe they can help me come up with a plan off what to say.

I think it's best to be honest and if it comes from the heart then you can at least say you have been honest with yourself and your girlfriend.

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I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it. That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do. Thanks for that. I do care for her which is why I don't want to upset her. It is good that it is possible to do this and still become friends afterwards. I do worry about how this would go and am fearful that she will react badly. How would you go about it? I'm not sure what you mean by the right time. Is there ever a right time to do this? Ok I get it. Don't dump her on her birthday LOL. So I should just start the talk then, may be one evening? I do have some friends that know how I am feeling yes. Maybe they can help me come up with a plan off what to say. I think this is going to be hard but thanks for the suggestions

I think this is going to be hard but thanks for the suggestions

I think you can do this and have confidence that you will do it in the right way. These things are not easy but I know you can ride to the challenge and do this tactfully and with care.

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breakup_with_partner

I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it. That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do. Thanks for that. I do care for her which is why I don't want to upset her. It is good that it is possible to do this and still become friends afterwards. I do worry about how this would go and am fearful that she will react badly. How would you go about it? I'm not sure what you mean by the right time. Is there ever a right time to do this? Ok I get it. Don't dump her on her birthday LOL. So I should just start the talk then, may be one evening? I do have some friends that know how I am feeling yes. Maybe they can help me come up with a plan off what to say. I think this is going to be hard but thanks for the suggestions Thanks for the kind words. I'll give this a try.

Thanks for the kind words. I'll give this a try.

You are very welcome.

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breakup_with_partner

I think I need to break up with my girlfriend because my feelings have changed

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I have been in a relationship for just over two years. At the start it was fun and we got along great. I think we have little in common these days and I don't feel the same way I used to. I don;t want to hurt her feelings but I'm thinking about ending the relationship. I have felt like this for a while now but I'm thinking about if more nowadays. It doesn't feel right and I don't know who to handle it. That's correct yes. I worry that she will be very upset and the thought of her in distress does concern me. It might be easier to stay together but I don't think that's the right thing to do. Thanks for that. I do care for her which is why I don't want to upset her. It is good that it is possible to do this and still become friends afterwards. I do worry about how this would go and am fearful that she will react badly. How would you go about it? I'm not sure what you mean by the right time. Is there ever a right time to do this? Ok I get it. Don't dump her on her birthday LOL. So I should just start the talk then, may be one evening? I do have some friends that know how I am feeling yes. Maybe they can help me come up with a plan off what to say. I think this is going to be hard but thanks for the suggestions Thanks for the kind words. I'll give this a try. Ok bye

Ok bye

Take care

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there

Hi, how are you?

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it

Im okay, just a bit out of it

Ok, how may I help you?

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one

I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one

Yes, it is the same for most of the people. Any thing particular bothering you?

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home

I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home

So, you cannot go out due to COVID and that makes you frustrated. Is that correct?

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home More sad I would say

More sad I would say

Have you done anything different than usual while staying at home?

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home More sad I would say No not really. I just finished the semester

No not really. I just finished the semester

You could explore some of your hobbies, such as music, painting, or workingout..

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home More sad I would say No not really. I just finished the semester Hmm what specific hobbies would you recomend?

Hmm what specific hobbies would you recomend?

Whichever you enjoy.. pick one. There are a lots of online resources you cloud use.

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home More sad I would say No not really. I just finished the semester Hmm what specific hobbies would you recomend? Do you know of any specific online resources? I haven't looked at this before

Do you know of any specific online resources? I haven't looked at this before

What would you like to do in your spare time?

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home More sad I would say No not really. I just finished the semester Hmm what specific hobbies would you recomend? Do you know of any specific online resources? I haven't looked at this before Mainly just watching youtube vids

Mainly just watching youtube vids

Have you ever thought of creating videos for YouTube?

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home More sad I would say No not really. I just finished the semester Hmm what specific hobbies would you recomend? Do you know of any specific online resources? I haven't looked at this before Mainly just watching youtube vids I haven't. I might try that. Thanks for the suggestion

I haven't. I might try that. Thanks for the suggestion

Yes, give it a try.. you might like and it will keep you busy during stay home time..

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home More sad I would say No not really. I just finished the semester Hmm what specific hobbies would you recomend? Do you know of any specific online resources? I haven't looked at this before Mainly just watching youtube vids I haven't. I might try that. Thanks for the suggestion Okay thank you I will!

Okay thank you I will!

Anyting else, I can hlep you with?

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I'm kind of just generally feeling seasonal depression as I don't feel happy,

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Hello there Im okay, just a bit out of it I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home More sad I would say No not really. I just finished the semester Hmm what specific hobbies would you recomend? Do you know of any specific online resources? I haven't looked at this before Mainly just watching youtube vids I haven't. I might try that. Thanks for the suggestion Okay thank you I will! No I think I'm good

No I think I'm good

Please click "Finish and Quit" to close the chat.. thank you.

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i feel like my life is in a rut

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HI, I need help, I have been feeling very down lately.

Okay, how can I help you?

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HI, I need help, I have been feeling very down lately. I just wanted to talk to someone.

I just wanted to talk to someone.

Is there anything particular that has got you feeling down lately?

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HI, I need help, I have been feeling very down lately. I just wanted to talk to someone. I feel like I am in a rut.

I feel like I am in a rut.

Its always good to have someone to talk to, I am happy to help. I have felt stuck many times, so i can understand that.

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i feel like my life is in a rut

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HI, I need help, I have been feeling very down lately. I just wanted to talk to someone. I feel like I am in a rut. What did you do to get out of the rut.

What did you do to get out of the rut.

Well I had to sit down and think about why I was stuck and tried to come up with as many options as I could to be unstuck, then i put them in order based on which I thought would work best. It took quite a few of them, but I did finally get unstuck.

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HI, I need help, I have been feeling very down lately. I just wanted to talk to someone. I feel like I am in a rut. What did you do to get out of the rut. I can try doing that.

I can try doing that.

Every one is different, but it is worth a shot, might help the rut your having, might also give you new ideas that will help you decide on how to not feel like your in a rut anymore. Sometimes just talking to someone can help too, bouncing ideas off of each other can help in some cases.

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HI, I need help, I have been feeling very down lately. I just wanted to talk to someone. I feel like I am in a rut. What did you do to get out of the rut. I can try doing that. True, I have been avoiding most people.

True, I have been avoiding most people.

Its hard to talk about certain problems, so I can't blame you, however you can get some good ideas from others. You might have just needed some space to evaluate your situation, nothing wrong with taking a break from things or people if it helps you.

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HI, I need help, I have been feeling very down lately. I just wanted to talk to someone. I feel like I am in a rut. What did you do to get out of the rut. I can try doing that. True, I have been avoiding most people. I will try reaching out to my sister tomorrow. maybe she can help. I also feel embarrassed that I feel so unhappy.

I will try reaching out to my sister tomorrow. maybe she can help. I also feel embarrassed that I feel so unhappy.

From chatting with you I can tell you might be ready to start talking and maybe get some help or advice, family is a great start they are typically a great support system. It is okay to feel embarrassed but being unhappy will eat at you, sometimes its good to set our pride aside so that we can figure things out. In my situation of feeling stuck I was ashamed that I sat and let people treat me so badly but it wasn't until I seen it as a problem that I started making my lists and getting advice. Some things we do on our own and some its good to have people to help. I think reaching out to your sister would be worth a try, she might also have different ideas and suggestions you haven' t thought of yet.

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HI, I need help, I have been feeling very down lately. I just wanted to talk to someone. I feel like I am in a rut. What did you do to get out of the rut. I can try doing that. True, I have been avoiding most people. I will try reaching out to my sister tomorrow. maybe she can help. I also feel embarrassed that I feel so unhappy. Thanks, you have been a lot of help.

Thanks, you have been a lot of help.

Thank you for chatting with me, I am glad to help. I hope you have a great day! Stay positive!

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HI, I need help, I have been feeling very down lately. I just wanted to talk to someone. I feel like I am in a rut. What did you do to get out of the rut. I can try doing that. True, I have been avoiding most people. I will try reaching out to my sister tomorrow. maybe she can help. I also feel embarrassed that I feel so unhappy. Thanks, you have been a lot of help. I will try and you have a nice day too. Bye

I will try and you have a nice day too. Bye

If you need to chat again I would be glad to talk to you, I think you will do great at fixing your rut. Thank you.

If you need to chat again I would be glad to talk to you, I think you will do great at fixing your rut. Thank you. Bye.

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses

sure, please go ahead and share your story

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now

pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now

it sounds like you are having depression, have you shared your problems with anyone?

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc.

yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc.

that's great! Friends can be big help

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle.

I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle.

If you have time, spend at least 1-2h everyday outdoor. You can talk a walk in the park or just simply go to the stores

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle. So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking.

So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking.

In order to have better sleep pattern, maybe you should exercise, at first your body will be tired which helps you sleep better and earlier

In order to have better sleep pattern, maybe you should exercise, at first your body will be tired which helps you sleep better and earlier spending too much time indoor is very damaging to your mentality. Even the most normal person will go crazy at that rate.

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle. So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking. My thinking is that I had stuck to this for so long it's not my style to compromise and I tend to be stubborn. And that if I had done that, I would have done that early on this year. But other people are doing it but it's also coupled with the pandemic in which I just don't think I or anyone should risk that, since I am basically sacrificing myself, while others in my apartment building are walking freely in and out. So that's my thinking. Yes I understand. I do know it's bad to get stuck indoors. Believe me, before all this, I was going out many times a week to the movies and to the gym.

My thinking is that I had stuck to this for so long it's not my style to compromise and I tend to be stubborn. And that if I had done that, I would have done that early on this year. But other people are doing it but it's also coupled with the pandemic in which I just don't think I or anyone should risk that, since I am basically sacrificing myself, while others in my apartment building are walking freely in and out. So that's my thinking. Yes I understand. I do know it's bad to get stuck indoors. Believe me, before all this, I was going out many times a week to the movies and to the gym.

I feel you, when everything starts closing down again. I also feel angry because I've been doing everything right and now am punished because of other selfish people

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle. So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking. My thinking is that I had stuck to this for so long it's not my style to compromise and I tend to be stubborn. And that if I had done that, I would have done that early on this year. But other people are doing it but it's also coupled with the pandemic in which I just don't think I or anyone should risk that, since I am basically sacrificing myself, while others in my apartment building are walking freely in and out. So that's my thinking. Yes I understand. I do know it's bad to get stuck indoors. Believe me, before all this, I was going out many times a week to the movies and to the gym. Now I just do a lot of time nothing but on the computer or in my studies. A lot of the time aimless, not even studying that well or using my time well. And I don't have the same motivation to work out that much at home, which I used to do a lot. exactly. I understand your feelings too on that. A lot of selfish people inviting others indoors or going out, even a few months ago when the cases were just dropping and they didn't take enough time to wait but immediately lift their own restriction and go out.

Now I just do a lot of time nothing but on the computer or in my studies. A lot of the time aimless, not even studying that well or using my time well. And I don't have the same motivation to work out that much at home, which I used to do a lot. exactly. I understand your feelings too on that. A lot of selfish people inviting others indoors or going out, even a few months ago when the cases were just dropping and they didn't take enough time to wait but immediately lift their own restriction and go out.

I'm also sick of the repetition too. Everyday I go to work then go home and just get stuck there all nigh every day. However, we need to tell ourselves that this too shall pass

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle. So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking. My thinking is that I had stuck to this for so long it's not my style to compromise and I tend to be stubborn. And that if I had done that, I would have done that early on this year. But other people are doing it but it's also coupled with the pandemic in which I just don't think I or anyone should risk that, since I am basically sacrificing myself, while others in my apartment building are walking freely in and out. So that's my thinking. Yes I understand. I do know it's bad to get stuck indoors. Believe me, before all this, I was going out many times a week to the movies and to the gym. Now I just do a lot of time nothing but on the computer or in my studies. A lot of the time aimless, not even studying that well or using my time well. And I don't have the same motivation to work out that much at home, which I used to do a lot. exactly. I understand your feelings too on that. A lot of selfish people inviting others indoors or going out, even a few months ago when the cases were just dropping and they didn't take enough time to wait but immediately lift their own restriction and go out. But even when there were a lot of cases, there are some people on my floor that walked freely in and out many times in one day when it wasn't safe for anyone. And I didn't get that at all and that was when I was angry and anxious of their actions. Because that risked my safety too sorry to hear that you have similar repetitions. That's how it feels. Everyday is the same. And when I talk with my folks on the phone, I have nothing new to share except about the pandemic, because that's the only thing new, and I only call the once a week. But yes, I do believe that it will pass at some point.

But even when there were a lot of cases, there are some people on my floor that walked freely in and out many times in one day when it wasn't safe for anyone. And I didn't get that at all and that was when I was angry and anxious of their actions. Because that risked my safety too sorry to hear that you have similar repetitions. That's how it feels. Everyday is the same. And when I talk with my folks on the phone, I have nothing new to share except about the pandemic, because that's the only thing new, and I only call the once a week. But yes, I do believe that it will pass at some point.

that's the right way of thinking. You're doing this not only for yourself but for everyone else

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle. So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking. My thinking is that I had stuck to this for so long it's not my style to compromise and I tend to be stubborn. And that if I had done that, I would have done that early on this year. But other people are doing it but it's also coupled with the pandemic in which I just don't think I or anyone should risk that, since I am basically sacrificing myself, while others in my apartment building are walking freely in and out. So that's my thinking. Yes I understand. I do know it's bad to get stuck indoors. Believe me, before all this, I was going out many times a week to the movies and to the gym. Now I just do a lot of time nothing but on the computer or in my studies. A lot of the time aimless, not even studying that well or using my time well. And I don't have the same motivation to work out that much at home, which I used to do a lot. exactly. I understand your feelings too on that. A lot of selfish people inviting others indoors or going out, even a few months ago when the cases were just dropping and they didn't take enough time to wait but immediately lift their own restriction and go out. But even when there were a lot of cases, there are some people on my floor that walked freely in and out many times in one day when it wasn't safe for anyone. And I didn't get that at all and that was when I was angry and anxious of their actions. Because that risked my safety too sorry to hear that you have similar repetitions. That's how it feels. Everyday is the same. And when I talk with my folks on the phone, I have nothing new to share except about the pandemic, because that's the only thing new, and I only call the once a week. But yes, I do believe that it will pass at some point. yeah that's why I told myself early on I am doing this for everyone and I couldn't compromise no matter what. Perhaps too stringent but that was my thinking.

yeah that's why I told myself early on I am doing this for everyone and I couldn't compromise no matter what. Perhaps too stringent but that was my thinking.

I try to stay away from the news or talking about covid, mostly because it's gonna be the same information and only depresses us even more

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle. So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking. My thinking is that I had stuck to this for so long it's not my style to compromise and I tend to be stubborn. And that if I had done that, I would have done that early on this year. But other people are doing it but it's also coupled with the pandemic in which I just don't think I or anyone should risk that, since I am basically sacrificing myself, while others in my apartment building are walking freely in and out. So that's my thinking. Yes I understand. I do know it's bad to get stuck indoors. Believe me, before all this, I was going out many times a week to the movies and to the gym. Now I just do a lot of time nothing but on the computer or in my studies. A lot of the time aimless, not even studying that well or using my time well. And I don't have the same motivation to work out that much at home, which I used to do a lot. exactly. I understand your feelings too on that. A lot of selfish people inviting others indoors or going out, even a few months ago when the cases were just dropping and they didn't take enough time to wait but immediately lift their own restriction and go out. But even when there were a lot of cases, there are some people on my floor that walked freely in and out many times in one day when it wasn't safe for anyone. And I didn't get that at all and that was when I was angry and anxious of their actions. Because that risked my safety too sorry to hear that you have similar repetitions. That's how it feels. Everyday is the same. And when I talk with my folks on the phone, I have nothing new to share except about the pandemic, because that's the only thing new, and I only call the once a week. But yes, I do believe that it will pass at some point. yeah that's why I told myself early on I am doing this for everyone and I couldn't compromise no matter what. Perhaps too stringent but that was my thinking. And it's better now and I am kind of used to this endless cycle. I used to feel even lonelier and claustrophobic. I see. Well I do hope and it does sound like you are adapting to this well so far and staying sane. So that's good

And it's better now and I am kind of used to this endless cycle. I used to feel even lonelier and claustrophobic. I see. Well I do hope and it does sound like you are adapting to this well so far and staying sane. So that's good

I don't think I am better than you but we have to try nonetheless

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle. So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking. My thinking is that I had stuck to this for so long it's not my style to compromise and I tend to be stubborn. And that if I had done that, I would have done that early on this year. But other people are doing it but it's also coupled with the pandemic in which I just don't think I or anyone should risk that, since I am basically sacrificing myself, while others in my apartment building are walking freely in and out. So that's my thinking. Yes I understand. I do know it's bad to get stuck indoors. Believe me, before all this, I was going out many times a week to the movies and to the gym. Now I just do a lot of time nothing but on the computer or in my studies. A lot of the time aimless, not even studying that well or using my time well. And I don't have the same motivation to work out that much at home, which I used to do a lot. exactly. I understand your feelings too on that. A lot of selfish people inviting others indoors or going out, even a few months ago when the cases were just dropping and they didn't take enough time to wait but immediately lift their own restriction and go out. But even when there were a lot of cases, there are some people on my floor that walked freely in and out many times in one day when it wasn't safe for anyone. And I didn't get that at all and that was when I was angry and anxious of their actions. Because that risked my safety too sorry to hear that you have similar repetitions. That's how it feels. Everyday is the same. And when I talk with my folks on the phone, I have nothing new to share except about the pandemic, because that's the only thing new, and I only call the once a week. But yes, I do believe that it will pass at some point. yeah that's why I told myself early on I am doing this for everyone and I couldn't compromise no matter what. Perhaps too stringent but that was my thinking. And it's better now and I am kind of used to this endless cycle. I used to feel even lonelier and claustrophobic. I see. Well I do hope and it does sound like you are adapting to this well so far and staying sane. So that's good And what sucks even more is that my city is just beginning its second wave as of about two weeks ago. So it's just starting to ramp up Yes I agree. Just stay strong. And one thing I told myself is that years from now I can imagine myself in that future time and thinking back to a dark, bad year, and say and think to myself that I got through it and that there was an end to the dark tunnel. And that there is an end to this.

And what sucks even more is that my city is just beginning its second wave as of about two weeks ago. So it's just starting to ramp up Yes I agree. Just stay strong. And one thing I told myself is that years from now I can imagine myself in that future time and thinking back to a dark, bad year, and say and think to myself that I got through it and that there was an end to the dark tunnel. And that there is an end to this.

it's the same for me, businesses are forced to tighten again which is grim. However, the only think we can do now is take 1 day at a time and hope for the best.

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle. So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking. My thinking is that I had stuck to this for so long it's not my style to compromise and I tend to be stubborn. And that if I had done that, I would have done that early on this year. But other people are doing it but it's also coupled with the pandemic in which I just don't think I or anyone should risk that, since I am basically sacrificing myself, while others in my apartment building are walking freely in and out. So that's my thinking. Yes I understand. I do know it's bad to get stuck indoors. Believe me, before all this, I was going out many times a week to the movies and to the gym. Now I just do a lot of time nothing but on the computer or in my studies. A lot of the time aimless, not even studying that well or using my time well. And I don't have the same motivation to work out that much at home, which I used to do a lot. exactly. I understand your feelings too on that. A lot of selfish people inviting others indoors or going out, even a few months ago when the cases were just dropping and they didn't take enough time to wait but immediately lift their own restriction and go out. But even when there were a lot of cases, there are some people on my floor that walked freely in and out many times in one day when it wasn't safe for anyone. And I didn't get that at all and that was when I was angry and anxious of their actions. Because that risked my safety too sorry to hear that you have similar repetitions. That's how it feels. Everyday is the same. And when I talk with my folks on the phone, I have nothing new to share except about the pandemic, because that's the only thing new, and I only call the once a week. But yes, I do believe that it will pass at some point. yeah that's why I told myself early on I am doing this for everyone and I couldn't compromise no matter what. Perhaps too stringent but that was my thinking. And it's better now and I am kind of used to this endless cycle. I used to feel even lonelier and claustrophobic. I see. Well I do hope and it does sound like you are adapting to this well so far and staying sane. So that's good And what sucks even more is that my city is just beginning its second wave as of about two weeks ago. So it's just starting to ramp up Yes I agree. Just stay strong. And one thing I told myself is that years from now I can imagine myself in that future time and thinking back to a dark, bad year, and say and think to myself that I got through it and that there was an end to the dark tunnel. And that there is an end to this. So that did help even though the future may be relatively far, I was vividly picturing that emotion of that time in the future. yeah good luck to you. And at least your city is deciding to close for the better. My city hasn't even made the call yet even though this is probably the optimal time to do so, early on in the spread where it's controllable. I am sure you will get through this great. We can do it. Actually talking to you now, I feel renewed hope. just kind of summarizing my thoughts and feelings.

So that did help even though the future may be relatively far, I was vividly picturing that emotion of that time in the future. yeah good luck to you. And at least your city is deciding to close for the better. My city hasn't even made the call yet even though this is probably the optimal time to do so, early on in the spread where it's controllable. I am sure you will get through this great. We can do it. Actually talking to you now, I feel renewed hope. just kind of summarizing my thoughts and feelings.

I believe the same as long as we hang in there. Get help from your friends and family

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Hello I would like to talk to you regarding my daily stresses pretty much being social isolated due to the pandemic, trying to finish up my studies at the same time, and what's going on in the world with regards to the pandemic. My physical and mental health aren't great, and I am not eating as well as I should or sleeping as well as I should. I guess we all go through that in different ways with the pandemic now yes sure, I chat with my friend everyday on the phone and that helps to talk about each other's day and my thoughts and feelings, observations with the world etc. I am just not able to help my tendencies to sleep really late and wake up late. My sleep pattern is really abnormal and I am disappointed in myself. It's not much about the pandemic as just gotten a really bad habit and trying to stay up late and watch movies or catch up with my work. Then it's a vicious circle in which the next day I wake up late, and my day starts late, and so to get as much done, I repeat the same damaging cycle. So I am having real trouble breaking this pattern. And because I work once or twice a week and not during the day, I don't even have the motivation or need to wake up early. I go out only for personal errands and that's once every week or two weeks. I still am not prepared to go out even for walks. But that's just my stubborn thinking. My thinking is that I had stuck to this for so long it's not my style to compromise and I tend to be stubborn. And that if I had done that, I would have done that early on this year. But other people are doing it but it's also coupled with the pandemic in which I just don't think I or anyone should risk that, since I am basically sacrificing myself, while others in my apartment building are walking freely in and out. So that's my thinking. Yes I understand. I do know it's bad to get stuck indoors. Believe me, before all this, I was going out many times a week to the movies and to the gym. Now I just do a lot of time nothing but on the computer or in my studies. A lot of the time aimless, not even studying that well or using my time well. And I don't have the same motivation to work out that much at home, which I used to do a lot. exactly. I understand your feelings too on that. A lot of selfish people inviting others indoors or going out, even a few months ago when the cases were just dropping and they didn't take enough time to wait but immediately lift their own restriction and go out. But even when there were a lot of cases, there are some people on my floor that walked freely in and out many times in one day when it wasn't safe for anyone. And I didn't get that at all and that was when I was angry and anxious of their actions. Because that risked my safety too sorry to hear that you have similar repetitions. That's how it feels. Everyday is the same. And when I talk with my folks on the phone, I have nothing new to share except about the pandemic, because that's the only thing new, and I only call the once a week. But yes, I do believe that it will pass at some point. yeah that's why I told myself early on I am doing this for everyone and I couldn't compromise no matter what. Perhaps too stringent but that was my thinking. And it's better now and I am kind of used to this endless cycle. I used to feel even lonelier and claustrophobic. I see. Well I do hope and it does sound like you are adapting to this well so far and staying sane. So that's good And what sucks even more is that my city is just beginning its second wave as of about two weeks ago. So it's just starting to ramp up Yes I agree. Just stay strong. And one thing I told myself is that years from now I can imagine myself in that future time and thinking back to a dark, bad year, and say and think to myself that I got through it and that there was an end to the dark tunnel. And that there is an end to this. So that did help even though the future may be relatively far, I was vividly picturing that emotion of that time in the future. yeah good luck to you. And at least your city is deciding to close for the better. My city hasn't even made the call yet even though this is probably the optimal time to do so, early on in the spread where it's controllable. I am sure you will get through this great. We can do it. Actually talking to you now, I feel renewed hope. just kind of summarizing my thoughts and feelings. So thank you for that and for listening and understanding. Yes will continue to do that

So thank you for that and for listening and understanding. Yes will continue to do that

It was nice talking to you too

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad.

I'm so sorry to hear that.

I'm so sorry to hear that. Do you mind me asking what is going on that is making you feel this way?

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad.

Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad.

I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds to me like you're having a hard time dealing with the emotions that you're dealing with after having broken up with your girlfriend. Does this sound right?

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard.

Yes, that's right. It's been really hard.

I can tell that you're really struggling.

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course.

Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course.

I've dealt with these emotions myself. I recently broke up with my now ex-boyfriend. I have been feeling these same emotions.

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone.

I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone.

I know it feels terrible, but I think that you reaching out for support is a great first step! I'm really proud of you! You will get through this!

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to.

Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to.

We were together for about 5 years. Yes, the loneliness does get very hard.

We were together for about 5 years. Yes, the loneliness does get very hard. I'm happy that I can be here to help you and so that you have someone to talk to! I promise to do my best!

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too.

Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too.

After my breakup, I found that the best thing to do was to involve myself in other activities that I enjoyed in order to take my mind off of the negative feelings that I was dealing with.

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :)

The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :)

You seem very kind! I appreciate your willingness to be here for and to listen to me as well!

You seem very kind! I appreciate your willingness to be here for and to listen to me as well! Aww! That makes me happy to hear that seeing my profile picture is making you smile!

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult.

That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult.

Have you considered getting into any hobbies to take your mind off of what's going on?

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now.

No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now.

Oh! I'm so sorry! Haha!

Oh! I'm so sorry! Haha! Have you considered things like journaling, reading, or arts and crafts?

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless.

Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless.

That may not be a bad idea! If you really like them and are able to properly care for it, animals can be very therapeutic!

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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1

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion.

I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion.

Writing and reading have been proven to be extremely therapeutic. I used to write down my feelings on a piece of paper and then destroy it (throw it away) once I was done. There's something about it that really seems to help.

Writing and reading have been proven to be extremely therapeutic. I used to write down my feelings on a piece of paper and then destroy it (throw it away) once I was done. There's something about it that really seems to help. Aww! That sounds like an adorable dog! What breed of dog is she? I have two cats myself. They make me feel better on a daily basis!

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing.

I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing.

That sounds like a great idea! I love the fact that it helps you to stay connected, especially considering (as you already mentioned) that it's difficult to connect right now since we're dealing with COVID-19.

That sounds like a great idea! I love the fact that it helps you to stay connected, especially considering (as you already mentioned) that it's difficult to connect right now since we're dealing with COVID-19. I love that you're telling me about your dog and how all of the people at the bank wanted to see her! I bet that made you feel much better.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough.

Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough.

I couldn't agree more. Dealing with COVID on top of everything else has been extremely difficult for me. Honestly, I think it is part of what caused a lot of the issues that I'm currently dealing with.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes.

I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes.

It makes me happy to hear that you know that you're better off. I know it's sad, but accepting that a relationship wasn't meant to be is, in my opinion, the first step to truly getting over someone. A year is a long time to spend with one person.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too.

I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too.

I completely agree! Where would you go if you were able to right now?

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.)

If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.)

Thank you so much! We broke up several months ago and I'm already feeling and doing so much better. I am also much better off without that person in my life. I've gained weight back that I couldn't really afford to lose to begin with, I've been more motivated, etc. It really was for the best even though the breakup itself was really difficult.

Thank you so much! We broke up several months ago and I'm already feeling and doing so much better. I am also much better off without that person in my life. I've gained weight back that I couldn't really afford to lose to begin with, I've been more motivated, etc. It really was for the best even though the breakup itself was really difficult. I live in Pennsylvania as well! It's such a small world!

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :)

My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :)

I've always wanted to go to Las Vegas. My brother and his girlfriend just took a trip out there not too long ago.

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome.

I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome.

Oh wow! I live right outside of Philadelphia. I have several friends who have houses on Lake Wallenpaupack. It's beautiful up there!

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain.

Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain.

That's so cool! I've never been on a plane and I've never been anywhere north or west of Pennsylvania. I've been in every state from PA down to Florida, but nowhere else. I really need to travel more!

That's so cool! I've never been on a plane and I've never been anywhere north or west of Pennsylvania. I've been in every state from PA down to Florida, but nowhere else. I really need to travel more! That sounds like a beautiful area. Have you considered going skiing, snowboarding, or snow tubing since you live right near Blue Mountain?

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain. Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol

Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol

I went snow tubing at Blue Mountain once. It was so much fun!

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain. Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol I haven't, but maybe I should! I teach, and I always have students who work there. lol Come to think of it, they might sabotage my tube. lol That's a really good idea though. Thanks. I always see groupons for tubing, too.

I haven't, but maybe I should! I teach, and I always have students who work there. lol Come to think of it, they might sabotage my tube. lol That's a really good idea though. Thanks. I always see groupons for tubing, too.

You should look into it! It was a lot of fun when I went. I believe they're still open right now even though COVID is still going on. It took my mind off of everything while I was there.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain. Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol I haven't, but maybe I should! I teach, and I always have students who work there. lol Come to think of it, they might sabotage my tube. lol That's a really good idea though. Thanks. I always see groupons for tubing, too. Yes, they are open. I got an email yesterday or today that they're making snow now.

Yes, they are open. I got an email yesterday or today that they're making snow now.

Groupon is awesome! You're very welcome. I'm happy to help you think of things that you can do to make yourself feel better.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain. Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol I haven't, but maybe I should! I teach, and I always have students who work there. lol Come to think of it, they might sabotage my tube. lol That's a really good idea though. Thanks. I always see groupons for tubing, too. Yes, they are open. I got an email yesterday or today that they're making snow now. Let's go tubing! lol j/k

Let's go tubing! lol j/k

Wow! That's great to know! I might look into taking a trip up there myself with my daughter. She's 12 years old. She would absolutely love it!

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain. Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol I haven't, but maybe I should! I teach, and I always have students who work there. lol Come to think of it, they might sabotage my tube. lol That's a really good idea though. Thanks. I always see groupons for tubing, too. Yes, they are open. I got an email yesterday or today that they're making snow now. Let's go tubing! lol j/k I miss getting together with friends. And live music and live sports.

I miss getting together with friends. And live music and live sports.

I would love to! That truly does sound like a lot of fun!

I would love to! That truly does sound like a lot of fun! I do too! I also love live music and I REALLY like football. GO EAGLES!

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain. Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol I haven't, but maybe I should! I teach, and I always have students who work there. lol Come to think of it, they might sabotage my tube. lol That's a really good idea though. Thanks. I always see groupons for tubing, too. Yes, they are open. I got an email yesterday or today that they're making snow now. Let's go tubing! lol j/k I miss getting together with friends. And live music and live sports. I love hockey. I have season tickets to the WB Penguins, but they haven't played since March. Hit me up at randythepoet at gmail! :) It's almost 30 minutes. Thank you!

I love hockey. I have season tickets to the WB Penguins, but they haven't played since March. Hit me up at randythepoet at gmail! :) It's almost 30 minutes. Thank you!

I'd love to go to a hockey game. I've never been to one. Thanks for your email!

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain. Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol I haven't, but maybe I should! I teach, and I always have students who work there. lol Come to think of it, they might sabotage my tube. lol That's a really good idea though. Thanks. I always see groupons for tubing, too. Yes, they are open. I got an email yesterday or today that they're making snow now. Let's go tubing! lol j/k I miss getting together with friends. And live music and live sports. I love hockey. I have season tickets to the WB Penguins, but they haven't played since March. Hit me up at randythepoet at gmail! :) It's almost 30 minutes. Thank you! I appreciate your help and ideas! I loooooove hockey. And live music. I go to hockey games in Allentown, too.

I appreciate your help and ideas! I loooooove hockey. And live music. I go to hockey games in Allentown, too.

You already seem like you're feeling better! I really do hope that I helped you somewhat! I wish you the best of luck and I'm really glad that you are open to new ideas.

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I broke up with my romantic partner because the relationship was going really badly. I know it was the right thing for me to do, but now I am incredibly lonely and have no one to go to.

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1

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain. Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol I haven't, but maybe I should! I teach, and I always have students who work there. lol Come to think of it, they might sabotage my tube. lol That's a really good idea though. Thanks. I always see groupons for tubing, too. Yes, they are open. I got an email yesterday or today that they're making snow now. Let's go tubing! lol j/k I miss getting together with friends. And live music and live sports. I love hockey. I have season tickets to the WB Penguins, but they haven't played since March. Hit me up at randythepoet at gmail! :) It's almost 30 minutes. Thank you! I appreciate your help and ideas! I loooooove hockey. And live music. I go to hockey games in Allentown, too. I do! And thank you again. I hope everything works out great for you (and your daughter). :) I'm going to finish the chat. Thanks again!

I do! And thank you again. I hope everything works out great for you (and your daughter). :) I'm going to finish the chat. Thanks again!

Thank you so much! Have a wonderful day and a Happy Thanksgiving! And you're very welcome. Chatting with you was very nice.

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I'm not doing so well. I'm really lonely and kind of sad. Thank you. I broke up with my girlfriend. It was the right thing to do, but now I'm really lonely and sad. Yes, that's right. It's been really hard. Thank you. I was with her for about a year. It was good at first, of course. I'm sorry to hear that. How long were you together? The loneliness gets so hard, especially when you just want to tell something to someone. Thank you. Honestly, I'm glad you're there to reach out to. Oh wow, that's a long time. And thanks. I appreciate your optimism! I am usually very upbeat and optimistic myself. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Hopefully I can help you somehow too. The shiba inu in my profile circle is making me smile. I used to have a shiba inu. :) That sounds really smart. I've been trying to do that. Of course with a pandemic going on it's more difficult. No no... my profile picture. Yours shows up as a squirrel. lol I usually hike a lot, but my hiking groups aren't going out right now. Maybe I should get a pet squirrel? Yes, I actually read and write quite a bit. Especially for work. That's not overly therapeutic, but it helps nonetheless. I have one dog who isn't much bigger than a squirrel. She has been an invaluable companion. I've tried to keep a journal but I never stick to it. I find that writing letters to friends serves me the same purpose, and it helps me to stay connected, too. Plus, people love getting real, hand-written mail. She is a miniature dachshund. Today she went to the bank with me, and all of the tellers came to the window to look into the car at her. lol I like cats too. Animals are so healing. Yeah, and you're right. There's something therapeutic and cathartic about hand writing that typing does not replicate. Yes, it made me happy to see them fawning over her. And it made her happy because they gave her treats. Dealing with issues during Covid is so rough. I hope you're handling them okay. I'm generally well except for the whole breakup business. Still, I know I'm better off. It just sucks sometimes. I wish it was easier and okay to travel right now. A trip or a road trip would do me wonders. So is five years! I hope everything works out for the best for you, too. If there was no virus... maybe Scotland or Las Vegas to see some shows. Or up into Canada. (I'm in Pennsylvania.) My breakup was a few months ago too. I'm in the Poconos. :) I've been to Las Vegas about fifteen times. I love it there. I eat, go to shows, go to baseball games... it's awesome. Wow, that's maybe an hour from me. I grew up outside of Reading. I live right by Blue Mountain. Omg, yes. Travel! I've been to some really strange places. It's awesome. lol I haven't, but maybe I should! I teach, and I always have students who work there. lol Come to think of it, they might sabotage my tube. lol That's a really good idea though. Thanks. I always see groupons for tubing, too. Yes, they are open. I got an email yesterday or today that they're making snow now. Let's go tubing! lol j/k I miss getting together with friends. And live music and live sports. I love hockey. I have season tickets to the WB Penguins, but they haven't played since March. Hit me up at randythepoet at gmail! :) It's almost 30 minutes. Thank you! I appreciate your help and ideas! I loooooove hockey. And live music. I go to hockey games in Allentown, too. I do! And thank you again. I hope everything works out great for you (and your daughter). :) I'm going to finish the chat. Thanks again! You too! Have a great Thanksgiving. It was awesome chatting with you!

You too! Have a great Thanksgiving. It was awesome chatting with you!

You, too! Take care!

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My finance is working out of the country till 2022 and I am left here by myself until he gets home. I have no friends and no one to talk to.

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hello

hey there, how's it going?

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hello alright. just getting by.

alright. just getting by.

is there one particular problem or issue that's been on your mind the most lately?

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hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years

I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years

That sounds rough, I'm sorry. Being away from people we care about would make anyone feel pretty bad.

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hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends

Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends

You don't have to answer anything you don't want, but I'm curious- how'd you end up 5 hours away from the people you know?

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hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends My fiance's job He works out of ATL

My fiance's job He works out of ATL

Gotcha. That's rough for you. Sounds like you made a sacrifice to make that happen.

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hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends My fiance's job He works out of ATL Yes but he is worth it.

Yes but he is worth it.

Glad to hear that :)

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3

5

hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends My fiance's job He works out of ATL Yes but he is worth it. I am just alone down here.

I am just alone down here.

A lot of us feel like we need friends around to keep our mood up, or to get support when we're bummed or bored or sad. Sorry to hear you have less friends nowadays.

A lot of us feel like we need friends around to keep our mood up, or to get support when we're bummed or bored or sad. Sorry to hear you have less friends nowadays. Are you interested in finding new friends?

Reflection of feelings, Question

Reflection of feelings

913

neutral

0.008199

0.002572

0.190852

0.001151

0.60031

0.162277

0.03464

high empathy, high relevance

79

8

sadness

ongoing_depression

My finance is working out of the country till 2022 and I am left here by myself until he gets home. I have no friends and no one to talk to.

4

3

5

hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends My fiance's job He works out of ATL Yes but he is worth it. I am just alone down here. Yes and no, if they are on my level then yes but if not then no. I don't want to associate with people that do drugs so its been a tough time making friends.

Yes and no, if they are on my level then yes but if not then no. I don't want to associate with people that do drugs so its been a tough time making friends.

Yeah, that's tough. It's tough enough to make friends as an adult in a new city. Tougher still if it seems like a lot of people are into things you don't want to be around.

Reflection of feelings

914

angry

0.709728

0.011077

0.00329

0.000372

0.06225

0.209519

0.003764

high empathy, high relevance

79

9

sadness

ongoing_depression

My finance is working out of the country till 2022 and I am left here by myself until he gets home. I have no friends and no one to talk to.

4

3

5

hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends My fiance's job He works out of ATL Yes but he is worth it. I am just alone down here. Yes and no, if they are on my level then yes but if not then no. I don't want to associate with people that do drugs so its been a tough time making friends. Yep, so I just work at home since COVID so I don't really get out.

Yep, so I just work at home since COVID so I don't really get out.

What's a word you'd use to describe your feelings about this issue? Sad, lonely, frustrated, etc?

Question

915

neutral

0.034171

0.000108

0.000177

0.000286

0.947

0.009064

0.009195

high empathy, high relevance

79

10

sadness

ongoing_depression

My finance is working out of the country till 2022 and I am left here by myself until he gets home. I have no friends and no one to talk to.

4

3

5

hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends My fiance's job He works out of ATL Yes but he is worth it. I am just alone down here. Yes and no, if they are on my level then yes but if not then no. I don't want to associate with people that do drugs so its been a tough time making friends. Yep, so I just work at home since COVID so I don't really get out. Lonely

Lonely

Bleh, sorry to hear that. And also, that makes sense based on what you've told me.

Reflection of feelings

916

sad

0.000734

0.000219

0.000198

0.000031

0.002569

0.996038

0.000211

high empathy, high relevance

79

11

sadness

ongoing_depression

My finance is working out of the country till 2022 and I am left here by myself until he gets home. I have no friends and no one to talk to.

4

3

5

hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends My fiance's job He works out of ATL Yes but he is worth it. I am just alone down here. Yes and no, if they are on my level then yes but if not then no. I don't want to associate with people that do drugs so its been a tough time making friends. Yep, so I just work at home since COVID so I don't really get out. Lonely Yeah it is okay it has been nice chatting. Hopeful time will go by quickly for me. I thank you for your time. Have a good day.

Yeah it is okay it has been nice chatting. Hopeful time will go by quickly for me. I thank you for your time. Have a good day.

Good talking to you too. Lonely sucks, but in a way it's also okay. I hope you don't feel like you're broken or you're doing something wrong.

Affirmation and Reassurance

917

happy

0.00022

0.000013

0.000009

0.99961

0.000086

0.000033

0.000028

high empathy, high relevance

79

12

sadness

ongoing_depression

My finance is working out of the country till 2022 and I am left here by myself until he gets home. I have no friends and no one to talk to.

4

3

5

hello alright. just getting by. I am estranged from my family and living 5 hours away from everyone I know and my fiance is away for almost 2 more years Yeah and I really have no friends since I quit drugs so I can't really even text my old female friends My fiance's job He works out of ATL Yes but he is worth it. I am just alone down here. Yes and no, if they are on my level then yes but if not then no. I don't want to associate with people that do drugs so its been a tough time making friends. Yep, so I just work at home since COVID so I don't really get out. Lonely Yeah it is okay it has been nice chatting. Hopeful time will go by quickly for me. I thank you for your time. Have a good day. No just alone. I will be fine. thank you!

No just alone. I will be fine. thank you!

Good luck to you and stay safe! Have a good day.

Others

918

happy

0.000739

0.000016

0.000026

0.998768

0.000317

0.000053

0.000083

high empathy, high relevance

80

1

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today?

Im doing good. How are you doing today?

Question

919

happy

0.000335

0.000027

0.00001

0.998798

0.00074

0.000028

0.000061

high empathy, high relevance

80

2

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today? Not so good unfortunately.

Not so good unfortunately.

Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. Would you be willing to talk about it with me? Sometimes talking with someone is the help that we need.

Reflection of feelings

920

sad

0.00264

0.00103

0.000076

0.000056

0.001645

0.994283

0.00027

high empathy, high relevance

80

3

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today? Not so good unfortunately. Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress.

Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress.

I can sense how stressed you are about the safety of your job. This pandemic has caused so much stress and very much anxiety on everyone, so just know you are not alone. I'm not sure on the work you do, but you putting your health at risk everyday to make a living for you and your family makes you an amazing person. Just try and remember that your health is very much more important then your job and just make sure you are trying everything possible to keep yourself safe out there.

Reflection of feelings

921

fear

0.000156

0.000068

0.998921

0.000052

0.000403

0.000356

0.000044

high empathy, high relevance

80

4

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today? Not so good unfortunately. Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress. Thanks for the positive vibes, but I doubt things will get better.

Thanks for the positive vibes, but I doubt things will get better.

Of course! I also am afraid that this pandemic is going to get worse before it gets any better and that is just my opinion. I am scared for everyone out here anymore and its not just people getting sick and ill, but people like you who could be in jeopardy of loosing their job or their source of income. That's is something that would be on anyones mind, more yours then mine due to you actually working in the public.

Self-disclosure

922

sad

0.110406

0.000921

0.00097

0.011069

0.075881

0.787407

0.013347

high empathy, high relevance

80

5

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today? Not so good unfortunately. Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress. Thanks for the positive vibes, but I doubt things will get better. There is a lock down in my area, I fear it will only get worse.

There is a lock down in my area, I fear it will only get worse.

We thankfully have not got on lockdown just yet, but I know it will be happening soon. We live in a very small town and it has got bad here that either we know someone who has it, or someone in the family has it. It seemed like it just happened over night that it just spread so fast here that everyone is in a panic mode again. What type of things do you do while you are on lockdown?

Information

923

fear

0.00011

0.000138

0.999011

0.000052

0.000364

0.000275

0.00005

high empathy, high relevance

80

6

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today? Not so good unfortunately. Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress. Thanks for the positive vibes, but I doubt things will get better. There is a lock down in my area, I fear it will only get worse. Think about the bad things that will happen if I lost my job. I have been only thinking about the bad..

Think about the bad things that will happen if I lost my job. I have been only thinking about the bad..

I can only imagine. Is it yourself in your home? What I have tried to do is stay away from the news that has anything to do with covid that could maybe help a little. And god forbid anything happens to you and you do loose your job just know there are a lot of resources around that would help you in any struggles that you fear or end up facing. I know its hard and stressful to search and look for things like that but trust me it will take a lot of stress off your mind.

Providing Suggestions

924

sad

0.01596

0.005616

0.004078

0.000176

0.007846

0.961996

0.004327

high empathy, high relevance

80

7

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today? Not so good unfortunately. Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress. Thanks for the positive vibes, but I doubt things will get better. There is a lock down in my area, I fear it will only get worse. Think about the bad things that will happen if I lost my job. I have been only thinking about the bad.. I am not religious, but thanks for the uplifting words. I just don't see a bright side over the fence.

I am not religious, but thanks for the uplifting words. I just don't see a bright side over the fence.

I'm sorry about that I didn't realize I put that, sometimes it just comes out but I do apologize. I know it's hard to think that this will not come to and end, but just try and think there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, and I'm hoping for you and what your doing and putting in, something will come out positive in your favor, even if its just a small step forward. Hey its all gotta start out somewhere.

Affirmation and Reassurance

925

angry

0.401652

0.002208

0.001082

0.017134

0.389712

0.110387

0.077825

high empathy, high relevance

80

8

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today? Not so good unfortunately. Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress. Thanks for the positive vibes, but I doubt things will get better. There is a lock down in my area, I fear it will only get worse. Think about the bad things that will happen if I lost my job. I have been only thinking about the bad.. I am not religious, but thanks for the uplifting words. I just don't see a bright side over the fence. No worries. Any activity suggestions to keep my mind off of COVID-19?

No worries. Any activity suggestions to keep my mind off of COVID-19?

Do you have children or a spouse that lives with you?

Question

926

neutral

0.001222

0.000038

0.000684

0.000748

0.993214

0.002062

0.002033

high empathy, high relevance

80

9

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today? Not so good unfortunately. Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress. Thanks for the positive vibes, but I doubt things will get better. There is a lock down in my area, I fear it will only get worse. Think about the bad things that will happen if I lost my job. I have been only thinking about the bad.. I am not religious, but thanks for the uplifting words. I just don't see a bright side over the fence. No worries. Any activity suggestions to keep my mind off of COVID-19? Yes, this is why, if I lose my job, my financial situation will affect the family.

Yes, this is why, if I lose my job, my financial situation will affect the family.

I have children as well, and what I have tried to do is like a at home drive in movie night, or simple board games. I don't have a spouse but I would think maybe an inside dinner night or even a lunch date. Have the kids even help out with that. You'll be amazed on how excited they would be even if it's the little things they can help with like the seating or drawing of the menus. And for maybe the inside drive in make up little movie tickets, and candy and popcorn like a little concession stand.

Providing Suggestions

927

sad

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0.000518

0.004325

0.000065

0.098382

0.881739

0.002871

high empathy, high relevance

80

10

sadness

job_crisis

Job safety is causing my sadness and stress. COVID-19 is making it worse.

4

3

4

Hi, how are we doing today? Not so good unfortunately. Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress. Thanks for the positive vibes, but I doubt things will get better. There is a lock down in my area, I fear it will only get worse. Think about the bad things that will happen if I lost my job. I have been only thinking about the bad.. I am not religious, but thanks for the uplifting words. I just don't see a bright side over the fence. No worries. Any activity suggestions to keep my mind off of COVID-19? Yes, this is why, if I lose my job, my financial situation will affect the family. Thanks for the suggestions. This pandemic has really taken a toll on me.

Thanks for the suggestions. This pandemic has really taken a toll on me.

I completely understand. I know its hard not to think about it because it is EVERYWHERE, but if your spouse or children see or sense the stress its causing you they can also feel it, and can start stressing over it too. Even trying these things will cause a smile and a fun time for those moments that will make every one happy and not think about covid, because they will all be thinking about how much fun they are having with you and the family, and that will help with the stress even if its just a little bit.

Reflection of feelings

928

sad

0.004508

0.000676

0.000771

0.000189

0.029957

0.958751

0.005148

high empathy, high relevance

81

1

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey

HI, can I help today?

Question

929

happy

0.005968

0.000777

0.000066

0.821769

0.168097

0.00027

0.003054

high empathy, high relevance

81

2

anxiety

breakup_with_partner

I want to break up with my partner who ive been married to for 6 years with a 5 year old child

3

2

5

Hey I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety

I have been married for 5 years but i am very unhappy and anxious. I want to break up with my partner but not sure how, this is increasing my anxiety

I am sorry to hear that. I know it can be really stressful when you are considering a break up. How long have you thought about doing this?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

930

fear

0.000419

0.00017

0.752201

0.000737

0.000298

0.245762

0.000411

high empathy, high relevance