jordanfan/esconv_processed_all · Datasets at Hugging Face

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i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one

This job I work in because its hard getting a better one

So you are looking for a better job?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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depression

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Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

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i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected

I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected

Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.

Self-disclosure

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depression

ongoing_depression

Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

3

1

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i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up

yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up

You are feeling down about that situation.

You are feeling down about that situation. Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?

Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions

Reflection of feelings

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62

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depression

ongoing_depression

Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

3

1

4

5

i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further

yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further

Everyone progresses at their own rate.

Everyone progresses at their own rate. It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school. Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.

Affirmation and Reassurance, Restatement or Paraphrasing, Others

Affirmation and Reassurance

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62

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depression

ongoing_depression

Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

3

1

4

5

i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also

thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also

Do they know that you are struggling?

Question

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62

7

depression

ongoing_depression

Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

3

1

4

5

i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working

yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working

It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.

It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems. Is there someone else you could talk to?

Restatement or Paraphrasing, Providing Suggestions

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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62

8

depression

ongoing_depression

Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

3

1

4

5

i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much

I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much

Do you listen to his or her problems too?

Do you listen to his or her problems too? You could check in with your friend to see how they are feeling about your communication.

Question, Providing Suggestions

Question

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62

9

depression

ongoing_depression

Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

3

1

4

5

i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes

yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes

When people feel they are burdening their friends, it sometimes means they should find a counsellor to talk to.

When people feel they are burdening their friends, it sometimes means they should find a counsellor to talk to. Venting is important, it's true.

Information, Affirmation and Reassurance

Information

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62

10

depression

ongoing_depression

Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

3

1

4

5

i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes yea I did that and it helped me cope a lot better since I don't hurt myself anymore at least

yea I did that and it helped me cope a lot better since I don't hurt myself anymore at least

That's really positive.

Affirmation and Reassurance

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62

11

depression

ongoing_depression

Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

3

1

4

5

i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes yea I did that and it helped me cope a lot better since I don't hurt myself anymore at least yea! also thank you very much for letting me vent it does help a lot

yea! also thank you very much for letting me vent it does help a lot

You're welcome.

You're welcome. I know what it's like to not know the future and to be depressed.

Others, Self-disclosure

Others

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62

12

depression

ongoing_depression

Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,

3

1

4

5

i'm kind of tired, you? This job I work in because its hard getting a better one I tried but no one ever calls but or pays too little for the amount of work expected yea, and almost done with school but depression kept me from pulling myself out of bed to get an internship so I messed up yea but I feel like a failure because I see people younger than me there also and demotivates me further thanks, I wouldn't be so hard on myself if I had more support from my parents also yea but they don't really care because they are more focused on fighting with each other and working I have a friend who i talk to but I feel bad imposing so much yea I do, they also had their own issues so they understand me sometimes but it does help to vent sometimes yea I did that and it helped me cope a lot better since I don't hurt myself anymore at least yea! also thank you very much for letting me vent it does help a lot Thank you very much for listening and hope you have a good day!

Thank you very much for listening and hope you have a good day!

You too!

Others

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

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2

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life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress

I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong?

Question

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

4

2

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life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that

2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that

So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

4

2

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life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation

I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation

I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile?

Self-disclosure

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

4

2

5

life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize

There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind?

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

4

2

5

life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there?

what other options are there?

There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents.

Information

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

4

2

5

life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much

I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much

Please know that you are not alone in this situation.

Affirmation and Reassurance

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high empathy, high relevance

63

7

anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

4

2

5

life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that

Thank you i appreciate that

Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then?

Question

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

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2

5

life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic

its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic

I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true?

Reflection of feelings

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63

9

anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

4

2

5

life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic yes it is

yes it is

Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you?

Question

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

4

2

5

life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic yes it is I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small

I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small

Can you tell me some more specific details

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

4

2

5

life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic yes it is I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that thus truly kicking me out

We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that thus truly kicking me out

To me this sounds like a very toxic relationship. I have been in a similar situation and I really think that it is best that you move on from this. You do not need this level of toxicity in your life

Self-disclosure

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63

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

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2

5

life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic yes it is I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that thus truly kicking me out I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide

I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide

Unfortunately that is often how it works with such people. Would you be able to make a completely new break and move away? I know it's hard.

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I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

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life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic yes it is I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that thus truly kicking me out I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes

I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes

So you feel that you are trying hard to mend the quarrel but he is not putting in any effort himself?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

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I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

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life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic yes it is I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that thus truly kicking me out I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes I dont feel like he is. He still thinks I should apologize to him for what I said but I don't think what i said was bad at all or warrented his reaction he has not done any of the assignments th e therapist has given either

I dont feel like he is. He still thinks I should apologize to him for what I said but I don't think what i said was bad at all or warrented his reaction he has not done any of the assignments th e therapist has given either

I do not feel that you are the one in the wrong. Unfortunately, there are some people that you just can't reach

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I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

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life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic yes it is I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that thus truly kicking me out I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes I dont feel like he is. He still thinks I should apologize to him for what I said but I don't think what i said was bad at all or warrented his reaction he has not done any of the assignments th e therapist has given either i believe that is the case as well, thank you for your help

i believe that is the case as well, thank you for your help

You are more than welcome. I do hope that you can break free from this relationship and find some way to be happy though.

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I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

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life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic yes it is I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that thus truly kicking me out I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes I dont feel like he is. He still thinks I should apologize to him for what I said but I don't think what i said was bad at all or warrented his reaction he has not done any of the assignments th e therapist has given either i believe that is the case as well, thank you for your help Thank you very much, I hope your situation is not as bad anymore as well, its a hard situation for anyone

Thank you very much, I hope your situation is not as bad anymore as well, its a hard situation for anyone

Things are very much better for me now. I promise that they will be for you soon too!

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I was recently kicked out of my fathers house.

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life is pretty bad latley feels like stress after stress 2020 has just been a bad year, i got kicked out of my dads house and also lost my main job because i was working with him im trying to go back to school now but with a part time job it feels hard to do that I still ilive with my mother but he was a big part of life i feel wrong by the situation I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it gets better. We are in family therapy but he refuses to apologize what other options are there? I am already in therapy with him but it doesnt seem to be helping that much Thank you i appreciate that its hard to do that since everyone in my family thinks i should move on and forgive him i find it hard to forgive someone who is unapologetic yes it is I think if things were to continue as they were then it would be. I am more hurting now knowing that someone who is suppose to be there has been able to drop me so quickly over something very small We were having issues at work due to covid and he did not want to help me with any of the work that was required. He had invited me over to his house to which I found my clothes in a trash bag and he wanted to talk to me which i was reluctatnt after that we ended up having a talk to which I told him that his job is patient care since he is a physician and he took great offense to that thus truly kicking me out I know its toxic but the influence from other family members makes it hard since everyone is so accustom to how he acts and they let it slide I am trying the therapy to not be the stubborn one and say that i atleast tried but if it does not work then that seems to be the only option unless he makes changes I dont feel like he is. He still thinks I should apologize to him for what I said but I don't think what i said was bad at all or warrented his reaction he has not done any of the assignments th e therapist has given either i believe that is the case as well, thank you for your help Thank you very much, I hope your situation is not as bad anymore as well, its a hard situation for anyone thank you :) I will be ending this session now but i appreciate your time

thank you :) I will be ending this session now but i appreciate your time

You are most welcome and all the best to you. Happy Holidays!

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I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise

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I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling?

ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?

ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please? I know I have been finding it really challenging

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I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling? lets starts from chatting from scratch

lets starts from chatting from scratch

okay

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I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise

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I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling? lets starts from chatting from scratch you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?

you choose to help people like me what is the secret ?

hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?

hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please? it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?

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I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise

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I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling? lets starts from chatting from scratch you choose to help people like me what is the secret ? I have relation issue with a woman friend yes yes that was the question

I have relation issue with a woman friend yes yes that was the question

I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back

I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back what's happening with your woman friend?

Self-disclosure, Question

Self-disclosure

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I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise

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I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling? lets starts from chatting from scratch you choose to help people like me what is the secret ? I have relation issue with a woman friend yes yes that was the question I probably in the near future will try to help people too

I probably in the near future will try to help people too

I hope you will find it reward like i do

I hope you will find it reward like i do what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?

Others, Question

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I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise

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I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling? lets starts from chatting from scratch you choose to help people like me what is the secret ? I have relation issue with a woman friend yes yes that was the question I probably in the near future will try to help people too I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise

I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise

the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going

the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going does she ask your advice?

Affirmation and Reassurance, Question

Affirmation and Reassurance

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I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise

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5

I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling? lets starts from chatting from scratch you choose to help people like me what is the secret ? I have relation issue with a woman friend yes yes that was the question I probably in the near future will try to help people too I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it

at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it

Does she ask you for advice or do you offer it without her asking?

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I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise

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I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling? lets starts from chatting from scratch you choose to help people like me what is the secret ? I have relation issue with a woman friend yes yes that was the question I probably in the near future will try to help people too I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it OH yeah lot of rules are lifted and will go back to normal yes she asked me but when I went out of my way to help she never comply

OH yeah lot of rules are lifted and will go back to normal yes she asked me but when I went out of my way to help she never comply

I see....so it sounds like she asked your advice, you gave her your advice, but she didn't follow it...

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I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise

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1

5

I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling? lets starts from chatting from scratch you choose to help people like me what is the secret ? I have relation issue with a woman friend yes yes that was the question I probably in the near future will try to help people too I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it OH yeah lot of rules are lifted and will go back to normal yes she asked me but when I went out of my way to help she never comply ok we been together for almost 14 minutes another one minute will say goodbye

ok we been together for almost 14 minutes another one minute will say goodbye

Maybe she needs time to think over all of her options for herself, maybe it would help if you are patient while she does

Maybe she needs time to think over all of her options for herself, maybe it would help if you are patient while she does ok

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I have this girl friend that never listen to me for advise even though I could help her . It seems that I am not smart enough to give her an advise

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I been in lock down over a year , how you think I am feeling? lets starts from chatting from scratch you choose to help people like me what is the secret ? I have relation issue with a woman friend yes yes that was the question I probably in the near future will try to help people too I live in Las Vegas NV USA which was real fun living there until a year ago when the lock down started. it is real depressing ok you want to know what is the issue , well she never listen to my advise at one time it did not bothered me at all but now I started thinking about it OH yeah lot of rules are lifted and will go back to normal yes she asked me but when I went out of my way to help she never comply ok we been together for almost 14 minutes another one minute will say goodbye what else you have to do today besides helping people?

what else you have to do today besides helping people?

i am going for a walk later...I live in Ontario CAnada....it's a bit cool and windy today but I try to get out every day

i am going for a walk later...I live in Ontario CAnada....it's a bit cool and windy today but I try to get out every day we just entered another lockdown here

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Hi

May I know what is wrong?

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Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

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Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard.

I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard.

It sounds like it must be stressful to be locked in all day with children.

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Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

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Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard. Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school

Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school

Does the weather allow you to go outside while social distancing?

Does the weather allow you to go outside while social distancing? It may be beneficial to take walks.

Question, Providing Suggestions

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Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

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Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard. Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school It does sometimes but my kids are ages 10, 7, 5 and 1 so I can't leave the kids alone at home and with their school schedule by the time they're done with distance learning its already dark Sometimes it feels like I don't even get a second to breath alone

It does sometimes but my kids are ages 10, 7, 5 and 1 so I can't leave the kids alone at home and with their school schedule by the time they're done with distance learning its already dark Sometimes it feels like I don't even get a second to breath alone

It must be hard to ensure they get a good education when it is long distance learning.

It must be hard to ensure they get a good education when it is long distance learning. I think you are doing a great job despite the challenges.

Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance

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Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

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Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard. Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school It does sometimes but my kids are ages 10, 7, 5 and 1 so I can't leave the kids alone at home and with their school schedule by the time they're done with distance learning its already dark Sometimes it feels like I don't even get a second to breath alone When the kids aren't actually on the computer learning I'm having to assist them. I love my kids but it gets hard Thank you I really appreciate that. Do you have kids?

When the kids aren't actually on the computer learning I'm having to assist them. I love my kids but it gets hard Thank you I really appreciate that. Do you have kids?

It may be hard to get, but sunlight is important for our moods. I hope you can find a moment or two to breathe when you can.

It may be hard to get, but sunlight is important for our moods. I hope you can find a moment or two to breathe when you can. I don't have kids, but I have a dog who makes me go for walks, and it helps :)

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Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

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Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard. Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school It does sometimes but my kids are ages 10, 7, 5 and 1 so I can't leave the kids alone at home and with their school schedule by the time they're done with distance learning its already dark Sometimes it feels like I don't even get a second to breath alone When the kids aren't actually on the computer learning I'm having to assist them. I love my kids but it gets hard Thank you I really appreciate that. Do you have kids? Thats a good idea! I'll make sure to try to get out.

Thats a good idea! I'll make sure to try to get out.

I know many people have started adopting animals due to the lockdowns. I don't know if a pet would make you more or less crazy

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Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

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Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard. Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school It does sometimes but my kids are ages 10, 7, 5 and 1 so I can't leave the kids alone at home and with their school schedule by the time they're done with distance learning its already dark Sometimes it feels like I don't even get a second to breath alone When the kids aren't actually on the computer learning I'm having to assist them. I love my kids but it gets hard Thank you I really appreciate that. Do you have kids? Thats a good idea! I'll make sure to try to get out. I have a dog also. She's old though and is lazy. She ends up sitting on the sidewalk half way around the block. I've stood in front of my neighbors house for over 3 minutes before. We have alot of pets at our house. 1 dog, 1 cat , 1 lizard, 2 frogs and a bunch of fish. We have 2 aquariums.

I have a dog also. She's old though and is lazy. She ends up sitting on the sidewalk half way around the block. I've stood in front of my neighbors house for over 3 minutes before. We have alot of pets at our house. 1 dog, 1 cat , 1 lizard, 2 frogs and a bunch of fish. We have 2 aquariums.

Animals can provide a lot of stress relief. I would say it's their cozy fur, but lizards and fish have their own attributes :)

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Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

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Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard. Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school It does sometimes but my kids are ages 10, 7, 5 and 1 so I can't leave the kids alone at home and with their school schedule by the time they're done with distance learning its already dark Sometimes it feels like I don't even get a second to breath alone When the kids aren't actually on the computer learning I'm having to assist them. I love my kids but it gets hard Thank you I really appreciate that. Do you have kids? Thats a good idea! I'll make sure to try to get out. I have a dog also. She's old though and is lazy. She ends up sitting on the sidewalk half way around the block. I've stood in front of my neighbors house for over 3 minutes before. We have alot of pets at our house. 1 dog, 1 cat , 1 lizard, 2 frogs and a bunch of fish. We have 2 aquariums. We're actually getting another puppy this weekend to keep things fun. lol

We're actually getting another puppy this weekend to keep things fun. lol

A puppy sounds like a great idea. I think she or he will revitalize your family!

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

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Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard. Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school It does sometimes but my kids are ages 10, 7, 5 and 1 so I can't leave the kids alone at home and with their school schedule by the time they're done with distance learning its already dark Sometimes it feels like I don't even get a second to breath alone When the kids aren't actually on the computer learning I'm having to assist them. I love my kids but it gets hard Thank you I really appreciate that. Do you have kids? Thats a good idea! I'll make sure to try to get out. I have a dog also. She's old though and is lazy. She ends up sitting on the sidewalk half way around the block. I've stood in front of my neighbors house for over 3 minutes before. We have alot of pets at our house. 1 dog, 1 cat , 1 lizard, 2 frogs and a bunch of fish. We have 2 aquariums. We're actually getting another puppy this weekend to keep things fun. lol Watching the fish swim is relaxing. The lizard is my son's we've had him for over 5 years. Animals do help with stress.

Watching the fish swim is relaxing. The lizard is my son's we've had him for over 5 years. Animals do help with stress.

I've always wanted a nicely decorated fish tank. I'm glad you have pets to help you get through the day.

I've always wanted a nicely decorated fish tank. I'm glad you have pets to help you get through the day. Is it late where you are? Getting enough sleep helps our moods as well.

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Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

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4

Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard. Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school It does sometimes but my kids are ages 10, 7, 5 and 1 so I can't leave the kids alone at home and with their school schedule by the time they're done with distance learning its already dark Sometimes it feels like I don't even get a second to breath alone When the kids aren't actually on the computer learning I'm having to assist them. I love my kids but it gets hard Thank you I really appreciate that. Do you have kids? Thats a good idea! I'll make sure to try to get out. I have a dog also. She's old though and is lazy. She ends up sitting on the sidewalk half way around the block. I've stood in front of my neighbors house for over 3 minutes before. We have alot of pets at our house. 1 dog, 1 cat , 1 lizard, 2 frogs and a bunch of fish. We have 2 aquariums. We're actually getting another puppy this weekend to keep things fun. lol Watching the fish swim is relaxing. The lizard is my son's we've had him for over 5 years. Animals do help with stress. You should get one!

You should get one!

I think I just might. You've convinced me!

Others

763

happy

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0.000081

0.000018

0.991135

0.00706

0.000129

0.000707

high empathy, high relevance

67

11

anxiety

ongoing_depression

Right now dealing with all the shutdowns I have felt pretty depressed. I'm a stay at home mom with 4 kids and its hard to me to manage day to day. My husbands work hours have been reduced and with the kids being home full time I never get a break. I'm always overwhelmed.

4

1

5

4

Hi I'm just feeling very overwhelmed with all the shutdowns. I'm a stay at home mom and have 4 kids. Managing day to day is hard. Yes it is. I really with Covid was gone and the kids could go back to school It does sometimes but my kids are ages 10, 7, 5 and 1 so I can't leave the kids alone at home and with their school schedule by the time they're done with distance learning its already dark Sometimes it feels like I don't even get a second to breath alone When the kids aren't actually on the computer learning I'm having to assist them. I love my kids but it gets hard Thank you I really appreciate that. Do you have kids? Thats a good idea! I'll make sure to try to get out. I have a dog also. She's old though and is lazy. She ends up sitting on the sidewalk half way around the block. I've stood in front of my neighbors house for over 3 minutes before. We have alot of pets at our house. 1 dog, 1 cat , 1 lizard, 2 frogs and a bunch of fish. We have 2 aquariums. We're actually getting another puppy this weekend to keep things fun. lol Watching the fish swim is relaxing. The lizard is my son's we've had him for over 5 years. Animals do help with stress. You should get one! Its 10pm here. I try to get sleep but I like to get my alone time in while the kids are sleeping I do fine myself staying up for a long time then I have to get up around 7am with the kids.

Its 10pm here. I try to get sleep but I like to get my alone time in while the kids are sleeping I do fine myself staying up for a long time then I have to get up around 7am with the kids.

That certainly must be tricky to do with 4 kids.

Affirmation and Reassurance

764

neutral

0.01055

0.00028

0.001348

0.001263

0.960303

0.017725

0.008532

high empathy, high relevance

68

1

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you?

I am ok. Been a busy day. More importantly your upset; what is going on?

Question

766

sad

0.235099

0.003822

0.000574

0.136715

0.053034

0.562414

0.008341

high empathy, high relevance

68

2

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me

Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me

You mentioned that she died a while back. Has something stirred up the sadness recently?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

767

sad

0.000257

0.000121

0.000071

0.000042

0.000965

0.998425

0.000119

high empathy, high relevance

68

3

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me because it's close to her death

because it's close to her death

Oh. The anniversary. You made it clear you were close to her. Tell me about her. What was she like? What did she mean to you?

Question

768

fear

0.012898

0.001898

0.552405

0.000461

0.241887

0.174106

0.016346

high empathy, high relevance

68

4

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me because it's close to her death She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out

She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out

She gave you a lot of meaning and filled your time fondly. I am taking it that after she passed you probably felt empty and lately it has been getting worse?

Reflection of feelings

769

neutral

0.003462

0.000219

0.000088

0.002509

0.989651

0.002478

0.001595

high empathy, high relevance

68

5

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me because it's close to her death She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister

Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister

I can understand that. My best friend died a few years ago and he was like my brother. Still does feel empty not having him around.

Self-disclosure

770

neutral

0.045337

0.000315

0.000114

0.000462

0.937636

0.003226

0.01291

high empathy, high relevance

68

6

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me because it's close to her death She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister Yes, one day she was there with me and the next day she wasn't. It's so hard for anyone I know that time it's the only way to move on however it's so difficult for me

Yes, one day she was there with me and the next day she wasn't. It's so hard for anyone I know that time it's the only way to move on however it's so difficult for me

I take it that the loss was sudden and it was a shock to your system. So how have you been managing the sadness and grief since it happened?

Question

771

sad

0.020165

0.00062

0.003008

0.000541

0.014834

0.958291

0.002542

high empathy, high relevance

68

7

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me because it's close to her death She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister Yes, one day she was there with me and the next day she wasn't. It's so hard for anyone I know that time it's the only way to move on however it's so difficult for me I try going out with my family and friend. Avoiding things that we used to do together trying little by little

I try going out with my family and friend. Avoiding things that we used to do together trying little by little

It sounds like your family is being supportive of you and you have a network. It seems to me that you really put a great deal of mental energy and fortitude into taking care of yourself. Is there anything else that could help you get thru this rough patch you can think of?

Affirmation and Reassurance

772

neutral

0.018719

0.002777

0.010071

0.000953

0.487028

0.471837

0.008616

high empathy, high relevance

68

8

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me because it's close to her death She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister Yes, one day she was there with me and the next day she wasn't. It's so hard for anyone I know that time it's the only way to move on however it's so difficult for me I try going out with my family and friend. Avoiding things that we used to do together trying little by little I don't know. Do you hav e any ideas?

I don't know. Do you hav e any ideas?

I can think of a few. Physical activity even walking really helps people who are feeling down. But it does not work for everyone. I also know there are grief support groups but I do not know if they are open with the pandemic and everything. I also know that there are a lot of mental health services available for professional counselling if things are too much. I also heard that having things to do to fill your schedule helps like work or small projects to fill the day up. What do you think would work best for you?

Providing Suggestions

773

surprised

0.004073

0.000196

0.000189

0.001255

0.044435

0.000495

0.949358

high empathy, high relevance

68

9

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me because it's close to her death She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister Yes, one day she was there with me and the next day she wasn't. It's so hard for anyone I know that time it's the only way to move on however it's so difficult for me I try going out with my family and friend. Avoiding things that we used to do together trying little by little I don't know. Do you hav e any ideas? Probably will be difficult to find one now. I'll try fill my schedule so I always have something to do. And my mind won't be thinking so much of my friend

Probably will be difficult to find one now. I'll try fill my schedule so I always have something to do. And my mind won't be thinking so much of my friend

What things to you like to do that would benefit you to fill your schedule?

Question

774

neutral

0.003157

0.000073

0.00057

0.000298

0.980022

0.013155

0.002725

high empathy, high relevance

68

10

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me because it's close to her death She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister Yes, one day she was there with me and the next day she wasn't. It's so hard for anyone I know that time it's the only way to move on however it's so difficult for me I try going out with my family and friend. Avoiding things that we used to do together trying little by little I don't know. Do you hav e any ideas? Probably will be difficult to find one now. I'll try fill my schedule so I always have something to do. And my mind won't be thinking so much of my friend Exercise, watching, a movie, play games,

Exercise, watching, a movie, play games,

So you have a toolbox of things you can do to stay busy to get you through this. You seem to have solved this problem for yourself. That is a strength right there.

Affirmation and Reassurance

775

happy

0.001014

0.000133

0.000044

0.996639

0.000311

0.001808

0.000051

high empathy, high relevance

68

11

sadness

problems_with_friends

My friend died in a car accident

5

3

5

Hi, I'm sad How are you? Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me because it's close to her death She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister Yes, one day she was there with me and the next day she wasn't. It's so hard for anyone I know that time it's the only way to move on however it's so difficult for me I try going out with my family and friend. Avoiding things that we used to do together trying little by little I don't know. Do you hav e any ideas? Probably will be difficult to find one now. I'll try fill my schedule so I always have something to do. And my mind won't be thinking so much of my friend Exercise, watching, a movie, play games, Yes, I think so Thank you You helped me a lot

Yes, I think so Thank you You helped me a lot

Anytime. Stay safe and live well. -KJ the nurse

Others

776

happy

0.000559

0.000016

0.000012

0.999174

0.000127

0.000028

0.000084

high empathy, high relevance

69

1

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her

OK. This is a temporary feeling and it will pass. Please be kind to yourself.

OK. This is a temporary feeling and it will pass. Please be kind to yourself. What led to you feeling this way?

Affirmation and Reassurance, Question

Affirmation and Reassurance

778

sad

0.000437

0.000101

0.000045

0.000255

0.00043

0.998685

0.000047

high empathy, high relevance

69

2

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice

i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice

OK. So you proposed to your girlfriend, but she was seeing another man?

Restatement or Paraphrasing

779

sad

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0.001119

0.368264

0.000116

0.617068

0.000762

high empathy, high relevance

69

3

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle

yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle

And the man you thought was her uncle was her other boyfriend?

And the man you thought was her uncle was her other boyfriend? That is a horrible situation. It's not nice when people lie to you - I've had it happen to me before. You must be feeling very betrayed at the moment.

Restatement or Paraphrasing, Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings

Restatement or Paraphrasing

780

neutral

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0.001542

0.000166

0.243006

0.65111

0.001335

0.073929

high empathy, high relevance

69

4

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul

caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul

That sounds horrible. I think anyone would be upset with that!

That sounds horrible. I think anyone would be upset with that! I wonder if it was best that this happened before you got married, though - it hurts, but it would have hurt more if she had become your wife. How does it feel if you think about it that way?

Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions

Reflection of feelings

781

sad

0.00014

0.000249

0.011568

0.000162

0.000044

0.987764

0.000073

high empathy, high relevance

69

5

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner

All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner

How does your family and friends feel about it? Have you spoken to them?

Providing Suggestions

782

happy

0.000338

0.00006

0.000012

0.998074

0.000428

0.000776

0.000313

high empathy, high relevance

69

6

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother

but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother

You must feel as though she has taken advantage of you and your generosity.

Reflection of feelings

783

sad

0.018001

0.030356

0.010361

0.000107

0.00416

0.936194

0.000821

high empathy, high relevance

69

7

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother i never had the courage to tell anyone, everything just kept eating me up

i never had the courage to tell anyone, everything just kept eating me up

I think it might be good to talk to people around you who knew you both.

I think it might be good to talk to people around you who knew you both. I know that it must be difficult because you feel like your pride has been hurt as well as your heart.

Providing Suggestions, Reflection of feelings

Providing Suggestions

784

sad

0.00099

0.000637

0.131842

0.000551

0.000688

0.864621

0.00067

high empathy, high relevance

69

8

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother i never had the courage to tell anyone, everything just kept eating me up i provided everything i think a girl would need so she wont feel inferior but what did i get in returns

i provided everything i think a girl would need so she wont feel inferior but what did i get in returns

It sounds like you are a very thoughtful and generous partner. I know that others will see that in you.

Affirmation and Reassurance

785

sad

0.044568

0.009463

0.001278

0.000498

0.037905

0.904853

0.001435

high empathy, high relevance

69

9

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother i never had the courage to tell anyone, everything just kept eating me up i provided everything i think a girl would need so she wont feel inferior but what did i get in returns guessed i gave too much and it came back right at me

guessed i gave too much and it came back right at me

Perhaps you shopuld now focus on taking care of yourself. Did you neglect anything you need or enjoy to take care of her? Could you do that now?

Providing Suggestions

786

sad

0.007017

0.001405

0.001609

0.000074

0.000364

0.989329

0.000201

high empathy, high relevance

69

10

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother i never had the courage to tell anyone, everything just kept eating me up i provided everything i think a girl would need so she wont feel inferior but what did i get in returns guessed i gave too much and it came back right at me yes learnt my lessons, had to move on, but i can never respect any lady

yes learnt my lessons, had to move on, but i can never respect any lady

I can see how that might make it difficult to trust people.

I can see how that might make it difficult to trust people. However, not everybody is the same. You sound like a very caring person and there are lots of caring women out there looking for someone just like you. Could you spend some time getting to know more people until you feel like you can trust someone again? Do you have any hobbies you enjoy?

Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions

Reflection of feelings

787

angry

0.954553

0.009428

0.000362

0.000118

0.025722

0.008713

0.001104

high empathy, high relevance

69

11

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother i never had the courage to tell anyone, everything just kept eating me up i provided everything i think a girl would need so she wont feel inferior but what did i get in returns guessed i gave too much and it came back right at me yes learnt my lessons, had to move on, but i can never respect any lady guess that will do, yh i do have an hobby, loves reading

guess that will do, yh i do have an hobby, loves reading

Great! Have you tried joining a book club, where you can discuss books you enjoy with others? That will help take your mind off things and you can meet new people too.

Providing Suggestions

788

happy

0.000275

0.000025

0.000008

0.999035

0.000452

0.000063

0.000142

high empathy, high relevance

69

12

depression

breakup_with_partner

My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

4

1

5

am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiance family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother i never had the courage to tell anyone, everything just kept eating me up i provided everything i think a girl would need so she wont feel inferior but what did i get in returns guessed i gave too much and it came back right at me yes learnt my lessons, had to move on, but i can never respect any lady guess that will do, yh i do have an hobby, loves reading Thanks, i really appreciate

Thanks, i really appreciate

I'm glad. I hope you have a great day and please remember to be kind to yourself.

Others

789

happy

0.000434

0.000018

0.000011

0.999349

0.000071

0.000021

0.000095

high empathy, high relevance

70

1

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job.

oh! did you search for new job?

Question

791

sad

0.003041

0.000509

0.023953

0.000177

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high empathy, high relevance

70

2

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job.

yes , but is very hard to find new job.

yes i know its hard but try maybe you can get quickly if you find new.

Restatement or Paraphrasing

792

sad

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high empathy, high relevance

70

3

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job. sorry what you mean?

sorry what you mean?

i mean if you apply for new job you can get quickly. then you can come out from this depression.

Affirmation and Reassurance

793

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

70

4

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job. sorry what you mean? yes i did but market is down because of this pandemic

yes i did but market is down because of this pandemic

yes its difficult situation for everyone because of this pandemic.

yes its difficult situation for everyone because of this pandemic. but try for online job

Reflection of feelings, Affirmation and Reassurance

Reflection of feelings

794

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70

5

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job. sorry what you mean? yes i did but market is down because of this pandemic yes i'm thinking about online job because its difficult to go out

yes i'm thinking about online job because its difficult to go out

try to come out from depression because its not good for your health

Restatement or Paraphrasing

795

neutral

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high empathy, high relevance

70

6

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job. sorry what you mean? yes i did but market is down because of this pandemic yes i'm thinking about online job because its difficult to go out yes i try but I can't . do you have any idea to come out from this depression

yes i try but I can't . do you have any idea to come out from this depression

try to do some yoga its make you relax

Restatement or Paraphrasing

796

sad

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high empathy, high relevance

70

7

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job. sorry what you mean? yes i did but market is down because of this pandemic yes i'm thinking about online job because its difficult to go out yes i try but I can't . do you have any idea to come out from this depression that's good idea i will try

that's good idea i will try

try to watch comedy movies that make you happy as well

Others

797

neutral

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high empathy, high relevance

70

8

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job. sorry what you mean? yes i did but market is down because of this pandemic yes i'm thinking about online job because its difficult to go out yes i try but I can't . do you have any idea to come out from this depression that's good idea i will try yes sometime i'm watching but after that i'm in same situation

yes sometime i'm watching but after that i'm in same situation

one i face same situation but i try those things it help i lot

Reflection of feelings

798

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high empathy, high relevance

70

9

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job. sorry what you mean? yes i did but market is down because of this pandemic yes i'm thinking about online job because its difficult to go out yes i try but I can't . do you have any idea to come out from this depression that's good idea i will try yes sometime i'm watching but after that i'm in same situation yes i will do , Thanks

yes i will do , Thanks

your welcome

your welcome thanks for sharing your problem

Others, Self-disclosure

Others

799

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70

10

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job. sorry what you mean? yes i did but market is down because of this pandemic yes i'm thinking about online job because its difficult to go out yes i try but I can't . do you have any idea to come out from this depression that's good idea i will try yes sometime i'm watching but after that i'm in same situation yes i will do , Thanks thanks for ideas

thanks for ideas

Your welcome

Others

800

happy

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high empathy, high relevance

70

11

depression

job_crisis

i'm in depression because recently i lost my job

4

2

4

5

hi how can i help you? i'm in depression because i lost my job. yes , but is very hard to find new job. sorry what you mean? yes i did but market is down because of this pandemic yes i'm thinking about online job because its difficult to go out yes i try but I can't . do you have any idea to come out from this depression that's good idea i will try yes sometime i'm watching but after that i'm in same situation yes i will do , Thanks thanks for ideas bye

bye

bye good to talk with you

Others

801

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72

1

anxiety

academic_pressure

I have a ton of tests and projects all due very soon and it is during a time in which I had not seen any friends and am feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed and sad.

4

2

5

Hi, I have been going through a lot of stress with school and am also sad and lonely as of late and not sure how to make myself feel better

So you have had a lot of stress with school lately and are struggling to keep yourself cheerful?

So you have had a lot of stress with school lately and are struggling to keep yourself cheerful? Is there something in particular at school that is stressing you out? Exams? Relationships?

Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question

Restatement or Paraphrasing

811

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72

2

anxiety

academic_pressure

I have a ton of tests and projects all due very soon and it is during a time in which I had not seen any friends and am feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed and sad.

4

2

5

Hi, I have been going through a lot of stress with school and am also sad and lonely as of late and not sure how to make myself feel better Yes! Its very hard to keep positive with all the work I have and I feel I am not doing well. Yes, I have a lot of exams right now and that on top of not hanging out with friends a lot lately has made life tough.

Yes! Its very hard to keep positive with all the work I have and I feel I am not doing well. Yes, I have a lot of exams right now and that on top of not hanging out with friends a lot lately has made life tough.

I can understand being stressed if you think you are not doing well in school and have a lot of work. How are your grades now?

Affirmation and Reassurance

812

happy

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high empathy, high relevance

72

3

anxiety

academic_pressure

I have a ton of tests and projects all due very soon and it is during a time in which I had not seen any friends and am feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed and sad.

4

2

5

Hi, I have been going through a lot of stress with school and am also sad and lonely as of late and not sure how to make myself feel better Yes! Its very hard to keep positive with all the work I have and I feel I am not doing well. Yes, I have a lot of exams right now and that on top of not hanging out with friends a lot lately has made life tough. I still have decent grades but I feel like I am not prepared for big exams currently and they are worth a lot

I still have decent grades but I feel like I am not prepared for big exams currently and they are worth a lot

Yes, that can be tough. When I had a lot of tests coming up and a lot to study for, I wrote down goals to study -- like I broke down the classes and made certain goals to study a bit in each class. And then if I did that, I could go out with friends or some reward like that.

Yes, that can be tough. When I had a lot of tests coming up and a lot to study for, I wrote down goals to study -- like I broke down the classes and made certain goals to study a bit in each class. And then if I did that, I could go out with friends or some reward like that. For example, if you have 7 classes, you can make a chart for when you will study for each of those classes and then check them off as you accomplish it, maybe not all in one day, maybe break it up in reasonable bits. Then study according to your goal, if that makes sense. I remember after each class, I would take 15 minutes to review all my notes from class, that seems short, but really, it adds up and helped so much.

Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions, Self-disclosure

Self-disclosure

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72

4

anxiety

academic_pressure

I have a ton of tests and projects all due very soon and it is during a time in which I had not seen any friends and am feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed and sad.

4

2

5

Hi, I have been going through a lot of stress with school and am also sad and lonely as of late and not sure how to make myself feel better Yes! Its very hard to keep positive with all the work I have and I feel I am not doing well. Yes, I have a lot of exams right now and that on top of not hanging out with friends a lot lately has made life tough. I still have decent grades but I feel like I am not prepared for big exams currently and they are worth a lot Yes, I think you have excellent advice about organization. I feel like I lose track of what I have and when to do it. I also bounce between classes, feeling stressed because there is so much. Do you think doing one class at a time is best? I also tend to save stuff sometimes so I have a lot of work build up with tests on the same days. I am not sure how to stop procrastinating.

Yes, I think you have excellent advice about organization. I feel like I lose track of what I have and when to do it. I also bounce between classes, feeling stressed because there is so much. Do you think doing one class at a time is best? I also tend to save stuff sometimes so I have a lot of work build up with tests on the same days. I am not sure how to stop procrastinating.

Yes, stick to one subject at a time. For example, if you think 1/2 hour is good enough to study, then stick to that. When done, your done until the next time it is on your schedule.

Others

814

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72

5

anxiety

academic_pressure

I have a ton of tests and projects all due very soon and it is during a time in which I had not seen any friends and am feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed and sad.

4

2

5

Hi, I have been going through a lot of stress with school and am also sad and lonely as of late and not sure how to make myself feel better Yes! Its very hard to keep positive with all the work I have and I feel I am not doing well. Yes, I have a lot of exams right now and that on top of not hanging out with friends a lot lately has made life tough. I still have decent grades but I feel like I am not prepared for big exams currently and they are worth a lot Yes, I think you have excellent advice about organization. I feel like I lose track of what I have and when to do it. I also bounce between classes, feeling stressed because there is so much. Do you think doing one class at a time is best? I also tend to save stuff sometimes so I have a lot of work build up with tests on the same days. I am not sure how to stop procrastinating. Ok. Thank you so much for the ideas. It seems like you have had similar experiences with stress from school.

Ok. Thank you so much for the ideas. It seems like you have had similar experiences with stress from school.

Procrastination never makes us feel good. If I keep putting something off, I then feel guilty. If I make a goal, and I reach it, I can put a reward. For example, if you study 3 subjects 1/2 hour each, you can go out for yogurt with a friend. So you reward yourself for sticking to that goal.

Procrastination never makes us feel good. If I keep putting something off, I then feel guilty. If I make a goal, and I reach it, I can put a reward. For example, if you study 3 subjects 1/2 hour each, you can go out for yogurt with a friend. So you reward yourself for sticking to that goal. Yes, I did. lol I'm really old now. This technique I use in all my life. Even house chores, I break it down into a schedule, put it in writing, then check off what I do. Then I feel good about my accomplishments.

Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure

Reflection of feelings

815

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72

6

anxiety

academic_pressure

I have a ton of tests and projects all due very soon and it is during a time in which I had not seen any friends and am feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed and sad.

4

2

5

Hi, I have been going through a lot of stress with school and am also sad and lonely as of late and not sure how to make myself feel better Yes! Its very hard to keep positive with all the work I have and I feel I am not doing well. Yes, I have a lot of exams right now and that on top of not hanging out with friends a lot lately has made life tough. I still have decent grades but I feel like I am not prepared for big exams currently and they are worth a lot Yes, I think you have excellent advice about organization. I feel like I lose track of what I have and when to do it. I also bounce between classes, feeling stressed because there is so much. Do you think doing one class at a time is best? I also tend to save stuff sometimes so I have a lot of work build up with tests on the same days. I am not sure how to stop procrastinating. Ok. Thank you so much for the ideas. It seems like you have had similar experiences with stress from school. Yes, that was my other question to you. It sounds great to just do a little time for each class but I often get overwhelmed and need a break I have never used check lists or planners. I think it is part of how I get overwhelmed maybe.

Yes, that was my other question to you. It sounds great to just do a little time for each class but I often get overwhelmed and need a break I have never used check lists or planners. I think it is part of how I get overwhelmed maybe.

Definitely you need a break, so schedule them as rewards. You can even do 15 minutes in say 4 subjects, then take a walk, take a cup of tea, or call a friend, then back to the books.

Definitely you need a break, so schedule them as rewards. You can even do 15 minutes in say 4 subjects, then take a walk, take a cup of tea, or call a friend, then back to the books. Keep it as SIMPLE as possible, don't get bogged down. I used to think planning was TERRIBLE< but actually, it sets one FREE. You feel so much better and accomplished when you see how much you have done. It really is amazing. HOw man classes do you have? many *

Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions, Question, Others

Reflection of feelings

816

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high empathy, high relevance

72

7

anxiety

academic_pressure

I have a ton of tests and projects all due very soon and it is during a time in which I had not seen any friends and am feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed and sad.

4

2

5

Hi, I have been going through a lot of stress with school and am also sad and lonely as of late and not sure how to make myself feel better Yes! Its very hard to keep positive with all the work I have and I feel I am not doing well. Yes, I have a lot of exams right now and that on top of not hanging out with friends a lot lately has made life tough. I still have decent grades but I feel like I am not prepared for big exams currently and they are worth a lot Yes, I think you have excellent advice about organization. I feel like I lose track of what I have and when to do it. I also bounce between classes, feeling stressed because there is so much. Do you think doing one class at a time is best? I also tend to save stuff sometimes so I have a lot of work build up with tests on the same days. I am not sure how to stop procrastinating. Ok. Thank you so much for the ideas. It seems like you have had similar experiences with stress from school. Yes, that was my other question to you. It sounds great to just do a little time for each class but I often get overwhelmed and need a break I have never used check lists or planners. I think it is part of how I get overwhelmed maybe. I have 6 classes

I have 6 classes

That's a lot but it is totally doable. Here is a good example, If you plant seeds in a garden today, you have to weed it a bit tomorrow, the next day, the next day, you have to wait for rain, then weed some more, the harvest comes and YAY! You are happy. But if you lie on your bed, never planting, never weeding, you procrastinate, you get nothing.

That's a lot but it is totally doable. Here is a good example, If you plant seeds in a garden today, you have to weed it a bit tomorrow, the next day, the next day, you have to wait for rain, then weed some more, the harvest comes and YAY! You are happy. But if you lie on your bed, never planting, never weeding, you procrastinate, you get nothing. If you write your classes down and then write a reasonable time to study each one. Maybe 3 today, 3 tomorrow, then add rewards if you do that, maybe make a list of rewards, so you can pick and choose, then you check off when you do the subject. Like a chore chart.

Providing Suggestions, Information

Providing Suggestions

817

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high empathy, high relevance

72

8

anxiety

academic_pressure

I have a ton of tests and projects all due very soon and it is during a time in which I had not seen any friends and am feeling down. I feel very overwhelmed and sad.

4

2

5

Hi, I have been going through a lot of stress with school and am also sad and lonely as of late and not sure how to make myself feel better Yes! Its very hard to keep positive with all the work I have and I feel I am not doing well. Yes, I have a lot of exams right now and that on top of not hanging out with friends a lot lately has made life tough. I still have decent grades but I feel like I am not prepared for big exams currently and they are worth a lot Yes, I think you have excellent advice about organization. I feel like I lose track of what I have and when to do it. I also bounce between classes, feeling stressed because there is so much. Do you think doing one class at a time is best? I also tend to save stuff sometimes so I have a lot of work build up with tests on the same days. I am not sure how to stop procrastinating. Ok. Thank you so much for the ideas. It seems like you have had similar experiences with stress from school. Yes, that was my other question to you. It sounds great to just do a little time for each class but I often get overwhelmed and need a break I have never used check lists or planners. I think it is part of how I get overwhelmed maybe. I have 6 classes Yes haha. That is a good comparison. You have been super helpful. I will for sure try to use your advice. Thank you! Have a great day and thanks again

Yes haha. That is a good comparison. You have been super helpful. I will for sure try to use your advice. Thank you! Have a great day and thanks again

You are quite welcome! God bless have a great day!

Others

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0.999447

0.000161

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0.000062

high empathy, high relevance

73

1

anger

problems_with_friends

My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

5

1

5

Hello, not great. How are you?

I am doing okay, thanks for asking but what's going on with you?

Others

820

angry

0.862201

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0.006922

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0.000718

high empathy, high relevance

73

2

anger

problems_with_friends

My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

5

1

5

Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him.

My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him.

Oh no and how did this make you feel?

Others

821

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high empathy, high relevance

73

3

anger

problems_with_friends

My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

5

1

5

Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him. I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school

I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school

I could imagine it did make you feel that way. This person doesn't seem like a friend as he knew that that was your wife.

Reflection of feelings

822

disgusted

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0.00021

high empathy, high relevance

73

4

anger

problems_with_friends

My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

5

1

5

Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him. I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face

I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face

Yes, most definitely. Your feelings are very valid in this situation. However, physical violence would not be the best solution because you could get in trouble.

Information

823

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

73

5

anger

problems_with_friends

My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

5

1

5

Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him. I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face That's what my wife is also telling me. But what can I do then? I want to smash things now

That's what my wife is also telling me. But what can I do then? I want to smash things now

First, I would suggest that you distanced yourself or even stopped being friends with this person. Second, for the anger that you feel, there are a lot of things you could do like going running, going for a walk, or even crying

First, I would suggest that you distanced yourself or even stopped being friends with this person. Second, for the anger that you feel, there are a lot of things you could do like going running, going for a walk, or even crying It's important that you do not hold these feelings in.

Providing Suggestions, Information

Providing Suggestions

824

angry

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high empathy, high relevance

73

6

anger

problems_with_friends

My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

5

1

5

Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him. I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face That's what my wife is also telling me. But what can I do then? I want to smash things now I don't want to cry sorry, I want hit something

I don't want to cry sorry, I want hit something

Have you considered punching a bag in the gym? That can be a great way for you to release that anger.

Providing Suggestions

825

angry

0.881263

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high empathy, high relevance

73

7

anger

problems_with_friends

My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

5

1

5

Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him. I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face That's what my wife is also telling me. But what can I do then? I want to smash things now I don't want to cry sorry, I want hit something It would be great, unfortunately I don't go to gym Should I ring him and tell everything I feel about him? What do you thing

It would be great, unfortunately I don't go to gym Should I ring him and tell everything I feel about him? What do you thing

You could definitely call him and express your feelings to him as that would be another great way to get how you're feeling off of your chest.

Providing Suggestions

826

sad

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high empathy, high relevance

73

8

anger

problems_with_friends

My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

5

1

5

Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him. I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face That's what my wife is also telling me. But what can I do then? I want to smash things now I don't want to cry sorry, I want hit something It would be great, unfortunately I don't go to gym Should I ring him and tell everything I feel about him? What do you thing I will then definitely ring him. Also I feel so sad because we have a lot of friends in common

I will then definitely ring him. Also I feel so sad because we have a lot of friends in common

I definitely understand how you feel, I've been in the same situation where I'm not friends with a particular person but we have the same friend group. It may be hard in the beginning but the tension and awkwardness should get easier as time goes on. I would suggest that you hang out with these friends without this other friend you're having issues with.

Self-disclosure

827

sad

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high empathy, high relevance

73

9

anger

problems_with_friends

My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.

5

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Hello, not great. How are you? My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him. I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face That's what my wife is also telling me. But what can I do then? I want to smash things now I don't want to cry sorry, I want hit something It would be great, unfortunately I don't go to gym Should I ring him and tell everything I feel about him? What do you thing I will then definitely ring him. Also I feel so sad because we have a lot of friends in common That's for sure but then friends need to decide who to invite

That's for sure but then friends need to decide who to invite

That's okay. Sometimes it may be you or other times it may be him that gets invited but that's how things will be since the situation transpired.

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