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anger
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problems_with_friends
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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay i can't figure out if covid has brought people together or torn them apart, honestly lol i hope you're right covid seems to have brought out a lot of strong feelings in some people i tend to think you are right....but early on people were rallying together it seemed....but that didn't last long maybe by fall society will become more cohesive again, what do you think? hahaha yes totally oh really? what kind of a new life?
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oh really? what kind of a new life?
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I'm really happy you are getting the vaccine. I just got mine yesterday.
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I'm really happy you are getting the vaccine. I just got mine yesterday.
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Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 573 |
surprised
| 0.062139 | 0.000335 | 0.000827 | 0.035675 | 0.390936 | 0.001209 | 0.508879 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
51
| 14 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
|
my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay i can't figure out if covid has brought people together or torn them apart, honestly lol i hope you're right covid seems to have brought out a lot of strong feelings in some people i tend to think you are right....but early on people were rallying together it seemed....but that didn't last long maybe by fall society will become more cohesive again, what do you think? hahaha yes totally oh really? what kind of a new life? i need a vaccine...then i can restart my old life wooohoooooooo congrats!!! any side effects? which did you get?
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i need a vaccine...then i can restart my old life wooohoooooooo congrats!!! any side effects? which did you get?
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I just graduated, I'm going to Grad school in the fall and getting married. That's my life : )
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I just graduated, I'm going to Grad school in the fall and getting married. That's my life : ) Ok so I was sore and kind of sick.
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Information, Information
|
Information
| 574 |
happy
| 0.00032 | 0.000067 | 0.000055 | 0.991415 | 0.006923 | 0.000144 | 0.001077 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
51
| 15 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
|
my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay i can't figure out if covid has brought people together or torn them apart, honestly lol i hope you're right covid seems to have brought out a lot of strong feelings in some people i tend to think you are right....but early on people were rallying together it seemed....but that didn't last long maybe by fall society will become more cohesive again, what do you think? hahaha yes totally oh really? what kind of a new life? i need a vaccine...then i can restart my old life wooohoooooooo congrats!!! any side effects? which did you get? wow lots of exciting things! which vaccine did you end up getting? i'm expecting mine within the next couple of weeks, can't wait
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wow lots of exciting things! which vaccine did you end up getting? i'm expecting mine within the next couple of weeks, can't wait
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I got pfizer which is the best from what I know. That and Moderna. Don't get any other kind.
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I got pfizer which is the best from what I know. That and Moderna. Don't get any other kind.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 575 |
happy
| 0.000057 | 0.000024 | 0.000014 | 0.999482 | 0.000118 | 0.000028 | 0.000276 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
51
| 16 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
|
my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay i can't figure out if covid has brought people together or torn them apart, honestly lol i hope you're right covid seems to have brought out a lot of strong feelings in some people i tend to think you are right....but early on people were rallying together it seemed....but that didn't last long maybe by fall society will become more cohesive again, what do you think? hahaha yes totally oh really? what kind of a new life? i need a vaccine...then i can restart my old life wooohoooooooo congrats!!! any side effects? which did you get? wow lots of exciting things! which vaccine did you end up getting? i'm expecting mine within the next couple of weeks, can't wait oh i won't....astrazenca became available for 55 plus yesterday....NO THANKS
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oh i won't....astrazenca became available for 55 plus yesterday....NO THANKS
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If you're not afraid of needles go do it! I really encourage it!
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If you're not afraid of needles go do it! I really encourage it! Just have a lazy day afterwards with some warm soup and Netflix.
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Information
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 576 |
angry
| 0.998021 | 0.000097 | 0.000022 | 0.000142 | 0.001456 | 0.00011 | 0.000152 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
51
| 17 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
|
my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay i can't figure out if covid has brought people together or torn them apart, honestly lol i hope you're right covid seems to have brought out a lot of strong feelings in some people i tend to think you are right....but early on people were rallying together it seemed....but that didn't last long maybe by fall society will become more cohesive again, what do you think? hahaha yes totally oh really? what kind of a new life? i need a vaccine...then i can restart my old life wooohoooooooo congrats!!! any side effects? which did you get? wow lots of exciting things! which vaccine did you end up getting? i'm expecting mine within the next couple of weeks, can't wait oh i won't....astrazenca became available for 55 plus yesterday....NO THANKS well thank you for talking with me....you cheered me up and helped me put my friend situation into perspective....i'll take some time like you suggested to asses my friendship i don't mind needles...don't even care if i have a fever for a week...all totally worth it :)
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well thank you for talking with me....you cheered me up and helped me put my friend situation into perspective....i'll take some time like you suggested to asses my friendship i don't mind needles...don't even care if i have a fever for a week...all totally worth it :)
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No problem. It was very nice talking to you. And I hope you're situation with your friend has a happy ending.
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No problem. It was very nice talking to you. And I hope you're situation with your friend has a happy ending. Oh I agree : )
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Restatement or Paraphrasing, Reflection of feelings
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 577 |
happy
| 0.000166 | 0.000016 | 0.000008 | 0.999605 | 0.000105 | 0.000067 | 0.000033 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
51
| 18 |
anger
|
problems_with_friends
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my close friend became an avid antivaxxer and felt it was his job to pressure me over it...he wouldn't drop it and so i had to cut off communication, at least for now.
| 4 | 1 | 5 | 5 |
hi oh i am totally pissed off at my friend he is an intelligent person....and was (is?) a close friend...but...he became an antivaxxer....critical of me for wanting a covid vaccine it became unbearable....i got so mad i just cut off communication....i don't understand his pushiness. yes i said "lets agree to disagree" but he could not accept that it's like he felt it was his duty to "save me" i feel disrespected, basically i'm not sure...but i have...and i miss him! i think maybe once covid blows over things might get back to where they were, i think that's what i want but part of me is just hurt and doesn't want something like this to happen again with him he is important to me, yes we have been friends for 20 years, he's one of my oldest friends you had a friend like this before you say? how did you deal with it? as in what was the end result for you both, in your case? just curious i may email him but i'm not sure....i don't want it to end up being an argument, i don't have the mental energy for that...(covid situation has left me mentally depleted) that's interesting....another covid-induced conflict i like your idea of taking some time...that seems like a sensible path forward hmmm yes....maybe I will journal about it to get my thoughts clear okay i can't figure out if covid has brought people together or torn them apart, honestly lol i hope you're right covid seems to have brought out a lot of strong feelings in some people i tend to think you are right....but early on people were rallying together it seemed....but that didn't last long maybe by fall society will become more cohesive again, what do you think? hahaha yes totally oh really? what kind of a new life? i need a vaccine...then i can restart my old life wooohoooooooo congrats!!! any side effects? which did you get? wow lots of exciting things! which vaccine did you end up getting? i'm expecting mine within the next couple of weeks, can't wait oh i won't....astrazenca became available for 55 plus yesterday....NO THANKS well thank you for talking with me....you cheered me up and helped me put my friend situation into perspective....i'll take some time like you suggested to asses my friendship i don't mind needles...don't even care if i have a fever for a week...all totally worth it :) congrats on your upcoming marriage and i wish you both every happines. Cheers.....bye
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congrats on your upcoming marriage and i wish you both every happines. Cheers.....bye
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Thank you!!! Have a good one!
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Thank you!!! Have a good one!
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Others
|
Others
| 578 |
happy
| 0.000561 | 0.000028 | 0.000009 | 0.998968 | 0.000358 | 0.000048 | 0.000029 |
high empathy, high relevance
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52
| 1 |
anger
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sleep_problems
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i couldnt sleep because my neighbors were partying and playing loud music
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
hello
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hello
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Hello there, how can I help you?
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Hello there, how can I help you?
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Question
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Question
| 579 |
neutral
| 0.005735 | 0.000112 | 0.000059 | 0.001189 | 0.9879 | 0.000243 | 0.00476 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
52
| 2 |
anger
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sleep_problems
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i couldnt sleep because my neighbors were partying and playing loud music
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
hello yes i had problems sleeping one night i was so angry that i couldnt sleep
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yes i had problems sleeping one night i was so angry that i couldnt sleep
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I am sorry to hear that. How often do you have problems sleeping?
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I am sorry to hear that. How often do you have problems sleeping?
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Question
|
Question
| 580 |
angry
| 0.998629 | 0.000065 | 0.00005 | 0.000081 | 0.000077 | 0.001072 | 0.000026 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
52
| 3 |
anger
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sleep_problems
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i couldnt sleep because my neighbors were partying and playing loud music
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
hello yes i had problems sleeping one night i was so angry that i couldnt sleep i have them frequently when my neighbors are loud with their music.
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i have them frequently when my neighbors are loud with their music.
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I hear you, I used to have noisy neighbours too.
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I hear you, I used to have noisy neighbours too. How long have you been living next to your noisy neighbours for?
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Self-disclosure, Question
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Self-disclosure
| 581 |
angry
| 0.48148 | 0.176099 | 0.007859 | 0.001037 | 0.288385 | 0.036471 | 0.008668 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
52
| 4 |
anger
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sleep_problems
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i couldnt sleep because my neighbors were partying and playing loud music
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
hello yes i had problems sleeping one night i was so angry that i couldnt sleep i have them frequently when my neighbors are loud with their music. Its hard because they dont answer there door so i can tell them about the issue.
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Its hard because they dont answer there door so i can tell them about the issue.
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If noise levels are above the legal limit, you can get the police involved, however, its probably better to have that open conversation with them first. Let them have the opportunity to fix it before it escalates.
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If noise levels are above the legal limit, you can get the police involved, however, its probably better to have that open conversation with them first. Let them have the opportunity to fix it before it escalates. Have you tried just a simple knock on the wall to let them know you are not happy? Since they are not answering the door.
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Information, Providing Suggestions, Others
|
Information
| 582 |
angry
| 0.701992 | 0.003784 | 0.004635 | 0.000341 | 0.079392 | 0.204414 | 0.005443 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
52
| 5 |
anger
|
sleep_problems
|
i couldnt sleep because my neighbors were partying and playing loud music
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
hello yes i had problems sleeping one night i was so angry that i couldnt sleep i have them frequently when my neighbors are loud with their music. Its hard because they dont answer there door so i can tell them about the issue. Unfotunately the police won't do anything about it because they know these neighbors are trouble. i even tried to communicate with the neighbor one day getting my mail.
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Unfotunately the police won't do anything about it because they know these neighbors are trouble. i even tried to communicate with the neighbor one day getting my mail.
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I would personally try to write a letter and post it through their door, give them 24 hours to be able to read it and think about it. If they continue to be noisy the next day, you should definitely call the police. The police are there for law and order, and it sounds as though they are causing a public nuisance which is what the police are there to do, no matter how troublesome your neighbours are. They aren't above the law.
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I would personally try to write a letter and post it through their door, give them 24 hours to be able to read it and think about it. If they continue to be noisy the next day, you should definitely call the police. The police are there for law and order, and it sounds as though they are causing a public nuisance which is what the police are there to do, no matter how troublesome your neighbours are. They aren't above the law.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 583 |
sad
| 0.283458 | 0.00767 | 0.004305 | 0.000342 | 0.185531 | 0.513503 | 0.005192 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
52
| 6 |
anger
|
sleep_problems
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i couldnt sleep because my neighbors were partying and playing loud music
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
hello yes i had problems sleeping one night i was so angry that i couldnt sleep i have them frequently when my neighbors are loud with their music. Its hard because they dont answer there door so i can tell them about the issue. Unfotunately the police won't do anything about it because they know these neighbors are trouble. i even tried to communicate with the neighbor one day getting my mail. i cannot write a letter because they will not understand since they dont speak english much, Again, the police don't wat to get involved, thank you for your input but i dont think i have anymore option but move and sell my house, I just think that getting away from them would help
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i cannot write a letter because they will not understand since they dont speak english much, Again, the police don't wat to get involved, thank you for your input but i dont think i have anymore option but move and sell my house, I just think that getting away from them would help
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I understand you feel helpless, but I really think that is the last option. I don't know if you are saying the police will not help because this is what you have been told by a friend or this is your experience. But they really are there to help you in a case like this.
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I understand you feel helpless, but I really think that is the last option. I don't know if you are saying the police will not help because this is what you have been told by a friend or this is your experience. But they really are there to help you in a case like this.
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Information
|
Information
| 584 |
angry
| 0.718402 | 0.003105 | 0.001878 | 0.000142 | 0.250447 | 0.017982 | 0.008046 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
52
| 7 |
anger
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sleep_problems
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i couldnt sleep because my neighbors were partying and playing loud music
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
hello yes i had problems sleeping one night i was so angry that i couldnt sleep i have them frequently when my neighbors are loud with their music. Its hard because they dont answer there door so i can tell them about the issue. Unfotunately the police won't do anything about it because they know these neighbors are trouble. i even tried to communicate with the neighbor one day getting my mail. i cannot write a letter because they will not understand since they dont speak english much, Again, the police don't wat to get involved, thank you for your input but i dont think i have anymore option but move and sell my house, I just think that getting away from them would help i have contactd the police they told me its not a problem the can fix
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i have contactd the police they told me its not a problem the can fix
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"Police typically are responsible for maintaining public order and safety, enforcing the law, and preventing, detecting, and investigating criminal activities. These functions are known as policing"
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"Police typically are responsible for maintaining public order and safety, enforcing the law, and preventing, detecting, and investigating criminal activities. These functions are known as policing"
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Information
|
Information
| 585 |
neutral
| 0.032852 | 0.000274 | 0.002744 | 0.00025 | 0.944294 | 0.007328 | 0.012258 |
high empathy, high relevance
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52
| 8 |
anger
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sleep_problems
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i couldnt sleep because my neighbors were partying and playing loud music
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
hello yes i had problems sleeping one night i was so angry that i couldnt sleep i have them frequently when my neighbors are loud with their music. Its hard because they dont answer there door so i can tell them about the issue. Unfotunately the police won't do anything about it because they know these neighbors are trouble. i even tried to communicate with the neighbor one day getting my mail. i cannot write a letter because they will not understand since they dont speak english much, Again, the police don't wat to get involved, thank you for your input but i dont think i have anymore option but move and sell my house, I just think that getting away from them would help i have contactd the police they told me its not a problem the can fix apparently none of the household members will open the door for the police i will try again thank you for all your help i hope you have a great day.
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apparently none of the household members will open the door for the police i will try again thank you for all your help i hope you have a great day.
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Then I would suggest if the police are not able to help you take the officers badge numbers and contact your local council or government,
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Then I would suggest if the police are not able to help you take the officers badge numbers and contact your local council or government, No problem. I know your issue will be solved without having a move away. Have a great day too!
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Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
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Providing Suggestions
| 586 |
happy
| 0.03333 | 0.0003 | 0.04143 | 0.718852 | 0.18323 | 0.018622 | 0.004236 |
high empathy, high relevance
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53
| 1 |
sadness
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breakup_with_partner
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My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi.
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Hi.
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Hi, how are you?
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Hi, how are you?
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Question
|
Question
| 587 |
neutral
| 0.006336 | 0.000282 | 0.000175 | 0.025539 | 0.965027 | 0.000269 | 0.002371 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
53
| 2 |
sadness
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breakup_with_partner
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My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi. Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing?
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Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing?
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I am doing all right, thanks. Anything you would like to talk about?
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I am doing all right, thanks. Anything you would like to talk about?
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Question
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Question
| 588 |
happy
| 0.007509 | 0.000029 | 0.000054 | 0.992083 | 0.000164 | 0.000049 | 0.000112 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
53
| 3 |
sadness
|
breakup_with_partner
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My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi. Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing? Yes, my fiance and I are splitting up.
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Yes, my fiance and I are splitting up.
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I am sorry to hear that. How long have you been together?
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I am sorry to hear that. How long have you been together?
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 589 |
sad
| 0.000207 | 0.000075 | 0.000042 | 0.000046 | 0.000368 | 0.999209 | 0.000052 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
53
| 4 |
sadness
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breakup_with_partner
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My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi. Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing? Yes, my fiance and I are splitting up. A little over 5 years.
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A little over 5 years.
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Wow, that is a long time. Breaking up is never easy, but it's especially rough when you were in a long term relationship.
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Wow, that is a long time. Breaking up is never easy, but it's especially rough when you were in a long term relationship.
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 590 |
neutral
| 0.003678 | 0.000111 | 0.000338 | 0.000421 | 0.971971 | 0.002925 | 0.020556 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
53
| 5 |
sadness
|
breakup_with_partner
|
My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi. Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing? Yes, my fiance and I are splitting up. A little over 5 years. Yes exactly, so I feel like I'm starting all over again.
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Yes exactly, so I feel like I'm starting all over again.
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I know how that feels. It's really hard at first, but it gets easier. There are some benefits to being single after all.
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I know how that feels. It's really hard at first, but it gets easier. There are some benefits to being single after all.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 591 |
neutral
| 0.007847 | 0.000113 | 0.000244 | 0.000355 | 0.968972 | 0.001994 | 0.020475 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
53
| 6 |
sadness
|
breakup_with_partner
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My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi. Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing? Yes, my fiance and I are splitting up. A little over 5 years. Yes exactly, so I feel like I'm starting all over again. Sure, I will have time to focus on myself and start anew. But, I am nervous and apprehensive.
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Sure, I will have time to focus on myself and start anew. But, I am nervous and apprehensive.
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It might help to look for a new hobby. That will give you something to focus on, and it could help you meet new people too. My main hobby is baking.
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It might help to look for a new hobby. That will give you something to focus on, and it could help you meet new people too. My main hobby is baking.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 592 |
fear
| 0.000035 | 0.000047 | 0.998831 | 0.0002 | 0.000313 | 0.000328 | 0.000246 |
high empathy, high relevance
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53
| 7 |
sadness
|
breakup_with_partner
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My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi. Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing? Yes, my fiance and I are splitting up. A little over 5 years. Yes exactly, so I feel like I'm starting all over again. Sure, I will have time to focus on myself and start anew. But, I am nervous and apprehensive. This is true. I have wanted to start going to the gym more and start doing more yoga.
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This is true. I have wanted to start going to the gym more and start doing more yoga.
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I think that's a great idea. Exercise is good for the body and mind. :)
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I think that's a great idea. Exercise is good for the body and mind. :)
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 593 |
neutral
| 0.001909 | 0.000236 | 0.000925 | 0.122404 | 0.856153 | 0.005025 | 0.013348 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
53
| 8 |
sadness
|
breakup_with_partner
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My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi. Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing? Yes, my fiance and I are splitting up. A little over 5 years. Yes exactly, so I feel like I'm starting all over again. Sure, I will have time to focus on myself and start anew. But, I am nervous and apprehensive. This is true. I have wanted to start going to the gym more and start doing more yoga. Thank you. I also need to start looking for a new apartment. I am staying with a friend for now.
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Thank you. I also need to start looking for a new apartment. I am staying with a friend for now.
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Looking for a new place can be a hassle! But it is kind of exciting too. I think i t's nice to move into a fresh new space and experience a change of scenery.
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Looking for a new place can be a hassle! But it is kind of exciting too. I think i t's nice to move into a fresh new space and experience a change of scenery.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 594 |
neutral
| 0.012288 | 0.000287 | 0.003401 | 0.00651 | 0.968845 | 0.002404 | 0.006264 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
53
| 9 |
sadness
|
breakup_with_partner
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My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi. Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing? Yes, my fiance and I are splitting up. A little over 5 years. Yes exactly, so I feel like I'm starting all over again. Sure, I will have time to focus on myself and start anew. But, I am nervous and apprehensive. This is true. I have wanted to start going to the gym more and start doing more yoga. Thank you. I also need to start looking for a new apartment. I am staying with a friend for now. It's been hard with the pandemic, but luckily I have a good friend and she's not rushing me out.
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It's been hard with the pandemic, but luckily I have a good friend and she's not rushing me out.
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Yeah, unfortunately the pandemic has made a lot of things harder :(
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Yeah, unfortunately the pandemic has made a lot of things harder :(
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 595 |
neutral
| 0.00566 | 0.000482 | 0.001801 | 0.026264 | 0.688133 | 0.27203 | 0.00563 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
53
| 10 |
sadness
|
breakup_with_partner
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My fiance and I are splitting up after 5 years and I feel like I'm starting over again.
| 4 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi. Doing okay, thanks, how are you doing? Yes, my fiance and I are splitting up. A little over 5 years. Yes exactly, so I feel like I'm starting all over again. Sure, I will have time to focus on myself and start anew. But, I am nervous and apprehensive. This is true. I have wanted to start going to the gym more and start doing more yoga. Thank you. I also need to start looking for a new apartment. I am staying with a friend for now. It's been hard with the pandemic, but luckily I have a good friend and she's not rushing me out. Yes, I feel like it had an impact on my relationship.
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Yes, I feel like it had an impact on my relationship.
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A lot of my friends have been saying the same thing. It seems like everyone has been under so much stress lately.
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A lot of my friends have been saying the same thing. It seems like everyone has been under so much stress lately.
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Others
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Others
| 596 |
neutral
| 0.018991 | 0.000737 | 0.001163 | 0.00371 | 0.815327 | 0.121757 | 0.038316 |
high empathy, high relevance
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54
| 1 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :(
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Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :(
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Oh I am so sorry. Please know that I am happy to listen! What is going on with you?
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Oh I am so sorry. Please know that I am happy to listen! What is going on with you?
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Question
|
Question
| 598 |
fear
| 0.000252 | 0.000242 | 0.909595 | 0.001964 | 0.000654 | 0.087022 | 0.000272 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
54
| 2 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
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I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :( I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line.
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I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line.
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Is there no possibility of having your contract renewed?
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Is there no possibility of having your contract renewed?
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 599 |
sad
| 0.076518 | 0.000881 | 0.040657 | 0.000296 | 0.038479 | 0.841825 | 0.001345 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
54
| 3 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :( I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line. They honored my current contract, but due to rising cost and expenses they are downsizing the company.
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They honored my current contract, but due to rising cost and expenses they are downsizing the company.
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It could be due to the pandemic, I suppose. Are you in touch with government agencies who could help you due to the exceptional circumstances?
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It could be due to the pandemic, I suppose. Are you in touch with government agencies who could help you due to the exceptional circumstances?
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 600 |
neutral
| 0.104584 | 0.000765 | 0.001337 | 0.000304 | 0.701289 | 0.177557 | 0.014165 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
54
| 4 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :( I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line. They honored my current contract, but due to rising cost and expenses they are downsizing the company. Yes I reached out, but unemployment won't help as much, won't cover most of my expenses. I just don't know how to deal and cope from this. I want to change my mindset but it's all at once and I can't deal with it.
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Yes I reached out, but unemployment won't help as much, won't cover most of my expenses. I just don't know how to deal and cope from this. I want to change my mindset but it's all at once and I can't deal with it.
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I think a good place to start would be your doctor - they might be able to refer you to a counsellor.
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I think a good place to start would be your doctor - they might be able to refer you to a counsellor.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 601 |
sad
| 0.089071 | 0.00104 | 0.00784 | 0.000297 | 0.014164 | 0.880139 | 0.00745 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
54
| 5 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :( I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line. They honored my current contract, but due to rising cost and expenses they are downsizing the company. Yes I reached out, but unemployment won't help as much, won't cover most of my expenses. I just don't know how to deal and cope from this. I want to change my mindset but it's all at once and I can't deal with it. I understand seeking professional help is a good move. But its more the feeling of uncertainty that I have trouble coping with. I know if I can overcome this, I can deal with it and move on. Any ideas?
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I understand seeking professional help is a good move. But its more the feeling of uncertainty that I have trouble coping with. I know if I can overcome this, I can deal with it and move on. Any ideas?
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Would you consider taking some sort of job on a temporary basis, even though it is way out of your normal field? Bar tending or something? Just to make you feel you were earning.
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Would you consider taking some sort of job on a temporary basis, even though it is way out of your normal field? Bar tending or something? Just to make you feel you were earning.
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Question
|
Question
| 602 |
fear
| 0.000023 | 0.000036 | 0.999429 | 0.000123 | 0.000073 | 0.000116 | 0.000201 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
54
| 6 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :( I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line. They honored my current contract, but due to rising cost and expenses they are downsizing the company. Yes I reached out, but unemployment won't help as much, won't cover most of my expenses. I just don't know how to deal and cope from this. I want to change my mindset but it's all at once and I can't deal with it. I understand seeking professional help is a good move. But its more the feeling of uncertainty that I have trouble coping with. I know if I can overcome this, I can deal with it and move on. Any ideas? I do have side incomes, but I lost majority of my income. But I know I can find something in the future. I just need to overcome this anxiety and nervous feeling. Maybe then I can have confidence.
|
I do have side incomes, but I lost majority of my income. But I know I can find something in the future. I just need to overcome this anxiety and nervous feeling. Maybe then I can have confidence.
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Would you consider medication? It's not a panacea but it can help in the short term.
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Would you consider medication? It's not a panacea but it can help in the short term.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 603 |
fear
| 0.000147 | 0.000221 | 0.914515 | 0.068106 | 0.009475 | 0.006565 | 0.000971 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
54
| 7 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :( I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line. They honored my current contract, but due to rising cost and expenses they are downsizing the company. Yes I reached out, but unemployment won't help as much, won't cover most of my expenses. I just don't know how to deal and cope from this. I want to change my mindset but it's all at once and I can't deal with it. I understand seeking professional help is a good move. But its more the feeling of uncertainty that I have trouble coping with. I know if I can overcome this, I can deal with it and move on. Any ideas? I do have side incomes, but I lost majority of my income. But I know I can find something in the future. I just need to overcome this anxiety and nervous feeling. Maybe then I can have confidence. No medications, a bit stronger than that. I can cope without that. Probably might seek a professional and talk it out.
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No medications, a bit stronger than that. I can cope without that. Probably might seek a professional and talk it out.
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Whatever you do don't go self medicating! That does not help at all.
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Whatever you do don't go self medicating! That does not help at all. I hope I have been able to give you a little bit of piece of mind and I wish you a good deal of luck in the future
|
Providing Suggestions, Others
|
Providing Suggestions
| 604 |
neutral
| 0.003487 | 0.000067 | 0.000498 | 0.000146 | 0.990685 | 0.002088 | 0.003028 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
54
| 8 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :( I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line. They honored my current contract, but due to rising cost and expenses they are downsizing the company. Yes I reached out, but unemployment won't help as much, won't cover most of my expenses. I just don't know how to deal and cope from this. I want to change my mindset but it's all at once and I can't deal with it. I understand seeking professional help is a good move. But its more the feeling of uncertainty that I have trouble coping with. I know if I can overcome this, I can deal with it and move on. Any ideas? I do have side incomes, but I lost majority of my income. But I know I can find something in the future. I just need to overcome this anxiety and nervous feeling. Maybe then I can have confidence. No medications, a bit stronger than that. I can cope without that. Probably might seek a professional and talk it out. That true, I meant I dont want any medications. Might try other coping techniques, talking, breathing.
|
That true, I meant I dont want any medications. Might try other coping techniques, talking, breathing.
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That sounds like a really good idea! All the best
|
That sounds like a really good idea! All the best
|
Others
|
Others
| 605 |
neutral
| 0.055055 | 0.000213 | 0.000272 | 0.000256 | 0.922085 | 0.002717 | 0.019402 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
54
| 9 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :( I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line. They honored my current contract, but due to rising cost and expenses they are downsizing the company. Yes I reached out, but unemployment won't help as much, won't cover most of my expenses. I just don't know how to deal and cope from this. I want to change my mindset but it's all at once and I can't deal with it. I understand seeking professional help is a good move. But its more the feeling of uncertainty that I have trouble coping with. I know if I can overcome this, I can deal with it and move on. Any ideas? I do have side incomes, but I lost majority of my income. But I know I can find something in the future. I just need to overcome this anxiety and nervous feeling. Maybe then I can have confidence. No medications, a bit stronger than that. I can cope without that. Probably might seek a professional and talk it out. That true, I meant I dont want any medications. Might try other coping techniques, talking, breathing. Thanks for the advice of the professional though, I think its a good start. I feel better now.
|
Thanks for the advice of the professional though, I think its a good start. I feel better now.
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Anyway thanks for talking :) Can you press the quit button as I am not allowed to my end.
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Anyway thanks for talking :) Can you press the quit button as I am not allowed to my end.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 606 |
happy
| 0.000252 | 0.000064 | 0.000013 | 0.997411 | 0.001756 | 0.000196 | 0.000308 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
54
| 10 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
I'm about to lose my job because my company is not able to negotiate my existing contract and I'm unable to secure another job. I feel anxiety on what to do and next steps to take.
| 4 | 2 | 4 | 5 |
Hey, how are you. I wish I can say I'm good but feeling down and nervous. :( I'm about to lose my current job, because my contract is about to expire. I don't have another job offer on the line. They honored my current contract, but due to rising cost and expenses they are downsizing the company. Yes I reached out, but unemployment won't help as much, won't cover most of my expenses. I just don't know how to deal and cope from this. I want to change my mindset but it's all at once and I can't deal with it. I understand seeking professional help is a good move. But its more the feeling of uncertainty that I have trouble coping with. I know if I can overcome this, I can deal with it and move on. Any ideas? I do have side incomes, but I lost majority of my income. But I know I can find something in the future. I just need to overcome this anxiety and nervous feeling. Maybe then I can have confidence. No medications, a bit stronger than that. I can cope without that. Probably might seek a professional and talk it out. That true, I meant I dont want any medications. Might try other coping techniques, talking, breathing. Thanks for the advice of the professional though, I think its a good start. I feel better now. Yes, thank you for helping and good luck with everything.
|
Yes, thank you for helping and good luck with everything.
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Glad to hear :)
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Glad to hear :)
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Others
|
Others
| 607 |
happy
| 0.001738 | 0.000027 | 0.000076 | 0.990944 | 0.006628 | 0.000207 | 0.00038 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 1 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello
|
Hello
|
Are you there??
|
Are you there??
|
Question
|
Question
| 626 |
neutral
| 0.004226 | 0.000116 | 0.000071 | 0.00422 | 0.989792 | 0.000161 | 0.001414 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 2 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok
|
if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok
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What was that?
|
What was that?
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 627 |
neutral
| 0.203035 | 0.000198 | 0.000902 | 0.002223 | 0.762061 | 0.000686 | 0.030896 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 3 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily
|
I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily
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I can provide you with some insights...sure.
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I can provide you with some insights...sure.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 628 |
sad
| 0.013446 | 0.001234 | 0.010558 | 0.0003 | 0.000381 | 0.973987 | 0.000094 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 4 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice
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nice
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Uber. Lyft, Door Dash and Amazon delivery services are good.
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Uber. Lyft, Door Dash and Amazon delivery services are good.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 629 |
happy
| 0.000362 | 0.000085 | 0.000005 | 0.998041 | 0.001029 | 0.000116 | 0.000363 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 5 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out
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I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out
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Amazon pays well.
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Amazon pays well.
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Question
|
Question
| 630 |
fear
| 0.00005 | 0.000045 | 0.999629 | 0.000061 | 0.000048 | 0.000133 | 0.000032 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 6 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could
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I wish I could
|
Don't be scared to go out.
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Don't be scared to go out.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 631 |
neutral
| 0.001258 | 0.000038 | 0.00006 | 0.000203 | 0.996771 | 0.001196 | 0.000473 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 7 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon
|
how much do they get? amazon
|
There are plenty of jobs for freelance writers. Consider freelance content writing.
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There are plenty of jobs for freelance writers. Consider freelance content writing. What do you want to do as a Work From Home, Option?
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Providing Suggestions, Question
|
Providing Suggestions
| 632 |
neutral
| 0.009345 | 0.000079 | 0.000195 | 0.000183 | 0.978507 | 0.001154 | 0.010537 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 8 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer
|
sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer
|
What is your native language?
|
What is your native language?
|
Question
|
Question
| 633 |
neutral
| 0.040462 | 0.000118 | 0.000311 | 0.000198 | 0.945404 | 0.003654 | 0.009853 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 9 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful
|
anything but something really stressful
|
You are not originally from the USA?
|
You are not originally from the USA?
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 634 |
fear
| 0.008867 | 0.000664 | 0.718312 | 0.00165 | 0.049618 | 0.218701 | 0.002188 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
57
| 10 |
anxiety
|
job_crisis
|
Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like
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I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like
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Ok, you could be a tutor in your language for those who are native Engrish speakers.
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Ok, you could be a tutor in your language for those who are native Engrish speakers.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 635 |
neutral
| 0.020783 | 0.000366 | 0.000315 | 0.00158 | 0.831559 | 0.140371 | 0.005026 |
high empathy, high relevance
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| 11 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like I could write a book and self publish yes! I thought about it, I should do it
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I could write a book and self publish yes! I thought about it, I should do it
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I believe that it could be a new career option.
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I believe that it could be a new career option.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 636 |
happy
| 0.000679 | 0.000071 | 0.000144 | 0.968915 | 0.019024 | 0.000314 | 0.010854 |
high empathy, high relevance
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57
| 12 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like I could write a book and self publish yes! I thought about it, I should do it yes
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yes
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I believe that you can succeed for sure.
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I believe that you can succeed for sure.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 637 |
neutral
| 0.005629 | 0.000064 | 0.000172 | 0.003235 | 0.984833 | 0.000879 | 0.005188 |
high empathy, high relevance
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57
| 13 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like I could write a book and self publish yes! I thought about it, I should do it yes thanks, I will try to find some providers
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thanks, I will try to find some providers
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The key to success is having a positive attitude and believing in yourself.
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The key to success is having a positive attitude and believing in yourself.
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Information
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Information
| 638 |
neutral
| 0.006195 | 0.000123 | 0.000418 | 0.000199 | 0.986157 | 0.000511 | 0.006398 |
high empathy, high relevance
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57
| 14 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like I could write a book and self publish yes! I thought about it, I should do it yes thanks, I will try to find some providers or I could start doing that on my own Awesome. I will keep in mind and I agree with you
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or I could start doing that on my own Awesome. I will keep in mind and I agree with you
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I did the self-publishing route a long time ago. I gave me conifdence to succeed.
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I did the self-publishing route a long time ago. I gave me conifdence to succeed.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 639 |
happy
| 0.000451 | 0.00003 | 0.000017 | 0.998119 | 0.000964 | 0.000038 | 0.000381 |
high empathy, high relevance
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57
| 15 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like I could write a book and self publish yes! I thought about it, I should do it yes thanks, I will try to find some providers or I could start doing that on my own Awesome. I will keep in mind and I agree with you oh nice! was it hard to self-publish back then?
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oh nice! was it hard to self-publish back then?
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I feel that you can have just as much success as I did.
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I feel that you can have just as much success as I did.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 640 |
happy
| 0.012486 | 0.000598 | 0.000133 | 0.890335 | 0.012049 | 0.003455 | 0.080943 |
high empathy, high relevance
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57
| 16 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like I could write a book and self publish yes! I thought about it, I should do it yes thanks, I will try to find some providers or I could start doing that on my own Awesome. I will keep in mind and I agree with you oh nice! was it hard to self-publish back then? wow coool......
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wow coool......
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Self-willed belief they you can succeed in new money making ventures is the key!
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Self-willed belief they you can succeed in new money making ventures is the key!
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Information
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Information
| 641 |
surprised
| 0.002248 | 0.000333 | 0.000087 | 0.118993 | 0.006093 | 0.000157 | 0.872089 |
high empathy, high relevance
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57
| 17 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like I could write a book and self publish yes! I thought about it, I should do it yes thanks, I will try to find some providers or I could start doing that on my own Awesome. I will keep in mind and I agree with you oh nice! was it hard to self-publish back then? wow coool...... I had a friend who published a book about nuclear bomb, and I heard self-publishing is a little complicated yes indeed
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I had a friend who published a book about nuclear bomb, and I heard self-publishing is a little complicated yes indeed
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Do you need help with anything else?
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Do you need help with anything else?
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Question
| 642 |
neutral
| 0.006834 | 0.000413 | 0.000621 | 0.000522 | 0.611169 | 0.001971 | 0.378471 |
high empathy, high relevance
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57
| 18 |
anxiety
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job_crisis
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Looking for an online job. hard to find one. too competitive
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hello if I would like you to answer a few question, if that is ok I am looking for a side job cannot find it very easily nice I could find some jobs that pay like 3 dollars an hour but not decent one yeah, I am scared to go out I wish I could how much do they get? amazon sure, I will. It has to be my native language though, i dont think they will hire me as an English writer anything but something really stressful I am from USA but I don't speak English perfectly I wish I did but certainly writing is something I like I could write a book and self publish yes! I thought about it, I should do it yes thanks, I will try to find some providers or I could start doing that on my own Awesome. I will keep in mind and I agree with you oh nice! was it hard to self-publish back then? wow coool...... I had a friend who published a book about nuclear bomb, and I heard self-publishing is a little complicated yes indeed im good. thanks for your help have a good xmas
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im good. thanks for your help have a good xmas
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Ok. Just click the red finalize and exit button to end the therapy session.
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Ok. Just click the red finalize and exit button to end the therapy session.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 643 |
happy
| 0.000272 | 0.000034 | 0.000006 | 0.998995 | 0.000422 | 0.000126 | 0.000145 |
high empathy, high relevance
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shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
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Hello
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Hello
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Hell, How can I help?
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Hell, How can I help?
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Question
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Question
| 644 |
neutral
| 0.004226 | 0.000116 | 0.000071 | 0.00422 | 0.989792 | 0.000161 | 0.001414 |
high empathy, high relevance
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| 2 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
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Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down.
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I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down.
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Initially, I used to feel like that and never shared my camera but I know I can do all the time.
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Initially, I used to feel like that and never shared my camera but I know I can do all the time.
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Information
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Information
| 645 |
sad
| 0.023054 | 0.036526 | 0.101241 | 0.02412 | 0.002451 | 0.81123 | 0.00138 |
high empathy, high relevance
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| 3 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed.
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oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed.
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When I saw many people were sharing camera and they didnt care about anything - few sitting in room full of mess but they dint care.
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When I saw many people were sharing camera and they didnt care about anything - few sitting in room full of mess but they dint care.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 646 |
angry
| 0.407659 | 0.168191 | 0.000289 | 0.023419 | 0.020804 | 0.357641 | 0.021996 |
high empathy, high relevance
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| 4 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety
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in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety
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correct - it is just our mind thing which stops us not to share but once you start sharing you will feel confident.
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correct - it is just our mind thing which stops us not to share but once you start sharing you will feel confident. Once you dont care what people think you will be more confident. You will also be used to it
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Information, Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
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Information
| 647 |
happy
| 0.010767 | 0.002391 | 0.03071 | 0.356846 | 0.321842 | 0.223823 | 0.053621 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
58
| 5 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group
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maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group
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You can also try different backgrounds in Zoom which will improve the way you will look.
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You can also try different backgrounds in Zoom which will improve the way you will look.
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Information
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Information
| 648 |
angry
| 0.963265 | 0.00152 | 0.000316 | 0.000242 | 0.019385 | 0.004274 | 0.010998 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
58
| 6 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea
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oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea
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Correct - you can start with your colleagues and then slowly you will start sharing in other meetings.
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Correct - you can start with your colleagues and then slowly you will start sharing in other meetings. no problem - practice always helps. Start small and then go big.
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Information, Providing Suggestions
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Information
| 649 |
neutral
| 0.098927 | 0.000428 | 0.000342 | 0.003785 | 0.628137 | 0.004352 | 0.264028 |
high empathy, high relevance
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58
| 7 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in?
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its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in?
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I am nearly 50 as well. People over 50s looks better and I am sure your appearance is good as well. It is just thinking.
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I am nearly 50 as well. People over 50s looks better and I am sure your appearance is good as well. It is just thinking.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 650 |
neutral
| 0.004912 | 0.000371 | 0.000104 | 0.005106 | 0.985863 | 0.002845 | 0.000798 |
high empathy, high relevance
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58
| 8 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in? hmm yes....my attitude and self defeating thoughts....i need to work on that, thank you for your encouragement
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hmm yes....my attitude and self defeating thoughts....i need to work on that, thank you for your encouragement
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It is all inside and outside appearance doesnt matter
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It is all inside and outside appearance doesnt matter
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 651 |
happy
| 0.023135 | 0.000104 | 0.000059 | 0.965452 | 0.009449 | 0.000918 | 0.000883 |
high empathy, high relevance
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| 9 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in? hmm yes....my attitude and self defeating thoughts....i need to work on that, thank you for your encouragement You know you're right there
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You know you're right there
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All people over 50s are graceful - honest opinion.
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All people over 50s are graceful - honest opinion.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 652 |
neutral
| 0.003809 | 0.000033 | 0.000121 | 0.000277 | 0.990646 | 0.000567 | 0.004546 |
high empathy, high relevance
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58
| 10 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in? hmm yes....my attitude and self defeating thoughts....i need to work on that, thank you for your encouragement You know you're right there maybe it's like a lot of things for me, that always seem worse until i try them, then i'm like "what was I so worried about"
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maybe it's like a lot of things for me, that always seem worse until i try them, then i'm like "what was I so worried about"
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No worries about anything and enjoy life.
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No worries about anything and enjoy life. 100% agreed - Initially, all looks difficult but by the time all becomes easy and we become so used to it.
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Information, Information
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Information
| 653 |
surprised
| 0.001622 | 0.001483 | 0.106174 | 0.001145 | 0.004268 | 0.02071 | 0.864598 |
high empathy, high relevance
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58
| 11 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in? hmm yes....my attitude and self defeating thoughts....i need to work on that, thank you for your encouragement You know you're right there maybe it's like a lot of things for me, that always seem worse until i try them, then i'm like "what was I so worried about" first world pandemic problems lol i can't wait to have meetings in person again, so much better than zoom
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first world pandemic problems lol i can't wait to have meetings in person again, so much better than zoom
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yes this will be over soon and we are also used to it.
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yes this will be over soon and we are also used to it.
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Others
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Others
| 654 |
happy
| 0.000217 | 0.000041 | 0.000009 | 0.999039 | 0.000509 | 0.000091 | 0.000094 |
high empathy, high relevance
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58
| 12 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in? hmm yes....my attitude and self defeating thoughts....i need to work on that, thank you for your encouragement You know you're right there maybe it's like a lot of things for me, that always seem worse until i try them, then i'm like "what was I so worried about" first world pandemic problems lol i can't wait to have meetings in person again, so much better than zoom but i'm grateful we have zoom in the meantime, zoom's better than a conference call
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but i'm grateful we have zoom in the meantime, zoom's better than a conference call
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100% agreed - In person is always way better than remote
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100% agreed - In person is always way better than remote
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Others
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Others
| 655 |
happy
| 0.000747 | 0.000252 | 0.000072 | 0.970003 | 0.0242 | 0.001462 | 0.003264 |
high empathy, high relevance
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58
| 13 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in? hmm yes....my attitude and self defeating thoughts....i need to work on that, thank you for your encouragement You know you're right there maybe it's like a lot of things for me, that always seem worse until i try them, then i'm like "what was I so worried about" first world pandemic problems lol i can't wait to have meetings in person again, so much better than zoom but i'm grateful we have zoom in the meantime, zoom's better than a conference call amen to that....it being over soon....we have all had to be so very patient thankyou for your help today. so I will first practise with a friend, and play around with backgrounds. then I will take the plunge in a low-key small meeting and see how it goes
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amen to that....it being over soon....we have all had to be so very patient thankyou for your help today. so I will first practise with a friend, and play around with backgrounds. then I will take the plunge in a low-key small meeting and see how it goes
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I am sure it will be under control before end of 2021 - Optimistic.
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I am sure it will be under control before end of 2021 - Optimistic.
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Others
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Others
| 656 |
neutral
| 0.000809 | 0.000048 | 0.000218 | 0.002729 | 0.993509 | 0.000451 | 0.002236 |
high empathy, high relevance
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58
| 14 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in? hmm yes....my attitude and self defeating thoughts....i need to work on that, thank you for your encouragement You know you're right there maybe it's like a lot of things for me, that always seem worse until i try them, then i'm like "what was I so worried about" first world pandemic problems lol i can't wait to have meetings in person again, so much better than zoom but i'm grateful we have zoom in the meantime, zoom's better than a conference call amen to that....it being over soon....we have all had to be so very patient thankyou for your help today. so I will first practise with a friend, and play around with backgrounds. then I will take the plunge in a low-key small meeting and see how it goes yes me too :) ok thank you again, stay safe and be well. appreciate your help! bye
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yes me too :) ok thank you again, stay safe and be well. appreciate your help! bye
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we just have to wait and follow all the guidelines.
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we just have to wait and follow all the guidelines.
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Others
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Others
| 657 |
happy
| 0.01242 | 0.000046 | 0.000031 | 0.987093 | 0.000221 | 0.000072 | 0.000116 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
58
| 15 |
shame
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appearance_anxiety
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I can't get a haircut due to pandemic, my hair is a disaster. I'm getting older and things are sagging. I am too shy to go on camera for my zoom meetings. And afraid to be rejeected once i am ready to date again.
| 4 | 3 | 5 | 5 |
Hello I'm ashamed of how I look which makes me anxious when I have to attend zoom meetings, I have to leave my camera off. It feels like cheating! I am badly in need of a haircut due to the pandemic...my short layered hair is now shoulder length shag lol...I hate the way I look right now and it gets me down. oh really? how long did it take you to get up the nerve....its been months and months of mic only for me lol...and the silly thing is the people i'm zooming with aren't particularly attractive so I shouldn't feel ashamed. in person i am much more confidant...would like to care less. care less about being on cam i mean some people look so comfortable and relaxed! I just get seized up with anxiety maybe i should take the plunge...it seems so silly to me because logically i am not in these meetings to impress anyone maybe i'll pick the least threatening meeting and start there...one that's a smaller group oh really? I haven't experimented with that. maybe I can get a friend to practise that with me that's a good idea its hard I'm getting older now (50's) and its hard seeing my appearance go downhill. But at least it's happening with my other friends too lol. Gravity is a bitch! what age group are you in? hmm yes....my attitude and self defeating thoughts....i need to work on that, thank you for your encouragement You know you're right there maybe it's like a lot of things for me, that always seem worse until i try them, then i'm like "what was I so worried about" first world pandemic problems lol i can't wait to have meetings in person again, so much better than zoom but i'm grateful we have zoom in the meantime, zoom's better than a conference call amen to that....it being over soon....we have all had to be so very patient thankyou for your help today. so I will first practise with a friend, and play around with backgrounds. then I will take the plunge in a low-key small meeting and see how it goes yes me too :) ok thank you again, stay safe and be well. appreciate your help! bye indeed
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indeed
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pls let me know if you need any help on sharing camera
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pls let me know if you need any help on sharing camera
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Question
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Question
| 658 |
neutral
| 0.011898 | 0.000068 | 0.000118 | 0.000314 | 0.970499 | 0.001389 | 0.015714 |
high empathy, high relevance
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59
| 1 |
anxiety
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academic_pressure
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I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
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Hi there.
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Hi there.
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hi how are you today? How can I assist you?
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hi how are you today? How can I assist you?
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Question
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Question
| 659 |
neutral
| 0.003445 | 0.00012 | 0.000088 | 0.009834 | 0.984733 | 0.000195 | 0.001585 |
high empathy, high relevance
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59
| 2 |
anxiety
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academic_pressure
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I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hi there. I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes.
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I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes.
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It seems you are working really hard and in stress due to your classes.
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It seems you are working really hard and in stress due to your classes.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 660 |
angry
| 0.528263 | 0.000498 | 0.003391 | 0.000361 | 0.000367 | 0.467 | 0.00012 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
59
| 3 |
anxiety
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academic_pressure
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I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hi there. I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes. Yes, I am working really hard.
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Yes, I am working really hard.
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The good part is you are giving your best and keep doing it. don't think too much about the result. These kind of dreams are the worries inside you.
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The good part is you are giving your best and keep doing it. don't think too much about the result. These kind of dreams are the worries inside you.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 661 |
neutral
| 0.027855 | 0.000643 | 0.004527 | 0.16366 | 0.722992 | 0.073925 | 0.006398 |
high empathy, high relevance
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59
| 4 |
anxiety
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academic_pressure
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I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hi there. I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes. Yes, I am working really hard. It's hard not to think about the result when the stress is interfering with my studying. I don't know how to manage the stress.
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It's hard not to think about the result when the stress is interfering with my studying. I don't know how to manage the stress.
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I can understand the situation you are going through. You are working hard and keep doing it and try to mediate for few minutes in a day. Hope that will release your stress.
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I can understand the situation you are going through. You are working hard and keep doing it and try to mediate for few minutes in a day. Hope that will release your stress.
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 662 |
sad
| 0.10063 | 0.000622 | 0.010751 | 0.000299 | 0.000844 | 0.886042 | 0.000811 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
59
| 5 |
anxiety
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academic_pressure
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I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hi there. I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes. Yes, I am working really hard. It's hard not to think about the result when the stress is interfering with my studying. I don't know how to manage the stress. Okay, meditation. I can do that. But what else can I do?
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Okay, meditation. I can do that. But what else can I do?
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When I am in stress I do mediation and it gives me relaxation and a new way to think. sometime our body and mind need peace to work better.
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When I am in stress I do mediation and it gives me relaxation and a new way to think. sometime our body and mind need peace to work better.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 663 |
neutral
| 0.009585 | 0.000127 | 0.00161 | 0.000508 | 0.911926 | 0.004987 | 0.071258 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
59
| 6 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
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I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hi there. I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes. Yes, I am working really hard. It's hard not to think about the result when the stress is interfering with my studying. I don't know how to manage the stress. Okay, meditation. I can do that. But what else can I do? I've never meditated before. I'm not sure how. I even worry about meditating, my goodness.
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I've never meditated before. I'm not sure how. I even worry about meditating, my goodness.
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Mediation is just to concentrate on your breath. There are so many videos on internet. You can take short break when you feel exhausted and talk to friend and family for a while. It will help you.
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Mediation is just to concentrate on your breath. There are so many videos on internet. You can take short break when you feel exhausted and talk to friend and family for a while. It will help you.
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Others
|
Others
| 664 |
surprised
| 0.000862 | 0.000556 | 0.01434 | 0.000639 | 0.00265 | 0.004212 | 0.976741 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
59
| 7 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
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I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hi there. I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes. Yes, I am working really hard. It's hard not to think about the result when the stress is interfering with my studying. I don't know how to manage the stress. Okay, meditation. I can do that. But what else can I do? I've never meditated before. I'm not sure how. I even worry about meditating, my goodness. Okay, I'll try that. Hopefully it helps. I'm just so worried about graduating now that I'm so close.
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Okay, I'll try that. Hopefully it helps. I'm just so worried about graduating now that I'm so close.
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You will graduate with flying colors. My best wishes are there with you. stay focused and calm. That's the mantra. Hope you will achieve whatever you want. Best wishes!
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You will graduate with flying colors. My best wishes are there with you. stay focused and calm. That's the mantra. Hope you will achieve whatever you want. Best wishes!
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Others
|
Others
| 665 |
fear
| 0.000173 | 0.000081 | 0.994841 | 0.000226 | 0.002335 | 0.002114 | 0.00023 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
59
| 8 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
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I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hi there. I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes. Yes, I am working really hard. It's hard not to think about the result when the stress is interfering with my studying. I don't know how to manage the stress. Okay, meditation. I can do that. But what else can I do? I've never meditated before. I'm not sure how. I even worry about meditating, my goodness. Okay, I'll try that. Hopefully it helps. I'm just so worried about graduating now that I'm so close. Thank you! I'm so close to getting my degree, and it's been a long time coming!
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Thank you! I'm so close to getting my degree, and it's been a long time coming!
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Is there something else that I can help you with? The time will go fast. don't worry
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Is there something else that I can help you with? The time will go fast. don't worry
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Question
|
Question
| 666 |
happy
| 0.000091 | 0.000018 | 0.000028 | 0.999731 | 0.000033 | 0.000046 | 0.000053 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
59
| 9 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
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I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hi there. I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes. Yes, I am working really hard. It's hard not to think about the result when the stress is interfering with my studying. I don't know how to manage the stress. Okay, meditation. I can do that. But what else can I do? I've never meditated before. I'm not sure how. I even worry about meditating, my goodness. Okay, I'll try that. Hopefully it helps. I'm just so worried about graduating now that I'm so close. Thank you! I'm so close to getting my degree, and it's been a long time coming! I know, only two months left! And I only had two classes left this semester, so maybe that's why I keep dreaming I've forgotten a class. Did you have a similar experience sometime?
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I know, only two months left! And I only had two classes left this semester, so maybe that's why I keep dreaming I've forgotten a class. Did you have a similar experience sometime?
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You can do it I am pretty sure. Keep working on your goal.
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You can do it I am pretty sure. Keep working on your goal. I had such kind of anxiety when I was in college. The best way to come out from it is to stay focused and calm.
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Reflection of feelings
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 667 |
surprised
| 0.000697 | 0.000406 | 0.037152 | 0.003121 | 0.007909 | 0.007107 | 0.943608 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
59
| 10 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I keep having dreams that I've forgotten to go to one of my classes and I won't graduate on time.
| 3 | 2 | 4 | 4 |
Hi there. I'm feeling really stressed. I'm about to graduate from college, but my last two classes are killing me. I keep having dreams that I've been forgetting to go to a third class and now I won't graduate. It's keeping me from being able to concentrate on the real classes. Yes, I am working really hard. It's hard not to think about the result when the stress is interfering with my studying. I don't know how to manage the stress. Okay, meditation. I can do that. But what else can I do? I've never meditated before. I'm not sure how. I even worry about meditating, my goodness. Okay, I'll try that. Hopefully it helps. I'm just so worried about graduating now that I'm so close. Thank you! I'm so close to getting my degree, and it's been a long time coming! I know, only two months left! And I only had two classes left this semester, so maybe that's why I keep dreaming I've forgotten a class. Did you have a similar experience sometime? It does make me feel better that it's a pretty universal feeling.
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It does make me feel better that it's a pretty universal feeling.
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yes, It happen with all human being I believe.
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yes, It happen with all human being I believe.
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Others
|
Others
| 668 |
happy
| 0.000374 | 0.000083 | 0.000009 | 0.995798 | 0.002804 | 0.000352 | 0.000579 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
60
| 1 |
depression
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ongoing_depression
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I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it
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Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it
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That is very understandable. Depression is tough to deal with.
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That is very understandable. Depression is tough to deal with. Do you have specific things that are causing you sadness right now or is it an overall feeling of being sad?
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 670 |
sad
| 0.000194 | 0.000119 | 0.000079 | 0.000033 | 0.000558 | 0.99895 | 0.000067 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
60
| 2 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
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I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know?
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It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know?
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I totally understand. Losing your job is a very rough thing to go through, I'm sorry that happened to you. Feeling constantly at red alert is taxing both mentally and physically.
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I totally understand. Losing your job is a very rough thing to go through, I'm sorry that happened to you. Feeling constantly at red alert is taxing both mentally and physically. There is a concept called Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and sometimes I find it useful to think about if my needs are being met, and which is lacking. Which is to say, obviously financial security is your primary need at the moment, but there are other needs you must attend to as well, including your physical comforts. In times of great stress and upheaval, there is only so much you can do. The rest is worry, a hamster running in a wheel, a huge output of energy that does nothing at all.
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Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance
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Reflection of feelings
| 671 |
sad
| 0.004669 | 0.000166 | 0.288784 | 0.000248 | 0.001966 | 0.703762 | 0.000406 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
60
| 3 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
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I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know? Yeah that makes sense but I've spent so much time thinking about my finances that I've sort of burned myself out Like I have no energy even to be thankful for the other little stuff
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Yeah that makes sense but I've spent so much time thinking about my finances that I've sort of burned myself out Like I have no energy even to be thankful for the other little stuff
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That makes sense. You sound emotionally exhausted.
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That makes sense. You sound emotionally exhausted.
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 672 |
sad
| 0.141213 | 0.001461 | 0.000872 | 0.036732 | 0.236122 | 0.379022 | 0.204579 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
60
| 4 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
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I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know? Yeah that makes sense but I've spent so much time thinking about my finances that I've sort of burned myself out Like I have no energy even to be thankful for the other little stuff Definitely, I feel like I could sleep forever but with my kids to worry about I don't have that option
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Definitely, I feel like I could sleep forever but with my kids to worry about I don't have that option
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Gratitude is one of those things, I've found, that is self-perpetuating. Even if you begin by doing it robotically, eventually your mind and heart will want to be more sincerely grateful. I have in the past challenged myself to find five things to be grateful for in the morning and write them down. Whether those things are "I have hot coffee and electricity" or "I won $1000 for free", they will begin to start a small fire of joy.
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Gratitude is one of those things, I've found, that is self-perpetuating. Even if you begin by doing it robotically, eventually your mind and heart will want to be more sincerely grateful. I have in the past challenged myself to find five things to be grateful for in the morning and write them down. Whether those things are "I have hot coffee and electricity" or "I won $1000 for free", they will begin to start a small fire of joy.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 673 |
sad
| 0.035172 | 0.000359 | 0.007297 | 0.000953 | 0.088777 | 0.864897 | 0.002546 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
60
| 5 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
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I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know? Yeah that makes sense but I've spent so much time thinking about my finances that I've sort of burned myself out Like I have no energy even to be thankful for the other little stuff Definitely, I feel like I could sleep forever but with my kids to worry about I don't have that option Messages could work, I could stick them around and I guess they coudl help not just me but my little ones too because I'm sure my moods been affecting them as well
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Messages could work, I could stick them around and I guess they coudl help not just me but my little ones too because I'm sure my moods been affecting them as well
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That sounds like a great idea! It sounds like you care a lot about your kids, I bet it's easy for you to be grateful for them :-)
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That sounds like a great idea! It sounds like you care a lot about your kids, I bet it's easy for you to be grateful for them :-) And I know that they are grateful for you, whether they are able to articulate that or not
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 674 |
neutral
| 0.002842 | 0.000098 | 0.000349 | 0.000293 | 0.974312 | 0.012828 | 0.009277 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
60
| 6 |
depression
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ongoing_depression
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I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know? Yeah that makes sense but I've spent so much time thinking about my finances that I've sort of burned myself out Like I have no energy even to be thankful for the other little stuff Definitely, I feel like I could sleep forever but with my kids to worry about I don't have that option Messages could work, I could stick them around and I guess they coudl help not just me but my little ones too because I'm sure my moods been affecting them as well Absolutely the little terrors are the reason I get up in the morning. I can't let them down, you know Their dad's not arpund so its just us I'm all they've got
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Absolutely the little terrors are the reason I get up in the morning. I can't let them down, you know Their dad's not arpund so its just us I'm all they've got
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Well that is an enormous amount of responsibility that has been placed upon your shoulders, but your attitude seems extremely pleasant and positive. It does not sound easy, but you should make sure you build in some time for yourself if you can.
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Well that is an enormous amount of responsibility that has been placed upon your shoulders, but your attitude seems extremely pleasant and positive. It does not sound easy, but you should make sure you build in some time for yourself if you can.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 675 |
neutral
| 0.053151 | 0.010537 | 0.450161 | 0.001384 | 0.470818 | 0.010968 | 0.002982 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
60
| 7 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
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I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know? Yeah that makes sense but I've spent so much time thinking about my finances that I've sort of burned myself out Like I have no energy even to be thankful for the other little stuff Definitely, I feel like I could sleep forever but with my kids to worry about I don't have that option Messages could work, I could stick them around and I guess they coudl help not just me but my little ones too because I'm sure my moods been affecting them as well Absolutely the little terrors are the reason I get up in the morning. I can't let them down, you know Their dad's not arpund so its just us I'm all they've got I'm going to try, the messages idea is a really good one so I think I'll give that a try. I mean I am grateful for my kids and I guess things could be worse I do still have some savings left and I can always try to get another job
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I'm going to try, the messages idea is a really good one so I think I'll give that a try. I mean I am grateful for my kids and I guess things could be worse I do still have some savings left and I can always try to get another job
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You definitely have options, but your situation is still tough, and you deserve relief where you can get it.
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You definitely have options, but your situation is still tough, and you deserve relief where you can get it.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 676 |
neutral
| 0.00227 | 0.00028 | 0.000388 | 0.423511 | 0.541883 | 0.017724 | 0.013944 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
60
| 8 |
depression
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ongoing_depression
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I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know? Yeah that makes sense but I've spent so much time thinking about my finances that I've sort of burned myself out Like I have no energy even to be thankful for the other little stuff Definitely, I feel like I could sleep forever but with my kids to worry about I don't have that option Messages could work, I could stick them around and I guess they coudl help not just me but my little ones too because I'm sure my moods been affecting them as well Absolutely the little terrors are the reason I get up in the morning. I can't let them down, you know Their dad's not arpund so its just us I'm all they've got I'm going to try, the messages idea is a really good one so I think I'll give that a try. I mean I am grateful for my kids and I guess things could be worse I do still have some savings left and I can always try to get another job I'll keep that in mind but thank you for taking the time to let me get things off my chest It really helps
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I'll keep that in mind but thank you for taking the time to let me get things off my chest It really helps
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Of course, I am happy if I was able to help. You have a good heart and love your kids, you stay strong, you can do this :-)
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Of course, I am happy if I was able to help. You have a good heart and love your kids, you stay strong, you can do this :-)
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 677 |
happy
| 0.038886 | 0.000215 | 0.000522 | 0.913948 | 0.03041 | 0.013843 | 0.002176 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
60
| 9 |
depression
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ongoing_depression
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I've recently lost my job due to the covid situation and my funds are dwindling by the day while we've been out into another lockdown
| 3 | 2 | 5 | 5 |
Hi, i've been feeling really depressed lately and I'd like to talk to someone about it It's a bit of everything. I've recently lost my job and I'm just really worried about how my bills are going to get paid. I feel so tired, you know? Yeah that makes sense but I've spent so much time thinking about my finances that I've sort of burned myself out Like I have no energy even to be thankful for the other little stuff Definitely, I feel like I could sleep forever but with my kids to worry about I don't have that option Messages could work, I could stick them around and I guess they coudl help not just me but my little ones too because I'm sure my moods been affecting them as well Absolutely the little terrors are the reason I get up in the morning. I can't let them down, you know Their dad's not arpund so its just us I'm all they've got I'm going to try, the messages idea is a really good one so I think I'll give that a try. I mean I am grateful for my kids and I guess things could be worse I do still have some savings left and I can always try to get another job I'll keep that in mind but thank you for taking the time to let me get things off my chest It really helps Thank you and I'll be trying! I hope you have awesome day and thanks again
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Thank you and I'll be trying! I hope you have awesome day and thanks again
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You're welcome, you too!
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You're welcome, you too!
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Others
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Others
| 678 |
happy
| 0.000448 | 0.000018 | 0.000015 | 0.999422 | 0.000036 | 0.000024 | 0.000038 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 1 |
sadness
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issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter
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hello i am so worried about my daughter
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Hello
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Hello I am so sorry to hear.
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Others, Others
|
Others
| 679 |
fear
| 0.000233 | 0.000065 | 0.994214 | 0.000084 | 0.000943 | 0.003947 | 0.000515 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 2 |
sadness
|
issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
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she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once
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That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
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That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 680 |
angry
| 0.690222 | 0.002233 | 0.029482 | 0.000532 | 0.003263 | 0.273545 | 0.000723 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 3 |
sadness
|
issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
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yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient
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I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.
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I love your patience level and would like to keep it going. Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing, Reflection of feelings
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 681 |
neutral
| 0.100063 | 0.001268 | 0.000852 | 0.000274 | 0.86486 | 0.026198 | 0.006485 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 4 |
sadness
|
issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
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i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way
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I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
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I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 682 |
sad
| 0.000636 | 0.000217 | 0.000111 | 0.000038 | 0.001876 | 0.996388 | 0.000734 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 5 |
sadness
|
issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
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indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?
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You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
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You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 683 |
fear
| 0.000217 | 0.000229 | 0.996139 | 0.000169 | 0.000867 | 0.001856 | 0.000524 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 6 |
sadness
|
issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds? CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
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CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it
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Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
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Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 684 |
sad
| 0.039512 | 0.006248 | 0.006068 | 0.000212 | 0.086472 | 0.859141 | 0.002348 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 7 |
sadness
|
issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds? CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
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I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me
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You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.
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You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.
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Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 685 |
neutral
| 0.020672 | 0.000927 | 0.000248 | 0.006701 | 0.957678 | 0.011081 | 0.002693 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 8 |
sadness
|
issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds? CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me i really appreciate your encouragement i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps have you any other suggestions for me?
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i really appreciate your encouragement i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps have you any other suggestions for me?
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Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.
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Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 686 |
sad
| 0.000106 | 0.000024 | 0.000115 | 0.000776 | 0.000245 | 0.998487 | 0.000247 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 9 |
sadness
|
issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds? CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me i really appreciate your encouragement i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps have you any other suggestions for me? unfortunately i cannot afford to move the rents are too high in her city
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unfortunately i cannot afford to move the rents are too high in her city
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That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help.
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That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 687 |
sad
| 0.005355 | 0.000627 | 0.000526 | 0.000039 | 0.003181 | 0.989971 | 0.000301 |
high empathy, high relevance
|
61
| 10 |
sadness
|
issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds? CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me i really appreciate your encouragement i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps have you any other suggestions for me? unfortunately i cannot afford to move the rents are too high in her city hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion
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hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion
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Sorry to hear that I thought close contact will make her vigil and makes her more responsible.
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Sorry to hear that I thought close contact will make her vigil and makes her more responsible.
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 688 |
angry
| 0.983916 | 0.006474 | 0.000106 | 0.000095 | 0.007965 | 0.001145 | 0.000299 |
high empathy, high relevance
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61
| 11 |
sadness
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issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds? CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me i really appreciate your encouragement i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps have you any other suggestions for me? unfortunately i cannot afford to move the rents are too high in her city hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion I'll tell you though....this was the issue I chose....but it's a past issue....she is now 3 months clean and doing well :) i am so relieved and happy for her just wanted to end up with some good news for you :)
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I'll tell you though....this was the issue I chose....but it's a past issue....she is now 3 months clean and doing well :) i am so relieved and happy for her just wanted to end up with some good news for you :)
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Oh very nice to hear and super proud of her. I would like to thank you as well.
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Oh very nice to hear and super proud of her. I would like to thank you as well.
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Others
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Others
| 689 |
happy
| 0.00011 | 0.000038 | 0.000008 | 0.999064 | 0.00055 | 0.000107 | 0.000123 |
high empathy, high relevance
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61
| 12 |
sadness
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issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds? CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me i really appreciate your encouragement i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps have you any other suggestions for me? unfortunately i cannot afford to move the rents are too high in her city hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion I'll tell you though....this was the issue I chose....but it's a past issue....she is now 3 months clean and doing well :) i am so relieved and happy for her just wanted to end up with some good news for you :) Thank you so much for your help today! All the best
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Thank you so much for your help today! All the best
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You were directly and indirectly helping her.
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You were directly and indirectly helping her.
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Others
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Others
| 690 |
happy
| 0.000317 | 0.000015 | 0.000011 | 0.999493 | 0.000091 | 0.00002 | 0.000053 |
high empathy, high relevance
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61
| 13 |
sadness
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issues_with_children
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my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle. she does not want help. it's heartbreaking.
| 5 | 3 | 5 | 4 |
hello i am so worried about my daughter she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds? CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me i really appreciate your encouragement i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps have you any other suggestions for me? unfortunately i cannot afford to move the rents are too high in her city hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion I'll tell you though....this was the issue I chose....but it's a past issue....she is now 3 months clean and doing well :) i am so relieved and happy for her just wanted to end up with some good news for you :) Thank you so much for your help today! All the best yes...was a tough slog lol Thank you again :) bye
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yes...was a tough slog lol Thank you again :) bye
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You are very welcome. Strong and Beautiful.
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You are very welcome. Strong and Beautiful. Bye
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 691 |
happy
| 0.002072 | 0.000032 | 0.000016 | 0.997711 | 0.000072 | 0.000043 | 0.000053 |
high empathy, high relevance
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62
| 1 |
depression
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ongoing_depression
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Working in a job I hate, parents arguing,
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 5 |
i'm kind of tired, you?
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i'm kind of tired, you?
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I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
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I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?
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Question
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Question
| 693 |
angry
| 0.931456 | 0.000321 | 0.00025 | 0.001094 | 0.047784 | 0.011988 | 0.007105 |
high empathy, high relevance
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