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990
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anxiety
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ongoing_depression
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I've had some degree of depression for a long time. Longer than this damn pandemic. I've always been a homebody but not leaving the house at all for almost three months was a lot. A lot has happened over the past year and I'm not sure how to handle it all. I feel alone even when there are people around.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello Okay. How are you? It really, really is. Things just pile up, you know? It's a combination of things. I have no idea what I'm doing most days, just kind of going through the motions. Kind of like Groundhog Day, repeating the same day over and over with slightly different variations. Trying to get things done and taken care of, thinking I'm doing my best and feeling like it's never good enough. Feeling like I'm failing all the time. It's been a long time since I did that, I can't even remember when I don't get many opportunities like that. Anything really. I have two kids, neither of which is in school yet so they're with me all the time. It's very rare that I have someone to watch them for me so I can do....anything by myself. One of my good friends got married recently and my parents watched them for me so I could go to her bachelorette party and wedding without them. That was the first time I'd gone anywhere without them in....over a year
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Anything really. I have two kids, neither of which is in school yet so they're with me all the time. It's very rare that I have someone to watch them for me so I can do....anything by myself. One of my good friends got married recently and my parents watched them for me so I could go to her bachelorette party and wedding without them. That was the first time I'd gone anywhere without them in....over a year
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Ah weddings, did you have fun?
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Ah weddings, did you have fun?
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Question
|
Question
| 11,572 |
happy
| 0.001579 | 0.001072 | 0.00052 | 0.910544 | 0.014104 | 0.068558 | 0.003623 |
low empathy, low relevance
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990
| 7 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
|
I've had some degree of depression for a long time. Longer than this damn pandemic. I've always been a homebody but not leaving the house at all for almost three months was a lot. A lot has happened over the past year and I'm not sure how to handle it all. I feel alone even when there are people around.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello Okay. How are you? It really, really is. Things just pile up, you know? It's a combination of things. I have no idea what I'm doing most days, just kind of going through the motions. Kind of like Groundhog Day, repeating the same day over and over with slightly different variations. Trying to get things done and taken care of, thinking I'm doing my best and feeling like it's never good enough. Feeling like I'm failing all the time. It's been a long time since I did that, I can't even remember when I don't get many opportunities like that. Anything really. I have two kids, neither of which is in school yet so they're with me all the time. It's very rare that I have someone to watch them for me so I can do....anything by myself. One of my good friends got married recently and my parents watched them for me so I could go to her bachelorette party and wedding without them. That was the first time I'd gone anywhere without them in....over a year I did. I had a really good time. It was weird being out without them, but it was fun
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I did. I had a really good time. It was weird being out without them, but it was fun
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Nice! Well, two kids is A LOT, especially since they aren't in school yet. You are dealing with the care and growth of the most complex organism on this planet...times two! That's incredible. First of all, give yourself a pat on the back for that. Secondly, is it ok if i ask if you felt guilty for having fun without them? Often times guilt robs us of the ability to take care of ourselves, which happens to me all the time.
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Nice! Well, two kids is A LOT, especially since they aren't in school yet. You are dealing with the care and growth of the most complex organism on this planet...times two! That's incredible. First of all, give yourself a pat on the back for that. Secondly, is it ok if i ask if you felt guilty for having fun without them? Often times guilt robs us of the ability to take care of ourselves, which happens to me all the time.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,573 |
happy
| 0.000838 | 0.001951 | 0.007459 | 0.875137 | 0.00059 | 0.000517 | 0.113508 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
990
| 8 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
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I've had some degree of depression for a long time. Longer than this damn pandemic. I've always been a homebody but not leaving the house at all for almost three months was a lot. A lot has happened over the past year and I'm not sure how to handle it all. I feel alone even when there are people around.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello Okay. How are you? It really, really is. Things just pile up, you know? It's a combination of things. I have no idea what I'm doing most days, just kind of going through the motions. Kind of like Groundhog Day, repeating the same day over and over with slightly different variations. Trying to get things done and taken care of, thinking I'm doing my best and feeling like it's never good enough. Feeling like I'm failing all the time. It's been a long time since I did that, I can't even remember when I don't get many opportunities like that. Anything really. I have two kids, neither of which is in school yet so they're with me all the time. It's very rare that I have someone to watch them for me so I can do....anything by myself. One of my good friends got married recently and my parents watched them for me so I could go to her bachelorette party and wedding without them. That was the first time I'd gone anywhere without them in....over a year I did. I had a really good time. It was weird being out without them, but it was fun I'm working on that but I feel guilty wanting time to myself to do things
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I'm working on that but I feel guilty wanting time to myself to do things
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I think that's a systemic problem. Guilt is this powerful check when we do things that are wrong but self love is not wrong. When you constantly take care of others, you might forget to take care of yourself. We are only able to give the best version of ourselves when we feel validated. Perhaps there is a daycare or at home assistance program that will help give you the time to remember how great you are! Do you have some friends or close relatives that can talk with?
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I think that's a systemic problem. Guilt is this powerful check when we do things that are wrong but self love is not wrong. When you constantly take care of others, you might forget to take care of yourself. We are only able to give the best version of ourselves when we feel validated. Perhaps there is a daycare or at home assistance program that will help give you the time to remember how great you are! Do you have some friends or close relatives that can talk with?
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,574 |
sad
| 0.000159 | 0.000253 | 0.000031 | 0.000079 | 0.000583 | 0.99882 | 0.000075 |
low empathy, low relevance
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990
| 9 |
anxiety
|
ongoing_depression
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I've had some degree of depression for a long time. Longer than this damn pandemic. I've always been a homebody but not leaving the house at all for almost three months was a lot. A lot has happened over the past year and I'm not sure how to handle it all. I feel alone even when there are people around.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello Okay. How are you? It really, really is. Things just pile up, you know? It's a combination of things. I have no idea what I'm doing most days, just kind of going through the motions. Kind of like Groundhog Day, repeating the same day over and over with slightly different variations. Trying to get things done and taken care of, thinking I'm doing my best and feeling like it's never good enough. Feeling like I'm failing all the time. It's been a long time since I did that, I can't even remember when I don't get many opportunities like that. Anything really. I have two kids, neither of which is in school yet so they're with me all the time. It's very rare that I have someone to watch them for me so I can do....anything by myself. One of my good friends got married recently and my parents watched them for me so I could go to her bachelorette party and wedding without them. That was the first time I'd gone anywhere without them in....over a year I did. I had a really good time. It was weird being out without them, but it was fun I'm working on that but I feel guilty wanting time to myself to do things Not really. They're all dealing with they're own issues
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Not really. They're all dealing with they're own issues
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Have you asked them? I don't mean to be rude, but I have trouble asking for help and sometimes asking people for help seems like this huge, monumental task. But people can often surprise you. Of course, If you have, then I'd suggest looking up some motivational apps and trying meditation. While it can be hard with two young kids, meditation, even for only a few minutes, will help you relax through your doubt long enough to handle the challenges of the day. When you say you feel like your failing, do you think it is because you hold yourself a standard that is hard to reach?
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Have you asked them? I don't mean to be rude, but I have trouble asking for help and sometimes asking people for help seems like this huge, monumental task. But people can often surprise you. Of course, If you have, then I'd suggest looking up some motivational apps and trying meditation. While it can be hard with two young kids, meditation, even for only a few minutes, will help you relax through your doubt long enough to handle the challenges of the day. When you say you feel like your failing, do you think it is because you hold yourself a standard that is hard to reach?
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Question
|
Question
| 11,575 |
neutral
| 0.111483 | 0.000619 | 0.000986 | 0.000726 | 0.719028 | 0.155068 | 0.01209 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1001
| 1 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
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I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days.
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I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days.
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I understand. Is this related to the pandemic or is it something separate? I am sure that the pandemic has not helped, though!
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I understand. Is this related to the pandemic or is it something separate? I am sure that the pandemic has not helped, though!
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,706 |
sad
| 0.000236 | 0.000204 | 0.000074 | 0.000027 | 0.000283 | 0.999134 | 0.000041 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 2 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home.
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It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home.
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Oh I can certainly relate to that one! I've gained a stone and a half in the last year. All this sitting around is not good for us!
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Oh I can certainly relate to that one! I've gained a stone and a half in the last year. All this sitting around is not good for us!
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Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 11,707 |
sad
| 0.002131 | 0.000199 | 0.000447 | 0.000292 | 0.003397 | 0.992422 | 0.001112 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 3 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me.
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It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me.
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Sometimes just having someone to talk to who knows how you are feeling can be really helpful I think.
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Sometimes just having someone to talk to who knows how you are feeling can be really helpful I think.
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Others
|
Others
| 11,708 |
happy
| 0.000247 | 0.000119 | 0.00004 | 0.991839 | 0.003516 | 0.003137 | 0.001104 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 4 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon..
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It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon..
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Can you make a list of all the things that you hope will be better next year so you can tick them off one by one?
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Can you make a list of all the things that you hope will be better next year so you can tick them off one by one?
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,709 |
sad
| 0.000273 | 0.000116 | 0.000087 | 0.00022 | 0.000232 | 0.998994 | 0.000079 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 5 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon.. 1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation
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1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation
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Well, the first and third one are out of your control really but you could make a start on the first one today if you liked :)
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Well, the first and third one are out of your control really but you could make a start on the first one today if you liked :)
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,710 |
neutral
| 0.001546 | 0.000058 | 0.000144 | 0.001938 | 0.991401 | 0.000874 | 0.00404 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 6 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon.. 1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly.
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It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly.
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I can understand that. Perhaps you could join an exercise class or similar?
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I can understand that. Perhaps you could join an exercise class or similar?
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Others
|
Others
| 11,711 |
sad
| 0.000156 | 0.00016 | 0.000175 | 0.00005 | 0.00029 | 0.998823 | 0.000344 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 7 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon.. 1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly. That's a pretty good idea. Have you ever done something like that?
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That's a pretty good idea. Have you ever done something like that?
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I took an aerobics class once. It was quite fun and it was good exercise.
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I took an aerobics class once. It was quite fun and it was good exercise.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 11,712 |
neutral
| 0.026323 | 0.000284 | 0.000112 | 0.001539 | 0.746246 | 0.001772 | 0.223724 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 8 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon.. 1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly. That's a pretty good idea. Have you ever done something like that? That does sound like fun. Do you have any other suggestions?
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That does sound like fun. Do you have any other suggestions?
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Well, it's maybe not the best time to be taking on a financial commitment but have you ever considered adopting a dog? Good company and good exercise
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Well, it's maybe not the best time to be taking on a financial commitment but have you ever considered adopting a dog? Good company and good exercise
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Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,713 |
happy
| 0.003735 | 0.000118 | 0.000023 | 0.988965 | 0.005703 | 0.000136 | 0.00132 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 9 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon.. 1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly. That's a pretty good idea. Have you ever done something like that? That does sound like fun. Do you have any other suggestions? Actually, I have a cat!
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Actually, I have a cat!
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Ah I have two - they are wonderful company. Alas you can't really walk with them though :)
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Ah I have two - they are wonderful company. Alas you can't really walk with them though :)
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Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 11,714 |
surprised
| 0.008933 | 0.000622 | 0.000108 | 0.343577 | 0.100545 | 0.000881 | 0.545334 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 10 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon.. 1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly. That's a pretty good idea. Have you ever done something like that? That does sound like fun. Do you have any other suggestions? Actually, I have a cat! They are great company. Sometimes when I am really feeling down, I remember that my cat needs me, so I need to stay strong.
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They are great company. Sometimes when I am really feeling down, I remember that my cat needs me, so I need to stay strong.
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Pets are great like that. Do you perhaps have a neighbour whose dog you could walk if you can't get one of your own?
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Pets are great like that. Do you perhaps have a neighbour whose dog you could walk if you can't get one of your own?
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Others
|
Others
| 11,715 |
sad
| 0.000339 | 0.00009 | 0.000059 | 0.000194 | 0.00585 | 0.993098 | 0.000369 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 11 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon.. 1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly. That's a pretty good idea. Have you ever done something like that? That does sound like fun. Do you have any other suggestions? Actually, I have a cat! They are great company. Sometimes when I am really feeling down, I remember that my cat needs me, so I need to stay strong. That's a great idea. I just moved into a new apartment complex a couple weeks ago. Maybe I can get to know my neighbors. A lot of them have dogs.
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That's a great idea. I just moved into a new apartment complex a couple weeks ago. Maybe I can get to know my neighbors. A lot of them have dogs.
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It's a great way to make new friends too!
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It's a great way to make new friends too! Would you consider doing some voluntary work whilst you are out of work?
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Others, Providing Suggestions
|
Others
| 11,716 |
neutral
| 0.008828 | 0.00032 | 0.000355 | 0.015049 | 0.944721 | 0.001273 | 0.029455 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 12 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon.. 1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly. That's a pretty good idea. Have you ever done something like that? That does sound like fun. Do you have any other suggestions? Actually, I have a cat! They are great company. Sometimes when I am really feeling down, I remember that my cat needs me, so I need to stay strong. That's a great idea. I just moved into a new apartment complex a couple weeks ago. Maybe I can get to know my neighbors. A lot of them have dogs. That's also a good idea. I know a lot of food banks around me are in need of volunteers.
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That's also a good idea. I know a lot of food banks around me are in need of volunteers.
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I think it would be a really worthwhile thing to do and you would get to meet new people too
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I think it would be a really worthwhile thing to do and you would get to meet new people too I hope I have been able to help you a little!
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Others, Others
|
Others
| 11,717 |
neutral
| 0.003865 | 0.000122 | 0.000177 | 0.000334 | 0.982845 | 0.002797 | 0.00986 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1001
| 13 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
I have been feeling down and depressed every day for months, mainly due to self-esteem issues.
| 5 | 4 | 2 | 5 |
I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days. It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home. It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me. It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon.. 1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly. That's a pretty good idea. Have you ever done something like that? That does sound like fun. Do you have any other suggestions? Actually, I have a cat! They are great company. Sometimes when I am really feeling down, I remember that my cat needs me, so I need to stay strong. That's a great idea. I just moved into a new apartment complex a couple weeks ago. Maybe I can get to know my neighbors. A lot of them have dogs. That's also a good idea. I know a lot of food banks around me are in need of volunteers. I agree. I feel like I have a bunch of new ideas to start feeling better. I appreciate you talking to me.
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I agree. I feel like I have a bunch of new ideas to start feeling better. I appreciate you talking to me.
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You are very welcome, it was my pleasure. Have a great day!
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You are very welcome, it was my pleasure. Have a great day!
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Others
|
Others
| 11,718 |
happy
| 0.000065 | 0.000018 | 0.000005 | 0.999656 | 0.00015 | 0.00004 | 0.000067 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1003
| 1 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today
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Hi, I am not feeling so well today
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I am so sorry your not feeling well
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I am so sorry your not feeling well It's been cold and dreary here always makes me feel run down It's been cold and dreary here always makes me feel run down
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Restatement or Paraphrasing, Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,730 |
happy
| 0.007375 | 0.001796 | 0.000188 | 0.853865 | 0.029205 | 0.103029 | 0.004542 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 2 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck
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What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck
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Oh I know that feeling it can be rough I have felt that way lately.
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Oh I know that feeling it can be rough I have felt that way lately. What in your life has you feeling stuck?
|
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,731 |
sad
| 0.012128 | 0.000464 | 0.000121 | 0.000248 | 0.015579 | 0.968374 | 0.003087 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 3 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit
|
Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit
|
I think we all can feel that right now and can be hard
|
I think we all can feel that right now and can be hard What about your job has you worried?
|
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,732 |
fear
| 0.000156 | 0.00015 | 0.989231 | 0.00018 | 0.002877 | 0.00702 | 0.000386 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 4 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay.
|
Reduction in hours and less pay.
|
I been there recently myself the entire workforce as we know it is changing. Have you thought of looking for other employment?
|
I been there recently myself the entire workforce as we know it is changing. Have you thought of looking for other employment?
|
Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 11,733 |
sad
| 0.034036 | 0.002048 | 0.00239 | 0.000133 | 0.001344 | 0.959616 | 0.000432 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 5 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay. It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified.
|
It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified.
|
Have you thought of working from home alot of companies are starting to hire remote workers
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Have you thought of working from home alot of companies are starting to hire remote workers There are several reputable sites that offer MOOCS it is a type of certification you can get in different fields some you can learn for free and only have to buy a certificate if you really need it
|
Information, Information
|
Information
| 11,734 |
surprised
| 0.001053 | 0.000281 | 0.000794 | 0.02116 | 0.002916 | 0.000993 | 0.972802 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 6 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay. It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified. Oh wow! That is awesome. I should definitely look into certifications for different fields. I appreciate that. I have so much student loan debt im nervous to take on more loans for extra courses .
|
Oh wow! That is awesome. I should definitely look into certifications for different fields. I appreciate that. I have so much student loan debt im nervous to take on more loans for extra courses .
|
I would definitely look into it
|
I would definitely look into it I know the pandemic is a very stressful time for everyone but we need to do our best to make our lives better and not let it break us
|
Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,735 |
fear
| 0.000061 | 0.000062 | 0.978362 | 0.020484 | 0.00008 | 0.000225 | 0.000726 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 7 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay. It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified. Oh wow! That is awesome. I should definitely look into certifications for different fields. I appreciate that. I have so much student loan debt im nervous to take on more loans for extra courses . You are right. I cant give up. I will definitely look into certifications and try not to get down.
|
You are right. I cant give up. I will definitely look into certifications and try not to get down.
|
There you go!
|
There you go!
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,736 |
neutral
| 0.005876 | 0.000042 | 0.00046 | 0.000587 | 0.988989 | 0.001993 | 0.002053 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 8 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay. It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified. Oh wow! That is awesome. I should definitely look into certifications for different fields. I appreciate that. I have so much student loan debt im nervous to take on more loans for extra courses . You are right. I cant give up. I will definitely look into certifications and try not to get down. I know there are more people out there right there struggling due to the pandemic I am still nervous about the loans.
|
I know there are more people out there right there struggling due to the pandemic I am still nervous about the loans.
|
So true and even I get worried but I have to just keep calm and remind myself things like this have happened before and will again.
|
So true and even I get worried but I have to just keep calm and remind myself things like this have happened before and will again. have you looked into deferment?
|
Self-disclosure, Information
|
Self-disclosure
| 11,737 |
fear
| 0.000038 | 0.000046 | 0.999621 | 0.000082 | 0.000071 | 0.000088 | 0.000054 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 9 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay. It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified. Oh wow! That is awesome. I should definitely look into certifications for different fields. I appreciate that. I have so much student loan debt im nervous to take on more loans for extra courses . You are right. I cant give up. I will definitely look into certifications and try not to get down. I know there are more people out there right there struggling due to the pandemic I am still nervous about the loans. That is a great suggestion.
|
That is a great suggestion.
|
I'm glad
|
I'm glad
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,738 |
neutral
| 0.060919 | 0.000176 | 0.000151 | 0.004904 | 0.87519 | 0.002702 | 0.055958 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 10 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay. It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified. Oh wow! That is awesome. I should definitely look into certifications for different fields. I appreciate that. I have so much student loan debt im nervous to take on more loans for extra courses . You are right. I cant give up. I will definitely look into certifications and try not to get down. I know there are more people out there right there struggling due to the pandemic I am still nervous about the loans. That is a great suggestion. Youre right, I should keep researching and educating myself.
|
Youre right, I should keep researching and educating myself.
|
Exactly you got this never know you may come out with a whole new career!
|
Exactly you got this never know you may come out with a whole new career!
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,739 |
neutral
| 0.019313 | 0.000157 | 0.000358 | 0.000226 | 0.969493 | 0.001075 | 0.009378 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 11 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay. It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified. Oh wow! That is awesome. I should definitely look into certifications for different fields. I appreciate that. I have so much student loan debt im nervous to take on more loans for extra courses . You are right. I cant give up. I will definitely look into certifications and try not to get down. I know there are more people out there right there struggling due to the pandemic I am still nervous about the loans. That is a great suggestion. Youre right, I should keep researching and educating myself. Thank you so much :)!
|
Thank you so much :)!
|
Your so welcome was there anything else I could help you with today
|
Your so welcome was there anything else I could help you with today
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,740 |
happy
| 0.000122 | 0.000018 | 0.000007 | 0.999741 | 0.000056 | 0.000018 | 0.000038 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 12 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay. It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified. Oh wow! That is awesome. I should definitely look into certifications for different fields. I appreciate that. I have so much student loan debt im nervous to take on more loans for extra courses . You are right. I cant give up. I will definitely look into certifications and try not to get down. I know there are more people out there right there struggling due to the pandemic I am still nervous about the loans. That is a great suggestion. Youre right, I should keep researching and educating myself. Thank you so much :)! I think I am okay! Thank you again for all of your help
|
I think I am okay! Thank you again for all of your help
|
Your so welcome and have a great day and stay safe!
|
Your so welcome and have a great day and stay safe!
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,741 |
happy
| 0.000055 | 0.000012 | 0.000024 | 0.999717 | 0.000098 | 0.000041 | 0.000054 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1003
| 13 |
sadness
|
job_crisis
|
My hours at work are reduced due to the coronavirus pandemic. I am unhappy in my role and I am stressed.
| 5 | 2 | 3 | 3 |
Hi, I am not feeling so well today What do you do when you are feeling down? What do you think I should do to feel better about my current situation? I feel stuck Job stuff and the pandemic. Worried about the future a bit Reduction in hours and less pay. It is nice to know that I am not the only one. I have but I am not sure where to start,. or if i am qualified. Oh wow! That is awesome. I should definitely look into certifications for different fields. I appreciate that. I have so much student loan debt im nervous to take on more loans for extra courses . You are right. I cant give up. I will definitely look into certifications and try not to get down. I know there are more people out there right there struggling due to the pandemic I am still nervous about the loans. That is a great suggestion. Youre right, I should keep researching and educating myself. Thank you so much :)! I think I am okay! Thank you again for all of your help You too!
|
You too!
|
Thank you
|
Thank you Did you need anything else?
|
Others, Question
|
Others
| 11,742 |
happy
| 0.00049 | 0.000046 | 0.000009 | 0.998015 | 0.001207 | 0.000043 | 0.000191 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1005
| 1 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
Having a lot going on in life and school and feeling very stressed.
| 4 | 1 | 3 | 4 |
Hello
|
Hello
|
Hello, how are you doing?
|
Hello, how are you doing?
|
Question
|
Question
| 11,760 |
neutral
| 0.004226 | 0.000116 | 0.000071 | 0.00422 | 0.989792 | 0.000161 | 0.001414 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1005
| 2 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
Having a lot going on in life and school and feeling very stressed.
| 4 | 1 | 3 | 4 |
Hello I have been better. I am really stressed and feel like I am at a breaking point.
|
I have been better. I am really stressed and feel like I am at a breaking point.
|
I am sorry to hear you are near your breaking point, do you have any idea when the decline and stress began?
|
I am sorry to hear you are near your breaking point, do you have any idea when the decline and stress began?
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,761 |
sad
| 0.023767 | 0.00063 | 0.107579 | 0.000447 | 0.003124 | 0.863423 | 0.001029 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1005
| 3 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
Having a lot going on in life and school and feeling very stressed.
| 4 | 1 | 3 | 4 |
Hello I have been better. I am really stressed and feel like I am at a breaking point. It began a few weeks ago. I have had a really intense project that is on a time crunch. I feel like I am overwhelmed and unable to balance work and personal life.
|
It began a few weeks ago. I have had a really intense project that is on a time crunch. I feel like I am overwhelmed and unable to balance work and personal life.
|
Work and personal life are very hard to juggle with each other, especially in the current life situations around the globe. I am sure you will successfully handle both in the overall.
|
Work and personal life are very hard to juggle with each other, especially in the current life situations around the globe. I am sure you will successfully handle both in the overall.
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,762 |
surprised
| 0.000237 | 0.000415 | 0.421133 | 0.002251 | 0.00031 | 0.001038 | 0.574616 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1005
| 4 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
Having a lot going on in life and school and feeling very stressed.
| 4 | 1 | 3 | 4 |
Hello I have been better. I am really stressed and feel like I am at a breaking point. It began a few weeks ago. I have had a really intense project that is on a time crunch. I feel like I am overwhelmed and unable to balance work and personal life. What should I do to help feel like I can manage and push through? Right no w i feel like giving up.
|
What should I do to help feel like I can manage and push through? Right no w i feel like giving up.
|
For me, when I start getting overwhelmed and need to "debrief" my mind, and "declutter" the stresses, I use a notepad. I jot down every detail I can that pops into mind. Every upcoming task, everything that has caused anxiety or similar, and then I prioritize them in an agenda. It seems tedious, however once you get a handle on scheduling, in my personal ex perience, it is easier to hold yourself accountable and slowly work your way through accomplishments, even small tasks, which is encouraging to continue.
|
For me, when I start getting overwhelmed and need to "debrief" my mind, and "declutter" the stresses, I use a notepad. I jot down every detail I can that pops into mind. Every upcoming task, everything that has caused anxiety or similar, and then I prioritize them in an agenda. It seems tedious, however once you get a handle on scheduling, in my personal ex perience, it is easier to hold yourself accountable and slowly work your way through accomplishments, even small tasks, which is encouraging to continue. Sometimes, something as small as an accomplished task can uplift a mood greatly. Especially when listed and checked off to see the progress.
|
Self-disclosure, Reflection of feelings
|
Self-disclosure
| 11,763 |
sad
| 0.036196 | 0.000607 | 0.006428 | 0.039665 | 0.182359 | 0.720674 | 0.014072 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1005
| 5 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
Having a lot going on in life and school and feeling very stressed.
| 4 | 1 | 3 | 4 |
Hello I have been better. I am really stressed and feel like I am at a breaking point. It began a few weeks ago. I have had a really intense project that is on a time crunch. I feel like I am overwhelmed and unable to balance work and personal life. What should I do to help feel like I can manage and push through? Right no w i feel like giving up. Thank you. That seems helpful. I tend to make excuses for myself when I feel like this and allow myself to slip in other areas of my life. For example if I am stressed, I tend to eat unhealthy food. Overall its hard to juggle all things I want to do and be at once. I will plan to make a list and check off some small things.
|
Thank you. That seems helpful. I tend to make excuses for myself when I feel like this and allow myself to slip in other areas of my life. For example if I am stressed, I tend to eat unhealthy food. Overall its hard to juggle all things I want to do and be at once. I will plan to make a list and check off some small things.
|
When you visually see your success, I hope it will help like it does for myself. I personally believe that it is a useful tool, depression runs deep and anxiety pushes it over the edge with deadlines. Life and Personal are very complicated situations. As is living, in itself. Small accomplishments, maybe with minor rewards to yourself as you go, boosts confidence and tends to fade out the overwhelming heavy feelings.
|
When you visually see your success, I hope it will help like it does for myself. I personally believe that it is a useful tool, depression runs deep and anxiety pushes it over the edge with deadlines. Life and Personal are very complicated situations. As is living, in itself. Small accomplishments, maybe with minor rewards to yourself as you go, boosts confidence and tends to fade out the overwhelming heavy feelings.
|
Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,764 |
sad
| 0.040263 | 0.001462 | 0.002375 | 0.000722 | 0.12248 | 0.822836 | 0.009862 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1005
| 6 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
Having a lot going on in life and school and feeling very stressed.
| 4 | 1 | 3 | 4 |
Hello I have been better. I am really stressed and feel like I am at a breaking point. It began a few weeks ago. I have had a really intense project that is on a time crunch. I feel like I am overwhelmed and unable to balance work and personal life. What should I do to help feel like I can manage and push through? Right no w i feel like giving up. Thank you. That seems helpful. I tend to make excuses for myself when I feel like this and allow myself to slip in other areas of my life. For example if I am stressed, I tend to eat unhealthy food. Overall its hard to juggle all things I want to do and be at once. I will plan to make a list and check off some small things. What do you consider to be a minor reward that would be a good tool for me today? I have created a list and was able to check one thing off already. This has helped some and I feel a little more relieved.
|
What do you consider to be a minor reward that would be a good tool for me today? I have created a list and was able to check one thing off already. This has helped some and I feel a little more relieved.
|
A punch card. If you have one handy, a note card/index card. Draw maybe, 15 circles around the edge, and call it "My rewards" In the middle, choose one thing you enjoy, for instance, if you like an ice cream sundae, put that in the middle. For your first task, just jot all that is on your mind down, and also use that as the first task to yourself. Check off one circle, and once you hit 15 get that sundae!
|
A punch card. If you have one handy, a note card/index card. Draw maybe, 15 circles around the edge, and call it "My rewards" In the middle, choose one thing you enjoy, for instance, if you like an ice cream sundae, put that in the middle. For your first task, just jot all that is on your mind down, and also use that as the first task to yourself. Check off one circle, and once you hit 15 get that sundae! Awesome! I am happy to hear that it has already helped a little!
|
Providing Suggestions, Others
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,765 |
happy
| 0.000028 | 0.000014 | 0.000007 | 0.999789 | 0.00007 | 0.000057 | 0.000036 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1005
| 7 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
Having a lot going on in life and school and feeling very stressed.
| 4 | 1 | 3 | 4 |
Hello I have been better. I am really stressed and feel like I am at a breaking point. It began a few weeks ago. I have had a really intense project that is on a time crunch. I feel like I am overwhelmed and unable to balance work and personal life. What should I do to help feel like I can manage and push through? Right no w i feel like giving up. Thank you. That seems helpful. I tend to make excuses for myself when I feel like this and allow myself to slip in other areas of my life. For example if I am stressed, I tend to eat unhealthy food. Overall its hard to juggle all things I want to do and be at once. I will plan to make a list and check off some small things. What do you consider to be a minor reward that would be a good tool for me today? I have created a list and was able to check one thing off already. This has helped some and I feel a little more relieved. Thats a great idea. I really like that!
|
Thats a great idea. I really like that!
|
I do sincerely hope you start feeling better, the current average life has altered greatly, and it has changed workloads and balances with great challenges.
|
I do sincerely hope you start feeling better, the current average life has altered greatly, and it has changed workloads and balances with great challenges.
|
Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 11,766 |
happy
| 0.000345 | 0.000023 | 0.000007 | 0.999397 | 0.000114 | 0.000032 | 0.000081 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1005
| 8 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
Having a lot going on in life and school and feeling very stressed.
| 4 | 1 | 3 | 4 |
Hello I have been better. I am really stressed and feel like I am at a breaking point. It began a few weeks ago. I have had a really intense project that is on a time crunch. I feel like I am overwhelmed and unable to balance work and personal life. What should I do to help feel like I can manage and push through? Right no w i feel like giving up. Thank you. That seems helpful. I tend to make excuses for myself when I feel like this and allow myself to slip in other areas of my life. For example if I am stressed, I tend to eat unhealthy food. Overall its hard to juggle all things I want to do and be at once. I will plan to make a list and check off some small things. What do you consider to be a minor reward that would be a good tool for me today? I have created a list and was able to check one thing off already. This has helped some and I feel a little more relieved. Thats a great idea. I really like that! Yes. We are all being challenged and perhaps this will help people grow. I know that once i an over the hump I will be happy i did it and put in the effort. I appreciate the in the moment help!
|
Yes. We are all being challenged and perhaps this will help people grow. I know that once i an over the hump I will be happy i did it and put in the effort. I appreciate the in the moment help!
|
Absolutely, I appreciate the chance to speak with you and give suggestions.
|
Absolutely, I appreciate the chance to speak with you and give suggestions.
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,767 |
happy
| 0.000151 | 0.000035 | 0.000015 | 0.996508 | 0.002746 | 0.00026 | 0.000285 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1005
| 9 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
Having a lot going on in life and school and feeling very stressed.
| 4 | 1 | 3 | 4 |
Hello I have been better. I am really stressed and feel like I am at a breaking point. It began a few weeks ago. I have had a really intense project that is on a time crunch. I feel like I am overwhelmed and unable to balance work and personal life. What should I do to help feel like I can manage and push through? Right no w i feel like giving up. Thank you. That seems helpful. I tend to make excuses for myself when I feel like this and allow myself to slip in other areas of my life. For example if I am stressed, I tend to eat unhealthy food. Overall its hard to juggle all things I want to do and be at once. I will plan to make a list and check off some small things. What do you consider to be a minor reward that would be a good tool for me today? I have created a list and was able to check one thing off already. This has helped some and I feel a little more relieved. Thats a great idea. I really like that! Yes. We are all being challenged and perhaps this will help people grow. I know that once i an over the hump I will be happy i did it and put in the effort. I appreciate the in the moment help! Do you have nay other tips that i may use?
|
Do you have nay other tips that i may use?
|
Perhaps, nature. A walk alone somewhere pretty tends to be a refreshing, zen-like activity. Or even, as a meditation type approach, rock stacking. It takes much focus, and tends to leave your mind clearer in the end. I also recommend reading, or listening to audio books of a theme you are interested in. It brings comfort in activities
|
Perhaps, nature. A walk alone somewhere pretty tends to be a refreshing, zen-like activity. Or even, as a meditation type approach, rock stacking. It takes much focus, and tends to leave your mind clearer in the end. I also recommend reading, or listening to audio books of a theme you are interested in. It brings comfort in activities
|
Providing Suggestions
|
Providing Suggestions
| 11,768 |
neutral
| 0.001745 | 0.000032 | 0.000173 | 0.000307 | 0.992815 | 0.000333 | 0.004595 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1009
| 1 |
shame
|
ongoing_depression
|
I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello. I'm ok. How are you?
|
Hello. I'm ok. How are you?
|
I am fine .. I am here to listen to your problems.
|
I am fine .. I am here to listen to your problems.
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,805 |
happy
| 0.004115 | 0.00005 | 0.000075 | 0.98685 | 0.008473 | 0.000052 | 0.000384 |
low empathy, low relevance
|
1009
| 2 |
shame
|
ongoing_depression
|
I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
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Hello. I'm ok. How are you? Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean?
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Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean?
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I do not know - there are a lot of nasty people out there. Have you tried confronting people who are bullying you and asking them why?
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I do not know - there are a lot of nasty people out there. Have you tried confronting people who are bullying you and asking them why?
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,806 |
angry
| 0.996861 | 0.001069 | 0.00003 | 0.000152 | 0.001499 | 0.00026 | 0.000129 |
low empathy, low relevance
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1009
| 3 |
shame
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ongoing_depression
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I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello. I'm ok. How are you? Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean? Well, with covid, it's even harder to go talk to people. So, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't have a lot of money, so I can't buy fancy clothes. I don't think I can fix it.
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Well, with covid, it's even harder to go talk to people. So, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't have a lot of money, so I can't buy fancy clothes. I don't think I can fix it.
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You do not have to buy fancy clothes for the sake of other people! Maybe you could get some counselling to work on your self esteem though?
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You do not have to buy fancy clothes for the sake of other people! Maybe you could get some counselling to work on your self esteem though?
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,807 |
angry
| 0.962954 | 0.002543 | 0.000176 | 0.000167 | 0.010596 | 0.022041 | 0.001522 |
low empathy, low relevance
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1009
| 4 |
shame
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ongoing_depression
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I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello. I'm ok. How are you? Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean? Well, with covid, it's even harder to go talk to people. So, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't have a lot of money, so I can't buy fancy clothes. I don't think I can fix it. I see a counselor regularly. The sessions are virtual. I do wish there were some ways to figure out how to make the clothes I have look better or match better, be more organized with my wardrobe. I have a lot of problems with too many clothes that don't look good on me.
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I see a counselor regularly. The sessions are virtual. I do wish there were some ways to figure out how to make the clothes I have look better or match better, be more organized with my wardrobe. I have a lot of problems with too many clothes that don't look good on me.
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Have you tried shopping in second hand stores? You can often get some nice stuff there for cheap.
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Have you tried shopping in second hand stores? You can often get some nice stuff there for cheap. But really I think that the problem is your self esteem, not what you are wearing.
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Providing Suggestions, Others
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,808 |
sad
| 0.006317 | 0.000519 | 0.002327 | 0.000561 | 0.215674 | 0.772909 | 0.001693 |
low empathy, low relevance
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1009
| 5 |
shame
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ongoing_depression
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I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello. I'm ok. How are you? Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean? Well, with covid, it's even harder to go talk to people. So, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't have a lot of money, so I can't buy fancy clothes. I don't think I can fix it. I see a counselor regularly. The sessions are virtual. I do wish there were some ways to figure out how to make the clothes I have look better or match better, be more organized with my wardrobe. I have a lot of problems with too many clothes that don't look good on me. Yes! I love second hand stores! So I should not care so much what they say about me?
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Yes! I love second hand stores! So I should not care so much what they say about me?
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Right! To be honest I suspect that it's far more their problem than it is yours.
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Right! To be honest I suspect that it's far more their problem than it is yours.
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Others
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Others
| 11,809 |
happy
| 0.007006 | 0.000192 | 0.000054 | 0.951485 | 0.037573 | 0.000639 | 0.00305 |
low empathy, low relevance
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1009
| 6 |
shame
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ongoing_depression
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I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello. I'm ok. How are you? Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean? Well, with covid, it's even harder to go talk to people. So, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't have a lot of money, so I can't buy fancy clothes. I don't think I can fix it. I see a counselor regularly. The sessions are virtual. I do wish there were some ways to figure out how to make the clothes I have look better or match better, be more organized with my wardrobe. I have a lot of problems with too many clothes that don't look good on me. Yes! I love second hand stores! So I should not care so much what they say about me? I agree. Those women were not even in shape. They had makeup, hair done, etc., but they were not nice women. Maybe they are just taking their problems and insecurities out on me.
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I agree. Those women were not even in shape. They had makeup, hair done, etc., but they were not nice women. Maybe they are just taking their problems and insecurities out on me.
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Yes I think that they were. I have had issues like this myself in the past and I know how much it hurts and how hard it is to overcome it.
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Yes I think that they were. I have had issues like this myself in the past and I know how much it hurts and how hard it is to overcome it.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 11,810 |
neutral
| 0.013842 | 0.000715 | 0.000087 | 0.000158 | 0.983866 | 0.000858 | 0.000475 |
low empathy, low relevance
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1009
| 7 |
shame
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ongoing_depression
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I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello. I'm ok. How are you? Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean? Well, with covid, it's even harder to go talk to people. So, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't have a lot of money, so I can't buy fancy clothes. I don't think I can fix it. I see a counselor regularly. The sessions are virtual. I do wish there were some ways to figure out how to make the clothes I have look better or match better, be more organized with my wardrobe. I have a lot of problems with too many clothes that don't look good on me. Yes! I love second hand stores! So I should not care so much what they say about me? I agree. Those women were not even in shape. They had makeup, hair done, etc., but they were not nice women. Maybe they are just taking their problems and insecurities out on me. Yes. It does hurt. I want to get better at picking clothes that make me happy. A lot of my clothes are baggy. Maybe I could learn to sew and alter them.
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Yes. It does hurt. I want to get better at picking clothes that make me happy. A lot of my clothes are baggy. Maybe I could learn to sew and alter them.
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I went through a phase of wearing only baggy clothes because I thought i was overweight. Looking back I was not but I thought I was.
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I went through a phase of wearing only baggy clothes because I thought i was overweight. Looking back I was not but I thought I was. Anyway I hope I have been able to make you feel a little better! All the best for the future.
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Self-disclosure, Affirmation and Reassurance
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Self-disclosure
| 11,811 |
sad
| 0.002189 | 0.000432 | 0.000277 | 0.001789 | 0.020057 | 0.973883 | 0.001372 |
low empathy, low relevance
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1009
| 8 |
shame
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ongoing_depression
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I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello. I'm ok. How are you? Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean? Well, with covid, it's even harder to go talk to people. So, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't have a lot of money, so I can't buy fancy clothes. I don't think I can fix it. I see a counselor regularly. The sessions are virtual. I do wish there were some ways to figure out how to make the clothes I have look better or match better, be more organized with my wardrobe. I have a lot of problems with too many clothes that don't look good on me. Yes! I love second hand stores! So I should not care so much what they say about me? I agree. Those women were not even in shape. They had makeup, hair done, etc., but they were not nice women. Maybe they are just taking their problems and insecurities out on me. Yes. It does hurt. I want to get better at picking clothes that make me happy. A lot of my clothes are baggy. Maybe I could learn to sew and alter them. I have had that same exact problem! When I wear clothes that fit nicely, I do get complements. I think I will go through my wardrobe and find the best clothes I have and wear those. Yes. It has been nice to talk to someone who has been through some of the same things.
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I have had that same exact problem! When I wear clothes that fit nicely, I do get complements. I think I will go through my wardrobe and find the best clothes I have and wear those. Yes. It has been nice to talk to someone who has been through some of the same things.
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That sounds like a great suggestion - good luck with it :)
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That sounds like a great suggestion - good luck with it :)
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Others
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Others
| 11,812 |
happy
| 0.000855 | 0.000226 | 0.000039 | 0.988955 | 0.006811 | 0.001884 | 0.001231 |
low empathy, low relevance
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1009
| 9 |
shame
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ongoing_depression
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I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 3 |
Hello. I'm ok. How are you? Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean? Well, with covid, it's even harder to go talk to people. So, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't have a lot of money, so I can't buy fancy clothes. I don't think I can fix it. I see a counselor regularly. The sessions are virtual. I do wish there were some ways to figure out how to make the clothes I have look better or match better, be more organized with my wardrobe. I have a lot of problems with too many clothes that don't look good on me. Yes! I love second hand stores! So I should not care so much what they say about me? I agree. Those women were not even in shape. They had makeup, hair done, etc., but they were not nice women. Maybe they are just taking their problems and insecurities out on me. Yes. It does hurt. I want to get better at picking clothes that make me happy. A lot of my clothes are baggy. Maybe I could learn to sew and alter them. I have had that same exact problem! When I wear clothes that fit nicely, I do get complements. I think I will go through my wardrobe and find the best clothes I have and wear those. Yes. It has been nice to talk to someone who has been through some of the same things. Thank you. I hope you have a nice evening too!
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Thank you. I hope you have a nice evening too!
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:) Can you press quit first? I am not able to :(
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:) Can you press quit first? I am not able to :(
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Information
| 11,813 |
happy
| 0.000175 | 0.00002 | 0.000006 | 0.99961 | 0.00012 | 0.00002 | 0.000049 |
low empathy, low relevance
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1009
| 10 |
shame
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ongoing_depression
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I was in the store and there were two other women. They were whispering to each other and looking at me. I could hear a couple words and they were making fun of my hair and the way I dress. People just don't accept me. It's hard to feel so different.
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Hello. I'm ok. How are you? Thank you. I am having problems with people making fun of my appearance. Why are people so mean? Well, with covid, it's even harder to go talk to people. So, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't have a lot of money, so I can't buy fancy clothes. I don't think I can fix it. I see a counselor regularly. The sessions are virtual. I do wish there were some ways to figure out how to make the clothes I have look better or match better, be more organized with my wardrobe. I have a lot of problems with too many clothes that don't look good on me. Yes! I love second hand stores! So I should not care so much what they say about me? I agree. Those women were not even in shape. They had makeup, hair done, etc., but they were not nice women. Maybe they are just taking their problems and insecurities out on me. Yes. It does hurt. I want to get better at picking clothes that make me happy. A lot of my clothes are baggy. Maybe I could learn to sew and alter them. I have had that same exact problem! When I wear clothes that fit nicely, I do get complements. I think I will go through my wardrobe and find the best clothes I have and wear those. Yes. It has been nice to talk to someone who has been through some of the same things. Thank you. I hope you have a nice evening too! Ok. lol. Thanks! Bye!
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Ok. lol. Thanks! Bye!
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bye!
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bye!
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Others
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Others
| 11,814 |
happy
| 0.010614 | 0.000063 | 0.000024 | 0.988859 | 0.000257 | 0.000069 | 0.000113 |
low empathy, low relevance
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1012
| 1 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
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Hi
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Hi
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Is there something you wish to discuss today?
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Is there something you wish to discuss today?
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Question
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Question
| 11,839 |
neutral
| 0.003783 | 0.000183 | 0.000154 | 0.031973 | 0.960893 | 0.000259 | 0.002756 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 2 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
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Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend
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Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend
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If i am to understand you are having troubles with your weight and this is effecting your relationship ?
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If i am to understand you are having troubles with your weight and this is effecting your relationship ?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,840 |
sad
| 0.000202 | 0.000118 | 0.000232 | 0.000053 | 0.000559 | 0.998711 | 0.000125 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 3 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes
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Yes
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I to have experienced troubles with my weight, if can be a very troubling issue to deal with.
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I to have experienced troubles with my weight, if can be a very troubling issue to deal with.
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 11,841 |
neutral
| 0.005823 | 0.000065 | 0.000159 | 0.002749 | 0.984578 | 0.000858 | 0.005769 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 4 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding
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thank you for udnerstanding
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Could I ask if you are currently participating in any activities or diets to manage your weight ?
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Could I ask if you are currently participating in any activities or diets to manage your weight ?
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Question
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Question
| 11,842 |
happy
| 0.341468 | 0.000289 | 0.000159 | 0.644548 | 0.010418 | 0.000547 | 0.002572 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 5 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack
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I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack
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Research has shown that if you eat at regular meal times the body can regulate your weight better. The trick is to consume less than you use in a day. To manage this its better to eat your recommended daily amount then exercise so you are using up excess energy
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Research has shown that if you eat at regular meal times the body can regulate your weight better. The trick is to consume less than you use in a day. To manage this its better to eat your recommended daily amount then exercise so you are using up excess energy
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Information
| 11,843 |
neutral
| 0.002243 | 0.000185 | 0.000485 | 0.000427 | 0.980659 | 0.010301 | 0.005701 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 6 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack I know but I am just so unmotivated. Sometimes I wish I could lose all the weight and then start the good habits to maintain
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I know but I am just so unmotivated. Sometimes I wish I could lose all the weight and then start the good habits to maintain
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Yes it is a difficult challenge.
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Yes it is a difficult challenge. Have you looked in to local support groups which can help you with motivation?
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,844 |
sad
| 0.048687 | 0.000771 | 0.000499 | 0.00114 | 0.013971 | 0.933785 | 0.001147 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 7 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack I know but I am just so unmotivated. Sometimes I wish I could lose all the weight and then start the good habits to maintain Not really - I do follow a lot of vegan and health groups on Reddit I do eat about 1200 calories a day which I know is the bare miniumum but I have noticed a difference. I just need to start exercising more.
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Not really - I do follow a lot of vegan and health groups on Reddit I do eat about 1200 calories a day which I know is the bare miniumum but I have noticed a difference. I just need to start exercising more.
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Thats good, I would suggest that you either join a local group or sign up to a online one. Maybe try one that includes meal plans for the week, support chat group that can motivate you.
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Thats good, I would suggest that you either join a local group or sign up to a online one. Maybe try one that includes meal plans for the week, support chat group that can motivate you.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,845 |
neutral
| 0.006761 | 0.000099 | 0.000162 | 0.000303 | 0.962025 | 0.005443 | 0.025207 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 8 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack I know but I am just so unmotivated. Sometimes I wish I could lose all the weight and then start the good habits to maintain Not really - I do follow a lot of vegan and health groups on Reddit I do eat about 1200 calories a day which I know is the bare miniumum but I have noticed a difference. I just need to start exercising more. Yes that seems like a good idea thank you
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Yes that seems like a good idea thank you
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Exercise is key to weight loss, maybe go for walks with your boyfriend. this will also give you time with him.
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Exercise is key to weight loss, maybe go for walks with your boyfriend. this will also give you time with him.
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Providing Suggestions
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Providing Suggestions
| 11,846 |
happy
| 0.047612 | 0.000073 | 0.000062 | 0.949572 | 0.00171 | 0.000162 | 0.000809 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 9 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack I know but I am just so unmotivated. Sometimes I wish I could lose all the weight and then start the good habits to maintain Not really - I do follow a lot of vegan and health groups on Reddit I do eat about 1200 calories a day which I know is the bare miniumum but I have noticed a difference. I just need to start exercising more. Yes that seems like a good idea thank you That is actually a very good idea - we have a puppy and he is struggling with weight gain too I definitely feel that we should start doing that
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That is actually a very good idea - we have a puppy and he is struggling with weight gain too I definitely feel that we should start doing that
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depending on the dog breed then puppy will need upto multiple walks a day. So its a great time to start walking then you can move up to a run
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depending on the dog breed then puppy will need upto multiple walks a day. So its a great time to start walking then you can move up to a run
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,847 |
neutral
| 0.005358 | 0.000099 | 0.000117 | 0.01223 | 0.95721 | 0.00187 | 0.023117 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 10 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack I know but I am just so unmotivated. Sometimes I wish I could lose all the weight and then start the good habits to maintain Not really - I do follow a lot of vegan and health groups on Reddit I do eat about 1200 calories a day which I know is the bare miniumum but I have noticed a difference. I just need to start exercising more. Yes that seems like a good idea thank you That is actually a very good idea - we have a puppy and he is struggling with weight gain too I definitely feel that we should start doing that That;s true she is a pug but she loves to run - I do miss running I used to run fairly frequently I am just struggling since I have broke metatarsals on both feet in a year - it's been a hard recovery
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That;s true she is a pug but she loves to run - I do miss running I used to run fairly frequently I am just struggling since I have broke metatarsals on both feet in a year - it's been a hard recovery
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I feel we have come up with some good ideas to work on over the next coming weeks. Is there thing else you would like to discuss ?
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I feel we have come up with some good ideas to work on over the next coming weeks. Is there thing else you would like to discuss ?
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Question
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Question
| 11,848 |
sad
| 0.000492 | 0.000091 | 0.000054 | 0.000085 | 0.003125 | 0.995781 | 0.000372 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 11 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack I know but I am just so unmotivated. Sometimes I wish I could lose all the weight and then start the good habits to maintain Not really - I do follow a lot of vegan and health groups on Reddit I do eat about 1200 calories a day which I know is the bare miniumum but I have noticed a difference. I just need to start exercising more. Yes that seems like a good idea thank you That is actually a very good idea - we have a puppy and he is struggling with weight gain too I definitely feel that we should start doing that That;s true she is a pug but she loves to run - I do miss running I used to run fairly frequently I am just struggling since I have broke metatarsals on both feet in a year - it's been a hard recovery No I think that is good. I feel like I have come to a good realization. I know my ways are unhealthy thank you very much
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No I think that is good. I feel like I have come to a good realization. I know my ways are unhealthy thank you very much
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SOrry to hear that. Have you received the proper medical care for your injuries ?
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SOrry to hear that. Have you received the proper medical care for your injuries ?
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Question
|
Question
| 11,849 |
happy
| 0.000313 | 0.000035 | 0.000008 | 0.999034 | 0.000196 | 0.000338 | 0.000076 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 12 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack I know but I am just so unmotivated. Sometimes I wish I could lose all the weight and then start the good habits to maintain Not really - I do follow a lot of vegan and health groups on Reddit I do eat about 1200 calories a day which I know is the bare miniumum but I have noticed a difference. I just need to start exercising more. Yes that seems like a good idea thank you That is actually a very good idea - we have a puppy and he is struggling with weight gain too I definitely feel that we should start doing that That;s true she is a pug but she loves to run - I do miss running I used to run fairly frequently I am just struggling since I have broke metatarsals on both feet in a year - it's been a hard recovery No I think that is good. I feel like I have come to a good realization. I know my ways are unhealthy thank you very much Yes I did I couldn't walk for 3 month total and then had to wear a boot for another 6 months
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Yes I did I couldn't walk for 3 month total and then had to wear a boot for another 6 months
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Great, i wish you a good afternoon and hope the best for you with all your ambitions
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Great, i wish you a good afternoon and hope the best for you with all your ambitions
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Others
|
Others
| 11,850 |
neutral
| 0.375737 | 0.00259 | 0.012151 | 0.00045 | 0.419964 | 0.154849 | 0.03426 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1012
| 13 |
sadness
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appearance_anxiety
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I have gained about 30 pounds in the last twoyears. I am very unhappy with how I look and I actively avoid food and wait until I am about to pass out to eat. Yesterday, the first time I ate was at 7pm.
| 5 | 4 | 3 | 4 |
Hi Yes, I am experiencing a lot of depression lately due to my weight and my boyfriend Yes thank you for udnerstanding I am dieting but I mainly just avoid food and eat once a day. I am on depression medication which also reduces my appetite and I drink a lot of coffee to help surpress my appetite. I usually only eat dinner and a small snack I know but I am just so unmotivated. Sometimes I wish I could lose all the weight and then start the good habits to maintain Not really - I do follow a lot of vegan and health groups on Reddit I do eat about 1200 calories a day which I know is the bare miniumum but I have noticed a difference. I just need to start exercising more. Yes that seems like a good idea thank you That is actually a very good idea - we have a puppy and he is struggling with weight gain too I definitely feel that we should start doing that That;s true she is a pug but she loves to run - I do miss running I used to run fairly frequently I am just struggling since I have broke metatarsals on both feet in a year - it's been a hard recovery No I think that is good. I feel like I have come to a good realization. I know my ways are unhealthy thank you very much Yes I did I couldn't walk for 3 month total and then had to wear a boot for another 6 months thank you!!
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thank you!!
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Good bye
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Good bye
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Others
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Others
| 11,851 |
happy
| 0.000276 | 0.000022 | 0.000007 | 0.999401 | 0.000172 | 0.000023 | 0.000098 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1013
| 1 |
depression
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ongoing_depression
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Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello?
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hello?
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hello, how can I help you?
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hello, how can I help you?
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Question
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Question
| 11,852 |
neutral
| 0.005304 | 0.000063 | 0.000128 | 0.002626 | 0.987945 | 0.000183 | 0.003751 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1013
| 2 |
depression
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ongoing_depression
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Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello? I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression
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I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression
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How long have you known you have depression?
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How long have you known you have depression?
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Question
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Question
| 11,853 |
neutral
| 0.002996 | 0.000158 | 0.003788 | 0.000237 | 0.972357 | 0.014016 | 0.006449 |
low empathy, high relevance
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1013
| 3 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
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Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello? I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression I've struggled with depression my entire life. It's been especially difficult this year
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I've struggled with depression my entire life. It's been especially difficult this year
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Because of Covid? So you know at least the cause of your depression?
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Because of Covid? So you know at least the cause of your depression?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 11,854 |
sad
| 0.000269 | 0.000098 | 0.002622 | 0.000083 | 0.00059 | 0.996191 | 0.000147 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1013
| 4 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
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Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello? I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression I've struggled with depression my entire life. It's been especially difficult this year Yes, because of Covid. I have two small children both born with genetic disorders. If they catch it they could die. They're both now displaying signs of anxiety and that's worsening my depression because there is very little I can do about it.
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Yes, because of Covid. I have two small children both born with genetic disorders. If they catch it they could die. They're both now displaying signs of anxiety and that's worsening my depression because there is very little I can do about it.
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That must have been tough for you. I know Covid is scary, however, I think you're a very careful parent so as long as you keep the routine safe, you can at least not worry too much about it
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That must have been tough for you. I know Covid is scary, however, I think you're a very careful parent so as long as you keep the routine safe, you can at least not worry too much about it
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Reflection of feelings
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Reflection of feelings
| 11,855 |
sad
| 0.001726 | 0.000278 | 0.020923 | 0.000119 | 0.006237 | 0.969976 | 0.000741 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1013
| 5 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello? I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression I've struggled with depression my entire life. It's been especially difficult this year Yes, because of Covid. I have two small children both born with genetic disorders. If they catch it they could die. They're both now displaying signs of anxiety and that's worsening my depression because there is very little I can do about it. I'm doing my best, as is my husband, but with the holdays here we're struggling to explain our decision not to visit family because we want the children to be safe. Our family is a combination of Covid Hoaxers and antimaskers sadly.
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I'm doing my best, as is my husband, but with the holdays here we're struggling to explain our decision not to visit family because we want the children to be safe. Our family is a combination of Covid Hoaxers and antimaskers sadly.
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Now is not the time to please your family or anyone else. You did the right and responsible thing for refusing to visit them.
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Now is not the time to please your family or anyone else. You did the right and responsible thing for refusing to visit them. May I ask how old your children are?
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,856 |
sad
| 0.001802 | 0.000408 | 0.000774 | 0.000137 | 0.126186 | 0.870008 | 0.000684 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1013
| 6 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello? I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression I've struggled with depression my entire life. It's been especially difficult this year Yes, because of Covid. I have two small children both born with genetic disorders. If they catch it they could die. They're both now displaying signs of anxiety and that's worsening my depression because there is very little I can do about it. I'm doing my best, as is my husband, but with the holdays here we're struggling to explain our decision not to visit family because we want the children to be safe. Our family is a combination of Covid Hoaxers and antimaskers sadly. Thank you for agreeing with me. They are nine and four.
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Thank you for agreeing with me. They are nine and four.
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they might have been scared because of external forces, as in they might see you being stressed out. I think it's good to talk to them about the seriousness of Covid, but also explain them it's not unpreventable. By discussing, you can reassure yourself too
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they might have been scared because of external forces, as in they might see you being stressed out. I think it's good to talk to them about the seriousness of Covid, but also explain them it's not unpreventable. By discussing, you can reassure yourself too
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,857 |
neutral
| 0.009823 | 0.000063 | 0.000125 | 0.001177 | 0.980101 | 0.000626 | 0.008085 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1013
| 7 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello? I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression I've struggled with depression my entire life. It's been especially difficult this year Yes, because of Covid. I have two small children both born with genetic disorders. If they catch it they could die. They're both now displaying signs of anxiety and that's worsening my depression because there is very little I can do about it. I'm doing my best, as is my husband, but with the holdays here we're struggling to explain our decision not to visit family because we want the children to be safe. Our family is a combination of Covid Hoaxers and antimaskers sadly. Thank you for agreeing with me. They are nine and four. Maybe. I'll have to give them a few days as my mother is very self centered and we just got into it last night, but I might give that a try
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Maybe. I'll have to give them a few days as my mother is very self centered and we just got into it last night, but I might give that a try
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I think you can also cut down on watching news, when it first began, I followed the news closely, however, I realized I felt depressed hearing new number everyday so I only update myself once a week now and I feel bette
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I think you can also cut down on watching news, when it first began, I followed the news closely, however, I realized I felt depressed hearing new number everyday so I only update myself once a week now and I feel bette
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Self-disclosure
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Self-disclosure
| 11,858 |
neutral
| 0.016527 | 0.000355 | 0.000147 | 0.000177 | 0.976483 | 0.002367 | 0.003945 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1013
| 8 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello? I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression I've struggled with depression my entire life. It's been especially difficult this year Yes, because of Covid. I have two small children both born with genetic disorders. If they catch it they could die. They're both now displaying signs of anxiety and that's worsening my depression because there is very little I can do about it. I'm doing my best, as is my husband, but with the holdays here we're struggling to explain our decision not to visit family because we want the children to be safe. Our family is a combination of Covid Hoaxers and antimaskers sadly. Thank you for agreeing with me. They are nine and four. Maybe. I'll have to give them a few days as my mother is very self centered and we just got into it last night, but I might give that a try That's good to hear, maybe I should do that.
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That's good to hear, maybe I should do that.
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Having a family meeting with your husband and children as much as possible to share your feelings might also help quite a bit
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Having a family meeting with your husband and children as much as possible to share your feelings might also help quite a bit
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Others
|
Others
| 11,859 |
happy
| 0.001182 | 0.000134 | 0.000011 | 0.994298 | 0.003411 | 0.000185 | 0.000779 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1013
| 9 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
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Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello? I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression I've struggled with depression my entire life. It's been especially difficult this year Yes, because of Covid. I have two small children both born with genetic disorders. If they catch it they could die. They're both now displaying signs of anxiety and that's worsening my depression because there is very little I can do about it. I'm doing my best, as is my husband, but with the holdays here we're struggling to explain our decision not to visit family because we want the children to be safe. Our family is a combination of Covid Hoaxers and antimaskers sadly. Thank you for agreeing with me. They are nine and four. Maybe. I'll have to give them a few days as my mother is very self centered and we just got into it last night, but I might give that a try That's good to hear, maybe I should do that. I'm not so sure. My husband's anxiety is worse than mine and I carry the mental load for the entire family. He's usually happier staying in the dark, otherwise it's too difficult to lift him up when he's depressed if I'm also depressed.
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I'm not so sure. My husband's anxiety is worse than mine and I carry the mental load for the entire family. He's usually happier staying in the dark, otherwise it's too difficult to lift him up when he's depressed if I'm also depressed.
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Then do as you think is best for your husband. I'd say focus the work on yourself first, you need to feel good in other to take care of your family
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Then do as you think is best for your husband. I'd say focus the work on yourself first, you need to feel good in other to take care of your family
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,860 |
sad
| 0.018352 | 0.002602 | 0.024081 | 0.0018 | 0.110525 | 0.551599 | 0.291042 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1013
| 10 |
depression
|
ongoing_depression
|
Covid 19 stress with the added stress of the holduas
| 4 | 2 | 3 | 4 |
hello? I'm seeking some support. Specifically looking for advice concerning my depression I've struggled with depression my entire life. It's been especially difficult this year Yes, because of Covid. I have two small children both born with genetic disorders. If they catch it they could die. They're both now displaying signs of anxiety and that's worsening my depression because there is very little I can do about it. I'm doing my best, as is my husband, but with the holdays here we're struggling to explain our decision not to visit family because we want the children to be safe. Our family is a combination of Covid Hoaxers and antimaskers sadly. Thank you for agreeing with me. They are nine and four. Maybe. I'll have to give them a few days as my mother is very self centered and we just got into it last night, but I might give that a try That's good to hear, maybe I should do that. I'm not so sure. My husband's anxiety is worse than mine and I carry the mental load for the entire family. He's usually happier staying in the dark, otherwise it's too difficult to lift him up when he's depressed if I'm also depressed. That is true. Thank you for the advice
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That is true. Thank you for the advice
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you're welcome, I hope you feel a bit better
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you're welcome, I hope you feel a bit better
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Others
|
Others
| 11,861 |
angry
| 0.528841 | 0.000322 | 0.000493 | 0.009485 | 0.362941 | 0.002573 | 0.095345 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1015
| 1 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello.
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Hello.
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hell, sorry
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hell, sorry How are you today?
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Question, Question
|
Question
| 11,874 |
neutral
| 0.004294 | 0.000126 | 0.000069 | 0.003577 | 0.990071 | 0.00018 | 0.001684 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 2 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas.
|
A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas.
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I totally understand how you feel
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I totally understand how you feel
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,875 |
sad
| 0.000285 | 0.000154 | 0.000089 | 0.000033 | 0.000612 | 0.998731 | 0.000096 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 3 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close.
|
Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close.
|
If you don't mind may I ask you a few question? Are you trying to find gigs?
|
If you don't mind may I ask you a few question? Are you trying to find gigs?
|
Question
|
Question
| 11,876 |
sad
| 0.000377 | 0.000101 | 0.000051 | 0.000194 | 0.00061 | 0.998575 | 0.00009 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 4 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out.
|
Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out.
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Sorry. I guess you have to change your plan so much.
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Sorry. I guess you have to change your plan so much.
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,877 |
neutral
| 0.017779 | 0.000082 | 0.000225 | 0.00019 | 0.968719 | 0.003445 | 0.009559 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 5 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income.
|
That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income.
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I meant you had to change your plan
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I meant you had to change your plan
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,878 |
neutral
| 0.026831 | 0.000102 | 0.000196 | 0.000196 | 0.959545 | 0.003676 | 0.009453 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 6 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations.
|
Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations.
|
I am also looking for more gigs and because of Covid, I'm only looking online jobs
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I am also looking for more gigs and because of Covid, I'm only looking online jobs
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,879 |
neutral
| 0.145923 | 0.000702 | 0.001816 | 0.000548 | 0.558616 | 0.261948 | 0.030446 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 7 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs?
|
Like "work from home" style jobs?
|
yes just like this mturk
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yes just like this mturk
|
Others
|
Others
| 11,880 |
neutral
| 0.001552 | 0.000071 | 0.000299 | 0.002977 | 0.968239 | 0.000408 | 0.026455 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 8 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs? Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff.
|
Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff.
|
Jobs are super competitive these days. Have you thought about becoming a YouTuber or a live streamer?
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Jobs are super competitive these days. Have you thought about becoming a YouTuber or a live streamer?
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Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 11,881 |
neutral
| 0.085177 | 0.001639 | 0.004522 | 0.00237 | 0.648424 | 0.194379 | 0.063488 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 9 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs? Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff. Yes, I've tried both of those. It's mostly luck based. You just have to hope that enough people get interested to make it work and a lot of wasted effort goes into self- promotion.
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Yes, I've tried both of those. It's mostly luck based. You just have to hope that enough people get interested to make it work and a lot of wasted effort goes into self- promotion.
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I believe after Covid is over more onsite jobs will be available. I hope you will be able to comfortably spend your days until then.
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I believe after Covid is over more onsite jobs will be available. I hope you will be able to comfortably spend your days until then.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,882 |
neutral
| 0.008358 | 0.000069 | 0.000221 | 0.000237 | 0.981698 | 0.006834 | 0.002583 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 10 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs? Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff. Yes, I've tried both of those. It's mostly luck based. You just have to hope that enough people get interested to make it work and a lot of wasted effort goes into self- promotion. I agree with that. I just hope * I can make it until then
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I agree with that. I just hope * I can make it until then
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Oh I see. I see you have made a lot of effort to get additional income. Wonderful, I believe you are a great worker when you work, whatever you do. You have passion and motivation.
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Oh I see. I see you have made a lot of effort to get additional income. Wonderful, I believe you are a great worker when you work, whatever you do. You have passion and motivation.
|
Reflection of feelings
|
Reflection of feelings
| 11,883 |
neutral
| 0.001629 | 0.000037 | 0.000171 | 0.000385 | 0.995855 | 0.001107 | 0.000816 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 11 |
depression
|
job_crisis
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I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs? Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff. Yes, I've tried both of those. It's mostly luck based. You just have to hope that enough people get interested to make it work and a lot of wasted effort goes into self- promotion. I agree with that. I just hope * I can make it until then That is true, I am a hard worker, no matter the job.
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That is true, I am a hard worker, no matter the job.
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I would brush up my resume, make it more noticeable, change your LinkedIn profile if you have one. So that future employer will be able to find you, such a great candidate.
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I would brush up my resume, make it more noticeable, change your LinkedIn profile if you have one. So that future employer will be able to find you, such a great candidate.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,884 |
neutral
| 0.186268 | 0.000334 | 0.000446 | 0.000898 | 0.772002 | 0.03013 | 0.009923 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 12 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs? Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff. Yes, I've tried both of those. It's mostly luck based. You just have to hope that enough people get interested to make it work and a lot of wasted effort goes into self- promotion. I agree with that. I just hope * I can make it until then That is true, I am a hard worker, no matter the job. Hmmm, my resume could use some work, that is true.
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Hmmm, my resume could use some work, that is true.
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About resume, one of my friends added his picture wearing a Trump tie on his resume lol . I thought it was weird but whatever it makes it noticeable could help.
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About resume, one of my friends added his picture wearing a Trump tie on his resume lol . I thought it was weird but whatever it makes it noticeable could help. Or you could start your own business as you have already tried as a YouTuber. I heard a lot of people starts their own because of Covid
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,885 |
neutral
| 0.017084 | 0.000545 | 0.000305 | 0.002352 | 0.947665 | 0.008311 | 0.023737 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 13 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs? Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff. Yes, I've tried both of those. It's mostly luck based. You just have to hope that enough people get interested to make it work and a lot of wasted effort goes into self- promotion. I agree with that. I just hope * I can make it until then That is true, I am a hard worker, no matter the job. Hmmm, my resume could use some work, that is true. I never thought about adding a picture to my resume, but it would help show that I'm a profes sional. I have ran my own business, doing custom woodworking for people. For now, I'd rather work for other people. Plus the whole being broke thing really restricts what I could do for a new business.
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I never thought about adding a picture to my resume, but it would help show that I'm a profes sional. I have ran my own business, doing custom woodworking for people. For now, I'd rather work for other people. Plus the whole being broke thing really restricts what I could do for a new business.
|
Me either, I had never seen a resume with a picture. Yes wear a nice suit and look good.
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Me either, I had never seen a resume with a picture. Yes wear a nice suit and look good.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,886 |
neutral
| 0.045306 | 0.000532 | 0.001005 | 0.000261 | 0.595716 | 0.339941 | 0.017239 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 14 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs? Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff. Yes, I've tried both of those. It's mostly luck based. You just have to hope that enough people get interested to make it work and a lot of wasted effort goes into self- promotion. I agree with that. I just hope * I can make it until then That is true, I am a hard worker, no matter the job. Hmmm, my resume could use some work, that is true. I never thought about adding a picture to my resume, but it would help show that I'm a profes sional. I have ran my own business, doing custom woodworking for people. For now, I'd rather work for other people. Plus the whole being broke thing really restricts what I could do for a new business. I will try that.
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I will try that.
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Oh I see. Woodworking sounds cool! I would do the same and start my own business as a side at first.
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Oh I see. Woodworking sounds cool! I would do the same and start my own business as a side at first. It makes me want to lift my dumbells and get some muscles!!
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Affirmation and Reassurance, Others
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,887 |
neutral
| 0.004619 | 0.00007 | 0.000212 | 0.000403 | 0.990836 | 0.000472 | 0.003388 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 15 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs? Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff. Yes, I've tried both of those. It's mostly luck based. You just have to hope that enough people get interested to make it work and a lot of wasted effort goes into self- promotion. I agree with that. I just hope * I can make it until then That is true, I am a hard worker, no matter the job. Hmmm, my resume could use some work, that is true. I never thought about adding a picture to my resume, but it would help show that I'm a profes sional. I have ran my own business, doing custom woodworking for people. For now, I'd rather work for other people. Plus the whole being broke thing really restricts what I could do for a new business. I will try that. Well I think I'm going to go work on my resume and maybe buy some new tools.
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Well I think I'm going to go work on my resume and maybe buy some new tools.
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I hope you'll find something perfect soon and enjoy your quiet Chrismas
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I hope you'll find something perfect soon and enjoy your quiet Chrismas
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Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 11,888 |
neutral
| 0.001185 | 0.000037 | 0.000096 | 0.000684 | 0.995977 | 0.000548 | 0.001474 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1015
| 16 |
depression
|
job_crisis
|
I do gig work and haven't had much employment since the pandemic started. Loss of money has me down.
| 3 | 1 | 4 | 3 |
Hello. A little down. Kind of broke for Christmas. Yeah, it's pretty tough because the year went really well until the summer. I was hoping for a strong close. Yes but with the pandemic, people are just doing small work themselves instead of hiring out. That's what I've been doing, but it's a lot of running in place trying to generate any income. Yes, and the changes I've made to the plan haven't lead to a whole lot more. One of those "painted myself into a corner" situations. Like "work from home" style jobs? Hmm, maybe I can look into these type of jobs. I don't have a great computer but it could do for some stuff. Yes, I've tried both of those. It's mostly luck based. You just have to hope that enough people get interested to make it work and a lot of wasted effort goes into self- promotion. I agree with that. I just hope * I can make it until then That is true, I am a hard worker, no matter the job. Hmmm, my resume could use some work, that is true. I never thought about adding a picture to my resume, but it would help show that I'm a profes sional. I have ran my own business, doing custom woodworking for people. For now, I'd rather work for other people. Plus the whole being broke thing really restricts what I could do for a new business. I will try that. Well I think I'm going to go work on my resume and maybe buy some new tools. Yes, thank you for the ideas. Goodbye.
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Yes, thank you for the ideas. Goodbye.
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ok it was great talking to you. Good luck. Bye
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ok it was great talking to you. Good luck. Bye
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Others
|
Others
| 11,889 |
angry
| 0.605791 | 0.000217 | 0.000148 | 0.391644 | 0.001266 | 0.000307 | 0.000627 |
high empathy, low relevance
|
1030
| 1 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately.
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Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately.
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I see, so your main worry is about academic pressure?
|
I see, so your main worry is about academic pressure? Is there a specific aspect that you are focusing on?
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
| 12,053 |
fear
| 0.000038 | 0.000053 | 0.999648 | 0.000088 | 0.000056 | 0.000076 | 0.000041 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 2 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom.
|
Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom.
|
Have you been performing below your normal standard this year?
|
Have you been performing below your normal standard this year?
|
Question
|
Question
| 12,054 |
fear
| 0.005272 | 0.001001 | 0.62723 | 0.002965 | 0.075334 | 0.284768 | 0.00343 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 3 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress.
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she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress.
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I hear you, I have been in a similar situation. Parents sometimes do not realise just how much pressure they are putting on their children to be perfect.
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I hear you, I have been in a similar situation. Parents sometimes do not realise just how much pressure they are putting on their children to be perfect.
|
Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,055 |
sad
| 0.338152 | 0.005794 | 0.000918 | 0.125728 | 0.00313 | 0.525318 | 0.000961 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 4 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college.
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I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college.
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Exactly! there is nothing at all wrong with not being a straight A student.
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Exactly! there is nothing at all wrong with not being a straight A student. Have you tried to tell her how you feel about her behaviour and attitude towards your studies?
|
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,056 |
happy
| 0.000032 | 0.000026 | 0.000003 | 0.99978 | 0.000078 | 0.000044 | 0.000038 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 5 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times.
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Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times.
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Absolutely not. There is nothing wrong with not being perfect. And she has no right to emotionally manipulate you by mentioning money.
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Absolutely not. There is nothing wrong with not being perfect. And she has no right to emotionally manipulate you by mentioning money.
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
| 12,057 |
sad
| 0.033476 | 0.001868 | 0.000415 | 0.000641 | 0.072064 | 0.867907 | 0.023629 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 6 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times.
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I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times.
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Are there any scholarships or hardship funds that you could potentially look into applying for?
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Are there any scholarships or hardship funds that you could potentially look into applying for?
|
Question
|
Question
| 12,058 |
angry
| 0.954483 | 0.014644 | 0.000144 | 0.000137 | 0.025731 | 0.003524 | 0.001337 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 7 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times. Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive.
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Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive.
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Ah, it is very expensive isn't it? I understand, I am still paying off my loans! But it should be worth it in the end. One day you could get a job working for Amazon!
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Ah, it is very expensive isn't it? I understand, I am still paying off my loans! But it should be worth it in the end. One day you could get a job working for Amazon!
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Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,059 |
sad
| 0.083916 | 0.001809 | 0.013787 | 0.002167 | 0.02168 | 0.871975 | 0.004665 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 8 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times. Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive. That's what I keep telling myself, but I have this overarching fear that I will be in debt forever then.
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That's what I keep telling myself, but I have this overarching fear that I will be in debt forever then.
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Debt is a very scary thing to experience, I know. I do worry a lot about it sometimes too so you are not alone.
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Debt is a very scary thing to experience, I know. I do worry a lot about it sometimes too so you are not alone.
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Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,060 |
fear
| 0.000165 | 0.000137 | 0.996643 | 0.00012 | 0.00103 | 0.001581 | 0.000325 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 9 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times. Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive. That's what I keep telling myself, but I have this overarching fear that I will be in debt forever then. That makes me feel better.
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That makes me feel better.
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The main thing is, do you enjoy your studies and consider them worthwhile?
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The main thing is, do you enjoy your studies and consider them worthwhile?
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Question
|
Question
| 12,061 |
happy
| 0.001843 | 0.000305 | 0.000016 | 0.988005 | 0.007947 | 0.000512 | 0.001371 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 10 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times. Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive. That's what I keep telling myself, but I have this overarching fear that I will be in debt forever then. That makes me feel better. yes, somewhat, but who loves school?
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yes, somewhat, but who loves school?
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I really did enjoy University .. I made a lot of friends and it was a good learning experience. I hope you feel a bit the same?
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I really did enjoy University .. I made a lot of friends and it was a good learning experience. I hope you feel a bit the same?
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Self-disclosure
|
Self-disclosure
| 12,062 |
surprised
| 0.320805 | 0.000704 | 0.000651 | 0.008163 | 0.229834 | 0.007547 | 0.432295 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 11 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
| 4 | 3 | 3 | 4 |
Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times. Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive. That's what I keep telling myself, but I have this overarching fear that I will be in debt forever then. That makes me feel better. yes, somewhat, but who loves school? S Somewhat, but all I feel I have time for is the school work not the social aspect so much
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S Somewhat, but all I feel I have time for is the school work not the social aspect so much
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I think that you need to be easier on yourself. Do you have many friends?
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I think that you need to be easier on yourself. Do you have many friends?
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Question
|
Question
| 12,063 |
neutral
| 0.015107 | 0.000618 | 0.000789 | 0.009287 | 0.844172 | 0.119136 | 0.010891 |
low empathy, high relevance
|
1030
| 12 |
anxiety
|
academic_pressure
|
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
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Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times. Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive. That's what I keep telling myself, but I have this overarching fear that I will be in debt forever then. That makes me feel better. yes, somewhat, but who loves school? S Somewhat, but all I feel I have time for is the school work not the social aspect so much some
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