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I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

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Hi

How are you doing?

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ongoing_depression

I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

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Hi Today hasn't been too bad

Today hasn't been too bad

Anything you need to talk about?

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depression

ongoing_depression

I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

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Hi Today hasn't been too bad Lately I have been having trouble sleeping

Lately I have been having trouble sleeping

That's very common is there anything that has change that doesn't allow you to sleep?

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depression

ongoing_depression

I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

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Hi Today hasn't been too bad Lately I have been having trouble sleeping Since I lost my job quite a few months ago I've not been able to sleep as well

Since I lost my job quite a few months ago I've not been able to sleep as well

Yes that has been a big stressor for many. I sometimes find myself having trobule to fall asleep. So I make sure my room is dark and think about something relaxing.

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depression

ongoing_depression

I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

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Hi Today hasn't been too bad Lately I have been having trouble sleeping Since I lost my job quite a few months ago I've not been able to sleep as well I think my problem is I think too much :-(

I think my problem is I think too much :-(

no tv, cell phones etc. a hot shower before bed might help.

no tv, cell phones etc. a hot shower before bed might help. When you can not shut your mind down it will prevent you from thinking and so I will actually to clear my head just think of something relaxing or enjoyable.

Providing Suggestions, Self-disclosure

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depression

ongoing_depression

I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

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2

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Hi Today hasn't been too bad Lately I have been having trouble sleeping Since I lost my job quite a few months ago I've not been able to sleep as well I think my problem is I think too much :-( I guess I can try that

I guess I can try that

Try to make sure the room is dark and for whatever reason they say a glass of warm milk too but I never had to try that, just relaxing thoughts and a dark room and a fan idk.

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depression

ongoing_depression

I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

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2

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Hi Today hasn't been too bad Lately I have been having trouble sleeping Since I lost my job quite a few months ago I've not been able to sleep as well I think my problem is I think too much :-( I guess I can try that Why a fan?

Why a fan?

the sound of the fan can be relaxing for me idk why

Self-disclosure

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depression

ongoing_depression

I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

3

2

3

Hi Today hasn't been too bad Lately I have been having trouble sleeping Since I lost my job quite a few months ago I've not been able to sleep as well I think my problem is I think too much :-( I guess I can try that Why a fan? okay

okay

sometimes white noise helps or the sounds of frogs on an app idk why but that works for some people too. The important thing is find something that works and relaxes your mind from thinking too much if you can.

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depression

ongoing_depression

I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

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2

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Hi Today hasn't been too bad Lately I have been having trouble sleeping Since I lost my job quite a few months ago I've not been able to sleep as well I think my problem is I think too much :-( I guess I can try that Why a fan? okay Frogs huh? I don't think that would sound relaxing. Haha

Frogs huh? I don't think that would sound relaxing. Haha

a running river or something that is tranquil to you and frogs work for some people or crickets idk why lol.

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depression

ongoing_depression

I lost my job 8 months ago and I haven't been able to find anything. So as a result I have felt very depressed because my life has lost all sense of structure.

3

2

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Hi Today hasn't been too bad Lately I have been having trouble sleeping Since I lost my job quite a few months ago I've not been able to sleep as well I think my problem is I think too much :-( I guess I can try that Why a fan? okay Frogs huh? I don't think that would sound relaxing. Haha Interesting

Interesting

Hopefully this pandemic willl be over and we can all go back to work

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sadness

breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello

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breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello How are you doing?

How are you doing?

I am pretty good.

I am pretty good. How are you?

Others, Question

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breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello How are you doing? I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week

I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week

What is going on?

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sadness

breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello How are you doing? I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week I ended things with my girlfriend last week.

I ended things with my girlfriend last week.

I am sorry to hear that, what caused you to wan to end things?

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breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello How are you doing? I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week I ended things with my girlfriend last week. Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel

Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel

So from what I am hearing, you ended things with your girlfriend because she was talking to her ex and lying to you about it and you are feeling upset about it.

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sadness

breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello How are you doing? I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week I ended things with my girlfriend last week. Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother

yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother

I understand your situation completely. I had a recent ex that I lived with who also was talking to her ex and hanging out with him and lying to me about it.

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breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello How are you doing? I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week I ended things with my girlfriend last week. Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother what did you do about it?

what did you do about it?

The first thing I did was had a conversation to try and see why she was talking to her ex and lying to me about it. Trying to get closure is very helpful.

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breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello How are you doing? I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week I ended things with my girlfriend last week. Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother what did you do about it? yes, i could see that. We have discussed and decided to end things. Like I said, her family was planning on staying with us for xmas, so now it feels like we ruined xmas for everyone

yes, i could see that. We have discussed and decided to end things. Like I said, her family was planning on staying with us for xmas, so now it feels like we ruined xmas for everyone

I know this is definitely a rough situation, but I am sure you can make it through it!

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breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello How are you doing? I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week I ended things with my girlfriend last week. Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother what did you do about it? yes, i could see that. We have discussed and decided to end things. Like I said, her family was planning on staying with us for xmas, so now it feels like we ruined xmas for everyone Yes it's just been a crummy year. I'm looking forward to being done with it

Yes it's just been a crummy year. I'm looking forward to being done with it

I can understand that! I think it has been a rough year for everyone!

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breakup_with_partner

i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating

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Hello How are you doing? I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week I ended things with my girlfriend last week. Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother what did you do about it? yes, i could see that. We have discussed and decided to end things. Like I said, her family was planning on staying with us for xmas, so now it feels like we ruined xmas for everyone Yes it's just been a crummy year. I'm looking forward to being done with it i agree, i just hope her family doesn't come out. She still needs to move out but I'm hoping her family doesn't come out to help her move. Or at least gives me a heads up so i can stay in a hotel while she moves out

i agree, i just hope her family doesn't come out. She still needs to move out but I'm hoping her family doesn't come out to help her move. Or at least gives me a heads up so i can stay in a hotel while she moves out

I can understand your anxiety over that.

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anger

job_crisis

I have a co worker that keeps going behind my back and trying to get things done without me knowing it.

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I'm ok just kind of sick of the same old stuff happening at work This co worker keeps going behind my back

That sounds like a difficult situation. How long has this been going on?

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job_crisis

I have a co worker that keeps going behind my back and trying to get things done without me knowing it.

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I'm ok just kind of sick of the same old stuff happening at work This co worker keeps going behind my back For about a year

For about a year

What is your co-worker doing exactly? Saying things about you? Gossip to your boss?

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job_crisis

I have a co worker that keeps going behind my back and trying to get things done without me knowing it.

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I'm ok just kind of sick of the same old stuff happening at work This co worker keeps going behind my back For about a year So she asks me to do something for her which isn't possible. Like give her a report on data that we don't have access to. I tell her I can't do it and she starts going to other people asking them, they reach out to me to ask if its possible and I tell them the same thing

So she asks me to do something for her which isn't possible. Like give her a report on data that we don't have access to. I tell her I can't do it and she starts going to other people asking them, they reach out to me to ask if its possible and I tell them the same thing

It sounds like your co-worker doesn't trust your abilities. Does the co-worker have a legitimate reason to ask for the report? Is it important to the company?

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anger

job_crisis

I have a co worker that keeps going behind my back and trying to get things done without me knowing it.

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I'm ok just kind of sick of the same old stuff happening at work This co worker keeps going behind my back For about a year So she asks me to do something for her which isn't possible. Like give her a report on data that we don't have access to. I tell her I can't do it and she starts going to other people asking them, they reach out to me to ask if its possible and I tell them the same thing Shes just trying to please people by throwing data at them

Shes just trying to please people by throwing data at them

The co-worker hopes to get in their good graces by looking productive. is that right?

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job_crisis

I have a co worker that keeps going behind my back and trying to get things done without me knowing it.

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I'm ok just kind of sick of the same old stuff happening at work This co worker keeps going behind my back For about a year So she asks me to do something for her which isn't possible. Like give her a report on data that we don't have access to. I tell her I can't do it and she starts going to other people asking them, they reach out to me to ask if its possible and I tell them the same thing Shes just trying to please people by throwing data at them yes

yes

Ok. This has been going on for some time. Is it possible to discuss the matter with your manager? With HR?

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job_crisis

I have a co worker that keeps going behind my back and trying to get things done without me knowing it.

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I'm ok just kind of sick of the same old stuff happening at work This co worker keeps going behind my back For about a year So she asks me to do something for her which isn't possible. Like give her a report on data that we don't have access to. I tell her I can't do it and she starts going to other people asking them, they reach out to me to ask if its possible and I tell them the same thing Shes just trying to please people by throwing data at them yes we are in hr

we are in hr

That's a challenging situation! What do your other co-workers think of this behavior?

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job_crisis

I have a co worker that keeps going behind my back and trying to get things done without me knowing it.

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I'm ok just kind of sick of the same old stuff happening at work This co worker keeps going behind my back For about a year So she asks me to do something for her which isn't possible. Like give her a report on data that we don't have access to. I tell her I can't do it and she starts going to other people asking them, they reach out to me to ask if its possible and I tell them the same thing Shes just trying to please people by throwing data at them yes we are in hr i haven't talked to them about it we are all remote so no one to talk to

i haven't talked to them about it we are all remote so no one to talk to

Would you feel comfortable talking to them about this issue?

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job_crisis

I have a co worker that keeps going behind my back and trying to get things done without me knowing it.

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I'm ok just kind of sick of the same old stuff happening at work This co worker keeps going behind my back For about a year So she asks me to do something for her which isn't possible. Like give her a report on data that we don't have access to. I tell her I can't do it and she starts going to other people asking them, they reach out to me to ask if its possible and I tell them the same thing Shes just trying to please people by throwing data at them yes we are in hr i haven't talked to them about it we are all remote so no one to talk to not really, i'm afraid they will think i'm just a complainer

not really, i'm afraid they will think i'm just a complainer

I suppose it depends how you frame the issue to them. If you say, "So-and-so is bothering me and I can't stand it" then you are complaining.

I suppose it depends how you frame the issue to them. If you say, "So-and-so is bothering me and I can't stand it" then you are complaining. However, if you ask them for their opinion, and say, "What has your experience with so-and-so been?" it might open up a conversation.

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problems_with_friends

My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.

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Hello

Hey! How can I help?

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problems_with_friends

My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.

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Hello So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain

So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain

Yes please do

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problems_with_friends

My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.

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Hello So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain So I had a long time friend who recently blocked me from everything. The reason was I refused to hang out with her during covid and she questioned our friendship. Something she said was "It's selfish of me to work rather than spend time with a special friend." So I got upset and called her out. And in response she blocked me. And I'm more upset at myself because I wanted to tell her more about how horrible of a human being she is in general. But I cannot because she blocked me on everything.

So I had a long time friend who recently blocked me from everything. The reason was I refused to hang out with her during covid and she questioned our friendship. Something she said was "It's selfish of me to work rather than spend time with a special friend." So I got upset and called her out. And in response she blocked me. And I'm more upset at myself because I wanted to tell her more about how horrible of a human being she is in general. But I cannot because she blocked me on everything.

Have you explained to her that you NEED to work, and don't be upset with yourself because you did the right thing

Have you explained to her that you NEED to work, and don't be upset with yourself because you did the right thing If your friendship was strong she will surely unblock you Give her time to cool down

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problems_with_friends

My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.

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Hello So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain So I had a long time friend who recently blocked me from everything. The reason was I refused to hang out with her during covid and she questioned our friendship. Something she said was "It's selfish of me to work rather than spend time with a special friend." So I got upset and called her out. And in response she blocked me. And I'm more upset at myself because I wanted to tell her more about how horrible of a human being she is in general. But I cannot because she blocked me on everything. Yeah I did. And she just got more upset and said I was selfish. Like she's the type who would not back down and she's lost many friends and romanics partners that way So I feel like she's not going to unblock me and get back together. I'm just really upset because I want to call her off, not because I lost a friendship. Because screw her : ) I put up with her too much.

Yeah I did. And she just got more upset and said I was selfish. Like she's the type who would not back down and she's lost many friends and romanics partners that way So I feel like she's not going to unblock me and get back together. I'm just really upset because I want to call her off, not because I lost a friendship. Because screw her : ) I put up with her too much.

You are not the one who is selfish here as you have done the right thing, and she will hopefully see that

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problems_with_friends

My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.

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Hello So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain So I had a long time friend who recently blocked me from everything. The reason was I refused to hang out with her during covid and she questioned our friendship. Something she said was "It's selfish of me to work rather than spend time with a special friend." So I got upset and called her out. And in response she blocked me. And I'm more upset at myself because I wanted to tell her more about how horrible of a human being she is in general. But I cannot because she blocked me on everything. Yeah I did. And she just got more upset and said I was selfish. Like she's the type who would not back down and she's lost many friends and romanics partners that way So I feel like she's not going to unblock me and get back together. I'm just really upset because I want to call her off, not because I lost a friendship. Because screw her : ) I put up with her too much. Should I go to her house and personally tell her how I feel?

Should I go to her house and personally tell her how I feel?

If she doesn't then you know she wasn't worth your time in the first place

If she doesn't then you know she wasn't worth your time in the first place And no because this will make her more angry If she is aware of how you feel, she will come back in due time

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My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.

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Hello So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain So I had a long time friend who recently blocked me from everything. The reason was I refused to hang out with her during covid and she questioned our friendship. Something she said was "It's selfish of me to work rather than spend time with a special friend." So I got upset and called her out. And in response she blocked me. And I'm more upset at myself because I wanted to tell her more about how horrible of a human being she is in general. But I cannot because she blocked me on everything. Yeah I did. And she just got more upset and said I was selfish. Like she's the type who would not back down and she's lost many friends and romanics partners that way So I feel like she's not going to unblock me and get back together. I'm just really upset because I want to call her off, not because I lost a friendship. Because screw her : ) I put up with her too much. Should I go to her house and personally tell her how I feel? I guess I'm the type of person who has to tell people how I feel, otherwise I won't find peace. Do you have any other suggestions how I can get passed this?

I guess I'm the type of person who has to tell people how I feel, otherwise I won't find peace. Do you have any other suggestions how I can get passed this?

But for now, you should find other ways to make peace with yourself, for example, hanging out with other friends and that may take your mind of it

But for now, you should find other ways to make peace with yourself, for example, hanging out with other friends and that may take your mind of it and if that isn't an option simply keeping yourself busy may help

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My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.

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Hello So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain So I had a long time friend who recently blocked me from everything. The reason was I refused to hang out with her during covid and she questioned our friendship. Something she said was "It's selfish of me to work rather than spend time with a special friend." So I got upset and called her out. And in response she blocked me. And I'm more upset at myself because I wanted to tell her more about how horrible of a human being she is in general. But I cannot because she blocked me on everything. Yeah I did. And she just got more upset and said I was selfish. Like she's the type who would not back down and she's lost many friends and romanics partners that way So I feel like she's not going to unblock me and get back together. I'm just really upset because I want to call her off, not because I lost a friendship. Because screw her : ) I put up with her too much. Should I go to her house and personally tell her how I feel? I guess I'm the type of person who has to tell people how I feel, otherwise I won't find peace. Do you have any other suggestions how I can get passed this? But I can't really hang out with anyone because of COVID. That's how this whole situation started : )

But I can't really hang out with anyone because of COVID. That's how this whole situation started : )

Maybe spend more time with work, or keeping yourself occupied with other things

Maybe spend more time with work, or keeping yourself occupied with other things And she will come back if she really cared about your relationship in the first place

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My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.

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Hello So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain So I had a long time friend who recently blocked me from everything. The reason was I refused to hang out with her during covid and she questioned our friendship. Something she said was "It's selfish of me to work rather than spend time with a special friend." So I got upset and called her out. And in response she blocked me. And I'm more upset at myself because I wanted to tell her more about how horrible of a human being she is in general. But I cannot because she blocked me on everything. Yeah I did. And she just got more upset and said I was selfish. Like she's the type who would not back down and she's lost many friends and romanics partners that way So I feel like she's not going to unblock me and get back together. I'm just really upset because I want to call her off, not because I lost a friendship. Because screw her : ) I put up with her too much. Should I go to her house and personally tell her how I feel? I guess I'm the type of person who has to tell people how I feel, otherwise I won't find peace. Do you have any other suggestions how I can get passed this? But I can't really hang out with anyone because of COVID. That's how this whole situation started : ) Yeah, work can keep my mind off all this. And that's true. Thank you for listening to my ranting.

Yeah, work can keep my mind off all this. And that's true. Thank you for listening to my ranting.

Your welcome, there is always someone out there for you :)

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My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.

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Hello So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain So I had a long time friend who recently blocked me from everything. The reason was I refused to hang out with her during covid and she questioned our friendship. Something she said was "It's selfish of me to work rather than spend time with a special friend." So I got upset and called her out. And in response she blocked me. And I'm more upset at myself because I wanted to tell her more about how horrible of a human being she is in general. But I cannot because she blocked me on everything. Yeah I did. And she just got more upset and said I was selfish. Like she's the type who would not back down and she's lost many friends and romanics partners that way So I feel like she's not going to unblock me and get back together. I'm just really upset because I want to call her off, not because I lost a friendship. Because screw her : ) I put up with her too much. Should I go to her house and personally tell her how I feel? I guess I'm the type of person who has to tell people how I feel, otherwise I won't find peace. Do you have any other suggestions how I can get passed this? But I can't really hang out with anyone because of COVID. That's how this whole situation started : ) Yeah, work can keep my mind off all this. And that's true. Thank you for listening to my ranting. Aw thank you! You have a good one.

Aw thank you! You have a good one.

You too!

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you?

What is it you're feeling frustrated about? I am happy to listen.

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start

I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start

Would you like to tell me what sort of work it is? Perhaps I can help.

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it.

I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it.

Ah that does not sound like my sort of thing. Why is it you're having trouble starting, do you think?

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it. I am afraid to not be able to get the results i want

I am afraid to not be able to get the results i want

Well, I guess you could say that you won't get any results if you don't try though? :)

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it. I am afraid to not be able to get the results i want Very true. But the just getting started part gives me anxiety

Very true. But the just getting started part gives me anxiety

Do you think that the anxiety might have another cause - you might have general problems with anxiety?

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it. I am afraid to not be able to get the results i want Very true. But the just getting started part gives me anxiety Hmm, probably. I should probably find ways to help myself. Any tips?

Hmm, probably. I should probably find ways to help myself. Any tips?

Well, I have heard of a thing called Mindfulness but I have never tried it myself. It sounds like it might be very effective though

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it. I am afraid to not be able to get the results i want Very true. But the just getting started part gives me anxiety Hmm, probably. I should probably find ways to help myself. Any tips? I see. Will check it out.

I see. Will check it out.

Or you could perhaps try and get some sort of counselling?

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I keep putting of my work because I'm afraid i'll fail at it. I just need to process the data, but I don't know why I keep putting it off. I feel angry at myself

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it. I am afraid to not be able to get the results i want Very true. But the just getting started part gives me anxiety Hmm, probably. I should probably find ways to help myself. Any tips? I see. Will check it out. While counseling is probably the best idea, that gives me the most anxiety Finding one that I don't have to explain cultural things to is hard

While counseling is probably the best idea, that gives me the most anxiety Finding one that I don't have to explain cultural things to is hard

Yes it can be a vicious circle sometimes. What sort of cultural things do you mean?

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I keep putting of my work because I'm afraid i'll fail at it. I just need to process the data, but I don't know why I keep putting it off. I feel angry at myself

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it. I am afraid to not be able to get the results i want Very true. But the just getting started part gives me anxiety Hmm, probably. I should probably find ways to help myself. Any tips? I see. Will check it out. While counseling is probably the best idea, that gives me the most anxiety Finding one that I don't have to explain cultural things to is hard For example, like pressures of being an oldest child in asian household

For example, like pressures of being an oldest child in asian household

Ah, yes I know that that can be very difficult. And yes, I can understand why you'd want to see someone who would understand that particular situation

Ah, yes I know that that can be very difficult. And yes, I can understand why you'd want to see someone who would understand that particular situation I hope that I have been able to help and thank you for confiding in me!

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I keep putting of my work because I'm afraid i'll fail at it. I just need to process the data, but I don't know why I keep putting it off. I feel angry at myself

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it. I am afraid to not be able to get the results i want Very true. But the just getting started part gives me anxiety Hmm, probably. I should probably find ways to help myself. Any tips? I see. Will check it out. While counseling is probably the best idea, that gives me the most anxiety Finding one that I don't have to explain cultural things to is hard For example, like pressures of being an oldest child in asian household Thanks for listening! Appreciated your suggestions

Thanks for listening! Appreciated your suggestions

I am hear for a while if you want to talk again :D You have to press quit first as I am not able to do so from my end.

I am hear for a while if you want to talk again :D You have to press quit first as I am not able to do so from my end. here for a while sorry

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I keep putting of my work because I'm afraid i'll fail at it. I just need to process the data, but I don't know why I keep putting it off. I feel angry at myself

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Pretty ok but quite frustrating How about you? I'm frustrated I didn't start my work. It seems like it is straightforward but for some reason I can't seem to start I need to analyze some data to get some information out of it. I am afraid to not be able to get the results i want Very true. But the just getting started part gives me anxiety Hmm, probably. I should probably find ways to help myself. Any tips? I see. Will check it out. While counseling is probably the best idea, that gives me the most anxiety Finding one that I don't have to explain cultural things to is hard For example, like pressures of being an oldest child in asian household Thanks for listening! Appreciated your suggestions oh, right, haha. thanks I think i'm good though.

oh, right, haha. thanks I think i'm good though.

no worries, all the best!

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever

Would you care to elaborate about what you're feeling sad about?

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend

I recently broke up with my girlfriend

I am sorry to hear that, that sounds difficult.

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her

its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her

How have you been coping?

How have you been coping? That can be really hard, have you been able to talk to anyone about it?

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother

i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother

Do you find that to be helpful?

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together

yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together

That's good, it's great to have a good support system.

That's good, it's great to have a good support system. I can imagine that's difficult, that would be a lot of close time together. Have you been able to socialize with friends or colleagues?

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour

i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour

That's understandable about the coworkers. Going out sounds like would be beneficial, just to at least spend some time with people who care about you.

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour yea its going to take my mind off of things

yea its going to take my mind off of things

Have you been able to engage in any other activities that help you cope/take your mid=nd off things?

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour yea its going to take my mind off of things i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice

i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice

Is there anything else I can help you with?

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour yea its going to take my mind off of things i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf

if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf

I would lean on my friends, family, and others for support such as a therapist (they're good for unbiased talking), I would also focus on hobbies and things that make me feel better. Most importantly be kind to yourself and allow your self to grieve.

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour yea its going to take my mind off of things i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf thats great advice how long should i wait before i move onto the next potential girlfriend?

thats great advice how long should i wait before i move onto the next potential girlfriend?

That would be up to you, there's no timeline it's when you feel most comforable

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I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

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Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour yea its going to take my mind off of things i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf thats great advice how long should i wait before i move onto the next potential girlfriend? thats true i am getting old

thats true i am getting old

There's no timeline on being able to date

Affirmation and Reassurance

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sad

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0.000204

0.246532

0.704801

0.018109

high empathy, low relevance

933

12

depression

ongoing_depression

I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

5

4

5

3

Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour yea its going to take my mind off of things i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf thats great advice how long should i wait before i move onto the next potential girlfriend? thats true i am getting old yea, my brother and sister whom are both younger than me , are already married with kids i feel bad because I'm the oldest one and without a family

yea, my brother and sister whom are both younger than me , are already married with kids i feel bad because I'm the oldest one and without a family

Everyone has their own timeline, some of my friends have married in their late 40s and older

Affirmation and Reassurance

10,914

sad

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0.000232

0.000033

0.000068

0.001795

0.996953

0.000136

high empathy, low relevance

933

13

depression

ongoing_depression

I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

5

4

5

3

Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour yea its going to take my mind off of things i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf thats great advice how long should i wait before i move onto the next potential girlfriend? thats true i am getting old yea, my brother and sister whom are both younger than me , are already married with kids i feel bad because I'm the oldest one and without a family yea, thats what my family is telling me to not rush into thigns

yea, thats what my family is telling me to not rush into thigns

You have to do what's right for you

Affirmation and Reassurance

10,915

neutral

0.077235

0.000233

0.000318

0.000414

0.908428

0.002401

0.010972

high empathy, low relevance

933

14

depression

ongoing_depression

I am depressed because I broke up with my girlfriend

5

4

5

3

Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever I recently broke up with my girlfriend its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour yea its going to take my mind off of things i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf thats great advice how long should i wait before i move onto the next potential girlfriend? thats true i am getting old yea, my brother and sister whom are both younger than me , are already married with kids i feel bad because I'm the oldest one and without a family yea, thats what my family is telling me to not rush into thigns well tahnk you for your time. take care.

well tahnk you for your time. take care.

Have a good time with your friends.

Affirmation and Reassurance

10,916

angry

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0.00035

0.000332

0.060728

0.442625

0.000945

0.0045

high empathy, low relevance

959

1

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello.

how are you feeling lately?

how are you feeling lately? how are you feeling lately?

Question, Restatement or Paraphrasing

Question

11,207

neutral

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0.000126

0.000069

0.003577

0.990071

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0.001684

low empathy, low relevance

959

2

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello. Sad. I don't have any motivation.

Sad. I don't have any motivation.

That's really hard. but,i think you can do it.

Affirmation and Reassurance

11,208

sad

0.00127

0.000158

0.000056

0.000185

0.001376

0.99684

0.000114

low empathy, low relevance

959

3

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello. Sad. I don't have any motivation. Yeah. I just was supposed to be something important ya know?

Yeah. I just was supposed to be something important ya know?

It seems that you are really stressed about the situation.

Reflection of feelings

11,209

neutral

0.02871

0.00016

0.001221

0.020978

0.769814

0.017561

0.161556

low empathy, low relevance

959

4

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello. Sad. I don't have any motivation. Yeah. I just was supposed to be something important ya know? Thank you. I am. I just tried so hard for so long to do something meaningful with my life. And now I am coming to terms with having a "normal" job and I can't even do that right.

Thank you. I am. I just tried so hard for so long to do something meaningful with my life. And now I am coming to terms with having a "normal" job and I can't even do that right.

i feel the same way.now i understand the reason though.it is because i didn't know what to say to strangers.

Self-disclosure

11,210

sad

0.00667

0.000296

0.000624

0.000611

0.001336

0.988837

0.001626

low empathy, low relevance

959

5

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello. Sad. I don't have any motivation. Yeah. I just was supposed to be something important ya know? Thank you. I am. I just tried so hard for so long to do something meaningful with my life. And now I am coming to terms with having a "normal" job and I can't even do that right. Yeah. I mean I know a lot of people struggle the same way. I just need ways to find validation that are not based on my job. But validation doesn't pay the bills.

Yeah. I mean I know a lot of people struggle the same way. I just need ways to find validation that are not based on my job. But validation doesn't pay the bills.

some people express themselves in person, some communicate in words.have you tried any different ways?

Providing Suggestions

11,211

neutral

0.101144

0.000472

0.000624

0.000316

0.859623

0.023054

0.014767

low empathy, low relevance

959

6

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello. Sad. I don't have any motivation. Yeah. I just was supposed to be something important ya know? Thank you. I am. I just tried so hard for so long to do something meaningful with my life. And now I am coming to terms with having a "normal" job and I can't even do that right. Yeah. I mean I know a lot of people struggle the same way. I just need ways to find validation that are not based on my job. But validation doesn't pay the bills. No, I will try that. Thank you for your advice. I think that talking it out with some other people who are not family will be helpful as well.

No, I will try that. Thank you for your advice. I think that talking it out with some other people who are not family will be helpful as well.

no mention.

no mention. deep breaths can help people calm down.

Others, Providing Suggestions

Others

11,212

neutral

0.007663

0.000142

0.000869

0.000362

0.97628

0.011339

0.003345

low empathy, low relevance

959

7

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello. Sad. I don't have any motivation. Yeah. I just was supposed to be something important ya know? Thank you. I am. I just tried so hard for so long to do something meaningful with my life. And now I am coming to terms with having a "normal" job and I can't even do that right. Yeah. I mean I know a lot of people struggle the same way. I just need ways to find validation that are not based on my job. But validation doesn't pay the bills. No, I will try that. Thank you for your advice. I think that talking it out with some other people who are not family will be helpful as well. I hadn't thought of that.

I hadn't thought of that.

could you try to take few deep breaths?

Providing Suggestions

11,213

neutral

0.015227

0.000793

0.000201

0.000438

0.537289

0.004644

0.441408

low empathy, low relevance

959

8

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello. Sad. I don't have any motivation. Yeah. I just was supposed to be something important ya know? Thank you. I am. I just tried so hard for so long to do something meaningful with my life. And now I am coming to terms with having a "normal" job and I can't even do that right. Yeah. I mean I know a lot of people struggle the same way. I just need ways to find validation that are not based on my job. But validation doesn't pay the bills. No, I will try that. Thank you for your advice. I think that talking it out with some other people who are not family will be helpful as well. I hadn't thought of that. Yes, I think I will do that.

Yes, I think I will do that.

happy to hear.

Reflection of feelings

11,214

neutral

0.006146

0.000052

0.000094

0.000519

0.98682

0.000638

0.005731

low empathy, low relevance

959

9

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello. Sad. I don't have any motivation. Yeah. I just was supposed to be something important ya know? Thank you. I am. I just tried so hard for so long to do something meaningful with my life. And now I am coming to terms with having a "normal" job and I can't even do that right. Yeah. I mean I know a lot of people struggle the same way. I just need ways to find validation that are not based on my job. But validation doesn't pay the bills. No, I will try that. Thank you for your advice. I think that talking it out with some other people who are not family will be helpful as well. I hadn't thought of that. Yes, I think I will do that. I think I will follow your advice and try to take more mindful deep breaths and try to communicate with some other people in different ways.

I think I will follow your advice and try to take more mindful deep breaths and try to communicate with some other people in different ways.

well, thats a good idea to do do.

Affirmation and Reassurance

11,215

neutral

0.000527

0.000043

0.000182

0.000553

0.994564

0.000943

0.003188

low empathy, low relevance

959

10

shame

ongoing_depression

I feel like I am not living up to my potential and I am a disappointment to my family.

4

3

2

Hello. Sad. I don't have any motivation. Yeah. I just was supposed to be something important ya know? Thank you. I am. I just tried so hard for so long to do something meaningful with my life. And now I am coming to terms with having a "normal" job and I can't even do that right. Yeah. I mean I know a lot of people struggle the same way. I just need ways to find validation that are not based on my job. But validation doesn't pay the bills. No, I will try that. Thank you for your advice. I think that talking it out with some other people who are not family will be helpful as well. I hadn't thought of that. Yes, I think I will do that. I think I will follow your advice and try to take more mindful deep breaths and try to communicate with some other people in different ways. Thank you. You have been very helpful. Enjoy the rest of your day.

Thank you. You have been very helpful. Enjoy the rest of your day.

yes, you too.have a great day.

Others

11,216

happy

0.000212

0.000021

0.000008

0.9994

0.000212

0.000054

0.000092

low empathy, low relevance

976

1

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello

Hello how is your day going

Restatement or Paraphrasing

11,404

neutral

0.004226

0.000116

0.000071

0.00422

0.989792

0.000161

0.001414

low empathy, low relevance

976

2

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down.

I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down.

Im sorry to hear that please tell me about it

Question

11,405

sad

0.000324

0.000113

0.000102

0.002099

0.001338

0.995692

0.000332

low empathy, low relevance

976

3

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else.

Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else.

I understand that can be flustering. Have you tried contacting your school for help?

Affirmation and Reassurance

11,406

sad

0.041912

0.004675

0.001236

0.000487

0.001239

0.950248

0.000204

low empathy, low relevance

976

4

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else. So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down.

So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down.

It is hard to let your coworkers down but you could be honest with them and tell them what happened .

Reflection of feelings

11,407

sad

0.000507

0.000263

0.000049

0.000337

0.998745

0.000049

low empathy, low relevance

976

5

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else. So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down. Yes I've tried asking the administration office and they said since its been over 10 yrs that those files are stored in another building. They went to the building and wasn't able to find it. So at this point my hands are tied and I'm screwed.

Yes I've tried asking the administration office and they said since its been over 10 yrs that those files are stored in another building. They went to the building and wasn't able to find it. So at this point my hands are tied and I'm screwed.

One thing you need to assure yourself of is that it wasnt your fault.

One thing you need to assure yourself of is that it wasnt your fault. You do have some other methods available to you to get the transcripts.

Providing Suggestions, Information

Providing Suggestions

11,408

angry

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0.002967

0.002574

0.000239

0.060943

0.03694

0.009418

low empathy, low relevance

976

6

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else. So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down. Yes I've tried asking the administration office and they said since its been over 10 yrs that those files are stored in another building. They went to the building and wasn't able to find it. So at this point my hands are tied and I'm screwed. I've done that but so many people look up to me and its just hard to for me to be there on a daily basis knowing that I had this big opportunity and that I want be able to fulfil.

I've done that but so many people look up to me and its just hard to for me to be there on a daily basis knowing that I had this big opportunity and that I want be able to fulfil.

Have you tried contacting your State or county board of education?

Question

11,409

sad

0.000221

0.00004

0.001149

0.001986

0.000803

0.99547

0.000331

low empathy, low relevance

976

7

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else. So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down. Yes I've tried asking the administration office and they said since its been over 10 yrs that those files are stored in another building. They went to the building and wasn't able to find it. So at this point my hands are tied and I'm screwed. I've done that but so many people look up to me and its just hard to for me to be there on a daily basis knowing that I had this big opportunity and that I want be able to fulfil. Are you saying that I do have other methods? But they have already moved forward with another candidate. Yes that's who I contacted at the beginning of my search

Are you saying that I do have other methods? But they have already moved forward with another candidate. Yes that's who I contacted at the beginning of my search

The good news is your coworkers will always look up to you even if you are not in the supervisor roll.

The good news is your coworkers will always look up to you even if you are not in the supervisor roll. Your coworkers look up to you because of the person you are.

Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance

Affirmation and Reassurance

11,410

neutral

0.058303

0.000264

0.000238

0.000517

0.721688

0.001118

0.217872

low empathy, low relevance

976

8

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else. So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down. Yes I've tried asking the administration office and they said since its been over 10 yrs that those files are stored in another building. They went to the building and wasn't able to find it. So at this point my hands are tied and I'm screwed. I've done that but so many people look up to me and its just hard to for me to be there on a daily basis knowing that I had this big opportunity and that I want be able to fulfil. Are you saying that I do have other methods? But they have already moved forward with another candidate. Yes that's who I contacted at the beginning of my search Thats true in some aspect

Thats true in some aspect

You can still be a big influence to your coworkers without being in the supervisor roll.

You can still be a big influence to your coworkers without being in the supervisor roll. I think if you spent some time being a mentor to some of your coworkers you would feel better about the situation.

Reflection of feelings, Providing Suggestions

Reflection of feelings

11,411

neutral

0.10081

0.000208

0.000104

0.000435

0.862218

0.00378

0.032444

low empathy, low relevance

976

9

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else. So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down. Yes I've tried asking the administration office and they said since its been over 10 yrs that those files are stored in another building. They went to the building and wasn't able to find it. So at this point my hands are tied and I'm screwed. I've done that but so many people look up to me and its just hard to for me to be there on a daily basis knowing that I had this big opportunity and that I want be able to fulfil. Are you saying that I do have other methods? But they have already moved forward with another candidate. Yes that's who I contacted at the beginning of my search Thats true in some aspect I believe that's the only positive part dealing with this situation,

I believe that's the only positive part dealing with this situation,

Your coworkers obviously look up to you and would appreciate your leadership in mentoring.

Providing Suggestions

11,412

neutral

0.007017

0.000061

0.000202

0.001115

0.97865

0.006298

0.006657

low empathy, low relevance

976

10

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else. So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down. Yes I've tried asking the administration office and they said since its been over 10 yrs that those files are stored in another building. They went to the building and wasn't able to find it. So at this point my hands are tied and I'm screwed. I've done that but so many people look up to me and its just hard to for me to be there on a daily basis knowing that I had this big opportunity and that I want be able to fulfil. Are you saying that I do have other methods? But they have already moved forward with another candidate. Yes that's who I contacted at the beginning of my search Thats true in some aspect I believe that's the only positive part dealing with this situation, Ive been a mentor 3 years out of 3 1/2 years Ive been with company

Ive been a mentor 3 years out of 3 1/2 years Ive been with company

Take this oppertunity to share your experience with your coworkers and reach out to your management for more training that is available to you.

Take this oppertunity to share your experience with your coworkers and reach out to your management for more training that is available to you. Perhaps you can take some online classes on your own and show management that you are taking an interest in advancing in the company.

Self-disclosure, Information

Self-disclosure

11,413

neutral

0.010324

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0.000376

0.005652

0.954937

0.007329

0.021116

low empathy, low relevance

976

11

sadness

job_crisis

I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

4

3

Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else. So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down. Yes I've tried asking the administration office and they said since its been over 10 yrs that those files are stored in another building. They went to the building and wasn't able to find it. So at this point my hands are tied and I'm screwed. I've done that but so many people look up to me and its just hard to for me to be there on a daily basis knowing that I had this big opportunity and that I want be able to fulfil. Are you saying that I do have other methods? But they have already moved forward with another candidate. Yes that's who I contacted at the beginning of my search Thats true in some aspect I believe that's the only positive part dealing with this situation, Ive been a mentor 3 years out of 3 1/2 years Ive been with company Thats a good ideal ill think about doing that. Thanks for your advice

Thats a good ideal ill think about doing that. Thanks for your advice

Your welcome I'm glad I was able to help. Is there anything else I can help you with?

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I was currently offered a job promotion to become a supervisor. I've been with the company for over 3 years. My supervisor was only requested for me to bring in my 12th grade transcripts, and that's something I'm not able to get my hands on. So with that being said I will have to stay an agent,

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Hello I guess my day is going fairly well. I just got some bad news and its got me down. Well I was given a promotion at my job to take a supervisor position. The only thing that my supervisor needed from me was my 12th grade transcripts, and I'm having a hard time getting them. They have given me a total of 3 weeks and I wasn't able to accomplish it .So they had to go with someone else. So it pretty much has me down, because my other co-workers were looking for me to step up and i feel that I've let them down. Yes I've tried asking the administration office and they said since its been over 10 yrs that those files are stored in another building. They went to the building and wasn't able to find it. So at this point my hands are tied and I'm screwed. I've done that but so many people look up to me and its just hard to for me to be there on a daily basis knowing that I had this big opportunity and that I want be able to fulfil. Are you saying that I do have other methods? But they have already moved forward with another candidate. Yes that's who I contacted at the beginning of my search Thats true in some aspect I believe that's the only positive part dealing with this situation, Ive been a mentor 3 years out of 3 1/2 years Ive been with company Thats a good ideal ill think about doing that. Thanks for your advice Thats it have a blessed day

Thats it have a blessed day

OK goodbye.

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

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I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time.

It seems that you are feeling blue and upset by others, right?

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

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3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her.

Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her.

From the short conversation, I can feel how sad you are.

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

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3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her. Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do.

Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do.

What kind of arguments did you have with your mom?

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

5

2

3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her. Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do. Like the kind of friends I should have. I believe I have freedom to choose my friends not her.

Like the kind of friends I should have. I believe I have freedom to choose my friends not her.

I had similar situation like yours. My mom did not want me to make friends with some people.

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

5

2

3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her. Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do. Like the kind of friends I should have. I believe I have freedom to choose my friends not her. Really? How did you deal with that because for me it makes me angry.

Really? How did you deal with that because for me it makes me angry.

I just had good conversations with my mom to express my thoughts. Did you have a frank chat with your mom to express your concerns?

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anger

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

5

2

3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her. Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do. Like the kind of friends I should have. I believe I have freedom to choose my friends not her. Really? How did you deal with that because for me it makes me angry. I try to but it never ends well if I don't agree with her suggestions.

I try to but it never ends well if I don't agree with her suggestions.

Take a deep breath and it can make you feel better.

Take a deep breath and it can make you feel better. What are her concerns about your friends?

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anger

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

5

2

3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her. Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do. Like the kind of friends I should have. I believe I have freedom to choose my friends not her. Really? How did you deal with that because for me it makes me angry. I try to but it never ends well if I don't agree with her suggestions. OK! I have taken a deep breath.

OK! I have taken a deep breath.

ok, that's good. tell me more about your mom's concerns of your friends.

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anger

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

5

2

3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her. Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do. Like the kind of friends I should have. I believe I have freedom to choose my friends not her. Really? How did you deal with that because for me it makes me angry. I try to but it never ends well if I don't agree with her suggestions. OK! I have taken a deep breath. She feels that they have some bad influence on me because of their family background. I don't do anything bad with them. Some of my friends are so good they even inspire me to be better everyday.

She feels that they have some bad influence on me because of their family background. I don't do anything bad with them. Some of my friends are so good they even inspire me to be better everyday.

My mom told me similar concerns before. It is understandable.

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anger

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

5

2

3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her. Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do. Like the kind of friends I should have. I believe I have freedom to choose my friends not her. Really? How did you deal with that because for me it makes me angry. I try to but it never ends well if I don't agree with her suggestions. OK! I have taken a deep breath. She feels that they have some bad influence on me because of their family background. I don't do anything bad with them. Some of my friends are so good they even inspire me to be better everyday. All I need is to find a way to show her that I can make some good decisions as well and that she can trust me to make good friends. I have never gotten into trouble before with my friends

All I need is to find a way to show her that I can make some good decisions as well and that she can trust me to make good friends. I have never gotten into trouble before with my friends

My suggestion is that tell her these facts and she can make a better decision. I think she assumed your friends are bad influencers just based on their family background.

Providing Suggestions

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anger

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

5

2

3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her. Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do. Like the kind of friends I should have. I believe I have freedom to choose my friends not her. Really? How did you deal with that because for me it makes me angry. I try to but it never ends well if I don't agree with her suggestions. OK! I have taken a deep breath. She feels that they have some bad influence on me because of their family background. I don't do anything bad with them. Some of my friends are so good they even inspire me to be better everyday. All I need is to find a way to show her that I can make some good decisions as well and that she can trust me to make good friends. I have never gotten into trouble before with my friends Do I need to buy her a gift or something to let her know I care so as to start the conversation?

Do I need to buy her a gift or something to let her know I care so as to start the conversation?

Yes, a good idea, it pleases her.

Providing Suggestions

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anger

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I'm angry at my mother, she never seems to understand me and always criticize everything I do whether good or bad.

5

2

3

I have mixed feelings sad and angry at the same time. Yes. Am sad because I love my mom so much and I never like to get into arguments with her. Yes. My mom never approves of most of the things I do. Like the kind of friends I should have. I believe I have freedom to choose my friends not her. Really? How did you deal with that because for me it makes me angry. I try to but it never ends well if I don't agree with her suggestions. OK! I have taken a deep breath. She feels that they have some bad influence on me because of their family background. I don't do anything bad with them. Some of my friends are so good they even inspire me to be better everyday. All I need is to find a way to show her that I can make some good decisions as well and that she can trust me to make good friends. I have never gotten into trouble before with my friends Do I need to buy her a gift or something to let her know I care so as to start the conversation? Thank you for your time. Bye

Thank you for your time. Bye

You are welcome. Hope it will go well.

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I've had some degree of depression for a long time. Longer than this damn pandemic. I've always been a homebody but not leaving the house at all for almost three months was a lot. A lot has happened over the past year and I'm not sure how to handle it all. I feel alone even when there are people around.

4

3

Hello

How are you doing today?

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I've had some degree of depression for a long time. Longer than this damn pandemic. I've always been a homebody but not leaving the house at all for almost three months was a lot. A lot has happened over the past year and I'm not sure how to handle it all. I feel alone even when there are people around.

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3

Hello Okay. How are you?

Okay. How are you?

Trying to be positive about the dumpster fire of 2020 lol, but positivity is kind of hard to maintain wouldn't you say?

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I've had some degree of depression for a long time. Longer than this damn pandemic. I've always been a homebody but not leaving the house at all for almost three months was a lot. A lot has happened over the past year and I'm not sure how to handle it all. I feel alone even when there are people around.

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3

Hello Okay. How are you? It really, really is. Things just pile up, you know?

It really, really is. Things just pile up, you know?

Totally! It's hard to plan for success when life seems a bit uncertain. Is there anything in particular that's bothering you?

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anxiety

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I've had some degree of depression for a long time. Longer than this damn pandemic. I've always been a homebody but not leaving the house at all for almost three months was a lot. A lot has happened over the past year and I'm not sure how to handle it all. I feel alone even when there are people around.

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3

Hello Okay. How are you? It really, really is. Things just pile up, you know? It's a combination of things. I have no idea what I'm doing most days, just kind of going through the motions. Kind of like Groundhog Day, repeating the same day over and over with slightly different variations. Trying to get things done and taken care of, thinking I'm doing my best and feeling like it's never good enough. Feeling like I'm failing all the time.

It's a combination of things. I have no idea what I'm doing most days, just kind of going through the motions. Kind of like Groundhog Day, repeating the same day over and over with slightly different variations. Trying to get things done and taken care of, thinking I'm doing my best and feeling like it's never good enough. Feeling like I'm failing all the time.

Ah yes, the cog in the machine sort of vibe. Boy do I feel that. Well, the good thing is your not alone. The bad thing is societal pressure demands that we be productive or we think we're wasting time. When's the last time you took a day to enjoy something you like to do?

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anxiety

ongoing_depression

I've had some degree of depression for a long time. Longer than this damn pandemic. I've always been a homebody but not leaving the house at all for almost three months was a lot. A lot has happened over the past year and I'm not sure how to handle it all. I feel alone even when there are people around.

4

3

Hello Okay. How are you? It really, really is. Things just pile up, you know? It's a combination of things. I have no idea what I'm doing most days, just kind of going through the motions. Kind of like Groundhog Day, repeating the same day over and over with slightly different variations. Trying to get things done and taken care of, thinking I'm doing my best and feeling like it's never good enough. Feeling like I'm failing all the time. It's been a long time since I did that, I can't even remember when I don't get many opportunities like that.

It's been a long time since I did that, I can't even remember when I don't get many opportunities like that.

What activity or activities are you thinking about? Anything that you enjoy or makes you smile.

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