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academic_pressure
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
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Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times. Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive. That's what I keep telling myself, but I have this overarching fear that I will be in debt forever then. That makes me feel better. yes, somewhat, but who loves school? S Somewhat, but all I feel I have time for is the school work not the social aspect so much some Yes at times, which makes things a little better in the moment.
Yes at times, which makes things a little better in the moment.
Do you feel that your friends are able to empathise with your situation? Are any of them going through the same thing?
Do you feel that your friends are able to empathise with your situation? Are any of them going through the same thing?
Question
Question
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I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
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Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times. Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive. That's what I keep telling myself, but I have this overarching fear that I will be in debt forever then. That makes me feel better. yes, somewhat, but who loves school? S Somewhat, but all I feel I have time for is the school work not the social aspect so much some Yes at times, which makes things a little better in the moment. they all have more independence and pay for their own things, so they can't really relate to me. That is where I feel behind in life than everyone else.
they all have more independence and pay for their own things, so they can't really relate to me. That is where I feel behind in life than everyone else.
Would it be possible for you to get a part time job of some description? Maybe bar tending or working in a restaurant?
Would it be possible for you to get a part time job of some description? Maybe bar tending or working in a restaurant?
Question
Question
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anxiety
academic_pressure
I have this overwhelming fear and pressure that my mother will not be accepting of my grades in school. This pressure has caused me to feel anxiety everyday and perfect all homework assignments which I do not have time for.
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Yes, I am feeling very anxious about my school work lately. Yes, I am focusing on my grades and the pressure I feel from my mom. she wants me to get all A's. I feel she has too high of expectations sometimes, which makes me feel like I need to perfect my assignments and spend all this time on them. No, I do well, it just causes me a great amount of stress. I feel like as long as I am meeting the requirements and am passing, she should be proud of my accomplishments. She should be proud I am even going to college. Exactly. I feel like there is this society stereotype of needing straight A's otherwise you are a failure or something. A bit, but she uses the "I pay for your education" card. Which makes sense, but still, I know I am doing well so it's just a lot at times. I agree, but she does have money over my head, which sucks. Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for her financial support, but she uses it to manipulate me at times. Yes, I have received multiple scholarships, but nothing that will make a dent in the tuition. College is too expensive. That's what I keep telling myself, but I have this overarching fear that I will be in debt forever then. That makes me feel better. yes, somewhat, but who loves school? S Somewhat, but all I feel I have time for is the school work not the social aspect so much some Yes at times, which makes things a little better in the moment. they all have more independence and pay for their own things, so they can't really relate to me. That is where I feel behind in life than everyone else. That gives me social anxiety, which is something I also struggle with greatly.
That gives me social anxiety, which is something I also struggle with greatly.
Ah I suffer from terrible social anxiety myself so I hear you
Ah I suffer from terrible social anxiety myself so I hear you I hope I have been able to provide you with some useful advice!
Self-disclosure, Others
Self-disclosure
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Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
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I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely.
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely.
I understand you keep experiencing anxiety attacks.
I understand you keep experiencing anxiety attacks. Is there any common cause for the attacks?
Restatement or Paraphrasing, Question
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
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2
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5
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely. None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere
None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere
Is there any specific stimuli that takes place just before or within an hour prior to the attacks?
Is there any specific stimuli that takes place just before or within an hour prior to the attacks?
Question
Question
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
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2
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5
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely. None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere Any stimulation triggers me really, a lot of noise, lights, but mostly my thoughts are very loud
Any stimulation triggers me really, a lot of noise, lights, but mostly my thoughts are very loud
You are not alone, a lot of people experience anxiety attacks due to physical stimuli.
You are not alone, a lot of people experience anxiety attacks due to physical stimuli. Have you looked into mindfulness exercises or meditation?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions
Affirmation and Reassurance
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
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2
3
5
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely. None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere Any stimulation triggers me really, a lot of noise, lights, but mostly my thoughts are very loud I feel so alone though, it doesn't bring me any comfort to know that other people have them yes, and they do help, but there are days that it doesn't matter what I do, and today is one of them
I feel so alone though, it doesn't bring me any comfort to know that other people have them yes, and they do help, but there are days that it doesn't matter what I do, and today is one of them
I have experienced Anxiety myself and meditation helped me for the most part, I also found that I wasn't sleeping enough and being tired made my attacks longer.
I have experienced Anxiety myself and meditation helped me for the most part, I also found that I wasn't sleeping enough and being tired made my attacks longer. Are you sleeping okay at night?
Self-disclosure, Providing Suggestions
Self-disclosure
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
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3
5
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely. None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere Any stimulation triggers me really, a lot of noise, lights, but mostly my thoughts are very loud I feel so alone though, it doesn't bring me any comfort to know that other people have them yes, and they do help, but there are days that it doesn't matter what I do, and today is one of them I'm getting plenty of sleep, and I do practice meditation, maybe not as often as I should, I meditate five minutes per day
I'm getting plenty of sleep, and I do practice meditation, maybe not as often as I should, I meditate five minutes per day
I would suggest trying Mindfulness exercises for at least 15 minutes every day and see if that helps.
I would suggest trying Mindfulness exercises for at least 15 minutes every day and see if that helps.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
5
2
3
5
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely. None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere Any stimulation triggers me really, a lot of noise, lights, but mostly my thoughts are very loud I feel so alone though, it doesn't bring me any comfort to know that other people have them yes, and they do help, but there are days that it doesn't matter what I do, and today is one of them I'm getting plenty of sleep, and I do practice meditation, maybe not as often as I should, I meditate five minutes per day I'll see if that helps, I'm really low on energy right now because it just takes so much out of me
I'll see if that helps, I'm really low on energy right now because it just takes so much out of me
I understand, Sometimes the Mindfulness exercises help me get more productive sleep.
I understand, Sometimes the Mindfulness exercises help me get more productive sleep.
Information
Information
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
5
2
3
5
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely. None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere Any stimulation triggers me really, a lot of noise, lights, but mostly my thoughts are very loud I feel so alone though, it doesn't bring me any comfort to know that other people have them yes, and they do help, but there are days that it doesn't matter what I do, and today is one of them I'm getting plenty of sleep, and I do practice meditation, maybe not as often as I should, I meditate five minutes per day I'll see if that helps, I'm really low on energy right now because it just takes so much out of me I try to do mindfulness before bed, but I'm always too tired. I think it would be better if I did them in the afternoon at some point, did you use guided meditation?
I try to do mindfulness before bed, but I'm always too tired. I think it would be better if I did them in the afternoon at some point, did you use guided meditation?
I did, ASMR guidance seems to help me most, but I happen to be ASMR sensative, perhaps you are as well? They seem to help with my anxiety as well.
I did, ASMR guidance seems to help me most, but I happen to be ASMR sensative, perhaps you are as well? They seem to help with my anxiety as well.
Information
Information
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
5
2
3
5
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely. None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere Any stimulation triggers me really, a lot of noise, lights, but mostly my thoughts are very loud I feel so alone though, it doesn't bring me any comfort to know that other people have them yes, and they do help, but there are days that it doesn't matter what I do, and today is one of them I'm getting plenty of sleep, and I do practice meditation, maybe not as often as I should, I meditate five minutes per day I'll see if that helps, I'm really low on energy right now because it just takes so much out of me I try to do mindfulness before bed, but I'm always too tired. I think it would be better if I did them in the afternoon at some point, did you use guided meditation? Are those the videos on youtube where the sound is enhanced? Those are soothing
Are those the videos on youtube where the sound is enhanced? Those are soothing
Yes, Kind of like whispers, almost like Bob Ross on those old painting videos.
Yes, Kind of like whispers, almost like Bob Ross on those old painting videos.
Others
Others
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
5
2
3
5
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely. None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere Any stimulation triggers me really, a lot of noise, lights, but mostly my thoughts are very loud I feel so alone though, it doesn't bring me any comfort to know that other people have them yes, and they do help, but there are days that it doesn't matter what I do, and today is one of them I'm getting plenty of sleep, and I do practice meditation, maybe not as often as I should, I meditate five minutes per day I'll see if that helps, I'm really low on energy right now because it just takes so much out of me I try to do mindfulness before bed, but I'm always too tired. I think it would be better if I did them in the afternoon at some point, did you use guided meditation? Are those the videos on youtube where the sound is enhanced? Those are soothing Just talking about my anxiety has helped a lot actually, and I do enjoy bob ross, hadn't thought of that as therapeutic but it makes sense
Just talking about my anxiety has helped a lot actually, and I do enjoy bob ross, hadn't thought of that as therapeutic but it makes sense
I am glad I could be helpful.
I am glad I could be helpful.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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low empathy, high relevance
1042
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anxiety
ongoing_depression
Every day is a struggle, I wake up feeling hopeless, and I am having really bad anxiety attacks that I can't calm down from.
5
2
3
5
I'm having a hard time each day, but today especially. I keep having anxiety attacks that come on suddenly and intensely. None that I have figured out yet, they just seem to come on out of nowhere Any stimulation triggers me really, a lot of noise, lights, but mostly my thoughts are very loud I feel so alone though, it doesn't bring me any comfort to know that other people have them yes, and they do help, but there are days that it doesn't matter what I do, and today is one of them I'm getting plenty of sleep, and I do practice meditation, maybe not as often as I should, I meditate five minutes per day I'll see if that helps, I'm really low on energy right now because it just takes so much out of me I try to do mindfulness before bed, but I'm always too tired. I think it would be better if I did them in the afternoon at some point, did you use guided meditation? Are those the videos on youtube where the sound is enhanced? Those are soothing Just talking about my anxiety has helped a lot actually, and I do enjoy bob ross, hadn't thought of that as therapeutic but it makes sense Yes, thank you for your help Take care now!
Yes, thank you for your help Take care now!
Be Well!
Be Well!
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
12,204
happy
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low empathy, high relevance
1051
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anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working,
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working,
So you feel that you need to be able to relax and unwind once in a while but you can't?
So you feel that you need to be able to relax and unwind once in a while but you can't?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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low empathy, low relevance
1051
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anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
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3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off.
I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off.
Ah that can be a problem. Is this causing problems or tensions within your relationships?
Ah that can be a problem. Is this causing problems or tensions within your relationships?
Question
Question
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1051
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anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time.
A little I feel stressed all the time.
I have experienced something similar. I found myself getting short tempered and taking things out on my loved ones.
I have experienced something similar. I found myself getting short tempered and taking things out on my loved ones.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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1051
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anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career
Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career
Have you considered any kind of counselling to talk through these feelings? There are some organisations around that will offer help for free
Have you considered any kind of counselling to talk through these feelings? There are some organisations around that will offer help for free Perhaps honestly talking things through with your partner would really help you both too.
Information, Providing Suggestions
Information
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anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it
I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it
I hear you saying that you are putting your work ahead of everything else in your life, is that correct?
I hear you saying that you are putting your work ahead of everything else in your life, is that correct?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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1051
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anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills.
Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills.
Nonetheless, there is no need to make it the entire focus of your life, especially if it is impacting on other aspects of it.
Nonetheless, there is no need to make it the entire focus of your life, especially if it is impacting on other aspects of it.
Others
Others
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1051
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anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills. Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling
Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling
Do you feel that you have to hit unrealistic goals and meet unrealistic expectations?
Do you feel that you have to hit unrealistic goals and meet unrealistic expectations?
Question
Question
12,303
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1051
8
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills. Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling Oh yes all the timr
Oh yes all the timr
I personally sometimes find it difficult not to be too hard on myself. Sometimes I have to remind myself to relax and have fun once in a while.
I personally sometimes find it difficult not to be too hard on myself. Sometimes I have to remind myself to relax and have fun once in a while.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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1051
9
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills. Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling Oh yes all the timr Yes I would agree with you there. It feels harder to escape and have a fun night right now
Yes I would agree with you there. It feels harder to escape and have a fun night right now
It has been a very hard year for everyone, I know and I sympathise. Can you think of one specific thing you'd really like to do that might cheer you up?
It has been a very hard year for everyone, I know and I sympathise. Can you think of one specific thing you'd really like to do that might cheer you up?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
12,305
happy
0.000425
0.000051
0.000012
0.997305
0.001713
0.000229
0.000265
low empathy, low relevance
1051
10
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills. Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling Oh yes all the timr Yes I would agree with you there. It feels harder to escape and have a fun night right now Get together with friends and explore a new restaurant Which isnt possible yet
Get together with friends and explore a new restaurant Which isnt possible yet
That sounds like a really fun thing to do! Can you plan one evening soon where you and your friends will do this and you will promise yourself that you won't cancel in favour of work?
That sounds like a really fun thing to do! Can you plan one evening soon where you and your friends will do this and you will promise yourself that you won't cancel in favour of work?
Others
Others
12,306
angry
0.427384
0.006004
0.002845
0.010875
0.305884
0.148879
0.09813
low empathy, low relevance
1051
11
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills. Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling Oh yes all the timr Yes I would agree with you there. It feels harder to escape and have a fun night right now Get together with friends and explore a new restaurant Which isnt possible yet The issue is I cant with covid
The issue is I cant with covid
Ah yes that is a big problem. Are restaurants closed where you are?
Ah yes that is a big problem. Are restaurants closed where you are? What about getting together with just a couple of friends for a picnic?
Question, Providing Suggestions
Question
12,307
sad
0.380982
0.001557
0.014091
0.000944
0.133034
0.409498
0.059893
low empathy, low relevance
1051
12
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills. Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling Oh yes all the timr Yes I would agree with you there. It feels harder to escape and have a fun night right now Get together with friends and explore a new restaurant Which isnt possible yet The issue is I cant with covid I like that idea but its 30 here. Maybe something like that or a walk with some spiked drinks
I like that idea but its 30 here. Maybe something like that or a walk with some spiked drinks
I think that the important thing is to get out of the office and have some human contact. I do agree that it's a really miserable time of year for it though
I think that the important thing is to get out of the office and have some human contact. I do agree that it's a really miserable time of year for it though
Others
Others
12,308
neutral
0.003528
0.000102
0.000114
0.001169
0.931628
0.000569
0.06289
low empathy, low relevance
1051
13
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills. Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling Oh yes all the timr Yes I would agree with you there. It feels harder to escape and have a fun night right now Get together with friends and explore a new restaurant Which isnt possible yet The issue is I cant with covid I like that idea but its 30 here. Maybe something like that or a walk with some spiked drinks Yes. Human contact and ideally in person would so help
Yes. Human contact and ideally in person would so help
I hope I have been able to give you a little perspective on your problems! Is there something else you'd like to talk to me about today?
I hope I have been able to give you a little perspective on your problems! Is there something else you'd like to talk to me about today?
Question
Question
12,309
neutral
0.001665
0.000055
0.000378
0.000299
0.99184
0.002884
0.002878
low empathy, low relevance
1051
14
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills. Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling Oh yes all the timr Yes I would agree with you there. It feels harder to escape and have a fun night right now Get together with friends and explore a new restaurant Which isnt possible yet The issue is I cant with covid I like that idea but its 30 here. Maybe something like that or a walk with some spiked drinks Yes. Human contact and ideally in person would so help I think you have helped step back. Sometimes when you are in the middle of it you cant find a way out.
I think you have helped step back. Sometimes when you are in the middle of it you cant find a way out.
That is very true. Try and remember that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
That is very true. Try and remember that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks for talking and have a lovely rest of day!
Others, Others
Others
12,310
neutral
0.008409
0.000062
0.000249
0.000157
0.978152
0.004542
0.008429
low empathy, low relevance
1051
15
anxiety
job_crisis
Trying to balance the long demanding work hours with having family time. Im getting mentally drained and not able to recharge.
4
3
3
3
Hello. Im hoping you can help me as Im having a hard time recharging. I cant seem to take a day off without working, I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and cant shut it off. A little I feel stressed all the time. Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career I dont have time for thst Or feel that I dont have time for it Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills. Yes but I guess Im trying to find that balance and struggling Oh yes all the timr Yes I would agree with you there. It feels harder to escape and have a fun night right now Get together with friends and explore a new restaurant Which isnt possible yet The issue is I cant with covid I like that idea but its 30 here. Maybe something like that or a walk with some spiked drinks Yes. Human contact and ideally in person would so help I think you have helped step back. Sometimes when you are in the middle of it you cant find a way out. Thank you. You too. I guess I should go try to be present with my family. Please enjoy your day
Thank you. You too. I guess I should go try to be present with my family. Please enjoy your day
Yes :)
Yes :) You just need to press quit and take the survey :)
Others, Others
Others
12,311
happy
0.00014
0.00002
0.000007
0.999436
0.000297
0.000042
0.000058
low empathy, low relevance
1054
1
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so.
Hako So so.
What's wrong?
What's wrong?
Question
Question
12,333
neutral
0.002613
0.000072
0.000063
0.001783
0.991933
0.000288
0.003248
low empathy, low relevance
1054
2
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season
kind of down holiday season
I'm sorry to hear that, what about the holidays has you down?
I'm sorry to hear that, what about the holidays has you down?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
12,334
sad
0.000314
0.000164
0.000063
0.000069
0.001029
0.998106
0.000255
low empathy, low relevance
1054
3
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself
loneliness by myself
Do you live alone or do you have other family members in the same house?
Do you live alone or do you have other family members in the same house?
Question
Question
12,335
sad
0.001711
0.000691
0.000192
0.000031
0.002106
0.995073
0.000197
low empathy, low relevance
1054
4
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south
i live alone I am looking to move south
I'm sorry to hear that, do you have family that lives nearby?
I'm sorry to hear that, do you have family that lives nearby?
Others
Others
12,336
neutral
0.004734
0.000267
0.00323
0.00045
0.714286
0.271784
0.005249
low empathy, low relevance
1054
5
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me
My family is allover the country no family near me
Are there some in the South?
Are there some in the South?
Others
Others
12,337
neutral
0.009662
0.000131
0.001451
0.000231
0.799685
0.187018
0.001821
low empathy, low relevance
1054
6
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north
I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north
Is there a reason you're trying to get further away from family?
Is there a reason you're trying to get further away from family?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
12,338
neutral
0.002909
0.000115
0.000641
0.002271
0.8403
0.151763
0.002001
low empathy, low relevance
1054
7
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older
I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older
That sounds like a good idea then. Meet someone to settle down with and get through this with.
That sounds like a good idea then. Meet someone to settle down with and get through this with.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,339
neutral
0.004106
0.000088
0.00018
0.000924
0.983797
0.005167
0.005737
low empathy, low relevance
1054
8
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older That is my goal. Also get to teh beach
That is my goal. Also get to teh beach
I'm in the North, so anything outdoors sounds nice right about now.
I'm in the North, so anything outdoors sounds nice right about now.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
12,340
neutral
0.002104
0.00006
0.000128
0.002259
0.993675
0.00053
0.001246
low empathy, low relevance
1054
9
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older That is my goal. Also get to teh beach I used to live up north but the cold got to me
I used to live up north but the cold got to me
It's definitely not for everyone. Amazing how temperature can mess with your mood as well. Something about sun and sand can really put you in a good mood.
It's definitely not for everyone. Amazing how temperature can mess with your mood as well. Something about sun and sand can really put you in a good mood.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
12,341
sad
0.00369
0.000936
0.000609
0.000128
0.1723
0.819692
0.002645
low empathy, low relevance
1054
10
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older That is my goal. Also get to teh beach I used to live up north but the cold got to me i grew up in the snow country
i grew up in the snow country
Same here, we have snow on the ground and negative temps projected for later in the week.
Same here, we have snow on the ground and negative temps projected for later in the week.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
12,342
neutral
0.0017
0.000057
0.000167
0.000772
0.993349
0.001014
0.002941
low empathy, low relevance
1054
11
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older That is my goal. Also get to teh beach I used to live up north but the cold got to me i grew up in the snow country I heard. I was heading north but the weather stopped me
I heard. I was heading north but the weather stopped me
Are you spending the holidays with anyone if you're not heading north?
Are you spending the holidays with anyone if you're not heading north?
Information
Information
12,343
fear
0.004062
0.00033
0.937372
0.001104
0.031959
0.02023
0.004943
low empathy, low relevance
1054
12
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older That is my goal. Also get to teh beach I used to live up north but the cold got to me i grew up in the snow country I heard. I was heading north but the weather stopped me no the virus stopped it I will be alone and not anyone around
no the virus stopped it I will be alone and not anyone around
I'm sorry to hear that, this is such a crazy year for everyone. I'm sorry to hear you'll be alone. Have you ever considered volunteering?
I'm sorry to hear that, this is such a crazy year for everyone. I'm sorry to hear you'll be alone. Have you ever considered volunteering?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
12,344
neutral
0.039484
0.000369
0.006373
0.000324
0.908207
0.04009
0.005153
low empathy, low relevance
1054
13
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older That is my goal. Also get to teh beach I used to live up north but the cold got to me i grew up in the snow country I heard. I was heading north but the weather stopped me no the virus stopped it I will be alone and not anyone around not where I am at. Just staying low because of the virus
not where I am at. Just staying low because of the virus
It's smart to be safe.
It's smart to be safe.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
12,345
neutral
0.02977
0.000326
0.000359
0.000158
0.9236
0.030445
0.015341
low empathy, low relevance
1054
14
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older That is my goal. Also get to teh beach I used to live up north but the cold got to me i grew up in the snow country I heard. I was heading north but the weather stopped me no the virus stopped it I will be alone and not anyone around not where I am at. Just staying low because of the virus Where I am the virus isn't bad. Just hoping to get to Florida soon
Where I am the virus isn't bad. Just hoping to get to Florida soon
Maybe you can do some research on areas and places to move during the holidays. Look forward to when you can sit on the beach.
Maybe you can do some research on areas and places to move during the holidays. Look forward to when you can sit on the beach.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
12,346
neutral
0.002021
0.000064
0.000247
0.000345
0.994251
0.002105
0.000968
low empathy, low relevance
1054
15
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older That is my goal. Also get to teh beach I used to live up north but the cold got to me i grew up in the snow country I heard. I was heading north but the weather stopped me no the virus stopped it I will be alone and not anyone around not where I am at. Just staying low because of the virus Where I am the virus isn't bad. Just hoping to get to Florida soon I have been but I can't plan a date until the 1st
I have been but I can't plan a date until the 1st
That's coming up pretty quick though so that's good
That's coming up pretty quick though so that's good
Information
Information
12,347
neutral
0.056783
0.000249
0.001775
0.001186
0.872581
0.026752
0.040675
low empathy, low relevance
1054
16
sadness
ongoing_depression
Time of the year when family is not around
3
2
3
3
Hako So so. kind of down holiday season loneliness by myself i live alone I am looking to move south My family is allover the country no family near me I am in Georgia trying to go to Florida My family is up north I am trying to start and settle down I am single/divorced and want to start fresh My family knows that. I am older That is my goal. Also get to teh beach I used to live up north but the cold got to me i grew up in the snow country I heard. I was heading north but the weather stopped me no the virus stopped it I will be alone and not anyone around not where I am at. Just staying low because of the virus Where I am the virus isn't bad. Just hoping to get to Florida soon I have been but I can't plan a date until the 1st Yes and I will start south again Ok. Thanks for the chat. Have a good night
Yes and I will start south again Ok. Thanks for the chat. Have a good night
No problem, you as well. Have a great holiday season.
No problem, you as well. Have a great holiday season.
Others
Others
12,348
happy
0.000883
0.000021
0.000016
0.998885
0.000128
0.00002
0.000046
low empathy, low relevance
1060
1
anger
ongoing_depression
Quarantine keeps going on and on.
3
2
3
3
I swear, I can't take these lockdowns anymore.
I swear, I can't take these lockdowns anymore.
I can definetely understand why. During this pandemic we have been more isolated than ever
I can definetely understand why. During this pandemic we have been more isolated than ever It's not easy
Reflection of feelings, Self-disclosure
Reflection of feelings
12,408
angry
0.83413
0.003766
0.062148
0.001447
0.059934
0.028736
0.009838
low empathy, low relevance
1060
2
anger
ongoing_depression
Quarantine keeps going on and on.
3
2
3
3
I swear, I can't take these lockdowns anymore. I mean it's one thing to limit capacities in places, but to say we're not allowed to go to our friends' and family's home is just plain ridiculous.
I mean it's one thing to limit capacities in places, but to say we're not allowed to go to our friends' and family's home is just plain ridiculous.
It is more than reasonable to be frustrated with regards to that. I myself have not been able to visit my ill mother. She lives in another country, so it's especially difficult.
It is more than reasonable to be frustrated with regards to that. I myself have not been able to visit my ill mother. She lives in another country, so it's especially difficult.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
12,409
angry
0.97929
0.006137
0.000078
0.00007
0.011884
0.001594
0.000948
low empathy, low relevance
1060
3
anger
ongoing_depression
Quarantine keeps going on and on.
3
2
3
3
I swear, I can't take these lockdowns anymore. I mean it's one thing to limit capacities in places, but to say we're not allowed to go to our friends' and family's home is just plain ridiculous. That is a shame. I mean I know people can still do Zoom or Facetime, but I imagine you can related to me in knowing that both of those options are not the same as face to face.
That is a shame. I mean I know people can still do Zoom or Facetime, but I imagine you can related to me in knowing that both of those options are not the same as face to face.
Exactly, the experience feels like it lacks the main connection we share with our loved ones. It is totally normal to want to be face to face instead.
Exactly, the experience feels like it lacks the main connection we share with our loved ones. It is totally normal to want to be face to face instead.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,410
sad
0.018389
0.013926
0.0002
0.000082
0.005332
0.958436
0.003635
low empathy, low relevance
1060
4
anger
ongoing_depression
Quarantine keeps going on and on.
3
2
3
3
I swear, I can't take these lockdowns anymore. I mean it's one thing to limit capacities in places, but to say we're not allowed to go to our friends' and family's home is just plain ridiculous. That is a shame. I mean I know people can still do Zoom or Facetime, but I imagine you can related to me in knowing that both of those options are not the same as face to face. I think that's the other thing that these lockdowns are doing; they're sucking the emotional aspects out of activities and pastimes we love. Instead of laughing or jumping with fright in theaters with everyone, we now have to do it with ourselves. Rather than cheering as an audience over a touchdown, it's now a crowd of one. It just feels robotic now.
I think that's the other thing that these lockdowns are doing; they're sucking the emotional aspects out of activities and pastimes we love. Instead of laughing or jumping with fright in theaters with everyone, we now have to do it with ourselves. Rather than cheering as an audience over a touchdown, it's now a crowd of one. It just feels robotic now.
I agree with you, what used to be super-exciting activities now have a much more monotonous feeling.
I agree with you, what used to be super-exciting activities now have a much more monotonous feeling. However, it's not the end of the world. Thankfully, researchers have just came up with a vaccine prototype I heard.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Information
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,411
neutral
0.032335
0.001799
0.002709
0.02056
0.898244
0.025231
0.019122
low empathy, low relevance
1060
5
anger
ongoing_depression
Quarantine keeps going on and on.
3
2
3
3
I swear, I can't take these lockdowns anymore. I mean it's one thing to limit capacities in places, but to say we're not allowed to go to our friends' and family's home is just plain ridiculous. That is a shame. I mean I know people can still do Zoom or Facetime, but I imagine you can related to me in knowing that both of those options are not the same as face to face. I think that's the other thing that these lockdowns are doing; they're sucking the emotional aspects out of activities and pastimes we love. Instead of laughing or jumping with fright in theaters with everyone, we now have to do it with ourselves. Rather than cheering as an audience over a touchdown, it's now a crowd of one. It just feels robotic now. Yeah, but even with the distribution, some people are saying that things won't return to normal till about late spring/early summer. It's certainly maddening.
Yeah, but even with the distribution, some people are saying that things won't return to normal till about late spring/early summer. It's certainly maddening.
I know it's not easy, but try to think of this whole situation of a challenge that you are overcoming. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. You will come out of this ready for any hardships that life might throw at you.
I know it's not easy, but try to think of this whole situation of a challenge that you are overcoming. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. You will come out of this ready for any hardships that life might throw at you.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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Quarantine keeps going on and on.
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I swear, I can't take these lockdowns anymore. I mean it's one thing to limit capacities in places, but to say we're not allowed to go to our friends' and family's home is just plain ridiculous. That is a shame. I mean I know people can still do Zoom or Facetime, but I imagine you can related to me in knowing that both of those options are not the same as face to face. I think that's the other thing that these lockdowns are doing; they're sucking the emotional aspects out of activities and pastimes we love. Instead of laughing or jumping with fright in theaters with everyone, we now have to do it with ourselves. Rather than cheering as an audience over a touchdown, it's now a crowd of one. It just feels robotic now. Yeah, but even with the distribution, some people are saying that things won't return to normal till about late spring/early summer. It's certainly maddening. I guess, I still think our responce to this was sloppy at best. I mean, lockdown the healthy masses due to a discease with a 99% survival rate? It just doesn't make sense in my book. I'm just glad this silliness will be over soon.
I guess, I still think our responce to this was sloppy at best. I mean, lockdown the healthy masses due to a discease with a 99% survival rate? It just doesn't make sense in my book. I'm just glad this silliness will be over soon.
It will hopefully be over sooner than we think.
It will hopefully be over sooner than we think. Just try to keep a positive attitude, focus on the things you like, and time will fly. I know it can be hard, but I am sure you got this
Affirmation and Reassurance, Providing Suggestions, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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Quarantine keeps going on and on.
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I swear, I can't take these lockdowns anymore. I mean it's one thing to limit capacities in places, but to say we're not allowed to go to our friends' and family's home is just plain ridiculous. That is a shame. I mean I know people can still do Zoom or Facetime, but I imagine you can related to me in knowing that both of those options are not the same as face to face. I think that's the other thing that these lockdowns are doing; they're sucking the emotional aspects out of activities and pastimes we love. Instead of laughing or jumping with fright in theaters with everyone, we now have to do it with ourselves. Rather than cheering as an audience over a touchdown, it's now a crowd of one. It just feels robotic now. Yeah, but even with the distribution, some people are saying that things won't return to normal till about late spring/early summer. It's certainly maddening. I guess, I still think our responce to this was sloppy at best. I mean, lockdown the healthy masses due to a discease with a 99% survival rate? It just doesn't make sense in my book. I'm just glad this silliness will be over soon. I think over time (sooner than later hopefully) I'll be able to get over it. Thank you very much for talking to me.
I think over time (sooner than later hopefully) I'll be able to get over it. Thank you very much for talking to me.
It has been a pleasure : )
It has been a pleasure : )
Others
Others
12,414
neutral
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0.00007
0.000925
0.006646
0.984658
0.00434
0.002088
low empathy, low relevance
1060
8
anger
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Quarantine keeps going on and on.
3
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3
3
I swear, I can't take these lockdowns anymore. I mean it's one thing to limit capacities in places, but to say we're not allowed to go to our friends' and family's home is just plain ridiculous. That is a shame. I mean I know people can still do Zoom or Facetime, but I imagine you can related to me in knowing that both of those options are not the same as face to face. I think that's the other thing that these lockdowns are doing; they're sucking the emotional aspects out of activities and pastimes we love. Instead of laughing or jumping with fright in theaters with everyone, we now have to do it with ourselves. Rather than cheering as an audience over a touchdown, it's now a crowd of one. It just feels robotic now. Yeah, but even with the distribution, some people are saying that things won't return to normal till about late spring/early summer. It's certainly maddening. I guess, I still think our responce to this was sloppy at best. I mean, lockdown the healthy masses due to a discease with a 99% survival rate? It just doesn't make sense in my book. I'm just glad this silliness will be over soon. I think over time (sooner than later hopefully) I'll be able to get over it. Thank you very much for talking to me. Have a good day :)
Have a good day :)
You too!
You too!
Others
Others
12,415
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0.000164
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1068
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
3
2
4
2
Hello.
Hello.
Good evening, what is going on?
Good evening, what is going on?
Question
Question
12,488
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
3
2
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2
Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests.
Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests.
What about the exams is making you nervous?
What about the exams is making you nervous?
Information
Information
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
3
2
4
2
Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests. Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes.
Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes.
What steps have you taken to make sure you do not do poorly?
What steps have you taken to make sure you do not do poorly?
Information
Information
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
3
2
4
2
Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests. Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes. I study and I have gone to all my classes but I feel like I don't know the information well enough.
I study and I have gone to all my classes but I feel like I don't know the information well enough.
That is understandable. Sometimes we feel like we do not know enough. Have you tried to have someone quiz you?
That is understandable. Sometimes we feel like we do not know enough. Have you tried to have someone quiz you?
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
3
2
4
2
Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests. Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes. I study and I have gone to all my classes but I feel like I don't know the information well enough. Yes. I didn't do well on my quizzes.
Yes. I didn't do well on my quizzes.
Okay, since you didn't do well, it seems you can pinpoint what you need to work on. That is a good starting point.
Okay, since you didn't do well, it seems you can pinpoint what you need to work on. That is a good starting point.
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
3
2
4
2
Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests. Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes. I study and I have gone to all my classes but I feel like I don't know the information well enough. Yes. I didn't do well on my quizzes. Yes, that is a good point. I need to manage my nervousness too because it causes me to make silly mistakes.
Yes, that is a good point. I need to manage my nervousness too because it causes me to make silly mistakes.
Depending on how far your exams are, you can create a plan. Practice what you don't know daily, until you do know it.
Depending on how far your exams are, you can create a plan. Practice what you don't know daily, until you do know it.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
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2
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Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests. Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes. I study and I have gone to all my classes but I feel like I don't know the information well enough. Yes. I didn't do well on my quizzes. Yes, that is a good point. I need to manage my nervousness too because it causes me to make silly mistakes. That's really good advice.
That's really good advice.
Just trying to make life easier for others. Sometimes we don't see our solutions because of our anxiety.
Just trying to make life easier for others. Sometimes we don't see our solutions because of our anxiety.
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
3
2
4
2
Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests. Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes. I study and I have gone to all my classes but I feel like I don't know the information well enough. Yes. I didn't do well on my quizzes. Yes, that is a good point. I need to manage my nervousness too because it causes me to make silly mistakes. That's really good advice. Yes and it's definitely causing me to not think clearly.
Yes and it's definitely causing me to not think clearly.
Its best to take deep breaths and talk to someone who will help guide you.
Its best to take deep breaths and talk to someone who will help guide you.
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
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2
Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests. Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes. I study and I have gone to all my classes but I feel like I don't know the information well enough. Yes. I didn't do well on my quizzes. Yes, that is a good point. I need to manage my nervousness too because it causes me to make silly mistakes. That's really good advice. Yes and it's definitely causing me to not think clearly. I agree. I just feel bad burdening people with my issues .
I agree. I just feel bad burdening people with my issues .
Don't be. You would be surprised how many people are willing to help. Websites like Reddit are filled with many people wanting to give advice.
Don't be. You would be surprised how many people are willing to help. Websites like Reddit are filled with many people wanting to give advice.
Information
Information
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
3
2
4
2
Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests. Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes. I study and I have gone to all my classes but I feel like I don't know the information well enough. Yes. I didn't do well on my quizzes. Yes, that is a good point. I need to manage my nervousness too because it causes me to make silly mistakes. That's really good advice. Yes and it's definitely causing me to not think clearly. I agree. I just feel bad burdening people with my issues . Okay, I will give Te ddit a whirl. sorry Reddit
Okay, I will give Te ddit a whirl. sorry Reddit
I hope it helps for future endeavors
I hope it helps for future endeavors
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I have finals coming up and I am really nervous and I don't feel prepared.
3
2
4
2
Hello. Hi. I have finals coming up and I am so so nervous about taking these tests. Taking them. I'm afraid I'm going to do poorly and have to retake the classes. I study and I have gone to all my classes but I feel like I don't know the information well enough. Yes. I didn't do well on my quizzes. Yes, that is a good point. I need to manage my nervousness too because it causes me to make silly mistakes. That's really good advice. Yes and it's definitely causing me to not think clearly. I agree. I just feel bad burdening people with my issues . Okay, I will give Te ddit a whirl. sorry Reddit Thank you for taking the time to chat with me. I appreciate your advice.v a dvice*
Thank you for taking the time to chat with me. I appreciate your advice.v a dvice*
You are welcome :)
You are welcome :)
Others
Others
12,498
happy
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0.000014
0.00002
0.99926
0.000228
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0.000115
high empathy, low relevance
1075
1
anxiety
job_crisis
My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad.
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad.
What's the problem?
What's the problem?
Question
Question
12,563
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My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round.
My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round.
Why do you think you are the next round? Do you know how did they choose them?
Why do you think you are the next round? Do you know how did they choose them?
Question
Question
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My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level.
Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level.
I know, this year was stressful for everyone in our planet, so you are not alone
I know, this year was stressful for everyone in our planet, so you are not alone What's the worst scenario do you think will happen?
Affirmation and Reassurance, Question
Affirmation and Reassurance
12,565
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job_crisis
My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job.
I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job.
Did you try searching for new jobs?
Did you try searching for new jobs?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know?
I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know?
Hmmmm, First of all stop being panicked, You still have your job
Hmmmm, First of all stop being panicked, You still have your job
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know? I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next.
I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next.
The good thing is you anticipate losing your job, so you have the advantage here
The good thing is you anticipate losing your job, so you have the advantage here
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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anxiety
job_crisis
My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know? I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next. How so?
How so?
You can prepare yourself for that! yes, as simple as this
You can prepare yourself for that! yes, as simple as this Search for new jobs, get help from your wife and friends
Information, Information
Information
12,569
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1075
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anxiety
job_crisis
My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know? I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next. How so? What kind of help?
What kind of help?
Search locally and online, If you try enough you will see the results soon
Search locally and online, If you try enough you will see the results soon
Information
Information
12,570
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1075
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anxiety
job_crisis
My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know? I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next. How so? What kind of help? I've been searching for the past month. It's just been so hard trying to break through to an interview.
I've been searching for the past month. It's just been so hard trying to break through to an interview.
Help in searching for jobs and supporting you emotionally
Help in searching for jobs and supporting you emotionally
Others
Others
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1075
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anxiety
job_crisis
My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
3
2
Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know? I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next. How so? What kind of help? I've been searching for the past month. It's just been so hard trying to break through to an interview. It's been frustrating. I've sent out 50 resumes and got 3 interviews.
It's been frustrating. I've sent out 50 resumes and got 3 interviews.
Let me be straight ok? you somehow don't have any other options but searching
Let me be straight ok? you somehow don't have any other options but searching You can do it! who knows! maybe you will get a better job
Information, Affirmation and Reassurance
Information
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My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
5
4
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Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know? I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next. How so? What kind of help? I've been searching for the past month. It's just been so hard trying to break through to an interview. It's been frustrating. I've sent out 50 resumes and got 3 interviews. Do you have any tips? It just seems I can't find a thng thing
Do you have any tips? It just seems I can't find a thng thing
Look at this situation as an opportunity, you still have your job and you can search for even a better job
Look at this situation as an opportunity, you still have your job and you can search for even a better job
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My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
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Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know? I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next. How so? What kind of help? I've been searching for the past month. It's just been so hard trying to break through to an interview. It's been frustrating. I've sent out 50 resumes and got 3 interviews. Do you have any tips? It just seems I can't find a thng thing Yes, that's what I've been trying to do. I just can't find anything. Or get my foot in the door anywhere
Yes, that's what I've been trying to do. I just can't find anything. Or get my foot in the door anywhere
Don't get disappointed, put effort, seek new methods for searching, research online
Don't get disappointed, put effort, seek new methods for searching, research online
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Providing Suggestions
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My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
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Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know? I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next. How so? What kind of help? I've been searching for the past month. It's just been so hard trying to break through to an interview. It's been frustrating. I've sent out 50 resumes and got 3 interviews. Do you have any tips? It just seems I can't find a thng thing Yes, that's what I've been trying to do. I just can't find anything. Or get my foot in the door anywhere Do you know any new methods for searching?
Do you know any new methods for searching?
Ask around locally, maybe there is an organization locally for support in this pandemic situation
Ask around locally, maybe there is an organization locally for support in this pandemic situation
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Providing Suggestions
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My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.
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Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad. My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round. Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level. I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job. I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know? I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next. How so? What kind of help? I've been searching for the past month. It's just been so hard trying to break through to an interview. It's been frustrating. I've sent out 50 resumes and got 3 interviews. Do you have any tips? It just seems I can't find a thng thing Yes, that's what I've been trying to do. I just can't find anything. Or get my foot in the door anywhere Do you know any new methods for searching? Yeah that's been a problem. With cuts in the budget my local resource center is closed down. Anyway I know you tried your best. Thanks for listening.
Yeah that's been a problem. With cuts in the budget my local resource center is closed down. Anyway I know you tried your best. Thanks for listening.
I hope I could help a little
I hope I could help a little
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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Hello. I am so worried about losing my job.
Hello. I am so worried about losing my job.
Hello! How are you today?
Hello! How are you today? You are feeling anxious about the future?
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday.
I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday.
Ok. You are making some assumptions on information you have about your company. Remember that you may not know the whole story.
Ok. You are making some assumptions on information you have about your company. Remember that you may not know the whole story. I, too, have made assumptions that affection my outlook and caused anxiety. My assumptions were often wrong.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Self-disclosure, Self-disclosure
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday. Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know.
Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know.
Ok. Have you thought about a plan? When you tell your family, it may help to state your planned actions. This may help with feelings of uncertainty, both theirs and yours.
Ok. Have you thought about a plan? When you tell your family, it may help to state your planned actions. This may help with feelings of uncertainty, both theirs and yours. When I have been in a similar situation, I started reaching out to my network of friends and coworkers before I was let go.
Providing Suggestions, Self-disclosure
Providing Suggestions
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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1
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Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday. Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know. Yea I just hate to do it today or tomorrow with it being Christmas. We do have a saving so that is good. But it will only last about 2 months.
Yea I just hate to do it today or tomorrow with it being Christmas. We do have a saving so that is good. But it will only last about 2 months.
I know. This is the worst time of year for this news. Surprisingly, it happens very often.
I know. This is the worst time of year for this news. Surprisingly, it happens very often. Having 2 months of savings is FANTASTIC! More than most people.
Affirmation and Reassurance, Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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1
4
3
Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday. Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know. Yea I just hate to do it today or tomorrow with it being Christmas. We do have a saving so that is good. But it will only last about 2 months. Yea. We have been saving snice the start of Covid. I knew this day would come it just hard at this time.
Yea. We have been saving snice the start of Covid. I knew this day would come it just hard at this time.
Do you anticipate any roadblocks to finding new employment in your industry?
Do you anticipate any roadblocks to finding new employment in your industry? I understand your feelings. The holidays are a joyous time. No place for uncertainty.
Question, Restatement or Paraphrasing
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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1
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Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday. Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know. Yea I just hate to do it today or tomorrow with it being Christmas. We do have a saving so that is good. But it will only last about 2 months. Yea. We have been saving snice the start of Covid. I knew this day would come it just hard at this time. In my area yes. I can find some in bigger cities but I don't want to move. Yes Christmas is my families favorite time for sure.
In my area yes. I can find some in bigger cities but I don't want to move. Yes Christmas is my families favorite time for sure.
Do you think that outlining a plan of action, and sharing that with your family will help turn this around a bit? Perhaps, think about as looking forward to a better opportunity in your future?
Do you think that outlining a plan of action, and sharing that with your family will help turn this around a bit? Perhaps, think about as looking forward to a better opportunity in your future?
Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday. Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know. Yea I just hate to do it today or tomorrow with it being Christmas. We do have a saving so that is good. But it will only last about 2 months. Yea. We have been saving snice the start of Covid. I knew this day would come it just hard at this time. In my area yes. I can find some in bigger cities but I don't want to move. Yes Christmas is my families favorite time for sure. Yes I am thinking on Sunday would be good and maybe by gods help we will have a stimulus deal.
Yes I am thinking on Sunday would be good and maybe by gods help we will have a stimulus deal.
The stimulus has helped a lot of people get through this tough time. Sounds like you will feel much more secure knowing that you will have some income, and not have to use your savings that you worked so hard for.
The stimulus has helped a lot of people get through this tough time. Sounds like you will feel much more secure knowing that you will have some income, and not have to use your savings that you worked so hard for.
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday. Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know. Yea I just hate to do it today or tomorrow with it being Christmas. We do have a saving so that is good. But it will only last about 2 months. Yea. We have been saving snice the start of Covid. I knew this day would come it just hard at this time. In my area yes. I can find some in bigger cities but I don't want to move. Yes Christmas is my families favorite time for sure. Yes I am thinking on Sunday would be good and maybe by gods help we will have a stimulus deal. Yes and that will allow me to keep working as well. Which I want to do. I love my job.
Yes and that will allow me to keep working as well. Which I want to do. I love my job.
It's a wonderful thing to love your job. I love mine, as well, and would feel bad if it were put at risk.
It's a wonderful thing to love your job. I love mine, as well, and would feel bad if it were put at risk.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday. Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know. Yea I just hate to do it today or tomorrow with it being Christmas. We do have a saving so that is good. But it will only last about 2 months. Yea. We have been saving snice the start of Covid. I knew this day would come it just hard at this time. In my area yes. I can find some in bigger cities but I don't want to move. Yes Christmas is my families favorite time for sure. Yes I am thinking on Sunday would be good and maybe by gods help we will have a stimulus deal. Yes and that will allow me to keep working as well. Which I want to do. I love my job. Thanks I'm so glad I was able to chat with you. I feel so much better already.
Thanks I'm so glad I was able to chat with you. I feel so much better already.
Your hard work and savings will get you through, no matter what happens or the gods decree. You have demonstrated that you can take care of yourself and your family.
Your hard work and savings will get you through, no matter what happens or the gods decree. You have demonstrated that you can take care of yourself and your family.
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
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Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday. Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know. Yea I just hate to do it today or tomorrow with it being Christmas. We do have a saving so that is good. But it will only last about 2 months. Yea. We have been saving snice the start of Covid. I knew this day would come it just hard at this time. In my area yes. I can find some in bigger cities but I don't want to move. Yes Christmas is my families favorite time for sure. Yes I am thinking on Sunday would be good and maybe by gods help we will have a stimulus deal. Yes and that will allow me to keep working as well. Which I want to do. I love my job. Thanks I'm so glad I was able to chat with you. I feel so much better already. Thank you. So much for your help and kind words. You saved my Christmas spirt.
Thank you. So much for your help and kind words. You saved my Christmas spirt.
I can say that many friends of mine have found new jobs, most have left their old ones willingly for new opportunities. There are out there.
I can say that many friends of mine have found new jobs, most have left their old ones willingly for new opportunities. There are out there.
Self-disclosure
Self-disclosure
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I am afraid that I will be out of work after the Christmas vacation. I work for a small company and they were counting on the new stimulus funding.
4
1
4
3
Hello. I am so worried about losing my job. I am doing so-so. I just found out that my company was going to be using the new round of the paycheck protection from the stimulus to pay us. Now that didn't get afford and I think we will be laid off on Monday. Well they sent out a email letting us know of the situation. SO I am also sure it is going to happen. I'm not sure how to let my family know. Yea I just hate to do it today or tomorrow with it being Christmas. We do have a saving so that is good. But it will only last about 2 months. Yea. We have been saving snice the start of Covid. I knew this day would come it just hard at this time. In my area yes. I can find some in bigger cities but I don't want to move. Yes Christmas is my families favorite time for sure. Yes I am thinking on Sunday would be good and maybe by gods help we will have a stimulus deal. Yes and that will allow me to keep working as well. Which I want to do. I love my job. Thanks I'm so glad I was able to chat with you. I feel so much better already. Thank you. So much for your help and kind words. You saved my Christmas spirt. I may start looking on Monday to see what's out there Have a Merry Christmas!!
I may start looking on Monday to see what's out there Have a Merry Christmas!!
Consider making your plan of action, regardless of what happens with the stimulus. THis is an unprecedented time. There may be ways to...use it to your advantage.
Consider making your plan of action, regardless of what happens with the stimulus. THis is an unprecedented time. There may be ways to...use it to your advantage. You, too. Thank you, and take care :-)
Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
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My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
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Hi.
Hi.
How may I help you today?
How may I help you today?
Others
Others
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My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
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Hi. I'm feeling really angry.
I'm feeling really angry.
Why?
Why?
Question
Question
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My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
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Hi. I'm feeling really angry. My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed.
My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed.
So your boss never showed up to cover people on PTO is that correct?
So your boss never showed up to cover people on PTO is that correct?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
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My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
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Hi. I'm feeling really angry. My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed. yes
yes
Did anybody ever get in contact with her and to see why she never showed up?
Did anybody ever get in contact with her and to see why she never showed up?
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My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
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Hi. I'm feeling really angry. My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed. yes Yes, she said she decided she was also taking PTO. Even though she had already said she would help cover.
Yes, she said she decided she was also taking PTO. Even though she had already said she would help cover.
I understand how you are feeling because i would be angry to
I understand how you are feeling because i would be angry to I feel like she should of let everyone know that before she decided to do that
Reflection of feelings, Information
Reflection of feelings
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My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
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Hi. I'm feeling really angry. My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed. yes Yes, she said she decided she was also taking PTO. Even though she had already said she would help cover. Agreed, but at this point I just need to get over it so I can help pick up the slack. But i'm just so upset.
Agreed, but at this point I just need to get over it so I can help pick up the slack. But i'm just so upset.
Have you personally had a conversation with her and tell her how you was feeling?
Have you personally had a conversation with her and tell her how you was feeling?
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My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
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Hi. I'm feeling really angry. My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed. yes Yes, she said she decided she was also taking PTO. Even though she had already said she would help cover. Agreed, but at this point I just need to get over it so I can help pick up the slack. But i'm just so upset. No, i'm afraid to bring it up.
No, i'm afraid to bring it up.
Don't be afraid to bring it up because you did nothing wrong
Don't be afraid to bring it up because you did nothing wrong
Affirmation and Reassurance
Affirmation and Reassurance
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My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
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2
3
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Hi. I'm feeling really angry. My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed. yes Yes, she said she decided she was also taking PTO. Even though she had already said she would help cover. Agreed, but at this point I just need to get over it so I can help pick up the slack. But i'm just so upset. No, i'm afraid to bring it up. But what if she gets mad?
But what if she gets mad?
I don't see why she would get mad but if she does then just leave it alone and move on and just do your job
I don't see why she would get mad but if she does then just leave it alone and move on and just do your job That is what i would do
Providing Suggestions, Providing Suggestions
Providing Suggestions
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My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
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2
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Hi. I'm feeling really angry. My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed. yes Yes, she said she decided she was also taking PTO. Even though she had already said she would help cover. Agreed, but at this point I just need to get over it so I can help pick up the slack. But i'm just so upset. No, i'm afraid to bring it up. But what if she gets mad? Yea, I guess so.
Yea, I guess so.
I honestly do not think she will get mad just try to talk to her
I honestly do not think she will get mad just try to talk to her I would just let it go because to me it's not worth being mad over for a long time you have to just let it go
Others, Self-disclosure
Others
12,765
neutral
0.005692
0.000076
0.000095
0.00168
0.97936
0.000838
0.012258
low empathy, high relevance
1091
10
anger
job_crisis
My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
4
2
3
5
Hi. I'm feeling really angry. My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed. yes Yes, she said she decided she was also taking PTO. Even though she had already said she would help cover. Agreed, but at this point I just need to get over it so I can help pick up the slack. But i'm just so upset. No, i'm afraid to bring it up. But what if she gets mad? Yea, I guess so. I think I will. I guess i'm worried because I had already expressed my concern with having multiple people on PTO and she specifically said, "it's okay because I can help cover" So she just completely disregarded what I said.
I think I will. I guess i'm worried because I had already expressed my concern with having multiple people on PTO and she specifically said, "it's okay because I can help cover" So she just completely disregarded what I said.
I understand she should of talked to you about changing her mind
I understand she should of talked to you about changing her mind
Reflection of feelings
Reflection of feelings
12,766
fear
0.001888
0.000155
0.992683
0.000067
0.003664
0.001258
0.000286
low empathy, high relevance
1091
11
anger
job_crisis
My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.
4
2
3
5
Hi. I'm feeling really angry. My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed. yes Yes, she said she decided she was also taking PTO. Even though she had already said she would help cover. Agreed, but at this point I just need to get over it so I can help pick up the slack. But i'm just so upset. No, i'm afraid to bring it up. But what if she gets mad? Yea, I guess so. I think I will. I guess i'm worried because I had already expressed my concern with having multiple people on PTO and she specifically said, "it's okay because I can help cover" So she just completely disregarded what I said. So is it even worth bringing it up at all?
So is it even worth bringing it up at all?
I mean you know it won't hurt to try to bring it up and see what happens
I mean you know it won't hurt to try to bring it up and see what happens seems to me your boss is not doing her job right
Providing Suggestions, Others
Providing Suggestions
12,767
neutral
0.030033
0.00033
0.000449
0.00029
0.677408
0.003639
0.287851
low empathy, high relevance
1096
1
depression
issues_with_parents
My parents have this expectation of me to give back to them even though I'm not financially stable yet
4
3
2
4
I am the youngest of 5 siblings and I feel all most days now because of my parents
I am the youngest of 5 siblings and I feel all most days now because of my parents
It sounds like you're having a hard time feeling like you have your parents' attention, is that right?
It sounds like you're having a hard time feeling like you have your parents' attention, is that right?
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Restatement or Paraphrasing
12,814
neutral
0.004177
0.000157
0.000126
0.010304
0.957451
0.018645
0.00914
low empathy, high relevance