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Right now, I'm really like this girl who I've been friends for a while, like 6+ years. I've only really started liking her a few months ago. Things were great, we hung out a lot, we were (and still are) really good friends. But I feel like she's really trying to friends zone me right now. I've talked to some of her other friends and they've said that she kinda likes me too, but it sounds like more of a friend thing. I've been texting her a bunch, but she's in Washington right now, so I can't exactly hang out with her. Usually I'm pretty shy and lazy, but I really like this girl and I'm willing to try anything, please help!! | Crushes |
I have had a crush on a girl, whom ill call T, for months now. At the beginning of the year I heard rumors that she liked me, but I wasn't interested in her, or really anybody at that time. I had other things to focus on. Now I find myself thinking about her all the time, and I thought I should just ask her out. She told me that I'm a great guy but she just wanted to be my friend. I was crushed. We continue to talk and for all I try, I can't stop thinking about her. I know I missed my opportunity and I feel like an idiot for it. I think I reached the point of no return and that there's no chance. What should I do? Have any if you had solar experiences? Really I just wanted to vent so thank you for reading this. It means a lot. | Crushes |
So I've liked this girl since the first day of high school. I text her but I don't have any classes with her this year. I was going to ask her out the end of last year but I pussied out. Like I was saying I text her only and don't get to talk to her in person because I never see her. Only a couple of my friends know of my crush. I don't want to ruin my friendship with her. I am not over weight or anything just really low confidence and self esteem. I could really use some advice. Also I think she likes somebody else :( | Crushes |
Well, here it is. I am semi in-love with a girl named J, for privacy purposes. I am C, a fun loving, overweight, musician who is in the chamber orchestra and other classes with J. I'm 16, but I look like a fat 14 year old, so obviously, physical attractiveness isn't my main strength.
Okay, I'm going to be CONFIDENT now, not cocky. CONFIDENT.
I am also going to sound like a tool, but keep in mind Im only trying to convey the situation and portray my strengths.
I am a talented guitarist and bassist, and I am funny. People seem to think so, anyways.
The ISSUE, is that J is hot.
Like, really really hot.
Like, super duper hot.
But thats not the full reason I like her. She is funny, wicked smart, talented, and interally beautiful as well. The issue is,
getting over the physical aspect.
Tips?
also, I am in the jazz band for guitar and bass and the chamber group if its worth anything.
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Hello Reddit I hope some people ready this and help me out
So I have this huge crush in a girl named Tatiana and I've known her for 8 months, barely 4-5 weeks ago we've started talking more like friends ( we weren't the best friends in the world at the beginning) and I keep on thinking of ways to tell her I like her ( btw I'm sorta kinda overweight and she's really skinny and I'm planning on losing weight this summer) I don't think she likes me back so I don't want to embarrass myself I'd ask my friends but they'd tell her and I'd shit my pants she thinks I'm sorta kinda funny and I just want to go out with her but I'm afraid of what it will be like to risk our sorta kinda growing friendship I started liking her maybe 3-4 months ago and i don't know how this will turn out I'm in a very depressive state and I'm afraid that if I do get to go out with her and we break up my depression will be worst ( by the way I'm 13 she's 14 and I'm depressed because I've been bullied A LOT and I've gotten my ass beat I've been embarrassed pantsed and other bully stuff ) I don't know what to do and school ends in two weeks please help Reddit | Crushes |
My crush is not normal. I am a 14 year old girl with an EXTREME crush on my 29 year old female band director. She has been the last thing I've thought about before falling asleep and the first thing I've thought about after waking up for 7 months. I need advice. I can't stop thinking about her and try to make myself closer to her. I have kept track of all the times that I can see her in the halls; I dress extra-nice on the days I will see her for stage crew or marching band; I'm taking a taking concert band over a study hall next semester just so I can see her every day; I joined marching band, jazz band, and stage crew to be closer to her. She isn't the kind of teacher that everyone likes, either. She is quiet and awkward, but I feel a special connection with her because I see myself in her. She makes deep, double-meaning jokes that usually only I understand. She also graduated valedictorian of our high school in 2001. I, too, am intelligent; I skipped a grade in elementary school. We can have steady conversations if we can get them started... which doesn't usually happen. Whenever I had to leave band practice early for volleyball games, she always told me good luck, which she didn't do to the volleyball players last year. (There were about 7 volleyball players in the band last year, but I am the only one this year.) I also feel like she goes out of her way to help me, to look after me. ex, we had a special maneuver in marching band for senior night that was uncomfortable for me when i went down on one knee. She switched my "half" of the field (which really wasn't half) to the knee I wanted and kept the other half the same. Note that our marching band is tiny, only about 40 people with the fronts and managers.
She is unmarried and childless, but I can't tell if she is lesbian or bisexual like I am. She probably doesn't know I am either; she knows that I have had two boyfriends since I entered the high school, but no girlfriends. I don't want a boy/girl friend, either. I know she is probably a lost cause, but I am really saving my heart for her.
Since I skipped a grade, I will be 17 when I graduate. I was thinking of telling her then, but that could cause problems. I intend to tell her eventually, but I don't know when it would be best. Since she is the marching band director, I could attend a football game and ask for a moment alone, but I will still be 17 during the football season after I graduate.
Then there's the possibility that I do tell her on the night of my graduation and she says she likes me back. Wouldn't it be a bit straightforward of me to impose a 4-6 year romantic hiatus on someone who may not like me as much as I like them? If she says she'll wait, then what? It would make my life to be with her for the rest of our lives. But, we live in Pennsylvania, where gay marriage is currently outlawed. That could change, but I don't know.
AND THEN there's the fact that student-teacher relationships are kind of illegal. I'm not stupid enough to act on my crush right now, but even FORMER student-teacher relationships are sorta frowned upon.
tl;dr I'm in love with my band director, I am doing all I can to get close to her, and I need help. | Crushes |
So, there is this girl. We'll call her Derpina.
We never really talked when I first met her. I could have...
She was different. She was smart, pretty, and unique in her own way.
I couldn't stop thinking about her, but I couldn't muster the courage to talk to her. So, when I made a tumblr, I asked her how to do something to the blog. We ended up talking for hours and I learned so much about her. Suddenly, she became like ecstasy to me. I couldn't stop obsessing.
Although, I never got to talk to her in person. I never had a proper conversation with her in person.
And when I found out she liked my friend, and that she had for a while, it crushed me. Adding insult to injury, she lives in another city.
I still love her. Everything about her. Her looks, Her personality.
It saddens me everytime I think of anything that could remind me of her.
She was the first girl I actually liked because of who she was, not what she looked like.
And she'll never know.
Fuck.
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I'm sure this is not what you want, but I and just about every straight guy out there and probably some gay men too have a crush on her. I'll probably get down voted for this post, but meh, do I care? No!
So my story about Zooey:
It all started with the movie Elf. I didn't know who she was then, and I fell in love.
Then she was in the movie Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy and it was like a match made in Heaven. My favorite book and one of my favorite actresses.
Then, that's not all she's a musician and I bought her albums. She's actually not that bad.
Of course, this continues to go on and on. She's also an atheist, which is cool. She's a bit of a nerd and does things online, including twitter etc.
Plus, she's cute as hell. My wife knows all about my infatuation with her. Although, in reality, I'm not sure what she's like as a person so if I ever did meet her and she was "available" I'm sure she wouldn't date me, even if I was single, but a man can dream can't he? | Crushes |
So In my middle school year there was this kid who was new at the begining of a semester. His name is Jonny. He was really cute, funny, and was nice to EVERYONE. At the beggining of the semester my friend had my cell written in her planner. He circled it and asked who it was. Then for about 2 weeks he kept asking who I was and my friend would only give hints. He then gave her his email to give to me. I emailed him. The nexxt day he said hi. about 1 week later i got his cell phone number. the thing is that i blush whenever i talk or hear about him. I had a sleepover that night with a friend. I ended up texting him till about 11:30. We txted alot for the next week. But it all went wrong when 2 of my friends went up to him and asked if he liked me. He stopped texting me after that. I only said Hi a few times since then but that is it. He never liked me though :( | Crushes |
Any stories you have about your crush that you would like to share are welcome! We need posts for this subreddit to be exciting for everyone, so please help to get this started! it has potential!!!<3 | Crushes |
I'm following a masters course in my hometown. I've begun it in November, last year. That's when I met this girl, she's a classmate. I slowly got to know her and i think i've fallen in love.
She's not your average girl. Why's that? I'll try to explain:
Now, most girls i knew were the idealist type. That means, they always think about romance, their future along their husbands, marriage, how many kids they'll have etc. Dreamers and stuff. You get the point.
This girl has the exact opposite personality. I could say, she's a realist person. More like the type who is focused on her carreer. The type which is not easily impressed, or very hard to be impressed. She always seems busy.
Not quite an expressive person. Not much of a talker, mostly talks if she's spoken to. Don't get me wrong, she's not an antisocial freak. She's quite sociable, but rather silent.
Mostly has a blank face with a slight beautiful smile. She's a good girl, dutiful,conscientious, not the party animal type. She likes to party, but not the wild way, I hope you get it, my English is pretty limited.
Might also be a workaholic, she looked for work RIGHT after she finished college and she seems to be quite dedicated to her career. I'm not quite like that. I just couldn't wait to finish college to get LOTS of sleep and dedicate my time to hobbies, until I find a job. And sometimes just slacking off, wasting some time, relaxing.
She seems quite mature for her age, she's 24. I'm only 22, i still sometimes have funny childish behaviour, but i like it that way. Makes me feel even younger than i really am.
Problem is:
I see her quite rarely, every two weeks. This is the masters course schedule. I always look forward to it, because she's a reason for me make it worthwhile waking up early in the morning just to go and see her.:) She's so charming... Just hearing her voice is so soothing for my ears. Whenever i see her my heart just twinges.
She doesn't live in the town i live, but she's not far. I'm always thinking of her. Whenever i was having a good time , having fun, stuff like that, she popped up in my mind, rapidly killing my good mood for the day.
Since i see her so rarely, i think it's just weird to ask her out. She doesn't quite know me, I don't quite know her. Wasn't a problem asking a girl out back in college which i was seeing her almost everyday at school. But this.... i don't want her to look at me like a weirdo.
We get along fine, but there's a bad thing: when we went to a club, together, all the classmates, I gently grabbed her waist for a dance. She seemed like she didn't like it, taking my hand off her waist and not saying anything, not even a facial expression... no girl has ever done this to me, rather weird... Since this, i have a hunch that she's feeling uneasy sometimes when i'm around. At first i acted a little awkward around her, you know, guys and their crushes....
Well, she seems untouchable. I don't know anything about her past.
So, we get along just fine when it comes to small talk, hobby talk etc.
But i dunno.....
If i ask some girl out and get rejected, no problem.
I didn't confess my feelings about her, because i'm unsure of what she thinks of me. I dropped some hints on her, subtle flirting, but i don't know if she realised it.
Maybe she thinks that I'm a complete waste of space, since i don't have a job(yet), i've got lots of free time and don't do anything much, except hobbies, maybe going out sometimes with my friends. If she thinks like that of me, asking her out could be disastruous. It would be just weird after that.
Should i just ask her out, or should i just get over it?
Sorry for long post. :D
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The sexual tension with me and my crush has gone over the flippin' top over the last few hours.
We poked each other on FB non-stop for at least an hour now. It started with her tagging me on some vines, then I liked some of her photos, but now it's something animalistic. No chat. No contact. Only pokes. I think this is going somewhere. What do I do? | Crushes |
Okay so I am homeschooled, and I haven't had a boyfriend, ever, and I like this guy. He's 6 months younger than me and we talk on FB. But I am too nervous to talk to him in person and that really gets on my nerves that I can't say anything to him in person.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, there's also a girl I know that has come forward about liking him, and she told him, via text message. And I am extremely quiet. A few days ago, I was talking to him on FB and he said "Hey wanna hear something funny" and I said sure, and he said "For someone who doesn't talk much (in person) you talk alot (on the internet) which is true. But then he told me he used to be the same way. What the heck should I do??!? | Crushes |
I'm 28. My sister's 24. My crush is 22.
Obviously it's not out of the ordinary, but it's new to me...
I'm sure it happens in almost everyone's life and it's just an *interesting* thing to experience for the first time...
(I wish I could come up with a better word.) | Crushes |
I am interested with this girl in my anatomy class. We been speaking quite frequently for a year and she has become a close friend of mine. However I wish to be more than just friends but I'm afraid that if I make my move I'll lose her as a friend. To make matters worse we're graduating in a month and if I don't do anything I might never get the chance. Someone please help. | Crushes |
Okay so my dad got stationed in Japan, and its cool but Im tired of moving so my mom little brother and dad all moved to japan but I stayed behind and moved in with some family friends which is cool again cause I have known this family all my life its my dads best friend and my moms really good friends with his wife so everything is good. Well I moved in with them and stay in the guest room right next door too this little shit lets call him Link (he used to be obsessed with the legend of zelda so we gave him that nickname) Link is a dick to me all the time and really rude and just annoying but for some reason ive always had a thing for him and never said anything well now you see where the problem is I live with him and its been about a month. We constantly get into fights and arguments and wrestle and fight but we never get along I get along fine with everyone too like im not saying im a perfect person but I get along with everyone like I get along with his friends and his school likes me both his siblings like me he has a little brother and little sister but they all like me he always says I have ugly eyes ( they're green) and his are brown no offense but thats not better than mine and he says he likes blue eyes like why would he tell me that just too be mean? Idk im mean to him because he is to me but i really like him I always had a crush on him and idk what to do is he being mean to me cause he likes me back or is he just a dick? Cause he always is pretty rude to everyone and he always dumps girls and leaves them all heart broken and it would just be weird dating him and living with him I dont wanna get screwed over cause a lot of girls say hes a dick but they still like him!? P.s. ive always been reading but never made an account im new to reddit I just needed to get it off my chest! | Crushes |
There's this girl in my math class that I sorta kinda really like. I have only spoken to her once, because I accidentally took her calculator and had to give it back. I have seen her social media profiles (not in a stalking way, trust me) and I know we at least a few of the same ideals and interests, but I only see her once a day in that class. I can never must up any courage to speak to her, I guess mostly because we're barely acquaintances, and I get nervous around really pretty girls.
I know I have a crush on her because she doesn't same smile often, so just getting to see her smile makes me fell all happy inside. It's weird. Her rare smile makes me happy, I wish I could see it more often.
I guess I should say I'm 14 and she's 15. How should I try talking to her? I have zero experience with girls whatsoever so I'm clueless. | Crushes |
Right now, I'm really like this girl who I've been friends for a while, like 6+ years. I've only really started liking her a few months ago. Things were great, we hung out a lot, we were (and still are) really good friends. But I feel like she's really trying to friends zone me right now. I've talked to some of her other friends and they've said that she kinda likes me too, but it sounds like more of a friend thing. I've been texting her a bunch, but she's in Washington right now, so I can't exactly hang out with her. Usually I'm pretty shy and lazy, but I really like this girl and I'm willing to try anything, please help!! | Crushes |
I have had a crush on a girl, whom ill call T, for months now. At the beginning of the year I heard rumors that she liked me, but I wasn't interested in her, or really anybody at that time. I had other things to focus on. Now I find myself thinking about her all the time, and I thought I should just ask her out. She told me that I'm a great guy but she just wanted to be my friend. I was crushed. We continue to talk and for all I try, I can't stop thinking about her. I know I missed my opportunity and I feel like an idiot for it. I think I reached the point of no return and that there's no chance. What should I do? Have any if you had solar experiences? Really I just wanted to vent so thank you for reading this. It means a lot. | Crushes |
So I've liked this girl since the first day of high school. I text her but I don't have any classes with her this year. I was going to ask her out the end of last year but I pussied out. Like I was saying I text her only and don't get to talk to her in person because I never see her. Only a couple of my friends know of my crush. I don't want to ruin my friendship with her. I am not over weight or anything just really low confidence and self esteem. I could really use some advice. Also I think she likes somebody else :( | Crushes |
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So, I go to a large public university in Chicago and I am a psychology major. I'm in the process of applying to graduate school in psychology. Recently, about a year ago, my department hired a professor of clinical psychology who works with a certain segment of the population that is usually difficult to work with in the therapeutic setting. He is also a really well-known clinical researcher, and I am really interested in his work... I've read his stuff before he came to our school and thought it was really cool. A couple of months ago, a friend of mine was defending her master's thesis and he was on the committee. He was this incredibly sweet, understanding, warm, compassionate, and handsome man. He has the sexiest salt and pepper hair, thick framed glasses, the cutest smile, and blushes easily...I sort of swooned. I love his voice and his laugh. Ever since then, I can't stop thinking about him. I keep listening to his lectures on YouTube just to hear his voice (because it calms me down when I'm anxious) and looking him up on the internet. I keep walking by the elevators at about 11:30 AM on Thursdays just because that's about the time when he's done with a class (my friend's in the class) so that I can see him. Usually, I schedule my breaks (I'm a tutor at the school) at that time so I may bump into him. The creepiest part about all this is that he has no idea who I am at all and I would not want to start a conversation. I've never experienced anything like it--I'm scaring myself. I don't like being such a stalker/creep and I'm hating myself more and more every time. If all of this isn't bad enough, I know he's married. I need help. I just want to stop, and figure out what the f*ck is wrong with me. But, I am so obsessed, what do I do? | Crushes |
So, it started about three months ago. I have just settled in college, and I started talking to this girl. It wasn't a long conversation, but I knew she was perfect for me. Not only was she good looking, she had a personality unlike anyone else. Over the next week, I tried to talk to her whenever I could. I later found out that we were in the same lab together. I thought it would be the perfect opportunity to be with her if we were lab partners. Unfortunately, her interest was in another person, and they became lab partners. That day, I felt so sad. There happened to be a beautiful song, with the title of the song actually being her name. I started playing that song over and over that day, reminding me how beautiful she was. My feelings for her grew stronger than ever before in a matter of hours. Every day for a month now, I would write flirty messages on her board. We would still talk every now and then, but not as much as before. I talked to her less, mostly because I didn't want me to say something that would attract me less (I know it's dumb, but I still do it.) Well, after about a month, it was apparent that she wouldn't be picking up on my signs. I Even saw him with some other guys, although I don't think she was in to them. So I ended up writing her a letter, confessing her my feelings and telling her everything. She responded back saying that although she was flattered, she thought us together would be a problem since we live on the same floor. I initially accepted, but my feelings contented to grow. Now, I'm thinking of every opportunity to be with her. For instance, call me a creeper, but I'm thinking of coming back for the winter just to be with her more. There would be less people, so there's a better chance of talking to her. She is so beautiful, that it would be a dream just to even date her. Maybe it will be one day; maybe its just a fantasy. Who knows? | Crushes |
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“EPIC FAIL”…that’s what the Facebook message read that I had scattered across my IPhone after revealing my two year crush on this girl that has consumed my mind since the first day we met. Well, maybe we never formerly met; she worked as a desk assistant in my dorm during college, I was a resident, and over the course of my Jr. Year I developed this secret crush on her. She has no idea that I scoured the internet trying to find any piece of information on her, or that I saved her Facebook profile picture into my phone and I look it when I’m having a bad day and I need motivation, or that I wrote a poem about her and blogged it on my Tumbler…she couldn’t possibly know all those things because she doesn’t know me.
I had gotten some dating advice from an online dating coach who advised me to express my feelings and tell her how I truly feel without worrying about what she’ll think, “don’t say anything that you think will produce a positive response tell her how you truly feel about her”. So with that in mind I wrote her a Facebook message that went as follows. (This is a copy and paste from our actual conversation)
I'm having a hard time finding a way to even begin to say this without it sounding creepy or weird. Nonetheless, I'll make an attempt and if I fall flat, so be it.
Last year you worked, as a desk assistant in Wall & Grand and one day we exchanged looks, eye contact. It could have been nothing more than a coincidental glance, but from that moment forward you had my attention. It was something about you that intrigued me and I couldn't explain it.
The school year ended and just like every other crush I've had I figured eventually I would forget about it. However, things didn’t happen like that. Occasionally, the thought of you would sneak back into my mind .You never get a second chance to make a first impression and that particular saying that sounds oh so cliché’ but it makes sense whenever I think of you.
I have absolutely no idea what writing something like this would even do considering I don’t know you. Even so, I just wanted to tell you that I thought you were beautiful, the long dark hair, the smile, the eyes… I admired it all. If there’s a man lucky enough to have a women like you on his arm I hope he tells you that every chance he gets. In all reality I’ll probably never get the chance to see you again or talk to you, but a part of me just wanted to get that off my chest. In a way this is my attempt at making a second first impression or say what I never got the chance too. I’m not asking for anything and you don’t have to respond but I feel like I had to say that.
Her response… “Epic fail at not coming off slightly creepy. But I appreciate the kind words”.
There’s a certain beauty in not really knowing someone because in those moments you spend fantasizing they’re perfect, no arguments, canceled dinner dates, missed text messages. In a way you fall more in love with the fantasy than the actual reality because in reality people aren’t perfect. Love isn’t some romance comedy where two people fall in love in a montage of cute dates after randomly bumping into each other on the subway. The real world people move on, they change, and sometimes the opportunity passes.
Was my attempt at reveling my crush an epic fail, I’m not exactly sure, but I did what so many people would never have the heart to do…express how they truly feel without caring what it costs them or who finds out. That day I was without question the bravest I’ve ever been. If your reading this and you feel a certain way about someone I would advise you to tell them, sometimes holding in your feelings is easier than being who you really are, but the liberation of reveling whatever it is you’ve been feeling is more beautiful than anything.
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Is there anything anyone can give me? Something that as soon as she reads it will make her day instantly. I don't care if it's a sentence or a paragraph, I just want her to wake up to something she'd never see coming. | Crushes |
Well, here it is. I am semi in-love with a girl named J, for privacy purposes. I am C, a fun loving, overweight, musician who is in the chamber orchestra and other classes with J. I'm 16, but I look like a fat 14 year old, so obviously, physical attractiveness isn't my main strength.
Okay, I'm going to be CONFIDENT now, not cocky. CONFIDENT.
I am also going to sound like a tool, but keep in mind Im only trying to convey the situation and portray my strengths.
I am a talented guitarist and bassist, and I am funny. People seem to think so, anyways.
The ISSUE, is that J is hot.
Like, really really hot.
Like, super duper hot.
But thats not the full reason I like her. She is funny, wicked smart, talented, and interally beautiful as well. The issue is,
getting over the physical aspect.
Tips?
also, I am in the jazz band for guitar and bass and the chamber group if its worth anything.
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Hello Reddit I hope some people ready this and help me out
So I have this huge crush in a girl named Tatiana and I've known her for 8 months, barely 4-5 weeks ago we've started talking more like friends ( we weren't the best friends in the world at the beginning) and I keep on thinking of ways to tell her I like her ( btw I'm sorta kinda overweight and she's really skinny and I'm planning on losing weight this summer) I don't think she likes me back so I don't want to embarrass myself I'd ask my friends but they'd tell her and I'd shit my pants she thinks I'm sorta kinda funny and I just want to go out with her but I'm afraid of what it will be like to risk our sorta kinda growing friendship I started liking her maybe 3-4 months ago and i don't know how this will turn out I'm in a very depressive state and I'm afraid that if I do get to go out with her and we break up my depression will be worst ( by the way I'm 13 she's 14 and I'm depressed because I've been bullied A LOT and I've gotten my ass beat I've been embarrassed pantsed and other bully stuff ) I don't know what to do and school ends in two weeks please help Reddit | Crushes |
My crush is not normal. I am a 14 year old girl with an EXTREME crush on my 29 year old female band director. She has been the last thing I've thought about before falling asleep and the first thing I've thought about after waking up for 7 months. I need advice. I can't stop thinking about her and try to make myself closer to her. I have kept track of all the times that I can see her in the halls; I dress extra-nice on the days I will see her for stage crew or marching band; I'm taking a taking concert band over a study hall next semester just so I can see her every day; I joined marching band, jazz band, and stage crew to be closer to her. She isn't the kind of teacher that everyone likes, either. She is quiet and awkward, but I feel a special connection with her because I see myself in her. She makes deep, double-meaning jokes that usually only I understand. She also graduated valedictorian of our high school in 2001. I, too, am intelligent; I skipped a grade in elementary school. We can have steady conversations if we can get them started... which doesn't usually happen. Whenever I had to leave band practice early for volleyball games, she always told me good luck, which she didn't do to the volleyball players last year. (There were about 7 volleyball players in the band last year, but I am the only one this year.) I also feel like she goes out of her way to help me, to look after me. ex, we had a special maneuver in marching band for senior night that was uncomfortable for me when i went down on one knee. She switched my "half" of the field (which really wasn't half) to the knee I wanted and kept the other half the same. Note that our marching band is tiny, only about 40 people with the fronts and managers.
She is unmarried and childless, but I can't tell if she is lesbian or bisexual like I am. She probably doesn't know I am either; she knows that I have had two boyfriends since I entered the high school, but no girlfriends. I don't want a boy/girl friend, either. I know she is probably a lost cause, but I am really saving my heart for her.
Since I skipped a grade, I will be 17 when I graduate. I was thinking of telling her then, but that could cause problems. I intend to tell her eventually, but I don't know when it would be best. Since she is the marching band director, I could attend a football game and ask for a moment alone, but I will still be 17 during the football season after I graduate.
Then there's the possibility that I do tell her on the night of my graduation and she says she likes me back. Wouldn't it be a bit straightforward of me to impose a 4-6 year romantic hiatus on someone who may not like me as much as I like them? If she says she'll wait, then what? It would make my life to be with her for the rest of our lives. But, we live in Pennsylvania, where gay marriage is currently outlawed. That could change, but I don't know.
AND THEN there's the fact that student-teacher relationships are kind of illegal. I'm not stupid enough to act on my crush right now, but even FORMER student-teacher relationships are sorta frowned upon.
tl;dr I'm in love with my band director, I am doing all I can to get close to her, and I need help. | Crushes |
So, there is this girl. We'll call her Derpina.
We never really talked when I first met her. I could have...
She was different. She was smart, pretty, and unique in her own way.
I couldn't stop thinking about her, but I couldn't muster the courage to talk to her. So, when I made a tumblr, I asked her how to do something to the blog. We ended up talking for hours and I learned so much about her. Suddenly, she became like ecstasy to me. I couldn't stop obsessing.
Although, I never got to talk to her in person. I never had a proper conversation with her in person.
And when I found out she liked my friend, and that she had for a while, it crushed me. Adding insult to injury, she lives in another city.
I still love her. Everything about her. Her looks, Her personality.
It saddens me everytime I think of anything that could remind me of her.
She was the first girl I actually liked because of who she was, not what she looked like.
And she'll never know.
Fuck.
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I'm sure this is not what you want, but I and just about every straight guy out there and probably some gay men too have a crush on her. I'll probably get down voted for this post, but meh, do I care? No!
So my story about Zooey:
It all started with the movie Elf. I didn't know who she was then, and I fell in love.
Then she was in the movie Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy and it was like a match made in Heaven. My favorite book and one of my favorite actresses.
Then, that's not all she's a musician and I bought her albums. She's actually not that bad.
Of course, this continues to go on and on. She's also an atheist, which is cool. She's a bit of a nerd and does things online, including twitter etc.
Plus, she's cute as hell. My wife knows all about my infatuation with her. Although, in reality, I'm not sure what she's like as a person so if I ever did meet her and she was "available" I'm sure she wouldn't date me, even if I was single, but a man can dream can't he? | Crushes |
So In my middle school year there was this kid who was new at the begining of a semester. His name is Jonny. He was really cute, funny, and was nice to EVERYONE. At the beggining of the semester my friend had my cell written in her planner. He circled it and asked who it was. Then for about 2 weeks he kept asking who I was and my friend would only give hints. He then gave her his email to give to me. I emailed him. The nexxt day he said hi. about 1 week later i got his cell phone number. the thing is that i blush whenever i talk or hear about him. I had a sleepover that night with a friend. I ended up texting him till about 11:30. We txted alot for the next week. But it all went wrong when 2 of my friends went up to him and asked if he liked me. He stopped texting me after that. I only said Hi a few times since then but that is it. He never liked me though :( | Crushes |
Any stories you have about your crush that you would like to share are welcome! We need posts for this subreddit to be exciting for everyone, so please help to get this started! it has potential!!!<3 | Crushes |
I'm sure this is not what you want, but I and just about every straight guy out there and probably some gay men too have a crush on her. I'll probably get down voted for this post, but meh, do I care? No!
So my story about Zooey:
It all started with the movie Elf. I didn't know who she was then, and I fell in love.
Then she was in the movie Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy and it was like a match made in Heaven. My favorite book and one of my favorite actresses.
Then, that's not all she's a musician and I bought her albums. She's actually not that bad.
Of course, this continues to go on and on. She's also an atheist, which is cool. She's a bit of a nerd and does things online, including twitter etc.
Plus, she's cute as hell. My wife knows all about my infatuation with her. Although, in reality, I'm not sure what she's like as a person so if I ever did meet her and she was "available" I'm sure she wouldn't date me, even if I was single, but a man can dream can't he? | Crushes |
So In my middle school year there was this kid who was new at the begining of a semester. His name is Jonny. He was really cute, funny, and was nice to EVERYONE. At the beggining of the semester my friend had my cell written in her planner. He circled it and asked who it was. Then for about 2 weeks he kept asking who I was and my friend would only give hints. He then gave her his email to give to me. I emailed him. The nexxt day he said hi. about 1 week later i got his cell phone number. the thing is that i blush whenever i talk or hear about him. I had a sleepover that night with a friend. I ended up texting him till about 11:30. We txted alot for the next week. But it all went wrong when 2 of my friends went up to him and asked if he liked me. He stopped texting me after that. I only said Hi a few times since then but that is it. He never liked me though :( | Crushes |
Any stories you have about your crush that you would like to share are welcome! We need posts for this subreddit to be exciting for everyone, so please help to get this started! it has potential!!!<3 | Crushes |
My crush is not normal. I am a 14 year old girl with an EXTREME crush on my 29 year old female band director. She has been the last thing I've thought about before falling asleep and the first thing I've thought about after waking up for 7 months. I need advice. I can't stop thinking about her and try to make myself closer to her. I have kept track of all the times that I can see her in the halls; I dress extra-nice on the days I will see her for stage crew or marching band; I'm taking a taking concert band over a study hall next semester just so I can see her every day; I joined marching band, jazz band, and stage crew to be closer to her. She isn't the kind of teacher that everyone likes, either. She is quiet and awkward, but I feel a special connection with her because I see myself in her. She makes deep, double-meaning jokes that usually only I understand. She also graduated valedictorian of our high school in 2001. I, too, am intelligent; I skipped a grade in elementary school. We can have steady conversations if we can get them started... which doesn't usually happen. Whenever I had to leave band practice early for volleyball games, she always told me good luck, which she didn't do to the volleyball players last year. (There were about 7 volleyball players in the band last year, but I am the only one this year.) I also feel like she goes out of her way to help me, to look after me. ex, we had a special maneuver in marching band for senior night that was uncomfortable for me when i went down on one knee. She switched my "half" of the field (which really wasn't half) to the knee I wanted and kept the other half the same. Note that our marching band is tiny, only about 40 people with the fronts and managers.
She is unmarried and childless, but I can't tell if she is lesbian or bisexual like I am. She probably doesn't know I am either; she knows that I have had two boyfriends since I entered the high school, but no girlfriends. I don't want a boy/girl friend, either. I know she is probably a lost cause, but I am really saving my heart for her.
Since I skipped a grade, I will be 17 when I graduate. I was thinking of telling her then, but that could cause problems. I intend to tell her eventually, but I don't know when it would be best. Since she is the marching band director, I could attend a football game and ask for a moment alone, but I will still be 17 during the football season after I graduate.
Then there's the possibility that I do tell her on the night of my graduation and she says she likes me back. Wouldn't it be a bit straightforward of me to impose a 4-6 year romantic hiatus on someone who may not like me as much as I like them? If she says she'll wait, then what? It would make my life to be with her for the rest of our lives. But, we live in Pennsylvania, where gay marriage is currently outlawed. That could change, but I don't know.
AND THEN there's the fact that student-teacher relationships are kind of illegal. I'm not stupid enough to act on my crush right now, but even FORMER student-teacher relationships are sorta frowned upon.
tl;dr I'm in love with my band director, I am doing all I can to get close to her, and I need help. | Crushes |
So, there is this girl. We'll call her Derpina.
We never really talked when I first met her. I could have...
She was different. She was smart, pretty, and unique in her own way.
I couldn't stop thinking about her, but I couldn't muster the courage to talk to her. So, when I made a tumblr, I asked her how to do something to the blog. We ended up talking for hours and I learned so much about her. Suddenly, she became like ecstasy to me. I couldn't stop obsessing.
Although, I never got to talk to her in person. I never had a proper conversation with her in person.
And when I found out she liked my friend, and that she had for a while, it crushed me. Adding insult to injury, she lives in another city.
I still love her. Everything about her. Her looks, Her personality.
It saddens me everytime I think of anything that could remind me of her.
She was the first girl I actually liked because of who she was, not what she looked like.
And she'll never know.
Fuck.
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Well, here it is. I am semi in-love with a girl named J, for privacy purposes. I am C, a fun loving, overweight, musician who is in the chamber orchestra and other classes with J. I'm 16, but I look like a fat 14 year old, so obviously, physical attractiveness isn't my main strength.
Okay, I'm going to be CONFIDENT now, not cocky. CONFIDENT.
I am also going to sound like a tool, but keep in mind Im only trying to convey the situation and portray my strengths.
I am a talented guitarist and bassist, and I am funny. People seem to think so, anyways.
The ISSUE, is that J is hot.
Like, really really hot.
Like, super duper hot.
But thats not the full reason I like her. She is funny, wicked smart, talented, and interally beautiful as well. The issue is,
getting over the physical aspect.
Tips?
also, I am in the jazz band for guitar and bass and the chamber group if its worth anything.
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Hello Reddit I hope some people ready this and help me out
So I have this huge crush in a girl named Tatiana and I've known her for 8 months, barely 4-5 weeks ago we've started talking more like friends ( we weren't the best friends in the world at the beginning) and I keep on thinking of ways to tell her I like her ( btw I'm sorta kinda overweight and she's really skinny and I'm planning on losing weight this summer) I don't think she likes me back so I don't want to embarrass myself I'd ask my friends but they'd tell her and I'd shit my pants she thinks I'm sorta kinda funny and I just want to go out with her but I'm afraid of what it will be like to risk our sorta kinda growing friendship I started liking her maybe 3-4 months ago and i don't know how this will turn out I'm in a very depressive state and I'm afraid that if I do get to go out with her and we break up my depression will be worst ( by the way I'm 13 she's 14 and I'm depressed because I've been bullied A LOT and I've gotten my ass beat I've been embarrassed pantsed and other bully stuff ) I don't know what to do and school ends in two weeks please help Reddit | Crushes |