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I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

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I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially.

Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.

I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?

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I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

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I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially. Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife.

We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.

Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?

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I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

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I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially. Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife. We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week.

No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.

That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in?

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I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

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I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially. Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife. We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week. No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people.

administrative work.

Has she considered temping? I did that when I was between permanent jobs and it was quite good.

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I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

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I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially. Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife. We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week. No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people. administrative work.

No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea.

It's not as well paid but you can choose your own hours. There's also online gig work out there too

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I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

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I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially. Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife. We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week. No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people. administrative work. No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea.

Anything would help at this point. We also have a three year old to care for.

Have you considered going to a food bank? They can be very useful

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I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

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I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially. Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife. We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week. No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people. administrative work. No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea. Anything would help at this point. We also have a three year old to care for.

We feel bad going to food banks. I make enough money to pay the bills and I know there are others out there in more need. It's just when the unexpected happens it makes things really tight and difficult. We have used up all our savings during the pandemic and I rely on my car to get to and from work.

You should not feel bad. Have you not donated to food banks yourself when times were better? I used a food bank in a crisis time and now I give back whenever I go shopping

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I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

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I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially. Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife. We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week. No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people. administrative work. No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea. Anything would help at this point. We also have a three year old to care for. We feel bad going to food banks. I make enough money to pay the bills and I know there are others out there in more need. It's just when the unexpected happens it makes things really tight and difficult. We have used up all our savings during the pandemic and I rely on my car to get to and from work.

Thanks for the reminder. We have donated to several places in the past. I appreciate the kind words.

Everyone needs help sometimes :) And you can pass it forward when things are better for you. On that note I suppose I had better go but I was glad to speak with you!

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I had some recent car trouble and the problem has gotten worse. It has caused the mechanic bill to get bigger and bigger and I don't know how I am going to pay for it.

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I am feeling a high level of anxiety. My car had some issues recently and the mechanic bill is adding up and getting bigger and bigger. I am not sure how I am going to pay for it all. Yes. My wife lost her job due to it and it has put a larger burden on us financially. Yes, unfortunately I make too much money to qualify with my job. It still is a huge burden not having the income we depend on from my wife. We're trying. She has a few interviews set up next week. No. We just moved to a new city in the past year so we don't know many people. administrative work. No we haven't yet. That's actually a pretty good idea. Anything would help at this point. We also have a three year old to care for. We feel bad going to food banks. I make enough money to pay the bills and I know there are others out there in more need. It's just when the unexpected happens it makes things really tight and difficult. We have used up all our savings during the pandemic and I rely on my car to get to and from work. Thanks for the reminder. We have donated to several places in the past. I appreciate the kind words.

Likewise! Thanks again, I really appreciate your time. :]

goodbye and good luck :)

goodbye and good luck :) Can you press quit and take the survey? It has to be done by your first :)

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I am pretty sad

What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today!

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My partner broke up with me a few days ago

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I am pretty sad

My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years

What I am hearing is that you seem to have hit an extremem low due to your loss of someone very important to you recently, is this correct?

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I am pretty sad My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years

Yes that is correct

It looks to me like you are pretty dedicated to getting through this hard timeand being successful at such as you have taken a big step reaching out for support tonight to help pull you through this safely.

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I am pretty sad My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years Yes that is correct

I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse.

Would you feel comfortable giving me a little more detail as far as you problem with self abuse? what does this look like for you?

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I am pretty sad My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years Yes that is correct I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse.

I am a cutter

This is very troubling for me to hear! I used to be a cutter as well so I can relate to this 100%

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I am pretty sad My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years Yes that is correct I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse. I am a cutter

I usually start cutting on myself when I get too depressed if I do not use drugs and alcohol.

As a safety precaution, I would like to give you the phone number for the local crisis center in your area so that if you ever feel like hurting yourself you can reach out to them for immidiate help in case of this emergency. would that be something that you were open to?

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I am pretty sad My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years Yes that is correct I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse. I am a cutter I usually start cutting on myself when I get too depressed if I do not use drugs and alcohol.

I could always use any help I can get. Please send the number

What state and county do you live in?

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I am pretty sad My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years Yes that is correct I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse. I am a cutter I usually start cutting on myself when I get too depressed if I do not use drugs and alcohol. I could always use any help I can get. Please send the number

I live in colorado springs colorado which is elpaso county

Give me one moment while I search for this number for you. I will be right back with you.

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I am pretty sad My partner broke up with me a few days ago after having been together for about ten years Yes that is correct I am not feeling very positive tonight but I think you are right. I think I reached out for help to assist me in making it through this difficult time safely. I have a problem with self abuse. I am a cutter I usually start cutting on myself when I get too depressed if I do not use drugs and alcohol. I could always use any help I can get. Please send the number I live in colorado springs colorado which is elpaso county

Sure, and thank you!

Anytime! That is what I am here for, to help others in need in any way that I can. The number for the local crisis center is 719-465-8365. I would like to share a second number with you as well. Aspen point is a mental health treatment center that accepts people for non residentail treatment such as counseling . The number is 719-786-3856. They also take medicaid if that happens to be your insurance provider. I have heard lots of great things about aspen point. I hope you give them a call to help you safely through these hard times you are having.

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hello not very good.

my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working

I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working

weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows

I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows

yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though.

It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though.

I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that

How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that

i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen

That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him.

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen

i do very much

Have you tried to talk to your husband about your feelings and how you might not be willing to accept this?

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen i do very much

i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be. what should i do?

Have you thought about if you can trust him after that?

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen i do very much i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be. what should i do?

im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him im just so lost

I can understand where you are coming from. I have been in that situation myself and it is not an easy place to be. For me, it took some time to accept that I deserved better than someone who didn't just want me. Is that how you feel?

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen i do very much i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be. what should i do? im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him im just so lost

kind of

Understandably so. I believe that this is just temporary and you will be amazed at how strong you are.

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen i do very much i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be. what should i do? im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him im just so lost kind of

you think so?

If you are leaning toward not accepting not being enough for him, then I would suggest an exit plan. Call a family member, or friend, to see if you can stay there awhile. Have a cooling off period from your husband and reassess the situation

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen i do very much i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be. what should i do? im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him im just so lost kind of you think so?

ok. ill consider that thank you so much this has been going on for half a year

I absolutely do. We normally find out that we are actually much stronger than we give ourselves credit for.

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen i do very much i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be. what should i do? im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him im just so lost kind of you think so? ok. ill consider that so much this has been going on for half a year

thank you

That is wonderful news! See you are starting to make a plan for a better life for you and your children. You so got this!

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen i do very much i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be. what should i do? im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him im just so lost kind of you think so? ok. ill consider that thank you so much this has been going on for half a year thank you

thank you so much. stay safe bye bye

youre welcome. I am here if you need me

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hello not very good. my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though. I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen i do very much i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be. what should i do? im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him im just so lost kind of you think so? ok. ill consider that thank you so much this has been going on for half a year thank you thank you so much. stay safe bye bye

i have a feeling that everything will be okay.

That is great! Did you have a chance to think of anything else that might help you through this?

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Hello Are you there?

goodness i am so sorry! my browser did not make a noise.

goodness i am so sorry! my browser did not make a noise. how are you doing? sorry i kept you waiting!

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Hello Are you there?

That is okay! I'm glad you're here

Awww, thanks. How are things going in your world today?

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Hello Are you there? That is okay! I'm glad you're here

I'm doing alright I suppose, just trying to do a few mturk tasks to feel like I'm accomplishing something. Waiting to hear back from unemployment and not hearing back from any job applications makes it hard to ever really relax

Ah, i hear you. The lack of response makes it really easy for me to make up stories in my head and fear the worst.

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Hello Are you there? That is okay! I'm glad you're here I'm doing alright I suppose, just trying to do a few mturk tasks to feel like I'm accomplishing something. Waiting to hear back from unemployment and not hearing back from any job applications makes it hard to ever really relax

I've never done any computer based jobs before, I did live audio and carpentry before this, so I just feel like I don't qualify for anything, but I'm immune compromised so until this is over i don't know what other work I can safely do besides for something from my computer.... I just feel so terribly stuck

I'm sorry. I know the feeling of not knowing where I fit in. Its a whole world shift, too.

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4

3

5

Hello Are you there? That is okay! I'm glad you're here I'm doing alright I suppose, just trying to do a few mturk tasks to feel like I'm accomplishing something. Waiting to hear back from unemployment and not hearing back from any job applications makes it hard to ever really relax I've never done any computer based jobs before, I did live audio and carpentry before this, so I just feel like I don't qualify for anything, but I'm immune compromised so until this is over i don't know what other work I can safely do besides for something from my computer.... I just feel so terribly stuck

I haven't received any financial assistance from the government yet, I've been living off of loans from friends and what little of my art I've been able to sell. It's stressful. I just want my life back. I felt like I was on a really good career path at the first of the year, and now I just don't even know what o do

That scattered feeling....trying to put the pieces back together....I've walked the same road this year. Would you be willing to mourn for what you had before? To let it go?

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4

3

5

Hello Are you there? That is okay! I'm glad you're here I'm doing alright I suppose, just trying to do a few mturk tasks to feel like I'm accomplishing something. Waiting to hear back from unemployment and not hearing back from any job applications makes it hard to ever really relax I've never done any computer based jobs before, I did live audio and carpentry before this, so I just feel like I don't qualify for anything, but I'm immune compromised so until this is over i don't know what other work I can safely do besides for something from my computer.... I just feel so terribly stuck I haven't received any financial assistance from the government yet, I've been living off of loans from friends and what little of my art I've been able to sell. It's stressful. I just want my life back. I felt like I was on a really good career path at the first of the year, and now I just don't even know what o do

I don't want to. If there is a vaccine in the first quarter of 2021 then the company I worked for before this will be able to go back to business, and I've been assured my old job back. I'm just in limbo right now, figuring out how to survive until then and keep from going crazy

you have determination! There is fire within! Tell me, what brings you joy?

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5

Hello Are you there? That is okay! I'm glad you're here I'm doing alright I suppose, just trying to do a few mturk tasks to feel like I'm accomplishing something. Waiting to hear back from unemployment and not hearing back from any job applications makes it hard to ever really relax I've never done any computer based jobs before, I did live audio and carpentry before this, so I just feel like I don't qualify for anything, but I'm immune compromised so until this is over i don't know what other work I can safely do besides for something from my computer.... I just feel so terribly stuck I haven't received any financial assistance from the government yet, I've been living off of loans from friends and what little of my art I've been able to sell. It's stressful. I just want my life back. I felt like I was on a really good career path at the first of the year, and now I just don't even know what o do I don't want to. If there is a vaccine in the first quarter of 2021 then the company I worked for before this will be able to go back to business, and I've been assured my old job back. I'm just in limbo right now, figuring out how to survive until then and keep from going crazy

Music (that's why I was in the music industry before this haha) and art. I paint and do woodburning. I also love my cats, they spark a lot of joy. Thank you for chatting with me, and helping me earn the maximum bonus for this task! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day! Good luck in your own endeavors.

but of course! it was a pleasure to connect. keep chasing joy daily!

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Hello Are you there? That is okay! I'm glad you're here I'm doing alright I suppose, just trying to do a few mturk tasks to feel like I'm accomplishing something. Waiting to hear back from unemployment and not hearing back from any job applications makes it hard to ever really relax I've never done any computer based jobs before, I did live audio and carpentry before this, so I just feel like I don't qualify for anything, but I'm immune compromised so until this is over i don't know what other work I can safely do besides for something from my computer.... I just feel so terribly stuck I haven't received any financial assistance from the government yet, I've been living off of loans from friends and what little of my art I've been able to sell. It's stressful. I just want my life back. I felt like I was on a really good career path at the first of the year, and now I just don't even know what o do I don't want to. If there is a vaccine in the first quarter of 2021 then the company I worked for before this will be able to go back to business, and I've been assured my old job back. I'm just in limbo right now, figuring out how to survive until then and keep from going crazy Music (that's why I was in the music industry before this haha) and art. I paint and do woodburning. I also love my cats, they spark a lot of joy. Thank you for chatting with me, and helping me earn the maximum bonus for this task! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day! Good luck in your own endeavors.

oh, I think you need a couple more inputs on your end to finish

oh good, well i got inputs to put!

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4

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Hello Are you there? That is okay! I'm glad you're here I'm doing alright I suppose, just trying to do a few mturk tasks to feel like I'm accomplishing something. Waiting to hear back from unemployment and not hearing back from any job applications makes it hard to ever really relax I've never done any computer based jobs before, I did live audio and carpentry before this, so I just feel like I don't qualify for anything, but I'm immune compromised so until this is over i don't know what other work I can safely do besides for something from my computer.... I just feel so terribly stuck I haven't received any financial assistance from the government yet, I've been living off of loans from friends and what little of my art I've been able to sell. It's stressful. I just want my life back. I felt like I was on a really good career path at the first of the year, and now I just don't even know what o do I don't want to. If there is a vaccine in the first quarter of 2021 then the company I worked for before this will be able to go back to business, and I've been assured my old job back. I'm just in limbo right now, figuring out how to survive until then and keep from going crazy Music (that's why I was in the music industry before this haha) and art. I paint and do woodburning. I also love my cats, they spark a lot of joy. Thank you for chatting with me, and helping me earn the maximum bonus for this task! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day! Good luck in your own endeavors. oh, I think you need a couple more inputs on your end to finish

Perhaps you could tell me what brings you joy?

YES! for one, this mturk task is AMAZING to me. Connection has been a huge boon for me this year. I thrive on helping others realize their strengths.

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3

5

Hello Are you there? That is okay! I'm glad you're here I'm doing alright I suppose, just trying to do a few mturk tasks to feel like I'm accomplishing something. Waiting to hear back from unemployment and not hearing back from any job applications makes it hard to ever really relax I've never done any computer based jobs before, I did live audio and carpentry before this, so I just feel like I don't qualify for anything, but I'm immune compromised so until this is over i don't know what other work I can safely do besides for something from my computer.... I just feel so terribly stuck I haven't received any financial assistance from the government yet, I've been living off of loans from friends and what little of my art I've been able to sell. It's stressful. I just want my life back. I felt like I was on a really good career path at the first of the year, and now I just don't even know what o do I don't want to. If there is a vaccine in the first quarter of 2021 then the company I worked for before this will be able to go back to business, and I've been assured my old job back. I'm just in limbo right now, figuring out how to survive until then and keep from going crazy Music (that's why I was in the music industry before this haha) and art. I paint and do woodburning. I also love my cats, they spark a lot of joy. Thank you for chatting with me, and helping me earn the maximum bonus for this task! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day! Good luck in your own endeavors. oh, I think you need a couple more inputs on your end to finish Perhaps you could tell me what brings you joy?

I'm glad you're enjoying it, I like this task too.

between that and creation, i love to express myself. art, mov ement, building something.....its all just me expressing myself, getting my head into the world

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3

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Hello Are you there? That is okay! I'm glad you're here I'm doing alright I suppose, just trying to do a few mturk tasks to feel like I'm accomplishing something. Waiting to hear back from unemployment and not hearing back from any job applications makes it hard to ever really relax I've never done any computer based jobs before, I did live audio and carpentry before this, so I just feel like I don't qualify for anything, but I'm immune compromised so until this is over i don't know what other work I can safely do besides for something from my computer.... I just feel so terribly stuck I haven't received any financial assistance from the government yet, I've been living off of loans from friends and what little of my art I've been able to sell. It's stressful. I just want my life back. I felt like I was on a really good career path at the first of the year, and now I just don't even know what o do I don't want to. If there is a vaccine in the first quarter of 2021 then the company I worked for before this will be able to go back to business, and I've been assured my old job back. I'm just in limbo right now, figuring out how to survive until then and keep from going crazy Music (that's why I was in the music industry before this haha) and art. I paint and do woodburning. I also love my cats, they spark a lot of joy. Thank you for chatting with me, and helping me earn the maximum bonus for this task! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day! Good luck in your own endeavors. oh, I think you need a couple more inputs on your end to finish Perhaps you could tell me what brings you joy? I'm glad you're enjoying it, I like this task too.

That is beautiful! Keep it up!

whenever i can :)

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My family have lost confidence in me due to my alcoholism. I want to stop but don't know how. I have tried before but some things I go through make me go back. What can I do?

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Am feeling down and blue.

I understand that you are feeling down and blue and that isn't good. What is making you feel down and blue do you think?

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5

2

5

Am feeling down and blue.

Recently no one in my family is talking to me. I think they are mad I went back to taking alcohol. I was depressed because I lost my job.

I've struggled with alcohol before too and understand how tough it is to not drink especially during a tough time like after losing a job. Don't beat yourself up, it's only natural and you have the power to get through this trying time.

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Am feeling down and blue. Recently no one in my family is talking to me. I think they are mad I went back to taking alcohol. I was depressed because I lost my job.

I feel calm to know someone else knows what am feeling.

How long ago did you lose your job?

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My family have lost confidence in me due to my alcoholism. I want to stop but don't know how. I have tried before but some things I go through make me go back. What can I do?

5

2

5

Am feeling down and blue. Recently no one in my family is talking to me. I think they are mad I went back to taking alcohol. I was depressed because I lost my job. I feel calm to know someone else knows what am feeling.

How can I stop going back to alcohol when am depressed? Its been a few weeks since I lost my job but I never told anyone In my family.

My advice is to try to talk to your family and explain to them that you lost your job and are feeling down. While they may not accept it at first it is a good start to try to give them some context for why you are drinking.

My advice is to try to talk to your family and explain to them that you lost your job and are feeling down. While they may not accept it at first it is a good start to try to give them some context for why you are drinking. Alcohol is a way of self medicating; some people find it helpful to talk to a doctor to get an actual prescription for a medication to help. I personally stopped drinking once my doctor found the correct medication for me. That allowed me to be happy without drinking.

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My family have lost confidence in me due to my alcoholism. I want to stop but don't know how. I have tried before but some things I go through make me go back. What can I do?

5

2

5

Am feeling down and blue. Recently no one in my family is talking to me. I think they are mad I went back to taking alcohol. I was depressed because I lost my job. I feel calm to know someone else knows what am feeling. How can I stop going back to alcohol when am depressed? Its been a few weeks since I lost my job but I never told anyone In my family.

I am not sure who to talk to first. Mom or Dad? Am worried my mom will make a big issue out of it.

Talk to who you feel most comfortable with. Start off easy. Hopefully they can help you then talk to the other parent. I am sure your parents have once had a period in life where they were down and blue and can relate to what you are going through.

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My family have lost confidence in me due to my alcoholism. I want to stop but don't know how. I have tried before but some things I go through make me go back. What can I do?

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2

5

Am feeling down and blue. Recently no one in my family is talking to me. I think they are mad I went back to taking alcohol. I was depressed because I lost my job. I feel calm to know someone else knows what am feeling. How can I stop going back to alcohol when am depressed? Its been a few weeks since I lost my job but I never told anyone In my family. I am not sure who to talk to first. Mom or Dad? Am worried my mom will make a big issue out of it.

I feel reassured now will definitely find time to face dad and let him know what am going through. Thank you was nice talking to someone who can understand me easily. Bye

You are welcome. Best of luck!

You are welcome. Best of luck! I believe you have to end the conversation as I am not able to. I am here to keep on talking too if you would like.

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My family have lost confidence in me due to my alcoholism. I want to stop but don't know how. I have tried before but some things I go through make me go back. What can I do?

5

2

5

Am feeling down and blue. Recently no one in my family is talking to me. I think they are mad I went back to taking alcohol. I was depressed because I lost my job. I feel calm to know someone else knows what am feeling. How can I stop going back to alcohol when am depressed? Its been a few weeks since I lost my job but I never told anyone In my family. I am not sure who to talk to first. Mom or Dad? Am worried my mom will make a big issue out of it. I feel reassured now will definitely find time to face dad and let him know what am going through. Thank you was nice talking to someone who can understand me easily. Bye

One more question, did you stop drinking alcohol completely or did you go about your consuption?

I have done both; I have gone periods of 6-12 months having nothing to drink and then when I could control it I would allow myself to have drinks on special occasions. I tried not to drink during the week and only once on the weekend at most.

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My family have lost confidence in me due to my alcoholism. I want to stop but don't know how. I have tried before but some things I go through make me go back. What can I do?

5

2

5

Am feeling down and blue. Recently no one in my family is talking to me. I think they are mad I went back to taking alcohol. I was depressed because I lost my job. I feel calm to know someone else knows what am feeling. How can I stop going back to alcohol when am depressed? Its been a few weeks since I lost my job but I never told anyone In my family. I am not sure who to talk to first. Mom or Dad? Am worried my mom will make a big issue out of it. I feel reassured now will definitely find time to face dad and let him know what am going through. Thank you was nice talking to someone who can understand me easily. Bye One more question, did you stop drinking alcohol completely or did you go about your consuption?

That sounds like a good plan. I hope I will also come up something that can work for me. Also, will try seeking help from my doctor. Thank you once more. Bye

You are welcome. Have a nice day!

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you?

I am feeling a bit the same. Is there something specific that you'd like to talk about?

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I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. I moved to a new state, bought a house I love... but I just feel empty, and alone.

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you?

Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone.

Do you not know anyone else there?

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone.

No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town...

Do you think it would benefit you to join some groups or societies where you would meet new people?

Do you think it would benefit you to join some groups or societies where you would meet new people? If you feel a little out of your depth, that is perfectly normal at this stage!

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town...

Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID...

Yes of course. So you feel that you cannot meet new people due to the pandemic?

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID...

Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start.

I understand that this is a bad time to be making a new start but please believe me, I think that things will get better

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start.

I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do.

It sounds to me like you might be suffering from depression. A lot of the population have this problem! Do you think that this might be the case?

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do.

It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do.

That definitely sounds like depression to me. Can I suggest that you talk to your doctor?

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do. It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do.

I definitely have depression. I can try taking meds again, I should probalby try counseling... I did start going to a doctor, at least

So you have insight into your condition at least ... that is a very positive thing!

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I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. I moved to a new state, bought a house I love... but I just feel empty, and alone.

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do. It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do. I definitely have depression. I can try taking meds again, I should probalby try counseling... I did start going to a doctor, at least

I know it makes sense to try that, since it does help some people. But I just feel like, I know what they're going to say. I already know what I should do. I just don't do it.

What is it that you feel that you should be doing? Please do not put too much pressure on yourself!

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do. It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do. I definitely have depression. I can try taking meds again, I should probalby try counseling... I did start going to a doctor, at least I know it makes sense to try that, since it does help some people. But I just feel like, I know what they're going to say. I already know what I should do. I just don't do it.

It's like I'm just so lazy... I don't do anything. I could honestly just stay in bed and read and sleep all day and night.

I understand how that feels. I often feel the same way myself, especially now (and at this time of year). Please do not feel bad about it.

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I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. I moved to a new state, bought a house I love... but I just feel empty, and alone.

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do. It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do. I definitely have depression. I can try taking meds again, I should probalby try counseling... I did start going to a doctor, at least I know it makes sense to try that, since it does help some people. But I just feel like, I know what they're going to say. I already know what I should do. I just don't do it. It's like I'm just so lazy... I don't do anything. I could honestly just stay in bed and read and sleep all day and night.

I'm not suicidal at all, but I would be totally fine with a big meteor taking us all out tomorrow. I feel like I gave it a shot, I'm sort of ready to be done. I find myself feeling jealous of very old people...

I have sometimes felt this way too. Do you have a pet? I have two cats and they do help to cheer me up when I feel especially bad

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I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. I moved to a new state, bought a house I love... but I just feel empty, and alone.

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do. It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do. I definitely have depression. I can try taking meds again, I should probalby try counseling... I did start going to a doctor, at least I know it makes sense to try that, since it does help some people. But I just feel like, I know what they're going to say. I already know what I should do. I just don't do it. It's like I'm just so lazy... I don't do anything. I could honestly just stay in bed and read and sleep all day and night. I'm not suicidal at all, but I would be totally fine with a big meteor taking us all out tomorrow. I feel like I gave it a shot, I'm sort of ready to be done. I find myself feeling jealous of very old people...

If I could have traded places with one of my parents, I would have in a heartbeat. They loved life, and they were good at it.

So you feel that you are bad at life? Please do not!

So you feel that you are bad at life? Please do not! I do need to go now but I hope that you can find some comfort in the future. I wish you all the best.

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do. It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do. I definitely have depression. I can try taking meds again, I should probalby try counseling... I did start going to a doctor, at least I know it makes sense to try that, since it does help some people. But I just feel like, I know what they're going to say. I already know what I should do. I just don't do it. It's like I'm just so lazy... I don't do anything. I could honestly just stay in bed and read and sleep all day and night. I'm not suicidal at all, but I would be totally fine with a big meteor taking us all out tomorrow. I feel like I gave it a shot, I'm sort of ready to be done. I find myself feeling jealous of very old people... If I could have traded places with one of my parents, I would have in a heartbeat. They loved life, and they were good at it.

Yes! I'm not even joking - I think cats are the best thing there is in life. The day after I bought my house was the first genuinely happy day I'd felt in a decade or more - and the next day my cat died unexpectedly. Ugh... Okay. Thanks for chatting. Hug your cats for me.

I am so sorry to hear that. I lost one of my cats earlier this year

I am so sorry to hear that. I lost one of my cats earlier this year I will and thank you for talking too

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I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. I moved to a new state, bought a house I love... but I just feel empty, and alone.

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do. It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do. I definitely have depression. I can try taking meds again, I should probalby try counseling... I did start going to a doctor, at least I know it makes sense to try that, since it does help some people. But I just feel like, I know what they're going to say. I already know what I should do. I just don't do it. It's like I'm just so lazy... I don't do anything. I could honestly just stay in bed and read and sleep all day and night. I'm not suicidal at all, but I would be totally fine with a big meteor taking us all out tomorrow. I feel like I gave it a shot, I'm sort of ready to be done. I find myself feeling jealous of very old people... If I could have traded places with one of my parents, I would have in a heartbeat. They loved life, and they were good at it. Yes! I'm not even joking - I think cats are the best thing there is in life. The day after I bought my house was the first genuinely happy day I'd felt in a decade or more - and the next day my cat died unexpectedly. Ugh... Okay. Thanks for chatting. Hug your cats for me.

Yeah. It was rough, after losing both parents last year. Ughh... Take care. Bye.

(I really did lose a cat earlier this year btw :( )

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do. It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do. I definitely have depression. I can try taking meds again, I should probalby try counseling... I did start going to a doctor, at least I know it makes sense to try that, since it does help some people. But I just feel like, I know what they're going to say. I already know what I should do. I just don't do it. It's like I'm just so lazy... I don't do anything. I could honestly just stay in bed and read and sleep all day and night. I'm not suicidal at all, but I would be totally fine with a big meteor taking us all out tomorrow. I feel like I gave it a shot, I'm sort of ready to be done. I find myself feeling jealous of very old people... If I could have traded places with one of my parents, I would have in a heartbeat. They loved life, and they were good at it. Yes! I'm not even joking - I think cats are the best thing there is in life. The day after I bought my house was the first genuinely happy day I'd felt in a decade or more - and the next day my cat died unexpectedly. Ugh... Okay. Thanks for chatting. Hug your cats for me. Yeah. It was rough, after losing both parents last year. Ughh... Take care. Bye.

I didn't doubt that for a moment. I'm really so sorry. I understand...

Thank you for talking and all the best

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Hi. I don't know... sort of down. Sort of empty... How about you? Well, I moved to a new state - feeling pretty alone. No, not really. I inherited some money, because both of my parents died last year. So I bought a house I love, in a tiny town... Yes, probably. But of course it's a weird time for that, with COVID... Well, I didn't really do that much before COVID. But everything's changed in my life. I thought I could make a new start. I feel like I know what the right things to do are, but nothing sounds fun. I feel like I'm just trying to force myself to do the things I should want to do. It's not that I thought money would buy me happiness, but it is strange that now that I could do almost anything, I really can't think of anything I want to do. I definitely have depression. I can try taking meds again, I should probalby try counseling... I did start going to a doctor, at least I know it makes sense to try that, since it does help some people. But I just feel like, I know what they're going to say. I already know what I should do. I just don't do it. It's like I'm just so lazy... I don't do anything. I could honestly just stay in bed and read and sleep all day and night. I'm not suicidal at all, but I would be totally fine with a big meteor taking us all out tomorrow. I feel like I gave it a shot, I'm sort of ready to be done. I find myself feeling jealous of very old people... If I could have traded places with one of my parents, I would have in a heartbeat. They loved life, and they were good at it. Yes! I'm not even joking - I think cats are the best thing there is in life. The day after I bought my house was the first genuinely happy day I'd felt in a decade or more - and the next day my cat died unexpectedly. Ugh... Okay. Thanks for chatting. Hug your cats for me. Yeah. It was rough, after losing both parents last year. Ughh... Take care. Bye. I didn't doubt that for a moment. I'm really so sorry. I understand...

To you as well. Dream of kittens!

I always do :) You kind of have to press quit and take a survey to exit

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Hello

Hello. How are you doing today?

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Hello

Feeling pretty down to be honest.

Oh, I am sorry about that. Why are you feeling down?

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Hello Feeling pretty down to be honest.

I'm just really lonely. My friends are all very busy lately and I haven't been able to find a partner for a long time.

I can understand that. It is difficult feeling alone.

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Hello Feeling pretty down to be honest. I'm just really lonely. My friends are all very busy lately and I haven't been able to find a partner for a long time.

Yes. Normally it's not so bad but it's been such going on for such a long time. It's harder to deal with after so many years.

It sounds like you feel your friends are too busy for you.

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Hello Feeling pretty down to be honest. I'm just really lonely. My friends are all very busy lately and I haven't been able to find a partner for a long time. Yes. Normally it's not so bad but it's been such going on for such a long time. It's harder to deal with after so many years.

Yes, but the biggest part is not being able to find romantic partner.

Why do you think you are having trouble finding a suitable romantic partner?

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Hello Feeling pretty down to be honest. I'm just really lonely. My friends are all very busy lately and I haven't been able to find a partner for a long time. Yes. Normally it's not so bad but it's been such going on for such a long time. It's harder to deal with after so many years. Yes, but the biggest part is not being able to find romantic partner.

Part because of my low income and part because of my age. I live in a college town and most single women are 10 years younger than me.

Sometimes meeting people through mutual friends is helpful. Have you asked any of your friends if they could introduce to you people they know?

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Hello Feeling pretty down to be honest. I'm just really lonely. My friends are all very busy lately and I haven't been able to find a partner for a long time. Yes. Normally it's not so bad but it's been such going on for such a long time. It's harder to deal with after so many years. Yes, but the biggest part is not being able to find romantic partner. Part because of my low income and part because of my age. I live in a college town and most single women are 10 years younger than me.

I've tried but my friends don't have very large social circles and most mutuals are already dating or are not interested in dating anyone at all.

I can see how that would make it difficult. What about internet dating or going to a single's night?

I can see how that would make it difficult. What about internet dating or going to a single's night? I am sure if you get yourself out there, you will definitely meet a great partner for you.

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Hello Feeling pretty down to be honest. I'm just really lonely. My friends are all very busy lately and I haven't been able to find a partner for a long time. Yes. Normally it's not so bad but it's been such going on for such a long time. It's harder to deal with after so many years. Yes, but the biggest part is not being able to find romantic partner. Part because of my low income and part because of my age. I live in a college town and most single women are 10 years younger than me. I've tried but my friends don't have very large social circles and most mutuals are already dating or are not interested in dating anyone at all.

Internet dating is a cost issue, the most popular apps charge to meet the person, I could look at singles nights once the Covid issue is over. I don't even know if there are any locally.

It seems Covid is making dating difficult for everyone.

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Hello Feeling pretty down to be honest. I'm just really lonely. My friends are all very busy lately and I haven't been able to find a partner for a long time. Yes. Normally it's not so bad but it's been such going on for such a long time. It's harder to deal with after so many years. Yes, but the biggest part is not being able to find romantic partner. Part because of my low income and part because of my age. I live in a college town and most single women are 10 years younger than me. I've tried but my friends don't have very large social circles and most mutuals are already dating or are not interested in dating anyone at all. Internet dating is a cost issue, the most popular apps charge to meet the person, I could look at singles nights once the Covid issue is over. I don't even know if there are any locally.

I hear that from people. I wish I had Covid as an excuse instead of just being confused about why I can't find someone.

It is reasonable to use Covid as an excuse. I am sure there are plenty of women out there who are also confused about why they can't find someone.

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Hello Feeling pretty down to be honest. I'm just really lonely. My friends are all very busy lately and I haven't been able to find a partner for a long time. Yes. Normally it's not so bad but it's been such going on for such a long time. It's harder to deal with after so many years. Yes, but the biggest part is not being able to find romantic partner. Part because of my low income and part because of my age. I live in a college town and most single women are 10 years younger than me. I've tried but my friends don't have very large social circles and most mutuals are already dating or are not interested in dating anyone at all. Internet dating is a cost issue, the most popular apps charge to meet the person, I could look at singles nights once the Covid issue is over. I don't even know if there are any locally. I hear that from people. I wish I had Covid as an excuse instead of just being confused about why I can't find someone.

Possibly, I can see how that is possible.

I am sure after Covid is over, there will be plenty of possible romantic partners coming your way. :)

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Haven't been able to find a companion for years, loneliness has driven me to depression.

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5

Hello Feeling pretty down to be honest. I'm just really lonely. My friends are all very busy lately and I haven't been able to find a partner for a long time. Yes. Normally it's not so bad but it's been such going on for such a long time. It's harder to deal with after so many years. Yes, but the biggest part is not being able to find romantic partner. Part because of my low income and part because of my age. I live in a college town and most single women are 10 years younger than me. I've tried but my friends don't have very large social circles and most mutuals are already dating or are not interested in dating anyone at all. Internet dating is a cost issue, the most popular apps charge to meet the person, I could look at singles nights once the Covid issue is over. I don't even know if there are any locally. I hear that from people. I wish I had Covid as an excuse instead of just being confused about why I can't find someone. Possibly, I can see how that is possible.

Well I appreciate the advice and support.

You are welcome. Good Luck!

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Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

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Hello

How are you tonight?

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breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

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Hello

I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you?

I'm doing well.

I'm doing well. What can I help you with?

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breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

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3

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Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you?

I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce.

I am very sorry to hear that.

I am very sorry to hear that. Did she give you reasons why she wants a divorce?

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breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

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Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce.

I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that.

Just from the few messages we have exchanged I can tell you are very upset about this.

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5

Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that.

I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function.

I completely understand, my ex-wife also found someone else while we were married and decided she wanted a divorce.

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breakup_with_partner

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Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function.

I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating.

Have you asked her about why she started looking for someone else? Sometimes it helps to get some closure and understand the reasons why.

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breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

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3

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Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating.

She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me.

Have you reached out to others who have been through this situation? It also helps to be able to talk to people who have been through the same things as us.

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disgust

breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

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3

5

Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me.

I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married.

That is definitely a good start!

That is definitely a good start! What are some hobbies you enjoy?

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Others

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breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

5

3

5

Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me. I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married.

I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it.

I would definitely get back into that stuff too! It helps to distract yourself with things you enjoy!

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disgust

breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

5

3

5

Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me. I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married. I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it.

I am trying. I try to listen to music too but every song reminds me of her.

I had that problem as well, but doing things I enjoyed definitely helped to get my mid off of my ex-wife leaving.

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disgust

breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

5

3

5

Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me. I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married. I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it. I am trying. I try to listen to music too but every song reminds me of her.

I have to listen to music that I did not with her...which is limited.

I know this is extremely hard, but I know you can get through this!

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disgust

breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

5

3

5

Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me. I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married. I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it. I am trying. I try to listen to music too but every song reminds me of her. I have to listen to music that I did not with her...which is limited.

I wish I knew what the secret was to just not love her anymore.

I can understand that.

I can understand that. Try and find new music, maybe something you haven't listened to before!

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Others

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disgust

breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

5

3

5

Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me. I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married. I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it. I am trying. I try to listen to music too but every song reminds me of her. I have to listen to music that I did not with her...which is limited. I wish I knew what the secret was to just not love her anymore.

I feel like she shut off her feelings for me. I wish I knew how to do the same.

I had a really difficult time with that as well, I just tried to make sure I stuck with my hobbies and distract myself.

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breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

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3

5

Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me. I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married. I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it. I am trying. I try to listen to music too but every song reminds me of her. I have to listen to music that I did not with her...which is limited. I wish I knew what the secret was to just not love her anymore. I feel like she shut off her feelings for me. I wish I knew how to do the same.

I keep trying to distract myself. It's so much easier to lay in bed and do nothing

What other things do you like to do for fun?

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breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

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3

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Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me. I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married. I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it. I am trying. I try to listen to music too but every song reminds me of her. I have to listen to music that I did not with her...which is limited. I wish I knew what the secret was to just not love her anymore. I feel like she shut off her feelings for me. I wish I knew how to do the same. I keep trying to distract myself. It's so much easier to lay in bed and do nothing

I don't even know anymore I feel like I need to find new hobbies

I think finding new hobbies would be good. Try new things, things you haven't done before.

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breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

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Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me. I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married. I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it. I am trying. I try to listen to music too but every song reminds me of her. I have to listen to music that I did not with her...which is limited. I wish I knew what the secret was to just not love her anymore. I feel like she shut off her feelings for me. I wish I knew how to do the same. I keep trying to distract myself. It's so much easier to lay in bed and do nothing I don't even know anymore I feel like I need to find new hobbies

I will do taht

I think it will definitely help

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breakup_with_partner

Going through a divorce. Wife is cheating on me.

5

3

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Hello I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you? I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce. I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that. I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function. I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating. She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me. I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married. I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it. I am trying. I try to listen to music too but every song reminds me of her. I have to listen to music that I did not with her...which is limited. I wish I knew what the secret was to just not love her anymore. I feel like she shut off her feelings for me. I wish I knew how to do the same. I keep trying to distract myself. It's so much easier to lay in bed and do nothing I don't even know anymore I feel like I need to find new hobbies I will do taht

Well it was nice talking to you Thanks for listening

Not a problem! Feel free to chat again if you need it1

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My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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I am sad

I sometimes feel sad too, these days have been really difficult

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My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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I am sad

Its very stressful now that I don't have work

Since when have you stressed

Since when have you stressed In life all comes and goes

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My was recently fired from my job and I am very stressed

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2

5

I am sad Its very stressful now that I don't have work

Since last week when I was fired It am struggling to pay for food I can only eat bananas And I only have 0.05 cents that only enough for one banana

I was also in your position I found a part time job in amazon turk and also in GoPuff they hire without too many requirements

I was also in your position I found a part time job in amazon turk and also in GoPuff they hire without too many requirements May I suggest you to look into those options? Do you have any friend who can support you while this passes

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