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2017-12-03 19:35:44
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I need to vent.
Im a 3rd year CS student and i rly use to like it but i also love art i wona be a filmmaker n wanted to study tht but thr is no good film school in eth also my dad promised me he would get me everything i need too make my first movie but not until i have my degree soo i started studying CS n now u have no idea how much i hate it my greads are all fucked up n i don't know wht too do the hardest part is tht i have spent my 3 years n lots of my dads money now i get home n all i study and practice is film im rly good too my dad n others have told me tht im n i don't wona waste my time doin this n also if i even wanted to finish im not goin to graduate in time coz my greads are all fucked. Need Help
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.959242 |
2017-12-03 19:41:29
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I need to vent.
Okay so im someone who has a really hard time letting people in. So what i do is i pick them apart until i find a flaw so i can reject them. Ive been doing this for a while now and im sick of it. Any advice??
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999573 |
2017-12-03 19:41:46
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I need to vent.
I always seem to speak my mind and I feel like an inconsiderate bitch but I just can't stop myself from telling anyone how I feel. I simply can't bear knowing that the truth isn't in the open. And coming to think of it many people are starting to hate me not that I care but I feel like am hurting them. What do you guys think I should do?
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sadness
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POSITIVE
| 0.835221 |
2017-12-03 20:52:20
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I need to vent.
Is it weird to not be attracted by handsome guys? Idk i prefer the dork and nerd squads rather than the handsome and kingka types. When they talk I want to say "esti zeme bele". To conclude it, I HATE THEIR GUT SO FUCKIN MUCH.
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anger
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998912 |
2017-12-03 21:07:00
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I need to vent.
There is this guy n he is so cool n perfect tbh n we started hanging out n we become best friend betam tolo then we started sexting menamen then one day he kissed me he was my first kiss n it was amazing n we make out menamen gn idk wat we are we r not just friends or friends wit benefits we r more than that but idk wat to say when ppl ask me if I am single
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admiration
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POSITIVE
| 0.993024 |
2017-12-03 21:22:28
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I need to vent.
Hi guys it's me...the guy from yesterday who met with his gf's parents. I'm writing this vent to prove I'm not dead .... Soooo let me tell u how it went.
So i took them to dinner at a restaurant since I was the one who was buying. Her parents got there first and we were like 15 mins behind so when we got there, u wouldn't believe the surprising look on his face. He was so surprised that he didn't know what to say and when I saw his medenager I was like . It gave me confidence bc at least he didn't mesdeb me at first. Well that changed quickly, it was an awkward silence at first then I started to talk about his work (how the campus is going and stuff) wish I haven't bc tenesa the old days and he kept on talking the horrible things I did to disturb him menamen (that nigga doesn't forget)
Becha any who we talked and had a nice dinner but it was full of gilmicha ...the most uncomfortable time of my life...
Finally after we finished, he still didn't cheer up.. but who cares, I'm sleeping with his daughter and he can't do shit about it
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neutral
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NEGATIVE
| 0.978566 |
2017-12-03 21:43:54
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I need to vent.
Love is just another temporary feeling. But the way it affects you, you would never see it coming. It will comsume all your thoughts. That person is all you think about, in the morning, when you eat, when you hear anything that could be linked to that person, when you do the simplest things, when you're about to sleep. Love is that feeling you'll have when you think your heart is about to burst out, it will literally feel that way. It's a feeling that could destroy you. It will change you, you won't know it though. And when it ends (because it will) you will feel that there is nothing left for you in this world anymore, because that love is all you think that exists. That heartbreak will be the worst feeling you'd ever experienced. You're gonna think that there is something stuck in your heart, that you'll want to literally stab your chest and pull it out. Endless pain, tears and sobs.... that's the tragedy of love. That's love.
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.960727 |
2017-12-03 21:57:37
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I need to vent.
Hay guys umm .. there was this girl that I talk to online she is older than me and we become best frinds we always talk online 24/7 for about a year. But I lost my phone and we stopped talking for a while for about 3 months then we started talking again but it wasn't the same we drifted apart a lil so I stoped talking to her. Now after all that she texted me yesterday saying that she missed me and she was sorry and it was her fault and all ... back to the point I want advice in how to make our friendship like it was I want her back and I don't want to loser her again if anyone has experience on this I really need your advice !
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.997709 |
2017-12-03 22:13:14
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I need to vent.
I want to make as much freinds as I can cuz I feel so lonly all the time. But I don't know how , I mean they never last
Any advise ?
Be specific plz
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neutral
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999133 |
2017-12-03 22:19:33
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I need to vent.
im a Newbe so bare with me here..
Theres this guy we have classes together and i like him like crazy which is weird cuz i dont even know him that well ,sure we talk on telegram but nothing serious just goofy stuffs and turns out there are girls who like him like i do if not more...help me make him mine,i have never felt like this in my life and i hate this Feeling i neeeddd ur help
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.991555 |
2017-12-03 22:22:47
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I need to vent.
I'm a teenager who's feel constantly engaged in a war with herself. This war has never left me even for a second, it always eats at me and i feel the my original self image fading away by each day. On one side of me all i want to do is be true to myself and always do things right by me and don't care abt anyone else. On the other side of me i want to protect, love and do right by the people closest to me, even at my own expense. And i also soon realized that there are many allies and constituents evolved in my war and its not even as simple as the wars we heard as we were kids between good and bad. On another front there is a part of that always wants to speak from the heart and not have to lie or add extra things to myself cuz its eating away at my morals. On the opposing front, there's the realistic side of which knows that i have to lie, i have to pretend smthings in order to influence ppl to my advantage or to get what i need most . and im not even done mentioning the sides yet all my friends and all of my relatives they think they know me but I'm always humoured by those comments because they don't even fully know the facade I've allowed them to see...... Im the puppet and the puppet master whose both the imprisoned and the jailer whose lost control of her own creation.....
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realization
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NEGATIVE
| 0.801128 |
2017-12-04 00:50:08
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I need to vent.
What's people i hope the guys won't revoke my male membership for this vent " I'm tired of having sexxxxxx" I can't anymore, I just can't , I'm losing weight I'm starting to look like a zombie, while she getting more hotter than I met her, I can't focus on my shit am always tired , and am not half stupid I believe I can make something out of my self if I just focused ...but every I see her my brain stops working and I change in to a complete primate...
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.996981 |
2017-12-04 00:55:32
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I need to vent.
So I'm a Christian, a questioning Christian. I'm much in to philosophy so the books I've read have done some damage to my religious (*not spiritual*) Life. I do believe in God though. I believe in his omniscience. I even used to be hope for the family. But recently, I've even stopped my daily prayers and its scaring the heck out of me. Please help me be a good Orthodox. One who prays regularly. It's not about Sunday morning church or bible study groups. This is something that had existed inside me, a spirit, but is no more. Help. My life is falling apart
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fear
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NEGATIVE
| 0.986953 |
2017-12-04 05:32:03
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I need to vent.
Hey guys...
I was wondering what most people's thoughts are about a woman seeing a guy who is younger than her? Like within the age gap of 5 years I mean
I've encountered people who think it is a sign of desperation. Is it? Are these people right?
Please tell my your thoughts.
Thanks in advance
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gratitude
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NEGATIVE
| 0.941615 |
2017-12-04 05:32:33
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I need to vent.
Im struggling with mental illness. I am a 17 year old teen and I have triuble knowing whats real and whats not sometimes these days all the time and I cry internally everyday cause of this war inside my head everyonw though thinks im the happiest person alive since im always outgoing around people not faking it but cause i really do enjoy making people happy. Now I don't even believe in happiness though philosophy has also shadowed my vision with the high fear of death and depression attached to this illness Im writing this vent with poor grammar and punctuation not cause I want to but cause my mental illness makes me too scared to do anything else that doesnt feel right if its even existent I dont know if I can live my life like this Im always so down when Im alone
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nervousness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.997308 |
2017-12-04 05:33:00
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I need to vent.
Not here to vent. Im just confused y'all here are saying stuff abt love minamin ...I mean you're joking right you mean crush not love right ? im sorry it's just that I don't think love exists
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confusion
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NEGATIVE
| 0.997389 |
2017-12-04 05:33:12
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I need to vent.
This is not a vent its more of an acknowledgement to all ya. Thank you sooooo much for the advices kemir you guys are spiffing! !!!
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gratitude
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NEGATIVE
| 0.972498 |
2017-12-04 05:34:36
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I need to vent.
Previously I had a boyfriend and I liked certain things about him like the fact that he makes me embrace my insecurities and all that and we were together for almost a year before I broke up with him just because I didn't like the way he texted or because making out didn't look good on him. But ofcourse i didn't tell him that...what do you call this?
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.953712 |
2017-12-04 05:35:46
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I need to vent.
I feel really frustrated and I wanna talk to someone but I'm alone and shit and I guess I gotta deal but this feeling is just annoying. Why do people gotta leave tho
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annoyance
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999345 |
2017-12-04 07:02:43
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I need to vent.
Hey guys....
I was wondering does everone out here enjoy kisses n makeouts, i meant like have feelings for it.pls Send ur comments
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curiosity
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NEGATIVE
| 0.917964 |
2017-12-04 07:55:32
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I need to vent.
So there's this guy i met before a year and we started hanging out and stuff and he seemed like he was very interested in me since he asked me to meet him several times and he always seemed really sweet and loving but i didnt give my all to the friendship that we had even though for me it was more than that. And now he left and we are not friends anymore and i texted him several times and he said that he didnt feel the way i felt. Do u guys think he's lying? Or he really didnt feel anything for me?
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.761946 |
2017-12-04 09:36:23
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I need to vent.
Okay so I have been reading a lot of vents of medical student and I hope y'all don't get fed up when it's my turn cause I really need to pick your brain on this (especially you medicos)
So I am a pc2 student and I have had real doubts whether medicine is for me or not. I almost dropped out when i was in pc1 but I just couldn't bring myself to give up just yet so I didn't and I dealt with unimaginable stress to the point I was concerned for my mental health. And this year I decided I wouldn't go through what I went through last year and I have been working extra hard and I was getting good marks provided that the exam is a straight forward exam. But last time I had patho exam and I was fully prepared and what not. But the exam the professor brought wasn't something you could just answer by reading a book it was more of a tease your brain kinda exam and I almost had a panic attack in the examination room. Not because the exam was hard but because I realised I really didn't have much settled and stored knowledge from what I have learnt so far. Been two weeks and i am so discouraged still i legit havent opend my laptop to study until now.The thing is I don't have a problem of working hard or staying up all night I have been doing it my whole life. Nor I don't mind spending my whole life sacrificing my life to others in need. If I am good at what I do. My problem is I don't think I understand the subject matter. It doesn't matter how hard I work everyone in the classroom is better at it than I am and I am not imagining this it's true. And I swear to God the feeling of being not good enough and the inadequacy is eating me inside out. I usually am the smart-ass and have a quick wit when it comes to other things but this. And I don't really wanna give up.
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.983575 |
2017-12-04 09:40:02
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I need to vent.
Hide my identity
I need to vent,
I’m a 19 year old girl who’s been having a nightmares about my traumatizing childhood. I grew up as a only child, a bit spoiled I admit. When I was 12, my father got a job opportunity abroad and my mother tagged along the journey leaving me with my uncle and his family. There I lived with relatives. One time, my uncle went to work and I had to stay at home to study for my final exams. This distant relative came by for lunch and told the maid to buy groceries so I was left alone with him. Little did I know that this tragic incident would happen, I served lunch and sat Down to eat with him. But he forced himself onto me and I couldn’t fight back. He finished and told me he’d kill me if i told a single living would. I couldn’t open up to anyone. I hated my parents for leaving me there. I hated my uncle for having such a relative. I hated the maid for she covered up as she saw me in pain and blood. I hated everyone but even worse I hated myself for trusting him and for not saying a word. Ever since, I have trust issues with everyone. I didn’t have friends growing up. Even as a 19 year old I’m still scared of men. So i think we should all burst out of our little bubbles surrounding us and see that some of us have actually gone through actual problems worse than a guy not responding, sleeping around and getting pregnant, meeting parents and all high schools dramas.
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.991529 |
2017-12-04 11:30:08
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I need to vent.
Hi, just to say something important!
Many think God doesn't exist, some think someone who believes in God is a fool..well I have something for you ... give me your ears..
WE FEEL HUNGER cuz there is something called food zat our body needs...we feel thirst cuz there's water.... same is true we always feel that there's someone almighty,creator, some call it power...most deny it's existence.... endezi yelem eyale ye wust tiyake mifetrew...is because something inside is missing ... Bible says in the beginning God created heaven and earth...mejemeriya yelewm God ...his alfa and omega...!!! Emanuel
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neutral
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998805 |
2017-12-04 13:01:42
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I need to vent.
Alright so this needs to be said on behalf of all the women if not, decent women out there. Y'all boys (not generalizing) trynna get with a home girl and can't succeed, can't a women be nice to you and not want you? Your egos be way up in the clouds. Don't go around perading about how you're almost in there, when infact you're not even in the radar. Sure she's nice to you and replies to your text messages and even answers your phone calls. But it's not her fault she's treating you the way a human being should be treated. If you're not used to kindness, then that's just sad. Not everything is about sex. That doesn't mean she wants you! You need to get over yourselves.
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caring
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NEGATIVE
| 0.99606 |
2017-12-04 13:33:12
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I need to vent.
Hey there i hv a big problem approching girls.. i don't know i get 0 ideas to talk to them .zts a problem coz am 26 and still didn't had sex .help me out pls
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neutral
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NEGATIVE
| 0.9977 |
2017-12-04 15:45:07
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I need to vent.
It's like I want to date and be in a relationship, but if a guy asked me, I couldn't do it. I have cravings for doing romantic stuff (kissing, holding hands, and hugging), but if it were to happen, I would back out. It seems to be okay in fantasy, as long as it doesn't happen in real life. I can't figure out what's holding me back. pls help me
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disappointment
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POSITIVE
| 0.921277 |
2017-12-04 16:54:34
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I need to vent.
Not much of a vent but here it goes ....am at a point where life is great ,fun and all but I just can't help but go to my past( missing someone who did me wrong ) I know I know its fucked up
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.991734 |
2017-12-04 16:58:48
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I need to vent.
I really really like this dude. He is my every day thought and it just kills me to know that am too much of a pussy to just tell him the way I feel. My friends think he is into me but idk guys. I have only met him once and barely even hung out with him then. I want him so bad but am too scared, what if I tell him and we stop talking? I dont want that, I love my conversations with him. I am a complete mess. I am at war with myself right now. Can you guys please help me.
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.989066 |
2017-12-04 17:55:15
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I need to vent.
Stop preaching your problems, try to love you and your life and make peace your mantra.
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caring
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NEGATIVE
| 0.992624 |
2017-12-04 19:26:16
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I need to vent.
Hey everyone i just need your advice. I'm 2nd yr uni and fall in love with my teacher. Currently he's not givinin' me a course but he gave me last year n I also got A in his course. But Everytime I seat with my friends he stares at me and even my friends knew that so they want me to talk to him but I can't. But the thing that I really can't understand is why he looks at me like everytime betdegagamiii that makes me to think of him more and I can't let him outta ma mind pls help me
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disappointment
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POSITIVE
| 0.967794 |
2017-12-04 19:26:43
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I need to vent.
Is it normal that I hate my parents? I mean i thought it was puberty at some point but this is some real shit. Like my ultimate goal in life is to be free from them and be my own person. And it's not even an " oh, Im so sick of my parents they're so annoying" kinda hate its an "I want them to die and I want it nowww!" kind. I know they did a lot for me but all the things they didn't do made me hate family. I hate who they are as a person.
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annoyance
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999189 |
2017-12-04 19:27:28
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I need to vent.
im a campus student here goes i just can't get over her she left me because she started to have feelings for someone else who treats her like shit its been months since our broke up. and i found out she just broke up with him and my feelings came back endegena we r now closests of friends. gn i fonka her. ive tried hook ups, sleeping with other chicks..... mn largat
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.997816 |
2017-12-04 19:27:38
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I need to vent.
It just to get it out there. I used to be z fun girl that ppl come to n hv this +ve outlook in life. N now idk wt happened in groups I feel left out, like I'm not there n my friends keep telling me I hv changed n I don't know how to go back to z old me.
And also there is this guy in my class we chat n I did something n disappoint him, u said sorry gn he didn't say anything back. I left it like that but wt bothers me is that he is in my class n I always feel weird when he is around wt should I do? Pls help
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999058 |
2017-12-04 19:28:22
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I need to vent.
So this question is for all the males out there. I'm honestly not being judgemental. Like at all. I am just completely baffled by this shit. So here goes. How.do.you.get.over.people.so.quick. like you been begging and crying over someone and telling them that your heart is for real. For like 5 years and when you finally have her heart after all that trying , you're already over it!? I mean for real . is it supposed to be some kind of revenge for her making you wait for so long or did you just get fed up? Are there really no feelings left after that. I mean come on you have history, doesn't that count for anything ? And from my general observation girls don't fall that fast. But when they do . it just....sticks!. Believe me. How is it fair that the two sexes are such polar opposites. Yeah, and while you're at it ,why not share some of your secrets to forgetting so fast . I need feedback on this. 'cause i am finding it hard to comprehend this shit. Ughhh maybe I'm just going dumb.
Damn bruh.
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annoyance
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NEGATIVE
| 0.994896 |
2017-12-04 19:28:48
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I need to vent.
Daamn guys fml! Am in a a situation where the Nigga am dating is constantly to have sex with me.... I am a virgin Ena am scared cuz lash endalbal after that... I would love to lose it to him his perfect eko... But what is he thinks am a hoe.... Guys what should I do
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fear
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998233 |
2017-12-04 19:42:10
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I need to vent.
So I have this problem where after the first date I totally lose interest in the guy and it has happened several times..whats wrong with me?
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999677 |
2017-12-04 20:00:22
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I need to vent.
Ummmm hey
This is the thing...I have been chatting with this dude, we have never met in person, and this is quite surprising since I don't normally chat with any guy, like ever. But it happened anyway and we used to chat very often. Demo am the type of girl who never falls for guys' charm but I think I did for this dude... bacheru he started ignoring me and I feel hurt? I don't even know what am feeling uughhhh! What should I do? Should I text him? Should I call him? Should I forget about him? Please guys I need your opinions
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.970079 |
2017-12-04 20:21:21
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I need to vent.
So I want to vent to you guys about how when ever I meet new people or people I have not seen in a long while I'm so interesting to them and even strangers they are always telling me what an amazing I am but when ever it's about dating no one wants to date me is it the vibe I'm giving out or what...
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curiosity
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POSITIVE
| 0.685517 |
2017-12-04 20:21:36
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I need to vent.
So here I am 'venting' ...the thing is I don't really think the world matters! Is that normal? Well I do blv it is! So I just wanted to know if its just me? Is life worth living?
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curiosity
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999432 |
2017-12-04 20:27:06
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I need to vent.
Girls who never fall for a sexy ass but player kinda guy I need u. Help out a yo sista here. This guy is breaking down ma walls and plz help me out love is ryt gin falling for a dude is so wrong. Plz plz plz I need ur support motivate me plz
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caring
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NEGATIVE
| 0.997689 |
2017-12-04 20:27:15
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I need to vent.
I'm in pain wanna put ten shots in my brain
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998855 |
2017-12-04 20:53:17
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I need to vent.
That feeling, that uncontrollable excitement, you get when you are with someone who makes you love being weird together, who you tell your wildest ideas, your fantasies and you get all excited when you think about seeing them and never fail to love spending time with them, I like that feeling . Is it wrong of me to just want that in a relationship?
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love
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POSITIVE
| 0.996197 |
2017-12-04 20:53:40
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I need to vent.
So I've been in a long distance relationship for like 7 months now. We get to see each other once in two or three months. Even though I love her, lately I've been feeling like the relationship is not going (won't go) anywhere, because the nature of our jobs won't allow that. It's starting to feel like we are putting a lot of work and commitment in to it. Any suggestions?
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.994437 |
2017-12-04 21:30:08
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I need to vent.
i loved her since i saw her. we were together for 1 year. but now we are not! and her reasons are not satisfying me. when we were together she used to tell me that she will never leave me and start any relation with other man.but now she ditched me.any comment
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999551 |
2017-12-04 21:30:27
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I need to vent.
People of Ethiopia. I want y'all to understand something that's been a very serious problem of alot(and I mean alot) of people. I'm not writing this to insult people in any way, shape or form. But this is for all of our comfort, health and peace.
Please be hygienic. Like seriously, God only knows the amount of people that I have met that I could swear haven't taken a proper shower in all their life's. Like how are y'all comfortable with yourselves. I know we live in a pretty poor country and some of us are not that fortunate, but I don't think a bar of soap cost more than 20 birr. Your personal hygiene has so much power, like you don't understand. For your health, social life (no one wants to be friends with a skunk), the environment(I bet stink contributes to pollution) and so much more.
Plus if you know a certian someone who has an unpleasant smell to them, please tell them. You'll be saving yourself and that person so much trouble. And you'll actually be a friend.
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caring
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POSITIVE
| 0.990082 |
2017-12-05 07:08:29
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I need to vent.
a boy that you repeatedly ignore his question to be your bf..if he cries in front of you and tell you that he is deeply in love with you, what would u do?
Me, I just do Wt I always used to do..refuse his question But my friends still told me hw much I'm heartless.
Is that what you guys think also?
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neutral
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NEGATIVE
| 0.995462 |
2017-12-05 07:08:40
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I need to vent.
I really like this girl I used to chat with before I cowered away and tried to forget about her existance as a whole because I started to develop feelings for her, its been more than a month since we stopped talking btw. I know I know such a silly thing to do...but now all I can think of is HER! Whenever she texts me I shut her off quickly with short replies and she doesn't even text anymore. I can't get her out of my mind!! I think she likes me too...idk. What do I do? Is it too late to have her back? Would she even reply if I texted her a simple hello?
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.997293 |
2017-12-05 07:09:07
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I need to vent.
helloooo fam, not actually a vent its just am 21 n never had a memorable time or day with frnds(have no such frnd) like y'all, as a young man...
N that's really bothering me these days! Am in needing of some crazy, dorky n always ready to hang out with friend ...so what do u suggest?? Where can i find such a frnd?
N anybody out here who's such a nerd on his 20's??
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curiosity
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998826 |
2017-12-05 07:09:21
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I need to vent.
So I've been dealing with depression for a really long time now and these days I seem to be reaching my limit. I can no longer feel more than superficial enjoyment while doing even my favourite activities. I can't see the point of doing anything anymore nor caring about the outcome about anything I do. People keep telling me that things will be getting better and yet I've been fed the same lies for years now. I always joke about death but I don't think people realize how serious I am most of the time. And right now , I've never been as contemplative of ending everything as I have now. Easy , painless ways to just let go of everything. It would be way less exhausting than trying to survive in this world. And for all those religious enthusiasts out there about to tell me that Jesus will save my soul and I should just be more religious, please don't. I've heard it all before and you'll just be wasting your time.and honestly you'd do more harm than help. Well thank you all for listening. Here's to seeing if anything changes.. and if it does, it better do it soon. Before I'm incapable of changing my mind.
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gratitude
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NEGATIVE
| 0.99776 |
2017-12-05 07:09:29
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I need to vent.
Have u ever been so misunderstood. So broken. So let down by the person u call yours.this person is MY DAD. We were so close. But recently he did this one thing that broke and changed me . he refused to buy me iPhone x. I've literally hit rock bottom. And the worst part is I'm currently using iPhone 6 . please guys what should I do?
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999449 |
2017-12-05 07:10:08
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I need to vent.
SOCIAL ANXIETY IS SO FUCKIN ANNOYING LIKE U START TO PANIC OR THINK UR EMBARRASSING YOURSELF WHILE DOING NORMAL THINGS LIKE WAITING WALKING PAST TRAFFIC OR TYPING IN PUBLIC OR ANSWERING PHONE CALLS OR FUCKIN ORDERING A COFFEE IN CAFÉ, LIKE DAMN BITCH CAN I JUST LIVE MY LIFE
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anger
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999439 |
2017-12-05 07:10:18
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I need to vent.
I have had depression ever since i was a kid. It has affected me n my life in many ways. I cant even function when i get depressed and i bring everyone around me down with me. Ive tried antidepressants but they are highly addictive so i stopped. Idk what can help me right now.
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.989376 |
2017-12-05 07:10:26
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I need to vent.
Hey
I have a friend and I am crazy abt her but she doesn't see me like that, she id in a very bad mood n when we talk she told me she need some tym to think about these kindes of things specifically 2years she said but also she said she doesn't want to loose me.
I don't know wat to do pls help me
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neutral
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NEGATIVE
| 0.985826 |
2017-12-05 07:10:40
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I need to vent.
So I have been best friends with this one guy for so long. And he wanted to be more than that but I didn't so I said no and we continued our friendship, but through time I started to feel something for him but refused to say anything. One day he told me he was giving up on me and it wasn't a good place to tell him what I felt so I decided to tell me the next day. He called me the next day and he told me he just started seeing this other girl and I was heartbroken, I didn't say anything about my feelings because I didn't want to give him a choice I wanted to be his only choice so I stopped hanging out with himvsnd through time we grew apart. But he is still with the girl and I am still in love with him. Its been 3 years now
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.987052 |
2017-12-05 07:10:51
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I need to vent.
Hi so I just got rejected by z first guy I confessed to .....it fucking sucks so now am thinking accepting this dude who has been asking me out for some time so what do y'all think??what are z perks of dating a guy to forget another and what can go wrong
endvent
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.99802 |
2017-12-05 07:11:04
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I need to vent.
Why am i so scared of being loved? And loving back? Friends tell me how an awesome girl i'm and how any guy would be lucky to have me but i don see myself that way. To begin with, i suck at hanging out. I'm just too closed off, and it kills me inside. Ena, dates make me nervous like reallllyyy insecured, i think of dating and when the moment comes, i freeze , make up a lame excuse and just shut that person. It's rude i know, and am not proud of my deeds. If i cud just let myself hang out more, i know i would get my confidence back and see the real ME that friends speak of. And thanks to Med school which screwed me all the way. It made a nerd for whom only professional talks matter.
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gratitude
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NEGATIVE
| 0.995631 |
2017-12-05 07:19:52
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I need to vent.
I dont get why girls wont make the first move.....i just dont get it,and not just in relationship,even in casual conversation in a bus stop booth or swiming pool or even in a taxi......when its so obvious u want the guy in front of u to talk to u when ur doing all u can to get his attention,i mean every girl i start a conversation wiz seems to like me at z spot......and tells me she was waiting for me to talk to her.....why dont u start
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confusion
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NEGATIVE
| 0.996737 |
2017-12-05 07:25:42
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I need to vent.
Have u ever miss such a peaceful life....?? I am 27 now and i saw many problems bcs of luck of peace,but i always thank God for letting me to breath again every morning, we never had a freedom even to talk loudly even to saw TV on optimum volume....it is all bcs of my dad drinking,smoking problem.i believe he faced many problem in his childhood bcs of his parent(my grands) and he always mention what they did to him and he drink and drink ...he always fight with my mom,he always blame her for his mistakes... i am loosing my patience,i tried betam to saw things on his side,i never lose a hope dat some good lighted day will come. But all in all i want to c my mom's happy face,i want her to live freely but i can't make them to divorce.i am loosin my patience when he keep talking those bad things(consider we can't talk, just listen) imagine how painful is that. Me and my big bro are responsible financially and other things in this family...is that hard to give a peace? We never asked them anything else,just peaceeee....i dnt knw wt to do...i tried to make this family to stay stable..
When the day gets dark my heart start beating so fast bcs i start worry how it going to pass and wake-up again...i can't take it anymore....so tired. I just want to go so far far away ....any advice???
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.994772 |
2017-12-05 09:09:31
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I need to vent.
So in light of giving some incouragnemet for my girls out there... listen, please do not listen to the barriers that are put upon you. Especially those cultural barriors, oh hell no!!!!! Speak up whenever you can and you want BECAUSE YOU HAVE A VOICE AND IT NEEDS TO BE HEARD!!! Go to places alone..., cafes, restaurants, cinema, swimming idk anything that makes you happy and can be done ALONE!!! Because you are complete as you are!!!! And girl you are BEAUTIFUL AS YOU ARE AND BETTER BELIEVE THAT!!!!!! I do not care the flaws you are going to tell me, because perfection is left to God and Him alone!!!!! If you don't believe you're beautiful say that and everything you think you cannot do every morning looking at yourself in the mirror and tell me if it doesn't change. And...and.... you need to discover and REdiscover yourself before allowing a man to be your other "half". Mind you you are not a half neither is he!!!(I'm saying this because some girls think that they cannot exist without a man in their lives and the whole other half thing has psychological effect). You are a complete person looking for a complete other person to live with, to love and SUPPORT you. YES, SUPPORT!! Not be supported but support each other. You are both going to be pillars of the relationship and later on marriage (if you WANT [Not forced by parents and relatives or the norms that a girl should not live alone crap...] and if he's RIGHT for you). RIGHT means... understanding, respectful, committed, honest, loving, caring and a person of communication. RIGHT is not money (don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong in having money, but girl YOU NEED TO EARN SOME TO SPEND SOME!!!!) RIGHT also does not mean looks (nothing is wrong with wanting a certain physical shape in a man but girl YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT BEAUTY IS SKIN DEEEEEEPPPPPPP!!!!!!) Also educate yourself on every aspect of life that will come in handy someday in life.. (be a whole rounded person, not just a Dr or a lawyer or just a business woman.... EXPAND YOUR HORIZON) like money management, communication skills, decision making technics, READ BOOKS (I actually would begggggg you to do this. Every book you read is going to be worth every word, note here to be selective), stay healthy exercises (the least you can do is walk, you know those power walks???? Yea those. You need to keep yourself healthy not shapy, HEALTHY) and read the Bible or Qur'an BE A WOMAN/GIRL OF FAITH (idk what to say to girls that are atheists---my apologies). I've a lot more to say but I'm sure some will be bored by now....yea... lastly, for now ,,, DO NOT LET A GUY OR WHAT A GUY DID OR DOES DEFINE YOU!!!!!!! YOU DEFINE YOURSELF!!!!! And also one more thing don't limit your dream to becoming someone's wife rather some body of your own, because you can do anything and the sky truly is the limit!!!! I'm done!!!
If you have read this far and:
1. You are a female thank you and try them please and see if you don't see change in your life...
2. You are a male,thank you too and I've some long message coming to you too soon
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approval
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POSITIVE
| 0.978184 |
2017-12-05 09:48:49
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I need to vent.
So I have been going out wid dis guy that I got to meet through a friend, we started dating like month and a half a go and our conversations have been quiet nice and flirty until lately.we haven't met for like more Dan 2 weeks & he doesnt replies like he does before, kinda late n sometimes doesn't reply at all, he makes it seen n den replies after a long while n stuff. Amm betam confused sometimes I think he doesn't care at all while other times demo he's all like baby n shit.....plus I have already been introduced to his family including his mom n met up wid his uncle too, I keep acting like I actually don't give a fly n does de same thing dat he does just to give him de bitter taste of him self n I think dat is actually drawing as apart.... Any advices peps, Wat should I actually do?????
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confusion
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NEGATIVE
| 0.995555 |
2017-12-05 12:42:53
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I need to vent.
I dnt kno if it's a phase or if I'm actually going crazy but these days I just get so damn angry, it's like all my patience has gone out the window! I can't seem to let go of mistakes or forgive wrong doings! Wow like right now I'm pissed because a friend o mine is late like girlfriend come on it's not rocket science to be on fucking time been sitting here fending of ppl from our table for 30 min!!!! N I'm also mad at my best friend for sayin he will do something n doing the exact opposite not giving a damn how I feel but I don't say anything because I hate confrontation and I don't feel like it's worth my time to be arguing about something that is so obviously wrong!! So I wanna break something preferably someone and just let it all out, but instead I'm gonna try this out and see if it works!!!!
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anger
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NEGATIVE
| 0.997987 |
2017-12-05 13:40:53
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I need to vent.
Hey unihorse
Hide my identity
I need to vent
I was wondering if it is rly normal to hate ppl??? I dnt rly knw wt hv got in to me now a dayz i rly rly hate de ppl who were part ov ma lyf fo a while. Um even clearing out ma contacts dis is de silly tng i hv done. But now um rly worried this shitt is getting worse. Is it being abnormality?????
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nervousness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999431 |
2017-12-05 16:23:40
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I need to vent.
Am lost in this cruel world....I just wanna leave.
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998137 |
2017-12-05 16:50:48
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I need to vent.
What do you do when you miss someone you're not in touch with anymore?
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curiosity
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998371 |
2017-12-05 16:50:57
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I need to vent.
I'm kinda confused can't feel anything....the thing is I hate my dad ik ik its fucking sad thing to go through.....he has never done a thing for me but here he is trying to decide for me....what shall I do ? helppppppp.
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998673 |
2017-12-05 18:26:24
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I need to vent.
Q. For the girls up in here....does dick size matter and how long is good??
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neutral
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NEGATIVE
| 0.99826 |
2017-12-05 18:27:48
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I need to vent.
For all who are in this group this shit is real although might be kept secret its true. We ( university students) are going to die. We are screaming for help but no one can hear. We are caught in a race war that we didn't start. We only wanted education and we got anarchy instead? Thats fucked up. There should be no race to begin with....... we all are one. Race is not something that you are born with....... how are we being persecuted for the thing that God gave us? I really wish this ends. I am really scared people. I want to get out of this shit. And most of all fuck all those who think their race is the greatest of all... Fuck you its people like you that are bring this country down......... think as a unit not as a separated creatures. You all are the same
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annoyance
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NEGATIVE
| 0.996974 |
2017-12-05 19:45:20
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I need to vent.
I can't decide if I should be in a relationship or not with this guy I know we used to be rly good frnds n idk when it started but I felt attraction to him n so did he n now we r flerting n stuff n he popped the question to be together n I dnt know what to answer helppp n he might be a player I mean I dnt know he's rly cute so I guess girls are chasing after him I need advice ppl
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confusion
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NEGATIVE
| 0.990066 |
2017-12-05 20:25:27
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I need to vent.
I need to vent..... I been in love with ma ex since the day we broke up keep in mind I have hooked up with other girls like a lot in the summer but now that we are close again I get all this feeling I forgot abt n I fucking hate it I try to forget but I can't I try to think that the sex with other girl is better but all I think abt is her I can't get her if my mind n I see her ever time I get all this mixed signal n wen Ever I try to pursue them I get bloked or worse we dance grand we even touch but wen ever I try to kiss her she blocked me n ask me what Im doing n I just can answer that I want her bad but u feel like I'm a joke to her I tried today to buy it ended the same way as always what should I do.... Should I move on or what FYI I'm a university student
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.996936 |
2017-12-05 20:39:30
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I need to vent.
So... Some problem i have to go trough everyday is trying to avoid my dad. He is pretentious as hell even when there is noone around. He says shit that mess me up so i try my best to sleep before he gets home. I know this is a problem but he bothers me betam. I know he is taking care of me nd that gotta count for more than sth but he is so intrusive nd dramatic basically he messed my head up to z point im socially awkward nd being nice to ppl is more of an obligation than sth i want to do, i need advice but cross talking to him off z list cuz that's not gonna work i tried nd my moms not here so cross that off too
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999621 |
2017-12-05 22:10:32
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I need to vent.
I really like this guy, he is one of my really good friends for a long time. I wouldn't call our closeness as friendship because it seems so much more than that.he is a total player, he knows and have dated alot of woman in a very short time though He is so sweet and nice but when it comes to commitment he is a cowerd. He have hinted alot of times he wants to be with me but I don't trust him because he treats me like am the only person he could see one time and he forgets my existence the other. And he confuses the shit out of me and I don't know what to do.
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.986119 |
2017-12-06 06:42:34
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I need to vent.
Started it as doing a favour..N has been going for the past 4 months n I can't seem to be attracted to him ,but I tried my best ..the problem is he think I have feelings n he is into me..N I told him a lie just to make him back off..even after the lie ( which didn't even happen) he is willing to forgive me .N he can't stop to talking to me..Ik he is perfect in everything thing but love is not sth that comes wd hard work ..I dnt like being the bad person by hurting him n I totally dnt like the feeling ..any comments?????
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disapproval
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POSITIVE
| 0.828039 |
2017-12-06 06:43:55
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I need to vent.
So I have this ex gf who is mad in love with me but I don't love her at all. She is sooo obsessive and a control freak (main reasons why i broke up with her).
I told her i don't have feelings for her.... it didn't work.
I tried shuting her off but she found a way to get through.
I tried blocking her from every social media accounts I have but she still doesn't get it.
Since I blocked her number from my phone..She calls with another number I don't know and every time it happens I block that number and now my phone's reject list is almost full.
How can I tell her it's over for her to understand ? I mean, I told her like 15 times already in different ways but she doesn't seem to get it. Pls help ppl
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999574 |
2017-12-06 06:44:10
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I need to vent.
I'm a cancer zodiac man. I'm always conflicted abt what i should do, what i should say and what kind of face i should show ppl even u first meet them because if my experiences have taught me anything it that if i do and say exactly the opposite of what i want to do i will eventually get the girl as atleast a hook up but whenever i want things to stick or get a lil more intimate. They always and i mean always back out! I envy ppl who can just settle for strictly sexual things cuz all i can do( even though I'll never admit it) is wish for smone who can ground my internal battled and make me at one with myself cuz I'm dealing with too many open tabs and I'm almost reaching full capacity
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neutral
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998133 |
2017-12-06 06:45:05
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I need to vent.
Guys i need ur help on sth .
U know girls these days ryt.have u ever wondered how 'easy ' they have become?? I mean bruh ,meet a girl,All u need to make is a lil bit of small talk and she is putty on ur hands.
Anyways whenever i meet up with a nice girl, most of the time it ends up in the same place (yeah, u guessed ryt i sleep with her.) Am not bragging or sayin am a player nor sayin i bang everygirl i meet. Of course AM NOT!
So whenever i meet a very sexy girl, all i think about is how i can get in her pants. I hv a fucked up mindset that i think every cute girl i meet up with, i should sleep with. I cant take a girl as a normal friend unless ofcourse i find her unattractive or weird .whatever man.
Whatcha say bout this? I need ur opinions.
P.s if u consider urself a very fine young lady, and if u leave me a comment, dont forget to add ur username so that i can contact u ........to be friends ofcourse
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neutral
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998042 |
2017-12-06 06:45:32
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I need to vent.
Guys, there is this thing that has been bugging me lately. And the more i think about it, the more i get curious to what it is. And it fascinates me why u guys never brought it up.
WHAT THE F is a unihorse?
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curiosity
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NEGATIVE
| 0.761 |
2017-12-06 06:45:53
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I need to vent.
So there is a girl that I really like, we go to the same school. I am a gc and She is 3rd year. We don't know each other in person but I always see her at school and I really want to ask her out menamen but how?! I mean I have her telegram username and phone number but can't talk to her, because I don't want to be like those random guys who try to girls through telegram and calling her is also weird.. So what should I do? How can I talk to her?
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.997695 |
2017-12-06 07:18:45
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I need to vent.
GROW UP MY SISTER...
He won’t use condoms, You use pills… Why?
Because he wants it natural?
(think of ovarian cancer and infertility )
He gets you pregnant, You have aborted like 5 times….why?
Because he is not ready! GROW UP
He is tired of natural place for copulation.
So he moves to your a## Saying it's tighter.
Why? Because you want to please him and
do not wanna lose him...GROW UP
You have been wearing his engagement ring for
close to 4 years, He is not wearing any. Why?
Because he has promised you marriage.
GROW UP MY SISTER.
*He wants a Bl## j#b Yet he won’t give you head
Why? Coz he feels you are not so clean “there”.
GROW UP MY SISTER.
You dress half naked thinking you look sexy and Hot,
He isn’t complaining But he has more cloths on.
Don’t be surprised when he takes a more decent girl home...
GROW UP LADY..
A guy dumps you, You wanna pay him back and
all you could do is to sleep with his friend?
And you think this is pay back?
Like seriously??? MY SISTER GROW UP..
You think getting pregnant for him will make
him marry you? GROW UP GIRL..
You'll become a single mama with No Job No means for feeding for your Baby and yourself.
So... You leave junior with Grandma and you go back to the Hustling field.
"Then you begin to say...........MEN Are Wicked!!!
Whose fault? Please ladies, be wise!
You know you deserve better than this...
Don't always be at the losing end!!!
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neutral
|
NEGATIVE
| 0.995845 |
2017-12-06 09:11:49
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I need to vent.
So i am a musician, i blv i am very talented and i have already done many albums n stuffs. The problem is i live in the religious world where secular music including zefen n stuffs are forbidden. I feel like i am hindering my potential by just playing inside a church. I have a home studio and i study instruments non stop so that i can see the kind of professional musician i want in myself! I am very conflicted with myself fearing the church society and my parents who are very religious. Need help! Thank you for ur time!
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gratitude
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NEGATIVE
| 0.997134 |
2017-12-06 10:30:14
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I need to vent.
Okay,here is my vent!Took a lot of thinking to post this 'cuz i know some of u out there are going to make of this thing. Well,i don't care 'cuz i sometimes laugh at it too!...I have an OCD(Obsessive compulsive disorder).I have been having it since i was a grade 6 student. So more or less,it has 8 years i guess!...here is how my OCD goes. I love the number 3 and everything i do should be counted 3 or multiple of 3.Especially at nights,after everyone is asleep and i am the last one standing,i get really scared about not getting myself or any member alive the next day. So i do this,i switch on/off the light 3 times,i lock the door 3 times,i swing the door back and forth 3 times,i get up and down my bed three times,i put on and off my pyjamas 3 times and if it accidentally becomes 4 times then i will make it 6 or 9 times...because i believe if i don't do this and something goes wrong the next day,it looks to me as if it is my fault!i cant help it!My gut does all this....And this one i know it is going to be the most disgusting thing u have heard,but listen...once i have put my index finger in the toilet sink and then put it in my mouth 3 times yeah....My gut ordered me to do this...I really dont know what to do about this.I am really worried and I dont think it is going to stop!..What should i do about it? And can anyone relate to this?
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fear
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NEGATIVE
| 0.99775 |
2017-12-06 10:47:37
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I need to vent.
So my boyfriend and I has been together for over 3 years now. I am in university in some other city he is in AA and I come almost every weekend to spend time with him and it was all smooth but he always wants a break up or a break out of the blue and that hurts alot. I love him so much I don't want to lose him so when ever he wants a break I give it to him and when ever he decides to come back I take him back with open arms. I know I shouldn't do that but I really love him. Help please
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love
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POSITIVE
| 0.996238 |
2017-12-06 14:20:02
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I need to vent.
Okay so guys we have read so many vents about sleeping around and stuff. Which is okay because it is natural and honestly we live in the 21st century...everyone is entitled to their free will of aspiring their sexual desire(of course when it is consensual with the other party involved).
But are we all going to the clinic and getting updated on our health status? I wish I could say we all are but please, this is so important. There are consequences to having more than one sexual partner so go get checked, DO NOT put your health on HOLD b/c you are busy or b/c you are ashamed to go to the doctor's office and say you have been sexually active. Doctor's don't care nor judge. But you should b/c your health should matter to you. Your future should matter to you.
This one is to all the sexually active male and female citizens.
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caring
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POSITIVE
| 0.985644 |
2017-12-06 19:02:16
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I need to vent.
I have a serious lying problem. I mean I can't not lie. I lie about almost everything and I am so damn good at it. My whole life has been a big fat lie. I really want to stop but it doesn't work. I lie about small insignificant things, I lie about my relationships, I even create bogus stories to get validation. And it's seriously scaring me. Help me please
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annoyance
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POSITIVE
| 0.787231 |
2017-12-06 19:54:45
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I need to vent.
This thought has been bugging me these days. may be it's because of the ppl who I hangout with or my guy friends I don't know but is it weird to be 22 yr old woman and a virgin ? Like not even a kiss?. Don't get me wrong am waiting because I don't want to do something I will regret later but these days I feel like I am missing out on something big.
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999264 |
2017-12-06 20:34:27
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I need to vent.
The tears are fighting to come out. But I can't let them win. Not anymore. I've cried myself to sleep too many times, they need to stop. I have to be stronger than this right? Why am I so weak?? Why do things always get to me? People say I'm the happiest person they know. Even he said it. Little do they know. I know this probably makes no sense but writing what ever comes to my mind seems to be helping so I'm sorry for wasting your time. I'll stop now
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.990768 |
2017-12-06 21:22:18
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I need to vent.
Don't know what the fuck to do !!!!!! I Wish if could scream it all out ..... My ex just confessed to me that is is going to die and that is y she broke up with me and even if I asked she wouldn't bug ...... Am going mental I love her so much don't know what to do ???????!!!!!!!
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.991474 |
2017-12-06 21:29:46
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I need to vent.
Hi guys so here goes...so I'm an ordinary 20 year old girl, now i know most of you will judge mnamn but I like this girl who has been my best friend since middle school and still is, at least that's what she thinks...and I'm developing feelings for her nowadays and every time i see her yebesebegnal, but she has a boyfriend which I don't like not just because he's a competition but he's a total ass hole, I'm afraid if i tell her maybe it will ruin our friendship maybe not I just don't know.. it's killing me inside what should I do?
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fear
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NEGATIVE
| 0.993268 |
2017-12-06 23:27:43
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I need to vent.
I expect a lot from people and i don't know how to stop. I get disappointed everytime and that leads me to feeling worthless to the point where I wish I was Somebody else and which that makes me feel depressed and insecure!
What should I do ?
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disappointment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.998448 |
2017-12-07 06:12:19
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I need to vent.
My life is a mess I'm so depressed because of what i have gone through....I've never told anyone why im this depressed but imma say it for one. My boyfriend was the one to dump me and i didnt get to do it
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sadness
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999625 |
2017-12-07 07:16:54
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I need to vent.
Hey I need to vent. I knew this guy for a whole of 4 days and the first day we met we ended up making out and I did that because I though he was the type of guy I'm not going to date so might as well have fun and I'm a fun loving girl easily gets along with every one and sometimes for some one else looking in it might look like I am flirting with every guy and now I think I kind of like him and now he doesn't want to date me do you think I made a mistake
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love
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POSITIVE
| 0.987357 |
2017-12-07 07:22:10
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I need to vent.
So here is for my guys.. its going to be long so pay attention.... where to start.... yes, listen, Mind you,, you are not a half neither is she!!!(I'm saying this to u too because some guys think that they need a woman in their life to do the chores, mother sister then a girlfriend and a wife.. you can do all the cooking and cleaning by yourself okay). You are a complete person looking for a complete other person to live with, to love and SUPPORT you. YES, SUPPORT!! Don't feel obligated to do all the support in the relationship or marriage it's a 50-50 situation. Don't make her sucrifie a lot, don't make her sacrifice her family or friends. And most of all don't take her forgiveness for stupidity rather for her strength of looking past things. You depend on one another so cherish her. Also marry her for all the BIG reasons. Not just BIG boobs but big heart and personality. Not just BIG ass but big courage and honesty. Dont get me worng there's nothing wrong with big boobs and ass, but her inner bigness(if there's such a word) will go a long way. You also need to be less aggressive and more compassionate.. I mean embrace her, hold her hands,kiss her, call or text her at the most random times,be there with her thought all the small steps and hell yea better be with be with her during the tough ones. Aggressiveness was, is or never will be the answer!!!!!!!! And yes you also need to be a whole rounded person educate yourself on every aspect of life that will come in handy someday in life,more muscles on the brain rather than the body.. expand your horizon more than sports. Learn how to manage your money and time, how to communicate and how to make a decision. READ BOOKS (I actually would begggggg you to do this. Every book you read is going to be worth every word, note here to be selective), stay healthy exercises (the least you can do is walk, you know those power walks???? Yea those. You need to keep yourself healthy, not buff but HEALTHY) and read the Bible or Qur'an BE A MAN OF FAITH (idk what to say to guys that are atheists---my apologies again). On top of this when you get the chance to be a father, better accept it and be there in your kids lives. Give them a 110% of all what you've got. And when you get the chance to be a husband, be the best that you can and don't leave the house chores to her. Be understanding. It's a privilege to have her say yes, so don't you dare abuse her!!! I don't get how you cannot change the path that your fathers and grandfathers took. Be better!!!! It's the 21st century for the love of God!! Owww and stop it with the "lekefa", the " if I have money I can get her" and the "I'm a player" thing I bet you all I have no girl, with a proper functional brain, likes it,NONE!!!! As you can wear whatever you want and be whoever you want let her be herself!!! Lastly, there is nothing wrong with showing your emotions!!!! Be honest about them, we know you cry so why not do it in front of us??
So that's what I have.. thanks for listening. And I hope one of the points make sense, if not all.
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caring
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POSITIVE
| 0.968343 |
2017-12-07 09:22:44
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I need to vent.
What does loving one's country mean? what does it entail?-- love what? the culture? The history? The land? What?
Why is it frowned upon if one doesn't?
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curiosity
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NEGATIVE
| 0.9917 |
2017-12-07 14:02:52
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I need to vent.
Hey so I have a huge crush on a guy who lives in our compound ..bicha zare when I was heading to work tegenagnen n when we were saying hi he hugged me so tight ena I farted ....he laughed ena left without saying any word ...am really embarrassed....does it happen to anyone weyis Addis neger new ? Ena will he ever talk to me
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embarrassment
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NEGATIVE
| 0.994989 |
2017-12-07 19:39:07
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I need to vent.
We were watching gone girl, when the thought of me telling her i love her came to mind. Fucking gone girl. What does that say about me?
I've always been one of those odd types, the guy that tried to be sophisticated but wasn't seen as one. When the guys talked about girls or some other shit i talked about anything that ended with '-ism', like Buddhism, nihilism, existentialism...
Even the way i expressed my sexuality was weird. If i wanted to kiss her I'd first explain the evolutionary origins of kissing.
If i wanted to take her out, I'd start with telling her how 19th century gentleman wooed thier prospective love interests.
To make a long story short I'm having doubts why this kind, quirky, hella smart girl is in to me. Before i didnt give it much thought but now that I've it in my mind that i love her, it's got me wondering.
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confusion
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NEGATIVE
| 0.799768 |
2017-12-07 19:47:56
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I need to vent.
So here is my story am 23 year old girl I was in a deep rlship with this guy for 2 n half year we broke up about 5 month ago now but still we talk on the phone we meet up n we would make out when we meet up so the prob is he is a musulim we got no future now he told me he is going to get engaged
He is going to get engaged to this Muslim girl bc he has too now it's been two days since he called me haha it's complicated so help me guys how should I get over him I don't want the rlahip too bc it just can't be but I loved him n love him so much some times am scared I won't find loving rlship like we had so I just wanna move on n stop having this thoughts
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love
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NEGATIVE
| 0.992312 |
2017-12-07 21:33:20
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I need to vent.
I like this guy. No. Like it's never happened to me before. He is in my campus. We aren't in the same department but I see him around. We talk sometimes. I initiated. We do have a mutual friend and we have hanged a couple of times in group outing. It's killing me I don't know what to do. Sometimes I think he likes me in the things he does. But am I just thinking that cause I want to think that?
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confusion
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NEGATIVE
| 0.971961 |
2017-12-07 21:33:30
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I need to vent.
this is a rather stupid and childish vent but here goes. i fucking hate my mother ena gidelat gidelat eyalegn new she is super azg ena extremely dumb. btw this vent tenadije ohh mnamn bye yetsafkut adlm. i just saw her smug face and wanted to stab her this is super weird and scaring me but fuck that bitch
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anger
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NEGATIVE
| 0.999295 |
2017-12-07 22:20:44
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I need to vent.
Let me make it short...21 n a guy... yemwedachew aywedugnm yemalodachew they won't even ever get tired of me what ever i did WTF?????????
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annoyance
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NEGATIVE
| 0.994686 |
2017-12-07 22:23:02
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I need to vent.
So here goes my very first vent so there is this girl I told I like but the truth is I don’t I just think she nice and attractive but am starting to see that I am liking her for real and I am seeing her in a new way so how could I show more of my feelings I am kids feeling like I act as a zombie around her any advice
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love
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POSITIVE
| 0.926921 |
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