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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 M] dont know how to react to "Male friend" in new relationship with [19 f ]\n\nPOST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a socially withdrawn college student who is not sure if he likes his new girlfriend, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

We don't want the roommate who lives with us. We want to tell him, but it's hard to tell him why.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: We don't want the roommate who lives with us. We want to tell him, but it's hard to tell him why.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: We don't want to live with this roommate, but have to because he's a nice guy. How do we tell him we don't want to live with him without being a dick?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I need advice on how to tell a roommate that we don't want him to live with us.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I need advice on how to tell a roommate that we don't want him to live with us.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't want to live with current roommate, don't know how to tell him since he's a nice guy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Don't want to live with current roommate, don't know how to tell him since he's a nice guy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't want to live with current roommate, don't know how to tell him since he's a nice guy.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: We don't want to live with this roommate, but have to because he's a nice guy. How do we tell him we don't want to live with him without being a dick?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I need advice on how to tell a roommate that we don't want him to live with us.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I need advice on how to tell a roommate that we don't want him to live with us.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Want to tell a roommate we don't want to live with him.\n\nPOST: Hi, I apologize if this is in the wrong subreddit. I'm a college student who lives in a house with 5 other guys. It's time to either re-sign the lease for a year, or move out. Three of the guys are moving out, and the other two and I wanted to stay, but now are going to move out as well. Two of us don't want to live with the third roommate, but we don't know how to tell him. It's difficult because he's a pleasant roommate 50% of the time, but the other half is miserable. And it's not even stuff that he can change, it's just who he is. For example he is super loud. Both in his voice and the way that he walks. He will argue about ANYTHING. He has to be told to do chores like dishes, take out the trash, while everyone else just does them. He eats a disproportionally large amount of the food we communally buy, and won't pay extra for it. He keeps his room messy. It's hard to tell him we don't want him to live with him because he is a nice person and we've known him for three years. It's also getting late to find a place to live, so we would be sort of shafting him. Is there any way to tell him without being a dick? Thank you to anyone who read this and is willing to post.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the needadvice subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: We don't want the roommate who lives with us. We want to tell him, but it's hard to tell him why.<|endoftext|>

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Friend stole my brother's money, I owe him £400+ but he's paying me back in a week. Am I being handled well?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: One of my [17M] bestfriend's [17M] asked for an investment and stole £400+ from my brother [30M] through me\n\nPOST: My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. I couldn't get hold of Dave for the past few days but today he rang me and explained there was no venture he just needed the money. Dave said he felt guilty and although he spent the majority of the money - he's going to pay me back in the next week. His family live on the poverty line but tbh I have no guilt from taking the money back because he stole when he simply could of asked for help. I wouldn't have had any money to give him but I've lost all trust in this guy and I plan on cutting contact with him once the last penny is paid back. I had been spending my small amount of money I had on luxuries rather than saving as I assumed I would be rich (for a student) relatively soon so he's also messed up my finances in the short term. Dave has been a good friend, probably bestfriend from all the shit he's helped me with and I never thought he'd scam me. Am I handling the situation well? Lesson learnt: don't trust something that's too good to be true - thanks life :)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend stole my brother's money, I owe him £400+ but he's paying me back in a week. Am I being handled well?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: One of my [17M] bestfriend's [17M] asked for an investment and stole £400+ from my brother [30M] through me\n\nPOST: My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. I couldn't get hold of Dave for the past few days but today he rang me and explained there was no venture he just needed the money. Dave said he felt guilty and although he spent the majority of the money - he's going to pay me back in the next week. His family live on the poverty line but tbh I have no guilt from taking the money back because he stole when he simply could of asked for help. I wouldn't have had any money to give him but I've lost all trust in this guy and I plan on cutting contact with him once the last penny is paid back. I had been spending my small amount of money I had on luxuries rather than saving as I assumed I would be rich (for a student) relatively soon so he's also messed up my finances in the short term. Dave has been a good friend, probably bestfriend from all the shit he's helped me with and I never thought he'd scam me. Am I handling the situation well? Lesson learnt: don't trust something that's too good to be true - thanks life :)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend stole £400 from me from me and stole a further £300 from my brother who lived in poverty and I plan to cut contact. Am I handling it well?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: One of my [17M] bestfriend's [17M] asked for an investment and stole £400+ from my brother [30M] through me\n\nPOST: My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. I couldn't get hold of Dave for the past few days but today he rang me and explained there was no venture he just needed the money. Dave said he felt guilty and although he spent the majority of the money - he's going to pay me back in the next week. His family live on the poverty line but tbh I have no guilt from taking the money back because he stole when he simply could of asked for help. I wouldn't have had any money to give him but I've lost all trust in this guy and I plan on cutting contact with him once the last penny is paid back. I had been spending my small amount of money I had on luxuries rather than saving as I assumed I would be rich (for a student) relatively soon so he's also messed up my finances in the short term. Dave has been a good friend, probably bestfriend from all the shit he's helped me with and I never thought he'd scam me. Am I handling the situation well? Lesson learnt: don't trust something that's too good to be true - thanks life :)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: bestfriend stole £400 that my brother gave me to invest and is offering to pay it back. I plan to cut contact after he does. Good idea?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: One of my [17M] bestfriend's [17M] asked for an investment and stole £400+ from my brother [30M] through me\n\nPOST: My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. I couldn't get hold of Dave for the past few days but today he rang me and explained there was no venture he just needed the money. Dave said he felt guilty and although he spent the majority of the money - he's going to pay me back in the next week. His family live on the poverty line but tbh I have no guilt from taking the money back because he stole when he simply could of asked for help. I wouldn't have had any money to give him but I've lost all trust in this guy and I plan on cutting contact with him once the last penny is paid back. I had been spending my small amount of money I had on luxuries rather than saving as I assumed I would be rich (for a student) relatively soon so he's also messed up my finances in the short term. Dave has been a good friend, probably bestfriend from all the shit he's helped me with and I never thought he'd scam me. Am I handling the situation well? Lesson learnt: don't trust something that's too good to be true - thanks life :)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend stole from me and is paying me back in the next week. Bestfriend is shady. Am I handling the situation well?<|endoftext|>

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bestfriend stole £400 that my brother gave me to invest and is offering to pay it back. I plan to cut contact after he does. Good idea?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: One of my [17M] bestfriend's [17M] asked for an investment and stole £400+ from my brother [30M] through me\n\nPOST: My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. I couldn't get hold of Dave for the past few days but today he rang me and explained there was no venture he just needed the money. Dave said he felt guilty and although he spent the majority of the money - he's going to pay me back in the next week. His family live on the poverty line but tbh I have no guilt from taking the money back because he stole when he simply could of asked for help. I wouldn't have had any money to give him but I've lost all trust in this guy and I plan on cutting contact with him once the last penny is paid back. I had been spending my small amount of money I had on luxuries rather than saving as I assumed I would be rich (for a student) relatively soon so he's also messed up my finances in the short term. Dave has been a good friend, probably bestfriend from all the shit he's helped me with and I never thought he'd scam me. Am I handling the situation well? Lesson learnt: don't trust something that's too good to be true - thanks life :)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: bestfriend stole £400 that my brother gave me to invest and is offering to pay it back. I plan to cut contact after he does. Good idea?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: One of my [17M] bestfriend's [17M] asked for an investment and stole £400+ from my brother [30M] through me\n\nPOST: My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. I couldn't get hold of Dave for the past few days but today he rang me and explained there was no venture he just needed the money. Dave said he felt guilty and although he spent the majority of the money - he's going to pay me back in the next week. His family live on the poverty line but tbh I have no guilt from taking the money back because he stole when he simply could of asked for help. I wouldn't have had any money to give him but I've lost all trust in this guy and I plan on cutting contact with him once the last penny is paid back. I had been spending my small amount of money I had on luxuries rather than saving as I assumed I would be rich (for a student) relatively soon so he's also messed up my finances in the short term. Dave has been a good friend, probably bestfriend from all the shit he's helped me with and I never thought he'd scam me. Am I handling the situation well? Lesson learnt: don't trust something that's too good to be true - thanks life :)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend stole my brother's money, I owe him £400+ but he's paying me back in a week. Am I being handled well?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: One of my [17M] bestfriend's [17M] asked for an investment and stole £400+ from my brother [30M] through me\n\nPOST: My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. I couldn't get hold of Dave for the past few days but today he rang me and explained there was no venture he just needed the money. Dave said he felt guilty and although he spent the majority of the money - he's going to pay me back in the next week. His family live on the poverty line but tbh I have no guilt from taking the money back because he stole when he simply could of asked for help. I wouldn't have had any money to give him but I've lost all trust in this guy and I plan on cutting contact with him once the last penny is paid back. I had been spending my small amount of money I had on luxuries rather than saving as I assumed I would be rich (for a student) relatively soon so he's also messed up my finances in the short term. Dave has been a good friend, probably bestfriend from all the shit he's helped me with and I never thought he'd scam me. Am I handling the situation well? Lesson learnt: don't trust something that's too good to be true - thanks life :)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend stole from me and is paying me back in the next week. Bestfriend is shady. Am I handling the situation well?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: One of my [17M] bestfriend's [17M] asked for an investment and stole £400+ from my brother [30M] through me\n\nPOST: My friend (let's call him Dave) had been earning money from doing something for a good while now. He invited me to come in on the venture. I didn't have the money so had to ask my brother (who was wanting to get in on the venture all along) if he could lend me some. I planned to make £500 profit. This was 2 weeks ago. I couldn't get hold of Dave for the past few days but today he rang me and explained there was no venture he just needed the money. Dave said he felt guilty and although he spent the majority of the money - he's going to pay me back in the next week. His family live on the poverty line but tbh I have no guilt from taking the money back because he stole when he simply could of asked for help. I wouldn't have had any money to give him but I've lost all trust in this guy and I plan on cutting contact with him once the last penny is paid back. I had been spending my small amount of money I had on luxuries rather than saving as I assumed I would be rich (for a student) relatively soon so he's also messed up my finances in the short term. Dave has been a good friend, probably bestfriend from all the shit he's helped me with and I never thought he'd scam me. Am I handling the situation well? Lesson learnt: don't trust something that's too good to be true - thanks life :)\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Friend stole £400 from me from me and stole a further £300 from my brother who lived in poverty and I plan to cut contact. Am I handling it well?<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend cried while watching my own show while I was there.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What are your funniest stories of 'seeing a grown man cry'?\n\nPOST: A few years back, my boyfriend and I got caught up in the show 'Meerkat Manor'. As much interesting as the show was, for some reason, he was much more invested than I. (We were both about 25/26 years old). Anyway, at that point we had been together about 4 years, and had never seen my boyfriend even close to crying about anything before. One episode (I'm assuming a finale of sorts), I decided to go get dinner. When I came back, there he was blubbering like a baby, I thought something was seriously wrong. I kept asking what happened. That's when he barely got out (spoiler alert)- 'Flower died'. (Flower being a main character/meerkat). I looked at him like he was nuts.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend cried while watching my own show while I was there.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What are your funniest stories of 'seeing a grown man cry'?\n\nPOST: A few years back, my boyfriend and I got caught up in the show 'Meerkat Manor'. As much interesting as the show was, for some reason, he was much more invested than I. (We were both about 25/26 years old). Anyway, at that point we had been together about 4 years, and had never seen my boyfriend even close to crying about anything before. One episode (I'm assuming a finale of sorts), I decided to go get dinner. When I came back, there he was blubbering like a baby, I thought something was seriously wrong. I kept asking what happened. That's when he barely got out (spoiler alert)- 'Flower died'. (Flower being a main character/meerkat). I looked at him like he was nuts.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm a loser.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What are your funniest stories of 'seeing a grown man cry'?\n\nPOST: A few years back, my boyfriend and I got caught up in the show 'Meerkat Manor'. As much interesting as the show was, for some reason, he was much more invested than I. (We were both about 25/26 years old). Anyway, at that point we had been together about 4 years, and had never seen my boyfriend even close to crying about anything before. One episode (I'm assuming a finale of sorts), I decided to go get dinner. When I came back, there he was blubbering like a baby, I thought something was seriously wrong. I kept asking what happened. That's when he barely got out (spoiler alert)- 'Flower died'. (Flower being a main character/meerkat). I looked at him like he was nuts.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: stoic boyfriend cried like a baby when a meerkat died in the wild.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What are your funniest stories of 'seeing a grown man cry'?\n\nPOST: A few years back, my boyfriend and I got caught up in the show 'Meerkat Manor'. As much interesting as the show was, for some reason, he was much more invested than I. (We were both about 25/26 years old). Anyway, at that point we had been together about 4 years, and had never seen my boyfriend even close to crying about anything before. One episode (I'm assuming a finale of sorts), I decided to go get dinner. When I came back, there he was blubbering like a baby, I thought something was seriously wrong. I kept asking what happened. That's when he barely got out (spoiler alert)- 'Flower died'. (Flower being a main character/meerkat). I looked at him like he was nuts.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I guess I'm just a fucking confused virgin.<|endoftext|>

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stoic boyfriend cried like a baby when a meerkat died in the wild.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What are your funniest stories of 'seeing a grown man cry'?\n\nPOST: A few years back, my boyfriend and I got caught up in the show 'Meerkat Manor'. As much interesting as the show was, for some reason, he was much more invested than I. (We were both about 25/26 years old). Anyway, at that point we had been together about 4 years, and had never seen my boyfriend even close to crying about anything before. One episode (I'm assuming a finale of sorts), I decided to go get dinner. When I came back, there he was blubbering like a baby, I thought something was seriously wrong. I kept asking what happened. That's when he barely got out (spoiler alert)- 'Flower died'. (Flower being a main character/meerkat). I looked at him like he was nuts.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: stoic boyfriend cried like a baby when a meerkat died in the wild.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: What are your funniest stories of 'seeing a grown man cry'?\n\nPOST: A few years back, my boyfriend and I got caught up in the show 'Meerkat Manor'. As much interesting as the show was, for some reason, he was much more invested than I. (We were both about 25/26 years old). Anyway, at that point we had been together about 4 years, and had never seen my boyfriend even close to crying about anything before. One episode (I'm assuming a finale of sorts), I decided to go get dinner. When I came back, there he was blubbering like a baby, I thought something was seriously wrong. I kept asking what happened. That's when he barely got out (spoiler alert)- 'Flower died'. (Flower being a main character/meerkat). I looked at him like he was nuts.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend cried while watching my own show while I was there.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Is there a way to send a petition to the IT department?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Is there a way to send a petition to the IT department?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to write a petition to the IT department, but I don't know how to write it.<|endoftext|>

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Campus internet sucks. Suggestions on how to get the university to improve?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Campus internet sucks. Suggestions on how to get the university to improve?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: What is the most efficient way to get a measly 1/5 of the capacity of a dorm room Internet connection?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

What is the most efficient way to get a measly 1/5 of the capacity of a dorm room Internet connection?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: What is the most efficient way to get a measly 1/5 of the capacity of a dorm room Internet connection?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to write a petition to the IT department, but I don't know how to write it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Campus internet sucks. Suggestions on how to get the university to improve?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Campus internet sucks. Suggestions on how to get the university to improve?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Moar Bandwidth Please?\n\nPOST: I live in a dorm room on a campus that has 20,000 students and only about 1/5 of them live on campus. The IT department at my school has throttled bandwidth substantially. On campus, using a university computer, I can get down/up speeds of 40Mbps during peak hours and upwards of 100Mbps during off hours. In the dorms, I only get speeds of 1Mbps on average. I want to write some kind of report or petition to send to the IT department but I don't know about whether this kind of thing has been successful in the past. Does anyone have any experience in the matter?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Is there a way to send a petition to the IT department?<|endoftext|>

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I would like to start dating again through online dating sites and would like advice on what to expect.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29 M] would like to start dating [F] again. What can I expect?\n\nPOST: I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended. Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy and my life is sort of getting back on track again For 2016 I would love to start dating again through online dating sites, but I have absolutely no idea what to expect from dating at my age. What can I expect from first dates? What are good ideas for dates? Do you split expenses when meeting someone for the first time or do I pay for things? I figure the past few years may come up, how do I communicate such a thing? (I know that some people will end things here when I do bring it up, that's fine. But I'm sure there are people out there who understand) .... Any overall tips for dating women in their late 20's and early 30's would be well appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I would like to start dating again through online dating sites and would like advice on what to expect.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29 M] would like to start dating [F] again. What can I expect?\n\nPOST: I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended. Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy and my life is sort of getting back on track again For 2016 I would love to start dating again through online dating sites, but I have absolutely no idea what to expect from dating at my age. What can I expect from first dates? What are good ideas for dates? Do you split expenses when meeting someone for the first time or do I pay for things? I figure the past few years may come up, how do I communicate such a thing? (I know that some people will end things here when I do bring it up, that's fine. But I'm sure there are people out there who understand) .... Any overall tips for dating women in their late 20's and early 30's would be well appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 29M looking to start dating again after 8 years of social isolation and depression<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29 M] would like to start dating [F] again. What can I expect?\n\nPOST: I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended. Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy and my life is sort of getting back on track again For 2016 I would love to start dating again through online dating sites, but I have absolutely no idea what to expect from dating at my age. What can I expect from first dates? What are good ideas for dates? Do you split expenses when meeting someone for the first time or do I pay for things? I figure the past few years may come up, how do I communicate such a thing? (I know that some people will end things here when I do bring it up, that's fine. But I'm sure there are people out there who understand) .... Any overall tips for dating women in their late 20's and early 30's would be well appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Want to go back into dating. What can I expect and what can I do to make the best of it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29 M] would like to start dating [F] again. What can I expect?\n\nPOST: I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended. Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy and my life is sort of getting back on track again For 2016 I would love to start dating again through online dating sites, but I have absolutely no idea what to expect from dating at my age. What can I expect from first dates? What are good ideas for dates? Do you split expenses when meeting someone for the first time or do I pay for things? I figure the past few years may come up, how do I communicate such a thing? (I know that some people will end things here when I do bring it up, that's fine. But I'm sure there are people out there who understand) .... Any overall tips for dating women in their late 20's and early 30's would be well appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: What are my expectations for dating online? EDIT: Thanks to everyone who offered advice and insight, I appreciate it all very much! I will definitely be communicating with my counselor about it. I will post what I learn on my new subreddit as well.<|endoftext|>

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I would like to start dating again through online dating sites and would like advice on what to expect.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29 M] would like to start dating [F] again. What can I expect?\n\nPOST: I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended. Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy and my life is sort of getting back on track again For 2016 I would love to start dating again through online dating sites, but I have absolutely no idea what to expect from dating at my age. What can I expect from first dates? What are good ideas for dates? Do you split expenses when meeting someone for the first time or do I pay for things? I figure the past few years may come up, how do I communicate such a thing? (I know that some people will end things here when I do bring it up, that's fine. But I'm sure there are people out there who understand) .... Any overall tips for dating women in their late 20's and early 30's would be well appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I would like to start dating again through online dating sites and would like advice on what to expect.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29 M] would like to start dating [F] again. What can I expect?\n\nPOST: I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended. Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy and my life is sort of getting back on track again For 2016 I would love to start dating again through online dating sites, but I have absolutely no idea what to expect from dating at my age. What can I expect from first dates? What are good ideas for dates? Do you split expenses when meeting someone for the first time or do I pay for things? I figure the past few years may come up, how do I communicate such a thing? (I know that some people will end things here when I do bring it up, that's fine. But I'm sure there are people out there who understand) .... Any overall tips for dating women in their late 20's and early 30's would be well appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: What are my expectations for dating online? EDIT: Thanks to everyone who offered advice and insight, I appreciate it all very much! I will definitely be communicating with my counselor about it. I will post what I learn on my new subreddit as well.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29 M] would like to start dating [F] again. What can I expect?\n\nPOST: I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended. Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy and my life is sort of getting back on track again For 2016 I would love to start dating again through online dating sites, but I have absolutely no idea what to expect from dating at my age. What can I expect from first dates? What are good ideas for dates? Do you split expenses when meeting someone for the first time or do I pay for things? I figure the past few years may come up, how do I communicate such a thing? (I know that some people will end things here when I do bring it up, that's fine. But I'm sure there are people out there who understand) .... Any overall tips for dating women in their late 20's and early 30's would be well appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 29M looking to start dating again after 8 years of social isolation and depression<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I [29 M] would like to start dating [F] again. What can I expect?\n\nPOST: I am 29 and have been stuck in (various levels of) social isolation for the past 8 years since my relationship with my ex-girlfriend ended. Just to make things clear, my social isolation is a result of depression and anxiety issues related to autism. It's not related to the breakup with my ex. I have been in therapy and my life is sort of getting back on track again For 2016 I would love to start dating again through online dating sites, but I have absolutely no idea what to expect from dating at my age. What can I expect from first dates? What are good ideas for dates? Do you split expenses when meeting someone for the first time or do I pay for things? I figure the past few years may come up, how do I communicate such a thing? (I know that some people will end things here when I do bring it up, that's fine. But I'm sure there are people out there who understand) .... Any overall tips for dating women in their late 20's and early 30's would be well appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Want to go back into dating. What can I expect and what can I do to make the best of it.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

suck it up, it's not that bad.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: suck it up, it's not that bad.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: did the right thing.<|endoftext|>

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who cares? everyone has that horrible ex! tell me about yours.*<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: who cares? everyone has that horrible ex! tell me about yours.*<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: did the right thing.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Don't trust the kind of people you see on Reddit, they are more likely to be sociopathic than the average person.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't trust the kind of people you see on Reddit, they are more likely to be sociopathic than the average person.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: suck it up, it's not that bad.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

who cares? everyone has that horrible ex! tell me about yours.*<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: who cares? everyone has that horrible ex! tell me about yours.*<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Let's hear some of Reddit's "terrible ex" stories!\n\nPOST: I'll go first. he was my producer for 10 years and was super manipulative, most charming guy in the world. he had a million sob stories and would throw one at whomever started to catch on. drugs came first, despite his dreams. he turned down opportunity after opportunity to get clean. he pitted naive friends against each other, then dish out advice. I think one of the worst things he did was scam every employer into getting worker's comp and paid time off. every job. as soon as the probationary period was over, he'd purposely re-injure his knee so he could get paid to lay on the couch and eat Percocets all day. he had me wrapped around every one of his fingers until one day, I caught him in several lies at once, called him out (which he CLEARLY was not accustomed to), and rolled out. he had friends calling me to say he was getting clean and blah blah blah. but I haven't talked to him since and my life has improved exponentially.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Don't trust the kind of people you see on Reddit, they are more likely to be sociopathic than the average person.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm constantly getting shoved around and berated by my boyfriend and his family for a dog that isn't even technically mine. It's causing a lot of strain on my relationships with them. Do I give the dog back to his owner? Do I suck it up and let them complain?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm constantly getting shoved around and berated by my boyfriend and his family for a dog that isn't even technically mine. It's causing a lot of strain on my relationships with them. Do I give the dog back to his owner? Do I suck it up and let them complain?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend's family is trying to get me to abandon my dog, and I have no idea if I should just leave or just let it go.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I'm constantly getting shoved around and berated by my boyfriend and his family for a dog that isn't even technically mine. It's causing a lot of strain on my relationships with them. Do I give the dog back to his owner? Do I suck it up and let them complain?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm constantly getting shoved around and berated by my boyfriend and his family for a dog that isn't even technically mine. It's causing a lot of strain on my relationships with them. Do I give the dog back to his owner? Do I suck it up and let them complain?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a stud dog who is my boyfriend's dog and he is constantly attacking my dog.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend's family keeps bringing up my dog and I don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend's family keeps bringing up my dog and I don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a stud dog who is my boyfriend's dog and he is constantly attacking my dog.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My boyfriend's family is trying to get me to abandon my dog, and I have no idea if I should just leave or just let it go.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend's family is trying to get me to abandon my dog, and I have no idea if I should just leave or just let it go.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [21 F] and my boyfriend [22 M] and his family are having issues because of my dog.\n\nPOST: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I got a dog last year from a friend who is a breeder, so this is one of her stud dogs. Meaning that, I get to keep the dog at my house and she pays the vet bills in exchange for me bringing him over to her house to make money for her by breeding him. So he's really her dog, I just take care of him. So I got this dog a month before my boyfriend's dog passed away. Things started getting shaky when I would hang out with all of them at their lake house, and my dog Daegan would be shedding and getting fur everywhere. Because of this I am no longer allowed to sleep in a bed at night, I have to sleep on a couch because of the fur that comes off of Daegan when he sleeps in the bed with me. The weekends when I go to the lake house are my only chance to see my boyfriend. So I try to go as much as possible, but I always get the boot by his family if someone else is over. This weekend, it was my MIL's sister and she brought a kitten with her. Daegan is fine with kittens, but they won't let me come up with him.. AKA I can't come up. Deagan does have some issues, he isn't a perfect dog. He is aggressive towards other male dogs (happens a lot with stud dogs). He sheds a lot. And WARNING GROSS: because he is a stud dog his penis is always leaking nasty discharge and it can get on things. With all of that said, my boyfriend is constantly taking jabs at Daegan, openly admits he hates him. But he will calm down when I tell him he needs to get over it. Sometimes I think he actually does like him, but since his dad hates him.. well he just wants to be like him.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boyfriend's family keeps bringing up my dog and I don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Should I drop out of university and take a year off to reflect on the fact that I've been wasting my time since I went to university?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a BA in a field I don't like, can't seem to do anything about it. Am I wasting my time? Should I drop out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to run my own bar one day, do you think Descartes is likely to help me in this endeavour?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm no genius, but I want to make it to the top of the food chain. What's your opinion on the best way to go about it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Should I drop out of university and take a year off to reflect on the fact that I've been wasting my time since I went to university?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I'm no genius, but I want to make it to the top of the food chain. What's your opinion on the best way to go about it?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I have a BA in a field I don't like, can't seem to do anything about it. Am I wasting my time? Should I drop out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a BA in a field I don't like, can't seem to do anything about it. Am I wasting my time? Should I drop out?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Reddit, should I drop out of university?\n\nPOST: (Throwaway account, because I've got some friends on here that I don't really want to discuss this with yet.) Reddit, I'm looking for your thoughts on something that's been really bugging me: Am I wasting my time at college? I'm in my early twenties and currently studying for a BA in some shit I don't really care too much about that isn't likely to lead me to career that I want in any way at all. Where I'm from, third level education is affordable, and there's a lot of societal pressure on getting a degree, any degree, if you have the chance, or the ability. I'm not lacking in intelligence, but I am absolutely terrible at being a student: It's like there's a disconnect in my head between the part that's screaming for me to study a reading, do an assignment or attend a lecture, and the part that actually moves my arms and legs. Somehow, up to this point, I've scraped through by the skin of my teeth in almost every important exam, but nothing that could be called "study" has ever happened; not once. So the ship that was treading water for so many years is sinking quickly, and I don't know if A) I have the power inside of me to pull it back from the brink or B) if it's actually worth all the stress and worry. Just to come out the other side in 2 years with a degree that might get me a shitty entry-level job in an area that I don't want to be in, and that I know I ultimately won't need or use. I'm curious to know from the BA graduates out there; what has your degree done for you? Particularly those who aren't working, or don't want to work, in an industry related to your studied subject.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I want to run my own bar one day, do you think Descartes is likely to help me in this endeavour?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend of three years went from walking distance to plane flight and don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of three years went from walking distance to plane flight and don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Long distance girlfriend wants to "break up" with me to see if it is possible. I am unsure.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Girlfriend of three years went from walking distance to plane flight and don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Girlfriend of three years went from walking distance to plane flight and don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 3 year relationship, not sure if I should break up with her after getting less happy<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

No longer live within 2 minutes walk of each other, unsure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: No longer live within 2 minutes walk of each other, unsure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Long distance girlfriend wants to "break up" with me to see if it is possible. I am unsure.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

3 year relationship, not sure if I should break up with her after getting less happy<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: 3 year relationship, not sure if I should break up with her after getting less happy<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [23 M] and my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, we are long distance and not sure if it will work\n\nPOST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for three and a half years. We were together throughout college and now we no longer live within two minutes walk from each other. I currently live an hour plane flight from her. It has been three months and we have only seen each other twice. We think it will get easier to see each other once we are settled, but I am not sure. I am not leaving my job to be near her and she is in grad school so she will be there for another 5 years. I am not sure if I can handle 5 years like this. However, I also don't want to end what we have just because it's difficult now. I am looking for advice on what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't want to spend three years getting progressively less happy with the situation until we end up breaking up and disliking each other. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: No longer live within 2 minutes walk of each other, unsure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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I got sacked due to not being compliant with FCA regulations for the last 7 months and need to find a job ASAP. **Edit** I will also be talking to my manager on Monday morning.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I was dismissed from my last job and now I can't get anywhere!\n\nPOST: Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male. My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales involved, happy days. Due to tight FCA regulations, we were not allowed to change the script in any way. This is where I struggled. Doing sales for 3 years made this a real pain for me, even if I said something that gave the same information but worded more naturally for me was a no go. After 6 months I was dismissed due to not being compliant on the phones. The example they gave me as to what I was doing that was extremely dangerous for the company seemed out of a comedy sketch: Script: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for x, y and z in the last 20 years? My recording: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for any of those in the last 20 years? Compliance is of huge importance to any business, and all my experience is over the phone dealing with customers or prospective customers. As soon as its mentioned I was dismissed due to compliance, sorry this position has been filled, we will be sure to contact you again in the future.... I don't know how I can explain my situation or even get to an interview stage unless I lie about my last role (which will only bite me back during reference checks). Reddit I need help. Any advice would be much appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the jobs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I got sacked due to not being compliant with FCA regulations for the last 7 months and need to find a job ASAP. **Edit** I will also be talking to my manager on Monday morning.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I was dismissed from my last job and now I can't get anywhere!\n\nPOST: Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male. My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales involved, happy days. Due to tight FCA regulations, we were not allowed to change the script in any way. This is where I struggled. Doing sales for 3 years made this a real pain for me, even if I said something that gave the same information but worded more naturally for me was a no go. After 6 months I was dismissed due to not being compliant on the phones. The example they gave me as to what I was doing that was extremely dangerous for the company seemed out of a comedy sketch: Script: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for x, y and z in the last 20 years? My recording: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for any of those in the last 20 years? Compliance is of huge importance to any business, and all my experience is over the phone dealing with customers or prospective customers. As soon as its mentioned I was dismissed due to compliance, sorry this position has been filled, we will be sure to contact you again in the future.... I don't know how I can explain my situation or even get to an interview stage unless I lie about my last role (which will only bite me back during reference checks). Reddit I need help. Any advice would be much appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the jobs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got fired from my last job due to not having the script compliant with regulations. I can't get any further in my current job.<|endoftext|>

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all my experience is over the phone to customers, my last job I was dismissed due to failing to be compliant, no one will hire me for an over the phone job<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I was dismissed from my last job and now I can't get anywhere!\n\nPOST: Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male. My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales involved, happy days. Due to tight FCA regulations, we were not allowed to change the script in any way. This is where I struggled. Doing sales for 3 years made this a real pain for me, even if I said something that gave the same information but worded more naturally for me was a no go. After 6 months I was dismissed due to not being compliant on the phones. The example they gave me as to what I was doing that was extremely dangerous for the company seemed out of a comedy sketch: Script: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for x, y and z in the last 20 years? My recording: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for any of those in the last 20 years? Compliance is of huge importance to any business, and all my experience is over the phone dealing with customers or prospective customers. As soon as its mentioned I was dismissed due to compliance, sorry this position has been filled, we will be sure to contact you again in the future.... I don't know how I can explain my situation or even get to an interview stage unless I lie about my last role (which will only bite me back during reference checks). Reddit I need help. Any advice would be much appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the jobs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: all my experience is over the phone to customers, my last job I was dismissed due to failing to be compliant, no one will hire me for an over the phone job<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I was dismissed from my last job and now I can't get anywhere!\n\nPOST: Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male. My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales involved, happy days. Due to tight FCA regulations, we were not allowed to change the script in any way. This is where I struggled. Doing sales for 3 years made this a real pain for me, even if I said something that gave the same information but worded more naturally for me was a no go. After 6 months I was dismissed due to not being compliant on the phones. The example they gave me as to what I was doing that was extremely dangerous for the company seemed out of a comedy sketch: Script: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for x, y and z in the last 20 years? My recording: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for any of those in the last 20 years? Compliance is of huge importance to any business, and all my experience is over the phone dealing with customers or prospective customers. As soon as its mentioned I was dismissed due to compliance, sorry this position has been filled, we will be sure to contact you again in the future.... I don't know how I can explain my situation or even get to an interview stage unless I lie about my last role (which will only bite me back during reference checks). Reddit I need help. Any advice would be much appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the jobs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I got sacked due to not being compliant with FCA regulations for the last 7 months and need to find a job ASAP. **Edit** I will also be talking to my manager on Monday morning.<|endoftext|>

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all my experience is over the phone to customers, my last job I was dismissed due to failing to be compliant, no one will hire me for an over the phone job<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I was dismissed from my last job and now I can't get anywhere!\n\nPOST: Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male. My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales involved, happy days. Due to tight FCA regulations, we were not allowed to change the script in any way. This is where I struggled. Doing sales for 3 years made this a real pain for me, even if I said something that gave the same information but worded more naturally for me was a no go. After 6 months I was dismissed due to not being compliant on the phones. The example they gave me as to what I was doing that was extremely dangerous for the company seemed out of a comedy sketch: Script: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for x, y and z in the last 20 years? My recording: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for any of those in the last 20 years? Compliance is of huge importance to any business, and all my experience is over the phone dealing with customers or prospective customers. As soon as its mentioned I was dismissed due to compliance, sorry this position has been filled, we will be sure to contact you again in the future.... I don't know how I can explain my situation or even get to an interview stage unless I lie about my last role (which will only bite me back during reference checks). Reddit I need help. Any advice would be much appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the jobs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: all my experience is over the phone to customers, my last job I was dismissed due to failing to be compliant, no one will hire me for an over the phone job<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I was dismissed from my last job and now I can't get anywhere!\n\nPOST: Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male. My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales involved, happy days. Due to tight FCA regulations, we were not allowed to change the script in any way. This is where I struggled. Doing sales for 3 years made this a real pain for me, even if I said something that gave the same information but worded more naturally for me was a no go. After 6 months I was dismissed due to not being compliant on the phones. The example they gave me as to what I was doing that was extremely dangerous for the company seemed out of a comedy sketch: Script: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for x, y and z in the last 20 years? My recording: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for any of those in the last 20 years? Compliance is of huge importance to any business, and all my experience is over the phone dealing with customers or prospective customers. As soon as its mentioned I was dismissed due to compliance, sorry this position has been filled, we will be sure to contact you again in the future.... I don't know how I can explain my situation or even get to an interview stage unless I lie about my last role (which will only bite me back during reference checks). Reddit I need help. Any advice would be much appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the jobs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I was sacked from my last job due to compliance issues. Need help in finding a new job.<|endoftext|>

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I was sacked from my last job due to compliance issues. Need help in finding a new job.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I was dismissed from my last job and now I can't get anywhere!\n\nPOST: Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male. My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales involved, happy days. Due to tight FCA regulations, we were not allowed to change the script in any way. This is where I struggled. Doing sales for 3 years made this a real pain for me, even if I said something that gave the same information but worded more naturally for me was a no go. After 6 months I was dismissed due to not being compliant on the phones. The example they gave me as to what I was doing that was extremely dangerous for the company seemed out of a comedy sketch: Script: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for x, y and z in the last 20 years? My recording: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for any of those in the last 20 years? Compliance is of huge importance to any business, and all my experience is over the phone dealing with customers or prospective customers. As soon as its mentioned I was dismissed due to compliance, sorry this position has been filled, we will be sure to contact you again in the future.... I don't know how I can explain my situation or even get to an interview stage unless I lie about my last role (which will only bite me back during reference checks). Reddit I need help. Any advice would be much appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the jobs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I was sacked from my last job due to compliance issues. Need help in finding a new job.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: I was dismissed from my last job and now I can't get anywhere!\n\nPOST: Okay so a bit of background, I live in the UK and have always found jobs easily in sales and customer service. 90% has been phone based and sales jobs are everywhere so I never had an issue. I'm 21 years old and male. My last job was working for an insurance company but in the customer services department, no sales involved, happy days. Due to tight FCA regulations, we were not allowed to change the script in any way. This is where I struggled. Doing sales for 3 years made this a real pain for me, even if I said something that gave the same information but worded more naturally for me was a no go. After 6 months I was dismissed due to not being compliant on the phones. The example they gave me as to what I was doing that was extremely dangerous for the company seemed out of a comedy sketch: Script: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for x, y and z in the last 20 years? My recording: has your property suffered from x, y or z or been monitored for any of those in the last 20 years? Compliance is of huge importance to any business, and all my experience is over the phone dealing with customers or prospective customers. As soon as its mentioned I was dismissed due to compliance, sorry this position has been filled, we will be sure to contact you again in the future.... I don't know how I can explain my situation or even get to an interview stage unless I lie about my last role (which will only bite me back during reference checks). Reddit I need help. Any advice would be much appreciated.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the jobs subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Got fired from my last job due to not having the script compliant with regulations. I can't get any further in my current job.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear?\n\nPOST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the GetMotivated subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a really beat up diesel, but I have a dream where I become a very cool car.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear?\n\nPOST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the GetMotivated subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I need to become a Vanquish for a day or two, and is it possible to do this by just driving a nice car? If not, I need to find a way to become a Vanquish.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear?\n\nPOST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the GetMotivated subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: picture an old Škoda looking in the mirror and seeing the new Aston Martin Vanquish in the reflection.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear?\n\nPOST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the GetMotivated subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am a car, I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish.<|endoftext|>

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I am a car, I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear?\n\nPOST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the GetMotivated subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I am a car, I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear?\n\nPOST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the GetMotivated subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I need to become a Vanquish for a day or two, and is it possible to do this by just driving a nice car? If not, I need to find a way to become a Vanquish.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear?\n\nPOST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the GetMotivated subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have a really beat up diesel, but I have a dream where I become a very cool car.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: [Text] Do you like Top Gear?\n\nPOST: Basics: I am a 27 year old overweight guy. About two years ago I lost about 60 pounds of weight by using this analogy that I have written below. I have, however, re-gained about half of this over the past 1.5 years, and I am starting again today. Firstly, for all intents and purposes, let us assume that cars are sentient and are capable of growth and evolution (or the opposite). I am one of those cars. I am a somewhat beat up 8 year old Škoda with a diesel engine. I have missed quite a few services and some of my parts are starting to wear out. Also, I am starting to resemble a mini-van from some angles. I need time to warm up in the morning and my engine backfires often, because my owner usually fuels me with some low-grade limp-wristed cheap diesel that´s probably meant for a different climate. I can go fast for a while if I am really being caned, but my engine tends to overheat and some body parts go to shit after a long run on high revs. I usually have to cool down for a while after something intense. Sometimes for days, even! But I have a dream. I want to become something else. Something better. I want to become an Aston Martin Vanquish. I want to be fueled by the best fuel available so I can put out as many horsepower as needed. I want to wake up with a roar! Now, I know that cars cannot change, no matter what fuel you put into it or how you treat it, but we can. I can.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the GetMotivated subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: picture an old Škoda looking in the mirror and seeing the new Aston Martin Vanquish in the reflection.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

My friend and I talked for a few hours. We still talked a bit more today. We're both 16, and I'm sure we both know 2 is not enough. We're to the point where we can't really see each other and have to wait 9 hours to talk. I'm a bit scared of what could go down next.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My friend and I talked for a few hours. We still talked a bit more today. We're both 16, and I'm sure we both know 2 is not enough. We're to the point where we can't really see each other and have to wait 9 hours to talk. I'm a bit scared of what could go down next.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have been texting for 8 hours, but over the last 2 days I haven't sent a single text other than a couple of "missed calls" Thanks for your help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Texted my friend for 7 hours a night for over a week, all of a sudden 0 replies. Sent another, no reply. 1st girl I've ever really texted so I'm a newbie in this sort. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Texted my friend for 7 hours a night for over a week, all of a sudden 0 replies. Sent another, no reply. 1st girl I've ever really texted so I'm a newbie in this sort. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My friend and I talked for a few hours. We still talked a bit more today. We're both 16, and I'm sure we both know 2 is not enough. We're to the point where we can't really see each other and have to wait 9 hours to talk. I'm a bit scared of what could go down next.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

Texted my friend for 7 hours a night for over a week, all of a sudden 0 replies. Sent another, no reply. 1st girl I've ever really texted so I'm a newbie in this sort. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: Texted my friend for 7 hours a night for over a week, all of a sudden 0 replies. Sent another, no reply. 1st girl I've ever really texted so I'm a newbie in this sort. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I texted my girl for 8 hours and now I want to know if she would reply and if so, what was the situation?** Edit: Forgot to mention that she has been apart from me for the last 6 months and I've only met her once.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR:

I have been texting for 8 hours, but over the last 2 days I haven't sent a single text other than a couple of "missed calls" Thanks for your help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I have been texting for 8 hours, but over the last 2 days I haven't sent a single text other than a couple of "missed calls" Thanks for your help.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: Me [16 M] with my friend [16 F] Just got cold-Shouldered.\n\nPOST: Yo, so me and my friend were texting for LITERALLY like 7 hours a night. And I mean, the 1st text she sometimes took a while to reply to because she was busy and such, but in the last 2 days. Yesterday: Never would have replied if I didn't send another one, but we still talked for a decent amount of time... Today: 9 hour wait, I send another one, 2 hour wait. I can't really see people doing stuff for literally 11 hours, eispecially because she isn't the kind of person who puts her phone down really. So, I'm in a bit of a pickel. I'm 100% sure something happened, but I'm not really sure what it was. I mean, in the end of the day I've never really texted a girl. This was the 1st one, and this stuff happens. I'm fairly sure I didn't offender her in any way either. What do I do here? Honestly the only thing I really care about is the risk that this stuff will snowball into future things. I mean, I honestly have no idea :/ If I did call her, I doubt she'd reply. I just turned my phone off so I can't bother about this.\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the relationships subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: I texted my girl for 8 hours and now I want to know if she would reply and if so, what was the situation?** Edit: Forgot to mention that she has been apart from me for the last 6 months and I've only met her once.<|endoftext|>

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forgot 3rd boss's name, attempted to glance at id card with her name on it, she thinks im looking at her breasts and avoids eye contact with me for the rest of the day.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: First day of work, 3rd boss thinks im a perv.\n\nPOST: Today was my first day of work and I had spent most of the day filling out piles of paperwork and meeting/remeeting people I had met when I had met them before in an in person interview. So i'm standing in a doorway and my boss's boss's boss(is this correct?), strolls up to my left, and a little behind me, shes about 5'2, in heels and i'm 6'2. I want to make a good impression and address her by her name, but I don't remember it at all. So I cut(speedy look) my eyes to my left and downwards to her ID card (which is on her right breast).... She catches me and places her hand over her blouse, probably out of instinct, I glance again and notice that her blouse had actually been a bit low. She then proceeds to pull it up a bit. She pretty much avoids eye contact with me the rest of the day. What the hell do I do!? Bring it up? Tell her the situation? Let it ride out?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: forgot 3rd boss's name, attempted to glance at id card with her name on it, she thinks im looking at her breasts and avoids eye contact with me for the rest of the day.<|endoftext|>

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TITLE: First day of work, 3rd boss thinks im a perv.\n\nPOST: Today was my first day of work and I had spent most of the day filling out piles of paperwork and meeting/remeeting people I had met when I had met them before in an in person interview. So i'm standing in a doorway and my boss's boss's boss(is this correct?), strolls up to my left, and a little behind me, shes about 5'2, in heels and i'm 6'2. I want to make a good impression and address her by her name, but I don't remember it at all. So I cut(speedy look) my eyes to my left and downwards to her ID card (which is on her right breast).... She catches me and places her hand over her blouse, probably out of instinct, I glance again and notice that her blouse had actually been a bit low. She then proceeds to pull it up a bit. She pretty much avoids eye contact with me the rest of the day. What the hell do I do!? Bring it up? Tell her the situation? Let it ride out?\n\nWrite a short and concise summary of the given titled post from the AskReddit subreddit, ensuring the purpose and main ideas are represented clearly.\n\nTL;DR: My boss pulled up her blouse and pulled her shirt up.<|endoftext|>

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