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Seeing roommate, couldn't make things official while living together but moving out really soon!
I like my roommate a lot, but am not sure how to bring up the subject of official/official/official things with him without sounding like I just want to bang a random girl!
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I, F(23), have been involved in some weird situation with my roommate , M(24). Without giving too many details, we have been hooking up/unofficially seeing each other (in the sense we have never had any discussion that we are "seeing" each other per se, it is just kind of assumed that we will spend our drunken nights together) since the earlier part of the school year. We both got out of relationships around that time, and clearly both needed time to mend ourselves and not jump into anything serious at that point. As well, he was EXTREMELY adamant he would not want to date someone who he was living with, and that we could see where our feelings lie near the end of the school year when we moved out. To summarize about six months worth of events, there were definitely some ups and downs in this period of time, and I wasn't really sure if things would work out for us come move out time. We did have discussions about our mutual liking for one another, and that we didn't really want to see other people as to screw up what we had building, and he appeared to be pretty faithful to me. When we go out drinking, he never strays or flirts with other girls, he is always by my side and pretty affectionate and what not. I would say I trust he likes me quite a bit, I could be wrong, but considering he isn't the most emotional person, he seems to have extended himself quite a bit. Anyways, here is my situation. So we are moving out in a week, so the excuse of "but we're roommates..." will not longer apply. I like him a lot (not obsessively, mind you, but enough that I would be willing to try and see if things would work in a more official, bf/gf sense). I want to know if anyone has been in similar situations and could tell me some advice on how and when to bring up the topic! TL;DR:
Seeing roommate, couldn't make things official while living together but moving out really soon!<|endoftext|>
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I like my roommate a lot, but am not sure how to bring up the subject of official/official/official things with him without sounding like I just want to bang a random girl!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I, F(23), have been involved in some weird situation with my roommate , M(24). Without giving too many details, we have been hooking up/unofficially seeing each other (in the sense we have never had any discussion that we are "seeing" each other per se, it is just kind of assumed that we will spend our drunken nights together) since the earlier part of the school year. We both got out of relationships around that time, and clearly both needed time to mend ourselves and not jump into anything serious at that point. As well, he was EXTREMELY adamant he would not want to date someone who he was living with, and that we could see where our feelings lie near the end of the school year when we moved out. To summarize about six months worth of events, there were definitely some ups and downs in this period of time, and I wasn't really sure if things would work out for us come move out time. We did have discussions about our mutual liking for one another, and that we didn't really want to see other people as to screw up what we had building, and he appeared to be pretty faithful to me. When we go out drinking, he never strays or flirts with other girls, he is always by my side and pretty affectionate and what not. I would say I trust he likes me quite a bit, I could be wrong, but considering he isn't the most emotional person, he seems to have extended himself quite a bit. Anyways, here is my situation. So we are moving out in a week, so the excuse of "but we're roommates..." will not longer apply. I like him a lot (not obsessively, mind you, but enough that I would be willing to try and see if things would work in a more official, bf/gf sense). I want to know if anyone has been in similar situations and could tell me some advice on how and when to bring up the topic! TL;DR: Seeing roommate, couldn't make things official while living together but moving out really soon!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I, F(23), have been involved in some weird situation with my roommate , M(24). Without giving too many details, we have been hooking up/unofficially seeing each other (in the sense we have never had any discussion that we are "seeing" each other per se, it is just kind of assumed that we will spend our drunken nights together) since the earlier part of the school year. We both got out of relationships around that time, and clearly both needed time to mend ourselves and not jump into anything serious at that point. As well, he was EXTREMELY adamant he would not want to date someone who he was living with, and that we could see where our feelings lie near the end of the school year when we moved out. To summarize about six months worth of events, there were definitely some ups and downs in this period of time, and I wasn't really sure if things would work out for us come move out time. We did have discussions about our mutual liking for one another, and that we didn't really want to see other people as to screw up what we had building, and he appeared to be pretty faithful to me. When we go out drinking, he never strays or flirts with other girls, he is always by my side and pretty affectionate and what not. I would say I trust he likes me quite a bit, I could be wrong, but considering he isn't the most emotional person, he seems to have extended himself quite a bit. Anyways, here is my situation. So we are moving out in a week, so the excuse of "but we're roommates..." will not longer apply. I like him a lot (not obsessively, mind you, but enough that I would be willing to try and see if things would work in a more official, bf/gf sense). I want to know if anyone has been in similar situations and could tell me some advice on how and when to bring up the topic! TL;DR: I like my roommate a lot, but am not sure how to bring up the subject of official/official/official things with him without sounding like I just want to bang a random girl!<|endoftext|>
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I like to have sex with the lights dimmed, if I am indoors and it is evening/night time. I just think it is more romantic, plus bright lights really distract me. If a room doesn't have a dimmer switch, I prefer to turn on some lamps. If no lamps, then I would rather just do it in the dark. I don't have problem with daytime sex, where there is plenty of natural light. Or, if I'm showering with somebody, I'll obviously leave the lights on so we don't slip and fall in the dark. It's not like I will only have sex at night when it's dark. Anyway, my point is that I've been dating Joe for five months. And he thinks that my lighting preference is indicative of self esteem issues. He's always reassuring me that my body is beautiful, that I don't need to be ashamed of it, etc. But that's *not* why. I just prefer the atmosphere. No one before has made me feel like this preference is anything even worth discussion. It's just weird that my boyfriend is always encouraging me to feel better about myself when that's NOT the issue. Is he the one making a big deal out of nothing? Or am I weird for having these preferences?
Boyfriend thinks my lighting preference during sex is a sign that I'm not feeling good about myself, is he right?
My boyfriend thinks that my preference for dim lighting during sex is a big deal because I don't like bright lights, he thinks I have self esteem issues. Am I wrong for liking this?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I like to have sex with the lights dimmed, if I am indoors and it is evening/night time. I just think it is more romantic, plus bright lights really distract me. If a room doesn't have a dimmer switch, I prefer to turn on some lamps. If no lamps, then I would rather just do it in the dark. I don't have problem with daytime sex, where there is plenty of natural light. Or, if I'm showering with somebody, I'll obviously leave the lights on so we don't slip and fall in the dark. It's not like I will only have sex at night when it's dark. Anyway, my point is that I've been dating Joe for five months. And he thinks that my lighting preference is indicative of self esteem issues. He's always reassuring me that my body is beautiful, that I don't need to be ashamed of it, etc. But that's *not* why. I just prefer the atmosphere. No one before has made me feel like this preference is anything even worth discussion. It's just weird that my boyfriend is always encouraging me to feel better about myself when that's NOT the issue. Is he the one making a big deal out of nothing? Or am I weird for having these preferences? TL;DR:
Boyfriend thinks my lighting preference during sex is a sign that I'm not feeling good about myself, is he right? <|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend thinks that my preference for dim lighting during sex is a big deal because I don't like bright lights, he thinks I have self esteem issues. Am I wrong for liking this?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I like to have sex with the lights dimmed, if I am indoors and it is evening/night time. I just think it is more romantic, plus bright lights really distract me. If a room doesn't have a dimmer switch, I prefer to turn on some lamps. If no lamps, then I would rather just do it in the dark. I don't have problem with daytime sex, where there is plenty of natural light. Or, if I'm showering with somebody, I'll obviously leave the lights on so we don't slip and fall in the dark. It's not like I will only have sex at night when it's dark. Anyway, my point is that I've been dating Joe for five months. And he thinks that my lighting preference is indicative of self esteem issues. He's always reassuring me that my body is beautiful, that I don't need to be ashamed of it, etc. But that's *not* why. I just prefer the atmosphere. No one before has made me feel like this preference is anything even worth discussion. It's just weird that my boyfriend is always encouraging me to feel better about myself when that's NOT the issue. Is he the one making a big deal out of nothing? Or am I weird for having these preferences? TL;DR: Boyfriend thinks my lighting preference during sex is a sign that I'm not feeling good about myself, is he right? <|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I like to have sex with the lights dimmed, if I am indoors and it is evening/night time. I just think it is more romantic, plus bright lights really distract me. If a room doesn't have a dimmer switch, I prefer to turn on some lamps. If no lamps, then I would rather just do it in the dark. I don't have problem with daytime sex, where there is plenty of natural light. Or, if I'm showering with somebody, I'll obviously leave the lights on so we don't slip and fall in the dark. It's not like I will only have sex at night when it's dark. Anyway, my point is that I've been dating Joe for five months. And he thinks that my lighting preference is indicative of self esteem issues. He's always reassuring me that my body is beautiful, that I don't need to be ashamed of it, etc. But that's *not* why. I just prefer the atmosphere. No one before has made me feel like this preference is anything even worth discussion. It's just weird that my boyfriend is always encouraging me to feel better about myself when that's NOT the issue. Is he the one making a big deal out of nothing? Or am I weird for having these preferences? TL;DR: My boyfriend thinks that my preference for dim lighting during sex is a big deal because I don't like bright lights, he thinks I have self esteem issues. Am I wrong for liking this?<|endoftext|>
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So I know the owner of a small shop which manufactures some pretty cool things. Now I have an idea that I feel would really sell a lot and I want to approach him about this. I don't want to come off like a jerk selling him an idea, because he's a nice guy and I would also like him to make me one of these. However, I don't just want to hand over the idea and not have any compensation. How do I approach him? Would you suggest trying to market it as a one-time idea or get paid a percentage per unit sold? Or maybe just ask for a discount on some things in the store? Should I just give the idea and hope he is nice enough to compensate me? Thanks!
I need a way to approach a friend about a new product idea without coming off as a jerk
I have an awesome idea for a store that I would like to sell to the owner but I need some advice from you guys on what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I know the owner of a small shop which manufactures some pretty cool things. Now I have an idea that I feel would really sell a lot and I want to approach him about this. I don't want to come off like a jerk selling him an idea, because he's a nice guy and I would also like him to make me one of these. However, I don't just want to hand over the idea and not have any compensation. How do I approach him? Would you suggest trying to market it as a one-time idea or get paid a percentage per unit sold? Or maybe just ask for a discount on some things in the store? Should I just give the idea and hope he is nice enough to compensate me? Thanks! TL;DR:
I need a way to approach a friend about a new product idea without coming off as a jerk<|endoftext|>
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I have an awesome idea for a store that I would like to sell to the owner but I need some advice from you guys on what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I know the owner of a small shop which manufactures some pretty cool things. Now I have an idea that I feel would really sell a lot and I want to approach him about this. I don't want to come off like a jerk selling him an idea, because he's a nice guy and I would also like him to make me one of these. However, I don't just want to hand over the idea and not have any compensation. How do I approach him? Would you suggest trying to market it as a one-time idea or get paid a percentage per unit sold? Or maybe just ask for a discount on some things in the store? Should I just give the idea and hope he is nice enough to compensate me? Thanks! TL;DR: I need a way to approach a friend about a new product idea without coming off as a jerk<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I know the owner of a small shop which manufactures some pretty cool things. Now I have an idea that I feel would really sell a lot and I want to approach him about this. I don't want to come off like a jerk selling him an idea, because he's a nice guy and I would also like him to make me one of these. However, I don't just want to hand over the idea and not have any compensation. How do I approach him? Would you suggest trying to market it as a one-time idea or get paid a percentage per unit sold? Or maybe just ask for a discount on some things in the store? Should I just give the idea and hope he is nice enough to compensate me? Thanks! TL;DR: I have an awesome idea for a store that I would like to sell to the owner but I need some advice from you guys on what to do.<|endoftext|>
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So I need some advice. The I got a speeding ticket (going 16 over) and when I was pulled over, I lied to the cop and told him that I was trying to catch up with the person ahead of me to pace myself because my speedometer was broken. My speedometer was not broken- I was just nervous and trying to get out of a ticket. He told me that if I went to my court date, I should have the person that fixed my (not broken) speedometer write a letter to the judge, I would get out of the ticket. What I was wondering was, could I go to the court date and not mention the broken speedometer? Or would the judge already know (from a report or somesuch)? Should I just send in the full amount and not try and get it lowered?
Got a speeding ticket, lied to cop and got a court date with a letter that I said I would send to the judge, have to send in full amount but can't mention broken speedometer. Should I go to court and not mention broken speedometer? Or just send in full amount?
I lied to a cop about why I was speeding- will that information get passed to the judge?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I need some advice. The I got a speeding ticket (going 16 over) and when I was pulled over, I lied to the cop and told him that I was trying to catch up with the person ahead of me to pace myself because my speedometer was broken. My speedometer was not broken- I was just nervous and trying to get out of a ticket. He told me that if I went to my court date, I should have the person that fixed my (not broken) speedometer write a letter to the judge, I would get out of the ticket. What I was wondering was, could I go to the court date and not mention the broken speedometer? Or would the judge already know (from a report or somesuch)? Should I just send in the full amount and not try and get it lowered? TL;DR:
Got a speeding ticket, lied to cop and got a court date with a letter that I said I would send to the judge, have to send in full amount but can't mention broken speedometer. Should I go to court and not mention broken speedometer? Or just send in full amount?<|endoftext|>
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I lied to a cop about why I was speeding- will that information get passed to the judge?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I need some advice. The I got a speeding ticket (going 16 over) and when I was pulled over, I lied to the cop and told him that I was trying to catch up with the person ahead of me to pace myself because my speedometer was broken. My speedometer was not broken- I was just nervous and trying to get out of a ticket. He told me that if I went to my court date, I should have the person that fixed my (not broken) speedometer write a letter to the judge, I would get out of the ticket. What I was wondering was, could I go to the court date and not mention the broken speedometer? Or would the judge already know (from a report or somesuch)? Should I just send in the full amount and not try and get it lowered? TL;DR: Got a speeding ticket, lied to cop and got a court date with a letter that I said I would send to the judge, have to send in full amount but can't mention broken speedometer. Should I go to court and not mention broken speedometer? Or just send in full amount?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I need some advice. The I got a speeding ticket (going 16 over) and when I was pulled over, I lied to the cop and told him that I was trying to catch up with the person ahead of me to pace myself because my speedometer was broken. My speedometer was not broken- I was just nervous and trying to get out of a ticket. He told me that if I went to my court date, I should have the person that fixed my (not broken) speedometer write a letter to the judge, I would get out of the ticket. What I was wondering was, could I go to the court date and not mention the broken speedometer? Or would the judge already know (from a report or somesuch)? Should I just send in the full amount and not try and get it lowered? TL;DR: I lied to a cop about why I was speeding- will that information get passed to the judge?<|endoftext|>
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My friend and I have been doing test and pilot episodes before we launch on iTunes. The show evolved out of us being interstate and wanting to talk more about movies, games and TV, but only being able to do it over Skype. We love making up movies in our spare time and writing pitch lines like we did at University and eventually we came up with a Skype game where we have to come up with three movie titles, choose one, come up with a main cast, beginning, middle and end and sample scenes, all in under an hour. Here is our recent [test episode] ( to get a taste.
We are making a podcast where we come up with a movie every episode in an under an hour. What should we name our podcast?
How should we name our podcast when we get more funding?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend and I have been doing test and pilot episodes before we launch on iTunes. The show evolved out of us being interstate and wanting to talk more about movies, games and TV, but only being able to do it over Skype. We love making up movies in our spare time and writing pitch lines like we did at University and eventually we came up with a Skype game where we have to come up with three movie titles, choose one, come up with a main cast, beginning, middle and end and sample scenes, all in under an hour. Here is our recent [test episode] ( to get a taste. TL;DR:
We are making a podcast where we come up with a movie every episode in an under an hour. What should we name our podcast?<|endoftext|>
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How should we name our podcast when we get more funding?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend and I have been doing test and pilot episodes before we launch on iTunes. The show evolved out of us being interstate and wanting to talk more about movies, games and TV, but only being able to do it over Skype. We love making up movies in our spare time and writing pitch lines like we did at University and eventually we came up with a Skype game where we have to come up with three movie titles, choose one, come up with a main cast, beginning, middle and end and sample scenes, all in under an hour. Here is our recent [test episode] ( to get a taste. TL;DR: We are making a podcast where we come up with a movie every episode in an under an hour. What should we name our podcast?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend and I have been doing test and pilot episodes before we launch on iTunes. The show evolved out of us being interstate and wanting to talk more about movies, games and TV, but only being able to do it over Skype. We love making up movies in our spare time and writing pitch lines like we did at University and eventually we came up with a Skype game where we have to come up with three movie titles, choose one, come up with a main cast, beginning, middle and end and sample scenes, all in under an hour. Here is our recent [test episode] ( to get a taste. TL;DR: How should we name our podcast when we get more funding?<|endoftext|>
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A year ago, my current husband and I got married. My sex drive is very high but he approaches sex differently. While he does have a libido, he approaches sex with me the same way he would approach jacking off. It feels the same - like I am a full figured fleshlight. Also he finishes before I do, he always state that he is sorry and we can try again later but every session is the same. He doesn't take pleasure in pleasure, he just approaches it the way he would a job. He does say he wants me to finish as well, but usually that means he will just lay back and let me be on top while taking the time to catch some extra z's. I have tried to give him tricks and hints but to no avail. I could try to talk some more but I feel like it is fruitless to try and engineer a*"desire"* to please. Even if your attempts are successful the fact that you have to make an attempt flies in the face of natural sexual chemistry. I am not the type of women that is overly concerned with sex. I would never have imagined that a relationship that is healthy otherwise would be damaged because of a sexual misalignment. But now that I am married and in my 30's it seems I want nothing more than an emotionally and sexually fulfilling sexual encounter . My husband is very traditional and conservative so there is not much flexibility. Admittedly, the relationship has its emotional deficits too. I am quite conservative myself. I am committed to my husband and our marriage. If for nothing else then the structure it provides my very young son, but now I finding myself needing something that isn't there. I feel like I am in a pressurized cooker ready to blow.
In a committed marriage with a traditional husband who has low sex drive and wants to have an emotionally fulfilling sexual encounter but doesn't know where to go from there. What can I do to fix things?
My husband is conservative and traditional and I am very controlled and conservative myself. Now that we have been married for 1 year I am finding myself wanting sex & emotional release less. What are my options?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A year ago, my current husband and I got married. My sex drive is very high but he approaches sex differently. While he does have a libido, he approaches sex with me the same way he would approach jacking off. It feels the same - like I am a full figured fleshlight. Also he finishes before I do, he always state that he is sorry and we can try again later but every session is the same. He doesn't take pleasure in pleasure, he just approaches it the way he would a job. He does say he wants me to finish as well, but usually that means he will just lay back and let me be on top while taking the time to catch some extra z's. I have tried to give him tricks and hints but to no avail. I could try to talk some more but I feel like it is fruitless to try and engineer a*"desire"* to please. Even if your attempts are successful the fact that you have to make an attempt flies in the face of natural sexual chemistry. I am not the type of women that is overly concerned with sex. I would never have imagined that a relationship that is healthy otherwise would be damaged because of a sexual misalignment. But now that I am married and in my 30's it seems I want nothing more than an emotionally and sexually fulfilling sexual encounter. My husband is very traditional and conservative so there is not much flexibility. Admittedly, the relationship has its emotional deficits too. I am quite conservative myself. I am committed to my husband and our marriage. If for nothing else then the structure it provides my very young son, but now I finding myself needing something that isn't there. I feel like I am in a pressurized cooker ready to blow. TL;DR:
In a committed marriage with a traditional husband who has low sex drive and wants to have an emotionally fulfilling sexual encounter but doesn't know where to go from there. What can I do to fix things?<|endoftext|>
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My husband is conservative and traditional and I am very controlled and conservative myself. Now that we have been married for 1 year I am finding myself wanting sex & emotional release less. What are my options?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A year ago, my current husband and I got married. My sex drive is very high but he approaches sex differently. While he does have a libido, he approaches sex with me the same way he would approach jacking off. It feels the same - like I am a full figured fleshlight. Also he finishes before I do, he always state that he is sorry and we can try again later but every session is the same. He doesn't take pleasure in pleasure, he just approaches it the way he would a job. He does say he wants me to finish as well, but usually that means he will just lay back and let me be on top while taking the time to catch some extra z's. I have tried to give him tricks and hints but to no avail. I could try to talk some more but I feel like it is fruitless to try and engineer a*"desire"* to please. Even if your attempts are successful the fact that you have to make an attempt flies in the face of natural sexual chemistry. I am not the type of women that is overly concerned with sex. I would never have imagined that a relationship that is healthy otherwise would be damaged because of a sexual misalignment. But now that I am married and in my 30's it seems I want nothing more than an emotionally and sexually fulfilling sexual encounter. My husband is very traditional and conservative so there is not much flexibility. Admittedly, the relationship has its emotional deficits too. I am quite conservative myself. I am committed to my husband and our marriage. If for nothing else then the structure it provides my very young son, but now I finding myself needing something that isn't there. I feel like I am in a pressurized cooker ready to blow. TL;DR: In a committed marriage with a traditional husband who has low sex drive and wants to have an emotionally fulfilling sexual encounter but doesn't know where to go from there. What can I do to fix things?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A year ago, my current husband and I got married. My sex drive is very high but he approaches sex differently. While he does have a libido, he approaches sex with me the same way he would approach jacking off. It feels the same - like I am a full figured fleshlight. Also he finishes before I do, he always state that he is sorry and we can try again later but every session is the same. He doesn't take pleasure in pleasure, he just approaches it the way he would a job. He does say he wants me to finish as well, but usually that means he will just lay back and let me be on top while taking the time to catch some extra z's. I have tried to give him tricks and hints but to no avail. I could try to talk some more but I feel like it is fruitless to try and engineer a*"desire"* to please. Even if your attempts are successful the fact that you have to make an attempt flies in the face of natural sexual chemistry. I am not the type of women that is overly concerned with sex. I would never have imagined that a relationship that is healthy otherwise would be damaged because of a sexual misalignment. But now that I am married and in my 30's it seems I want nothing more than an emotionally and sexually fulfilling sexual encounter. My husband is very traditional and conservative so there is not much flexibility. Admittedly, the relationship has its emotional deficits too. I am quite conservative myself. I am committed to my husband and our marriage. If for nothing else then the structure it provides my very young son, but now I finding myself needing something that isn't there. I feel like I am in a pressurized cooker ready to blow. TL;DR: My husband is conservative and traditional and I am very controlled and conservative myself. Now that we have been married for 1 year I am finding myself wanting sex & emotional release less. What are my options?<|endoftext|>
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I've been with this girl for just a couple months but I fell for her hard and fast. Everything started out wonderful, but it's taken a turn south over the past few weeks. She has said she doesn't know what she wants or how she feels about us now. She has made no effort to see me in over a week (while previously wanting to see me every day). Then she said that she can't deal with how great I am to her and she doesn't deserve me thinking that she's such an awesome person. Before me, she had a long string of really shitty boyfriends (including one who tried to strangle her). She then made me feel awesome by saying that she's always been treated bad and that's what she needs. That she misses it. Now for tonight. She's barely been talking to me but I get a message that her friend's apartment got broken into and he will be sleeping at her house. I understand that I have no right to tell her what she can and can't do, but I really don't like that she didn't even ask how I felt. It doesn't help that I can be jealous (my ex wife cheated on me while I was out of town trying to make enough money so we wouldn't lose our house) and she knows it. And it seems that almost all of the friends she has are ones she's 'fucked' at some point. I don't know what to do. Has she just been slowly ending it? Am I an r-tard for even considering wanting to be with her still?
My gf (22f) is having a friend stay over and she says she doesn't know how she feels about me. I don't know if I should continue being her friend or let it go.
My gf has been slowly ending things with me after a few weeks. She said she didn't know what she wanted or how she felt about me when we first started dating but she has slowly drained me of all my emotions and I'm too emotionally invested. She made me feel awesome by saying she needed something, then
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with this girl for just a couple months but I fell for her hard and fast. Everything started out wonderful, but it's taken a turn south over the past few weeks. She has said she doesn't know what she wants or how she feels about us now. She has made no effort to see me in over a week (while previously wanting to see me every day). Then she said that she can't deal with how great I am to her and she doesn't deserve me thinking that she's such an awesome person. Before me, she had a long string of really shitty boyfriends (including one who tried to strangle her). She then made me feel awesome by saying that she's always been treated bad and that's what she needs. That she misses it. Now for tonight. She's barely been talking to me but I get a message that her friend's apartment got broken into and he will be sleeping at her house. I understand that I have no right to tell her what she can and can't do, but I really don't like that she didn't even ask how I felt. It doesn't help that I can be jealous (my ex wife cheated on me while I was out of town trying to make enough money so we wouldn't lose our house) and she knows it. And it seems that almost all of the friends she has are ones she's 'fucked' at some point. I don't know what to do. Has she just been slowly ending it? Am I an r-tard for even considering wanting to be with her still? TL;DR:
My gf (22f) is having a friend stay over and she says she doesn't know how she feels about me. I don't know if I should continue being her friend or let it go.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with this girl for just a couple months but I fell for her hard and fast. Everything started out wonderful, but it's taken a turn south over the past few weeks. She has said she doesn't know what she wants or how she feels about us now. She has made no effort to see me in over a week (while previously wanting to see me every day). Then she said that she can't deal with how great I am to her and she doesn't deserve me thinking that she's such an awesome person. Before me, she had a long string of really shitty boyfriends (including one who tried to strangle her). She then made me feel awesome by saying that she's always been treated bad and that's what she needs. That she misses it. Now for tonight. She's barely been talking to me but I get a message that her friend's apartment got broken into and he will be sleeping at her house. I understand that I have no right to tell her what she can and can't do, but I really don't like that she didn't even ask how I felt. It doesn't help that I can be jealous (my ex wife cheated on me while I was out of town trying to make enough money so we wouldn't lose our house) and she knows it. And it seems that almost all of the friends she has are ones she's 'fucked' at some point. I don't know what to do. Has she just been slowly ending it? Am I an r-tard for even considering wanting to be with her still? TL;DR: My gf (22f) is having a friend stay over and she says she doesn't know how she feels about me. I don't know if I should continue being her friend or let it go.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with this girl for just a couple months but I fell for her hard and fast. Everything started out wonderful, but it's taken a turn south over the past few weeks. She has said she doesn't know what she wants or how she feels about us now. She has made no effort to see me in over a week (while previously wanting to see me every day). Then she said that she can't deal with how great I am to her and she doesn't deserve me thinking that she's such an awesome person. Before me, she had a long string of really shitty boyfriends (including one who tried to strangle her). She then made me feel awesome by saying that she's always been treated bad and that's what she needs. That she misses it. Now for tonight. She's barely been talking to me but I get a message that her friend's apartment got broken into and he will be sleeping at her house. I understand that I have no right to tell her what she can and can't do, but I really don't like that she didn't even ask how I felt. It doesn't help that I can be jealous (my ex wife cheated on me while I was out of town trying to make enough money so we wouldn't lose our house) and she knows it. And it seems that almost all of the friends she has are ones she's 'fucked' at some point. I don't know what to do. Has she just been slowly ending it? Am I an r-tard for even considering wanting to be with her still? TL;DR: My gf has been slowly ending things with me after a few weeks. She said she didn't know what she wanted or how she felt about me when we first started dating but she has slowly drained me of all my emotions and I'm too emotionally invested. She made me feel awesome by saying she needed something, then<|endoftext|>
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My parents just got back from a long trip (6 weeks mom 3 weeks dad) to Asia last night. Before he left, my dad had asked me to pick up some parts from a store he had ordered and paid for that had just come in, so I put it on my to do list and wished him a safe trip. Well I picked them up a day or 2 after he left, and they've been sitting in the garage ever since, but he didn't think to ask me. My parents just assume I'm useless and lazy (I do have a track record) so he just assumed I hadn't done it. Well here's where the "revenge" comes in, he left to go pick them up right before I got home from work, and conveniently left his phone at home. I hope you enjoy the 2 hours of driving (rush hour in a big city) that you put yourself through when all you had to do was a 30 second call to ask, enjoy that drive. I love revenge when I don't even have to do anything.
Dad assumes I'm useless, drives 2 hours out of his way to get something I already got.
My dad left my mom and dad to pick up some parts for his car, I waited for him to leave and left my phone at home so he couldn't call to ask me to pick them up.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My parents just got back from a long trip (6 weeks mom 3 weeks dad) to Asia last night. Before he left, my dad had asked me to pick up some parts from a store he had ordered and paid for that had just come in, so I put it on my to do list and wished him a safe trip. Well I picked them up a day or 2 after he left, and they've been sitting in the garage ever since, but he didn't think to ask me. My parents just assume I'm useless and lazy (I do have a track record) so he just assumed I hadn't done it. Well here's where the "revenge" comes in, he left to go pick them up right before I got home from work, and conveniently left his phone at home. I hope you enjoy the 2 hours of driving (rush hour in a big city) that you put yourself through when all you had to do was a 30 second call to ask, enjoy that drive. I love revenge when I don't even have to do anything. TL;DR:
Dad assumes I'm useless, drives 2 hours out of his way to get something I already got.<|endoftext|>
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My dad left my mom and dad to pick up some parts for his car, I waited for him to leave and left my phone at home so he couldn't call to ask me to pick them up.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My parents just got back from a long trip (6 weeks mom 3 weeks dad) to Asia last night. Before he left, my dad had asked me to pick up some parts from a store he had ordered and paid for that had just come in, so I put it on my to do list and wished him a safe trip. Well I picked them up a day or 2 after he left, and they've been sitting in the garage ever since, but he didn't think to ask me. My parents just assume I'm useless and lazy (I do have a track record) so he just assumed I hadn't done it. Well here's where the "revenge" comes in, he left to go pick them up right before I got home from work, and conveniently left his phone at home. I hope you enjoy the 2 hours of driving (rush hour in a big city) that you put yourself through when all you had to do was a 30 second call to ask, enjoy that drive. I love revenge when I don't even have to do anything. TL;DR: Dad assumes I'm useless, drives 2 hours out of his way to get something I already got.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My parents just got back from a long trip (6 weeks mom 3 weeks dad) to Asia last night. Before he left, my dad had asked me to pick up some parts from a store he had ordered and paid for that had just come in, so I put it on my to do list and wished him a safe trip. Well I picked them up a day or 2 after he left, and they've been sitting in the garage ever since, but he didn't think to ask me. My parents just assume I'm useless and lazy (I do have a track record) so he just assumed I hadn't done it. Well here's where the "revenge" comes in, he left to go pick them up right before I got home from work, and conveniently left his phone at home. I hope you enjoy the 2 hours of driving (rush hour in a big city) that you put yourself through when all you had to do was a 30 second call to ask, enjoy that drive. I love revenge when I don't even have to do anything. TL;DR: My dad left my mom and dad to pick up some parts for his car, I waited for him to leave and left my phone at home so he couldn't call to ask me to pick them up.<|endoftext|>
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Hello Reddit! I need your help. I live in Los Angeles and I am starting up an independent theater. I'm going to be putting up all kinds of shows at this theater including sketch, stand up, improv, podcast tapings, movie screenings, etc. Dominic Dierkes and DC Pierson (from [Derrick Comedy]( will be doing weekly shows, along with several other comedians and artists. I've set up an IndieGoGo account to help raise money because I can basically only cover the first couple months of rent. After that, I'm going to have to rely on ticket sales. I decided to have most of my shows be free, and none of my shows are going to be over $5, that way, the most amount of people can come see the show. IF IT HELPS FOR KARMA, [I was on an episode of Parks and Recreation.]( To make the deal sweeter, if you donate and comment that you donated through Reddit, and can raise up to 1,000 dollars from Reddit cumulative, I will have a whole show designed from a Reddit thread, free to anyone in the LA area. I could really use your help, even if you can only donate a dollar or two. Thanks so much. [Donate to my indie theater here.](
Starting an indie theater in Los Angeles, need your help to make the first show free and to spruce up the show with Reddit.
[Donate to my indie theater here.](
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello Reddit! I need your help. I live in Los Angeles and I am starting up an independent theater. I'm going to be putting up all kinds of shows at this theater including sketch, stand up, improv, podcast tapings, movie screenings, etc. Dominic Dierkes and DC Pierson (from [Derrick Comedy]( will be doing weekly shows, along with several other comedians and artists. I've set up an IndieGoGo account to help raise money because I can basically only cover the first couple months of rent. After that, I'm going to have to rely on ticket sales. I decided to have most of my shows be free, and none of my shows are going to be over $5, that way, the most amount of people can come see the show. IF IT HELPS FOR KARMA, [I was on an episode of Parks and Recreation.]( To make the deal sweeter, if you donate and comment that you donated through Reddit, and can raise up to 1,000 dollars from Reddit cumulative, I will have a whole show designed from a Reddit thread, free to anyone in the LA area. I could really use your help, even if you can only donate a dollar or two. Thanks so much. [Donate to my indie theater here.]( TL;DR:
Starting an indie theater in Los Angeles, need your help to make the first show free and to spruce up the show with Reddit.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello Reddit! I need your help. I live in Los Angeles and I am starting up an independent theater. I'm going to be putting up all kinds of shows at this theater including sketch, stand up, improv, podcast tapings, movie screenings, etc. Dominic Dierkes and DC Pierson (from [Derrick Comedy]( will be doing weekly shows, along with several other comedians and artists. I've set up an IndieGoGo account to help raise money because I can basically only cover the first couple months of rent. After that, I'm going to have to rely on ticket sales. I decided to have most of my shows be free, and none of my shows are going to be over $5, that way, the most amount of people can come see the show. IF IT HELPS FOR KARMA, [I was on an episode of Parks and Recreation.]( To make the deal sweeter, if you donate and comment that you donated through Reddit, and can raise up to 1,000 dollars from Reddit cumulative, I will have a whole show designed from a Reddit thread, free to anyone in the LA area. I could really use your help, even if you can only donate a dollar or two. Thanks so much. [Donate to my indie theater here.]( TL;DR: Starting an indie theater in Los Angeles, need your help to make the first show free and to spruce up the show with Reddit.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello Reddit! I need your help. I live in Los Angeles and I am starting up an independent theater. I'm going to be putting up all kinds of shows at this theater including sketch, stand up, improv, podcast tapings, movie screenings, etc. Dominic Dierkes and DC Pierson (from [Derrick Comedy]( will be doing weekly shows, along with several other comedians and artists. I've set up an IndieGoGo account to help raise money because I can basically only cover the first couple months of rent. After that, I'm going to have to rely on ticket sales. I decided to have most of my shows be free, and none of my shows are going to be over $5, that way, the most amount of people can come see the show. IF IT HELPS FOR KARMA, [I was on an episode of Parks and Recreation.]( To make the deal sweeter, if you donate and comment that you donated through Reddit, and can raise up to 1,000 dollars from Reddit cumulative, I will have a whole show designed from a Reddit thread, free to anyone in the LA area. I could really use your help, even if you can only donate a dollar or two. Thanks so much. [Donate to my indie theater here.]( TL;DR: [Donate to my indie theater here.](<|endoftext|>
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Hello fellow dog owners! **Some background:** I've grown up training a chocolate lab and golden retriever, both grew to be well trained/behaved dogs. I was a teen when training the golden with my dad, we eventually got her to do some more advanced tricks. Fast forward to my early twenties. I move in with a girlfriend who has 2 dogs, one is a boarder collie mix--She did not realize dogs can be trained, as far as this dog knew he was the leader of the pack, would run away if the door was open and didn't know any commands. After LOTS of effort, both of her dogs are leash trained, can be trusted off leash in the foothills, know a variety of obedience commands sit, stay, hold up, leave it--and a few others. I trust them both and it was been a great experience for my girlfriend to see that building a relationship with your dogs can give you both so much more freedom. Now that I can trust her dogs to be a good influence, I have been getting to itch to get my own puppy and raise it. I've encountered a litter of Great Pyr's and am strongly considering purchasing one of the boys I started to develop an attachment to. I am most familiar with very trainable dogs, but have done research, stayed persistent and have been able to retrain a grown boarder collie mix. My question is this, how difficult are great pyr's to train? Do I have enough experience to take on this responsibility? Is working with an intelligent and stubborn border collie enough experience to handle raising one of these majestic pups? Thank you!! Also, I have spoken to coworkers with children, cats & chickens to see if they will volunteer some time helping me socialize the pup with each should I purchase it.
I've done alot of training with my golden, do I have enough experience to raise a Great Pyr? Is working with a stubborn border collie breed enough experience to handle raising one of these magnificent pups?
I want to get a Great pyrenees puppy, how difficult is it to train a smart, stubborn breed of dog? Thanks in advance for any help!
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello fellow dog owners! **Some background:** I've grown up training a chocolate lab and golden retriever, both grew to be well trained/behaved dogs. I was a teen when training the golden with my dad, we eventually got her to do some more advanced tricks. Fast forward to my early twenties. I move in with a girlfriend who has 2 dogs, one is a boarder collie mix--She did not realize dogs can be trained, as far as this dog knew he was the leader of the pack, would run away if the door was open and didn't know any commands. After LOTS of effort, both of her dogs are leash trained, can be trusted off leash in the foothills, know a variety of obedience commands sit, stay, hold up, leave it--and a few others. I trust them both and it was been a great experience for my girlfriend to see that building a relationship with your dogs can give you both so much more freedom. Now that I can trust her dogs to be a good influence, I have been getting to itch to get my own puppy and raise it. I've encountered a litter of Great Pyr's and am strongly considering purchasing one of the boys I started to develop an attachment to. I am most familiar with very trainable dogs, but have done research, stayed persistent and have been able to retrain a grown boarder collie mix. My question is this, how difficult are great pyr's to train? Do I have enough experience to take on this responsibility? Is working with an intelligent and stubborn border collie enough experience to handle raising one of these majestic pups? Thank you!! Also, I have spoken to coworkers with children, cats & chickens to see if they will volunteer some time helping me socialize the pup with each should I purchase it. TL;DR:
I've done alot of training with my golden, do I have enough experience to raise a Great Pyr? Is working with a stubborn border collie breed enough experience to handle raising one of these magnificent pups?<|endoftext|>
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I want to get a Great pyrenees puppy, how difficult is it to train a smart, stubborn breed of dog? Thanks in advance for any help!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello fellow dog owners! **Some background:** I've grown up training a chocolate lab and golden retriever, both grew to be well trained/behaved dogs. I was a teen when training the golden with my dad, we eventually got her to do some more advanced tricks. Fast forward to my early twenties. I move in with a girlfriend who has 2 dogs, one is a boarder collie mix--She did not realize dogs can be trained, as far as this dog knew he was the leader of the pack, would run away if the door was open and didn't know any commands. After LOTS of effort, both of her dogs are leash trained, can be trusted off leash in the foothills, know a variety of obedience commands sit, stay, hold up, leave it--and a few others. I trust them both and it was been a great experience for my girlfriend to see that building a relationship with your dogs can give you both so much more freedom. Now that I can trust her dogs to be a good influence, I have been getting to itch to get my own puppy and raise it. I've encountered a litter of Great Pyr's and am strongly considering purchasing one of the boys I started to develop an attachment to. I am most familiar with very trainable dogs, but have done research, stayed persistent and have been able to retrain a grown boarder collie mix. My question is this, how difficult are great pyr's to train? Do I have enough experience to take on this responsibility? Is working with an intelligent and stubborn border collie enough experience to handle raising one of these majestic pups? Thank you!! Also, I have spoken to coworkers with children, cats & chickens to see if they will volunteer some time helping me socialize the pup with each should I purchase it. TL;DR: I've done alot of training with my golden, do I have enough experience to raise a Great Pyr? Is working with a stubborn border collie breed enough experience to handle raising one of these magnificent pups?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello fellow dog owners! **Some background:** I've grown up training a chocolate lab and golden retriever, both grew to be well trained/behaved dogs. I was a teen when training the golden with my dad, we eventually got her to do some more advanced tricks. Fast forward to my early twenties. I move in with a girlfriend who has 2 dogs, one is a boarder collie mix--She did not realize dogs can be trained, as far as this dog knew he was the leader of the pack, would run away if the door was open and didn't know any commands. After LOTS of effort, both of her dogs are leash trained, can be trusted off leash in the foothills, know a variety of obedience commands sit, stay, hold up, leave it--and a few others. I trust them both and it was been a great experience for my girlfriend to see that building a relationship with your dogs can give you both so much more freedom. Now that I can trust her dogs to be a good influence, I have been getting to itch to get my own puppy and raise it. I've encountered a litter of Great Pyr's and am strongly considering purchasing one of the boys I started to develop an attachment to. I am most familiar with very trainable dogs, but have done research, stayed persistent and have been able to retrain a grown boarder collie mix. My question is this, how difficult are great pyr's to train? Do I have enough experience to take on this responsibility? Is working with an intelligent and stubborn border collie enough experience to handle raising one of these majestic pups? Thank you!! Also, I have spoken to coworkers with children, cats & chickens to see if they will volunteer some time helping me socialize the pup with each should I purchase it. TL;DR: I want to get a Great pyrenees puppy, how difficult is it to train a smart, stubborn breed of dog? Thanks in advance for any help!<|endoftext|>
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Ok. I arrived at 10am. We done a LOT up until 3am. We had fun. It never ceased. We bowled. We laughed. We watched TV. It was fantastic (I slept on her sofa) The thing is; she wanted to kiss me BUT she wanted to get drunk first. Apparently, she was a little bit scared of herself. She said she liked me a lot and she didn't want it to be like other guys where she just hops into bed with them. She wants to take things slow. We kissed at 2:15am for the first time. One more kiss before we slept too. The next morning, she was hungover. No kissing (of course). She didn't want to walk me to the bus stop either (didn't want to leave her place). The problem is, I felt like I was being boring and due to shit that has happened in my past, I feel as though when i am boring, people don't like me. i asked some seriously stupid questions and I have no doubt I fucked something up. She sent one text when I was on the bus "I had a great time" and when we hugged goodbye "Thanks for an amazing weekend". I know that the last couple of hours I was with her undone the amount of hard work I had put in previously (it is very rare for me to last that long with somebody without them becoming frustrated, but even at 3am she didn't want to sleep) I just...I really like her. I don't want to ruin it. She said she wanted to go on one more date and I still have a chance with her (even after the stupid questions) but...gah. I hope I haven't lost her. I don't mind taking stuff slow. I don't. I like her enough to not want to hop into bed with her right away.
Went on a date with a girl. I fucked up. She feels bad. I don't think she wants to go on another date right now. I still have a chance of making it work though.
Met a girl and we fucked a lot up. Didn't know she was a bit scared of herself. Can't get over it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ok. I arrived at 10am. We done a LOT up until 3am. We had fun. It never ceased. We bowled. We laughed. We watched TV. It was fantastic (I slept on her sofa) The thing is; she wanted to kiss me BUT she wanted to get drunk first. Apparently, she was a little bit scared of herself. She said she liked me a lot and she didn't want it to be like other guys where she just hops into bed with them. She wants to take things slow. We kissed at 2:15am for the first time. One more kiss before we slept too. The next morning, she was hungover. No kissing (of course). She didn't want to walk me to the bus stop either (didn't want to leave her place). The problem is, I felt like I was being boring and due to shit that has happened in my past, I feel as though when i am boring, people don't like me. i asked some seriously stupid questions and I have no doubt I fucked something up. She sent one text when I was on the bus "I had a great time" and when we hugged goodbye "Thanks for an amazing weekend". I know that the last couple of hours I was with her undone the amount of hard work I had put in previously (it is very rare for me to last that long with somebody without them becoming frustrated, but even at 3am she didn't want to sleep) I just...I really like her. I don't want to ruin it. She said she wanted to go on one more date and I still have a chance with her (even after the stupid questions) but...gah. I hope I haven't lost her. I don't mind taking stuff slow. I don't. I like her enough to not want to hop into bed with her right away. TL;DR:
Went on a date with a girl. I fucked up. She feels bad. I don't think she wants to go on another date right now. I still have a chance of making it work though.<|endoftext|>
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Met a girl and we fucked a lot up. Didn't know she was a bit scared of herself. Can't get over it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ok. I arrived at 10am. We done a LOT up until 3am. We had fun. It never ceased. We bowled. We laughed. We watched TV. It was fantastic (I slept on her sofa) The thing is; she wanted to kiss me BUT she wanted to get drunk first. Apparently, she was a little bit scared of herself. She said she liked me a lot and she didn't want it to be like other guys where she just hops into bed with them. She wants to take things slow. We kissed at 2:15am for the first time. One more kiss before we slept too. The next morning, she was hungover. No kissing (of course). She didn't want to walk me to the bus stop either (didn't want to leave her place). The problem is, I felt like I was being boring and due to shit that has happened in my past, I feel as though when i am boring, people don't like me. i asked some seriously stupid questions and I have no doubt I fucked something up. She sent one text when I was on the bus "I had a great time" and when we hugged goodbye "Thanks for an amazing weekend". I know that the last couple of hours I was with her undone the amount of hard work I had put in previously (it is very rare for me to last that long with somebody without them becoming frustrated, but even at 3am she didn't want to sleep) I just...I really like her. I don't want to ruin it. She said she wanted to go on one more date and I still have a chance with her (even after the stupid questions) but...gah. I hope I haven't lost her. I don't mind taking stuff slow. I don't. I like her enough to not want to hop into bed with her right away. TL;DR: Went on a date with a girl. I fucked up. She feels bad. I don't think she wants to go on another date right now. I still have a chance of making it work though.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ok. I arrived at 10am. We done a LOT up until 3am. We had fun. It never ceased. We bowled. We laughed. We watched TV. It was fantastic (I slept on her sofa) The thing is; she wanted to kiss me BUT she wanted to get drunk first. Apparently, she was a little bit scared of herself. She said she liked me a lot and she didn't want it to be like other guys where she just hops into bed with them. She wants to take things slow. We kissed at 2:15am for the first time. One more kiss before we slept too. The next morning, she was hungover. No kissing (of course). She didn't want to walk me to the bus stop either (didn't want to leave her place). The problem is, I felt like I was being boring and due to shit that has happened in my past, I feel as though when i am boring, people don't like me. i asked some seriously stupid questions and I have no doubt I fucked something up. She sent one text when I was on the bus "I had a great time" and when we hugged goodbye "Thanks for an amazing weekend". I know that the last couple of hours I was with her undone the amount of hard work I had put in previously (it is very rare for me to last that long with somebody without them becoming frustrated, but even at 3am she didn't want to sleep) I just...I really like her. I don't want to ruin it. She said she wanted to go on one more date and I still have a chance with her (even after the stupid questions) but...gah. I hope I haven't lost her. I don't mind taking stuff slow. I don't. I like her enough to not want to hop into bed with her right away. TL;DR: Met a girl and we fucked a lot up. Didn't know she was a bit scared of herself. Can't get over it.<|endoftext|>
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Hello all! Throwaway because I don't want my family to see this. So I'm getting married sometime in the next two years, very new engagement, but I've been thinking of who I want to be my bridesmaids. I have my sister and my good friends from high school, but in order to match my fiance's number of groomsmen I need one more girl. My cousin who I have known my whole life and have been fairly close to has been dating this awesome girl for about a year. Her and I get along super well and she's super fun to be around. I'd love for her to be in my wedding party, but I don't know if it would make things awkward with my cousin not being a groomsmen and him being the one I'm related to. I don't want to force anything or make anyone uncomfortable. I'm sure I could find someone else to fit into the wedding party who would fit just as good, but I just get along so well with my cousin's girlfriend I feel like she would be a great fit.
I want to have my cousin's girlfriend be a bridesmaid, but not sure if I'm leaving my cousin out.
I want to be bridesmaids for cousin's gf, not sure if I should force it or not.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello all! Throwaway because I don't want my family to see this. So I'm getting married sometime in the next two years, very new engagement, but I've been thinking of who I want to be my bridesmaids. I have my sister and my good friends from high school, but in order to match my fiance's number of groomsmen I need one more girl. My cousin who I have known my whole life and have been fairly close to has been dating this awesome girl for about a year. Her and I get along super well and she's super fun to be around. I'd love for her to be in my wedding party, but I don't know if it would make things awkward with my cousin not being a groomsmen and him being the one I'm related to. I don't want to force anything or make anyone uncomfortable. I'm sure I could find someone else to fit into the wedding party who would fit just as good, but I just get along so well with my cousin's girlfriend I feel like she would be a great fit. TL;DR:
I want to have my cousin's girlfriend be a bridesmaid, but not sure if I'm leaving my cousin out.<|endoftext|>
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I want to be bridesmaids for cousin's gf, not sure if I should force it or not.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello all! Throwaway because I don't want my family to see this. So I'm getting married sometime in the next two years, very new engagement, but I've been thinking of who I want to be my bridesmaids. I have my sister and my good friends from high school, but in order to match my fiance's number of groomsmen I need one more girl. My cousin who I have known my whole life and have been fairly close to has been dating this awesome girl for about a year. Her and I get along super well and she's super fun to be around. I'd love for her to be in my wedding party, but I don't know if it would make things awkward with my cousin not being a groomsmen and him being the one I'm related to. I don't want to force anything or make anyone uncomfortable. I'm sure I could find someone else to fit into the wedding party who would fit just as good, but I just get along so well with my cousin's girlfriend I feel like she would be a great fit. TL;DR: I want to have my cousin's girlfriend be a bridesmaid, but not sure if I'm leaving my cousin out.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello all! Throwaway because I don't want my family to see this. So I'm getting married sometime in the next two years, very new engagement, but I've been thinking of who I want to be my bridesmaids. I have my sister and my good friends from high school, but in order to match my fiance's number of groomsmen I need one more girl. My cousin who I have known my whole life and have been fairly close to has been dating this awesome girl for about a year. Her and I get along super well and she's super fun to be around. I'd love for her to be in my wedding party, but I don't know if it would make things awkward with my cousin not being a groomsmen and him being the one I'm related to. I don't want to force anything or make anyone uncomfortable. I'm sure I could find someone else to fit into the wedding party who would fit just as good, but I just get along so well with my cousin's girlfriend I feel like she would be a great fit. TL;DR: I want to be bridesmaids for cousin's gf, not sure if I should force it or not.<|endoftext|>
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Me 30 (F), him 33 (M), had a five year relationship filled with love and honesty. Things in our relationship were great for years, but there was one underlying issue that I relentlessly antagonized him with. I was jealous of an ex of his. They had a friendship, one I could not understand, and it made me intensely nervous. In retrospect I understand that this was from my own insecurities. But during the relationship I was blind to the fact that I ultimately had nothing to worry about, she was located in another state and married. However, I badgered him until he finally said it wasn't for me to decide his friendships. What could I say, he was right and despite my best efforts he did not believe I could see my error. He ended the relationship, breaking my heart and further damage was done when he jumped into a new relationship. The sting I felt to see him move on so fast was hard on me to say the least. During our time together he had mentioned our future, marriage and kids. Regardless the relationship was over and I've known it was my fault since it ended. Now to present day, I'm in a good place in life. Happy being single and enjoying the carefree attitude that comes with being unattached. Most days I'm happy he ended it b/c I've experienced so much personal growth, but other times I miss what we had together. From time to time I'll send him text messages. Mostly just friendly updates on life but sometimes flirtatious. He also will call me to just talk and catch up, he flirts back. I'm not quite sure what I am doing, I want to keep a friendship with him. I just am not sure his intentions, he's mentioned that he thinks of me often and misses me. On a couple of occasions when trying to hang out we have slept together. I'm beginning to think that he is not over me, and started this current relationship as a distraction that doesn't seem to be fully working. I don't want to end the friendship, but I'm not sure if I still love him. Any advise would help!
Boyfriend broke up with me little over year ago, ending a 5 year relationship and still calls to talk, occasionally telling me he misses me or thinks of me. He began dating a girl shortly after breakup. We slept together a few times after they began dating. What am I doing? And what is he thinking?
Got in a five year relationship. Broke up, he moved on, I'm not sure if I still love him.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me 30 (F), him 33 (M), had a five year relationship filled with love and honesty. Things in our relationship were great for years, but there was one underlying issue that I relentlessly antagonized him with. I was jealous of an ex of his. They had a friendship, one I could not understand, and it made me intensely nervous. In retrospect I understand that this was from my own insecurities. But during the relationship I was blind to the fact that I ultimately had nothing to worry about, she was located in another state and married. However, I badgered him until he finally said it wasn't for me to decide his friendships. What could I say, he was right and despite my best efforts he did not believe I could see my error. He ended the relationship, breaking my heart and further damage was done when he jumped into a new relationship. The sting I felt to see him move on so fast was hard on me to say the least. During our time together he had mentioned our future, marriage and kids. Regardless the relationship was over and I've known it was my fault since it ended. Now to present day, I'm in a good place in life. Happy being single and enjoying the carefree attitude that comes with being unattached. Most days I'm happy he ended it b/c I've experienced so much personal growth, but other times I miss what we had together. From time to time I'll send him text messages. Mostly just friendly updates on life but sometimes flirtatious. He also will call me to just talk and catch up, he flirts back. I'm not quite sure what I am doing, I want to keep a friendship with him. I just am not sure his intentions, he's mentioned that he thinks of me often and misses me. On a couple of occasions when trying to hang out we have slept together. I'm beginning to think that he is not over me, and started this current relationship as a distraction that doesn't seem to be fully working. I don't want to end the friendship, but I'm not sure if I still love him. Any advise would help! TL;DR:
Boyfriend broke up with me little over year ago, ending a 5 year relationship and still calls to talk, occasionally telling me he misses me or thinks of me. He began dating a girl shortly after breakup. We slept together a few times after they began dating. What am I doing? And what is he thinking?<|endoftext|>
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Got in a five year relationship. Broke up, he moved on, I'm not sure if I still love him.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me 30 (F), him 33 (M), had a five year relationship filled with love and honesty. Things in our relationship were great for years, but there was one underlying issue that I relentlessly antagonized him with. I was jealous of an ex of his. They had a friendship, one I could not understand, and it made me intensely nervous. In retrospect I understand that this was from my own insecurities. But during the relationship I was blind to the fact that I ultimately had nothing to worry about, she was located in another state and married. However, I badgered him until he finally said it wasn't for me to decide his friendships. What could I say, he was right and despite my best efforts he did not believe I could see my error. He ended the relationship, breaking my heart and further damage was done when he jumped into a new relationship. The sting I felt to see him move on so fast was hard on me to say the least. During our time together he had mentioned our future, marriage and kids. Regardless the relationship was over and I've known it was my fault since it ended. Now to present day, I'm in a good place in life. Happy being single and enjoying the carefree attitude that comes with being unattached. Most days I'm happy he ended it b/c I've experienced so much personal growth, but other times I miss what we had together. From time to time I'll send him text messages. Mostly just friendly updates on life but sometimes flirtatious. He also will call me to just talk and catch up, he flirts back. I'm not quite sure what I am doing, I want to keep a friendship with him. I just am not sure his intentions, he's mentioned that he thinks of me often and misses me. On a couple of occasions when trying to hang out we have slept together. I'm beginning to think that he is not over me, and started this current relationship as a distraction that doesn't seem to be fully working. I don't want to end the friendship, but I'm not sure if I still love him. Any advise would help! TL;DR: Boyfriend broke up with me little over year ago, ending a 5 year relationship and still calls to talk, occasionally telling me he misses me or thinks of me. He began dating a girl shortly after breakup. We slept together a few times after they began dating. What am I doing? And what is he thinking?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me 30 (F), him 33 (M), had a five year relationship filled with love and honesty. Things in our relationship were great for years, but there was one underlying issue that I relentlessly antagonized him with. I was jealous of an ex of his. They had a friendship, one I could not understand, and it made me intensely nervous. In retrospect I understand that this was from my own insecurities. But during the relationship I was blind to the fact that I ultimately had nothing to worry about, she was located in another state and married. However, I badgered him until he finally said it wasn't for me to decide his friendships. What could I say, he was right and despite my best efforts he did not believe I could see my error. He ended the relationship, breaking my heart and further damage was done when he jumped into a new relationship. The sting I felt to see him move on so fast was hard on me to say the least. During our time together he had mentioned our future, marriage and kids. Regardless the relationship was over and I've known it was my fault since it ended. Now to present day, I'm in a good place in life. Happy being single and enjoying the carefree attitude that comes with being unattached. Most days I'm happy he ended it b/c I've experienced so much personal growth, but other times I miss what we had together. From time to time I'll send him text messages. Mostly just friendly updates on life but sometimes flirtatious. He also will call me to just talk and catch up, he flirts back. I'm not quite sure what I am doing, I want to keep a friendship with him. I just am not sure his intentions, he's mentioned that he thinks of me often and misses me. On a couple of occasions when trying to hang out we have slept together. I'm beginning to think that he is not over me, and started this current relationship as a distraction that doesn't seem to be fully working. I don't want to end the friendship, but I'm not sure if I still love him. Any advise would help! TL;DR: Got in a five year relationship. Broke up, he moved on, I'm not sure if I still love him.<|endoftext|>
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I'll be going into the Air Force soon. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half, and we've been living together for about a year. We recently moved in with my parents after our lease ended and after I decided that I'd be leaving school to join the Air Force and figure out what I'm doing with my life. We both agreed that this is an excellent opportunity for me and something that I need to do. Our issue comes in with my trip to Basic Training and schooling after I get out of Basic. My girlfriend is wanting to move back to her parents' house which is two hours from where we live now and stay with them. We're both worried about what happens when I'm gone for the two months and then when they send me to a different city or something for school or my first assignment. I don't know what to do about bringing her with me, and the people I know from the military are saying that my best option is marriage. She, coming from a family that's dealt with divorce, really doesn't like the idea of marriage. I'm honestly pretty indifferent to the idea. I've never been one to sleep around or anything, and I can see myself with her for the rest of my life, something I can't really say about many of my exes. She's said that she can see herself with me, too. I don't want to pressure her into marriage or get married because of the military though. I want us to both do it because we want to, not because it's the best option. We both want to stay together and want to be able to live together. I have to get approved for off base housing if I want to live with her, and I was told that I'll most likely be stuck in a dorm for a while as an unmarried new recruit. Many of the more pessimistic guys I've talked to have told me to cut my ties and just not worry about it. I don't think I could do that without regretting it horribly. What is the best option for us? What are some tips you guys can give us about staying happy and staying together while dealing with the military?
Going into the Air Force soon and worried about my girlfriend and I being separated while I'm gone. I want us to stay together but don't want to pressure her into marriage. What should we do?
Going into the Air Force soon. My girlfriend and I have worries about it and want to stay together. What's the best option for us?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll be going into the Air Force soon. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half, and we've been living together for about a year. We recently moved in with my parents after our lease ended and after I decided that I'd be leaving school to join the Air Force and figure out what I'm doing with my life. We both agreed that this is an excellent opportunity for me and something that I need to do. Our issue comes in with my trip to Basic Training and schooling after I get out of Basic. My girlfriend is wanting to move back to her parents' house which is two hours from where we live now and stay with them. We're both worried about what happens when I'm gone for the two months and then when they send me to a different city or something for school or my first assignment. I don't know what to do about bringing her with me, and the people I know from the military are saying that my best option is marriage. She, coming from a family that's dealt with divorce, really doesn't like the idea of marriage. I'm honestly pretty indifferent to the idea. I've never been one to sleep around or anything, and I can see myself with her for the rest of my life, something I can't really say about many of my exes. She's said that she can see herself with me, too. I don't want to pressure her into marriage or get married because of the military though. I want us to both do it because we want to, not because it's the best option. We both want to stay together and want to be able to live together. I have to get approved for off base housing if I want to live with her, and I was told that I'll most likely be stuck in a dorm for a while as an unmarried new recruit. Many of the more pessimistic guys I've talked to have told me to cut my ties and just not worry about it. I don't think I could do that without regretting it horribly. What is the best option for us? What are some tips you guys can give us about staying happy and staying together while dealing with the military? TL;DR:
Going into the Air Force soon and worried about my girlfriend and I being separated while I'm gone. I want us to stay together but don't want to pressure her into marriage. What should we do?<|endoftext|>
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Going into the Air Force soon. My girlfriend and I have worries about it and want to stay together. What's the best option for us?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll be going into the Air Force soon. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half, and we've been living together for about a year. We recently moved in with my parents after our lease ended and after I decided that I'd be leaving school to join the Air Force and figure out what I'm doing with my life. We both agreed that this is an excellent opportunity for me and something that I need to do. Our issue comes in with my trip to Basic Training and schooling after I get out of Basic. My girlfriend is wanting to move back to her parents' house which is two hours from where we live now and stay with them. We're both worried about what happens when I'm gone for the two months and then when they send me to a different city or something for school or my first assignment. I don't know what to do about bringing her with me, and the people I know from the military are saying that my best option is marriage. She, coming from a family that's dealt with divorce, really doesn't like the idea of marriage. I'm honestly pretty indifferent to the idea. I've never been one to sleep around or anything, and I can see myself with her for the rest of my life, something I can't really say about many of my exes. She's said that she can see herself with me, too. I don't want to pressure her into marriage or get married because of the military though. I want us to both do it because we want to, not because it's the best option. We both want to stay together and want to be able to live together. I have to get approved for off base housing if I want to live with her, and I was told that I'll most likely be stuck in a dorm for a while as an unmarried new recruit. Many of the more pessimistic guys I've talked to have told me to cut my ties and just not worry about it. I don't think I could do that without regretting it horribly. What is the best option for us? What are some tips you guys can give us about staying happy and staying together while dealing with the military? TL;DR: Going into the Air Force soon and worried about my girlfriend and I being separated while I'm gone. I want us to stay together but don't want to pressure her into marriage. What should we do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll be going into the Air Force soon. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half, and we've been living together for about a year. We recently moved in with my parents after our lease ended and after I decided that I'd be leaving school to join the Air Force and figure out what I'm doing with my life. We both agreed that this is an excellent opportunity for me and something that I need to do. Our issue comes in with my trip to Basic Training and schooling after I get out of Basic. My girlfriend is wanting to move back to her parents' house which is two hours from where we live now and stay with them. We're both worried about what happens when I'm gone for the two months and then when they send me to a different city or something for school or my first assignment. I don't know what to do about bringing her with me, and the people I know from the military are saying that my best option is marriage. She, coming from a family that's dealt with divorce, really doesn't like the idea of marriage. I'm honestly pretty indifferent to the idea. I've never been one to sleep around or anything, and I can see myself with her for the rest of my life, something I can't really say about many of my exes. She's said that she can see herself with me, too. I don't want to pressure her into marriage or get married because of the military though. I want us to both do it because we want to, not because it's the best option. We both want to stay together and want to be able to live together. I have to get approved for off base housing if I want to live with her, and I was told that I'll most likely be stuck in a dorm for a while as an unmarried new recruit. Many of the more pessimistic guys I've talked to have told me to cut my ties and just not worry about it. I don't think I could do that without regretting it horribly. What is the best option for us? What are some tips you guys can give us about staying happy and staying together while dealing with the military? TL;DR: Going into the Air Force soon. My girlfriend and I have worries about it and want to stay together. What's the best option for us?<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this. Recently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem: He likes to tease. I don't. It's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says "oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time. And it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates. I want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!!) He can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that. I would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? Help...
My boyfriend laughs a lot and is super friendly, but he also likes to tease me. How do I deal with it?
My boyfriend and I have a very close, passionate relationship, but he's a horrible tease who always makes fun of me. How do I not be crushed every time he does it?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this. Recently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem: He likes to tease. I don't. It's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says "oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time. And it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates. I want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!!) He can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that. I would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? Help... TL;DR:
My boyfriend laughs a lot and is super friendly, but he also likes to tease me. How do I deal with it?<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend and I have a very close, passionate relationship, but he's a horrible tease who always makes fun of me. How do I not be crushed every time he does it?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this. Recently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem: He likes to tease. I don't. It's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says "oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time. And it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates. I want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!!) He can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that. I would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? Help... TL;DR: My boyfriend laughs a lot and is super friendly, but he also likes to tease me. How do I deal with it?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this. Recently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem: He likes to tease. I don't. It's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says "oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time. And it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates. I want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!!) He can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that. I would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? Help... TL;DR: My boyfriend and I have a very close, passionate relationship, but he's a horrible tease who always makes fun of me. How do I not be crushed every time he does it?<|endoftext|>
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I'm not sure if this is a question for this sub, but you guys give really good advice so here goes. Background: Me and hubby live with his parents, I was unable to work during most of my pregnancy due to complications. Now we are planning on staying till I finish school. They are really great people, and we work really well together. Background on Fil: FIL is a diabetic (type 2) He was addicted to pain pills for several years (started like a lot of pill addiction starts, was given them for chronic back pain and became dependent) during this time he was also an alcoholic. I'm not sure how bad, but they've eluded to him being a very depressive/angry alcoholic and that he would drink pretty much all day. Now he's on an addiction management medication and is doing quite well on it except for a few minor stumbles here and there. Now to the question, I've noticed FIL drinking regularly. When my mother in law would question it he would get defencive and say its "Only on the weekends" but it would be pretty much all day on the weekends. I've now noticed hes drinking after work on the week days now. (Im not sure exactly how much, but lets put it this way, i noticed a little less than half a bottle of vodka in the cabnet on monday, it was gone by thursday) no one else drinks so its all him. Now I never notice him being obviously drunk, besides getting sleepy/falling asleep in his chair. A few times on the weekends i noticed him getting a little depressive (just being extra whiny, taking things more personal than he should) and i know less than half a bottle in 4 days isn't crazy, but for a recovering alcoholic AND it being during the week worries me. I'll admit I really don't have much experiance with people in recovery. Should I be worried?
FIL is recovering alcoholic, but is drinking during the week. Should i be worried?
FIL is a recovering alcoholic who drinks only on the weekends and is now drinking again. Should be worried?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm not sure if this is a question for this sub, but you guys give really good advice so here goes. Background: Me and hubby live with his parents, I was unable to work during most of my pregnancy due to complications. Now we are planning on staying till I finish school. They are really great people, and we work really well together. Background on Fil: FIL is a diabetic (type 2) He was addicted to pain pills for several years (started like a lot of pill addiction starts, was given them for chronic back pain and became dependent) during this time he was also an alcoholic. I'm not sure how bad, but they've eluded to him being a very depressive/angry alcoholic and that he would drink pretty much all day. Now he's on an addiction management medication and is doing quite well on it except for a few minor stumbles here and there. Now to the question, I've noticed FIL drinking regularly. When my mother in law would question it he would get defencive and say its "Only on the weekends" but it would be pretty much all day on the weekends. I've now noticed hes drinking after work on the week days now. (Im not sure exactly how much, but lets put it this way, i noticed a little less than half a bottle of vodka in the cabnet on monday, it was gone by thursday) no one else drinks so its all him. Now I never notice him being obviously drunk, besides getting sleepy/falling asleep in his chair. A few times on the weekends i noticed him getting a little depressive (just being extra whiny, taking things more personal than he should) and i know less than half a bottle in 4 days isn't crazy, but for a recovering alcoholic AND it being during the week worries me. I'll admit I really don't have much experiance with people in recovery. Should I be worried? TL;DR:
FIL is recovering alcoholic, but is drinking during the week. Should i be worried?<|endoftext|>
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FIL is a recovering alcoholic who drinks only on the weekends and is now drinking again. Should be worried?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm not sure if this is a question for this sub, but you guys give really good advice so here goes. Background: Me and hubby live with his parents, I was unable to work during most of my pregnancy due to complications. Now we are planning on staying till I finish school. They are really great people, and we work really well together. Background on Fil: FIL is a diabetic (type 2) He was addicted to pain pills for several years (started like a lot of pill addiction starts, was given them for chronic back pain and became dependent) during this time he was also an alcoholic. I'm not sure how bad, but they've eluded to him being a very depressive/angry alcoholic and that he would drink pretty much all day. Now he's on an addiction management medication and is doing quite well on it except for a few minor stumbles here and there. Now to the question, I've noticed FIL drinking regularly. When my mother in law would question it he would get defencive and say its "Only on the weekends" but it would be pretty much all day on the weekends. I've now noticed hes drinking after work on the week days now. (Im not sure exactly how much, but lets put it this way, i noticed a little less than half a bottle of vodka in the cabnet on monday, it was gone by thursday) no one else drinks so its all him. Now I never notice him being obviously drunk, besides getting sleepy/falling asleep in his chair. A few times on the weekends i noticed him getting a little depressive (just being extra whiny, taking things more personal than he should) and i know less than half a bottle in 4 days isn't crazy, but for a recovering alcoholic AND it being during the week worries me. I'll admit I really don't have much experiance with people in recovery. Should I be worried? TL;DR: FIL is recovering alcoholic, but is drinking during the week. Should i be worried?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm not sure if this is a question for this sub, but you guys give really good advice so here goes. Background: Me and hubby live with his parents, I was unable to work during most of my pregnancy due to complications. Now we are planning on staying till I finish school. They are really great people, and we work really well together. Background on Fil: FIL is a diabetic (type 2) He was addicted to pain pills for several years (started like a lot of pill addiction starts, was given them for chronic back pain and became dependent) during this time he was also an alcoholic. I'm not sure how bad, but they've eluded to him being a very depressive/angry alcoholic and that he would drink pretty much all day. Now he's on an addiction management medication and is doing quite well on it except for a few minor stumbles here and there. Now to the question, I've noticed FIL drinking regularly. When my mother in law would question it he would get defencive and say its "Only on the weekends" but it would be pretty much all day on the weekends. I've now noticed hes drinking after work on the week days now. (Im not sure exactly how much, but lets put it this way, i noticed a little less than half a bottle of vodka in the cabnet on monday, it was gone by thursday) no one else drinks so its all him. Now I never notice him being obviously drunk, besides getting sleepy/falling asleep in his chair. A few times on the weekends i noticed him getting a little depressive (just being extra whiny, taking things more personal than he should) and i know less than half a bottle in 4 days isn't crazy, but for a recovering alcoholic AND it being during the week worries me. I'll admit I really don't have much experiance with people in recovery. Should I be worried? TL;DR: FIL is a recovering alcoholic who drinks only on the weekends and is now drinking again. Should be worried?<|endoftext|>
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I'm 25M she's 25F I like this girl that I just finished picnicking with... I dropped hints about going out another time during the date but she seemed unresponsive. Was I not supposed to do that? And when should I talk to her next? I won't ask her out, I'm just going to try texting informally about her life and how she's doing with stuff/etc. I really like her and want to have this at least get to the 3rd or 4th date... If not more... My brain is spiraling. She kept biting her lip, so I'm not sure if the nervous was about me or about how she wanted to leave. She did leave to walk a little bit to go to the bathroom and then walked back... And she did say the picnic was great, and that I made her day... There was definitely something there. And she's cute as all hell. I tend to jump things a little too quickly because my last real relationship was 7 years long and still trying to learn how to date "right". Any advice would be appreciated.
Just had good first date picnic with girl I'm interested in. When should I talk to her about next steps and how should I do it?
Went on 1st date with girl, gave her some great signals, she seemed unresponsive, but she did leave in a good way. When is appropriate to text/call her about follow up?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm 25M she's 25F I like this girl that I just finished picnicking with... I dropped hints about going out another time during the date but she seemed unresponsive. Was I not supposed to do that? And when should I talk to her next? I won't ask her out, I'm just going to try texting informally about her life and how she's doing with stuff/etc. I really like her and want to have this at least get to the 3rd or 4th date... If not more... My brain is spiraling. She kept biting her lip, so I'm not sure if the nervous was about me or about how she wanted to leave. She did leave to walk a little bit to go to the bathroom and then walked back... And she did say the picnic was great, and that I made her day... There was definitely something there. And she's cute as all hell. I tend to jump things a little too quickly because my last real relationship was 7 years long and still trying to learn how to date "right". Any advice would be appreciated. TL;DR:
Just had good first date picnic with girl I'm interested in. When should I talk to her about next steps and how should I do it?<|endoftext|>
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Went on 1st date with girl, gave her some great signals, she seemed unresponsive, but she did leave in a good way. When is appropriate to text/call her about follow up?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm 25M she's 25F I like this girl that I just finished picnicking with... I dropped hints about going out another time during the date but she seemed unresponsive. Was I not supposed to do that? And when should I talk to her next? I won't ask her out, I'm just going to try texting informally about her life and how she's doing with stuff/etc. I really like her and want to have this at least get to the 3rd or 4th date... If not more... My brain is spiraling. She kept biting her lip, so I'm not sure if the nervous was about me or about how she wanted to leave. She did leave to walk a little bit to go to the bathroom and then walked back... And she did say the picnic was great, and that I made her day... There was definitely something there. And she's cute as all hell. I tend to jump things a little too quickly because my last real relationship was 7 years long and still trying to learn how to date "right". Any advice would be appreciated. TL;DR: Just had good first date picnic with girl I'm interested in. When should I talk to her about next steps and how should I do it?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm 25M she's 25F I like this girl that I just finished picnicking with... I dropped hints about going out another time during the date but she seemed unresponsive. Was I not supposed to do that? And when should I talk to her next? I won't ask her out, I'm just going to try texting informally about her life and how she's doing with stuff/etc. I really like her and want to have this at least get to the 3rd or 4th date... If not more... My brain is spiraling. She kept biting her lip, so I'm not sure if the nervous was about me or about how she wanted to leave. She did leave to walk a little bit to go to the bathroom and then walked back... And she did say the picnic was great, and that I made her day... There was definitely something there. And she's cute as all hell. I tend to jump things a little too quickly because my last real relationship was 7 years long and still trying to learn how to date "right". Any advice would be appreciated. TL;DR: Went on 1st date with girl, gave her some great signals, she seemed unresponsive, but she did leave in a good way. When is appropriate to text/call her about follow up?<|endoftext|>
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Hey Everyone So today I was trying to get home from school as usual and this cop is driving under the speed limit, the retards infront of him doing under the speed limit cause everyone suddenly loose their balls when they see a cop around here, me getting aggravated by their slowness decided to over take and in my opinion I have enough space to over take the guy, WHO was driving without his headlights on, so literally he was driving in the dark but the cop somehow ignored that fact, and when I over took the car driving in the dark outta no where lights flashing and the cop pulls me over but it was okay to let the guy in the dark drive off... So my speeding ticket says: "Driver traveling at high rate of speed, with turn signals changing lanes, making driver hit breaks while driver cut in front of them. (2 Drivers). High rate of speed was him just trying to add cherry on top of the ticket when he didnt even clock me and I was doing the speed limit, but my ticket came out to be $312. I would like to fight this in the court since I have no money to pay for the ticket. I even asked the officer if he could maybe lower it so I could afford paying for it, I literally said to him that I am broke, then he judges me by saying "you drive a Mercedes"...... I dont even know how to respond to this....
Over took driving in the dark, cop commute the ticket and said I was speeding when I was only speeding until I got the lights on and then I was doing the speed limit.
Got my 2nd ticket for driving at high rate of speed when I was only overtaking 2 cars, and also makes me look like a retard with my car.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey Everyone So today I was trying to get home from school as usual and this cop is driving under the speed limit, the retards infront of him doing under the speed limit cause everyone suddenly loose their balls when they see a cop around here, me getting aggravated by their slowness decided to over take and in my opinion I have enough space to over take the guy, WHO was driving without his headlights on, so literally he was driving in the dark but the cop somehow ignored that fact, and when I over took the car driving in the dark outta no where lights flashing and the cop pulls me over but it was okay to let the guy in the dark drive off... So my speeding ticket says: "Driver traveling at high rate of speed, with turn signals changing lanes, making driver hit breaks while driver cut in front of them. (2 Drivers). High rate of speed was him just trying to add cherry on top of the ticket when he didnt even clock me and I was doing the speed limit, but my ticket came out to be $312. I would like to fight this in the court since I have no money to pay for the ticket. I even asked the officer if he could maybe lower it so I could afford paying for it, I literally said to him that I am broke, then he judges me by saying "you drive a Mercedes"...... I dont even know how to respond to this.... TL;DR:
Over took driving in the dark, cop commute the ticket and said I was speeding when I was only speeding until I got the lights on and then I was doing the speed limit.<|endoftext|>
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Got my 2nd ticket for driving at high rate of speed when I was only overtaking 2 cars, and also makes me look like a retard with my car.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey Everyone So today I was trying to get home from school as usual and this cop is driving under the speed limit, the retards infront of him doing under the speed limit cause everyone suddenly loose their balls when they see a cop around here, me getting aggravated by their slowness decided to over take and in my opinion I have enough space to over take the guy, WHO was driving without his headlights on, so literally he was driving in the dark but the cop somehow ignored that fact, and when I over took the car driving in the dark outta no where lights flashing and the cop pulls me over but it was okay to let the guy in the dark drive off... So my speeding ticket says: "Driver traveling at high rate of speed, with turn signals changing lanes, making driver hit breaks while driver cut in front of them. (2 Drivers). High rate of speed was him just trying to add cherry on top of the ticket when he didnt even clock me and I was doing the speed limit, but my ticket came out to be $312. I would like to fight this in the court since I have no money to pay for the ticket. I even asked the officer if he could maybe lower it so I could afford paying for it, I literally said to him that I am broke, then he judges me by saying "you drive a Mercedes"...... I dont even know how to respond to this.... TL;DR: Over took driving in the dark, cop commute the ticket and said I was speeding when I was only speeding until I got the lights on and then I was doing the speed limit.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey Everyone So today I was trying to get home from school as usual and this cop is driving under the speed limit, the retards infront of him doing under the speed limit cause everyone suddenly loose their balls when they see a cop around here, me getting aggravated by their slowness decided to over take and in my opinion I have enough space to over take the guy, WHO was driving without his headlights on, so literally he was driving in the dark but the cop somehow ignored that fact, and when I over took the car driving in the dark outta no where lights flashing and the cop pulls me over but it was okay to let the guy in the dark drive off... So my speeding ticket says: "Driver traveling at high rate of speed, with turn signals changing lanes, making driver hit breaks while driver cut in front of them. (2 Drivers). High rate of speed was him just trying to add cherry on top of the ticket when he didnt even clock me and I was doing the speed limit, but my ticket came out to be $312. I would like to fight this in the court since I have no money to pay for the ticket. I even asked the officer if he could maybe lower it so I could afford paying for it, I literally said to him that I am broke, then he judges me by saying "you drive a Mercedes"...... I dont even know how to respond to this.... TL;DR: Got my 2nd ticket for driving at high rate of speed when I was only overtaking 2 cars, and also makes me look like a retard with my car.<|endoftext|>
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We met when I was doing an internship in france for 8 months. I live in Australia so it's very far away obviously. We started off very casual but our feelings grew tremendously and he is by far the best guy i've had a relationship with. It's been 6 months since I left him to come home. We decided not to do long distance, so we essentially broke up when I left, but it's been hard. We just had a call for the first time in a few weeks, where we talked for hours. It was amazing and we both stated how much we missed each other, and that spark just came right back. Now I want to try and make it work. I want us to be together. We are perfect for one another and I cannot give up without trying. I know he feels the same. The only problem is: 1) He speaks french, and very little english. I speak english and very little french. There is a language barrier which could be a big problem down the track, I don't know. 2) I am in another relationship right now. It's been going on for about 3-4 months and I do love this new guy, but these feelings for French guy keep creeping back in so I'm considering breaking up with him (new guy) 3) We live on opposite sides of the world. For anything to ever work then one of us needs to relocate. 4) The money is a difficult thing. We both want one another and both want to be together but we cannot afford trips all the time to see each other. We have both said it is too hard to a do a long distance relationship because we just cannot commit to travelling so often to see each other. Has anyone had anything similar here? Have you been able to make it work with an overseas love?
Had an emotional phone call with a former flame who lives overseas. We live on opposite ends of the world, but our connection is strong and now I want to try and make it work. Has anyone got any advice for long distance love?
Had an emotional phone call with my ex-flame living overseas. We live on opposite sides of the world. We are perfect for each other but cannot afford long distance. Has anyone got any advice?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We met when I was doing an internship in france for 8 months. I live in Australia so it's very far away obviously. We started off very casual but our feelings grew tremendously and he is by far the best guy i've had a relationship with. It's been 6 months since I left him to come home. We decided not to do long distance, so we essentially broke up when I left, but it's been hard. We just had a call for the first time in a few weeks, where we talked for hours. It was amazing and we both stated how much we missed each other, and that spark just came right back. Now I want to try and make it work. I want us to be together. We are perfect for one another and I cannot give up without trying. I know he feels the same. The only problem is: 1) He speaks french, and very little english. I speak english and very little french. There is a language barrier which could be a big problem down the track, I don't know. 2) I am in another relationship right now. It's been going on for about 3-4 months and I do love this new guy, but these feelings for French guy keep creeping back in so I'm considering breaking up with him (new guy) 3) We live on opposite sides of the world. For anything to ever work then one of us needs to relocate. 4) The money is a difficult thing. We both want one another and both want to be together but we cannot afford trips all the time to see each other. We have both said it is too hard to a do a long distance relationship because we just cannot commit to travelling so often to see each other. Has anyone had anything similar here? Have you been able to make it work with an overseas love? TL;DR:
Had an emotional phone call with a former flame who lives overseas. We live on opposite ends of the world, but our connection is strong and now I want to try and make it work. Has anyone got any advice for long distance love?<|endoftext|>
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Had an emotional phone call with my ex-flame living overseas. We live on opposite sides of the world. We are perfect for each other but cannot afford long distance. Has anyone got any advice?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We met when I was doing an internship in france for 8 months. I live in Australia so it's very far away obviously. We started off very casual but our feelings grew tremendously and he is by far the best guy i've had a relationship with. It's been 6 months since I left him to come home. We decided not to do long distance, so we essentially broke up when I left, but it's been hard. We just had a call for the first time in a few weeks, where we talked for hours. It was amazing and we both stated how much we missed each other, and that spark just came right back. Now I want to try and make it work. I want us to be together. We are perfect for one another and I cannot give up without trying. I know he feels the same. The only problem is: 1) He speaks french, and very little english. I speak english and very little french. There is a language barrier which could be a big problem down the track, I don't know. 2) I am in another relationship right now. It's been going on for about 3-4 months and I do love this new guy, but these feelings for French guy keep creeping back in so I'm considering breaking up with him (new guy) 3) We live on opposite sides of the world. For anything to ever work then one of us needs to relocate. 4) The money is a difficult thing. We both want one another and both want to be together but we cannot afford trips all the time to see each other. We have both said it is too hard to a do a long distance relationship because we just cannot commit to travelling so often to see each other. Has anyone had anything similar here? Have you been able to make it work with an overseas love? TL;DR: Had an emotional phone call with a former flame who lives overseas. We live on opposite ends of the world, but our connection is strong and now I want to try and make it work. Has anyone got any advice for long distance love?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We met when I was doing an internship in france for 8 months. I live in Australia so it's very far away obviously. We started off very casual but our feelings grew tremendously and he is by far the best guy i've had a relationship with. It's been 6 months since I left him to come home. We decided not to do long distance, so we essentially broke up when I left, but it's been hard. We just had a call for the first time in a few weeks, where we talked for hours. It was amazing and we both stated how much we missed each other, and that spark just came right back. Now I want to try and make it work. I want us to be together. We are perfect for one another and I cannot give up without trying. I know he feels the same. The only problem is: 1) He speaks french, and very little english. I speak english and very little french. There is a language barrier which could be a big problem down the track, I don't know. 2) I am in another relationship right now. It's been going on for about 3-4 months and I do love this new guy, but these feelings for French guy keep creeping back in so I'm considering breaking up with him (new guy) 3) We live on opposite sides of the world. For anything to ever work then one of us needs to relocate. 4) The money is a difficult thing. We both want one another and both want to be together but we cannot afford trips all the time to see each other. We have both said it is too hard to a do a long distance relationship because we just cannot commit to travelling so often to see each other. Has anyone had anything similar here? Have you been able to make it work with an overseas love? TL;DR: Had an emotional phone call with my ex-flame living overseas. We live on opposite sides of the world. We are perfect for each other but cannot afford long distance. Has anyone got any advice?<|endoftext|>
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Hello everybody! I've been a lurker here for years, so finally the time has come for me to consult the people of reddit! Okay I'm going to make it as short as possible here, so here we go. I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over 5 months now, and my GF's parents are against the relationship due to her "needing to focus on her studies" and all that, since it's a major exam. Now here's the thing, her parents are threatening me right now ( both of them ) in text that they would find my parents and essentially cause a shitload of unnecessary problems , should I continue meeting up with her or even MESSAGE her. Do I have a right to get super pissed here? My reasoning would be that this is a two-way thing, so even if they aren't even able to control their child, does that give them the authority to boss me around? How do I reply their long text? I'll paraphrase it here. "MY NAME! This is HER NAME'S father, u have to break off with her.. why r u disturbing her again. this is my last warning to u! If I am seeing you msg/skype or seeing her again, i will straight confront yr father to stop u! Mark my words, THIS IS MY LAST WARNING TO U! STOP NOW" Pretty speechless. This sounds extremely immature, but I have a pretty bad temper and my vision tends to be shrouded when I'm angry. Thus I seek the help of my fellow redditors!
Girlfriend's parents angry at me for supposedly needing to focus on her studies, threatening to cause problems should i continue to see her. Need help with reply.
Girlfriends parents are threatening me with ruin if I continue seeing my girlfriend even though she needs to focus on school, and have become too controlling. What should I do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello everybody! I've been a lurker here for years, so finally the time has come for me to consult the people of reddit! Okay I'm going to make it as short as possible here, so here we go. I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over 5 months now, and my GF's parents are against the relationship due to her "needing to focus on her studies" and all that, since it's a major exam. Now here's the thing, her parents are threatening me right now ( both of them ) in text that they would find my parents and essentially cause a shitload of unnecessary problems, should I continue meeting up with her or even MESSAGE her. Do I have a right to get super pissed here? My reasoning would be that this is a two-way thing, so even if they aren't even able to control their child, does that give them the authority to boss me around? How do I reply their long text? I'll paraphrase it here. "MY NAME! This is HER NAME'S father, u have to break off with her.. why r u disturbing her again. this is my last warning to u! If I am seeing you msg/skype or seeing her again, i will straight confront yr father to stop u! Mark my words, THIS IS MY LAST WARNING TO U! STOP NOW" Pretty speechless. This sounds extremely immature, but I have a pretty bad temper and my vision tends to be shrouded when I'm angry. Thus I seek the help of my fellow redditors! TL;DR:
Girlfriend's parents angry at me for supposedly needing to focus on her studies, threatening to cause problems should i continue to see her. Need help with reply.<|endoftext|>
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Girlfriends parents are threatening me with ruin if I continue seeing my girlfriend even though she needs to focus on school, and have become too controlling. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello everybody! I've been a lurker here for years, so finally the time has come for me to consult the people of reddit! Okay I'm going to make it as short as possible here, so here we go. I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over 5 months now, and my GF's parents are against the relationship due to her "needing to focus on her studies" and all that, since it's a major exam. Now here's the thing, her parents are threatening me right now ( both of them ) in text that they would find my parents and essentially cause a shitload of unnecessary problems, should I continue meeting up with her or even MESSAGE her. Do I have a right to get super pissed here? My reasoning would be that this is a two-way thing, so even if they aren't even able to control their child, does that give them the authority to boss me around? How do I reply their long text? I'll paraphrase it here. "MY NAME! This is HER NAME'S father, u have to break off with her.. why r u disturbing her again. this is my last warning to u! If I am seeing you msg/skype or seeing her again, i will straight confront yr father to stop u! Mark my words, THIS IS MY LAST WARNING TO U! STOP NOW" Pretty speechless. This sounds extremely immature, but I have a pretty bad temper and my vision tends to be shrouded when I'm angry. Thus I seek the help of my fellow redditors! TL;DR: Girlfriend's parents angry at me for supposedly needing to focus on her studies, threatening to cause problems should i continue to see her. Need help with reply.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello everybody! I've been a lurker here for years, so finally the time has come for me to consult the people of reddit! Okay I'm going to make it as short as possible here, so here we go. I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over 5 months now, and my GF's parents are against the relationship due to her "needing to focus on her studies" and all that, since it's a major exam. Now here's the thing, her parents are threatening me right now ( both of them ) in text that they would find my parents and essentially cause a shitload of unnecessary problems, should I continue meeting up with her or even MESSAGE her. Do I have a right to get super pissed here? My reasoning would be that this is a two-way thing, so even if they aren't even able to control their child, does that give them the authority to boss me around? How do I reply their long text? I'll paraphrase it here. "MY NAME! This is HER NAME'S father, u have to break off with her.. why r u disturbing her again. this is my last warning to u! If I am seeing you msg/skype or seeing her again, i will straight confront yr father to stop u! Mark my words, THIS IS MY LAST WARNING TO U! STOP NOW" Pretty speechless. This sounds extremely immature, but I have a pretty bad temper and my vision tends to be shrouded when I'm angry. Thus I seek the help of my fellow redditors! TL;DR: Girlfriends parents are threatening me with ruin if I continue seeing my girlfriend even though she needs to focus on school, and have become too controlling. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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What's the compromise? I want to go to the Phillipines I think. I like nature; Snorkelling, Swimming, Kayaking, Waterfalls, Rivers, Fishing, Wildlife, natural wonders. I like markets, local foods, local culture, night life, dancing, music, shopping as well. I'm not on a long trip though, so culture wise I'm not looking to properly deeply immerse myself in the culture and spend the whole time working on a family farm or anything like that. So, what do you guys reckon? I've got friends in Singapore and HK. I'm tempted to bookend a 10 day stay somewhere adventurous with a a few days city break at each of those places. I'm a relatively experienced traveller, but my girlfriend is not. She's an experienced tourist though. But she is a bit fussy. So I can't go anywhere too off the beaten path or she will flip her shit.
I want to go to Asia next year. But GF wants to go to Thailand. I'm not too keen on this idea. But I'm interested in the culture and nature as well as the markets and shopping in those countries. I'm a bit fussy but she's not. How do I balance this?
I need advice on where to go on holiday for a weekend with a friend and my girlfriend is a bit of a tourist.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: What's the compromise? I want to go to the Phillipines I think. I like nature; Snorkelling, Swimming, Kayaking, Waterfalls, Rivers, Fishing, Wildlife, natural wonders. I like markets, local foods, local culture, night life, dancing, music, shopping as well. I'm not on a long trip though, so culture wise I'm not looking to properly deeply immerse myself in the culture and spend the whole time working on a family farm or anything like that. So, what do you guys reckon? I've got friends in Singapore and HK. I'm tempted to bookend a 10 day stay somewhere adventurous with a a few days city break at each of those places. I'm a relatively experienced traveller, but my girlfriend is not. She's an experienced tourist though. But she is a bit fussy. So I can't go anywhere too off the beaten path or she will flip her shit. TL;DR:
I want to go to Asia next year. But GF wants to go to Thailand. I'm not too keen on this idea. But I'm interested in the culture and nature as well as the markets and shopping in those countries. I'm a bit fussy but she's not. How do I balance this?<|endoftext|>
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I need advice on where to go on holiday for a weekend with a friend and my girlfriend is a bit of a tourist.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: What's the compromise? I want to go to the Phillipines I think. I like nature; Snorkelling, Swimming, Kayaking, Waterfalls, Rivers, Fishing, Wildlife, natural wonders. I like markets, local foods, local culture, night life, dancing, music, shopping as well. I'm not on a long trip though, so culture wise I'm not looking to properly deeply immerse myself in the culture and spend the whole time working on a family farm or anything like that. So, what do you guys reckon? I've got friends in Singapore and HK. I'm tempted to bookend a 10 day stay somewhere adventurous with a a few days city break at each of those places. I'm a relatively experienced traveller, but my girlfriend is not. She's an experienced tourist though. But she is a bit fussy. So I can't go anywhere too off the beaten path or she will flip her shit. TL;DR: I want to go to Asia next year. But GF wants to go to Thailand. I'm not too keen on this idea. But I'm interested in the culture and nature as well as the markets and shopping in those countries. I'm a bit fussy but she's not. How do I balance this?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: What's the compromise? I want to go to the Phillipines I think. I like nature; Snorkelling, Swimming, Kayaking, Waterfalls, Rivers, Fishing, Wildlife, natural wonders. I like markets, local foods, local culture, night life, dancing, music, shopping as well. I'm not on a long trip though, so culture wise I'm not looking to properly deeply immerse myself in the culture and spend the whole time working on a family farm or anything like that. So, what do you guys reckon? I've got friends in Singapore and HK. I'm tempted to bookend a 10 day stay somewhere adventurous with a a few days city break at each of those places. I'm a relatively experienced traveller, but my girlfriend is not. She's an experienced tourist though. But she is a bit fussy. So I can't go anywhere too off the beaten path or she will flip her shit. TL;DR: I need advice on where to go on holiday for a weekend with a friend and my girlfriend is a bit of a tourist.<|endoftext|>
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Hey! Little problem compared to all the things I have come across here.. I am a student(21) with just enough money for rent/food (thanks to parents)and my boyfriend (30) has a job which pays very well. I recently found a job and made about $300 but had to quit because school is starting next week. Now, my SO loves to go out to dinner or just for drinks but recently, until I was paid today, I had no choice but to let him pay for it. Personally, I'm not a big fan of going out to dinner too often. I believe it is easier and much more romantic/fun to cook dinner together in our own homes. He says he is happy to pay and because I'm a student he expects to pay for things until I have my own job. This still makes me uncomfortable sometimes but he brushes it off and jokes that I'll do the same for him later. I got paid today and sent him a text to let him know (because I had to wait 2 weeks for my boss to finally give me a check...) and he responded "great! how much?" then "ok! so I'll chose the restaurant tonight?!" We already talked about dinner and I already went to the store this morning to buy all the ingredients for it.. I responded telling him that maybe tomorrow would be better because we are leaving the city for the weekend tomorrow and it makes sense to eat what we have.. He didn't seem to understand my logic. Am I being selfish for thinking this way? I'm not really sure what to say to him without sounding greedy. We went out to eat twice this week and I was really looking forward to a night at home tonight. He also doesn't know I'm trying to save my money to bring him on a surprise trip for his birthday in two months which makes things difficult.
Boyfriend pays for dates with me. My SO tells me to choose restaurant tonight because he wants to pay for dinner until I have a job. I want to save my money for a surprise trip for him while I'm currently at work but I am not sure how to tell him without sounding greedy.
My SO pays for my dinner, I feel like I should let him pay for everything until I get my own job. Am I being selfish?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey! Little problem compared to all the things I have come across here.. I am a student(21) with just enough money for rent/food (thanks to parents)and my boyfriend (30) has a job which pays very well. I recently found a job and made about $300 but had to quit because school is starting next week. Now, my SO loves to go out to dinner or just for drinks but recently, until I was paid today, I had no choice but to let him pay for it. Personally, I'm not a big fan of going out to dinner too often. I believe it is easier and much more romantic/fun to cook dinner together in our own homes. He says he is happy to pay and because I'm a student he expects to pay for things until I have my own job. This still makes me uncomfortable sometimes but he brushes it off and jokes that I'll do the same for him later. I got paid today and sent him a text to let him know (because I had to wait 2 weeks for my boss to finally give me a check...) and he responded "great! how much?" then "ok! so I'll chose the restaurant tonight?!" We already talked about dinner and I already went to the store this morning to buy all the ingredients for it.. I responded telling him that maybe tomorrow would be better because we are leaving the city for the weekend tomorrow and it makes sense to eat what we have.. He didn't seem to understand my logic. Am I being selfish for thinking this way? I'm not really sure what to say to him without sounding greedy. We went out to eat twice this week and I was really looking forward to a night at home tonight. He also doesn't know I'm trying to save my money to bring him on a surprise trip for his birthday in two months which makes things difficult. TL;DR:
Boyfriend pays for dates with me. My SO tells me to choose restaurant tonight because he wants to pay for dinner until I have a job. I want to save my money for a surprise trip for him while I'm currently at work but I am not sure how to tell him without sounding greedy.<|endoftext|>
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My SO pays for my dinner, I feel like I should let him pay for everything until I get my own job. Am I being selfish?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey! Little problem compared to all the things I have come across here.. I am a student(21) with just enough money for rent/food (thanks to parents)and my boyfriend (30) has a job which pays very well. I recently found a job and made about $300 but had to quit because school is starting next week. Now, my SO loves to go out to dinner or just for drinks but recently, until I was paid today, I had no choice but to let him pay for it. Personally, I'm not a big fan of going out to dinner too often. I believe it is easier and much more romantic/fun to cook dinner together in our own homes. He says he is happy to pay and because I'm a student he expects to pay for things until I have my own job. This still makes me uncomfortable sometimes but he brushes it off and jokes that I'll do the same for him later. I got paid today and sent him a text to let him know (because I had to wait 2 weeks for my boss to finally give me a check...) and he responded "great! how much?" then "ok! so I'll chose the restaurant tonight?!" We already talked about dinner and I already went to the store this morning to buy all the ingredients for it.. I responded telling him that maybe tomorrow would be better because we are leaving the city for the weekend tomorrow and it makes sense to eat what we have.. He didn't seem to understand my logic. Am I being selfish for thinking this way? I'm not really sure what to say to him without sounding greedy. We went out to eat twice this week and I was really looking forward to a night at home tonight. He also doesn't know I'm trying to save my money to bring him on a surprise trip for his birthday in two months which makes things difficult. TL;DR: Boyfriend pays for dates with me. My SO tells me to choose restaurant tonight because he wants to pay for dinner until I have a job. I want to save my money for a surprise trip for him while I'm currently at work but I am not sure how to tell him without sounding greedy.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey! Little problem compared to all the things I have come across here.. I am a student(21) with just enough money for rent/food (thanks to parents)and my boyfriend (30) has a job which pays very well. I recently found a job and made about $300 but had to quit because school is starting next week. Now, my SO loves to go out to dinner or just for drinks but recently, until I was paid today, I had no choice but to let him pay for it. Personally, I'm not a big fan of going out to dinner too often. I believe it is easier and much more romantic/fun to cook dinner together in our own homes. He says he is happy to pay and because I'm a student he expects to pay for things until I have my own job. This still makes me uncomfortable sometimes but he brushes it off and jokes that I'll do the same for him later. I got paid today and sent him a text to let him know (because I had to wait 2 weeks for my boss to finally give me a check...) and he responded "great! how much?" then "ok! so I'll chose the restaurant tonight?!" We already talked about dinner and I already went to the store this morning to buy all the ingredients for it.. I responded telling him that maybe tomorrow would be better because we are leaving the city for the weekend tomorrow and it makes sense to eat what we have.. He didn't seem to understand my logic. Am I being selfish for thinking this way? I'm not really sure what to say to him without sounding greedy. We went out to eat twice this week and I was really looking forward to a night at home tonight. He also doesn't know I'm trying to save my money to bring him on a surprise trip for his birthday in two months which makes things difficult. TL;DR: My SO pays for my dinner, I feel like I should let him pay for everything until I get my own job. Am I being selfish?<|endoftext|>
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(Also, if there is a better subreddit for this, please let me know!) Backstory: I am a 23 yr old female with a history of anxiety/depression problems. I have seen a doctor about it, and I am on medication and in the process of choosing a therapist. I have one existing tattoo (done about a month ago), and plans for 3 more, one of which will be done later this week. I am also a psychology student, so I have a little bit of background knowledge. Here's the issue: I mentioned to my best friend that when I got my first tattoo (during a stressful time) it helped with my anxiety for a couple weeks. While getting it, I'm in pain, so that gives me something to focus on. Afterward, while caring for it I have a sense of accomplishment. Like, "See? You got through something you thought was scary, but now you have a reward for doing it." I recognize this as vaguely similar to the reasoning of those who self-harm. So did he. He got very worried about me, and thinks that it is every bit as dangerous (psychologically speaking) as any other form of self-harm. Now, the tattoos that I got/am getting have been in the works for years, so this is by no means an impulsive choice. I just found the anxiety relief as an interesting side effect, and does not factor in to my decision to get them. I also use good aftercare practices. I am not terribly worried about it. What does reddit think?
My good friend thinks that getting a tattoo is just as mentally damaging as self-harm, and I don't know how to get him to see otherwise.
guy with anxiety/depression is really worried that I will do something to myself.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: (Also, if there is a better subreddit for this, please let me know!) Backstory: I am a 23 yr old female with a history of anxiety/depression problems. I have seen a doctor about it, and I am on medication and in the process of choosing a therapist. I have one existing tattoo (done about a month ago), and plans for 3 more, one of which will be done later this week. I am also a psychology student, so I have a little bit of background knowledge. Here's the issue: I mentioned to my best friend that when I got my first tattoo (during a stressful time) it helped with my anxiety for a couple weeks. While getting it, I'm in pain, so that gives me something to focus on. Afterward, while caring for it I have a sense of accomplishment. Like, "See? You got through something you thought was scary, but now you have a reward for doing it." I recognize this as vaguely similar to the reasoning of those who self-harm. So did he. He got very worried about me, and thinks that it is every bit as dangerous (psychologically speaking) as any other form of self-harm. Now, the tattoos that I got/am getting have been in the works for years, so this is by no means an impulsive choice. I just found the anxiety relief as an interesting side effect, and does not factor in to my decision to get them. I also use good aftercare practices. I am not terribly worried about it. What does reddit think? TL;DR:
My good friend thinks that getting a tattoo is just as mentally damaging as self-harm, and I don't know how to get him to see otherwise.<|endoftext|>
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guy with anxiety/depression is really worried that I will do something to myself.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: (Also, if there is a better subreddit for this, please let me know!) Backstory: I am a 23 yr old female with a history of anxiety/depression problems. I have seen a doctor about it, and I am on medication and in the process of choosing a therapist. I have one existing tattoo (done about a month ago), and plans for 3 more, one of which will be done later this week. I am also a psychology student, so I have a little bit of background knowledge. Here's the issue: I mentioned to my best friend that when I got my first tattoo (during a stressful time) it helped with my anxiety for a couple weeks. While getting it, I'm in pain, so that gives me something to focus on. Afterward, while caring for it I have a sense of accomplishment. Like, "See? You got through something you thought was scary, but now you have a reward for doing it." I recognize this as vaguely similar to the reasoning of those who self-harm. So did he. He got very worried about me, and thinks that it is every bit as dangerous (psychologically speaking) as any other form of self-harm. Now, the tattoos that I got/am getting have been in the works for years, so this is by no means an impulsive choice. I just found the anxiety relief as an interesting side effect, and does not factor in to my decision to get them. I also use good aftercare practices. I am not terribly worried about it. What does reddit think? TL;DR: My good friend thinks that getting a tattoo is just as mentally damaging as self-harm, and I don't know how to get him to see otherwise.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: (Also, if there is a better subreddit for this, please let me know!) Backstory: I am a 23 yr old female with a history of anxiety/depression problems. I have seen a doctor about it, and I am on medication and in the process of choosing a therapist. I have one existing tattoo (done about a month ago), and plans for 3 more, one of which will be done later this week. I am also a psychology student, so I have a little bit of background knowledge. Here's the issue: I mentioned to my best friend that when I got my first tattoo (during a stressful time) it helped with my anxiety for a couple weeks. While getting it, I'm in pain, so that gives me something to focus on. Afterward, while caring for it I have a sense of accomplishment. Like, "See? You got through something you thought was scary, but now you have a reward for doing it." I recognize this as vaguely similar to the reasoning of those who self-harm. So did he. He got very worried about me, and thinks that it is every bit as dangerous (psychologically speaking) as any other form of self-harm. Now, the tattoos that I got/am getting have been in the works for years, so this is by no means an impulsive choice. I just found the anxiety relief as an interesting side effect, and does not factor in to my decision to get them. I also use good aftercare practices. I am not terribly worried about it. What does reddit think? TL;DR: guy with anxiety/depression is really worried that I will do something to myself.<|endoftext|>
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We've been living together almost a year, been dating a year and a half. At the end of November I [F37] said some hurtful things. He [M35] never stops me or challenges me when I do something like this, his therapist says he doesn't establish boundaries. I apologised for the things I said a billion different ways. I was genuinely sorry. He seemed to accept the apology at the time. He has never really forgiven me, it turns out. He started building a case against our relationship in his heart, assuming that I have been unhappy when I have not been, deciding that I am too cruel, and as of yesterday tells me he is leaving in two months at the end of our lease and wants a different life. I'm a thick-skulled idiot. I don't always know when I'm being thoughtless to the point of being harsh, and like I said, he never tells me to stop or shut up or anything. In the last year and a half I have been "cruel" that I know of three or four times. I was venting about things and he seemed ok with what I was saying and how I was saying it by his attentive silence. I don't want him to go. I never meant to be frustrated and harsh about anything to do with his life. I never called him names or told him he was worthless, but he is sensitive and took things that way sometimes I have learned. Daily, I am telling him how wonderful he is. I never go a day without telling him I love him and showing affection. But our relationship is now too "hard" for him. I am willing to see any therapist he chooses to learn better communication skills. I am willing to do what it takes but he is tired. After having a few vacation days to himself he became sure he wanted to live alone again. Is there any good way to make him less "tired" of us? He says he still loves me.
I made some hurtful things about the man I love and he has decided he doesn't want to be with me. I don't want to store up resentments, but I want to know if there is any way he can learn to forgive me for my actions?
Said dumb things a few times, he is now bitter with me and leaving. I show him love daily and want to keep him.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been living together almost a year, been dating a year and a half. At the end of November I [F37] said some hurtful things. He [M35] never stops me or challenges me when I do something like this, his therapist says he doesn't establish boundaries. I apologised for the things I said a billion different ways. I was genuinely sorry. He seemed to accept the apology at the time. He has never really forgiven me, it turns out. He started building a case against our relationship in his heart, assuming that I have been unhappy when I have not been, deciding that I am too cruel, and as of yesterday tells me he is leaving in two months at the end of our lease and wants a different life. I'm a thick-skulled idiot. I don't always know when I'm being thoughtless to the point of being harsh, and like I said, he never tells me to stop or shut up or anything. In the last year and a half I have been "cruel" that I know of three or four times. I was venting about things and he seemed ok with what I was saying and how I was saying it by his attentive silence. I don't want him to go. I never meant to be frustrated and harsh about anything to do with his life. I never called him names or told him he was worthless, but he is sensitive and took things that way sometimes I have learned. Daily, I am telling him how wonderful he is. I never go a day without telling him I love him and showing affection. But our relationship is now too "hard" for him. I am willing to see any therapist he chooses to learn better communication skills. I am willing to do what it takes but he is tired. After having a few vacation days to himself he became sure he wanted to live alone again. Is there any good way to make him less "tired" of us? He says he still loves me. TL;DR:
I made some hurtful things about the man I love and he has decided he doesn't want to be with me. I don't want to store up resentments, but I want to know if there is any way he can learn to forgive me for my actions?<|endoftext|>
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Said dumb things a few times, he is now bitter with me and leaving. I show him love daily and want to keep him.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been living together almost a year, been dating a year and a half. At the end of November I [F37] said some hurtful things. He [M35] never stops me or challenges me when I do something like this, his therapist says he doesn't establish boundaries. I apologised for the things I said a billion different ways. I was genuinely sorry. He seemed to accept the apology at the time. He has never really forgiven me, it turns out. He started building a case against our relationship in his heart, assuming that I have been unhappy when I have not been, deciding that I am too cruel, and as of yesterday tells me he is leaving in two months at the end of our lease and wants a different life. I'm a thick-skulled idiot. I don't always know when I'm being thoughtless to the point of being harsh, and like I said, he never tells me to stop or shut up or anything. In the last year and a half I have been "cruel" that I know of three or four times. I was venting about things and he seemed ok with what I was saying and how I was saying it by his attentive silence. I don't want him to go. I never meant to be frustrated and harsh about anything to do with his life. I never called him names or told him he was worthless, but he is sensitive and took things that way sometimes I have learned. Daily, I am telling him how wonderful he is. I never go a day without telling him I love him and showing affection. But our relationship is now too "hard" for him. I am willing to see any therapist he chooses to learn better communication skills. I am willing to do what it takes but he is tired. After having a few vacation days to himself he became sure he wanted to live alone again. Is there any good way to make him less "tired" of us? He says he still loves me. TL;DR: I made some hurtful things about the man I love and he has decided he doesn't want to be with me. I don't want to store up resentments, but I want to know if there is any way he can learn to forgive me for my actions?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been living together almost a year, been dating a year and a half. At the end of November I [F37] said some hurtful things. He [M35] never stops me or challenges me when I do something like this, his therapist says he doesn't establish boundaries. I apologised for the things I said a billion different ways. I was genuinely sorry. He seemed to accept the apology at the time. He has never really forgiven me, it turns out. He started building a case against our relationship in his heart, assuming that I have been unhappy when I have not been, deciding that I am too cruel, and as of yesterday tells me he is leaving in two months at the end of our lease and wants a different life. I'm a thick-skulled idiot. I don't always know when I'm being thoughtless to the point of being harsh, and like I said, he never tells me to stop or shut up or anything. In the last year and a half I have been "cruel" that I know of three or four times. I was venting about things and he seemed ok with what I was saying and how I was saying it by his attentive silence. I don't want him to go. I never meant to be frustrated and harsh about anything to do with his life. I never called him names or told him he was worthless, but he is sensitive and took things that way sometimes I have learned. Daily, I am telling him how wonderful he is. I never go a day without telling him I love him and showing affection. But our relationship is now too "hard" for him. I am willing to see any therapist he chooses to learn better communication skills. I am willing to do what it takes but he is tired. After having a few vacation days to himself he became sure he wanted to live alone again. Is there any good way to make him less "tired" of us? He says he still loves me. TL;DR: Said dumb things a few times, he is now bitter with me and leaving. I show him love daily and want to keep him.<|endoftext|>
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We go to the same college, although he lives a little further away. We've been together for 2 years now but throughout our relationship - we only see each other 2-3 times a month. Can I call it a relationship? we both lack experience in this area as you can see. He is awful when it comes to making plans, and is a workaholic. but a majority of our relationship is spent on texting each other and when we meet, we always do the same thing. I have been getting mixed opinions; 1. If you're happy, that's fine. Especially if you're busy 2. That's too little, if he cared then he would make more time for you 3. Are you sure this is a relationship? I don't know if it's a relationship. Maybe it is, but just an odd one. We will start working in a few months time, and our hometown is 4 hours away from each other. Matters are more complicated because my parents don't like the idea of me being in a relationship. (lol asians) Anyway, is it a problem? or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem? To be honest, I'm neutral as I'm not sure what I want.
I'm [f/19] not sure about my relationship. Is it a problem or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem?
I'm confused about my relationship.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We go to the same college, although he lives a little further away. We've been together for 2 years now but throughout our relationship - we only see each other 2-3 times a month. Can I call it a relationship? we both lack experience in this area as you can see. He is awful when it comes to making plans, and is a workaholic. but a majority of our relationship is spent on texting each other and when we meet, we always do the same thing. I have been getting mixed opinions; 1. If you're happy, that's fine. Especially if you're busy 2. That's too little, if he cared then he would make more time for you 3. Are you sure this is a relationship? I don't know if it's a relationship. Maybe it is, but just an odd one. We will start working in a few months time, and our hometown is 4 hours away from each other. Matters are more complicated because my parents don't like the idea of me being in a relationship. (lol asians) Anyway, is it a problem? or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem? To be honest, I'm neutral as I'm not sure what I want. TL;DR:
I'm [f/19] not sure about my relationship. Is it a problem or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem?<|endoftext|>
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I'm confused about my relationship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We go to the same college, although he lives a little further away. We've been together for 2 years now but throughout our relationship - we only see each other 2-3 times a month. Can I call it a relationship? we both lack experience in this area as you can see. He is awful when it comes to making plans, and is a workaholic. but a majority of our relationship is spent on texting each other and when we meet, we always do the same thing. I have been getting mixed opinions; 1. If you're happy, that's fine. Especially if you're busy 2. That's too little, if he cared then he would make more time for you 3. Are you sure this is a relationship? I don't know if it's a relationship. Maybe it is, but just an odd one. We will start working in a few months time, and our hometown is 4 hours away from each other. Matters are more complicated because my parents don't like the idea of me being in a relationship. (lol asians) Anyway, is it a problem? or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem? To be honest, I'm neutral as I'm not sure what I want. TL;DR: I'm [f/19] not sure about my relationship. Is it a problem or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We go to the same college, although he lives a little further away. We've been together for 2 years now but throughout our relationship - we only see each other 2-3 times a month. Can I call it a relationship? we both lack experience in this area as you can see. He is awful when it comes to making plans, and is a workaholic. but a majority of our relationship is spent on texting each other and when we meet, we always do the same thing. I have been getting mixed opinions; 1. If you're happy, that's fine. Especially if you're busy 2. That's too little, if he cared then he would make more time for you 3. Are you sure this is a relationship? I don't know if it's a relationship. Maybe it is, but just an odd one. We will start working in a few months time, and our hometown is 4 hours away from each other. Matters are more complicated because my parents don't like the idea of me being in a relationship. (lol asians) Anyway, is it a problem? or is it only a problem if I view it as a problem? To be honest, I'm neutral as I'm not sure what I want. TL;DR: I'm confused about my relationship.<|endoftext|>
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So my wife and I split a few months ago and have filed for divorce. Since then, I have met a girl who I really like. We hung out with a group of friends and I thought we really hit it off. We have mutual friends and she knows my situation, and when I asked her if she would want to hang out again some time, she said she would, but that under the circumstances she thinks it's best we stay friends. I told her I appreciated her being direct with me and that I completely respect where she's coming from. Then I texted her saying I was thinking of getting the group together and asked if she wanted to join, but she never responded. I am a little bit concerned that I rushed to asking her on a date, since the time we had hung out and had a lot of fun was the same night I told that group of friends about my ex and I splitting, so obviously the subject was talked about some (nothing bad, we are on good terms, but I'm sure I was a little down/zoned out at some parts of the night). I wish I had waited until we hung out with a group again before asking her out, so she could see I was doing well and not talking about my ex. Am I permanently friend-zoned? It really did seem like we had some chemistry. I am also worried she might not come out with that group again to avoid anything awkward though. I have been tempted to text her again but I haven't. I assume her not responding means I should probably hold off. What should I do?
Girl I like wants us to stay friends since I was just divorced, what should I do?
Asked a girl on a date, she declined, is now friend-zoned.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my wife and I split a few months ago and have filed for divorce. Since then, I have met a girl who I really like. We hung out with a group of friends and I thought we really hit it off. We have mutual friends and she knows my situation, and when I asked her if she would want to hang out again some time, she said she would, but that under the circumstances she thinks it's best we stay friends. I told her I appreciated her being direct with me and that I completely respect where she's coming from. Then I texted her saying I was thinking of getting the group together and asked if she wanted to join, but she never responded. I am a little bit concerned that I rushed to asking her on a date, since the time we had hung out and had a lot of fun was the same night I told that group of friends about my ex and I splitting, so obviously the subject was talked about some (nothing bad, we are on good terms, but I'm sure I was a little down/zoned out at some parts of the night). I wish I had waited until we hung out with a group again before asking her out, so she could see I was doing well and not talking about my ex. Am I permanently friend-zoned? It really did seem like we had some chemistry. I am also worried she might not come out with that group again to avoid anything awkward though. I have been tempted to text her again but I haven't. I assume her not responding means I should probably hold off. What should I do? TL;DR:
Girl I like wants us to stay friends since I was just divorced, what should I do?<|endoftext|>
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Asked a girl on a date, she declined, is now friend-zoned.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my wife and I split a few months ago and have filed for divorce. Since then, I have met a girl who I really like. We hung out with a group of friends and I thought we really hit it off. We have mutual friends and she knows my situation, and when I asked her if she would want to hang out again some time, she said she would, but that under the circumstances she thinks it's best we stay friends. I told her I appreciated her being direct with me and that I completely respect where she's coming from. Then I texted her saying I was thinking of getting the group together and asked if she wanted to join, but she never responded. I am a little bit concerned that I rushed to asking her on a date, since the time we had hung out and had a lot of fun was the same night I told that group of friends about my ex and I splitting, so obviously the subject was talked about some (nothing bad, we are on good terms, but I'm sure I was a little down/zoned out at some parts of the night). I wish I had waited until we hung out with a group again before asking her out, so she could see I was doing well and not talking about my ex. Am I permanently friend-zoned? It really did seem like we had some chemistry. I am also worried she might not come out with that group again to avoid anything awkward though. I have been tempted to text her again but I haven't. I assume her not responding means I should probably hold off. What should I do? TL;DR: Girl I like wants us to stay friends since I was just divorced, what should I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my wife and I split a few months ago and have filed for divorce. Since then, I have met a girl who I really like. We hung out with a group of friends and I thought we really hit it off. We have mutual friends and she knows my situation, and when I asked her if she would want to hang out again some time, she said she would, but that under the circumstances she thinks it's best we stay friends. I told her I appreciated her being direct with me and that I completely respect where she's coming from. Then I texted her saying I was thinking of getting the group together and asked if she wanted to join, but she never responded. I am a little bit concerned that I rushed to asking her on a date, since the time we had hung out and had a lot of fun was the same night I told that group of friends about my ex and I splitting, so obviously the subject was talked about some (nothing bad, we are on good terms, but I'm sure I was a little down/zoned out at some parts of the night). I wish I had waited until we hung out with a group again before asking her out, so she could see I was doing well and not talking about my ex. Am I permanently friend-zoned? It really did seem like we had some chemistry. I am also worried she might not come out with that group again to avoid anything awkward though. I have been tempted to text her again but I haven't. I assume her not responding means I should probably hold off. What should I do? TL;DR: Asked a girl on a date, she declined, is now friend-zoned.<|endoftext|>
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I'm not really sure if this is the right place to ask for help but whatever, it might help me sort through my thoughts. I've never had a problem like this before. About a year ago, this friend Bob [m25] met up with me [f24] at a bar so we could catch up and chat. We were good friends back in high school but fell out of touch through out the years. I heard a rumor that he was dating my friend's sister, Julie. (We'll call the friend Amanda.) When I asked him about it, he went on a strange rant about how she broke up with him among other details I can't remember but couldn't really make sense of. The following weeks after I was told by Amanda that Bob raped Julie. As far as I know the police were not involved, hence no prosecution nor evidence collection. So it's really been reduced to his word against hers. I don't really know the full story, nor do I understand what really happened between the two. Now a year later, he wants to hang out and build up our friendship again. I don't want to continue the friendship because I feel as though it would show that I don't support Amanda and Julie and their family. BUT I don't want to have to say, "Look Bob, you're a rapist. I can't be seen with you." Since I don't know the whole story, I feel I would be the one "casting the first stone." I'm a terrible liar and I'm bad at confrontation. What can I say to him that indicates I won't hang out with him but won't stir up trouble? EDIT:
A friend of mine that I haven't spoken to in a while is a suspect of rape. I want to avoid him but don't want to come across as a "bad friend."
I'm a friend of a guy who claims to be dating my friend's sister. He's a rapist. I don't want to put him in my friend group, but I don't want to ruin the friendship.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm not really sure if this is the right place to ask for help but whatever, it might help me sort through my thoughts. I've never had a problem like this before. About a year ago, this friend Bob [m25] met up with me [f24] at a bar so we could catch up and chat. We were good friends back in high school but fell out of touch through out the years. I heard a rumor that he was dating my friend's sister, Julie. (We'll call the friend Amanda.) When I asked him about it, he went on a strange rant about how she broke up with him among other details I can't remember but couldn't really make sense of. The following weeks after I was told by Amanda that Bob raped Julie. As far as I know the police were not involved, hence no prosecution nor evidence collection. So it's really been reduced to his word against hers. I don't really know the full story, nor do I understand what really happened between the two. Now a year later, he wants to hang out and build up our friendship again. I don't want to continue the friendship because I feel as though it would show that I don't support Amanda and Julie and their family. BUT I don't want to have to say, "Look Bob, you're a rapist. I can't be seen with you." Since I don't know the whole story, I feel I would be the one "casting the first stone." I'm a terrible liar and I'm bad at confrontation. What can I say to him that indicates I won't hang out with him but won't stir up trouble? EDIT: TL;DR:
A friend of mine that I haven't spoken to in a while is a suspect of rape. I want to avoid him but don't want to come across as a "bad friend."<|endoftext|>
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I'm a friend of a guy who claims to be dating my friend's sister. He's a rapist. I don't want to put him in my friend group, but I don't want to ruin the friendship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm not really sure if this is the right place to ask for help but whatever, it might help me sort through my thoughts. I've never had a problem like this before. About a year ago, this friend Bob [m25] met up with me [f24] at a bar so we could catch up and chat. We were good friends back in high school but fell out of touch through out the years. I heard a rumor that he was dating my friend's sister, Julie. (We'll call the friend Amanda.) When I asked him about it, he went on a strange rant about how she broke up with him among other details I can't remember but couldn't really make sense of. The following weeks after I was told by Amanda that Bob raped Julie. As far as I know the police were not involved, hence no prosecution nor evidence collection. So it's really been reduced to his word against hers. I don't really know the full story, nor do I understand what really happened between the two. Now a year later, he wants to hang out and build up our friendship again. I don't want to continue the friendship because I feel as though it would show that I don't support Amanda and Julie and their family. BUT I don't want to have to say, "Look Bob, you're a rapist. I can't be seen with you." Since I don't know the whole story, I feel I would be the one "casting the first stone." I'm a terrible liar and I'm bad at confrontation. What can I say to him that indicates I won't hang out with him but won't stir up trouble? EDIT: TL;DR: A friend of mine that I haven't spoken to in a while is a suspect of rape. I want to avoid him but don't want to come across as a "bad friend."<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm not really sure if this is the right place to ask for help but whatever, it might help me sort through my thoughts. I've never had a problem like this before. About a year ago, this friend Bob [m25] met up with me [f24] at a bar so we could catch up and chat. We were good friends back in high school but fell out of touch through out the years. I heard a rumor that he was dating my friend's sister, Julie. (We'll call the friend Amanda.) When I asked him about it, he went on a strange rant about how she broke up with him among other details I can't remember but couldn't really make sense of. The following weeks after I was told by Amanda that Bob raped Julie. As far as I know the police were not involved, hence no prosecution nor evidence collection. So it's really been reduced to his word against hers. I don't really know the full story, nor do I understand what really happened between the two. Now a year later, he wants to hang out and build up our friendship again. I don't want to continue the friendship because I feel as though it would show that I don't support Amanda and Julie and their family. BUT I don't want to have to say, "Look Bob, you're a rapist. I can't be seen with you." Since I don't know the whole story, I feel I would be the one "casting the first stone." I'm a terrible liar and I'm bad at confrontation. What can I say to him that indicates I won't hang out with him but won't stir up trouble? EDIT: TL;DR: I'm a friend of a guy who claims to be dating my friend's sister. He's a rapist. I don't want to put him in my friend group, but I don't want to ruin the friendship.<|endoftext|>
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I've been with my BF for 5 months. For my birthday he got me a watch that is not my style at all. In fact, it is a similar watch to the one he wears, which is the complete opposite of my taste. It is manly and doesn't really go with any of my clothing/jewelry. Although I know he meant well, it feels as if he was shopping for himself, and not me. He's seen the clothes and jewelry I wear, so I wonder if he wasn't paying attention or just put it out of his mind to get me something that he thinks I should wear. I told him that I liked it and that it was very thoughtful, but I'm feeling anxious over the fact that it will probably sit in my jewelry box, unused. I'd much rather he use the money on something else. I'm worried that if I don't wear it, I'll come off as unappreciative. I don't mean to come off as whiny or selfish, but it's just kind of confusing to me. Do I eventually bring this up? If he asks, do I tell the truth? Help.
BF bought me a gift that is not my style. Unsure if I should express my guilt over it or just let it sit in my jewelry box unused. Opinions and suggestions greatly appreciated!
BF of 5 months bought me crappy gift that I don't wear/wanna wear that will sit in my jewelry box unused. Wondering if i should bring it up or keep quiet?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with my BF for 5 months. For my birthday he got me a watch that is not my style at all. In fact, it is a similar watch to the one he wears, which is the complete opposite of my taste. It is manly and doesn't really go with any of my clothing/jewelry. Although I know he meant well, it feels as if he was shopping for himself, and not me. He's seen the clothes and jewelry I wear, so I wonder if he wasn't paying attention or just put it out of his mind to get me something that he thinks I should wear. I told him that I liked it and that it was very thoughtful, but I'm feeling anxious over the fact that it will probably sit in my jewelry box, unused. I'd much rather he use the money on something else. I'm worried that if I don't wear it, I'll come off as unappreciative. I don't mean to come off as whiny or selfish, but it's just kind of confusing to me. Do I eventually bring this up? If he asks, do I tell the truth? Help. TL;DR:
BF bought me a gift that is not my style. Unsure if I should express my guilt over it or just let it sit in my jewelry box unused. Opinions and suggestions greatly appreciated!<|endoftext|>
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BF of 5 months bought me crappy gift that I don't wear/wanna wear that will sit in my jewelry box unused. Wondering if i should bring it up or keep quiet?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with my BF for 5 months. For my birthday he got me a watch that is not my style at all. In fact, it is a similar watch to the one he wears, which is the complete opposite of my taste. It is manly and doesn't really go with any of my clothing/jewelry. Although I know he meant well, it feels as if he was shopping for himself, and not me. He's seen the clothes and jewelry I wear, so I wonder if he wasn't paying attention or just put it out of his mind to get me something that he thinks I should wear. I told him that I liked it and that it was very thoughtful, but I'm feeling anxious over the fact that it will probably sit in my jewelry box, unused. I'd much rather he use the money on something else. I'm worried that if I don't wear it, I'll come off as unappreciative. I don't mean to come off as whiny or selfish, but it's just kind of confusing to me. Do I eventually bring this up? If he asks, do I tell the truth? Help. TL;DR: BF bought me a gift that is not my style. Unsure if I should express my guilt over it or just let it sit in my jewelry box unused. Opinions and suggestions greatly appreciated!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with my BF for 5 months. For my birthday he got me a watch that is not my style at all. In fact, it is a similar watch to the one he wears, which is the complete opposite of my taste. It is manly and doesn't really go with any of my clothing/jewelry. Although I know he meant well, it feels as if he was shopping for himself, and not me. He's seen the clothes and jewelry I wear, so I wonder if he wasn't paying attention or just put it out of his mind to get me something that he thinks I should wear. I told him that I liked it and that it was very thoughtful, but I'm feeling anxious over the fact that it will probably sit in my jewelry box, unused. I'd much rather he use the money on something else. I'm worried that if I don't wear it, I'll come off as unappreciative. I don't mean to come off as whiny or selfish, but it's just kind of confusing to me. Do I eventually bring this up? If he asks, do I tell the truth? Help. TL;DR: BF of 5 months bought me crappy gift that I don't wear/wanna wear that will sit in my jewelry box unused. Wondering if i should bring it up or keep quiet?<|endoftext|>
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Reddit, I come to you for advice. Below is a cliff notes version of a long complicated story: Essentially my best friend of 15 years (and roommate) tends to find herself in toxic emotionally abusive relationships as a result (I believe) of extremely low self-esteem and need to "fix" people. She is EXTREMELY sensitive, to the point of avoiding any and all conflict. The most recent man she has dated has an unstable personality and has extreme jealously issues, inability to cope when she is out of town without resorting to destructive behaviors, and relays a lot of guilt to her when she isn't with him. She has come to me several times venting hurt and frustrations with this situation and seeking advice. My mom works with victims of domestic abuse and ended up talking to her for a long time on signs of emotional abuse. She seemed receptive. This conversation led to what we were hoping for was a breakup, as she realized she needs some professional council herself. It turns out it was more of a quasi break up with "not wanting to hurt his feelings" and "I can't quit people" excuses. They are essentially still together. I'm frustrated and exhausted from this situation. She is an adult and will make her own decisions whether they are destructive or not. I'm hurting because I hate watching this unfold, and know I am powerless. What I need some advice on is how can I remove myself from this situation. What do I say/do when/if she comes to me? When he comes over to hang out? I get angry when I see him. Any honest advice is appreciated.
best friend is in a toxic relationship and won't leave her partner. They are both emotionally abused. How can I let this go? What do I say to her when he comes over?
My best friend is still in an emotionally abusive relationship. I'd like advice on how to let go of the anger and hurt, and not take it out on her.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Reddit, I come to you for advice. Below is a cliff notes version of a long complicated story: Essentially my best friend of 15 years (and roommate) tends to find herself in toxic emotionally abusive relationships as a result (I believe) of extremely low self-esteem and need to "fix" people. She is EXTREMELY sensitive, to the point of avoiding any and all conflict. The most recent man she has dated has an unstable personality and has extreme jealously issues, inability to cope when she is out of town without resorting to destructive behaviors, and relays a lot of guilt to her when she isn't with him. She has come to me several times venting hurt and frustrations with this situation and seeking advice. My mom works with victims of domestic abuse and ended up talking to her for a long time on signs of emotional abuse. She seemed receptive. This conversation led to what we were hoping for was a breakup, as she realized she needs some professional council herself. It turns out it was more of a quasi break up with "not wanting to hurt his feelings" and "I can't quit people" excuses. They are essentially still together. I'm frustrated and exhausted from this situation. She is an adult and will make her own decisions whether they are destructive or not. I'm hurting because I hate watching this unfold, and know I am powerless. What I need some advice on is how can I remove myself from this situation. What do I say/do when/if she comes to me? When he comes over to hang out? I get angry when I see him. Any honest advice is appreciated. TL;DR:
best friend is in a toxic relationship and won't leave her partner. They are both emotionally abused. How can I let this go? What do I say to her when he comes over?<|endoftext|>
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My best friend is still in an emotionally abusive relationship. I'd like advice on how to let go of the anger and hurt, and not take it out on her.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Reddit, I come to you for advice. Below is a cliff notes version of a long complicated story: Essentially my best friend of 15 years (and roommate) tends to find herself in toxic emotionally abusive relationships as a result (I believe) of extremely low self-esteem and need to "fix" people. She is EXTREMELY sensitive, to the point of avoiding any and all conflict. The most recent man she has dated has an unstable personality and has extreme jealously issues, inability to cope when she is out of town without resorting to destructive behaviors, and relays a lot of guilt to her when she isn't with him. She has come to me several times venting hurt and frustrations with this situation and seeking advice. My mom works with victims of domestic abuse and ended up talking to her for a long time on signs of emotional abuse. She seemed receptive. This conversation led to what we were hoping for was a breakup, as she realized she needs some professional council herself. It turns out it was more of a quasi break up with "not wanting to hurt his feelings" and "I can't quit people" excuses. They are essentially still together. I'm frustrated and exhausted from this situation. She is an adult and will make her own decisions whether they are destructive or not. I'm hurting because I hate watching this unfold, and know I am powerless. What I need some advice on is how can I remove myself from this situation. What do I say/do when/if she comes to me? When he comes over to hang out? I get angry when I see him. Any honest advice is appreciated. TL;DR: best friend is in a toxic relationship and won't leave her partner. They are both emotionally abused. How can I let this go? What do I say to her when he comes over?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Reddit, I come to you for advice. Below is a cliff notes version of a long complicated story: Essentially my best friend of 15 years (and roommate) tends to find herself in toxic emotionally abusive relationships as a result (I believe) of extremely low self-esteem and need to "fix" people. She is EXTREMELY sensitive, to the point of avoiding any and all conflict. The most recent man she has dated has an unstable personality and has extreme jealously issues, inability to cope when she is out of town without resorting to destructive behaviors, and relays a lot of guilt to her when she isn't with him. She has come to me several times venting hurt and frustrations with this situation and seeking advice. My mom works with victims of domestic abuse and ended up talking to her for a long time on signs of emotional abuse. She seemed receptive. This conversation led to what we were hoping for was a breakup, as she realized she needs some professional council herself. It turns out it was more of a quasi break up with "not wanting to hurt his feelings" and "I can't quit people" excuses. They are essentially still together. I'm frustrated and exhausted from this situation. She is an adult and will make her own decisions whether they are destructive or not. I'm hurting because I hate watching this unfold, and know I am powerless. What I need some advice on is how can I remove myself from this situation. What do I say/do when/if she comes to me? When he comes over to hang out? I get angry when I see him. Any honest advice is appreciated. TL;DR: My best friend is still in an emotionally abusive relationship. I'd like advice on how to let go of the anger and hurt, and not take it out on her.<|endoftext|>
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I'm pretty hopeless when it comes to judging when things are over. I get the feeling that my boyfriend of a few months has been trying to push me to end things with him because he doesn't have the balls to tell me he's just not that into me. For the most part I really like him, but he just keeps throwing road blocks at me and when I bring them up I get some stock "no baby, you've got it all wrong!" response. Recently he's been wanting "space"... he's the one making plans to do stuff with me, acting excited to do things with me if I ask him if he wants to do something, ditching out on me, contacting me, telling me he misses me, and as soon as I respond to him he acts like he's suffocating. .___.; I just want him to break it off if he hates me, rather than pushing it on to me when I still like him and I would like to spend time with him if he would also like to. But even though I leave a wide opening for him to tell me if something's up, he doesn't. He only communicates his issues if he thinks he's in trouble and he can use them as a jail free card. In my head I think "Maybe I'm just misjudging that he doesn't want to be around me and something else is up, so I should give him another chance, and another, just so long as he says he wants it to work." Everyone has their issues and I try to be understanding, and I'd rather not throw away a relationship with someone I like if there's something that can be fixed... But what can I do to find out if this is even resolvable?
I'm not sure if my bf has issues with me or if I'm just being crazy. What should I do?
boyfriend wants space, I want to call it quits, he won't let me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm pretty hopeless when it comes to judging when things are over. I get the feeling that my boyfriend of a few months has been trying to push me to end things with him because he doesn't have the balls to tell me he's just not that into me. For the most part I really like him, but he just keeps throwing road blocks at me and when I bring them up I get some stock "no baby, you've got it all wrong!" response. Recently he's been wanting "space"... he's the one making plans to do stuff with me, acting excited to do things with me if I ask him if he wants to do something, ditching out on me, contacting me, telling me he misses me, and as soon as I respond to him he acts like he's suffocating..___.; I just want him to break it off if he hates me, rather than pushing it on to me when I still like him and I would like to spend time with him if he would also like to. But even though I leave a wide opening for him to tell me if something's up, he doesn't. He only communicates his issues if he thinks he's in trouble and he can use them as a jail free card. In my head I think "Maybe I'm just misjudging that he doesn't want to be around me and something else is up, so I should give him another chance, and another, just so long as he says he wants it to work." Everyone has their issues and I try to be understanding, and I'd rather not throw away a relationship with someone I like if there's something that can be fixed... But what can I do to find out if this is even resolvable? TL;DR:
I'm not sure if my bf has issues with me or if I'm just being crazy. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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boyfriend wants space, I want to call it quits, he won't let me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm pretty hopeless when it comes to judging when things are over. I get the feeling that my boyfriend of a few months has been trying to push me to end things with him because he doesn't have the balls to tell me he's just not that into me. For the most part I really like him, but he just keeps throwing road blocks at me and when I bring them up I get some stock "no baby, you've got it all wrong!" response. Recently he's been wanting "space"... he's the one making plans to do stuff with me, acting excited to do things with me if I ask him if he wants to do something, ditching out on me, contacting me, telling me he misses me, and as soon as I respond to him he acts like he's suffocating..___.; I just want him to break it off if he hates me, rather than pushing it on to me when I still like him and I would like to spend time with him if he would also like to. But even though I leave a wide opening for him to tell me if something's up, he doesn't. He only communicates his issues if he thinks he's in trouble and he can use them as a jail free card. In my head I think "Maybe I'm just misjudging that he doesn't want to be around me and something else is up, so I should give him another chance, and another, just so long as he says he wants it to work." Everyone has their issues and I try to be understanding, and I'd rather not throw away a relationship with someone I like if there's something that can be fixed... But what can I do to find out if this is even resolvable? TL;DR: I'm not sure if my bf has issues with me or if I'm just being crazy. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm pretty hopeless when it comes to judging when things are over. I get the feeling that my boyfriend of a few months has been trying to push me to end things with him because he doesn't have the balls to tell me he's just not that into me. For the most part I really like him, but he just keeps throwing road blocks at me and when I bring them up I get some stock "no baby, you've got it all wrong!" response. Recently he's been wanting "space"... he's the one making plans to do stuff with me, acting excited to do things with me if I ask him if he wants to do something, ditching out on me, contacting me, telling me he misses me, and as soon as I respond to him he acts like he's suffocating..___.; I just want him to break it off if he hates me, rather than pushing it on to me when I still like him and I would like to spend time with him if he would also like to. But even though I leave a wide opening for him to tell me if something's up, he doesn't. He only communicates his issues if he thinks he's in trouble and he can use them as a jail free card. In my head I think "Maybe I'm just misjudging that he doesn't want to be around me and something else is up, so I should give him another chance, and another, just so long as he says he wants it to work." Everyone has their issues and I try to be understanding, and I'd rather not throw away a relationship with someone I like if there's something that can be fixed... But what can I do to find out if this is even resolvable? TL;DR: boyfriend wants space, I want to call it quits, he won't let me.<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend is 18 and I (female) am 17. We have been going out for 1 year and 10 months now. There have been so many ups and downs due to my boyfriend cheating on me. In total he has cheated on me 3 times. 1. In the beginning of our relationship he was constantly flirting with a girl from a different school. They were on and off for quite awhile. He never admitted to actually flirting with this girl until a little over a year in our relationship. 2. I was gone in the beginning of summer vacation for a week and he had a small fling with a girl from his church. They went on a date and I did not find out until the end of summer. 3. In the middle of summer I left vacation again for a whole month. He constantly went to parties. He made out with a girl from a year above at a party that included of all of my close friends. I know these aren't major cheatings compared to the other stories I read here but when this is your first serious relationship it really hurts. I had him either cut off all ties with all those girls or we're over. He chose me. I have so many trust issues with him due to being betrayed the first year and a half of our relationship. My family does not like him, even though they don't know about the cheating, so it makes a huge conflict of me going out with him. My mother always interferes with my relationship saying hurtful things about him. He honestly has changed in my eyes but I can't seem to forget about the things he did to me in the past. Any advice on overcoming horrible past experiences? Or the fact that I will never be able to look past it is a sign that we shouldn't be together. Ask any questions you'd like because I have not gone into great detail really. Thank you for reading.
my boyfriend has cheated multiple times on me. have trust issues due to past experiences and family dislikes. need advice to overcome it or end it.
boyfriend cheated on me 3 times in 1 year and 10 months, mother interferes with relationship to the point of ruining it, need advice on past experiences to overcome terrible treatment.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend is 18 and I (female) am 17. We have been going out for 1 year and 10 months now. There have been so many ups and downs due to my boyfriend cheating on me. In total he has cheated on me 3 times. 1. In the beginning of our relationship he was constantly flirting with a girl from a different school. They were on and off for quite awhile. He never admitted to actually flirting with this girl until a little over a year in our relationship. 2. I was gone in the beginning of summer vacation for a week and he had a small fling with a girl from his church. They went on a date and I did not find out until the end of summer. 3. In the middle of summer I left vacation again for a whole month. He constantly went to parties. He made out with a girl from a year above at a party that included of all of my close friends. I know these aren't major cheatings compared to the other stories I read here but when this is your first serious relationship it really hurts. I had him either cut off all ties with all those girls or we're over. He chose me. I have so many trust issues with him due to being betrayed the first year and a half of our relationship. My family does not like him, even though they don't know about the cheating, so it makes a huge conflict of me going out with him. My mother always interferes with my relationship saying hurtful things about him. He honestly has changed in my eyes but I can't seem to forget about the things he did to me in the past. Any advice on overcoming horrible past experiences? Or the fact that I will never be able to look past it is a sign that we shouldn't be together. Ask any questions you'd like because I have not gone into great detail really. Thank you for reading. TL;DR:
my boyfriend has cheated multiple times on me. have trust issues due to past experiences and family dislikes. need advice to overcome it or end it.<|endoftext|>
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boyfriend cheated on me 3 times in 1 year and 10 months, mother interferes with relationship to the point of ruining it, need advice on past experiences to overcome terrible treatment.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend is 18 and I (female) am 17. We have been going out for 1 year and 10 months now. There have been so many ups and downs due to my boyfriend cheating on me. In total he has cheated on me 3 times. 1. In the beginning of our relationship he was constantly flirting with a girl from a different school. They were on and off for quite awhile. He never admitted to actually flirting with this girl until a little over a year in our relationship. 2. I was gone in the beginning of summer vacation for a week and he had a small fling with a girl from his church. They went on a date and I did not find out until the end of summer. 3. In the middle of summer I left vacation again for a whole month. He constantly went to parties. He made out with a girl from a year above at a party that included of all of my close friends. I know these aren't major cheatings compared to the other stories I read here but when this is your first serious relationship it really hurts. I had him either cut off all ties with all those girls or we're over. He chose me. I have so many trust issues with him due to being betrayed the first year and a half of our relationship. My family does not like him, even though they don't know about the cheating, so it makes a huge conflict of me going out with him. My mother always interferes with my relationship saying hurtful things about him. He honestly has changed in my eyes but I can't seem to forget about the things he did to me in the past. Any advice on overcoming horrible past experiences? Or the fact that I will never be able to look past it is a sign that we shouldn't be together. Ask any questions you'd like because I have not gone into great detail really. Thank you for reading. TL;DR: my boyfriend has cheated multiple times on me. have trust issues due to past experiences and family dislikes. need advice to overcome it or end it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend is 18 and I (female) am 17. We have been going out for 1 year and 10 months now. There have been so many ups and downs due to my boyfriend cheating on me. In total he has cheated on me 3 times. 1. In the beginning of our relationship he was constantly flirting with a girl from a different school. They were on and off for quite awhile. He never admitted to actually flirting with this girl until a little over a year in our relationship. 2. I was gone in the beginning of summer vacation for a week and he had a small fling with a girl from his church. They went on a date and I did not find out until the end of summer. 3. In the middle of summer I left vacation again for a whole month. He constantly went to parties. He made out with a girl from a year above at a party that included of all of my close friends. I know these aren't major cheatings compared to the other stories I read here but when this is your first serious relationship it really hurts. I had him either cut off all ties with all those girls or we're over. He chose me. I have so many trust issues with him due to being betrayed the first year and a half of our relationship. My family does not like him, even though they don't know about the cheating, so it makes a huge conflict of me going out with him. My mother always interferes with my relationship saying hurtful things about him. He honestly has changed in my eyes but I can't seem to forget about the things he did to me in the past. Any advice on overcoming horrible past experiences? Or the fact that I will never be able to look past it is a sign that we shouldn't be together. Ask any questions you'd like because I have not gone into great detail really. Thank you for reading. TL;DR: boyfriend cheated on me 3 times in 1 year and 10 months, mother interferes with relationship to the point of ruining it, need advice on past experiences to overcome terrible treatment.<|endoftext|>
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I have known you for a couple years now and yes we are friends but honestly you just really piss me off sometimes. What really annoys me the most is the fact that you are 26 years old, still living at home with mom and stepdad, been working at the same job for 9+ years...(food lion), always bitch and complain about your mom and job, never been on a date/had your first kiss/or have a boyfriend. Seriously, grow the fuck up. I'm tired of your shit. Want to know why your mom is always bitching you out? Because you don't do shit but spend all your money on books and movies. Maybe, if you got your lazy ass up and started looking for better jobs then you could move out and not listen to her bullshit. I'm sick of hearing, "I wish I had a boyfriend"...well dumb bitch maybe if you took 5 min out of your day to actually groom yourself and shave that stache you could have someone. Why do you think the three of us don't like hanging out with you all the time? Because it's the same shit different day. Also, I understand that you're going to be unemployed in a month but that does NOT give you the right to take it out on me...and only me. All I have done was to help you find a better job, helped you with your resume. You decided to be a complete bitch and be ungrateful that YOU have friends willing to help you. How fucking irritating. Maybe you should take my advice and listen. OH WAIT, you won't because apparently it's too difficult for you to comprehend what I say. I just feel like you take our friendship for granted and you're just not grateful for anything that I try to help you with. I do makeovers for you, tell you about new job postings, take you out with me to meet people etc. and all you can do is complain how tired you are and how you don't feel like "being there."
I'm sick of your bullshit. I'm tired of your complaining. I've done my best to help you with your career and now I'm wondering why you just bitch about everything to everyone.
you take my friendship for granted and you're just not grateful for anything I try to help you with. How fucking annoying...
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have known you for a couple years now and yes we are friends but honestly you just really piss me off sometimes. What really annoys me the most is the fact that you are 26 years old, still living at home with mom and stepdad, been working at the same job for 9+ years...(food lion), always bitch and complain about your mom and job, never been on a date/had your first kiss/or have a boyfriend. Seriously, grow the fuck up. I'm tired of your shit. Want to know why your mom is always bitching you out? Because you don't do shit but spend all your money on books and movies. Maybe, if you got your lazy ass up and started looking for better jobs then you could move out and not listen to her bullshit. I'm sick of hearing, "I wish I had a boyfriend"...well dumb bitch maybe if you took 5 min out of your day to actually groom yourself and shave that stache you could have someone. Why do you think the three of us don't like hanging out with you all the time? Because it's the same shit different day. Also, I understand that you're going to be unemployed in a month but that does NOT give you the right to take it out on me...and only me. All I have done was to help you find a better job, helped you with your resume. You decided to be a complete bitch and be ungrateful that YOU have friends willing to help you. How fucking irritating. Maybe you should take my advice and listen. OH WAIT, you won't because apparently it's too difficult for you to comprehend what I say. I just feel like you take our friendship for granted and you're just not grateful for anything that I try to help you with. I do makeovers for you, tell you about new job postings, take you out with me to meet people etc. and all you can do is complain how tired you are and how you don't feel like "being there." TL;DR:
I'm sick of your bullshit. I'm tired of your complaining. I've done my best to help you with your career and now I'm wondering why you just bitch about everything to everyone.<|endoftext|>
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you take my friendship for granted and you're just not grateful for anything I try to help you with. How fucking annoying...<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have known you for a couple years now and yes we are friends but honestly you just really piss me off sometimes. What really annoys me the most is the fact that you are 26 years old, still living at home with mom and stepdad, been working at the same job for 9+ years...(food lion), always bitch and complain about your mom and job, never been on a date/had your first kiss/or have a boyfriend. Seriously, grow the fuck up. I'm tired of your shit. Want to know why your mom is always bitching you out? Because you don't do shit but spend all your money on books and movies. Maybe, if you got your lazy ass up and started looking for better jobs then you could move out and not listen to her bullshit. I'm sick of hearing, "I wish I had a boyfriend"...well dumb bitch maybe if you took 5 min out of your day to actually groom yourself and shave that stache you could have someone. Why do you think the three of us don't like hanging out with you all the time? Because it's the same shit different day. Also, I understand that you're going to be unemployed in a month but that does NOT give you the right to take it out on me...and only me. All I have done was to help you find a better job, helped you with your resume. You decided to be a complete bitch and be ungrateful that YOU have friends willing to help you. How fucking irritating. Maybe you should take my advice and listen. OH WAIT, you won't because apparently it's too difficult for you to comprehend what I say. I just feel like you take our friendship for granted and you're just not grateful for anything that I try to help you with. I do makeovers for you, tell you about new job postings, take you out with me to meet people etc. and all you can do is complain how tired you are and how you don't feel like "being there." TL;DR: I'm sick of your bullshit. I'm tired of your complaining. I've done my best to help you with your career and now I'm wondering why you just bitch about everything to everyone.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have known you for a couple years now and yes we are friends but honestly you just really piss me off sometimes. What really annoys me the most is the fact that you are 26 years old, still living at home with mom and stepdad, been working at the same job for 9+ years...(food lion), always bitch and complain about your mom and job, never been on a date/had your first kiss/or have a boyfriend. Seriously, grow the fuck up. I'm tired of your shit. Want to know why your mom is always bitching you out? Because you don't do shit but spend all your money on books and movies. Maybe, if you got your lazy ass up and started looking for better jobs then you could move out and not listen to her bullshit. I'm sick of hearing, "I wish I had a boyfriend"...well dumb bitch maybe if you took 5 min out of your day to actually groom yourself and shave that stache you could have someone. Why do you think the three of us don't like hanging out with you all the time? Because it's the same shit different day. Also, I understand that you're going to be unemployed in a month but that does NOT give you the right to take it out on me...and only me. All I have done was to help you find a better job, helped you with your resume. You decided to be a complete bitch and be ungrateful that YOU have friends willing to help you. How fucking irritating. Maybe you should take my advice and listen. OH WAIT, you won't because apparently it's too difficult for you to comprehend what I say. I just feel like you take our friendship for granted and you're just not grateful for anything that I try to help you with. I do makeovers for you, tell you about new job postings, take you out with me to meet people etc. and all you can do is complain how tired you are and how you don't feel like "being there." TL;DR: you take my friendship for granted and you're just not grateful for anything I try to help you with. How fucking annoying...<|endoftext|>
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Before the accusations of censorship go any further, we all have to acknowledge that downvotes are not the same thing as suppression of speech. Everything that was said in the AMA is still there, you can look it up and read it all you want. You may have to open some comments to be able to see them, but you *will* see them. No one has removed, blocked or otherwise prevented you from seeing them, and unless Coulter deletes them herself, they will remain there as long as Reddit exists. *"But they downvoted her to oblivion!"* Yes they did, and by doing so stated clearly and decisively that a platform for her to get more attention was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion. The only thing she was deprived of was a spot on the frontpage. *"So if you disagree with someone they should just be downvoted?"* The fact that people disagree with her, and the fact that she did not contribute to the community discussion, are not mutually exclusive. I disagree with a lot of things Dick Cheney says, but I would upvote an AMA because that contributes something new to the community. All Ann Coulture had to offer was sarcasm, derision, and political sensationalism. I'm sure it's true that people went into the AMA knowing that, and it's very likely most of the downvotes came without even giving the AMA a chance, but that doesn't mean they were wrong. Coulter has built fame on the reputation of being hostile, divisive, and disrespectful, and Reddit decided that didn't deserve a featured spot on the front page. *"But Reddiquette..."* Reddiquette was followed, this is what it looks like on a large scale.
Her presence was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion, so she was downvoted
Ann Coulter's AMA was censored, not censored by the community
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Before the accusations of censorship go any further, we all have to acknowledge that downvotes are not the same thing as suppression of speech. Everything that was said in the AMA is still there, you can look it up and read it all you want. You may have to open some comments to be able to see them, but you *will* see them. No one has removed, blocked or otherwise prevented you from seeing them, and unless Coulter deletes them herself, they will remain there as long as Reddit exists. *"But they downvoted her to oblivion!"* Yes they did, and by doing so stated clearly and decisively that a platform for her to get more attention was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion. The only thing she was deprived of was a spot on the frontpage. *"So if you disagree with someone they should just be downvoted?"* The fact that people disagree with her, and the fact that she did not contribute to the community discussion, are not mutually exclusive. I disagree with a lot of things Dick Cheney says, but I would upvote an AMA because that contributes something new to the community. All Ann Coulture had to offer was sarcasm, derision, and political sensationalism. I'm sure it's true that people went into the AMA knowing that, and it's very likely most of the downvotes came without even giving the AMA a chance, but that doesn't mean they were wrong. Coulter has built fame on the reputation of being hostile, divisive, and disrespectful, and Reddit decided that didn't deserve a featured spot on the front page. *"But Reddiquette..."* Reddiquette was followed, this is what it looks like on a large scale. TL;DR:
Her presence was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion, so she was downvoted<|endoftext|>
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Ann Coulter's AMA was censored, not censored by the community<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Before the accusations of censorship go any further, we all have to acknowledge that downvotes are not the same thing as suppression of speech. Everything that was said in the AMA is still there, you can look it up and read it all you want. You may have to open some comments to be able to see them, but you *will* see them. No one has removed, blocked or otherwise prevented you from seeing them, and unless Coulter deletes them herself, they will remain there as long as Reddit exists. *"But they downvoted her to oblivion!"* Yes they did, and by doing so stated clearly and decisively that a platform for her to get more attention was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion. The only thing she was deprived of was a spot on the frontpage. *"So if you disagree with someone they should just be downvoted?"* The fact that people disagree with her, and the fact that she did not contribute to the community discussion, are not mutually exclusive. I disagree with a lot of things Dick Cheney says, but I would upvote an AMA because that contributes something new to the community. All Ann Coulture had to offer was sarcasm, derision, and political sensationalism. I'm sure it's true that people went into the AMA knowing that, and it's very likely most of the downvotes came without even giving the AMA a chance, but that doesn't mean they were wrong. Coulter has built fame on the reputation of being hostile, divisive, and disrespectful, and Reddit decided that didn't deserve a featured spot on the front page. *"But Reddiquette..."* Reddiquette was followed, this is what it looks like on a large scale. TL;DR: Her presence was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion, so she was downvoted<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Before the accusations of censorship go any further, we all have to acknowledge that downvotes are not the same thing as suppression of speech. Everything that was said in the AMA is still there, you can look it up and read it all you want. You may have to open some comments to be able to see them, but you *will* see them. No one has removed, blocked or otherwise prevented you from seeing them, and unless Coulter deletes them herself, they will remain there as long as Reddit exists. *"But they downvoted her to oblivion!"* Yes they did, and by doing so stated clearly and decisively that a platform for her to get more attention was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion. The only thing she was deprived of was a spot on the frontpage. *"So if you disagree with someone they should just be downvoted?"* The fact that people disagree with her, and the fact that she did not contribute to the community discussion, are not mutually exclusive. I disagree with a lot of things Dick Cheney says, but I would upvote an AMA because that contributes something new to the community. All Ann Coulture had to offer was sarcasm, derision, and political sensationalism. I'm sure it's true that people went into the AMA knowing that, and it's very likely most of the downvotes came without even giving the AMA a chance, but that doesn't mean they were wrong. Coulter has built fame on the reputation of being hostile, divisive, and disrespectful, and Reddit decided that didn't deserve a featured spot on the front page. *"But Reddiquette..."* Reddiquette was followed, this is what it looks like on a large scale. TL;DR: Ann Coulter's AMA was censored, not censored by the community<|endoftext|>
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Hello, long time lurker that's in a bit of a bind. I just filed my taxes and am getting (to me) a decent chunk of change back ~$700. My question that needs your help is what to throw it on. Here's my background. Pros: -I'm 25 with a bachelor's of ed in a hard to acquire a job content area. Music. -I work 2 part time seasonal positions that hours vary on weather and holidays. -One is decent pay ~12.25/ hour, (follows school hours and calendar) -the other is minimum wage~8.10/hour (tourist season outdoorsy job) -However both jobs are hour restrictive and if it's a peak season ( April to september) I can get 60 hours a week. If not... I'm averaging around 40 or so (rough patch of fickle weather lately). Average monthly income after tax: $300-550 Cons: -I have $45k in student Loans :( currently in on IBR which is $200/month -I have $1,400 in credit card debt -I have a rust bucket of bolts on wheels that I consider my car. Over 15 years old 155k and barely still going. Desperately needs replaced -Average monthly bills(gas, food, insurance etc. Parents pay for the roof over my head and thats it) $250+$200 in loans=$450 Other: I plan on going back to school this fall to add on an additional certificate to finally get the big kid job my bachelor's should have gotten me (music education. Bad choice I know but I can't change it now). I also have $0 emergency fund or savings. As my car and recent injury (clumsy me sprained my thumb) wiped it out. Help me please oh wise people of Reddit as to where to place my glimpse of cash so it will be best used and not wasted. Edit: I apolgize for funky first time mobile posting prolems in advance.
$700 and no emergency fund or savings to spare. Where to put it. $450 in loans. $45k in student loans.
$700 in taxes, $150 in credit card debt, $450 in car debt. Need to find $700 in savings.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, long time lurker that's in a bit of a bind. I just filed my taxes and am getting (to me) a decent chunk of change back ~$700. My question that needs your help is what to throw it on. Here's my background. Pros: -I'm 25 with a bachelor's of ed in a hard to acquire a job content area. Music. -I work 2 part time seasonal positions that hours vary on weather and holidays. -One is decent pay ~12.25/ hour, (follows school hours and calendar) -the other is minimum wage~8.10/hour (tourist season outdoorsy job) -However both jobs are hour restrictive and if it's a peak season ( April to september) I can get 60 hours a week. If not... I'm averaging around 40 or so (rough patch of fickle weather lately). Average monthly income after tax: $300-550 Cons: -I have $45k in student Loans :( currently in on IBR which is $200/month -I have $1,400 in credit card debt -I have a rust bucket of bolts on wheels that I consider my car. Over 15 years old 155k and barely still going. Desperately needs replaced -Average monthly bills(gas, food, insurance etc. Parents pay for the roof over my head and thats it) $250+$200 in loans=$450 Other: I plan on going back to school this fall to add on an additional certificate to finally get the big kid job my bachelor's should have gotten me (music education. Bad choice I know but I can't change it now). I also have $0 emergency fund or savings. As my car and recent injury (clumsy me sprained my thumb) wiped it out. Help me please oh wise people of Reddit as to where to place my glimpse of cash so it will be best used and not wasted. Edit: I apolgize for funky first time mobile posting prolems in advance. TL;DR:
$700 and no emergency fund or savings to spare. Where to put it. $450 in loans. $45k in student loans.<|endoftext|>
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$700 in taxes, $150 in credit card debt, $450 in car debt. Need to find $700 in savings.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, long time lurker that's in a bit of a bind. I just filed my taxes and am getting (to me) a decent chunk of change back ~$700. My question that needs your help is what to throw it on. Here's my background. Pros: -I'm 25 with a bachelor's of ed in a hard to acquire a job content area. Music. -I work 2 part time seasonal positions that hours vary on weather and holidays. -One is decent pay ~12.25/ hour, (follows school hours and calendar) -the other is minimum wage~8.10/hour (tourist season outdoorsy job) -However both jobs are hour restrictive and if it's a peak season ( April to september) I can get 60 hours a week. If not... I'm averaging around 40 or so (rough patch of fickle weather lately). Average monthly income after tax: $300-550 Cons: -I have $45k in student Loans :( currently in on IBR which is $200/month -I have $1,400 in credit card debt -I have a rust bucket of bolts on wheels that I consider my car. Over 15 years old 155k and barely still going. Desperately needs replaced -Average monthly bills(gas, food, insurance etc. Parents pay for the roof over my head and thats it) $250+$200 in loans=$450 Other: I plan on going back to school this fall to add on an additional certificate to finally get the big kid job my bachelor's should have gotten me (music education. Bad choice I know but I can't change it now). I also have $0 emergency fund or savings. As my car and recent injury (clumsy me sprained my thumb) wiped it out. Help me please oh wise people of Reddit as to where to place my glimpse of cash so it will be best used and not wasted. Edit: I apolgize for funky first time mobile posting prolems in advance. TL;DR: $700 and no emergency fund or savings to spare. Where to put it. $450 in loans. $45k in student loans.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, long time lurker that's in a bit of a bind. I just filed my taxes and am getting (to me) a decent chunk of change back ~$700. My question that needs your help is what to throw it on. Here's my background. Pros: -I'm 25 with a bachelor's of ed in a hard to acquire a job content area. Music. -I work 2 part time seasonal positions that hours vary on weather and holidays. -One is decent pay ~12.25/ hour, (follows school hours and calendar) -the other is minimum wage~8.10/hour (tourist season outdoorsy job) -However both jobs are hour restrictive and if it's a peak season ( April to september) I can get 60 hours a week. If not... I'm averaging around 40 or so (rough patch of fickle weather lately). Average monthly income after tax: $300-550 Cons: -I have $45k in student Loans :( currently in on IBR which is $200/month -I have $1,400 in credit card debt -I have a rust bucket of bolts on wheels that I consider my car. Over 15 years old 155k and barely still going. Desperately needs replaced -Average monthly bills(gas, food, insurance etc. Parents pay for the roof over my head and thats it) $250+$200 in loans=$450 Other: I plan on going back to school this fall to add on an additional certificate to finally get the big kid job my bachelor's should have gotten me (music education. Bad choice I know but I can't change it now). I also have $0 emergency fund or savings. As my car and recent injury (clumsy me sprained my thumb) wiped it out. Help me please oh wise people of Reddit as to where to place my glimpse of cash so it will be best used and not wasted. Edit: I apolgize for funky first time mobile posting prolems in advance. TL;DR: $700 in taxes, $150 in credit card debt, $450 in car debt. Need to find $700 in savings.<|endoftext|>
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I want to know if I can file harassment charges against someone. They've repeatedly stopped by my work, after being asked not to come. Unwanted physical advancements, which I've repeatedly denied. I've told her straight away that I didn't want any sort of relationship, and she's continues to physically touch and try to kiss me. (note: i've never even held hands with her. This is not a hit it and quit it scenario.) She's left me at least 100 documented text messages with verbal abuse and slander. But the most frustrating are messages she continues to leave on my social media channels. I've blocked her from Facebook, Instagram and my cellphone. Then she found my tumblr, and started sending anonymous messages. I called her out on it several times and told her to leave me alone. It continued, so I blocked access to questions on my tumblr. She found another blog I run, and started messaging me there. They are all anonymous, but I know they are from her. I haven't seen her at my house, though that's not to say she hasn't showed up. She knows what car I drive and we share a few mutual friends, much to my distaste. She's continued this after i've told her over and over again to leave me alone. I'm legitimately concerned that i'm going to wake up to slashed tires one morning, though of course I wouldn't be able to prove that was her, either. So, what can I do about this? If anything?
girl continues to escalate unwanted advances against me, despite repeated warnings. Can I file harassment charges against her? What do?
What can I do about a lawyer who has been harassing me, including trying to make advances and leaving anonymous messages via social media, if she won't leave me alone?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I want to know if I can file harassment charges against someone. They've repeatedly stopped by my work, after being asked not to come. Unwanted physical advancements, which I've repeatedly denied. I've told her straight away that I didn't want any sort of relationship, and she's continues to physically touch and try to kiss me. (note: i've never even held hands with her. This is not a hit it and quit it scenario.) She's left me at least 100 documented text messages with verbal abuse and slander. But the most frustrating are messages she continues to leave on my social media channels. I've blocked her from Facebook, Instagram and my cellphone. Then she found my tumblr, and started sending anonymous messages. I called her out on it several times and told her to leave me alone. It continued, so I blocked access to questions on my tumblr. She found another blog I run, and started messaging me there. They are all anonymous, but I know they are from her. I haven't seen her at my house, though that's not to say she hasn't showed up. She knows what car I drive and we share a few mutual friends, much to my distaste. She's continued this after i've told her over and over again to leave me alone. I'm legitimately concerned that i'm going to wake up to slashed tires one morning, though of course I wouldn't be able to prove that was her, either. So, what can I do about this? If anything? TL;DR:
girl continues to escalate unwanted advances against me, despite repeated warnings. Can I file harassment charges against her? What do?<|endoftext|>
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What can I do about a lawyer who has been harassing me, including trying to make advances and leaving anonymous messages via social media, if she won't leave me alone?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I want to know if I can file harassment charges against someone. They've repeatedly stopped by my work, after being asked not to come. Unwanted physical advancements, which I've repeatedly denied. I've told her straight away that I didn't want any sort of relationship, and she's continues to physically touch and try to kiss me. (note: i've never even held hands with her. This is not a hit it and quit it scenario.) She's left me at least 100 documented text messages with verbal abuse and slander. But the most frustrating are messages she continues to leave on my social media channels. I've blocked her from Facebook, Instagram and my cellphone. Then she found my tumblr, and started sending anonymous messages. I called her out on it several times and told her to leave me alone. It continued, so I blocked access to questions on my tumblr. She found another blog I run, and started messaging me there. They are all anonymous, but I know they are from her. I haven't seen her at my house, though that's not to say she hasn't showed up. She knows what car I drive and we share a few mutual friends, much to my distaste. She's continued this after i've told her over and over again to leave me alone. I'm legitimately concerned that i'm going to wake up to slashed tires one morning, though of course I wouldn't be able to prove that was her, either. So, what can I do about this? If anything? TL;DR: girl continues to escalate unwanted advances against me, despite repeated warnings. Can I file harassment charges against her? What do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I want to know if I can file harassment charges against someone. They've repeatedly stopped by my work, after being asked not to come. Unwanted physical advancements, which I've repeatedly denied. I've told her straight away that I didn't want any sort of relationship, and she's continues to physically touch and try to kiss me. (note: i've never even held hands with her. This is not a hit it and quit it scenario.) She's left me at least 100 documented text messages with verbal abuse and slander. But the most frustrating are messages she continues to leave on my social media channels. I've blocked her from Facebook, Instagram and my cellphone. Then she found my tumblr, and started sending anonymous messages. I called her out on it several times and told her to leave me alone. It continued, so I blocked access to questions on my tumblr. She found another blog I run, and started messaging me there. They are all anonymous, but I know they are from her. I haven't seen her at my house, though that's not to say she hasn't showed up. She knows what car I drive and we share a few mutual friends, much to my distaste. She's continued this after i've told her over and over again to leave me alone. I'm legitimately concerned that i'm going to wake up to slashed tires one morning, though of course I wouldn't be able to prove that was her, either. So, what can I do about this? If anything? TL;DR: What can I do about a lawyer who has been harassing me, including trying to make advances and leaving anonymous messages via social media, if she won't leave me alone?<|endoftext|>
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I am a 22 year old male living with my folks at home. Pretty average upbringing from both of them, but even though beer is constantly (but always responsibly) been a part of our house since I've been born, hard liquor and cocktails and such usually aren't approached, they arent taboo or anything, but almost nervously avoided. My dad has a stash that we all know of but he grew up being a bartender in New Orleans in the 70s so "the good times" are practically embedded in his DNA, on the other hand my mother was raised in the woods and down home parts of Kingsport Tennessee, around Bible Belt ethics, and Moonshine. Likewise she knows it's bound to be part of life, but I don't think she likes it.
I am 22 years old and live with my parents, they are adults, and I am curious as to whether they would like it if I brought up the subject of liquor with them.
If I bring up the fact that I have a stash under my bed, what kind of effect will that have on my family?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am a 22 year old male living with my folks at home. Pretty average upbringing from both of them, but even though beer is constantly (but always responsibly) been a part of our house since I've been born, hard liquor and cocktails and such usually aren't approached, they arent taboo or anything, but almost nervously avoided. My dad has a stash that we all know of but he grew up being a bartender in New Orleans in the 70s so "the good times" are practically embedded in his DNA, on the other hand my mother was raised in the woods and down home parts of Kingsport Tennessee, around Bible Belt ethics, and Moonshine. Likewise she knows it's bound to be part of life, but I don't think she likes it. TL;DR:
I am 22 years old and live with my parents, they are adults, and I am curious as to whether they would like it if I brought up the subject of liquor with them.<|endoftext|>
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If I bring up the fact that I have a stash under my bed, what kind of effect will that have on my family?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am a 22 year old male living with my folks at home. Pretty average upbringing from both of them, but even though beer is constantly (but always responsibly) been a part of our house since I've been born, hard liquor and cocktails and such usually aren't approached, they arent taboo or anything, but almost nervously avoided. My dad has a stash that we all know of but he grew up being a bartender in New Orleans in the 70s so "the good times" are practically embedded in his DNA, on the other hand my mother was raised in the woods and down home parts of Kingsport Tennessee, around Bible Belt ethics, and Moonshine. Likewise she knows it's bound to be part of life, but I don't think she likes it. TL;DR: I am 22 years old and live with my parents, they are adults, and I am curious as to whether they would like it if I brought up the subject of liquor with them.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am a 22 year old male living with my folks at home. Pretty average upbringing from both of them, but even though beer is constantly (but always responsibly) been a part of our house since I've been born, hard liquor and cocktails and such usually aren't approached, they arent taboo or anything, but almost nervously avoided. My dad has a stash that we all know of but he grew up being a bartender in New Orleans in the 70s so "the good times" are practically embedded in his DNA, on the other hand my mother was raised in the woods and down home parts of Kingsport Tennessee, around Bible Belt ethics, and Moonshine. Likewise she knows it's bound to be part of life, but I don't think she likes it. TL;DR: If I bring up the fact that I have a stash under my bed, what kind of effect will that have on my family?<|endoftext|>
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So a few family members and myself like to spend some time once a week bonding by playing xbox together online. Since we all live in different places my brother, sister, dad, and I usually get on and play Halo. After a few years of playing the various Halo games I am tired of them and finally last night decided to be done with it. I am wondering what you all think the best coop game for us to play together would be. Keeping in mind some reasons Halo was the family favorite were because the 4 of us could play as a single team together, the enemies were easy to see and identify (good for the older gamers), and it was relatively fast paced. We all agreed to try and find a new game to get into and are open to other game types than first person shooters, although I think thats still going to be our favorite genre. I have been looking at "Brink" which is coming out next week as a possibility. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Family of 4 playing xbox together, looking for a coop game to play with them.
Looking for a fun game that is easy to play with family and good for multiplayer.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a few family members and myself like to spend some time once a week bonding by playing xbox together online. Since we all live in different places my brother, sister, dad, and I usually get on and play Halo. After a few years of playing the various Halo games I am tired of them and finally last night decided to be done with it. I am wondering what you all think the best coop game for us to play together would be. Keeping in mind some reasons Halo was the family favorite were because the 4 of us could play as a single team together, the enemies were easy to see and identify (good for the older gamers), and it was relatively fast paced. We all agreed to try and find a new game to get into and are open to other game types than first person shooters, although I think thats still going to be our favorite genre. I have been looking at "Brink" which is coming out next week as a possibility. Any suggestions would be appreciated. TL;DR:
Family of 4 playing xbox together, looking for a coop game to play with them.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a few family members and myself like to spend some time once a week bonding by playing xbox together online. Since we all live in different places my brother, sister, dad, and I usually get on and play Halo. After a few years of playing the various Halo games I am tired of them and finally last night decided to be done with it. I am wondering what you all think the best coop game for us to play together would be. Keeping in mind some reasons Halo was the family favorite were because the 4 of us could play as a single team together, the enemies were easy to see and identify (good for the older gamers), and it was relatively fast paced. We all agreed to try and find a new game to get into and are open to other game types than first person shooters, although I think thats still going to be our favorite genre. I have been looking at "Brink" which is coming out next week as a possibility. Any suggestions would be appreciated. TL;DR: Family of 4 playing xbox together, looking for a coop game to play with them.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a few family members and myself like to spend some time once a week bonding by playing xbox together online. Since we all live in different places my brother, sister, dad, and I usually get on and play Halo. After a few years of playing the various Halo games I am tired of them and finally last night decided to be done with it. I am wondering what you all think the best coop game for us to play together would be. Keeping in mind some reasons Halo was the family favorite were because the 4 of us could play as a single team together, the enemies were easy to see and identify (good for the older gamers), and it was relatively fast paced. We all agreed to try and find a new game to get into and are open to other game types than first person shooters, although I think thats still going to be our favorite genre. I have been looking at "Brink" which is coming out next week as a possibility. Any suggestions would be appreciated. TL;DR: Looking for a fun game that is easy to play with family and good for multiplayer.<|endoftext|>
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So I (24f) had a cheating ex (23m), we were together about 6 months, and I finally told him he needed to leave me alone. I told him maybe in time we can be friends again, but right now it's all to raw and I can't get over him if I keep talking to him. So I told him I was going to block him, he said no need to block him he would just leave me alone. So I didn't block him. So the next day I went to the book store and got home, as soon as I got home I got a phone call asking if I had fun at the book store. He was apparently coming to my house to talk to me, saw me leaving and followed me. Then he went shopping, bought me a present and came and gave it to me. The past month I have been telling him that I couldn't talk to him anymore, but I kept talking to him for some reason. So I think this time he thought it was going to be the same type of thing. I think when he came over he thought I was just going to be OK. It's pretty amazing, he hasn't talked to me in 2 days. But I don't know if he just stopped talking to me or is just driving past my house, which he did when we first broke up and I didn't talk to him for a few days. To be completely honest I miss talking to him so much. I know that it's way better for me not to, but I just miss having that connection with someone. My sister told me I should get a gun and all this stuff and I was like he's not going to hurt me. I know that, it was ridiculous of her to even think that. I just don't understand why he would follow me around. Did he not realize how creepy that was?
Ex boyfriend followed me to book store and I don't know why he followed me.
Boyfriend followed me to the bookstore, then followed me home to talk to me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I (24f) had a cheating ex (23m), we were together about 6 months, and I finally told him he needed to leave me alone. I told him maybe in time we can be friends again, but right now it's all to raw and I can't get over him if I keep talking to him. So I told him I was going to block him, he said no need to block him he would just leave me alone. So I didn't block him. So the next day I went to the book store and got home, as soon as I got home I got a phone call asking if I had fun at the book store. He was apparently coming to my house to talk to me, saw me leaving and followed me. Then he went shopping, bought me a present and came and gave it to me. The past month I have been telling him that I couldn't talk to him anymore, but I kept talking to him for some reason. So I think this time he thought it was going to be the same type of thing. I think when he came over he thought I was just going to be OK. It's pretty amazing, he hasn't talked to me in 2 days. But I don't know if he just stopped talking to me or is just driving past my house, which he did when we first broke up and I didn't talk to him for a few days. To be completely honest I miss talking to him so much. I know that it's way better for me not to, but I just miss having that connection with someone. My sister told me I should get a gun and all this stuff and I was like he's not going to hurt me. I know that, it was ridiculous of her to even think that. I just don't understand why he would follow me around. Did he not realize how creepy that was? TL;DR:
Ex boyfriend followed me to book store and I don't know why he followed me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I (24f) had a cheating ex (23m), we were together about 6 months, and I finally told him he needed to leave me alone. I told him maybe in time we can be friends again, but right now it's all to raw and I can't get over him if I keep talking to him. So I told him I was going to block him, he said no need to block him he would just leave me alone. So I didn't block him. So the next day I went to the book store and got home, as soon as I got home I got a phone call asking if I had fun at the book store. He was apparently coming to my house to talk to me, saw me leaving and followed me. Then he went shopping, bought me a present and came and gave it to me. The past month I have been telling him that I couldn't talk to him anymore, but I kept talking to him for some reason. So I think this time he thought it was going to be the same type of thing. I think when he came over he thought I was just going to be OK. It's pretty amazing, he hasn't talked to me in 2 days. But I don't know if he just stopped talking to me or is just driving past my house, which he did when we first broke up and I didn't talk to him for a few days. To be completely honest I miss talking to him so much. I know that it's way better for me not to, but I just miss having that connection with someone. My sister told me I should get a gun and all this stuff and I was like he's not going to hurt me. I know that, it was ridiculous of her to even think that. I just don't understand why he would follow me around. Did he not realize how creepy that was? TL;DR: Ex boyfriend followed me to book store and I don't know why he followed me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I (24f) had a cheating ex (23m), we were together about 6 months, and I finally told him he needed to leave me alone. I told him maybe in time we can be friends again, but right now it's all to raw and I can't get over him if I keep talking to him. So I told him I was going to block him, he said no need to block him he would just leave me alone. So I didn't block him. So the next day I went to the book store and got home, as soon as I got home I got a phone call asking if I had fun at the book store. He was apparently coming to my house to talk to me, saw me leaving and followed me. Then he went shopping, bought me a present and came and gave it to me. The past month I have been telling him that I couldn't talk to him anymore, but I kept talking to him for some reason. So I think this time he thought it was going to be the same type of thing. I think when he came over he thought I was just going to be OK. It's pretty amazing, he hasn't talked to me in 2 days. But I don't know if he just stopped talking to me or is just driving past my house, which he did when we first broke up and I didn't talk to him for a few days. To be completely honest I miss talking to him so much. I know that it's way better for me not to, but I just miss having that connection with someone. My sister told me I should get a gun and all this stuff and I was like he's not going to hurt me. I know that, it was ridiculous of her to even think that. I just don't understand why he would follow me around. Did he not realize how creepy that was? TL;DR: Boyfriend followed me to the bookstore, then followed me home to talk to me.<|endoftext|>
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So basically I went through a really nasty breakup. We dated for a year and a half and lived together and it was a factor of why it made the break up so much worse. Hadn't talked since the summer and one of my friends thought it'd be funny to like all of my pictures on fb including the ones of me and all of my exes. She noticed this and started talking trash on one of them with her cousin. I never said anything but kept getting notified that they were having some big convo on this pic. She finally deleted it and then started texting me. She started off super bitchy and I kept responses short and simple explaining why my friends a dick. She then flipped it into talking about the past and good times and started apologizing for how she broke up with me and she felt guilty for how she did it and caused so many problems. Taking my stuff, not making it civil etc. She then wanted to know how I had been and what I had been up too and how she really enjoyed talking and hearing from me. She also told me about things she had improved on and all had to do with things that I had wanted her to change when we were together. So now I'm confused if this is a sign that she might want to get back together or what, because after talking this past week I'm starting to get mixed emotions and I'm not sure if I should keep talking to her or if I should just cut all ties and walk away.
Me and my ex had a nasty break up and haven't talked since the summer and she started contacting me because one of my friends is a dick and it turned from her being bitchy to wanting to know how I've been and idk if she's still interested.
Ex started contacting me after a bad breakup and I'm not sure how to take it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So basically I went through a really nasty breakup. We dated for a year and a half and lived together and it was a factor of why it made the break up so much worse. Hadn't talked since the summer and one of my friends thought it'd be funny to like all of my pictures on fb including the ones of me and all of my exes. She noticed this and started talking trash on one of them with her cousin. I never said anything but kept getting notified that they were having some big convo on this pic. She finally deleted it and then started texting me. She started off super bitchy and I kept responses short and simple explaining why my friends a dick. She then flipped it into talking about the past and good times and started apologizing for how she broke up with me and she felt guilty for how she did it and caused so many problems. Taking my stuff, not making it civil etc. She then wanted to know how I had been and what I had been up too and how she really enjoyed talking and hearing from me. She also told me about things she had improved on and all had to do with things that I had wanted her to change when we were together. So now I'm confused if this is a sign that she might want to get back together or what, because after talking this past week I'm starting to get mixed emotions and I'm not sure if I should keep talking to her or if I should just cut all ties and walk away. TL;DR:
Me and my ex had a nasty break up and haven't talked since the summer and she started contacting me because one of my friends is a dick and it turned from her being bitchy to wanting to know how I've been and idk if she's still interested.<|endoftext|>
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Ex started contacting me after a bad breakup and I'm not sure how to take it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So basically I went through a really nasty breakup. We dated for a year and a half and lived together and it was a factor of why it made the break up so much worse. Hadn't talked since the summer and one of my friends thought it'd be funny to like all of my pictures on fb including the ones of me and all of my exes. She noticed this and started talking trash on one of them with her cousin. I never said anything but kept getting notified that they were having some big convo on this pic. She finally deleted it and then started texting me. She started off super bitchy and I kept responses short and simple explaining why my friends a dick. She then flipped it into talking about the past and good times and started apologizing for how she broke up with me and she felt guilty for how she did it and caused so many problems. Taking my stuff, not making it civil etc. She then wanted to know how I had been and what I had been up too and how she really enjoyed talking and hearing from me. She also told me about things she had improved on and all had to do with things that I had wanted her to change when we were together. So now I'm confused if this is a sign that she might want to get back together or what, because after talking this past week I'm starting to get mixed emotions and I'm not sure if I should keep talking to her or if I should just cut all ties and walk away. TL;DR: Me and my ex had a nasty break up and haven't talked since the summer and she started contacting me because one of my friends is a dick and it turned from her being bitchy to wanting to know how I've been and idk if she's still interested.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So basically I went through a really nasty breakup. We dated for a year and a half and lived together and it was a factor of why it made the break up so much worse. Hadn't talked since the summer and one of my friends thought it'd be funny to like all of my pictures on fb including the ones of me and all of my exes. She noticed this and started talking trash on one of them with her cousin. I never said anything but kept getting notified that they were having some big convo on this pic. She finally deleted it and then started texting me. She started off super bitchy and I kept responses short and simple explaining why my friends a dick. She then flipped it into talking about the past and good times and started apologizing for how she broke up with me and she felt guilty for how she did it and caused so many problems. Taking my stuff, not making it civil etc. She then wanted to know how I had been and what I had been up too and how she really enjoyed talking and hearing from me. She also told me about things she had improved on and all had to do with things that I had wanted her to change when we were together. So now I'm confused if this is a sign that she might want to get back together or what, because after talking this past week I'm starting to get mixed emotions and I'm not sure if I should keep talking to her or if I should just cut all ties and walk away. TL;DR: Ex started contacting me after a bad breakup and I'm not sure how to take it.<|endoftext|>
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[PIC link here]( Just to make it clear, I go to a small college and this is all, ALL of the networking classes they have to offer. They used to have more classes, but that dwindled down over the years. They used to have more teachers too. (at least more than one anyways). And they used to have more days and times to take such classes. I know California and everyone else in general is having trouble with finances and such and really need to cut down on certain things, but uh, I can't help but feel this is kind of really unfair. This environment is extremely distracting and does not at all help beginners in the subject. By the time the semester is half way through, the class will have dwindled to half its numbers; I don't exactly know why, but I dropped them, my reasons being that I was barely learning anything and I did not get along with the teacher (he was a condescending asshole). The fact that I did not get along with the teacher was EVEN MORE distracting. The hours are rather inconvenient too, a lot of the students that take these classes take it for certification, so they usually already have a job that obviously comes first. With the same block on Monday and Wednesday, someone who works nights (me) or has other priorities on those days and hours will have a rough time managing their hours and classes. Is this a normal practice in small colleges? Is this legal? How do I even get started on getting this "fixed"? Do teachers get paid by how many units they are teaching? (If so, this would certainly give me more rage fuel). I am thinking of sending a letter to both head of the IT department/classes and the dean to see if I can get a response back or something.
I dropped a class because I didn't get along with the teacher. Is this a normal thing to do in small colleges? How do I even start on this?
School has to reduce classes due to financial problems, and my classmates are picking up the slack, are they allowed to?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: [PIC link here]( Just to make it clear, I go to a small college and this is all, ALL of the networking classes they have to offer. They used to have more classes, but that dwindled down over the years. They used to have more teachers too. (at least more than one anyways). And they used to have more days and times to take such classes. I know California and everyone else in general is having trouble with finances and such and really need to cut down on certain things, but uh, I can't help but feel this is kind of really unfair. This environment is extremely distracting and does not at all help beginners in the subject. By the time the semester is half way through, the class will have dwindled to half its numbers; I don't exactly know why, but I dropped them, my reasons being that I was barely learning anything and I did not get along with the teacher (he was a condescending asshole). The fact that I did not get along with the teacher was EVEN MORE distracting. The hours are rather inconvenient too, a lot of the students that take these classes take it for certification, so they usually already have a job that obviously comes first. With the same block on Monday and Wednesday, someone who works nights (me) or has other priorities on those days and hours will have a rough time managing their hours and classes. Is this a normal practice in small colleges? Is this legal? How do I even get started on getting this "fixed"? Do teachers get paid by how many units they are teaching? (If so, this would certainly give me more rage fuel). I am thinking of sending a letter to both head of the IT department/classes and the dean to see if I can get a response back or something. TL;DR:
I dropped a class because I didn't get along with the teacher. Is this a normal thing to do in small colleges? How do I even start on this?<|endoftext|>
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School has to reduce classes due to financial problems, and my classmates are picking up the slack, are they allowed to?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: [PIC link here]( Just to make it clear, I go to a small college and this is all, ALL of the networking classes they have to offer. They used to have more classes, but that dwindled down over the years. They used to have more teachers too. (at least more than one anyways). And they used to have more days and times to take such classes. I know California and everyone else in general is having trouble with finances and such and really need to cut down on certain things, but uh, I can't help but feel this is kind of really unfair. This environment is extremely distracting and does not at all help beginners in the subject. By the time the semester is half way through, the class will have dwindled to half its numbers; I don't exactly know why, but I dropped them, my reasons being that I was barely learning anything and I did not get along with the teacher (he was a condescending asshole). The fact that I did not get along with the teacher was EVEN MORE distracting. The hours are rather inconvenient too, a lot of the students that take these classes take it for certification, so they usually already have a job that obviously comes first. With the same block on Monday and Wednesday, someone who works nights (me) or has other priorities on those days and hours will have a rough time managing their hours and classes. Is this a normal practice in small colleges? Is this legal? How do I even get started on getting this "fixed"? Do teachers get paid by how many units they are teaching? (If so, this would certainly give me more rage fuel). I am thinking of sending a letter to both head of the IT department/classes and the dean to see if I can get a response back or something. TL;DR: I dropped a class because I didn't get along with the teacher. Is this a normal thing to do in small colleges? How do I even start on this?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: [PIC link here]( Just to make it clear, I go to a small college and this is all, ALL of the networking classes they have to offer. They used to have more classes, but that dwindled down over the years. They used to have more teachers too. (at least more than one anyways). And they used to have more days and times to take such classes. I know California and everyone else in general is having trouble with finances and such and really need to cut down on certain things, but uh, I can't help but feel this is kind of really unfair. This environment is extremely distracting and does not at all help beginners in the subject. By the time the semester is half way through, the class will have dwindled to half its numbers; I don't exactly know why, but I dropped them, my reasons being that I was barely learning anything and I did not get along with the teacher (he was a condescending asshole). The fact that I did not get along with the teacher was EVEN MORE distracting. The hours are rather inconvenient too, a lot of the students that take these classes take it for certification, so they usually already have a job that obviously comes first. With the same block on Monday and Wednesday, someone who works nights (me) or has other priorities on those days and hours will have a rough time managing their hours and classes. Is this a normal practice in small colleges? Is this legal? How do I even get started on getting this "fixed"? Do teachers get paid by how many units they are teaching? (If so, this would certainly give me more rage fuel). I am thinking of sending a letter to both head of the IT department/classes and the dean to see if I can get a response back or something. TL;DR: School has to reduce classes due to financial problems, and my classmates are picking up the slack, are they allowed to?<|endoftext|>
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My boyfriend has always been a little ADD but it seems to be worse lately and I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. We both recently got video game systems and have been buying games. I'll buy a few games if there is a sale or something but for the most part I try to stick to a small number of unplayed games. He on the other hand now has three video games systems and probably 20-30 games for each system. The other day he bought two more games and was agonizing over the decision because he "didn't really want either one of them." I finally asked why he's even buying them? He has so many he hasn't played. He said he gets bored easily. It just seemed to be causing him a lot of stress trying to make a decision on a game, when it's not like he even needs to buy any. He hasn't finished any of the ones he has. The ADD part, honestly, isn't the most attractive thing in the world. If someone can't sit down and play a video game for more than 30 minutes at a time because of their lack of attention span... it's just not attractive. He doesn't read books either for this reason. The other issue is, he's always complaining about money and he has thousands of dollars in unplayed video games, still buying more in what seems to be a compulsive manner. I'm pretty responsible with money, I do spend money on myself from time to time and I'm not psycho about it, but I don't blow money I don't have or even money that I do have. He just seems to spend whatever on whoever, even stuff for his kid which the kid plays with one time and then discards and he will just turn around and buy something else for the kid. Am I being crazy? After all, it's his money, so I don't know why it bothers me so much.
Boyfriend constantly buying video games he never plays or finishes, seems to have either ADD or a compulsive spending problem. Not sure if it's even my business since we aren't married and don't live together.
Boyfriend of 4 years has lots of unplayed video games which he always complains about and he is spending a lot of money on them. He's also a compulsive money hound and it's unattractive.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend has always been a little ADD but it seems to be worse lately and I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. We both recently got video game systems and have been buying games. I'll buy a few games if there is a sale or something but for the most part I try to stick to a small number of unplayed games. He on the other hand now has three video games systems and probably 20-30 games for each system. The other day he bought two more games and was agonizing over the decision because he "didn't really want either one of them." I finally asked why he's even buying them? He has so many he hasn't played. He said he gets bored easily. It just seemed to be causing him a lot of stress trying to make a decision on a game, when it's not like he even needs to buy any. He hasn't finished any of the ones he has. The ADD part, honestly, isn't the most attractive thing in the world. If someone can't sit down and play a video game for more than 30 minutes at a time because of their lack of attention span... it's just not attractive. He doesn't read books either for this reason. The other issue is, he's always complaining about money and he has thousands of dollars in unplayed video games, still buying more in what seems to be a compulsive manner. I'm pretty responsible with money, I do spend money on myself from time to time and I'm not psycho about it, but I don't blow money I don't have or even money that I do have. He just seems to spend whatever on whoever, even stuff for his kid which the kid plays with one time and then discards and he will just turn around and buy something else for the kid. Am I being crazy? After all, it's his money, so I don't know why it bothers me so much. TL;DR:
Boyfriend constantly buying video games he never plays or finishes, seems to have either ADD or a compulsive spending problem. Not sure if it's even my business since we aren't married and don't live together.<|endoftext|>
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Boyfriend of 4 years has lots of unplayed video games which he always complains about and he is spending a lot of money on them. He's also a compulsive money hound and it's unattractive.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend has always been a little ADD but it seems to be worse lately and I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. We both recently got video game systems and have been buying games. I'll buy a few games if there is a sale or something but for the most part I try to stick to a small number of unplayed games. He on the other hand now has three video games systems and probably 20-30 games for each system. The other day he bought two more games and was agonizing over the decision because he "didn't really want either one of them." I finally asked why he's even buying them? He has so many he hasn't played. He said he gets bored easily. It just seemed to be causing him a lot of stress trying to make a decision on a game, when it's not like he even needs to buy any. He hasn't finished any of the ones he has. The ADD part, honestly, isn't the most attractive thing in the world. If someone can't sit down and play a video game for more than 30 minutes at a time because of their lack of attention span... it's just not attractive. He doesn't read books either for this reason. The other issue is, he's always complaining about money and he has thousands of dollars in unplayed video games, still buying more in what seems to be a compulsive manner. I'm pretty responsible with money, I do spend money on myself from time to time and I'm not psycho about it, but I don't blow money I don't have or even money that I do have. He just seems to spend whatever on whoever, even stuff for his kid which the kid plays with one time and then discards and he will just turn around and buy something else for the kid. Am I being crazy? After all, it's his money, so I don't know why it bothers me so much. TL;DR: Boyfriend constantly buying video games he never plays or finishes, seems to have either ADD or a compulsive spending problem. Not sure if it's even my business since we aren't married and don't live together.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend has always been a little ADD but it seems to be worse lately and I'm not sure if I'm overreacting. We both recently got video game systems and have been buying games. I'll buy a few games if there is a sale or something but for the most part I try to stick to a small number of unplayed games. He on the other hand now has three video games systems and probably 20-30 games for each system. The other day he bought two more games and was agonizing over the decision because he "didn't really want either one of them." I finally asked why he's even buying them? He has so many he hasn't played. He said he gets bored easily. It just seemed to be causing him a lot of stress trying to make a decision on a game, when it's not like he even needs to buy any. He hasn't finished any of the ones he has. The ADD part, honestly, isn't the most attractive thing in the world. If someone can't sit down and play a video game for more than 30 minutes at a time because of their lack of attention span... it's just not attractive. He doesn't read books either for this reason. The other issue is, he's always complaining about money and he has thousands of dollars in unplayed video games, still buying more in what seems to be a compulsive manner. I'm pretty responsible with money, I do spend money on myself from time to time and I'm not psycho about it, but I don't blow money I don't have or even money that I do have. He just seems to spend whatever on whoever, even stuff for his kid which the kid plays with one time and then discards and he will just turn around and buy something else for the kid. Am I being crazy? After all, it's his money, so I don't know why it bothers me so much. TL;DR: Boyfriend of 4 years has lots of unplayed video games which he always complains about and he is spending a lot of money on them. He's also a compulsive money hound and it's unattractive.<|endoftext|>
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hey guys so this is a sortof update from my post the other week: Basically after that night where we kinda kissed and she started being weird/then texting me saying 'let's not talk about it, ever' the next day...but things happened again This time she starts sending kinda flirty texts again a few days later. so we talk back and fourth for a bit...and then she invites me to a night out saturday night (2 days back) Basically I drove to her place because she was hinting at me stopping over, we went out to town with her friends, ended up being a really good night. So when we get back...she tells me to take my top off. So I do, then she starts like...analysing my body...saying I had a nice body, muscley arms, etc. Then she said I should grow some chest hair to be even more attractive, just stuff like this. So after that I tell her to take her top off so I can analyse her so she does and I start telling her how perky her boobs are...tell her shes really hot...etc...it was all kind of weird to be honest, I thought it would lead to more but she basically said I was really attractive and that was it, we go to bed and spoon. In hindsight I should of really made a move right there and then, but I just keep thinking if I do she'll just backoff and act weird like she did last time. I felt her boobs up though and she was fine with that...just because she was talking about her boob job and how perky they are...I couldn't resist. But that's where it is right now. I honestly don't know if she's just honeypotting me, or I'm honeydicking her...or it's a bit of both.
Share intimiate moment but don't kiss/sleep together, but things still seem pretty weird.
guys, I really like this girl, but she's not a 100% sure about me. She's kind of putting me off by being weird and sending me weird texts. I'm not sure if she's just playing me or what.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hey guys so this is a sortof update from my post the other week: Basically after that night where we kinda kissed and she started being weird/then texting me saying 'let's not talk about it, ever' the next day...but things happened again This time she starts sending kinda flirty texts again a few days later. so we talk back and fourth for a bit...and then she invites me to a night out saturday night (2 days back) Basically I drove to her place because she was hinting at me stopping over, we went out to town with her friends, ended up being a really good night. So when we get back...she tells me to take my top off. So I do, then she starts like...analysing my body...saying I had a nice body, muscley arms, etc. Then she said I should grow some chest hair to be even more attractive, just stuff like this. So after that I tell her to take her top off so I can analyse her so she does and I start telling her how perky her boobs are...tell her shes really hot...etc...it was all kind of weird to be honest, I thought it would lead to more but she basically said I was really attractive and that was it, we go to bed and spoon. In hindsight I should of really made a move right there and then, but I just keep thinking if I do she'll just backoff and act weird like she did last time. I felt her boobs up though and she was fine with that...just because she was talking about her boob job and how perky they are...I couldn't resist. But that's where it is right now. I honestly don't know if she's just honeypotting me, or I'm honeydicking her...or it's a bit of both. TL;DR:
Share intimiate moment but don't kiss/sleep together, but things still seem pretty weird.<|endoftext|>
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guys, I really like this girl, but she's not a 100% sure about me. She's kind of putting me off by being weird and sending me weird texts. I'm not sure if she's just playing me or what.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hey guys so this is a sortof update from my post the other week: Basically after that night where we kinda kissed and she started being weird/then texting me saying 'let's not talk about it, ever' the next day...but things happened again This time she starts sending kinda flirty texts again a few days later. so we talk back and fourth for a bit...and then she invites me to a night out saturday night (2 days back) Basically I drove to her place because she was hinting at me stopping over, we went out to town with her friends, ended up being a really good night. So when we get back...she tells me to take my top off. So I do, then she starts like...analysing my body...saying I had a nice body, muscley arms, etc. Then she said I should grow some chest hair to be even more attractive, just stuff like this. So after that I tell her to take her top off so I can analyse her so she does and I start telling her how perky her boobs are...tell her shes really hot...etc...it was all kind of weird to be honest, I thought it would lead to more but she basically said I was really attractive and that was it, we go to bed and spoon. In hindsight I should of really made a move right there and then, but I just keep thinking if I do she'll just backoff and act weird like she did last time. I felt her boobs up though and she was fine with that...just because she was talking about her boob job and how perky they are...I couldn't resist. But that's where it is right now. I honestly don't know if she's just honeypotting me, or I'm honeydicking her...or it's a bit of both. TL;DR: Share intimiate moment but don't kiss/sleep together, but things still seem pretty weird.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hey guys so this is a sortof update from my post the other week: Basically after that night where we kinda kissed and she started being weird/then texting me saying 'let's not talk about it, ever' the next day...but things happened again This time she starts sending kinda flirty texts again a few days later. so we talk back and fourth for a bit...and then she invites me to a night out saturday night (2 days back) Basically I drove to her place because she was hinting at me stopping over, we went out to town with her friends, ended up being a really good night. So when we get back...she tells me to take my top off. So I do, then she starts like...analysing my body...saying I had a nice body, muscley arms, etc. Then she said I should grow some chest hair to be even more attractive, just stuff like this. So after that I tell her to take her top off so I can analyse her so she does and I start telling her how perky her boobs are...tell her shes really hot...etc...it was all kind of weird to be honest, I thought it would lead to more but she basically said I was really attractive and that was it, we go to bed and spoon. In hindsight I should of really made a move right there and then, but I just keep thinking if I do she'll just backoff and act weird like she did last time. I felt her boobs up though and she was fine with that...just because she was talking about her boob job and how perky they are...I couldn't resist. But that's where it is right now. I honestly don't know if she's just honeypotting me, or I'm honeydicking her...or it's a bit of both. TL;DR: guys, I really like this girl, but she's not a 100% sure about me. She's kind of putting me off by being weird and sending me weird texts. I'm not sure if she's just playing me or what.<|endoftext|>
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My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. I want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am. Some background on me: I was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend. I now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me.
How do I become more confident, without becoming a jerk? How do I get to know someone, when afraid of an immediate rejection, or having it just turn into a friendship.
I am a nice guy who has a hard time asking women out, and I want to stop being a pushover and learn how to be a man.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. I want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am. Some background on me: I was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend. I now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me. TL;DR:
How do I become more confident, without becoming a jerk? How do I get to know someone, when afraid of an immediate rejection, or having it just turn into a friendship.<|endoftext|>
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I am a nice guy who has a hard time asking women out, and I want to stop being a pushover and learn how to be a man.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. I want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am. Some background on me: I was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend. I now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me. TL;DR: How do I become more confident, without becoming a jerk? How do I get to know someone, when afraid of an immediate rejection, or having it just turn into a friendship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. I want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am. Some background on me: I was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend. I now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me. TL;DR: I am a nice guy who has a hard time asking women out, and I want to stop being a pushover and learn how to be a man.<|endoftext|>
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Hey, so I've tried the dating scene in recent years, took a dip in OKC and I came to the conclusion that dating is not for me, and I'm pretty sure I could spend the rest of my life happy by myself. That being said, there's a girl who works at my bank who goes to the same school I do, everytime I go to deposit my checks or money we chat up. I think that she may also be into me, mainly that out of the probable 3-5tellers I could end up at it always (80% actually)ends up being her which I've suspected is not coincidence but her fudging the queue. Anyways I'd rather not ask her out at the bank because to me it sounds really inappropriate, and I've promised myself that although I typically abstain from dating that if I ever see her on campus I should ask her out. I actually did end up seeing her once about a month ago, but I was rushing off somewhere, she waved at me but I didn't recognize her because she had a winter coat on. I thought it was just some stranger waving at someone behind me, the next time I was at the bank I asked it was her , I think she found it I didn't notice. Anyways, with all that aside, how should I go about finding her to ask her out, without asking her where she works. End Ramble.
How do I find a girl to ask out at my university, without asking her where she works.
Trying to ask a girl out at my university, but can't find her, she goes to the same school as I do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, so I've tried the dating scene in recent years, took a dip in OKC and I came to the conclusion that dating is not for me, and I'm pretty sure I could spend the rest of my life happy by myself. That being said, there's a girl who works at my bank who goes to the same school I do, everytime I go to deposit my checks or money we chat up. I think that she may also be into me, mainly that out of the probable 3-5tellers I could end up at it always (80% actually)ends up being her which I've suspected is not coincidence but her fudging the queue. Anyways I'd rather not ask her out at the bank because to me it sounds really inappropriate, and I've promised myself that although I typically abstain from dating that if I ever see her on campus I should ask her out. I actually did end up seeing her once about a month ago, but I was rushing off somewhere, she waved at me but I didn't recognize her because she had a winter coat on. I thought it was just some stranger waving at someone behind me, the next time I was at the bank I asked it was her, I think she found it I didn't notice. Anyways, with all that aside, how should I go about finding her to ask her out, without asking her where she works. End Ramble. TL;DR:
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Trying to ask a girl out at my university, but can't find her, she goes to the same school as I do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, so I've tried the dating scene in recent years, took a dip in OKC and I came to the conclusion that dating is not for me, and I'm pretty sure I could spend the rest of my life happy by myself. That being said, there's a girl who works at my bank who goes to the same school I do, everytime I go to deposit my checks or money we chat up. I think that she may also be into me, mainly that out of the probable 3-5tellers I could end up at it always (80% actually)ends up being her which I've suspected is not coincidence but her fudging the queue. Anyways I'd rather not ask her out at the bank because to me it sounds really inappropriate, and I've promised myself that although I typically abstain from dating that if I ever see her on campus I should ask her out. I actually did end up seeing her once about a month ago, but I was rushing off somewhere, she waved at me but I didn't recognize her because she had a winter coat on. I thought it was just some stranger waving at someone behind me, the next time I was at the bank I asked it was her, I think she found it I didn't notice. Anyways, with all that aside, how should I go about finding her to ask her out, without asking her where she works. End Ramble. TL;DR: How do I find a girl to ask out at my university, without asking her where she works.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, so I've tried the dating scene in recent years, took a dip in OKC and I came to the conclusion that dating is not for me, and I'm pretty sure I could spend the rest of my life happy by myself. That being said, there's a girl who works at my bank who goes to the same school I do, everytime I go to deposit my checks or money we chat up. I think that she may also be into me, mainly that out of the probable 3-5tellers I could end up at it always (80% actually)ends up being her which I've suspected is not coincidence but her fudging the queue. Anyways I'd rather not ask her out at the bank because to me it sounds really inappropriate, and I've promised myself that although I typically abstain from dating that if I ever see her on campus I should ask her out. I actually did end up seeing her once about a month ago, but I was rushing off somewhere, she waved at me but I didn't recognize her because she had a winter coat on. I thought it was just some stranger waving at someone behind me, the next time I was at the bank I asked it was her, I think she found it I didn't notice. Anyways, with all that aside, how should I go about finding her to ask her out, without asking her where she works. End Ramble. TL;DR: Trying to ask a girl out at my university, but can't find her, she goes to the same school as I do.<|endoftext|>
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First off this is going to be really long, I apologize. I have been broken up with this girl for about three years. I have been with another girl for two years. I am happy. I really am. Do you know that saying the one that got away. I would always text this one girl hey, or whats up. I knew she'd never respond, but that was okay. Just pretending she got it was okay. (On a side note I know this sounds stalkerish, but when we broke up as we have several times she said it was because she ran from deep commitment.) Now flash forward to a month ago. I was with my current girlfriend walking into my local Barnes and Noble book store. The person who was in front of me was her. I had no idea why she wasnt away at her school, but I knew it was her. I wanted so badly to say something say anything, but I didn't. I let her walk away. I talked to her over social media later, just exchanged pleasantries. Nothing more. I don't care if she forgets me. Its more I want to keep that relationship there, no matter how slight. I know I still love her. I kinda think I always will. When I think of growing old it is with her. At the end of the day if I could see only one face before I fall asleep it would be hers. What do I do reddit?
In love with a long gone ex, and kind of losing my freaking mind. I have no idea what to do.
Broke up with girlfriend, wanted to tell her how I feel, but I was so focused on her I didn't. I'm not sure if I should tell her or not.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off this is going to be really long, I apologize. I have been broken up with this girl for about three years. I have been with another girl for two years. I am happy. I really am. Do you know that saying the one that got away. I would always text this one girl hey, or whats up. I knew she'd never respond, but that was okay. Just pretending she got it was okay. (On a side note I know this sounds stalkerish, but when we broke up as we have several times she said it was because she ran from deep commitment.) Now flash forward to a month ago. I was with my current girlfriend walking into my local Barnes and Noble book store. The person who was in front of me was her. I had no idea why she wasnt away at her school, but I knew it was her. I wanted so badly to say something say anything, but I didn't. I let her walk away. I talked to her over social media later, just exchanged pleasantries. Nothing more. I don't care if she forgets me. Its more I want to keep that relationship there, no matter how slight. I know I still love her. I kinda think I always will. When I think of growing old it is with her. At the end of the day if I could see only one face before I fall asleep it would be hers. What do I do reddit? TL;DR:
In love with a long gone ex, and kind of losing my freaking mind. I have no idea what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Broke up with girlfriend, wanted to tell her how I feel, but I was so focused on her I didn't. I'm not sure if I should tell her or not.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off this is going to be really long, I apologize. I have been broken up with this girl for about three years. I have been with another girl for two years. I am happy. I really am. Do you know that saying the one that got away. I would always text this one girl hey, or whats up. I knew she'd never respond, but that was okay. Just pretending she got it was okay. (On a side note I know this sounds stalkerish, but when we broke up as we have several times she said it was because she ran from deep commitment.) Now flash forward to a month ago. I was with my current girlfriend walking into my local Barnes and Noble book store. The person who was in front of me was her. I had no idea why she wasnt away at her school, but I knew it was her. I wanted so badly to say something say anything, but I didn't. I let her walk away. I talked to her over social media later, just exchanged pleasantries. Nothing more. I don't care if she forgets me. Its more I want to keep that relationship there, no matter how slight. I know I still love her. I kinda think I always will. When I think of growing old it is with her. At the end of the day if I could see only one face before I fall asleep it would be hers. What do I do reddit? TL;DR: In love with a long gone ex, and kind of losing my freaking mind. I have no idea what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off this is going to be really long, I apologize. I have been broken up with this girl for about three years. I have been with another girl for two years. I am happy. I really am. Do you know that saying the one that got away. I would always text this one girl hey, or whats up. I knew she'd never respond, but that was okay. Just pretending she got it was okay. (On a side note I know this sounds stalkerish, but when we broke up as we have several times she said it was because she ran from deep commitment.) Now flash forward to a month ago. I was with my current girlfriend walking into my local Barnes and Noble book store. The person who was in front of me was her. I had no idea why she wasnt away at her school, but I knew it was her. I wanted so badly to say something say anything, but I didn't. I let her walk away. I talked to her over social media later, just exchanged pleasantries. Nothing more. I don't care if she forgets me. Its more I want to keep that relationship there, no matter how slight. I know I still love her. I kinda think I always will. When I think of growing old it is with her. At the end of the day if I could see only one face before I fall asleep it would be hers. What do I do reddit? TL;DR: Broke up with girlfriend, wanted to tell her how I feel, but I was so focused on her I didn't. I'm not sure if I should tell her or not.<|endoftext|>
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So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now and I love this girl like crazy. We've been apart a lot recently and it has been absolutely killing me. I love spending time with her so much. I've never met someone in my life that I never get tired of. She's so fun to be with. Unfortunately, I end up missing her so much that it kind of exhausts me. No matter what I do I always think of how much more fun it would be if she were there. I just simply can't enjoy myself as much as I want to without her. It also kind of stinks because she doesn't really miss me a whole lot when we're apart. She loves being home more than anything. I'm super excited because we will be back together for a while soon because we're heading back college. She on the other hand is sad because she's leaving home. I've tried to come to grips with the fact that it's ok for one person to miss the other more. It's been difficult for me but I think I'm getting there. Now what I want to work on is how to enjoy myself to the fullest when I don't have her around. I have tried so many things to distract myself and have a good time but I always think of her and miss her. If anyone has been through or is going through the same thing please give me any advice you have.
SO and I have been far apart lately which is killing me emotionally. I miss her super much when we're apart and it's causing me to fail at enjoying myself. What can I do to get over it and enjoy myself more when we
I miss my girlfriend more than I know when we're apart. It's kind of exhausting and stinks because she doesn't miss me very much. Need advice on how to stop missing her so much.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now and I love this girl like crazy. We've been apart a lot recently and it has been absolutely killing me. I love spending time with her so much. I've never met someone in my life that I never get tired of. She's so fun to be with. Unfortunately, I end up missing her so much that it kind of exhausts me. No matter what I do I always think of how much more fun it would be if she were there. I just simply can't enjoy myself as much as I want to without her. It also kind of stinks because she doesn't really miss me a whole lot when we're apart. She loves being home more than anything. I'm super excited because we will be back together for a while soon because we're heading back college. She on the other hand is sad because she's leaving home. I've tried to come to grips with the fact that it's ok for one person to miss the other more. It's been difficult for me but I think I'm getting there. Now what I want to work on is how to enjoy myself to the fullest when I don't have her around. I have tried so many things to distract myself and have a good time but I always think of her and miss her. If anyone has been through or is going through the same thing please give me any advice you have. TL;DR:
SO and I have been far apart lately which is killing me emotionally. I miss her super much when we're apart and it's causing me to fail at enjoying myself. What can I do to get over it and enjoy myself more when we<|endoftext|>
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I miss my girlfriend more than I know when we're apart. It's kind of exhausting and stinks because she doesn't miss me very much. Need advice on how to stop missing her so much.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now and I love this girl like crazy. We've been apart a lot recently and it has been absolutely killing me. I love spending time with her so much. I've never met someone in my life that I never get tired of. She's so fun to be with. Unfortunately, I end up missing her so much that it kind of exhausts me. No matter what I do I always think of how much more fun it would be if she were there. I just simply can't enjoy myself as much as I want to without her. It also kind of stinks because she doesn't really miss me a whole lot when we're apart. She loves being home more than anything. I'm super excited because we will be back together for a while soon because we're heading back college. She on the other hand is sad because she's leaving home. I've tried to come to grips with the fact that it's ok for one person to miss the other more. It's been difficult for me but I think I'm getting there. Now what I want to work on is how to enjoy myself to the fullest when I don't have her around. I have tried so many things to distract myself and have a good time but I always think of her and miss her. If anyone has been through or is going through the same thing please give me any advice you have. TL;DR: SO and I have been far apart lately which is killing me emotionally. I miss her super much when we're apart and it's causing me to fail at enjoying myself. What can I do to get over it and enjoy myself more when we<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now and I love this girl like crazy. We've been apart a lot recently and it has been absolutely killing me. I love spending time with her so much. I've never met someone in my life that I never get tired of. She's so fun to be with. Unfortunately, I end up missing her so much that it kind of exhausts me. No matter what I do I always think of how much more fun it would be if she were there. I just simply can't enjoy myself as much as I want to without her. It also kind of stinks because she doesn't really miss me a whole lot when we're apart. She loves being home more than anything. I'm super excited because we will be back together for a while soon because we're heading back college. She on the other hand is sad because she's leaving home. I've tried to come to grips with the fact that it's ok for one person to miss the other more. It's been difficult for me but I think I'm getting there. Now what I want to work on is how to enjoy myself to the fullest when I don't have her around. I have tried so many things to distract myself and have a good time but I always think of her and miss her. If anyone has been through or is going through the same thing please give me any advice you have. TL;DR: I miss my girlfriend more than I know when we're apart. It's kind of exhausting and stinks because she doesn't miss me very much. Need advice on how to stop missing her so much.<|endoftext|>
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This girl and I were best friends, like the bestest of friends, and eventually we dated for about 2 years. It was a long-distance relationship when she was at school out of state. Long story short she broke up with me out of the blue in a very messy way, I didn't handle it well and we both just argued with each other until we stopped talking. It's been two years since we've talked. The breakup/love thing doesn't matter to me, I am not looking to get back together with her. I do however regret the way we both handled things and losing my best friend. It's something that bothers me a lot, even when I didn't want to talk to her, it felt awful. I'd like to open up a bit of communication with her again, but I don't know how, or what to say. It is really important to me though, as she really was the best friend I've ever had, and I really miss them. I had some family issues for most of the time we were friends, which delayed me being able to head off to college myself, it was a pretty crappy situation. I finally got everything straightened out where I am able to go back to school and a whole bunch of other things that are going the way they should again. I want to let her know that, as when we decided we couldn't handle talking anymore, one of the last things she said was hoping I can get out of that situation. But I don't want to be like "yo btw, school get! woohoo seeya!" and then go back to not talking.
lost my best friend 2 years ago, want to get back in contact with her. Any suggestions?
Long-neighbor/best-friend of mine broke up with me, and I want to start talking again
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This girl and I were best friends, like the bestest of friends, and eventually we dated for about 2 years. It was a long-distance relationship when she was at school out of state. Long story short she broke up with me out of the blue in a very messy way, I didn't handle it well and we both just argued with each other until we stopped talking. It's been two years since we've talked. The breakup/love thing doesn't matter to me, I am not looking to get back together with her. I do however regret the way we both handled things and losing my best friend. It's something that bothers me a lot, even when I didn't want to talk to her, it felt awful. I'd like to open up a bit of communication with her again, but I don't know how, or what to say. It is really important to me though, as she really was the best friend I've ever had, and I really miss them. I had some family issues for most of the time we were friends, which delayed me being able to head off to college myself, it was a pretty crappy situation. I finally got everything straightened out where I am able to go back to school and a whole bunch of other things that are going the way they should again. I want to let her know that, as when we decided we couldn't handle talking anymore, one of the last things she said was hoping I can get out of that situation. But I don't want to be like "yo btw, school get! woohoo seeya!" and then go back to not talking. TL;DR:
lost my best friend 2 years ago, want to get back in contact with her. Any suggestions?<|endoftext|>
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Long-neighbor/best-friend of mine broke up with me, and I want to start talking again<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This girl and I were best friends, like the bestest of friends, and eventually we dated for about 2 years. It was a long-distance relationship when she was at school out of state. Long story short she broke up with me out of the blue in a very messy way, I didn't handle it well and we both just argued with each other until we stopped talking. It's been two years since we've talked. The breakup/love thing doesn't matter to me, I am not looking to get back together with her. I do however regret the way we both handled things and losing my best friend. It's something that bothers me a lot, even when I didn't want to talk to her, it felt awful. I'd like to open up a bit of communication with her again, but I don't know how, or what to say. It is really important to me though, as she really was the best friend I've ever had, and I really miss them. I had some family issues for most of the time we were friends, which delayed me being able to head off to college myself, it was a pretty crappy situation. I finally got everything straightened out where I am able to go back to school and a whole bunch of other things that are going the way they should again. I want to let her know that, as when we decided we couldn't handle talking anymore, one of the last things she said was hoping I can get out of that situation. But I don't want to be like "yo btw, school get! woohoo seeya!" and then go back to not talking. TL;DR: lost my best friend 2 years ago, want to get back in contact with her. Any suggestions?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This girl and I were best friends, like the bestest of friends, and eventually we dated for about 2 years. It was a long-distance relationship when she was at school out of state. Long story short she broke up with me out of the blue in a very messy way, I didn't handle it well and we both just argued with each other until we stopped talking. It's been two years since we've talked. The breakup/love thing doesn't matter to me, I am not looking to get back together with her. I do however regret the way we both handled things and losing my best friend. It's something that bothers me a lot, even when I didn't want to talk to her, it felt awful. I'd like to open up a bit of communication with her again, but I don't know how, or what to say. It is really important to me though, as she really was the best friend I've ever had, and I really miss them. I had some family issues for most of the time we were friends, which delayed me being able to head off to college myself, it was a pretty crappy situation. I finally got everything straightened out where I am able to go back to school and a whole bunch of other things that are going the way they should again. I want to let her know that, as when we decided we couldn't handle talking anymore, one of the last things she said was hoping I can get out of that situation. But I don't want to be like "yo btw, school get! woohoo seeya!" and then go back to not talking. TL;DR: Long-neighbor/best-friend of mine broke up with me, and I want to start talking again<|endoftext|>
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I'm pretty sure this subreddit gets these types of post often but I think my situation is a little different. So I have a business class and the whole class the professor just talks. I'm sitting in the middle and I notice this cute girl she sits in the front of the room. I not really scare to talk to girls or anything for example girls that might sit next or around where I sit. But this girl she's to far from where I sit and the room size is an average class of about 30 or so. The professor talks all the class and there's really no opportunity to not even talk to those around me. I really don't know what to do in this situation. It's not like it's a class where we have the opportunity to talk among each other's or something like that. What would you recommend? I don't want to come off like a creep and walk straight to her after class and talk to her. And if I was to do that what do you even recommend me saying? The more people give advice the better. Thank you.
How do I not come off as a creepy guy?**
in a class where a girl sits in the front of the room, don't want people to scare me with creepy comments.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm pretty sure this subreddit gets these types of post often but I think my situation is a little different. So I have a business class and the whole class the professor just talks. I'm sitting in the middle and I notice this cute girl she sits in the front of the room. I not really scare to talk to girls or anything for example girls that might sit next or around where I sit. But this girl she's to far from where I sit and the room size is an average class of about 30 or so. The professor talks all the class and there's really no opportunity to not even talk to those around me. I really don't know what to do in this situation. It's not like it's a class where we have the opportunity to talk among each other's or something like that. What would you recommend? I don't want to come off like a creep and walk straight to her after class and talk to her. And if I was to do that what do you even recommend me saying? The more people give advice the better. Thank you. TL;DR:
How do I not come off as a creepy guy?**<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm pretty sure this subreddit gets these types of post often but I think my situation is a little different. So I have a business class and the whole class the professor just talks. I'm sitting in the middle and I notice this cute girl she sits in the front of the room. I not really scare to talk to girls or anything for example girls that might sit next or around where I sit. But this girl she's to far from where I sit and the room size is an average class of about 30 or so. The professor talks all the class and there's really no opportunity to not even talk to those around me. I really don't know what to do in this situation. It's not like it's a class where we have the opportunity to talk among each other's or something like that. What would you recommend? I don't want to come off like a creep and walk straight to her after class and talk to her. And if I was to do that what do you even recommend me saying? The more people give advice the better. Thank you. TL;DR: How do I not come off as a creepy guy?**<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm pretty sure this subreddit gets these types of post often but I think my situation is a little different. So I have a business class and the whole class the professor just talks. I'm sitting in the middle and I notice this cute girl she sits in the front of the room. I not really scare to talk to girls or anything for example girls that might sit next or around where I sit. But this girl she's to far from where I sit and the room size is an average class of about 30 or so. The professor talks all the class and there's really no opportunity to not even talk to those around me. I really don't know what to do in this situation. It's not like it's a class where we have the opportunity to talk among each other's or something like that. What would you recommend? I don't want to come off like a creep and walk straight to her after class and talk to her. And if I was to do that what do you even recommend me saying? The more people give advice the better. Thank you. TL;DR: in a class where a girl sits in the front of the room, don't want people to scare me with creepy comments.<|endoftext|>
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I have been dating this girl for one month now and it has been perfect. We always have fun together, she seems super into me and often tells me how attracted she is to me. The sex is great and our chemistry is very strong. With that said, I am concerned I am being used as a rebound, or as a temporary means to comfort her. She ended her engagement a few months ago with her ex of 4 years (they were engaged for 1 year). Here's the first red flag I noticed: For the first 3 weeks of dating her, she never told me she was engaged to this guy, she only referred to him as her "ex boyfriend". I didn't find out they were engaged until I looked at her Facebook page and where she still has dozens of photos of them together and all her friends congratulating her on the engagement. I found this odd because she had talked about him alot but intentionally hid the fact that they were engaged, only ever referring to him as her "ex boyfriend". I asked her why she never told me and her response was that "she didn't want to scare me away". Her ex bought a dog with her, so they take turns sharing the dog for a week. So they are still in touch with each other and she still talks to his parents about logistical things as well. I have no problem with her talking to her ex fiance about logistics, because we aren't in an exclusive relationship. However, this girl keeps telling me how much she likes me, but when I asked her what she thought "about us" she sounded confused and responded "well... I like hanging out with you" which was strange considering how much she professes her feelings for me. I like this girl alot. My concern is that I'm a rebound and she will ditch me when she gets bored or finds someone better. Should I be concerned about anything here or am I overthinking?
Been dating this girl for 1 month, she is just broke off an engagement to her ex which she didn't tell me about for the first 3 weeks. She says she likes me alot, yet won't commit to anything. Should I be concerned or am I just overthinking?
Dating a girl for 1 month that recently broke off an engagement with her ex of 4 years. Am I a rebound?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been dating this girl for one month now and it has been perfect. We always have fun together, she seems super into me and often tells me how attracted she is to me. The sex is great and our chemistry is very strong. With that said, I am concerned I am being used as a rebound, or as a temporary means to comfort her. She ended her engagement a few months ago with her ex of 4 years (they were engaged for 1 year). Here's the first red flag I noticed: For the first 3 weeks of dating her, she never told me she was engaged to this guy, she only referred to him as her "ex boyfriend". I didn't find out they were engaged until I looked at her Facebook page and where she still has dozens of photos of them together and all her friends congratulating her on the engagement. I found this odd because she had talked about him alot but intentionally hid the fact that they were engaged, only ever referring to him as her "ex boyfriend". I asked her why she never told me and her response was that "she didn't want to scare me away". Her ex bought a dog with her, so they take turns sharing the dog for a week. So they are still in touch with each other and she still talks to his parents about logistical things as well. I have no problem with her talking to her ex fiance about logistics, because we aren't in an exclusive relationship. However, this girl keeps telling me how much she likes me, but when I asked her what she thought "about us" she sounded confused and responded "well... I like hanging out with you" which was strange considering how much she professes her feelings for me. I like this girl alot. My concern is that I'm a rebound and she will ditch me when she gets bored or finds someone better. Should I be concerned about anything here or am I overthinking? TL;DR:
Been dating this girl for 1 month, she is just broke off an engagement to her ex which she didn't tell me about for the first 3 weeks. She says she likes me alot, yet won't commit to anything. Should I be concerned or am I just overthinking?<|endoftext|>
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Dating a girl for 1 month that recently broke off an engagement with her ex of 4 years. Am I a rebound?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been dating this girl for one month now and it has been perfect. We always have fun together, she seems super into me and often tells me how attracted she is to me. The sex is great and our chemistry is very strong. With that said, I am concerned I am being used as a rebound, or as a temporary means to comfort her. She ended her engagement a few months ago with her ex of 4 years (they were engaged for 1 year). Here's the first red flag I noticed: For the first 3 weeks of dating her, she never told me she was engaged to this guy, she only referred to him as her "ex boyfriend". I didn't find out they were engaged until I looked at her Facebook page and where she still has dozens of photos of them together and all her friends congratulating her on the engagement. I found this odd because she had talked about him alot but intentionally hid the fact that they were engaged, only ever referring to him as her "ex boyfriend". I asked her why she never told me and her response was that "she didn't want to scare me away". Her ex bought a dog with her, so they take turns sharing the dog for a week. So they are still in touch with each other and she still talks to his parents about logistical things as well. I have no problem with her talking to her ex fiance about logistics, because we aren't in an exclusive relationship. However, this girl keeps telling me how much she likes me, but when I asked her what she thought "about us" she sounded confused and responded "well... I like hanging out with you" which was strange considering how much she professes her feelings for me. I like this girl alot. My concern is that I'm a rebound and she will ditch me when she gets bored or finds someone better. Should I be concerned about anything here or am I overthinking? TL;DR: Been dating this girl for 1 month, she is just broke off an engagement to her ex which she didn't tell me about for the first 3 weeks. She says she likes me alot, yet won't commit to anything. Should I be concerned or am I just overthinking?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been dating this girl for one month now and it has been perfect. We always have fun together, she seems super into me and often tells me how attracted she is to me. The sex is great and our chemistry is very strong. With that said, I am concerned I am being used as a rebound, or as a temporary means to comfort her. She ended her engagement a few months ago with her ex of 4 years (they were engaged for 1 year). Here's the first red flag I noticed: For the first 3 weeks of dating her, she never told me she was engaged to this guy, she only referred to him as her "ex boyfriend". I didn't find out they were engaged until I looked at her Facebook page and where she still has dozens of photos of them together and all her friends congratulating her on the engagement. I found this odd because she had talked about him alot but intentionally hid the fact that they were engaged, only ever referring to him as her "ex boyfriend". I asked her why she never told me and her response was that "she didn't want to scare me away". Her ex bought a dog with her, so they take turns sharing the dog for a week. So they are still in touch with each other and she still talks to his parents about logistical things as well. I have no problem with her talking to her ex fiance about logistics, because we aren't in an exclusive relationship. However, this girl keeps telling me how much she likes me, but when I asked her what she thought "about us" she sounded confused and responded "well... I like hanging out with you" which was strange considering how much she professes her feelings for me. I like this girl alot. My concern is that I'm a rebound and she will ditch me when she gets bored or finds someone better. Should I be concerned about anything here or am I overthinking? TL;DR: Dating a girl for 1 month that recently broke off an engagement with her ex of 4 years. Am I a rebound?<|endoftext|>
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So my girlfriend has always told me she wanted to get her belly button pierced. I told her that I hate them, i find no attractiveness in them and that I really wouldn't like it. Well last year this day she pierced her belly button without telling anyone. Now she wants to get a larger one. I really hate this thing and i think it makes her look worse. She had such a great looking stomach until this happened. Also ive been with her for almost 4 years so its not like im going to break up with her for it but how should i react? Hopefully i ca get some female perspective on this.
girlfriend got a belly button piercing without telling me and now wants a larger one. How should i react?
girlfriend got her belly button pierced without telling anyone. Now she wants to get one that's bigger.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my girlfriend has always told me she wanted to get her belly button pierced. I told her that I hate them, i find no attractiveness in them and that I really wouldn't like it. Well last year this day she pierced her belly button without telling anyone. Now she wants to get a larger one. I really hate this thing and i think it makes her look worse. She had such a great looking stomach until this happened. Also ive been with her for almost 4 years so its not like im going to break up with her for it but how should i react? Hopefully i ca get some female perspective on this. TL;DR:
girlfriend got a belly button piercing without telling me and now wants a larger one. How should i react?<|endoftext|>
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girlfriend got her belly button pierced without telling anyone. Now she wants to get one that's bigger.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my girlfriend has always told me she wanted to get her belly button pierced. I told her that I hate them, i find no attractiveness in them and that I really wouldn't like it. Well last year this day she pierced her belly button without telling anyone. Now she wants to get a larger one. I really hate this thing and i think it makes her look worse. She had such a great looking stomach until this happened. Also ive been with her for almost 4 years so its not like im going to break up with her for it but how should i react? Hopefully i ca get some female perspective on this. TL;DR: girlfriend got a belly button piercing without telling me and now wants a larger one. How should i react?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my girlfriend has always told me she wanted to get her belly button pierced. I told her that I hate them, i find no attractiveness in them and that I really wouldn't like it. Well last year this day she pierced her belly button without telling anyone. Now she wants to get a larger one. I really hate this thing and i think it makes her look worse. She had such a great looking stomach until this happened. Also ive been with her for almost 4 years so its not like im going to break up with her for it but how should i react? Hopefully i ca get some female perspective on this. TL;DR: girlfriend got her belly button pierced without telling anyone. Now she wants to get one that's bigger.<|endoftext|>
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Here is the situation. I have known this guy, for about a year now. And I have never met his girlfriend. A few hours ago he dropped a bombshell, in a few texts, on me that four months ago he created an account on some messenger to talk to his girlfriend as me to see her reaction if "I" flirted with her. This has been going on for four months and he is only telling me because now she wants to meet and do some other things with the both of us. Being a 20m, I can see both pros and cons of the situation. But the problem is the morality. He has literally been lying to his Girlfriend and masquerading as me for a while and now wants me to play along so she does not dump him. They have been together for four years and I don't want to break that up either. This should be a straight forward situation, I should go and tell his girlfriend immediately. But...... As I said I'm completely baffled. Please any advice you can give will be great. Thank you.
Friend created an account in my name, flirted with his girlfriend with that account, wants me to play along as if it was me the entire time.
Guy is lying about talking to his GF as me to see her reaction if I flirt with her. Should I play along despite his lies and risk destroying our relationship?
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here is the situation. I have known this guy, for about a year now. And I have never met his girlfriend. A few hours ago he dropped a bombshell, in a few texts, on me that four months ago he created an account on some messenger to talk to his girlfriend as me to see her reaction if "I" flirted with her. This has been going on for four months and he is only telling me because now she wants to meet and do some other things with the both of us. Being a 20m, I can see both pros and cons of the situation. But the problem is the morality. He has literally been lying to his Girlfriend and masquerading as me for a while and now wants me to play along so she does not dump him. They have been together for four years and I don't want to break that up either. This should be a straight forward situation, I should go and tell his girlfriend immediately. But...... As I said I'm completely baffled. Please any advice you can give will be great. Thank you. TL;DR:
Friend created an account in my name, flirted with his girlfriend with that account, wants me to play along as if it was me the entire time.<|endoftext|>
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Guy is lying about talking to his GF as me to see her reaction if I flirt with her. Should I play along despite his lies and risk destroying our relationship?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here is the situation. I have known this guy, for about a year now. And I have never met his girlfriend. A few hours ago he dropped a bombshell, in a few texts, on me that four months ago he created an account on some messenger to talk to his girlfriend as me to see her reaction if "I" flirted with her. This has been going on for four months and he is only telling me because now she wants to meet and do some other things with the both of us. Being a 20m, I can see both pros and cons of the situation. But the problem is the morality. He has literally been lying to his Girlfriend and masquerading as me for a while and now wants me to play along so she does not dump him. They have been together for four years and I don't want to break that up either. This should be a straight forward situation, I should go and tell his girlfriend immediately. But...... As I said I'm completely baffled. Please any advice you can give will be great. Thank you. TL;DR: Friend created an account in my name, flirted with his girlfriend with that account, wants me to play along as if it was me the entire time.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here is the situation. I have known this guy, for about a year now. And I have never met his girlfriend. A few hours ago he dropped a bombshell, in a few texts, on me that four months ago he created an account on some messenger to talk to his girlfriend as me to see her reaction if "I" flirted with her. This has been going on for four months and he is only telling me because now she wants to meet and do some other things with the both of us. Being a 20m, I can see both pros and cons of the situation. But the problem is the morality. He has literally been lying to his Girlfriend and masquerading as me for a while and now wants me to play along so she does not dump him. They have been together for four years and I don't want to break that up either. This should be a straight forward situation, I should go and tell his girlfriend immediately. But...... As I said I'm completely baffled. Please any advice you can give will be great. Thank you. TL;DR: Guy is lying about talking to his GF as me to see her reaction if I flirt with her. Should I play along despite his lies and risk destroying our relationship?<|endoftext|>
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So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?
girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me
I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life? TL;DR:
girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>
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I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life? TL;DR: girl I am trying to start a relationship with has a guy friend she might like and want to be with more then me and I have no fucking idea whether to confront her or let it go. really any opinion would mean a lot to me<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life? TL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>
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We live on a country road that is just outside of a small town. The house that we suspect was abandoned, but was recently purchased by a new owner. After the person bought the house, it quickly fell into a state of disarray. An orange traffic cone appeared on the porch a few weeks later and would then intermittently be on and off it. And then the house across the street from the house we suspect also got a cone on their porch. Creepy cars drive slowly down the road very late at night when it normally is empty. One night my sister and I were sitting in our respective rooms when we heard two loud popping noises and then a car speeding away. I thought they were fireworks at first, but then realized that they were actually gun shots. We didn't hear anyone screaming and decided against calling the police (though we both agree now that we probably should have.) I know that we don't have any hard core evidence, but what has been happening has been weird enough that we definitely think that something is up. So what should we do? I'm just afraid that someone who wants to buy some drugs from the guy might wander into our yard or break into our house. Fellow Redditors please help us out!
We think somebody is running a meth lab out on our road. What should we do?
People might be operating a meth lab and I'm afraid that meth people are going to do shit to our house.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We live on a country road that is just outside of a small town. The house that we suspect was abandoned, but was recently purchased by a new owner. After the person bought the house, it quickly fell into a state of disarray. An orange traffic cone appeared on the porch a few weeks later and would then intermittently be on and off it. And then the house across the street from the house we suspect also got a cone on their porch. Creepy cars drive slowly down the road very late at night when it normally is empty. One night my sister and I were sitting in our respective rooms when we heard two loud popping noises and then a car speeding away. I thought they were fireworks at first, but then realized that they were actually gun shots. We didn't hear anyone screaming and decided against calling the police (though we both agree now that we probably should have.) I know that we don't have any hard core evidence, but what has been happening has been weird enough that we definitely think that something is up. So what should we do? I'm just afraid that someone who wants to buy some drugs from the guy might wander into our yard or break into our house. Fellow Redditors please help us out! TL;DR:
We think somebody is running a meth lab out on our road. What should we do?<|endoftext|>
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People might be operating a meth lab and I'm afraid that meth people are going to do shit to our house.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We live on a country road that is just outside of a small town. The house that we suspect was abandoned, but was recently purchased by a new owner. After the person bought the house, it quickly fell into a state of disarray. An orange traffic cone appeared on the porch a few weeks later and would then intermittently be on and off it. And then the house across the street from the house we suspect also got a cone on their porch. Creepy cars drive slowly down the road very late at night when it normally is empty. One night my sister and I were sitting in our respective rooms when we heard two loud popping noises and then a car speeding away. I thought they were fireworks at first, but then realized that they were actually gun shots. We didn't hear anyone screaming and decided against calling the police (though we both agree now that we probably should have.) I know that we don't have any hard core evidence, but what has been happening has been weird enough that we definitely think that something is up. So what should we do? I'm just afraid that someone who wants to buy some drugs from the guy might wander into our yard or break into our house. Fellow Redditors please help us out! TL;DR: We think somebody is running a meth lab out on our road. What should we do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We live on a country road that is just outside of a small town. The house that we suspect was abandoned, but was recently purchased by a new owner. After the person bought the house, it quickly fell into a state of disarray. An orange traffic cone appeared on the porch a few weeks later and would then intermittently be on and off it. And then the house across the street from the house we suspect also got a cone on their porch. Creepy cars drive slowly down the road very late at night when it normally is empty. One night my sister and I were sitting in our respective rooms when we heard two loud popping noises and then a car speeding away. I thought they were fireworks at first, but then realized that they were actually gun shots. We didn't hear anyone screaming and decided against calling the police (though we both agree now that we probably should have.) I know that we don't have any hard core evidence, but what has been happening has been weird enough that we definitely think that something is up. So what should we do? I'm just afraid that someone who wants to buy some drugs from the guy might wander into our yard or break into our house. Fellow Redditors please help us out! TL;DR: People might be operating a meth lab and I'm afraid that meth people are going to do shit to our house.<|endoftext|>
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I have the feeling that I'm not interesting enough. I don't really have a passion for something. That makes me pretty depressed and self-consious. I don't have a lot of friends so a lot of the time I'm stuck with these feelings. I want to become more confident but I just can't... It's not that I'm a big disaster or something. I had some passions in the past like drawing, stop-motion and LEGO. But now I'm in high school and I have a lot of homework and other stuff to think about... I don't know if anyone will read this but I just wanted to tell this in some way or another.
I'm not interested in anything and I'm not sure if anyone will be able to relate.
I don't have a big interest in anything. I don't think I'm interesting enough and I'm not. I just don't know if anyone will read this.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have the feeling that I'm not interesting enough. I don't really have a passion for something. That makes me pretty depressed and self-consious. I don't have a lot of friends so a lot of the time I'm stuck with these feelings. I want to become more confident but I just can't... It's not that I'm a big disaster or something. I had some passions in the past like drawing, stop-motion and LEGO. But now I'm in high school and I have a lot of homework and other stuff to think about... I don't know if anyone will read this but I just wanted to tell this in some way or another. TL;DR:
I'm not interested in anything and I'm not sure if anyone will be able to relate.<|endoftext|>
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I don't have a big interest in anything. I don't think I'm interesting enough and I'm not. I just don't know if anyone will read this.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have the feeling that I'm not interesting enough. I don't really have a passion for something. That makes me pretty depressed and self-consious. I don't have a lot of friends so a lot of the time I'm stuck with these feelings. I want to become more confident but I just can't... It's not that I'm a big disaster or something. I had some passions in the past like drawing, stop-motion and LEGO. But now I'm in high school and I have a lot of homework and other stuff to think about... I don't know if anyone will read this but I just wanted to tell this in some way or another. TL;DR: I'm not interested in anything and I'm not sure if anyone will be able to relate.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have the feeling that I'm not interesting enough. I don't really have a passion for something. That makes me pretty depressed and self-consious. I don't have a lot of friends so a lot of the time I'm stuck with these feelings. I want to become more confident but I just can't... It's not that I'm a big disaster or something. I had some passions in the past like drawing, stop-motion and LEGO. But now I'm in high school and I have a lot of homework and other stuff to think about... I don't know if anyone will read this but I just wanted to tell this in some way or another. TL;DR: I don't have a big interest in anything. I don't think I'm interesting enough and I'm not. I just don't know if anyone will read this.<|endoftext|>
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Hey guys, so it's probably obvious that I'm new here and I guess I should say a bit about my situation. I'm a junior in college, I weigh about 300 lbs and am about 6'. I was actually down to 265 by Christmas of last year, but then I suffered a really traumatic injury to my right knee. Something happened while I was getting out of bed, I'm not quite sure and neither are the doctors. Well it's pretty much healed now but because I was off my feet for about a month, my motivation completely disappeared. I gained all the weight back and now I am feeling terrible again. I look at pictures of myself back when I was losing weight and now I look bloated and unappealing. Also, remembering how hard it is to find a date as a heavy-set guy makes me cringe, especially since I'm gay :/ So Reddit, I am going to lose weight the right way this time. I am going to start counting my calories on LIVESTRONG.com, I am going to go to the gym 5 days a week for a 40 min walking/jogging cardio, I have decided to end my addiction to soda completely, and I will ask for help from you guys when I need it. All of these things, minus the cardio, are the things that I did not do the first time I tried to lose weight so I hope it helps. Anything that you guys want to ask/recommend please feel free!
Was losing weight, gained it all back because of injury, decided to do it right this time by monitoring diet and exercise, asking for help from peers and technology.
I am going to start counting my calories and I am going to go the gym 5 days a week and change my diet. I am also going to ask for help from you guys on LIVESTRONG.com.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey guys, so it's probably obvious that I'm new here and I guess I should say a bit about my situation. I'm a junior in college, I weigh about 300 lbs and am about 6'. I was actually down to 265 by Christmas of last year, but then I suffered a really traumatic injury to my right knee. Something happened while I was getting out of bed, I'm not quite sure and neither are the doctors. Well it's pretty much healed now but because I was off my feet for about a month, my motivation completely disappeared. I gained all the weight back and now I am feeling terrible again. I look at pictures of myself back when I was losing weight and now I look bloated and unappealing. Also, remembering how hard it is to find a date as a heavy-set guy makes me cringe, especially since I'm gay :/ So Reddit, I am going to lose weight the right way this time. I am going to start counting my calories on LIVESTRONG.com, I am going to go to the gym 5 days a week for a 40 min walking/jogging cardio, I have decided to end my addiction to soda completely, and I will ask for help from you guys when I need it. All of these things, minus the cardio, are the things that I did not do the first time I tried to lose weight so I hope it helps. Anything that you guys want to ask/recommend please feel free! TL;DR:
Was losing weight, gained it all back because of injury, decided to do it right this time by monitoring diet and exercise, asking for help from peers and technology.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey guys, so it's probably obvious that I'm new here and I guess I should say a bit about my situation. I'm a junior in college, I weigh about 300 lbs and am about 6'. I was actually down to 265 by Christmas of last year, but then I suffered a really traumatic injury to my right knee. Something happened while I was getting out of bed, I'm not quite sure and neither are the doctors. Well it's pretty much healed now but because I was off my feet for about a month, my motivation completely disappeared. I gained all the weight back and now I am feeling terrible again. I look at pictures of myself back when I was losing weight and now I look bloated and unappealing. Also, remembering how hard it is to find a date as a heavy-set guy makes me cringe, especially since I'm gay :/ So Reddit, I am going to lose weight the right way this time. I am going to start counting my calories on LIVESTRONG.com, I am going to go to the gym 5 days a week for a 40 min walking/jogging cardio, I have decided to end my addiction to soda completely, and I will ask for help from you guys when I need it. All of these things, minus the cardio, are the things that I did not do the first time I tried to lose weight so I hope it helps. Anything that you guys want to ask/recommend please feel free! TL;DR: Was losing weight, gained it all back because of injury, decided to do it right this time by monitoring diet and exercise, asking for help from peers and technology.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey guys, so it's probably obvious that I'm new here and I guess I should say a bit about my situation. I'm a junior in college, I weigh about 300 lbs and am about 6'. I was actually down to 265 by Christmas of last year, but then I suffered a really traumatic injury to my right knee. Something happened while I was getting out of bed, I'm not quite sure and neither are the doctors. Well it's pretty much healed now but because I was off my feet for about a month, my motivation completely disappeared. I gained all the weight back and now I am feeling terrible again. I look at pictures of myself back when I was losing weight and now I look bloated and unappealing. Also, remembering how hard it is to find a date as a heavy-set guy makes me cringe, especially since I'm gay :/ So Reddit, I am going to lose weight the right way this time. I am going to start counting my calories on LIVESTRONG.com, I am going to go to the gym 5 days a week for a 40 min walking/jogging cardio, I have decided to end my addiction to soda completely, and I will ask for help from you guys when I need it. All of these things, minus the cardio, are the things that I did not do the first time I tried to lose weight so I hope it helps. Anything that you guys want to ask/recommend please feel free! TL;DR: I am going to start counting my calories and I am going to go the gym 5 days a week and change my diet. I am also going to ask for help from you guys on LIVESTRONG.com.<|endoftext|>
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First time posting but I've been lurking for 3 years- My mother will be coming into some money sometime in the next year. She plans to give my "inheritance" to me early by giving annual installments of 10k. This money is intended to help with buying my first home, paying off student loans, etc. The money is contingent on having a legal document or contract that assures her that any money I receive from her is mine and not part of the marital assets. My husband and I discussed it and he does not feel that this money would be his or part of the marital assets. He is fine with signing anything to that effect. I would prefer not to spend money on a lawyer to create a legal document or contract when that money could be going to something useful but my mother is fairly insistent. Any advice on how to keep this money from being subjected to division in case of divorce, etc? What would I be looking for from an attorney? Background: My parents are divorced because of lying about finances, being unemployed, and failing to participate in the relationship and the family. My mother has developed a lot of trust issues as a result. It seems that what is fair is not always equal and what is equal is not always fair.
My mother will give me money for a house and a car. I don't want to give it away. What advice would you give on how to prevent my mother from dividing it?
Family is broke and my mom wants me to split her money with me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First time posting but I've been lurking for 3 years- My mother will be coming into some money sometime in the next year. She plans to give my "inheritance" to me early by giving annual installments of 10k. This money is intended to help with buying my first home, paying off student loans, etc. The money is contingent on having a legal document or contract that assures her that any money I receive from her is mine and not part of the marital assets. My husband and I discussed it and he does not feel that this money would be his or part of the marital assets. He is fine with signing anything to that effect. I would prefer not to spend money on a lawyer to create a legal document or contract when that money could be going to something useful but my mother is fairly insistent. Any advice on how to keep this money from being subjected to division in case of divorce, etc? What would I be looking for from an attorney? Background: My parents are divorced because of lying about finances, being unemployed, and failing to participate in the relationship and the family. My mother has developed a lot of trust issues as a result. It seems that what is fair is not always equal and what is equal is not always fair. TL;DR:
My mother will give me money for a house and a car. I don't want to give it away. What advice would you give on how to prevent my mother from dividing it?<|endoftext|>
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Family is broke and my mom wants me to split her money with me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First time posting but I've been lurking for 3 years- My mother will be coming into some money sometime in the next year. She plans to give my "inheritance" to me early by giving annual installments of 10k. This money is intended to help with buying my first home, paying off student loans, etc. The money is contingent on having a legal document or contract that assures her that any money I receive from her is mine and not part of the marital assets. My husband and I discussed it and he does not feel that this money would be his or part of the marital assets. He is fine with signing anything to that effect. I would prefer not to spend money on a lawyer to create a legal document or contract when that money could be going to something useful but my mother is fairly insistent. Any advice on how to keep this money from being subjected to division in case of divorce, etc? What would I be looking for from an attorney? Background: My parents are divorced because of lying about finances, being unemployed, and failing to participate in the relationship and the family. My mother has developed a lot of trust issues as a result. It seems that what is fair is not always equal and what is equal is not always fair. TL;DR: My mother will give me money for a house and a car. I don't want to give it away. What advice would you give on how to prevent my mother from dividing it?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First time posting but I've been lurking for 3 years- My mother will be coming into some money sometime in the next year. She plans to give my "inheritance" to me early by giving annual installments of 10k. This money is intended to help with buying my first home, paying off student loans, etc. The money is contingent on having a legal document or contract that assures her that any money I receive from her is mine and not part of the marital assets. My husband and I discussed it and he does not feel that this money would be his or part of the marital assets. He is fine with signing anything to that effect. I would prefer not to spend money on a lawyer to create a legal document or contract when that money could be going to something useful but my mother is fairly insistent. Any advice on how to keep this money from being subjected to division in case of divorce, etc? What would I be looking for from an attorney? Background: My parents are divorced because of lying about finances, being unemployed, and failing to participate in the relationship and the family. My mother has developed a lot of trust issues as a result. It seems that what is fair is not always equal and what is equal is not always fair. TL;DR: Family is broke and my mom wants me to split her money with me.<|endoftext|>
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We've been together 6 years. We are both divorced and have children from our previous marriages. We each stayed in our respective cities 800 miles apart for the sake of the kids and their relationships with their other parents, our exes. Early on we flew back and forth every couple weeks, called and texted all the time, sent gifts to each other. I know it was the "honeymoon" phase of dating and don't expect that today. The problem is now I hardly expect anything and I'm not sure how to make it better. We both work hard and have parenting responsibilities, but when we're not together it's almost like I don't exist. She hardly initiates any phone calls, texts, emails, etc. If I don't reach out she will usually eventually text "haven't heard from you in a few days. Where have you been?" When we are together it's usually great. We are super compatible and love spending time with one another. It's just not enough for me anymore. I've thought about couples counseling but it seems logistically impractical when we live so far apart. I would appreciate any input/advice. I feel like I'm at my breaking point.
Long distance relationship makes me feel like I don't exist when we're apart. What should I do?
My long distance relationship with my SO is not fulfilling when we're apart. We are in a healthy, happy relationship with no issues.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together 6 years. We are both divorced and have children from our previous marriages. We each stayed in our respective cities 800 miles apart for the sake of the kids and their relationships with their other parents, our exes. Early on we flew back and forth every couple weeks, called and texted all the time, sent gifts to each other. I know it was the "honeymoon" phase of dating and don't expect that today. The problem is now I hardly expect anything and I'm not sure how to make it better. We both work hard and have parenting responsibilities, but when we're not together it's almost like I don't exist. She hardly initiates any phone calls, texts, emails, etc. If I don't reach out she will usually eventually text "haven't heard from you in a few days. Where have you been?" When we are together it's usually great. We are super compatible and love spending time with one another. It's just not enough for me anymore. I've thought about couples counseling but it seems logistically impractical when we live so far apart. I would appreciate any input/advice. I feel like I'm at my breaking point. TL;DR:
Long distance relationship makes me feel like I don't exist when we're apart. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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My long distance relationship with my SO is not fulfilling when we're apart. We are in a healthy, happy relationship with no issues.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together 6 years. We are both divorced and have children from our previous marriages. We each stayed in our respective cities 800 miles apart for the sake of the kids and their relationships with their other parents, our exes. Early on we flew back and forth every couple weeks, called and texted all the time, sent gifts to each other. I know it was the "honeymoon" phase of dating and don't expect that today. The problem is now I hardly expect anything and I'm not sure how to make it better. We both work hard and have parenting responsibilities, but when we're not together it's almost like I don't exist. She hardly initiates any phone calls, texts, emails, etc. If I don't reach out she will usually eventually text "haven't heard from you in a few days. Where have you been?" When we are together it's usually great. We are super compatible and love spending time with one another. It's just not enough for me anymore. I've thought about couples counseling but it seems logistically impractical when we live so far apart. I would appreciate any input/advice. I feel like I'm at my breaking point. TL;DR: Long distance relationship makes me feel like I don't exist when we're apart. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together 6 years. We are both divorced and have children from our previous marriages. We each stayed in our respective cities 800 miles apart for the sake of the kids and their relationships with their other parents, our exes. Early on we flew back and forth every couple weeks, called and texted all the time, sent gifts to each other. I know it was the "honeymoon" phase of dating and don't expect that today. The problem is now I hardly expect anything and I'm not sure how to make it better. We both work hard and have parenting responsibilities, but when we're not together it's almost like I don't exist. She hardly initiates any phone calls, texts, emails, etc. If I don't reach out she will usually eventually text "haven't heard from you in a few days. Where have you been?" When we are together it's usually great. We are super compatible and love spending time with one another. It's just not enough for me anymore. I've thought about couples counseling but it seems logistically impractical when we live so far apart. I would appreciate any input/advice. I feel like I'm at my breaking point. TL;DR: My long distance relationship with my SO is not fulfilling when we're apart. We are in a healthy, happy relationship with no issues.<|endoftext|>
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So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. I was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. I just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all.
met a dude who is cool, tells me hes in an open relationship, except I have a feeling its not so open for her
Been talking to a guy who revealed to me he's in an open relationship. Not sure how to proceed.
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. I was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. I just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all. TL;DR:
met a dude who is cool, tells me hes in an open relationship, except I have a feeling its not so open for her<|endoftext|>
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Been talking to a guy who revealed to me he's in an open relationship. Not sure how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. I was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. I just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all. TL;DR: met a dude who is cool, tells me hes in an open relationship, except I have a feeling its not so open for her<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I met this guy who seemed really cool and we hit it off. Into the same music, humor, etc. We made plans to go on a date. A few days before he reveals he is in a poly relationship and he felt bad for not telling me sooner, as he wasn't looking for anything initially but thought I was really cool. I was a little irritated, as I don't know a lot about open relationships but I figure you should tell someone ASAP about it. Whatever. I don't care if he's in an open relationship I just want honesty. I ask him if she knows about me and he said yes and blahblah. We keep talking. I notice whenever he is with his girlfriend, he doesn't text me at all. Also weird about trading social media info except for snapchat. I hear today he wants to reschedule plans as he got into a huge fight with his girlfriend and doesn't know if the day we picked will work. I just feel so sketched out by this. Could I be reading too much into things or am I the potential other woman? How am I supposed to go about things as I don't know much about open relationships at all. TL;DR: Been talking to a guy who revealed to me he's in an open relationship. Not sure how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
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