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open with something casual . listen actively . follow her lead . be honest . create an air of intimacy . christen her with a new nickname . start calling her hermione every so often if she shares a whole lot of facts and useful tidbits . create inside jokes . confide in her .

how to show a girl that you like her without being obvious 1

dont overthink it and try to be too deep or clever . just show her that find her interesting enough to talk to . start the same sort of conversation that you would with anybody else . use whatever situation that you find yourself in to pick a starting point , for instance , you couldrequest a small favor , like hey , could you show me your laptop im looking for a new one , or what just happened onscreen i looked away for one second and missed it . ask her about something relevant . for example what did you think of that band that just played or i like those patches on your bag . whered you get them make a simple comment about whatever , like i dont know about you , but i think im freezing in here , or that had to be the most ridiculous fight ive ever seen . being a good listener is important in relationships . active listening can help you to grasp more of what someone is saying while also making the person feel like you are listening closely . try to practice active listening whenever she is talking . some things you can do includemaking eye contact and facing her . dont look at your phone or glance around the room when she is talking . nodding and making neutral statements , such as yes , uh - huh , i see , and go on . asking probing questions to keep her talking and show interest , such as what happened next how did you feel and what are you going to do now clarifying what she says when necessary , such as by saying , it seems like you are saying . is that right or , what do you mean when you say once the conversation gets rolling , let her steer it . respond to what she says . follow up with questions to learn more about her . show her that you are genuinely interested in her . when she tells a story , ask her what happened next . or , back up and ask for a little more backstory to this or that plot point . when she shares an opinion , ask her what led her to form that opinion . share your own stories and opinions , but be sure to tie them back to what she last said . for example , if she was talking about how shes scared of the ocean , dont brag about that time you successfully fought off a great white shark instead , use that story to show that you understand her fright . dont try to pretend to be to the person that you think she wants . dont adopt your friends tactics , either , if they go against your own personality . remember just because one tactic works for one person doesnt mean it will work for you . instead , impress her with who you really are . dont make her feel tricked later on . dont fake interest in stuff that you couldnt care less about . for instance , dont pretend to love football just because youre at a super bowl party . if you arent ready to share this or that part of yourself just yet , leave it unmentioned . for example , if you feel embarrassed about writing poetry , dont tell her that you think poetry is stupid . dont take intimacy to mean romance . instead , simply try to forge a connection that she cant replicate with someone else . make her feel special by building a private language between the two of you . use elements from your surroundings and your conversation . for example , try furiosa if she loves cars , shaves her head , or drives aggressively . call her slick if she trips . but make sure she finds it funny , and quit it if she doesnt . poke fun at your surroundings , other people , or even yourselves . for example , say you both met someone whose name sounds like an action heros name . in the future , whenever the two of you have a flat tire or get lost , cry , jack gunner , please save us make an act of sharing a secret with her , even though its not something that you really hide . again , say youre at a super bowl party but hate football . make a show of hushing your voice and whispering your confession . make her feel as though the two of you share something special , even though you both know its a joke .

include her in your plans . show her that you think a good time is always a better time when she is part of it . give her time to plan if needed . buy her a ticket anyway . look her in the eyes . make physical contact . embrace her . support her interests . follow her recommendations .

how to show a girl that you like her without being obvious 2

invite her along whenever you plan to go out . make her feel part of the group if you are going with other friends , or make her feel special by suggesting that the two of you hang out one - on - one . you can also try to relate the conversation back to her from time to time . for example , you might say something like , hey ted , did you know that karen is into that new video game you got too shes already on level 5 if youre going to an event like a concert or movie that requires tickets or travel or permission from her parents , give her plenty of notice . dont wait until the last minute . show her that youre thinking about her needs . for example hey , me and my friends are thinking about going to see the rocks new movie up at that theater in brockport next friday . you interested if you only made your plans at the last minute , consider surprising her with a ticket . only do this if you can afford it , or if you know someone else who can use the ticket as a plan b if she cant go . then offer it to her casually hey , i was online last night buying tickets . the show was selling out fast , but it was too late to call you , so i just bought you one in case you want it . no biggie if you dont . dont stare off at something else when the two of you are talking . demonstrate your interest in her by giving her your direct attention . make strong eye - contact when you are together . at the same time , dont just stare at her without blinking , which might make her uncomfortable . instead look her in the eye when she is speaking to show her that she has your attention . when its your turn to speak , shift your gaze to something else . gather your thoughts before you respond . when youre ready to speak , look her in the eye again . by doing this she will feel that you are drawn back to her face again and again . this is much more flattering than being stared at . create a deeper sense of intimacy between the two of you by touching her . remember , though be respectful about it . start by simply standing closer to her , so that you could easily touch without having to reach . if she seems fine with you standing in her personal space , make light , casual touches as you talk . for example if youre in a crowded space , lean into her when people brush by , then joke about it dang , im starting to wish i brought my mints touch her elbow , hand , or shoulder whenever something new occurs to you oh hey i forgot to tell you . . . nudge her sides or her elbow with your own to underscore a point or tease her i bet that one shot of ewan mcgregors butt was your favorite part of the movie , eh once the two of you are used to making playful physical contact , step it up add hugs or even light kisses to the mix . even though this might seem like crossing the line between subtle and obvious , dont back down . as long as shes receptive , show her that you care with more direct signs of affection . when shes upset , draw her into a one - armed hug around her shoulders . give her a polite peck on the top of her head . if you havent seen each other in a while , throw your arms open for a hug . greet her with , there she is or , just put on an act as if you havent seen each other in forever and do the same thing , even if its only been ten minutes . if she has made a point of dressing up or even if she hasnt , take her hand . bow , give her a gentlemanly kiss on the top of her hand , and tell her how smashing she looks . quit saying goodbye at nights end and just give her a hug instead . attend events that she is participating in , such as sports games , plays , concerts , recitals , etc . forward her links to posts , stories , and memes that you think she would like . like her comments , links , and posts on social media . dont go overboard on this last one , though . avoid making her think that youre just liking everything for the sake of it . when she tells you that you should check out this or that band , show , book , or whatever , give it a chance . show her that you value her opinion . at the same time , use this opportunity to learn more about what she likes so you have that much more to talk about . however , dont take this to mean that you have to like whatever she likes . speak from the gut , be your own person , and share your honest opinions .

show her an appropriate amount of attention . go easy on the gifts . dont show up out of nowhere . keep active elsewhere . match the length of her messages . be patient when waiting for replies .

how to show a girl that you like her without being obvious 3

remember even though you may want her to become your girlfriend , you arent there yet . for now , show her the same amount of attention that you would to any other girl or friend . value quality over quantity when it comes to hanging out . only give her presents when it is appropriate , like her birthday and holidays . make the most of these occasions by using inside jokes and knowledge to find her a gift that she will really love and appreciate . dont go overboard and smother her with flowers every friday and chocolates every monday . always arrange to hang out ahead of time . dont make her feel backed into a corner by just showing up on her doorstep . only surprise her by showing up unannounced if youre part of a larger audience , like at a concert or play that she is performing in . make it clear that she has to fit herself into your schedule . dont tip your hand by putting your friends , family , and other interests on the backburner . if you already have plans with someone else , stick to it . note how much she wrote whenever she texts , messages , or emails you . when you write back , limit yourself to the same length , or even shorter . resist the urge to outdo her and write a novel . instead , keep it to a simple back - and - forth so she doesnt feel overburdened by keeping up with you . also take note of how often she messages you . stick to the same level of frequency . text , call , or email her at random to show her that she is on your mind . but dont do it so much that you come across as obsessed or needy . remember that she has other stuff going on in her life . take a breath and relax . give her time to text or call you back , even if it takes a few hours , or even a couple days . show her that you respect the fact that other things require her attention . dont badger her by following up with a second call or message just to see if she got your first one . if she never gets back to you before you bump into each other again , let it go unmentioned . remember , calling her out on not calling you back will only hurt your chances in the end .

avoid being clingy . talk to him . tell him about yourself . be kind to him . be yourself . remember that he is human .

how to not be annoying to your crush

although you may want his attention , its important to give him his space . if he feels that you respect him and his personal space , he may be more likely to interact with you . otherwise , he may view you as a needy person and stay away from you . for instance , if he doesnt respond to your text within five minutes , understand that he has his own life . if you notice that he replies to you with very few words , dont become upset or demand that he says more . instead , it may be helpful to ask questions in your texts so that he has something to respond to . rather than sending him yes - or - no questions , try to come up with ones that may require him to reply with more words ex what did you think of the soccer game . if he still gives you a short reply , you could wait for a short time to indicate that you want him to say a bit more . although you should avoid being overly talkative , initiate conversations with him to show that youre interested in his life . come up with interesting subjects that engage the both of you . be sure that you give him a chance to express his opinion . dont hesitate to ask questions about himself , as most people enjoy talking about themselves . if you dont have time to talk to him , a simple greeting is enough to grab his attention . if you have trouble selecting conversation topics , think of events that are occurring around you . for instance , if you recently had a biology test , talk to him about it and ask whether he did well or not . however , try to branch out and talk about other subjects rather than only focusing on school . if you notice that he isnt talking much , consider the possibilities . are you dominating the conversation and not allowing him a chance to speak is he not interested in the subject or is he just naturally quiet do your best to remedy the situation so that he enjoys talking to you . although you shouldnt stay in the spotlight for too long , its a good idea to share some facts about your life with him so that he can get to know you more . tell him things about you - such as your hobbies - that will stick in his mind and show that youre a unique girl . you may even discover common interests , which may open the way for more conversations . although you shouldnt overdo it , treat him nicely . for instance , if he doesnt have a lunch , offer to give him some money or share your food with him . if he tells you about something bad that happened to him , sympathize with him and listen to what he has to say . show that you care about him and his well - being . be careful when treating him nicely . if he isnt a good person , he may take advantage of your kindness . if you notice that he is using you , immediately stop and dont allow him to manipulate you . although you may be attracted to him , it can be dangerous and painful if you let him control you . although you may want to impress him , changing who you are isnt the right choice . youre not only presenting a false image of yourself but also hurting yourself and perhaps even others in the process . by staying true to who you are , youre showing that you are proud of yourself , which may attract his attention . dont pretend to be someone you arent . avoid changing for him . it may be tempting to mold yourself into his type , but maintaining that facade will be painful and exhausting . showing how unique you are will attract the right kinds of guys . while it may be easy to worship him , allowing your crush to take over your life is a dangerous route . it can be easy to overlook his flaws and focus only on his strengths , which can be harmful . if you feel that you are becoming too obsessed with him , you may want to take a step back and place some space between the two of you . participate in different activities to get your mind off of him .

look for signs that indicate your crush isnt reciprocating interest . stop staring at your crush . avoid facing your entire body directly toward your crush . stop acting overly serious around your crush . spend time with your crush in moderation without being too clingy . avoid being overly direct about your feelings toward your crush . appear relaxed in front of your crush whenever possible . avoid touching your crush inappropriately at the wrong moments . deliver a sincere apology to your crush if you suspect youre being too creepy . determine whether your physical appearance is making you seem creepy to your crush . avoid stalking your crush to arrange accidental meetings .

how to seem less creepy in front of your crush

hanging around your crush can make you look creepy if he or she gives obvious signals theyre not interested . examples of signs that convey lack of interest are delayed responses , failure to make eye contact , and crossed arms . staring can seem aggressive and predatory , and make your crush feel scared or uncomfortable in your presence . try to casually glance over at your crush from time to time , or admire him or her using your peripheral vision . try smiling or winking when you do make eye contact with your crush . these are common ways to flirt with your crush from afar using eye contact . facing your eyes , torso , and feet toward a person can make him or her feel cornered and uncomfortable , especially when the interest isnt mutual . instead , face your body in a slightly different direction so your full attention isnt centered on your crush . constantly frowning and maintaining a serious expression can make you appear too intense and creepy , while smiling and laughing are more effective at lighting up the mood and making your interaction seem more friendly and casual . hanging around your crush at every possible moment can make you appear needy , clingy , and creepy as a result , especially if youve just met . instead , say hello to your crush when you cross paths or make definitive plans to spend time together . while its important to be honest and upfront about your feelings toward your crush to prevent misunderstanding , sometimes being overly direct can scare him or her away , depending on how you present your feelings . for example , inform your crush that youre interested in getting to know them better , rather than professing your love and intentions to marry and bear their children . feelings of nervousness and fear around your crush can lead to trembling , sweating , a shaky voice , and other signs that could make your crush feel awkward and uncomfortable in your presence . practice deep breathing , smile , and laugh to help yourself stay calm when spending time with your crush . while you may constantly look for opportunities to make physical contact with your crush , touching him or her at the wrong moments or too soon after meeting can make you seem creepy and predatory . try to maintain a respectable physical distance and avoid seizing moments to touch your crush whenever given the chance . this is helpful if he or she misinterprets your intentions and avoids spending time around you as a result . for example , apologize for staring at your crush , and explain that you allowed your gaze to linger because he or she looked especially attractive on that particular day . poor hygiene , ill - fitting clothes , and clothing with derogatory logos and sayings are examples of things that could make you seem insensitive , scary , and creepy from a physical standpoint . improve physical hygiene if necessary , and avoid wearing clothing that offends your crush . for example , if your crush openly announces his or her distaste for gun laws , avoid wearing t - shirts that advertise your views on pro - gun laws . showing up at your crushs favorite hangouts or place of work can seem creepy , especially if you run into him or her repeatedly on more than one occasion . keep a fair distance , and avoid going out of your way to run into them during staged meetings .

put yourself on the radar . find out what he likes about her . speak nicely . tell him his worth . be fun . use what youve learned . stay close to him . do not change who you are . dress to impress . interact with him . compliment his body .

how to make your crush stop liking another girl

when you form a friendship with him , it is okay to create reasons to get together . the more time you spend with him , the better . he may not be interested in you yet , but you should take this time to comfortably show him your personality and truly get to know him . this part is very important and only possible if youre friends with him . mention his crush in a conversation and see what he says . dont settle for answers about how physically attractive she is . there must be more to her that he is attracted to you and you have to find out what those traits are . dont speak poorly of her . you may think that this will make her look bad , but youll be the one looking bad in the end . if you speak poorly of her , hell think youre a negative person . plus , guys love a supportive girl . if youre bashing his opinions , youre only hurting yourself . while you dont want to speak poorly of his current crush , you can start to get his mind out of that relationship by talking him up . tell him that hes the full package and that he deserves the best . tell him not to settle and that he should go after someone that he is friends with because the relationship will be stronger if that connection is already existent . while youre still in the friend zone , it is a great time to show him your playful side . guys like a girl that laughs at his jokes . they are intrigued by girls that arent always serious about everything . while being his friend , you should have learned his likes and dislikes—about girls and in general . use these things to your advantage . show him that the two of you have similar interests in hobbies or activities . also , show him that you have the personality traits that he is attracted to . dont lose the friendship that you have created . this shows him that you appreciate him as a person . when he realizes that you are attracted to him , it will help create the image of you as the whole package . men want to be with someone that they are friends with and are attracted to . while you want to adopt the personality traits that hes attracted to , you dont want to completely change who you are . find a way to merge the traits that he likes with your own . this way , the relationship has a chance long - term . when he first told you what he was attracted to in his crush , he probably mentioned a specific look that he liked . try to mimic it . if he said that he liked a certain part of her body , try to accentuate yours through your outfit . guys are undoubtedly attracted by looks , so make yourself appealing to him . make your conversations flirty . lean into him more when the two of you talk , keep laughing at his jokes , and create a physical connection . you can touch his shoulder when youre laughing , take his hand to lead him somewhere , or run your hand through his hair and comment on how nice it is . he will love your compliments because hell trust you , as a friend , that they are genuine . also , it will show him that you notice his physical appearance . when you compliment him , he may feel the need to give one back , which gets him looking at you .

look and feel confident . go up to your crush casually . introduce yourself . compliment your crush . keep the conversation going . find a way to stay in touch . to end the conversation , come up with a casual excuse to leave .

how to meet your crush for the first time

even if youre shy , talking to your crush can be really easy . just treat himher like a good friend . dont run up like youre a crazed fan try to meet him or her as casually as possible . if one of your friends knows your crush , ask to be introduced . this way , the meeting will seem very friendly and not too out of the ordinary . if youre really uncomfortable talking to your crush , and you have a friend that knows himher , bring your friend along and ask your friend to do most of the talking . use your friend to your advantage get your friend to talk about you to your crush , and use himher to help get a conversation going . its not that difficult to say your own name - just try not to get tongue - tied . remember that this crush of yours is a normal person like you , and there is no real reason to get nervous . if you need an excuse to meet your crush , go up and say that you heard that heshe needed help with , for example , some math homework . give your name and phone number , and let himher know you are willing to help . this is also a good excuse to see himher again after your first meeting . this works especially well if your crush is a girl , since girls love compliments but even guys like to be complimented on things like their shirt or their shoes . this will start your relationship on a good note . its can be hard to get a conversation going when you first meet someone . if youve already broken the ice by giving a compliment , build on that . follow up with questions and comments like where did you get those shoes oh , really ive been there before . its a great place . if you dont feel ready to have a conversation , skip to the next step . if you both have cell phones , ask to exchange phone numbers . you can also ask them if they have are on facebook , twitter , msn , google , or whatever other social networking site you use . this will show that youre interested in staying in touch with them . dont rush off like you have something better to do , but dont just stand there in awkward silence , either . when you feel that youve said enough , or if things are taking an awkward turn , find a casual , realistic reason to say goodbye . if youre talking between classes , say you have to go to class . if youre not , say you have to get going someone is waiting for you . add a see you later to top it off . this will hint that youd like to meet and talk again .

just breathe . make an okay sign with your fingers . use music to relax . dance a little . be confident in your looks .

how to not act like an idiot around your crush 1

when you see your crush and start feeling excited and nervous , focus on your breathing . remember that your lungs get less oxygen when you take quick , short breaths , which makes your heart speed up and your body tense up . so make a point of taking deep , long breaths to calm both your body and mind . inhale through your nose and exhale through your mouth . encourage deeper breaths by imagining that your lungs are down in your abs . practice on your own so its easier to do when your crush is around . this may sound odd , but its actually a yoga trick called the gyan mudra . form an o by joining the tip of your index finger with the tip of your thumb , just like you would to signal okay to someone . refocus your attention from the inside to the outside . instead of focusing on the excitement building up inside you , just concentrate on the feeling of your thumb and fingertip touching . you can do this right before you see that special someone , or even while youre talking to them . just hold your hands behind your back when you see them , or use whatever youre holding like a textbook to hide it from view if you think it looks odd . if you know you will be seeing your crush any minute , listen to something relaxing beforehand if you can . create a playlist full of calming music on your device . otherwise , just play a song that usually calms you down in the back of your head . whatever music you choose , the keyword is relaxing . your bodys rhythms will naturally fall in sync with the musics . this means your body will start getting worked up if you play something too exciting . get rid of your anxieties by dancing them out before you see that guy or girl who makes you swoon . this is a proven way to relieve stress , so if youre all alone or if you dont mind busting a move in public go all out and dance it off . otherwise , just move your feet around by taking a walk , stepping on and off a curb or stair , or something similar . depending on what type of music you like to dance to , this might seem to contradict the whole bit about listening to relaxing music . but dont worry about that . dancing will increase your blood flow throughout your body and deliver more oxygen everywhere , which help tense muscles relax and feel better . so if youre going to be active , the more active the better then , as the hour draws near when you expect to run into your crush , switch over to your playlist of your relaxing music to get yourself squared and centered . dont fret over those little imperfections that youd like to wish away . also , dont worry about trying to morph into a certain type that you think your crush might like . dress the way you like to dress . style your hair the way you like it . be yourself and own it sure , people are definitely attracted to certain looks . but its been proven that people are likely to respond much quicker to your level of confidence than your appearance . so , if youre a brunette or redhead whos worried that your crush only seems to date blondes or vice versa , stop worrying as long as you act confident in your own looks , theyll be more blown away by your self - assurance than your hair color .

be bold . keep them talking about themselves . look at them . concentrate on them , not you . offer your own take on things . keep things light . keep a positive frame of mind .

how to not act like an idiot around your crush 2

when you see your crush , just go right up and start a conversation . show them how confident you are by going straight for it instead of shying away . dont give yourself time to overthink things and grow anxious or give someone else the chance to swoop in and steal their attention . just walk on up and open with something casual . tryasking a question about something you share in common , like a class hey , do you know which pages mr . kingsley asked us to read for tomorrow i didnt write them down , and now i cant remember . commenting on something that peaks your interest , like their new sneakers hey , nice kicks whered you get them using something incidental to get the ball rolling , like the book theyre reading you know , that ones been in my to - read pile forever . is it worth getting into once you draw them into a conversation , keep the spotlight on them at first to draw them in farther . think of yourself as an interviewer and ask a lot of follow - up questions . this will flatter their ego by showing that youre interested in what they think , and give you a chance to grow more comfortable with them before the spotlight turns on you . for example , if you opened the conversation by commenting on the book theyre readingask if theyve read any of that authors books . if they have , which would they recommend reading first say the book they recommend was turned into a movie . ask which they liked better and why . as you go on , let the conversation flow naturally from topic to topic , but keep the focus on what they think of that topic , whatever it may be . so , if they really liked the movie adaptation because their favorite director made it , ask why they like that director , which film is their favorite , and so on . make direct eye - contact when you walk up to them and maintain it as you talk . show them that youre interested in what they have to say by keeping your attention on them . avoid glancing away and staring off at something else , which might make them think youre bored , distracted , or feeling defensive . that isnt to say that you should stare at them without blinking , though , because that could be creepy . take natural breaks . shut your eyes or look away when you laugh . if someone else shouts or zips by on a bike a few feet away , glance at them . just keep your breaks brief and bring your attention back to your crush immediately . dont forget to smile when you first approach . show them that youre happy to be talking to them and that they should be happy , too focus on whats happening outside of you instead of your internal emotions . tune all of your attention to what your crush says and does . empty your mind of everything else so you only react to the conversation , not any anxiety that you might be feeling inside . of course , dont take that too literally and stand there empty - headed like a zombie . the trick is to quiet any thoughts that dont have anything to do with what the two of you are talking about right here , right now . this way you wont overthink things and make the conversation awkward by worrying about stuff that has nothing to do with it . asking your crush lots of questions at first shows your interest in their thoughts and opinions , but remember to start sharing your own as you grow more comfortable around them . dont make them feel like this is a police interrogation . make the conversation an equal give - and - take as you go on . lets say youre still talking about their favorite director and movies . if one of their favorite movies is one of yours , too , say so and tell them why you love it . if not , play the desert island game and ask which five movies theyd bring with them to watch for the rest of their lives . then share your own picks and the reasons why . as you go on and ask them more questions , share your own answers after they do . for instance , if all five of their desert island picks are horror flicks , say , youre really into horror , huh then share your own opinion on the genre . by being bold , asking lots of questions , and sharing your own answers , you can make them feel like the conversation is equal parts give - and - take . at the same time , you get to direct the course of the conversation so you can reveal exactly what you want to share about yourself . make the conversation enjoyable by sticking to topics that you both enjoy . leave serious talks for the future , when the two of you are officially together . for now , just show your crush that youre a fun person to talk to , and keep the conversation carefree . avoid being negative . say you absolutely hate their favorite movie . dont put them off by picking it apart . that isnt to say you have to lie and say you loved it . be honest , but carefree . just say you couldnt get into it , and leave it at that . then use some aspect about it as a springboard to something you can speak positively about . for example , if an actor in that movie was in a movie you do love , switch topics by saying something like , oh , but you know what tom hardy movie i do love . . . on the other hand , if you both think a movie was terrible , feel free to bond over picking it apart if you both enjoy doing that dont assume everythings destined to go wrong . that will just increase your chances of self - fulfilling that destiny and acting like more of an idiot instead , keep an open mind . stop yourself from trying to read too much into every little thing your crush says or does . unless they flat - out say , i dont like you , take it easy on yourself . go with the flow and assume everything will work out for the best . youre not a mind - reader , so give yourself a break if they seem withdrawn when you talk with them . they could be tired , distracted , or depressed about something else entirely . focus on what goes right instead of worrying about what goes wrong . for example , if you made them laugh with a joke , cherish that moment instead of dwelling on the fact that you stuttered a few times . keep a sense of humor about yourself . remember everyone acts like an idiot sometimes , so dont beat yourself up when you do . showing your crush that you can laugh at yourself will make you seem even more confident .

focus on your body language , not your body . be still . pay attention to your hands and arms . keep your feet and legs in mind as well . maintain good posture .

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dont worry about imperfections . remember everybody has some . instead of worrying needlessly about hiding this or that feature , focus instead on showing self - confidence through your body language . so fix yourself up and dress according to your own style instead of trying to force - fit yourself into a type that you think your crush might like better . people are far more likely to respond to your self - confidence than your appearance . focus less on what your face and body look like , and more on how you carry yourself . try not to fidget or act jumpy . avoid nervous behavior like tapping your feet or fingers or playing with your hair , ear , or anything else . whether youre standing or sitting , remain composed . only move when its called for . show you own the room by not acting like youre ready to flee at the drop of a hat . keep your feet from tapping or your knees from bouncing by concentrating on keeping both feet flat on the floor . use your hands to make gestures if thats what you normally do . just try to keep it to a minimum and be graceful about it so your special someone isnt distracted by wild flailing . if you feel like some part of you absolutely must move , focus your attention on your breathing . breathe deeply and concentrate on how your chest rises and falls . avoid the temptation to stick your hands in your pockets . also fight the urge to cross arms . your crush might see these as signs of boredom , anger , or defensiveness . keep your arms hanging relaxed by your sides when standing , or fold your hands over your lap if youre sitting . if you find this hard , bring something to hold when you talk to them to keep your hands occupied . this could be anything from a textbook , bag , or even a pair of sneakers if youre on your way to the gym . if you do bring a prop to hold , just bring one . juggling a pile of random stuff might make you seem like a disorganized mess . resist the urge to fold in on yourself and hold yourself too tightly . instead , show your confidence by setting your feet slightly apart from each other . aim your toes directly at your crush . show them that your attention is focused squarely on them . avoid creating the impression that youre ready to bolt in some other direction . do the same if youre seated facing each other . if youre seated side by side instead , angle your feet slightly toward them . cross an ankle over one knee when youre sitting if that feels more comfortable . keep your back straight , your shoulders down , and your arms relaxed . stick your chest out a little . avoid hunching over or tensing your shoulders all the way up to your ears . whether youre sitting , standing still , or walking , stay relaxed , move slowly , and keep your back tall and proud . the key is to come off as relaxed , so if you have bad posture in general , start working on improving it when youre alone . if you arent used to good posture , you may come across as stiff and cranky if you force it . another exception would be if your crush is much shorter than you are . in this case , feel free to hunch forward to bring your heads closer together . this way you wont come across as staring down your nose at them .

feed your guinea pig vegetables as treats . make greens the bulk of your guineas diet . add in other vegetables . limit fruit to a few times a week . satisfy your guineas need for vitamin c . guinea pigs cannot produce vitamin c on their own , so you need to provide it in their diet . rinse all food thoroughly . remove seeds . chop vegetables and fruit into bite - sized pieces . remove any uneaten food . make hay more interesting . add oats to pellets .

how to make guinea pig treats 1

though guineas should really get vegetables every day , your guinea will likely see them as treats . they love digging into fresh vegetables . romaine lettuce and spinach are a great base for your guineas treat . your guinea pig should have a cup of vegetables and fruit a day , and greens should make up most of that cup . in fact , most days , it can just be greens . you can add pieces of zucchini , sweet potato , parsley , and carrots as toppings . however , dont make them the bulk of their diet , and change up what you feed your guinea pig from day to day . try to only feed other vegetables a couple of times a week . any vegetable if feed to excess every day can potentially cause problems . for example carrots are high in oxalate , which if fed daily can predispose the gp to developing oxalate bladder stones . a good rule of thumb is to never feed the same food two days running , which prevents mineral build - up . you can also feed your guinea pig asparagus , basil , carrots with tops or without , celery , chicory , cilantro , eggplant , cucumber , dill , parsley , parsnips , radishes , rocket , bell peppers , turnips , tomatoes , and watercress . remove seeds when possible . skip rhubarb , potatoes , and tomato leaves completely , as they contain substances called alkaloids which are toxic to guinea pigs . feed a limited number of vegetables in the cabbage family , such as cabbage , broccoli , brussels sprouts , bok choy , and cauliflower , as it can cause your guinea pig to bloat . only offer these once in awhile in small amounts . while guinea pigs can eat fruit , they should only eat in small doses because of the high sugar content . you can feed your guinea pig a wide variety of fruits , but try to remove the seeds when possible . you can feed your guinea pigs apples and pears in small slices with peels , berries such as blueberries and blackberries , citrus fruits such as oranges and grapefruit , melons such as cantaloupe and watermelon , kiwi , mango , peaches , nectarines , and plums . banana is also fine in limited amounts . you can also give them dried fruits such as apricots and dates , but only give them in small pieces as they are high in sugar . you can give them a quarter of an orange , for instance , or add bell peppers or asparagus , though leafy greens also provide vitamin c . rub the fruits and vegetables under running water to remove bacteria , pesticides , and other harmful substances from the surface . to be safe , wash home - grown vegetables , as well , since car exhaust and other particles in the air can gather on vegetation . dont dry the food off . leaving the water on it gives your guinea pig more fresh water . greens dont need to be chopped . you can leave leaves whole , but pull them off the stalks . if you feed the stocks , you need to treat them as you do other vegetables by chopping them . its usually best to remove seeds from fruits and vegetables , as they arent always good for your guinea pig . that includes tomatoes , cucumbers , bell peppers , and apples . chop the treats into chunks to make them easier for guinea pigs to eat . this step is especially important for stringy vegetables such as celery its stringiness can cause the guinea pig to choke if its not small enough . therefore , make sure you slice up celery small . for other vegetables , human - sized bites are fine , even slices of cucumber . for extra fun , you can present it as a salad in a bowl . uneaten food quickly spoils . make sure to take it out of the cage after an hour so that your guinea pig wont get sick . your guinea pig needs hay for digestion . however , to make it a bit more fun , you can stuff it in a cardboard toilet paper tube . your guinea pig will have fun pulling out of the tube . you can also add a small scoop of rolled oats to their regular pellets . the oats make the food more interesting , and your guinea pigs will see it as a treat .

gather your ingredients . wash and slice the vegetables and fruit . blend the vegetables and fruit together . freeze the treats . let the treat thaw in a bowl .

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youll need 2 carrots , 3 cucumbers , 1 wedge of apple minus seeds , and 1 cup of water . you can leave the seeds in the cucumber . make sure you thoroughly wash the vegetation to remove any pesticides . cut it into large chunks . stick the chunks in a blender . blend the mixture until it is smooth . pour the mixture into an ice tray . make sure you cover it with plastic wrap before you freeze it . once the treats are frozen , you can pop them out and put them in a plastic bag to freeze again . the main purpose of freezing the treats is to preserve them . however , your guinea pig shouldnt eat the treat too cold , as it can hurt its teeth . it may also get an upset stomach . let it thaw out at room temperature in a bowl until it isnt very cold .

gather your ingredients . preheat the oven . mix the ingredients together . roll out the dough . put the treats on a baking sheet . bake the treats . freeze the treats .

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youll need 1 cup of oat flour , 1 cup of guinea pig pellets , 23 a cup of vegetable broth or water , 6 tablespoons of olive oil or vegetable oil , and 2 tablespoons of honey . because these treats contain honey and oil , you should only give them occasionally . you can add other ingredients to this recipe , such as grated fresh vegetables . carrots and parsley are good options or even spinach . turn the oven on 350 degrees fahrenheit . you want it to be ready once youre done mixing . stir until the mixture starts to form a dough . it needs to be solid enough to roll out . once a dough has formed , roll out into a flat sheet . you can either use a knife to cut small squares , or you can use cookie cutters to cut small shapes . just remember you want these treats to be fairly small . line a sheet pan with parchment paper . lay the treats out , spaced slightly apart . put the treats in the oven . leave them in there for 20 minutes , until the are solid . turn off the oven , leaving the treats inside until the oven cools down . the best way to keep these treats is to freeze them . however , remember to let the treat come to room temperature before feeding it to your guinea pig .

skip certain vegetables . dont offer them avocado or coconut . avoid meats . dont feed them nuts and seeds . always check with your vet if youre not sure .

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as mentioned earlier , you shouldnt feed your guinea pig rhubarb , potatoes , and tomato leaves . you should also skip hot peppers , mushrooms , onions , garlic , bok choy , and pickled vegetables . the salt content in pickled vegetables is very high . also avoid iceberg lettuce , as it can upset their stomachs . these food are too high in fat to make a good guinea pig treat . more importantly , avocado can be toxic to many pets , causing health problems or even death . guinea pigs do not eat meat . they are herbivores . therefore , do not offer them meat , as their bodies are not made to process it . similarly , do not give them any dairy products , as they are derived from animals . while guinea pigs may eat these and enjoy them , small sharp objects like this have the potential to cause cuts or choking hazards . a few small seeds mashed into a treat might be okay , but when in doubt , dont risk it . always avoid seeds with the husk still attached , such as sunflower seeds . if you arent sure whether a particular treat is good for your guinea pig or not , ask your vet . she can help you decide whether it is safe or not to feed it to your guinea pig .

dont rely on hay and grass alone . choose a guinea pig food pellet that includes vitamin c . premium foods designed for guinea pigs will include vitamin c , which is added during the manufacturing process . dont store the food pellets for more than a month . vitamin c degrades over time . add leafy greens to your guinea pigs diet . feed fruits and other vegetables to your guinea pig for a treat . peppers , guava , broccoli , cauliflower , strawberry , peas , tomatoes , and kiwi are good sources of vitamin c for guinea pigs . never give your guinea pig poisonous foods .

how to feed guinea pigs vitamin c 1

although timothy hay , other hays , grasses and alfalfa are the foundation of a guinea pigs diet , they are low in vitamin c . supplementation of some kind is necessary . provide unlimited access to hay for your guinea pig no matter what supplements you decide to use . you may add lucerne hay to a pregnant guinea pigs diet to provide increased protein and calcium . while it will last up to three months in normal conditions , it may degrade faster in hot or humid weather . follow the feeding instructions provide with the food . in general , guinea pigs will eat about 18 cup of pellets per day , supplemented by hay and vegetables . , dark , leafy greens such as kale , parsley , cabbage , spinach , chicory , lambsquarter , and dandelion greens provide a good source of vitamin c . if you feed dandelion greens or lambsquarter , be careful not to harvest ones from lawns that have been treated with pesticides , fertilizers , or herbicides . leafy greens should be the main vegetable supplement for your guinea pig . provide about one cup per day . , vegetables and fruits can be offered a few times a week . since fruits are high in sugar , these should be given more sparingly . , common fruits and vegetables that are poisonous or dangerous for your guinea pig include cereals , grains , nuts , corn , beans , onions , potatoes , beets , rhubarb , and pickled foods . keep a watch on how much spinach you give it - while its healthy and safe in and of itself , if your guinea pig consumes a lot of calcium , it can lead to stones forming . if your guinea pig seems unwell after eating a treat , discontinue feeding that treat .

feed specially designed vitamin c tablets directly to your guinea pig . offer vitamin c tablets or liquids designed for children . be sure not to give too much . dont rely on adding vitamin c to drinking water . supplements may alter the taste of the water and discourage your guinea pig from drinking enough , leading to dehydration as well as vitamin c deficiency .

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these are supplements designed to appeal to your guinea pig by resembling a treat . be sure not to use supplements after their expiration date , since they are unlikely to have sufficient active vitamin c by that point . guinea pigs are much smaller than human children and only need about 20 - 25mgday of vitamin c . although vitamin c does not stay in the body , its not good for your guinea pig to ingest too much of the sugar or other additives that may be included in products designed for children . you might add the supplement to a leafy green or other treat to encourage your guinea pig to take it . you can also administer liquids by a dropper or syringe , but try something else if your guinea pig resists this method . dont use a multivitamin designed for adults . it is likely to contain other vitamins and minerals that your guinea pig doesnt need and that may cause harm in large quantities . in addition , vitamin c breaks down quickly when exposed to light and water . after eight hours , the available vitamin c in a water bottle may be no more than 20 of what was originally added .

recognize a guinea pig suffering from insufficient vitamin c . an insufficiency can produce symptoms within two weeks . common symptoms include , poor appetite and weight loss bleeding gums and pain the teeth stiff joints nasal discharge rough texture to the hair difficulty avoiding infections or healing from wounds consult your vet . use a dropper or syringe to get vitamin c into a sick guinea pig .

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if you believe that your guinea pig isnt getting enough vitamin c , or if your guinea pig is showing symptoms of a vitamin deficiency , make an appointment with your vet . she will be able to assess your guinea pig . always consult a vet if you think your guinea pig is pregnant . guinea pigs often have difficult births , so medical supervision of the pregnancy is vital . when your guinea pig isnt feeling well , even from vitamin c deficiency , it may be reluctant to eat supplements or vitamin c - rich treats . in this case , ensure that its getting enough vitamin c by administering liquid vitamin c in the mouth using a syringe or dropper . you will need to administer an increased dose of vitamin c for 1 - 2 weeks if your guinea pig is recovering from a deficiency . your vet will be able to specify a dose .

feed your guinea pig hay . feed your guinea pig about a cup of fresh vegetables daily . the key is to provide it with a lot of variety , so that it gets a balanced diet . feed your guinea pig pellets .

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guinea pigs love hay they need it for digestive and dental health . guinea pigs should have unlimited access to hay , which often means refilling a good - sized dish 3 to 5 times daily . timothy hay is the best hay for all guinea pigs in general . they will happily eat it and play with it , and its healthy for pigs of all ages . alfalfa hay contains a lot of calcium , so is inappropriate for older pigs except as an occasional treat . even if your guinea pig loves alfalfa hay , use it sparingly . it should not be a part of their everyday diet . think of it as a dessert , or a treat . alfalfa hay should be used for pregnant or nursing sows , and young guinea pigs under 4months of age . other types of hay include meadow hay , bluegrass hay , brome grass hay , oat hay , and orchard grass . these can be used occasionally to vary your guinea pigs diet . look for hay that is green and soft , as yellow and hard hay means its actually straw . hay can be purchased from pet stores , but often it has sat too long , which isnt very healthy for guinea pigs . you can often order hay directly from a local farm , or through your exotics veterinarian , which is often cheaper and better hay . veggies that are good for guinea pigs include celery , carrots , off - the - vine tomatoes , cucumber , corn , kale , a bit of raw broccoli , small amounts of spinach and pod - peas . other vegetables such as beetroot , parsley or small quantities of pepper and forages such as clover or dandelion leaves wash them first , should be given on occasion . do not give your guinea pigs spoiled or wilted vegetables . remember , dont feed them any vegetables in poor enough shape that you wouldnt eat them . be aware pellets are high energy , and eating too many can lead to obesity and dental problems . feed only an 18 to 14 cup per day to supplement the other parts of its diet . look for pellets that are supplemented with vitamin c . this is an important nutrient that guinea pigs need in their diet . avoid providing muesli feed as this can lead to selective feeding . only use pellets designed for guinea pigs . pellets for rabbits or other rodents arent suitable for guinea pigs as they contain different quantities of essential vitamins and nutrients .

make sure your guinea pig is getting enough vitamin - c . avoid giving guinea pigs foods that are bad for them . avoid commercial guinea pig treats . feed a balanced diet , instead of supplementing with multivitamins or salt wheels . control the amount of food you give your guinea pig . serve food in ceramic dishes . keep food fresh . adjust food quantities if the guinea pig becomes underweight or overweight . the amount of food a guinea pig will need depends on its age , its lifestyle , and its general health . provide fresh water at all times . place a water bottle in your guinea pigs cage , so that it can access clean water at any time . let your guinea pig graze occasionally .

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guinea pigs are one of the very few mammals along with humans who cant make their own vitamin c , so they need to get it from their food . they need 10 - 30 mg of vitamin c daily . vegetables that are high in vitamin - c , and that are good for your guinea pig , include dark , leafy greens , bell peppers , broccoli , and cauliflower . guinea pigs are highly prone to getting scurvy , which is a disease caused by low levels of vitamin c . you can supplement your guinea pigs vitamin - c intake putting vitamin - c into your guinea pigs water is not recommended . adding vitamin c to the water can cause a guinea pig to stop drinking water if they dont like the taste . in addition , its hard to control how much vitamin c your guinea pig is getting , as they may drink a little or a lot of water . this includes large amounts of fruits with high sugar contents they should only be given in moderation and any starchy vegetables , such as potatoes . vegetables to avoid feeding your guinea pigs include iceberg lettuce , rocket salads , red leaves , cauliflower , beet greens , potatoes , and radishes . feed fruit in small quantities . not only does fruit have a high sugar content , but it may also have a low calcium to phosphorus ratio , which could lead to bladder problems and possible diarrhea . this is true in fruits such as raisins . avoid giving your guinea pig citrus fruits altogether . guinea pigs are herbivores . this means that they should not be fed any meat or dairy products . these are a waste of money and are not good for your pet . your guinea pig would like a treat of a piece of apple or rolled oats much more than a commercial treat filled with sugar and the natural treat is much better for them . these kind of additions to your pets diet are not necessary if you take the time to feed your guinea pig well . if you do need to feed your guinea pig supplements , consider giving it vet - approved supplements that are high in fiber . guinea pigs chew instinctively and will eat as much as you feed them throughout the day . watch how much you give them and stick to a balanced diet . explain this gently to small kids who own guinea pigs so that they do not overfeed their pets . guinea pigs will chew on anything they can get their teeth on , including their food dishes . opt for a heavy ceramic dish that cant be easily be overturned and wont be easily destroyed . uneaten food should be removed promptly , within one day . guinea pigs can be picky eaters , so keeping food in their cage longer will probably not make it any more appealing to them . if they have avoided it for a whole day , they are probably never going to eat it and it will just simply become a mess in their cage . this means that the amount of food you feed your guinea pig may need to change over time to keep them in good health . dont allow the water bottle to become empty . if a guinea pig doesnt have access to water it can become very ill . the best water bottles are designed for guinea pigs or rabbits and have a metal ball in the spout . if your guinea pigs lives in a pen outside , make sure that the water doesnt freeze during the winter . clean the water bottle nozzle frequently with a q - tip to keep it free of obstructions and food residue . clean the water bottle itself by placing uncooked rice and a little water in the bottle , and then shaking it vigorously . the rice will dislodge any greenish algae build - up . if you have a lawn that you know does not have chemicals on it and is not used by by other pets for urinating and defecating , you can let your guinea pig graze on it . get a fully enclosed outdoor run and let your guinea pig roam around in it during warm weather . just make sure there is no breeze and the temperatures are between 60 and 75 degrees fahrenheit 15 - 24 degrees celsius . only allow them outdoors in a run when supervised . while some guinea pigs do live in pens outdoors , they should not be left in an open - air pen without supervision . this could leave them exposed to predators or allow them to escape . make sure they have a dark place for them to hide in from the sun , or if something scares them . move the run around from day - to - day . guinea pigs will keep your lawn nice and short , and they fertilize it too .

consult your vet . buy diverse vegetables . decide how much you want to prepare . cut your vegetables . mix your vegetables . add guinea pig pellets . serve dinner . keep your friend hydrated . provide hay . avoid certain foods .

how to make guinea pig food

before you do anything , you should talk to your vet about the individual needs of your guinea pig . this way , youll have all of the information you need to make sure your guinea pig will stay happy and healthy before you embark on the journey of making your own guinea pig food . consider your guinea pig might have specific nutritional needs due to pre - existing conditions . your vet might be able to provide you with a detailed list of vegetables andor pellets to include in your mix . your guinea pig might have specific nutritional needs due to age , size , or breed . your guinea pig should have a number of vegetables in his or her food . this is important because different foods provide different vitamins and nutrition . the more diverse your food offering , the better your guinea pigs nutrition will be . in addition , the more diverse the food , the happier your guinea pig may be with his or her meal . think about kale and other leafy greens like spinach , chard , or parsley . leafy greens should make up the majority of your vegetable mix . peas . carrots . use carrots and other high - sugar foods in limited amounts . cucumbers . celery . corn . sweet peppers . avoid spicy peppers . there is no rule about how much guinea pig food you should prepare at one time . however , depending on the age and weight of your friend , as well as how many guinea pigs you have , you should probably adjust the amount you prepare accordingly . prepare your vegetables making sure you will have one cup of fresh vegetables per guinea pig per day . make sure that that the majority of your mix is made up of leafy greens . in order to keep your food fresh , only make what your friend will consume in a week . after preparing , you can store the food in your refrigerator for the duration of the week . but remember to consider freshness as the week progresses . some vegetables will store better than others , and some might be fresher than others . if your food starts to turn , toss it and prepare some more . if you have several guinea pigs , make sure you make enough for all of them at one time . if youre using vegetables that tend to turn quick , consider preparing your food twice a week instead of once a week . after youve gathered your vegetables , prepare them for your little friend . make sure to wash the vegetables and then cut them into small pieces for your guinea pig to eat . cutting them will make it a lot easier for your friend to eat them and will also prevent spoilage as youll be able to put the exact amount that your pig will eat . wash vegetables thoroughly and make sure any chemicals , soap , and dirt is washed off . slice your vegetables into very small bite - sized pieces . the size will vary depending on the vegetable . if possible , slice carrots and cucumbers into 18th of an inch pieces or even smaller . leafy greens should be chopped finely , too . look at your vegetables to make sure there arent pieces that are too big . make sure to take out any pieces your friend will have a hard time moving or eating . now that youve cut your vegetables , you need to mix them together . mixing thoroughly is important because you want to make sure that your little friends food formula is diverse and varied . if you give your guinea pig food that is mostly one vegetable or another , he or she wont get proper vitamins and nutrition . dump your vegetable pieces into a tupperware . put the lid on the tupperware . shake the tupperware vigorously until the vegetables are well mixed . after youve mixed your vegetables , you need to add guinea pig pellets to your food mix . pellets are extremely important because they are formulated to maintain guinea pig health and provide vitamins that guinea pigs need and may not be present in their normal vegetable - based diet . make sure to get pellets formulated with vitamin c . try to find pellets that are dye free . add in 18th of a cup of pellets per day per adult guinea pig to your vegetable mix . younger guinea pigs or pregnant guinea pigs may require more – consult your vet . use alfalfa pellets for young , growing and pregnant guinea pigs under 6 months . use a timothy hay - based based pellet for adults over 6 months . this pellet will be formulated with vitamin c . mix the pellets in just like you mixed the vegetables . after youve mixed your guinea pig food , it will be time to feed your friend . feeding your friend is fairly easy , but you want to follow a few guidelines when doing so . provide your friend with 1 18 cup of the vegetablepellet mix in a food bowl at the same time every day . the best time might be the morning . most guinea pigs will eat their food throughout the day and night . however , if you have a little friend who tends to gorge , make sure to divide feedings up throughout the day . make sure to monitor the food over the course of the day . remove any spoiled or uneaten food at the end of the day or the following morning . in addition to food , guinea pigs need plenty of fresh water to keep them healthy and active . because of this , you need to closely monitor your friends water supply so that he or she always has water . buy a water bottle with a metal spout so that your friend can drink water without making much of a mess . guinea pigs drink between 100 to 200 ml of water per kilogram of bodyweight per day . if your friend drinks more or less water than he or she should , contact your vet . you need to provide your guinea pig with an unlimited supply of hay in addition to your formulated food . this is because guinea pig digestive systems need a lot of fiber to make sure they are healthy and regular . in addition , by providing your guinea pig with a lot of hay , you will give him or her something to chew on which will promote good dental health . try to buy second - cut hay . this hay is tenderer than first batch hay . make sure to clean out your friends hay and replace it with fresh hay every week or two . always make sure there is enough hay for your friend to eat and chew on . make sure the hay you purchase is intended for consumption and is not treated with any chemicals . there are a number of foods you will want to avoid when formulating your guinea pig food or feeding him or her treats . some foods are extremely dangerous to guinea pigs and are poisonous and toxic . if you feed them to your friend , he or she could die or at the very least become seriously ill . make sure to avoid iceberg lettuce or cabbage . iceberg lettuce and cabbage have minimal nutritional value and can give your friend diarrhea . potato peelings . potato peelings can be toxic if theyve begun to turn green . rhubarb . rhubarb leaves are poisonous . meat and dairy . guinea pigs digestive tracts do not process meat or dairy very well . any food not intended or designed for guinea pigs .

buy fresh fruit . get some fresh vegetables for your guinea pig . buy pelleted food . purchase a bag of hay to feed your guinea pig . put out fresh vegetables . provide fruit as a treat . provide plenty of fresh hay . serve the pellets . refill your guinea pigs water bowl . establish your guinea pigs age . consider your guinea pigs sex . think about any special needs your guinea pig may have .

how to feed a guinea pig a well balanced meal

fruit is a great source of vitamins for your guinea pig . however , while your guinea pig might enjoy fruit , you should only use it as a snack or a treat . as a result , you dont need to buy nearly as much fruit as vegetables . and for many people , fruit you have around the house already may be used . when shopping for fresh fruit , consider apples . blueberries oranges . pears . peaches . unlike fruit , you can feed your guinea pig large amounts of vegetables every week . when buying vegetables , consider carrots . green peppers . radish tops . cucumbers . brussel sprouts . pelleted foods are a mix of hay , vitamins , and other food sources that serve as a staple in your guinea pigs diet . they are much healthier for your guinea pigs than other types of food because they are not dyed with artificial colors and flavors . focus only on corn - free and seed - free pellets . pellets enriched with vitamins are okay . while your guinea pig will be getting some hay in his or her pellets , fresh hay is an important element of a guinea pigs diet and overall health . this is because guinea pigs need hay in order to keep their teeth from overgrowing . in addition , hay keeps their digestive system clean . be aware that a lot of hay sold at large chain stores is not high quality hay . try to buy fresh hay at pet stores or at farm supply stores . timothy hay is perfect for adult guinea pigs , baby and pregnant guinea pigs will need alfalfa hay , which has a higher vitamin and mineral content in it . at the start of every day , you should put out fresh vegetables for your guinea pig . and since vegetables are an important part of your guinea pigs diet , you need to make sure that he or she has plenty of vegetables throughout the day . feed your guinea pig about one cup of vegetables for every two pounds he or she weighs . break your vegetable servings up into at least two . this way , your guinea pig will have fresh and unwilted vegetables throughout the day . whenever you provide new vegetables , remove any old , uneaten , or spoiled vegetables from the previous serving . while fruit is important and can provide your guinea pig with badly needed vitamins , you need to limit his or her consumption of it . fruit should be served to your guinea pig as a treat , not as a main course . limit fruit treats to once or twice a week . try to only feed your guinea pig one or two tablespoons of fruit for every two pounds that your guinea pig weighs . only provide fresh and washed fruit to your guinea pig . providing fresh hay throughout the day and week is extremely important for your guinea pigs health . since hay can accumulate bacteria guinea pig waste , youll want to remove old hay periodically and replace it with fresh hay . dont be afraid of giving your guinea pig too much hay . more is always better than less . make sure your hay has not been sitting around the house too long . at around the same time you serve your guinea pig vegetables , you should also serve fresh pellets . this is important as pellets are the foundation of your guinea pigs diet . provide 14th to 18th cup of pellets per day . amount fed will vary based on size and age of the guinea pig . feel free to divide pellets up into 2 or 3 servings if your guinea pig tends to overeat or eat it all at once . serve the pellets in a ceramic bowl . you also need to make sure that your guinea pig has plenty of fresh water . fresh water is essential to your guinea pigs diet and will help with digestion of hay , pellets , and the other food you provide . as a result , monitor water closely . consider using a plastic drip bottle . provide a water bowl , too . check your guinea pigs water at least once a day . change and clean your guinea pigs water bowel and drip bottle a couple times a week . guinea pigs of different ages have different dietary needs . as a result , when thinking about and formulating a well - balanced diet for your guinea pig , you need to think about their age . if you adopted your guinea pig as a baby , then you should have an accurate idea of his or her age . if you dont know your guinea pigs age , consult a veterinarian or someone with specialized knowledge . when establishing your guinea pigs age , you dont need to be exact . just be able to classify your guinea pig in one of several stages of life , including baby , youth , adult , or senior . depending on sex , your guinea pigs dietary needs will vary . sex is also important when determining your guinea pigs age . while for the most part , male and female guinea pigs require the same nutrition , there are a couple things you should consider . if your guinea pig is pregnant , youll need to alter her food mix . if you are trying to breed your guinea pig , you should probably alter the breeding pigs diets to increase their vitamin intake . your guinea pig might have special , individual , needs that will impact his or her dietary needs . as a result , you need to consider any special or unique factors that could influence your guinea pigs health or diet . does your guinea pig have any chronic medical problems does your guinea pig have any disorders or other unique factors that might impact his or her dietary needs .

select a good pellet . add hay . give him vegetables . fruit should be a treat every now and again . unlimited fresh water . know which foods that are dangerous . grazing . alternatively , have homemade treats . exercise . limit foods .

how to give your guinea pig a good , healthy diet

make sure the pellets you select have nutritional value . use alfalfa based pellets for guinea pigs under 6 months old and timothy based pellets for older guinea pigs . use a plain pellets without any added seeds or colored bits . make sure that the pellets is fortified with stabilized vitamin c . choose pellets that are plain and have no added seeds , dried treats , or anything extra . if you do so , your guinea pig wont eat the pellets and just eat the treats . hay is extremely important . your guinea pig should have constant access to it . use timothy hay or a very good quality meadow hay . one adult guinea pig should have 1 cup of veg per day . like humans guinea pigs do not make their own vitamin c and rely on their diet . oranges can cause sores in the mouth so should be limited to one slice per week . seems obvious but important . in order to give a good diet you need to know foods that are dangerous the following website has a good list httpwww . cool - small - pets . compoisonous - foods - for - guinea - pigs . html if you have a chemical free grass with nothing dangerous and catsdogs dont use as the bathroom your guinea pig will love to graze there . make sure the grazing area doesnt contain many bugs that will hurt your guinea pigs digestive system . you can easily bake treats for your guinea pigs every now and again . just google homemade guinea pig treat recipes exercise is important so your guinea pig does not become overweight . you can fence your guinea pig in your backyard and let him roam around . just make sure there is no pesticide or chemical spray . dont overfeed your guinea pig as tempting as it is .

let your guinea pig get used to you . get a treat that your guinea pig likes . take the treat and put it in your hand . open up your cage door . open your hand at put it in . let the guinea pig sniff your hand . if it gets closer , dont move let it eat the treat . you have done it

how to get your guinea pig to eat a treat out of your hand

, display the treat in your hand . ,

poke two holes on each side of the end of the tube end that wont hold the treat . thread string through the two holes . smear honey on the rims of the treat end of the toilet paper roll . cut the apple piece into a quarter or piece small enough to fit firmly into the tube end . push the apple piece into the end of the tube that has the honey smeared on it . push in the spinach leaf or leaves . pour a little bit of honey in the top of the plant matter . put aside to let the honey dry . hang the honey , spinach apple treat in the guinea pigs cage .

how to make a honey , spinach and apple guinea pig toy

choose either end for the treat , whichever you think is likely to firmly hold the treat in place . this string needs to be long enough to be tied from the top of the cage , to allow the tube to hang with the treat dangling down for the guinea pig to play with . , ensure that the leaf is held in place by the apple piece . dont add too much though , as it can make a guinea pig feel ill . , wait for the guinea pig to discover it and start to enjoy its enrichment treat .

secure your horse or pony . check that the saddle is on correctly . measure the stirrup against your arm . adjust the buckle on the stirrup leather . repeat the process on the other side . keep the type of riding you will be doing in mind . ask someone to help you . align yourself in the saddle . assess the stirrup length when your feet are out of the stirrups . assess your position when your feet are in the stirrups . check the stirrup length while you are riding .

how to measure for stirrup length

tie the pony or horse to a post , rail , or crossties before beginning your stirrup adjustments . never leave your horse or pony untied while moving the stirrups up or down . alternatively , can have someone else hold the horse in place while you adjust the stirrups . before measuring for your stirrup length , you need to be sure that the horses saddle is on correctly . if it is not , the measurements you do will not be correct . look both parallel to the horse and perpendicular , making sure that the saddle is square and that the stirrups are both the same length . if the saddle is not square , adjust the saddle on top of the horse before you start adjusting the stirrups . find a starting position for the stirrup in which it is about as long as your arm . this will allow you to hold it out and do more exact measuring . pull the stirrup iron straight out until it sits just under your armpit , and the leather runs the full length of your arm . if the end of the stirrup iron doesnt reach your armpit when your fingers reach the saddle , then the stirrup is too short . if it droops between your armpit and your fingers , then it is too long . while measuring , stand perpendicular to the horse and the stirrups . if you have just begun riding , have shorter rather than longer stirrups so that you will have more control . once you know the correct length , you will need to adjust the length by putting the stirrup buckle into the correct hole on the stirrup leather . get hold of the buckle at the top of the stirrup leather and adjust the buckle until the stirrup is the correct length . most buckles are tucked up close to the saddle but can be pulled down lower during adjustment . this will make adjustment easier . loosen the stirrup on the other side so that it is about as long as your arm . pull the stirrup iron straight out towards your armpit . the length of the stirrup from the connection on the saddle to the bottom of the stirrup iron should be the length of your arm from the armpit to the fingertips . once both are adjusted , look at them both from the front of the horse . they should be the same length . the length of stirrups you want may also differ slightly depending on what type of riding you are going to do . for example , if you are jumping or roping , you need a short stirrup length to sit higher in the saddle . if you are doing dressage , cutting , or saddle seat riding , your stirrup length should be slightly longer because the rider is sitting back in the saddle and using a lot of leg to control the horse . in order to really accurately measure your stirrup length you may want to have a helper . having someone else to help you will allow you to get in the saddle and assess where the right length should be . this person can also help hold the horse still while you are making adjustments and they can help you get up into the saddle if you need help . if you are a beginner , have a teacher or a more experienced rider help you choose the right saddle and stirrup length . they should belong to the same discipline of riding as you do . once you get up into the saddle , make sure your ears , shoulders , hips , and heels are all in straight alignment . making sure that you are in alignment will help to assure that you get the right stirrup measurement . put your feet into the stirrups while you are assessing your alignment . this help you get a general feeling for whether they the right length or not . take your feet out of the stirrups . have your friend make sure that the bottom of the stirrup is level with your ankle bone when your feet are out of the stirrups . this may be hard to see because of riding boots , so the friend may need to feel with their fingers to know where your ankle bone lies . if you are doing a type of riding that requires shorter or longer stirrups , take that into consideration here . for example , if you want shorter stirrups because you are going to do some jumping , make sure that the stirrups hit your leg above the ankle bone . if you want longer stirrups for dressage or cutting , the stirrup should line up below the ankle bone . with your feet in the stirrups once again , you should assess whether the ball of your foot is resting on the iron . if it is , your heels should be pointing directly downward and your toes pointing forward . once again , your helper may be in the best position to judge whether this is the case . if you dont have a helper , you can stand up in the stirrups and judge the amount of space you have between the saddle and your seat . there should be a space about the size of a fist , but this is a relatively inexact measurement . take a ride around your corral or ring and ask your friend to check your alignment . have them look at the angle of your leg when they are perpendicular to you . also , the angle of the upper leg should equal the angle of the horses shoulder . there should be an equal angle between the thigh and the knee and the knee and the lower leg . if not , the stirrup is usually too long , creating a straighter angle in the lower leg .

gather your ingredients . boil the water . add the ivory soap and beeswaxparaffin . remove from the heat and add oil . pour into a jar or container . use the saddle soap .

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to make a conditioning saddle soap that will restore moisture to leather tack , you will need 3 12 cups of water 14 cup of neatsfoot oil 34 cup of grated ivory soap 12 cup of grated beeswax or paraffin add the 3 12 cups of water to a pot and bring to the boil over a high heat . once the water is boiling , reduce the heat to medium . add the grated ivory soap to the water and stir until melted . then add the grated beeswax or paraffin oil and stir until melted . take the pot off the heat and add the neatsfoot oil . stir the contents of the pot continually until the soap mix cools and thickens . pour the thickened saddle soap mix into a jar or sealable container for storage . wait until the saddle soap has set before using . for instructions on how to clean leather tack and boots using saddle soap , see this article .

gather your ingredients . melt the glycerin . add the milk or cream . pour into the airtight container .

how to make saddle soap 2

to make a very simple and traditional saddle soap that will effectively clean leather , you will only need two ingredients a block of glycerin and some cream or milk . you will also need an airtight container to store your finished saddle soap . break the block of glycerin into chunks and place in a microwaveable bowl . heat the glycerin on medium power for 30 seconds , then remove and stir . keep microwaving for 30 second intervals until the glycerin has melted . add the cream or milk to the melted glycerin and stir to combine . you will need approximately 14 cup of milk or cream for every 2 cups of melted glycerin . pour the glycerin and milkcream mixture into the container and leave to cool and set before using . the glycerin will prevent the dairy from going rancid .

gather your ingredients . melt the glycerin . add the lexol soap . add the essential oil . pour into a jar or airtight container .

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to make a pleasantly scented saddle soap that will clean and condition your leather tack or boots , you will need bath - sized bar of glycerin soap 14 cup of lexol leather cleaner not conditioner couple of drops of lavender , tea - tree or eucalyptus essential oil . break the bar of glycerin into chunks and place in a microwaveable bowl . heat on medium power for 30 seconds , then remove and stir . keep microwaving for 30 second intervals , until the glycerin has completely melted . add the 14 cup of lexol leather cleaner to the glycerin and stir well to combine . add three or four drops of your chosen essential oil to the soap mixture and stir to combine . lavender , eucalyptus and tea tree oil are popular option , but you could also use lemongrass , bergamot , clary sage or any other pleasantly fragranced essential oil . pour the scented saddle soap mix into a jar or sealable container for storage . wait until the soap has cooled and set before using .

choose your rope . decide what length you want the finished lead line to be . cut your rope to the right length . start the braiding in order to start making your lead line , tie the ends on one side together , to keep the braiding from falling apart . secure your braiding by making a simple knot with your pieces . take some thin rope and wrap it around the three ends . continue this until you reach the end of your lead line . when you are finished , tie a couple of knots at one spot and cut your thin rope . glue the ends of the thin rope to the braiding to secure them . fold the other end of your lead line in half to create a loop . make a couple of knots with the ends of the rope going around the base of the loop to secure it . take some thin rope and wrap it around the three ends . continue wrapping until you reach the end of your three ends . when you are finished tie a couple of knots at one spot and cut your rope . glue the ends of the thin rope to the braiding to secure them , use your rope .

how to make a lead rope for your horse

an approximately 6 mm rope will work very well . short lead lines 3 - 4 feet are great to use on ponies . average lengths 5 - 6 feet are used to lead horses from one place to another . long lead lines 9 - 10 feet are used for natural horsemanship training and ground work . take an extra foot or two , as the braiding shortens the rope a little bit . youll need 3 equal pieces to make the lead line . put your three pieces or rope in front of you . put the right piece over the center piece . put the left piece over the piece , which now became the center piece . repeat this until you reach the end . usually you make a knot with 2 pieces around the third one . make a couple of simple knots on each side as you go . this will attach your lead line to the halter . make a couple of simple knots on each side as you go . your lead line is now ready and you can tie it to your horses rope halter and you are ready to go this lead line can be used as a rein one or two to steer your horse while riding in a rope halter . it is very sturdy , so even if your horse will spookrearbolt the lead line will stay in your hands and there is no snap to break either .

measure the length of the saddle for which you are making the rack . using 2x12 boards , cut two boards the length of the saddle for the top . cut two more boards for the height of the rack you would like to make it . cut these two boards on one end at about 30 degrees to angle the top boards so that the saddle may rest comfortably . nail or screw these two standing boards to the top two boards . cut a board using the length of the saddle minus twice the width of the board for the center support . nail or screw the support board between the two standing boards . cut two more boards the width of the saddle rack . nail or screw these two boards on the bottom of the standing boards . stand the rack upright . rest your saddle blanket on the stand . rest your saddle on the blanket .

how to make a wood saddle rack

, it should work out about right if you cut an angle about three inches lower on the edges . each board should look like a point . , i . e . if the saddle length is 30 , cut the center support board 27 . since 2x4s are actually 1 - 12 inches wide twice is 3 inches therefore , subtract 3 from 30 . ,

learn what the bars are . locate the cantle . find the fork of the saddle . locate the pommel . find the gullet . understand the term ‘saddle tree . examine the rocker of a saddle . look at the twist of the saddle . examine the flare of the saddle . check out the seat of the saddle .

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when youre looking at new saddles , one of the things youll need to pay attention to is the bars . the bars are the weight - distributing foundation for the saddle the part of the saddle that rests on the horse and holds you up . there are two ‘bars that distribute weight evenly on either side of the spine . if your saddle is well - fitting , the horses back will be in contact with the entire length of the bars . on a saddle , the cantle is the rear section that acts as the back of a seat it slopes upwards a bit like a chair . the bars are connected to the cantle at the bottom , holding the entire saddle together . the cantle is a term that references both an english and a western saddle . on a western saddle , the fork is the section in the front that holds the bars together . it is located underneath the horn , and has the appearance of an upside down ‘u shape . there are two primary types of forks - a slick fork and a swell fork . a slick fork is the most popular , and is recognized by sides that angle straight up to the horn . a swell fork is recognized by thicker , curved edges that rise to the horn . on an english saddle , the pommel is the front section of the saddle that holds the bars together . english saddles dont have horns like western saddles do they just have a rounded section at the front - the pommel . think of it as a smaller , rounder version of the cantle . another very important aspect of fitting your saddle to your horse is making sure the gullet fits properly . the gullet refers to the empty space between the bars of the saddle . when the saddle is placed on a horses back , you can examine the fit by looking at the gullet from the front and back . the saddle tree refers to the bars , cantle , forkpommel , and the gullet . these are the areas that must be examined when sizing a saddle . so when checking your horse for fit , look at the parts of the saddle tree . the rocker refers to the angular curve of the bars from the front of the saddle to the back . imagine it as similar to the shapeangle of the base of a rocking chair . depending on the shape of the topline of your horse , you will have to try saddles with different rocker angles . a second important angular measurement of the saddle tree is the twist . this refers to the angle the bars bend outwards typically they are closer in the middle and further apart at the front and back , like ‘ ‘ . some saddles have wider twists than others , which may affect the measurement for the horse and rider . the flare of the saddle is the amount the bars of the saddle flare out at the front . this is how much the bars curve upwards at the front and back of the saddle , by the cantle and pommelfork . this term is the easiest to recognize the seat of the saddle is the part that you sit in . the seat has two primary things that should be noted - the length and slope . the length of the seat is how much space it takes up from the front to the back a well fitting saddle will allow you to sit forward without being pressed against the cantle , and will give about four inches between your position and the front of the forkpommel . the slope is the angle from the front of the seat to the back , and comes in three options high , medium , and low . each slope is found in seats for different types of riding .

examine your horses withers . look at the horses topline . look at the length of your horses back . consider the horses age .

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the withers of the horse is the high point above the shoulder blades along the back . there three general types of withers , which determine the length and rocker angle of the saddle . defined withers are recognizable by a definite high point , and then a gentle slope back to the croup . most ‘regular or ‘medium saddles will fit this type of horse . rounded withers occur when , just as it sounds , the withers are gently sloped and the horse has a more flat back . the withers are typically a bit more flat as well , requiring a wider saddle tree . the topline of the horse is the shapecurve of the back from the withers to the croup . the topline has four primary build types level , straight , swayback , and downhill . each build will require a different saddle build , or the use of special saddle pads . a level topline can be recognized when a horse has withers and croup that are about the same height , and lacks a large dip between the two . most regular saddles will fit this topline build . a straight back is most common in mules , but it sometimes seen in horses . straight backs occur when the withers and croup are fairly low , and dont have much of a dip between the two . from the side , their entire back will be almost level . this requires a special ‘straight saddle built with bars that lack much of a rocker angle . swayback horses have incredibly prominent , narrow withers and a prominent croup . this typically occurs in horses that are poorly conditioned or that are very old , and makes it so that the saddle cannot sit flat against the back it balances between the withers and croup . special pads can be added to fix this problem . a downhill topline occurs when the croup of the horse is slightly higher than the withers , causing the saddle to tip forward . you can get a saddle adjusted with more flocking near the front to balance it out , or you can use special pads under the pommelfork to force the saddle upright . a ‘regular saddle is built to fit a horse with an average length back . a special saddle is not needed for a horse with a very long back in most cases , but if your horse has a short back , the skirt of the saddle the leather flaps on either side might dig into them , causing pain and irritation . if your horse is very small , you may need to get a special ‘small saddle to fit their back . if youre buying a saddle for a very young or unconditioned horse , realize that you will likely have to buy a new one in a year or two to fit their growing body . on the other hand , if your horse is very old or overweight , you might need to get another saddle after a year or two to compensate for a lot of weight loss .

determine the type of saddle you want . consider your body type . take your seat measurement . determine your size in an english saddle . determine your size in a western saddle . measure the seat of an english saddle . measure the seat of a western saddle . try on many different saddles .

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western and english saddles are measured a bit differently , so before you make any measurements it is important to know what type of saddle you are looking for . additionally , you want to examine the quality and style of the saddle differently depending on the type of work you plan on doing in it . just as most saddles are built for the ‘average horse , they are also built to fit the ‘average rider . if you are very tall , petite , overweight , or any number of things that affect the overall sizeshape of your body , you may need to get a special saddle . just remember that when you sit in a saddle , the following should occur there should be a four inch space from your body to the front of the swellpommel . you should never be sitting so that you are resting against the cantle or the swellpommel . your stirrups should fit comfortably without forcing too much bend in the knee . sit in a regular chair with your back against the chair back and your feet on the floor . use a soft measuring tape and measure the distance from your kneecap to the crease in your hip . this can be used in a size converter to determine the size of your saddle . use your measurement to determine the seat size and therefore the saddle size of an english saddle . the measurementsize approximately equates as a legseat measurement of 16 . 5 - inches or less equals a 15 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 16 . 5–18 . 5 inches 41 . 9–47 . 0 cm equals a 16 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 18 . 5–20 inches 47 . 0–50 . 8 cm equals a 16 . 5 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 20–21 . 5 inches 50 . 8–54 . 6 cm equals a 17 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 21 . 5–23 inches 54 . 6–58 . 4 cm equals a 17 . 5 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement larger than 23 inches 58 . 4 cm will fit an 18 - inch or 19 - inch saddle . the measurement of seat is a bit different for western saddles than it is for english saddles . the easiest conversion is to subtract two inches from the size of your english saddle , and youll be left with the size of your western saddle . use the following chart to determine your western saddle size based on your legseat measurement a legseat measurement of 16 . 5 - inches or less equals a 13 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 16 . 5–18 . 5 inches 41 . 9–47 . 0 cm equals a 14 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 18 . 5–20 inches 47 . 0–50 . 8 cm equals a 15 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 20–21 . 5 inches 50 . 8–54 . 6 cm equals a 15 . 5 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 21 . 5–23 inches 54 . 6–58 . 4 cm equals a 16 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement larger than 23 inches 58 . 4 cm will fit an 17 - inch or 18 - inch saddle . when youve gotten your measurement , you can compare that to the seat size of a saddle to determine if it is in your size range . to measure the seat of an english saddle , measure from one of the ‘nails to the left or right of the pommel , straight back to the center of the cantle . this will give you the size of the saddle for example , 16 - inches . similar to sizing your seat , the measurement of a western saddle seat is different from an english saddle seat . using a tape measure or a ruler , measure straight from the base of the pommel to the stitching in the seat . go to the base of the pommel and measure in a horizontal line straight back . be careful not to touch the saddle pommel when you measure the seat , as the angle of it will give you too large of a measurement . go to just the base of the pommel along the stitching . although your legseat measurement and saddle size can be a good indication of a well - fitting saddle , the only way to tell if a saddle truly fits is to sit in it . try out many different saddles in several different styles to find the best fit and comfort level according to your personal preference . be sure to adjust the stirrups to their proper length every time you try on a saddle . it is better to go with a saddle that is a bit too large than one that is a bit too small . it will be less painful for the horse , and easier for you to ride . bring a trained friend or two along to make sure you are sitting properly in the saddle .

check the bar width . check the bar slope . check the bar flare . check the gullet .

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remember when you checked your horses withers and topline this is when that comes in handy . place the saddle on your horse without a saddle padblanket . if it fits , the bars should be in contact with the horse down the entire length of their back . if the bars touch only the base of the horses back but not the top , then the saddle is too narrow . if the bars touch only the top of the horses back but not the bottom , then the saddle is too wide . the slope of the bar is the angle of the rocker against the angle of the horses back . a well - fitting saddle will have bars that mimic the angle of the topline . therefore , the bars will be in contact along the entire strip of the horses back . if the bars touch only the withers and the croup , then ‘bridging will occur and cause sores on the horse . this happens if the bars are too long , or if their isnt a large enough slope to match the sway of the horses back . if the bars contact the center of the horses back only , then rocking will occur . this happens if the bars are too short or if the slope of the bars is too great to mimic the horses back . the angle at which the bars turn upwardsoutwards at the front at back of the saddle is the bar flare . if there is little to no bar flare evident , then the saddle may be too small for your horse . make sure that your saddle has evident bar flare to prevent it from digging into your horses back while riding , causing sores or chafing . place the saddle on your horse without a blanket or saddle pad . look at gullet from the croup of the horse you should be able to see all the way through to the withers . if you cannot , then the saddle is too small . then , go to the gullet by the withers and place as many fingers as you can vertically in the empty space . a well - fitting saddle will allow for 2 - 2 . 5 fingers to stack in the gullet more than that means your saddle is too large , while less means that the saddle is too small .

put the long end of the halter around the horses neck and tie a bow - line knot . put a loop over the horses nose . follow this with a second loop . pass the second loop under the first . make sure that the second loop is long enough to pass over the ears of the horse . have the halter sit over the ears and forelock .

how to make a temporary bow line knotted halter for a horse

the image shows the steps in tying such a knot . , pass the rope around the horses head twice . , it is now completed .

warm the oil . apply the oil . rub in the oil . let the saddle sit . wipe off excess oil . repeat the process . apply a conditioner .

how to oil a saddle 1

before you begin oiling your saddle , be sure to warm your oil . the oil needs to be warm at most 100 degrees fahrenheit or 38 degrees celsius , but not hot . hot oil can cook your leather and ruin it . in order to guarantee that its the right temperature , try soaking it in lukewarm water for about 20 minutes . once you have properly cleaned your saddle , gently apply a light coat of oil to the grain smooth or outward facing side of the saddle . you can use a brush or a rag to very lightly apply the oil . do not let the oil pool or build up on the leather . this will oversaturate it and ruin the leather . avoid using any heavy oils , like olive or neatsfoot oil . follow the manufacturers recommended oil or conditioner . some saddles require few oilings , and a few never need to be oiled . be sure to follow the manufacturers guidelines before you condition your saddle . use a rag or tack sponge to apply oil to the saddle . be sure to use a circular motion to get an even application . this will help you avoid spotting . you can also use your hand to apply the oil if you find some hard to reach places . avoid applying oil to the flesh side or any rawhide parts of the saddle . this will cause them to loosen and stretch out . instead of rubbing it with oil , soak your bridle in a shallow pan full of oil . once you have covered the grain in oil , let it sit for a day or two . this will allow the oil to soak into the leather . keep the saddle in a dry and climate controlled location . avoid placing it in direct sunlight . if you are oiling the saddle for the first time , you may want to let it sit for longer . after the saddle has sat for a couple days , take a rag and wipe off any excess oil . you should also use a rag to buff the saddle as you wipe off the excess , rubbing in a circular motion . this will help prevent any spotting or discoloration in the leather . avoid using the saddle again until it is completely dry . if you are oiling your saddle for the first time , you may need to condition it at least three times over the course of a couple of weeks . you may want to pay particular attention to the fenders and the seat , which will need a little help loosening up . be sure to follow the manufacturers guidelines when oiling your saddle . over conditioning the saddle can make it too loose and ruin it . because they are used regularly , you may want to apply more oil to the fenders . the seat may need some extra oil to make it form to your bottom . after the saddle is properly oiled , you may want to rub in a little conditioner . this will help treat the leather and prevent it from drying out . simply apply a small amount of conditioner to a rag and gently rub it into the leather . be sure to use a commercial leather conditioner that is appropriate for your saddle . your local western ware store should have saddle conditioner . conditioner is particularly important if you live in an arid climate where your saddle can get dried out . be sure to follow the saddle manufacturers guidelines before applying any conditioner to your saddle .

place the saddle on a stand . remove all attachments . wipe off dust and dirt . wash the saddle . rinse the leather . dry the saddle .

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in order to give your saddle a proper cleaning , you will want to set it on something that will allow you to freely move around it . ideally , this would be a saddle stand . a stand will give you a sturdy base to work from and help you reach difficult to clean areas . it will also ensure that the saddle maintains its natural position and does not pool water or soap while you clean it . avoid laying it on a table or on the ground . this will bunch up the saddle and make it difficult to clean properly . it will also get dirty on the ground , and defeat the purpose of the entire process . do not clean your saddle while it is on your horse . this may irritate your horse . before you begin cleaning your saddle , you will want to remove any attachments . these include the stirrups , breast collar , and cinches . you will want to be sure to remove any rawhide attachments , which can soak up excess water and get ruined . if you are conditioning any attachments , do not let them soak in oil while you clean and condition the saddle . this will ruin them . lightly rub them with oil when you oil the saddle . , use a dry cloth or brush to wipe off any dust or clumps of dirt . this step is particularly important because you will use very little water when you wash the saddle and removing any dirt beforehand will require less scrubbing . excess scrubbing and water exposure will damage your leather . mix your preferred saddle soap with as little water as possible . the water should be lukewarm around 100 degrees fahrenheit or 38 degrees celsius and mixed with the soap to create a thick foamy lather . use a double - sided kitchen sponge or loofah glove to gently scrub both sides of the saddle . be sure to thoroughly scrub the sections that come into contact with the horse - the backside of the fenders , stirrup leathers , and cinch straps . check your manufacturers recommendations on saddle soaps or pastes . use a clean rag or sponge and a fresh bucket of warm water to rinse off the saddle . gently wipe off the soapy residue , making sure to rinse your rag regularly . you will want to be sure to remove all of the soap from the saddle but not use too much soap when doing it . avoid spraying down your saddle . this will soak it with water and possibly ruin the leather . once you have removed all soap residues , let the saddle dry in the air . you may also want to use a towel to remove any excess water . be sure to store the saddle in a dry place . however , do not leave it in the sun or under direct heat . you want it to be dry but still cool to the touch . your saddle should be completely dry before oiling . oiling moist leather may oversaturate the leather and cause it to stretch .

wipe down your saddle often . condition and oil your saddle regularly . store saddles properly . replace any cracked leather .

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ideally , you will want to wipe down your saddle with a damp cloth after each ride . this will remove any dirt , sweat and other materials that can make your saddle dirty . cleaning your saddle after each ride will limit how often you have to give your saddle a thorough scrubbing . wiping your saddle after each ride will also help you spot any problems with wear and tear , like loose stitching . properly cleaning and conditioning your saddle will help extend its life . if you occasionally ride , you may not need to condition and oil your saddle for around six months . if you live in an extremely dry or humid location , you may need to condition more frequently . some saddles do not need to be conditioned at all . be sure to follow your manufacturers guidelines for conditioning and oiling your saddle . when not in use , the ideal place to keep a saddle is in a climate controlled area . this will help keep the saddle from getting too wet or dry . if a climate controlled location is not available , keep the saddle in a cool and dry location . if you are storing a saddle for an extended period of time , make sure that it is cleaned and oiled beforehand . do not stack saddles on top of each other . never place a saddle in direct sunlight or expose it to heat . never store a saddle in a plastic bag or any airtight container . this will prevent the leather from breathing and ruin it . if your saddle came with a cover , place it over the saddle when its not being ridden to prevent dust accumulation and animal damage . if any part of your saddle has cracked , do not try to oil or condition it . the cracked part is ruined and cannot be salvaged . riding with cracked leather could result in an accident . have a professional replace any worn or cracked pieces of your saddle . check your saddle every time you ride . pay close attention to the rigging , fenders , stirrup leathers , and latigo tie straps .

check that the halter head collar size fits the size of your ponys head . stand to the left side of your pony . allow the pony to sniff your hands as well as the halter . put a lead rope over the the ponys neck so that should he start to wander off before the halter is on , you can hold him back . start with the halter ready to be put on the horse . hold the nose band in one hand . put the ponys muzzle through the loop meant for the nose , making sure not to let the halter get twisted . put the top of the halter carefully over the ponys ears . to lead the pony , clip a lead rope to one of the rings on the halter . to tie a pony , use a slip knot or a quick release knot .

how to put a head collar on a pony

if you go into a store that sells tack and horse supplies , you can ask an employee and they should help you find the right size . make sure you have precise measurements of your horses head before going in . choose the halter that matches your ponys size . there are halters made specifically for horses , which are larger and ones made for ponies , which are smaller . do not stand directly in front of the pony . this is their blind spot , where they are unable to see you and you may scare them . most halters are designed to be put on from the left side of the horse . hold the halter in your left hand and stand on their left side . this will let the pony know you do not plan to hurt him and that the halter isnt bad . place the lead rope around the neck behind the ears . this will keep the pony from turning around or backing up to avoid halter . do not tie or buckle the lead rope around the ponys neck . this could cause injury to you or the pony if the pony tried to get away . the crown piece , or the strap that would go behind your horses ears , should be unbuckled . if you are planning to lead the horse right away , you can have the lead rope already clipped to the halter . just make sure the lead rope doesnt get in the way . hold the part of the halter that goes by their ears in your other hand . settle the nose band on your ponys nose . it should not hang down too low and should rest a little lower than midway up the ponys muzzle and rest on the bridge of the nose . do not pull the ears or bend them too much . buckle the strap by the horses ears . make sure that the buckle on the halter is always facing into the ponys jaw so when you take the halter off you are snapping it open from the inside of the halter next to the ponys head . praise your pony for being cooperative . , never wrap the lead rope around your hand , the excess length coil and hold in outside hand while inside hand is holding under halter ring on chin .

place the saddle pad on the horses back . place the saddle on your horses back . check the gullet clearance . check the horses topline . check the bar flare . pay attention to your horse throughout the fitting process . check the space from your seat to the swell . check your seat and the cantle . place your feet in the stirrups .

how to fit a western saddle

putting a saddle pad on the horses back prevents the leather from rubbing the horse . make sure the front is near the end of the withers . make sure that your horse is secure in cross - ties or being held by a helper throughout the process . place the saddle directly on their back , making sure that it does not block the front shoulder or extends beyond the last rib in their ribcage . the gullet is the hollow space that runs down the top of the horses spine . if you stand behind your horse , you should be able to look down the gullet and see all the way through to the horses mane . on the front side of the saddle , you should be able to stack 2 - 3 fingers vertically inside the gullet . if you can only fit one finger or less in the gullet , then the saddle tree is too narrow . if you can fit significantly more than three fingers in the gullet , then the saddle tree is probably too wide . an average horse has a topline that peaks slightly at the withers and croup , with a low dip between the two . the two primary problems appear if a horse is swayback has a significant dip between the withers and croup or is straight - backed has little to no dip between the withers and croup . the saddle should match the angle of the topline . bridging will occur if the saddle rests on the croup and the withers without touching the space between the two . check this on your horse , as if it occurs it will cause sores on the places the saddle comes into contact . your horse will require a saddle with a larger bend in the saddle tree . if your horse has a straight back this is most common in mules , then the saddle will rock back and forth on their back . you can rectify this by purchasing a special mule saddle that has a particularly straight saddle tree . the bars two parallel bars that run the length of the saddle , giving it support flare out slightly at the front of the saddle . the most common problem that arises with ill - fitting bars is that there is not enough flare , which constricts shoulder movement and can cause sores . check to make sure that the saddle flares out from the horse a bit in the front , to allow better freedom of movement . if youre ever not sure if the saddle youre trying out doesnt fit your horse , look to the horse for cues . their body language will show you if a saddle is uncomfortable or painful , or if a saddle fits well and is tailored to their shape . sit relaxed in the seat of the saddle , and check the amount of space there is from the front of your seat to the swellfork of the saddle the part the horn is attached to . in a well - fitting saddle , you should have about 4 inches 10 . 16 cm between the front of your body and the fork of the saddle . the cantle is the raised part , similar to the back of a chair , that is placed behind your seat on the saddle . if your saddle fits you well , you should be resting just below the rise of the cantle . if the saddle is too large on you , there will be more than 2 fingers width of space between your rear and the cantle . if the saddle is too small for you , you will be resting on the cantle itself . when sizing a western saddle , you should be able to stand up in the stirrups and have 2 inches 5 . 08 cm to 4 inches 10 . 16 cm between your bottom and the seat of the saddle . stirrups can be adjusted , but you dont want extra leather hanging loose .

strike up a conversation . send your crush flirtatious signals , and see if he or she responds . make eye contact .

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conversing is a very effective way to get to know somebody and to see if he or she shares the same interests as you do . starting a conversation or just a quick chat will also help you know whether he or she is into you or not . keep it interesting talk to himher on a regular basis making small talk , but occasionally talk about more serious things or engage in a lengthy conversation . if the conversation naturally deepens and you start to share secrets or dreams , you will bond . listen a lot , and respond compassionately . dont make the conversation all about you . maybe you should go for broke . consider it , anyway , when the time is right . tell your crush how you really feel . lay all your cards on the table at once . just make sure you two are alone and that you say it as casually as possible . try to be in the same groups if you go to the same school . always smile at the crush but not too eagerly . do it just enough to get him or her to smile back and walk over to you . ask for his or her snapchat , instagram , or facebook because its less obvious than asking for a phone number , but youll have the details . try to send signals verbally and through body language . these signals of interest will let the crush know consciously or subconsciously that you are crushing on him or her , and he or she might just catch feelings for you . give small hints with your body language . this may happen on its own . watch for signs that your crush is doing this too . open up to your crush , and dont be afraid to show the person your vulnerable side . you need to let the crush know wordlessly that he or she is special . laugh a lot . get a little flirty . say the persons name . people love hearing their name being said . compliment the crush . touch your crush in a flirtatious way . not in a creepy way . touch the crushs arm . it will show that you like the crush , but it will not make the crush think you want to date them if they do not want to . just lightly touch his or her shoulder , or give him or her a high - five , or even a hug goodbye . bite your lip , coyly smile when they tease you , run your fingers through your hair always works , and blink more than usual . these things just happen . getting someone to notice you is hard , as is keeping their attention . if you want someone to notice you , make eye contact , but not for too long . its sort of like playing with a small pet and dangling a string in their faces . pulling the string back and forth keeps their attention . this doesnt mean you stare at the crush constantly . that can give anyone a big creep factor . to make eye contact with a crush , you should glance at him or her , smile , and then put your head down or look away shyly . this will give the crush a hint that you like him or her without freaking them out . eye contact also conveys confidence , which is appealing to most people because its a way of building intimacy . people who are in love have more eye contact , studies show .

create a friendship , and be around the crush more . spend more time with the person . dont push it too far too fast . be a person they can depend on . learn more about their interests .

how to make your crush love you 2

it is very common for two friendsbest friends to fall in love or fancy each other after being friends for quite a long time . knowing what your crushs hobbies , interests and turn - offs are will boost your chances of becoming hisher partner . try talking to them as a friend first . if you approach the person as a crush , they will only see you as someone who likes them . this could potentially be problematic if they dont like you because they will be less likely to want to get to know you . become friends first , and then later try to pursue them . make sure they feel comfortable around you , through communication . get to know him or her and let them know you what you like , what you dont like . etc . this determines whether you are compatible or not . hang out with the crush . not one - on - one yet , but maybe ask your crush and one or two other friends to go to the park or come over to play video games or something . this way , you can see and interact with each other in a more natural environment . do activities together . the more you interact , the more theyll think of you . its a no - brainer eventually , you could ask the crush if he or she wanted to do something casual with you one - on - one . maybe its a sport or a movie . figure out what interests the crush and ease into the suggestion . apart from having an unhappy or forced relationship , pushing things too fast could also ruin the bond youve already created , which could lead to losing himher as a friend as well . be patient clinging is one of the things people dislike most in a relationship . give your crush his or her space , and let any relationship unfold at a natural pace . do not stalk the person . not only is this inappropriate , but it can be illegal – and it doesnt work . do not flirt uncontrollably with the crush . do not make sure you hear everything about this person , either . dont try to be around the crush constantly . if they ever did like you , this will put them off . hang out together , have fun and talk . if its meant to be , itll happen . if not , there are plenty of other fish in the sea . dont try to make your crush love you . love is not a game . they say the best relationships consist of the best of friends get to know your crush , and theyll get to know you . more importantly , let the crush know they can trust you and turn to you . help the person out whenever your crush needs help or support and be there for the crush at the right time . be attentive to their wants and needs . if your crush forgets lunch one day and you can afford to get them a snack or share your lunch , theyll greatly appreciate your kindness and compassion . make them a priority , and be there when they really need it . be the kind of person they can rely on because you do what you say you will do . be affirmative . make your crush feel good about himself or herself . get interested in things heshe is interested in . say , for instance , your crush loves everything about sports . watch some more sports games so if they start talking about sports with your friends , youll actually know what theyre talking about . if your crush loves older music , ask what their favorite song is . then , listen to the music , and see if you can find similar songs they might also like . all you can do is be yourself around your crush , and see how the cards play out . remember to pay attention to your crushs likes and dislikes and to be aware of their feelings and their interests , but dont adopt interests that truly bore you .

look your best but , most importantly , be your natural self . smile a lot , and keep a positive attitude . be confident in yourself .

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be honest with yourself and think how neat and self - caring are you do you take care of your body dont be egotistical and self - centered , but do try your best to look good . have a sense of fashion . you dont have to be a top - notch fashionista , but keeping your look up - to - date and funky will most definitely help catch your crushs eye . looking fresh never hurt anybody . maybe pick one day a week to dress up a little bit , but make it normal and not too forced look decent and approachable . if you wear dirty , sloppy clothing , your crush may not want to talk to you . if you are going to buy some new items for your wardrobe , make sure they are your style figure out what matches your personality and accents your best points . make sure that you smell good and are clean . you might want to try wearing a light perfume . have a distinct scent . wear perfumecologne , put on deodorant , brush your teeth and chew gum . people want to be with people who seem happy and fun , not grouchy and negative . your attitude can go a long way . the person you have your eye on is more likely to be kind if you have open posture , smile , and welcome them warmly , either by waving or smiling mischievously . act happy to see someone , but not so happy they think that youre stalking them . animals do this to human beings all the time . they act happy to see you , and people become happy to see them . people even look forward to seeing them . it really works . try to be nice to everyone and dont say bad things about other people . what goes around , comes around . they will notice how you treat other people . ego and arrogance is never appealing . be associated with positive things . dont change who you are or make excuses . game playing and people who shape - shift to become someone they arent will turn people off . people like a bit of mystery , and they are drawn to confident people . have a life outside of them . the more you do , the more interesting you become . the more interesting you become , the more intrigued your crush will become about you . whether its your body shape or your witty comebacks , you have a strong suit . figure it out , and once you do , work on bringing it out . if you have to change yourself to get your crush to like you , theyre probably not worth it . most crushes dont last more than four months , and someone better might come along .

take everything from the tack room and set in it the shade somewhere outside . hang rugs , saddle cloths and boots out to air in a breeze if possible . take everything out of storage boxes making sure any dust , dirt and hair also comes out . take plastic storage containers and hose them with mild soap and water , them let them dry in the sun facing on a side . put any suitable small items in the water to soak . shakewipe the excess water off and dry them with a towel or cloth . dust any shelves , saddle racks , bridle hooks , cabinets , tables , surfaces , etc . sweep the whole tack room . if the floor is really dirty , use a floor cleaner to get the remaining gunk off . now to clean the bathroom if the tack room has one . replace or fix anything that is broken . re - pack the storage boxes . bring the storage boxes back in and put them away . put up the saddles on the racks . wipe the tack with a damp cloth and cover the saddle with a breathable cover or clean saddlecloth . wash any dirty rugs and saddle cloths .

how to clean and organize your tack room

if you dont want to dirty things , then set them on a clean surface . make sure the room is completely empty . , take cardboard boxes out . if there is any mold or fungus on them , replace them with new ones . this can include grooming kits , non - leather stirrups , metal spurs , small pieces of synthetic tack , etc . , you may need to wipe some clean with a wet cloth . take a stick , in a circular motions and go around the top of the tack room to remove and cob or spider webs . this will remove the dirt off the floor and it will make it look much better . if there is too much dirt , use an outdoor vacuum if possible . , wipe down the toilet and sink , them spray them with an all - purpose cleaner . clean the inside of the toilet as well with clorox and a toilet scrubber . if the toilet seat is cracked , replace it . make sure the saddle racks are screwed in correctly and not broken . replace broken windows as this presents a hazard . re - label any racks or shelves if the old tags are not clear . make sure they are dry . try to have a box , bag or bucket to store all small items , with the exception of girths , reins and stirrup leathers , which are best hung up . make sure that bottles are upright . put the most commonly used items , like grooming kits , within easy reach , and the less frequently used items , like clippers , out of the way . ideally , they should be in a row along the wall . if you teach riding lessons and have lots of saddles , consider using racks the go on the wall . the bridles should correspond to the location of the saddle . bring in the tack and rugs . order tack by the horse its used on rather than type and keep the grooming kit near too .

head over to the nearest horse supply store and purchase a couple bars of glycerin soap its cheap , a soft cloth , a sponge , and leather conditioner . keep a bar right next to the place where you tack up your horse , along with a small bucket of water and a sponge . every time you are finished riding , dampen the sponge with a good wring out , swipe it on the soap and give your saddle and bridle a quick once over . dry off the saddle with a clean towel or if you air dry you will have to use oil to get the mosser back into the tack . get some leather conditioner preferably marketed specifically for horse tack and put it on the saddle . remove the stirrup leathers from the saddle and set them aside . clean as above . dip the bit and stirrups in a bucket of pure , room - temperature water .

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the brand doesnt matter ask fellow riders which products they would recommend . , this way no dirt and sweat get built up , taking your show prep from an hour to 2 minutes . this also allows you to inspect your tack every time you ride , for safety issues . get the saddle completely dry before continuing the next step . do not rub the soap suds into the leather it contains the dirt and grit that you are trying to remove from the leather . rub it on the saddle with a clean towel , taking care to coat the leather evenly . wipe off any excess . take the bridle apart , and set the pieces aside with the stirrup leathers . , scrub . it is possible to use a small quantity of silver polish on the stirrups do not use silver polish on the bit , for any reason , at any time .

remove the stirrup leathers and stirrups from the saddle . get your tack cleaning sponge and get it soaking wet , then squeeze most of the water out until it is no longer dripping at all . rub the soapy sponge all over the saddle , working up a nice lather . wipe all excess lather off of the saddle with a rag once you are done . put neatsfoot oil on a separate sponge you will never get oil out of the sponge , but just enough to make it very slightly damp with oil . rub the oil all over your saddle , making sure to get the bottom and all nooks and crannies . once the oil dries , put leather conditioner on a rag and rub it all over the saddle . repeat these steps on the stirrup leathers . reattach the stirrup leathers remember , if you have safety stirrups , the rubber bands go towards the front of the saddle .

how to clean horse tack 2

place the stirrups in a bucket of water and lay the leathers aside rub the sponge around in the saddle soap to get it nice and soapy . make sure you get all leather parts of the saddle . , allow this to soak in and let the saddle dry overnight before covering it with anything . ,

take the bridle apart by undoing all of the buckles on it , making sure to note which holes all of the buckles are on . take the bit and put it in a bowl of very hot water . clean each separate piece of the bridle thoroughly , using the same soap - oil - conditioner process as used for the saddle . remove the bit from the hot water and rub away any gunk that may be left on it . carefully put the bridle back together in the same way that it was before you took it apart . clean any other leather tack items martingale , breastplate , draw reins , cruppers , etc .

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if the bridle has been used on only one horse at only one setting , there will be a mark on the correct hole . if there are multiple marks or no marks at all , be sure you make a note so you dont have to re - fit the bridle . leave it in this hot water throughout the whole process . if you have access to a dishwasher , it is a very effective way to clean a dirty bit . - note - do not put oil on the reins and only put very very little conditioner . they may become slippery . , it may help to look at another bridle to see where everything goes and it which direction . it may also help to pretend you are putting the bridle on the horse and imagining which buckles would be where , and then put the straps together in that order . be sure to have your trainer check it before you use it an improperly put together bridle can be dangerous to your horse and may cause him to do unexpected things or not listen to the bit . using the same method .

find a way to send it to your crush . figure out what to say . edit the note a few times . once you think that the note is perfect , you are ready to write . once youre done with everything , put step 1 into action make sure to observe hisher reactions towards the note .

how to make an anonymous note for your crush

maybe you could ask your teacher to put it on their desk before class . alternatively , to decrease the chance of humiliating them , slide it in their locker . these are just ideas , and if they dont help you at all , use your imagination . write out a first draft . sound cute though . make sure it sounds like you , and not like the blonde popular whos so good at everything . just like you . typing it up on a computer is too old fashioned and it doesnt add as much feeling . use some letter cutouts from magazines or just hand - write it . , make mental notes about anything that needs to be used for a next note so you can keep writing them . later , give them some personal info like e - mail , im , etc , as long as they dont have your name in them so youll know more about them . eventually , you can see if its worth the risk of revealing yourself .

attempt to become their best friend . hint . be a shoulder to lean on . keep trying . back off . only listen to feedback from her . if youre sure you want to take the relationship further , tell her .

how to make a friend fall in love with you

not just any other friend , become someone that they couldnt live without , someone who listens to all their problems and always helps out when times get hard . you need to establish a connection like no other , something that neither of you could live without . becoming fast friends is all about giving her a sense of trust . if she trusts you , shell be more likely to give you chance when it comes to love . open up . tell her about yourself your dreams , wishes , and sorrows . its possible for love to grow where there previously wasnt any , but she has to think of you as a person with real goals , successes , and problems instead of just a friend . the more shes able to see parts of you that others dont see , the better off youll be . make the person feel special . let her know that she is someones friend - your friend - and that you value her in a unique way . compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her , times when you felt sad and all alone . show appreciation for the comfort the person offers you and for making you smile . always dream with her , build with her , and always cheer her on and encourage her . before you two get too close and pass the i love you as a friend line or become too much of a brotherly figure , you need to give her hints that you might like her more than as a friend . simple harmless flirts , comments , something that would make her tell you that youre sweet , but also make her think a moment longer about the comment and wonder if there is another deeper meaning to it all . this is very tough to do with words , because you dont want to make her think youre friends just in order to get in a relationship . in the beginning , stick to flirting with your body . dont pass up that chance to sit shoulder - to - shoulder with her . look her in the eye , and smile a lot . if youre really comfortable with her , try tickling her on her sides or under her arms or giving her a piggyback ride . gradually move on to flirting with words . tell her how much you admire her . tell her how special she is to you . tell her she makes your day easier to get through . but remember , a little hinting goes a long , long way if youre gushing to her every twenty minutes , she could begin to feel uncomfortable as friends and start to distance herself from you . be someone whom they can always turn to for reliable advice . if youre there when times get rough , and help her through them , shell look at you like a problem - solver and trust you more . youll also be someone she feels safe and secure around . when you notice hints coming from her end , you know youre getting somewhere . but if your hints havent really gotten through to her , try a bit harder . being more obvious can be helpful because some girls are used to being flirted with a lot . get her one - on - one . this ones important . if you never see her when its just the two of you , work toward that goal . the trick is to make it not look like a date when you ask her , but feel like a date when she gets there . tell her youre in starbucks studying and you want an awesome girl to distract you from your work instead of hey , do you wanna get coffee later on , just you and me make her a mix - tape of your favorite music . the music you listen to shows her a whole other side of you it helps her to understand you better . it also sends her a subtle message that you enjoy sharing personal things with her . be sure to include music that you think she might like . you could be setting yourself up for a fall if she only listens to beethoven and you give her metallica . after you give her your mix , ask her to make one for you . backing off is important because it lets her know what shes missing when she doesnt see you . it should force her to think about all the ways you make her life fuller , richer , more enjoyable . shell be eager to see you in no time . when youre sure that you are getting somewhere , back off a little . if you see her everyday , avoid her for two days or so , no contact she will end up missing you and really understanding how deeply she feels for you . but make sure you have a valid reason for being away when she asks . you dont want to be caught in a lie , or look like youre avoiding her on purpose . if you think it might work , try hanging out with another girl for a day , just to pique her interest . girls are attracted to men who get along with lots of attentive women . the goal here isnt to make her super jealous . the goal is to make her think that girls like being around you , and that you have lots of different options when it comes to women . dont worry about what friends say she feels about you , because , as we all know , information can get distorted . its like a game of telephone . she tells something to her other friend , who tells it to a completely different friend , who gossips to her acquaintance , and pretty soon the message has changed completely from what it originally was . tune out any noise that isnt coming directly from her . be persistent and continue to do fun things with her . studies show that doing something exciting , daring , or adventurous together helps release a chemical called norepinephrine in her body and yours that is associated with romantic feelings . so dont listen to what her friends or your friends say , and bring her to six flags , that haunted house , or an exciting game — anything that might cause her to jump , scream , or wriggle with excitement . remember , only do this if youre okay with the possibility of losing a friend it can get very awkward and uncomfortable if she knows that you want a relationship and she doesnt feel the same way about you . because what youre doing is risking a friendship to get a relationship . some girls will be mad at you for doing this . you might not be friends after you tell her . if you are sure , you need to tell her . be honest with her and explain your feelings . you can say something like ive really valued our friendship these past couple months , and have grown to see how special of a person you are , and how alive you make me feel inside . i value our friendship over everything , but i really like you . i cant hide my feelings for you anymore . would you go on a date with me give her an out . let her know that its okay if she doesnt feel the same way , and that you can take it . you want her honest opinion , not her sugarcoated idea of what you want her to say . if you give her an out by saying i know you may not feel the same way about me , and i respect that , it could go a long way to saving the friendship if she doesnt want to pursue a relationship . and if she does want a relationship , it will reinforce to her how sweet and respectful you are when it comes to her . dont get too emotional . whatever you do , dont break down . emotions are powerful things , and she might think that youre using your emotions to manipulate her , causing her to distance herself from the situation . if you get emotional , shell tend to pity you and revert back to the friend - zone that you want to try to get away from . stay stoic , even if youre boiling up inside . smile at her , regardless of what she says , and be as happy as possible .

make sure you have a friend or two close by . try dressing up a bit if you think you may run into your crush . wear sunglasses if you have trouble making eye contact . keep your breathing even and steady . be a good conversationalist . keep yourself from pretending to be someone youre not . try not to be a showoff . be sure to avoid literally showing off . avoid gossip and negative talk in general .

how to look good in front of your crush

avoid one - on - one encounters with your crush until youve practiced getting your nerves under control . hanging around in a group setting will take a lot of pressure off of you and make you feel a lot less self - conscious . even if they dont know about your crush , your friends being there will lend the moral support youll need to relax . you dont have to go overboard . but if you overheard that your crush may be heading to the same party as you wear your best jeans rather than the comfortable pair with one hole too many . the worst case scenario means you just spent the night looking marvelous for everyone else . eye contact can be difficult when youre nervous . constantly staring at your shoes when your crush is around is decidedly uncool . a pair of sunglasses will make things easier by letting you appear to look directly at your crush without actually having to make eye contact . dont wear shades at night or indoors . above all , you want to look natural in front of your crush . people dont normally wear sunglasses away from the sun . your shades may look out of place and draw unwanted attention . if you can look your crush in the eye , skip the shades . maintaining eye contact makes you look more confident . it can also subtly single to your crush that youre interested without saying a word . controlled breathing works two - fold it keeps you mentally relaxed and prevents you from getting winded . when people are nervous , the jitters can often show up in their voice and they may find themselves gasping for air while standing still . if you feel yourself starting to blush , breathe deeply through your nose . deep breathing will calm you and reduce flushing in your face . talk about topics youre knowledgeable about and ask your crush about what interests him or her . try to make sure everyone involved in a conversation gets a roughly equal amount of time to speak . ask your crush questions about his or her goals and aspirations . try to stick to positive topics , and answer questions about yourself freely . you dont need to be guarded to look good in front of your crush . use these conversations as an opportunity to learn more about your crush so that you can make an educated decision about a possible future relationship . you may find out that the two of you are incompatible . or , you may find out that your crush already has a significant other or is not attracted to people of your gender . if thats the case , you will need to let your crush go . when we want someone to like us , it can be tempting to put on a persona you think your crush wants in a significant other . while pretending to share interests and viewpoints may win your crush over in the short - term , you wont be able to build a real relationship from white lies . its better to be honest and stay yourself . instead of pretending to know everything about his or her favorite hobby , share something about your own . people are attracted to confidence , not narcissism . if youre trying to build yourself up in front of a person you like it can be easy to go overboard . bragging about your accomplishments will simply make you look insecure . dont be shy to mention your talents but only if its something that organically comes up in conversation . if its not something you can picture yourself saying to a group of friends without cringing , dont say it . an example of what to avoid while still looking your best if you were accepted to a prestigious university and youve heard your crush is attracted to intelligence , you may feel tempted to tell him or her . mentioning your acceptance when it is irrelevant to the conversation is definitely showing off . depending on how exclusive the school may be , you even simply bringing up the topic of college plans may come off as bragging . wait until the subject is brought up organically in conversation to tell your crush about this achievement . he or she will probably be impressed with both your intelligence and humility . under normal circumstances , you may be able to do a backflip with ease . around your crush , you may be nervous enough to flub your moves . wait until youre relaxed before showing your crush a neat trick that has the potential to embarrass . discussing other peoples negative traits will actually make your crush perceive those same bad traits in you . instead , talk positively of other people to make the reverse come true . this is especially important if you and your crush dont know each other very well . while gossiping you may let a careless judgmental word slip that seriously offends your crush . also , even if you barely ever indulge in damaging gossip , a crush who hasnt been around you long wont know that . make your crushs first impressions of you positive ones .

decide on the type of saddle you want . take your seat measurement . determine your size in an english saddle . determine your size in a western saddle . check an english saddle for proper fit . check a western saddle for proper fit . check the stirrup length . position the saddle . check the gullet . check the bar slope . check the bar flare . check the bar width . test the girth . pay attention to your horses response .

how to fit a saddle

before you consider purchasing a saddle , you need to make a firm decision on the specific type of riding you hope to do . there are two general categories of riding english and western . english saddles come in traditional english , hunter , dressage , and jumper varieties . western saddle options include traditional western , endurance , barrel racing , and roping styles . the chair - like area of the saddle that you sit in is known as the ‘seat . seats come in a variety of sizes for the multiple body - types riders have . to measure your seat , sit in a chair with your back against the chair back and your feet on the floor . use a soft measuring tape and measure the distance from your kneecap to the crease in your hip . your seat length should vary somewhere between 13 - 19 - inches for an adult . you can visit an online seat converter and enter in your physical attributes weight , height , etc . to get an immediate measurement instead of measuring yourself . use your seat measurement to determine the seat size and therefore the saddle size of an english saddle . the measurementsize approximately equates as a legseat measurement of 16 . 5 - inches or less equals a 15 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 16 . 5–18 . 5 inches 41 . 9–47 . 0 cm equals a 16 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 18 . 5–20 inches 47 . 0–50 . 8 cm equals a 16 . 5 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 20–21 . 5 inches 50 . 8–54 . 6 cm equals a 17 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 21 . 5–23 inches 54 . 6–58 . 4 cm equals a 17 . 5 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement larger than 23 inches 58 . 4 cm will fit an 18 - inch or 19 - inch saddle . the measurement of seat is a bit different for western saddles than it is for english saddles . the easiest conversion is to subtract two inches from the size of your english saddle , and youll be left with the size of your western saddle . use the following chart to determine your western saddle size based on your legseat measurement a legseat measurement of 16 . 5 - inches or less equals a 13 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 16 . 5–18 . 5 inches 41 . 9–47 . 0 cm equals a 14 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 18 . 5–20 inches 47 . 0–50 . 8 cm equals a 15 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 20–21 . 5 inches 50 . 8–54 . 6 cm equals a 15 . 5 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement of 21 . 5–23 inches 54 . 6–58 . 4 cm equals a 16 - inch saddle . a legseat measurement larger than 23 inches 58 . 4 cm will fit an 17 - inch or 18 - inch saddle . to tell if your english saddle fits you , put it on a saw - horse or your horse and sit in it as you would for riding . you should be able to fit four fingers on the cantle behind your seat . if you cant fit at least four fingers , the saddle is too small . if you can fit a whole hand or more flat against the cantle , the saddle is too big . test the fit of a western saddle by sitting on it as you would for riding on either a saw - horse or your horse . a well - fitting saddle will allow three to four fingers to fit between the forkswell and your thigh . if you can fit more than four fingers , the saddle is too large . if you cant fit at least three fingers , the saddle is too small . before you settle on a saddle , be sure that it offers the correct stirrup length for your body type . although different styles require different stirrup lengths jumpers use short stirrups , for example , you can get a ballpark idea of your stirrup length by standing to the side of the saddle , and pulling the stirrup up to your armpit . when the stirrup fits in the hollow of your armpit , it is close to the length you will require when riding . place the prospective saddle on your horses back without a saddle pad or blanket . move it so that it is in the accurate position the front of the saddle should rest on the withers without blocking the shoulder and the back should go no further than the last rib bone . move the saddle back and forth a few times to find the ‘sweet spot . the gullet is the long empty space that runs length - wise along the spine of the horse . a proper fitting saddle will allow you to see all the way through the gullet when viewed from the back . you should be able to fit 2 - 3 fingers stacked on top of the withers inside the gullet , just below the forkswell western or the pommel english . if you cant fit at least 2 fingers in the gullet from the front , the saddle tree is too small for your horse and will pinch their spine . if you can fit more than three fingers in the gullet from the front , then the saddle tree is too large and will cause rocking and saddle sores on your horse . the bars are the part of the saddle that form the gullet and hold the saddle on the horses back . the bars run along the length of the spine , and should be in contact with the entirety of the horses back if the saddle fits . if the bars are too straight , they will only meet with the withers and the croup of the horses back , causing briding . if the bars are too curved , they will touch only the center of the horses back and cause the saddle to rock in between the withers and the croup . the bars flare outwards at the front and back of the saddle to prevent chafing and rubbing while riding . if the saddle fits , the front of the saddle tree should flare out slightly . if the saddle is too small , there wont be any bar flare evident and it will be very uncomfortable to your horse . some horses are very wide across their backs , while others are very narrow . to tell if the saddle fits your horses back size , see where the bars sit . if they rest very high up , almost on top of the spine , then the saddle is too narrow . if the bars slide down very far past the spine , then the saddle is too wide . the bar width is closely related to the gullet clearance a too - narrow bar width will cause a larger gullet space while a too - wide bar width will cause little to no gullet clearance . when you get the girth tightened on your horse , you should be able to fit four fingers side - by - side between the front of the girth and your horses shoulders . an ill - fitting saddle may cause the girth to fall forwards or slide backwards . throughout the saddle testingfitting process , keep an eye on your horse . if the saddle isnt the right size or uncomfortable , your horse will show it in their body language .

talk to other potential dates . laugh and giggle at the other persons jokes . use body language . play with your hair .

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when your crush is around , chat with their potential rivals , including their friends . keep the conversation casual so that the person youre flirting with doesnt actually ask you out . say something like , how was your weekend or i have so much homework to do this weekend , but i cant miss my friends party . make sure that you dont throw yourself at others . if you get asked out by your crushs friend , then you may become off - limits to your crush because of friend loyalty . it doesnt matter if you think something is funny , laughing is a key part of flirting . it also shows your crush that you have a good sense of humor and are fun to be around . your crush will pick up on flirty body language , even if its directed at other people . while you dont want to go overboard , doing a little bit of flirting with body language will be enough to make your crush green with envy . it will work best if you aim your flirty vibes at a group rather than a specific individual because that way no one will think youre coming onto them . smile or pucker your lips . get closer to the other person . playfully touch their arm . keep your arms down to your side or gesturing dont cross them or fidget . twirling your hair or sweeping it over your shoulder is a timeless flirting technique . as a bonus , playing with your hair will stir the scent of your shampoo and your pheromones . wrap pieces of hair around your finger . if your hair is up , take it down and shake it out . you can always put it back up again if you need it out of your face .

know your worth . wear your favorite outfit . keep yourself open . make eye contact . own the room .

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if you want to make someone jealous , you need to know why you rock as a person . we all have great qualities , so think about what makes you special . people will treat you how you allow them to , so set high standards for yourself . remind yourself that you have as much value as anyone else and deserve to be treated well . make a list of your best traits , your hobbies and interests , and the positive things youve done over the past few years , such as volunteering or helping out your grandparents . dont make excuses for someone who doesnt treat you well instead , ignore that person and focus on your friends . remind yourself that all people are different , but they are also still valuable . this means that not everyone will like you , but that shouldnt take away from how you feel about yourself . when you know that youre going to be around your crush , choose clothes that make you feel your best and reflect your identity . in addition to looking your best , youll convey more confidence because when you feel you look good you project those positive thoughts to the world . show of your best features . pick an outfit that expresses something about you . for example , you could wear something studded to show that youre edgy , or something flowy to show your girly side . show that youre comfortable with yourself by keeping your arms loose at your side . when you first meet up with people , meet each of their eyes and give a casual greeting such as , hey , guys . maintain eye contact as you talk to people , including your crush . practice making eye contact with your friends . if you just cant make eye contact with their eyes , try to look at their noses . no matter where you are , pretend like youre hosting a party and need to see and speak to everyone . not only will you look confident , but your crush will have to notice you since youll be fluttering around like a social butterfly . say hi to everyone . speak to everyone before the end of the event . set time limits for how long you will spend in one spot or talking to the same people . for example , after 15 minutes you could make an excuse to walk away . say , ill catch you guys in a minute . ive got to refill my drink .

tell them you have plans . dont text them when youre out . go out with your friends . participate in new activities . post on social media .

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even if you arent busy , make it seem like you are . you want your crush to think that everyone is wanting a piece of your time because they will be jealous that you arent spending that time with them . if you dont talk directly to your crush , announce your plans to the group . say , im happy i got to come out with you guys today because the rest of my weekend is packed . ive got a party tomorrow night , and then im going to the beach on sunday . you cant show them attention when youre with others or focused on doing something awesome . while you may be tempted to text a pic or comment to show how cool and busy you are , its better to wait until youve gotten home to share . if you get a text from your crush while youre out , wait to answer it , even if they ask what youre doing . if you keep them wondering , theyre more likely to get jealous of those who are getting your attention . when youre with your friends , you accomplish two goals for making your crush jealous youre spending time with people who arent your crush , and you show how much fun you are to be around . when your crush realizes that you arent waiting around for them to like you , theyre more likely to want you more . new activities will help you spend more time with other people , will give you more plans , and will show that you have lots of options for how you spend your time . plus , youll be so busy that you wont have as much time to think about your crush . join a club . try out for a team . try community theater . volunteer at a local animal shelter . use your social media accounts like snapchat , instagram , and facebook to show off your amazing life . you can accomplish this by only posting your finest moments . if youre feeling down , call a friend instead of posting about it . when your crush checks out your stories , you want your life to look fabulous . even if youre spending time alone , make it look like youre really busy doing amazing stuff . post pics with friends and family . choose moments when youre out doing something rather than posting selfies .

limit how much information you provide . hesitate before agreeing to plans . mention your big plans . send mixed signals . talk to others before you talk to your crush . share a deep thought .

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keep him guessing by only providing a few details about yourself at a time instead of telling him your life story . when he asks questions , only provide half answers so that he has to keep the conversation going to find out what he wants to know . by providing a little mystery , you make yourself appealing to just about anyone . for example , hint at your favorite hobby by saying , the last time i ate tacos was at the cast party for romeo and juliet . when your crush asks if you were in the play , you could half answer and say , being part of the show was amazing . i hope i get to do my fair lady someday . this will keep them wondering if you were the star of the show and will make you seem more exciting . dont show how eager you are to spend time with him , even if youre not busy . make a show of running through your list of plans before committing to spending time with him , especially if hes inviting you to a group event . try mixing up the days on purpose . for example , if your crush mentions a party that your group will go to on friday night , say , oh , saturday i already have tickets to a concert then when they correct you , say , thats awesome i can probably make friday happen . thanks for reminding me . suggest alternate plans . for example , if your crush asks you to get frozen yogurt on tuesday , ask them if you can do it on thursday instead because of a conflict . this will keep them guessing about what youre doing . one of the hallmarks of the mysterious cool girl is the fact that she sees herself somewhere special in the future , whether its art school or running for president . figure out what yours could be . would you love to have your own makeup company or to move to the big city to work as a pastry chef think about how you can make your daydreams come true . dont explain your big plans to your crush . instead , casually refer to it while youre within earshot of your crush . you could say , im so tired of taking classes that i dont need . thats why im going to art school in a few years , or you better enjoy my macarons for free while you can because pretty soon theyll be lining up in the streets of new orleans for a taste of them . mixed signals are a classic tool for making someone jealous because they keep the person guessing . while its a little mean , sending mixed signals will allow you to get someones attention while still avoiding embarrassment because whether or not youre into them will be unclear . turn the conversation to serious topics after a flirty exchange . after you talk to them for a bit at a social event , focus all of your attention on someone else for awhile . after texting them a lot , take a break . wait a day or two before answering their last text . this can backfire it can make you look mean or thoughtless or just like you dont like them . use this tactic with caution . when both of you are going to be at the same event , dont rush to talk to your crush . instead , say hi to other people first , and try to strike up a conversation with someone . think about which social justice or societal issue is the most important to you , and write down a few comments about these issues that you could share with your trust . show them that you are a thoughtful , intelligent person . you could also look at blogs and memes that deal with philosophical issues to help you figure out your own deep thoughts .

get a binder , have a crush , write all about what you think of them cute , adorable , hot , loving , sensitive , etc . get photos . write all your connections with them . write your name and their last name together . write their name and hearts all around it . add in mementos from time youve spent together . what does the future hold , see all those empty pages , love them

how to make a binder about your crush

you could also use a scrapbook or just staple some sheets together . choose a binder that is in your or hisher favourite colour or has a picture of a band you both like . you might even be able to buy one just the same as the one they use at school this is much more fun to do if you are doing it about a person youre crazy about . not sure if its a crush , lust , friendship or even something more check out how to tell if its an acquaintance , friend , crush , or love . you might like to brainstorm ideas and compose paragraphs on their best qualities in your best handwriting to give the binder a personal touch . back up what you consider their best qualities with examples , such as i realised how smart he was when we did a project on the renaissance in class and he had loads of information , which he shared , such as . or i realised how kind she is when she helped me after i lost my schoolbag . write down the full story . these will give you some great memories re - reading the binder and makes your argument more persuasive and credible . take photos or get them offline . take photographs of places youve been together or of mutual friends . note any funny or touching moments youve had together . mandy brown , ryan green , mandy green ryan brown , did you go on a school tour add a brochure from wherever you went and write about anything that happened . did you go to the cinema with friends stick in your ticket , an advertisement or review of the film you saw , the popcorn carton you ate from or pictures from the internet of people at the cinema . you might like to think of where you would like the relationship to be in six months , a year , five years and ten years . perhaps youll be googling a picture of a beautiful bride and groom and adding your own heads write what careers you expect to attract you and your crush and what you would like for them . whilst it is best not to take planning a future together too seriously just yet it is a nice idea to seriously think about what your hopes and dreams for yourself and for them are . it will make interesting reading in a few years and will focus you on achieving in the here and now . there is only so much you could know about them as a crush . its up to you to develop the relationship so soon youre filling those pages with memories of dates , fun times and maybe even your first kiss . what if they say no itll hurt a little but youll get over it and you wont be wasting your time crushing on someone whose not interested while the right person for you is walking around out there , searching for you you might like to read how to ask out your crush . best of luck

learn about your crush . tell your jokes to others . learn other peoples jokes . practice . tell jokes . use observational humor . tease her . perform physical comedy . do impressions .

how to make your crush laugh

when you are first getting to know someone , you may not know what kinds of things that make them laugh . if you dont know her that well , try to talk to her more so you get an idea of her interests . you can also pay attention to the clothes she wears and items she carries , looking for any reference to shows she may like , topics she may be passionate about , or genres of literature , music , movie , or tv shows she may enjoy . these elements will give you a larger idea of the type of humor she enjoys . spending more time around her and her friends is a great way to get to know your crush better . when she laughs at a joke , take note of what kind of joke it is and try to bring that kind of humor when you talk to her . you dont know how good a joke or antic is unless you try it out on other people . your family may have heard the jokes you tell a million times , so try your humor out of your friends or at a party to see how it is received by others . if they find some things funnier than other , focus on the more successful elements of your humor and try to adapt others to make them funnier . if you arent prone to clever jokes , dont worry . there are many different kinds of jokes out there in books , blogs , and videos , so pick some and memorize them . this way , next time you are around your crush , you can tell a great joke and no one will ever know it wasnt yours . make sure you search for jokes that fit you . you dont want to give your crush the wrong idea about the kind of person you are by telling jokes that dont have a bit of your personality in them . no matter what type of humor you decide you want to use on your crush , practice it . comedic timing is important to any joke or antic , impressions can always use work , and sarcasm isnt easy to pull off . try elements out of your family or practice in front of a mirror until you get it perfect . you dont want to tell the joke what happens to a frogs car when it breaks down it gets toad away . and get the punchline wrong . you wont be able to impress your crush if you are stumbling over your words . practice will make you more confident when you are using your humor on your crush . she will see how sure you are of yourself and will appreciate your personality and strength of character . when you are out with your crush , pick the right moment to tell a joke . whether it is one you got from someone else or one you made up yourself , making a girl laugh is a great way to attract her attention and make you seem sexier in her eyes . it can also be a great way to break the ice . laughing will make you both feel more comfortable , easing the tension that often comes with new relationships . for example , use jokes that play on words . tell jokes like what did the duck say when he bought lipstick put it on my bill . these kinds of jokes are humorous and are funny to everyone . a well placed knock - knock joke is always a winning idea , and you can make it flirtatious as well . try something like knock - knock whos there youre . youre who youre so cute when you smile . it pays her a compliment and will most likely get her to smile . keep your jokes tasteful . you dont want to make the wrong impression by insulting your crush so early in your relationship . keep them on topics that are appropriate for all types of people . save the more specialized jokes for when you know her better . make funny comments about the things around you . maybe you notice a large pushpull sign on a door and think its overstated . make a joke about it , such as could that sign be any bigger i think we get the point . then exaggerate your movements as you push the door open . or maybe pretend the sign is wrong by pretending to pull and acting like it isnt working . it will let her know you are attentive to your surroundings and show her that you can come up with humor on the spot . you can also incorporate sarcasm into these types of situations . if you see someone with a large truck , say something like i think that guy should buy a bigger truck . i hear the prices of mac trucks are down this year . dry wit is usually appreciated and will make her laugh . just make sure you dont only talk in sarcastic remarks . she might think you are a negative person and not want to be around you . find small things about her that you can pick on . make a joke about how large her handbag is or the size of her sunglasses , anything that is small and unimportant . for example , ask her plan on robbing a bank later i think you can use your purse as the getaway car . remember to keep your tone light and keep a smile on your face . you dont want her to think you are actually making fun of her . dont take it too far and hurt her feelings . stay away from topics like her weight , what she looks like , or other things that might be a sore subject . you dont want to make her think youre mean or cause major offense so early in your courtship . try making fun of yourself as well . this lets her know that you have a sense of humor about yourself and you dont take yourself too seriously . say something like im a great driver . today , i even got a note complimenting my skills that said parking fine . just remember not to take it too far and become too self - deprecating . you can liven up any moment with a bit of physical humor . pretend to run into a door , falling down and acting hurt . you can also do a silly dance , pretend like you are going to jump on her back for a piggyback ride , or play wrestle with her . its a more active way to make her giggle and can have the benefit of amusing those around you as well . you can also tickle her or pretend to mess up her hair . this allows you to touch her in a playful way that is different than holding her hand or putting your arm around her . nothing is better than a great impression to get someone to laugh . pick a celebrity that you know she likes or someone you both know , like a mutual friend or a professor . this way , she wont miss out on the joke and can be laughing along with you . make sure you test out your impressions on others before you try to impress your crush . you dont want her to be laughing at you because your impression is so bad instead of with you because its great .

remember things . focus . work your way into the other persons life . give special treatment . make time for this person . contact him or her just because . make eye contact . it might sound trite to say that eyes are windows to the soul , but in a lot of ways , that seems to be true . smile . look your best . touch your crush . touch yourself . ask questions . tease . drop hints . get an inside joke . say the other persons name . ask for his or her opinion .

how to let someone know you like them

if you want to show that you are interested in someone , you need to show that person that you are interested in the things he or she says . even minor details , like the name of a pet or a childhood phobia , should be recalled and dropped into conversation from time to time . if you have a hard time dropping details like this into conversation naturally , remember habits and demonstrate your recollection by appealing to these habits . for instance , if your crush orders the same drink without fail , order it for him or her before your crush shows up . you should also remember the obvious things birthdays , things you spoke about in your last conversation , and so on . when you are with the apple of your eye , focus solely on that person and that person alone . do not text other people or look around for other friends . make sure that your full attention is on your crush . find excuses to meet your crushs friends or close relatives . these are the people he or she loves . if you want to be among their ranks , you will need to demonstrate an interest in them , first . another important way to work your way into that persons life is to open up as many channels of communication as possible . get a phone number and call or text occasionally . you should never become a pest about it , but the occasional good morning , good night , or what are you up to text will let that special someone know that he or she is on your mind . likewise , you should also casually invite this person into your own life . introduce him or her to your friends . if your family is doing something fun that your crush might enjoy , consider extending an invitation . you can be as kind as possible to this person , but it still wont be enough to convey your interest if you are naturally the same way to everyone else . you do not need to be nasty to other people , but you should definitely treat this person with more care and attention than you give to others . more importantly , make it obvious to him or her that this is the case . for instance , if you notice that your crushs plate or glass is empty , offer to fill it . go out of your way to perform other random acts of kindness for the person you favor . give your crush a greeting card or a favorite candy bar if you know that he or she is having a rough day . no matter how busy you are , if you want to let your crush know that you are interested , you need to make it a point to hang out from time to time . similarly , you should purposefully seek them out when you are at a group event , like a party . make sure to convey your desire to spend time with this person even when in the midst of a crowd of others . text or email back as soon as you get this persons messages , even if you do not do that with other people . if you stumble across something that makes you think of the other person , send an email or text to tell them about it . by showing that you think of your crush even when he or she is not around , you are demonstrating just how often that person is on your mind . similarly , if you go a few days without seeing this person , send a quick i miss you message . wait for days or events when you might usually see them , though—like a party they were invited to and couldnt attend . locking eyes for three seconds can speak volumes , especially if you conclude by slowly dragging your eyes away . eye contact has even greater impact if you get caught staring at person you are interested in . make sure that when you get caught , however , you quickly look away . in doing so , you let him or her know that you were just caught in the act and not merely staring into space . one thing to avoid doing , of course , is staring the other person down . eye contact conveys a certain level of intimacy and flirtatiousness when done right . when overdone , though , you can quickly intimidate someone and ruin your chances for good . when you greet the object of your affection , smile . smile while talking to him or her . smile when you part ways . there is something warm and friendly about a smile , and wielding one whenever your crush is around will help convey just how happy you are about the interaction you have . another great thing about a smile is that it really demonstrates the excitement you feel whenever you find yourself around this person . a smile that flashes your pearly whites and makes your eyes sparkle will leave very little room for doubt in the other persons mind . you do not need to dress up every time you see him or her , but as a general rule , put in a minimum amount of effort to look good . showing that you care about how you look in front of this person will hint at the fact that you have a reason to care about such things . on a similar note , if your crush specifically said that a particular piece of jewelry or garment looked nice on you , wear it frequently . in doing so , you can show that you really value how that person views you . find excuses to make brief , subtle touches . a casual touch on the arm or knee while you talk can work wonders . even these seemingly innocent forms of touch convey a sense of intimacy , and by initiating them , you are telling the other person that you want to be close . every time you touch this person , you should use a very gentle , light touch . a hearty pat on the back can be a friendly sign , but it does not do much to convey romantic interest . if possible , move in for a hug when you greet or say goodbye , as well . this form of physical contact is often reserved for people who are close , so it could help bridge the gap between you both . if you do hug when you say goodbye , make sure that your hug lingers . do not let go immediately instead , let your hands linger before hesitantly sliding them away . this move will show that you are reluctant to say your farewells . more precisely , touch areas of the body that seem innocent while also hinting at intimacy . touch your face or hair , or slowly stroke your own arm a bit . use your tongue to moisten your lips every now and then . by touching yourself in ways like these , you can hint to the other person that you really wish they were touching you , instead . you need to make sure that you do not seem too suggestive or creepy when you do this , though . act like your self - touching is subconscious and casual , rather than making it obvious that it is entirely for his or her benefit . one of the worst things you can do is to have your hands all over yourself while staring the other person down with a hungry look in your eyes . another great way to demonstrate how interested in you are in someone is to demonstrate an active interest in learning more about that person . ask anything you can think of as long as you avoid questions that might make him or her uncomfortable . ask your crush how his or her day was . ask about family , friends , dreams , interests—there are a wide range of topics when you really stop to think about it . if a certain topic makes him or her obviously uncomfortable , drop it . it may have been an innocent question at first , and most people will forgive you for accidentally stumbling onto one of their landmines . if you persistently drag that topic up afterward , though , you can make yourself into a nuisance and a bully quickly . this can be a bit tricky since there is a fine line between teasing gently and teasing mercilessly , but if you pull it off , it can have a lot of impact . playfully tease your crush about unimportant things , like being late or having bed hair . never tease about points of insecurity , though . you may not want to tell this person how you feel in direct terms , but you should drop some pretty obvious hints from time to time to let him or her know that you really do like being around them . tell him or her flat out that you enjoyed the time you spent together . try something simple like , i had a great time talking with you tonight . we should do it again soon . this might seem fairly blunt , but unless you spit it out , the other party might find ways of doubting your reactions . leave no room for such doubts . master the art of casual compliments . let the object of your affections know how stunning they look today or sigh in amazement when they solve a difficult problem . show how much they impress you . this can be difficult , of course , since inside jokes are usually things that happen naturally . once you have something that counts , though , bring it up frequently . doing so shows just how much you value that bit of connection between the two of you . there is something intrinsically appealing about hearing your own name being called , and the other person is likely to appreciate it if you make an effort to say his or her name several times during your conversations . you should also consider coming up with a nickname . nicknames express a special sort of connection between two people , especially if you use a nickname that no one else uses with that person . once you settle on a nickname , make sure to actually use it . make a habit of turning to this person for advice or helpful opinions whenever you have a choice to make . by asking for advice , you can demonstrate that you are interested in what this person thinks . ask for advice on everything from movie recommendations to solving disputes you have at work or with other friends . you should balance both serious and lighthearted matters .

make eye contact . touch him unexpectedly but appropriately . say his name . wear a subtle , signature fragrance .

how to make a guy think about you 1

locking eyes can cause crazy sparks . dont try to stare deep into his soul that could come off as creepy , but if you can catch his eye from across the room or hold his gaze while talking , you can have a major affect on him . eye contact causes arousal and can lead to feelings of attraction . try catching his gaze and smiling as you look away . then glance back at him again . touching increases attraction and can elevate a persons heart rate , similar to what they experience when falling in love . finding subtle ways to make physical contact will help you stay on his mind . sit next to him so that your shoulders or legs barely touch . accidentally graze his arm while reaching for something or brush fingers when you hand him something . touch his arm to get his attention or emphasize a point , or when hes said something funny . dont use his name to start every other sentence , but drop it into conversation every once in a while . it will grab his attention , foster a sense of intimacy , and reminds him that youre thinking only about him . if he says something that makes you laugh or blush , try saying his name quietly as you laugh . nicknames can be fun , too . if you give him a nickname that only you use , your little inside joke will set your relationship apart . dont pour your perfume all over yourself - - if its too strong , its going to be a turn - off and may even cause headaches or allergic reactions . apply just a little so he will be able to smell it when youre close to him . his mind will create an association between you and your fragrance . consider a fragrance he might encounter when hes not with you . try rose or lavender , or even something fun like pumpkin pie or coconut . then , when he walks by a rose bush , hell instantly think of you .

live your own life . be yourself . dont overthink it .

how to make a guy think about you 2

dont wait around hoping to hear from him . your life without him should be full and interesting . the biggest mistake you can make is to wait for a guy to make your life fun and exciting . that gives you way too much time to obsess about your crush and , frankly , makes you pretty boring . get busy pursuing your own thing and its likely hell be wondering if he can tag along . showing that you are an interesting , independent person all on your own . hell be flattered that youre spending time with him not because you need him to make your life exciting , but because you choose to be with him . dont set yourself up for failure by pretending to be something youre not just to get a guy to like you . if he doesnt see through your act immediately , it will only be a matter of time before he finds out . being comfortable with yourself projects confidence , which is irresistible . if you hate football but your crush is obsessed with it , dont pretend to be a fan . if you just dont know much about the sport , ask him to share his knowledge . if youre into it , then youve got another thing in common . if youre not , thats okay . just be honest if your crush always dates girly girls but youre more of a tomboy , dont reinvent yourself just so hell notice you . if you can catch his interest because youre interesting and funny , youll know hes into you for your personality , and not just because you fit his type . obsessing over whether or not he thinks about you as much as you think about him is draining , can hurt your self - esteem , and can cause you to feel insecure . crushes are supposed to be fun focus on living that full , interesting life , and you wont worry so much about whats going to happen next . dont let obsessing stop you from doing the things you love and turn you into someone else . keep doing the things that make you you .

ask him questions about himself and listen to what he says . dont play hard to get . maintain a sense of mystery .

how to make a guy think about you 3

most people really like to talk about themselves . it feels good when someone is genuinely interested in your opinion and experiences and wants you to share those things . ask about his hobbies or his favorite bands and movies . people tend to have a very positive opinion about people who ask them questions about themselves . make sure you weigh in , too . the conversation shouldnt be all about him . share your own thoughts and opinions and dont feel you always have to agree with him . you may think that flirting up a storm with other guys will show him that youre desirable and have other options , but playing hard to get rarely works . research shows that we are more attracted to people who are selective . so if youre in a group and none of the other guys seem to hold your attention , but you have a big smile just for your crush , youre going to catch his interest . this doesnt mean you have to be rude , mean , or ignore other guys . but if you were thinking about flirting with someone just to make your crush jealous , you might want to think again . if he knows everything about you right off the bat , hell lose the fun and anticipation of slowly getting to know what makes you tick . so hold back a little bit . dont call , message , or text him constantly . give him the time and room to think and wonder about you . let him be curious about you and what youre doing . dont ignore him or be rude , but dont always be available .

be cool . dress casually , wear a simple t - shirt and pantstrousers . be polite . smile at himher when heshe sees you , dont laugh at everything heshe says because they may get annoyed .

how to look appealing in front of your crush

dont be loud or annoying , you want a good impression on the guygirl . dont look like an attention seeker aton anywhere e . g facebook , in person etc . if heshe asks you a question answer it and be polite . ask open questions such as how was your day what are you doing tonight and what are you up to . also , make compliments . say things like i really like your hair , hey , nice jacket and youre really good at , i wish i could be as good as you . get close to them . you dont want to go over the top on your outfit , accessoriesjewelry if wanted . if youre a boy , keep your hair neat , tidy and smelling nice . theres nothing worse than having a guy who doesnt wash or comb his hair . and if youre a girl , have it down if just washed or put it in a ponytailplait if greasy and you absolutely dont have any time to wash it . say hi when youre with them smile and make a conversation , if youre out walking dont look at other guysgirls flirtatiously as you go past , you dont want himher to think youre not interested in himher . make sure you keep a good conversation and dont say any conversation killers when youre just getting in to it . but when its starting to fade off , dont start it up again , this may get annoying . unless heshe doesnt mind . ask them about themselves . find out what their favourite type of music , fooddrink , programme , moviefilm . etc . heshe might even tell you about some little individual funny thing about herhim .

use neat paper . use a fairly new , standard pen . be aware of how you write . keep your noteletter short , sweet and to the point . if you choose a poem . if you choose just a standard note form , do it like a letter but leave out the date . a tracer is a certain key phrase that is unique to that note or in other cases , all of your notes . sign off . send it . - the easiest way to deliver the note , especially if you are in school , is to slide it in a locker vent . slip it in her booksbackpack . hide it in her room . listen . prepare the next ones . meet .

how to leave a note signed secret admirer

lined notebook will work best since you will not have sloped sentences and the layout will be neat . make sure it is new . you do not want to use that wad of paper in the bottom of your bookbag that you didnt write on but you think they wont notice the wrinkles . you want a nice , clean , brand new sheet of paper . you dont have to write it in calligraphy , but you dont want your pen drying out halfway either . use either black or blue , avoid bright colors such as green , pink , or purple , as these are very juvenile and arent formal . if you write small , practice writing bigger . if your letters take up two lines , shrink them a bit . they should fit comfortable on a lined sheet of paper , not overlapping or crowding the page . you can go two ways poem , or an actual note . you want to make sure 1 it is not too mushy . the last thing you need is for the person to gag while reading about how you have a shrine to them . but dont go embarrassingly obvious with the roses are red routine . make it your own . comment on how pretty she is . the main things girls love to be complimented on are , eyes , smile , personality how funny , nice , sweet , or kind she is , and hair . start it with just her name , not dear so - in - so . then write about 1 how youve noticed her insert main things girls love to be complimented on here . 2 how you think about her . mostly when like all the time or if you want to be more creative , go with something like every moment of the day . 3 leave a tracer . see next step it should be a short phrase , no longer than fifteen - twenty words and should be very easy to remember . you may use this as a p . s . side note or as your last sentence in each note . just be sure you have consistency so she will know the note is from you every time . make sure you write your secret admirer in a much neater , more elegant script than the rest of the note . after the first note is received , you may choose to sign it as s . a . but to spell it out is more formal and mature . there are a number of ways to do this she will get it the moment she opens her locker and the surprise will be exciting . be careful with this one . your cover will be instantly blown with one glance . this is only applicable if you are buddies with her brother and you have access to her room . the same rule applies though if you were the only person visiting , your cover will be blown . if she talks about it , she got the note . if you glance in her locker and it is gone , she got it . you always want to assume she got it as long as you put it in a secure place that where she would find it . your follow up notes should be different , but just as sweet . comment on recent changes to show you care , but make sure you use your tracer . your notes should be anywhere from a week to two and a half weeks apart . you want her to anticipate the notes , but not forget all about them . after you have written at least ten or fifteen notes . use your tracer as a way to reveal yourself . maybe say it during a small conversation with her or in another conversation but loud enough she can hear . use the surprise and shock in her eyes to let her strike up the million dollar question are you my secret admirer

look approachable . dress well . be yourself . get to know your crush . get to know the interests of your crush . get friendly with your crushs friends or mates . hang around your crush more . give your crush compliments now and again . tell your friends that you like your crush . check that your crush isnt already dating or has the hots for someone else . casually flirt with your crush . pluck up the courage to tell your crush you like them . ask your crush how he or she feels about you . begin dating .

how to let your crush know you like them

this aspect is essential . smell good effective hygiene is also a must . would you like to date someone with smelly armpits show good fashion sense , yet stand out from the crowd . for example , your school uniform - wear a jacket or something that makes you stand out or even something like a badge to represent the music you listen to . be sure to wear something you feel is comfortable . if you know your crushs favorite smell or color , be sure to wear that . rely on the talents and attributes that you have naturally . if youre a funny person , use that to your advantage . if youre a big sports fan and you know that your crush is as well , all the better . share those common interests and use them to your advantage . dont trick your crush into thinking youre something else when youre not . if you do , it will all change and he or she will see your true colors in time and may regret being with you . you need to know this person not only well enough so that heshe knows you exist but so that youre both comfortable in each others presence and can talk without feeling shy or embarrassed . dont rush this part of things––its better to take your time to cultivate the friendship than to rush and find that your crush isnt all you had hoped . carry conversations with your crush every now and then . build these up to daily chats , hellos and acknowledgments as much as possible . you can have chats in person or even just on facebook or other social media site . although your crush might like you too , dont make it look like you are easygoing by replying immediately on online chats––play a little hard to get if your crush doesnt reply straight away then he or she might be talking to someone else who is more important at this point in time dont push it . sharing common ground allows your crush to see that youre open to their ideas . be sure not to insult their interests unless its in a teasing way dont be harsh . for example , talk to them more , mess around with them , ask them vaguely about your crush , etc . you can try to find out what stuff your crush likes by way of music , games , tv , sports , school activities , and so on . be funny and happy . seem like a fun person to have around a lot . say little things such as i like your new hairstyle , i like your smile . they might be able to help you spend time around him or her . they may even end up being the source of letting your crush know about your interest but at the very least , let them be supportive and help you to find ways to spend more time with your crush . if you have been talking to your crush on facebooktwitterin person , just make sure that you dont tell your friends personal things that your crush talks to you about as he or she might not trust you and wont tell you stuff you want to know if this is found out . your crush may tell you things he or she is too embarrassed or shy to say to anyone else , so guard that secrecy well . things might get a bit messy between you and the other person if this is the case or you may just embarrass yourself big time . equally , check that your crush hasnt just had a break up as he or she might just want you to feel good by saying anything or might be stringing you along as a form of rebound revenge . when you feel comfortable , remember to smile . gauge how the little flirting actions are going down . if theyre being well received , youre onto something . if not , slow down for a bit . sometimes its better to just let your crush know you like them by telling them how you feel . just ask them out the worst they can most likely do is say no . if youre feeling shy or afraid , remind yourself that if you dont ask , you could be crushing on each other for the rest of your lives and itll never get sorted out . if he or she feels the same way , youre off onto a new romantic adventure together deal with rejection as best you can . dont get crushed by a crush . sometimes it just isnt meant to be . but stay positive and remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea and this match simply wasnt meant to be . spend time together , keep it cool and fun and realize that there is still a long way to go before you both really know where this is all headed . most of all , aim to be good friends .

make sure you have the right equipment and cleaning products . select the piece of gear that requires cleaning . look at your bridle before undoing any buckles . undo reins and bit from the bridle . soak the bit in a bucket of warm water . undo all buckles and put the pieces in a formation so it resembles a bridle and where each piece should go . start by using the first cloth to rub down the leather , making sure you remove any built up grass and dirt . oil the bridle so it is shiny . rub the leather down so you remove most of the oil and wax . using the final cloth , polish the leather , using short quick movements . using the tooth picks , poke every hole to remove wax and oil . ensure you have an old toothbrush not your younger sisters , and toothpaste . rinse the bit and let dry . put all the leather pieces back together . find any problems such as cuts and stains .

how to clean and oil a leather bridle

the worst thing is undoing all the straps and buckles only to find that you have run out of leather ointment or saddle soap and having to wait until you get some more . the best products are beeswax products , they help to keep the moisture in while making the leather clean and waterproof . there are many other good cleaning products available for use , such as neats foot oil , theather dressing , saddle soap etc . there are also products made by saddle and bridle companies to be used with their gear , such as wintecs saddle cleaner . as this is a synthetic saddle , the cleaner should be a non - water mix , and be a wipe on wipe off product . you also need to make sure you have some equipment to help you while cleaning . these include a hoof pick - often bridles have buckles and holes that require some tempting . you can use a hoof pick as it is easy to hold and isnt going to mark your leather . tooth picks - use these to get dirt and muck out of holes as well as pushing cleaning products through holes on throat latch and nose band , as they may become clogged with wax . towels or cloths - its best to have a separate towel for the first cleaning , to remove dirt and grass build - up , a second one for the oiling , a third for wiping the oil and wax off , and a fourth for polishing and shining the leather . you dont need to have 4 but it is recommended you have more than one or two . newspaper - if youre inside newspaper is essential so you dont get oil and wax on the kitchen table , or on the floor , as they can become slippery and may stain the furniture . it is best to clean outside as the smells may cause asthma and breathing difficulties . a bucket and warm water - to clean and rinse bits and chains . for the purpose of this article , a bridle will be used . once undone , you cant go back . a good idea is to draw a picture of what it looks like , or even better , take some photos , so its easier to remember where each piece should go . you can also use another bridle as an example . remember though , straps and buckles leave an indent , so this is a good way to put the bridle back to the right size . , dont add any detergent , as they contain products that are not good for horses . we will come back to the bit after the oiling is finished . this time is available for soaking . , if the bridle has stains or marks , keep these in mind and you can fix these later . you can also use some saddle soap to clean the leather . it is beneficial to use the oil generously so it will soak in . you can oil each piece and let sit while you begin on other pieces . then when you get back to the first piece , it will have soaked in enough . make sure you apply liberal amounts of oil and wax to any parts that are prone to wearing such as loops , buckles and holes . make sure you get inside any holes and loops . the friction will help make it shiny . and place all pieces in a logical order in preparation for putting it back together . toothpaste is non - corrosive and doesnt harm your horse , while giving a nice shine to your bit . you dont want to remove the taste , however , as after years of riding , a bit will feel natural in a horses mouth due to the taste and smoothness . clean the bit all over , making sure you scrub around grooves and joints . you can also rub it down to hurry up the process . assistance may be required if you get stuck , so refer back to pictures and diagrams . if back together and it doesnt look right , undo and try again . when its on the horse you will be able to get a better picture . dont forget the bit , too . to fix these , get a permanent marker the same colour as your leather . if you have a tan or brown bridle , you can get coloured beeswax which is used for cleaning sandshoes . use the permanent marker by dabbing with the point until the mark is black . because the leather is oiled , the mark will be less noticeable . use a small amount of oil in your fingertips to rub over the marks , when dried of course , to keep the colour from rubbing off .

prepare your halter . call the horse . approach with the halter in your left hand . walk slowly to the horses left side . allow your horse to sniff your hand . position the halter in the same direction as the horses head . loop the lead line over the horses head . guide the halter over the nose and ears . buckle the halter . reassure your horse as needed . make sure the halter fits properly . practice basic safety guidelines . start young , if possible . handle your horses head , ears , and neck . introduce your horse to the halter . practice leading . avoid punishing your horse .

how to halter a horse

before you begin the process of haltering your horse , youll need to prepare the halter . if your horse is acting up , it can be hard to prepare the halter in the moment . unbuckle or unsnap the crown piece . this is the strap of the halter that goes behind the horses ears . it should have a buckle or snap somewhere on it . have your halter clipped to your lead line ahead of time . you want to be able to halter your horse and immediately lead him where he needs to go . you clip the lead line onto a ring at the bottom of the noseband . the noseband is the portion of a halter that slips around a horses nose . call your horse as you approach him . this helps alert your horse to your presence . this way , hes less likely to get spooked by your approach . call out his name or call out something like , im coming in to let him know youre entering his pasture or stall . make sure you have your halter in your left hand as you approach . you will be haltering the horse from the left side . you want to make sure your horse knows whats happening . if you try to deceive the horse by hiding the halter , hell learn to be distrustful of your intent . this can lead to a bad relationship between you and the horse . when haltering a horse , you should always approach from the left side . halters are designed to be buckled on the left . you should approach your horse so youre standing near his head on the left side of his body . you do not want to put the halter on instantly . this can startle your horse . when you are a foot or so away from your horses head , allow him to sniff your hand . this way , your horse will also familiarize himself with your scent . hell be able to differentiate your smell from the smell of potential predators in other situations down the road . a nervous horse may benefit from having treats as a reward for staying calm . a halter needs to be slipped over your horses head in a specific manner . once youve reached the horse , position the halter in the same direction as the horses head . the noseband of the halter should be facing the same direction as the horse is facing . once your halter is in the right position , loop the lead rope towards the bottom of the horses neck . this will provide you some control if your horse gets impatient during the haltering process and tries to run away . from here , gently guide the halter over the horses nose . slip the horses nose through the nose band . then , slip your right hand under the horses throat . use your right hand to place the crown piece behind his ears , gently bending his ears back as needed . adjust the halter as necessary to make sure its straight and not cutting into the horses ears . once the halter is on , buckle up or snap up the crown piece . hold the halter in place with your left hand . use your right hand to buckle the end of the crown piece into the buckle on the left side of your horses head . check to make sure the halter is not too tight . it should be tight enough that the horse cannot slip out of it . however , it should also be loose enough that the straps are not digging into the horses skin . if its too tight or too loose , you may need to use a different sized halter next time . your horse may be nervous about being haltered . reassure your horse as you go . talk to him in a soothing voice and pet him if he seems agitated or upset . you want to make sure you have the right sized halter . an ill - fitting halter can cause your horse pain . if the halter is cutting into the horses skin or fur , you could resize the crown piece by adjusting the buckles . however , some halters may simply be too small for your horse . go to a local tack shop and get a bigger halter if moving to the next notch on the buckle does not help . you can measure a horses head to find the right size halter . use a measuring tape and place it midway between your horses cheekbones and nostrils . stretch the tape to the same point on the other side of your horses head . write down this measurement . this is the size noseband you need . if your horse reacts poorly to a measuring tape , wrap string around his nose and then measure the strings length afterwards . place the end of the measuring tape directly under a horses cheekbone . stretch the tape to the cheekbone on the other side of his face . this measurement indicates how big of a crown piece youll need . then , place the tape several inches behind the horses eye and stretch it near the top of his throat . then , move the tape underneath this throat to the top of his throat on the other side of his face . this measurement shows you how big the halters throatlatch should be . as with the noseband , you can use string if your horse dislikes the feel of a measuring tape . if you have a horse with special needs size - wise , you may need a particular type of halter . draft horses need halters specifically made for larger breeds . if your horse has a narrow head , you may have to do some trial and error . try halters from a variety of manufacturers until you find a halter that fits . there are some basic safety guidelines you should practice when haltering your horse . you want to make sure your horse is safe during the haltering process . never let a horse run loose with his halter still in place . halters can catch on tree branches and fences , causing injury . leather halters can easily become damp and gather mildew . this can cause them to slip off your horse easily . clean them regularly and store them in a clean , dry place when not in use . never tie or wrap a lead line around a horses head . if a horse gets startled or upset , this could cause injury . it can be difficult to halter break an adult horse . therefore , if possible , start halter breaking the horse as soon as he is born . foals should be handled by adults right away . you want horses used to a human touch as young as possible . try placing a halter on a foal within his first few days of life . place the haler on and off your foal each day as he grows up . he will begin to accept the halter as a normal part of life . later , he will easily go along with being haltered as an adult . if you have an adult horse who is not halter - broken , youll have to start slow . to begin , handle your horses head , ears , and neck . each day , interact with the horse . pet his neck , ears , and head . reward the horse for allowing you to touch him . offer treats , like carrots or apples , if he remains calm when youre petting him . talk gently to your horse as you go . provide soothing words to prevent the horse from getting nervous or upset . once the horse is comfortable with your touch , introduce him to the halter . for a few days , simply hold the halter as you pet him . allow him to sniff the halter and get used to its presence and scent . then , try gently slipping the halter over his nose and ears . it may take multiple tries . if a horse gets antsy with the halter over his nose , take the halter off . you can try again the next day . it may be a few days before you get the halter on the horse and buckled properly . this is normal . its important to have patience and let the horse work at a pace that does not frighten him . if your horse develops an aversion to the halter , halter breaking will be even more difficult . once the horse is used to the halter , youll need to practice leading . attach a lead rope to the halter and begin your practice sessions . during the first few sessions , stand to the right of the horse . pull on the lead rope , applying pressure , to encourage the horse to move . when your horse turns his head towards you , praise him . reinforce the good behavior with treats . give him a slice of apple , for example , when he turns his head . you can teach your horse to step forwards by pulling on the halter until he moves . stop applying pressure once your horse takes a step forward . then , pull back on the halter . when your horse steps backwards , stop applying pressure . consider rewarding your horse with food for good behavior . work your way up . as your horse gets used to moving forward and backward , try to get him to walk with you . do a little bit each day . for example , start with five steps . in a few days , increase this to ten steps . keep going until your horse is comfortable walking with you when wearing the halter . you want halter breaking to be a pleasant experience . any negative associations with the halter can set you back greatly when it comes to halter breaking . avoid punishing your horse during the process . do not yell at your horse , whip him , or behave in an aggressive manner . the halter is new and unfamiliar and your horse may be scared . have patience . if your horse acts up , take a break and try again . each lesson should end on a successful note . even if all you manage to do is get the halter over the horses nose , this is still a victory . if you sense your horse getting tense or uncomfortable , stop .

use their name . include a compliment . craft a poem or draw a picture . be confident . dont be too forward . leave it on their desk or locker , if youre a student . leave the note at a place you know theyll wind up . dont violate their personal space . let them know who you are , if they dont already . pass them a note . ask them if they want to do something . stop leaving notes if you think the person doesnt like you .

how to leave romantic notes for your crush

use their name in the note so they can be sure that the note is for them . if you dont include their name , they might think the note was intended for someone else . in the end , your note wont have its intended effect . start off by writing it like a letter , for instance dear sally . write them a message and include their name in the message . start a note off by letting them know how much you admire them . in addition , you could comment about one their great qualities – qualities that make you want to be around them . consider letting them know how smart you think they are . telling them how you think they are handsome or beautiful . stating how you think they are funny and witty . if youre artistically inclined , you could write a short and sweet poem or draw a picture for your crush . ultimately , a poem or a picture could send a sweet message and let them know that they are in your thoughts . draw a picture of them . write a poem about the things you like about them . dont tell them that you are head - over - heels for them and would do anything to be with them . instead , let them know that you are a sure and confident person and would really like to get to know them better . write something like , out of all of the people i know , you seem like someone i really should spend more time with . the worst thing you can do is to leave your crush a note that leaves them with the impression that you are obsessed with them or are stalking them . if you do this , youll likely alienate the person , insult them , or scare them . avoid stating how much you love them . dont say that you think about them constantly . never write inappropriate sexual things . this will likely be seen as harassment and could get you into trouble . tape or simply leave the note on their desk or locker . you should be able to easily place a note on their desk when youre coming into a classroom or leaving one . you can also tape the note onto or slide it into their locker as youre walking by it . if youre not a student , you should avoid leaving romantic notes on a colleagues desk . in addition , consider avoiding flirtations during office hours - - this could be taken as sexual harassment . if your crush looks forward to your notes , one of the best things for you to do would be to leave notes randomly in places you know theyll be . this way , theyll be surprised whenever they see the note . if you know your crush sits at a certain place at lunch , think about leaving the note there . leave it on their car windshield . never trespass or open your crushs locker , car , bookbag , purse , or anything else private to leave your note . by violating your crushs personal space , youll send the message that you dont respect them or are way too aggressive . in the end , you may wind up alienating them rather than winning their affection . avoid leaving a note in their mailbox , on their front door , or at their home . they may think you are stalking them . dont follow your crush from work or school to give them a note . ultimately , while you may leave some secret admirer notes , you dont want to go too long leaving notes without letting them know who you are . whether it be in your first note , second note , or a few notes later , you need to give them an idea of who you are . you can do this in several ways simply write your name at the bottom of the note . give them some sort of clue about who you are . approach them later and tell them youre their special note writer . the best way to take your relationship to the next level is to start to hand them notes directly . this is especially true if you know theyre receptive to your flirtations . in the end , they might hand you a note back . after youve left a few notes , you should ask them if theyd like to do something with you . ultimately , going on a date – or just hanging out – is the next logical step in your evolving relationship . suggest going to the movies . taking a walk after school . getting a bite to eat together . if you get the sense that the person doesnt really welcome your notes , you should stop immediately . you might be able to sense this from how they look when they get a note , from the comments they make about it to other people , or you can ask a friend to inquire about it . ultimately , if they arent interested in the notes , you should stop immediately .

watch his body language . notice when he goes out of his way for you . notice if he treats you differently from his friends . see if hes nice to your friends . see if he wants you to meet his friends . see if hes always doing you favors . see if he always ends up by your side in group settings . see how he acts around other girls . see what he does when youre apart . notice the types of things you do together . see if he tries to impress you . see if he laughs extra hard around you . see if he acts nervous around you . see if you catch him looking at you . see if he starts preening around you . pay attention to how he talks to you . see how long it takes him to talk to you . see if he puts down other guys in front of you . see if hes always teasing you . see what he says to you about other girls . see if he really opens up to you . make sure you ask him yourself . find the best place and time to ask him . just come right out and say it . react appropriately .

how to know if hes really into you

body language can often give a guys true feelings away - - no matter how hard he tries to hide them . though body language tricks dont always tell you exactly how a guy feels , they can definitely predict whether or not he views you in a romantic light . here are some signs that may mean hes really into you he turns his hips toward you even if hes facing the other direction . he will look up at you , smile , and look back down . if he catches you looking at him , hell smile . he never puts his hands in his pockets or crosses his arms while talking to you . he may lean toward you when he speaks . he may turn his feet toward you . if he turns them away from you when youre sitting down next to each other , then he may not be interested . he may accidentally brush up against you when youre talking , or touch you lightly with his hands . if he takes a longer route to class just to walk past you , or if he offers to walk you to a class thats nowhere near his next one , he probably likes you . he may even make excuses for why hes suddenly near you , like asking to borrow a book you know he owns . this will be his way of letting you know he wants to spend more time around you . see if he offers you a ride home though he lives on the other side of town . see if he waits around , seemingly for no reason , until you show up . the bigger the difference , the bigger your advantage . for example , he might burp or swear in front of his friends , but try really hard not to do those things around you . if hes trying to be on his best behavior , he might like you . if he thinks of you as one of the guys , then he may not try to act super refined around you . if he treats you just like a pal , cursing , belching , and telling you about the people he has crushes on , then you may have entered the friend zone . if youre hanging out with your friends and the guy comes along , pay attention to how he treats them . if hes into you , then hell want to make a strong impression on your friends so that theyll tell you how awesome he is . guys know that girls like to talk , and if he likes you , hell be smart enough not to give your friends the cold shoulder . the next time he goes up to you and your friends , see if he becomes extra courteous to them and goes out of his way to be nice to them . the same goes for your family members . if he sees you around your mom or siblings and tries extra hard to be nice , he may be doing it because he likes you . if hes into you , then hell want to show you off . if hes secretive about going off to meet his friends , then it may be because he likes just having guy time - - or because he likes guy time because it lets him hit on the ladies . but if he does want to introduce you to his friends , its a great sign . it means that he wants to show you off - - and that he doesnt think youll get in the way of any potential womanizing . there is one exception to this rule , however he may not want you to meet his friends because hes too embarrassed of them if hes into you , then hell go out of his way to do nice things for you . he may pick up lunch for you when youre having a busy day , he may get the homework assignments for you if youre sick from school , or he may give you a ride when you need one . think about it is he just a really nice guy , or is his behavior toward you suggesting something more if hes always doing nice things for you and doesnt seem to be picking up lunch for anyone else , then chances are its because hes really into you . he may even text you asking if he can help you with something small just as an excuse to talk to you . if he tries to spend as much time around you as possible , even if its through helping you out , then hes definitely into you . the next time you hang out with the guy and a bunch of your friends , see if he naturally ends up gravitating toward you . if it feels like hes always by your side in these group scenarios , then its probably because hes into you . otherwise , why else would he talk to you instead of his buddies or the other girls around it may not happen immediately , but if you find that you two always end up having long conversations at the end of the night or sitting down next to each other when the whole gang goes out to happy hour , then this may be a sign that hes really into you . this can be a big indication of how he really feels about you . if hes really just a big flirt , then hell be treating every girl the way he treats you . if he teases , flirts , plays around with , compliments , and gives a ton of attention to every girl that comes his way along with you , then yeah , he may not be singling you out . but if youre the only girl hes flirty with - - or the only girl hes more reserved with - - then it may be a sign that hes into you . he may actually like you and can therefore feel too shy to really flirt with you instead of other girls he doesnt really care for . this can be confusing , but it makes a lot of sense . the main thing is to figure out if he treats you differently from the other girls . when youre out of sight , are you also out of mind if you and the guy dont see each other for a while and he doesnt check in at all , then you may not be on his mind . but if you find him texting you , calling you , or just popping in to say hi when you havent hung out in a while , then he may be really into you . the same goes for social media – if he comments on your facebook posts or favorites your tweets a lot , then this may be his way of letting you know he cares . if youre online , see if he tries to chat you on gchat or facebook to catch up . this can be another sign that he wants something more from your relationship . another way to see if hes really into you is to see if youve already been going on dates without knowing it . if a lot of your hang outs are already intimate and date like , then this may mean that hes really into you . here are some things to look out for do you go on coffee or lunch dates if he meets up with you during the day , not after hes had a few drinks with his buddies , then he may see you as relationship material . do you hang out solo a lot do you go to the movies go for walks just watch tv together then guess what – you may already be going on dates without knowing it . does he plan hanging out with you days in advance if so , then hes really serious about making sure he spends time with you . if hes really into you , then he may try to show off around you and to let you know how awesome , capable , and brave he is . this may be somewhat outdated and does not apply to all guys , but it may be the case that hell try to steal the show if youre around just to make sure he catches your eye . when hes doing these things , see if hes looking over to see if youre watching . here are some things he may do in front of you casually start showing off a talent , like dribbling a basketball or a soccer ball . conveniently pick up a guitar and start strumming . jump off tall structures into water to show you how brave he is . challenge his friends to friendly fights or contests . of course , you may be the next sarah silverman , but if he laughs around you all the time , it can also just mean that hes laughing because hes into you and is naturally a little nervous around you . if he laughs more than normal at your jokes , or even laughs a little bit at regular comments that arent even all that funny , then this may be a sure - fire sign that he likes you . the next time youre together , pay attention to how much he laughs . try to notice him with others – does he always laugh so much , or does his laughter seem to be more intense around you this is a no - brainer . if hes really into you , then he may be more nervous than normal because hell be afraid of messing up . he may laugh more , sure , but he may also stutter , forget what he was going to say , ask you the same question twice within ten minutes , repeat himself , trip over himself for no reason , or just generally act nervous and adorable because he really cares what you think of him . the next time youre around him , pay attention . does he fidget does it take him a while to ask a question does he make self - deprecating comments if so , then it may be because he likes you and doesnt quite know how to act . this is another big one . if you have a class together or if you happen to be in the same place , see if you can catch him looking at you . this is another sure - fire way to see if he has feelings for you . the only problem is , if you try to catch him staring at you all the time , then he may think that you have a crush on him…which you do but if you can be discreet about it , try to see if hes looking at you the next time youre near each other . if he catches you catching him staring and blushes and looks down at the floor , then this is an extra sign that hes into you . if hes into you , then its only natural that he cares more about what he looks like when hes around you . you may catch him doing some of the following things when youre together running his hands through his hair trying to straighten his clothes or remove any stains on them discreetly checking himself out in reflections if a guy calls you by your nickname , comes up with a new nickname for you , or refers to you by a pet name , this is a big sign . anything he says that makes you feel special and that shows hes taken a unique interest in you can tell you that hes really into you . also watch for him saying your name more often than he absolutely needs to . see if he talks slowly and more softly when he addresses you . this means that hes letting his guard down because he likes you . see if he makes eye contact when he talks to you . though he may look away occasionally , eye contact shows that hes paying attention to you . when you know hes in the same room with other people , pretend you dont notice hes there . see how long it takes him to spot you and how long it takes him to come over and say hi . less than a few minutes means hes probably interested . however , if it takes him a bit longer to say hi to you , it may just be because hes really shy . you can also try to see how he reacts when you enter the room . does his entire face light up , or does he barely change his expression anytime you hear him say anything negative about a guy , it means that he sees this guy as a threat — especially if its another guy you know well . he clearly wants you to only pay attention to him , not anyone else . if you mention a guy friend to him and he immediately acts suspicious , it may be because he thinks you may have romantic feelings for the other guy . if he knows youre going on dates and often says things like , that guy isnt good enough for you , then he may just be saying that he thinks that he is good enough . he may also tease you about liking other guys youre just friends with . this could be another way for him to show that hes thinking of you romantically . if hes really into you , then hell be more likely to tease you all the time . you may think hes just being mean or making fun of you , but if you find that hes giving you special treatment and always teasing you , it may not be because he thinks of you as his kid sister . if you find that hes poking you in the ribs , giving you a silly nickname , playfully making fun of your outfits , or otherwise generally teasing you , then it probably means that hes really into you . why else would he make the effort teasing is a big part of flirting . you may not even realize that he thinks hes flirting with you when hes being playful . this can be a big indication of whether or not hes really into you . he could be bragging about all of his womanizing in an effort to impress you , when he really just wants you to chase after him . he could also be telling you that he just cant find the right girl because he really just wants to be with you . if you find him even saying that no girl he meets is as goodinterestingcoolpretty as you , then yeah , hes basically telling you that he wants to date you . if he constantly says things like , i can just never find the right girl… then this may be his way of telling you that this girl is standing right in front of him . if the guy is really into you , then he may start opening up to you and treating you as more than just a casual friend . just make sure this doesnt mean he just sees you as a best friend , though . if he wants to take things to the next level , then he may begin to tell you things that he wouldnt tell just anyone . here are some things he may talk about with you if hes interested in you his childhood his hopes for the future his relationships with his family or friends some of his secretly dorky hobbies anything that comes after , ive never told anyone this before… at the end of the day , the best way to really know if hes into you is just to ask him . dont ask his friends , dont ask your friends to ask him for you , dont ask him in a note or a text , but be brave and venture out and ask him yourself . if hes too shy to do anything , then your potential future relationship is in your hands . its not as scary as it sounds . it doesnt have to be the most perfect , magical place , but pick a place where you can have some privacy without either of your friends around and a time when hes not likely to be stressed or to rush off somewhere . if you want to up the romance factor , you can ask him in the evenings or at a place that is special to you both . make some small talk but then ask him how he feels about you . you can tell him that youve developed feelings for him and just really want to know where his head is . make eye contact , but dont put the pressure on . try to keep it cool and ask him how he feels without putting the pressure on . if it turns out he likes you , then you can privately celebrate . you can both decide where to go from here . and if not , its not the end of the world , and you dont have to torture yourself by wondering what hes really thinking anymore . be proud of yourself for being brave enough to ask him and move forward .

observe her . talk about your crush . talk about prom plans . ask her who shes interested in . talk with your friends . read your best friends social networking posts . check whether your best friend is talking to your crush online . try asking outright . be kind .

how to know if your best friend likes your crush

whenever your crush is around , look at your bff and see if she is comfortable with your crush being there or if she is looking all plastic and hurt deep inside . most girls are good actresses so you really have to take a closer look . can she look straight in the eye at your crush can she still talk about normal things like your other friends do does she stay with you there when your other friends leave or does she make the first exit talk about things that hes gone through like competitions hes joined or whatever . see if she knows those stuff and if the way she says it is a bit possessive . if she speaks too brightly then that would be a very bad sign . if she doesnt speak at all or looks like shes not interested in the topic , that might mean something as well . each person is different and reacts differently so you have to know for yourself what each action means for your bff . if youre in high school then you might as well talk about prom sometime just make sure the timing is perfect and not like your topic just came out of the blue . that would be suspicious . ask each of your friends who would they like to go to prom with and never ask your bff last that would make things more obvious and suspicious . maybe you could ask her first since shes your best friend . if she says shes not interested in any of the guys or if she decides to go with the last guy you could ever think of , then that means she is interested in someone . when you girls are alone doing a project or an assignment , you ask her who shes interested in . if she says theres none then probably she doesnt like to hurt your feelings because she likes your crush . its impossible not to be interested in someone especially in high school . talk about the things you like nowadays books , musics . etc . if she is saying that she likes what your crush likes then that is a very bad sign . it clearly shows that shes desperate to be noticed by your crush and not you . if she compliments about your crush a lot and you dont want your crush to like your friend , then just keep cool . dont say bad things about your friend to your crush or else hell think that youre a basic loser . if she or he is posting something on instagram , tumblr , twitter , google , pinterest or facebook about your crush , or has uploadedtaggedliked , etc . a picture of your crush , then its quite possible that your best friend likes your crush . this can be one of the things that go to make up the whole picture . if your crush is online on skype or social media apps , see whether its possible for you to tell that theyre both online at the same time , while your best friend is ignoring your repeated pings to talk . this will tell you that your best friend isnt busy but might well be talking to your crush . simply say hey , do you like x if your best friend blushes , finds it hard to make eye contact with you , says something like phfff no or changes the subject , this might be the clincher . if you ask your best friend via social media , it will be harder to know whether your friend is covering up or not . but shehe will still say no . when it becomes clear to you , tell your best friend that youve noticed that he or she has feelings for your crush . if your best friend isnt already aware that this person is also your crush , try to clarify that you also like this person and that you think you two need to work out together what happens next . if your best friend does already know , this is a bit tougher because its something that has happened despite knowing your own interests . in this case , tread carefully but youll still need to sort out what happens next . see how to deal with your best friend dating your crush for more help .

think positive . look for signs of interest from the other person . respond with similar signals to show your interest . change your position if there is definite interest . make a final confirmation . pluck up the courage and ask himher . be happy if heshe tells you that they like you or asks you out .

how to know if a person is interested in you

if you think youve been getting positive vibes and attention from the person youre interested in , it may well be the case . assume the best but stay on your best behavior as well . while you may have been getting good vibes , sometimes you may be mixing up the signals and making the wrong assumption . as such , youll need to know more than just feeling it . in particular , watch the body language of the other person to see whether or not theyre flirting . for more details , read how to read womens body language for flirting or how to read mens body language for flirting . watch for the person making excuses to be near you and spend time with you . notice the person brushing up against you a lot , or trying to touch you often , all without making it obvious . catch their eyes . do they look away quickly in embarrassment or hold your eye contact defiantly with a come hither look either way may be a sign of interest . does the person smile at you more than usual this may be a sign . if the person is normally chatty , have they suddenly gone silent around you or , has a normally quiet person suddenly become chatty behaving in the opposite way from their normal behavior can be a sign of trying to impress you . there is a human reflex reaction when a person sees the object of their affection . the eyes open wide , eyebrows rise , nostrils flare , mouth rounds into an o , it lasts about a second . this kind of face is considered more attractive . so if somebody sees you and briefly makes this face , they find you attractive on some level . this is a way of potentially giving them the space to become more flirtatious or open about their interest in you . once they feel certain about your signals , they may relax and open up more . if youre wrong about it , laugh it off or apologize for being presumptuous , whatever seems most appropriate at the time . see whether heshe still glances at you at your new position . if yes , the interest is there . walk past the person . close , but not very . see if this induces some visible effects . if yes , you can be sure the person is interested . this is especially useful if you already know each other well . sometimes heshe may answer no , to throw you off course . by this stage you can be sure they like you

check your tack every single time before you mount any horse . go to the horses head and check to be sure the bit is sitting in the horses mouth properly . check the noseband so its not too tight nor too loose . check the throat latch to be sure it is not too loose or too tight . check the reins next to be sure they are fastened properly onto the bit and that the ends are tucked into their keepers as well . move onto the saddle next . review any leg wraps . check the martingale . get ready to ride

how to inspect your tack before mounting

inspect both the saddle and the bridle .   there are times after the bridle has been cleaned when the reins are not reattached properly , or the headstall is not fastened together completely , or any number of mishaps that can occur affecting the proper function of the equipment . make sure its not too high , so the horse has a smile on its face , nor too low , where it is lying on the horses tongue , almost falling out of its mouth . the corner of the horses lips should have two wrinkles for the bit to be fitted correctly . you should be able to fit two fingers in between the horses nose and the noseband for it to be correct . if the horse is using a figure - eight , make sure the bottom x of the noseband is not too far down the nose , restricting the horses breathing . also , be sure the buckle is not fastened right on the horses lips . if it is , readjust the figure - eight so the buckle falls above or below the soft part of the horses lips , but not too far up so that it restricts breathing . the throat latch is there to keep the bridle from falling off the horses head if the headstall should slip off from behind the ears , for some reason . if its too loose , the headstall wont stay on , if its too tight , it will restrict the horses breathing when the horse flexes its neck . the buckle at the very end of the reins should also be fastened and tucked into its keeper . check to see that the saddle pads are positioned straight and flat against the horses back under the saddle . if not , loosen the girth and straighten them out . when you re - tighten the girth , make sure it is not twisted on the off side and that the buckles come all the up onto the saddle pads and under the saddle . if the buckles are left pressing into the horses skin with no protection underneath , a sore could develop due to the chafing of the buckles pressing against the horses body . not to mention the constant chafing will be painful to the horse . if the horse is wearing leg wraps , check to be sure they are wrapped evenly and flat . make sure they are secured with strong velcro that is not worn - out . if you think the velcro is overly - used , put a piece of tape around it to better secure the bandage . if the horse is wearing a martingale , it should be loose enough so that it does not restrict the movement of the horses shoulders . thats it for the inspection . always make these checks before every time you ride , thereby ensuring your safety and the safety of the horse .

set your budget . research fair prices . purchase from a reputable retailer . read up on saddle types . determine what the saddles main use will be . choose leather or synthetic . maintain adequate space between pommel . measure saddletree size and shape on western saddles . check for tightness on english saddle . gauge appropriate saddle size . buy a saddle that fits your horses build . observe your horses response to the saddle .

how to buy a saddle

make sure you know how much money you can comfortably spend on the saddle . while some saddles are quite expensive , others can be found in a more reasonable price range . affordable , quality saddles can be purchased for 500 to 1000 . higher end saddles are in the 1000 to 2000 range and up . whatever your budget , talk to your saddle shop openly , and ask them to help you find a quality saddle that you can afford . say something like , i want to find a saddle for trail riding that is less 1000 . can you recommend something of good quality in that price range if you cannot afford to pay large amounts of money for a saddle , consider purchasing a used product . used saddles are often available from riding stables , tack stores , and even from fellow riders . before purchasing a used saddle , make sure it fits your horse well . an ill - fitting saddle can lead to injury for the horse or rider . keep in mind that many saddles do not come with cinches , stirrups , and girths , so these will be an additional expense . a good salesman can convince you youre getting the deal of a lifetime regardless of how much youre paying . thats why its important to do your research before hand . a simple way to find current pricing is to do an online search for the type of saddle you wish to purchase . you can also visit several different saddle retailers and compare prices . talk to other horse owners or riders about where they buy quality saddles at the best prices . there are several indicators that youre dealing with a trustworthy retailer . first , the shop should allow you a trial period with your saddle to ensure it fits both you and your horse . a reputable saddle shop will also have a reasonable return or exchange policy , if your saddle does not work out . do not purchase saddles from a retailer who refuses to allow you to try out the saddle , or who is unwilling or unable to provide details about the saddles materials and design . english and western are the two basic kinds of saddle , but there are actually countless variations of the two . english saddles are smaller , lighter , and allow you to be closer to the horse . western saddles are larger , and they require padding between the horse and saddle . the most noticeable difference between the two is the horn on the western saddle . english saddles are available in a variety of styles for different uses . for instance , deeper seated saddles are used for dressage , stylized horse riding competition . western saddles come in many styles , and they are often decorated with artistic flourishes in the leather . your riding style will play a crucial part in determining what type of saddle is best . individuals who wish to participate in dressage , polo , or even horse racing will require an english saddle . in contrast , those who wish to ride on trails or work on ranches or farms may prefer a western saddle . if you plan to use the saddle for a variety of activities , its usually best to select a saddle for the activity you will engage in most often . if more than one rider will be using the saddle , make sure each rider has input on the purchase and is able to try the saddle . saddles are made from wood or metal that has been carefully shaped and is then covered with leather or a synthetic material . when purchasing a saddle , make sure to ask about the materials and how they impact the lifespan of the saddle . purchasing a saddle made from synthetic materials is a viable way to save money . be aware that saddles made from synthetic materials typically do not last as long as those made from leather . on both english and western saddles , youll need to make sure there is enough space between the arched front portion of the saddle , pommel , and the withers . with someone in the saddle , place three fingers vertically between the saddle and withers . if you can do this comfortably , the saddle fits well . if its a tight squeeze or your fingers dont fit at all , the saddle is too tight . for the english saddle , have a helper move the horses foreleg while your fingers remain between the withers and pommel to ensure the saddle isnt impeding shoulder movement . this is the underlying support that determines the basic shape of the saddle . if you have a very large or very small horse , you may struggle to find a saddletree that fits just right , but checking for it is simple . with a rider in the saddle , place three fingers horizontally between the horses shoulder and the saddle on both sides . just like with the pommel , this is a quick and easy way to gauge whether or not the saddle size and shape fits your horse . stand at the back of your horse , and look at the saddle without a rider seated . with the horses head down , you should be able to see light . if you cant see light , the saddle is too tight . this light check lets you know your horses saddle is snug but not tight . its important to make sure you fit in your saddle . the shape and length of the saddle should accommodate you comfortably . otherwise , you may not want to ride as often . in english saddles you should have four inches of saddle in front and behind your body . western saddles have four inches in front with your backside rested against the cantle , raised back portion at the back of saddle . you shouldnt feel pressed against the cantle to achieve the four inches of space in the front of the saddle . ensure western saddles fit with your saddle pad by trying it on your horse . western saddles need to have about an inch of padding between saddle and horse . in many cases , you may need to purchase an extended cinch to accommodate the added padding . saddles are often selected with a particular horse in mind . if your horse is relatively small or young , you will want to look for a lighter , smaller saddle . by contrast , larger horses can handle heavier saddles with greater ease . if you plan to use your saddle on a number of horses , you can choose a saddle to accommodate your largest horse and use additional padding when necessary . for the first few rides after purchasing a new saddle , youll need to closely watch the way your horse behaves . if you notice a change in their posture , behavior , or ability to run or jump , your saddle may not be a good fit for the horse . for this very reason , most reputable saddle retailers have a return policy that allows for a trial period .

take the halter off the horse . hold up the bridle and align everything to avoid tangles . put the headstall on the horse gently , bit first , remembering to push the ears forward one at a time , not reaching through and pulling them forward uncomfortably . fasten the throatlatch . fasten the noseband or cavesson approx one inch below the cheek bone , about half - way between the corner of his eye and top of his nostril . fasten the flash and situate the buckle . examine the bridle from the front and both sides . store the bridle .

how to bridle a horse for dressage

fasten it around the horses neck if you prefer or loop the bridle reins around the neck to keep them off the ground . the throatlatch , noseband , and flash should be unfastened with the straps hanging neatly to the outside of the cheekpieces and bit . before you start fastening the buckles , view the horse from the front and make sure the bridle pieces and bit lay straight and even on both sides of the face the browband should be between the base of the horses ears and the top of the horns the bony protrusion above each eye . it should be level and large enough not to pull the cheekpieces too close to the eye . the buckles of the cheekpiece and strap to the noseband should be very close to each other for a good fit and neat look . the throatlatch should fit basically like a necklace four fingers width . the cavesson noseband should fit like a bracelet two fingers width . the flash should fit like more like ring and needs to be below the bit . this way the flash wont interfere with the bits movement or pinch the corners of the mouth when you pick up on the reins . you should be able to fit four fingers under it it should fit like a necklace with ample room for your horse to breathe when the neck is flexed . this should fit like a bracelet you should be able to fit two fingers under it but can be adjusted to your horses preference . make sure the cheekpiece that attaches to the bit moves freely and that the noseband is under it . the buckle should lay on a fleshy , non - bony area of the horses nose . it should be somewhat between the bridge of the nose and the line of the lips . adjust the tightness of the flash to your horses comfort level , start loose at first and tighten only enough to prevent gaping of the mouth but not so much that your horse feels trapped , the jaws must move to maintain softness and relaxation while maintaining connection through the reins to the riders hands . see image . everything should be symmetrical and fitted . hang the crown and the loop of the reins together on a hook . the reins should hang with the right side of the leather facing up . now circle each strap cavesson , throatlatch , flash around the bridle and secure . do not buckle the straps – just push the straps end through the leather keepers . this will help the bridle keep the correct shape , and also ensure that you dont lose any straps off the headstall .

tie your horse . groom the horse . if you want to do the bridle first , tie your ponys head - collar so that it is around his neck . put on the saddle padblanketcloth . place the saddle gently on the horses back . put on his cinch or girth . put on the horses boots . unbuckle the cross ties . hold the crown , noseband , and throat latch in your right thumb , under and over the horses head . put the crownheadpiece of the bridle over the horses ears . buckle the throat latch . buckle the nose band . if you have a flash , buckle it . mount your horse and you are ready to ride

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cross ties , but you may use something else if your horse is used to it . if you tie your horse with the lead rope , its always a good idea to do a quick - release or slip knot this can be a full groom - both brush the horse and pick out the feet with a hoof pick . as you groom , check the horse for lumps , bumps , swelling , and heat that could mean your horse is unsound . see related wikihows below . this will make it easier for when you put the bridle on . if doing the saddle first , leave it on his face so he cant run away . if you are not going to ride straight away leave the nose band off until you are ready to ride . place the front on the horses withers , a bit higher than normal . slide it down a bit so the hair will not be pushed down in an unnatural position . it should sit in the middle of the saddle pad . again , make sure it doesnt interfere with the horses shoulder . if it is sitting correctly , most of the time there will be a thin strip on the saddle pad that the saddle sits straight above , and should be coming out from directly underneath the pommel . remember , if your horse has a martingale attach it before you start when you are putting on the saddle . take note to also lift the top of the blanket pad into place , where the pommel on the saddle is . its easiest to lift both blanket and saddle up , so they can come down gently from a few centimetres above the withers . some horses will bloat - if he is known to do this , tighten it gradually on both sides when he exhales so he cant do this and tighten it again prior to mounting . ideally , you should have the girth about 34 as tight as you prefer it . if your saddle is unattached attach it with keepers . if using breast strap , or rear cinch , now is the time to position them . move your horse at least three steps , forward or back . tighten the cinch or girth again and do so gradually . you may have to put on boots or polos but it depends on your horses needs . make sure the strap of the boots go from the inside of the horses leg , wrapping around the front so the end if the strap is facing backwards on the outside of the leg put the reins over the horses head . this is so they dont get tangled in all the other straps on the bridle and so that you will always have control over the horse . this way , only the bit is being given and does not get tangled . offer the bit into the horses mouth . put a finger on each side of the bit and gently push against the horses mouth . if the horse does not take in the bit , it is a good idea to put your thumb in the very corner of the horses mouth where there is no teeth , and push on the horses tongue . this will make your horse open his mouth . some put in the farthest ear first , so the ear nearest will easily slide under . when you buckle it , you should be able to put four fingers or a fist in between the throat and the throat latch . you should be able to fit one or two fingers under it . you should buckle it so it is snug but not hurting the horse . have fun

make sure your girth fits . it is best to break in a saddle with an older set of well maintained stirrup leathers . do not ride in your saddle the day you bring it home . tack up your horse being very careful to have your girth adjusted and the buckle of your stirrup leathers pulled up to the stirrup bar . ride as usual for at least an hour . check your girth frequently , when you have completed the ride . lightly treat the underside of the saddle as above . you can work the billets with a glycerin wash . knead the glycerin in until they become more pliable . buff the top leather with a soft flannel cloth . allow the saddle to sit for 2 to 3 days before putting into use .

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a well fitting girth on a new saddle will be slightly longer than when the saddle is broken in as the billets stretch . you need to use a girth that fastens with the girth buckles just below the appropriate position during the break in period one or two holes below the middle billet hole on both near and far side . new leathers are rough on saddle flaps that are not yet broken in to accommodate them . wait for a day of steady rain . not a downpour , and light mist wont do the trick . its best to buy your saddle in the summer when the temperatures are such that you will be able to completely break in the saddle with one ride . do not wear a raincoat that covers any portion of the saddle . during this ride , pay very close attention to your equitation , in particular your leg position and seat . it is helpful to have a friend who watches you and corrects any deviation . start with your stirrups adjusted into the position you most commonly ride in . shorten or lengthen your stirrups into the other lengths you use once your saddle is thoroughly saturated . ride equal time in all positions after the saddle is softened by the rain . the billets stretch most during the first ride . seal the exposed leather with a coat of glycerin . dip a bar of glycerin into water and use a dry cloth to pick up a patch of it . there should be no bubbles coat the top of the saddle fairly thickly and turn over . be sure that you are using pure glycerin . many soaps contain basic high ph additives that will damage the leather leather is naturally slightly acidic due to the tanning process . use warm neatsfoot oil on the lower flaps those in contact with the horse , taking care not to oil the side in contact with the horse . do not oil any stitching . oil in extremely thin coats , using a soft cloth or sponge . repeat until the oil does not soak into the leather , then wipe off any excess and allow to set for at least 24 hours . oil will soak into the leather over time , and may accept more oil after setting . do not over oil the leather . if it is over - oiled , it will become too soft and delicate , which will decrease the life of the leather . it is not recommended to oil soft leather at any point , including , in some cases , the knee rolls , blocks , and often the seat of the saddle . it is possible , if desired , to lightly oil the smooth side of hard leather on the skirt and upper flaps . oiling the smooth side takes far longer , but it makes it easier to control the evenness and amount of oil used . alternatively , it is possible to lightly oil the billets , following the same instructions as those for the saddle flaps and skirt . the leather should be darker , softer and shinier than when new . continue to closely monitor your leg placement during the first few weeks of service . check your girth very frequently and use a shorter one when billets stretch and the buckles get too high on them .

thread a piece of twine through one of the bit guards and tie the ends together to make a loop . put your foot through one of the loops and press your weight down . pull up on the other loop to stretch the bit guard enough to pass the bit through the opening . cut both twine pieces near the knot and remove them from the bit guard . using the same two pieces of twine , repeat steps 2 - 4 to put on the second bit guard . when you bridle your horse , put one bit guard on each side of his mouth .

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repeat with a second piece of twine so that you have two loops on the bit guard . , check to see if the bit guards have made the bit too narrow for your horses mouth . if so , go up 14 6 . 35mm on the bits size .

check that you have the correct bridle size . halter your horse so the main part is around the horses neck . pick up and position your bridle . drape the reins over your horses neck . switch hands holding the bridle . have the horse drop his head for the bit . slip the crown of the bridle over the horses ears . adjust the brow band . buckle the throatlatch . check the fit of the bridle . remove the halter once youre satisfied with the bridles positioning . hold your horse by sliding the reins from their neck and gathering them in your hand .

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if this is the first time youre using this bit on this particular horse you should be sure that youre using a proper sized bridle . if its the wrong size it will make the horse uncomfortable . bridles comes in three sizes pony , cob or arabian , and full . measure your horses head from the center of his poll to the corner of his mouth , and compare this measurement to the crown and cheek piece of the bridle . if the bit is too small it can pinch the horses mouth . if the bit is too large it will slide around in the horses mouth . also an over - sized ported or jointed bit can cause pain or damage to the roof of the horses mouth . let the noseband hang . this gives you something to keep the horse in check , but wont get in the way of the bridle . do not have the horse tied when you do this . pick it up from its crownpiece top part in your left hand , letting the rest of it hang . move any small straps to the outside of the cheekpieces , so they wont get tangled . , now hold it in your right hand . hold the bridle so that the two sides are a good distance apart , with the crown up and the throatlatch straps hanging free and not tangled in any other straps . make sure you take up all the reins so that you dont create loops for your horse to step in and keep all the straps off the ground . once he does , hold the bit in the palm of your left hand , with your right forearm paralleling the horses top of his neck your hand should be right near his ears . gently press the bit next to the horses teeth , and insert your thumb back into the horses mouth to make it open if you must . if your horse wont lower his head or accept the bit , offer them a treat while offering the bit . hold the bridle in your right arm with the crown of it near the horses ears , and rest its bit and a treat a bit of apple or sugar cube in your palm . slip the bit into your horses mouth with the treat . hold the bit low where youve been holding the treats . gently set it against your horses teeth as close to where her top teeth meet her lower teeth as possible . hold your sugar cube against the bit . make sure that youre holding the crown up and ready to slip on before you put the bit in their mouth . make sure you have the bit in before you put the bridles crown over their ears . you want to maintain gentle pressure on the bit so the horse doesnt let it out of his mouth . avoid crushing the horses ears . it you have to slip one ear under the crown and then the other , do so gently . give your horse a treat to reward them for being good . this is optional , and probably not needed for a calm , experienced horse . the brow band should always rest against your horses forehead smoothly . it should be set 1 - 2 below the base of the horses ears . check from the front to make sure its straight and isnt pinching the horses ears . while youre adjusting the brow band , adjust the headstall and cheek pieces to make sure everything is straight . double check by looking at the bridle head - on . the throatlatch isnt there to hold the bridle in place , and should be buckled with enough slack for 4 fingers to slide between it and the horses neck . the throatlatch operates as an extra precaution to prevent the bridle from falling off . this means that the throatlatch needs to be loose enough to maintain slack , even if the horse drops his head . make sure you can fit 4 fingers between the throatlatch and the horse , even when their head is bent downwards . to remember about how loose the throatlatch should be , imagine it as a necklace . the brow band should be smooth and in the correct position so it wont be pinching your horses ears or head . check that the bit sits evenly in your horses mouth . there should be two wrinkles on either corner of your horses mouth . too few wrinkles and you need to shorten the cheek straps . make sure it sits evenly on your horses head . if you do have to adjust the cheek strap check that the rest of the headstall is still even . unsnap the halter from the remaining cross - tie . untie the lead rope from your horses neck and unbuckle and remove the halter . this is when you should check the length of your reins . the need to be long enough that you can take up contact with your horses mouth . lead them on their left , at their cheek . hold the reins in your right hand about six inches below the bit . keep the bight in your left hand .

look at the obvious . talk to him . text him . become friends with his friends , guys like having a girlfriend thats comfortable being with him and his friends . become friends with him , but dont become too close or it could ruin your chance with him . does he want you to help him with projects or always pick you as his partner in school , does he always give you hugs , does he always smile when he looks at you , or shows interest

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does he stare at you a lot , or look at you when talking to friends text you a lot if so , he might like you , keep reading if youre still not positive . make sure you keep him interested . if you think acting ignorant will make him run to you , youre wrong . texting is a way you can release your feelings without the awkwardness of talking one - on - one . if your conversation suddenly stops with a , yeah wait a little bit to see if he tries to continue the conversation . if he does , he might be interested . however , make sure that he will not feel uncomfortable because of your overly big interest in his friends instead of him . get to know him . so that way you connect , which will make him like you more . if so , this could be because he likes hanging out with you . hugging is a big sign that he may have some interest in you , or he is just a friendly guy . it really depends on the hug . if its a sweet hug from behind while you are your locker , resting his head on your shoulder , it means he wants a proper hug , but doesnt want to ask you . if its a hug where he lifts you , and spins you around , he is definitely into you . he just wants to gain your trust first , and get to know you more . even if he just pokes , tickles , taps , or bump in to you that can show you that he is definitely trying to flirt . this may sound weird , but sometimes when a boys likes a girl he will be mean to her , so maybe he playfully trips you or pushesshoves you , thats a sign as well for example , if you and your crush are playing soccer together , he might brush up against your arm , thus using his body language to hint his attraction to you . when he smiles at you when you do something cute , or something clumsy , he will look at you and laugh softly . if you say something funny , or youre in class and you say i dont get it . and that pulls on his heartstrings , he will laugh softly and poke your nose softly , as if saying i like your nose . go cross - eyed as if your trying to look at your nose immediately after he pokes your nose . it will make him laugh , and think you are so much cuter .

pick western style riding for more informal riding . check that you have the correct bridle size . make sure that both you and the horse are calm . secure your horse . have your horse drop their head . slip the bit into your horses mouth with the treat . keep pressure on the crown while slipping it over their ears . give your horse a treat for being good . remove the halter once the main part of the bridle is on the horse . buckle the throatlatch . check the bridles fit . gather your reins in your right hand .

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people tend to use western style riding for rodeos and ranching and it is more common in the u . s . than in other countries , so you might have a harder time accessing western equipment if you live somewhere that favors english style . one nice thing about the western saddle is that it has the horn , where you can grip onto if youre on an experienced rider . if this is the first time youre using this bit on this particular horse you definitely want to make sure that youre using the proper sized bridle . if its the wrong size it will make the horse uncomfortable . bridles comes in three sizes pony , cob or arabian , and full . measure your horses head from the center of his poll to the corner of his mouth , and compare this measurement to the crown and cheek piece of the bridle . if the bit is too small it can pinch the horses mouth . if the bit is too big it will slide around in the horses mouth . a horse can sense your fear and this will make them nervous . also , remember that it can be nerve - wracking for a horse to have someone putting something metallic in their mouth . you need to make sure that your horse is secured . this means anticipating the moment when they are halter - free but you havent yet buckle the bridle . you have to be able to control and keep hold of your horse . for a tie station , hold the bridle so that the front of the brow band faces forward away from the horse . drape the reins over their neck . drop your left rein over the horses neck so that it falls on the right . drop the right rein so that it falls on the left . allow the bridle to slip back on your arm . lift the crown of the halter over the horses ears and slip the halters nose band down , off their face . bring the crown up and lay it behind their ears . refasten their halter so it hands around the horses neck . if you dont have a tie station use the bridle reins to maintain hold of your horse . for split reins , tie them together and lift the reins over the horses head , setting them just behind their ears . lift the halters crown over the horses ears and slip the halter nose band off your horses face . you can offer them a piece of apple or sugar cube to make them their head . put your hand right below their nose with the treat in it . when they drop their head thats when youll put the bit in . make sure youre grasping the crown of the bridle in your right hand . angle in line with your horses left eye and right ear . hold the bit low where youve been holding the treats . gently set it against your horses teeth as close to where her top teeth meet her lower teeth as possible . hold your sugar cube against the bit . make sure you put the bit in before you put the bridles crown over their ears . holding the crown of the bridle up in order to slip it on before you put the bit in their mouth . hold the bridle so that the two sides are a good distance apart , with the crown up and the throatlatch straps hanging free and not tangled in any other straps . you want to be careful that you dont crush your horses ears . lift the crown over your horses left ear as you slip the crown to the poll . gently slip the horses right ear in front of the crown as well . also gently push the horses ears forward rather than backward . if the bridle has earloops rather than a brow band , position these around your horses ears now . always make sure that you reward your horse for their good behavior . this will encourage them to be good about accepting the bit and the bridle . sugar also encourages them to play with the bit , so sugar cubes are a really good treat to have on hand for bridling . , remember that the throatlatch isnt there to hold the bridle in place . it operates as an extra precaution against the bridle coming off . this means that the throatlatch needs to be loose enough to maintain slack , even if the horse drops their head . make sure you can fit your entire hand between the throatlatch and the horse , even when their head is bent towards their neck . the brow band should be smooth and in the correct position . this means it wont be pinching your horses ears or head . check that the bit sits evenly in your horses mouth . there should be two wrinkles on either corner of your horses mouth . too fewer and you need to shorten the cheek straps . make sure it sits evenly on your horses head . if you do have to adjust the cheek strap check that the rest of the headstall is still even . buckle curb chain or chin strap if that isnt fixed . this is when you should check the length of your reins . the need to be long enough that you can take up contact with your horses mouth . lead them on their left , at their cheek . hold the reins in your right hand about six inches below the bit . keep the bight in your left hand . always hold about six inches below the bit . keep the slack from the reins in your left hand .

deal with a horse that objects to the bit . train your horse to open their mouth for the bit . keep your horse from getting nervous .

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often the reason a horse objects to the bit is rooted in misunderstanding . they arent usually trying to be naughty , but something about the bit is making them uncomfortable . the bit might have the wrong taste . horses tend to prefer copper bits to other kinds of bits because of the taste . unfortunately copper bits tend to degrade more quickly than other kinds so you should make sure to watch out for pits and sharp edges . the bit might be too cold . you wouldnt want someone to shove a bit of cold metal in your mouth . neither does your horse . try warming up the bit between your hands before you put it in their mouth . sometimes your horse wont open their mouth , because the bit is too cold , or has the wrong taste , but often a little training can make it so they will do as you has . just make sure that you reinforce the behavior you want to see from them . teach your horse to be comfortable with the cue . pick a cue to use to get your horse to open their mouth . give your horse the cue by touching them . say yes to them so that they associate that touch with good behavior . give your horse a treat as you take your fingers away . show your horse that they get a treat . have your horse tied or secured . approach the horses head from the left side , and walk so that your horse can see you . stay on an angle facing the same direction as your horse . have a treat in your left hand . give your horse the cue and say open , while gently pressing two fingers again their lower lip . say yes and take your fingers away , giving your horse the treat . repeat these steps about four or five times , or until it seems like your horse has gotten the picture . now do as you did above , only this time maintain slight but consistent pressure , and place your fingers just under his upper lip . when your horse opens their mouth say yes and give them the treat . practice this until they get it . have your horse let you put a bit in their mouth . show your horse the bit unattached to the bridle to begin with . let your horse sniff it and lip it . then do as you did above , giving your horse the cue . place the bit in your horses mouth when they open up . remove the bit and give them a treat . one of the keys to properly bridling your horse is to maintain calmness , both in yourself and in your horse . a nervous horse might try to bite , toss their heads , strike out with their hooves , or try to escape . if your horse is overly nervous , dont bridle them until they have calmed down . avoid flicking her with the reins , especially around her eyes and ears , because this can cause a horse to become nervous or anxious .

have self confidence . spend some time together . find somewhere you and this person can be alone together , even if youre just behind the crowd talking to each other . get comfortable with the person . go with your gut . if you are friends but not in regular contact then , you have to get them to interact with you and then you have to be with them to then tell them how you feel . it will probably be a moment where youre talking alone with this person when you can say i was wondering , do you like me , it might feel like there never is a time to tell them . always tell the truth to them be honest everyone likes somebody who will tell them the truth , even if thats not exactly what they wanted to hear . dont go straight out and ask your crush do they like you . become good friends with your crush and get to know them . compliment them and make it clear that you admire and appreciate them . some playful teasing is ok but never be mean or cruel and then act as if it was a joke because that will only turn them off of you . hug them at lunchtime or something , but not every hour of the day text them a little bit after you saw each other .

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remember , if you never tell this person you like them , youre risking never knowing if they like you and could miss out on a wonderful relationship . you might regret this in the future . make sure you sincerely like them , to avoid an awkward relationship . , get to know them better . if youre already friends with the someone and you would much rather stay friends forever , dont break your friendship because youre afraid of making it awkward between the two of you . see where it goes first , then decide . , because i like you . if you dont do this , you risk being forever in the friend - zone , or not being in a zone at all . do not attempt this over an online chat , or over the phone . this makes the situation even more awkward than it needs to be . telling your crush that you like them in person benefits the both of you , as you get to see their genuine reaction . and for all we know , theres never a good time to tell someone you like them . it will probably be awkward even if they like you back . but it sure is awesome if they do , that would make the situation very awkward for your crush and heshe would probably try to avoid you . , say something like , i had a great day , good night . this lets them know that you enjoyed your day with them . by dropping this type of hint , it also makes it a bit easier to tell them that you like them .

halter and tie your horse . reach over the horses head . pull the bridle up . rub their gums .

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your horse should be haltered and tied before attempting to put the bridle on . keep them tied fairly short on the lead . if the lead is too loose , they may have room to avoid you . however , you dont want to tie the horse so that it cant move at all . for many horses , this will increase their hatred of the bridling process . you want the lead just loose enough that they cant lift their head out of your reach . if your horse keeps throwing its head , you can keep it still by resting your hand on its head . hold the bridle in your left hand , and reach over the horses head with your right so that your hand is sticking between its ears . if the horse tries to move its head , gently press down on the top of their mane to encourage them to bend their head towards you . hand the top of the bridle to your right hand , and take the bit in your left hand , resting it against your flat fingers . use your right hand only to hold the bridles weight . gently press the bit against their lips . if the horse doesnt take the bit , then you can encourage them to open their mouth . keep the bit resting against your flat fingers on your left hand , and slip your thumb into the upper corner of their mouth . rub the gums until they open their mouth . gently slip the bit in their mouth . keep gentle pressure against the teeth , but be sure not to knock the bit against their teeth . this is painful to the horse , and it will make it more difficult for you to bridle them . you may want to practice putting your thumb in without the bit first . make sure that you are reaching in the side of the mouth where there are no teeth . this will prevent biting and injury .

rub your bit in peppermint oil . make sure the bit is the right temperature . give your horse a treat . speak to your horse in a calming tone .

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horses generally love the taste of peppermint . you can put some peppermint oil on the bit to encourage them to take it . the oil will last for a long time , so you may not have to reapply it for a few months . bits that are too hot or cold can be painful or uncomfortable for your horse . you should store your bridle by hanging it up away from direct sunlight and inclement weather , such as rain or snow . if its summer , keep the bit from sitting in the direct sun , where it can overheat and burn your horse . if its winter , warm the bit up by rubbing it between your hands before asking the horse to take it . hold a treat on the bit and let your horse see it . while he slips the treat into his mouth , quickly but gently slip the bit into his mouth and buckle the bridle . fruit and vegetable treats should be cut up before being offered to your horse while more syrupy treats can be smeared over the bit . some treats that horses enjoy include peppermint candymolasses unsweetened apple saucecarrotssugar cubes grapeshoney while bridling your horse , speak to them in a soothing , gentle tone . if you do this often enough , your horse will come to associate your voice with a safe and serene environment . if your horse has a bad day or a cranky attitude , you can use this voice to return them to a calm state . what you say isnt as important as how you say it . you might say to horse , its all right . im just putting the bridle on . you might even narrate what you are doing , such as im just going to reach over . here , now take the bit . you can even just use soothing sounds as , shh…shh…

call a veterinarian . study their body language . check your equipment . switch your bits .

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certain medical problems can make even the most gentle horse upset and difficult to manage . many horses avoid the bit because their teeth and mouth hurt . often , fixing their issues solves the problem overnight . if your horse throws their head when you touch their ears , you may want to have them checked for ear mites . keep an eye out for tooth or mouth abscesses . if your horse has never had their teeth floatedfiled smooth , it may be the problem . a horse communicates through certain elements of body language . by learning how to interpret their body language , you might be able to figure what it is that is bothering your horse . it may take a few weeks to understand your horses unique body language , but in general , horses tend to demonstrate the same physical cues . if the ears are pointed backwards , it may mean that they are distracted by other sounds . if the ears are excessively twitching or swiveling , they may be either anxious or distracted . your horses head should be lowered if they are relaxed . if the horse holds their head high but still , they may be distracted by something . if their head is low but they are shaking it from side to side , they are demonstrating aggression . a horse that is leaning back and splaying its forelegs may be scared or spooked . if your horse paws the ground , they may be bored . if they forcefully stomp , they may be becoming annoyed . ill - fitting or worn equipment can be uncomfortable for your horse , and it may explain why your horse is so reluctant to be bridled . in addition to the bridle , you should check your saddle to make sure that there are no protruding parts that might make your horse grumpy . check the bit to make sure that there are no cracks or sharp edges . these might hurt your horse . if your horse does not like to have their ears touched , you can use a bridle with bit clips . this will make it easier for you to put the bridle over their head without touching their ears . some horses dont like particular types of bits . they may dislike the taste or be uncomfortable with the size . if your horse is reluctant to take the bit , you might want to consider switching to different material or thickness . test out different bits to see which one is best for your horse . some horses prefer the taste of copper bits over that of stainless steel or nickel . some horses may do well with plastic bit . bits that are too small may be pinching the horses mouth while bits that are too big may hang out of their mouth . rubber bits with large diameters may work well with younger , more inexperienced horses .

start a normal conversation . begin asking casual questions . flirt . ask more intimate questions .

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engage in a simple exchange of pleasantries . a simple hello or hi will do as a greeting . a how are you or whats up is even better . the bottom line in this step is to break the ice and get the conversation rolling . how she greets you will be the beginning of telling you if shes interested or not . if you quickly run out of things to say and the conversation becomes stale , consider telling a funny story or developing a funny routine . consider telling a quick self - deprecating joke to show you dont take yourself very seriously . laughter is a great way to break the ice . keep it simple , but make her laugh and appeal to her sense of humor . be sure not to turn the conversation into a stand - up routine and give her a chance to respond . after youve started a conversation , dont hesitate to jump into asking questions . find out more about the girl and move on from there the depth at which she responds will show you in how she feels about you . if she responds more , shes very into the current conversation , and who knows , very into the person shes talking to you . ask her what her hobbies are , what sort of music she likes and what movies she is into . does she enjoy reading you may find out that she does and use it as a jumping off point to move into more intimate territory . how much she tells you may give keen insight into how she feels about you . its important to keep the questions casual . if you ask questions that are a little too personal , it may make her feel creeped out or uncomfortable around you . this is the last thing you want when trying to figure out if shes into you . there are plenty of questions to ask without stepping over the line . dont be afraid to flirt . its one of the easiest ways to let someone know youre enjoying your time together and get a similar response . be sure to smile , initiate casual contact like a touch on the arm , and maintain eye contact . all of these go a long way in letting someone know you like them . who knows – she may return the flirtation and give you the answers youre seeking . eye contact is the most important forms of communication . it communicates respect , understanding , appreciation and most importantly , interest eye contact can also make the difference between seeming aloof and blossoming a friendship or more . after youve reached a level of conversation and become comfortable with one another , ask deeper questions . find out what her passions are . if shes willing to share them with you , theres probably a level of interest . after all , shes opening up about topics that make her who she is . in other words , this is privileged information – the conversation has moved on from casual to real and memorable for both parties involved . ask questions about her friends , her fears , her loves and her quirks . if youre feeling extra bold , ask about her past – just be sure to steer clear of conversations about past relationships . you dont want to know how she feels about an ex , you want to know how she feels about you . how much she shares will tell you how interested she is in sharing with you . the more she shares , the more interested she is . you may also ask about her hobbies and some other good questions , which would make her feel that you are interested in her as much as she is into you .

see if shes presenting herself as open . make note of her eye contact . pay attention to small quirks .

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pay attention to how the girl youre interested in is physically acting . if shes open and receptive - and her body is going along with such a way of acting - chances are shes totally into you , or at least interested . the same can be said for a lack of body language . is she facing you during conversation does she nervously laugh at your jokes does she look you in the eye when talking if she is during all of the above , shes definitely opening up to you and fully engaged in your conversation . while this may not immediately mean shes into you , shes definitely interested in the conversation as well as who shes talking to . folded arms , crossed legs , and fidgety hands are a sure sign of negative body language . if shes behaving in anxious ways , her mind is on something else . this does not mean , however , that shes completely disinterested . you can always use this as an opportunity to ask more questions . who knows , she may find your inquisitiveness comforting . , eye contact is one of the most important forms of communication . it reveals respect , attention , understanding and interest . if she keeps your gaze and does not avert her attention , shes probably interested . it also means shes doing everything she can in order to learn more about you . , note small quirks during interactions with the girl you like . if you tell a joke , pay attention to the manner in which she laughs and responds . if you ask a certain question , see if she hesitates or chooses to dive right in . these small tells often reveal a lot about a persons interest level and overall personality . dont make mountains out of molehills . in other words , dont look too far into a small quirk and misinterpret it . after all , people behave in a variety of ways for a variety of reasons . people often perceive people in a fast but flawed way before getting to know one another . dont make the mistake of misjudging the girl you feel may be interested in you .

flirt via texting . message on social media . ask mutual friends .

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in the modern age , we have the latest technology right at our fingertips – use it send the girl youre interested in a text message . how she responds will often show you how interested she is in you . take note and learn how far interest into you really goes if shes short with you , that may be a sign shes busy or simply doesnt have the time to talk via text . use this as an opportunity to set up a time to talk face to face . if she mirrors your texting style , shes definitely interested . note how often she uses words from your vocabulary . if she does , she admires them and is very interested in the person using them . if she asks you questions , shes also definitely interested . after all , shes taking time to get to know you and gather information about you . be as open and honest as possible to give her a good idea of who you are and what youre like . bear in mind technology does not always move as fast as we would like it to . if she doesnt immediately respond , she may be in a dead zone without reception and has yet to get your message . she may also be in a situation like work or school where texting is not an option . focus on the response rather than the time it takes to get one . the amount of social media available , its difficult to not find avenues to get in touch with people . see if the girl youre interested in has a social media account on facebook , twitter , instagram or tumblr and get in touch that way . the barriers social media offer can sometimes make people feel comfortable enough to talk to one another , even if theyve just met each other . if youre too shy for conversation – or feel she might be – social media can offer interaction without having to come face to face . maybe the girl youre interested in needs that buffer to feel completely comfortable and show her interest . if you and the girl youre interested in share friends or coworkers , asking them about her may be a good route to take , albeit somewhat indirect . theres an off chance shes mentioned you to one of them or is more willing to discuss the issue with one of them instead of directly with you .

share more about yourself . ask her out on a date . be yourself .

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while youve probably done a good job in asking her about her interests and learned a lot about her , dont shy away from sharing information about yourself . the more she learns about you , the more shes going to find she has in common with you . people tend to gravitate toward people they relate to and share interests with . share your own favorite hobbies , music and movies , but also share the more in - depth subject matter as well . if youre passionate about a particular topic , talk about it chances are youre going to be very charismatic and truthful in what you say . after all , youre passionate about it a great way to garner and maintain interest is to have more one - on - one situations . develop as many chances as possible to get the girl alone to learn all you can about one another . human beings are pretty complex creatures , a simple interaction and conversation isnt going to be enough . have as many as you possibly can . where the date is isnt as important as what youre doing during the date . make sure its somewhere you both will be able to enjoy yourself and have plenty of opportunities to interact with one another . a concert may sound like a great date idea , but the focus will be on the music and band rather than each other . never try to be anything more than you already are . while there may be certain parts of yourself that you dont like , that doesnt mean you should pretend to be something completely different . be yourself - you have plenty to offer anyone and everyone who comes in contact with you , whether you realize it or not . just because youre interested in this girl doesnt mean you should change .

decide on the type of material you want . choose between a bitless bridle and one with a bit . decide on the weight of the material .

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bridles vary in price range based on the quality of the material . the cheapest bridles tend to be made of synthetic leather , while better bridles will be made from a higher quality sedgewick or uk leather . consider the function of your horse when deciding how much to spend on materials . you may want to splurge and get the best leather for your top show horse . a bit is the piece of the bridle that is placed in the horses mouth that allows the rider to communicate with the horse . the practice of using a bitless bridle , however , is becoming more and more popular . many believe that bits cause the horse physical discomfort and impact their physical and psychological health . if your horse is in less physical pain , it will be more willing to listen to you and engage in training . building a positive relationship and getting your horse to trust you will better allow you to train and control your horse without having to use a device that could cause the horse pain such as a bit . this means the thickness of the material . your decision will be based on personal preference , and your horses conformation . a fine head will look better in fine material , while a more workman like head will look better in a thicker material .

do not stare . do not giggle hysterically when your crush looks over at you . avoid telling anyone that you have a crush on this person . keep a diary . if others say that your crush likes you , just smile and say thats nice . treat your crush exactly the same way as you treat all your acquaintances . be real and show your authentic self .

how to keep your crush a secret

staring at himher wont do anything . they or someone else could catch you in the act . if possible , stop your habit of staring at them . or , just make sure no one including them is watching , and just quickly side - glance at them . theyll think youre creepy . especially someone with a reputation for being a gossipbig mouth and untrustworthy . if you dont feel one hundred percent sure someone wont use it against you , dont tell . you never know when you will fight with someone . they might use blackmail . you dont want it . this might be a good way to tell someone youve got a crush on someone , without letting anyone know . except if someone reads it . if you are embarrassed about your crush , this can be a good way of looking at it objectively . dont confirm your crush to anyone else . they will go back and tell your crush . be polite , but not overly attentive . if you tag along with them too much , theyll be annoyed or someone else will find out that you like himher but then again , you dont want to be too shy around them , either . they might consider you weird or be suspicious . if your special someone ends up liking you , you want this person to fall for who you really are , not someone you pretended to be .

measure the crown piece and cheek piece . measure for the length of the browband . measure the throatlatch . measure the noseband .

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the crownpiece is the strap that goes behind the horses ears . using a soft fabric measuring tape , start at one corner of the mouth and measure up the cheeks , over the ears , and down to the other side of the mouth . , using the same measuring tape , start at the back edge of the horses ear . measure around the horses forehead , and then to the back edge of the other ear . the throatlatch runs from the back of the horses ear , under the throat , and back up to the other ear . using your measuring tape , figure out how long your horses throatlatch needs to be . start about one inch down from the cheekbone , or two finger widths . from there , measure the circumference of the horses nose .

put on the bridle to test for fit . insert the bit . adjust the bridle .

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its a good idea to put on the bridle before purchasing it to make sure it fits . make sure your bridle is loose before attempting to put it on your horse . if its too tight , it will hurt the horse and you may meet more resistance . hold onto the halter or the horses mane to keep it restrained while putting on the bridle . put the reins over the horses head . this will allow you to restrain the horse without using the halter . position the crownpiece between the horses ears . put your right arm around the horses neck and between the ears , holding the bridle by the crownpiece in your right hand . then hold the bridle so that the bit is positioned over the mouth . with your right hand on the crownpiece , grab the bit with your left hand and move it towards the horses mouth . if your horse is well - trained , you should be able to just touch the horses lips to indicate that the mouth needs to open . if your horse doesnt open his or her mouth , try putting your thumb and little finger behind the horses incisors to coax the mouth open without getting bitten . once the horses mouth is open , put in the bit . once the bridle is on , youll have to adjust the throatlatch , noseband , and cheekpieces . for the noseband , make sure there is about two or three fingers width of slack . if the noseband is too tight the horse wont be able to open its mouth . if the throatlatch is too tight the horse wont be able to breath . you should be able to fit three fingers between the horses throat and the strap . the cheekpieces should be tight enough so that the bit is held firmly in place .

see if he tries to impress you . see if hes jealous of the guys you hang out with . see if hes always looking for excuses to hang out with you . see if he flirts with you . see if he treats you differently from other girls . see if he does favors for you . observe his phone etiquette . see if he asks you if you like anyone . see if he talks about how he cant find the right girl . see if hes always finding subtle ways to compliment you . see if he tries to find out about your plans . see if he opens up to you . see if he laughs more around you . see if hes always looking for excuses to touch you . see if you can catch him staring at you . see if he turns his body toward you when you talk . see if he fidgets around you . see if he preens around you . see if his face lights up when you walk into a room . see if he gives you his full attention when you talk .

how to know if a boy has a crush on you

if a boy has a crush on you , then hell go out of his way to try to impress you . hell want you to think that hes brave , exciting , cool , or even wacky . the next time youre around the boy who might have a crush on you , see if he starts trying to say or do something that is calculated to impress you . if he tries to show off when hes playing sports , brags about his awesome weekend plans , tries to do something crazy like jump in a pool with his clothes on , or engages in other behavior that seems calculated to impress you , then he may have a crush on you . watch him closely when he does something impressive . if he keeps looking over at you to make sure youre paying attention or to see what you think , then theres a good chance he has a crush on you . though it can be hard to know what he does when youre not around , try to get a sense of whether he starts showing off more when youre there . for example , if he starts telling a ridiculous joke or showing off his ability to juggle oranges just moments after you walk in the door , this behavior may be for your benefit . this is another dead giveaway that the boy has a crush on you . if hes jealous of the guys you hang out with , then it can only be for one reason because he likes you and feels threatened by them . guys have different ways of showing that theyre jealous of other guys . he may just make fun of the guys to you , be rude or aggressive to the guys , or just roll his eyes and turn away from the other guys in your orbit . if hes jealous of the guys youre around , its because he wishes he had more quality time with you instead . he wont admit that hes jealous , of course . but if you find him constantly talking about what a loser your friend jake is or asking you why youre even friends with a weirdo like steve , then this is his way of saying he wished you were spending time with him instead . if he puts down your guy friends to their faces , then hes definitely jealous of them . though this behavior can be a problem if hes being really rude , if hes just not being super nice for a while , it may just mean that he has a crush on you . if the boy has a crush on you , then hell want to spend as much time with you as possible . he may suggest that you hang out after school to study together , or he may invite you to the mall to watch a movie with a big group of friends . he may go to a party just because he knows youll be there . he may ask what youre up to and may conveniently say that he was thinking of doing the same thing . if it seems like hes been around more often and that hes been doing a lot of the same things as you , then it may be because he has a crush on you . think about it . if you barely saw him a month ago and suddenly he always seems to be around , then it may be because he has a crush on you . he may be too shy to hang out with you by himself , but if he and a pack of friends are always around , it may still mean that he likes you . it may not always be easy to tell when a boy is flirting with you . a lot of it depends on his age – if hes in middle school , his own way of flirting with you may even be to tease you or to poke fun at you . every age and stage of life has a slightly different definition of flirting , but the main thing is , if he singles you out , spends more time around you than others , is playful about something you say , do , or wear , and generally singles you out , even if you feel like its in a teasing way , then it means hes flirting with you . if hes playful and makes fun of you for always wearing purple or keeps making jokey comments about your earrings , then hes flirting . if he gently pushes you or elbows you , this is his way of flirting with you and trying to get closer to you . if he teases you so much that he has even come up with a special nickname for you , then hes definitely flirting . one key indicator of whether a boy has a crush on you or not is how he treats other girls . if he treats other girls exactly the same way as he treats you , then he may not have a crush on you . but if hes pretty flirtatious with you and ignores or doesnt care much for other girls , then he may have a crush on you . another option is that hell pay attention to other girls and will kind of ignore you — as confusing as it is , this may also mean that he likes you and just feels shy toward you . the next time youre around him and other girls , notice what he does with them . does he playfully tease them , ask them lots of questions or even jokingly put his arm around them if he does the same with you , then he may just be a flirtatious person . however , if he treats them differently from you , then you may be the real apple of his eye . he may even be more polite and gentlemanly around you than other girls . does he hold open doors or pull out chairs for you more than he does for other girls if so , then he may have a crush on you . another sign that he has a crush on you is that the boy will find ways to do small favors for you . maybe hell throw out your trash for you in class . maybe hell help you carry your books . maybe hell check what time a movie is playing for you . even the little things count . think about it . do you feel like hes going out of his way to be helpful to you if he does this for you but not for other girls , then it may mean that hes doing favors for you because he has a crush on you . of course , he may just be a friendly guy who does favors for everyone . but the chances of that are less likely than the chances of him having a crush on you . the fact that he does favors for you means that hes being thoughtful about what you need . this is a sign that he has a crush on you nowadays , one of the easiest ways to tell if a boy likes you is to see what he does when it comes to his phone . he may be too shy to truly communicate with you in person and may feel more comfortable getting to know you over the phone . here are some signs that he may have a crush on you did he ask for you your phone number dont despair if he doesnt—he may see giving you his as a more subtle way to show hes interested . if he gives you his , text him immediately with your name so that he has your number . after giving your number , give him a smile and say something along the lines of give me a call sometime , we can hang out pay attention to how often he calls or texts you . if he texts you a lot , thats definitely a sign that hes interested . if he never texts you , he may be shy . dont be afraid to make the first move here—its possible that hes just waiting for your text if you text him on multiple occasions and he doesnt respond , though , its probably a sign that hes not into you . if the boy asks you if you like anyone or if you have a crush on anyone , then this is a dead giveaway that he has a crush on you . he may be asking because hes jealous or nervous that you like other guys , or because hes secretly hoping that youll say that you like him . this may not be the most subtle way for him to go about it , but most boys dont know better . if hes always teasing you or bothering you about whether or not you like someone , then it may be because he has a crush on you . however , there is one exception to this rule . he may be asking you if you like someone because one of his friends likes you and hes really asking for him . see if he has a friend who is always eyeing you and who you may think could have a crush on you instead . if the boy is always telling you that none of the girls he knows are good enough for him , or that none of them are as smart , pretty , or interesting as you , then this may be his way of telling you that youre the right girl for him . if hes gone on dates with girls and tells you that he didnt really like them , or if hes always just telling you about how other girls never measure up , then this may be his way of telling you that youre really the one for him . just make sure this doesnt mean he has you in the friend zone . if hes asking you for advice on his dating life , then it may be because he just looks at you as a friend . but if he just complains to you about how he cant find the right girl , then he may be telling you that he has a crush on you . another sign that the boy has a crush on you is that he always finds a way to give you a compliment . he may not say something as obvious as , you look so beautiful today , but he may tell you that your dress is a pretty color , that he likes your new earrings , or that he thinks your new shoes are awesome . just the fact that he notices how you look , what you do , or what youre wearing shows that he pays attention to you and that he probably has a crush on you . he may also compliment things like how awesome you are at sports , how smart you are in class , or how much he loves your jokes . though some guys are more shy about complimenting character traits or talents instead of just sticking to the more obvious things , this can also be a way for him to show that he has a crush on you . another sign that he has a crush on you is that hes always asking what youre up to over the weekend . he may really be asking because he wants to make sure that youre not going on a date because hes feeling jealous . he could also be asking as a way of asking you to hang out with him , or because hes hoping that youll ask him to hang out with you . if he wants to know what youre doing away from school , then its probably because he wants to be a part of it . he may just say something simple like , are you doing anything fun this weekend if you say youre not , then he may use this as a good time to ask you to hang out . if he does that , then theres a good chance he has a crush on you . watch his face when he asks you what youre up to over the weekend . if you say youre hanging out with girlfriends , then you should see if theres a noticeable relief on his face because youre not hanging out with any boys . if a boy has a crush on you , then he may open up to you about some of the stuff hes been thinking and feeling . he could tell you about his favorite pet , his siblings , his friendships , or even his dreams for the future . if you find him telling you some things that seem personal , and if he even says something like , i dont tell many people this or not a lot of people know that about me , then its a sign that he thinks youre special . if he has a crush on you , then he may open up to you more than he would to most people . if he doesnt really open up to you , it doesnt mean that he doesnt like you . it just means that hes a bit more shy . if the boy has a crush on you , then he may be more nervous around you than he would be around other girls . this may lead him to laugh a lot more around you than he normally would . he may laugh really hard at something you say thats barely funny , or he may even laugh slightly at something you said that wasnt meant to be funny at all . the next time youre together , pay attention to how much he laughs around you and see if he laughs more than normal . if so , then it may be because he has a crush on you . study him when hes around other people . is he just the type of guy who is always laughing , or does he laugh more around you if his laughter is reserved for you , then it may be because he has a crush on you . you can also see if he always goes out of his way to make you laugh . if he seems to crack more jokes around you than anyone else , or if he just seems to try harder , then it may be because he has a crush on you . its only natural that if a boy likes you , hell go out of his way to touch you more . if youre sitting next to each other and your knees or legs are touching , or if he keeps accidentally touching your feet with his , then it may be because he likes you . if youre in a group setting and he tends to playfully push or shove you a lot , to poke you , or just to touch you in some other silly way , then this may also be a sign that he has a crush on you . take a look at what he does the next time youre together . does he end up subtly touching you or brushing up against you a few times if so , then he may have a crush on you . of course , if hes really shy , then he may not try to touch you and may even be a little bit intimidated when hes near you . this can be another sign that the boy has a crush on you . if you look over at him during math class and catch him looking at you , or if you see him looking at you all the way across the cafeteria , then it may mean that he has a crush on you . if he blushes and looks away , or just seems embarrassed that youve caught him staring at you , then its even more likely that he has a crush on you . the downside is that if youre always trying to catch him staring at you , hell start to think that youre the one who has a crush on him . but thats true , isnt it the next time you talk to the guy , see if he turns his chest , shoulders , and feet toward you , and if he generally points his body in your direction . if he has a crush on you , then hell want to be closer to you and to be absorbed in what youre saying . he may even lean toward you to get closer during conversation . if hes turned away from you , has his arms crossed , or is angling his shoulders in the opposite direction , then he may not have a crush on you after all . though body language isnt everything , it really can help you get a sense of whether a boy has a crush on you or not . of course , it can also help to observe the boy with other people . see if his body language is more open toward you than it is with others . if he just always crosses his arms over his chest when he talks to people , then it wont mean anything bad if he does it around you . fidgeting is a prime sign of nervousness . if the guy tends to play with the drawstring of his hoodie , pick at his nails , brush away an imaginary spot on his shirt , or kick at nothing when hes around you , then it may be because he likes you and feels nervous . the next time you talk , see if he moves his arms and other body parts around more than usual . if so , then this may mean that he has a crush around you because hes nervous about how he should act when youre together . he may also play with his phone or just look at it just for something to do . this may not mean that hes bored and wants to talk to someone else , but that hes just nervous about talking to you . if you see the guy fixing his hair , looking in a mirror or reflective surface , brushing a spot off his shoes , or adjusting his shirt or pants a bit when hes around you , then it may be because he has a crush on you and is nervous about looking his best . the next time you talk , see if he acts a bit self - conscious about his appearance . if he does , then it may be because he likes you and wants to look his best . think about it you tend to spend more time looking in the mirror before you see your crush , dont you guys feel the same way . if the boy likes you , then he may be wondering about how he looks right in the middle of talking to you . this is one of the biggest giveaways that the guy likes you . if you walk into a room , whether its a classroom or a birthday party , and his face lights up , his eyes get bigger , and a smile spreads across his face , then this may mean that he has a crush on you . he may not come over to you immediately , and he may act more coy about how he feels , but this first reaction shows that he really may have a crush on you after all . his face may light up and he may turn away or try to play it cool instead of coming up to you immediately . but if you see the initial look in his eyes , youll know his true feelings . if a boy really has a crush on you , then hell be likely to give you all of his attention . hell turn his body toward you , make eye contact , and wont look around for his other friends or text them during your conversation unless he uses his phone as a crutch because hes nervous . if his friends walk by and he doesnt even see them , or if he doesnt keep looking around the room , then its because he has a crush on you and is completely absorbed by you . the next time you talk , see if he gives you all of his attention . if he looks at you closely , responds to what you say , and seems really engaged , then he may have a crush on you . however , he may also be so nervous that he may zone out because hes so busy worrying about what to say next

think about them . say their name aloud . look at a picture . fall asleep . practice .

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before you go to bed , spend time thinking about your crush . you can daydream about the kind of scenario youd like to dream about , such as a romantic walk on the beach or a fun date with dinner and a movie . just keep them firmly planted in you head , conjuring up the clearest mental picture you can imagine of them . this will help them be more present in your head and seem more realistic , which can influence the way they appear in your dream . when you are getting ready for bed , say your crushs name out loud . even make it into a statement , such as i will dream about . you can even be more specific , using phrases such as i want to dream about going on a date with . or i will dream about walking on the beach with . the firmer you are with your intentions , the more likely you are to dream about your crush . now that youve thought about them for a little while and laid out what you want to happen in the dream , you can solidify the entire routine by looking at a picture of your crush . this will give you an even more exact picture of them in your head as you fall asleep . it will also give you something to keep your mind focused on while you are falling asleep . with their picture fresh in your mind and dream intentions laid out , make sure you think about them while you are falling asleep . you want their face and their name to be the last thing you think about before you fall asleep . this concentrates them in your subconscious mind and will help encourage your dreaming mind to recall their face and the scenario you laid out before you fell asleep . when you are first trying to control your dreams , you need to make sure that your crush is the main focus of your thoughts before bed . the daydreaming , the pictures , and the verbalized intentions lead up to your thoughts as you fall asleep . if you have already cleared your mind of any problems or issues youve dealt with throughout the day , then your mind will be more focused on your crush . this will fill your conscious and unconscious mind with him and help in your quest to dream of your crush . while the steps seem easy , the task of dream control isnt . you may not be able to get this right on the first or second try . it may take a while for you to be able to fully control what you dream about . just keep following the steps before bed . it should eventually lead you to your ideal dream about your crush . if you see that you are having a hard time , try keeping a journal of the dreams you do have . by writing down what you are already dreaming , it may clear your subconscious mind of those dreams and help make room for the dream you are trying to have .

keep a dream journal . notice the world around you . fall asleep . conjure your crush .

how to have a dream about your crush 2

the first step to having a lucid dream , which is a dream where you are aware you are dreaming and can control the events within , is to remember the dreams you typically have . over the course of a few weeks , lay in bed every morning and replay your dreams . then write down what you dreamed of the night before as soon as you get out of bed . this will help you recognize typical patterns in your dreams . you can also make note of reoccurring themes or objects in your dreams . these can act as focal points in your dreams to help you become aware that you are dreaming . you should keep a notepad or journal right by your bed for the easiest access . this way , you wont have to go looking for somewhere to write your dreams down and get distracted and forget portions of your dreams . one of the best ways to become aware in dreams is to become hyperaware of the conscious world . ask yourself throughout the day if you are awake or dreaming . notice how all your senses respond to various things around you . find elements in your everyday life that are detailed and in clear focus that you can use as comparisons for your dream landscape . try looking at the details on the back of your hand . these details will be fuzzier in dreams , which can help you realize the distinction between dreams and reality . before bed , make sure you are in a comfortable environment where you wont be disturbed . lay down with you eyes closed and relax your body , letting all the ambient sounds and smells fade away . think about the fact that you are awake and attempting to fall asleep . this will help you hold on to your conscious mind , even when you lapse into sleep and start dreaming . you may not lucid dream right away . you just need to keep looking for your dream signs and logging your dreams . eventually , you should be able to recognize your dreams and become lucid while in them . you may be pulled out of your first couple of lucid dreams as soon as you become aware . if this is the case , try looking at your hands in your dreams or spinning around in a circle . these things can help focus your senses and help you stay lucid in your dreams longer . once youve achieved lucid dreaming , you can manipulate the dream and bring your crush into the dream with you . while in your dream , visualize your crush right behind you or just around the corner . once youve got a clear picture , turn around or go look around the bend to find them . you can also conjure a door and expect them to be behind the door . they should eventually be there when you open it . if you do get them to show up and they dont look quite right , you can manipulate the figure to change in your dream . tell them that they need to look better , saying something like i am going to turn around and when i look back , you are going to be the best version of that i can imagine . try each method and see which one works best for you . it may take some time , so just keep practicing .

look pretty . be sweet to boys . hang out with the girls from time to time . be mysterious . dont be mean .

how to have someone develop a crush on you 1

if youre not used to taking care of yourself , its a good reason to start improving something about yourself . first of all , try not to look messy or sloppy its a huge turn - off for any guy , unless he doesnt mind it . abandon that old , dusty pair of jeans and huge t - shirt for something more flattering . wear something that makes you feel confident . have a sense of style . okay , you may not be the kind of girl who pampers herself all day long , but dont be afraid to take fashion risks . do you like bright colors show him just how fabulous you are . express your individuality with earrings , scarves , or whatever makes you feel pretty . dont worry about fitting in youre a trend setter dont go overboard with sexy clothing . show him you are beautiful without having to give away all the goods . sexy is good . trashy is risky . everyone likes the girl who acts like a tom boy , but dont let the boys forget that you are also a lovely woman . say kind things to him , laugh at his jokes , make him feel like hes awesome . itll get him asking for your number for sure . dont try to impress him by cussing like a sailor . remember , act like a lady . speak to him in gentle tones . remind him of how feminine you can be . compliment guys . an honest compliment can go a long way . if you like somebody , compliment them on the particularities you like about them . dont compliment them too much or gush . act romantic and sensitive . let guys know you need to get affection . sometimes , if you dont tell them directly , they may even forget you have feelings too . speak your mind even if guys often dont understand friendships between girls they will respect you if you show them you have friends of your own . dont be afraid to show your social independence . girls little secrets are fascinating for guys . dont give away too much information , you want to keep that boy wanting more mean girls may be popular , but they often end up alone . believe it or not , guys find cat fights quite scary and theyll back off when they see how mean you can be at times . theres nothing wrong with being nice . surely you can stand up for yourself without being mean , right

be confident . dress to impress . there is no one way to dress well - - part of this step is being able to figure out what your style is . try a new hairstyle . confide in your friends . seek out opportunities to be around him . smile , introduce yourself by saying hi . break the ice with him . make your attraction apparent to your crush . set up an opportunity for deeper interaction . be kind and friendly . get to know your crush through inquisitive conversation . find your common interests . make your attraction more apparent . win your crush over with flirting . confess your feelings .

how to impress your crush

before you can think of getting others to fall for your charms , first you must look to yourself . contrary to what you might believe , theres much , much more to looks than appearance . nice clothes and style are a start , but nothing can replace a good attitude and self - respect . girls can pick up when a guy doesnt believe in himself , and theres nothing as attractive as a girl who knows shes worth it . regardless of your gender or the person youre trying to impress , confidence is an essential starting point . for many people , learning to find confidence in themselves may be the hardest part of this entire process . if youre having trouble feeling secure in your chances of success , try writing down a list of things you like about yourself , and a list of personal qualities e . g . a great sense of humour , beautiful smile etc . your crush would like you for . dont worry if youre shy - - you can still show plenty of confidence if youre on the introverted side . guys can feel really flattered if you feel slightly nervous around them . . if youre a shy guy , you might find girls are attracted to you for your mystery . your best bet is to take comfort in what comes most naturally to you do some research into different styles . try to recognize which styles appeal most to you , and which you think might look best on you . if youre having trouble , ask one of your friends for advice - - theyre there for a reason , and chances are theyll have plenty of warm suggestions to help you spruce up your style dont try to overdo it with your appearance . find a look thats fashionable but ultimately casual . you dont want to end up scaring your crush away nothing refreshes attention like a fresh new hairdo this way , even if youve known him for a while , he will have to reconsider his impression of you . who knows - - you may have found your new favourite look chances are you may be feeling stressed , excited , uncertain , or a mixture of all three due to your crush . although its natural to feel some embarrassment about having a crush , you may find it helps alleviate the strain to open up about it with a few close friends . especially if they know your crush , they may be able to lend specifically - tailored advice to your situation . if anything , putting your feelings into words for the first time may help you make better sense of what you stand . if you decide to tell friends about your crush , whether for advice or simply to vent , make sure not to word the situation in bleak , fatalistic terms . although you may feel pessimistic , its much better to talk about it constructively . not only will this positively correlate with the helpfulness of the advice your friends give you thinking positively will also give you more confidence with your crush . make sure youre confiding in someone you can trust . if you have any doubt they might spread word of your feelings around or even tell your crush prematurely it may be do more harm than good . if you have any doubts , its best to keep any talk limited to your most - trusted friends . this could mean anything - - do you go to the same school are you neighbours in virtually every circumstance , there are plenty of opportunities to get on that persons radar . a great start is to put yourself in his general area . find out what events hell be attending , or where he eats lunch . the more youre around him , the more opportunities youll have to interact with one another . the universal gesture of kindness , there is nothing so simple and profoundly effective in winning your crush as a smile . whenever you see him , make sure to flash him a smile while it might be hard if youre shy , you should find it gets easier very quickly . the reaction will almost certainly be positive . if , for whatever reason , he doesnt smile back , dont worry about it there could be a number of reasons he didnt reciprocate the gesture . you may have caught him off guard its also possible that hes simply shy . interpreting his actions as a sign hes uninterested in you should only be a last resort . it sounds simple , but you might be surprised how many people tend to overlook this easy , though crucial step . once youre in his vicinity , there should be plenty of opportunities to say hello . dont feel self - conscious in doing this very seldom does anyone respond negatively to a simple act of attention and positive feeling . there are a virtually infinite number of ways you can do this . look to your surroundings and circumstances for something general to talk about . for example if youve got a class together hey , would i be able to share notes with you i want to see if i missed anything . if youre at a librarytheatre any books or movies you could recommend me if youre at a sports game hey which team are you part ofrooting for at a party hey how did you hear about this party a crucial , common mistake to make is to be too modest about your feelings . if you dont show signs of attraction , he might not get the impression you are interested in him . although you want to make sure not to get direct with it quite yet , there are plenty of things you can do to show interest . if you are relaxed enough , chances are youre exhibiting some of these traits already . if youre a girl twirling your hair while talking to him . if youre a guy keeping a strong posture around her . maintaining eye contact and smiling at him . keeping your feet pointing in his direction . making light bodily contact , like touching his arm or shoulder . soon enough , youll need to get your relation at a more substantive point where you can move past icebreakers and learn about him in greater depth . while the traditional thing to do in the past was for one party to ask the other on a date , there are countless options for you to pursue in this respect although it sounds impersonal , talking online is a great , non - committal way to get to know someone pretty effectively . things some people might have trouble discussing in person are much more easily divulged online . if you go to school together , you might ask want to eat lunch together sometime again , this is a casual , easygoing way to get to know someone a lot better . while you may feel obliged to wait for your crush to ask you out on a date , hinging upon social norms is a waste of time . if youre confident enough in your feelings , asking him to go out with you some night is a great way to demonstrate your confidence and make progress with impressing your crush . although the media would suggest that guys will be interested if you play hard to get , this is commonly interpreted as being standoffish . the best way to impress a guy is to be nice to him . treat him at first as you would a friend . while youre still becoming comfortable with him , theres no need to put added pressure on your interactions . this step is no less important if youre a guy . the phrase nice guys finish last is very misleading girls are going to want to be around someone who makes them feel good about themselves giving your crush compliments , like i love your hair or how did you get such good fashion sense , will go a long way towards making him feel great in your company . , dont be afraid to ask questions , no matter how direct it might seem . theres a good chance hell feel flattered by the interest youre investing in them . asking questions is a great way to spark a wider range of conversations . they dont have to be anything super - important to start youre mostly looking to become comfortable , and possibly springboard into deeper subjects . if youre looking for examples , here are a few to get you started whats your family like any pets what do youwould you like to do for a living if you attend the same school what are your favourite classes make sure to do some of the talking as well no doubt there are plenty of things he would love to know about you . this way , it will feel more like a conversation , and less like an interrogation what are you interested in crochet knitting horror films avant - garde jazz fusion chances are , you already share some of your unique interests with your crush without knowing it . finding out a bit more about what he likes can offer a perfect opportunity to bond . your circumstances of meeting can help inform your initial investigations into his interests . if you met at a rock concert , for example , theres a hefty probability you share musical interests . the same goes for an arts fair , a movie theatre , or a sports event . if you dont have any apparent interests in common , you can try opening yourself to things hes interested in . ask him why hes into certain things , and see if you can see the appeal in it . if nothing else , the fact that youre making the initiative will demonstrate to him that you care . while every strong romantic connection initially has a basis in friendship , at some point you should begin to emphasize that your feelings are more than that . youll know youve spent enough time getting to know each other when this step feels more natural than contrived . try saying things like you know , i think youre actually pretty cute . its really attractive that youre so passionate about your interests . or even a simple i really enjoy spending time with you . now that youve fostered a strong foundation for your interactions , dont be afraid to become increasingly forward with your attraction towards your crush . hugging , compliments and smiling are all valid forms of flirting . use the push - pull mechanic . whether youre a guy or a girl , this simple trick might work to get your crush interested in you give him a compliment and boost his ego . upon doing that , back away and give him the cold shoulder . if done correctly , this will make him seek your approval and affection . give it a try , and see how it goes . dont feel too discouraged if he doesnt reciprocate these advances at first . its quite possible hes been taken off guard by how upfront you are , and it may take him some time to adjust . let your crush know how you really feel about him . this is the moment of truth . however , after the time you two have spent getting to know one another and flirting , you might find this stage happens much more smoothly than you would have ever anticipated at the start . if the chemistry between you two is right , dont be surprised if your crush develops into a life - changing relationship the easiest way to go about this is to tell him directly . dont mince words i have feelings for you , or i like you in a way thats more than just friends . if youre feeling particularly bold , planting a kiss on his cheek can leave a big impression . if , for whatever reason , your crush rejects you , dont sweat it there could be a million possible reasons why someone might not be interested in pursuing a relationship , and most of them have nothing to do with you . if things go sour for whatever reason , remember not to let it keep you from loving yourself and being open to whatever comes next in life .

be yourself . be sporty . be funny and make jokes . show your sensitive side . dont act superior to girls . be mature .

how to have someone develop a crush on you 2

it most often happens when a guy tries to act up for a new girl he will look like a pretentious oaf . being yourself is a much better method . not only that , but the girls that do like you will be ones you will get on with a whole lot more , why because they share your real interests , not fake ones you made up to impress people . and besides , a lot of girls go for dorky guys , its very sweet . not only that being good at sports can impress a girl , but it also tones up your muscles , therefore improving your body appearance , and making you look more manly . everybody likes funny guys a good sense of humor is very appreciated by most people . even if you cant tell a joke to save your life , girls will appreciate you for trying . this is perhaps the most difficult thing for guys to do some would rather bite their tongue to avoid saying something related to their feelings , than to actually say it . a girl is very pleased to find out that guys do have feelings . showing that you can be hurt , that you care , is not an act of weakness on the contrary , it means that you had the strength to overcome your fear of vulnerability . on the other hand , dont go about feeling sorry for yourself . be a man when you need to being afraid of everything and everyone wont get you too far . when youve got problems , face them and try to solve them , instead of denying their existence . everyone is equal , and this isnt the 50s . chivalry is not the same as patronizing someone . show her you are capable of intelligent conversation . burping contests and potty humor are fun , but consider your audience . some girls feel that stuff is immature .

look approachable . flirt . express affection . be confident . have a good reputation . make the first move . dont get nervous , make a good first impression . take care of your looks . smile . dont be annoying . be friendly . and , of course , be yourself .

how to have someone develop a crush on you 3

acting cold and distant may seem cool , but its a turn - off to other people . if you dont act open and available enough , not even girlsguys that do like you will have the courage to talk to you . the first step in getting a boyfriendgirlfriend is expressing interest in that person . dont be afraid that you will be turned down comfort yourself thinking that youve at least tried . in time , becoming better at flirting will improve your chances of getting someone to like you . when you like somebody , hint it to them or tell them directly . the more love you give , the more you receive . touch them softly , play with their hair - these are little gestures that express affection and make you feel closer to others . help them out when they need help and be understanding when they talk about their problems . to sum it up , show them that you care about them . confidence is the key its what makes the difference between the hot and the not . a person can seem absolutely awesome even when theyre not like that in reality , due to their confidence . confidence is the way to make people acknowledge what a wonderful person you are . if you dont see your own qualities , how would you expect others to see them find something that you like about yourself and point them out to boysgirls . enhance your best features not only in your look , but also in your personality . it doesnt necessarily mean that you have to be popular in order to be liked by the opposite gender although it would help , but having a bad reputation decreases your chances to get a significant other . if you have a reputation as promiscuousa player , weirdo , nerd , gossiper , mean girlguy etc . people would be less likely to talk to you because of the prejudices they have about you . it often happens that the person you like doesnt make the first move you have two options either to wait until the other one initiates a flirt which may never happen , or to do something yourself . this doesnt apply only to boys , although the tradition is that the boy should make the first move but theres nothing wrong if a girl does , either . on the contrary , its even recommended the guy will admire your courage . if you fixate on how scared you are , youll psyche yourself out . everything you do , do it with confidence . when talking to somebody you like , stay cool and try not to blush or act nervous . theres nothing to be afraid of theyre probably just as nervous as you are . its unfair , but the first impression you leave to someone will most likely persist in their memory for a long time and be the heaviest factor in influencing that persons opinion on you , even if its a wrong impression . this applies to girls and boys not only girls are the ones who are supposed to look good for the opposite sex . having a high standard of personal hygiene is the very least you can do to improve your appearance . dont smell take showers and use deodorant and maybe fragrance , if you want to . have nice , clean hair and clean teeth make sure your mouth doesnt smell , either . clean and cut your nails , dont let them grow too long - especially if youre a boy . wear clean , ironed clothes . be well - dressed . the clothes must not necessarily be very expensive , but they always must be clean , fit for your size and appropriate for your body type . very important dress tastefully . okay , maybe youre not an expert at choosing the right clothes for you and combining them , but at least ask for advice from somebody who is one . its crucial not to look like your blind grandmother picks your clothes . smiling makes you look cuter , more charming and more lovable . a genuine smile can lighten up someones day . its the best way to express interest in somebody , in a way in which you have no chances of making a fool of yourself . being annoying may seem fun to you , but its certainly not fun for those you annoy . a little teasing or playing every now and then is acceptable , even welcome in some cases , but being annoying on a regular basis is the perfect way to repel boysgirls . being mean with other people for no reason or treating them like dirt will make you hit the most hated list . nobody likes unfriendly , obnoxious people . really , there will be many people who will like you for you , not just your looks . plus , if youre being crushed on because youre on the footballcheerleading team , but no one knows your passion for singingkarate , whats the point

put the saddle on the horse . pull the buckle up against the stirrup bar . take hold of the stirrup buckle and iron . pull the stirrup to your left arm . adjust the stirrup if necessary . repeat for the other stirrup . check the stirrup length after mounting . adjust the stirrup leather if necessary . put your feet in the stirrup irons . check that your stirrups feel even on both sides .

how to adjust the stirrups on an english saddle

if you are not about to ride , you may put the saddle on another surface of the same height . face the saddle , with the stirrups hanging down . if the buckle isnt already in this position , grasp the part of the stirrup leather closest to the saddle . pull downward until you hear the buckle click against the stirrup bar . if your fingertips reach the buckle when your left arm is fully outstretched , the stirrup leather should be close to your ideal length . if not , use the buckle to lengthen or shorten the leather . place your right hand on the stirrup iron . place your left hand on the buckle , reaching along the stirrup leather and under the saddles skirt . switch the left and right if you are left - handed . pull the stirrup toward your left arm until it touches against you . the exact position depends on what type of riding youll be doing if you will be jumping , the stirrup should reach your left armpit . for dressage , the stirrup should touch your first ribs . for ordinary riding , the stirrup should be somewhere between these positions , or touch our left arm just in front of your armpit . if the stirrup does not reach you or feels slacked when brought to this position , adjust the stirrup leather to a different hole . repeat these steps until the stirrup is in the correct position . count the number of holes you moved , so you can do the same with the stirrup on the opposite side . if the holes are numbered , just make a mental note of the number . move to the opposite side of the horse and adjust the stirrups using the same process . this ensures that your stirrups are roughly the same length before you mount . sit in the saddle with your legs hanging down comfortably , outside the stirrups . for ordinary riding , the bottom of the stirrup iron should hit the middle of your ankle bone . ride with slightly shorter stirrups when jumping , to help take your weight out of the saddle when in jumping position . ride with slightly longer stirrups for schooling or dressage , in order to have closer lower leg contact with your horse . if the iron is not in the correct place , lift the skirt covering the buckle . pull the stirrup leather up a few inches several centimeters through the stirrup bar . buckle again into a higher or lower hole on the stirrup leather as needed , then pull the part of the leather closest to the saddle down again . you should hear the buckle click up against the stirrup bar . keep your feet out of the stirrup irons during this adjustment . make sure the leather lies smooth , not twisted , between your leg and the saddle flap . turn your toes into the stirrup iron , then forward . alternatively , grasp the iron with your hand and turn it outwards , just enough to slip your foot in . the bend of your knee should be comfortable against the knee roll . your heels should naturally sink slightly below the level of your toes when the ball your foot is resting on the stirrup iron . when rotating the stirrup by hand , move the left stirrup anticlockwise and the right stirrup clockwise . if youre not sure , ask your horse to stand at a square halt on a flat surface , without resting a hind hoof . ask someone to stand in front of your horse and check whether the stirrups look the same length or need further adjustment . its important to have them as even as possible so that your position in the saddle is centered and your weight is evenly distributed . uneven stirrups can cause the horse discomfort and muscle damage .