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Closing the lid is the most sanitary way to flush. But you sound like big girls and can put it into the position you need. Sounds like one of you got a cold water goosing in the middle of the night pee | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0SzJpVUJJcmg1dkNSSkRmMVBvQ2pIeXRDM0JRS1ZaYUJ2RV9icmVkaHA0aUowRkdYV0ZrOUs4SGw0d2RkZnhnOGItcVNtWHY4OXdGdnFDTV9wTEZabXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0VDNBRVdQN3J4UlNXbFRMbXN0QVUxclBiVmxQY2d4NUJfOU5uM2hqVWhfbDRFSnZCRzZ2UV80d1lTZWVhbXNYY1ZtaEZOSnV0RG5QYVFMbERSaXgzbzVDTTROaExrcGNjTEl2UEZTbDFYT3BjSFFremt4LWQ5dnpIdnc0NXN4b1g5X1ZpdWxQQnNtNkpBcVp6ZVU1c2s3cFl4MTJER2dqTUZGYTZPdUtkUV9jUkcyM25uZFVkY2hvWnRFSWQ5aGg1Z1BxbHU0Njk5d05Qa2J5cURyaWNRbFFFQVFlNnBuQ2tYeUFlblRjV3FDVT0= |
The minute he started verbally or emotionally abusing you. So pretty much once you got married. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0U0s0VzhkVTlSVnhNVnItS0xWUGJablZCRm9taDBxcE5qSGt2SDhydFRSQ0MzZnBkbTl5OFMxQTYzcThjdjJ0cUJ2WEZPLS1JUzJnUGtNLVZDQUQxaXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0WmlVNk5KS3ZXTjYtbWN1aUVJRi01Q05VZVFHMmhLVHFKNE9hUF9LWGtlOXdldXgxWDBDOEM1RmdJUVJ0dkhxUzJxWS1FWlVDaHpjZEl2MHhkMGVtU0phM1l3bk54TEtLZjY4ZV9KWF80NlVXYlZEMG9TX01CWHJKS1NHeUJJVXAtTkcwS1BPY21CX2dCRnZtYnc2WE00bXlXQmg0cllNNGJqVmk5MUpHTmVpb2RoUER0eVhoME8xekpobFRQZkR6MUlXZkU4S2VETUZXYzc4YjRfc3Q2MjZ3NUZmN3hsNGZFVVVSOUxmaDRzND0= |
I feel the same, this is Why I dont understand what is going on | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0SU5adUE5Mk1ZN1RlaWJma2xBWnRIeWI5M1ZjYnpRaGpNNmxaSUNFcl9nOXpvZ0YzSzljZnBSRVRrclhwcl90eXpXcS1vRWJGV2t1TDZzNGJyY0lyX2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0X3o4ZkNjLXR1WEhEYk1KeVdyQjgydmxydHVkcFBwNHQ5bnBNMlJ0TnlSNno3VUwwdUg4eTlXR0NvUXNBcHI3cWhOYXZBdVJ2ckU3VUFyT3cyeFktRGItQXdHeFl5RVMxV1ZhWEJORHBFT2VYa2EzU0hTRm1kMmFIOXV3Nzd1NE5mX2hORklMc012VzRvdHF5cmJzaXRvYWNYSzdiTVFvME9XbnA3bnZtaGpmSDVOSTlJREtOX0c2Mi1xbnNkdUVZVlJhOFVTbFlwUFJRUWRIeUs0ZEdTN1hOWjJMTDM1b1VCUXlUdWNVMi1wRT0= |
He is insecure, immature, controlling and has a serious inferiority complex. He will never "let" you be successful. He will work his hardest to hold you back, drag you down and make you apologise for it.
>i have “male coworkers” he doesn’t trust them
What that really means is that he doesn't trust you. What does it matter if your coworkers are "trustworthy" as long as you are? Does he think they'll assault you at work? Does he expect you to avoid 50% of the human race? The boy's an idiot and you're better off without him.
Stay with him and say goodbye to your life. All you'll have is dreary existence in the shadow of paranoid jealousy and having to make yourself less because he is so small. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QUtQR1ZwUmU1RlJNcFA1ZTNEeU51S3pnVlZpNVpfZGlwaGZCZ0FBLWFvVU03UTVVVFdNUWZ4Z1ppVWRrX29vUkdGaktadG1xcWtHZ21GLW03VkdCZ1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ZV93aDhtb01TdG8wUHBWWmdLRG9ZTEhNVnQ3OTdZWUp0dF9rcTdvTVhYSWNOMGhFUUpOR3YxQ0V1T21iekRLMzhja3I4OHBzdWdFY3RoeVJKdzlnRzFBMmlOMkt6Ml9ZZ3dxbTdJU0xxN2ctb1JsSEMyS1NmRWZIZXJCcTVsLURReER2TExCaXhEX1V6MjNTd2hGa0s3dzU4dTN1dFA3TTRjT29oNEMxc0paVjRzOWN5UXREcW1vMjYtdHJtYTdfejFvQnpodXozYndyRm44S3VaQjdWSWQ1ejdxOGNsZnYyQ0ZHbFVYN002QT0= |
Brother if she said that out of her own mouth then walk away - if you want to keep being lied to when you already heard the truth then that’s up to you. But don’t let the amount of time you’ve had be a factor because it will only keep you there till she’s done using you. Best of luck - it sucks but life is a series of fights and you have to protect yourself - there are better people to spend your time with. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0MTk0QWtTZXdvM2RYRnlWS2FQWDBtVnNuNW9Da3FjZWx4NlRERmRwSm5MWVNEejFsVjVXME9Nb1NlQVFELVY0VUxEZUhQREpFejJGWDlzWVNENXZhdmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0LUNQcGRuM3ZxVUc3TUFhMFhJMEI2OXlQN1R4cjU2U3ZRaEhrX3RXeU9rUVdCYnRlWk1GMnVHSUlRUXVoMm1BX25naERJLUxGZW00dFd6WElzb3k4aE1TZzVSUEg2LXlYYzFpOFBTVVpBX3lrbFJ2WXRJTzM5QTYwdktBTk1EMGo5dEdsaGpXQ3hyWmwwWi1CZF9SbmxrU3A5bm03UjRfeVBsb1hTV0IxSmRreGwxeWJmZThwZkhpSFpWUnpSaG9NV28tSS1PeldONm5tdDNQQTVTVW9yY2VTdVFKU1dVRmlzQ21QLVhrSGpwWT0= |
You are **entirely** focused on the wrong issue here. Who gives a fuck if he apologizes if there's no reason to believe it won't happen again?
He hit your kid hard enough to put them on the ground and then acted like he was going to attack your wife.
He's an abusive ass. There's no hairs to split about who was right or wrong. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0d0MtSG9LZk9CcUFFYkxSa0xDeE9JcUdLWWZMM3NUMjNFT2VxSHlCTTRDT09IZDBIZC1rVlNDRkY2azFpdXN5U1RuLUw4YVNyWUlyd0xFVTlNTWFVY3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QjJJbHZZek96WEwzS1gzYzNHbjFHQ0pzaEtYa1BvMmRXVW1LQTFmazR3a1BMcks1elg4TERNRWxlNGlPLUktQXctcmY2MEJldkF4eS1XSml4dXh3OUhQczcyT1hOeGsxN3h0bnV3LU96TUp4VTNFUXJmSFVvS2pqVmphQU92N2hQUmZJTTJIUlEzTTZRdksxRmVBZGdEN24tN0JHc3BPZkdwNm5keWw3enU4dDctdnJ0NlVhRF9ranJBdE9OYVVZeF9jc0tuLWxNMDV4dDBiQzV0NHlDT0x0VGQ5WXNQekJ2dHZldjh0THhsWT0= |
Don’t know why I’m getting down voted as it’s the truth and maybe telling Americans that might help them understand. I’m Irish and yeah a “child of both traditions” | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0X29GY1gwWXAzS0tJQ2FoZ2pLN241dk5IcW1hc21zcWl1LVFibmVmWXpHMC0yUTcxRktDM2tUY2tIZXcxZlMxSkVjM1BCcm1VcUhQWmg2RW5na0xYNEVfeVdZVzRsS2Qzdkt5SEhDc3Ntd009 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0OEg5dTFKS0V0ZjlIaGNtTDAyS2lTUEdUUXppaHdCVXZRcHFUM0VaT0tHYW8yRGVtY1NKRnhSTnFTd0tWSE9NTWI0b3FRTFozODZDeW56bTVUcWRUNnNxb1E4eEtkbC1qMFN3cnE4QmtTS2hpeXNQcDR0QVZIUmJjVjJxSF92bnZkM0lEX2hxV2ZNM3hhSGE1Q0hraVhNLWNBajNKZmQ5cGMxeWR0ZGd6eGtSWVJRRTE3NHN2Wnp1VHowVUp5SWx0NU9YMjRYN3VOZ0lNVF9Cdng5c2FNbkNXU3ZLVUN0aHF3TUh6TGlwYWx3Zz0= |
No this isn’t healthy. This is belittling and incredibly uncaring.
I talk incessantly, about anything, about nothing. I pop in and out of my husbands office (we both WFH in rooms side by side) to tell him some random thing that happened at work, a conversation I had, a stupid thing I saw on IG like a god damn Jack in the box. Never once has he been annoyed or upset with me. He’ll warn me that he doesn’t actually are, but he understands that I just want to voice my bullshit.
He doesn’t care about you. Because even if he doesn’t care about what you’re talking about, he should just care about what you’re saying because he cares about you. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0M05ER29PMTNlY2hGa0VOalZmNkUxSTJUTzZQV0Fsc01JRUpfdlRndEdsT1RRSV8zSy1aUnhlekxKeDEwZ19WeUVqbHg4cm5UR2F1OWlOVnZEZzZvMEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0WTh3NHpJN1VZYk1FeUZwR1ZyUWVlejRNeHU2My1xU1plSEpsNk1VY20tRHlNT1p3NjhPMjBLZnMxOTgzTkJGQTlBcG5QZTcydDJDY0psOGJZcFZ0dHJWRnBOcVBiNUZBVjlKME16OW83ZTkzQWs1ZkxCZHJMTERNal91eDVYcGRFcUw5NkxLMUhBTUZHT2NqNUViMEJfeGlqbDhQYnRVYzFFUXhTdld3djBPOFlQWkY1eTc2NGlIVElaRGhyanh4QUhBRzFwUmtUTEZaQ25yd1hyY3M1eDNFNGUtZW1mcU5VWE91NzRRaUw5WT0= |
I'm glad you're able to chuckle a bit! I know this is hard.
But really, he genuinely sounds like he's trying to bring you down to his level. Partners should want to make you better, happier. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0TjRiQXJkMFYzd19pSVJobk9NY1NwaVRNcThBUkZqT2JDemtOcVl6TEhnZXJncXVXVktEdnNsSGM4bkk2cU9seXd1TUpGS3BXYkVjeXJtam13YzhBT3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QlVyaDVFb19PT2JweFpFdkJvY0Zad0YwVWdUSnF3WGtZMV9vVGJVMmJiZko4UXFTcEY4ZTFabnV4bTlrc3gwZDMyTV9aRGNVZ05SR2NKWnNrdkYybWZWTGloQXE2bmRyOTRnUW80dVZxTDFfYm5MWkpOZzhnZTBfU1FDMTJ2WVZOQjcwemhnVHh6ZklEcUUyN3BvblB0WDhWdlNuS2lfX0tyQzY5TWhfUmFLN0kzNGVNeUZfb1BHV3FLUWJKd2UzeUhick9oYnRDWERCbkFUSGlrQmwxTzlMVlhqa0lieWFVbkVFYy1JOUM3dz0= |
Do you suggest I even bother reading the note she leaves on my door upon returning my keys? Part of me wishes I would be home whenever she does decide to do that. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0dkdoTU5PenNHcC1Ca29BQURaaF9BSFBQa0h0ZFNiOXFxb2UzYWw4NkFFQzU1blc1Y0NxU0EzT2U3bjdLWnZLdDdkS3Q2VDU4TmNoY2hDaXd5dkExV1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QnV0bkJZUE5sbDM3cE53ajV3ZDRsaldYTnU5YXlLRWFpNmt2WUFGbm9mQUowclpfSFE4UWJ1al9JZmwyejdOZ0EyeVJKa2RvT2lwNUNOWUtCUUVDQlpJRUMxaDNmX1ZnM3R1R3hrMlIxa3l6MnQwT0dWVEFPcWY1ZDRjMGpIZ0k4dTdxeUxMN1cxNm9Xbk16Z0Fqb1pTNkNRYl9EZ3pHandaLXJJcm90T3h4OXVTSUZwaVJzYXNvNV9iV2ExRlE5bWx2eWhTa0JWcEJuTWpEZHd5Rll3TnR4ZF96cFA0bmttMEFHREZhWGczYz0= |
"Just abort him too." *slow claps* | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UG11Vi1MNHkzSG1CaEliam9KeGxyU1pkSm9abXJvb05CSVV2NUI1QW5GMVl3SGtZYTY4OTRRWUFRMnhJamhZY0ZXY2FfaGlSeFRmVFc0cEZiSUhVQVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bzhHU3Vadm80cF85RGNEYlcwUDNkR3VlOVhMaGViXzRTR2JwbnMzc0JxMGdRZTl2QjcyQTRYLWNId29sbTRwc2NOTUFuQ0VQS05kUWQ0bDVSZTNRSy1KbzBBcEgxWjg1OXpOQUkwNWVsMkpudFhtRmVhbXpOdng0UFdrQXNpbWd0ZFoxMGViS2N2VWNNR185dDZpcjdHVzNjN1hkNzVMTmpUUUcxYlpFWi02MDZWQ0h1ZnRWaUREaDM2eThHZmJxYlE4Z3M2YVplOUF6ZEJTWll0cm92azE4a0QxU0o3dkdKLXh1VFI0bVRiZz0= |
OP, I’m sure that you are more interesting than this man could ever hope to be. Leave him so you can rebuild your self esteem and confidence. Leave him so you can develop a healthy inner life. Leave him so you can find someone who sees how wonderful you are and cares enough to show you every single day. It’s what you deserve. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Rkl1UjBGSGk2b2o4TEFrOWt1NmhOZHhBSWozakpGWFN3XzU2cmFwTXNvUHdaTmVBeEI0ZnFTbzF5QzdZMkdGdTBvc2RDVUNzc2lJV1NrX1lKem54RzRLUzlIT292elNXUEl4UWI0MnZVRTA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Vk0yM0ZPT3MzZUpMRWRES2dwYmtRODlYZmtCVVItYWFEQUNnMHc3eWZ4bWl5cGE1YkF6aXhPQ1JRUkxXbmxFMWxqWlpkbDYtcUVoeDJXdXB6bGJRZnpNdXZUOXBnY0FaUHdZQ001Mll1OVI2MlJxRTh5ZTV1Ql9YNC1fUkFpSkxDWENVSXBLRS1QT2duMGE4SlVoUjZmVkJmUmJtOHI3SFlMQ1paVVk5M3E4R1NIejZrOG8tTXhyMkZYaUt2bXBSNHB1RTBBS0RoX2RGQU41T0JMaXZ1ZEFSUlR1TjNVVUtHRFVLNGd1eGVmOD0= |
all these posts do now and it sucks
'my husband killed my dog and calls me names and is une!played and cheating on me with my sister. I finally told him I feel sad about this, and he blew up at me, saying everyone in his family hates me and he's only with me for my life insurance. am I the asshole for expressing my feelings?' | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0anI2ZTJreVNBc1d5b0RRak9qVG1saHpyWDBuX0NmSWhSWWQ3cFl1ejdOa3ZJR0xEZ25XN3BxcDZUcEJnTThuQ0l6eldKdnlxcHpRLXlEZGswMUJhZmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UTZHREtnb3FnN1Q3OTV5ZTBTejh4ZGFWdGI5Vmgtc2dCcmhCeDFmQU15eGl6X0tHYkkxRXBCWW5fdnBoemhuX25zTVA5Z0k4RDRPYjFucDFycUxCN2N2d2h5QVg0S1RFY181VzluX25CZ2VON0JuZm9zUnJmM0JhNEg3OG15TjJmZzZrQzY4bjZ5SmZWTnlWcUxVVlExU1ZHOUJyNHp3TzVPeW5la3FDdGVpV0ZEWFJscUVHakkxSG5wLW5LY1Y0Wnp5U0ZITHZlVUVCSDNwcWlPa3BKTi1GMF9QZ0tpS2JJbjN4bHBpRTd6VT0= |
You are seeing the best part of her right now so no she’s not a perfect match op.
You will find more and more flaws as you go on
It’s only been a few dates and you think she is perfect “but…” come on. Be realistic. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bkNNYnJBWGtKWWJtdUJNUG82TlVMUTZfeHVpVjlERUxoNDZQQ1hYM2w3YkszMmFxZGZWNkp0UExqT0NWNGtJazRRUDlJY1VHSnkzVFRubWVnUnZPWWhDVzlyTmlEWl9aMnh6SmNHbkpLLUE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bm1NY1FPUDhyZWpuMzFRZVYxZlFVcjJFenF2bkRNVzRyQ21HckVCM1hxWDZtRHVoaHVtSS1lTHpyMUg0SG1mc0VUM1pCZUUzdEtsRlFLUk1TTHhyUXg3SEFvWlhpT0pNOHdUcUJuZTB4VXRyeTRHeUV3Q1JKbFpqUEpab1lNSGIxcDR4dlRXU2gyYnhUVkJNZ2lQemlTOTR5dnduQzd0OWJIZ3VKbEJqWjBqTWtzWmdOOUFXc3ZQMkRGNjJjbGxFTzBZTUo0NE1BS2c3bkhXdk1weVZFSS1YMXdUTTg2WmR3ZWZiTE4wU3BpMD0= |
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Is being single THAT friggin terrible? Good lordt. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0OGxDdmh2TjRfSlRzNUsxQjljSlBnMzkxYkJaeU5kbTVMSW0xM3huU0JCLTV4VkdqZU50UDVWeEVCY1FpUUV5N25QSExQNGZnd0dHS0UxTFdDSU9MTlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UVRxOTNxa0x2SE1JV2N6Mk5BYTNYZHZrZ1IwdjMtcmtZaGctaXBKWkxIWXg0anJqOURPWHNobFdZblFnUm1VWkpWVFl1Vm4welBKMjY1dWQ5RUhYelRhcGFPSy02Y3NzdE9mSERKZ1ltNmJMOU9fU01RM3QxYTZVenJib0twS3dzVEV5Rno2MnF4dXZKeVBvS3FPTWUzeUphTjlyejA2TlBwN2swdHVWTTVMeDltb3R0YnQ3Uy1KbVlEZlgycnpPUTUxZTM3b3Ztai1SdGpvQlVGSnltc3hhUDg5VkJsSEpJZW9RVEtGbW1pRT0= |
Yes you dump him! He has shown you that you/your relationship will never be a priority to him. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UjVuZDREXzF1UDdYaEN2bTVZTzRLeE9YeTFTem1nTVEtT1lMdVN6Q0c3S3B0YVRCTjlWUm9ZSm9OWnpEbnlkUDlZTGJCVGZ1VEItakRaSzJNaU1GZUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QmZmZ3BJaDRTSTNWYjdiRHBaT3BFS3Vnc0NJSU9pMlcycG14OVBWR0l1eEQzTnprbmk5UDZZSHFmb0hqSzlKMC1XNWEtZUFHT2o2a1cxZWhsc3lJN3NDelJvaFlJQnBYR1hnQzFPNlhKMFFQWU1WMHhLQ3l2M09YVTVjdVppNGducUpLa3l5VGNTSUVtTlFrNXlWYXM0d3R1V0dmNUhoQjZOUUlQNnd4M1FqUXFPRFBpX1BiMXdld28tNUF5U1lMM3BnaC02RFBKcHpvRzZXdFZ1SGRsOHJmM1Atc1ZsZVBISGp0bEJ5QkYxUT0= |
I'm rage venting here because I'm reading your post, and it really triggered the worst in me. But what I'm about to say is either towards you as well as being general (for every woman in similar situations):
What is up with women and second guessing their feelings /asking for advice about clear disrespectful and depraved behaviour their SO show towards them??!!
Why are you asking people whether you should break up with your ex or not while the situation you described is stating the very obvious answer??!! Do you really need advice for that? Is your self esteem really that low that you need total strangers to tell you an answer?
I think you need to work on your self esteem and work on your boundaries. Because what your so-called "boyfriend" is trying to gaslight into you is peak abhorrent. What is next?: "I love you very much, you're the love of my life but I was horny and my ex happened to be in the neighborhood so we smashed. But I still love you dearly"
I hope you understand what you should be doing now instead of waiting for advice, and dump his disgusting ass. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Wk1OVXQ4UFNEYXI3Z0l2bjlCUTFlYngzUXlnMW9SYWJBWWM0QjJFRE5VX2RYeGgyS3Q1VGRvQ195Nll1QzJVVFBJYkV6b3p4c2tCcGRPOVpWUUt6WjhhcGpfSHRRVEd2N01ZLS1NXzBMeDQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0T0RYdjNjUXlrZlJNXzA0NWFHNUlGSW1ieHI2V2o4UFc0cV9qcjZTdEFqQ293VHAtR3pLYVl1d1VOYm5CaW1aeFplYVRNVExmbFhqaEZ3WHhOdUtNZGMxcDhzZ09qTTgzbUNERjNBOEE2ODdiZ1FNWW4wVkF6NFl2Ym9RTHN6QWsxcnZFQVkzbFdVUy1tSjgzNFZVS0t5UDJpOWFVQ1pyektoSlZxX2xqcWhjRmdSZmpMaU5EeGdLZ0gwZXh0TzNqSHREbWNhN1lMQUZMTGwyaVFDeXk5NTJrQzNtRFQyTTlfNXYzQWRjN0RiUT0= |
Hey friend.
You’re really young. One day you’ll look back at all this and you’ll be grateful for the lesson.
Human relationships are based on markets.
You’ve handed him all the power in the relationship.
He couldn’t treat you fairly if he wanted too.
If he wanted to date you and court you and be in a long term relationship with you he would.
He wants to sleep with you, and never marry you.
If that’s what you want, GREAT!
because that’s all you will ever have with any man you don’t follow the rules with.
If you sleep with him first he thinks you sleep around. He won’t expect you to be loyal. He won’t treat you loyally.
You’ve got to get some older girls to explain how men and dating works.
Please. I beg you. Write down your plan for when he’s not that into you. He doesn’t introduce you to his family. He doesn’t invite you to Christmas. You’ll be the second woman as long as you allow your self to be.
You’re wasting your time with him. He’s not a long term option for you.
You’re supposed to be dating guys your own age and experience level.
Every year millions of women turn 18 and men get to fuck them.
Millions of women think this man 9-30 years her senior is really interested in more than sex? Rarely.
Relationships are a power struggle. You’ve handed him the keys to your base.
Maybe you won the lottery.
You’ve got a ticket.
Odds are you won’t be able to cash it.
Don’t be too devastated when he leaves you on read. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0VERQbzlON0dLejQzVlQxT2V2Y2N0V3p3cWtQeTVESHpuOWdQNWJ5TVJFX0tTRVFWY1Z6dmZwM2J0V195RzJDQXZMc2J6cDRvZTdCcUp6MU9DY19uXzUwR1JEVWFyb1ZsZUM1WFYtRy1KY1k9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ajlpME9YMHVvTjVQeUtyYUxhWEhHNWVJUGlYZ2RIY2w4V21YemltVWFpVEdRNWpCQ0g0WExQenhkYUF5Q0RkWHpvb04wRHByVnFDNDVpQ08xaHlid3lLbUZycUE3aGt6UmQ2cnk4R2s1V0lEemZHeE5VTlFPS014ME5ScnNEcW5PUTF4TllocFJIVzdJNDJPOFA0WHk4WEtaZkpncTZCaC0tM1pEVEo0ZVpPQzF1bDdJYlhCZ2daeVhTSnp6WDZrU0dVa3NacE51MTdhT3AxX1pvaC1oWVRsaVAyTWoxQUJpRlRDcnA0ZVAxVT0= |
u/bitterbeeb,
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Whenever a man tells you he can get any woman he wants, your only response should be "Not this one." and then you leave. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0OWRMUlFObnAwQUJfZ29BN0FpR1JzUE1DTWRqTmp6c2hwbl9ZRmU4enZ6bHF2eXBISXhLajFvNlByMHhCWjJfbVNoQmJuYjRDcjhlX1drSjh3U0dSdkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Sk1DMXdyTFY0QzQ2dzNad0dRRzVfaG8yc0pfQjdpMk5qN3hYMDdOMnk3TEhLODlRRmtXVzVmVUpaTkZnUGprd1BIYUU0SlFrYm5fS01kSHY4cktXakoyVHNiaXRWdFc3ajBiejNvb0tYcHc0WmJCMHFFNUs1TTdkZWVtT3dtRnFWOWZkLXhtS0NiM2NJU25udE5XVVg5bEt5WnVCWWZrMlNwSVNIN2tVTno0MGRIbWthTm5nR3lXMkxhLU9hdWFnelM4VkMyR0dZXzEzTTdZRmk5a0lrWjhnamp2ZlZ6YlotSHJncjRwVG5jOD0= |
I would rather be single and alone than in a relationship and lonely. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0d0lxVXh4T2V1aTBwVDdkMW5rakp5OXVUVjg2b28zN1ZlTkU4Yjk5MlZuRTA5UlBvSTNKem5zMnV1a3ctWHBqeW1TeVh4OXhXZGZ4NlpsRDZ3TjNlSGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0S3BjMXN1WG9VVDhxZWozQkNVWG5VMTliWVBGQ1BVSUpSOUtBQ0hIZ3lYSlN5WkpuMk9POUF1cFVEVU1BUFQ1WG92Y04tMmtRNkZoaDg0Qk9wenIyRjdKYnctNDFBZm9fYlJLRDRGRndhNnFpWU1pMXRzMUJfZ2pYa0hTeEx1NURtSHhzczI5NG9iMUdwZ2FDaFRFR1FpYlJrTGxmTzdtQVo0R3ZkbUtURkNLUk1ubTZHVGRUYmV2SFdYckc4YklvNUVhbWliWHpkNDdjZlJ6MHpwZlB0Z0JIZUpqYVV6R0VPT0hOTE9oMjJWZz0= |
End It yesterday! | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0S0Zhbmlhd2hnRVBocEVvRFBDTEVMUmRRRmttRmJxNXY4WHNlVVdVWTBYUmZkZ1RoRTJJSnBWUkxLaW01QlQzbVYzVXVVZTZRV2NzeG5tWThEazhUM2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Yk50NnNSeWVsdVVGZlNkMUQyQXMyV2NqM0hIRS1pNk5ZVmRCb0Z4eXlzNGJuc2dITHJfaEhzZGhIR0xWUDV1ZVBLMFNaOGNKWUJ5eDctSHowcnhNVkJXcm9YNHFkMzB6SmJvSEcyczlaaHJ4dzVrS3VrRWY1U3BtWDRfaTlLeHI2ZFJDTk8zLVgwZ3MzRGFIR0lRc2I5ME1HN3RrdVY3WEtXajJMTVdzc0VNT1gzdjlabjViQU45eDZ1X3QwakI1WHEweFRIbEw5V1YtdzEtMVI2SGdSbkVGUmg1Y2RMdVJmdG93MjZ3LWd2dz0= |
Don't ever try to find reasons for someone who is manipulative and controlling. At best, you'll end up with a frustrating pile of almost-accurate excuses and no real accountability on their part.
Tell them firmly that you don't feel valued and will not be a part of whatever process they're experiencing.
Block, then focus on something fun and safe for yourself. Soon, they'll turn into a weird memory, and you'll have better opportunities.
You have my sympathy. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bENJdzBUOE1CYU1zX2JiQTNFQnpsZFVWNTVqaWtkTkVHNjJHc2RhTWw3TmhhRDVOaWdBNlZwNmtlTnUyWUUyaThuTEp3MWx3NXQwLUlUU2ZqR1VVUGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0WXVYRW9Ub1YzZDc4Vjd2QWdIYTlCVlJldC1sS3V1Mml2Z2V4RDZqMTVPNTMyZ3FPLVBtZDJnOTY0U0hRcU1YZm5Wa3c2UjVSNW9JOVBER2l0b2o3NlBtbjg4SGFpMmtheE9EZ3piVTVtMXBDNUM0SERKTWNYNGNFaGk4OGJ4a2VoenJVcnd4RVFiU1ZZTGF2SExEdTYwOHRvNTNrUnhCeHVSa2g5SmFxcW5UckZ6SFJ6dHJlY3lBV2o3RHBEaDJVYlp3YXFVMHpKVXRVUUU5Wm5Wc0FvekpIcE9za1dNbUR6QXpvbGNaaXJMMD0= |
It is generally not a good idea to befriend, date, cohabitate, engage, or marry people who do not like you. It isn't healthy and will always lead to profound unhappiness. Though it might not feel like it right now (because you are with someone who doesn't seem to like you), there is definitely (many) someone who will find you an absolute delight and will look forward to hearing everything you have to share. Best of luck, OP. I hope you find the strength to walk. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0U2t1ZF9iajdicnJCQWVuVXdlOHE5WmxnZGZReUtaeHNtVW9DWG95UzBmZ19YYXRvamJnRnR0QXhJYTIydTlzWFBSOHhFQmk3SXJJNUpuYjFDOWZOM0o0TlBPYzJ1MlVKTzEyQmk5em9Qekk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0XzZ2ajFQZUNteFVrMnN2WGl0b21mbnRNQk93VkZLZmtoWUFHVk9jdUZmRVJkZ2ZubmNEWE9ocGpTNDJOdGZBRU03UGEyX0xzSVQ5VnJvSFZ2Vk1td0VOWnU1VXdzVmVlSEJGNl80MVN1dE1EaTN6YUZfa0Z2MVRsYmZmNUpvZmhHeFdFTlFQdUNaSHFwYXNoWURuZ3k3ZzdxRUNXbjY4Y183Y3M3ZXBNTGZnLTdhUmw4bmUtY0lxbjV4c1pVS1JSdE5WS0Mwek9zUk1DWFdLSXR1N2txbjRXVDdyRWhPWGI0V2lySUtCRUNQbz0= |
It's simple. Write down the positives and negatives of the relationship. The answer is right in front of you. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0U055M3cyTVV6ek82c0YxR2VVWnkwa1BFZk5HSXRERnh3Qm5pTEhyZ1dWSUxpSHlFNnFFclBHWDAxaWtBemZKMTFyX3pNOGljM2w4VnFadWM2dGZLVlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0TWV3WFZSNFU1LVR6bUt1aTdqQVFsNkRhWmJfbGl6ekdQSW9HczREcXdiekNBTElINzBPNnFJV0NmSS1PMGk1RlJJcDljSnlxQ1JENmx3bC1EYnhkSW1ZbTgtYnNXekRSQUVpUzlpVkI1eUVsR1NlMVJoaVMzbkNWZ3FrR0llY18zZHhxRmotWWZNajVod1h4MFkwWl9neFJuWWFldGV6TmNIRDd0MVpJNFVrYWRsblloUkMzamRKTXdoYW9oV1JwaFVLeFcyTWZBUmIwU21ndGtnUndXMXlFdDBMdVg3Y2c0UUVVSmFudjlBWT0= |
This is fake, right?
Because surely you’re not continuing to allow your dad within 100 yards of your wife and child after he backhanded a 2-year-old. Your dad needs to be in jail. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0azR3YzlBWVN5eld0OHBLWm5qZkJyYjk5TlBuXzR1UVNUYUlOQUNDUXRRQThzaFJYNk1TY1JGZTNvLVlJTGowU0FPUTM5THAyNWNwYnEzUHFldzJTVkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0WjA0b0NtOEdyc2prZmdXWnBPQ2Z2TTVuc0ROdEN5RGlncG9aRWFCVzg5Mk0zSkEyU3FKaUFIMEFPcXZYTEdDQzZsQUJCMWJzWUlqdlFFVFlzSFZtcUJtbEJNLTR6QXJDR3ByaFQtRWlBcXpzXzVsS2g2eGd5ZDA1Rmp6cGtkNnJ4MXlwQkxtN1RwR2NENEFKRDBKd1hMcDRoNlEwR0dBV2JnWnROSHNUX3lOb0tyclcwZ3RjcHBTbURRWGo5VzRZd1VocDZPTmNfZlRRb0RtYVFpeFZLcEtUU0EwTWFmVHJMUkxhdkdHQTVYcz0= |
I think you need to go NC/LC with your insanely angry and entitled abusive father. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Y1VYejdCUGF5UEdlYnNielRwR0dncEZFOElDZVFnQjJHcWpvTU04Ni1rSmRZdnRWSVdVQmZDdDZGX1N6NjBSOWFldURfNzRSajZ0S1dyQzlQVzhqRHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UjFVbGlNWk1qTnhVVExkMFhrN1JMNndRSVBQWnZ5WUFOcW03ZHlSaE9PbjlHVTBDQWdzODNwbkZIbW5sYktiMmRQSmJkUG1NWUExQWNHWVR0NUJoWVNMOGRjQWJybGEzVkZkRkRycHFSVHJrRm9vbTlKWTVQZGpzbmxENzlBNFZXSW9hd2liVHdVcWdsX1Zac3BNeFFrM1d4bGJYUzVveU0zdlpHR0hzeUJXUzZJTS1GeU1yMkNUanpmSXBtTW96dk9BR3B0Uy05NGVZRjB3RVRIa3J5UzZUbXlpTHhZVGxpZHhxMTgwalplND0= |
Leave! | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0NVFBd3Y2Ny1EZlNqMlE4aFhnVVpSc3NERXA0YUg3REhfbHBJTk9GbzI1aG1DaUl0VnNLNy1RV3M0LWwxTkduaVpHSVZfX2FyUjVSUzJTeGJTN1B1THV3TXNoYWI2d1RkNXlLZmE0Ui1yTjQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0YlU5UlFyQnQ5RGpqNVdnRDRya3VJNzZINkk0UmFxaGJTVHFXNkRERnMycmhzdXJtMmhfRGdwWmNBRGhVWTkyc1Z3THVWcWVjWXFoeG93NjFiTzJvU1hHUXlYNG8xSnoybE5Nd0pxeUdjNDN5QjVTMnIwbk1ndkItMWtPY3lDQzcwLVl2ek0tdjVpYXQzZVhlSWRianVFZWpMLVNYRXBlVTc2NEpzWWt1b0FNZEdNcTNqOS0temh4MlloVjJPVllkeXprZFFNQm9rcnY3YWxZSlRlOTFmdmVnMkZndlRMOURiMUhac0hsMU1Gaz0= |
He should dump you | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bjFMTkhtVkQ4M3owMXYwUEp0dEg1eWg3WXhrR3oyYURqUm5xZjBsZWlPRmo1blJWYngyWVVhME1HbTZWVV9tVjNodVpObHdOT0JfbU93aXNsSWlBOHdRYUxDc2hfU2RpRXpVNUdMNmVickU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0dUFlWnExaXA3SFRDRW1WTnNrRDZDUEplcGo0LUxNaTIxS2xvWDA4d1lRMktIVzJuOHdhbF9IdERHQ0xRMTlBUVNxSzNOTy1UMXVtcFpFRlAwTW84bmQzNFNYamRDMkVBOXUtWDkxdzV5RGljeVFiTkl2OF91ZE1lVDc5eEVlZ3R2bjFYN3BKTVd5RmE2cm1OTm5DZ0dnNEpuMk4xN1BVcXctRkNwOTJjTzBuY3lFMG1tai1uZ3Z2aXVwdHB3RnQyeW9kZHdEN0R4STJka0RmR1V1UVZ1OXppRDF0YzBNMXlNdUh3cVRuNWpsdz0= |
You don't need his permission to take this job. You're not a child. His opinion doesn't matter. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Tzd6TjYzWlFsRS0xQ3RVVE50NkMzQ2tqNTZMYjJGWlFYTFFvYkg5dFFPNTB1Q0dJNHRoUXdpb2V5S203R0JUNl82QllZX2lpVklMTjd3OTFTZjhkU2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bUJrZE54LUZmRXkzS0dsWEQwM3lqbGFfT2V0cFVFMjljWXNxeGZ2TnBQTzVCWVVTNnB0WlpNbUgySXYyc05VRTNBUUZVOVR6SEx6cWZjMVJsbkNwVkhKdndib3lGYUdITHplZ3FNMUVFTXpVbU95UXJjUFpwcjFuTHh3OEVfdFZFcHhabXJTUWRCczdBQmFVWEZvdmplVDdTN1RmY3BTaGpaTURxVEpsb2pNbXI2VzdNOTZ5WDhRTTlYZjYzSXA2bW9najRLTDR1Yl9HaTVDZllfbGJfU0JMV2lFN1JvS19uZVFNblNERDRzaz0= |
sure, any time | r/cryptomarkets | comment | r/CryptoMarkets | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0S3QzWjg4T1JOMThHQVdENUVBVmhyRW0xVkFTRTJSTERjbWR1b2hfVzM3c3c5ZXh4QUtwWUZFMGdPdzR3X1M5U3FFNE5WSWZVQXlVZDVDVkc5ZEhKVEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0OW5Gc0FBUk56OTBScWNsQ056UVh2cnZZRVdKTGhubG1YOExYV0J0UEt2dS1sRWpTaDRkYXBIaUl4X08yakU2dXZsaE1BU3M5WEJlaW9KX29MckdVUGpDTTdVSExMTFd3OEF4QXR3VWI1NGd3aVpGeHlvbkxHR3BxVlo5VFVkRkJqY2lTRXhoUkI1N1ZSVlp2RmlEZWMyNE9Ca25rNjFLd2RkMVFIbGlBNGxwbDFLa1JBNnoyOFVNTWdVc0MtS1hTTnZ1NGp1d1FVZER0R1ozRXhRN2ZZZz09 |
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Dump the boyfriend, and reconnect with your friends. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0YlR4cVlSbXZ6WF95Z0paNXBOUm5tcDZ1QXFwUnJRVTgteEZJSE12Q01BcUF3d3JqSXMzVTRsQmVRMmJldHZrUjloaU1qdjRrWDVDakEyRWg2a0ttTk4yNEc5R1JJMmd3dDZHd3kxTkJFMW89 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0WVNNVTVrSHNxc1VJckpMNEI5R21YYTR4OUNocmZ3YWs5dk9qUVdoMGRVd1FtSHQ0UUZLWWRJYlBjZFNLcElYZW1QYmlTTndUX1FrZ1pTajkwODcwdlJwdHRtYklBWGJqb0tPX3R5RWdsLXl6RDU2M25kUUNiSjdnc0FJa1VJUnlrSXItMFJLWlJWYWFOZE1DcUNScW9jc0h5bkNIRDdDMTBPRkx2V19aYVZjZlBtczZZN3EyQUpTYUdJalBROS1wYzh1M0VBX1J3V1NfYUpLdi1zeFJGa0hIRW9nVFoyWkxldFZKNFVRVUZ2VT0= |
That's what stood out to me. Obviously cheating is sexting but there's like multiple red flags/betrayal here. There's absolutely no reason for someone to lie to their ex that they aren't in a relationship anymore unless they want to bang them. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UUR2Qm94ZmFuSXZHN2RZN0oxUDBZUmJ6YlUzQnNEN3BPay1LRVJvdzVDaTNTb3Z3RFRHVHZBMWtIMHdBUTJMVTJKOWcxbWV4aTdZODZYbi1aZmZPc2x4SHhPTXVLODNwbUxMa3hjZm5TN3c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0b3lTby1mdHV4OG4yZnJvS0xvVkhFcHZ4RDBMb21Bb083VHBQVlZYN1QwaXBxNzMwZDR4dEtxYjhaX0t6M3VxU3BIeGxWRmNRYnJvanFKWkw1a25jYWZsd1A1cmgxOTNkczdVS2dHVVRZYkRaeUt1MWdBMGd5dDhudEVzOFJ5ZTgtYjU1SEZnc200MlFGeDhHM2tNUF9CZlNQeGFDbmlhb3UxWXBmVDZ5U1hmQ19GR2F6cGdVUlVZYnRaY1BOVWZjQmg3M3gxV3JSTlozWTlrTUtOVkFzQlpNcjJDTVA4RU03elp1M0U1QThycz0= |
I can’t tell- did you have sex with your boss or not?
In any event, I don’t blame Adam. You were not strong enough to do the right thing and now you are experiencing the consequences. While your boss was a scumbag, you had plenty of opportunity to shut it down. I suspect Adam doesn’t see you as a “victim”. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0dXBSbC1RWTFKU2NhWVNHMkpMVUNrZUVkQU9uck8wOXVubXRQdm5zN0RYWDQxS2JQR2ZwbXBTckNMbzhmcFBnWmliOUVFbUVaRS1MRTFsV21nbWV5eWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UkM5OUl4ZC1xZGFOOTA0cW5sVjY5Z2lNMDdhUHhKeW0wZWdQVTRGd3ZRZWNpNTY0Vm9kb1hnb0ZFQXhwSUkxaW9tNEdLak9uZThDaHk1c3lUejRzNEpIaGNYV09CR3JKLW1peTgzTkZKb1l1cXBCRkJ3Z3I4djZlazgzS1BpTUlVZzMtSFJvekI2cVByVzV1MXFnSnVDbFJLVkhHOUF2V1lMUERiWFUxRkJMVHJXcGJzVExiX3VBVEV5Z2pfZzA4LTZabzdqRV82Y2hnV0JyOHBTY291RGZQS2lwVmZ6TElSdnczZmtOdDc0cz0= |
He knows, he doesn't care [https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17yzw35/he\_knows\_he\_doesnt\_care/](https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17yzw35/he_knows_he_doesnt_care/)
I understand that right now you're not in a situation in which you can easily leave. But keep working on your goals to leave, and please make sure that you don't get pregnant from him because it will all be harder. As for the cleaning situation... don't do more because he does less. Do the bare minimum that YOU need. If the house is messy when people come over, so it is. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0RWQtaW9ydmI3WEZtMDZvdmhlMlY5VzRxeExJZ2ZkbXVQTVFwazdQVDdCWDFhUUlocUtqbnV6WlMxdGZTeFF1bnpxeW14TE5wSHlDeGlHX1hDWEI1cFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0a2hCY3hlRlYxdHJaNmw4aWVuODh6azZ5Z3dreGlwLXpsemNQY1RITkRMMmJaSVBZWjJWNWJvczY3dDNaci1kWkJHMG5hT09nN0dKcDZ1NXVZMmgwUmlhblVWdnhoMzNUcWo1UUp1dXd0MEVZMldvLWg4eXhkbm1hVXRmLTg4ZV9iUVREbDNMN3lwYXVVRU9XRnNnSXVTOUpBT1NlNC1ZM2JYZXNkdFVaOW5NNzRuTlFEaEx6U09ORXFKSFctZkZVMDBZeWhiNUoxcmc3c0oxMGRtZTBZQT09 |
Girl, please dump his ass | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QjVEci1oYWlFcUs1X2ZNTXNNS3hGUzNWSnhlVF9aRUhObW54UjB5UlgyRWVTVExJTDJLOFQ5aERtUkNSMl9uNmk4MnJsOGsyV0pMb1NIUlhETi1BS0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0eUdZYXJ5ck5XRERJSlpyaEFXUUstazRtMXBpWUZMLVJNQl9xekV3Ml9qOFRIa0JoejVISFR5LTM4T2ZKa3NEdlZPN2RGaE5CUmg3UUZjUXZ5cDI0dlRabV90RmpqYkkyeklrSUFOVk5yOXl3OXlQSk1EdmdRVXpJUXROWWlKZHBnUlhGLXhvNUlaR014dHBMY0xGTDhZanpKUlVxMHF1V1VxWGcydlE3TlgzSk5yT1k5VUhNTEk0Zi1rU29VenhHcUNQYkdRWXlJcGVsNktmS0NUUExsQzJmOUptcnIxUnZDWWxkQW1MUmJiaz0= |
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Rather than tacky, I view braggarts as insecure, boring and degrading. Perhaps you can use these negative terms to educate your husband how others view him. It is not self-promotion. Rather it puts other people on notice that they are less than him, hence degrading. People will tolerate some bragging but not all the time. I don’t know where you live, but am shocked that he would post all these pictures online. Doesn’t he fear any crime due to his wealth ? Your husband should be some therapy to understand the impact of his poverty and why he acts the way he does. I am also from a very poor background and very successful. Yet not too many people know this as I appear to be “normal”. Whilst you have tolerated this for 6 years, he has to know that at some point - it may really result that you cannot stand him. Does he really want to lose you over this ? | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0R3JFZnByV2M3bWdUUFgzb1dFY2lwamJFWTU3eFVsdFNaLXd5X1l0czU4cFl5azV4M1ZqS0NoVjVDaGo0MExKUjRiSmpIUDE4REhudnhYVUpPdElraXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0SExBM3NURGRaOGF2VzdhVE5RVWktb3E4a1l0YzlHc3FnX3ZWUlVaVlRyZkg4UTIyWGpzcVBDVUV5TjhadDBLd3Z1N255M1YtX1VWYzNvZUFpWnlBMTdZeF9vWjE3ODR1R09vYTZRZ3I3bWJwU0duOV9TYi02cDM3YXNSSmpvT3g3ZDZITjNUQnRsUkZyNENnZTZ2ekpvTFJ1bDg1SkMtUWNicmcyaS1qRXdIZTQtdXFQYmNDR09kWHMzd2FpZTJ0NWhHcUdYWDFobUJRTjJIS1FhSnVaWVQ4NXdJamoxVVcxTVhHb1BwcmNPST0= |
Update please! | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0R2lPUmd1UFVmTGEyTUttLXQycHdQa3dOa0I1SVZTMFl1OWN4SHh3bVo3VUwzNDJIVF9ZYjZDWVdHaWNZTGg2NC01T1ZkYnIzX3F1eGNiODh0RnJGaFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UDZYYzdlNDA2ZGsxWWNpb3RRcVE4LWg4OEEtS1Y5RkR3VFBPb0RpSGRhZDcycUZfWkkyTF9pZlEzRm5iLVF3WFBjQW9Tc2F3MXdDTGFJZ0RtaEU5bzgwZ1k3S1JxaDZaNkZfMjB6d2lmSzJDd2FsVW81Yk5UWUN3eU14bm5zNUFOVVhzZThxYmhHem9ETjlQUE5zWGRYc2pMQmw3Z3hsdVNmRU04cEl5MFp3YnV5MzhWdXBqLWNlU3hqZzdNUV9HZ3hCQUpiN3JYdXlCRnFXaU9KQUVKeVd4bm9POEROQkZZb1hvMVBXYmZiZz0= |
yes! | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0SFNKWVhucjIxREVUYjBZOFB2VmJrWDN1ZG9wTUI3SFczWWRyZDdJWUlZRlo2YTljSlgtdzZvV3VXdE9ZY0RNWnRVSnEwRk9lUHNvWWkydm9JNnJoSWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0R2dUN3cxdUxyWkp1WDJGTUFKSXdEc0RXZVM2SkpoQmppV1pJUy1ST0M5OTNpbEllTVIyWEdzbTNTRGxHa1JJWkpPejJYd3kyVmR2MTBVdmtpaV9VaXhLWXZCYzFjZ1RYekV5WU0wclBpS0dGczJ0aGFSSTU5U1JMMm1UR1FBZnNyVzJRU1c3YUsySWdhaWdlMzdKMWd0RFFBUE1HcHk0S01qSGdUWklPYmVJTW9NWTNjSm5faUV3dzZMRVYxc0FGci1LRTJNMVNQRkdheTc1aGJGUVkwN2xCU2NQQWt2Y3lKdllHTWw5Q29xaz0= |
Thank him for showing you who he is before things got any more serious between you two, and leave him. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0dWIySHRRLWFKYmdnU1p0eTVnNnYtSEVYaGZLX054M1plSXhEcDFzcWstc2NXbmNocHc1dWJlX3ViRjNIcUljalYyeWdna1h6Ni1GRUFySGpWM045LWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Vm5lMGlnQmFWaWtyMTlkNU80Q0RGbEp6c1luVWN3SzFsSjdEaW43RW9FUXRJNVh1YmZUbkhQdEU3MG1peE8xSkNnS0l2aXN0dy1kenJBdE9fUjhPOGUzWHJlSTVtZ2FyNDA4LThaRXhIT3ZaSmVmaXVYTm9YMkRuLVVJODVLem1DWGYzQUJjT213YkkzUXJTNmY4ajBjNlFYSmNFblE5ZU0zUGtOTE0zUWRpUWFTbmE2N2hpdFdGOW5aWkxZMzZSdWpTU3VCbUQxcThZNG1FSjk1MGZIQXNxUDA0c2NITzhWNVptWjZ0eGk2Yz0= |
This man doesn’t like you.
He does have double standards. The standards are that he can do whatever he wants, and you can only do what he wants. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0NlRVQ0hfQmJvTUZrU3ljLWxOV3hFZXNscFRQaWFaQXhKODN2MzBZcGVIaW9DTHl3OGdTU1RjbU8yQzRwc3p2d1pTZkFJREJwWnlybks1RnpmbFZLMXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0a01JU3RzTjNaYmVPM2Q0QklHVGFBR0paOWg4c0JHZ3NaYk1pTGhNTWltT0piT1U4RUpMcVJCalZ6OF9GME5nUTZWVkhqcUxPZGdEdVBJRVlxa0s0SWFPMWhXbHk5OGh0djlmcmkxU01KZ2xEN1N2U0JuQlV4dVl4amZrd3p1cXp4YlpGZXNZU1hFSWpFTDBtQlUxbHZIdEtBSEJEQnhYNWlLV0JVNkdQMzZkczdCalNiOUxOenBTUUtWUWY4UWtnVmE4TkR3OTJMYkdpWU41RTZIOV9ELU5KdHAydlo0WmwyYUx0XzBBVXRXTT0= |
Easiest question of the day if this is even real. Yes, you break up and go no contact, he sucks as a partner and doesn’t respect you. Being alone is better than being in this. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0dXBFOVhQTmtsenRKRVYybXZfbkRPN2xVQ0ZhV3NIRzg3alhaS3NKNlRhRW5JdElDdjVaMWYwd0E2bUpaQjFUajJjZ0JRdjdpTGNyaElTNGtyRkRsaGNibG4wY293OEtCWVhWd2JXVHlSa0k9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bG9KaGsxYThnSUdMLXA0clcwNDktU1dSVUJtVTZ2dExCZ0tRTy1VTFVPb1o4WnZkZkE0S0otQTc3RFZzQy1XVThWeUc3OUxKdHkwSFhaUndCLU5CZkp1b2paY3hnbUl2Zm53cXV4RGxZNFJtbnBBVTNoVGpfUGxBTHdzUV9LWUZWREh0dnIyVzJaQXRSTjY4NndUUUpKZkFJYmpNSXc1VVAxVTVQUlJKeXNLV0RHd1ctYW0zUjRWTWtWSnlpaGdKa2d5Mm14ZUhuYjgtSHgtNGhZZXdsa2RmMUs5Xzk0UGNGcnVhYnRKOEVzMD0= |
Ditch that weak fool. If you aren't his priority now, you never will be. It would be one thing if you were just having a bad night and trying to get him to cancel on a long planned event for his friends birthday... but that's not what's going on here.
Ya'll fkked around and found out, and now he's bailing on you to go have fun with his friends while you are left to deal with the intense emotional and physical pain of terminating a pregnancy. Even knowing that this may be the right decision for you, it can still be very emotionally painful (I have been there, and I cried for months at Cheerios commercials afterward!?!) Not to mention that while medical abortions are generally safe, there is ALWAYS a risk that something could go wrong and you should be with someone who can get help if needed. That is HIS responsibility, no one else's. This guy is a loser if he can't set aside his disappointment over a missed night out to support and safeguard you. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0X3BlOXI4TUJaQmx1aThNR1hvMjFmNEQtRE5ubmpUTmVXODl3d2FiMW1tMnF1MEY0dUh4T0FJR01IcUtEOWx5cU9sd1N5NGR2NzFWQmUwcnNQdUdXSkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QV9UUVRGRnkxMEgtTUdScXNhcjFkaTFxZVdUWmdReklLNW04Vm1SR0gtd0d0NXNsYmItNmlrajd0QzJGc0k1dkduY0Z2MjNCODhFMlpUYlFncnhrdk9TMkYyVHpGTnZWWWFiWktaRkdMUjFoYmFCYmpWWTlEM0h4TDlud1o4VmlkR3dCNWR0Q2t2NlFGNDA1WkdYS1AxZ0k0VFl1dVZVeFByWHp6YmE0V0w3aWR3OVBMdGxleTFhRkVvNlR5TGhCVXR6OXE4aEZTMFFfaVkwREN1NGYwVUthV1Y1c1ZFU3U0Qi10cGpsdEJrMD0= |
I'm glad you're taking the internship. Whichever way this takes you know that most adolescent releationships end during college--doesnt' mean you don't love him, it's just a fact of life when you pursue your own direction seriously. Also, though I doubt you'll read this given all the other comments you've received, don't be swayed by his "no contact" games, they're all about control, too. No mature relationships should be about control, they should all be about having a great time together and wanting what's best for your partner without compromising your own values and goals. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0T3NGYWVKRE5saUpZLVpZNEJ3VEZxSDFZM3o5c0RPTDl4ZWZtQlR0Tjhzb3EtQVZ1bll2WEs3dHhscUxCR3VpVHdnQ3VWNjdfTzhKSzU4S2R6cnBUZ0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0RnFvLUk2dlFRSVJzZm5iMFBmVWFnNWJFY3FBYVhuRXlJWWxMcVoyR2lGMHBJVTExYzUyM3FGTWVSYlJUXzlMOE4yMTlZekJhTjh5Um82czNLRU5uWm1CdkdGTXhjc0ZiaVd4M0lRNFRiRFZiZnEtS0hiT2FQVUJ3XzJsRURRNEZSTVZJS1VRZGRiYnhocHZfRVJTeVc3UExta2JjTW5jcU1sU1NubmlpQWFheGtRbGs5X19DVlhRUmxCeUN1QVJvNzdwY1pMNEc4bWFURTFQTHBRay1PWUpuMTZVeGI0eUxSTmc1SThHY2ZUcz0= |
Does he even like you??? | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0TUdLampJdHpuU0xLbWlmVEN1WXlKd21oN0dWMU15WTNlRWtWbGNsdjVuekx6eXJBN0cxQlNGMEgzQ0Rjc2IyeUREOG85M18ta1FlQ2REdnNxVFlxanc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0a3NNMWtmeUcwZGxvSnh4QmlNcXFERlNXTlhDUXN6cmdnbkZ1SldsWUlCX3Z1alI4dlpxSFpKVlhiRHBRVjU5LTl5ZnRCVXM1VjN1RU1rUlpZNF9VWldGYTFDekQ3cXV5cHNNa3dGV1lLR1JwRWdXcGRzVUFQUUswc2VBVlBCWk9EZkZYV2xIcFpRNDdqcWRDamYzWkFfTVpiNVd4OVFXWUdsYWpHVUJUUlhzRVNkbXlnRVdSZHpiRDNEOFV6cDdIOExsTXRBM3MwUFcyYlZJRmdIcmVoY0xDRlNwbWY5ZXFCVVN1QnZxWlZDRT0= |
Definitely! I took her out to a nice dinner. She said that was something I might’ve done for any date. Always a gift from now on! | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0cnJtSW5feXVWdGYxeGdWYnhseXZ6ODF4emlTWmg0XzktN2w3YXVGWUkyMXJ0TUVaQUZDWVJMUHU4NWpfSFROWE53TDVPb25HR2RndklaS0FISVJMVHVLMk9OT2JtT3pDMmhmQ1ZFMllONVE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0eW50dG1qcXFEN1luSVlJcFRHUmFBMTEzbVNTaXpQRFJQa0hMY3o2cFZBemF6TnpfQ0x3dVkwYWJKOENPZ2xxUFFPNWNaNWhodk1TNDFFS1ZSQzBvc2VrOW5CMVZlU1YwTnFKMm5UMjQ4RVRuVmhuLUYwTjZyQ19kNlB5eFFPcjRmSFBrdGtTZ0Y0Nm84TU1QRmpjU3pPa0RVbXZLb1B3c2RGY2lkcWtZanU0ZlhmYlE5UFlOZFVWanhDcG5Bc0o3X3RGRFJjOGRSSExZcklnQWVIU2hsOFdkTk95TVdGLVJwbTNTM2NCNHNuND0= |
Hun, are you really confused about what you need to do in this “relationship”? | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0RTVTek1OcUR0WkNydVJtX0pNSEJlTkM1OUttZ0duODZZaFpHRkw2dWxLWEtuOHZ2eThHOUkwN3ZNbHRxemwyLVJya3pvTFZUWXpaOUZ0VTVqRHlWMUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Q0VCcXJ2cEVXazRFclQtWDUzbEQ2NHZNZG9KQTdFYThKUTBuclQ0RkdhNjg5U01KQnlRcjVuS3RfdXZGZV9qLUthUlJ6RV9DWW9IVHp4UG1TSUg3bFE2UmNzak5VMTE2MEFqZnJIcXdtZklwd1Q4djNvcmhGNlV2MTM2emhBWHBISFdVVXZNc09RR3A0eEhydGFfejEtSjhMQlhSVGN2S0NhZ2lhSHZUaWZLLVdBZTNEOEFBUTQxckVhSVBMZDdmeUdDVWt4X1Fmel9zUVh2TGR0YWc3WDAxSF8tWDdQMC1na25fQWFPcHNYUT0= |
She's being nice
If she were romantically interested she'd have let it be known by now
Don't screw up the apartment dynamics | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0RFZtQmJwNVdoYmFFakdDcmxxa29lX0ZnU0tGbkFLaUdYUUdRbU9PZm1tZUk1VHlnUmVydWhDNVNuZXpKcFFqSEJza0NISG1MRjBhd2ZTbUd1dFIzRnpIc1Byb3k5UmZJeWUtYmFjWlBjeFE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0aHdlYUFNdlJFcml4WUNuVVg1T2dYQnp1N05SV1R0dXUzVktSMmU3WWRqMTBfY1JqbGwzZTZncm9pd29WdkwxRzNvTFByTTJQUUNYUXJ3cnJKRWE2OHM1b1lWMjNxMDVoeGV2NlJZT0IyOWVkdE1CRFpnaTNFZXQ1Z00xbDdZN2RXc0p4MjQtRFAtaVB6WmtIdTMtVzBoWVRaeDJJS0VCaU0yQlBXTkMzWUhYZnBoNVNwT3Zfd2JscHNzcDdBNW9yTXNVTUNOUmszSlJ1NnFJa09DX3dseXdPaGdLUy1aTjdmSDhMQTdnSmFSRT0= |
My daughter went through a similar situation and wasn't transparent with me, as she knew what my reaction would have been... ultimately she did end up staying and now has my g baby... I love her too death, but hate the toxic, unsupportive, emotionally unavailable situation she remains in... if my daughter were connecting she'd tell you RUN NOW AND RUN FAST... I'm sending you love and light ... save you baby | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0RHpfdWJUZnU1UTdWNXg0OXJ6R0J4bnJ5MnFtWTZVVndfcTZSMWI1TEJmeTlkVVhHRjYyRk03N0RVTzlYTTJXalpTN091cEhvcUF6MWs0WEQ0VTVPNEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0MTI5SGhtcWFtcTFReVVyVDlTMHhaWV9QYTJMWWxKU3ZIbkgycEZBUjNHMGwxSFRhekFuZmxkMGhzSkFVRVNZYU91enRVeUlIS1AyUlBuaUNJVDNYNDNsb29ST0J1REdsTVFsUWxtNmRHdG0zekh3ckhqb2RoYkR5RlJzSDFQaWdhUGYtbTdyYXpOemZKbVpaMmZFRmhiSGlzMGRkTFRLaUVQRUdHTmhVU2xjQlY1SGZIbjA2ZHlnN3N0am5oZ0cyUkF1VHFNUVg2SDZxblVqT3FsU2dlTlNXQXRldDh3SnhXSUZzODFkWTZ3ST0= |
He did something unspeakable and you cheated on him because you wanted to. What relationship?? | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0cDZsSV9YcndIYjNyS1k1cS1pcXN3dHUzVnpEbEc0b1NCdWRZX0lTRlVLQXo3ZWJfQXRlRWRVOUw4Nko2aGJpWkoyU3B3NWFFMEZBTVRZZldpUkZjS3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0RTVDd3gwMC1MdnJwOVhiWHJCZWlCd29kZmhtOVRzMnh0cW1IZlZuX19qM2tfcUluOXEzN0JXbkVsRUg2QmgzeVJkMVg2WGtBX0NlRG5SeUllSUdhZVpzRzVPd0pEWDBJZGtGTmFadTlUcUdZaUlYTVhicm9pUWE3TERqc2NjTU5LMk1hRERuZ1lteTNNcjNSSTRpdnBHbHVIdWR2a1o3b1EwUmozMTR1MlU1R216SVZYY2huSjlkZHVUVHlmTjV2VEpTYzRjbkJYRnV2bnFMaUhNVzBOeVBSczlBZXFEcm9YUzhLeDFMbXJ2OD0= |
He's a grown man, fully capable of calling you an Uber and sending you home. Sex with you was NOT his only option! | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0OElfb2tRV1ItMWxMbHZ2VFRYRXZfQ3N4bXhEdWtMLVJoX3dMczdZaGh3NnpWYjR3VXlHNHlhOW5UQnhlN0NRV0pZYWFlaU1RMHB6Z3hkaUdTN25ibHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ZGVWQU1pUU1yMm90ZFdtRDJhOWQ5QnRXMi1uaWZWOGE1TU5lNndQUGY4enJkZUl4aVAxa0NXdEpWcXJYcEcyVEdJcWhyVmV4TFJpS2dOeEN2dEc5ZmEtMHZZTnNmeE94ZFBFcEozWEt1NVJ2MnZqUXZoV2pLelhNVHpJZ3hvT1pxQ1dtOVJOV09xd2FyWk5kdlVxZVJCVU0yTnJkVFoxT2ZzTjNtcGQ3ZEw3U19DN1kxWEZyLWVGeWNmZll6VGJ2SlU1Qk5NRGlGelFlRWNPLXVmS0JaSXh2V25SUVVGbWZ1TGxCVlBBQzdsST0= |
Quick piece of advice for situations like this:
LEAVE HIM LEAVE HIM LEAVE HIM PLEEEEASE | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0OGtfdmp2S0NtcGFxOWhrOWxmRWNmazFnd3gtdndndjJlc05YcEZFbmJ6ZjhZOTgzM1h5NFlhMVNkMVYtVWNLN0NTR2xkSXFLOUVPSHlQblZKd1owRGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0OFc2OXJ0LVptSm9meE5WNDJkQ3lUbDhWbTlxQUFUdnhxWTNQVUIyLTVJYXhpemhFcFJnUmlRTXRIZ19JRXhob2JsUHhyclFkdDZLZHJUS2VXRE02aEl3TXRyMHdBYU1TZzlIZURQZURfNlJOQ1VIcVZDcy1rcnhiWUx3ZmxBM2pBN2l0WlRyU0pLLUlzY3gxdm52RldhcW1pR2ZYSGFnUlBObE5nUjkzNDMweWVvdjZYX0Z4bTJBdndJYk9Cb1p4R1V1bXdKelF1aGtwN1E3UUFaV1hjNjhmZEd5cm9xM193VGFtZzhMOWs4RT0= |
Me and my husband talk about our rescue cat all the time. He’s obsessed with cats and I think they’re ok but I love him and I love that he loves the cat and now I also love the cat and am obsessed with it too lol it’s a shared interest bc it’s our pet.
Your partner should be able to listen and enthuse about your topics bc they are what defines you - the person they love. You deserve someone that loves you for who you are and all the topics that brings 💗 you sound like a lovely and interesting person. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QkVRelJhZzBqNnNQdXdSRE5pbi1KTmZoX0JRX0dxZFZOYXFEdnd2NUZkcEQyc1VlTGkwbTFCbkt1NW1Qa2N6NnU3T1lKN2FaLVIxczJtdXNac2hoU1ZxM1RtWWxiVVhOZW1NUl9Cc0RYREU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0clktOWhxYXU4MU8yRFBMRzBOLUdLSHlrckxwdDFqYlpWaEVIdTZNLUdteFNjRWlYNTd2QTh2WURpU0pIOTlqWVNHSm1uTHA2blFuQS1ZS2puUVloMXhNakVpeU9GeFZVejdzc0s0MWVmaGJVU3hMS0c4NmxxTEQ0RUw3Z1ZURXhJSkhLVE1KRFBLbHJmZVZpQ2FhbVNRWVVPSEpiSGt4RTlaV3FzeC1yMk9FLWJrTzEwYWxSRWYtQnU1a05xMXMtLXR2QnFQWG13MTVZaEVoaVZmTUQ3Z1laLWszSVJ0MHlEZTdubjREd1lzZz0= |
Realistically no one is using litecoin or bitcoin to any degree justifying a multi billion dollar market cap. | r/polkadot | comment | r/Polkadot | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0NmJzWEZ4cXVJanRZWE5uVV9ua0Q3aHFDRm42bGJ6RUhVSUl6NW5va1Vxb2VhQmE4RkRrTzlUcDIta2Zoa01QRHBSZWg1aWxnRnpFMVJMY2ZKaWZXeHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0YnpCQkhTWlFsYk1iZTRqUlZIVDUyRDRCX2xGNDVCYXdZbGZManNfOVpFaVFLMHZqei0xdkluY24wZXR3OW9lb1hpNVZZQkFlR1I5c3BTMkhQRExGdWFUU3pDWnBjcWo1aWRuRUxqdzZuMmQzVlBsRDRKZUdSQkhQMTlkcFZydTRaQ1A3QW1OQWY4bzdSWTBETDFlNVkwLWRWMnZwN0dtS00tYzcxRlFYYmtNdHZjdUlvcXRvWnhnMzdqME5ST01NVDRMOGpSVjU2VzViWmhqVi1FblYxQT09 |
I hope you asked him how would he feel if he saw you sexting another guy. Dump his ass | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ekNIVGZhaEI5NDc1OExuOENfX3IwcC1VMWRPZWRjQThVM3FXN0U0T1E4S0lMV2ZvU29Xb0JJdmZ2d1NNQ0ZWRW1OcFkwWjJ2ekU2LTRsZEloQU5xQWhidURSTEF3Y3VKaHNjR0V5R1pnTHc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0RUhUM1hHTVVDZG5fcURsN29hNzdPUEpmdE5IUTV2ZDZUZVFjOFdxTDNYX1Vac2Y5X3BuQjdPMUtTM0l5TzFSOFRWUEctYXE2YkNqWldLVC10ZDBMLV9TdmYzT1VRdUVpMjFaVGhmbXNSdm9ndHVUQnZEbnBRYTc1QWsxd1pINHJvY2pLdXphblZSUkdNWUdPLW9TN21hNk5ab2s0RWFhWFZTQmJIUDIyel85NWVqOGZqQlJZN1luQlF0SkIwZ1cxSl9jcDh2dHA4Y2dzZHBGbWRQalRLdXUtSnctZUNzUGVqU0Vqb0JseU9COD0= |
Lack of sleep can be a sign of mania and I think she needs a medical work up stat. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0cHVpRzhlZS1VOHlnc3d6N1k5MElfMGlhbTF1REkwOFR4b280NldpM0ZBTXdSMnJuSzFjVDJ1Z01iT1dOcGJYbmxVZWdmSW1sSGhDYnpqMzEybXJiNnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0cDlIOEFvQld2ZEFmLWVxeENydkFqRWRMN3M1ZHZfb3YzU0wxYWlPRHVmaEo0T3NlM0VDZFVzZGlmZ25hZ1lNbE55Nk9vSkt0RVVoYTFWZjEzckdGdEJFSjNadnB0eTVqR0RoYkpTaGVjREVZSHFnT1RpWWd5T2dpM2lqb2M4MXR0b21jNGRSdzZMVnU2Uzl0YzRoQk9YbzRjVVFhaUQtdEp3eGZlZWMwYURRdWlub3hJRk1lR1RSRl83MEZiR0NTbWlmejFlbmM1U0xCTzh1ZnFRZHpqN3NqUjhDM041QS1sWmo5amRFNHRDRT0= |
Your girlfriend seems really inconsiderate. Calling your partner names when you're angry is inconsiderate (at best) and not okay. Saying someone else was your best kiss when your boyfriend is right there is inconsiderate (at best). I am going to guess that his lack of consideration for you and others is why most of your friends and family don't like her.
A certain amount of obliviousness to the inner worlds of others is to be expected from children and young adults. But consideration for others is a skill one gets better at with practice and it sounds like she needs to do some practice.
I think you can do better and you are likely to be happier in a new relationship. That doesn't mean this one hasn't contributed beneficially to your life, just that it may have run its course. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0dllvWTN1VG5JQVhPak94eDdSNFpKTUY5dWltU0p1LU9JUHA0eHFlVVQ5cXZ4WlRyMFpIWFY0dktldGpodGxKanpOS19vcXlTWlBJMVZscE1qT2ZwNy1RUVhqVmh2QnBRSzZTME5rSlI4eU09 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0N190M09JWV93dmJNM2RIT0tMRHR1RTlCMnF5Und0cTdqWGZVd214RzJtemxHM3hDQjFwd1M5a3dmUlZ2dkNZSkhXY25qUEdDOWwxUGlhSXJ3S19fUFBBUkZOekoySmthTEVYNFZHSlZhOG1PSkx2Vl9TSzJCYTZraFZLdDdlb3M2c0FRQm9LMDZ0OU54YnRNVlkwbWFLelJ2MGpHOURCNXNnbzVTeU9fbFlDdDZoMDl1Q3ZDWVNjbmFYLWEyYVRiMWNuNnA0UWtLNEEzNkUyUXlXZXBmZjVfRWJpR0xJWWo2UklyMUlta2U1VT0= |
Absolutely bonkers to consider getting back with a cheater, they only use it as an excuse to cheat again! | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0U01mUDVHY1dXYk1nLTFNSHg3cjVrSU5MWmQ3b2h1STBFSUhFVkswMHViOEdlNkRJQzBGcEJ4c09zWDFmeXI3aENURDUyMS11RlRoNVZmSHd3akYta3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0VVluZzBranI3aWhjaTYyU3RBYkJveVcxSWVUNGFFc0RuQkswbEFTam1pZVFseEZvVHJZTElRX1k3WXRqS0JkRHlPOTFNLVJrODZ0MFNUX0EyNVJmN2pZVmZ5Y2IyWXluXzFScWZHeE9TcEtMRG9qX0w2dWpWU2E4Y1RpTXhYTm8tNDMxNkR0SnVKai1iMWpHX190S1Nza1NjOWd6Z2M5bkliNHd0VURJb1BMQnYwNUNiaFpRcTY1cVNRdEVfODN6RFE5aXdqQTFEdExkZnZKcDAtcjNVR09vN1hwTk83cEs2NzIzb21ONVhEdz0= |
Why would someone propose to someone he DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO? OP if a friend described this situation to you, what kind of advice would you give her? Think about this relationship long and hard. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ZkNsSkxOS3lpU3ZrWHZGSVBLRERSejJIc3FTU19ncXVjS0RjZ0FxU2d2UVNKT2FoQmtYamN6Rl80WnR0T1V4d3BOU0Fua01VcFVyQlB0OHdyRk4tcFp5MnNMOE5VRXI3Q3lMMW5ITkRpRlk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0OVk0Y18zb1BScDZkSTNESnl5cHpvZmxOaV9mQnNHMHRxTl9aenNnaUNSZmJraGIxVm5RaXk2eUtDUUtzbnVZNllVcFBXMFlQa3R1MFQ5aGxWZG9KU0dKUTBHTVltenJyTS1qUEFDXzNwS2V1Y1N5VzIzdXBFbG1tSll2azlBSUxHSjNtTjlaOXU1TFR3dzZTWGxPVXI2MVJ3QVdhdGRaZEczc2lUNWhQajB6N19kN2U4c251Slp3VVJ0UG93aDlUVllsc2VGeTdXM05GRHUwSi1wSG5uZTNvSEpjTkhJMVo5U0J4Q3BOdU8xVT0= |
He’s not a good partner at all. Dump him now or grow old feeling alone all the time. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0M2M5Z3Bfc0F4NXdhQXVkSEtRTzZQVGRJbVdweWFmSjU0NmJXSjRhNVBvTHZDamhxVkFkNS1nVWt1ZzVTMzlPZGFIeS1OOGtrY1FhZ2FrMGU1SExfMTI1bTlWYVhwOVRvYS1jbmNyS0xqR009 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0VHFFcWdoOWZhN1c5Wks5T2pWeGpSVHhGZWdSRFpKSlNFNmhMQnlURUtNdEFXd2RvSWwtTDdZVm9ISk8zUTQ1eVlabXprazlrMFFlM1AtcHIxVngtM0NaQjJKYkNNcHdWMl9NTVRaWVk5OVZ3aEpQS3k2OVplRDZKNzNFbThlc2JPeFI0dEk3RkN3SVVicWo2WmpSZmhxVTZsdjQ2TVlhZDFzeTB5MzdqMkxrdDJCOEhuMHd3YmZkWjZnMzZkcXZtWW1SM3c0ZVp1djhzb0w0WGRqTHNxQnB3YTgtWVRhcVJCWkRCUG5HYkM5VT0= |
Thank you. Things are getting better. I'm focusing on things I put off or gave less effort because I was so distracted and drained by that relationship.
I have faith that she can work on and put a stop to that behavior and mindset, and I hope she does. The substance abuse doesn't help, and I honestly think it's done permanent damage. I wish her the best. But neither I nor any other partner can get her there from where she is now.
Don't date someone who routinely does coke and carries a fifth of whiskey with them.
Thanks for the kind words and for listening. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0SUZWOW9jeWQtUnJ3VlRWa0Uxcmpzc0d5YU0wZzdBOENLTFZNd1o1OWpSYVJKcF9sa2F0c19VXzVpRHNPXzI5R3JOLXlJdVVUZFhhLWFISGdOeFVEYWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0RzZhN0tIcFBxT2tzdk5qS2hGbjFUNHhVc2dXdlJEaXB3RmhrWTBSaWhvVjVld0xibzVDNmJCbUQyZkxNMFJXMFU2dzRMaHl0YTdaYS1xWElQT0RBczVxaVlUUkltVlpUeUhHWGtTd3dseXNNQTBna1p3Znd3MWFaWXg5Z0lIcmVlekE4dUxZMWRUMmRCYkk3R2VJaG5DRjNyWGpkUjl4a2xmajBwQWp4WXRHbk5uenI0TllkdVJ4VW1EcVE5WFRGSDBxUm9iYUxRM0txclRjX3Mwc2VYckRNSTg5dl8wUXkzdnFST09naHJBST0= |
He’s still an adolescent boy, not a man. You’ve set the bar so low - you need to raise your standards and find a man who will put you first. Get rid of this one. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0NzNjbmtTTTZkMWFNdnFHN1BFel9xMzRPYWphRlZQQVNsWFlyaXczZVNpaHdnMXl6dENFQkJJYVFDcHUwRFc4TFRla0JrY0FIRUNlY0RyMVJYSHJEVVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Nng0NmUwd2tsQmFCanhSWGhlTkMzcG1zbXRQYzNFR0FqLXlEUV9TSThxUkdlNVppN1VyZ0RyTVh6bmhGcjk3RXdmd1BmR1VpNGxxcXFFRGstQXRVS0dWLUxNazlFUWJOaDRRVk1DNDZTZHZ6TExTYkd6eS03cnpDZk9zVHZ6eVBjZG9ZMS1jc3QteG45QXE1OUZnVmVsdTlSalZSY2h3NzJwZ1hDYmJxV0lHbzExdW50OUZhZ0I3cktZcDh5enc1VWhGWHFzUkM2QzNadmwxU0tLV18zYzEwZWFvbGFnZEtKclJ0eHo2VzlPUT0= |
He’s way too comfortable and he thinks you are going to cop his control and stay. Please give him the awakening of a lifetime and ditch his ass | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0TVNSY3BIaXFuSjBvMXpMZTlaazlINDMwNDEtOVhEUVgwT3dVc2laWkZwdWpZM0x2R2p4VFpmeHJTY1EtSG5WenVJQzBzd0F6Z2JvdWNRZlBsbDQ4b1pBbTRHMXJSazNQOUFBRG5TSVpMSzg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ZjZZbUZoM1pqaUZYbU9ja3FPampuUDJYM2F6dWFvYjBlLUZFYkZLRVplb25OdjlQam1raldOWndNc1RDc2xDcENpUVl6bUVEZmxJMjZQUXpSaFJJcXNBWGZtOHRHalNSVGRaZGVPNDFKX2xnSUI2SVdRRHgzZXBKQ3JlM3RMY2dyLWdtZHA0WURfTnh3U01JekVDN1lndzVaR0VVZHFDak56aml4QmZtUkNydGlRLW4xdFY5Y2VsblRtVmh5bzhjY3VsVDNpYTRJUEVWYktUcHpvcHZkNk1LaWFwUkVFbHE5MUFObzFpWWhLcz0= |
Girl, my boyfriend lets me yap at him about everything and anything. Even when he’s busy he will patiently listen to me yap away about planes, German history, plans for marriage, you name it. He encourages me to talk about anything and everything I want because he loves hearing what I have to say, and he feels like a safe space for me.
Your man is not only not a safe space, but it sounds like he doesn’t like you very much…sorry, but you deserve way better | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UmJTX2V2VFlOTzV1cDF3b2RoaFQ1X09HRFJ4V3FIM2Q3OXFfaWoxempSOER3OTJOUjJ1ejZGdE1tYVVaelp0aW1pbTh6UXMzYW8ybDBYM2FsS1lkNmVyYnVucllVRzl2Z3FYWGNkeEI5Rmc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0MkdFbGdqdFhmd1ZpWllSbzZkX21yd0FnVmJQVXJmVFozc2FHazhCTGgzME44VWhNZFhkY0k5S2RxNjFkWlFndWM5OGxqUjRPWjlsSVQ3ZWpOWTNQcFQ0dnJVdkV6QndnUDItMlFBNUdmeUl4TG5aNmJ3SnBCSGt5WXlHdktsOVEyZ3BvQnlXbWJZMTFWOHA1Mldfb1Vwa0N4dEZ6ZUlreTFKM0M4UGo2LWtvVTJldi00UmRJaG9GWjlOT2dDaUtpODFWcndSVkRjV3NEZXplYl9CTmRLTFFoMXdQRm4tZTdEcGpXQlVrcDRBST0= |
He’s toxic. He’s cheated and he’s worried you’re cheating. Sooo he’s probably still cheating. This is a major crossroad. You have a huge opportunity. Don’t blow it. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ZTdUU2I2cmFsbWpsbnJ2U09CRF9RTzJvWTdabHB2R2psbEFWZnBVSFJOSHNWMm5fd0J5U1I3ci1ocE5JbFdmcXctV2RhbFBOdUhFVUVlR0Vnd2pDWmt5eFdLWG9OZVZuS2RxQ0oyOXIyakU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Z3FrNWF4WGZPSFJWWV9LUG5ka05OYUxUeUZvVG1mQmJNZ3NLOXJqc3E3QzlxWVpYc0dOM1p0eUo2c081SXA2aUkwc1NLbzJvNl93ZnhEVTY5YS0zUFJSTzZBWmc3RjQ3NWFPT1Q0Z1E0MVpfWjFfU0VCZUthTGVINUZvZUhBTXlmQ3ZuVXp2eGFXM2RfOGh4cXpYc3hQU1dPX1lVS1dta2IybzlURk1ZNUs2X0VfUTNHUm11T2pUOWpGbWRqOWJKSzFvRWtnQlpFOXJ5dGJTZkdyU2NJZHRRX2VjeXBmNE9PemdxWjQxalVCST0= |
OP, I didn’t think you sounded boring for even one second. But I think your boyfriend hates you. If he said he can’t stand the sound of your voice….please leave this man. You were right when you said it’s a double standard. And I guarantee, he’s going to add more and more topics to the list until there’s nothing you can say.
If one of your friends was being treated this way, what would your advice be?
Get away from this person. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0VnlXNDFPRVZ1OVlaUV9mX01BbDdFc3hRTWhKTVV6Z2VSM3hlQjRSTngwakx2V2ZaVEk1MUJzTzFlSWNIT1FCWGo0WVgxNldNdjRRMThGZU1KZlVhLWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ZEs1Rk9HLU51MzN5WDJISUlQQ24zSlhJdFlvTXZaOGxRako0RTlBOEczVzlRbWM5Si0yMmNUekJqVEktTHdZeDhhcFpRTmtVZ25jOXhCUlkxRUtxUjJYcTFDVmFVWkFLU01HY04wc2xjQ1RKOUpKRG9zT2xPbXpUeTF5WF8ySVBlVVZ1YW5RSi01MEF6ZmxybzVrbm1HVk03bWNHLU9LOTk0YnVYX2FQb2JSTHJQN3k4ZTRiUE9HVHdqQjNKVlBaRGtReUxpZ0FPT05VUUY4V1JDOFRlUHJxWTZ4bVFNNHRJSDRqR0VOWTBKOD0= |
He is a huge AH. You need a new boyfriend as this guy cares only about having fun with his friends. If you can muster any respect for yourself, you need to make him an ex asap. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0U2NKSDh3WjFaUGVWVlVaQ2xqbXdXelZVTUlYSWkwdENFRnhRMEZEeUdRdW5BdEQ1UUpWczNWQWtyVlhQVWlHYXh1UXBWUU9IajJNVndub2FCLWdJRVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0cjNqSHVFVzNndU8yaFdvWTFrOU1VbC1QMjVDOC14aVkxNEZuR1ROa3U2dkNvcDRFdktHWWQ2MEM4NVhMWk9vc0g0emFhQVVvTElzd3B0dkhBTm4tTnZCX2NucjdlbFVXa0lMS2NBaUVxY1hyS2hVODU4bzFEQm1MLVZMY3RoS2JqWGMwdm5IZWkwb1dTNVFRNk84MzlpNmpEeVk4WG1XUXdiY3N3NDMzeFU3bWFLN25iM0ZYTDZNTlVuSXlGVVJZb19meU1YTEoyN0VUNm95eTU3S2hId2pVUTlqa2NvM0ZPcmdMT044MGlOQT0= |
>I had an IUD and ended up pregnant. No BC 100%.
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I’m not American, but nice try | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ZTVTN2RvZlFaU3VBNW9zdFVoRFI3VE5GWFNyMl95MFRBN3gzV3FHWVJPTUxyZF9WajhqM2VpSHR4M1ZURVBwYlNMN1JxS2h4VDFOZWJvRnVQVUFFV3I3X0ppbUFhcmZ2LUpMamVKUThiME09 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0NENiLUZCUWFrRVB6VHdUTXBkQzNUcEhUSV9JQmNfRjdsdG1KMHFZdWVkWGVyMFJHXzZYVkx1SnNKZGV6UC1qa0EwZEp0YUV6Q1J4NkN0V3VmX0JKdnpWNlc1LW9iQ0RpZUY0TUNNVVc4Q2h0dzFxZ1VPRVhsblZONVk2a0tlLWp6NFQyczFXa1g4MGxwcm1SeU84TTdrTXhjQmJlQjB6eG1DUl9uSDNmS05PZUc4enV3NFM2VC1INmszMGdzV1NDRElCYjJ2QVlhZTUzVUlLLWh0TURpalU1ZS1KQlk4NmhYYkNVZ1U5OVVZST0= |
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Op you don't sound boring. You sound awesome and like I'd love to be your friend. You have a complex job? Hobbies? Niche subjects you like to research? These are all spectacular things. Please don't marry this man. He doesn't even *like* you!
I promise, there's someone out there that will be *engrossed* when you talk. That will ask you questions about what you're saying. My husband loves video games, he likes to tell me all about whichever complicated game he's playing this month. And I don't give a single shit about them, but I love to sit with him while he plays and ask him about what's going on. It's not faking it either, he genuinely brings me into it because he's into it, and we're so in tune it rubs off. Yours is out there too. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0NWRFSVhPei1QU1duVnd2aXlIR0tyRGZsb1VpTU4wdzhIYm5FZ3hmVHBUdXYwOThfZFUzVTBrSVAyX3NmS3g1UjVsZHRYTDBOOW9jdEZUcUpjY3dNVkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0dGNTblVyeHpZNDY0RHZ4M3pJYjdqSFFzYnZUQ1ZPcFA5Qko4aE45bWZONXpZX09lNFJFRUF0aXRUTUpMS19vRThqVlpBRHI2Q1Z6TU9oLXNmay1QRFFDVHlrLXE0ZUM3blVodzlzbGhwSHMxOEcwOTNJaHltenZiTmUtVFBBcUdNQmVIcl9tb1pyeVk1QURfbkstVlJHSVp6ZEFNbVFZUlR2MWhvcnIwNElwSEluc0JLV2RLQldOemtFU3dQMTAxLXl2c1R0VFFQZzRCSG41cVZFMjRvT0NhZkFZS0hnalMyb2ZleE1INGYwOD0= |
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i said, If you unstake now, you'll probably die 28 Days Later. | r/polkadot | comment | r/Polkadot | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0eFJrZVVtYzRkT0JhOEplMGRYc0dWUXR3cmowaXFXWG5VUlRXLXlrcGRDaC1KRmpzcExHM29IbEF4b3ptdnlLOE82TnZPZEdHa3AwZHdhRkRJZVZOQWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0YUpqWVVBYWIwS1hXRzdDZmc5bmFkaVgzWVZGWFVmLXptTUxoU2htU3FjanJnTnl2aWVEVjNBR05BUmd6MEtqR1k2U3ZJRmIzall5VXdDcUZkbEtZdl9XVUtabGNrTEtmSnA1czh3THJkUmlESG5kRXc2TjNrS3d1UzQtOUhSS1Z6RmJ1Q1Mxc0NJSlpMcHVUYjNzNW5jN0NtdzlrYmVJUW90NHc1VjNXVUJ5SUN2UDh2RzA4RzF3VmxuX2Q5YmxY |
Red fucking flags…. Break up asap | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0TS1UNnUwLWs1U2FmQUd4QXZrdV8yMnlWRnJiYllKN3U2TVI3YUFFRzhnV1Y5cUJVVVhaVkk0aVhwYXZJakJrNzhxUXVQcFZfc2QwZGI2MlZMczZQaUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0akJfeENNMnluVUlnY0NtRVFCWlhzVWtyU0pXVjJqVG5fU0Z3V2Q5UmxDVTlwMVljNk1HOXlVd2tsMkRia182TEgzTDVwektNNmIwOHN4c2ZLejZSWjcxV0xBZHVCaWRiLXliTWFDd3dUSmp4ODhuUmNHYkxkNWNQLUM4Wmp0VWZRWk1lT0NSc1RwU1lNZWFhNkg0WGRRZ0FCODN4YTNVOHhka3FGRWtzSXZrVTk0YnJHdUU0Y1JHelhZMWhsdzlUSTNiWURUWklza3VJcnZxQVc1ZmljbGFScVAtblV5c01iYkpOUWVhM0ZvZz0= |
Girl dump that guy. He’s only thinking of himself. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QWxLY19TMk9KUnpIRG5abXdrbUlkcHhFUWJrejU2WTF0OUZnZWxLS1V3cGV0bTJzNjdicGE3VzN5MlJ5UVVMdUZ0c3ZQR3lSbkpKY0tnZ09tWXlmX2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UnZoU1VkNmpQd2JzWGtoOEViZ2dFY0EzbnZmajMtREJINGFUTWp2OGhjT1dHMWNJVzB1M1IyY3dERE5NMVpJQUsxaERRUzlFYUdtYmJJSndFVW9MQzhDS01Hdm9UZThIMDZtOVBDNXpXYXlraTFhcnllNG55Sk9nMUY0YzVmZ1JyVmNrTVhUWHVJMnZWSlp4UlozS1diMEhYWm5GSTUwYWF6SkhoeXU4WFNSMjdEZzVHeVZBdkd2QzR3Nl9lRnA1M1VfOXRFOHNWNnJvLXJxb1lPZE02eW5FcTUwRnMtRkRFM25QaGR2d1ltST0= |
No, it’s not.
“Please don’t talk about this thing.” Can be a valid boundary, but when you’re starting to need a list to keep track and the “things” start to become your whole life, that’s a whole bucket of red flags.
Additionally, while this is harder to gauge, I usually see those limits with things that are intense. My house has no diet conversation due to eating disorders and illnesses, not like…don’t talk about your existence. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bmF0TFJ2azhEcjhlN2RHcnZqamFLZzVwQjRNRzJYbUttLTJiME1zd0V0dUItUFNPRjBVLVp4aC1sZWlsb3h5eW5CUWFMNDF0Y09nTWR3V3g5UUhGS1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UE42Q1o1U2ZDUWs3aGdTTmFMV2dlTkpQa0ZKY2lYaUdkRU1jLXQwT3FIcmMwR1pkX3lVZ3o2cjBaOExCODd2UTlvVmI4d096bTJVeVNIV2JKLUoxNGVMQVJ1VGNhVEFYbTItdjBFa1diUGxpRUtuV2lyWHJiUkREUWs4Q1lzcFIxWnl1bVd1a1k1TzU5dG9MVmV1a2lRUjNCZVh5b0lJV0Y5cDRUcW43dThkWmhYZ0VVV3JfblM2S2lLSWR5aEZIN2dFNnZ5V3dNTHlOakVPaTgxd0FSX2NqMnpXWTFwMEhMalhWZGlkN0hXYz0= |
Sounds like he needs to grow up in my opinion. I would never be with someone who isn't emotionally there for you. To me that is a red flag. He should be the one supporting you not playing games on playstation. Also he can see his friends anytime but it is more important he is there for you in times of need especially when you are struggling emotionally.
Should you dump him?
Absolutely! | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0VERJWHNmLU1LRE5qUXFFVFdCXzhJUkd1eFhmdzY1WEROS21fdW5IdzlsRXFEakZRVDVkblI3Y3lRRERxbW9WRHhHRjR3QUpheHdYNVJraEU5elhKVUhMa2pLNFlUYjQ5SHN5STRaYlFlM0E9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0b0ZpNXRHUWo5UlJpWXRUOGFLX0tDQU53WkVCcWpOVkJwTXZwRXo2U1cwUDFTUVNqQUZTNFI5T2I1akI5U1k2VnBBT3dTM1Mtck01RXI3YXoxbm9QcVI4aDMzQVRuX3hkSndpcTg1LWVhODhYWVVQTFlSc2lFdDNnY2RJelI3cjZmZlY3RGhWbU54MDdoZWljc3dOQlZZemVFN0tnTjd3MWJlMHlMeFAzOGFFOXloX3Q5dWhtM0t0eVFYOWdKak1OT0xIX05ibjZ2TV8tU0ZHX0J0VXZDVko4VFg0ek9YR3cxdXFrNk9Xcmg4dz0= |
Reading this makes me feel very sad for you. You deserve to be treated better than this. There's nothing wrong with talking to your cats, but it shouldn't be because your man doesn't want you to talk to him.
One of the main reasons my man and I have been together for almost 25 years, is because we never run out of things to talk about. We enjoy seeing how excited the other gets about things that interest them. No topic is off limits.
I know way more than I ever thought I would about truck motors and car stereos. And I would lay money that my man never thought he'd know what a prairie point is on a quilt, or how frustrating they are to make. Yet he was willing to listen to me talk about the process of learning how to make them. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0cmMzQUFicVphYUR0UHBadzF1UTFKVWZfMUhVQnZnV3lIVEkwZ1ZSZC1UaTNaX1ZsTFd0RmNtSFZVWnh4YmdLRWtnQjJFTEdKaVlmemhxQkQzN2d1LXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0dVBLWVE2dldaNVR6TzNLMmMtWDJfckRjaGxRbEFWYWFVbENMVnNRdWVxeEh1SFJRZUFDdFFfV1dYc0JCdWpiOERENkNHei1sS1ZqU1hXVWdDLU13aXUtcGNZcVItZzBiUE1pdXo3SDhtZzdYTXV2U3h4U0FsVHVWdnR4bjlvcDB1a0FXUXpJX0FLRGhLUGItWGhjVlM2Y3dleGlsSEM0VHhtUExISVdPdlJMdGppSEhwR1RQY0pTZVN2VzA3dy11VmhTVkFqblJoRFpkSXhNeUNfU3ZpT0tLSlRDU2N0NGJoeGplVkdNWF9obz0= |
I wouldn't feel guilty about it.
Family comes first. I will die on that hill. Finding a relationship that fits into that is where I place my money.
You put in enough effort into seeing his family to know you're making an honest attempt.
If you were someone who went "I spend every weekend with my family, but I haven't seen yours in 3 months" then I would a bone to pick.
Your family is your family. Of course you're going to want to see them. You put plenty enough effort into seeing his to know there should be nothing to feel guilty about here.
As well, your partners attendance doesn't have to be mandatory. You can go see your family. He can go see his. Not every event demands the attendance of the other. Its okay to do things without each-other on occasion.
Do you feel this way out of personal thoughts or has your BF actually commented on this? | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0d1dqd0lJem83LTNmUUxpTnlUQjJqRXBQSkdxNHpueWQ3ZHpKZmJ6S1BULXB3R0FNcXMxZTRESG9TbzVCWHU2R2xEZjlKdUVQNWJDZkVpeU5UVENicnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0SlZQV252V2p0SWdjb1JIT1NoRjE5bW9WbGd3NWVYWWhXeUtWQXZxdDRpUDlWci1oTFhpNkFheWk2Z2R2anNKbzBwbm5DMmhGeTVSdFI3MmtxSTBQWTFVcC1EVnpVWU1tSnN6dU80bHhHUzloc3ozOXhONTZiVHZSWHY2UldGSjJhcC1xNjg3VXNLOWJ5cnNHN2RqOWl4OVpRV0JuNmpFX3hmenlUMVVzQzlEY0NDVXkwczdUVzBUbDFCSDg5OFVYY05fRVZtWFpiYmFzTkVRMVNFcW9KOU1oaGFCalVsbWRwX09kUHRscnJtYz0= |
If this is true ( have to say as more and more of these posts seem like AI or karma farming bs) then it's absolutely cheating. Dunno why you need to ask tbh | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ZmVWNTNXQ3lmdV9XblBHc29GYnlYekk5c1pleHdwMGtPMFpaX1VFSjZEcldoLTRBVHFzU29ZNS1aaXEzdXhySExnNnVhT1hQakhtYktCbzRxbVlZX1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bWlYVUFGaWFucWN1aVZqOExFM1NNWGpiUkJVUHlCMFkyUi1HTy1sZEhWNGU3dHExMkFnTl9TZUdkNU9GT3RpSEtBYnZQMV83VHdzMFloQk56WjlUUFAtS2FiamNqQktiSFlhNnFDTUQ3WTE5SFg5dzZjUmE2ejlBemEtaXF1MzRVRUYtMklVVTI3bzItN3VMRjFMOUhRcThEWnhzZWdlak4xbHZfLUZUNlJoYmZwb2stbmZsMVlSXzNwQ2RfeFVXYmNmcVpIV2EwVENGSlc5ejFpb2RuLWx4RUFPN3NTM2swTkhNWXo1RjVXST0= |
But I don’t understand she said she needed time I doubt I’m that she was into me she was probably just being nice. I don’t know and it’s killing me. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0T0ZUQW9JLXV4aVpyMGpGU3Q1ZEp4MC15SXJqb25TSDRqa0NxcWVoN193cVBQdms1MWEzU2JfTE41d0J1blEzdWtNZ3haN2R1aDhSSHR5OVJ2cmliSlYxVmFFSkE3cjFrNzFqb1NsODFyMG89 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0ZGVrZ28zYlZuUlFvbTBoNTFmWTA1LUtadHNXbDNiWFRQX2lfT0owZ0tCdHlwSDV2WVBmVlhaZkhnTE1FRUdHcFJwN2FWajlTZUpyRnJZT0JrdTZuVDZXWS1DRXRsdXJZcThaYjU0aDJWTURQaWtaclhNWkNDOWFRUjVuRkJnY3J6LTVZWU5BRWtmVk56bjRkcV90ajJieEFYQU43R19iV09KeGxHdnJKdjVrZmdVQnp2c1FfNTY2dHZMVkQyTkJBUTd2MFpyVElwa0g0Q1RXMlJUWHgtOXdsNnh6U2VSZjBoMHBJbl9LS0pwYz0= |
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Please just leave this horrible person. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0NlJsdmJzT0RRdzRidlhNeF96cXdReTduUEhUSFpNSWZFN0xwTHV1eUxIb0dCU1NRZ2c1UU9RUlJBVFkxelFFWmxsSVR5Z1VpTmtOdFZRdmRLQ1ZzMFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0V3RVS25vSjNSVGVtT19XQTNUd1I0RkxNRVR0eWJJU2hMZnkxR1RJajZ0ZUF3MkdUOGdLRUxuUVhWMVBFTk1HaXQxRFZnT1ZiZ2VDTnNVREM0ODhPWG42N2ZfLWZJZmQ4T24tV1hPcDFHUlB5eUh2RnFSTnhOcUxtdktWVmRFNGUxN3F0Tm5wWjlfUmUteFozM1ZRemF0VWZwSkpvR2ZBZ096TmRuNlNjMzZQdzJuZjJRWmZKWVdpcG9ua0lKbzVWOHJrYkQ3NGlvU01OY04zT0pDSDE0ZF8tZ292Zm5tMzc1MFhLdDNvZEkyOD0= |
Dump him. He’s drinking underage, can’t be a supportive bf when you’re going through a horrible medical crisis, he’s clearly not mature enough to make adult decisions. He’s only bringing you down and he can’t think past his down under bits. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0RWpGM3p6Y0thTU9RWlZ2U2Y4YnJoX3RUTi1JMlhqYUVndzltUWlRdWtGanpIb28yS0wzV2t6LTFBTER4eWJrZ01WTzZlN2hqZ3kwbzIwTzhBc3VCX1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0eHBMd1ZoczdGTDJ0X1F4WDlqX0lqTUdyWGlBLUNVSXdRMnVSM3VyVmRiUGJRU05qNzZ2MFhfcmtOSFVELTU2WjZvQ2pPNDRuNkFDRHdRdHh2NjBSZFBiX2RBd2hkcE9NdGVva3FJc3FubjhUTlVsRHNfOW1xc2ZsY0wzUHVmYnU3d2taYXZrdW5OZ3pRSGt1TmdNN2RCSWxCaFdiRG83MlI3Z2xMUzVjUDZhTUZZM2psNFBxT1lCNm1teWpYdVBXNVc4bjVHVWZ1MHpMMzNzV3EtUnl2UEFOTjhxanRhaUhlbFptSEw4ckNUcz0= |
Sounds a lot like my Ex. Heavy on the ex part. | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0TGVxbWltVWVMX3I1YnkteUlGTVNrS0xnM2lRYWtrVEVKcUFROHYxMFRFTnlYcjBaTjI3cDZKQTBhT2NCTzdRSTk1RG5aS01DTm5WRG1RUlRTdEtsZEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Uk5MR09PQjBqeUw5aG5BdmJsVUU5RnlKdnVuYWF6Y3hvTlNqNTllQVc1NURSc3RxdDNyaGpmc3oybWZIQThOUGxNSEFteE5UNmpIQ3J0QmRrN0lXVFp0ZUFjR2drMnROOHhycFV4ZTdUQldQQzZ2MmVOSjlrQ0RSVC10eEVaNU1Ib3VpM2xKLXZ6eGpYUTJ3MkZRTVJCa2lOZXhESHNCa29wbXppQWJ6VmV3ZU5Yd2FLRENVa2I4aE9WN0RRNWdhLTJ0c0VvMG0zOWtRV3Y5MDZ3ZUx4Y1B4c2dja0RnbmNMZ3lyWi1JUVNqdz0= |
I agree shes probably being nice, but your second sentence isn’t necessarily true. Why? Exactly as you stated,if theoretically she did have romantic feelings and let it be known… it would “screw up the apartment dynamics.” | r/relationship_advice | comment | r/relationship_advice | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Nks2b215VS00TGwtV3pSMUstNXhXWDNoYU5XREtVM1RXa1ZWM3JIeGlFSklabVMtclNfaVdialN0MlNicmptT0lCZUNqck9vQzBsWVZSNlVYOFBVaUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UWw1TW14WnMybzVFSHoyalFQeVlYeHF2V0VWRDVUaEY3SlVLbUVLSFpUWjhwdlF5dWl4LWRPMkx2UnNrSXRoQnpCMlJXSnJmQXRNQl9qU1BVYldqYTZDTUVqS1oyd1NiT3FNTS1KaWxqTDdwR3RwQ184VDZKVlM2eWtFZ0IxNmtaeHYyQ29RekdJR3NjUmliMDZxZnJwRm5lYllYY3podjdmbjBUNlhiM1FneUI3dG1xc2N3NnhheklOeVM1TExhWHJvd09BRXJPc1ItSnRQdEwwYnNEYjZlSUJGcDZYbDFOY3ByQkZWSTl0RT0= |
It really is an exciting time for diversification in crypto portfolios! | r/cryptomarkets | comment | r/CryptoMarkets | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0VXBYb0xBdUpuNUxxQkZpdGVvemZZS2xTaWNFMWt3dDNGS0I4VFZQd2RuODhkSHYycnI5VVhyenRKX0hTaEJPQnRhSEE0aGVLRGdldUhhSmhBZWZKOXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0M3V4dklURW1nS3BST29GQWlvUUxLYnQ2WElXai1aM1N1X2swaHVLcnM3eGk1Y25PU1lpaWk3VGFlTE9odnBTRkVPQTlsOFNYN0UtUHJTUUdhUVB0YWlWQTZDaVlVUU1hRTE1NktzVy1VaGVKTnhEeVVvcnBPckxpNGFjck91VkR3elYzeE5sRzNPci1mbzVCd2J1UWFwRFkycEl1bmxPWk1nRWJiN284OXp6YmxTN09LVjFWTl91em4zVXdBc3JQSnltTGxwZGlRZ05vQWJGOEVSU3AtRGxaTTU2UzQybEFJdURwVS1sUWhJaz0= |
Pepe Unchained is supported within the best wallet app, so im sure they wouldn't promote a scam and risk being sued by people who use it | r/solana | comment | r/solana | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0V3ctRXM1MFZ0ZFQwVnRvT1ZkMUtsN0tLVU92QXMyZVBsZTBhTFVvYkdyMVhPcTRGajdyLW0wSDFwT0xRWDlTRnJDb3RwUHZ3QlByT1ZBblFfdnZXSzhUVU5mZEtnUTZmUlEwMmwwTWpVZ2c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0QlpQcW9mZC1uLW1ZWmpYWGxJal9Sa2xOUkhzWTlMeHBub3NMVjZYXzdqQUZFM1l0aTJ3eE9rWkF5eXF2aG1EVHpRdUpPcTJKOGZoWm84bVdNTkN0YlNnSGtodTZ5MlpGcVI4ajR0N2lGSUpCX3p5VUtFR0VxYzg3TTk4NHhsUjZLZS1uQ3c3SGN0U3BJd0c5RmVjMm9wNGZFTzR5YVNyWVNTcWVJVUVjWUJxQXB5VWJyZ29KbnFEUDdTTE83Y3g0dVFjekJSUGVoYXZZUDh0cjYyMHdGQT09 |
>Remember all time highs happened during the Trump presidency my friend.
The all-time high was earlier this year. UNDER BIDEN. | r/cryptomarkets | comment | r/CryptoMarkets | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0NWRRYjY4QXBKa2VPd0M1ZnJhSmhmSXh2UThTSWJTUGplU2NNcEZVNzhick9pLWlUWU9HbC13VWxTUm1jUVdfcUl1RTNNTFZwcFpaV0gzeFdaTzBaRXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0NXh4ZldaRFRYT1JuMDhrN2dyaEQxUUNfN1BuT09hanQ3THNYSDhtNDRFMjdmY3Q1V0tkOUdjM2VfU1k3N3pFWXZTbWZtSWgwaWtDSi12N2lCVk8xMlh4V192OHRQNXdhVHA1cGFBMzJPVUJ0VEMzRVNEanplanNWUGxEVXI4Ny1TTDNqaHdWMnZRMHZtUW1iZTJXMF92eDNIeE1ONUw3V0pWaVYxNHZxaG85TXY1MHl2dmlkUzZtMjZ5RzhiOU1VZ2RXMDBveWN6a0xrNmFIOGxuZlVnZz09 |
Did you get that number from my post yesterday by chance? That’s 87 million dollars for all treasury spending for the first half of 2024. It’s for everything. Not just marketing. Or is there some new info that I’m missing?
Edit: our spending is on the high side if considering our marketcap. That much is true. | r/polkadot | comment | r/Polkadot | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0anNWOHpMSlJDa3NlbDRwWFZ3MndNNVR5MGI4R3FzMHRKbVJtRE5OTV9McXdiTUhOcUpmUHNXdk0tWWVJenNITklDd3A2TnV5blpSLXd1ZEdpUEZMQlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Uy1yWkxhMUhDaXJyS0dYUlFUSDBTcEtIZzVNbzZSQkd1dlpRQmo2aU5pWmY4aTZPUlNfOWF3eGtZRTVxd09NRnhtVVBDcF9nZ0ZORzJZSDZvY09WbEhYZkhpNWpZOWlDcS12RjFzX0JNVWswY0M0M3Q0aFlfZ2JRSlo1OGhhWHVuRmRhZUtUN01OdGxjMWFNZTNYNXcxTTNIeVhkZWo2b1AtaTZxd0VLSUx0bjV4VnUxX055dFNzRHlfN3lEY0Z0dmF6T08xNWJBbTYyU0lFMFFnSGFpQT09 |
Since when the daily has been posted so early 🤔 | r/ethtrader | comment | r/ethtrader | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0WFVQVEhYclhsZkxMV0RvRHFkS0s1X3lEaGwzQ3V0eWdsX3V2YzBUNVhWRldMbFlYOU9uZ255VC1rSnB6c0t5a1pZUS1RZWYzSFliZHVmYU5GRVBpVWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0X0xWbzdQMW42TllMZFVGOF84U0RtLVpYRlFqTUlYR1ZjYXFqeWhDeE5fVzJXa2NMQ2F5d0NpYlVObUxZUE5pVnRnVTZvRHhSSlNRRXZIanFRZXV3LWtYQm1XYTI3NEgtVkl2c3JZby1XRUM3LVZLcjk0eHZDdUQxNE44NmFJb0NUREdRLWN3a2tUb3M0bnFTVVRDdWVzSjgzQ0NQR2QzMVR3R1hQUDhabVljTGhFemdydlBDSnVDbW5fajl1aXlwMDhITlFvU1JlcHJSRWViTGxveWE4Zz09 |
Yeah this is going to end well | r/solana | comment | r/solana | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0YWJDMTJXeW5ZelBhaDg0TUNTRFN5c3Y4enRPSm5PU2h2NzNJR0xyRFl5MGdnRG5lSWV3YnJjUFlxTXZTTlE0cDNfNk5QcF9SNWJxUTJnOFhOWHgxWlFoYmRhejl6cDhUbTQ5SDh6NENvb2c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0TnV2UVRaTlFtOVRuckptazJJd19IRmVNc05sRFllQ0YtVTlNUnF6RkswNENHNFpNVm5HbHdUY052dkN1S3J1dGR4Qm5peEphQUVZUDZDTl9GRkxtbHI4bWxXTDlDMGxTTUJwaFR6Wnh4cEtheGE2d252SkIwcXFZelhCZUU0ajdqeUdmdlJBTHI4TDg0ZTZiTDdCdzUzN3RDRlpsajhxSFdDNU5DMnJaWm9JTzRMZnhFZ0dqOUo1ZTVfYUp4aThUaklDc0Jhb1BCR2ZuZkhUc1dVY0NKdz09 |
Give me one interesting thing about Donut token. | r/ethtrader | comment | r/ethtrader | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0eUxoZVR4UlZnOGNXYjFGQlJDbldmZHJMcUVkeDRXdmQyYWREVUtlQnI5X0doWlN2UW4wcUNuLUtTWWRFVFcyYlQ1X2tIdVhFTDl1Y3BscEt4VFI5dGtGVVhQcy0xdGNRX0ZfR2hEVm9qdEk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0Q0Q1NUZtR2k4S2pONHFzeU8xYXU3MDRqTVBpWmExYUZxbkVSSnJlbFI3VnBBSXFLZlFNSnpKNnBYMC1pcWlfaURzZzBkUVoxbkszLVZxR1lmVjd0YVh6Mnd2QXZ4d3dKVHM2U3NtUjNrYWNMX1d5dzBWU2ctNmo0LUFJTHBtOWdCQkMyRmhEc3dSM2VWZGJka0E0VTRwcWx1eUhpaVItZFp5akZzbEhtUFhVM0hLUTRHbVliMkhxU2N0bWRtb0IzREFMTHhDM0RXTWZuMy04U3ZHLUFKZz09 |
I found out about Pepe unchained from chatgpt as one of the most likely to have a spike in price | r/solana | comment | r/solana | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0UUhQRGNtb1djeF9OYnlhWmY2VjNvMzBqSHFEYk1vVEhRTk9iSjNaZEVHeHlZbXB6ck1RRHpMa3ZodG13QTI5cGxLMlU5WnJqU2laSmQyaUhzaGFGTGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bnZ0STVaMnB6bzlLa0VWMEZ5ZWdVOXVzNGRJOTg5RFdwUTBWR1JDcC1hbDJGM2dQblpNVWctUXUySWVuanhibjNUU1liTnRyX1JoMm4xOHc1allYeFdKSnFkdlJpeGZyVnpQVmZFc1pMQWl5Z1R3VnF2bFlxdmpRSy1hNUZRc1FOcWRaMXJiUmE3bXYxc1VESXJhWXNvYXJPWGFOY3ozMUhoejI5SmUzb2VhWTlYeFJFMFF3dzZUU1NPWlI3RldIelo1OGYtcmxOWjN1al9KTHNjY2U0QT09 |
FT;FU
Top 5 Key Risks You Should Understand Before **~~Investing in Bitcoin~~** speculating on BTC | r/btc | comment | r/btc | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0TU5yanpoTXFCVm1TWlB2NDUyZ1pNckFLRGlzdFpyeFpIMTdCZUdGR2ZidUNOQ2VEZmc3MUVtTzRLWXhGQllHWVhtTXdQZWQ5TjRrM2ZGZ3NxaEJPU1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0c2paVXc3QXBsNTFRbmpSUVROX1NiVkJaT2tWX2l2SHhDQkZrUGZWUUpUcFM3SzVQVk0yTVpyNFRhWGJvN3JYd28xeHpzOHhUbVN6QWJjazF0djdFWUJPUXQ0SDd1d1Mzc0FzNEVTMW1DaGQ3SzktaVAteVJoTllYeTY4UzhGVExTUzNqTFpWUlFER3Jtc2J5YUk5SHBVNXBtUmRfT0REVUZqc0NvczF6eVFXT0lxbWZBZ01LQ0sydzh0c29ZVTNyOFh2X2Z5LWphU1RhZWJyNkZYYVZodz09 |
Did I find a bug with Sparrow wallet? Here is the info (all test info)
**Seed:** Native Segwit(P2WPKH) m/84'/0'/0' no passphrase
Group unlock program engage wonder lift wreck hover kiss goddess fluid riot pretty thunder save nuclear message word dance jacket sell evoke labor season
**XPUB from sparrow**
xpub6DKvjVPHHF678padYp23nxgzhpNJjr4ef8PhKwJEMsxdp66LNfzwWFgUgXamPmjSiaZfm5esB8ny1n2XK3tL2pRRks5Y6RYeCC69ZFDQ6kf
**Associated address:** What you get when scanning XPUB into a watch only wallet
12posZe59Dottk6W57RecdF4BzqzwiddpF
**Issue:**
Th address does not seem correct. Ive even put the info in to iancoleman tool, I can see the same XPUB but cannot find get the same address to get the private key.
**What am I missing?** | r/bitcoin | post | r/Bitcoin | 2024-10-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0bzM2VzBCT3lKeldkcWgyYlczVmwyNU1EcnhDTUFMQ1FZUEkwV0lsS0ZjOWd1bGFsMU11N1pwdURjM093Z3RyYUltek12TUg5Rnk3czdLcDN3dFdYanc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5DMkc0VDZ0NG5fcjJEWjI3Nmd2N3k0YzAxS2VwWENiZHFqa3pvZ25RT2dSWWZPb05ld2s4NWxrS1dfVUpFbWt2eU9rTEJjTHc1N0o5RmFveGdOOGd2RHRoSXRRX2ZETTFsZXphY2tWQmhidDRsWlJjYzdvTG0yMlZ1TU0taGlKdEJHdkJLeEJTS1RiUG15bF9SMk01QnUtY0JLZzg0RHFGY0NyLWZoZ1ZSazFnOEh3PQ== |