text,labels
"When I stole a book in class and the teacher caught me, the rest  
of the class laughed at my attempt.",2
That I didn't take the time to make an appointment with someone.,5
Talking to my close friend.,1
"While skiing in Squaw Valley, I was riding up a chair lift and  
right when the chair was above a sheer cliff of rocks, the chair  
lift stopped and all the chairs sagged and everything seemed to  
creak loudly.",6
"It is very difficult to relate it to a certain event. I am  
familiar with the disgust of Sartre (la nausTe), a frequently  
occurring cause may be described as ""the self-assured dullness"".",0
"Leaving University in 1982 following exclusion and lying to  
parents/friends about reasons for leaving, i.e. lying about the  
fact of having been excluded.",5
"A friend of mine, who had repeated a year at school once before,  
did not pass the final examination and had to take it again half  
a year later.",4
When I gave birth to a healthy boy.,1
"A teacher wanted to instill a certain opinion and a certain  
behaviour into myself, what I refused. I was afraid when I saw  
him.",6
Maltreatment of children.,0
"When I stole a packet of cigarettes from a neighbour  and the  
next day I owned up and returned it.",2
"I had been caught red-handed having stolen some paw-paw. I was  
then taken the elders owning the paw-paws.",4
"When I saw a film where a black was rapeing a girl while another one was  
filming it for a pornographic movie.",0
"When I was young, about 6 or 7, I did not make it to the toilet  
on time.  I hid the dirty trousers in the cellar as I feared it 
being discovered by my parents.",2
"For not having succeded in getting the job as a translator that I  
wanted.",4
"I felt sad with the two situations I described before. The cat  
and the school. Sadness was intermingled with the other feelings.",4
"Before a hospital visit prior to a D&C under anasthesia for an  
expected miscarriage.",6
"Borrowing a car, and then having a minor accident (breaking a  
headlight).",5
"I was angry with a person who behaved terribly at a ball  
offending her relatives.",3
"I failed a subject despite the fact that I had studied quite a  
lot for it.",4
"When I realized that not all my friends like the comments that I  
pass in their presence.",5
When I was admitted to the Chinese universiity.,1
"When I heard the news that my brother had passed away.  It was  
the first time that I lost a brother.",4
"Truely, I got very ashamed when my brother was sent out of  
Business Machines Limited Company due to improper handling of the  
office equipment in Sales Services.",2
"I felt sadness when I had to get separated from the woman I loved  
who had to leave for her motherland.",4
"When before the last exam I have taken, I went out instead of  
studying.",5
"After my car accident, when I woke up in a heap of stones.",6
"When my mother met with a serious accident and there was danger  
that she would not survive and if she did she would loose  
her memory.",6
"The fact that my mother is getting married again (my mother and  
father divorced about 15 years ago) means that she will probably  
move to Turku, and our home, which is a one family house, will be  
sold (I myself have not been living at home for the past six  
years).",4
When my one year old son gives me a spontaneous kiss.,1
"When I received my S.Y.J.C results which did not allow me to get    
admission in engineering.",4
"Some boys talking about nicknames of the lecturers, and I was too  
afraid of them to stop them.",6
When I failed an exam.,4
"At my Summer job a new caretaker had been employed who was my age  
 but I preferred going out for lunch with the accounts personnel  
rather than with him.",5
"When my grandfather was sick, and died I felt more sad, though,  
when he was sick.",4
"When my friend did not pass the high school graduation  
examinations.",4
"When I got the feeling that I had to do all the housekeeping  
while my boyfriend didn't do anything. This happened in a period  
of exams when I had to study very hard.",3
"My friend was pregnant, but lost her child during the second  
month. I went to see her at hospital - she was crying. I felt  
very sorry for her.",4
"I had promised to contact a friend about a particular matter by a  
certain date, then thought no more about it until the friend  
reminded me after the date had passed.",2
"Discussion with my mother about the way to educate my children. I  
felt anger against my mother.",3
"I was alone at home, a man forced the front door which was  
locked, forced and tried to open a window.",6
When my sister became pregnant at UNZA last year.,2
When my grandfather died.,4
"When I found my baby whipped by my Auntie. I was really sad and  
up to this moment my sadness is still on.",4
"The surname of my brother was different from ours.  He often  
grinned at home and provoked others for the pleasure of it.  This  
made me angry.",3
"In a certain occasion I saw a dog in the street eating something  
so strange gooey that I wasn't able to eat lunch because I  
remembered the scene all the time.",0
"On New Years eve I drank too much alcohol, so much that I had to  
vomit in the presence of other people.",2
"I had a class-mate who was rather stupid.  I did not like him  
but I respected him.  When he tried to talk to someone, they  
would not listen to him and I could not bear seeing this.",0
"Close friend discovered I had deceived them. Felt shame at having  
done it and knowing that they knew.",2
People hunting animals.,3
"One day during our clinical practices, we had a very ill patient.  
Unfortunately the patient passed away. I had seen him dying and  
it was the first experience. During the night I became afraid  
fearing the dead body.",6
"I made an appointment with a friend to drink coffee togehter.  
However, for the third time in that week she arrived an hour too  
late.",3
"I was having an argument with my brother on his behavior, then we   
started fighting and I got annoyed at him because he started  
teasing me.",3
"My younger sister wanted to take classes to learn a musical  
instrument.  One Saturday morning my mother asked me to go with         
her for the registration.  I did not want to go  so I said that  
there might be many bad people at the club.  As a resullt my  
sister was scolded by my mother.",5
I didn't get the job I wanted.,4
"I bought a possible answer to a homework problem which was  
completely inapplicable to the question due to my not having read  
about the subject matter.",2
Postgraduate students talking about girls stupid.,0
"I cannot remember exactly such a situation. But I know that  
once I went to a very dirty lavatory and that disgusted me.",0
"When the teacher asked me to read my composition that was the  
homework I stood up and invented one because I hadn't done it. A  
colleague saw that in my copy book there was nothing written and  
he accused me and so I was called in the director's room.",2
"When I secretly tried smoking for the first time, being 12 years  
old.",5
"On my way home in the middle of the night I saw a drunk man and a  
woman who were quarreling, beating each other, shouting and so  
on. I felt disgusted especially because they treated each other  
in such a degrading way.",0
"Once I was not able to give a relative, who was in a critical  
period, a helping hand.  Whenever I think about it I feel guilty   
for letting down the person who trusted me to give him a helping  
hand.",5
The man I am going around with gave me a very special present.,1
"I was the reason behind the break-up of my friend's relationship  
with his girlfriend.  She finished with him.",5
"I talked with a man who stammered and without controlling myself,  
I started to talk imitating him.",2
"I most joyous moment was the day I got my marks.  I was very  
happy when I came to know about my marks at the M.Sc (part I)  
examination where I got 71.5%.  This was the highest marks I have  
ever scored in my life.",1
"When I got  grade ""C"" in M160 at the end of my first year at  
UNZA.  I had expected a ""C+"" or a ""B"" as M160 is easy, going by my  
capacity in mathematics.",0
"Talking to a very good friend who had just had a very bad  
experience which was changing his whole way of looking at life  
etc.",4
"After making a joke about a friend's marriage that was too  
personal.",2
"Just arrived in the university, not knowing anybody.",6
When my love for a guy was returned.,1
"When my elder brother failed form five in 1968 when I was 5 years  
old.",0
"When my room-mate locked me out deliberately, before an exam due  
at 1400 hours.",3
"My mother and her friends were speaking badly about my father  
when they were separated, and my brothers and sisters and myself  
were allowed to listen.",3
"One night during dinner my nephew was naughty, so I quarrelled with my   
parents.   I regreted this as my nephew was only two years old and I   
had to tolerate him !  The quarrel made my father think that his children   
may not take care of him in the future (it was a slip of the tongue and   
this made me realize that my father keeps his thoughts to himself).  I was   
still very angry so I dropped my bowl and chopsticks and went to the kitchen   
to drink tea and then ran to the other side of the house.",5
"At rejection / being ignored by a loved person held in great  
esteem.",4
"I dated another boy several times, when I was still ""going with""  
my former boyfriend. This made me feel a little bit guilty towards  
my friend.",5
This I experienced when going around with more than one girl.,5
"I entrusted a friend with the delivery of some money to my  
father, however he misused the money.",3
I lost my purse that had money in it. I was sad until I found it.,4
"A brother from one of the Christian fellowship often phoned me  
and talked to me for half an hour or more.  However there was  
nothing important in the conversation and I found the person very  
disgusting.",0
When I saw a big spider from very close.,0
"I am disgusted with liers, hypocrites, slanderers, flunkeys.",0
"When I was working as a nurse in a mental hospital, a patient ate  
up the contents of another patient's spitoon.",0
The loss of a close relative who was ill with cancer.,4
The day I came home drunk after having attended a disco party.,5
"I was supposed to have done some things for my mother, but just  
plain didn't get around to it.",5
"In a park near our home, a group of young people who were  
strangely dressed were seated in the middle of the street.  They  
began to eat while carressing each other.",0
"I was very happy when I found out that I had passed with flying  
colours and that I had made it to the university.",1
"That was what I felt when I told my first lie and then was  
cought.",2
The first time I really fell in love with a girl.,1
Hear my name on the list attending the English lectures.,1
"I was captain of the school swimming team. The team was only two  
points in front before the last relay. We won the relay, which I  
swam in, and thus my team won the championship.",1
"During the exam period I studied in the library alone.  A close    
friend of mine, who is also a classmate, told me that my  
application for a Japanese inter-cultural exchange programme had  
been accepted.  I was not very sure as I did not know that the  
list had been declared.  I ran to the board and saw that I was  
really included in the list.  I was so excited that I smiled all  
day long.  When I met my classmates and friends I told them the  
good news.  I was so happy that I could not concentrate on my  
studies.  
",1
I was bitten by a dog.,6
"I was coming home from an exam and I supposed that I had  
passed it so I ran to a restaurant for a beer.",1
When my bosom friend tried to lie to me.,3
"It was when my friend had stolen my money (K10) and had  
disappeared.",3
Going to a concert.,1
When a thief broke into my house and stole some valuable goods.,3
I scolded my sister without waiting for her explanation.,2
"It was when my father beat my mother while she was ill for three  
weeks and now she was recovering.",0
"I had the window open and the door was shut so that the kitten  
would not go out.  My partner came in and started talking about  
something and I forgot about the window and suddenly I saw the  
kitten hanging from the window frame. I was rigid with fright  
till I got hold of her.",6
When I found our my mother didn't have cancer.,1
"A nuisance used to live in our flat a month ago. I experienced  
this feeling when I tried to chase her out.",3
"When my brother got very low marks in the exams, I was very angry.  
I put my studies aside to help him, as every time my brother does   
badly at school, my family members blame me as well. 
 
",3
"When I was young, I stole some money from my mother's purse. It  
wasn't very much, but I can remember when she found it gone I  
felt very guilty.",5
When I broke-down while seeing off my friend.,2
Two timing - going out with 2 guys at once (secretly).,5
On my birthday when several good friends came to visit me.,1
When I got engaged to a boy of my choice.,1
"During the oral part of my final examination I made a mistake in  
speaking so that all the teachers laughed at me.",2
When I did not get the compound which is known.,6
"After days or weekends where I did not accomplish the amount of  
sudying that I wanted to because of more pleasant activities  
which come up.",5
"I was angry at my brother over an argument we had together.  We  
do have a few fights from time to time, and also at times I take  
out my anger on him.",3
"When my friends and I were caught with our girlfriends outside  
the school grounds when I was at the secondary school.  We were  
caught by the headmaster.",5
A drunken man forced me to kiss him.,0
I shot the decisive goal in an ice-hockey match.,1
Some students talking when other people are having a nap.,0
"While watching a religious film, I got very excited and made a  
number of comments which were reproached to me by an elderly  
person who respected me.",2
"I was in a sanatorium. In front of me a boy fell down from his  
invalid's chair. I could help him but I didn't. I felt like being  
paralysed.",5
"Salo, a movie film by Pasolini. People were misused and tortured  
for the fun of a few elder Italian authorities, during World War  
II.",0
"I'm crazy about football. When my team lost a goal in the Paulist  
championship, and so it lost the classifications.",3
Made mistakes in exam.,3
"At Christmas night there was a good movie on television which I  
wanted to see for years. I was whining about it till someone told  
me it was very childish. Then I felt shame.",2
"A boy phoned me at night and wanted to talk to me for 30 minutes  
outside.  I thought that he would reveal what he felt and would  
question me on our relationship.  I treated him as a friend and  
did not want any misunderstandings.  Therefore I refused to meet  
him and told him that I would see him the coming day.  I was very  
unhappy as I feared having hurt him and got him into trouble.",6
A friend was assaulted by a young man on her way home.,0
"The editor changed the heading of an article that I had written.   
He considered the heading to be derogatory towards the person I had written  
about.",3
The birth of my child.,1
Winning Queensland Chess Championship.,1
"I felt sad when a thief stole all the clothes from my friend's  
cupboard at school (boarding).",4
When I was acceptted as a student of psychology.,1
A situation where I stole a friends wife's wallet.,5
"A car came very close to hitting me whilst I was crossing the  
street.",6
"When my cousin passed away during the holidays at home.  He fell  
ill at night and the next day he died in the evening.",4
When my father was very drunk and raging at home.,6
"I remember the day my father died. I was 11 years old and my  
sadness was so great that until today I remember everything  
about that day, from the clothes I was wearing to the reactions of people,  
the despair of my mother and brother. It marked me a lot and was  
the greatest sadness I felt.",4
Going to Chico to visit a friend.,1
At work a boy was injured because of my lack of supervision.,5
"I wanted to clear up a misunderstanding with a friend that I had  
caused. A third person meddled in our conversation, turned my  
efforts to ridicule so that I did not succeed in what I had  
intended.",3
"I had a discussion with my wife about an over-weight acquaintance of  
our's, about her eating habits and the scars caused by her  
pregnancy.",0
"I had a very good friend in secondary school.  The year after our  
graduation I prepared to celebrate her birthday and I called off  
all my appointments.  I got together the other friends and we  
were ready to give the entire day to her.  However this friend  
disappeared on her birthday.  When I phoned another friend I  
didcovered thay she was busy, I did not call her anymore.",3
People not resprcting my opinion.,3
When my uncle died of leukemia at age 35.,4
"My father died unexpectedly at the age of 53 years. He certainly  
would have liked to live longer. I was also said because I was  
confronted with the fact that I would die one day too.",4
When I realized that I loved someone of the opposite sex.,1
"When I wanted to talk to someone I liked and whom I have been  
told likes me (by his brother and even by himself) however he  
avoids any confrontation, and is vague.",3
The disgust I feel towards a certain person.,0
"[ During a summer holiday a French girl and I had becoe back  
home, I felt very sad.]",4
"The sense of joy comes to me always after a period of depression,  
as an organic feeling for an upsurge. I don't exclude the  
situative feeling but in this case the reason is not in me, it's  
out of me.",1
"My close friend and I applied to TISS for admission last year,  
unfortunately he failed to get admission.  We had done our graduation  
together and are quite involved with each other, so we had wanted  
to do our Masters degree together.  However, it did not work out  
as we had expected it to and this saddened me.",4
"When fired unjustly from a job as casual bar-person. Charged with  
giving away free drinks. Not done so and had witnesses to prove  
it - both patrons and bar staff. Other staff were supportive.",3
"When I was taken to the place where my uncle had defecated in his  
pants after having drunk beer.",2
"I have done the teachers training course (B.Ed).  During our  
training I was asked to handle the ninth standard class in a boys  
school.  I was scared to face the class the first day.",6
"Once when I was in the cell group (religious activity) I found  
that almost everyone in the group read the bible daily and I felt  
guilty in my heart.",5
"When I broke off with my boyfriend after three years.  It was  
quite unexpected for him and there was no particular reason for  
the break up, such as someone else.",5
When my grandfather died.,4
"I am not very affectionate and I feel guilty as I do not give as  
much affection as I receive.",5
"When I had stayed abroad for a long time and I had remembered  
about my friends and relatives. I felt sad and I wanted to see  
them as soon as possible.",4
"When I was late for work and told my boss that it was due to  
transport problem, whereas the truth was that I had woken up  
late.  I thus cheated my boss.",5
"After my marriage I received the B.Sc results by post, I was very  
happy to learn that I had got very good marks - first class.",1
"One time I felt guilty when I told one of my previous boyfriends  
we were through just because I never felt like having one at that  
particular time.",5
When people harrass me I feel oppressed by their behavior.,3
"I quarrelled with my brothers (twins) at home on saturday.  One  
of them studies in a private school and the other one is  
repeating his form five.  They do not know what they are doing.   
They follow every word of their teachers, books and systems.   
They always try to rationalize their bad acts by some game and  
they are satisfied with their awkward life.  I have tried to  
persuade them very often but have failed.  This time I had a  
fight as they have no voluntary spirit (they did not polish the  
floor).",3
When I failed the M.S.C exams.,3
"My boy-friend came home late one night without having told me  
about it before.",3
"When my uncle found me having sexual intercourse with a distant  
relative of mine in the sitting room, on the couch.  I failed to  
stop and get up, I carried on.",5
"In my opinion guilt is a feeling which goes together with shame.  
Here then I refer to the situation of guilt.",2
"That day I was alone at home after coming home from school.  I did  
not know where everyone else had gone, I kept waiting for them to  
come back and nobody came.  It was getting very late and I was  
terrified.",6
When my mother was robbed in a shop.,6
My 3 children - each top his class in the final exams 1984.,1
"When I insulted my young sister for a very little misconduct of  
putting on my shoes. She wrote me an apology letter and the  
message she included made me feel guilty.",5
"When my parents separated temporarily and I was left behind with  
my father.  As I loved my mother I wanted to go with her.",4
"Earlier, I was afraid of speaking in front of a crowd of people.",6
"On the way back from Denmark with a friend on a small yatch,  
there was a storm and my friend was blown overboard;  I was very  
scared till I managed to get him back onboard.",6
When I was sitting in a car next to a man who was masturbating.,6
Selling my used car.,1
After receiving the grade on the paper mentioned in FEAR.,4
When I was studying and someone disturbed me.,0
Not being able to argue against class leaders.,5
"I flet shameful when I learnt that I cooked Nsima which was full  
of lamps in it.",2
When I overate at lunch.,5
When I was at school.,4
"I heard friends grumbling at me in an adjoining room, although  
they had behaved in a friendly way when I was present.",3
"After I had lived with my boyfriend in a foreign country for half  
a year, I saw that it was impossible for me to stay with him (for  
economic reasons). We separated although I loved him.",4
"I found myself involved in a fight in which a person died and I  
had to intervene with some risk.",6
"I felt very frightened when a robber broke into our house and  
threatened to shoot my father if he did not part with some money.  
 I was looking at the man with his hand on the trigger.",6
A good report card (a scholarship) in primary school.,1
"When I came across an old friend whom I had not seen for a very  
long time.",1
Falling in love.,1
"When I am angry at someone without a good reason. Later on it  
proves that he didn't do anything wrong.",2
"When I saw a few people beating a man who seemed to be a  
stranger.",3
"When the week for Exams came. I got afraid as to how I would  
tackle the questions.",6
When I got separated from the man I loved so much.,4
"When I heard that I was not to be provided with another pair of  
medical uniform.",3
"I felt fear of the purest kind after a car accident.  The  
incident and images of horror kept coming back to my mind.  I  
wondered what could have happened to my sister, my friend and me,  
though nothing very serious actually happened.",6
"I accused my husband of being late deliberately when he came to  
pick me up from work.",5
"[ I am quite shameless, not applicable.]",2
"When I was trying for a girl who I really liked and cared for and  
thought she felt the same way too. But she didn't like the idea  
and just wanted to stay friends.",4
"A four year girl ran away from her father straight in front of my  
car.  I was forced to use the emergency brakes.",6
"When I was first exposed to the dead bodies, for dissecting         
purposes at the school of medicine.",6
"Getting a terrible exam mark, which I couldn't understand the  
reason for, and trying to see a lecturer or tutor, but being  
given the runaround.",3
"During the military service, I lost a part of an equipment; I  
accused another person and he was rebuked and punished.",5
Gave the wrong meal tickets to other people (my classmate).,5
The loss of a very good friend.,4
"I felt disgust when I realized that I had eaten something fatty,  
and vomited too much.",0
"The night of a high school dance, I went partying and collided  
with another car. Both cars were totalled; people were injured  
but not seriously.",5
Did badly in an examn.,4
When I first heard that Tage Dannielsson had died.,4
"Sometime back I came across a certain man who was badly beaten by  
some people because he was found raping the wife of the village  
headman.",5
My guilty behaviour was found out by others.,2
"I was on my way home when suddenly Gule Wamkulu came from the  
bush and blocked the road. I was in fear and didn't know what to  
do.",6
Often a dog which is treated very badly by his owner comes to us.,4
When I knew about my first job.,1
"I dreamt of my father's death while I was at secondary school.  I  
was screaming at the top of my voice and was woken up by my  
friend.  That day I was really sad.",4
"One dark night with no street lights, a car was obviously  
following me.",6
"I mangled the side of my dad's van on a fence. I did not realize  
the extent of the damage until he showed it to me the next day.  
The shock on my face was genuine so a friend interceded with a  
good excuse which I did not deny. I never clarified the  
situation.",5
"I had to leave an important function early because of family  
commitments. Someone else had to complete my job.",5
"When there was a bomb threat in Tolman Hall. This was the first  
time that I felt my life could be in danger.",6
"My little brother was arrested by the police at the railway station after  
he had drunk some beer.",2
"Once, I accidentally injured a boy in the eye and he almost lost  
it.",5
Managed to run 30 Km on skis fairly simply.,1
"A friend had promised me to give me a lift to Graz. To be sure I  
called her before we went. She told me that she had just promised  
another person to give him a lift.",3
"My current lover and I had been very busy with work and study and  
had not had time alone together for almost a month until one  
afternoon recently when we made love for hours and then showered  
and ate together.",1
A lecturer in great detail spoke about his sexual experiences.,0
"I couldn't sleep, and began to remind of my childhood. We are many  
sisters and at that time we were spanked a lot and I don't know  
why I started to remind of the spanks they and I had had, their  
shouts when this happened.",4
Falling in love although she is my friend (angry with myself).,3
Death of the family dog.,4
"I was caught stealing food at my aunt's place.  I had tried to  
hide the food I had taken from the pantry while my aunt was in  
the kitchen, however she went to the pantry and discovered the  
stolen package.",2
A sudden end to the relationship with my first girlfriend.,4
"When I fought with my sister and said that she had provoked this.  
She was very seriously scolded.",5
"When someone took my writing materials yet I was to write  
Examinations in a few minutes.",3
"I had wasted some time instead of doing something I needed to do  
to give to a friend. (Also in the time I wasted I had done some  
things I did not consider morally right).",5
"I was to meet a friend at the bus-stop (he was coming to visit  
us) and he did not turn up.  After having waited for him for some time      
(about an hour) I called him up, to be told that he did not  
intend to come as he was feeling tired.",3
"I stayed at the Coast for a weekend with friends. My brother came  
to drive me home, but was rude, and in a hurry to rejoin his  
friends. I was embarrassed because the family involved was  
extremely nice, and hospitable to him.",0
"The saddest moment in my life was when I lost my younger sister a  
few years back.",4
"Some people were unfairly treated, because of their  
nationality/colour.",0
I called off a relationship with one girl so I could see another.,5
"The fridge we had at home had a lock.  One day when I wanted  
something, I unscrewed the door but unfortunately I was caught in  
the act.",5
When a close friend died.,4
"One day mother slaughtered a chicken for a brother who had come  
back for holiday. In everybody's absence I opened the foodstore  
and ate all internal organs of the chicken. When mother  
discovered, we were all called and I was found with hands stained  
with soup. I was ashamed being the eldest of all in the family.",2
"When I learnt that a friend of mine had talked about me to  
another friend and had said wrong things about my abilities and  
attitudes.  I was very angry.",3
"On a mountain tour, my girlfriend and I passed by an inn. Near  
the house there was a big dog which began to follow us. As my  
girlfriend is afraid of dogs, I had to draw his attention to me.  
He jumped towards my shoulders and wanted to play with me but I  
really did not like that.",6
When I was told to attend an operation in theatre.,6
"My parents claimed me on their income tax after I had been out of  
the house for two years receiving no financial support from them.  
As result I had to work more during school because they were  
expected by the FAO to contribute to my education when they  
refuse to do so.",0
My roommate messing up our room.,0
"When I came to know that a girl I was fond of already had a  
boyfriend.",4
Being alone at night.,6
"I have a boyfriend and I am very fond of him. When we had our  
""11-months jubilee"", I had forgotten it. But he gave me a red  
rose.",1
"When in the initial interview for the recruiting, I don't know why,  
I accepted to do the test for army.",5
"I was filled with joy when I heard that I had been selected for a  
University course.",1
"My parents do not like my friend and told me to stay away from  
him.",3
Caused a family disturbance.,4
Not helping other people to do their homework.,5
"When a close friend of mine maintained a relationship with me  
till she needed me and broke it off when she did not need me.   
She behaved life a really selfish person.  ",0
Haven't been frightened for ages.,6
"I was caught doing something bad and I bribed the person who  
caught me.  Later I felt very bad, maybe I should have paid for  
my bad behaviour.",5
A dark night when I had to go to the outdoor lavatory.,6
"In a very crowded shop I was distracted and missed my turn in the  
queue.  A woman who was behind me began to shout at me asking me  
either to pay more attention or to leave.",2
I was wearing a slit tight dress at a disco and it burst open.,2
"I was caught stealing a box of matches in the supermarket and had  
to plead guilty.",5
"When one has arranged to meet someone and that person arrives  
late, in the meantime one starts thinking about all that could  
have gone wrong e.g a traffic accident.",6
"Finding out the great difference between China and the West in  
science.",6
"Slept in a chapel and in the middle of the night I realized that  
there was someeone else in the chapel.  I never discovered who  
it was and why he was there.",6
"My sister was in a hospital, later in the evening we received the  
information that she had died.",4
Insulted by the class leader.,3
"[ I speak harshly to my parents though they only mean my own  
good.]",5
Stealing money from my parents when I was young.,2
"A honest ""sliding"" on the part of a girlfriend of mine.  
Terribly crossed I started breaking things and tearing books.",3
"Getting sent on a company expense trip to another state to work  
for a week at that plan.",1
"I saw a terrible accident happen and I laughed a lot of the  
fright and because I was nervous.",2
"I had to call somebody between 12 and 12:30. As I had no  
possibility to call him at this time, I did not do it until 3  
p.m.",5
"When I was forced to call the telephone company about a bill  
concerning a disconnected phone belonging to my landlord.  The  
bill was four months overdue and in the meanwhile he had been  
using my phone, he seemed to have no intention of having his own  
phone reconnected.",3
"I feel guilty as I am not working, and even my studies are not  
progressing.",2
"The same as for SHAME and DISGUST. I was asked to resign my  
sorority which I did because I was ashamed.",4
"[ When bad and disgusting language is uttered by people, or when  
someone tries to show what is beyond his own capacities.]",3
"Last year I had a friend visiting me for several days. The only  
thing he did was sleeping, drinking, taking pills and thinking  
only about himself.",3
When my mother scolded me and I argued with her.,5
"A certain Area Party Secretary came home in the morning and said  
we had to leave our home and build somewhere and the reason  
being that they wanted to establish a market. The Chairman knew  
nothing about it and was very angry.",3
"On Christmas eve I went to a classmate's home with other  
classmates.  The next morning when I came out of the toilet she  
said something and I did not understand what she was saying.   
When she pointed at my trousers I discovered that I had forgotten  
to zip them up.  I rushed back to the toilet but by the time the  
others had guessed what had happened.",2
[ In an aeroplane.],6
"When I finished a test type of exam and did not dare to answer  
any question, I doubted whether I would pass the exam  or not.",5
"My cat was sick and I had to take him to the vet to be put down -  
no one else there to do it.",4
"Passing (by car) over a bridge where only one car could pass. There  
was a precipice on both sides, no protection grilles, and the  
bridge was completely muddled.",6
When my mother was angry with me over my friends and boyfriend.,6
"When I received the news that my in-laws had passed away.  I  
depended heavily on them for their guidance and the running of  
their daughter's buisness.",4
Getting ill.,4
"A colleague asked me to study with her. I could not explain  
things as perfectly as she had expected. So she reacted in an  
aggressive manner.",3
"It was when I drunk urine during my childhood thinking it was  
water. My friend had urinated in the tin.",0
"For a drunk man (about 20 years old) that I met one evening, and  
who behaved impudently with the girls standing by.",0
"I felt fear when I sat for one of my exams. Though my fear was  
not quite justifiable, I still remember about it.",6
"Being alone in Europe and having to catch a train and bus to the  
airport, then board the plane alone.",6
A man was unfair to a girlfriend of mine.,0
"We went to visit my mother at the residence.  She was crying and  
said that she was about to die.  I believed all her complaints  
and continously thought of the possibility of loosing her.",4
My boyfriend made me a proposal.,1
When I am dirty because I have not had a shower for a few days.,0
"My girlfriend who had spent 6 months abroad broke off our  
relationship by letter.",4
"When my friends tried to discriminate against my friendship with  
certain other friends which they thought was improper.",3
A close friend of mine had not contacted me for a long time.,4
"As a kid my mother caught me stealing sugar and giving it to a  
neighbour.",2
"I experienced anger most recently when I had committed a sin  
which I had gone a week and a half without doing. I had made a  
vow to God and had blown it. Now I had to start all over.",3
"I was angry at a University tutorial when an ignorant loudmouth  
persisted in trying to dominate the conversation.",3
"[ During my childhood when I could not get what I wanted from my  
brother/sister and parents.]",3
Getting into this university to do medicine.,1
"When I had exams a relative of ours, who lives in another city, 
came to visit us and I felt disgusted at him.",0
"When I became conscious that men don't wnat anything they don't  
have a goal. They have: sex, but this isn't important.",4
"A member of a religious sect tried to convert me, using really  
evil tricks to persuade me.  After he had left, I was anxious and  
angry for a long time. After the event, I was alone.",3
"An item which belonged to a friend of mine was missing.  I had  
taken it earlier and I thought that I had returnrd it so when he  
asked me for it I stubbornly refused having it.  Later when I  
looked for it, I found it in my room.",5
"At the hardware store, trying to convert Imperial to Metric  
measurements, I made a mistake, and didn't buy enough tiles for  
the bathroom. I was angry at myself, because I hope to be a Maths  
teacher.",3
"I did not go to the exercises, without any adequate reason.",5
"A friend of mine goes out with this guy. She sleeps with him but  
is quite happy for him to play around - as well as herself.",0
"I had planned a trip to the South during Easter, together with a  
friend. She was very sorry when I changed my mind and decided not  
to go after all.",5
During a fight with my best friend.,3
"When, for example, my grandfather fell seriously ill. It was  
necessary for him to be operated and I felt great fear of losing  
him because he is so dear to me.",6
Always when I meet the person I love.,1
"I met again a very good friend after a year and realized that  
there had grown a certain distance between us.",4
"Climbing a mountain, I got stuck and realized I could get neither  
up nor down.",6
"Unjust accusations directed at me and my way of acting, by someone close to me.  ",3
I am not doing what I should with this questionnaire.,3
Getting a low grade on a midterm.,2
When one lets friends down,5
"My boyfriend told me that I had very high demands towards him. In  
my opinion this was wrong.",3
When I nearly caused a traffic accident with my car.,6
"As a little girl, I was sick in the middle of a school day and I  
vomitted in the basin of the classroom.",2
When my beloved grandfather died.,4
"Finding that a subordinate at work was still not willing to  
cooperate after discussions to try and resolve an attitude  
problem.",3
"A certain man went to my parents and told them that I was married  
here, when I am here at school. When I went home for holidays my  
parents asked me about it and I was angry with that man.",3
"I got back too late after a Sunday going out without having  
called up home to tell where I was. my mother hadn't slept the  
whole night.",5
"A girl in our class was nicknamed ""fatsy"". Later, I heard that  
she suffered from diabetes mellitus.",2
""" I have been hearing rumours that you have not been allowing  
people in your room,"" he said.  This sentence really shot my  
heart.  I failed to find the right words, instead I walked away  
without uttering a word.",3
"A fellow player, quite unexpectedly, scores a goal, which means a  
draw.",1
"In a social situation I became interested in a woman. We talked,  
we laughed, we enjoyed each other. She desappeared for a few  
minutes, and a little after appeared with an other man.",4
"I spied on my fiancT and was terribly jealous. Later I saw that  
there was no reason for that.",5
"My boyfriend and I were getting dressed up and putting make-up  
on to go to a Halloween Party. We were dressing up to be two  
mimes. It was very enjoyable and I thought we looked really good,  
it was an accomplishment. We were alone in his house.",1
"I was not able to help my sister to understand that her husband  
is a bad man before she was married to him.",5
"My lovely girlfriend double-crossed me and so that I found her  
chatting with another guy.",3
When my partner was attacked and lost three teeth.,3
[ When I feel that I have made a mistake.],4
"My friend was so intoxicated that the police came and took him  
away, and they later contacted his parents.",2
"At school, I had acted against the will of the group, and the  
next day they promised to take revenge on me.",6
"That was what I felt with a teacher who put down quite unreal  
marks.",3
"Yesterday while playing volley ball, there was one person extra     
and somebody had to out.  A mess worker and I were the   
last ones to arrive and we had arrived at the same time.   
Rightfully one of us had to opt out of the game, as I was  
delaying leaving the mess worker opted out saying that I should  
play.  I felt ashamed of myself.",2
"Fear came towards the end of May when the P.T.S. results were out  
after hearing the failure of my fellow three friends.",6
"I feel disgusted with the bootlickers, with helpless people.",0
"I went for a walk with a very close friend; we were talking about  
our problems, I told her lies.",2
The inability to read a book at college.,4
"Confronted outside a party by some very nasty character -  
gesturing to a car full of mean-acting friends - felt in danger.",6
"I was very scared when I went to the examination hall for my M.Sc  
examination as I had studied a limited partion of the course  
thoroughly and I was in great doubt whether that would be asked.",6
"My mother misunderstood me and prevented me from doing something.  
 In return I did not talk to her for a few days, only later on I  
realized that what she had done had been for my good.",5
"This happened recently, I  was in the dining hall and one of my  
friends with whom I was eating called me a fool.",3
"When, late at night, I discovered that they had stolen my bike.",3
"My guinea-pig had been ill for a couple of days.  One evening,  
when I came home I enquired as to how it was doing.  My mother's  
expression told me that it had died.  My knees refused to support  
me and I began to weep convulsively.",4
"Exaggerating certain circumstances, wrong attitude and evaluation  
of these circumstances.",2
My father suddenly fell ill and died.,4
"A girlfriend ended our relationship in an abrupt and unexpected  
manner.",4
When my wife told me that the refrigerator had stopped working.,3
"Leaving home to move closer to University. As an oldest child,  
this experience was traumatic for both my parents and myself.",4
"A patient, to whom I had given a powerful medicine, shouted at me  
in front of many people.  I realized that he did so because he  
was very ill.",2
"I've had three midterms in the past two weeks and I hardly  
studied for any of them (like 1 or 2 days) I feel guilty that I  
hadn't studied and I got C's on all of them.",5
Korean judges cheating.,2
"At school, when the only thing people my age could think of was getting  
rolling drunk. They couldn't have a good time without firstly  
getting drunk.",0
"After passing my Malawi Certificate of Education Exam and being  
selected to Kamuzu College of Nursing.",1
Had fear of losing husband.,6
When I wet my bed at boarding school.,2
"My father recently having a heart attack - spending a few months  
in hospital.",4
When I whatched a horror film on a Friday 13th.,6
"Watching ""11 am"". They had a programme on the starving refugees.  
Their plight was a source of sadness for me.",4
"A few days ago I saw two dandy girls of my age. I disliked their  
clothes and their way of doing.",0
When my beloved uncle was shot dead by relatives.,4
"When my father married a certain lady. The reception was held at  
Kasungu town Hall.",1
"When at very short notice I agreed to work in place of a friend  
who was sick, and owner of the restaurant refused to allow me a  
drink later in the evening (which is usually always available for  
workers), did not thank me, and was generally indifferent towards  
me - I felt I did not deserve this.",3
"At an important moment in a volleyball game we made a point and  
by this we won a set from a much stronger competitor.",1
When I get a hug from someone I love.,1
"A friend and I were going to have a study session together in  
which we quiz ourselves in biology material. Because I believed I  
didn't study enough. I feared I would fail.",6
People not cueing in the dining hall.,3
"I put my head into the pullover of a girl to see her breasts. The  
girl looked at me so that I felt ashamed.",2
"Unknown person knocking repeatedly on backdoor when no one else  
was at home.",6
"I am a sportwoman as well. I felt joy when after an year of  
practice, at a contest, I covered the norms for ""a master of sports"".",1
"My father won't be so pleased with me as if I was elected ""Three  
Good"".",4
When my mother was proved to suffer from a very serious disease.,4
"That a friend had been badly beaten and stabbed many times and  
the person that did it got away without any punishment from the  
law.",3
"A friend was going to come stay the weekend with me, but  
something came up and I cancelled out on him.",5
Getting into a crowded bus.,0
"When some of my close friends and colleagues talk about me and  
my work and say that I am the brightest student of the college.",2
I was unaware that I had walked the streets in torn trousers.,2
"A month ago I turned in an English paper in late after I had  
already had a previous paper late and promised not to do it  
again.",2
Being asked to go out by someone I care. ,1
When I was told that my father had passed away.,4
"I got my driving licence after they had frightened me with it's  
difficulty.",1
"Being bored in school, not being able to marry and have children.",4
"Some days ago I fell down at a public place, I came into notice  
but thank God I was not mocked at. Though it hurt badly, at the  
first moment I felt shame, not ache.",2
"When my darling found me walking hand in hand with another girl  
whom I loved also. ",2
It was more that fear - anguish -that I felt before my last exam.,6
"When I slept for the first time all alone in the house where I  
live now. A man phoned me at 2.00 am. He wanted something from  
me. I was afraid.",6
Passing away of my father.,4
"At a certain person's lack of cleanliness, at home and  
personally.",0
When I was accused of neglecting work for the wrong reasons.,4
"My cousin knocked on the door, looking for me to get her watch  
back.  I had given it to my girlfriend, Lizzy, as a present.",5
Being treated unfairly and being hurt by someone I love.,3
"I took some money from my parent's house without asking them for  
it, and I was caught red handed.",5
"It was when my father caught me with a girl in dark corners and  
asked me what I was doing there.",2
"When I knew that a person who I didn't like, had about me other  
feelings.",0
"When the train taking me to my military service left the station,  
on the platform remained relatives, projects and goodtimes.  I  
had a hard year ahead.",4
Can't describe any disgust situation.,0
"When I told a girl that I could not take her out that night as I  
was entertaining my mother who had come from home.  However, I  
later met this girl with another girlfriend at a hostel where I  
had taken out another girlfriend of mine.",2
"My mother was working with a knife and we were all laughing  
heartily.  She was not able to control the knife and stuck it  
deep into her hand.",4
"When I found a maggot in my food at the dinning hall, all the  
food had gone bad.",0
"A friend of mine remembered me when she needed me and did not  
even think about me when she did not need me.",0
"[ Whenever I put myself in other's shoes and try to make the  
person happy, comfort him or make friends and I am misunderstood  
and rejected, especially when this person is a family member or a friend.]",3
When my first child was born.,1
Someone drove into my car and then denied that it had happened.,3
Death of a close friend.,4
"When I had to go to the gynecologist and to sit on that special  
chair, I felt ashamed.",2
"I would have liked to go out to chat with some acquaintances, but  
I realized that I was not wanted.  I felt hurt, disappointed,  
lonely and deserted.",4
"There was a conflict of interest between me and a close friend of  
mine.  He only thought about his own interest and not about our  
friendship.  This behaviour hurt his friends.  Another incident  
is when a friend isolated himself without giving any reasons.",4
"The male friend of my mother (a widow) moved in to live with us.   
I did not like the man.",0
"Thinking of the unknown, what happens at the moment of death,  
etc.",6
The event which got me angry got also an aversion in me.,0
"I had stayed for months without seeing mother because our  
holidays were short and my home is far. Some times, mother came to  
see me at school, I was very joyful, and I didn't want her to go.",1
When I did not buy what I had promised to.,2
"I had a discussion with my girl-friend. After some time we  
started to quarrel and at least - to get the upper hand - I said  
that she was not as important to me as she might believe. Some  
time later I apologized for that.",5
[ Uncertainty about my own abilities in an exam.],6
"A certain person whom I respect and esteem a lot pays me no  
attention.  She keeps up appearances but shows almost no interest  
in me.",4
"A drunk man bumped into me and wanted to grip me. Fortunately I  
was able to break loose.",0
"I was appreciated by others, especially my family members and my  
friends.",1
My last genetices midterm - a decent grade.,1
"I was out with a friend in a place where it was very, very busy.  
When we wanted to go I bumped a person, who dropped his glass  
beer I offered a new one but he didn't accept it.",5
"One night my father suddenly suffered from a heart attack which  
lead to breathing difficulties.",4
"During one year my mother almost had a nervous breakdown and my  
father had a serious operation. I was afraid that our family (4  
kids, I'm the oldest) wouldn't hold together. Everything turned  
out fine.",6
"By fun I had a tussle with my sister. Suddenly I obviously hurt  
her unintentionally - and she ran out of the room, crying.",5
"The greatest guilt I felt and I didn't know if it was really  
justified is that when I was a child I had a brother very close  
to me. He  became ill, and asked me to see  him in the hospital.  
I didn't go, when his situation became worse in the U.I.T. (Unity  
of intensive therapy) I went and he died.",5
"I heard a broadcasting programme about parapsychology. The people  
in this programme used very difficult words which I couldn't  
understand. They acted exaggerated without showing any feeling.",0
"One of my class-mates had a disease unexpectedly, he had been in  
a coma for six days in a hospital before he died.",4
Losing my temper with my spouse.,5
"A child was admitted in hospital with Meningitis. I was asked to  
do lumber puncture to obtain Celebral Spinal fluid for diagnostic  
purposes. Since the condition was already bad, the child died as  
soon as I finished the procedure.",5
When I had to plunge in a swamp of fetid and stagnant water.,0
When I knew I had to go out with my mother on some errands.,4
"When I heard that I had passed Primary School Leaving Certificate  
and was selected to go for Secondary education.",1
"I was afraid of a certain examination although I was relatively  
well prepared.",6
"When I was selected for higher education, i.e grade 7 to formI.",1
"I felt shame when I was asked by my cousin that I promised to buy  
her a birthday present but I didn't buy it for her in front of  
friends.",2
When I failed to answer a simple question.,2
"When a friend didn't invite her own parents to her Graduation  
ceremony.",0
"I feel this feeling when I am to fill in a questionnaire or a  
form.",3
"When I was curious about it and went to a spiritism session with a  
friend. I had already been there other times (many times when I  
was younger) but that day, even if I don't believe in  
spiritism I was terribly afraid that something would happen to me  
(sort of incorporation !).",6
"It was my mother's birthday. My father and I used to buy a  
present together. However, now I had bought something together  
with my girlfriend and I forgot to ask my father.",5
"When I was dismissed unjustly from the firm where I worked,  
because there where persons that didn't have problems, and  
wouldn't miss in the jobs they occupied if they were dismissed.",3
Unjust punishment of a friend of mine.,3
"One night I could not practise my violin as my family was  
watching T.V with the lights off, so I wanted to listen to some  
tapes.  It was dark so I asked my brother to bring me a torch,  
however he scolded me.  I was so angry that I slammed my violin  
on the floor.",3
"I was working at a certain place and everyday after work dad  
would come to pick me up.  One day he did not come, it started  
getting very dark and I had no money on me and my home was very,  
very far away.",6
When I don't succeed to fulfill a promise.,2
"A film were a woman was attacked and raped.  One did not see the  
worst but it had the desired effect - very strong.",0
When I see the acts and deeds of a blind drunk man.,0
When my roommate forgets to flush the toilet.,0
"Arguing with my younger cousin.  She is rather a nuisance but I  
felt sorry.",5
Finding a hair in the soup.,0
"When I saw my 18 year old son grab an oxygen mask as he had  
breathing difficulties.  I had a bad conscience because I had not  
stopped smoking.  Medication for the dilation of his breathing  
tubes also caused a sense of guilt in me.",2
"I was spending the week-end with some friends.  We were waiting  
for another friend and we went to the meet him at the bus stop, a   
woman we met there told us that the coach had already left.  I  
was afraid that I would not see my friend, but at last we found  
him.",1
"I had arranged to meet my friends at a certain place, and I was  
with other people.  My friends did not arrive and the people who  
were with me began to get tired.  My friends were one hour late.",5
My grandmother died during Christmas break several years ago.,4
My boyfriend decided to make an end to our relationship.,4
"The inflammation of the ear of my child got cured and the doctor  
said that the ear was completely all right.",1
"When I was about to be bitten by my friend's dog, later on it bit  
me.",6
"When I saw a picture, in the Gothenburg Post, of a totally  
demolished car with two fatally injured passengers.  The car was  
so badly damaged that they couldn't get the bodies out at the  
scene of the accident.",0
"I felt joy when I heard over the radio that I had been successful  
in my Primary School Leaving Certificate Examination and was  
selected for Secondary School.",1
Not doing my share of the work for the house job.,2
"When I shouted and quarrelled and for no reason I had been rude to my  
mother and when my behaviour had been influenced by other outward  
factors.",5
When a thunder belt hit the roof top of the building I was in.,6
When I got very low marks in one of the assignments.,2
"When a friend tried to back bite me on false grounds.  This made  
me wonder if he was a really a good friend.",3
"I felt disgust after watching a picture on television about  
torturing political prisoners in India (this happened in the  
India of Indira Ghandi).",0
"When I was on a cave excursion with friends, I suddenly lost them  
and was afraid of losing my way in the cave.",6
"I once proposed my own niece whom I did not know but I discovered  
after she was my girlfriend.",2
"I was very angry when I heard that my brother was beaten by his  
friends. 
",3
"Motor failure on a boat outside Gottenburg when we were in heavy   
seas and the wind was strong.  As we could not steer the boat we  
drifted towards the rocks.  We did not succeed in attracting the  
attention of any passerby until 4 hours had elapsed.",6
A case of unrequited love.,4
"On a trip I passed by a cellulose factory. It was a fine day,  
beautiful landscape; I observed this factory with disgust.",0
"I watched the news at the TV, it was a commentary about  
""Hainburg"". I felt disgusted when I heard members of the union  
speak about the situation.",0
When I heard that my friend had started drinking beer.,4
"I had this feeling before my graduation and never dared to speak  
to my relatives and  friends.  Because of this feeling I would  
avoid situations, however I do not know the reason for this.",2
"When thieves broke into my house at night and held my wife and me  
on gun-point for at least ten minutes and took away a lot of  
property.",6
"My father suddenly fell ill. He stayed for 3 months in the  
hospital: the last month on intensive care of the Academic  
Hospital, then he died.",4
"When they told me that I had been admitted to the faculty of  
medicine.",1
"My elder brother had been expelled from college and he was so  
frustated that he attempted suicide - he drank bottle fragments.   
I was very sad when I learnt this.",4
"When I finally got a job after days of wondering whether I would  
be hired or not and counting on the money that it would bring.",1
None.,2
"My younger brother destroyed and gave away some of the books that  
I had intended to keep for as long as possible.",3
When I had a Latin examination in school.,2
Finding out I am not chosen for the English lectures.,2
"When I splashed a child by not slowing down while driving  
through a puddle of water.",5
Insulted by my mother.,4
"Went to a lecture about Chinese history and hear about the Opium  
War.",2
"Whenever I read or think about the way people treat animals and  
nature.",4
"When a man spoke very sexistly in the company of some friends of  
mine.",0
"We were at secondary school and I was making a lot of noise.  The  
teacher came to ask us as to who was making all the noise.  I did  
not own up so the  whole class was punished.",5
Relating to my closest family.,1
"This happened when I was in the 10th standard.  The paddy crops  
were in a bad shape as it had not rained and there was no water  
in the well, so I was in a very sad mood.  I came to the  
conclusion that I would ignore the paddy field, just 12 hours  
after this it rained for one hour.  This was a very tense time  
and the rain brought me tremendous pleasure.",1
"The weather is very bad (fog and slipperiness) the newcast  
reports many traffic accidents and my boyfriend is driving home  
and still has 60 kilometers to go.",6
"I was working as a secretary.  My boss was to go to give a  
lecture, and wanted me to give him the exact address of the  
place.",5
"I never failed my examinations since Standard 1 but I experienced  
sad moments when I sat for Standard 8 Examination and I was not  
selected for Secondary School education in 1978.",4
"I met my ex boyfriend by chance.  We separated a few months ago  
and I am now with a new boyfriend.  My ex boyfriend looked  
depressed, and I know I am not to be blamed.",5
"I was sad when my MCE grades were out. I had gone for a football  
match a mile away from home. The mail found me there. I was  
disappointed and didn't play the other half of the match.",4
"In traffic I often get relatively angry with other drivers.  
Several transgressions make me mad, especially not yielding to  
priority traffic (e.g. coming from the right).",3
"Some boys deliberately played tricks on me in the experiments.
",3
"During the Summer, at my workplace, a person kept interfering  
with my tasks and making unfounded remarks.  I felt hatred for  
him but it stopped when I realized that he just longed for attention.",3
Was caught stealing apples in a neighbor's garden.,2
"I was disgusted with my brother's behaviour when he kept throwing  
things away because of his anger, after mum had shouted at him.",0
"Mr C took my drawing pens, without having asked for my permission  
first, and lost them.  He did not tell me about it till I asked  
him and then did not try to find them.",3
"When I got to know that the friend I am closest to got engaged,  
and she was going away.  I was overjoyed for her, but also felt  
frightened as I was very emotionally dependent on her.  I did not  
know what I would do without her.",6
"When the teacher asked me a question, I did not know the answer  
and I just stood still for about a few minutes without saying a  
word.",2
"When I didn't pass the examinations for FUVEST I felt myself  
guilty for I should have studied. I had the opportunities, and  
I drew them out.",5
When I was walking on a fairly out-of-the-way street.,6
"When I was seven years old, I stole a chewing-gum from a big  
glass bowl on the counter of a nearby shop, and I got caught.",2
When I found out that someone close to me was flirting around.,0
"This week I was phoned by an old friend with whom I lost contact  
a few years ago.",1
"When I realized that my closest friend had said bad things about  
me when I was not around and had betrayed me by making friends  
with my boyfriend's other girl.",0
"I remember deceiving my brother, I told him that I was going to  
attend the Sunday service, instead I went out to the town with a friend. ",5
I felt disgust when I saw a dead animal on the roadway.,0
"I was at home alone, and heard noises on the roof, and doorknobs,  
and drawers.",6
"One Saturday morning I had got ready to go out swimming with my  
friends.  Unfortunately the weather did not permit it, so we  
stayed indoors.",4
"When I was mistakenly accused of being a thief when I accidently  
gave a fake coin at a counter.  I realized this before I handed  
over the coin, but the man called me a thief and called a  
witness.",3
"Realizing one's desire, an experienced feeling of satisfaction  
from the realization of one's desires and aims.",1
When I have a plain appearance.,2
"In form three we were taking our mock exams and someone else (a  
friend) was making noise when the examinateur picked on me and  
said that he would tear up my answer sheet.  I got very angry  
with the girls involved.",3
"When a close friend took leave of me, because she went to Israel  
for one year.",4
"Badly chosen words to a vague acquaintance of mine made me feel  
ashamed at having given the wrong impression about what I wanted  
to say.  Thoughtlessness.",2
On the scenic railway at the fairground.,6
Being chased in the dark by someone I did not know.,6
"Before an examination: I had the fealing that I had not learned  
enough.",6
"I was stopped from entering a party while I was at School but I  
had an Invitation card with me. This was done because they said I  
was too young to join elderly people.",0
"Some students have been calling lecturers nicknames and I was not  
able to find out who they were to stop them.",5
"When I recently managed to get my first consulting assignment  
""myself"" i.e on my own initiative.",1
When I was given detention at secondary school.,2
"When I learned that a relative had been spreading rumours about  
me.",0
"We were in a disco and the evening was not at all pleasant.   
Despite my not knowing why, I was angry with my companion.  I let  
him feel my bad humour as I cannot hide my feelings.",3
"When my brother came back home after staying in hospital. He had  
undergone an operation which had been a matter of life or death.  
When he came home I could see him smile for the first time after  
may weeks.",1
"When I found out that I could not go to the concert (after buying  
the tickets) because of a biology test which occurred the morning  
after.",4
"When a drunkard, in town yelled at me saying that I was a  
prostitute.",0
"When I went for a picnic in Lonavala, I felt full of joy.",1
When a colleague failed to contact me at the arranged time.,4
"When I was walking at night, I saw fire suspended in the air and  
it was split into several segments by something I could not see.   
I suspected that it was witch-craft.",6
"One rainy day when the streets were wet, and as I was walking down  
a slope, I fell down out of my carelessness.  There were many  
people and they saw me, so I felt ashamesd.  Moreover I hurt my  
ankle and it was painful.",2
"After my vacations, one day after a lecture it occured to me to  
buy a rose for my mother.  We went together to a pub and my  
mother told me that she would be getting married next Spring.  I  
did not known about it and so was all the more glad.",1
"When I came to know that my grandmother had died.  She was very  
close to me.",4
"When my mother and father separated (it was a brief separation  
and they are together now).",4
"When a professor caught me absent-minded and not paying attention  
to what he was saying.",2
"Some students whose English is worse than mine can go to your  
lectures (English lectures).",4
"My sister gave birth to twins, healthy ones.",1
"At a restaurant I observed how the gypsies tried to get money by  
cheating the foreigners i.e non Swedish speaking.  My anger had  
nothing to do with hatred against foreigners, but it was an  
expression of the anger I feel when I see people being used .",3
When I vomitted a lump of blood.,0
"I was at the seaside and my brother disappeared for a couple of  
hours.",6
"Several days after my final examination at school, I was sitting  
in an airplane on my way to Greece. I enjoyed that moment very  
much.",1
"When I was caught with another man's wife.  I had taken the  
opportuinty as this man was abroad but he returned that night.",5
"After a long trip in my dad's van without incident I stopped to  
fill the tank with gas and dented the side of the van against the  
pole. Then my cars electrical system would not work when I tried  
to drive home from his house.",3
"I guess I have often been ashamed after having talked badly of  
other people.",2
Someone told a lie that I had stolen his money.,3
"It was when I was allowed to take my wife away from her parents  
after being refused for three times on grounds that she should  
first write her examination.",1
"My favourite horse died. We had tried our best to save him, but  
it was hopeless, he had to be shot.",4
"Did not get up early enough to watch my class football team  
playing against another team.",5
When they threatened me with a knife to take my money.,6
"When I went home on holidays I found that my niece and nephew had  
passed away I was very sad for the children were not even sick  
before death but suddenly died.",4
When I got low marks in B.Sc final.,3
"My father began to say incoherant things concerning my brother's and  
my own behaviour towards him.  His biased (authoritarian) and  
ridiculous point of view made us angry.",3
Walking along with a dog barking at you and following you.,6
Afraid of a dead body.,6
"One day I heard from a friend that the boy I loved had gone out  
with her and not with me.",4
"The week before I entered to army, when we were being selected.  
During 5 days I had to pass 10 hours a day waiting for the  
answer, which at last was the worst. The fear of being convoked,  
of hearing the fated phrase, was constant.",6
"Car accident, hurt three of my closest family.",5
Every time I see a spider or a snake.,6
"I had stopped talking to a very close friend of mine.  A week  
later he came over to try and make friends with me  again and  
from the way he talked I felt that he was a very mean preson.",5
"When I missed crashing, by a hair's breadth, into a man who came  
out 20 metres ahead of me when I was driving at 110km/h.",6
First day at University (I didn't know what to expect).,6
Scoring a goal in football match.,1
When unjustified hurting other people.,2
"When somebody who had been a bully and had acted cruelly to  
others who were unable to defend themselves was taken down a few  
notches and he began to grovel. I was disgusted with his  
grovelling and the manner in which he had treated others.",0
"The outrageous conduct of a relative towards me and those close  
to me.(blaming us and lying)",3
"Unexpected visit by a close friend, whom I hadn't seen for half a  
year.",1
"When I went to a sauna with my father for the first time (I was  
16). When I entered the sauna naked, I felt ashamed for a short  
time.",2
"I live with my sister now and sometimes she angers me especially  
when she thinks I don't keep the apt. clean enough.",3
I lied to my best friend and I wouldn't reform what I had done.,2
When I was travelling at night.,6
"I lied to my mother in the sixth form she said she would ring to  
find out and I had to tell her I had lied.",5
"I was going around with a girl without loving her.  Not only did  
I go around with her, but we did many more things.  In the end I  
was not very sincere to her.",5
"A friend of mine told me that my boyfriend had been with another  
girl this Summer.  We had been going out together for four years  
and we had not done so for the last three months.  I could not  
believe it.",4
"When I thought for an instant that a very good relationship with  
a person had finished.",4
"When I checked my examination paper and realized that I had been  
careless, thoughtless, lazy and hasty so as to make unnecessary  
mistakes concerning things I know and understand.",3
"When the literature teacher made me recite a poem in the middle  
of the class and I had to gesticulate.",2
I had borrowed some money and I exceeded the time-limit.,2
"Coming home one night - my sister was home, and had been drinking  
heavily and started picking arguments.",0
"I was very sad when I was shouted at by Uncle and was told that I  
was not to be given school fees because I didn't go to work in  
the garden since I had gone to escort my sister to the bus depot.",4
"Recent break-up of seriors long-term relationship, helped along  
by would-be  in-laws.",4
You ignored the fact that we could not hear you at the back.,4
When my grandmother died of cancer.,4
"I allowed my little brother to clean the bathroom in his own way.  
My mother came and saw the floor overflowed with water, slapped  
my brother in the face and told him to go to bed immediately.",5
Saw poverty in the countryside.,2
"When I was walking on the street, a group of drunk, bawling young  
people approached.",6
"When my husband lied to me, tricked me and when I had to leave my  
home.",4
"When the church choir came one Sunday after being away for some  
weeks.",1
"When my father made my mother go through really terrible  
situations, I felt furious, impotent, nervous, upset, ........",3
"When an employer of my younger sister (17 yrs) made a ""pass"" at  
her.",0
"When I learnt that the girl I had impregnated was in hospital and  
was on the verge of dying as she had refused to accept the  
responsibility of her pregnancy and had wanted to commit suicide.",6
Getting my accentance letter from CAL. ,1
"My husband had gone to drive a strange, broken car.  At the  
agreed time, he had not returned, and I feared that he had had an  
accident.",6
When I heard that my father had passed away.,4
Not doing well in examns which I should do well (English examns).,2
"I was joyful when I received a present (2 books and a pencil)  
from the headmaster in standard 6 because I had passed, I became  
No 1 and he said I was one of the pupils who had good behaviour.",1
When I was involved in a car crash.,5
I saw in the street a man spitting.,0
"When close relatives tried to dissuade me from studying  
Psychology because of its low status.",3
"Discovering that Lillehammer provided no musical environment that  
suits my taste, even though I had been told so.",4
"When I knew that a person that I liked very much didn't react the  
way I would like to, even that I knew about his feelings for me.",4
"When my room-mate locked up the keys of my room in our room after  
I had told her that I was  only in the bathroom having a shower.  
 She left and I had to do without supper.",3
"I had an interview for entry into college. The results were to be  
announced on radio. After a long period of waiting the results  
were released. I had succeded - tension was relieved by joy.",1
"The joy came to me when I heard that I was going to start a  
Medical course at the Lilongwe School for Health Sciences.",1
"I had intercourse with someone and then I realized that what I  
had done was wrong and it disgusted me.",0
"A child, 9 years old, died in a stupid way.  He fell from a place  
which was 1 metre high.",4
"I felt disgust about all my friends. After having done a great  
effort to organize an evening together, and didn't work out, they  
put the blame on me. After this, I feel disgust towards those that  
blame me.",0
"Came back from surfing to find car broken into and gear and money  
stolen.",3
When I failed the ninth standard exam in school.,2
"When a friend of mine keeps telling me morbid things that  
happened to his dog.",0
"When I ""passed out"" a female friend of mine for no apparent  
reason.  I was under the influence of drugs and when I am like  
that I get mad at anyone, however small the provocation.",5
"My child passed away after a short illness when he was just  
eleven months old. I was only told about his death without  
knowing that he had been ill.",4
"Every time I meet a certain person. We cannot get on well  
together, we dislike each other.",0
"I met a woman who was looking for our house. She stopped me but I  
ran away. When I arrived at home I found the same woman and she  
told my parents what had happened so I felt ashamed.",2
"I offended a person who had done much for me and who had helped  
me for everything.",5
"I feel always guilty before my parents when I come home and have  
to tell them I have failed an exam.",5
"When my parents work very hard and get tired - while I go to  
school and study instead of helping them. I feel that I'm letting  
them down, disappointing them.",5
"People who came to our home - and requested ""Put out your smoke"".  
That we should not smoke in our house... and asked not even  
politely. It disgusted me because I think people need to adapt to  
the situation.",0
"When I found out that the seat in the coach that I had booked had  
been sold to somebody else.",0
"I was embarassed at the exam in microbiology. I was ashamed with  
myself - how little I knew and how good was the examinor. I  
rarely become ashamed.",2
When I quarrelled with my boyfriend.,4
"When I saw a car run over a child, out of carelessness.",3
"I felt disgusted when my appointment to meet the E.N.T.  
specialist had been turned down. The specialist came from U.K.  
and went the same day and we do not have one.",0
"A person I know who tells lies and so pretending to be better  
than she is.",0
Got a big fish in fishing.,1
Failing an examn because I did not work hard enough.,5
"When I didn't succeed to enter at the University, I felt that the  
college entrance course sistem prejudiced me, that my integrity,  
and effort weren't corresponded.",4
"I was dancing in a theatre.  I was not sure whether some frieends  
of mine had come to see me.  I was very scared of doing things  
wrong.",2
"A man whom I like, was drunk and tried to molest me.",0
"During a holiday in East-Germany I got aquainted with a boy who  
lived there. We started writing, but I only wrote once. I felt  
ashamed because I probably was one of his sparse contacts with  
western Europe.",5
"When they denied a job to a person that I propsed giving political  
reasons that has nothing to do directly with the professional  
level.",3
"I felt sadness when I remembered my former boyfriend with whom I  
got separated an year ago and when comparing him with my present  
one with whom things are not much of a success.",4
"I received a poor grade on a midterm even though I got all the  
right answers and knew the material. I went to the TA to try to  
raise my grade and he wouldn't do it.",3
"When I was back home after a long time, meeting beloved people  
and close friends.",1
Some foreign students playing loud music late at night.,0
"When I was 7-8 years old, I woke up one night and found myself  
alone at home.  My mother had gone out to buy cigarattes from a  
machine.",6
Recently I happened to remain alone for a long time.,4
"It was on January 1st 1985 when I accidentally broke a Fanta  
bottle in a certain bottle store in Zomba.",5
"When I went to the sauna for the first time and there were men  
and women.",2
"This condition accumulated in my mind when funeral news was  
brought to my awareness, that a close relative had passed away.",4
"On Christmas eve,1984, I had just finished the exams and was  
afraid as the results of one of my major subjects had been very  
unsatisfactory.  I thought that I had only a 50% chance of  
passing.  Even if I failed this subject I would not need to  
repeat.  However I liked this subject very much and my results  
were bad because of my lazyness.  If I was forced to change to a  
minor in this subject I would be very unwilling.",6
"When my brother did not send me the transport money to resume       
my studies in time at UNZA.",3
When I discovered that my mother had been involved in adultery.,0
"I was jerking me off in my bedroom, when suddenly, my mother came  
in. She looked at me and immediately left the room.",2
"Close friend leave to go overseas for an indefinite period.  
Farewell scene at airport.",4
"Upon moving away from home for the first time to a different  
city, I felt no longer ""under the wing"" of my parents even though  
they would always be there to help me. I felt a sense of loss, I  
was now all alone in the world, responsible for my own actions.",4
"A ex-boyfriend tried to prejudice me before my fiancT and his  
family saying things about me that let his family worried. We had  
to postpone our wedding and we were already using our wedding  
rings. To be honest I didn't feel just anger, I felt hate.",3
When I learnt that I had been betrayed by my friend.,4
"I was with my girlfriend when some guys that I don't like made  
fuss at my girl.",3
"I spend the night with my boyfriend, while there was also a  
friend of his. We all lay on the floor to sleep. When my  
boyfriend was fallen asleep the other boy and I started petting.  
After 15 minutes I felt miserable and awoke my boyfriend to tell  
him that.",5
"One night, while I was sleeping, I woke up suddenly with the  
sensation that there was someone in my room.",6
"A truck (big one) nearly mowed me off the road (I was driving a  
small Lazer).",6
"When burglars with guns forced themselves into my house and  
ordered me to give them money or face death.",6
"When I was a young teenager (14)  my brother-in-law to be had  
made heavy advances to me.  I did not understand very well what  
it was all about but I reacted strongly and the feelings are  
still there.",0
"I was at a children's camp abroad. The people (the leaders, my  
coevals) were very king to us. One night we smeared our foreign  
friends with tooth-paste while they were sleeping and then we  
roused the whole camp by our shouts. Later I was so sorry. I  
didn't utter a word for two days, then I went to apologize.",2
"My mother was ill and asked me to prpare our lunch. I went to do it,  
and while I was working, she stayed behind me telling what I  
had, or not to do. I asked her to stop meddling, and to go to  
bed. When I went to ask for help to my sister, my mother said that  
I was proud, that I asked for help only when I wanted and that I  
wasn't able to cook by myself.",3
My friend misunderstood me.,3
"A teacher spent a lot of time helping me without wanting to be  
paid for it. For the exam I didn't got a good grade and I felt  
ashamed.",2
"I acted in an English play in college and got the Best Actress  
award, while our play got the first place.",1
"When I heard that my father had found a letter from my boyfriend  
and he was calling me to talk about it.",6
"I was nailed. I lied in connection with a book which I took from  
the library, because I had to keep it for a longer time.",2
"Each time I am confronted with reports about repression and  
torture.",0
"After seeing an ""uncertain"" child work on a model for several  
hours, I watched a ""bully"" of the same age destroy it, telling  
the child that it was worthless.",3
"Flicking through a magazine showing pictures of homosexual men  
committing various acts.",0
"When I learnt that I had to repeat the first year, I found the  
solution immediately but was blocked by many difficulties.",4
"A friend of mine got pregnant anf failed the first year at  
university.  The boyfriend refused his responsibility and they  
ended up in court.",4
"When my boss enrolled in a course to satisfy his own ends - to  
trample on his associates.  I have the misfortune to have one of  
my superiors in my course.",3
Not doing well in the examn.,2
"I saw a dead child which was not covered, it had been knocked  
down by a car.",4
Not handing in homework in time.,5
"It was a complex situation concerning a relationship with a  
boyfriend, I had broken the relationship for some reasons.  
Meanwhile, as I felt it, I had most sorrow.",4
"I felt ashamed when I had not attended a class and the teacher asked  
me the reason for my absence. ",2
Beating my brother up.,5
"I had an important amount of money with me and felt fear of being  
assaulted.",6
When someone makes advances that one does not want.,0
When employer made a pass at me whilst I was at work.,0
"I was learning judo and my instructor wanted me to assist him in  
teaching girls judo at a suburban college.  I was just a beginer,  
and he made me a green belt so that I would be able to command  
respect.  This was against my principles, and yet I allowed myself  
to listen to him.  I gave it up soon after, however I felt very  
ashamed at not sticking to my principles and at not having put my  
foot down earlier.",2
When I heard about the death of my aunt.,4
"I was very angry when my friend lost my practical's journal,  
which I needed to study for the exams.",3
A grenade blew out next to me.,6
"I was swimming in the river and I lost the top of my bikini.  I  
did not notice it and came out of water.  There was a  
disagreeable classmate watching the scene.",2
"I was pregnant and thought that by not having the baby I would  
hurt the father like he did me regardless of the life we had  
created.",5
I had failed some subjects in mathematics.,4
"A good friend of mine who is at the moment in a foreign country.  
I didn't write her for several months and now I feel guilty.",5
"I had an appointment downtown, and the person in question was  
half an hour late.",3
"My friend started to misunderstand and hurt me.
",6
"During a football match, the other team was rude and they hurt my  
team members and me.  The coach was prejudiced against us and  
punished us unreasonably.  Later we fought with each other and  
the match had to be cut short.",3
"In a confrontation with a person, he provoked me several times  
till I reacted in an angry way.  Fortunately there were no  
disastrous consequences.",3
"In a situation with my girlfriend I took a decision.  Later when  
I thought about it, I realized that it was an erroneous decision.",5
"I was with my boyfriend forgetting that I had left the house  
unlocked. Unfortunatly a thief came and stole all the kitchen  
utensils. Thereafter I was afraid of the consequences.",6
When I heard the bad news about the death of a close person.,0
I was accepted by the Chinese university.,1
"My friend and I had offended our classmate unintenionally.  We  
wanted to apologize to her so we decided to visit her.  We knew that she  
was stubborn so we were frightened.  When we rang her door bell,  
our fear was at it's climax",6
When someone told a secret I told them not to tell.,3
"When I discovered that my girlfriend was going around with  
another boy.",3
"A female classmate was always late for meetings which were for  
the homework and not social gatherings.  We were very busy and  
the deadline was close but we had to waste half an hour or an  
hour waiting for her as we could do nothing else then.",3
When I heard the news of my grandfather's sudden death.,4
A father helping his kid to fight other kids.,3
When I qualified for form I.,1
"Someone told me I was chosen for the English lectures because I  
am good looking.",2
"Because of a conflict with my parents there was a possibility to  
interrupt my studies.",6
"My mom called early in the morning (On a Monday) and I had just  
seen her that weekend. I couldn't understand what could be so  
important as to make her call at such a strange hour. I missed  
the call and had to call her back that afternoon.",6
When I had a good result in the certificate examination.,1
The behaviour of people spitting everywhere.,0
"I was dancing Malipenga (traditional dance). I exaggerated the  
steps I was supposed to make in the negative way. This happened in  
front of spectators. It was bad for our Boma (group) because I  
was on the front line where ability is displayed and it is this  
ability that counts when choosing the winning side.",0
"The day the Real Madrid team of basket ball qualified for the  
final at Athens.",1
When my girlfriend of two years told me it was all over.,3
"One evening when my sisters, brothers and I were watching T.V my  
kid brother took a big mirror and reflected light on the french  
windows.  I thought that these lights that we could see were  
coming from torches annd that it meant that there were thieves  
outside.",6
When my grandmother died of cancer.,4
"A holiday at a whitesand deserted beach. A cool evening near the  
end of summer and we had a fire in the sand - toasted  
marshmellows, cuddled and drank champagne.",1
I gave my mom a gift she wanted for years. I raflected her joy.,1
"We are repainting rooms in my house. My mother started to enact  
plans to paint my room without consulting me.",3
"Whenever I am alone in a dark room, walk alone on the street,  
sleep alone in the room at night or see something which is only  
partly visible.  This emotion was very strong when as an 8 year    
old child I saw something horrible.  ",6
"When I was accepted as a student at the college, not having  
thought it possible.",1
"When I noticed that a nice person was being exploited  
economically.",0
"A good friend quitted me after he had behaved in a strange  
manner.",4
"After a hard day at the university I also had to make dinner that  
evening. It failed because of a frying pan which broke.",3
"At church camp when I accepted Christ into my life and so did my  
friend.",1
"We were walking in the park at night.  It was very dark and very  
late.  We began to hear foot steps all around us, and we could  
not find our way out.",6
When I found my girl in bed with another man.,0
"At a choral concert I appeared as a solist. The concert5 was very  
good, I forgot all the hard work that had been done before. There  
remained only an undescribable joy and a feeling of warmth,  
security etc.",1
"I met a dear friend of mine after a long time.  I expressed my feelings  
in our own usual way, by mutual scolding and abusing (with  
complete understanding) and by touching, patting and taking the  
hand of the other person, etc...",1
"I stormed into the room, hoping to cool myself with some soft  
music from my three band radio cassette.  There was only young  
Kaley there and he explained, "" Your aunt has sold it as she  
wanted to buy clothes.""",0
"In Punjab, when in the name of religion people killed each other  
during the agitation.",0
"When my father did not get back from Chipata on time, he was thus  
holding back progress as everything depended on him.  I felt  
angry over his actions.",3
When a guy chased me when I was out jogging.,6
"I had been watching a TV-program on paranormal phenomena.  At  
night I could not fall off to sleep as I feared that humanoids  
were on the move.",6
"My current work load is too much.  The feeling comes back from  
time to time.",4
"After having been told not to take the car, I took it anyway and  
felt guilty about having taken it.",5
A rich man expressing disgust towards an alcoholic.,0
"My apartment has had three robberies in the last month. The guy  
upstairs just got robbed making it the fourth.",6
"This feeling of guilt really applies to moral/religious views. I  
(being Catholic) went against what I was brought up to believe in  
and had a sexual relationship with my boyfriend. Many months  
later, when I was doing some deeper self analysis I began to feel  
guilty and realized that I had gone against what I wanted for  
myself and my future.",5
"When five of my friends at the secondary school found out the bad  
things that I had been saying about them.",2
"I was sitting in a restaurant with friends and I knew that in the  
meantime my girl-friend must have come to my flat and found the  
door closed.",5
"My class leader told me the university won't let all of us go to  
your lectures because we are not All English Class.",3
"When I saw a big man hit another one, and nobody did anything.",3
"When a good friend with whom I had an intimate relationship made  
clear that he didn't want to continue in the same way. He choose  
his girlfriend (also a friend of mine).",4
"When I had an argument with my best friend and I thought that I  
was right and she was not.",3
When my basket ball team lost the qualification at a final.,4
"A man sexually aggressed a small girl in the bus but the girl did  
not dare to speak out.",0
"As a result of breaking the indicator light as mentioned  
for guilt.",6
"I saw a film where snakes were crawling everywhere. I felt them  
crawling over all my body with that ... skins. The noise that  
they did disturbed me very much.",0
"When I caused much pain and sorrow to my boyfriend by finishing  
our relationship.",4
"I usually come back home early but this day I came home back late  
to find some visitors at my place.",0
"I broke a cup and put it back without telling anyone about it and  
someone almost got blamed for it, then it was discovered that it  
was me who had broken it.",5
"I arrived an hour late for an important meeting ( I had  
misunderstood the time).",5
"It was in March 1985 when one of my fellow students borrowed my  
wristwatch and after sometime he broke a glass of that watch I  
got angry when he was telling me but the anger didn't take long  
to fade.",3
"I was listening to a priest in church saying how sinful man was,  
and how all men should renounce their desires and pleasures to  
please God. I could never understand how something that brings you  
joy could be a sin.",0
When I got a message that my child was not feeling well.,4
When I saw a scene on T.V where a castration was shown.,0
"I was unfaithful to my partner once when he was working abroad  
for a long period.",5
"Felt it after I spoke terribly (got mad at) the person who is the  
most important in my life.",2
"The death of my mother-in-law after a long sick-bed. at the  
moment of dying I was with her.",4
"A few weeks back my daughter had very high fever and I was scared  
that it might lead to brain damage or convulsions.",6
"I was living in a flat where things did not go very well for me.   
Finally, they threw me out and this prejudiced people I esteem a  
lot.",3
"I felt guilty when I had refused to lend money to my friend who  
needed it immediately.",5
"I was travelling back home by boat with two friends of mine after  
a lovely holiday trip.  The night and the sea were dark, and the  
wind was blowing.  I feared that death was there on the boat, I  
somehow felt sure about it.  I feared being left alone.",6
"Letting Jesus take control of my emotions i.e., ill feeling.",1
Telling white lies.,5
When a class-mate died.,4
When junior doctors returned to work after bunking them.,0
"When I accused unjustly a person of robbery, who proved me the  
contrary, almost caused a public fight.",2
"When my husband got picked up in our new car for drunken driving.  
We had made a pact the other would not drink and so therefore  
would be the driver for the evening etc. I was not present at the  
time.",3
"I once saw an elderly lady who was not properly dressed.  She was  
wearing a transparent dress, such things are not sopposed to be  
seen in African society.",0
"When I received the acceptance form for the second year at  
university.",1
"I always get angry when somebody deceives me, or tries to conceal  
his lie skilfully and this offends me even more.",3
Haven't felt shame for ages.,2
When I heard about the disaster in Bophal (India).,0
"It appeared that I gave correct answers to all questions during  
an examination of personality while I thought I performed very  
badly. Even now, I don't know how I managed it.",1
A boy who shot dead a squirrel.,5
When I left a man in whom I really believed.,4
Not getting the reference paper.,2
"My grandmother has been in a hospital for a week and I still  
haven't had time to see her.",5
Whhen the front tyre of the car burst.,6
I was told that a friend of mine was going to Mexico for good.,4
"After a motor accident (I was the frong-seat-passenger) I spit  
blood.",6
Facing a mad dog.,6
"My brother and I were at home watching a TV program when I  
started to tease  him and in this joke I hurt him without  
knowing the seriousness of it I went on. He got angry and gave it  
back to me. At this moment I felt anger at him but knowing that  
it was my fault.",5
"When my mother rejected my boyfriend and made unfair judgements  
on him.",3
"Having moved into a flat within the last week I felt some disgust  
that a bathroom tap had been left to drip with a faulty fawcet.",0
"When my brothers were being cruel to my boyfriend, because his  
flat-mate bent back one of my brother's fingers. It wasn't his  
fault.",3
"A friend of mine tried to persuade me to go at her place to act  
as a model because she felt too tired. It was a quarter of an  
hour before the appointed time, I had just lied down and did not  
want to go because it was too late anyway. She said that I only  
was talking about looking for work, but if it was possible I  
would not accept it. I was angry about this unjust judgment.",3
"I had shouted at my younger brother and he was always afraid when  
I called out loudly.",6
"When a classmate hit me on my occipital region when I was busy  
studying and concentrating on my classnotes.",3
"When I had to lie to my boyfriend so that he wouldn't suspect I'd  
bought him a xmas present as expensive as I had.",5
I got a fairly large amount of my taxes back.,1
Hearing of the death of a friend who had been skiing.,4
"I was sleeping in my room but woke in the middle of the night to  
think I could hear noises and see shadows moving. I felt that  
someone was in the house.",6
"I felt angry when I heard that my sister had failed the  
Examinations which we hoped she was going to pass with  
distinctions.",3
"When two female classmates and I were having lunch, we chatted and   
cracked jokes, I was very happy.  However, I felt that I may have   
said something inappropriate which might cause them to have a bad   
impression of me.",1
"Somebody went around spreading news that I like people with  
money.",0
"Traveling as the only female in a railway carriage in the middle  
of the night in Italy.",6
"When I lied last week. I lied to someone to get info. for a  
paper I was writing. I told her that the info. was for a  
newspaper article. I was afraid if I told the truth she wouldn't  
help me.",5
"I beat up a female friend after I heard the defamatory stories that  
she had been telling.  I was later called to explain my  
behaviour.",5
"This sounds really predictable and usual but it was absolutely  
heart-rending at the time. My first lover (I was 15) just rang up  
one day and announced that he had found another woman. I never  
saw him again and it hurt because I was positive that it was  
""TRUE LOVE"" !!",4
When my studies are too demanding and I cannot cope with it.,4
"When I lose on my bets on anything - baseball, football,  
basketball, track, craps, poker, or arcade - whether its 5  
dollars or 200 I feel that I should never have done it in the  
first place.",0
"When I saw a T.V programme on animals in the film world  
(mistreated and used).",0
"When we got lost in Florence and the coach did not turn up until  
midnight.  I had no place to go to and there were strange reports  
at the police station.",6
"When the guy I was in love with told me that he had met someone  
else and that we would not meet again for a year.  Although we  
did not have a steady relatioship, we were having an affair.",4
"While travelling in a bus, there were three people sitting behind  
me (two men and a woman).  They were drunk and the conversation  
was unbelievable (about fucking, fellatio, etc...).  They tried  
to get others to take part in the conversation.  I loathed it and  
felt like crying.",0
Can't think of any.,2
"Car accident nearly occurred between us and drunk driver coming  
in opposite direction it missed us by approx 1 m and collided  
(after rolling twice midair) into nearby scrub.",6
"I was annoyed this particular day as it seemad that the odds were  
not in my favour.  My grandfather added fuel to the fire, when I   
had an important appointment so I unleashed my anger on him.",3
"I was disgusted from a quarrel between two married people, in  
which the children were involved as accusers of one of the  
parents.",0
"When I opened my TE Score envelope, and saw I got into  
Physiotherapy.",1
"When I was working, I got treated in a way which I felt was not  
democratic.",0
"When my grandmother passed away.  We had been waiting for it as  
she had been sick for years, but when it happened I found it hard  
to accept.",4
"My brother wanted me to buy a flute with him but I didn't accept  
afterwards I regretted it because he became sad.",4
"I was angry when I watched a ski-race. All the Austrian skiers  
dropped out.",3
"During the week-end at home, my mother fries greasy and unhealthy  
meat dishes which make me feel sick.",0
"When I wet my head (or bed ?) one day my sister discovered it and reported  
it to the other siblings. So my mother had to scold me.",2
"A tiresome person held me up all day long.  I was very busy then  
(I can not remember what the problem was).  He continously tried  
to make me talk to him and disturbed me.",0
"When I didn't bring my girlfriend home one night. Later she told  
me that a cardriver solicited her.",5
"Fearing the use of power or reprimands when I belong to the  
minority.",6
"When I was a Sr. in HS. one of the class counselors died of  
hepatitis. She was very sensitive. She knew my shyness and drew  
me out to improve myself image. I missed her funeral - so I could  
not publically grieve. My parents didn't understand.",4
"When they phoned me from Great-Britain to tell me that I could go  
there, if I wished, in Summer.",1
Getting a part-time job.,1
I couldn't be with a girl on whom I was very keen.,4
"In a sexual experience with an unknown woman where after the  
sexual act I only could go away without looking backwards.",0
"It was when I failed standard 8 exams while all my friends  
passed and went to secondary school. In class I was always  
getting more marks than they did.",4
"One day, I was home and there was a phone call informing me that  
some of my relatives had died in an accident.",4
"We were discussing a subject ( I knew very little about it) and I  
was holding my ground.  They showed me that I was wrong.",2
"When a close friend entrusted me with a secret and I let the cat  
out of the bag.",2
"After having finished my B.Sc, I was struggling hard to continue  
my studies and had taken the M.SC exam.  I was not sure that I  
would be selected in the written exam.  When I saw my name in the  
selected candidates list I was overjoyed.",1
When my father was ill and was waiting for the results of his tests.,6
"I bought a Christmas present for my girl-friend. On my way home I  
was really glad about having found such a suitable thing.",1
"When the paramilitary was sent to the UNZA and it started using  
tear gas and started intimidating the students without any  
provocation.",3
"A friend called me and told me that she wanted to come and see  
me. She lived in a village at 50 km distance fom my home town.  
Next morning I expected her but she didn't arrive. As I got  
impatient I called her but her parents told me that she had gone  
skiing. I was very angry because I had cancelled an appointment  
to be able to see her.",3
"At a party, on New Year's Eve, I met on old friend whom I had not  
seen for some time",1
When I see pornographic films.,0
"When I noticed that my parents were not in such a prosperity as  
most people in my surroundings.",4
"During the PY 102 film session on Tuesday, one of the films shown   
was of an experiment on a live cat involving strapping it into a  
machine for possibly days, and doing things to its brain.",0
When I was nearly attackad by a man who had been chasing me.,6
"Once I bought my sister a pair of sports shoes as she was going  
to join an athletic meet.  However the shoes were a little big  
and had a few flaws.  She muttered all the way and blamed me for  
having wasted her money anf I felt guilty.",5
"Fear of punishment for having broken an item of value to my  
parents.",6
I couldn't fulfill a promise.,5
Getting ill.,4
"Political and military trnsgressions around the world, generally  
speaking. This cannot be described through this questionaire.",0
"I've always defended my sister when needed, at the expense of my  
brother. This has led to feelings of guilt towards him.",5
My younger sister was almost run over by a lorry.,5
Hearing my girlfriend accept my offer of marriage.,1
"Fear of the turn that the examination paper would take as I  
lacked confidence.",6
"When after 10 months of national service I was ""downgraded"" and  
did not have to do the remaining 5 months.",1
"Father said: If you are pregnant, you will have to procure  
abortion. I was filled with disgust against my father.",0
"Sleeping alone in a tent, while hearing several noises such as  
rustling etc, I am afraid that there are people who are up to no  
good.",6
On rising. No apparent reason.,4
When I got 1/2 out of 15 in Abnormal Psychology I felt ashamed.,2
Being chosen to do this experiment.,1
Before an exam.,6
A friend breaking up with her boyfriend.,4
"When I received a letter from my girlfriend telling me that she  
was engaged to an another man.",2
I went out dancing and found my boyfriend kissing another girl.,3
"Once at midnight, I was working alone at office and the phone  
suddenly rang.",6
Can't remember exact example.,3
I was scared of water when I was a child.,6
"Finding out I am chosen to collect norms for Chinese aphasia (I  
will contribute to China's catching up with the West in  
neuropsychology).",1
"When I complained about a colleague to the manager and he told  
her that someone had complained; this colleague came to me  
believing that I liked her.",5
"I am happpy when I get good results in the field of academics or  
athletics.  ",1
"Making a sexual pass at my cousin with whom I have a very close  
personal relationship.",5
"We had made an appointment to complete together a piece of work.  
It appeared that I was the only one who hadn't prepared anything.",2
"I had misbehaved at a party and did not wish to meet the person  
in question later.",2
"My grandfather was seriously ill, he had only a few days left to  
live. I had always loved him, but never told him. When I saw him  
for the last time, I had the feeling that I had omitted so many  
things I could not do again. - There was a fly sitting on his  
forehead and he was too weak to drive it away. I was very sad  
when I saw that.",4
"I detest any kind of constraint and hate the attempts of elder  
people to force me to a norm of behavior without having legal or  
moral rights to do it. I felt this emotion when a neighbour of  
mine made me kick out my guests because they had talked very  
loudly and threatened that with ""connections"" she will expel me  
from the inst.",0
Swearing in public.,2
"When I learnt that my brother-in-law had been poisoned by his  
friends and that he was dead.",4
"I stayed alone in the dark at night in the mountain, waiting for  
my uncle.  I remember that I took a big stone and it calmed me.",6
"Attempted rape by 5 guys - held my arms behind my back and  
molested me, constantly threatening to beat me. Penetration did  
not occur as the driver of the car stopped that.",6
"I got up late and I could not go to my lessons on time.  When I  
entered the class room the stare of the teacher and my classmates  
made me feel guilty.",5
"When I was a child, I was sometimes forced to eat things that  
disgusted me.",0
"My child, unexpectedly started acting in a restless and  
disturbing way at school.  In addition his performance at school  
weakened.",4
"I received a letter from my grandmother. She has obviusly  
suffered a lot from my grandfather's suffering health. She  
mentioned things she had gotten him and he would never use.",4
"When I was about 17 years old and I stole some pens from a  
stationery store because I didn't have enough money.",5
"Sometime ago I felt very angry when my mother wrote me telling me  
that my elder sister was messing up things at home by her  
internalised aggressive attitude towards parents and her husband.",3
"My parents are divorced, father pays alimony for me. Two years  
ago my sister who lives with father, suddenly asked mother for  
money. As she considered the amount of money my mother offered  
her too small, she brought an action against mother. I was  
terribly angry with my sister.",3
"I was very happy when my scholarship to continue studying at UNZA  
was approved after it had been cancelled.",1
"My mother died of cancer after a 4 year illness - I think the  
most pregnant moment of sadness was the next morning, just as the  
sun rose.",4
"I had a good relationship with two friends. Once without reason,  
they clearly showed that they thought I was naive, dull and  
unable to take care for myself, while I expostulated that I could  
manage things.",4
"My elder sister whom I love very much was leaving for the           
West Indies for two years and I was staying behind.",4
"It was the time when everybody spoke about and discussed  
Hainburg. I was also asked for my opinion. I was ashamed because  
I had no firm view of the whole thing and therefor was not able  
to join the conversation.",2
"At school I was talking to a classmate about mathematics.  I had  
grown weary of it and said : ""I would like to throw the book on  
the arse of Kuikka"".  My classmate said : ""Now, he is sitting  
there and waiting for the book"" (Kuikka was one of the most quiet  
boys of the class).  I was ashamed of myself.",2
"When my sister died, she was only sixteen when she was put to  
rest.",4
Getting into this university to do medicine.,1
"Not quick enough to help the lectors to catty things for the  
lecture.",2
"When I confessed to my girl-friend (now my wife) that I had  
betrayed her with another woman.",2
When grandfather died.,4
When I entered University.,1
When a group of friends began to make critics about me.,2
"I felt guilty when I once went out with another boy and made love  
with him while I had a close boyfriend.",5
"I was walking home late at night from lectures and someone  
deliberately started following me. It was dark and I was scared.",6
"I felt much anger and perhaps I feel it till now, against my  
girlfriend's sister who incited her to betray me just when I  
needed her very much. She didn't think of anything, simply  
passed over everything.",3
"At my Summer job, nobody looked after me in particular and I had  
to learn all on my own.",3
When I had a little accident with my boss'car.,5
"It was on St. Claus Day when I was five years old. St. Claus and  
his Devil Servant came to see me. St. Claus' Devil Servant  
rattled with his chain and bowled terribly. I was so frightened  
that my parents had to ask him to leave.",6
"I used to pinch change from my father's mantlepiece (never my  
mother - she didn't get enough housekeeping) and then I'd feel  
when we went to church as a family I'd felt awkward cos I felt  
I'm expected to go to communion and I would but I was afraid and  
guilty 'cos I committed a mortal sin.",5
"I get irritated with my son when he screams or is sick all over  
his clean clothes.",5
Shame of being reprehended.,2
"My dog, whom I had had for eleven years, died. I watched his  
soporification.",4
"As a child, when I was at home alone, I felt in an indefinate  
manner afraid of the death of my father and mother.",6
Insulted by some stupid people.,3
"Heard someone boasting his fortune telling and I knew he was  
lying.",0
Got in touch with earlier friends after a long absence.,1
"China cannot let you give more lectures because you are needed in  
the specialist clinics. We are so backward in medicine.",2
"I was alone in the bus when I tripped and fell, and dropped all  
my papers.",2
"A young girl tried to put an end to her life because of lover's  
grief; not until she was in hospital I heard that I had been the  
reason for her action.",5
"I was given a wristwatch by my first girl and after two days  
another girl of mine also gave me a wristwatch.",6
"As a passenger in a vehicle travelling from the steep side of  
Arthur's Pass in the middle of a sleet-storm, icy roads, sheer  
chasms to one side, sheer face to the other.",6
"My mother read a letter that a friend of mine had written to me  
telling me how she had got drunk the last time.",3
Finding out that China is backward in science.,2
Thinking about other things in a lecture.,5
"I was told that I had passed the statistics exam.  I had not  
expected this so I was very happy.",1
"When I promised a male friend of mine to visit him, and did not.",5
Getting to know that my uncle in America had a brain tumor.,4
Some boys boasting about their ability to tell dirty jokes.,0
"I was walking along the passage to my room (very near the anatomy  
laboratory) and I heard something and felt that there was some  
thing behind me.  I looked back and there was no one.  I started  
imagining that maybe it was a corpse.",6
"When my niece was 3 years old she was in the living room while we  
were fixing the table for a birthday party and, as every child,  
she couldn't stay calm. She burst a balloon. When I told her to  
be quiet her father pinched her. I believe if I hadn't said anything  
this wouldn't have happened.",5
"On embarking on University life. I came from a different city and  
did not know anybody at the Uni. I was frightened because my well  
known and loved friends, also all my security had been taken  
away.",6
"When I passed the B.A exams with 1st class.  I was the first in  
the family to have got a 1st class, so all the family members  
were very happy and they gave me the opportunity to study  
further.",1
"Someone had to do a lot of efforts to make something work. With  
my help he would have finished much sooner, but I wasn't in the  
mood to help him.",5
"In the past I experienced this feeling almost all the time -  
wherever I went, in different sutuations. I was small and I had  
to be taken to kindergarten, but me the fool didn't dare to tell  
exactly where, finally as a result I was late.",2
"When my aunt, whom I had loved very much, died. When I heard  
about her death, I was not as touched as at the funeral. I really  
became conscious of her death at that moment.",4
When I went for the first time in my life to a nudist-beach.,2
"A workmate and I had been antagonistic with each other for some  
weeks - he had reacted violently to my criticisms of his work  
standards.",6
"Going to a disco by myself to wait for some friends. We had  
separated and hadn't planned where to meet. I wasn't sure if they  
were even going to this place so I felt very conscious of being  
alone.",6
"Some time ago I was present at the wedding party of two close  
friends of mine.",1
"I cut a friend's hair in anger, without any consideration.",5
When I was in the toilet and someone came in.,2
"I was very happy when I passed and went to form I.  It was a  
great relief for me as I had been very worried considering the  
large number of pupils who fail.",1
"I have a two-month old baby.  When I came here, to the  
university, to attend lectures, I had to leave the baby with his  
father.  I felt guilty.",5
"It happened when I lost two very intimate friends in a car  
accident.",4
"4-letter words on a TV programme (Roche) while we were  
entertaining ""conservative"" relations who wanted to see the first  
episode.",0
"When I heard that an acquaintance of mine was spreading rumours  
about my affair with a close friend.",3
"I had enough time to do my assignment, and I did not do it well.   
When the lecturer scolded me, I had this feeling.",5
"I experience a sense of guilt as my middle son cannot express  
himself like other children, neither verbally nor in writing.",5
"My brother and I were driving to Brisbane when he drove back onto  
the road, perhaps cutting off another car but not noticeable -  
this driver did his best to drive us off the road for about 1/2  
an hour.",6
"Death of a pet rabbit. We had to give it away because my brother  
became allergic to it. We gave it to a man who kept animals and  
lots of other animals for children to watch. We went to visit our  
rabbit. It was badly beaten by the other rabbits and eventually  
died.",4
"I was taking place in an anti nuclear protest and was shouting  
protest loudly to some American sailors of the U.S. Texas  
submarine. A guy came up to me and said that's your brother  
screaming at, I felt shame and I realized screaming at another  
person isn't good protesting. Now I'm a silent protester.",2
"When I finished a relation after four years, leading to much  
sorrow for the other one and myself (""although it was the best  
solution"").",4
"A very close friend of mine died. I read it in the newspaper. I  
didn't know what to do and thought about it the whole day.",4
"My little niece, who is very talkative, suddenly became very  
naughty and began wetting her pants.  She did it one afternoon.",3
When my brother's visa for the U.S.A got cancelled.,4
"When going out in the weekend I have to bike 5 kilometers through  
lonely and dark polders, then I always have terrifying fantasies.",6
An exam where questions about very specific knowledge were asked.,2
When my father passed away.,4
"I was disgusted when my little sister had been hit badly by her  
friends.",0
"[ Generally, when I am late in attending to matters (for example  
paying bills).]",2
"As a child, when I saw an ""unesthetic"" sight.",0
"When my grandmother died, her life was heavy and her last hours  
were terrible.",4
I had promised to call a girl but I did not do it.,5
"When I was at a boarding school at Lusaka, the Rhodesian  
soldiers came to bomb a house near our school and we saw the  
whole scene.",6
"When I got caught in the pouring rain last Thursday and did not  
have a raincoat on me.",3
"My friend had organized a birthday party for me secretly, I was  
very happy not so much for the presents but because they seemed  
to care for me.",1
"When I found out my roommate had been talking behind my back  
about very personal things.",2
"The time when I cleaned the house and everything was tidy,  
then my cousin, who is 4 years old, came with a muddy pot and made  
a mess of the whole thing.",0
"When I was emotionally unstable I said things which may have hurt  
others or made them feel unhappy.  When I calmed down I realized  
that I had been selfish and had not taken into consideration the  
feelings of others.  Then I felt ashamed as someone pointed out my  
behaviour to me.",2
Not getting on with someone of my classmates in high school.,4
"When I heard that my father had passed away. I could not eat for  
a week and was only crying. I could not find the courage to go to  
bath.",4
I was told that a friend of a friend committed suicide.,4
"At one of my close friends saying she didn't like the way I am  
nice to people I don't know, or who have been nasty to me.",3
"A sense of guilt before my parents when I had to discountinue my  
studies in the first year because of unpassed exams.",5
"Having agreed to share the taxi expenses, three people in the  
back of the car just ran off, leaving the person up front with  
the entire bill.",3
"I was camping in an old broken hut which had no lights.  I had  
brought along a lamp which was not working very well.  The door  
made strange sounds and I was sure that strange things were  
happening.  The most terrifying bit was that there were many  
wardrobes in the hut and everytime that I looked in the glass of  
the wardrobe I felt that there were ""objects"" behind me.   The  
whole night was spent in fear and restlessness.",6
"I was of the opinion that 12.00 pm was too early to be back at  
home after going out, so I stayed away longer, knowing that my  
mother would be worried.",5
"Disgusted with boyfriend's mother - her overpowering,  
over-protecting and selfish attitudes.",0
"When I got a stereo walkman from my father when he had finacial  
difficulties. I thought that although he promised to give me that  
present, he was not obliged to do so.",1
"I was in a car accident on the way back from a weekend rowing  
regatta we'd won. 5 others were in the car. I thought I'd never  
be able to row again.",4
"When I found out that a person I went to school with had died in  
a car accident.",4
"A friend gave me a lift and we met a road-block.  He tried  to  
turn back when an officer shouted at us to stop.  My friend took a  
turn suddenly and the officer raised his gun but by the time we  
were gone.",6
"The housing council asked the city to cut 40 linden trees so that  
the inhabitants of the lower floors would have a view to the sea.",3
"When I beat up my brother so badly, for not having gone to school,  
that we had to take him to hospital.",5
"When on holiday in Greece I called my best friend, she told me  
she passed the examinations and that she had been admitted to the  
study for speech therapy.",1
"We were at a football match and when we were leaving the stadium  
(the stadium was packed with people) and I lost my shoe in the  
crowd. Our attempts to find it didn't give any result and I had  
to go home without one shoe. In other words to cross the whole  
town !",2
"When I heard of the assassination of the Indian prime-minister,  
Indira Gandhi.",0
When I met with friends that I hadn't seen for a long time.,1
"A great friend of mine travelled with the intention to change his  
life. He didn't succeed and returned depressed. I had not power  
to support his frustration and his behavioral change.",5
"When I bought new skis; I was ashamed to tell the assistant that  
I am not good at skiing and therefor bought racing skis.",2
Saw something stupid and ignorant happening in the countryside.,2
"Finding out that my health condition may be against my attending  
university lectures.",6
"It was when a friend took me to a place and gave me as a gift my  
astrologycal map with the explanations of a psychologist.",1
"When I realized that my bathing suit was spotted, I had became  
menstruated.",2
"I came out of the house at 7:20 am Monday morning getting ready t  
go to school and fight for a parking when I saw my car had a flat  
tire.",3
A TV program on whale-hunting.,0
A party I went to last Christmas.,1
When someone took my pen away.,3
"I was alone in my room at the boarding house when at 12 o'clock  
someone knocked violently on the door.",6
"I was disgusted at the university wanting some of us to travel  
from our homes to the lectures here every day.  The way the whole  
thing was handled disgusted me.",0
"I felt sad when I heard that my cousin had passed away just  
suddenly.",4
"[ I sometimes quarrel with my mother because she blames me,  
though I have not in any way been connected to some events.]",3
Someone I do not like kept talking to me.,3
"Several good friends made me a surprise visit and this made me  
happy.  They are my closest friends and we had not seen each  
other for a long time.",1
My grandmother died.,4
"I happened to see two boys fighting, one of them fell down and  
hurt his head.  The other one used this to spank the head of the 
boy on the ground.",0
"One night I and my friends went to the cemetery. We stopped the  
car in front of the wall and suddenly the grave digger appeared  
over the wall looking like a ghost. I was already afraid and  
almost died.",6
"When on a car journey a fellow student crossed our way with his  
own car and we had to bump into a roadside trunk.",3
"This last August when my parents dropped me off and moved me into  
college I didn't know anybody here; I was 17 and Berkeley really  
scared me.",6
"When my friend failed an exam by just one mark.  During this exam  
she had asked me to show her my answer sheet and I had not done  
it.  When the results came out, I thought that had I shown her my  
answer sheet she would have passed the exam.  I felt guilty as I  
had failed her.",5
When I do something unworthy.,2
"I did not do well in one of the subjects last term.   I was  
afraid that I would fail.  My result was a grade D, though it was  
not good I still passed.  I felt more comfortable then.  ",6
"My boy-friend had promised me to come an 10 a.m. - he was 3 hours  
late.",3
I won the country ski championship.,1
"Once, when I arrived home very late, my parents had an argument  
because of this; my mother wanted to stand up for me.",5
When I attended my cousin's 31st birthday.,1
"I'm afraid of driving on the special seat of a mororcycle, mainly  
with certain colleagues who by exces of self-confidence drive  
beyond limits or measure in the traffic and the main victim is  
always the person who sits behind the driver.",6
"When I tried to put up a tent some years ago, I was teased and  
hindered by my cousin.",3
When I was walking along a road alone on my way to go shopping.,6
"I was selected to do a rest for a foreign ballet but I did not  
have the money to do it.",4
"On the cliff by the sea, the silence and the sudden voice of a  
bird.(swans of the bay)",1
"When, after a week at school, a teacher sent a note home saying  
that my son was inattentive and unable to do his lessons.",3
"My life-partner, who was drinking more and more, spoke about  
kicking the cat.  He had never done anything of the kind, but I  
knew that he would do so one day, without thinking about it.",3
When I broke my leg I felt fear.,6
"When my dad told me about something he had done against my  
mother.",3
"One day I went to town to get my grocery.  On my way back, I took  
a mini bus which was full of drunk students.  I felt very  
disgusted.",0
"My girlfriend was away visiting another city and I brought  
another girl home. Next morning when I started getting sober I  
felt quite ashamed of myself.",2
"It was the first time I met him (my boyfriend Mr.W).  It was  
during the first term Summer vacations.  We met each other while  
handing in our homework.  He invited me have a trip with him and  
we were together till 8 P.M.",1
"I had a dream : I had a very close friend who had several stone  
houses in the New Territories (villages) but they did not have  
much furniture.  He took me to see his fields (I had never seen  
them before) and there were several inches of clear water on  
which the sunshine was reflected.  I wanted to sit among the  
short green plants in the fields but was afraid of treading the  
plants to death.  My friend said ""They will not die"" and I sat  
down happily and my trousers did not get wet.",1
"When I was tired and unmotivated, I shouted at my girlfriend and  
and brought up negative sides of her character which are actually  
not so important.",2
"A nightmare.  I was dreaming about bloodsuckers, which I tried to  
shake off from my body, they are everywhere, they get glued, they  
suck.  And there are a lot of them.  I panic.",0
"Sometime back I was coming from the wards and lice were all over  
my uniform since patient's blankets have a lot of lice. It  
happened that my boyfriend picked some lice from my white uniform.  
I was so ashamed.",2
"Put down by my father - at a family outing at mutual family  
friends dinner. Told ""Not to Speak"". The attitude by him was  
negative/I was in mid 20s, I had done many things - a wide range  
of experiences. Probably greater than he.",2
"I had a schoolmate who went to the hospital as her brain was  
bleeding.  She fell unconscious for three days and when I went  
to see her I saw the miserable state the family was in.  Moreover  
I could not do nothing for her.  I was very sad.  Finally, she  
died.",4
"I met a girlfriend again after not seeing her for several months.  
 I saw her in a discotheque.  We do not like discotheques but we  
went there because we knew we would meet there.",1
"I think I felt ashamed for the first time when I entered a night  
club.",2
"When being illoyal (disloyal) to people close to me. Had such an  
episode with my sister, who should have received my support and  
attention.",5
"When I went home and there was nobody, I waited till 2 A.M and       
still nobody.  I was suddenly scared and anxious as this had never  
happened before.  In addition my mother was very weak and I  
feared that she had met with an accident.  Therefore I was anxious   
all night.",6
Girls dressed like foreigners in the university.,0
Someone told me we are not as good as the All English Class.,2
"I was driving along and saw this young guy urinating into the  
gutter, in broad daylight.",0
"I stayed at home for a period because I felt depressive and I  
neglected my study when people adked me, I told them that I had  
freeterm and studied hard. I felt ashamed for my behavior and  
lies.",2
Meeting generally dominating persons in social occasions.,3
"My daughter was a baby and was crying to be taken on my lap. I  
felt very nervous and moved her away and went out. As soon as the  
feeling of nervousness passed I was taken by an enormous feeling  
of guilt, for having rejected my daughter.",5
"A colleague of mine asked a lecturer to put him a higher mark in  
order to keep his good mards and thus to continue getting a  
scholarship for an excellent grade.",0
"A friend of mine told me that I had passed the entrance exam to  
the university.",1
"I was in a cafe with another person when, suddenly, several close  
friends of my partner appeared.  I did not know what to do and my  
partner felt uncomfortable.",5
"A friend of mine gave birth to a child. Very dangerous delivery.  
I was afraid for her and for the baby.",6
"I remember my religious experience.  During  a gospel camp, a few  
friends of mine decided to believe in God.  The joy that I felt  
at that time was more than words can express.  I blessed them and  
praised God in my heart.",1
"Yesterday I read in the newspaper that a 30 year old woman had  
abused her 2 month old son and had caused his death.  I was very  
angry after reading this as this is not a human act and to abuse  
so fragile a life is not a forgivable sin.",3
"When I got low marks in the final year B.Sc exams, I felt guilty  
as I had not worked hard because I had been roaming around with my  
 friends.",5
When the mother of a good friend of mine died.,4
"When I lied to my best friend about a boy she really liked but he  
didn't like her. I told her he did and she bugged him for a long  
time embarrassing herself.",2
I stroke a person undeservedly.,5
I felt it at the same time when I felt disgust.,6
"Finding out in your lecture that a doctor can make misdiagnoses  
because of ignorance in neuropsychology.",6
"I met my present boyfriend on a boat trip to England.  We had  
said that we would call each other when we got back to Sweden (we  
were not going to the same town in England).  As soon as I walked  
in he called from England as he could not wait till he came  
home.",1
"When I was hitch-hiking and I went with a man who drived like a  
madman.",6
"One day I was the leader of the weekly meeting of the Church  
fellowship.  That day I had been preparing for the exams and did  
not estimate the time to travel to the church right and I was  
twenty minutes late.  As I had not prepared well I led the  
meeting badly.  I was ashamed of myself.  ",2
"When I forgot the birthday of my best friend and I innocently  
came to visit her one week later.",2
"When a student accused me of having stolen his textbook  as he  
had found a form bearing my name in his other books and all my  
explanations fell on deaf ears.",0
At a weakness on my part.,2
"When I stayed on a nudism beach, a man was watching me in a  
disagreeable way. I had the feeling that he was examining my  
body.",2
"My father called me (behind my mother's back) and told me that my  
mother disapproved my behavior in the weekend. However, he didn't  
tell me the details and left me with unanswered questions.",3
"When dropping a carton of boiling soup onto a co-worker's leg -  
causing great pain, and for me, severe embarassment at my own  
ineptitude, and shame that another person suffered as a result.",2
"When I was in a little fishing boat and we ran into hard weather  
in the open sea.",6
"Some persons, who are important for me, came to see me and I had  
not washed the dishes.",2
"When my best friend started getting involved in my private  
affairs.",0
"I was happy to hear that my sister had won a prize at running  
competition.",1
I felt this when I was copying homework for one of my classes.,2
"As the time to get the results drew near I became more and more  
anxious.  My friend called me and said, "" You have passed.""  My  
heart was full of joy.",1
Not accepting hints of intimate relation from a girl.,4
"First time I slept with my present girlfriend. Had been best  
friends for a year but had been hesitant about getting involved  
emotionally.",1
"A friend of mine felt bad because of something I had done to  
something that belonged to him.",5
"My sister had a daughter. I saw the baby for the first time  
through a pane of glass and she looked at me.",1
When my dad passed away.,4
When my girlfriend told me that she wanted to leave me.,4
"I ""cooked"" the engine in my father's car - it was actually his  
fault because he hadn't fixed the temperature gauge or told me.  
When I finally got home I was absolutely screamed at and the  
anger I experienced was over the injustice of it all plus the  
huge row which developed.",3
"That afternoon I rushed home to look at the result slip of the  
higher level as fast as possible.  I opened the envelope very  
carefully and found that my results were much better than I  
had expected and thus I could enter the Chinese university.  My  
diligence had paid and I was very happy.",1
"I am one of four directors of a company. We inherited land held  
by our family - ours is the 5th generation. A ""democratic""  
decision was made to stap-bank an area of mangroves.",3
The man who threw me out of the flat disgusted me.,0
"Afraid of getting alone without friends, without anybody.",6
"When I saw parents punishing their little child for something he  
had not done.  In my opinion, even if he had done it he should  
not have been punished for it.",3
When two of my children were critically ill with measles.,6
When I was chased by a big dog near my house.,6
"From the cigarette smoke. Usually I feel disgust from it when I  
am in a restaurant.",0
"I felt disgusted at my teams poor perfomance prior to league  
play.",0
"In school I was very bad in running long distances and my  
class-mates laughed at me for this reason.",2
I lied to one of my best friends.,2
"I was with my family and we found some abandoned puppies.  I  
wanted to help them but everyone said no.  We then left.",3
When the girl with whom I am in love smiles at me.,1
Before an examination.,6
"I slept with a man purely because I found him physically  
attractive and was under the influence of alcohol.",2
"I had received bad news informing me that grandmother and  
grandfather had passed away. The first one to die was my  
grandmother and after two days grandfather died too.",4
"I was on my way home by bus.  A man who had drunk a fair amount of  
alcohol started talking, trying to hug and pat a woman sitting  
next to him.  Fortunately it was not me.",0
I kicked the chair in the classroom to express my anger.,3
"When I heard about the death of Frantois Truffaut, the French motion   
picture director, on the radio.  I had planned to go and see his  
last film.",4
"When my friends and I were camping in a weekend, and with little  
food, we met a middle age couple from a small town that invited  
us to eat in their house. Their house was small, badly built with  
old and dirty forniture and utensils. The problem was with pans,  
and dishes, and even the food.",0
"I was terribly upset when my kitten got hit by a car. He didn't  
die, but for several weeks we thought he might have to be put  
down.",4
"Finding out that some students are getting good reports they do  
not deserve.",3
"When I gave birth to my son and saw that he was alive and that I  
had managed it well.  He was born a month too early with a  
malfunctioning lung.  This happened a year ago.",1
"When a certain girl I believed to be my life partner refused an  
engagement.",2
"I was watching television. It was about midnight when a very dear  
friend called saying that his father had died in an accident.",4
"When I was doing my homework at home, some relatives came and  
advised me to help my mother do the house-work.",2
When the Americans set their nucleaar missiles in Europe.,0
"At my grandfather's funeral.  I remembered that the thing he  
liked and respected most was earth, I thought that he had  
attained what he wanted and was not separated from it any longer.",4
"A person with whom I had been on bad terms, gave me a present. We  
became reconciled.",1
"When I failed an exam for which I knew that I had not studied  
hard enough.",5
"When my friend promised that she would come to my place, and did  
not turn up - I was annoyed at her.",3
"One saturday night I did some meaningless work and went to bed  
very late.  Next morning I had was very sleepy so I continued  
sleeping even though I had work to do and I missed the Sunday  
service.",5
I was going to knock down a pedestrian with my car.,6
"Two years back someone invited me to be the tutor of her  
grand-daughter.  The grand-daughter asked me some questions in  
mathematics so I taught her.  However she did not listen to me  
and this made me feel unhappy.  The second year it was the same.   
When I entered university the girl's parents suggested that I be  
employed as their daghters tutor.  They told me that at university   
there was no homework and I would have a lot of time so they  
made a time-table  for me which required me to be the tutor five  
days a week.  They did not respect me and anyway I had another  
child to teach.",2
"During my high school time I succeeded to play a concert of  
Mozart on the piano when I gave my first performance I succeeded  
to play it very well.",1
When I failed the S.S.C examination I felt very ashamed.,2
Not doing well in an examn which was easy.,2
"I was within a hair's breadth of knocking down a drunkard who  
suddenly ran into the street.  The fear came later when I      
realized what could have happened.",6
"When an English teacher unfairly made me repeat a semester which  
I thought I had passed.  I had to ask my parents for some more  
money to carry on studying.",3
"I felt angry when I saw on T.V the last slaughter of negroes in  
South Africa.",3
"One day I was supposed to go to a movie with my boyfriend. In the  
morning I went to see my Auntie and I didn't come back up to  
evening.",2
"When I provoked a fight with my mother, hurting her feelings very  
much.",5
"When a close friend of mine who was with me in first year could  
not make it to the second year.",4
"At night, I walk home past a forest.  Once, somebody got stabbed  
in the forest.  I imagine someone attacking me and I hurry up.",6
"When my exboyfriend threw me around the dorms because I was  
talking on the phone to another guy of whom he was jealous,  
after we had an argument in which I thought we broke up.",6
"When I made the same mistake that I had accused someone else of, and  
this was obvious to a third pereson.",2
"I have been thinking of changing my major for a few months.  My  
original major was Chinese language and it blocks my way.  I have  
to face many problems at the sametime and I do not know what is  
real and virtuous.  I do not know if I am not interested in  
Chinese or if there are other factors which make me sad.  I am  
not very clear on what I can do for the study of Communication  
and Journalism.  I am not clear about what I can do.  What are  
the limitations ?   I hesitate but I feel more adjusted now.",4
"We had come back from a programme and we were all (three girls)     
staying over at another girls placce.  One of them started  
passing very nasty and outright bitchy remarks at me.  It was  
brought on by a male colleague's compliments to me, this girl was  
herself interested in this guy.  Bitchiness and catty remarks  
made by women never fail to disgust me.  I can particularly  
remember this incident as she knew that I had not encouraged the   
guy.",0
"I was very glad when I learned I was a student already. I heard  
about it over the phone, I didn't believe it at first.",1
I felt fear when I was young and left in my big house all alone.,6
Winning a game after a long time of losing.,1
"When I went to explain to a lecturer whom I liked that the work  
expected of me was not going to be in.",2
"When I deliberately engineered a situation to cause tension  
between friends so as to bolster the impression one of them had  
of me !",5
I drink wine too often.,2
A bad smelling cucumber.,0
Easter holiday - I had been working weekends and had just left.,1
"We were just about to go into the Exam room and I didn't see all  
my writing materials plus the identification card from the place  
where I left them.",3
"When I arranged our holiday in Paris, and my girlfriend raised  
criticisms all the time.",3
"When we forced a friend to chew a poisonous herb in primary  
school.  His tongue was swollen and he told his mother about it.   
The mother reported it to the headmaster who threatened to expel  
us.",6
When I come home late at night.,6
"I felt ashamed when I fought with my mother on some issue, and  
caused her trouble.",2
"Last year I put off an exam for the autumn session without  
knowing if there was a supplementary examination session. When I  
came home with my exam unpassed I felt guilty before my parents  
when I remembered how much they had done for me.",5
My son was born.,1
"When my girl told me that she loved me more than any male  
creature on earth and that I would be the only one in her heart  
for all her life.  ",1
"On my 18th birthday I passed the driving-test. I was glad because  
I had had to study very much, because I had been lucky and  
because - as a proof that it was really difficult - not everybody  
had passed the test.",1
"When I was touring Asia with my present football team, I saw old  
Europeans with young asiatic prostitutes.",0
"Seeing my sister after about 2 years of not seeing her. Only  
spent 1 hour or so before she was off overseas with her husband  
for 3 months.",1
"My husband suddenly fell ill seriously and during the medical  
examinations we did not know what would follow.",6
"When I boarded Yanu Yanu bus I sat near a man who was smoking  
tobacco.",0
"I felt anger against a colleague of mine during a rehearsal in  
acting. He hadn't learnt the text of an opera act in the course of  
several months and thus making difficulties for the rest of my  
colleagues.",3
"Somebody wanted to beat my brother at a wedding ceremony and I  
was trying to protect my brother but the other man was calling  
names to both of us.",3
"Our class had organized a picnic in November.  I was the class  
representative so I became the organizor.  However the picnic  
was postponed by one week and I had something else to do then.  
Initially I did not ponder on what to do and decided to go for  
the picnic.  When I had the time to think about it I thought that  
my decision was wrong.  My classmates thought that I would go as  
I had signed my name but I did not go.  I told another class  
representative that I was not going but he did not know the  
reason behind my not going.  After the picnic my classmates asked  
me why I had not gone to the picnic and everytime someone  
mentioned it I was apologetic.  I should have decided right in  
the begining that I would not go and then they would not see me  
as irresponsible i.e promising to go and changing my mind  
afterwards.",5
My friend not allowed to go to the English lectures.,4
Dog dirt which thaws in the spring.,0
"I wanted to go out to walk but I didn't know either where or  
with whom, suddenly an invitation appeared.",1
"I was going away, leaving a dear person behind.",4
"I was walking with another person when a ""gang"" separted us and  
pushed me in to a house, hit me in the stomach and the face, then  
they left - leaving me bleeding.",6
"Once I was stopped by the police in Spain, when I had some  
""grass"" in my tobacco.",6
"When a person the same age as me insisted that I call him  
""Mister"".  I refused to succumb, but he persisted and I got angry  
as he had belittled me.",3
"A friend told me that he had suffered in love and in academics.   
I shared his sadness.",4
"I was on a class excursion, by boat to Stockholm.  At night my  
class mates prepared to clebrate their motive in life which was  
""life is merriment"".  I felt depressed about the way they sought  
happiness.",4
"The fact that I was pregnant. I was always considered level  
headed and did not have sex until 18 and out of high school.",2
"A friend had promised to call me at a certain time. I expected  
his call impatiently but in vain.",3
Once my father slapped my mother for a small quarrel.,3
"I felt alone among a large number of people.  I was sad to see  
that nobody cared about what was happening to me.",4
"My boyfriend suffered form ill health for some months, this week  
the physician told him that he was restored to health.",1
"When I failed the twelveth standard exams I was ashamed at  
having to see my parents later.",2
When I heard my sister got in a bad car accident.,4
"This monday I took a Math 1BS test and flunked for the second  
time.",4
"With a Manager who insists on making crude innuendos pertaining  
to sex.",0
My girl-friend left me.,4
"When I did not defend my close friend when my father degraded  
him. I felt guilty for allowing my father to get away with his  
actions and for the hurt my friend felt. I cleared the matter up  
with my father a few weeks later.",5
Attitude to a related family.,0
"Brother continually interupting while I was talking on the  
telephone.",3
"A friend of mine shot himself through the head after having told  
me and others that he would do so.",5
"Talking to a pensioned and bitter ""street order"" policeman.",4
"We are several friends but our characters are very different and  
we inevitably split in the two extremes. It is sad that I myself  
don't know what to do, I try not to hurt either of the ""parties""  
because there are conflicts to which one I should belong.",4
"I experienced this emotion when my friend committed suicide after  
we had spent the afternoon playing and discussing life and it's  
problems.",4
I greeted a friend and he did not respond.,0
The sudden death of one of my parents.,4
When my boyfriend came back after being away for 10 days.,1
"In 1977, my grandfather, to whom I had a very close relationship,  
died.",4
"My peers didn't want me to meet someone during rush for fear that  
I would give her a bad outlook on our Sororoty house. I shouldn't  
have seen this, but they blew and I did.",3
"Last year, when I took the college entrance examinations I  
failed the FUVEST. It was for me the most frustrating situation  
because I had studied all year long, and only thought about this.",4
When I committed the sin of immorality mentioned before.,5
"About a month ago the Regional Council refused to pay my wife the  
due maternity benefit, because of bureaucratic reasons.",3
Someone called me a disgusting nickname.,0
"I spent a lovely relaxing evening with my boyfriend. We played  
games and talked all evening.",1
"My father who is very quiet discovered I was going out with a  
coloured boy. He called me names and was really upset.",2
"When at times unconscienciously I speak to my mother in a high  
tome but after that I am sorry and I feel guilty.",5
"My father had an operation which lasted for hours.  We were all  
very worried but it was successful.",1
"My brother accused me undeservedly before my parents. I was not  
guilty. He was misled by his wife.",3
Getting a low grade on my physics midterm.,0
"During a family discussion on my future and my prospects as a  
student, they accused me of not bothering about looking for a job to  
assume my financial situation.",3
Did not return the library book on time.,5
"I had a picnic with old classmates, we chatted and played games.",1
"When I was in the puberty I smashed the favourite toy of my  
little brother because of a fit of rage.",5
"The day I was happiest was the day when I received a phone call  
from Eve's Weekly to inform me that I had won the first prize of  
the All India Essay competition.  I had won this prize when I was  
an under-graduate when even post graduates had participated.  I  
had been judged by eminent judges and political scientists.",1
"Physical violence. A friend wouldn't listen to me I repeatedly  
tried to warn him, to no avail. Result: eight people were ""pissed  
off"".",3
When in an economic crisis I got an unexpected sum of money.,1
When India lost the Benson and Hedges cricket trophy.,4
When I did not inform my friends of my forthcoming birthday.,2
"Two guys were fighting murderously and I feared that one of them  
would be killed.",6
Almost had a bicycle accident.,6
When I nearly collided with another car.,6
"I won a car in a prize-competition. The moment I was informed  
about it, I felt joy.",1
"When I was accepted as a student of Psychology here at  
Gutttenburg.",1
"I didn't do an important job and it had an adverse effect on  
other people.",2
"I lied, to be precise I cancelled a meeting with a good friend.",2
"When, after a long time, I saw a girl with whom I was in love.",1
When I heard that I had been selected for the university.,1
I feel ashamed when I act dishonestly toward somebody.,2
"When I got the midterm exam results, the results were below  
average and were near the lowest.  I was scared of the final  
exam.",6
Family member survived an operation.,1
"When I received the first year results as the first year had  
involved a lot of work and I was very pleased when I got the  
results.",1
"I was afraid when my mother left me alone to live in our house  
for one month.",6
"I wrote a letter to my boyfriend but he couldn't answer it in  
time so as a defence mechanism I just found that I felt so sad  
about it and couldn't talk to anyone.",4
"When I received the best actor award at the inter-college drama  
competition.  It gave me tremendous joy and satisfaction which  
lasted for several days.",1
"The day I got to know that I would get a shared dwelling with my  
boyfriend.  My parents place was getting a little crowded with  
my growing bother wanting a room to himself.  I first felt doubt,  
then joy, but also sadness.  The feeling of joy was the  
strongest.",1
"My father died after two very painful weeks in bed. I felt  
relieved, and was ashamed of that.",2
"When my oldest sister discovered that her boyfriend had another  
girl.",0
"At school, a couple of years ago, a so-called acquaintance told lies  
about me to a teacher I was told about it by friends who overheard  
the conversation.",3
Cheating to get the best grade on a test in 7th grade.,2
"I rejected a person whom I had always thought to be a friend.  I  
told him so and he reacted angrily.  I felt guilty at not having  
realized it before and at having hurt him.",5
"When I hooked a girl in Kitwe.  She was very beautiful for my  
standards, a rare bird of this kind accepted me as a boyfriend.",1
"I had made an error in planning a programme and had publicly  
accepted the mistake, despite repeated requests not to bring the  
matter for discussion a professor kept constantly passing remarks.  
I reacted angrily. 
 ",3
"I saw a program on T.V where they had to saw a skull for an         
operation.",0
"I went to a doctor with a complaint. The doctor told me that I  
was completely healthy.",1
When I passed the 12th standard board exams.,1
Having passed an exam.,1
"When a close friend failed to live up to the expectations I had  
of him - thereby causing pain to his spouse. I believe that my  
anger was probably a reaction of fear that I wouldn't be able to  
live up to my own expectations.",3
"I forgot to water the flowers in our flat and was rebuked by my  
friends who share the flat with me.",5
I did not deliver a message on time.,5
"After a meeting ended we started talking about when we would  
have the next discussion ( I had many tests the coming week and  
could not have a meeting in between, I thought that they would  
understand this as they had always done).  They did not  
understand my problem and thought that I should not have so many  
other activities.  Their reaction made me burst into tears.",4
"I was scared when I realized that I might miss the train which I  
was supposed to take.  I was 1500 Kilometres away from home and when   
I heard the depart whistle I was still 150 feet away from the  
train.  I finally made it.",6
"I did a solo flight from Ardmore to Kaikohe before I got my pilot  
licence. I can remember it was gorgeous day and I was on a  
natural high, cruising up the coast with my maps and compasses  
and gear. Other pilots had seen me off and wished me good luck  
and it was a real adventure.",1
"Girlfriend arriving back from overseas and picking her up from  
airport. When she finally appeared from customs and we came in  
contact again.",1
Walking alone in the dark in a strange street.,6
"I preached to a F.3 students in a gospel camp.  They thus knew  
more about God and made up their minds to believe in Jesus.",1
"I felt ashamed when I was confronted by a teaching assistant that  
a close friend and I were accused of cheating on a math exam.",2
"When I left my sister's house after staying there for a few days.  
She has two little boys, and they are very warm people (the  
family). At the time, I was in need of this sort of contact, and  
I grew very fond of children (no, I'm not a paedophiliac).",4
"A close friend travelled to another country. When I knew that he  
would only come back after many years, I felt very sad.",4
"I was awakened by a dream in the middle of the night. I dreamt  
that a stranger was in my house.",6
"When I get an exam back with a grade that I did not desire. Then  
I get mad at myself and say that I could have done better.",2
"When my nephew was taken to hospital with meningitis and we did  
not know what would happen.",4
"When I received the results from my final examination - Higher  
School Certificate - and received a mark that was beyond my  
wildest expectations.",1
On meeting an old friend of mine.,1
"I went to my boyfrien's house. There I found clothes of a certain  
girl. Without asking whose clothes they were I started tearing  
them only to realise that they were his sister's and so I felt  
guilty.",5
"I was supposed to go out with my girlfriend one Saturday night,  
but I got really drunk with some friends earlier that afternoon  
and evening. So, I totally forgot about going out with my  
girlfriend. She showed up the next day, and that was when I  
remembered.",2
"We lived with 3 persons in the loft of a house. It often occurred  
that other persons again and again climbed the stairs with much  
noise. When I was studying I couldn't concentrate and got angry.",3
"When I heard the last regulation of the socialist govrenment  
concerning pensions.",4
"A friend and a girlfriend went to Rome for 10 days with their  
class. When they were back home I heard people tell ""strange""  
stories about my friend and that girlfriend.",0
"One of my flatmates and I came back to the flat Monday morning,  
to find a real Mess, left by the guy we share with.",0
Finding my glasses again after having lost them in town.,1
"One day I lent my tennis I just had washed to my sister because  
she asked it. I asked her not to soil it as I had just washed it.  
Next day I looked at the tennis, and it was dirty with wax. She  
could not have soiled it. It was lack of consideration. I felt  
very angry.",3
"Last year my freshman yr. It was a day in March I did well on  
some tests. I seemed to finally adjust to college, it was hot and  
sunny. I was walking in front of a frat. when I heard Beach Boys  
""Surfin'USA"". I had this overwhelming feeling that to be at CAL  
was good. I still have it somewhat.",1
"When I applied for the college entrance examination to FUVEST,  
and I wasn't approved in the second fase.",4
Not collecting letters for my friend al I promised.,5
"My room-mate locked up our room without specifying where I would  
find the keys.  I had to spend several hours in my other friend's  
room.",3
"A certain person started to say dreadful things very calmly, I  
felt hurt and disgusted.",3
"I broke my knee when I was skiing over ""Yastrebetz"" (a racing  
track in a Bulgarian winter resort).",6
"Incomprehension and repression towards a child's behaviour,  
commonly not accepted, and making the child cry.",5
"Somebody was blaming me of a story which was not real and not  
true.",3
"Sort of awkward. I'd introduced (a lover) but introduced as a  
friend to some members of my family, and my niece Yavanna who's  
six was home from school and at Mum's and Dad's and was really  
silly and at first it was ok, but it went on and on - yukky pooh!  
You eat your snot, etc. and I felt cross she wouldn't stop. But  
she had an audience and was in one of those moods. Once I'd  
accepted it was something everyone does at time I felt better -  
it was partly having my friend there.",0
"When my favourite football team made a goal and was about to  
win the Cup of England.",1
"When I talk to silly, petty-minded and unmanageable people.",3
When I failed the entrance exam to IMEC.,4
"A friend of mine who was driving a car ahead of me died in a  
car accident.",4
"My father was away from home and he did not come back when he was  
expected, he came back several hours later than expected.",6
"Jealous of my husband's old girlfriend.  We met her with her  
husband and there was a lot of reminiscing.",3
"When my elder brother, who had gone abroad to study  for six  
years, came back home safe and in good health.",1
"When my boyfriend told me that it would be difficult for him to  
marry me.",3
Ran into a parking car on a bicycle.,6
"Finding out from this lecture that China is backward in  
psychology.",2
"I was on vacation, and therefore I did not attend a meeting of  
the day care centre.  Nevertheless, the very day I came back they  
called me early morining to ask me ""what are you going to do  
about the matter ?"" (which had been discussed in the meeting).   
Then I got angry.",3
At a prolonged separation with my family.,4
"A friend of mine came to visit and stayed with my roommate and me.  
My roommate and she became good friends. After she left, he  
didn't talk too highly of her.",3
When my parents got divorced.,4
When opened a box of biscuits and found worms inside.,0
"One of my relatives became seriously ill. I felt sad because I  
didn't know if she will ever be the same again.",4
"During my first week in Graz I met a girl who I had got to know  
in the train from Amsterdam to Graz. Although I had considered  
her very sympathetic, we had seperated without changing our  
adresses.",1
Not handing in homeworks in time.,5
"In college, I started a discussion with the teacher referring to  
a question I posed. I felt very unsure and I was afraid to fail.",6
"When a good friend of me told me one evening that she didn't want  
to live anymore.",6
"On a trip abroad, a lady-like member of our group turned out to  
be an alcoholic.  She spoilt many days of my holidays because of  
her behaviour and paranoia.",0
"Meeting with two of my friends I had not seen for 15 years. They  
were special people to me.",1
"When I see all the putridness of people. The fact is the catarrh  
and spits that whash the streets of S.Paulo.",0
"Not being able to spend more time with a friend who was visiting  
me.",5
"My young brother took my wristwatch in my abscence and sold it to  
his friend at a cheaper price.",3
A certain night during initiation. ,6
"I felt guilty one day when I was accused of running away from  
classes and I was caught.",5
"I woke up in the middle of the night of a nightmare, I was alone,  
it was very quiet and very dark.",6
Seeing relations from overseas after a few years.,1
"When I stand at the bus stop for one hour waiting for the bus to  
arrive.",0
"I have a fobic anxiety for elevators. This anxiety is worst at  
the moment when the doors have to open. I have it often in the  
elevator at our university.",6
"I came across a group of people with the same basic ideas/beliefs  
who were all fighting and going against what they would say was  
good.",0
Before an examn.,6
"When my tennis match was interrupted because a kid cycled right  
into the court.",3
"I remember that when I was in school I saw a case of partiality -  
one of the teachers gave private coaching classes to some girls  
and she would give these girls extra attention in class and would  
ignore the others.",3
A parking fine.,5
"About a dozen girls laughed at me and I was sure that there was  
nothing wrong with me.",2
"This feeling was quite deep when my friend (girl) died in a car  
accident.",4
"I was for the first time on a brigade this year. At that time my  
sister was to bear a child. I was mad with joy when I opened the  
telegram from my parents and learned I had a nephew.",1
"My parents attitude towards each other when they should become  
reconciled, despite my father's long-time addiction.",0
"My partner without discussing with me the situation decided it  
was time for us to have a break and went ahead and arranged his  
own life for the next 6-12 months, then told me the day before it  
was about to happen having been tolerant and friendly for the  
preceding week.",3
"Scuffle in a carriage of the underground in Vienna, three drunk  
men thrashed a man in a wheel chair - I watched the scene from  
another carriage.",0
"When my friend and I were discussing the good looks of a guy we  
realized that he had been listening.",2
"No ideal result in the University entrance examn, guilty to  
family and friend.",5
"When  first came to CAL I went to a rally on Sproul and I later  
learned that the rally was conducted by the Moonie cult. They  
were taking pictures at the rally, so I was afraid that they  
would circulate the pictures and then kidnap people. I did not  
know how the cult worked. I was scared.",6
After each successfully passed exam I am happy.,1
"I had high-heeled shoes one time, but a certain girl who saw the  
shoes told me that they were out of fashion and I looked as an  
old man when I was in those shoes.",2
"Angry when our team (small boys) lost the county championship  
football final.",3
"I was very angry one day when my husband ignored me and slept       
on a separate bed.  He had no reasons to doubt me or to neglect  
me and I had never imagined that he could do such a thing.",3
"I went to buy a bicycle with my father. When I wanted to pay, my  
father took his purse and payed.",1
"When my dog died.  I had reared it for nearly three years.  It  
had been ill for several days and had not eaten anything.  One  
morning I found it dead.",4
"When my neighbour's life was threatened by someone who was trying  
to break into his house.",6
When I was finally qualified for my profession.,1
When I spanked a child in anger and later regretted it terribly.,5
"On a road trip with a group of sorority and fraternity people, I  
became intoxicated and basically raped. I don't remember the  
actual event, but I know the feeling that I experienced later.",2
"Some weeks ago I experienced a day that everything went wrong I  
broke several things I felt very ashamed for I am not a sloven.",2
"A few days ago, I hitch-hiked to Arnhems with a friend.  
Everything went well: they picked us up very quickly, the sun was  
shining, I was feeling free and, for the first time after long  
time, happy. I really had the feeling that I was living at full  
speed.",1
Doing well in an examn.,1
"Due to a misunderstanding on my part, two of my best friends  
quarelled.",5
"I am disgusted with the behavior of a car driver whose car would  
run over me and my friends during our autumn brigade.",0
"I saw a terrible accident in which the driver of a motor was  
thrown through the frontwindow of a car. His face was completely  
away.",0
"When a crawling child got burnt because of my negligence to keep  
the child away from the fire.",5
"When, to my surprise, I got to know about having got ""very good""  
high school graduation marks.",1
When I was told that I had passed the exams.,1
"I had a date with a friend to see a movie and my friend was late.  
 I waited for a long hour and was very angry.",3
"The same event described under FEAR - in the bus a man sat beside  
me, with his trousers open and holding his penis.",0
"It was about midnight and I wanted to go to the countryside (I  
was in town) to watch the stars in the sky.  My mother did not  
like this, in spite of it I went out for a while.  My mother got  
angry.",5
When boyfriend could not stand up to his mother or for himself.,4
"My husband and I were invited at the house of our nieghbours then  
we got an invitation on the part of my parents which we had to  
refuse. A a result they called me by words that provoked my  
anger.",3
"When I was a child, I had a nightmare. At that time, I was not  
yet able to tell anybody about it, so I was very frightened. I  
could not explain myself all that and I had to deal with it by  
myself.",6
"I felt anger when I saw that I was being misleaded by my  
boyfriend, he went out with other girls. I felt anger for his  
falsity.",3
When I got my results ( I had made it to the second year ).,1
"When I was forced to decline the invitation to my mother's 70th  
birthday because of my work committments in another area.",5
"(1) My father died. (2) My natural father contacted me a year  
after my father died and this angered me more as I thought he  
should be dead and not my father.",3
When I saw a horrible movie - Alien.,6
"One evening I was watching the news on TV. Again they were  
talking about the danger of war. Suddenly I imagined what it  
might mean for me, for my friends, for the people close to me. I  
felt it a very near and possible event.",6
Before an important examn.,6
"One summer when I was camping with friends they devised and  
elaborate plan to scare me by having our camp attecked by a wild  
animal (one of them) and then convincing the campground was  
the home of a satanic organization.",6
"I was walking along a subway when I saw a group of louts.  I was  
rather afraid because I was alone.",6
"Flirting with other girls while I already had a very good  
relationship. When there are problems in my relationship, the  
flirting increases as does the feeling of guilt.",5
When I failed an exam unfairly.,3
Getting into this university to do medicine.,1
I felt joy when my boyfriend proposed to me in marriage.,1
When I got accepted to CAL.,1
"A drunken friend of mine was beating up another friend, who was  
also drunk.",3
"I was wearing slippery shoes and I tumbled down in a place where  
there were many people walking by.",2
"I always feel guilty when I see my mother sad or fed up with  
life. I really dont know the reason.",5
A friend's mother died.,4
"I hit my little sisiter on the head with a stone while we were  
fighting.",5
Renewed contact with an earlier friend.,1
"When I found out that the guy I was dating at a particular time  
had a steady relationship going on with someone else for a long  
time.",3
Participating in a theft several years ago.,2
"I feel this feeling at one and the same degree when I am not  
prepared to overcome certain obstacle in my life.",2
"I feel shame when I have made a promise, I can't keep it and this  
has negative effects which are caused by my behavior.",2
"My cousins were playing at home and one of them broke a decorative  
object which was very precious to me.",3
"When I went to see the result of an exam and saw that I had  
failed.",4
"When a cousin of mine was discharged from the hospital after        
a long illness.  I had thought that this illness would never end.",1
When I learnt that my cousin sister was pregnant.,0
Squeezed the puppy in the door.,5
"I live by myself and a few weeks ago was woke by a man on the end  
of my bed coming up my bed at me. I was really angry, told him to  
get out. He was surprised, hesitated; I started to move towards  
him and he backed off - kept telling him - loudly, but firmly to  
go. Because I'd got the initiative, I succeeded. A very powerful  
message.",3
"While reading Olli Jalonen's new book, the distant, cold and  
selfish relationships between people (in the book) made me feel  
disgusted.",0
"I was in about Grade 7, I came home from school one day and was told  
that my mother had skin cancer and would have to go to the hospital  
straight away.",6
"I spent an evening with my girl-friend. When we wanted to go to  
bed I was totally drunk. Next morning I felt rather ashamed.",2
"When I was in Eindhoven on an Exhibition of Hernan Nitsche, who  
made paintings with real blood. There were also photographs about  
the killing of cows.",0
When my wife gave birth to a baby boy - my only son to date.,1
"My roommate got married and invited me to share a flat with them.  
But with a young couple there should not be a third person. I am  
to blame for not following the advise of the others, but it is  
not late still.",5
"I have a very big family. At my grandmother's funeral we all met  
and everybody pretended mourning. In reality it was like a  
fashion-show: everybody wanted to show himself.",3
When I was punished in school for no serious mistake of mine.,3
"When I was faced with writing an essay and I didn't want to do it  
I was angry that I had to write an essay and angry at myself for  
not having the time to write a good essay.",3
"When I made a mistake at work and when questioned about it  
pretended I had nothing to do with the problem.",5
"When my neighbours accused my brother of stealing their  
rose-bush, I was very angry as he had not touched it at all.",3
"After sitting for the Standard 8 Exams for the second time in  
1979, I had great joy when I heard that I was successful in the  
Examination when the results were out.",1
Passing a very difficult examination which I didn't expect - MCE.,1
Friend's fiancT left her for me.,5
"My elder sister scolded me in front of my younger sisters and  
cousins.  She said that I was very lazy and I felt so sad that I  
cried myself to sleep.",4
"When the whole family gets together for a one week holiday.   
Everybody feels free and the trip is well planned.  It works out  
well and we enjoy ourselves.",1
"I broke the gutar of a colleague but as it happened in a moment  
when nobody was present I could escape from the guilt.",5
"I have experienced disgust with some people - usually double  
dealers.",0
"When I got fired from a job because I gave a discount to a  
friend.",5
A father of 4 children killed in an accident.,4
"At a success of mine, at a real achievement.",1
"I was playing in a football tournament and saw the rules openly  
disregarded.",3
"When my friend told me that he would come and meet me in a  
moment.",1
"I can't give one description here. I often feel joyful when I  
have done things good in relation to other people especially when  
my friend says he loves me and I also tell him that I love him.",1
When I was admitted to the University.,1
"Some friends and I were having lunch.  Someone said something  
funny and one of the guys started laughing and spat his food in a girl's  
face.",0
"As a child - accidentally stepping on a pet guinea-pig - it  
dying.",5
"[ When I have achieved what I wanted to achieve, I feel the above  
stated emotion. Also when I am sucessful.]",1
"We were driving at night and I realized that a car was following  
us.",6
"I was in a restaurant with my boyfriend when I saw my best female  
friend after not seeing her for two weeks.  We rejoyced, hugged  
and had a long talk.",1
"I allowed my then boyfriend to touch me, if only briefly.",2
"When I understood that my marriage was falling apart, and we  
decided to be legally separated.",4
Receiving a letter from a boy I care.,1
"When I think of death - not my own but that of my parents,  
brothers and sisters.",6
"I went to the dining hall and found that the cooks were cleaning  
the plates and there was no food for me, and the blue birds   
(security guards) were busy eating the food that was supposed to  
be for me.",3
I do not recall being scared in the near past.,6
When quarreling with friends.,5
Canoeing across harbour in winds - 20 knots and rising seas.,6
"I had left a student newspaper of the Chinese university on the  
table of the library.  It had disappeared when I came back.",3
"When I was watching some scenes from the Bertoluchi's film  
""Twentieth Century"".",0
"I was ashamed when I was being introduced to the church  
congregation.",2
I was called and invited to have a talk about a job I wanted to have.,1
Looking for the toilet in a dark place.,6
"When my grandmother was about 80 years old, she lived with us for  
several years. I saw her illness. I did not even want to breath  
the air that smelled of her presence.",0
"Having passed the exam required to be an authorized Radio/TV  
dealer.",1
"When our school was raided by the pupils of the boys secondary  
school who beat us up.",6
"When someone made me a compliment after an examination just at  
the moment I needed it. It was amicable, hearty and sincere.",1
"When I finished my exams after 12th Grade, I was worried about  
getting a T.E. Score high enough for Physiotherapy. When I found  
that I had been accepted I was ecstatic, or more appropriately,  
could jump for joy.",1
"I had a very heavy work load and two colleagues, whom I have  
nothing against, disturbed me by ""terror ringing"", i.e  
continously interrupting me by telephoning.",3
"In the morning, the cat of my landlady had vomited on the floor,  
near the staircase I take to go to the bathroom.",0
When a close classmate failed a year.,5
Finding out I am not good looking.,4
"The house was on fire, and I was saved by the dog. I am afraid of  
the fire, verging on panic.",6
"When I missed the chance of becoming a graduate in mining  
engineering, after having prayed one week in the church I was  
not even selected.",4
"When my parents fight lots of time, when I'm the reason of the  
fight, I feel guilty.",5
"I met my girlfriend on the way and she joyfully welcomed me on  
the way home.",1
"I hated you for not letting me go and found out that it was not  
your decision.",5
When I was told that the form five results were out.,6
"I felt it when I received a letter telling that I had been  
classified in a national concourse of p... I felt happy and  
vanity about it.",1
"When I feel I must be with somebody, to talk with somebody - but  
I am alone.",4
"So as to be closer to the university I have left home and moved  
into Auckland. It now seems as if I have left home - especially  
my family - forever.",4
Deceived by other people and ran into trouble.,4
"I was in hospital, and then was visited by someone quite  
unexpected.",1
"Somebody took my wristwatch and promised to have it mended and  
later was telling me that he couldn't give it back to me because I was  
rude at a certain time.",3
"My girlfriend wanted to breakup for an indefinite amt. of time.  
She said that she couldn't commit herself fully to the  
relationship without going out with other people. I was her first  
boyfriend.",4
"I had a very good friend (boy) and I thought I could rely on him  
but he behaved badly with a girl who used to trust us completely.",0
"When I told my uncle a false story - that people had stolen the  
books from my room and I demanded money from him.  When he found  
out the truth I was in trouble.",5
"New year's eve 1983/1984, I met my girlfriend.  We stood on the  
steps outside her parents home and I kissed her for the  
first time.",1
"It was only once that I really felt sad: at my grandfather's  
funeral (after a long time of suffering he had died of cancer).",4
"A scene in a film in which one man repressed another one. By  
concidence, their position was reversed. The other man was  
repressed in an identical way as he did before.",0
Saw someone spitting in public.,0
"When one of my parents verbally, personally abused the other.",0
"When I was talking to a person who is a hypocrite, I felt  
disgusted at his reaction.",0
Being unable to stop urinating on the bus.,2
"Observing someone in the cafeteria noisily gulping in his food,  
having extremely bad manners.",0
I was sad to hear that my brother had a motorbike accident.,4
Had an argument with my classmate for borrowed books.,5
"I took my math midterm and got it back the following Wednesday in  
class. It was a totally low grade.",2
"I felt very sad when I lost my three Kwacha at civo Stadium when  
Sam Mangwana was playing some Rumba records. That was not what I  
expected, I wanted some Disco records.",4
I could have been killed by a falling object.,6
I found some worms in the food and I had obviously eaten some.,0
"When the lady who is now my wife accepted my proposal to be my  
lover and future wife.",1
"When I was a child I broke plates because I wasn't given food on  
the grounds of coming home late.",0
"In 1977 when my friend was caught by a crocodile.  We were  
swimming in a river on whose banks our primary school was  
situated.  When my friend was caught, he was on the banks of the  
river and some of us were still in the middle of the river.  I  
was very frightened.",6
"When I stepped on a snake at home, it was dark but there was  
moonlight.",6
"One night a very dear person said: ""I hate you"". Of course it was  
an impulse and this person didn't feel that about me. The person  
expressed regret, and everything was settled, but I can't forget.",4
I lost my way on a trip in the mountains.,6
"I was walking in the countryside alone when I came across two  
dogs who began barking at me.  I did not know whether they were  
tied up or loose, but I was afraid of them approaching me.",6
At the death of a close relative.,4
"I once watched the series called ""Dynasty"" on TV, and I detested  
it.",0
"I have an adopted Aboriginal sister I felt disgust due to the  
racism she has been subjected to.",0
"I went to go get a bike innertube fixed. I fixed it and I was  
supposed to pay previously but I didn't. I said I would after I  
fixed the tire. After fixing the tire, the salesperson who helped  
me was gone so I walked out of the store without paying. I felt  
guilty so I went inside and paid for the tire.",5
"One of my friends went and told another friend of mine that I was  
going abut with another guy in Lilongwe besides the one I had.  
She said I was seen with him hand in hand.",3
When I accepted Jesus Christ as my personal saviour.  ,1
I lost a close friend.,4
"My parents did not approve my choice of a boyfriend (now an  
ex-boyfriend).  He happened to be 13 years older than me and he  
was considered completely unsuitable for me.  IDIOT.",3
"I was enjoying the company of bird life while I was eating lunch  
in a park when a group of people began throwing sticks at some of  
the birds - for no reason other than the satisfaction of seeing  
them being scared away.",3
I took french leave to do my homework.,5
"I put on a lot of weight in a few months and every time I met  
someone I knew would avoid them, usually by hiding because my  
self image was low and I was ashamed of what I had done to  
myself.",2
I had to pay a fine because of speeding.,2
"In August,1983, the long awaited ""big envelope"" (a document for  
C.U.H.K admission) arrived.  It was in the afternoon and I had  
not been doing anything.  When the postman, with his big bag,  
knocked on the door I knew what it was about.  I hurriedly  
opened the envelope and my mood at that time is hard to describe.  
 It lasted several hours and only calmed down later.",1
"Recently in the tram, a man ran his fingers over my girlfriend  
then over me.",0
"When I was a child, I heard the floor cracking and I thought  
there was a burglar in our house; I hid under the blanket and  
trembled.",6
"I had just seen my pseudo-girlfriend and our conversation angered  
me greatly.",3
The death of an animal we had reared.,4
When I hurt my sisters for no reason at all.,5
"I once felt guilty when a certain passenger in the same (ship,  
plane ?) which I boarded when coming from home lost his 10t which  
in fact fell into my pocket unknowingly.",5
"My grandfather died, when I was an exchange student in the USA.",4
"In the underground's escalator, a youngish bum asked me for  
money.  Although I did not give him anything, the fellow told me  
that I was really good-looking.  A man who was in front of me  
also turned to look at me.",1
"I was making very strong statements about infidelity in couples.  
Then I discovered that one of my best friends, who had just been through  
a very sad case of mutual infidelity, was listening.",2
When two drug addicts tried to take away my money.,6
"[ I do not remember when I last felf ashamed.  I do not usually  
feel ashamed of what I do.]",2
"Having had a very heated argument with my sister - I began  
hitting her about the head with a newspaper I was holding.",2
I remember being sad whe my aunt's child died (2 days old).,4
"When my mother told things to my sister, which I told my mother  
in confindence.",3
"My girlfriend lost her temper without any reason and she did not  
consider or respect my feelings.",0
Finding out about people can go mad for social reasons.,6
"I typed up a letter for this physician at work. She didn't care  
for my style, even though she was not using correct English. I  
told her it was her letter and we would do it her way.",3
"Watching an alcoholic woman who was approaching everyone at the  
wharf for cigarettes - a prostitute in Auckland (elderly).",0
"When someone I trusted very much, disappointed me.",3
"When I deny something to my sister and after a while I feel sorry  
and try to bypass the situation.",5
"In a lift a drunken, fat and untidy man tried to make advances at  
me.",0
When I saw a large spider crawling up the wall.,6
When I had to come back from my village last Christmas.,4
At a friend's party there were several allusions to my sexual adventures.,2
"A friend started to insult another person without reason and I  
felt ashamed of her behavior.",2
"My father promised to send me pocket money at the month-end since  
I wanted to buy a new pair of shoes when I was at secondary  
school, but he didn't.",0
"When I heard about the death of somebody I liked very much and I  
was not present either to see the person or to try to share my  
emotions with other friends.",4
When my father had a cerebral hemorrhage.,4
Disappointed by a friend.,4
"I received the mid-term exam paper of one of my major subjects  
and I found that I had failed it.",4
"Once, late at night, I was biking home and overtook a man. He  
said to me ""Hello darling"" I was terrified and imagined the  
wildest scenes.",6
"[ During a certain period, I felt successful and extremely satisfied.    
When I found that any tasks or decisions that I had made were better   
than expected.]",1
Walking in the dark I saw something strange.,6
"I helped my little sister (13 years) learning mathematics.  
Obviously she did not want to understand what I explained and  
started to cry. I grew angry.",3
"I got 100 FIM too much when I changed money at the bank.  They  
soon called me at my job and the situation was embarrasing for  
me.",5
"When my friend got very low marks in field work even though he  
had worked throughout the year, I had this feeling.",0
"When there was a possibility of getting on better in professional  
life. I valorized very much this aspect. People showed me this  
possibility, not the real fact (even because until now ...)",1
When I almost walked on a snake.,6
I met my best friend's husband with a prostitute.,0
"A friend came to tell me that her father invited me to go on  
holiday with them in Benidorm otherwise I could not afford to go  
on holiday.",1
"In certain occasion I have a fight with my boyfriend. During the  
fight I closed the door at his face. He went away but came back  
next day.",3
When I had not understood anything after a lecture.,4
"Having an affair with my good friend's best friend. And every time  
I see my best friend I feel guilt because we can't tell him.",5
My best friend could not get into university.,4
"When I realized that I had a hole in my trousers after having gone  
for a walk.",2
"Some time ago we had a tournament in our tennis-club. For  
tactical reasons I was chosen to play against a much weaker  
player than I am. Although it would have been enough simply to  
win the game, I defeated him extremely. This would not have been  
necessary.",2
"My mother always evokes feelings of guilt in me. For instance  
when I miss the last bus I know she will be concerned for me and  
stay awake till I arrive.",5
"When I got to know about the reaction of a friend of mine in a  
certain situation.  I had not expected him to react that way.",3
"When I received a letter from a woman I thought had not ever  
cared for me.  This was when I needed her and I was overjoyed to  
learn that it was me who was delaying things.",1
"When my last year's second semester results came through - I was  
ecstatic.",1
"Before the department meeting my friend ate a dish that I had  
prepared for this meeting.",3
Little contact with my father before he died.,5
"A quarrel was followed by the decision of leaving a person close  
to me. Several days later my regret was great. I was beside  
myself. Quite unexpectedly he came and the conflict was calmly  
solved. I was glad at the possibility to be with him.",1
Ctiticized by teachers in public.,2
"A dirty person, smelling bad and unknown laying on me.",0
Beaten up by a classmate in school.,0
When they stole my dark blue tennis.,3
Staying alone in a dark place.,6
"In an important situation for me, my father behaved inadequately.",2
"My cassmate laughed at me when I was being scolded by the  
teacher.",3
"When I was very young and we moved as a family to Auckland from  
Wellington, this meant new school and friends (etc.).",6
"[ When I was treated unfairly, regardless of my motives or deeds.]",3
"When I was teaching a student started making silly remarks in  
class.",0
"That afternoon I received two messages informing me, one that my  
brother was in a coma in the U.T.H suffering (kidney disease) and  
two, that my uncle met with an accident on his way to the hospital  
 to see my brother.",4
"Losing my temper and allowing myself to act childishly by yelling  
and screaming at a person who I felt had done me wrong - in  
effect lowering myself to their level.",2
"When I was about six years old, I mistook a cat for a leopard       
when it entered my room at night.",6
When I got to know that my father had passed away.,4
"When my half brother became seriously ill with cancer and died  
later.",4
"I had promised my friend to take her to an important appontment  
but I was late. So she missed the opportunity to get a wellpayed  
holiday job.",5
"One day I had sunned my favourite shirt and was putting it back  
in the wardrobe when my younger brother snatched it from me and  
wore it.  He had not had a bath and was very dirty.  I scolded him  
but he answered back and locked himself up in a room.  I was very  
angry so I starteed kicking on the door and abusing him loudly  
and freely.",3
"Once I went home totally drunk and roused all our neighbours from  
sleep.",2
"When I was told by the doctor, after many months of coughing,  
that I had tuberculosis.",6
Travelling by coach on a rather narrow and wet road.,6
"While walking through an old mining area, I unwittingly disturbed  
a wallaby which, in its resultant flight, accidentally fell down  
a deep mine shaft. On investigation it seemed uninjured, but it  
was impossible for the wallaby to get out, and also for me to get  
it out of the shaft. To prevent its suffering a slow death, I  
shot it.",4
"When thieves broke into our house, I was disgusted by their  
behaviour.  They did not find anything so they broke things like  
the windows, glasses etc.",0
Fighting with my father while drunk.,2
"Sometimes I experience sadness for the Sports High School and for  
my unrealized dreams in the sport. Anyway there I spent six years  
of my life.",4
"For the sheer pleasure of it, I quarelled with my boyfriend who was trying   
to be especially kind to me.",5
"I was worried by a task related to my studies which had to be  
done in groups of two.  I was talking about it to my friends when  
I said something negative, in too abrupt a manner, concerning my  
work partner.  I did not quite mean what I said and I felt  
ashamed at having been mean enough to criticize him as he is also  
a friend of mine.",2
Someone not responding to my criticism.,0
A friend's brother died.,4
"A colleague's 17 year old daughter is seriously ill with cancer  
and has only a year to live.  I  heard about it 6 weeks ago.",4
"Once as a school girl I was copying at a class work and my  
teacher spotted me.",2
"When I was 15 my mother discovered various items in my room which  
15 year olds aren't usually expected to have - mainly alcohol,  
marijuana and contraceptives !",2
"When I saw the list of books to read for an acccouting course, I  
thought "" Oh God how will I ever manaage it!""",4
"Being very close to having an auto accident, almost driving off  
the road.",6
"My father had been drinking and I feared him when we went to bed  
at night.",6
Someone frightened me in the dark.,6
When my son was born.,1
Before the declaration of the S.S.C results.,6
"When I was house-hunting: Another person got a flat that I would  
have liked, too, because he heaped a floot of words on the  
letter.",3
I feel sad about an event I can not influence.,4
"I was seven years old and swimming outside the flags at the Gold  
Coast. I was caught in a rip and taken out about 100 m. I  
couldn't swim too well, but an older friend (17) swam out and  
saved me.",6
"I was taking a shower in a cubicle in France. Then I discovered  
that a few children were loking at me from the adjacent cubicle.",2
"It was when I discovered that the girl who I had proposed was a  
friend's girlfriend.",5
"When I got admission in M.Sc (I) Organic Chemistry, I was very  
happy.",1
"When I went to my boyfriend's house for lunch and saw his  
parents, I felt that they were watching me all the time.",2
"At a social event when none of the guests would help to serve  
food or clear tables. It was all beneath them.",0
"My girlfriend started singing (she cannot sing) and did not stop  
despite my asking her to do so.",3
"I hit my cousin badly after she threw away my dresses in a  
pit-latrine that the little girl fainted.",5
"A serious drug error while nursing that I knew I was responsible  
for (patient lived, no complications fortunately).",2
"The funeral of a friend who was killed in a car accident. She was  
of my own age, there were many of my own friends present, as well  
as her family etc.",4
"I was ashamed with my biology lecturer when he asked me a  
question and I could not answer it.",2
"I forgot that the course instructor had directed us to go for  
special classes after the usual class hours.  I missed this the  
first day and when he asked me about it the next day I said that  
I had forgotten.",2
Forgot to do some shopping that I had promised to do.,2
"I was sitting in school, waiting for my sister to go home. Suddenly a  
boy put fire in a paper and threw it were I was sitting. The  
paper didn't get me, but I felt terribly disgusted at this  
cowardliness and irresponsibility that caused a great  
discussion. We went to the director and he, drunk as always, said  
that I was ... attention in school. I felt disgust of this  
situation, and of the persons implicated in it.",0
At a night club watching little tarts trying to earn a living.,0
"When someone whom I trusted, disappointed me terribly.",0
"I was to be given an audition to get a role. I had a competitress  
and I wasn't well prepared because I was ill.",6
I was sexually assaulted one night by a stranger.,6
Not being able to help my friend to do homework.,5
"When I was betrayed by a friend, and decided to stay apart form  
her.",4
"While I was waiting for them to give me the marks of the most  
difficult subject this year.",6
When I was selected to start Form I at Malosa Secondary school.,1
When I realized that I had three more examinations to take.,5
Waiting for my marks in a difficult subject.,6
"Doing something wrong at home, and then letting my (normally)  
more rampant brother take the blame.",5
Hear a very nice joke made by a friend.,1
"When I have to leave the baby in the carriage and go shopping, I  
fear that something will happen to the baby.",6
"A month ago when one of my fellow workers got a promotion over  
me. It was just a small promotion but recognition was involved.",3
"During a recent meeting, Mr. A showed his excitement and  
overindulged in the notes delivered.  Though his curiosity could  
not be blamed, his way of accquiring knowledge was an extreme  
behaviour e.g he always tried to know what I was reading and  
gained everything he could.",0
"Finding out that the university will give first priority to  
qualified practioners and clinical years to go to your English  
lectures.",4
"My parents put pressure on me to buy clothes, when I would not  
have liked to do so.",3
"A certain colleague of mine sent me to buy a bag of flour for him,  
he gave me K20. Unfortunately I lost it.",5
"When my dress and a few other things were stolen from my  
wardrobe.",3
"When I was younger I often saw my father come home drunk (he had  
big problems at that time). Once he woke me up in the middle of  
the night and shouted at me.",0
When I robbed a loop in supermarket.,5
"When we received  our academic result I learnt that my  results  
were bad as I had not done my best.  The results of my  
accquaintances were good and when they asked me about my results  
I really did not want to answer.",2
"When I think now about the way my father behaved when filing a  
divorce.",0
"One night, when I got out from the University I saw two strange  
people near my car. When I got near, they moved away, and then  
came close again. I had a feeling that they were assaulters.  
After I left I discovered that the windshield was broken.",6
"In the army, I had been in hospital for two weeks and as soon as  
I returned to the company, a sergeant ordered me to fetch a load  
on the tractor trailer.",0
"I felt sad when I was told to walk out of the classroom because I  
was within the row of students who were making noise.",4
"When I finished a love affair where I was responsible of the sad  
end.",5
"I borrowed a piece of music of someone and I always forgot to  
give it back. That person wrote me a letter asking me to give it  
back. I did so and I told him an idle story why I kept it for so  
long.",5
"When a close friend of mine collapsed and passed away and the  
illness was not known.",4
When an earlier friend was spreading negative rumours about me.,4
When my girlfriend became pregnant.,1
"Eating biscuits and drinking Milo (Chocolate energy drink made  
with milk and usually drunk warm) with my friend at College. We  
get on really well, don't withold any feelings about each other's  
friends and are pretty good at cheering each other up when we are  
homesick.",1
"I was walking one day and I met a man who wanted to ask me about  
my brother but I didn't stop to hear what he was saying. I was  
ashamed when I found him at home and he told my brother what had  
happened.",2
"My family told me to leave if I was not willing to accept the  
conditions they imposed on me.",3
One day in the intimity with my girlfriend I had an ejaculation.,2
"I felt guilt because on account of my ambitions I nearly turned  
my sister out of my parents home.",5
My grandfather's funeral.,4
"I felt that I contributed to a possible rift in the relationship  
between a boy and girl soon to be married, in my flat after I  
moved in. After stating my celibacy to him which she overheard  
and didn't previously know about I suspect.",5
"I was at home and we were sleeping when we heard some robbers  
breaking into our house.",6
Failed an examn.,4
"When I achieved my first 6 at University after a long string of  
3's, 4's and 5's (7 is the highest mark awarded, 3 is a conceded  
pass).",1
"Outside a night club, a grown man was sitting on top of a younger  
woman, beating her up.",0
"I felt ashamed of feeling sorry about myself when I passed  
through the situation of being betrayed by my girlfriend.",2
When my first girlfriend an I left each other.,4
"Whenever I see poverty and starvation. I live in an affluent  
society and am privileged to have many opportunities.",5
"A professor was going to read aloud in class a composition of  
mine in which I had criticized some political attitudes and also  
some class-mates.   I was ashamed at having written that.",2
"This happened when I went to check my first year results, I had   
thought that I would fail and I found that I had a clear pass in  
all my courses.",1
When boyfriend lied to me.,3
"A few lies that I had indulged in, a few years ago, while raising  
loans from my friends.",5
"At school teacher for not allowing us to go out on New Year's Eve  
when on a class trip overseas.",3
"I was having breakfast with a classmate and suddenly I began to  
cry as I thought of a friend of mine whom I had not seen for a  
long time.",4
"Before I moved away from home, I feared leaving.",6
I felt guilty after stealing a cookery book from my colleagues.,5
"My father had a complicated operation. A long time before and  
also a long time after that, we did not know how he would get  
over it. During all that time I felt very sad.",4
"I spent a weekend in San Diego visiting my boyfriend Rob. We were  
at the airport and my plane was just about so leave. After saying  
goodbye, I boarded the plane. It was the hardest thing to do and  
it was a sad trip home.",4
When I learnt that my best friend had failed the exams.,0
"They asked me to throw the rubbish into a dustbin which had some  
awful liquid accumulated at the bottom.",0
When I was selected to come here.,1
"I was not prepared for the exam but I wanted to sleep the night  
before the exam.",6
"I am troubled by hair growing in my neck. I was troubled by this  
for a long time and was much ashamed when someone brought his/her  
hands close to my face.",2
"When my uncle died whom I had loved very much. I was very sad and  
I felt totally helpless.",4
"When my uncle comes (3 times a year) for the traditional  
Christmas dinner with my grandparents and other relatives and is  
very drunk.",0
When programmes on violence or pornography are shown on T.V.,0
"Being on view in a meat-factory. Pigs being cut open, pigs being  
suspended from nods, blood everywhere, decompsition.",0
"I went to a party and there were some cakes which weren't good  
and had a bad smell.",0
"When a boy, who was drunk, insulted me in front of a crowd.  I  
was stopped from punching him for it.",3
"When Christmas holiday started, I felt very joyful when I  
finished my last exam.",1
"A friend visited and made comments that my house/garden were not  
as neat/tidy as in the past. I'd not seen her a year - She  
implied I'd gone to the pack (I'd only been working full time,  
and taking 3 University exams part time).",3
"I let my pet budgie loose to fly around my room one afternoon. A  
few hours afterwards I found he was still free, went in and out  
of my room leaving the door open. My cat got in and killed my  
budgie - this happened to 3 budgies.",5
"I received the message that I'd been accepted at the school where I  
really wanted to go.",1
"When I went to see the doctor and had to take my clothes off so  
that he could examine me.",2
China not winning more gold medals in the Asian Olympics.,2
"Death of my grnadfather after having been in hospital for so long  
with cancer of the Oesophagus.",4
When I swindled money out of someone.,2
"I do not have the time for other people's problems.  My  
mother-in-law is sometimes depressed and I do not have the time,  
the desire or the strength to help.",5
"A few days back I had to ask a professor a ridiculous question  
because I had lost at a game of cards and had to pay a forfeit.",2
When I won my car. ,1
"I joked with an unfamiliar friend in an obstinate tone.  I was  
afraid of his misunderstanding me and being hurt and angry at me.  
 I felt sorry over my conduct and thought that I had to find an  
opportunity to apologize.",5
When I got divorced from my husband after ten years of marriage.,4
"The death of Jaya Prakash Narayan caused a great deal of sadness  
as I believed that he was the only true democrat and a ray of  
hope on the Indian horizon.",4
"I broke an egg, with which there was something wrong, into a  
little cup. There was a thick white ""wad"" in it. I tried to take  
it out and throw it in the sink.",0
When my grandmother died.,4
When there is danger nearby.,6
"Was accused of having hidden intentions in a situation when I  
believed I was acting honestly and fairly.",2
When my father was saved from a severe work accident.,1
"When I had just moved into my new appartment I found a ventilator  
in the kitchen.  I was going to clean it when I found that the  
drum was full of mud and slime.  I felt disgusted.",0
"When I could neither measure up to the expectations of the teacher  
nor to my own expectations in one of the assignments.",5
I asked a girl out on a date and she said no.,4
"When I didn't meet an appointment I had made. The person phoned  
me but I thought of something (I told I was ill) so that I didn't  
have to go.",2
When stupid people push me during rush time in the city.,3
"I failed my Nutrition paper which was the paper ending the  
course.",2
"At a party, several comments were made about the personal  
situation of one of the people present.  She was rather affected  
and uncomfortable.",5
"Alone I am coming back home in the night after the serial  
""explanation"".",4
When I passed successive exams to enter the school of medicine.,1
Arguing about price with private shop-assistant.,3
"I moved to a flat. A friend who had lived there before, had left  
the flat in a terrible mess. I was very angry about that  
sloppiness and impudence.",3
"Sadness, no, I felt something much stronger when my father died.",4
"Being caught by parents in a compromising situation with  
girlfriend.",2
"We were starting a student project, and the teacher we talked to  
was very negative and not very helpful.",3
"Almost crashing into the back of a car while driving along the  
motorway on my motorcycle.",6
"I partly colored my hair black. My mother didn't like it and  
reproached me to be a ""subversive element"". Later on she stated  
that this was due to my friends. As I see it, this all resulted  
from colouring my hair.",4
"I was raped once when I went through a dark alley at the back of  
our house. The man pushed me in the bushes. I fought back and  
succeeded to escape.",6
"One day my mother went to visit her friends.  When she came back  
she scolded me for not having kept the house in order, so I  
decided not to talk to her.",5
"When I told off a computer teacher who did not want to teach me  
beacause of prejudice.",3
"One of those days when I was going to school with my brother and  
he annoyed me.",0
"When my little brother asked me to play with him, I told him that  
I had no time and that I would play with him the next day.  
However, the next day I said the same thing.",5
When I woke up after a nightmare.,4
"When my mother betrayed me by obtaining money from my husband  
when we were separated - pending divorce.",0
When my girlfriend left me.,4
"I felt happy when I learnt that I had qualified for the grade  
eight.",1
"When parents of a certain girl refused to let me marry their  
daughter because I was not fit to do so yet the girl accepted  
everything and later she followed what her parents insisted and  
she told me never to talk to her again.",2
"When I learnt that a boy I liked had been with a girl for three  
years.",4
When my mother caught me masturbating.,2
"A friend of mine had said something about not liking to come to  
my place just before coming to my place.   In the meanwhile I got  
to learn about this from another friend of mine and when she  
arrived at my place I really treated her badly.  I was later  
ashamed of the way I had treated someone when the person was at  
my place.",2
"4 years ago my family decided to move from New York to  
California. From the time we decided to move until the time we  
left, I realized how much my friends cared for me. When we left  
and for a long time after that I was very sad.",4
"Achieving my goal at a swim meet. I worked toward the goal for 9  
yrs. I was capable of achieving it, but I didn't know when.",1
"A girl, who is a friend of mine was having an affair with a boy  
who is also a friend of mine.  I got to know that this girl was  
also seeing another guy.  Later on, she just broke off with this friend  
of mine without giving any explanations.  This made him sad and  
depressed, and I felt disgust for this girl.",0
"I was dominated by a certain person and even though I knew it I  
could not change my own reactions.",0
"When a man, a stranger to me, personally insulted a close woman  
friend of mine in public.",3
"When my grandfather was in a nursing home when I was young I never  
wanted to go and sometimes didn't have to and later I felt  
guilty.",5
Insulted by other people in the shop.,3
"I saw a skid-row (chronical) alcoholic and I was ashamed of the  
people with a high standard of living.",2
If a close relative's life is in danger.,6
When my children were born.,1
"My grandfather died. He lived almost as a recluse not caring for  
himself as well as he should - Dad and we all helped as much as  
we could, but it didn't save him from himself. It was an  
unexpected death. His second de facto wife was lucky she wasn't  
jailed.",4
When my boyfriend and I made up.,1
"In a Christian gathering's lucky draw I mistook a girl's name for  
mine (a boy's name).  I realized my mistake only when I went up  
to the stage for the prize.  I did not know what to do as  
everyone was looking at me.  I blushed and went back to my seat.",2
The morning after a wild party.,2
"A customer at the shop where I worked came in and asked if the  
goods that he had ordered had arrived.  I had totally  
forgotten about this order and I tried to offer weak excuses.",2
"In a day when at work, in school, and relationships came out as I  
wanted, and I was recognized in my work.",1
"When I saw a good male friend unexpectedly after a year, as I've  
just returned from overseas. I was feeling tired, looking a mess,  
and nervous.",6
I felt disgust of my father when I knew he had a lover.,0
Going to the examn not well prepared.,6
A woman picked her nose and spit right next to me.,0
This situation occurred when I entered into a smelling ward.,0
"I felt joyful when I heard that I had been selected for College  
education.",1
"My first day to work in hospital, when I was dressing wounds I  
was disgusted when I came across one wound with a very bad smell.",0
"When I was admitted to the Institute. I had problems with many  
people about my applying for this institute and I decided to  
prove that one can pass excellently without visiting any  
preparatory couse. That is - I proved what I could do on my own.",1
I forgot to convey an important announcement.,5
"Leaving the house myself and a female friend had shared for 6-8  
months because of the friendship which developed and our approach  
to each other in occasional instances of several personal crises.",4
"Feeling helpless, not being able to accomplish what I really  
wanted to do.",5
"I was beaten up at a private New Year's party once, through no  
fault of mine.",6
"I was filled with joy when I heard that I had passed my Secondary  
school leaving certificate exam.",1
"I put an end to a friendship with a girl - I had only pretended  
love and affection to be able to sleep with her.",2
"One day I shouted at my brother who didn't do any wrong to me  
only that I had a disappointment from a friend and projected it  
on to him. He cried and I felt guilty after sometime.",5
"At an unworthy behaviour of a man, pettiness, stupidity and  
mostly at a philistinism.",0
"As I was taking venous blood from another patient I introduced  
air into the place of puncturing and there was a swelling which  
is dangerous to the patient hence I became afraid.",6
When my brother gave me a watch.,1
"Taking a trip to crocokile country I fell out of the boat and was  
motivated by fear of being eaten to perform great swimming feats.",6
"I had a misunderstanding with my father and after some time I  
found that I had been wrong.",2
"When my brother-in-law's brother stole my clothes when my  
brother-in-law and I had gone to cut wood for the fire.",3
"I made a comment and it was interpreted completely differently  
from what I had meant.  When I said it I realized how my mother  
had understood it.",2
"After training for an Australian championship competition for a  
year and then injuring myself 2 weeks before the competiotion.",4
After my boyfriend and I had separated.,4
"Once, before I had learnt to swim, I stepped on a slippery slope  
where there was a lot of moss and I slipped into the water.  The  
water was very deep and I could not stand on my feet.  I sank  
and had to use a lot of energy.",6
"Someone stole a K10 note and the teacher thought that it was me  
when I was not responsible for the theft.",0
"When I had to sleep in a bed at a hostel, which was full of dirt.",0
My sister marrying a bad man. He is cruel to her.,4
"When you are far away from relatives and friends. I feel sad for  
my early years, for the freedom and the carefree years of  
childhood.",4
"I am a Christian but I cannot find any meaning in life . It  
seems that I am deceiving myself but I cannot find the way out.",4
When my dog ran out on thin ice last spring.,6
"When my friends died one after the other.  The first died in a  
car accident and the second one recently, due to an illness.",4
A film on zombies.,6
"At the underground station, a drunkard came to speak to me.  He  
tried to ask me something but I did not answer so he began to  
speak about me with his companion.  I detested this dirty  
growling man.",0
"A female friend was violently ill on the return journey from a  
wedding reception we attended. Getting her out of the car when  
home took quite a while.",0
When a student of mine (at music) performed and played remarkably well.,1
"I failed to keep a promise and this had a serious effet on someone's  
problem.",5
"Towards wife's laziness in not performing her usual duties  
because of television watching.",3
"In contact with a poor family of northeast it was offered to me a  
crab to eat at my request. But the fact that this crab was  
prepared antihygienically and his appearence was also  
antihygienically it caused me disgust but I ate it anyway.",0
"I was filled with joy when I heard that I had been selected to  
come here at Kamuzu College of Nursing.",1
Once while crossing a road I was overcome with fear.,6
"For my parents anniversary, we hosted a party and we were very  
happy.",1
"My aunt phoned me to ask me why I had refused the her invitation  
to dinner at her home on the New Year's Eve.",2
"Disagreements with mother.  When I moved from KankaanpSS, she had  
promised to help me move but broke her promise because of some  
hindrance. ",3
When I was operated on the knee and had to go through rehabilitation.,6
"I was watching T.V with my parents and some pornographic scenes  
came on, I felt uncomfortable and tried to distract my parents  
attention by talking to them.",2
"When a girl did not answer a question, concerning my love for  
her, put forward to her.",4
"Cleaning the bathroom of my apt. and realizing my roommate who  
had lived there all summer by himself had never cleaned the  
place.",0
"When an intimate friend of mine passed B.A with first class and I  
got only pass class.",2
"I was sitting in a restaurant with friends. They asked me  
something which they thought I should know. Actually I know it,  
but at that time I was not able to remember it.",2
"A friend's father had died, I was to come and see this friend  
although I did not know his family.",6
My grandmother died suddenly last summer.,4
When I failed the grade seven examination.,4
"I was eating in the dinning hall and some women joined me.  I  
could not eat with them so I left the dinning hall.",0
"When my father took away my cherised diaries to burn them (I was  
also very sad) ""Oh, how I hated him"".",3
"It was my father's birthday party when I was asked to bring a  
tray of tea and other drinks.",2
Our basketball team is undefeated in league play (4-0) currently.,1
"I read a newspaper report that a little boy was forced to look  
while his sister was raped.",0
"At the begining of a new course one is afraid of encountering  
problems one can not manage.  Thoughts revolve around failing  
the subject and the consequences it would have for the future.",4
"I heard part of a conversation in which one talked very low about  
women.",0
Noisy people in the library.,0
"I was told I shouldn't visit my sister because the holiday was  
short.",0
"When I noticed that a person I found attractive had seen me  
picking my nose.",2
"I was at school whhen I received a letter from the dean of my  
school congratulating me for my performance at the previous  
year's exam. ",1
"After an oral examination I shook the professor's hand, but he  
had only stretched it out for my ball-point-pen.",2
Finding out that I made a stupid mistake in the examn.,3
"As I was not paying attention, my little brother fell off the  
table.",5
"Felt I had not appreciated my parents enough. Regretted the  
problems I'd caused.",2
"I was sleeping nicely until in the middle of the night when I became  
awake because a friend called me for some (in my opinion)  
nonsens reason.",3
"I was totally unprepared for a seminar conducted by an assistant  
professor whom I highly respect.",2
When I was caught going out with another girl by my girlfriend.,5
"Once when I was playing table tennis I was already sure that I  
would win , but at last I lost the game.",3
"When I was the first to arrive at the scene after an accident,  
and found that a close school friend had been killed.",6
"When a person saw that I was accused of something I had not done  
and did not do anything to defend me.",0
"In the classroom we discussed with the teacher. He told me things  
that affected directly in a negative way my job and my behavior  
in the classroom in front of the other pupils.",2
"Our dog had to be shot because he had killed a roe. I liked him  
very much and so I could not resign myself to that. I hated the  
hunter who shot him.",4
"I was looking after my father's sheen in the forest. One day  
while playing with friends from neighbouring villages the flock  
escaped me and went into a far place. It became dark and I was  
afraid of father. I went home and hid myself.",6
I am afraid if I'll finish the term.,6
"I was hitch-hiking when a man stopped and gave me a lift to  
Nijmegen. During the ride he asked me whether I was in for fun.  
The man was fat and tatooed.",0
"When my boyfriend and I experience something nice or when we have  
made a nice walk together.",1
"There was an earthquake for several minutes and I was on the  
eight floor.",6
"I had worked long and hard on a project when a friend  
inadvertantly destroyed it. I could not forgive him for a long  
time. And at times still get angry at him.",3
"While still at school a friend died of cancer, after being ill  
for a long time, she was 17 yrs old.",4
"Sometime back another girl who was in terms with my ex-boyfriend  
came to shout at me at twelve midnight. It was because she  
thought I was still interested in the boy.",3
"Crossing a street of several ways the cars began to move and I  
thought that I was going to be trampled.",6
"I wrote an Exam and happened to have not done as well as I  
thought I would. I was angry to myself for not having done so  
well.",3
"When I lied to my mum, who later came to know that what I had  
been teling her was false.",5
"After a long time (of no communication with him, physical  
illness and worry) my lover came to see me, when I least expected  
to see him.",1
"I had undertaken to help my sister for her class work but some  
unexpected circumstances prevented me from doing that.",5
"On my birthday, when a very close friend sent me a huge bouquet  
of flowers.",1
Did not finish homework.,2
"When I fell crazily in love with a beautiful girl and she returned  
my love.",1
"When I was studying in the library a pair of lovers were sitting  
next to me talking in an intense and soft voice.  They were  
disturbing others.",0
"I was disappointed by a girlfriend when I visited her at her home  
in Woodlands.",0
"When my parents drove me to a nearby place and went home  
immediately instead of waiting a few hours.  They could have  
easily waited.",3
When someone does something wrong which affects me negatively.,3
"I hadn't been at my parent's place for a long time. When I went to  
visit them I had high expectations, but when I was there it was  
very different from what I expected.",4
"When I blamed my niece for misplacing my book, she denied having  
touched or seen it but I carried on insisting that it was her.",5
When I saw a very disagreable scene.,0
Saw an arrogant girl walking pass by.,0
"In the student kitchen that we share, somebody drank from my  
juice pot (one litre) so that I only got one glass out of the  
whole pot.",3
"When something went wrong for me I lashed out at someone else  
whom I loved and who was not in any way responsible for what had  
happened (my sister).",5
[ Can not think of anything just now.],5
"When I was a child I was afraid of big dogs. One day when I came  
home a big dog was laying in front of our door. I was so  
frightened that I did not dare to enter the door and I waited  
until somebody passed by.",6
"I was camping with a friend of mine and we spent the night in the  
forest.  I could not fall off to sleep and could clearly hear  
noises from outside (steps ?) approaching our tent.",6
"A drunk man had fallen in the street and he was shouting obscene  
words.",0
"We were at a hamburger bar and a man at a table nearby started  
coughing and spitting into his plate.",0
The last time I felt it was when I was coming home late at night.,6
When I was caught stealing money from my father.,2
"Guilt - because I had not written to my sister for months before  
she died.",5
"If they force me to eat something I don't like. For example, my  
parents always twaddle and whine, when I don't eat all the food.",3
"When I was little and didn't own up to placing a lolly on the  
varnish, this pulled it all off and I didn't admit my guilt.",2
"My older sister used to pick on my brothers and sisters all of  
whom were younger than her. On one occasion my brother did  
something my sister didn't like. A full-scale battle began.",0
"I felt this feeling when one day my landlord's cat had crept  
under my bed and I couldn't cope with it during an hour and a  
half.",6
During my last exam.,3
"When my grandfather died. When I heard about his death, I had a  
bad feeling in my stomach and I felt as if I had lost something  
very precious.",4
A sour looking man was beating his thin dog in Remuera.,0
"I am a school teacher. At a teacher-parent meeting I received a  
good deal of positive feed-back on my work both from the parents  
and through them from the pupils.",1
"At my father, when he yelled and accused my sister's friend (over  
the phone) of doing something he didn't do, or know anything  
about.",0
"We were driving on a very dusty road at night and the driver  
tried to overtake a very big truck only to find another big truck  
parked right in front.",6
"I bought a new bed for my apt. and it squeaks when you move on  
it. I tried to fix it but could not.",3
When I passed an important exam.,1
"When ,due to hunger and tiredness, I became generally irritated  
with my fiancee and made cutting remarks which really hurt him.   
Later I realized that my unfounded irritation had hurt the person  
I love most on earth.",5
"For about one year I had a rather bad relation with my father.  
Last Christmas Eve he invited me to stay withhim and I was very  
glad about it. It was a fine evening.",1
When someone close to me is travelling by car and is delayed.,6
"At the age of 16 I had gone to see a film in a nearby village,  
about 8 kms  from my home.  I started walking as there was no  
bus.  I had to cross hills and as it was dark I could not  
identify the path.  Half way through it started raining and as  
there was no shelter I ran four kms to reach home.",6
"At a school dance when my supposed ""best friend"" kept walking  
away from me whenever I came near her.",3
When I was selected to study here at UNZA.,1
"Without the employer's knowledge and even without any  
communication their bank accounts were changed and their personal  
accounts closed.",3
"A young visitor to the house stole money from an elderly  
visitor's purse. It wasn't noticed for some hours.",2
"I was living in rooms in a very lonely, quiet neigbourhood.  
During the night it was very silent and this frightened me. The  
fact of being alone in that house frightened me.",6
"I was rushing home from school because there was a 49er game that  
night. I got into a non-injury accident, which was all my fault,  
but destroyed the front of my car. The truck I hit was undamaged.",3
"When I worked as an ""au-pair-girl"" in London, I received a call  
from a good friend who told me that she was in London too and  
wanted to see me. I was very glad - after that call and  
especially when I saw her.",1
"I was complaining about calling people whom I didn't know. I  
forgot that the purpose is to invite people for dinner and get to  
know them.",2
"There is one thing which makes me feel shameful,  when I see  
friends of my age group working and earning a lot, when I am  
still studying.  A friend I met a week ago after a period of 5  
years is earning more than Rs 3000/ month.",2
"Getting back my math midterm, I received a lower grade than I  
thought I would get. After going through the questions I felt  
that the grader had graded harshly and I had made only a few ?  
errors.",0
"Being subject to unfair treatment in a working group, someone  
""bending the rules"" was protected by the boss. This resulted in  
more work for the others.",3
"In the evening, while I was watching TV, my little brother came  
in and started eating food he had brought from the kitchen while  
I was trying to concentrate on the program.",0
When I attended the concert of a pop singer.,1
"I was ashamed at myself when I saw that the other boys and girls    
of my age earn a lot of money by doing very good and hard work. ",2
Not finishing my duty as a class leader.,3
Going to a concert.,1
"When I dated a close girlfriend's boyfriend a few times. He told  
me that it was over between them and I accepted it.  When she  
found out she finished our friendship.",2
"When I had promised to do some washing for my mother and I did  
not do it.  She did it herself despite her being ill.  I felt  
very guilty.",5
When caught shop-lifting as for shame.,5
"Once a person in authority (school teacher) was telling blatant  
lies about me and the headmistress would not let me defend  
myself. She was also telling lies about other members of my  
family.",3
"I was walking alone in the street late at night (2.30 am). It was  
very quiet. Then a man approached me and said ""Hello"".",6
"And she said absurd things, false things that filled my ears and  
inflated my head which seemed to be caught in a carcass where the  
heart wanted to explode and where the arm wanted to knock down  
the world.",3
I felt sad and depressed when I heard that our cat had died.,4
"When for the first and the last time I tried to crib and the  
teacher was with her back to me but right when I was taking the  
materials out she turned round and saw me.",2
"One evening, when I had gone fishing with my friends, we heard  
the roar of a lion near by and had to run for our lives.",6
"When one individual takes advantage of and/or injures another  
relatively defenseless individual, consciously. I feel disgust  
mingled with anger. A person on my dorm floor verbally assaulted  
another person for having a certain religious belief.",0
"A friend of mine was drunk and having an argument on the street  
with a woman, appparently his girlfriend.  I was walking on the  
other side of the street and thought that I was not supposed to  
interfere.  Later I heard that he had shot himself that evening.",5
I was late meeting someone for an appointment.,5
"I felt happy when my mother borrowed me the car in order to let  
me go out alone for the first time.",1
Saw someone acting in a false manner in public.,0
"When, as a child, I was nearly knocked down by a car.",6
"When some housemen told me a young girl like you should not be  
allowed to lecture to consultants, I was too shy to argue against  
them.",5
"Not being able to convince my class leader that my friend is  
better than me to go to the English lectures.",2
"[ I feel shame when I do not arrive on time and others have to  
wait for me for a long time.]",2
It happens to me quite often. I can't describe a particular case.,5
"When I heard my name being announced on the radio that I had been  
successful in an interview for admittance for a medical Assistant  
training course. I was really happy and I enjoyed myself by  
dancing to music from the Radio cassette.",1
"When a close friend, residing in the hostel, lost his father I  
really pittied him and the situation made me feel sad.",4
"When I read a newspaper article on a young girl who had been  
raped and assaulted one night by several men when she was unconscious.",0
When I found out I had passed all of my university exams.,1
"The day when my son said for the first time ""mummy"".",1
"You may find out that I am stupid and not to let me do your  
experiment.",6
"I always feel ashamed when I do not succeed in accomplishing  
something in which I had put in all my efforts.",2
"Being involved in a car accident and having my thumb caught in  
the glove compartment. My sister and I had a Fear of finally  
telling my parents, since my sister was the driver.",6
When I was coming back home alone at night.,6
"When I had not prepared my contribution to the group as  
thoroughly as the other members, with the result that the  
overall result was poor.",2
"Departure of a very close friend - for a long stay overseas,  
sharing in the sorrow of her parents who were left behind.",4
"I went shopping with my parents - my father payed everything for  
me, I was very glad.",1
"When my mother decided to clean out my room and throw out what  
she thought was junk, without my knowing about it, so I returned  
home to find half my stuff gone.",3
The time when someone let the air out of the tyres of my cycle.,3
"Sitting on the bus seats supposed for disabled people, children  
and old people (by mistake)",2
"Football was a very big deal at my high school, so I was joyous  
when my school's team won the conference championship last year.",1
"I felt shame when I didn't study enough for my exams and as a  
result I failed. I then invented idle stories to talk it good for  
myself and the others.",2
I choked on a cold drink in front of girls who were strangers.,2
"It was when I read a newspaper article on the future and they  
foresaw that we would be eating frog-burgers by the year 2000.   
An illustration showed a frog between two pieces of bread.",0
When a girl left me.,3
Saw my unfair report.,0
"I experienced this when my maternal grandmother passed away.  She  
was the last of my grand parents to pass away.",4
"When I dived among sharks and the brightly coloured fish on the  
outer reef of Tvavni, Fidgi.",1
"I was in the house at night and I heard a hyena crying outside.  
It cried for almost an hour and I feared it might break the  
window and enter inside the house.",6
"I received a wedding invitation from an ex-flatmate, enclosed was  
a small note that overcame a lot of the differences that had  
arisen between us due to the circumstances in which she left the  
flat.",1
Lost a friend.,4
"I was sitting on the bus coming back from school. A man from  
nearly forty years sat beside me. After a while I looked at him  
and saw that he was looking at me with opened throusers and  
holding his penis.",6
"I was very sad when I heard about the death of my teacher who  
taught me in Standard 8.",4
"Losing a boyfriend for the second time to my friend. He fell in  
love with her. The same thing happened a few months earlier with  
another boyfriend.",4
When I couldn't go for a trip with my friends in a holiday.,4
Being insulted in public for the wrong reason.,3
"A children's film in which I played a clown, with spotlights,  
cameras and the director who demanded jumps and guffaws.",2
When people remember us and shows interest about what we do.,1
"When I stared to much at a pastry that a woman was eating and at  
the same instant the pastry felt on the floor.",5
"When I entered the wound intensive care at the Central Hospital  
in Blantyre which was stinking.",0
"One night going downstairs, and hearing a strong stirring of  
brances, which was not the wind.",6
"When I was taking the 11th standard exam, my friend who was sitting  
behind me asked me for some answers.  The teacher looked at us  
just then and scolded both of us.  Everyone started looking at us  
and I felt very guilty.",5
"I insulted two of my friends because I thought that had been  
gossiping about me right under my nose, however I later found out  
that they were not doing so.",2
"I was very disgusted the first day I went to put a dead body in  
the Mortuary. There were many dead bodies and some were uncovered  
so we had to put on top of the other bodies.",0
I failed to show up at an agreed date.,5
Being elected as class leader.,1
"When students in our working group showed no responsibility or  
interest in our work.",3
"I was angered by a classmate who poured soup on to my clothes. He  
was trying to use a short-cut method in getting his supper.  
Coming behind my back, he wasn't noticed by me and as I was  
retreating from a hungry congested people I knocked his plate  
with my head. He didn't accept being wrong but blamed me for  
pouring his soup.",3
"When I had broken a piece of glass of the refrigerator by putting  
a hot pan in it.",5
"I had this feeling when my parents distroyed a relationship with  
a boy because they thought he was bad and irresponsible.",4
"The people on my floor last year were very close. This year 4 of  
our best friends live together in an apartment. My boyfriend and  
I dropped by on one of their birthdays and stayed for dinner. Two  
other people had already been invited and I felt uncomfortable  
and unwanted. Then I realized I was the one who always called  
them and they rarely call me.",2
"I felt the greatest burst of joy when after being heavily ill for  
a long period, my father came back home.",1
When I met my new girlfriend with another man in the street.,3
"When riding in a very fastly-driven car on a lose metal road at a  
very late hour - no other cars on road, and driver was taking  
corners very sharply. I felt afraid - because if an accident  
happened, the area was very isolated. Also, I feared for driver,  
after I was dropped off - would he make it home safely.",6
Some men were talking about me and my sister.,2
The death of a close relative.,4
"My grades. When my parents say, ""How are you doing at school,  
getting good grades ?"" I say, ""Great, just fine !"" Actually, I  
feel ashamed about myself.",2
"Discovering a good friend had lied to me, resulting in a  
detrimental relationship with another person.",0
"While walking in town I noticed how the police harrassed a man  
who was under the influence of alcohol.  They terrified him with  
the thought of arrest by driving close behind him on a pedestrian  
street.  My disgust was directed at the gestures and the facial  
expressions of the policemen; they seemed to be enjoying  
themselves.",0
"When after an overwhelming anxiety and enquiry, I understood  
something about why I exist and what my task in life is.",1
"When my older sister told us that she was thinking of joining the  
rest of the family for the winter sports holiday.",1
"My sister had to undergo a very complicated operation, her  
eyesight was at stake.",6
"I was at home alone and my mother had asked me to heat the house.  
I put too much fuel into the stove. It began to glow and there  
was a noise in the whole house as if it was going to explode.",6
"Before knowing my marks I was not sure that I wanted to go to  
that class.",6
"I had something wrong, saying wrong things and being impolite to  
someone, and this had embarrassed the this person.  And I  
still meet the person.",2
"My mother along with some of my friends gave me a surprise  
birthday party - they invited a large number of my friends along  
too.",1
I saw some images of a decapitation in a horror film.,0
"I felt very sad when I was in Form three to notice that my friend  
Barley Jumbe, had lost very expensive new sports short trousers.",4
"Fear from the unknown. I felt fear when I sat for the entrance  
examinations.",6
"I felt angry when my only pair of trousers was stolen and could  
not be able to find out who the thief was or anyone who knew  
about the story.",3
"When I think that I have been too stict or narrow minded towards  
my students.",5
"When I was attending an authorized demonstrationand the police  
rushed brutally at the demonstrators, without any warning.",6
"Today I did a lot better on my architecture project than I  
expected.",1
"A close relative was at odds with a very powerful firm.  All his  
things had been taken, His dad had died a little before this  
event.  He gathhered his children and vowed to give them a good  
life with a new start - the words were hollow, he bit back his  
tears .....I asked to be excused and then went and cried in the  
loo.",4
"I did not do the homework that the teacher had asked us to do.  I  
was scolded immediately.",5
"It was in 1983 September when MCE results were being announced on  
the radio. When I heard my name that I had done well I just kept  
quiet. I was so happy that I couldn't even talk.",1
I failed to complete a working task within the agreed time.,5
When my grandmother passed away.,4
"I felt vvery happy when I was accepted at UNZA for my studies.   
I had not expected this as I had been ill during the exams.",1
Getting separated from my girlfriend.,4
"It was a shameful moment when I heard that I had failed my  
Primary School leaving Certificate Exam in 1978. My girlfriend  
was there when the news was released.",2
"An argument among several friends because of the irrational  
behavior of one of them who fell out with us for no reason and  
said that we were to blame.",3
"One of my fellow students had bunked field work and in my attempt  
to cover up for him I myself was exposed, though not directly.   
We were to meet our field work suprevisor and we were afraid of  
the consequences.",6
When I had to talk with an important person about a job.,6
"After a quarrel with my mother in which matters were ""inflated""  
enormously.",5
"When I asked a friend to return the money that I had loaned her  
and then remembered that she had repayed me in several ways.",2
"When my friend (girl) promised to help me go to the hospital and be  
examined by good experts and she deceived me.",3
"I had a girlfriend in the same class I was. I did not do well in  
my Exams, but she did satisfactorily well and was taken into  
another class leaving me behind.",2
"My mother left my father for his best friend, and he moved to  
Papua New Guinea. Despite the fact that I am closer to my father  
than to anyone else in my family, I had to move in with my  
mother, and say good-bye to my father, not knowing when I would  
see him again.",4
"When I had to walk over three kms through a field which had wild bulls,  
because my car had broken down.",6
"My father resigned from work, and soon after this his elder brother  
died.  The next day my granny died (my mother's mother).  My dad  
remains the only living member of his family.",4
"I felt ashamed when my lecturer said in class that I  
happened to be the dullest of all.",2
"When caught shoplifting and the police were called in parents  
also informed.",2
"Seeing for the first time pictures about the so called  
""treatment"" of Jewish people in Nazi-Germany during World War II.",3
"When my mother threatened me with thrushing me of the stairs, when  
I once more should make a comment.",6
"Such a feeling springs up in me sometimes when I have meals at a  
catering establishment. It is a result either of the look of the  
food or when watching the way some people eat.",0
"I learnt from the newspaper that I had been accepted at the  
Chinese university of H.K.  It was 7 o'clock in the morning.   
Later I told my family and relatives about it and had tea with  
them very joyfully.",1
"I took a math midterm and I knew I did really well and it was  
Friday so I felt great joy because the week was over and I did  
well on a test.",1
"With a group of handicapped people we went to a party. When we  
wanted to leave we were not able to find one of these people. I  
had told his mother that we would leave at 4.30 p.m., actually it  
was planned for 3.30 p.m. Therefore there was a delay.",5
"Not speaking to my sister-in-law due to lack of interest in a  
relationship on my side.",5
I saw part of a Prince video with him crawling out of a bath tub.,0
"Hearing Norman Jones get hysterical in Parliament about law  
reform (on the radio - listening with 2 others).",0
"When I inadvertantly made some close friends and relatives feel  
bad.",5
"When my aunt went out of her way to help me out with my financial  
problems.",5
"My mother and my grandmother were talking about one of my  
grandmother's friends whom I hardly know. I gave some deprecatory  
comments on him whereupon my grandmother told me that the man had  
died recently.",2
When I hit my young sister without a valid reason.,5
"When my mother found a leaf of my diary where I had written about  
my mother's lack of education, especially her poor arithmetical  
insight.",2
"Recently I felt very sad without any reason. It lasted for a few  
days. There was nothing I liked in that period.",4
While dancing in a restaurant last week.,1
"I received a message that my elder brother was involved in a car  
accident and was admitted in hospital.",4
I feel anger when somebody forbids me to do something.,3
"When I went to visit a relative and saw how messy and dirty his  
place was, in the absence of his wife.",0
I felt sad when I was despised by another person.,4
"Telling a lie to wife over phone about what I had been working  
at.",5
"Grandfather lives in a home for the elderly. He always looks  
forward to visits. On his birthday (by coincidence it was on  
""Mummy's day"") however, nobody went to see him. Is the own family  
more important than grandfather ?",0
"Despite my being affectionate, sincere, and helpful to close   
relatives of mine; they turned around and accused me of being  
inconsiderate in my relationship with them.",0
I lied to a friend.,2
"When my family and I heard of the death of my grandfather.  We had  
 seen him a few weeks earlier and it seemed that he had just been  
waiting to see us.",4
"My father is someone I disgust. So when he comes close to me  
a feeling of disgust overwhelms me. When I stay a week-end at my  
parent's place I will remember it for long time.",0
"I put in two years of hard work and it was neither looked at nor  
appreciated.",4
"When I was young - 14, I pinched from a store and was caught.   
The store then contacted my parents.",5
"When I was the target of a great many insults and completely  
unfair accusations of a large group of people.",3
"Leaving home when my mother thought I had no reason to go and  
felt that I was rejecting her. She is a constantly depressed  
person (a bit of a worry-wort) and I felt guilty about having  
given her this additonal problem.",5
"I have felt this feeling when a person whom I believe and respect,  
lied to me.",0
"Once when I was walking alone at mid-night, I happened to put my  
foot on a frog, as it felt smooth I thought that it was a snake   
and I felt afraid.  
 
",6
"Some time ago I slapped my son without trying to understand who  
the real culprit of a damage was. After that I felt guilty and  
bad but it was too late.",5
"When I was in F4 I led my class to a riot.  However the form  
master said that my conduct was good and asked me to tell him the  
names of those who had taken part in it.   I replied that I did  
not know.",2
"I was looking for an object when I came across a rotten corpse of  
a rat.",0
"Occurs frequently. A recent experience: when going out with many  
friends, nice music, after the examinations, I felt so happy I  
could have embraced everybody.",1
"I was afraid of moving away from home and moving to Helsinki for  
my studies.",6
"When somebody broke into our home one night when my mother was  
out, and my sister and I had just gone to bed.",6
"When I almost did something awful with a friend of mine and  
myself.",2
"In the traffic I insulted a man who crossed my way. Afterwards I  
paired with him, and felt shame because of mine lack of pacience  
and ridiculous attitude.",2
"When we were young, a friend of mine tried to dissect a frog while   
we were playing near his home.",0
"When my friend, after a beer spree vomitted in my sitting room.",0
[ I feel sad when somebody is unjust to me.],4
"That evening when I opened the songbook while I was singing the  
song ""Those were the days"" that guilt feeling became stronger.   
The lyrics described well - I was really wrong.  The wish that I  
had made was really bad. If she were with me I would really be  
happy and we would play happily together like the days in  
secondary school and she would not be disappointed and gloomy  
because of me.",5
"My mother had not come home at midnight.  She had forgotten to  
tell me about it.  I was very young and all alone at home.",6
The begining of my relations with my current girlfriend.,1
"I have a very close friend who lives in another city and we have  
been writing to each other for a long time.  The last time I went  
to her city, just to see her, I was disappointed to see how great  
the distance between us was.",4
I thought I had taken a decision but I hesitated.,2
"I went for a walk on the beach with a friend whom I had not seen  
for many months.  The weather was very pleasant, we had some  
ice-cream and lots of fun on the beach.",1
"[ I missed my twin when I was on the verge of being thrown, which  
I disliked.]",4
"When a close friend met me at the station in the middle of the  
night, when I came back from a long and tiring journey.",1
"I felt disgust when I received visitors at an odd hour. I was  
seriously preparing for Examinations, so I did not appreciate  
their coming.",0
"I received an assignment back, and got an A+ grading.",1
"When I was walking down the street, some boys showed me a knife  
and stole all my money.",6
"I had a quarrell with my boyfriend and decided to finish with him  
and and my Easter holidays.",4
"Birds had made nests in our thatched roof and they were flying  
and flapping their wings in the bedroom at night.  It was very  
dark and I could not even see my nose.  I did not know that it  
was the birds till my mother told me so.",6
"My son was registered to get admission in grade one of the          
primary school.  The chances of him getting a place there was 1/10.   
Two weeks later I was informed that he had been enrolled.",1
"When some friends of mine asked me to go camping with them for a  
fortnight.",1
"I was driving my car and it was very misty. It was in the night  
and I was alone in my car. I felt totally insecure, nervous and  
overstrained.",6
When I entered at the University.,1
Hearing of a filthy situation over the phone.,0
I was alone and someone tried to break in from our back door.,6
"We got into a fight with some chaps in front of our family house.  
The value of the property destroyed was approximately 15 000 FIM.  
I felt ashamed when my parents came to know about this.",2
"In a play (secret friend) during the time of the high school I  
had to give a present to a boy and I was very ridiculous because  
of this.",2
"When I was accused of ""bitching"" about best friend.",3
"When I had lied to a friend/son about some things we had  
discussed and I had to be one better.",5
"During my birthday party a friend drank too much alcohol. So much  
that he had to throw up. Worst of all was that he couldn't leave  
my friend alone and that he was molesting her.",0
"When I realized the burden it was for my mother to look after all  
of us, all by herself.",4
"When I was appointed to position of trust in a group set up to  
change the working environment.",1
When I got a letter from home.,1
"Third highest grade in the class and the best answer given for  
one question (the question was graded by the professor and he  
indicated he liked my answer).",1
"I was terrified during an axcursion in Italy. I was lost and left  
alone in this unfamiliar country.",6
"When my father (physically handicapped) asks me to do something  
and I raise several objections. Often I can fix it in few  
moments.",5
"A child told me she had been sexually abused by her step-father.  
I only knew the child and had not come into contact with either  
parent. I tried to do what was best for the child. The event and  
the stepfather disgusted me.",0
"When I was reading a book.  It had nothing to do with the book  
itself but with the disagreable smell of the pages of the book.",0
"When I heard that someone who is very close to me did very well  
in the exams despite having fooled around a lot.",1
When I hurt my parents in one way or another.,5
[ When my performance (homework or other work) is better than others.],1
"Following heavy stirring / ridiculing a close friend who was  
very vulnerable to such attack - inspiring fierce, defensive  
counter-attack.",2
At set-backs.,4
"My fiancT's family was adopting a 5 years old boy. I felt  
myself close to him as I never felt before. After some time his  
mother demanded the care of the kid and we were obliged to send  
him back.",4
"Fights that I see in the middle of the street, robberies, fear of  
darkness when going home.",6
"When I was 17, I had a mystic vision. I melted into a dazzling  
light, which omitted perfect love. The physical experience became  
unimportant, I heard or saw the words ""overcome egotism"". The  
feeling of joy remained for month after that experience.",1
"On a social occasion, I noticed that I reacted on the basis of my  
autonomous nerve system (I could not help it).",2
Finally being asked by someone to a banquet.,1
"I felt guilty when I heard the results of my friend, who had  
failed.  I wished that I had helped him.",5
When I got a record as a gift from a friend.,1
"When I went to a halloween party and had to walk through a shopping  
center dressed like a witch.",2
"I had taken the responsibility to do something and I had  
prepared for it.  However I failed because of my timidity.  After  
three attempts I still could not adapt to the atmosphere and  
failed as before.  I felt imcompetent and felt that the others  
would think that I had not prepared for it.",2
"Once I had an argument with my friends and I knew that I was  
right.  My friends went on arguing with me even though they did  
not know the right thing.",3
Birth of children.,1
When my husband told me about his pre-marital affairs.,0
When they gave away my dog to other people without my knowledge.,4
When I failed an exam I thought I would pass.,3
"A relationship in which I had put my trust, broke up.  I was sad  
when I realized how easy it is to forget something that one had  
once regarded as great and significant.",4
"Several years ago my mother died. She had been ill for a long  
time, but nevertheless her death came unexpectedly. I did not and  
I still do not want to believe that it is true.",4
When I passed my form three exams.,1
"I felt disgusted while studying for my applied psychology and  
mental testing papers in B.A.",0
Saw a man dressed as a woman.,0
"A few months ago when I was teaching, I suddenly became very  
angry at the children and slapped some of them.",3
"I had an exam and I had it well prepared.  I did the first part  
very well but did not know the second part.",3
"Every time I was around this one person I would stick my foot in  
my mouth by being nasty. One time I accidently said something  
fairly cruel that was totally inappropriate.",2
Walking out from the biology building.,6
When I got my drivers licence.,1
"I borrowed my friend's radio cassette and the plug cracked and  
some pieces broke off when the plug dropped off my hands.",5
"I took a girl out once and discovered that she was going around  
with one of my close friends.",2
"I found a baby opposum on the road and took it home and cared for  
it for a week. It had to be force-fed and carried in a fur pouch  
under my jersey. My father had the vet put it to sleep as he said  
they carried diseases.",4
Saw a scene in a movie implying incest as humorous.,0
"When there was a fight at home and my father threatened to throw  
a chair on my brother.",6
"I was sleeping alone in the house at night. A boy putting on a  
short only knocked at the window whispering that I should open  
for him.",6
"Family discord and uneasiness due to something I did not  
communicate on time.",5
Talking to a close friend.,1
"I received money from my father at a time when I was completely  
broken.",1
I felt shame when I found that I was almost last in the exam.,2
"My relationship with a boyfriend was finished and I didn't  
succeed a years-course.",4
"When I didn't study for tests in High School. In particular   
remember a physics test. I didn't study because my friends talked  
me out of it and we did something else boring. I felt so helpless  
just being there - then guilt set in because I was very close to  
getting an A in the class.",5
"A few days back a friend of mine poked me in the ribs for fun's  
sake, though I had warned him an infinite number of times that it  
really hurts me, he did it again.  I usually ignore this but this  
time I flared up for a split second and threatened to bash him  
up.  This is the latest incident when I lost my temper, though I  
felt very bad about it later.",3
"In the student's union there was someone who took the photocopies  
of two large volumes.  I asked him to let me take a few, he refused  
it for an acceptable reason. ",3
"When I saw a good friend again after not having seen her for a  
long time.",1
"When I was feeding a premature baby (7 months), the baby chocked.  
This was when I was working in children's ward I thought I had  
killed the baby.",6
I went home and visited with my family and friends.,1
Cueing for a bus and the drivers having long dinner.,0
"I saw a bag on the street and just then a stranger passed by.  I  
picked up the bag immediately and gave it to the stranger as I  
thought that it belonged to him.  But it was not his bag and I  
felt ashamed.",2
Left alone in dark when young.,6
"I played chess with my 12-year-old brother. I made a stupid  
mistake - and he won!",3
When they told me that I had got a study grant.,1
Thought had discovered true love.,1
"When a lady I was flirting with told all my class-mates that she  
was in second year while I was in first year, everyone laughed  
and started looking at me.",2
Being disloyal with persons I loved.,5
"I felt anger at my roommate due to his habit of leaving dirty  
dishes in the sink and generally not cleaning after himself.",3
"When I saw a lady putting on a pair of trousers, I felt it was a  
disguise according to Malawi culture.",0
"At a cross-country race I wanted to take a short-cut (which is  
not allowed). I was caught and disqualified. All my friends had  
observed that.",2
"When I worked at the life-saving service I was disgusted by a  
patient whose outward appearance was distasteful.",0
"One day, when I was a child, my grandmother shut me up in a room.",3
"My husband falls ill and does not follow the doctor's advice on  
the treatment or the diet control.",0
"A close relative of mine died in a serious car accident.  I was  
one of the first two people to see the corpse and I had to do it.  
 Before going in to see it I was afraid as it was the first time  
that I was seeing a corpse.",6
"A close friend decided to stop with his study and to go back  
home.",4
[ When friends and colleagues talk bad about me.],4
"I happened to see the video-tape movie ""This is America - Part  
one"" at my friend's place.",0
"I felt guilty when one of my secondary teacher left me while I  
was in Form three, he was the only one who showed love to me.",5
"Tonight in bed when I realised how bad my relationship with my  
friend was.",4
"We had promised, with a friend of mine, to take our friends to a  
restaurant and after having looked for a place for hours without  
finding one, and not being helped by the others we had to give up  
the idea.",5
"I was talking to a friend of mine about our parents and  
education.  I said something and then realized that I did not  
know my friend's parents, their motives and education.  I felt  
ashamed at having talked about something I did not know anything  
about.",2
"I was emotionally happy when I was in love with the girl I had  
longed for.",1
"I took my father's car to church one Sunday (I told them that's  
where I was going ) I decided instead to go for a drive to the  
beach - on the way I got a puncture.",5
When in my childhood we were forced to take cod-liver oil.,0
"When I qualified for form I.  I was one of the three pupils who  
qualified for form I that year.",1
"Some times I was ashamed of presenting seminaries or even to  
speak in class.",2
"Describing to mother how a hole in the wall had appeared while I  
was babysitting.",5
"When they broke the artistic work of several weeks.  Changes were  
made and it was broken without permission, they had no right to  
do this.",3
"I feel sadness from the fact that I was not born with a better  
appearance.",4
"I took the tram without paying. There were many people around me  
when I was caught by a controller. I felt ashamed but also angry.",2
"I felt shame at the hurt I caused to my family especially my  
parent father, shame of hurting people emotionally. A misconceived  
self-blaming that didn't do me any good. Shame at being myself as  
I am.",2
"When my 2 year old son climbed up and sat on the 7th floor  
balcony with his legs hanging out.  He was holding on tightly to  
the upper railing of the balcony but he could have easily lost  
his balance when he sat down.",6
Fighting with class mates in Highschool.,6
"One day, when I realized that I was alone, I felt fear of  
loneliness.",6
Forgot to turn up on prescribed day for jury service.,5
"My sister was in coma for 3 months (due to a train accident). Now  
her brainfunctions are disturbed. She will never be able to walk  
and she can hardly talk.",4
"During lectures, I sensed an unexpressed understanding with a boy  
I did not know.  We exchange glances ; I think he likes me, and I  
like him too.  Perhaps he has fallen in love with me .........",1
"I was fearful when I realised that the relish was overcooked  
simply because I was not keen enough at checking whether there  
was still enough water in the relish or not, instead I was just  
playing with my friends.",6
When I passed my final examination at school.,1
"When I was selected to start Form I at Chilumba Secondary School  
out of the 100 pupils I was among the 4 who were successful.  
Family History showed that I had done better than all my brothers  
who had passed after repeating for several times.",1
"Argument with roommate over a lock he had put on kitchen cupboard  
without telling anyone.",3
When a friend of me came for an unexpected visit.,1
Slept with someone close to my girlfriend and myself.,5
"My father died 4 years ago, 18 months after my mother died. I  
feld my sister was responsible for his death, in that she ""hadn't  
loved him"". I felt ashamed for myself, and for my family.",2
"When my husband and I decided to take a few days holiday after a  
particularly trying period.",1
"The death of my father made me feel quite guilty, because my  
attitude towards him had been cold and indifferent.",5
"When I hadn't learnt my lesson and I asked the teacher to give me  
""a three"" and he agreed but even he felt quite awkward.
NB: In Bulgarian schools ""a three"" is the second worst mark.",2
"Disgust with myself for consistently making foolish errors in  
communicating with others (asking for 1/2 Kg of nuts when I only  
wanted 50 g).",0
"When I passed the B.A exams and my parents allowed me to carry on  
my studies and do a M.A. , I was very happy.",1
I was attacked by a man at a bus stop at night.,6
"After having at last finished my master's thesis, I felt great  
joy and relief.  I had been haunted by the thesis during the  
whole of my studies.",1
Seeing a person panhandling money on Telegraph.,0
"Reading a letter from a close friend who said he missed me and  
cared for me.",1
"I feel this emotion very often when I try to express my feelings  
in public, because other people do not understand my reactions  
and think that I am silly. ",2
"When I tried to hide a fact from a person for irrelevant reasons  
and considered such an attitude childish.",2
When I forgot the lines of the play during an orientation camp.,6
The breaking up of a long lasting relationship.,4
"When some unforgiving acquaintance dragged up an old and rather  
embarassing situation from my past.",2
"I used to play with a group of classmates and I found out later  
that they were cheap in thought, behaviour and conduct - they  
would smoke, fight and speak foul language.  I thought that they  
destroyed the image of college students.",0
When I get home late my father scolds me and this makes me angry.,3
"I went to bed with a girl and the next day she thought it was the  
start of something serious and I just thought it was fun and I  
told her I wasn't interested in starting a serious relationship.",2
"Physically fighting with my girlfriend because she just walked  
out of a room of my friends and had pushed and cursed at me when  
I went to find her.",3
"When I had to walk home from the bus-stop in a skirt that I had  
soiled.  It drew a lot of attention and they all seemed to want  
to see the blood stains.",2
Risk of being involved in a fight after a party.,6
"When I was involved in a car accident last November, after the  
first fall of snow.  I lost control of the car and it spun round  
and landed on the opposite side of the road, on the hard  
shoulder.  It was stopped by a pole on top of a bank sloping down  
to a stream.",6
Stealing from my mother's purse when I was a little boy.,2
"Seeing a friend ""making love"" to a high school girl. I  
accidentally was dragged into this room where the happenings had  
occurred. I was disgusted at the reality.",0
Waking in morning (early morning) and having whole day to myself.,1
"When the N.Z. rugby union announced that they would proceed with  
a rugby tour of South Africa.",0
"The day I learnt that my girlfriend had been going around with  a  
close friend of mine.",2
"On a holiday in France I made a walk in the woods all alone and  
very relaxed. Then a motorbike took me over and I saw the man  
watching all the time. Suddenly the man stood behing me and I ran  
away fast.",6
Meeting a loved man.,1
"When I heard that my girlfriend was getting married to another  
person, I felt very sad.  That day I did not eat anything and  
kept thinking of her all day long.",4
"This was when one of the Clinical officers scolded us in the  
hospital on how to make beds but we did not deserve to be  
scolded.",2
" I was at a friend's place for lunch and she fell ill and  
vomited.",0
When my mother interfered in my life.,3
When I took away my best friend's boyfriend.,5
"Last academic year I received bad news - my grand-uncle had  
passed away.  I felt lonely and bad because apart from the          
biological ties, he was a good old friend of mine at home.",4
"I was supposed to be studying for my math midterm a few days ago,  
however, I fooled around with my roommate, and didn't start  
studying until 12:00 am. I was disgusted with myself.",0
Negative statement concerning me of a friend before strangers.,0
"When I went to the pub with a large group of friends, we drank  
and danced.",1
"It was my turn to cook dinner.  I forgot a dish (the favourite of  
the family) in the oven and it got burnt and was uneatable.",5
 The smell of garlic in rush-hour bus.,0
When I fell down.,2
"I was disgusted with a friend's behaviour when she got absolutely  
drunk so that she vomitted all over my house.",0
"We had a day off from school. Instead of helping my mother with  
her job, I stayed in bed all day.",5
"Last course, when I passed with good marks three subjects which I had  
previously failed.",1
"A situation where we were the center of attention, and things  
happened without my control on them, that showed our disagreement,  
and ignorance.",2
When I offend somebody unfairly.,5
"I felt joy most strongly some years ago, when I took part in a  
NH Competition and I was the first.",1
"When my younger sister visited me during the school holidays and  
told me that she would not go back to school because she was  
pregnant.",0
"It was spring and the ice was melting.  I was far out on a jetty and I poked the ice with a long branch to try and break it.
 The branch went through the ice and I fell in, the water closed  
in over my head.",6
"When my ex-husband left our house, and the children cried because  
he was not coming back.",5
When my mother left for Kenya.,4
After having taken an exam i feared having failed it.,6
"Once I was very frightened at night as I had a very fearful and  
terrifying dream, I could not go back to sleep for a long time.",6
"I have a girlfriend, who is almost like a daughter to me.  She is  
studying out of station and I get to see her only once a year.   
Her arrival is always a joyous one.",1
"One day, when I was twelve years old, my brother took some slimy  
substance swimming on the surface of a pot of vinegar made of  
cider and threatened to throw it at me.",0
A friend started to shout at me. He called me an old frump.,3
"In a conversation my boyfriend expressed definite and quite  
pretentious opinions and he took up an attitude towards a theory  
which he himself had never known. His information was from  
fortuitous sources.",3
"I was catched when, as a little girl, I played tricks. I was very  
startled then and wet my pants.",2
"The hero was chased by a terrible vampire in a suspense and  
horror film shown on T.V.",6
"When I heard that I had passed my final examination at school  
(with success).",1
"I chatted up with a girl who I didn't love. She however was  
fallen in love with me. I felt responsible for her sorrow.",5
"When my first sexual intercourse turned out to be a flop.  I was  
in a panic and ended up without an erection.",2
"I had a test in the class and I had not adequately prepared  
myself. I didn't fare so well on the exam and I felt bad about  
it.",2
"My father's death in January 1983 moved me deeply.  The gloom  
prevailed for almost two years and I am still to recover from it.",4
"I had not seen my brother for five years as he was not in Spain.    
When he arrived at the airport, I felt great joy.",1
"I was in a very small class and the professor said something  
about me that made everyone look at me at the same time.",2
"I felt happy at the end of a 10 day student camp.  We had shared  
our hopes and aspirations and in the open situation so generated, we  
had made strong frienships and experienced our own worth as well.  
 ",1
Watching Muldoon act as my P.M.,2
"When I met a friend whom I had not seen for a long time and  
heard all about her troubles, I thought that I should have got  
in touch with her earlier.",2
"When my father had a serious fight with my sister, because of me.",5
Before going to the dentist.,6
Misunderstood deliberately by a close friend.,4
"Several years ago my brother died in an accident. When I heard  
about it, I was very sad. It took years until I resigned myself  
to it.",4
"Going home alone through the forest after a girl guide (scout ?)  
meeting.",6
One of my pupils escaped from school to the street.,5
"I was told quite unexpectedly that one wanted me to become the  
vice-chairman of our student organisation.  I was really  
surprised and joy was the first emotion I felt, though behind it  
there was worry - how shall I succeed ?",1
"At my father's treatment of my mother, at his disregard for her,  
and not being committed to her.",3
I got a very good grade on one of my midterms a few weeks ago.,1
"When I lied to my girlfriend, telling her that I had passed an  
exam, when I actually did not even take it.",2
"The day I was forced to use a public convenience place in town.   
It was so filthy that it really made me sick.",0
"A co-worker and I had to rush a project. I was only working there  
for one month and he for some years. Instead of letting me know  
that he wanted to do the project himself, he went to the  
superviser and let the superviser tell me to let the co-worker do  
it himself since he was quicker at it.",3
When money was stolen from my pocket.,2
"When I made acquaintance with the parents of my boyfriend for the  
first time. They spoke Limburgian (a dutch dialect) and one of my  
first remarks was that I disliked Limburgian dialect.",2
When I fell head on in a fountain.,2
"Angry with my brother, who was making fun of me, teasing me.",3
"Waiting for a taxi - when within 1/2 an hour two separate people  
challenged me to fight for no apparent reason except they were  
drunk.",6
"Many years ago a friend wanted me to with her to southern Europe  
and I preferred to travel alone.  I felt guilty because I wanted  
to go on my own.",5
"I met three drunk boys, almost children, they didn't look like  
normal people.",0
I received a letter from a friend whom I was missing,1
"The more than satisfactory result of a recently-completed  
university subject was communicated to me by phone.",1
"When we were going to Nkhoma last Saturday the vehicle was moving  
very fast, so I feared we might crash since the road was too  
rough.",6
"News was spread that I had been found doing sexual intercourse  
with a small girl. At first this annoyed me but later on I became  
ashamed because many people seemed to believe it.",2
"Some people whom I do not like at all, and one of the reasons is  
their physical appearance.",0
"The time I shouted at most of my friends at a party.  It was as if  
 all my friends had done something wrong, or may be it was the  
influence of the beer.",2
When I was a school girl and I copied at a class work.,2
"When they found out that I was absent from school, I had gone to  
the girl's secondary school.",5
"I suddenly found that those whom I considerered to be my good  
friends did not care for me.  Although I could still be with them  
I felt unimportant.  I deeply thought about the reason behind  
this so as to see who was responsible for this.  Finally I made  
up my mind and decided not to expect too much from them.  I was  
sad when I decided that they were no longer my good friends.",4
"I was ashamed one day when we were found stealing and roasting  
maize cobs from Agricultural experimental projects.",2
"When I have sometimes been unfair to my parents, when I have  
happened to deceive them over some trifling things.",5
"Finding out some people had been talking about me at my back.
",0
"I was at the table at a French friend's house.  They served me a  
big dish with roast cauliflower and sauce.  I had to eat it. ",0
"My mother had sent me to buy a few things.  The change I brought  
back was not right as I had given away some money to a friend  
thinking that she would not notice it.  However, my mother told  
me that the change was not correct.",5
"A friend told me about his cousin who is my girlfriend. He said  
she had treated him in a mean and nasty way. I was surprised  
because in front of other people she had always treated him in a  
friendly way. I am very sad about it.",4
"When I lost my father on the 25th of September,1970.  He died of  
a sore on the leg.",4
"My boyfriend finished our relationship when I started studying  
psychology in Nijegen, because then we would not be able to meet  
frequently anymore.",4
Watching suffering in Third World country.,4
"When my parents and sister went on a trip and I was separated  
from them for about three months.",4
"[ No answer as I see very little difference between shame and  
guilt.  Therefore see answer for ""shame"".]",5
"A close relative of mine underwent a difficult operation, and everything  
turned out fine.",1
"At a weekend's seminar my trousers suddenly burst, therefore I was  
prevented from participating in several activities.",2
"When I blamed my failure to the bias and favouritism in the         
marking system, in fact I had not worked hard enough.",2
"Walking on the street passing by an air duct, my skirt went up.",2
"Sometime back I used to stay with my mum alone then time came  
when dad joined the family from his working place I found myself  
having fear for him for no cause at all.",6
"My failure to provide the appropriate emotional/spiritual level  
to a sexual relationship that had a large physical content. Born  
out of inconsistency with my personal beliefs and value shame at  
largely using this sexual partner.",2
"Recently, some friends and I had too much to drink while on a  
foot-ball road trip to USC. We trashed our hotel room and I felt  
ashamed when the maid walked in the next morning.",2
"I had a friend who I didn't see for a long time. We had a  
relationship from much union and interaction. It was more that  
one year that I didn't see her. She appeared in my home and we  
talked.",1
"I am a kindergarten teacher and I am thoroughly weary of my job.   
After having taken the university entrance exam I suffered from  
anxiety for weeks as I did not want to carry on with my work - studies  
were the only alternative. ",6
"Many times, when my father used to come home drunk and maltreated  
physically me and my mother.",0
"A day I was with my boyfriend and a couple of friends in a bar,  
and he said something that I didn't like (I don't remember what).  
Without thinking I slept him in his back, getting ashamed and  
sorry just after.",2
"When I asked my classmate to teach me to do my homework, he asked  
me to study by myself first but I did not do it.  When he asked me  
 if I had studied, I felt very ashamed. ",2
"I was very pleased and happy when my older sister came home from  
living somewhere out of town and I hadn't seen her for months. We  
are very close sisters.",1
"When I saw an accident, a woman was run over and she died on the  
spot.",6
"I saw a drunk man tottering behind his wife and insulting her  
awfully.",0
"Someone told me that he would stay at my home for one night.  
Therefore I made big efforts to make everything ok (food). One day  
before he cancelled the appointment because he had to go to  
church with his parents.",3
"When I broke the piggy bank of my brother and my mother  
discovered that.",2
"When I decided to move away from my parent's home, my mother told  
me that it was as if a part of her had been torn out of her.",5
I'd just got the top mark in an exam.,1
"I shared a secret with a friend and it later turned out that he  
had revealed it to another person with whom I didn't get along very well.",3
"My friend had many female friends and I thought that they were  
his lovers.  I would scold him but he did not accept my advice.   
Later I learnt from his girlfriends that this was not true.  I  
felt ashamed at having misunderstood him.",2
When my friends were rude to a girl. ,2
When I was bringing in the shopping and nearly stood on a snake.,6
"When I heard a rumour that the 1st year exam results were out. I  
had fear that I might be one of the failures.",6
When planning to marry.,1
"I was watching a movie alone - it was a horror movie. The music  
was a deep pulsing type - not really music. And a light flashed  
on and off. It was in the complete darkness of a movie theatre  
that was almost empty.",6
When i was asked to be a child's godmother.,1
Slaughtering of animals.,0
"When I take a look into a slaughter-house and when listening to  
stories about torturing people or animals.",0
"Recently when I made a slip and blurted out indecent words in my  
mother's presence.",5
"I had a quarrel with a good friend about the fact that I didn't  
pay her a visit when she expected me to come. Hereafter I was  
very sad because it became a real quarrel.",4
When our dog died.,4
"When I was an evening school teacher it was my job to make the  
coffee but I was not able to get the coffee ready on time and I  
thus arrived half an hour late to the class.  On top of this the  
coffee was undrinkable.",2
This happens to me when I am not prepared in a given subject.,2
"After going through much shame, I became a Christian and  
something new happened in my heart.  Joy that overflows was  
manifest in me.",1
When my beloved girlfriend got married to another person.,4
"When I received some good news : I obtained an amount of money I  
needed to buy something I had been planning to buy.",1
When my parents insisted that I take up a teaching career.,0
"When I had crossed Lilongwe forest I heard that there was a rabid  
hyena just near the path in the forest.",6
"I saw a movie called ""The Thing"", the film directed by John  
Carpenter.  The monster in the film made me feel disgusted.",0
"Whenever I am late, I feel ashamed of myself even though no one  
tells me anything.",2
"The emotion came to me when a certain girl who was not polite to  
her mother hit her sister severely.",0
"When I failed one of the tests because I had not worked hard  
enough.",2
The loss of the woman who loved me most till today.,4
When I first saw a person begging.,3
"Some friends and I were crossing a street when one of my friends  
was seized by a car and thrown aside. I had seen the car coming  
in our direction but I did not have enough time to react and  
prevent the accident.",6
"I slammed my little brother into a wall because he was bothering  
me.",5
"When a big angry dog put its snout on my arm and had I made one  
movement it would have bitten me.",6
"An encounter with a man whom I love, after a very long  
separation.",1
"I was happy when I understood that the girl I liked was in love  
with me.",1
"I was to take a test and I had not made the necessary preparations  
until it was too late.  There were two days to go and I still had  
not done much.",5
"Finding out that my grandfather had died. He lived in England and  
I had not seen him for 10 years.",4
"One night I had to bike home all alone after a party. Then I  
found out that I was pursued by a man in a car.",6
"When I got lost in New York city a late friday night with a  
friend of mine.",6
"I feel disgust with some people when I see what they are capable  
of, including lack of any dignity, when trying to find a seat in  
the tram.",0
"When last year in college I received the award ""Best Student of the Year"",  
  I felt very happy as I got what I had wanted and my wish had  
been fulfilled. 
",1
"I went to see a friend. There were other people, too, and  
everybody brought some present. I was the onlyone who brought  
nothing. My friend was very hospitable and did not show anything  
- although I knew how he felt.",2
"I had a quarrel with my father. He was depressed, because  
somebody had treated him injustly. As we had an argument, it was  
impossible for me to help him.",5
"When I wasn't well prepared for a terminal exam and the teacher  
tried to give me a three by asking me some very easy questions. I  
burned with shame then.",2
When my brother was very late in arriving home from work.,6
"A relative, whom I like very much, left for the United States.",4
"When I was 8 years old my tonsils had to be operated on. This is  
not a complicated operation, but just before it started I was  
very afraid so that I will never forget it.",6
The passing away of my mum.,4
"When I was an auxiliary nurse at the hospital and I had to change  
the nappies, for the first time, of a very old and sick woman.",0
"When the Real Madrid football team lost against the inter in the  
U.E.F.A cup.",3
"I borrowed money from a friend and did not pay back the debt when  
I said I would.",5
"I was wearing a short skirt one day and someone told me my  
underwear was showing.",2
"When I embarrassed a friend by asking him aloud if a certain  
person was ""the source of gossip"" he told me about, while that  
person was also present.",2
"The end of a relationship (after 4 years) by doing this I hurt  
the other person very much.",4
"I insulted the girl to whom I had proposed when she turned me  
down.",2
"I was admited to the Chinese university of Hong Kong.  The day  
the results were announced I looked in the newspaper and saw my  
candidature number.",1
"When I began to read a thick book, which I had a limited time to  
read.  Also when I have a lot of work to do and I cannot keep up.",4
When I was mistreated by my step-mother.,3
"When I got through the examination for my driver licence, and  
when I finished I knew I had passed it.",1
"When I gave in to what my wife wanted and locked the cat out, it  
was killed by the dogs.",5
"I felt disgusted when I found out that someone had betrayed me.  
That person had been dishonest with me and I felt used.",0
"I felt angry when repeated pleas to the ticket collector and the  
co-passengers in order to make a queue fell on deaf ears.  I have  
this feeling whenever someone is not disciplined and methodic in  
doing his duty.",3
My trouser's zipper was open when I was at a public wedding.,3
"Suddenly found out that I was the lasr one to leave the anatomy  
room.",6
"When I won the ""Under 18"" Showjumping at the Brookfield Show. The  
competition was very stiff and there were many riders competing.",1
Death of my father.,4
I received a letter form home telling me that my sister was very sick.,4
Article published.,1
I caught a close relative with the servant of the house.,5
"During carnaval I danced for a few minutes normally I don't dance  
because I am rigid in my moving around during a dance, I stopped  
very soon.",2
Finding out that my best friend was deceiving me.,3
"I bacame involved with a boy for a very brief moment not because  
I liked him but because I needed some sort of company. The  
consequences weren't as I expected and caused me much shame.",2
"After a courtship of three months I made an end to it. The boy  
was very sad about this.",5
"Adultery with the girlfriend of a friend of mine, of which he  
learned.",2
"I was disgusted with the behaviour of one of my fellow students  
during my Secondary School life. He was a habitual noise-maker  
and caused great conflicts with the teachers.",0
When they changed my office to another room without my agreement.,3
"When I made up with a girl-friend of mine after having been on  
unfriendly terms with her (my fault).  I cried with joy that  
evening.",1
"When I was teasing a girl, who turned out to be my brother's  
dame.",2
"My sweatheart were away on a trip, and then she got problems.",4
"I had made an appointment with three friends. We had to go out  
together. When I arrived at the place, the other persons weren't  
there. I became very angry because I thought they were gone  
without me. That, however, didn't appear to be the case.",3
To say goodbye to dear friends after the holidays.,4
[ When I do not get any co-operation from my friends/partners.],3
"Last semester when I dated a girl whom I've known for almost a  
year. However one night she said she wanted us to be ""just  
friends"". I confided this to a friend Jim I was really suffering.  
A month or two later he broke up with his old girlfriend and they  
started going out regularly. I have no girlfriend nor have I had  
a romantic relationship of any significance. I feel some anger  
but we are friends again.",3
"When I shirked the gymnastic lesson I met the director of our  
school who asked me what I was doing.",5
"A girl whom I trusted and with whom I had shared personal, confidential  
matters twisted the facts and told it to a common friend of ours.  
 When this common friend told me the version my friend had told  
her, I was angry.",3
Having been angry and unpleasant towards my parents.,5
"I had been in love with a certain young man who pretended to love  
me but one day I found out that he had another girlfriend who was  
also a friend of mine.",3
"To be able to prepare myself better for an important examination,  
I did not spend the nitht with my girl-friend but in the  
students' hostel. I had not done that for months. The day when I  
had the examn, somebody knocked at my door at seven o'clock in  
the morning. My girl-friend who likes sleeping late, had come to  
be able to be with me.",1
I felt guilty when I lied to my parents.,5
"When I lied to my wife and told her that I was going to the  
Copperbelt on a buisness trip, she later found me in a hotel with  
a girlfriend.",2
"Meddlesomeness of my mother about the way I live. She thinks I am  
to free in my behavior for instance when a boyfriend stays the  
night.",3
"One of my good friends had to migrate to America.  Our friendship  
had developed quite well and it was a pity as our friendship would  
fade.",4
"A man tried to have sexual intercourse with me, though I had  
communicated my unwillingness.  Later on, I felt disgust at that  
person as well as myself because I had partly submitted.",0
When I received my promotion letter.,1
[ Laziness makes one sad.],4
I had worries about a certain illness.,6
"The day I decided to get out of my house I saw in my brother's  
eyes that they blamed me for the situaiton.",5
"I was in a train where a fight occurred. One person who was there  
opened his handbag and took out a gun, another who fought too  
looked among his things for a weapon to fight.",6
"I liked a boy and I would feel shy and then blush.  The more I  
wanted to avoid it the more I blushed.",2
When I failed the grade seven exams.,2
"Having gone to school without learning anything, as usual.",3
"When after having had sexual intercourse with a friend, I thought  
that he had told about it to a friend of his.",2
"A person I really like left for overseas for a few months, I had  
hoped to go out with her soon.",4
"I was very drunk at a certain wedding party and I got involved in  
a fight.",2
"I was travelling, we were 15 person, one of them I met at the  
travel and didn't like her. One night I was asleep while she and  
her friends were talking too loud in the kitchen. I got up to ask for  
silence and since that day I felt constant disgust for her.",0
"Two days after the above incident, I was thinking about my  
morally shameful act and I felt sorry for that incident, but it  
was too late, however I did realize this.",5
After my father died suddenly of a heart attack.,4
"Walking through campus at night a squirrel jumped in front of  
me.",6
"When I had achieved a goal indirectly. I work for CAL Football  
and our 2nd win of the season was very gratifying and brought  
our joy because of the hard work involved and the fact that no  
one expected we would win.",1
Reading a nice book and talking about it to my friend.,1
"I took part in a football match. The referee was extremely  
partial to the opposite team. This stirred up my discontent and  
anger.",3
"When I came for the lesson, it was cancelled and I had to fill in  
a questionnaire instead.",3
"My grandfather died, I went to the mortuary and saw the corpse.",4
"When I was a child, I fell into a cellar (when playing) and could  
be freed only with big difficulties.",6
"A meeting and a conversation with a woman (somewhat elder than  
me) who considers me as her child (she also has one child of her  
own). Last two years I lived with her (no relationship).",1
"I came across a blind man sitting in one of the corridors and  
asking for money, though I had some money I did not give him  
anything.",5
"I was looking after my cousin's little daughter; she fell down,  
was slightly injured and cried vociferously.",5
When I had an anticipatory honey-moon with my fiancTe.,1
"When I was offered a place in the university as a full time  
student.",1
"Before one of my final exams of the third year - natural  
sciences.",6
"A study visit to a chicken factory : the butchery, the smell,  
the environment and the noise.",0
"When a kid dropped my father's radio cassette player, which he  
had just repaired.",3
"A and I were walking along the new Asia stairway to the Chung Chi  
college for our lecture and I saw him with her.  He put one arm  
around her shoulder and laugher brightly and joyfully.  I did not  
dare and did not want to look, just walked by them quickly.  The  
interest of talking to A disappeared and I just wanted to remain  
silent.  But I did not want A to know and so I left him and went  
to F.  I should have expected this to happen.",4
"I had fixed a meeting with my classmates and I missed it as I was  
tired.  Besides everyone at the meeting was a stranger to me and  
I did not want to make friends with them.  Whatever the reasons - I   
felt guilty.",5
"One night I saw a man being knocked down by two other men. The  
victim was kicked against his head.",0
"I caught a ""peeping tom"" at my window when I was getting  
undressed.",3
"A few weeks back I received a Christmas card from a friend in  
England.  She had not written to me in a very long time but it      
showed that she still remembered me.",1
"When Wayne and Sue (close friends) were announced our guardians  
at ther wedding.",1
"The day my parents were involved in a car accident and had to be  
operated  and before the operation the doctor said that it was  
mater of life or death.",6
"I was afraid when I learnt that my father was seriously ill in  
hospital.",6
"My mother did not come home till late at night (Ages ago). Anyway  
if I don't know where my parents are and when they'll be back I  
start thinking that perhaps they have had an accident and are  
perhaps dead.",6
"I awoke at night and did not remember dreaming about antthing in  
particular.  I just felt oppressing fear, it was dark and all the  
others were sleeping.",6
"When I saw a film in which there was a scene where women were cut  
to pieces.  Above all, it was the blood and the confusion which  
impressed me most.",0
"When my boyfriend said he did not want to see me anymore (which  
turned out to be untrue).",4
"Estrangement from my best woman friend.  We have been going  
different ways for quite some time now, but the break was total  
when she got married as her husband is unreasonably jealous of me.",4
Suddenly met someone in the biology building at night.,6
A lie on the part of a person close to me.,0
Being looked at by someone I do not like.,0
Passed an exam by 2 points.,1
"When I failed the grade 7 twice and only passed it the third  
time.",0
"When I lost my study grant without having attended any exam in  
the career I had started, and it was too late to cancel my registration.",5
When my brother (5th in the family) passed away.,4
"Walking home at night after university - part of the way, there  
are ano lights and I am walking down a thoroughfare with the  
thouth of no one hearing me if I have to scream.",6
"I heard that a former superior of mine had died, I was later at  
home home reading about it in the newspaper and I thought of our  
interaction and how it was no longer possible.  The limited scope  
of human life is sad.",4
"Once my presentation was the worst among my classmates as I had  
not prepared it well and had not seen it as important.  My  
presentation was so confused that it clearly showed my poor  
preparation.",2
"My neighbour was not able to set his car in motion because it had  
snowed heavily. I helped him - he was thankful and invited me.",1
"At an examination I got a bad mark just because of a small  
mistake. When I went to the lector and wanted to talk about that,  
he did not listen to me but sent me away.",3
"When a boy had continued to use foul language and swearing in  
front of a group of my friends.",0
"Someone who always took care for the key of the sportshall stayed  
away without letting us know. Next time he did as if nothing had  
happened.",3
"When I was told that the brother who was staying with me would  
not go to the training school that year but only the year after.",0
Never really had the experience just yet - N/A.,3
"When I was parking my car I was not cautious and bumped into  
another car. I caused considerable damage. The driver of the  
other car was very angry and I let him insult me because I felt  
guilty.",5
"I was spending my summer holidays in a village.  My friend and I  
were coming back from a discotheque at night and we heard a noise  
from an alley.  We were very scared and we got into my friend's house.  
 A moment later, an unknown car picked up a person from this  
alley.",6
"Felt sad about some street kids in QUEII square, Aotea square.  
Because they had been sniffing glue and some were very young. I  
went into the role of a performing clown.",4
When I could study at university.,1
"When I saw my 16 year old sister at home after having waited for  
her all night, not knowing where she was.",1
The death of my grandfather.,4
"One day when I was a little boy, my friends asked me to play  
with them outside and to catch some boys.  However our parents  
did not know that we were out and when I got home it was very  
late and I feared being scolded by my parents.",6
"My uncle was taken to the UTC for an operation as he had cancer.   
There had been a lot of deaths of late - 3 out of every 4  
operated.  I was scared for my uncle's life.",6
"This was when I found out that a cousin of mine had taken away my  
trousers without my consent.",3
"A girl who also hires a room in the house where I live always  
tries to make a quarrel with everyone available she disgusts me.",0
"One year, when I went to a camp, I was chased by a dog.  I tried  
hard and finally managed to escape from it.  My torch suddenly  
went off and we talked about ghost stories and I thought that  
there were ghosts.",6
"One night we were having a barbecue on the beach and I needed to  
go to my car, which was far away from the beach.  It was very  
dark as there were no street lamps.  I ran in the dark, very  
scared, I ran as fast as possible.",6
"Housesitting and hearing the alarm go off. I knew someone had to  
be breaking in. I called the police and was panicking while on  
the phone. It was awful. It turns out that I stepped on the  
hidden alarm without prior knowledge of its existance.",6
At an unjust insult or injure.,4
Treatment to become pregnant with a negative result.,4
[ No description.],3
"When I was giving private tutorials to my student; he would not  
concentrate and was lazy.  He had not done the home work that I   
had assigned and his academic level was very low.  It was a  
nuisance.",0
"I was very happy when I got the message that I had been accepted  
as a student in medicine.",1
"When I heard that my sister had shouted at my friend's cousin at  
their place.",0
"There is a boy who I love very much. I asked him to have dinner  
with me, but he refused I don't know why he didn't go with me,  
but I felt very lonely.",4
"I was skiing with friends and they wanted to ski-jump. I did not  
want to be left behind, so I braced myself and followed them.",6
"When I was substituted in a play which was to be staged, after I  
had learnt all the lines.",0
"At the sight of an insect, such as the black-beetle.",0
Teacher suspected me stealing money.,2
When I found out the CIA was mining Nicaraguan harbors.,0
"My cut was run over by a car. After searching for a long time I  
found her lying in a kerb. I was rather shocked and angry with  
the driver.",4
"I felt joy when I came to know Christ.  That is when I became a  
Christian.",1
"My joy was the joy of meeting again.  My husband came home after  
having been away for weeks (for work).  I was on the railway  
station to meet him.",1
"I heard somebody talk about studies in a highly enthusiastic  
""student-like"" way.",0
"I was ashamed of the way I deceived that I could not help a  
friend, although it was absolutely possible for me. Nothing was  
revealed but I haven't called up this person since then.",2
"The serving lady in the students' dining hall shouting at  
studennts.",0
"I was working in I. when a friend of mine borrowed his car so I  
could get bach there, I had to come to S.Paulo and his car was  
here. He said :""When you get the car tell my mother that you are  
only taking the car bacause I asked, for she doesn't like me to  
borrow it"". Next day he borrowed me it again for I had to come  
back again. When I was coming back I crashed the car quite a lot.  
One of the first person I met at the accident was his mother,  
that said to me ""You weren't to take the car only yesterday ?""  
(before I saw her I was already ashamed).",2
"When I realized that I avoided two good friends with whom I  
always shared toys and sorrows. I made up idle stories to avoid  
telling them what happened to me.",5
"When the neighbour of a friend of mine was stabbed to death by  
thieves in Kabwe.  They stole his van.",4
"At boarding school someone put a lot of tiny thorns on my bed.   
When I complained everybody began teasing me and laughing at my  
inability to find out my enemies.  I lost my temper.",3
"One time at the hospital I passed near the intensive care room.  
The offensive smell that came out disgusted me in such a way that  
I didn't even dare to enter the room.",0
"This feeling occurred to me when my colleague entered in G.V.  
(University) and I didn't.",3
"In neglecting some work that had to be done around the house and  
telling my roommate I would get it done.",5
"Small car accident. Black ice on the road - cars in front of us  
started zig-zagging and so did we. Car in front did a 180¦ turn we  
followed and ended up in a gully.",6
"An unjust refree decision at a sports event when I was the team  
leader.",3
"I loved a person and he went away. It wasn't necessary that he  
left me to reach his goals.",3
"I was disgusted at the behavior of these boys I work with in the  
scouting program. They showed a lack of interest, unrest, and at  
times just plain rude behavior.",0
"I read a newspaper article about dogs being stolen in order to  
use them for fighting purposes.",0
"Being sexually assulted on a bus and noone helped (people only  
laughed).",3
"When my best friend died, at the age of 16.",4
"When I go out with my friend with enough money and good sense to  
our favorite dancing.",1
"When a girl I wanted very much, said ""yes"" and fell in love with   
me.",1
"After making an effort to enter at University I found a course  
and a school of higher education which were compatible with my  
experience and potentiality.",1
Getting lost in a strange place.,6
I was very happy when I passed the B.A with first class marks.,1
When I noticed the negative changes in a friend's behaviour. ,5
"There was a time when I did not get on well with my sister. I  
always grumbled at her and said bad things about her to my  
mother. So my mother always scolded her.",5
"I felt disgust when I saw a drunkard vomiting very offensive  
matter.",0
"My love and me rented a room in a hotel one evening.  We stayed  
there a few hours and when leaving the hotel, I felt ashamed.",2
"In 1982, I was annoyed at an uncle who was drunk and was beating  
up his old father.  He claimed that the father was responsible  
for his guardian's failure.",3
"This was when my boyfriend told me that I was double-crossing him  
with a certain boy.",3
"An acquaintance of mine revealed himself in a light unexpected to  
me.",0
"I had to take care of the plants of a friend of mine for several  
weeks. I watered them, but let them stand in a cold room so that  
two of them perished.",5
"When I have seen people very drunk and making fools of  
themselves.",0
"I felt this emotion when my name was announced on the radio that  
I had been selected to come to Lilongwe School for Health  
Sciences to take a training course as a Medical Assistat.",1
"Out of sheer curiosity, I went to see a pornographic movie in  
Copenhagen.  The room was full of men, who panted and  
masturbated.  Very disgusting.",0
"One day, I was alone on duty when a patient choked while eating.   
I ran to her and tried to make her breath, but it was too late.",5
"I felt anger when at the end of a telephone call, a good friend  
told me that she would go to travel next year with another good  
friend. We couldn't talk this out.",3
"I thought that someone was angry with me but, by hindsight, that  
didn't appear to be the case, he even liked me.",1
"I was walking home one night (after getting a bus to my town)  
when I was confronted by a group of males (about 6), they would  
not let me pass - they made comments etc. - I crossed the road  
and hurried home.",6
At the hypocrisy of some of my friends.,0
"In school I had difficulties mith mathematics. When I had to work  
for an examination, I really felt disgusted.",0
"The day I woke up to find that a kitten I had wanted to keep had  
been eaten by the neighbour's dogs.  It had been locked out by my  
wife who claimed that it had dirtied the sheets.",4
"A late Saturday night I found myself locked in the central  
underground station of Stockholm with a group of 50 hard rockers  
who were drunk and equipped with various kinds of chains, etc.",6
"This was when I was discovered stealing a piece of bread at home,  
I was very hungry a few hours before supper.",2
"A man kept a seat taken by putting his coat on it after a while  
the chair was still empty, I asked him if I could use the chair,  
he didn't agree for the chair was for his coat.",3
"When I did not find the rack used for beating up rugs, in the  
yard.",3
Reunion with my wife after a legal separation.,1
"My parents didn't allow me to go to a social function that all my  
friends were attending.",3
"When I saw a documentary film about World War II (about Hitler  
and his adepts).",0
Finding out that I have misunderstood other people.,5
I haven't often felt this feeling. Once someone stole my garment.,3
"I was to meet a girl in a discotheque.  She was very pretty and I  
was very happy.  But she did not turn up.  Thank God, there were  
some other friends there and I was able to have a more or less  
good time.",4
"Once my friend and I got into into a hot discussion on a very  
controversial topic.  At one point of the argument I disagreed  
with her totally and I took what she was saying as an insult.  So  
I couter-argued and unknowingly hurt her emotionally, I felt very  
sad about this.",4
"I told my friend something confidential which was supposed to  
remain between the two of us.  The next thing that happened was  
that a girl who is not even close to us came laughing and askad  
me to tell her about it.  I was very angry with my friend as I  
had trusted her.",3
"I was forced to stay in the canteen and eat the food that I had  
not asked for but got it anyway.",0
"When I used an adjective for a person without knowing what it  
meant.   When I got to know the meaning, I felt guilty as it was  
a clear and unfair insult.",5
"During the first year in university I had bad results in both  
the terms, especially the first term.  I was afraid that  I would  
not be promoted to the next year and that the others would go  
ahead of me.",6
"Not having owned up to the responsibility an incident where  
family car received minor damage.",2
"When my ex-boyfriend didn't want to sleep with me anymore and I  
insisted. We made love but he felt very badly and I felt guilty.",5
"When someone tried to rape one of my best friends and he claimed  
it was her fault. He the hassled her, claimed she was loose, and  
threatened to sue her.",3
When my girlfriend left me.,4
"When I was driving my car, I wanted to pick something from the  
floor of the car and drove into the guide-rail. I thought that I  
should not have done that and felt guilty.",5
"When mother was very ill, I feared that she would die.",6
"A few days after I had finished the relationship with my  
boyfriend, we had a quarrel. Then he hit me. At that moment I  
found him disgusting.",0
People talking in an important lecture.,0
"This came in when at one time I met a girl who I didn't expect to  
fall in love with me. Fortunately I tried my luck and she accepted  
my proposal. At the same time she was giving me a lot of money  
which was just like a miracle to me.",1
"I had to take care of a neighbour's child. I did not look after  
it all the time and the child fell down and was hurt. I felt  
guilty.",5
When I had my children.,1
"When I heard the news of the death of my father.  It was in the  
evening and I was alone all night in my room trying to remember  
the face of my father.",4
"I tried to talk to my parents over the phone, as I wanted to go  
home for the week-end and I knew that I would not be able to bear  
it.  I tried to reduce the gulf and the conflict between us by  
talking in order to unite our worlds.  Result : hysterical mess,  
blinding and blaming.",4
"In a bus I fell sick and vomitted in a bag.  The entire situation  
was disgusting in itself.",0
"After the term exams I happened to meet a person that I respect  
and of whom I think very highly. It was nice that although we see  
each other rarely he had not forgotten me.",1
"I came across a girl at the school bus-stop, I had seen her  
several friends as she was a friend's friend.  However my friend  
had never introduced me to her and when she got off the bus I  
smiled at her but she did not respond pretending not to have seen  
me.  Her arrogant behaviour made me sick and angry.",3
Mugged while on holiday in the U.S.A.,6
"When I made love with a girl, which I don't really love. However  
I know that she loves me.",5
"When my father and I worked on the house just after he had  
recovered from illness, I was rather lazy.  This meant that he  
had to work hard and was not very well later.",5
"A friend of mine promised to come with me to the cinema but he  
didn't come.",3
"Once in my work it happened a fight between the person in charge and me. I  
got so angry and spoke out everything I felt at the moment.",3
"Most recently when the chairman at the New Zeeland Rugby Union  
announced that the All Blacks' would accept the invitation of  
South Africa to play rugby in that country.",3
"I received a letter from my college telling me that I would not  
be allowed to sit for the exams because of my low attendance in  
class and the bad experience in the terminal exams.",6
"I am afraid of my academic results as I will face several  
problems.  I am scared of my limitations and the unlimited  
problems and I do not know how to cope with them.",6
"I was in love with a girl but had to separate from her because of  
different commitments concerning life and career.  I loved her as  
a person but could not agree with the life the future would  
demand.  Parting from her was very sad.",4
"When I was at an official meeting I asked a question to a person.  
His response was not directed at me but at the chairman.",3
"I told a friend that I was going to a party and he would not  
enjoy himself if he came along.  He understood  that he would not  
have fitted in and there was something in that.",2
"Recently a good friend only called me when he needed something.  
He never said ""please"" or ""thank you"" or any other kind word.",3
"I was told by a good friend that we couldn't be friends any more  
because of his relationship with another girl.",4
"We were camping in the mountains, and a friend and I went for a  
walk.  It was getting darker and darker and we were not sure of  
the right way back.",6
"When another fellow worker decided to leave the company. We had  
been very close and we would not be able to work with eachother  
any longer.",4
"A student who lives in the same house where I live is an alcoholic. He  
tries to manipulate other people with his money when he has drunk  
too much.",0
"[ I have always been very scared and tense before an exam and  
before the declaration of the results.]",6
"I had been away from home for a long time and when I came home I  
was delighted.  It was wonderful to see familiar, dear people and  
I was rejoycing in advance.  I had been feeling very lonely.",1
When a friend wouldn't speak to me and wouldn't tell me why.,3
"When I left New York, and all my family and my friends behind me.",4
When my sister was very ill and was admitted to the hospital.,6
Finding out China is backward in science.,2
"Disgust at a girl I know for continually feeling sorry for herself  
and never acting positively to do something about her problems.",0
"I have once been very sad and lonely.  This was when I was trying  
to organize a play as a student (15 years).  Instead of  
materializing, it fizzled out.  The worst thing was that the play  
fell apart completely and I found myself weeping uncontrollably.   
Now when I think of it, I laugh it off; but at that time it was  
intense.",4
"A person misinterpreted what I had told her. I had told her that  
I had failed to insert a NasoGastric tube but she went and  
scolded the patient that she was being uncooperative.",5
"I was watching a sunset after my latest boyfriend left me and I  
realized that we would never watch sunsets again, probaly never  
see eachother again and none of it mattered.",4
"Was confronted with a person having negative thoughts of other  
people because of their social status, beliefs, color and  
outlook on life (perspective).",0
"When my father's home was to be broken into by thieves who had  
guns.",6
I helped someone to do something and was found out.,6
I was called racial slurs behind my back.,3
"On a dark night I felt that there were several people near me  
and I did not know who they were.",6
"Being away from a very close friend, I was away from Finland  
for a year as an exchange student.",4
A theft committed by me.,2
I took an exam which I failed terribly as I had not studied.,2
"When a friend and me played a joke on our boyfriends.  Her  
boyfriend came up and accused me of having planned the whole  
thing and said that I did not deserve my boyfriend.  He  
embarassed me in front of a crowd.",3
"Once I woke up in the middle of the night and felt frightened as  
everyone else was sleeping and I could not even go to their  
room.",6
When one of my cat died of a disease.,4
"When I felt that an exam, which I had feared, was an easy one and  
went well.",1
Before an exam in logics.,6
"When I was dancing with a dame at a social, one of my friends who   
was interested in her came and took her away from me.  I was  
really angry with him then.",3
"In a certain book I read about cruelties and violence in prison  
and souteneur circles; I felt especially disgusted when I read  
detailed descriptions of physical and mental torture of less  
powerful people.",0
"When our cat was killed in a car-accident I was very angry at the  
driver of the car because he didn't take enough care.",3
"I once drank too much alcohol and became very ill. This was in the  
presence of my friends.",5
"I was swimming in the sea and a wave took the top part of my  
bikini away.",2
"I sent a book to a friend of mine.  The book meant a lot to me  
and he lost it.",3
"When people are eating unsavoury (smacking, belching, speaking  
with food in their mouth, etc.).",0
"This feeling I sensed quite recently. It was arisen by the  
terrific thought that I might lose the man I loved !",6
"While in the army, I was treated unfairly by my superiors.  I was  
held responsible for a deed of which I was innocent.",3
When somebody despised a friend of mine.,0
"Now that the 49ers are winners, the fans are coming out of the  
woodwork and jumping on the bandwagon and that disgusts me.",0
"I suffered from a gynaecological illness. I was quite displeased  
to hear that my roommates had talked about it and they had  
misrepresented the truth. I felt deeply hurt when I learned that  
it was done by a ""good"" acquaintance of mine.",3
"When a colleague asked me for help at work, despite the fact  
that he had more time to do it than I had.",3
I may not be clever enough to understand your English lectures.,2
"Social situation - at the pub - a close friend of 2 years told  
the group around us of advances I had made.",4
"Whenever I spoke to a female classmate I felt disgusted.  She  
said meaningless things and seemed to indicate something to me  
but I did not love/like her.",0
"Being reunited with my family after not having seen them for 5  
years, at the airport. Sheer elation at getting through the  
""paper work"" collecting bags and the anticipation of coming  
through the customs gate.",1
When my father thought that I was an unrelaible son.,0
"When I learned, after the ecography, that my mother was expecting a  
baby girl.  That was what I wanted.",1
[ I feel angry when somebody is unjust to me.],3
"I felt fear once, when the car in which I travelled directed  
towards the precipice along the road.",6
"After a party in which I made love with a boy in public. Later on  
I heard that others were talking about me and called me a slut.",2
When I was successful at my work I was full of joy.,1
When I made a fool at an examination.,2
"I remember when I was in Standard 6, I failed one of the terminal  
tests and I told my parents that I had passed but after they  
found out from the class teacher that I had failed, I was proved  
a liar.",2
"It was about a fortnight ago, I was declared successful in the  
U.G.C exam this year (only four in Bombay succeeded).  My joy  
knew no bounds.",1
When someone stole my bike.,3
"Against the will and without the approval of my parents I went  
for a few days to my boyfriend in Germany.",5
"When I succeded in establishing a contact with a girl (who is now  
my girlfriend).",1
My father died last year after an 8-week severe illness.,4
"My girl-friend did not understand me; I was angry with myself  
because I had problems when we seperated - I could not resign  
myself to it.",3
"I was shopping in Utrecht with friends, we also ate some chips  
and snacks in a snackbar, then we saw a shabby fellow. He took a  
cold half eaten croquette (a snack) from a rubbish bin and eat  
it.",0
"A terrible cloud-burst started when we were camping in a tent on  
a great bald field.",6
"When my mother got a terrible beating from my father.  It was so  
bad that she fainted and it was only then that my dad realized  
how bad it was.",0
"I was really pissed when the Russians boycotted the '84 Olympics.  
I had anger towards them and Jimmy Crter. I was very anxious to  
see it.",3
"Guilt conscious struck me when I failed my Standard Two  
Examinations in 1972. I knew that I would suffer the consequences  
of what I had been doing during class hours: thus playing with  
friends and sometimes not even going to school.",5
"Being miserable in a party when other people are friendly and  
happy.",1
"Had a very good friend. We grew apart I found myself running her  
down to other friends.",2
When I saw a ghost.,6
"When my girl went away for a holiday without saying good-bye to  
me.",4
"When my father failed to send me transport money after the  
closure of the school.",3
"When my mother went through an operation, it was not very serious  
but I was sad and could not sleep before the operation.",4
"When my cat ran under a car and came home wounded. He could  
hardly walk. I didn't dare to go to a veterinarian because I was  
afraid he would kill him.",6
"Years ago on Christmas Eve I felt very sad because I realized for  
the first time how I missed my father who had died at Christmas  
Years ago.",4
"My best friend got married and left her home-town to go and live  
in Poona.  After her wedding I felt sad.",4
"I lead a rather secure life.  The only thing I can remember is a  
song from the nineteenth century which is against alcohol.  Both  
the melody and the word (although naive) effected my emotions.",4
Once again my parents distroyed a relationship.,3
"I was subject to false accusations, and got very angry.",3
"When I got a message that I was employed as a nurse at a  
kindergarten.",1
The time I qualified to enter secondary school.,1
"I heard of the death of a closefriend of mine.  I had gone camping         
with him shortly before his death and the whole thing seemed very   
sudden to me. ",4
"I felt joy when I saw my daughter after a separation of twenty  
days.",1
When my family allowed me to do higher studies.,1
"I feel disgust at my neighbour, because she comes to our house with  
her child, who spoils our furniture.",0
"When I crashed by bike into an old lady crossing a road and  
knocked her down.",5
"When my special friend said ""I love you"" for the first time.",1
"Two years ago, somebody I like very much wanted to give up his  
studies. I tried to make him understand the importance of what he  
was going to do, not only of the difficulty to find a job but also  
because he will decrease his culture etc. This person made the  
test to the college entrance examination and to our great joy we  
found out that he succeded in entering at the University.",1
"The sadness came to me when I heard that my girlfriend whom I  
loved so much got married to another man before a rebuff from  
her.",4
Forgot to collect post for a friend.,5
"On December the 28th I was filled with Joy when I was told by my  
bosses that I had been selected to attend a course at the  
Lilongwe School for Health Scienced in Lilongwe.",1
My wrong behaviour made my loved one feel sad and uneasy.,5
"My father had once again told me that I should be careful and try to  
seek admission to other places also apart from the faculty of  
Social Sciences at the university of Helsinki.  I was not at all  
interested in any other place and had no time to study for other  
entrance exams.",3
When a close relative is treated badly.,3
"One day I had an appointment with my boyfriend which I had  
objected to in the begining, however he visited me and convinced  
me to come.  The day of the appointment; I had to wait for him  
for over an hour.",3
"When I was going home, I saw somathing which looked like a snake    
on the road but later I found out that it was only a stick.",6
When I was sick my husband bought me a piece of cake.,1
"As a child, one evening I had read a novel about ghosts and I had  
thus spent a sleepless night as I kept feeling that there were  
ghosts dancing around me.",6
When I was caught stealing mangoes in a certain compound.,5
"A certain friend tried to push me off a seat in a very violent  
way for no apparent reason.  It may be that he was excited about  
something.",3
"Once in my homes yard, I was plaing football with my cousin and  
in a certain quick the ball went on uncontrolled putting down a  
bird-cage, killing it.",5
"One day I came across a certain boy who was intruding my  
friendship as lovers with my girlfriend and I was very sad  
because I didn't expect that girl to disappoint me I regarded her  
as being very faithful.",4
"I was drinking a glass of wine and eating something when there  
suddenly appeared pictures about the famine in some parts of  
Africa.",2
"I tried to swindle a jeweller because my watch was broken and I  
wanted to have it repaired it was a pity but they detected it.",2
I could not finish my homework on time.,2
"My girlfriend let me down badly 3 times in one week. These  
instances summed up all the negative aspects of our relationship  
which at the time seemed doomed to fail.",4
Seeing someone who has bleeding nose.,0
"My notes were not returned to me, it kept on being  
procrastinated.",0
"A friend of mine got encouragement and I did not, as the  
supervisor did not like me.",5
"When I was at a party I met an old friend from an adult  
education course.  We had not met for 2 years but had both thought  
a lot about each other.  A wonderful experience. 
",1
"While travelling in a bus with an invalid ticket, I got caught.",5
"When my natural parents name would show up on papers and not my,  
what I call real name.",2
Meeting other friends who got in the good universities.,2
"I wanted to borrow lecture notes from a friend and he did not  
lend me them.",5
"The loss of my father as he died of a massive and sudden heart  
attack.",4
"My girlfriend wrote to me telling me that she was four months  
pregnant and that I was responsible for the ""damages"".  This made  
me happy as I longed to have a child to call mine.",1
When my father died.,4
"When the cast general election resulted in Norway getting a  
conservative government.",2
When I left my part-time job.,4
"When I saw a woman who had been run over by a train, just off  
Kafue.  The woman had been cut to bits, there was blood and         
splinters of bone every where.",0
Watching a violent movie.,0
"It was quite recently, at the football match between the national  
teams of Bulgaria and France. I felt strong anger with the Scottish  
referee who ran the match quite partially.",3
"I felt happy when I saw my brother at the bus depot after 3  
months without seing each other.",1
I was sad when I saw that a beautiful girl was not attainable.,4
"The emotion came when I misbehaved at school and the Principal  
threatened me that I was going to be expelled.",6
"I feel disgusted at not having got aa ""A"" in yesterday's  
practicals of G220.",0
"Winning a close volleyball game. (I'm on the intercollegiate team  
at CAL)",1
"Inventing a fictitious series of events, as a result of which I  
ended up in a conflict with my two closest friends.",5
When I met a good friend of mine after a long time.,1
My car skidded on the wet street.,6
"When I still went to primary-school, I went on a ski-trip with my  
family. After skiing we went to a restaurant for lunch. Suddenly  
my father said that he had forgotten something in the car. He  
gave me the key and asked me to go and get it. I had difficulties  
with the key which was already bent. I asked my mother to help  
me. When she tried to turn the key it broke. We had no second  
key. My mother was blamed for all that and I did not say a word.",5
When a close friend did not write.,3
"On a telephone talk where I was agressive and stupid without the  
least, reason or better motive.",5
"When I tried to explain to a plumber, face to face, that the  
toilet was broken and he did not believe it (it had been mended  
ten times).",3
"When my sister had the still born child, she was emotionally very  
deep down, and it took her a long time to recover.",6
When I lost something that was valuable to my sister.,5
When I was molested by an old drunk man.,0
"When relatives have acted strangely, and unfriendly towards me.",2
"After I reluctantly refused to dine with a certain man on the  
same table.",5
"When I received my report card in C.O.U.  I was afraid of obtaining  
low marks, but they were much higher than expected.  ",1
"When the doctor told me that there was something wrong with my  
eye and I had to undergo an operation.",6
"At a party in which I met an interesting female. We enjoyed  
eachothers company, while slow dacing.",1
Bad food in the students' dining hall.,3
"When my brother was selected to the University of Malawi (the  
Polythecnic). I was very excited and I rejoiced due to one of our  
family members qualifying for University level at long last.",1
"My younger brother and sister were involved in an accident on  
their way back from school and my brother was quite badly hurt.",4
"When a boy whom I refused to be my lover told all his friends  
that I was his girl he has refused me because I was not faithful  
to him.",0
"I removed an article of clothing belonging to my employer while  
in a position of trust.",5
"When my best friend foud out I'd been lying about something I'd  
been doing behind her back.",2
"When I got drunk at a party and made a fool of myself by  
vomitting all over the place and insulting the people who were  
there with me.",2
"Hearing about developments of sience in the West a lot better  
than China.",4
Insulted by somebody.,0
"When I was a student at the Institute doing my M.Phil degree, one  
of my professors called me before the convocation and told me  
""You have got the gold-medal (first rank) in the university and  
tomorrow you will be on T.V"".",1
"A teacher was very blunt in his relation to a child so that the  
child was very upset when arriving at home.",0
"I once stole my father's money and denied having done it. Instead  
father threatened my young brother and he was beaten. He was  
innocent and I felt guilty.",5
"When I was in a religious school my teacher showed me up in front  
of all my class-mates.  They were very sarcastic and cruel.",2
Receiving personal criticisms early in the morning.,3
When I saw a horror film.,6
"At a private party I literally fell into the food. The party was  
completely ruined for the host, carpets had to be cleaned, etc.",2
"That if ever I was really naughty I would be sent away from my  
Mum and Dad to another family. I was fostered from age 5 and  
didn't get to Mum and Dad until I was 6 and then legally adopted  
at 14.",6
"A close acquaintance of the family died of lung cancer.   
Although it was expected, I still felt depressed.",4
"When I decided my first marriage had ended, and left with the  
child. I felt overwhelmed by guilt as I was separating mother and  
child.",5
"I am currently taking CS 50P. I had to finish a couple of  
assignments but I was hindered because I could not get a passing  
score on my program.",3
"When the student union leaders were expelled from the university  
and we continued to study.",5
"I reproached my mother's cooking and criticised her  
personality, and she felt hurt and depressed.",5
"I made the college entrance examinations for P.U.C. It was what I  
wanted more. When the first list came out I got frustrated. I  
wasn't in. When the second list came out without hopes I started  
to read the newspaper and my name was thre. I was in the bus and  
felt like crying so that everybody could hear me. The cry was hold,  
and 1982 became forever a mask in my life.",1
"I was not able to explain well to my good friend to make him less  
angry.",5
"One night at three o'clock I was followed by a cardriver, who  
tried to molest me.",6
"While playing a ball game, I was just about to make a goal when I  
was thrown off my feet, and I failed to score the goal.",3
"An utterance, which I had intended to be a joke, was taken as an  
offence.  In my opinion, this was stupid, and I got angry.",3
"My girlfriend does practice and therefore leaves me alone at  
night and in the weekend. In addition, she is very busy doing  
several things. So we don't see each other often.",3
"At a cash desk where I had gone to buy 16 rolls of kitchen paper  
at a reduced price.  After queuing with screaming children; it  
turned out that I had taken two 8 roll packets instead of the one  
16 roll packet to which the rebate applied.  The assistant said  
""You will have to get it another time.""",3
"After blowing up and saying all the wrong things, I realized what  
I had done and hurt that person and myself.",4
"I am a ""cantor"" - I sing psalms in church. Several weeks ago I  
had to sing too, but the organist did not tell me in time. As I  
did not know the psalm, I was afraid and said that I could not  
sing.",6
"My mother had fallen down from a ladder when she had been  
gathering cherries. Her back was hurt. Just when I arrived, I saw  
people of the life-saving service giving her medical care.",6
"This was at secondary school, a prefect framed up some case and  
took it to the deputy head-master.  I was called by the  
head-master and he threatened to suspend me.",6
"My life-partner is going through a crisis (way of life, old-fashioned values)  
and can only get out of it by talking bold decisions.  I have  
noticed his cowardice and attempts to escape his problems by  
drinking.  I detest his drinking and his being full of self-pity.",0
"When someone whom I considered my friend, without telling me he  
was annoyed, proceeded to ignore me for several meets with no  
apparent reason.",0
"I was supposed to do something and didn't. The person was really  
dependiong on me.",2
"I found out accidentaly that while my uncle was away in Canada, my  
aunt had been bedding a young man on a regular basis.",0
"The stories about my aunt who was beaten and humiliated by my  
uncle.",0
"Spoilt, smashed and molded potatoes in the fridge, and having to  
clean up the dish later.",0
"It happened that one of my best friends just took my shirt  
without my knowledge, I hadn't put it on for many days and I was  
short of clothes.",0
"One of my friends and I had breakfast in a restaurant. It was  
spontaneous and lots of fun.",1
I felt very angry after one driver had run over my beloved niece.,3
Watching China winning the Asian Olympic games.,1
"I had a very close friend who went to Canada after her F.B, his   
departure was unavoidable.  When he came back during the Summer  
holidays I was very happy as nothing had changed between us.",1
When my friend was punished for something that I had done.,5
"When my brothers had passed all of their exams and were able to   
graduate from their courses.",1
"I was most disgusted when I had to make a nagging three day  
journey recently from Calcutta to Bombay.  It was very boring and  
tiring.",0
Failing in an exam.,4
"One day when I was sitting in a not very crowded bus, a middle   
aged woman was standing beside me.  The person sitting next to me  
got up to get off and this woman pushed me and occupied the seat.  
 Then she took off her shoes and put her feet on the seat.",0
"I had called a boy who had dated me, and told him that I was ill,  
while, actually, I didn't want to go out with him, later on, he asked  
me if I was feeling better, then I felt ashamed.",2
"Getting my kitten, found at work several years ago, taking him  
home in a box on my motorbike, showing it to my defacto.",1
"Recently, my sister-in-law's horse was poisoned by a plant and  
died. The horse was very obedient and exceptional with children.",4
"Some people were sitting outside and saying things which were not  
really true.",3
"I feel guilty when when I realize that I consider material things  
more important than caring for my relatives.  I feel very  
self-centered.",5
"I was walking on the pavement when a white car rolled on it and  
directed towards me. I was quite near the house wall when it  
rolled by and hit me.",6
NO RESPONSE.,5
"Brother provoked anger. It was when mother and father were away  
and we had to look after ourselves. He accused me of being  
selfish and a snob.",3
When I passed the grade 7 exam.,1
Could not buy a reference book because I got up too late to cue.,5
"I was once this week angry when soemone trying to compress my  
mind due to his nonsense speech which himself could not tolerate  
at all.",3
I did bad on a test I didn't study for.,2
"When I was about to write my Junior Certificate Exams, I received  
sad news telling me that my elder sister had passed away.",4
Insulted for no reason.,2
NO RESPONSE.,2
"When one of my best friends commited siucide during these  
holidays.",4
"I felt guilty when I ""stole"" the boyfriend of a friend of mine.",5
"When I shoplifted a pair of earrings from Coles and my Mum caught  
me with them in my bag.",5
The last time I had sex.,1
"Viewing the nuclear war film ""Threads"".",0
"At my grandfather's funeral - My grandparents virtually raised me  
as my mother was a solo-parent and had to work.",4
"When I walked out of my room with only my pants on and found my  
girlfriend and her female friend looking for me outside.",2
"When a close relative of mine passed away, it was the first time  
that someone so close to me had died.",4
"When my father passed away of cancer, I was extremely saddened.  
He was not very old, which made matters worse. The actual death  
was horrendous, but the moving funeral saddened me more so.",4
When my brother was born.,1
When I was insulted by a man.,3
After a big fight with my parents.,2
"When I came to know that my feelings for someone were not  
reciprocated.",4
"One fears many things, for example one fears going to the  
dentist. but as far as I am concerned this feeling is connected  
with the examination session.",6
"The last time I felt sad and disappointed was when I did not do  
as well as I had hoped in one of the final exams.  As compared  
with the earlier exams, the questions, I think, were unjust.",4
"I was with my colleagues and we met an elderly man who was very  
drunk, as he approached us he started to undress.",2
Being rude to someone I do not like.,3
"I peeped into Maurine's bedroom and saw two people - Maurine anbd  
my step-dad.  I thought, "" Why did she break her promises ? Why  
had she invited me ? Why do old men go for young girls ? """,3
Death of General Ye Jianying.,4
Each time the professor asks me a question in class.,2
"A friend of mine had promised to arrange me some tickets for a  
concert which I considered important.  He could not get them the  
way he thought he would, so he gave up the whole thing.",3
"My classmate always borrowed my notes and would not return it to  
me on time.  When I had a test she was selfish and irresponsible  
and so delayed my studies.",3
When I was the South Koreans on the TV.,0
"I met a girl (22 years old), married. I liked her. I asked her  
for a date and I kissed her. I discovered that she lived nearby  
where I passed every day. I got amused thinking that her husband  
would be ... or me . I didn't talked to her anymore.",0
My companion admired me when I did some work voluntarily.,2
"A class-mate died after being two months in coma, after a car  
accident.",4
When I obtained good marks in a subject I had failed before.,1
"In ward 2A there was a patient suffering from Syphilitic  
Paraplegia and had pressure sores. The wounds had offensive smell  
that only a few people .... the place.",0
"On the way home from Marstrand I was driving behind my father's  
car.  Another car tried to push in front of my father and he was  
forced to swerve and he thus collided the car with a pillar.  The  
other car drove off without even seeing what had happened.",3
"I had not studied very much for my final examination at school,  
so I had to take an additional examination in French. The oral  
examination was not very hard for me - the more I was glad when I  
heard that I had passed it.",1
"On school, during a fancy fair, there was a stand of amnesty  
international. There I read (for the first time) a description of  
the tortures of a woman, what they did to her.",0
"Reported neighbour to police for taking to my daughter with  
baseball ball - her counsellor rang me and after long talk  
convinced me the woman was o.k. I felt guilty for ringing the  
police then guilty for feeling guilty about it.",5
"It was Saturday, my duties were over for a few hours and I could  
at last be with the people I wanted to see.",1
Saying goodbye to a friend.,4
The time I first saw my cousin who is living in Tanzania.,1
"When during a social evening with my father, brother, sister,  
close friend and my father's 2nd wife - I had an argument with my  
father, who abused my friend who was sticking up for me.",3
"I made a major mistake while learning how to use a computer programme  
and the teacher criticized me.",2
"I spoke with a friend on the phone who I haven't seen in many  
years. It was a joyful event to talk to him.",1
"Anger with boyfriend's best friend for alienating me and blaming  
me for personality changes in my boyfriend and changes in my  
boyfriend's attitude to him and his obvious egoistical attitude  
himself in doing so. I also lost one of my best friends - his  
girlfriend.",3
"I cannot recall feeling guilty in the near past.
REMARK - SUBJECT MAY NOT HAVE TAKEN THE EXERCISE VERY SERIOUSLY.",5
"When I went out with a friend of mine to meet her ex-boyfriend  
who didn't know that she was engaged to be married.",2
Hear people talking at my back.,0
"The time I learnt that I had passed my Malawi School leaving  
Certificate Examinations.",1
"When I came back from work one day, the friends of my son told me  
that he had not come back from school and that he was lost.",6
"The day some friends of mine and I decided to go to Galicia on  
holiday.",1
"In the real sense of the word I experienced fear in my first  
months in the army. During my first night of duty. The cause for  
all this was a bear. I became panic sticken (may be for the first  
time) and even forgot that I had a gun.",6
"When I forced a close friend of mine to ask a girl things about  
herself.",5
"When I was left alone one week-end without being prepared for  
it.",4
"The first time that I ""played with myself"" despite being a  
Christian.  I had read in the bible that it was wrong to make  
love to someone one is not married to.",5
When I met a friend of mine after several months.  ,2
"My grandmother is a highly authoritative person, who lives alone,  
is independent, but doesn't know to live without commanding the  
others. I hate this!",3
"After I had been away for a long time a friend told me that I had  
passed all my written examinations.",1
"My father caught me having sexual intercourse with my closest  
cousin.  There was nothing wrong with it but the female was too  
old for me.",5
"I felt happy when my mother gave birth to a son who is the last  
born in the family.",1
When I offended my parents without wanting it.,5
"One day I was with my girlfriend and other friends were behind  
us, I fell down because the place was slippery and I really felt  
ashamed.",2
"When mum had beaten my young sister just because she had received  
a letter from a boyfriend.",0
"While drinking a soft drink, I had the impression of swallowing    
a piece of glass so I went to the district hospital and got  
admitted there.",6
"When people/press analyze a particular newsworthy item (CAL  
Football team) which I am a member and can only see the situation  
in a bad light and always put the team down.",0
"I had a habit of wetting my bed when I was young.  One day, when  
I was invited to my friend's place to stay for the night, it  
happened again.  I was ashamed of myself.",2
When a close friend drowned in the American River.,4
Failing an examn.,2
"One of my good friends told people something I had told her  
in confidence about someone else.",0
"My grandmother died, and my mother called me one sunday morning  
in the Autumn.  The way my mother told me about it, I hated her  
at that moment.  She sounded as if she had been waiting for the  
death of my grandmother.  I had lost a person close to me.  I  
felt guilty too as I had been bad to my grandmother of late.  I had not  
remained calm when she no longer understood everything so well.",4
"To talk in a meeting - expound my thoughts on a subject. Fear  
delayed me acting to do this.",6
Telling my parents that I did not get into a good university.,5
"When I got into an argument with someone and was very abusive,  
but they were a close friend and I later regretted it.",4
"Being with a close friend, in the city, who was involved at the  
present point in time in outrageous activity.",2
"When my friend who is close to me got engaged and did not invite  
me.",0
"I lost my temper at my mother while she was teaching me.  I felt  
ashamed and sorry at having hurt my loving mother.",2
"When I had to travel alone, unescorted for the first time.     It  
was an over-night journey by train to a distant place.",6
"My grandmother wanted me to help her. I was driving a tractor  
pulling a dead branch off a tree. I told her she didn't respect  
me.",5
"When one finds out that someone you know is not at all like one  
had thought, for instance friends who steal and things like that,  
quite unwarranted.",0
"In 1983 a sadist provoked my sister in my presence.  He tried  
to force my sister into accompanying him to his place, but my  
sister did not agree and so she was kicked and she fell down.   
There was a fight.",3
"One of my friends kept criticizing me about everything I did. I  
thought she was kidding, but later I found out that she was  
serious.",3
"I left a boy with whom I was going around without giving him any  
explanations.",5
"When a friend who comes visiting me unexpectedly asks for coffee  
and I refuse to give him this.",3
Not doing well in the examn.,2
Not included on questionnaire.,6
"I had the unexpected possibility to see a friend I like very  
much.",1
When I received a letter telling me that my mother was very ill.,4
When my daughter was born.,1
"At my temporary job, I have to restrict  others' actions and make  
them obey me, and this very often gives me  a feeling of guilt.  I  
wish there could be some other way of acting.",5
Father lost his temper at home because he was mistreated at work.,3
"One day I addressed my husband in an abusive manner in front of  
his friends.  Later on I realized this myself and felt ashamed of  
myself.",2
Death of a parent.,4
"When I could not reason my friend, it angered me.",3
Caused fault in V.C.R. by not following instructions carefully.,2
"I felt joy when I passed the worst phase in my life and  
discovered how many people considered me important to them.",1
"I was very joyful when I heard that I had passed the standard 8  
exams. The day I heard the news was the day I celebrated my  
birthday.",1
"During the Xmas holiday, I and my best friend at Secondary School  
had planned to meet at a Cultural afternoon at the Mt. Soche  
Hotel after missing each other for such a long time. When I asked  
my mother for permission, she told me not to go for no good  
reason. I felt very angry with her.",3
"My roommate refused to walk with me to the English lectures. I  
have to walk alone in the dark. Lectures are in the biology  
building.",6
"When I witnessed a bus accident in which a bus, full of passengers,  
 nearly overturned on the Lusaka-Kabwe road. 
",6
"At school, I detested the spinach gruel which had lumps of flour  
in it.",0
"When my red-cheeked, content child runs to meet me in the yard of  
the kindergarten and gives me a moist kiss on my cheek.",1
"Old man in hospital, hollow-cheeked, only one half of his nose  
and glass-eye, rattling breath.",0
"The comrade staying next doors insulted me for what he called   
the misuse of his iron.  He called me stupid, self centered etc.   
I wanted to punch him but instead went for a walk to the mining  
school to cool off.",3
"I had to tell a collegue the time for an appointment with another  
collegue. I told her the wrong time - it was obviously my fault.",5
"Ever since I have been a child, the sight of any kind of wound.",0
Being insulted in public.,2
"When I come home in the evening, the first thing I do is to sit  
down and smoke a cigarette. One day I found the flat in a totally  
desolate state. My girl-friend had wanted to tidy up but had not  
finished.",3
"As a child - about 8 years old - walking across a paddock - being  
set upon by another boy who claimed it was ""his land"" - being  
intimidated by the boy - crying, being punched, etc.",3
"After I was thrown out of a car in an accident, this resulted in  
a fracture.",6
"Having to go back home form the U.S. after having been there for  
ten weeks to visit my brother and his family.",4
"Doing a group assignment and being left to do all the work and  
take the blame for any mistakes.",3
"A friend had a quarrel with the mother of her boyfriend because  
she and her friend decided to go and live together. She needed  
money for removal, then she made a great effort to reconcile.",0
Walking in the dark and thinking about ghost stories.,6
"When I came home late one day. I was afraid I would be shouted at  
by my parents.",6
"My Uncle was beaten by his troublesome son. He fell unconscious  
and gained consciousness after some time. That time I was at  
school; this news reached me through someone.",4
"When I heard about the advances an acquaintance of mine had made  
to my friends, who did not approve of them.",0
"When I passed my Primary school leaving certificate and selected  
to go to a Boarding secondary school.",1
I felt shame when I discontinued my education for eight months. ,2
"I felt a great joy when I knew that my father was going to sell  
the apartment from GUARUSA, because in some way we were helded by  
it, that means that we didn't go to any other place, because we  
had the apartment.",1
"I got angry at a friend of mine whom I caught reading my notebook  
(almanach).",3
"At our Senior dinner - separated from school friends, nothing  
will ever be the same again.",4
"Celebrations on the graduation day with the orchestra playing in  
the garden ( I am a part of this orchestra).",1
When India first won the world cup cricket tournament.,1
A girl I was with went off with another guy.,3
"When I got really drunk on Norvegian Indipendence Day, and was  
not allowed to participate in football (soccer) games for two  
weeks. That was very unpleasant.",2
"The day that there was a black-out in the city, and I was in an  
exposition, I felt fear that something more serious was  
happening, like a revolution for example.",6
"A few days back I was waiting for the bus at the bus stop.   
Before getting into the bus I had prepared the exact amount of  
coins to pay for the bus fair and when I got into the bus I put  
these coins into the box meant to collect the bus fair.  I  
thought that I had paid and wanted to get inside.  However the  
bus driver called me and asked me in an impolite way if the coins  
were stuck at the opening  of the box.  He had not seen me paying  
and there wasn't a stack of coins in the box.  I could not  
understand this and the driver kept questioning me.  He made me  
feel angry and at last i inserted a dollar coin in the box just  
to get away from him.  Later I found that I had forgotten a few  
coins in my pocket and had not paid enough for the fair the first  
time.  After I had entered the bus I could still hear him  
scolding me and I felt disgusted.",0
The death of my twin sister - suicide.,4
"When I read the newspaper that morning I found my candidature  
number on the admission list of the Chinese university.  I was  
satisfied and happy and the cumulative anxiety disappeared.  I  
only wanted to cry out that I had succeeded.",1
I was watching a sad film and it affected me deeply.,4
"A friend of mine had a bicycle-accident because I pulled at his  
handlebar.",5
"Criticizing my mother when she refused to drive with the radio on.  
I told her that I thought she wasn't intelligent enough to cope  
with the radio.",5
"When I went to the library three weeks after it had opened and  
found that everyone was busy.",2
"I felt it when I felt that I was being observed as an object of  
pleasure (sexual) when I opened and took off a shirt in a  
classroom at P.V.C.",2
When I became aware that an acquaintance had stolen from friends.,0
"Sometime back, my boyfriend and I were having a walk nearby my  
parent's house. Suddenly we met my grandfather and I was  
afraid that he would report to my parents.",6
"When I read about or think about environmental pollution, the  
armor race, starvation, etc. Then one realizes that mankind is  
bad, most important is power and money, at the cost of nature and  
mankind.",0
"I had parked in a corner, and when I was going out I didn't watch  
if another car was coming and went out. The car that was coming  
was obliged to stop suddenly. It didn't crash but for a little.",5
A party with friends on New Year's Eve.,1
"When we were able to afford a new sofa - a leather one which cost  
SEK 20000.  I had waited for it for 2-3 years.",1
"When I said good-bye to my girlfriend.  I had spent two years on  
developing this relationship and it was unsuccessful, I felt very  
sad.",4
"A friend of mine travelled very far. I miss her but feel joy too  
because fer life is taking the right direction as she wants. So I  
feel joy for her mainly.",1
"Receiving a postcard form my sweetheart who was abroad on  
vacation, not being at all sure if he would write me or not.",1
"The death of my father, even though we had not been very close to  
each other.",4
"The government's announcement of the withdrawal of the student  
allowances in 1984.",3
"An argument among friends in which my opinions on the way to  
spend spare time were disapproved.",3
"When my neighbour's house was broken into and shots could be  
heard.",6
"When I learnt that I had failed an exam,  This not only influenced  
my emotions but also other important tasks, it also made my  
record imperfect.",4
"When a very close friend with whom I have a very intimate and  
bodily relationship (he had a girlfriend) started to avoid me and  
didn't want to talk to me any more.",3
"Eco-activists demonstrated against a project to build a power station  
at the Danube in the middle of a lowland forest (Hainburg) and  
the government decided to delay it for another year. When my  
father heard about it, he said that we needed another Hitler.",0
Someone being arrogant to me.,0
"When my father phoned me to come home from my vacation, since he  
no longer had the time to look after my garden and animals.",3
When my boyfriend took me to his father's grave.,4
"I bought something and the shopkeeper gave me more change, I  
realized this after I had left the shop and was on the bus-stop -  
and I then needed the money.",5
"When I found out that my girlfriend would not be coming back to  
UCB for one semester, but would be living in San Jose.",4
"In adolescence I had a very violent fight with my sister I hold  
her stong in her neck, she had a throat surgery what make me feel  
guilty about the future reactions she might had injuring the  
surgery.",5
Not being able to do well to be chosen for the English lecture.,4
"Told by some people the class leader only choose his friends (not  
true).",3
"I was in a dancing-tavern and the atmosphere was one of waiting  
for the end of the world.  Suddenly people began dancing wildly,  
inspired by the band.  An unbelievable experience : wonderful  
that even Finns sometimes flare up and forget to think ""what  
others are thinking of me"".  It was delightful to dance to one's  
heart content.",1
"Some foreign students playing loud music before the biology  
examn.",3
"Finding that a girlfriend of mine was a prostitute and had been  
seeing many others during our relationship.",0
"I was river rafting in Nev. and our boat tipped over and I was  
sucked under in to some rocks and got stuck and all I could think  
was that I was going to die. And it was so quiet under the water  
it seemed like no one would care or remember.",6
First time in anatomy.,6
"At work, when an elderly man complained unjustifiably about me and  
distrusted me.",3
"I received a letter which was too strong for me. It said I had  
done something which I really didn't do.",0
"I felt shame when I had to talk with a person that I hadn't seen for  
many years. Shame that he wouldn't recognize me or that I  
wouldn't know what to say.",2
"When I was first taken to the dissection room where I found 10 dead  
human bodies.",6
"I got pass marks in the H.S.S compulsory courses while most  
people performed well.",2
Promised to do something for other people and did not do it.,5
"I was hitchhiking and was picked up by a stranger he drove into  
the woods and wanted to make love with me, I refused and escaped  
from the car. When walking in the wood and hearing the car I was  
afraid.",6
"When I saw my name in the newspaper and I knew that I entered at  
the University.",1
"A friend of mine had the sleeves of a leather coat stolen from  
his car.  It was me who had left them there for everyone to see.",5
When my grandfather died.,4
"This feeling comes frequently when I go out at night and tell my  
mother that I shall come back early. But then I get home a 5 or 6 a.m.",5
"While tramping on a narrow path two of us were confronted by a  
woman with two snarling dogs, demanding we get off the property -  
via a flooded river !",6
"In May somebody blamed me that I made him to be caught while  
peeping during the Nursing Test which made me feel disgusted.",0
"A time when, as part of my work, I was sent out actually sort of  
volunteered to run an errand for someone who had no authority to  
send me out and the address was very far especially on foot and  
turned out to be incorrect too. The whole trip was a waste.",3
"A ""higher status"" colleague of mine despised my attitude and  
organization of work.",3
"When I found one of my new pullovers wrinkled inside the  
wardrobe.  My brother had done it.",3
Receiving a nice present from my parents.,1
"It was the weekend of my homecoming. I saw my sister for the  
first time in 3 months. She's my best friend and extremely close.",1
"I fell over head and ears in love with someone who appeared to be  
in love with me. it made me so happy that I could hardly sleep  
and eat for one week.",1
Shame of not doing something well.,2
"When I woke up in the middle of the night because of a dream, it  
wasn't a nightmare, it was an uninteligible dream in wich I woke  
because of a certain end.",6
When I learnt that I was selected for form I.,1
"When my grandmother came to stay with us permanently as she is a  
very difficult person to stay with and when she started telling  
false stories about us to other people.",0
"The carterer refused to give me sugar to add to my tea saying  
that there was no sugar whilst it was there, so I left the cafe  
disgusted without taking the tea.",0
"For example, to feel bad because of one's attire, to be among  
people who do not belong to the same social class, to give a  
wrong answer in class, to be surprised in particular situations.",2
"A girl I was with yelled something out to this group of guys I  
knew. It sounded really childish.",2
"The news of the natural calamity, an earthquake in which hundreds   
of Mexican people died.",4
Reading a horror story alone.,6
"I received a letter from some friends, who do not live in Madrid,  
telling me that they would not come on holiday.  I had arranged  
everythiing for them.",4
When I read racist slogans on the walls.,0
When I damaged my wristwatch which I liked very much.,3
Cheating in a minor geography exam at school.,2
"Not beeing able to stay with my mother for the National Day  
holiday.",5
"I felt joyful when my boyfriend met me at the station, while at  
first he had said that he would not do that.",1
"While playing indoor-hockey, there always is an older man who  
frequently and intentionally plays the ball out of the field. In  
my opinion this is very childish, because we play for fun only.",3
When a girlfriend left me.,4
"It was when I dreamt that I had encountered Satan, he wanted to grab me  
and take me to his kingdom.  He was very repulsive and I have  
never seen anything like that before.",6
"I felt some disgust for my boyfriend for a time, after he had  
left me.",0
Being together with my best friend.,1
"When I was informed that a short story I had written had been  
accepted for publication.",1
"When I arrived too late at a meeting of mentor (the night before  
the introduction of novices on the University start).",2
When my father was ill.,4
I am scared when I stroll alone on the Chung Chi college campus. ,6
I was very angry at someone.,2
When I saw a spider.,0
When I got a wedding ring of diamond from the boy I loved.,1
"I promised my mother to come home on her birthday, but at last I  
was prevented. Nevertheless it would have been possible to go but  
I did not.",5
"One night I had a very good conversation with two friends. I then  
realized how worthy they were for me and how happy I was to  
have them as friends.",1
When I beat up a stupid boy who was fond of cracking jokes on me.,5
"My behaviour at a recent party.  I passed out early, luckily.",2
Could not help a student who needs help.,5
The death of my grandmother.,4
"It was during a school holiday - I was found necking a girl in my  
room by my father.",2
"My girlfriend and I slept in a lonely hut (we had drunk alcool).  
Suddenly some soil fell on us, then some water. Although we tried  
hard, we could not find out the cause.",6
"My classmate at TISS has the habit of biting his nails and ever  
since my childhood I have never liked this habit.  This person is  
near me in class, dining hall and the campus so I suggested that  
he should stop biting his nails.  However he found it difficult  
and my disgust feelings have not changed.",0
"I was very hungry and just wanted to start eating when a friend  
called me who usually talks for a long time. I was angry because  
I was prevented from eating.",3
"I felt anger when I had a fight with my father, and he beated me.  
My mother came to help me (because I was beeing beated) and he  
also beated my mother.",3
"A ""near-accident"" in a car, driving too fast on an icy road.",6
"I had lunch in a restaurant with a friend and I paid the bill.   
The change was that of a two dollar and a ten cent coin.  As I  
was talking with my friend I took the two dollar coin and forgot  
to leave a tip.",2
"When I don't go to my parents on Sunday and phone them to tell  
them that I have to study. The truth is that I listened to sports  
on the radio.",5
"When I applied for a false travelling claim allowance and later I  
thought that I would be found out.",5
"Waiting for the results of the High level examination.  I was  
afraid of not being accepted.",6
Found out that I am not good at football.,2
"When I noticed that my little sister was sulking, because I could  
not meet her because of a misunderstanding.",5
Not applicable.,0
"When, after a long time of searching I got my first job.",1
"It was shocking news to me when I received a telegram from home  
telling me that my grandmother had passed away. I had to go home to attend  
the funeral but unfortunately I found that the burial had already  
taken place.",4
"My mother called me because she had read through the enveloppe a letter  
addressed to me.  She denied having read it intentionally and  
said ""the words just popped out through the enveloppe as the sun  
was shining on it"". Hah Hah.",0
"I was a bit frightened when it was found that there was something  
wrong with my liver. However it turned out that it was not  
serious and I need not worry.",6
"That was soon after the results of the interview which nearly  
9,000 people attended in all the three regions of Malawi. My joy  
came after hearing on the radio that I was one of the people  
selected to undergo the Medical Assistant training at the  
L.S.H.S.",1
"I was walking down a little village at night.  There was nobody  
in the steet.  A dog began to bark, I felt that it was following  
me.  Then I began to run, the other dogs started barking too.  At  
last I arrived home.",6
"A truth expressed unthinkingly at a coffee party.  I realized  
later that I had been inconsiderate, at a wrong moment and the  
wrong place.",2
"I am ashamed when I am not ready for my seminar in internal  
diseases, simply because the assistant professor is a person who  
deserves high respect.",2
"When a begggar approached me for money, I felt disgusted.",0
"When I was a child I was playing on the upper deck of the bed  
with my brother.  My parents slept on the lower deck.  My father  
felt disgusted and beat me up.  I felt very sad as my father had  
never beaten me or scolded me before.",4
Our boarder burping after meals !,0
My best friend chosen for your English lectures.,1
"after getting a fail notice for a math class, I realized I was  
not doing very well in school in any subject. I began to fear  
failing a class or two.",6
When  fell in love with my present girlfriend.,1
I was the last among the list of failures in my class of Biology.,2
"Lost my purse, the money in the purse belonged to my parents.",6
Fight with my mate after a quarrel.,0
"When I was in a situation which seemed hopeless for me, I moved  
back to my parents. For my father it went without saying anything  
(normally he ofter grumbles at me).",1
A wurm dropped on my head.,0
"I escaped from communicating with God for a long time.  I did not  
read the scriptures and I did not pray.  I felt that I was  
getting further and further away from God.  I felt guilty as this  
was because of my laziness.",5
"The first time I slept at my boyfriends house and had to walk  
down the hall to the shower in front of his housemates. I felt  
they were judging me.",2
"When it appeared that I was not pregnant when I was several weeks  
overtime.",1
Some boys not cueing in the dining hall.,0
Watching a horror film.,6
"I had promised to lend something to my mother-in-law and I forgot  
it a couple of times.  When she asked me about it the third time,  
I was ashamed at my absent-mindedness.",2
"A neighbour complained about smoke from my backyard incinerator  
entering his house after a change of wind direction. I lit the  
fire after originally checking that the wind would not blow the  
smoke in that direction.",5
I was nearly knocked down while I was cycling.,6
Yesterday my friend gave me a gift and had dinner with me.,1
"I was very sad when I did not get admission in the English  
college, as I had 1% less marks than they wanted.",4
Losing my temper to my sister.,4
"After listening to ghost stories with my classmates I had to back  
alone to the hostel at night.  I had to walk through a long and  
quiet road and I was scared of meeting a ghost.",6
"When a certain drunk man slapped my buttocks when I was quietly  
standing waiting for a bus.",2
"The day I was to receive my gold-medal for the M.A, my  
grandmother, who I loved very much, died after an illness.  She   
died a few hours before the convocation.  While I was  
attending the convocation I had to control my grief as she would  
not have liked me to miss it.  It was a day she had been waiting  
for, but did not get to see. ",4
"When working in a chemical laundry, I saw rats and maggots in the  
washing.",0
"During a football game, another player who was perspiring very  
strongly ran into me.",0
"I complained about a colleague's behaviour as she goes back on  
her word, is often absent and is irresponsible.  I found out that  
she was an alcoholic and was trying to fight againt her  
addiction.",2
"I am thinking about death, the eternal of it, the unknown, the  
sense of being here. Often, laying in bed in the dark and quiet,  
the fear makes me feel dizzy.",6
"When I was leaving home I decided to leave without saying  
good-bye to my young brother.  My brother saw me and said,         
"" Will you not say good-bye to me?""  He is only 31/2 years old. ",2
Misunderstood by a close friend for the wrong reason.,5
"When one of my closest friends failed to make it to the third  
year of university.",4
"When my gradmother died.  I felt very sad then ... The feeling  
started to be worse after a while.",4
"An out-patient asked me to read for him a certain prescription  
but I was unable to do so. The patient was dissappointed and lost  
hope in me.",2
"Yesterday I broke my sister's raio. She hears it always when she  
has school examinations and now she has examinations.",5
"My friends aren't working for the same common goal we all need to  
accomplish.",0
"When some seniors tried to scold and insult some juniors on  
account of what the juniors were supposed to have said at  
secondary school.",3
"I was going home by car late one night when it was cold, dark and  
windy.  I became rather panicky on the way to my house.",6
"On my birthday I got a present that I had desired for a long  
time.",1
When the summer holiday job was almost over.,0
"I had found out that I was pregnant. I talked it over with my  
boyfriend and he was unsupportive - yet encouraged an abortion -  
I did.",5
"I arrived late at a seminar concerning my major subject at  
university, although I had been appointed to formally oppose the  
paper which was being presented.",2
"One evening I went fishing with some friends but we could not  
fish as a fisherman had already put his net there.  We pulled  
out the net to find only crabs in it so we threw the net away.   
The net was large and may have cost $1000.  The fisherman used  
the net to earn a living and we had had thrown it.",5
Relatives visiting me.,1
"There is a certain person, whom I only have seen. He makes me  
cringe, feel disgust.",0
When the coach of our team degraded me to the second team.,3
"When after a party celebrating a friend's 21st birthday - upon  
leaving I found 10 people outside throwing up and further 4  
unconscious.",0
"When I did something naughty and it lead to the embarrassment of  
my parents.",2
"I once torn the inner tube of a bike, that was not mine. Then I  
saw it was a brand new one. I felt very guilty then.",5
"I have a friend that I deeply trusted but it happened that I lost  
my confidence in her for which she herself was to blame.",3
I caught a glimpse of a black-beetle.,0
"After I had had a disappointment in my private life, my friend,  
who studies in Vienna, came to see me spontaneously.",1
"I didn't visit a very close friend at the hospital and some days  
later he died.",5
"I went to study in a public library but I didn't know it well. I  
got a book and wanted to study hearing music. Then I went to a  
place were I could do it, but when I passed by a door a bell rang  
and a man came saying that I couldn't leave with the book.",2
"When my brother hit his head and lost consciousness at the sports  
practice.  For some time he could not remember what had happened  
but he recovered later.",6
"When I had gone for a boxing tournament which ended at 2 o'clock  
in the morning.  I was alone on my way back, and I could hear the  
barking of the dogs, the nocturnal animals and the sound of my      
own footsteps.  There had been a rumour  circulating that there  
were ghosts in that area.",6
"One of my best friends accused me of giving up to early on  
problems. It was only a casual remark on her side, but I was  
angry and hurt.",3
"With my mouth full of bun, I drank directly from a packet of milk  
which turned out to be weeks old (completely separated).  It took  
a while for the milk to seep through the bun.",0
"Had started a relationship and did nothing to keep it up, partly  
the use of another person.",5
"When I knew almost the same day about two great friends of mine  
that had serious existential crisis, and mainly when I notice  
that I'm in the same situation that they are, but I didn't  
realize it.",4
The quarrel between my  parents.,4
When I heard my grandfather's wife had leukemia I was very sad.,4
I had shown anger toward my dog and he was killed later that day.,5
"On Christmas day a drunk man came to our house without a shirt  
on, he dansed, spoke nonsense and behaved stupidly.",0
"By mistake I took a book from the library which was not supposed  
to be loaned out.",5
"My mother developed hipertonia and I think I too am to blame  
bacause with her it is a stress disease.",5
Disgust with drunk people.,0
"I was severely reprimanded for a trivial offence in front of  
members of my peer group while still at school.",2
"On a trip to Santander a child sitting beside me fell ill and  
started to vomit, seeing this made me feel very bad.",0
"I felt joy when I red my name in the list of the approved in the  
entrance college examination.",1
"I fell on the ground while crossing the street.  My cap covered  
my eyes and I felt quite ""difficult"".",2
"Some colleagues decided to go out on a Saturday not inviting me  
to decide either the place nor the time.",4
"I was running in front of a crowd when I slipped and fell on a  
wet lawn.",2
"I was disgusted with the hypocrisy of my colleagues from the  
group.",0
"After my girlfriend had taken her exam we went to her parent's  
place.",1
"My parents thought that I didn't do my best to pass the final  
examination (secondary school). When I achieved a good grade they  
said nothing, but if I had had a bad grade they would have become  
very angry.",3
"Time had struck 8 o'clock when I heard from the radio that I had  
been selected to Robert Blake Secondary School for Form I. I was  
very happy for the selection. My parents and I were very happy  
and full of joy.",1
"At a meeting with over one hundred people, they decided who had to speak  
from the stand by drawing lots.",2
"Seeing persons spending money in a shopping center with  
completely indifference to the misery reigning in our country.",0
"The mother of a small child found me shaking the child in  
exasperation, because I couldn't get it to sleep.",2
"When my grandmother, my second mother died.",4
"When my boyfriend wanted to leave me, I felt sad and melancholic.",4
"One of my first boyfriends got mad at me because a lot of my  
close friends were guys and he didn't want me to see them anymore  
because he was jealous.",3
"When I think that I will probably never have a genuine contact  
with my parents.",4
"At the tender age of eleven a friend and I left a party and  
proceeded to walk through dark and secluded streets of a bad  
neighborhood to find a telephone (recent spate of Horror Movie  
watching had occurred).",6
"A friend told me it would be better for me not to be on familiar  
terms with another friend, although, in my opinion he had no  
reason to say such things. He only said so hoping that I  
would search support from him (that, however, was not necessary).",3
Before the first examn.,6
"When I have to take exams I am very excited and have not much  
time for the housekeeping. Then my friend has to do everything.",5
People not cueing in the college dining room.,0
"I felt guilty when I failed to take an exam though I had had  
enough time to read for it but I hadn't made use of it.",5
"Motorcycle accident with two people involved, running off the  
road. Broke an arm, only.",6
"An hour before receiving the certificate results I was very  
frightened.  When I saw others crying I felt very tense and as  
time went by my fear grew.",6
"At an office an application that I had made was turned down  
because of a scrupulous interpretation of the rules.",3
"I had to have my tonsils out. I had been making up my mind almost  
for a year - I was afraid. But during the two hours in the  
hospital room, while I was waiting to be called for the operation I  
felt a real fear - of the pain, of what they were going to do to  
me, of the unknown.",6
When I moved away from home.,5
When my mother was very sick and almost died.,4
"It was at Malawi Army, Dormer Squadron, when some of my workmates  
got promoted to Seargents (sgts); we were having similar  
Ranks.",3
"The first day I visited the hospital I was disgusted because I  
experienced offensive smell which I never expected. I nearly ran  
away from the course.",0
When I passed the driving test after three failures.,1
"When I got my first unknown compound while doing my M.Sc  
research, I was very happy.  This is because my research was based  
on this type of reactions and compounds.",1
"The fact that I hadn't been informed about something and I had the  
greatest trust in this person.",3
"When I had my first oral examination after a long time;  
especially one day before the examination when I had the feeling  
that I had not studied enough and had not enough time to make up  
for it.",6
The sight of a man who ran amok (fighting) at a dance.,3
Vertigo - standing on a ladder and painting the house.,6
"After completing high-school, I wanted to go abroad for a  
holiday.  I had never been abroad before and neither had I taken  
a holiday for a long time.  When finally my parents agreed and we  
got the airplane tickets I was over joyed.",1
"I work at a petrol station. When there is a foreigner who wants  
petrol my collegues treat him very impolite.",3
A tailor ran away with my skirt.,3
"Hearing that I had been successful in getting a position whereby  
my financial, physical, spiritual and emotional needs will be  
well catered for. This position fulfils a lot of my aims for the  
last five years of my life.",1
When a dog is left whining outside a shop.,0
"When I was appointed by the Ministry of health to join the  
teaching staff of one of the medical colleges.",1
"I was not sure whether I should help an old woman going down a  
flight of stairs. I just watched her and saw how difficult it was  
for her to do it.",5
"When I had to undergo the final examination of secondary school,  
I lived together with a girlfriend. We both were afraid to fail,  
but it appeard that we both had passed.",1
I was raped by a friend.,6
"One day, early morning my mother who is healthy fell ill.  There  
was no doctor or compounder near by and for a few hours -8 A.M to  
6 P.M she did not speak a single sentence, nor did she drink water  
or  milk.  There was no movement in her body and I felt really  
scared.  I almost lost my confidence about her survival.",6
Insulted my girlfriend during a peptalk.,2
When I was reproved eighth grade of high school.,5
"I was very ashamed when I failed a test in Standard 7. The  
teacher told the other students to shout and laugh at me.",2
"When I was young I saw a horror film.  Then when I went to sleep,  
the film came back too my mind and the characters frighteneed my  
imagination.",6
"When I passed the driving test already on the first try, although  
I felt more and more uncertain as the day came near.",1
I learned that my girlfriend had been unjustly missed from work.,3
"There was a sofa in my flat which belonged to the old tenants who  
were acquaintances.  It should have been picked up a year ago but  
they had postponed it.  Eventually they decided on one date and I  
stayed at home despite the fact that I had other things to do.   
They did not come, nor did they call and they still have not got  
in touch with me.",3
Relative's death.,4
"It was in December last year that I was chosen to come to this  
Institution to study as a Medical Assistant.",1
"Something very unpleasant happened when I was a soldier and I was  
directly involved in it.",5
"I was to inform the neighbour on my left that a robber had been  
spotted the same evening near the house of the neighbour in front.   
I did not do it and the same day the thieves broke into this  
neighbour's house.",5
Finished a difficult midterm.,1
When my dad caught me with a honey (girlfriend) in my bedroom.,2
When I learnt that I had been accepted at UNZA.,1
"I phoned a friend of mine to ask her for news about the marks in  
an exam.  She told me that I had passed.",1
"When I was offered a high position of trust, which I later  
accepted.",1
Someone ruining someone's property just for the fun of it.,0
Listening to horrot stories at night.,6
When I had my first boyfriend.,1
"When my father suffered with dizziness. He had to be  
hospitalized, because the physician didn't know what was wrong.  
Because his stools were black, I thought it could be cancer.",6
"Bisshop Ter Schure intoduced himself on TV to the Dutch Nation.  
He spoke as if he was God himself, and didn't discuss the way he  
had achieved this position.",0
"When a friend of mine discussed with me, I felt fear of losing  
her. This occurred because we had a missunderstanding between  
mutual colleagues.",6
"On the occasion of assignment of tasks and responsibilities in  
which such an assignment, dispropotionately carried with it high  
responsibility and low ability of organisation and resolution.",3
When my uncle died.,4
A friend misunderstood me.,4
"Disappointed love. The girl made an end to our relationship while  
I thought she was in love with me.",4
"My girlfriend had started going around with another boy.  Her  
cousin, also a friend of mine, asked her as to who she preferred.  
 Both of us were present and she chose the other guy.",2
"I went to the shopping centre to buy something and saw packets of  
Kapenta  with maggots in them. Oh !",0
"When the time came for me to see dead bodies and to operate on  
them.",6
"I was angry at my boyfriend who had promised to come to see me  
but did not because he spent the evening with his pals.",3
"A very, very close friend of mine used to come to my room to       
see me and I naver bothered to pay him a visit.  One day he asked  
me the reason behind this and I gave him a shirt.",5
"When I was younger I was very good in apparatus gymnastics. I  
always won in competitions, but once I was only at the fourth  
place.",4
Saw in the TV South Korea cheating in the Asian Olympic games.,3
I was scolded by my mother for no reason.,3
"A few years back I had proposed love to a girl who later turned out  
to be related to me.  Though we were in love with each other, we  
both felt ashamed and withdrew from each other.",2
"I was on my way back from the Inter Rail, on board the ferry from  
Stockholm when my father called me at 7 o'clock to tell me that my  
uncle had died and that I would be seeing him off on his final  
journey within four days.",4
"When I used to go to my chief asking about any doubt about the job  
and he didn't care, didn't answer me, leaving me speaking alone.",3
"A whole crowd of us went to a folklore festival. The instructor  
of the cast where my boyfriend played was traveling with us. We  
decided to catch the train that leaved early in the morning  
because we had business on the following day. The instructor  
tried to get the upper hand and made us catch the train in spite  
of everything, all the time he made me angry.",3
When my cousin passed away.,4
"When a ""friend"" dropped a frog down my neck, and I didn't know  
what it was.",0
The day after the night I drank too much at a party.,2
When I forgot my mother's birthday.,2
"I quarreled with my boy-friend. He said it was unfair that I  
always started crying so that he had to give in.",5
When my father died.,4
When my mother died.,4
The loss of my mother.,4
"I returned home late from a party last night and I felt afraid  
trying to anticipate the reaction of my father.",6
When I was admitted to a certain school as a student.,1
"I am separated from my husband.  The way he has behaved towards  
me makes me angry.",3
"I insulted my friend for a small reason and after time I realised  
that I was wrong and felt ashamed; everytime I meet her I feel  
ashamed.",2
"Several years ago I was caught riding the train without a ticket.  
The station-mistress treated me like a criminal almost.",2
"I made a remark to my sister concerning her attitude to men, the  
way she talked and I compared her to an acquaintance of mine.   
Later, the same evening, my sister looked sad.  I felt guilty  
about her sadness.",5
"When I lost a wallet while travelling, since it belonged to the  
group I was very afraid.",6
"My friend has to go on field trips, he just told me.",4
"In 1983, my results at the university entrance exam were very  
poor - far from what I had expected.   I thought that I would not  
be accepted at the university.",4
"On Reperbahn, in a restaurant, a ""charming"" old saleswoman came  
to beg a drink for herself.",0
"When I was a child I played my mother a nasty trick to make her  
feel hurt.",2
"This emotion happened when I passed my primary school examination  
and was selected for Secondary School.",1
"It was discovered that I had received a warning letter as my  
G.P.A was very low.",2
"When my little sister was sick at home and I thought that she  
would die.",6
"Some months ago my wife gave birth to twin sisters. She had no  
idea of looking after babies and she felt quite oppressed. The  
fact that I couldn't help her caused grief to me.",4
"A girl with whom I was staying having sex with a person for about  
3 nights running, and then with his brother the following night,  
and back again.",0
"When you are unjustly assessed at something you are sure to have  
been right.",3
"I imagined I heard footsteps up the hall while sleeping in bed  
one night by myself in the house.",6
My friend will find out that I am in love with her.,4
"This is a kind of confession - my mum found me stealing meat from  
the pot.",5
"Having unwanted attention paid to me in my place of work -  
harrassment (and sexual harrassment) by another worker -  
disgusted by his implications.",0
"Talking to friends about how old you are and we cannot be as  
successful as you at your age.",2
"My parents and brother came up over the weekend. We are a very  
close family. This was my first year away from home. They brought  
one jacko-lantern with a new design. That is the old joke that  
we have a great new design - it's always the same.",1
When I lied to the physiology teacher.,5
"When I was to sit for my first entrance exam. I had fear of a  
possible failure.",6
Borrowed someone else's towel without asking.,5
"I told my boy friend not to park in a certain place because the  
car would ger towed away - he didn't listen and it was towed away.  
At that stage, our finances were below the poverty line & it  
cost us $10.00 - all the money we had to get us through that week  
(including rent).",3
"I was in ""Hainburg"" in December and I was angry about the  
politicians and the police.",3
"When I learnt that my younger sister had been expelled from  
secondary school because she was pregnant.  That was the second  
time that this happened in the family - the first time it had  
been my elder sister.",3
"When playing a football match, there was one player who made mean  
tackels, kicked at everything and did things having nothing to do  
with football.",3
"Stranded in the north of Fraser Island with a submerged 4 WD hire  
vehicle.",6
"At the pre-university, I was appreciated as an examplary  
student by our pricipal.  This is something which made me feel  
very happy.",1
"Attitude to some manners of dealing and some ""sanctioned""  
relations.",3
"On a sailing boat at night, under a full moon, listening to Pink  
Floyd, drinking good wine, with good company, the boat being  
steered by autopilot, and a full eclipse of the moon.",1
"Talkiing about the past happy hours with two friends at night in  
a camp a few months ago.  We shared our feelings, notions and  
every hidden anxiety.  I thought that they cared for me and I  
was very happy and satified.",1
"I was indignant at the unimpartiality shown by the referees at  
the football match between Bulgaria and France.",3
"When my best friend promised to come at my house and I had to  
prepare so many expensive things for her but only to learn at  
last that she would not turn up.",4
South Korea cheating for gold medals.,3
"When the bank let me borrow some money this winter, after my  
grant was spent.",1
"When I am in an auditorium with people and I ask a silly question  
so that everyone starts to laugh.",2
"I feel ashamed at the fact that even after 35 years of independence    
70% of the Indian poulation is still below the poverty line.",2
I can't remember ever feeling shame.,2
"After I had cheated my parents that I had lost my textbooks so  
they had to send me money.",5
"It was last week on Saturday night when I was at Mchesi. I feared  
to cross the Lilongwe River Bridge to come back to School due to  
darkness - until somebody had to escort me.",6
When I felt that my love was returned.,1
"When I used to tell Mum I was going somewhere else than where I  
was (going).",5
"My cat died from an illness.  It had been with us for 7 years.   
It was a lovely cat.  It had been ill for one or two weeks and  
the veterinary surgeon had told us that it was dying.",4
"At the weekend I wanted to be absent from school because of a  
sports event, but my teacher refused to give me the day off  
because he didn't like me.",3
When I was left alone at home one night by my brother.,6
My grand father caught me eating his private jelly bean supply.,2
Once I had to visit a rather special person.,2
"I noticed that Meryl Streep and I had similar cheekbones and jaw  
structure.",1
"When an acquaintance (he was drunk) of my room-mate vomitted on the kitchen  
carpet.  It was past mid-night and my room-mate had just moved in,  
this acquaintance had helped her move in. 
",0
"When my father came into the bathroom and saw me standing there  
naked.",2
"Found out that me and my best friend are both chosen for the  
English lectures.",1
"When I argue with my boyfriend, I feel as though he feels  
superior to me.",3
"At a moment of affect I offended a person very close to me. He  
had given me ground for that but it was a trifling in comparison  
with the way I insulted him. A moment later I felt a sense of  
guilt.",5
NO RESPONSE,0
"I was angry about how the government acted concerning Hainburg,  
especially when I saw a discussion about it on TV.",3
"At secondary school, one of my classmates lost her locker key.   
During a class I saw two other classmates holding a key and  
talking secretly.  I do not know why I suspected them, also  
another classmate supported me.  He remembers that these people  
had only one key in the key-ring, this had seemed strange to him.  
 Besides another classmate said that he had seen them selling  
books at a book-shop and they should not have had such books.  I  
told the teacher and the person was caught.  He had sold the  
books and was forced to quit school.  I found that I had not  
helped him as he stole later on also.  I felt guilty",5
"At one occasion I was ashamed of being refused after a proposal  
for a friendship with a certain girl. I was ashamed because she  
refused publically in the presence of my fellow friends.",2
"Motorcyclistic accident where for some minutes I didn't know if I  
was alive or dead, I remained ""cold levered"" during the situation  
but felt great fear.",6
"I had not written to, or called my grandmother, who was lonely,  
for a long time.  My mother asked me to call her on her behalf  
and when I did so, my grandmother was delighted and she told me  
that she had been waiting for some news from us.",5
" In some special circumstances l lied to my parents, then felt  
guilty so I told them the truth and felt free.",5
"I trusted a friend of mine, but she lied to me about something  
and this disgusted me.",0
When my aunt passed away in early 1982.,4
I had drunk a couple of beers and my fiancee got angry at me.,4
"A chief was unjustly punished on an autumn brigade and the one  
who was really guilty kept silent. I stepped in front and told  
the truth. The guilty chief called me in after the roll-call and  
threatened me.",3
"At a lack of love of my father for my mum, sadness for him more  
than anyone else because he does not realise how much love and  
happiness there could be between them, and is, and how much he is  
damaging himself apart from mum.",4
"After our sad first of May party, I felt ashamed because the  
friends who had been invited had to suffer.  We, the organizers  
of the party, did not drive the intruders away.",2
When I found that my coldness had hurt somebody's sincerity.,4
"The day I got a letter from the U.G.C informing me that I had  
been awarded the junior research fellowship.",1
Talking with someone I admire a lot.,1
When I passed the B.A exams with first class results.,1
"I got angry when I learned how short a time we had to prepare for  
the term examinations.",3
"When they threw my holder down on the floor, with all my notes for  
an exam inside it and they got all mixed up.",3
"I visited a special education school. The headmaster applied a  
policy of strict positive - negative reinforcement to the  
children involved. Children who measured up to his standards were  
made a fuss of - children who didn't were ignored.",3
"The day the results of the university entrance exam was  
published, I found my canditate number and I was very excited.",1
"I had joined a youth group that observed the affairs of our  
community and so I had many opportunities to contact the  
government and the committee members of the district board (a  
local executive structure).  We always tried to consult and  
discuss with them, but we found that such people did not  
understand community affairs and they even dampened our  
enthusiasm in local affairs.  I did not understand why they had  
decided to work as community leaders.",0
I got separated form my closest friend. He went to work abroad.,4
"The doctors from Belogradchik town determined a wrong diagnosis  
to my son. A month later, after some complex examinations at ISUL  
(A medical institute in Sofia), the diagnosis was categorically rejected.",3
"[ When someone tells me something that hurts me, I feel bad about  
it and also feel sad.]",4
When my fellow classmates were involved in a quarrel.,0
My roommate was rude to me.,3
"A friend catched me while masturbating. I am not fully sure  
whether she saw it or not.",2
"Finding out about some girls who have been nice to the class  
leader in order to go to the neuropsychology lectures (English  
ones).",3
"I felt very angry when a mishanga seller robbed me of the  
transport money I had to go to school.",3
Someone spread rumours about me.,3
"My living and working conditions at home were unbearable. We used  
to live in a three room flat together with two more families. The  
discords caused a change - one of the families moved out. The  
other family stayed with us but I drifted away from my fiancT. In  
fact we were two families in the flat. Then I found myself alone  
in the struggle for this life because my fiancT did not stay next  
to me my grief and sorrow took on large proportions. I wanted to  
commit suicide but instead I threw myself against the cause of  
the irritation.",4
"This is one feeling I never betray, but I must confess that the  
last time I slighty felt happy was when I passed my M.A with a  
high rank.  This was a few years ago when my friend told me about  
the result.",1
"Getting drunk and creating a lot of trouble at a place I respect  
- my friend's home.",2
"[ For example, unfair pushing in a bus.]",3
"When I stated sharply something I was not very sure of and a few  
days later I was shown to be wrong.",2
When my team lost a championship.,4
"When my brother went out with my new shirt that I adored, and  
returned it dirty with grease.",3
"When I told my sister I had slept with my boyfriend, and she at  
first was mad at me I then felt shame for this act, but not  
guilt.",2
An Engineer I know wants war so he can get a job making bombs.,0
When I missed the tram after having run for it.,3
"I thought I would be able to use the mangle of the house, and so  
I did not want any help.  However, I blocked it and I had to get  
the janitor to help me out.  He reproached me for not having  
followed the instructions",2
"At school when I had a shouting argument with a friend over my  
ability to carry out a particular duty in the correct way without  
harming her.",3
"I ran a race for the CAL track team and I did terribly and then  
the coach said that I should sit out for the season. I felt  
really sad because I wasn't going to be able to run. It was  
something I always had done and now I couldn't do it anymore.",4
"Some time ago I took the driving test. I did answer the  
theoretical questions very well, but I failed the practical  
driving test. It was my fault because I had not enough practice.",5
"I once stole a shirt from the Department Store in which I work. I  
have been promoted to work in a very privileged section of the  
store. Their belief in my integrity makes me feel even guiltier.",5
"If I don't go to lectures, I often feel ashamed.",2
"While walking on the street with a good friend of mine, we met an  
acquaintance of hers.  My friend started showing off and telling  
false stories about herself and praising herself.",0
"I became very angry with my friend because he didn't do shopping,  
while we agreed on him doing this. My being angry was proved to be  
without reason and I felt guilty about it.",5
"3 years ago I served in the army. Once a collegue denounced me  
because of a delict, which is usually committed. I was arrested  
for 3 days. I still detest this man.",0
"When someone took my things without having asked for my  
permission.",3
"That was what I felt when I was finally accepted in the Bulgarian  
Conservatorie after I had applied a couple of years.",1
"I had to unscrew something on my car. I didn't succeed after two  
afternoons of trying. A feeling of anger built up itself.",3
"I was afraid when my dog ran out through a crack in the fence  
when  a train was coming.",6
"When I met another person I began to go out with him, and my  
boyfriend (with marriage accorded) met us together he did a great  
scandal, he broke the engagement and I began to go out with the  
other, and it didn't work because my mind was all mixed up.",5
"When I was beaten up by thieves on behalf of some friends of mine  
as they thought that I had a lot of money and would not part  
with a few coins for their drinks.",3
"During the English lesson we were required to do a play.  A few  
days after doing it the teacher asked us to do it again at a meeting   
and I forgot my part.",2
"As the only person in my family into academics, I ought to have  
looked after my younger (and only) sister better, with respect to  
her education and life experiences.",5
"Once I was alone at home. I suddenly felt unwell and there was no  
one to help me and call First Aid.",6
To buy a car and didn't like the business and the car.,4
"My mother and my sister carried on picking at me all day long for  
no reason at all and I ended up getting angry.",3
When I got separated from the woman I loved.,4
"The weekend after I argued with my parents I went home again and  
they couldn't have been nicer. As soon as I walked in, Mum kissed  
me, then Dad, and thanked me for the birthday presents I'd left  
for him, including a very sentimental birthday card.",1
"When I was in a car with my parents and friends and we had to  
back up (reverse) pass a river which when I recall it (I was only  
about 5 yrs) seemed we were going to fall in and drown.",6
"There was joy in me when I heard that I was to take a course as a  
Medical Assistant.",1
"My friend and I planned to search for old documents and utensils  
in the cellar. It was very late at night when we arrived in the  
cellar. He indicated the place where the police (40 years ago) found  
two dead bodies. I got very scared when he told me this story.",6
"At the end of my holiday job I got less money than was due to me  
and nobody mentioned anything about that.",3
I did not do my homework and went to see a film.,5
When I entered in the University after a year of struggles.,1
"When my aunt scolded me for something I was not responsible for.   
A boy had come to our gate asking for me, my aunt went out to see  
him.  I had neither met nor known the boy.",3
"I made an unkind remark about the ethnicity of some friends  
without realizing it.",2
"A gang of screaming and drunk youths ""captured"" a tram.",6
"When I beat up a first year student at my secondary school in  
my capacity as the deputy head boy.  He had woken up late in the   
morning for manual work.",5
"When I was six years old, my favourite cat died.",4
When I passed a very important exam.,1
"When I talked maliciously about a colleague at work to someone  
else.  Immediately afterwards I felt ashamed.",2
"When I was 12 years old I was caught by the Ticket Collector when  
travelling without a ticket.",2
Finding out that I can go to your English lectures.,1
"I am always sad when my boyfriend goes away. He lives and studies  
in an other city. We have gone steady for 2 and 1/2 years and  
everything is going very well, but sometime this situation makes  
me feel bad and very lonely.",4
"When I climbed up a tree to pick apples.  The angle of the ladder  
I was on did not enable me to get high enough.  This implied  
that the ladder was not very stable.",6
"A day when I was getting out of the shower I covered only the  
front part of my body with a towel (I was 7 years old), and I  
didn't see that my cousin was in the room.",2
When I got indecent offers.,0
When my grandmother died.,4
I could not do the questions on my math midterm.,6
"When, for example, I was not approved to continue my studies at  
the Moscow University, no matter that I had the highest marks and  
in general the best records of all the candidates.",3
"It happened when I still went to school: I got closer to a girl  
but I considered it only as an ""affair"". Only much later I realized  
how painful this must have been for the girl.",5
"When my boyfriend did not turn up in time as he promised he would  
be coming.",4
When I met my boyfriend with another girl.,0
"When I talked to another student about the notes she got last  
semester, not knowing that she got a lot of bad grades.",5
"When my mother slapped me in the face, I felt anger at that  
moment.",3
"When I was face to face with my deceived friend after sleeping  
with his wife.",5
"When you kill yourself with work and see the number of slakers  
wandering around, doing nothing.",3
"I was looking after a child and she fell down because I was not  
paying her much attention.  One side of her face got bruised.",5
"No very strong such emotion. Treatment of my sister by her  
dancing instructor - he is a ""user"", i.e., takes advantage of her  
good nature.",0
"I suffer from a disease of my muscles. Therefore, I am only able  
to attend lectures for half a day. So, sometimes I miss  
obligatory lectures. However, the teachers do not take into  
account my disease, and punish me with detention work, resulting in  
an overload.",3
"The sports fishermen who catch gulls instead of fish with their hooks.  
  It is often a mistake but it makes me angry.",3
When a friend of mine was trying to make a fool out of me.,3
When I was accused of something I had not done.,3
"I had subscribed for this test. We were informed by our  
secretary where the test took place. We went over there and thought  
there was a course. So we went back again I felt ashamed that the  
secretary again should see me.",2
"As a young girl in form I, I wet my bed one day at the boarding  
school and many girls came to see the person who had done it as I  
had to take my mattress out that day.",2
"I was crossing the street together with some colleagues of mine  
when I suddenly found myself almost under the wheels of a truck.",6
"In a restaurant, I made the acquaintance of a boy who always told  
the same things in a very loud voice. I laughed and said to him  
that he always repeated the same things. Some time later I heard  
that he had undergone a complicated brain operation.",2
Meeting an old friend from high school.,1
Failed to recagnize a friend on the street.,2
"When I was notified that I had been accepted as a Psychology  
student.",1
"When I decided not to out any longer with a girl whom I liked  
quite a lot.  This made me feel low for a some time.",4
"When a patient had died soon after I had told the guardian to  
wait outside the ward.",5
"When I was young I had gone to an old lift and played with the  
antique lift.  The guy discovered me and warned me, I was very  
frightened.",6
"Heard that my girl-friend was chosen for the English lectures and  
I was not. I lost my temper and she is very upset now.",5
"People having a football match outside the window during the  
lecture.",3
"When someone accuses me without reason and is not willing to  
listen to me.",3
"I got an A in anatomy - the first one I have ever gotten in a  
science class here.",1
"I hate hypocrisy. My friend (girl) tried to intrude into my  
affairs with my future husband. After that she behaved as if  
nothing had happened.",0
"I beat my young sister because she refused to wash plates. She  
started crying and I felt sorry and guilty for what I did.",5
When I can see my parents because now I am far from them.,1
"Going out with another girl besides my girlfriend and not telling  
her.",5
"When the person I'm having the affair with won't talk to me in  
public.",3
When I see people who have no sentiments.,0
"[ I can not remember anything in particular.  What I can remember  
is feelings of having done or said something which then had  
negative consequences.]",5
"I had been separated from my girlfriend for about a year.  On her  
birthday I put a present in her mailbox.  I had spent two days  
choosing a suitable present for her.  I waited for a few days and  
there was no reply from her; at last I received a thank-you card  
in my mailbox.  On the card there was only my name, the words thank-you   
and her signature.  I was very sad then.",4
"Receiving a much wanted letter from a very good friend who lives  
abroad.",1
"The day I encountered a queer mamba face to face in a chunk of  
leaves behind our house.",6
"Winning a rowing race at a Karapiro regatta. With 7 other  
friends.",1
I was angry this morning when I missed the train to university.,3
"When I pass exams, or when a close friend of mine recovered  
from an illness,etc.",1
"I counterfeited a mark in the school register during the lesson  
in gymnastics. I felt this feeling two days later when I stood  
face to face with my teacher, whom I highly appreciated and  
respected.",2
When my mother quarrelled with my aunt over me.,3
"When I dream of anything terrifying I used to have fear for the  
rest of the day that the dream might come true e.g., being beaten  
(or eaten ?) by a snake.",6
When I shouted at my mother when she was nervous and depressed.,5
"When I was looking for a job I felt a lot of fear but the fear  
was greater when I found it.",6
"When other people refuse to do their house jobs and give the  
work to someone else.",0
"There is a girl at my work that doesn't take care much of her  
hygiene she comes always with her hair oiled, a not very agreable  
smell, and a bad appearance. Beside this she tries to be nice.",0
In summer when I was sailing with friends in Greece I felt joy.,1
"I was riding with a friend in his car. At a speed of 120 km/h on  
the snow-covered motorway I would have liked to get out.",6
"My roommate being nice to a party leader in order to get into the  
party.",0
"My teacher asked me a question which I failed to answer and I was  
told to stay behind after the class and give the answer after  
studying it from a book.",2
"Once a friend had pushed me and I had fallen on to a window which  
then broke.  I was taken to tthe principal's office and he  
accused me of having broken the window.",3
"When I saw a girl in my economics discussion section smiling and  
asking stupid questions to the TA. just to get attention. She was  
obviously ass-kissing. It happens in every Econ. discussion held  
weekly.",0
"Receiving close friends form abroad, whom I hadn't seen for  
years.",1
"The way my husband and his family treated me - unfairly, cruelly,  
and unjustly.",0
I felt extreme joy the day I was baptized. I was one with God.,1
"When I finally managed to get a specific sound from my guitar,  
after baving tried for a long time.",1
Saw a selfish person doing a selfish thing.,0
"One day in a crossroad somebody crashed my car. I got out and  
this person laughed at me. I felt such a great anger that I got  
in my car and went away.",3
"I had promised to visit my girlfriend but for different reasons  
could not make it.  I rang up later to tell her that I could not  
come.",5
When I failed one of the first year's courses.,2
Once when I said bad things concerning a friend.,2
"[ Cycling in the spring sunshine gives me such delight.   
Happiness is to be healthy, my wonderful finance.  Simply being  
here on earth.]",1
"When I laughed at a lame man walking down the road, it looked  
funny at the time but later I felt lousy.  It was the same day  
that I had stolen some coins from my mother in the shop.",5
Fear of thief.,6
"Eating the last remains of dinner that someone else (unknown to  
me) had claimed.",5
"I was on a concert-tour and therefor seperated from my  
boy-friend. But I needed warmth which was given by a male member  
of the orchestra. My feelings towards him were not very deep, but  
his feelings were. I felt guilty when he said ""I am not a  
radiator"".

",5
General Ye Jianying died.,4
"When I tell someone no. In other words when I refuse to do  
something although I could have helped him.",5
"[ A person close to me told me that his positive regard depended  
on my conduct.]",4
Left alone in the dark in a big building.,6
"Saw on TV China not winning more gold medals in the Asian  
Olympics.",2
"When I was small, I would always fight with my younger sister and  
one time I hit her and knocked the wind out of her. I felt real  
bad about it.",2
"When the result of a project work was treated nonchalantly  
intead of being criticized by the teacher.",4
When I took the car of someone without saying it to him.,5
"A girl dropped some stuff from her bag and when I tried to help  
her I realized that she had used me and I was made to look like a  
fool.",5
"I tried to date a girl, but she refused.",2
"When my room-mate was making noise deliberately, by playing a  
flute early in the morning while I was trying to study.",3
I broke my friend's badminton racket and she kept quiet about it.,5
"I slept in a tent at the Barracks which caught fire at night and  
my best possessions got burnt in there.",4
"I feel fear when I only imagine I could lose confidence in my own  
abilities and powers. A similar feeling I feel sometimes before  
an exam.",6
"When I let my girlfriend use my essay to help her to write hers  
and the tutor found them alike.",2
Good news about a sick relative.,1
When I and the boy next door set fire to a house by accident.,5
Before the examn.,1
"I am a teacher in arts and crafts (boys from 15-16 years). for  
them it is obligatory and they dislike it. They tease me. When one of  
them cut up some material I flared up.",3
My best friend betrayed me and told other people my secrets.,3
Saw Chinese people flattering foreigners.,0
"The time I drove my uncle's car, without having asked for his  
permission.  It was the first time that I was driving a car.",6
"1976, Soweto uprising in South Africa and the racist Gout's  
reaction to the students demands concerning the educational  
system.",4
"I had a quarrel with a friend who lived with me in the same flat.  
He moved out. Before he went he invited me and some friends for a  
drink. At last he was totally drunk and smelled disgusting.  
Besides, he told lies about us and behaved as if he was to be  
pitied.",0
"When I read about Reagan's tactical decision concerning the  
South African boycott.",3
Damaged the tap in the residental Hall.,6
"My mother kicked my surrogate father out and he in turn did not  
care for the dog, Afthur, he bought for the family. His lack of  
concern lead tho Arthur's death on the freeway. I loved Arthur  
like a brother. He was easy to talk to.",4
When I talk to my friends.,1
Breaking up with a girl.,4
When my grandmother died after a long illness.,4
"With a woman who had walked into my place of employment and  
urinated on the floor in front of everyone.",0
"When a relative, who had come to our place, created untidyness  
and dirtyness.",3
"When after a lot of provocation my child threw a plate on the  
floor.",3
Not finishing homework in time.,2
When the relationship with my girlfriend broke up.,4
Continous fear of a nuclear war.,6
"I invited two friends. We should go out together. Those two girls  
kept talking about boys, chatting up etc. I bacame sick of it.",3
"When I was finally able to return to a job that I enjoyed doing  
after several months absence (I was not needed during this time).",1
"My friends promised me that they would definitely call me to tell  
me if they were visiting me or not.",3
"I felt guilty when I said bad things to my sister, I had not  
intended to do so.  She cried a lot and later she fell ill and I  
felt responsible for her illness.",5
"A conflict with a pupil and there were probatory teachers  
present.",2
"Out on a weekend with a group of people, everybody felt irritated  
because at night the music didn't stop in time. And at breakfast  
my boyfriend ran away because we didn't agree with him. I felt  
angry.",3
I do not help out enough at home.,5
Disgust of drunkers and of blood.,0
"When I began school at UC. The pre-enrollment the classes, and  
the question of success really scared me.",6
"Once at a camp a classmate criticized me in front of others.  Now  
I find that this classmate is very disgusting.",0
Finding out about Chinese money cannot buy foreign journals.,3
"When I got the scholarship I was very happy as the finacial  
burden of the family was reduced.",1
"Almost crashing my car, something which could have led to great  
problems.",6
"The same fact about the girl (22 years, married - guilt -  
disgust), the fear was the main factor in our relationship.",6
"Equivocal situation when filling a security questionnaire on  
entering a government building with several people there.",2
"When I was 12 years old I frequently was pursued by others and  
got sound thrashes.",6
When I was with someone I love.,1
China not doing well in the Asian Olympic games.,2
"Asking someone to give me back the money I once lend him because  
I needed it myself.",2
"I was travelling from Delhi to Bombay.  I had booked a seat one  
month back and I had also got a telegram confirming this.   
However, in the train my name had been omitted from the  
reservation sheet, and the one seat that was still vacant was  
alloted to another person who paid for it despite my requests for the  
seat.  I was allowed to stay in the reserved compartment when I  
paid money.",3
About Sweden's arms exports.,2
"Last Summer I was walking along the beach in a bikini and an  
awful man came cycling after me.  He was shouting and I ran as  
fast as my legs could carry me.",6
"I was reading in the paper the feature on Henry Lucas who claims  
to have killed 380 people. He was a recreational killer and a  
necrophiliac and zoophiliac. He has raped and beaten many women  
and killed men too.",0
"Finding out that China does not have enough foreign currency to  
buy books.",2
"My mother had just been teaching me how to crochet, which is  
thought highly improper for a boy in a town.  Just when we  
finished, a neighbour walked in.",2
Adultery with a friend's girlfriend.,5
Being put down by the class leaders.,3
"I was walking home from a place on southside and I live on  
Northside and I was followed. I headed my most direct route.",6
"I had a girlfriend which I used to call regularly. Then I didn't  
phone her for a while. At a certain moment I felt a little  
tension which became worse.",5
My partner left me after we had been together for a long time.,4
"Saying goodbye at the airport to my boyfriend who has to go to  
school back East. We are very close and have been together 4  
years.",4
"When I felt powerless to help the poor or when I don't know how  
to.",4
"I was angry the other day because the teacher told me to sweep  
some orange peels. It was my friends who were supposed to sweep,  
but the teacher told me to do it.",3
"After the accident which I described in SHAME. I came to myself  
and saw how terrible everything looked like. I disgusted myself  
and everything I saw.",0
"In May 18th, 1984 my boyfriend went to the U.S.A. In December I  
was told he passed away. He had cancer of the Oesophagus.",4
"When I missed my train this morning, I felt sad for some time.",4
"In the compartment of a public transport railway, I did not give  
my seat to an old man who was standing near me.  It was another  
teenager who did so.",2
"When I was accepted for my third year (G-10) at my former  
secondary school.",1
I felt guilty when I lied to my parents.,5
"In the last year of the high school we had a huge fight between  
my group and the graduation commission (two students of my  
classroom) because they accused us unjustly of a gossip about  
them.",3
"Once, when I was ten, I could not remember why my mother was so  
angry.  She fainted suddenly and I was very scared as I did not  
know what to do .",6
"When I forgot to take out money for my mother. She asked me what  
she would do, because I had messed up her program for the  
following day.",5
"I blew up at someone for being confused and because of his  
irresponsibility and afterwards I felt guilty and that I had no  
right.",5
My mother's death.,4
When I failed the M.S.C exam.,2
When I could not do anything because of a bad back.,4
"I had a summer job in Sweden, and my boyfriend came to meet me on  
my birthday.",1
I experienced this emotion when my grandfather passed away.,4
"Two little children (5/6 years old) begging for money, and noone  
gave them money.",4
"My friend came to the concert for my sake as it was me who had  
organized it and the concert was unsuccessful.",5
"I wanted to get rid of a bad habit and it seemed that I had  
succeeded.  However a year later I got the bad habit again.  I felt   
useless as I always found excuses to explain my behaviour.  As a result I  
felt guilty.",5
"When I was little - Mum caught me telling a lie about who broke  
the cup.",2
"Achievement of a task by a friend who had begun a new job. She  
wasn't confident of handling the situation so was thinking  of  
leaving the job only after 2 days employment.",1
I realized that the girl I loved had to leave me.,4
"I was sitting on an electric swing, suddenly the machine went  
out of order while I was still in the upward position.",6
"I went home late one evening and saw that the security lights  
were off.  I got inside the gate and just then I realized that  
the dogs may be outside.",6
"It was my birthday and all the members of the group made me a  
surprise in a public place at 10 p.m. giving me flowers and suvenirs.",2
"My mother and I had an argument over buying some clothes for me.   
She did not accept the fact that I did not like the same things  
as her, and we ended up shouting at each other.",3
"This was when the girl I was in love with accepted my proposal  
and everything went smoothly, just as I had wanted it to.  It was  
contrary to my previous feelings of uncertainty about her  
response.",1
My fiancT left me for my best friend.,4
"In Ward 1A was an epileptic patient who was burnt the whole body  
and was stinking very much such that the whole ward was affected.  
Few people could come near him.",0
A friend died of cancer when he was 18 years old.,4
"I went out with my sister, her boyfriend and his friend. I did  
not like this young man. But suddenly he overcame me and kissed  
me. He was very strong so that I could not defend myself.",0
"It was not long ago when I and two of friends of mine got quite drunk  
and one of them began to rave under the influence of the alcohol.  
I felt fear of what could have happened.",6
"I feared that my dog's eye was infected too much. He had played  
around in the weeds and a foxtail had gotten under his eyelid. I  
took him to the vet and I feared that he may go blind because of  
the foxtail.",6
"When I received my TE Score and my acceptance from University -  
it had been a goal since I left the bank a year earlier.",1
Before important sports events.,6
"I assisted to a scene where the police attacked a person that  
didn't have his documents. The savagery was too much, and the  
attacked person bleeded to much.",0
An inter-college basket-ball match.,6
"A friend of mine could not make it back to Unza after having  
failed the exams.",4
"When I saw the film ""Johnny got his gun"" which deals with the  
consequences of the Vietnam war.",4
"I was once called in court in Zemba Traditional court to answer a  
charge of impregnanting a young lady, I felt guilty for she had  
some letters which I used to write her as an exhibit in court.",5
"One day while we were strolling along the road one of my  
friends suggested that we go and watch a blue film.  I was  
curious so I went along but I felt quite guilty later.",5
When my first niece was born.,1
Overeating a traditional type of food - blood pudding.,0
"My P.T. instructor also works as a masseur. He wanted to massage  
me, therefore I had to undress. For the first few times this was  
not easy for me; I got gradually used to it.",2
"I played in a stage play. Suddenly, in front of 200 people, I  
could not remember the words I had to say.",2
"Having to decide on a termination of a pregnancy, after  
discussing it with friends, family and the man involved.",4
A horse which I had liked very much was taken away.,4
"I had a very short term romance during the summer vacations.  When  
we first met I felt excited but I wanted to avoid him after we had met  
a few times and so I proposed that we stay apart, I felt very  
sad then.",4
"When I was convinced that someonne had broken into my flat and I  
woke up and heard sounds that frightened me.",6
"In the army, an acquaintance of mine tended to use his position  
to advance his own interests.",0
"I talk too much, cannot keep things secret. I promised a friend  
not to tell something to anybody. Neverthless, I did, and she got  
informed about it. I felt very ashamed.",2
Got a present from my friend for my birthday.,1
"My best friend had a relatively severe illness.  I was sad  
because she was suffering.",4
"Every time, in the last few days, when my girlfriend told me that  
she loves me.",1
"I met my friend and he gave me a wonderful present as it was my  
birthday.  I enjoyed having that present.",1
"Promising someone to do their job and then not being able to do  
it due to transport troubles.",5
"A drummer who had borrowed my drums destroyed both the drumskin  
and the sticks.  He did not repair them nor did he tell me about  
it.",3
"When my mother and father split up I was angry: I felt deprived  
and ""different"" from other children at school.",3
"In a public swimming hall I saw a very aggressive man who  
practically attacked the children who got in his way when he was  
swimming.",0
"[ I have felt shame but am unable to remember any particular  
incident.]",2
"After the interview for admission to the university and before  
the admission list was disclosed.  I was scared that I would not  
be admitted and my fear lasted for quite some time.  My fear  
disappeared only after the list was disclosed.",6
"When I hadn't studied for an exam, so I pretended to be sick so I  
wouldn't have to go to school. I lied to my mother - she realized  
I had been lying when she got home from work and found that I had  
been over to a friend's place.",2
"Teenage neighbours smashed my letterbox for the fifth time in a  
couple of months. It was a deliberate action of kids who had  
stayed in my home, had meals there yet took a dislike to my  
daughter. ",3
"I was keeping a friend's Library book which went overdue. My  
friend was charged for the delay in returning the book to the  
Library. I felt guilty when I realised I was responsible.",5
Almost always when I go to fetch the results of an exam.,6
"I went to a fair where a guy who was drunk kept bothering me and  
in the end I got really angry.",3
I stole 5c from my mother's purse for a choo-choo bar - I was 6.,5
"At a party, I started talking to a guy I had seen in one of my  
classes. My boyfriend felt awkward and left to talk to a friend  
but kept on looking at me as I talked.",5
I was ashamed to tell my mother that I fell down with a bicycle.,2
"When a colleague was rude with me because she didn't understand  
the subject about which I was discussing.",3
"I felt fear when I fell down and broke my leg into pieces and I  
could not feel it at all.",6
Fear to come and live in Nijmegen.,6
"I had a discussion with my mother concerning my sister's divorce,  
we disagreed strongly.",3
"At what I was capable of of selfishly using others for sexual  
encounters, while I held a vision of having a deepening  
above-board (you know, ""girl next door"") devotion to a girl in my  
head. My drives and actions did not match this so consequently I  
felt disgusted at my failure.",0
"Seeing maltreated, dead animals.",0
To force someone to do something that suits me.,5
"I suffer form a disease of my muscles. However, I cannot talk  
about it and my feelings, the consequence with my parents. They  
try to repress it.",4
Had to tell people that my parents are divorced.,2
Telling friends about your nickname.,5
"I was driving on to a busy freeway during rush hour and it was  
slightly raining. A diesel truck was coming very close behind me  
and I was close behind a pick-up. I changed lanes and barely hit  
the truck and ran a Honda of the road. I was scared to death to  
go back and see if I caused him to crash.",6
"I felt it today when the bus driver shouted rather indecent words  
at a man without any reason whatsoever.",0
"When I acted in a negative way at a certain moment by laziness  
to concede a moment of the time I thought to be my own.",5
"When I was caught telling a white lie.  At that time, I was not  
allowed to stay outdoors after 8 p.m.  One day when I was late, I  
made up a story that our neighbour had invited me to his place,  
though I had actually forgotten about the time while playing with  
my pals.",2
"When my mother asked me to do a job for her which does not  
require much effort on my part, yet I refused for selfish reasons  
and saw her have to do it.",2
When I met my mother after months of absence.,1
"Sitting in the dorm when the guys were verbally reading letters  
in Penthouse.",0
"I had lunch with my ex-boyfriend and did not mention it to my  
fiancee.  I felt guilty despite the fact that I felt nothing for  
my ex-boyfriend.",5
"When my relatives troubled me so that I would help them  
financially.",0
"At my summer job, I was responsible for making various orders.   
It was not me who had ordered some seasonal merchandise, but when  
much of it was left over and had to be thrown away in the Autumn,  
I felt partly responsible for the much too large order.",5
"When an acquaintance of mine beat up another person for no just  
reason, and thus showed off his power.",3
"A fall during a climb, with almost with no previous experience.",6
When my sister died in a fire accident at home.,4
Speaking in front of a large group of people.,6
"When my parents-in-law scolded me, without any reason, in front of the  
other members of my family for the first time.  They had called  
me from my room where I had been studying for my exams.",0
"When I was in the fifth class the rating was done in our  
mark-books. I hadn't been examined yet but I had heard from my  
classmates about the scolding they had got at home. My first  
mark was in geography - good 4. I judged I had known for more  
than that and I put down ""very good"" for fear of being scolded.  
Naturally my parents guessed all about it. They rebuked me for  
what I had done.",5
"When I learnt that I could do further studies at the Chinese  
university.",1
When my B.A results had not come.,6
Whenever I think of enrolling in Organic Chemistry.,6
"When someone does not listen to me after having asked me to  
repeat what I said. This happened more than one time with the  
same person.",3
"When my boyfriend wouldn't dance with me on my graduation night  
because he thought I could dance with my friends who were  
friendly.",3
Saw the film about Eight Nations Army conquering Beijing.,2
A young man was insulting and humiliating a drunken man.,0
"When someone pointed out that I was proud, yet I didn't dress up  
properly. This was when I and my friend went for a dnce one  
Saturday.",2
Won a prize for effort.,1
"When I heard about the way a parent of a friend had mistreated  
him, and caused a great instability.",0
Quarrelled with my younger brother.,3
"A boy I look after for the probation service deliberately  
offended to provoke a reaction from the police.",4
"When I inadvertantly entered the ladies room and met some girls  
on my way out.",2
"When a mistake occurred at work which I was not responsible for.   
This was disclosed later.",5
"The day I got married was the happiest day of my life.  Both of  
us felt that we were right for each other in every way and we had  
no doubts about our compatibility right from the day we got  
engaged.",1
"I encouraged my brother to play football and he was hurt while  
playing the game.",5
When I boxed my child's ears.,2
"When my brother was born, everything went all right.  It had been  
very likely that he would have a deficiency (my sister suffers  
from Down's Syndrome) and that my mother would be in danger.",1
"When a ""friend"" woke me up in the middle of a blessful sleep by  
knocking on the door.  Then he started calling me names and  
saying that he had heard that I had been talking behind his back, this  
was a lie and the guy was drunk to the core.",0
"When I recently got a very positive answer from a clinic telling  
me that they would willingly assist and collect data for me for a  
clinical pilot study.",1
"One day, when riding on a bicycle path, a car coming from the  
opposite direction forced me to get off my bike although I had  
the priority.",3
"A colleague asked me for some advice and as he did not have  
enough confidence in me he asked a third person.",3
"A certain boy came into my room and started telling me that I was  
not pretty, that I had no manners and that I should learn some.   
I had just come to campus and he was in fourth year.",3
Saw some girls dressed up like Americans,0
"I am left-handed. When I attended the first form, we learned to  
write with pens. I smeared everything I had written. All my  
friends had written well and wanted to know why the teacher was  
looking at my note-book. I was ashamed.",2
"When a classmate wanted to sit down, I pulled his chair away, so  
that he was slightly injured.",5
"When I lost my grandmother.  She had been my guardian after the  
death of my father.",4
"When I saw a man who hadn't the lower .... in a car  
exhibition. He was passing a handkerchief from inside to outside  
of his mouth.",0
"When I discovered that the girl I was courting was a relative of  
mine.",5
"When I as a child of 9 or 10 I was playing doctor with the  
neighbours boys their mother caught us.",2
"I was cold to my sister without meaning it, just because I was  
upset and frustated.",5
"I had to go to the dentist's. When he touched my tooth with his  
drill, I was terribly aftaid of the pain I would feel any moment.",6
When I was caught with my girlfriend in the house at night.,5
"A much older man took advantage of me during my childhood (four  
to eight years of age).",2
"When I was ill and had to stay at the hospital for a period of  
time.  ",4
"Anger I felt when my boyfriend told me he didn't mind breaking it  
off with me, i.e. each of us to take his own road. Because until  
that moment, he deliberately restricted our dates. The motives  
were brought to my knowledge later.",3
"When I succeed in writing something I felt and doing it I felt  
well and very happy for being able to express to myself something  
that was suffocating me.",1
"Returning to school and rejoining my girlfriend after 3 months of  
separation from summer.",1
"I felt guilty when I learnt that some of friends found the  
finished at the Cafeteria because I took food which was more than  
my share.",5
Doing anatomy alone for the first time.,1
"I felt guilty when I thought that I was still not standing on my  
own feet.",5
"During a discussion I said something rather stupid and  
unnecessary.",2
"I had a date with my girlfriend, the time and place had not been  
fixed.  I asked her to phone me an hour later as it was midnight  
and I did not want to disturb her family.  I waited several hours  
for her call, she did not call me that night.",3
"When I learned that a friend of mine had not been speaking to her  
boyfriend for a week after an argument because of unfounded  
jealousy.",4
[ Whenever I do something prohibited or wrong I feel guilty.],5
"When I was young I was playing football near my parent's house  
and while playing I fell on the ground. At first I thought I was  
not seen by anybody, but when my mother laughed I felt very  
ashamed.",2
"Power cut made me unable to listen to the songs sung by my  
favourite pop star.",4
"After my girl and I talked things over our relationship changed  
and became positive.  A diificult time turned into pleasant one.",1
"The day the results of the Chinese university was announced I  
should have been very happy; however my grandmother, because of   
her prejudice and misunderstanding, started a  quarrel with my  
mother.  She expected me to take her side and she deliberately  
talked of my mother's wrong doings.  I was very angry because -  
one my grandmother was not being reasonable and two because it  
should have been a happy day and three we had moved into a new  
house that day.",3
Not being able to be selected for the dancing team.,2
"I had gone for a medical check-up at the U.T.H and failed to make  
it back on time for the C119 practical sessions at 1400 hours  
last academic year.",6
"A friend of mine said in a group that she felt lonely and  
withdrawn from everyone because of mental deficiency.",5
When my dress was stolen.,3
"Found out that the girl I love loves me, too.",1
"Getting separated from my family for a week caused me a sense of  
sadness.",4
"When our government decided to withdraw student allowances as it  
was one of the conditions imposed by the IMF.  
",3
Saw people quarreling in a bus.,0
Staying alone in the biology building after the dark.,6
"Guilt at often being unable to visit a close relative in hospital  
after her death I felt very guilty and wished I had done more.",5
China cannot buy your reference.,2
When I was admitted to the Sofia University.,1
"My father has a chronic desease. In the autumn of 1983 he had a  
very strong fit or seizure.",6
That someone would discover whom I really love.,6
Years ago I ran away from home which disappointed my parents.,5
When I was a kid I stole toys from other kids.,5
"My mother told me that I could not go to the mountains.  Despite  
my age, as long as I am in her house I must do what she says.",3
"Upon reading a story on a serial killer by the name of Henry Lee  
Lucas who has been given the distinction of killing more people  
that any other man. I began to wonder if I should take more care  
for my safety.",6
A relative died.,6
When I felt the smell of industries that pollute.,0
"A party with no worries (i.e. no tests homework etc.) many  
friends were present and good music.",1
"I was together with my family one night, a few days after my  
father had died, during that conversation I expressed my  
displeasure because nobody understands me.",4
"When I slipped on a glazed frost road and a car almost ran into  
me.",6
Criticized in front of the class.,2
"In a very important basket-ball match where a lot was at stake, I  
played very badly.",3
When harassed by this boy - it was sexual (refer to GUILT).,2
"When I discovered that I and my friend would be licensed at the  
first call. This emotion was accompanied by a great relief. It  
was the coronation of a year of sacrifice and extrene discipline.",1
"A few weeks ago I thought about an exam I had to take soon. I  
remembered this just before I had to go to sleep. I felt guilt  
because at the beginning of the year I planned to succeed.",5
I gave a wrong answer at school.,2
They wanted something to happen but I didn't.,3
"My son drank four pills of diazepam every two hours instead of  
amidophen.",5
Earth crake.,1
"I was coming back home with my mother when the purse I was  
carrying got stolen.  It was done so swifty that I did not  
realize what had happened till much later.  A lot of money and the  
keys of the house were lost.  I was guilt ridden at my  
carelessness.  I felt terrible as I do not normally loose things  
and this was quite important, especially the keys. 
",5
When I passed the university entrance exam.,1
"Someone, who was sitting very close to me, was smoknig in the  
compartment of an air conditioned mini-bus.",0
"Once I had dinner at an elegant restaurant and I did not have  
enough money to pay the bill. There were a lot of people there  
and I felt quite awkward.",2
"Someone told me that I was chosen for English lectures because  
the class leader is going out with me (not true).",3
"When I was in lower six class during the Summer I joined a  
research group of the Chinese university student union.  I knew  
a lot of CV students there.  A year later one of them was  
travelling in mainland China and he got T.B.  He died a few weeks  
after coming back to H.K.  We all got together for the funeral  
and when I looked at the body for the last time I felt extremely  
sad.",4
"My boy-friend had promised me to come home at about 10 p.m. He  
did not return until midnight and had consumed a lot of alcohol.",3
When I try to lie.,2
"I had gone to the hospital for my research and got late in  
reaching home.  I feared that when I reached home there would be  
a quarrel because of my being late.",6
"The first day that I was close to a dead body, in my third year  
at UNZA, school of medicine.",6
"I was returning from the Universtity at night when I was accosted  
by a boy who molested me, passing his hands on my body.",0
"I felt a sense of shame when I compromised a colleague of mine. I  
got an information from him which I quite out of place shared  
with another colleague of mine and it resulted in an unpleasant  
consequence for him.",2
"At night when I was alone at home (all the family members usually  
get together at that time) someone knocked vigorously on the  
door.",6
"At primary school I was accused by some boys of being in love  
with a certain girl in their class so they had to shout and beat  
the girl and the matter was reported to the headmaster.",6
When people around me did not understand me the right way.,0
Not applicable to myself.,6
"I felt disgust with a lady teacher who used to nag, to mock, to  
interrupt everyone of my fellow students each time we had a class  
with her in our first year.",0
When somebody made me touch human faeces.,0
"Since I moved into the dorms and I've been spending most of my  
free time with my boyfriend. I hardly see my old high school  
friends. I had several bad incidents with my 2 past best friends.",4
"At a friend's birthday party with some of my closest friends.  It  
was all very pleasant and one could say that I was happy to have  
such good friends.",1
"When I came to know that my father and his parents were : self  
interested, dirty, negative, egoist, bad peolpe,......",0
"This morning during my sleep I had a feeling that someboby was  
attacking me.  I started crying in my sleep and then my room-mate  
woke me up.",4
Said something I should not have said in public.,5
When I made the acquaintance of a certain person.,1
When I couldn't find my dog which was missing.,4
"I was dishonest to my boyfriend concerning something that is  
important to our relationship.",2
"While watching an entertainment program in which there was a clever   
and amusing sketch.",1
Passing by a good friend's home without coming in to visit him.,5
"I wanted to go to Bhopal for relief work (gas tragedy).  My boss  
simply refused to let me go, I was so angry that the only thought  
that came to my mind was to quit the job.",3
"I dreamed that this girl and I were cuddling in bed when my  
girlfriend walked in. I really love my girlfriend so I felt  
guilty and sad. I know that this is a wierd example but the dream  
and the feeling was clear to me as if it had really happened.",5
"When I learned that my former boyfriend had become engaged -  
although I was glad that he had found what he wanted, I was very  
sad at my own personal loss, since I had always hoped we might  
one day reconcile.",4
At home when they lost three pieces of my puzzle.,3
"At a party I met a girl who drew me to her, told me some nonsense  
and always wanted to kiss me.",0
"When I realized that it did not make much sense to start a  
relationship with a girl who was not very constructive to  
establish a firm relationship.",4
"A friend came to visit me late one night. He promised to stay  
only a quarter of an hour, but he stayed 5 hours !! He didn't  
leave and I was very angry.",3
At my grandfather's death.,4
"On my way through lonely streets I met with a huge stray dog. It  
stopped at some distance and looked at me. I tried to ignore it  
but I was very frightened.",6
"It was the first time that I gave a birthday present to my friend.  
  She wrote me a letter as she is my girlfriend.  The content of  
the letter was so sweet that it made me feel very happy. 
",1
"In the recent lightning storm, bolts of lightning were hitting  
close by (1/8 mile). I was in bed at the time and was afraid I  
might be struck.",6
"When I gave birth to a child and saw that it was normal when it  
was put against my breast.",1
When climbing up the stairs to the top of a ski-jumping hill.,6
"A sudden doubt made me run for a long time in a rainy autumn  
night. When I reached the intended place I saw my beloved in  
another man's arms. A sudden blow, grief, I cannot qualify it, it  
is painful for me to remember about it.",4
"When I was with the girl I love very much, for the graduatiion  
ball.",1
"I entered the wrong room, and got into a bed where someone  
already was sleeping.",2
"When I was a child, I had a terrible nightmare with St. Nicholas'  
Devil Servant. I asked my mother if he really existed and she  
said yes. The following nights I could not sleep and a  
light had to be left turned on.",6
"Recent break-up with my girlfriend. We had been together for over  
a year. I was overseas and discovered over the phone (while I was  
at work).",4
"I missed an opportunity to go abroad because of some silly  
mistakes for which I had to suffer a lot.",3
I didn't attend lectures.,5
"When the Real Madrid team of basket ball qualified for the final  
of the Europe Cup at Athens.",1
"After my shoulder operation, I woke up in the hospital room  
alone. I was in pain and was still under heavy medications. I  
could not find my parents.",6
"Car accident. I let a 16-year old, incompetent parson take the  
wheel and I feel very guilty about what happened even though I  
suffered the worst injuries.",5
"When I found out that my sister had been playing with my  
confidential things which she had taken from my hand-bag.",3
"When I was 8 years old, I would usually come home from school  
with my mother in a car.  For the first time I had to take the  
school bus, and I mistook the bus stop and found myself two  
kilometres away from where I lived.  I was very scared, wondering  
how I would get back home.",6
"After a busy day I went back to my hostel.  I closed the door and  
had a drink, then I read my favourite book on the bed.  Suddenly  
I felt peace and joy.",1
I did not quite succeed in breast feeding my baby.,4
"I was sitting in a station-hall and watching a lavatory  
attendant. She was very dirty. She started to eat something out  
of a dirty cup - it must have been something like lard. Then she  
took some breadcrumbs out of the pockets of her apron and ate  
them. I had to leave - I felt like vomitting. ",0
"I was approaching my exam time and my books got stolen.  I was in  
a panic as I thought that I would not do well enough to be  
considered for the economics quota.  I cried a lot but that did  
not help and as the exam day came near a strange fear gripped me.",6
"When I was driving my motorbike I went into a bend incautiously  
and fell down. I was slightly hurt, the motorbike was slightly  
damaged.",5
"I felt ashamed when my parents found out that I had deceived  
them.",2
"When I had lied, saying that I never take bread from the dinning  
hall and a friend of mine caught me doing it.  He thus proved to  
me that I did in fact take the bread.",5
Failing examn.,4
"Someone who was speeding was forced to slow down when I pulled  
out onto the road and proceeded to abuse me at the next set of  
traffic lights.",3
When armed robbers broke into our house at night.,6
"I had an argument with my boyfriend.  It was my fault but my  
pride would not let me admit it.",5
"While trying to board a train I missed the footsteps and fell  
down on the platform.",6
"One day when I was working, I went out for dinner with friends  
without my parents knowledge and I only came home at 2300 hours.",5
"Listening and watching a tape of someone with AIDS being  
prejudiced against at a counselling course on AIDS with 20  
others.",4
"My grandfather had lung-cancer and was being nursed at  
home.  I felt fear when I was alone with him and he almost choked  
on mucus secretions.",6
When I was accepted at UNZA.,1
"I am disgusted with my sister's husband. On an early Sunday  
morning after having knocked at my door, he suddenly rushed in  
and finching me still in bed he began quarrelling about  
something. I could not understand. I heard his last words: ""Don't  
stare at me so because I'll beat you in your bed"" I got up  
terrified and a thrashing followed.",0
"In cinema I saw a film which showed how a person was torn out his  
guts when he was still alive.",0
When I noticed that I do many things to the pregiudice of myself.,4
"When I was 5, a few of my friends and I would light matches for  
fun. One of my friends confessed to her parents and my parents, I  
guess, knew or suspected I was involved but I said I knew  
nothing about it.",5
"I was walking alone along the place where people fear that there  
are always thieves there and the people who kill their friends  
during the night two months ago.",6
The same for guilt would apply.,2
"I felt guilty at being part of the successful people. Felt guilty  
at being a student when other people were not. Guilt about being  
a potential success in various areas of society. (So stupid this  
emotion)",5
"My grandmother several times has been struck by cerebral  
hemorrhages. Until now she recovered well each time, but there is  
always the threat to loose her.",6
Discussing psychology with my friends before the lecture.,1
"A friend wanted to give me a surprise into my room and I thought  
she was stealing from the room.",5
Not chosen for all English classes.,2
"I experience this emotion quite often but the day I was most  
angry was the day I got pulled up for something I had not done.   
It happened during my school days, I had not spoken a word in  
class but the monitor had written my name on the board.  So I  
had a remark in my callender which I had to get signed by my  
parents.  This remark resulted in me being spanked.",3
"I met some nice people during my holdidays. When they left I knew  
that I would never see them again.",4
Anger towards my lover for being late.,3
Loss of close relative.,4
"Once by coincidence I clutched a stranger (in a rather intimate  
way), thinking it was my boyfriend. When by hindsight I  
feel ashamed when thinking about it.",2
"When my mother was tremendous on the phone and we talked for  
hours. She was in a good mood.",1
"A drunkard fell, started bleeding and wet himself.  Disgust that  
turned into sadness-unpleasantness.",0
"I came home from school very keyed up. At the dinner table I  
unfortunately unloaded a lot of my hostility off on one of my  
parents. I'm ashamed that I didn't dispate and control these  
feelings before coming to the table or even let the energy build  
up in the first place.",2
The lift of Stockholm central station stank of vomit and urine.,0
"When I was a child I used to play with my cousin gushing wather  
to each other in front of the door of my house. One day we  
decided to gush with on a passing car. The driver stopped and  
went to discuss with my mother and my aunt that were there.",5
"When I see that my mother forces my little brother (15 years) to  
work very hard for school. I don't agree that she constantly puts  
him to work, but I don't tell it to her, so nothing changes.",5
"I walked up the main street of Auckland at 10 o'clock at night. I  
expected it to be very active with people, gangs, fast cars etc,  
thought it was actually quite quiet, though also oppressive. I  
walked about half a mile and bought a drink along the way.",6
"I was very fat and felt absolutely unwell. I was afraid of  
leaving the house and getting to know new people.",2
"I felt guilty the other day because I took two pieces of bread  
instead of one in the Cafeteria and some of the girls were short  
of bread.",5
"When I was at home alone, I felt a super-natural force, dangerous  
for me and the people close to me.",6
"I passed on some gossip that was untrue and cause two friends to  
have a fight who were already experiencing difficulties with each  
other.",2
"I felt guilty about talking negatively, and agreeing with a  
person who was doing likewise, about a non-present third person.",5
"I had an accident with a trafic police car that was packed at a  
curve without any visibility and against all traffic regulations  
in a strong snowstorm. As a result I still cannot repair my car  
because of the missing spare parts.",3
"A friend of mine called me when I was not at home.  I phoned her  
back to know what she wanted and she told me that she had dialled  
the wrong number.",4
"When I was studying in the library - preparing for a test, two  
people sitting next to me talked to each other for 20 minutes.   
There were no other seats so I could not go elsewhere and I did    
not want to interrupt them, so I could only be angry in my heart.",3
I was insulted without a reason by a drunk man.,0
"I applied for a job of GALSO counselor and I made the strongest  
possible application but was denied an interview. I felt  
disgusted at the system which by promoting the cause of  
minorities makes employing whites lowest priority.",0
"When we had swimming instruction, we had to take a header from  
the springboard. I usually refused to do that, but at least I was  
forced to.",6
When I failed some tests my first year at CAL.,2
"At night when I was coming from Lingadzi Inn I heard a hyena  
crying in the Lingadzi jungle. I was alone.",6
"My father promised me a bicycle for my birthday. Just before my  
birthday he forgot he promised this to me.",3
"Some noisy guests arrived at the hotel.  I had been slightly  
irritated earlier.  At night when I was trying to sleep they were  
having a party so I went and yelled at them.  I wanted to sleep  
as I had to get up early the next day.",3
Not brave enough to take up a challenge in a group discussion.,2
"An officer at the Dean of students office had promised me to give  
me a room the next day, but he failed to keep his promise.",0
Not getting an airplane ticket fot my mother.,5
"When my boyfriend openly let me down, preferring another girl.",4
I broke a glass of glycerine at the Z.C.B.C store in Ndola.,5
"One night, I was alone at home.  My fear was caused by some  
strange noises which put my imagination to work.",6
My teacher's death.,4
When my first love was not successful.,4
"A letter from my boyfriend began in such a way that I thought he  
was going to end our relationship. I was afraid of reading the  
rest.",6
"When my grandmother died - I wasn't sad so much that she'd died  
because she was old, but because she lived in the last few years  
in an old people's home and had nothing very much that was hers -  
no chair, or private space, and when I went to visit she would be  
sitting in the ""lliving"" room the TV room. It was hopeless. And I  
felt awkward so I didn't go and I was sad 'cos how I couldn't.",4
"I was afraid when I met my Uncle because this time I was with my  
boyfriend I thought I was not going to be given pocket money.",6
"Last Summer I achieved someting that I had been wanting for a  
long time.",1
"When I first failed my standard 8 exams for the first attempt for  
Form I selection.",2
Every time I meet a certain dog that has once bitten me.,6
When one has neglected or been unjust to a good friend.,5
"When we decided, my boyfriend and I, that we would separate, I  
realized that he would have wanted to continue our relationship  
and the coming separation hurt him.",4
A break-up with someone I really liked.,4
"When my boyfriend was changing his behavior there was something  
wrong, I felt sad, because it's desagreable when a relationship  
is ending.",4
When I sit for examinations.,6
"When I knew about my sister's in law finacial situation and what  
she was facing.",4
"A few months back I had gone to my friend's place and they offered  
me tea and coffee.  I do not have the habit of drinking tea or  
coffee and so they offered me a glass of milk instead, so I felt ashamed.",2
"When one learns through the mass media all the wars and killing  
going on in the world.",0
When I promise to do something but I don't fulfill it.,2
"When someone ignores what I am saying or doesn't let me have my  
point of view and they monopolise a conversation.",3
I fear before each exam.,6
"My best friend at school told lies about me to a boy I was seeing  
and went out with him herself.",3
"I gave some personal information to a friend of mine, and he told  
it to some others who were implicated in the affair.",3
When I found a bristle in the liver paste tube.,0
"When I first came to the UNZA I did not know the kind of people I  
would find here and the kind of behaviour they would have towards  
me.",6
"I borrowed a car which was supposed to be used for a long journey  
a few hours later, and one of the tyres burst in the middle of  
the town and I did not know what to do.",6
"Guilt after fighting with my sister (for) telling her how bad she  
was.",5
"I felt anger against a person who told bad things about me in my  
absence.",3
From the fact that my husband and I are not in good terms.,4
When I ate a rotten apple.,0
"When an unpleasant person tried to make friends with me.  A  
subtle, small, insignificant, grey being whose helplessness and  
neutrality evoked the feeling of disgust in me.",0
"When I walk through streets late at night. This is because I and  
my friends were attacked one night without any reason for it.",6
"When my first boyfriend left me. I tried not to let him  
understand I felt miserable.",4
"A person close to me mistook my good intentions for bad, and  
therefore associated unpleasant traits to me.",3
I ignored and offended my parents on the eve of the New Year.,5
"Students fear many things but we seem to fear the examinations  
most of all. I remember I was horror stricken before my  
microbiology exam, because it was a decisive one.",6
"At a party my best girlfriend got really drunk and went off with  
a guy she knows I really like.",0
"When my mother scolded me for coming home late, i.e after 7 P.M.",3
Can't remember having had this feeling.,0
"The holidays come to an end, and the next day we had to go back  
to University and to the exams.",4
"After a weekend at a seminar I saw my husband again. I hurried  
home hoping he would be there. We embraced - I enjoyed feeling  
his body.",1
When I don't justify the confidence of people that I respect.,5
When I saw someone eating live worms.,0
I slandered a person behind his back and he got to know about it.,2
"This situation happened when I was found kissing a girl who was  
my friend's girlfriend.",2
"I do not like one of our neighbours as they are very selfish.   
Whenever they want something or need help they come to see us,   
otherwise they do not even bother about people who live next to  
them.",0
"Some of my friends had an argument.  I had earlier phoned one  
of them and that may have influenced him to argue.",5
"Being refused to attend the neuropsychology lecture in the  
medical university.",3
Brother took my money to use for his own purposes.,3
After the loss of a close relative.,4
"I was at home alone when I realized that a young roe approached  
our house. I hid because I did not want to frighten it. It  
limped. Some time later, when I thought that it had already run  
away, I saw it lying on our terrace. I came nearer and saw that  
it was terribly wounded. I informed the ranger who said that the  
roe must have been attacked by dogs. He had to shoot it.",4
"This is an incident that many of us witness in our everyday life  
in a city like Bombay.  One day I was travelling by bus, three  
men dragged two fellows out of the bus.  Once outside they were  
beaten into pulp.  These two fellows, who got beaten, were pick-pockets  
and they were being beaten by all and sundry.  I thought to  
myself -""what is life?"".  It is one hell of a place where  
everyone is after someone else.  One waits to cut the throat of  
the other one just for a living, (money).  When I think about  
such things - the purpose of life, etc, I feel very disgusted and  
dejected.",0
I crashed my father's car.,5
"A friend told me how he managed to win the sympathy of as many  
people as possible. He said he first listened to what they said  
and then he tried to only say things they would like to hear.  
He would never express his own opinion. I felt really disgusted  
when he told that.",0
"When an uncle of mine, who was close to me, passed away after  
having had a stroke, before his first daughter could be named.",4
Zhu Jianhau did not break the world record for China.,2
[ A successful lesson.],1
"I ""picked up"" a girl and I thought that I had misused my  
position and authority over her as there did not seem to be any  
realistic possibility of continuing the relationship.",5
When I saw a lot of rubbish and animal waste on the floor.,0
When my dog died.,4
"A man treated his dog very badly - he insulted and beated him  
until the dog kept lying on the floor with his tail drawn in.",3
"Normally my father never tells vulgar jokes, we do not speak  
about sexual things, too. But once he told such a vulgar joke,  
that I was really disgusted. He did not tell me, but some of his  
friends, but I was present.",0
"My mother caught me stealing some food when I was a young  
boy.",2
"My anger is with men, their inability to be human (not all men).",3
"While swimming, I hit my head at the bottom of the pool and  
required stitches. I later learned that the consequences could  
have been much more severe and that terrified me.",6
"When I talked to a psychotherapist for the first time, I started  
to cry; first I talked to him but he did not say anything and  
after a while I was crying.",2
"Two years ago my best friend died in an accident, just a day  
before my birthray.  We were very close to each other and I felt  
very sad at loosing a close friend.",4
Assaulted by drunken neighbour.,6
During my childhood I once lied and my sister found out.,2
When I failed my S.S.C exam.,3
The day my teacher of Latin and French died.,4
"I was in a garden one evening and I saw a snake coming towards  
me.",6
Death of brother.,4
I got better marks in the examn than many arrogant people.,1
"The murder of two girls on a school trip to Berlin (and sexual  
crimes generally) a couple of years ago.",0
"During a class I was asked a question which I did not hear very  
clearly, so I gave an answer which was not related to the  
question and everyone started laughing at me.",2
"Some time back I had signed a letter which I had not read.  What  
had happened is that something had been written against my  
friend and this went to the higher authorities.  My friend asked me   
-""you also signed ?""   ",2
"Boyfriend doing cleaning in situation where it was my job to do  
it. Later snapped at him over trivial thing. He looked downcast.  
I felt guilty - ""he's just done all that work for me"".",5
"When a girl in my class (on the secondary school) appeased the  
teacher, resulting in getting a higher grade. This occurred often  
with her.",0
I felt joy when I entered at the University.,1
My father promoted to be a professor.,1
"I live with my boyfriend, we have a close relationship, I fell in  
love with another man.",5
Not doing well in the examn.,2
"I was very scared at the time of the Ty.B.Sc examination as I had  
decided to get 1st class results.  I was afraid thinking of how  
the papers would be.",6
"I felt very sad when a friend of mine failed the final exam and  
she could not be accepted at the institution of learning.",4
"The person whom I liked most left me for a friend of mine, after  
several months of mutual help and a profound knowledge of each  
other.",4
"I felt guilty when I was given a prize which belonged to someone  
else.",5
"A borrowed car broke down while I was using it.  It was not my  
fault, nevertheless I felt guilty.",5
"When I had gone to a school picnic and was left behind in the  
forest.",6
Almost had a bicycle accident.,6
"I felt guilt when my friends were punished to slash grass at the  
gound because of making noise in class. I was in the group of  
noise-makers but I denied having done any noise.",5
"I felt the above condition when I was found in a house playing  
with another man's wife where I was asked questions and I was  
unable to answer.",2
"The last time I was face to face with with the monstrous dog  
which lives in my street.",6
When I made an end on a relationship after three years.,2
When my grandmother died.,4
When a few girls were talking rubbish about me.,3
"I was eating in a very nice restaurant, when the servant asked  
whether I liked the food I told him that I liked it but that  
there was one thing which wasn't so good. The servant than worked  
very hard to make it good.",2
"My episode of fright happened when I came to study.  I had to  
stand in front of my still unknown fellow students and talk about  
myself.  My hands shook, I flushed and became tongue-tied.",6
When I pass an exam.,1
"When I talked with a teacher yesterday who, to say the least, was  
rude and unwise and had irrelevant opinions about a friend.",3
"There is a mad boy in our village. This boy hit me with a raw  
paw-paw in the face.",3
The price I was charged for work on my car.,0
"I promised my friends that I would take care of something, but I  
kept forgetting about it.  When they asked me about it, I  
promised to do it immediately.  However, I got started only after  
a couple of months.  I felt that I had betrayed my friends.",5
"I met intoxicated people with dubious intentions in a back alley  
one Wednesday night.",6
"I went home all alone from a restaurant. It was dark, I went very  
fast. Behind me, there were some drunk men who shouted at me. By  
chance, I met some friends who accompanied me.",6
When I was treated improperly by someone.,6
When I entered a bar looking for a friend.,2
When I shot a bird in the head with a shotgun.,5
"Summer, heavy rain, storm - I was standing with my face stick to  
the window: the childhood, something was going away forever this  
summer, I was leaving my home, I was going to study in another  
town, for the first time I was leaving my parents, friends, I had  
to manage myself, a long and loved period of my life was over - I  
was crying.",4
"I felt sad when I heard that my girlfriend was double-crossing me  
with the boy who is my best friend.",4
"I had a small argument with a relative and some other people got  
implicated.  It resulted in a proper row.",5
I was afraid that I would fail an examination.,6
"After buying a ticket, I lost it before I reached my destination  
and the bus Inspector dropped me at a place I didn't know.",0
"Guilty when I hadn't walked my dog for quite a few days and had  
given her no attention.",5
"I saw a man who had had a heart-attack and who was being  
treated for it.  I feared that my own father could have been  
there.",6
"My boyfriend was playing with my cat. He was playing games with her  
and telling nice things to her. ",1
Made a misjudgement in a football match.,5
When I failed two subjects last year.,4
"I was studying in class at night. I was in Form II by then. There  
were rumours about an earthquake. That night dogs were chasing  
one another and passed through the window outside the classroom.  
Those who saw the dogs thought it was a lion and were terrified.  
Trying to run away the desks were dragged and there was a shaking  
movement. I thought it was an earthquake and jumped out of the  
window.",6
"While attending some affairs, which were taking some time, with  
a bank officer, I felt that my clothes and appearance were out of place, too  
raggy.",2
"When I left a carnaval ball at 4 o'clock a.m. I was alone in a  
foreign city and I had to go back home, when a guy appeared and  
tried to ""catch me"".",6
"When I have forgotten to warn somebody for something, or when I  
have forgotten to bring something I have been asked for.",5
"My employer took too many aspirins for a bad back and also drank  
an enormous amount of spirit.  This was dangerous  and he did  
not understand that he had done anything wrong.",3
"One evening I saw the old guard-man I knew, change into something  
inhuman for about 5-10 seconds, this really frightened me.",6
"I did not go to help a friend of mine, though she probably needed  
me.",5
"One winter day I, unwillingly, was outdoors with my younger  
brother (10 years younger than me).  I lost my temper on him and  
wanted to throw my brother down the snow bank we were on.  I  
pushed him but not as hard as I had wanted to. We were alone the  
two of us.",3
"I am not especially good at English, and after the high school  
graduation exam in English I tensely waited for the result the  
whole day.  In the evening, when I heard that I had done  
excellently, I became very happy and the anxiety vanished.  My  
family was at home.",1
Hurt someone's feelings unintentionally.,5
When I bought new clothes and put them on.,2
"I was looking at a one-man show on television. He told very  
disgusting things so that I started to be disgusted with it.  
(Later on it proved that this was his intention).",0
"Discussing with a certain person about a job I was getting and  
that perosn was negative and pessimistic.",3
"I was at the cinema with my sister and her boyfriend.  A man  
sitting beside me started to stroke my leg for a while, he left in  
the middle of the film.",6
"The fear about my future : work, making ends meet and health.  
Coping.",6
"Hearing about a friend back home that had to have his stomach  
pumped because he had overdosed on pills.",4
"When one meets new people with whom one is forced to collaborate  
with.",6
"When I got home from a pleasant trip abroad, I got to know that I  
had been accepted at university.",1
"When I lost my driving license because I had been driving while  
under the influence of alcool.",3
"My superior blamed me for some neglects at work in front of  
others.  In fact, the task in question was not supposed to be  
done by me.",3
"Once when I crossed the street, and was nearly trampled by a car.",6
"I was living with my brother and one day he went away on business  
and I was left alone to look after the house and the property. At  
night thieves came and wanted to break into the house.",6
"A friend giving me an expensive Christmas gift while I gave her a  
cheap one.",2
When seeing a friend that I had not seen in a long while.,1
"As a small boy, I took a coin from an empty taxi cab.  My mother  
saw it and told the driver about it.  I even knew the driver.",2
"Having quarreled with a boyfriend, he threatened to leave me.",6
"Right now I volunteer at a hospital. Yesterday, Halloween, I  
dressed up as a doctor and went to work. The volunteer  
coordinator told me after my shift that it was dangerous to have  
done what I did.",0
"A friend had promised to get me a book which was very important  
for my work, but she forgot it.",3
"My girlfriend's results in school had become worse because I  
prevented her from learning (we often went out etc.).",5
Made a wonderfull new friend.,1
"My uncle had promised to buy me a bicycle. As time went by and I  
had not received it yet, I asked my father to buy it for me.  
Later I heard that my uncle had wanted to offer me the bicycle on  
my birthday two weeks later.",5
"My schoolmates were teasing a pupil who was not able to defend  
himself very well; I should have taken his part.",5
"Once sitting in the cinema, I became very anxious (watching a  
""cold"" film). I do not know the reason.",6
When I was just to be divorced.,6
"A teacher giving a test was called by a student by his first  
name. He (the teacher) said that he didn't give him this liberty.",0
"When my roommate and I had dinner together we decided as to who  
would clean the bowls.  One day when I came back from school I  
found that she had not cleaned up.  Since I had to cook dinner I  
cleaned them myself and felt unhappy and disgusted.",0
"A good friend, the wife of the vicar of my church came up to me  
from the pews (I am in the choir) and shook my hand during the  
time for an informal ""greeting"" in the church service. She said a  
few words.",1
"While intoxicated I invaded someone's (a girl's) personal space  
to a large extent.",2
"Somebody who knows me very well discovered that I had told him a  
lie.",2
"When my nephew asked me to tell him a story and I simply did not  
have the energy or the will.  When I saw his disappointment I was  
terribly guilty and read a story to him after all.",5
When I got a small present form a person I like very much.,1
"I work at a commercial house from 7 to 10 a.m. On a very cold day  
in winter I was late - and let a fellow worker stand in the cold  
for half an hour.",5
Staying in the room alone at night.,6
"One of my colleagues accused me of having stolen his iron and I  
was sure that I had done no such thing.",3
"I felt the above condition when I took my brother's bicycle to a  
market and unfortunately the bicycle was stolen and I didn't know  
how I could tell the owner about the stolen bicycle.",6
"I broke up with my boyfriend of seven months, but it was a very  
""indepth"" relationship and so after feelings of grief and loss  
were over I felt an immense sadness.",4
"I was given the task to learn a page of music text for a small  
part. But I had forgotten all about it and I felt quite awkward  
when I had to show what I had prepared.",2
"I had a long discussion on politics with an acquaintance.  He  
was more knowledgeable than me and I failed to explain my point  
of view and was misunderstood so I felt depressed and left.",4
"Hit a dog with my car, and didn't stop.",2
"One day before Christmas, I went shopping with my brother and his  
friend. We had a good time. But on the way home we were almost in  
an accident because the weather was bad.",6
"Disgust for a person who treated me badly, and has treated other  
people similarly - including lying, hiding facts, being  
deceitful, unfair, etc.",0
"At the moment when I heard the result of an examination and it  
proved that I succeeded the second year of my study.",1
"I was playing with friends then I decided to splash some sand  
into a car which was moving nearby. The driver got angry and came  
to report to my parents.",6
"One night, I went out with some friends for dinner and I did not  
tell my parents that I would come back late.  I thought of  
phoning but in the end I did not.  When I arrived home, my  
parents were very worried.",5
The death of a friend.,4
Talking about snakes.,6
"My younger brother and I had been fighting over the TV/Video. He  
kept on turning it on and off every 2 seconds and was not  
listening to my authority and was being cheeky. We fought and I  
ended up in tears - he'd won.",3
When a friend of mine told me a horror story.,6
"When we complained about the uncleanliness of the work place, the  
authorities agreed to have the place cleaned.  Even after 2-3  
days nothing had been done.  I felt disgusted at the whole  
situation.",0
I was on a walk with my child when I met a drunk woman.,0
"When I see children on T.V from areas devastated by drought and  
war.",4
When felt lonely about writing my family.,4
"Someone told me a story of Amnesty International: a boy was  
killed and his head was put in the litter of his girlfriend. It  
looked as if she was pregnant, then she died. It is disgusting, I  
can hardly write it down.",0
Finding out that China is still backward in science.,4
"When I decided to leave my steady, secure employment to come to  
university. Because I didn't know if I could cope with all the  
requirements of study and also being older I didn't know if I  
would enjoy mixing with younger people, also financial  
insecurity.",6
Saw a mate bribing the leader.,0
"When an uncle of mine who is very ill started to cough wich  
sounded very dirty. (He can't help it of course).",0
"On the T.V I saw a news feature on South Africa.  A policeman       
attacked a group of black people with a whip.",3
"When I was in Form 4, at Secondary School, I was elected as a  
school Library Assistant and also the leader of Catholic  
Students, so I felt very joyous.",1
"Many years back I quarrelled with my younger brother for a small  
reason.  I used a pole to beat him and nearly broke his arm.  He  
recovered after a treatment which lasted several months.  After  
this our relationship was worse and he would not listen to me.",5
"I turned the knob of my granny's two band radio and did not hear  
any broadcast,  "" What ! Have I broken the knob ? How much does  
it cost ? What if the spare part is not available ? ""  --I did  
not know how to tune a radio.",6
"When I think that I do not study enough.  After the weekend I  
think that I should have been able to have accomplished  
something during that time.",5
"I was very much ashamed after a friend beat me at school and I  
was defeated.",2
When a person I did not know hurt a friend of mine.,0
"When in a difficult moment I couldn't express myself correctly  
and my thought came out with distortions bringing about highly  
negative and distorted results.",3
"We where in a bar and my friend had a fight with some guys who  
were in the table aside.",2
"I watched a very terrfying film in LT2.  This film really pushed  
my heart out of my body and I was forced to go out before the  
second reel ended.",6
"Always when I get separated from my friends and relatives from my  
home town.",4
"I went to a pub with a group of friends (not very close) and  
I was with one girl most of the time, while the other girls in the  
group wanted to be with me.  They stopped talking to the girl I  
was with.",5
"The second time I went to the entrance exam to V.S.P. and  
didn't get approved.",4
"When my cat vomited and a worm came out which was still alive.  I  
was forced to wipe it up.",0
"When someone threw a firecracker into my room at 7:00 am in the  
morning.",3
"I felt angry at one time when I was chatting with friends and  
suddenly another friend joined us and started opposing any  
comment I added to our chatting.",3
"I unexpectedly met a girl with whom I have always got along well.  
( I had not seen her for several months.)",1
"Knowing that I had to do the survey with him I felt very  
reluctant.  Although I do not know him I feel disgusted by just  
looking at him.  Thinking that the project lasted several days I  
regreted having joined that project.",0
"When a friend, who has been with me at school, failed to make it  
to UNZA.",4
"I was informed by my flatmate that, when we'd moved into our  
flat, she'd expected us to buy our food separetely - this event  
actually happened some 5 months after our sharing began. Prior to  
this, she had said nothing.",3
"I felt very sad when I left home because I could not stand it any  
longer. I do not regret it, but I missed my little sister very  
much (and she missed me). These feelings wear off over time.",4
"When my son fell off the cot at the age of 5 months, I became  
very nervous and thought that it would cause defects in his head.  ",6
After shouting at a friend.,4
"I was ashamed when a certain friend of mine I used to move with  
failed to propose to a lady yet we always said to ourselves no  
lady can refuse our proposal.",2
"When my boyfriend once again told me that he loved me after a  
period in which he felt very depressive.",1
"I was working in a job in which I could not work quickly enough,  
and was told that my work was not up to standard.",2
"When I could not hold my bladder while making a telephone call  
and ended up wetting myself.",2
"When a drunkard barged into a room where my friend and I had run  
in order to get away from him.  We were all alone and all I could  
see was this hand coming towards me.",6
I passed an exam which I thought I had failed.,1
"When I realized that it was impossible for me to be as free as I  
had imagined and that I could not do anythong about it.",4
"When my grandfathers died and I realized how much I would miss  
them.",4
"When I got myself the kind of girlfriend I had been hunting for a  
long time.",1
When I had an argument with a friend.,4
"I was on holidays, and I was going to meet a friend whom I had  
not seen for six months.  Again I felt very happy.",1
Heated discussion with spouse concerning new house.,3
"When I learned I was admitted to study what I wanted most -  
floriculture (this is a narrow specialization from the general  
one).",1
"One evening I stayed at home all alone. As we lived on the ground  
floor, I was often afraid of burglers.",6
"The day the results of the certificate exam came out.  I went to  
school and at first I did not feel frightened.  By the time I  
reached the fourth floor ( the results were being given on the  
fifth floor) I found it difficult to walk and felt that I would  
die.",6
"It was a narrow and dirty passage which was located near the  
market and I had to stand there to wait for people.",0
"When a good friend of mine behaved in a very cool manner to me  
for a very long time.",6
"When I was still a child, I saw a horror film on TV in which  
there was a rotten human skull.",0
I received a letter of acceptance from UNZA.,1
"Last year I went to see friends in Yugoslavia - two girls with  
whom I get along very well.",1
"I had had a farewell party at the place where I had been working  
for a year.  That night I could not fall off to sleep.  I was sad  
thinking that I would not see my nice fellow workers again.",4
"I told my parents (or more realistically) would not do what they  
wanted me to do anymore. I guess I sort of betrayed them after  
all they had done for me.",5
"At times I have been attracted to conducts which are socially  
degraded due to their ill consequences, and then I feel guilty.",5
My boyfriend didn't turn up after promising that he was coming.,4
My friend still trusts me as a friend.,4
"When as an 8 year old, I wet myself in school.",2
"I felt it when I was at home and saw a discussion without sense  
between my parents.",4
"My friend did not do well in the examn because I did not help  
him.",5
"A man was yelling outside my window at 3.00 am, yelling threats,  
though not to me.",6
"I went to a lecture and once again it had been cancelled, this  
was the second time.  One had a negative attitude towards the  
lecturer. 
",3
I was caught sneaking sweets.,5
"I had promised to help out with domestic chores and I forgot  
about it.",2
"The elections of 1982 and 1985.  The thought of what a social  
democrat and communist majority could achieve, especially ""worker  
share"" funds and its extension.",4
Could not get into the university I wanted to get in.,4
"When I was taking an exam in grade 5.  The examinator found me  
with a note-book and accused me of copying, All the students  
laughed at me.",2
"When I was a child I had to recite a poem in a show at the end of  
the term.",2
"When others let me down, fail to keep agreements.",3
"I felt guilty last year during the winter term exams. A colleague  
of mine asked me to give him my lecture notes (I had very good  
notes and I had passed my exam in advance) but I still don't know  
why I didn't give them to him. That colleague failed and he was  
on the verge of not passing it at the supplementary examinations.",5
"Once a female classmate told me that the clothes I wore seemed to  
be a child's clothes.  On hearing this I felt a little ashamed and  
I criticized her clothes though there was nothing wrong with  
them.",2
"I get angry when my smaller brother misbehaves and talks with indecent  
words.",3
"When I was about to clean the draining board and saw it looked  
underneath the sink (I live in a students hostel).",0
"When my brother promised me money but he failed to fulfill the  
promise.",0
When I was told that a good friend was seriously ill.,4
"I felt guilty when I skipped a two hour practical class I knew I  
would miss out on more information which I did not know, but I  
couldn't cope with going.",5
"I was in a hopeless situation in a dirty place. No study, no  
work, only loneliness.",4
"I stole a coconut cake from a reception table and when I put  
in my mouth I realized that the host was watching me.",5
"When somebody I knew greeted me and started to talk with me and I  
didn't know, I couldn't remember who he was.",2
"I remember that when my mother died the day was sad and every  
time I think of it I am saddened by the loss of my mother.",4
"When I was 10/11 years old my father travelled very much for his  
work (he passed three months away from home).",4
"I won the first prize at the science fair, the first of the kind  
at school and I was only in form II then.  ",1
When I thought the house was on fire at night.,6
"Going to a friend's wedding and seeing many of my old friends  
whom I had known before I moved to a new district five years  
previously.",1
"One day I found an incontinent man in the ward. This patient had a  
guardian who couldn't give him a bath. So I just left him like that  
but felt guilty until I went back to give him a bath.",5
"I lent a text-book to a person I did not know very well, they  
lost the text-book and gave me no compensation.",3
"Reading about executions and massacres which happened during  
World War II, I felt disgust towards those who did it.",0
"I made a joke about the rat of a boy. I compared his rat with a  
sausage. I told the boy he had a delicious sausage.",2
Someone (a boy) paid special attention to me.,1
When I saw our computer teacher.,0
First day back on the job.,6
When my roommate's moped was stolen I was very angry.,3
"I was asked to join my friend in a boat at Mangochi Lake Malawi  
and when making a turn, it seemed as if the boat would sink on  
the side.",6
Passing my driver's examination (after two failures).,1
"I left my home in Melbourne to come to Q'land to study and before  
I hopped in the car I hugged my mother and shook hands with my  
father. Sensing immediately my father's sadness, I also had a  
flood of the same emotion.",4
"I received a grade above average on a midterm (chemistry) and I  
expected onevery below average.",1
When I had to represent my boss at a meeting.,2
"When my sister's first child came home, after one week in  
intensive care at the hospital.",1
"When a woman who I respected very much was made pregnant,  
unexpectedly by a man of a caliber I never expected.",2
"After having considered it for hours I was able to overcome my  
scruples and to call a friend with whom I had fallen in love. I  
realized that my decision was right - and was very glad.",1
"Coming to this lecture and listen to you talking about feelings,  
I am so happy that foreigners have the same feelings as Chinese.",1
"When I tried to explain to my child as to why there were  
magazines wiith naked girls on them at the kiosk.",0
"I was ashamed at myself for having shouted at my daughter because  
of my marital break-up and the unfair way I was treated.",2
"The curriculum of the year !   The English course was very heavy.  
 I had not prepared and the teacher asked several questions  
during class.  The students were not ready to answer the  
questions and the teacher was frustated.",0
"Once, my friend and I went to the Tai 60 to cycle.  My mother had  
told me not to go.  Unfortunately I broke my pectoral girdle and  
had to go to hospital.  When my mother  came to see me I felt  
guilty as I had not listened to her and I had to soon sit for a  
public examination.",5
"When I promised to visit my boyfriend and I didn't fulfil the  
promise.",5
Was nearly knocked down by a car.,6
An old lady slipped and nobody helped her.,3
"A friend unjustly put the blame on me to relieve his conscience  
and also spread lies for the same purpose.",0
Close relative is dying of cancer - found out last week.,4
"I felt fear some months ago of losing the person whom I loved  
when she said to me that she didn't love me.",6
Emptied a bucket of water in a hospital.,2
"One day I was really angry when all my food was eaten by a dog.  
My anger was against my mother because she was careless. She  
didn't keep the food in a hidden and proper place.",3
"Did very, very well on a Physics midterm.",1
"While cycling in the country, I came across a large herd of  
cows.",6
"I once felt shame when I failed to fulfil the promise to marry a  
daughter of a certain gentleman.",2
"Before I went to the urologist's I was afraid for several  
reasons: because it was for the first time, because the medical  
check-up might be painful, because of the uncertainty and because  
someone had informed me about it.",6
"I went to the apartment of my boyfriend and saw some people  
before his door. I thought that something had happened.",6
"My illness a few years back.  I was sevely down with malaria and  
asthma, I had lost my health, charm and cheerfulness completely.",6
"My nephew is a deaf and also ""hyperactive"" boy. I had been  
responsible for looking after him for a full day, and was very  
tired. Then he suddenly grabbed a knife and stabbed me in the  
leg. I got so angry that I didn't feel any pain.",3
"One afternoon, helping at home on the property, I was  
(mustering) getting in cattle and a bull turned and came for me.",6
"When I was a child I often quarrelled with my younger sister.  
Once I became so angry that I slapped her in the face. She cried  
and shouted so that my mother came in and scolded me.",5
"When I wished secretly and lied to a friend of mine because I  
didn't want her to stay in my house on the beach (as she always  
does), and wouldn't stick on me.",5
"I had this experience of fear when few people were fighting at a  
social one night, which one of my relative was involved. My fear  
was greatly for him because he was being assaulted badly.",6
"When I was in the canteen of the United college I mistook a  
stranger for a classmate as I was not wearing my glasses.  I  
realized that I had made this mistake when I saw him again  
carefully.",2
"No specific instances - perhaps having lied as a child resulting  
in someone else being blamed for the event.",2
"When I didn't get a certain job at Lillehammer which I wanted  
very much.",4
"When we were in high school a few guys sometimes provoked a  
friend of mine.  They called her a pig and then grunted.  This  
irritated most of the girls.  Once, one of the girls got angry at  
my friend and said something nasty and this made me terribly  
angry.",3
Being criticized by teacher in public.,2
"I was driving and stopped at a stop light. I was planning to make  
a right turn as soon as it was clear. It was clear on the left so  
I started but a man was just in front of the car.",6
"When my husband and I spent a night by ourselves in a house which  
was in an area on the outskirts of a large town with which we were   
not familiar.  We  heard strange noises outside the house and the   
house had glass walls so the whole thing was even more  
frightening.",6
"After learning on the news about this man who killed more than  
300 women and habitually copulated into their inert bodies.",0
"When my boyfriend revealed that he knew that I had discovered  
things of an important nature about him, I felt ashamed as I had  
not mentioned it earlier.",2
"I felt guilty when I had taken the car keys and I had an accident  
but as my parents did not know who was to blame, they punished my  
brother because I had no driving licence and they thought it  
impossible that had driven the car.",5
"Once I failed seven subjects at school and I was terrified to  
give my report card to my father.  I left it on the table and went to  
bed very early in order to avoid him seeing me.",6
"When my son was diagnosed as having CEREBRAL PALSY, at age 5. He  
would have to endure so much labelling, stigma and discrimination,  
even though his case was relatively mild.",4
When I worked at the life-saving sevice and saw the first exitus.,0
Marriage crises.  Boredom.,4
When my mother found out that I smoke maryhuana.,2
"The saddest I've ever been was when my lover was killed,  
hitch-hiking to work.",4
When some friends betrayed my friendship.,3
"When I was on holiday, walking back to where I was staying, at  
night, and two men started closely following me. There was nobody  
around that I could run to.",6
When I saw the pictures of the draught in Etiopia.,4
I was neglected undeservedly.,3
"Every time I imagine that someone I love or I could contact a  
serious illness, even death.",6
"When I saw in the newspapers, on the T.V, and magazines the  
chaotic situation caused by the drought and hunger in  
Mauritania.",4
"I made a long-distance call to people rather close to me and I  
thought about the sad incident that had happened to them in the  
near past; I knew that they were thinking about it too when I made  
the call.",4
"I met a certain lady at Mchesi and I proposed a word of love to  
her and at the same time she accepted my proposal.",1
"My son was apprehended for shoplifting at the age of 14. Because  
I too had been apprehended at the same age I felt the shame of  
not having been able to prevent my son from acting in the same  
way.",2
"When I heard that a woman of my community had aborted and got rid  
of the foetus by throwing it in the drain.",0
"I went to a friend's baptism as she became a Christian after me  
and I realized that she was more enthusiastic about her spiritual  
life than I was.  When I was with my brothers and sisters of  
Christ I had a guilty feeling which could not be dismissed  
easily.  When pepole asked me as to when I would be baptised my  
guilt feeling deepened.",5
After intercourse.,1
Having told a certain lie.,5
"I became disgusted with the man on whom I had counted, who I had  
trusted, the man who should have been my mainstay - my father.  
I could hardly make myself (and the others) believe in this  
emotion. It has cumulated after events and deeds. Everything can  
happen in this world.",0
"The day my boyfriend saw and touched my breasts when I was  
without my shirt, only with my pants.",2
"When my uncle died I saw a funeral for the first time. All people  
stood around the open grave and cried.",4
"During class one day I walked out of the class.  The  
teacher noticed it and decided that he would take some action  
against me, when I realized this I approached him and told him  
that I was sorry for the incident and would not repeat it.",5
"I felt angry when I was told that I had not been selected to go  
to the University.",3
When I think about my parents getting old.,4
"My father was a member of the public Alcohol and Drugs Board,  
when I was picked up by the police for being drunk in a public  
place.",2
"I had an appointment with someone at a certain time. The other  
person didn't appear.",3
"I could not take care of my mother when she was admitted to a hospital   
for surgery, I continued my studies as I could not get leave.",5
Not giving up something for Lent.,5
Saw my father with that woman he is married to now.,0
"I found out that someone that I knew had someone else taking  
tests for her.",0
"Once I spent a night with a friend at the secondary school. We  
told each other horror stories and suddenly we heard uncanny  
noises. I was terribly frightened.",6
"In the holiday cottage of our association, two of my pals came to  
wake me up early one morning by bringing a radio played at the  
highest volume into my room - it was the morning service at its  
loudest.",3
"I send a word to my boss through my servant telling him that I  
would not report for work as I was not feeling well and that the    
doctor had refused to give me sick leave.  My intention was  
actually to go out of Lusaka for a week-end.  I left the same day  
and the following morning my boss found me in Mongu.  I felt  
guilty when asked to explain things on my return.",5
"My parents appreciate very much me and my boyfriend coming and  
have dinner with them at Christmas. However we decided to visit  
his parents. My mother was rather disappointed.",5
"When I finished my C.S. Project I was overjoyed. I felt relieved  
because it was due the next day and I was tired of looking at it.",1
"I had been forced to get together with strange and disgusting  
classmates.  The things they talked about disgusted me and made  
me feel ill at ease.  I knew that I would feel unhappy if I  
stayed there but I was defeated by the social norms.",0
"A friend doesn't let me study when I want to. She doesn't feel I  
need to study and doesn't understand how important studying is to  
me. I get very angry with her.",3
When I was put into a tennis team below my standard.,3
When I recently got an appartment in central Gottenburg.,1
"I knew I had to take an exam very soon but yet I couldn't start  
studying. I also knew it was very imprtant to succeed the exam  
this time.",5
"I was studying in the library and a class-mate told me that she  
had obtained a grant to work in the library.",1
"The headmistress at a secondary school accused me of banging the  
classroom door when I didn't in front of the whole class.",3
Being catched when stealing.,5
"When my girlfriend was afraid and anxious the day before taking  
her exam.",4
"When I crashed my car and it had to be scrapped then.  It was my  
fault and I feel depressed as I miss the car.",4
"I woke up in the middle of the night as I had jumped and shouted  
with fear.  I thought that someone's cold hand or something  
similar had touched my hand.  I crept down under the covers and  
went back to sleep.",6
"I was on a trip to Phillipines during Summer and I was staying in  
a hotel.  The room I was staying in was very silent and had very  
dim lights.  The last night I felt frightened and lay awake - I  
could hear some sounds around me and dared not open my eyes - I  
waited for dawn.",6
"During the Physics experiment session I did not understand the  
content of the experiment and did not know how to do it.",4
Not finishing homework in time.,5
[ When mix was coming from column for several days.],0
"Once when I had started to write a paper, there was a phone  
call for me.  I had to go downstairs to receive it and after the  
conversation I discovered that all the information had  
disappeared from my mind.",0
"I had a quarrel with near persons. I said many ill-considered  
things and I regretted it when it was to late.",5
"My father had bought too many goods for his shop, there was not  
enough space to store them.",3
When my father revealed inconsistent morals.,0
Dead rat in the kitchen of the university.,0
"Once after falling in love, I imagined that particular girl to be  
perfect and completely overshadowing my girlfriend. Afterwards I  
realized that this image was not objective. I felt guilty against  
both girls.",5
"When my grandfather whom I had met only once for 3 weeks, died  
after several months. I was really sad because he was a lovely  
person and I did not have the means for his company.",4
"During an informal talk with a friend when we talk about the life  
of another person, a common friend, that is in a situation of not  
being able to assume certain problems that he decided to solve,  
that is, she herself suggested the problems and decided to solve  
them but didn't get it until the moment.",4
Landlord putting up rents sneakly and slimily.,3
"A friend suggested in a round-about way that the reason we were  
late for something was because of me, and that I'm often late. I  
know this was partly true, but felt it unjustified that  
particular time and I felt I couldn't do  anything about it  
anyway (i.e. being late).",3
"I felt it when on duty in the hospital I understood that I was  
not afraid to face death, that I also helped a little to relieve  
the pains of a patient.",1
"Once, when I was very young, my mother left me alone in the  
house and came back very late.",6
When my girlfriend decided to finish our relation.,4
"A friend which I hadn't seen for years, sent me a small present.",1
Finding out my name on the list for English lectures.,1
"When I passed the university entrance exam.  I had thus finished  
with a difficult period of my life and I was about to begin one  
which I had desired a lot.",1
When I got a good grade for an exam in statistics.,1
"When I was pressing figures on the curtain cloth. I had bought  
the cloth after months of hindrances.",1
I said nasty things which I did not mean to a friend.,5
"Quite recently I realized that I had had some erroneous views  
about life. For instance, I had always lived for other people,  
had forgotten my own person and suppressed my own feelings. I was  
ashamed because I had not been concious of that until I had a  
conversation about it with a person.",2
"The repression of rioting and non-rioting ""Blacks"" in South  
Africa by the police of that ""Democracy"".",0
"Passing an examination, although I felt sure I had failed.",1
"When I was teased by my friend for not scoring good marks in the  
exams.",3
"I was trying to have sex with my best friend's girl but she did  
not agree to it.",5
"I had a singing-lesson, but I was not very good. The last  
exercise was singing scales. I did that very well and my teacher  
seemed satisfied.",1
"Just before I started my study I had to move, I was very afraid  
to be left alone and that I could not manage it.",6
"Once while walking along a hill; I fell down out of carelessness  
and I broke my left arm.",6
"I was at home and I heard a loud sound of spitting outside the  
door.  I thought that one of my family members would step on the spit  
and bring the germs in the house.",6
Getting a phone call from a very old friend.,1
The sadistinc exacution of a student in the USA.,0
Forgetting an important appointment.,2
"When I was a kid, I always opened the door to greet my father  
when he came back from work.  One day it so happened that his  
hair was scattered due to over-crowding in the train, and when I  
opened the door as usual I saw something else.  I was so scared  
that I could not talk.",6
"Upon returning from a journey of about two weeks duration, I  
found that a collection of pornographic literature had been  
removed from my room I had previously thought that no one was  
aware of the existence of this material.",2
"At a party where the boys were telling revolting stories about  
the girls they'd been with.",0
Reading literature on AIDS/homosexuality.,0
"The disease and subsequent death of a close acquaintance. Sadness  
was accompanied with feelings of powerlessness (I also  
experienced sadness in the situation described under guilt).",4
"While watching TV (a war movie), I felt a strong fear of death,  
threat and fear of loosing people close to me.",6
"My mother was very angry with my little sister and told her to  
put her hands on the table in order to beat her hands up. She  
forced by means of her power.",0
Not noticing my roommates quietness or a sign of discomfort.,5
When I copy someone else's problem set.,5
Being insulted by my roommate (she is in the English Class).,3
"When criticizing something about a person and then realizing that  
the person whom one is talking to is similar.",2
"When my brother ran away from home and I thought it was because  
of my continously scolding him.",5
"I was to prepare relish for the family. I overcooked it and no  
one liked the meal that day.",5
When I tripped while getting on a bus.,2
"I was diving below the ice, in a cave, at a depth of 26 metres.   
Visibility was almost zero and the oxygen level decreased  
threateningly.  There were three of us divers on one safety rope.",6
"During an informal discussion I contributed a lot even though I  
had not spent much time studying.  Whenever someone said that  
someone was not paying attention, or that he had too many other  
things to do, or that the persoon was not trying his best, I  
would feel ashamed.",2
When passing the final examinations for social worker.,1
Aticle published.,1
"My girlfriend left the house in which we lived together a few  
months ago. This made me very sad.",4
When I had beaten my auntie.,5
"In a sociology class I felt very angry towards some members of  
society for exploiting the Polynesian people, dawn raids by  
Police (Martin Luther King, Blacks in S.A.). But this was just a  
reflection of my own shortcomings.",3
When ditched - divorced by husband.,2
"I did not do as well as I expected on a chemistry exam. I  
received a score below the average and I thought I had done very  
well.",4
"The feeling of joy when again I had confessed my sin and  
experienced God's forgiving grace and cleansing power - total  
enlightenment and freedome - bliss.",1
"My best frieend left school recently.  The next day the weather  
turned bad suddenly and the male class-mates turned off the  
lights.  I remained on the table and was scared.",6
"I had been guilty of gossiping and blaming others, and one of my  
superiors at the workplace made a formal reprimand.",5
"It was last week on Sunday that I was walking with my girlfriend  
along Kawale road going to town so I tried to stop a car for a  
lift and the driver didn't stop and I felt shame because people  
were looking at us.",2
"I had to prepare a report but I couldn't write it. I read from a  
book off-hand, I was quite uneasy and I felt I didn't manage.",2
"When I saw Russian roulette on TV. (obviously the movie ""Deer  
hunter"")",6
"When I found that my ability to do ordinary work was worse than  
my fellow mates.",4
"I feel disgusted when people do not understand me in the right  
way, i.e they misunderstand me.",0
"After having slept for a short time I woke up - I had the feeling  
of someone standing beside me and was very frightened. I had to  
turn on the light turn on the light for several minutes before I  
was able to get to sleep again.",6
"Finding out that we cannot have good references because China is  
poor.",2
When I witnessed an accident.,0
"I read about a monk who had been murdered and put into a barrel  
which was filled with blood of pigs.",0
"When the parents of my girlfriend gave permission to spend our  
holiday together.",1
"Spending the nitht with close friends, after being away (out of  
Nijmegen) for a while.",1
"This happened when I went to visit my friend in Chelston and  
found him screwing my girlfriend.",0
"I was in the living room at home with an ex-boyfriend, it was  
nearly a year that we had separated, during the talk he began to  
remember our courting and gave me a long kiss.",1
"This was what I felt when my boyfriend went to Bourgas to study  
there. I had the feeling I would lose him. Anyway the distance  
Plovdiv-Bourgas seemed to me so great.",6
"When I got to know that I had passed the university entrance  
exam.  I thought that I had done one of the exams badly.",1
Lost my girl-friend.,4
When I learned that my brother had spoilt an LP of mine.,3
When I nearly walked on a blindworm and then saw it crawl away.,0
When I was selected to a University College of Nursing.,1
"I was with a friend in a stationed car when, suddenly a man  
appeared on my side and an other with a gun on his side the  
hold-up lasted a few minutes but it was terrible. I had never  
seen a gun so close.",6
"Facing the possibility of having a child when it wasn't either  
desired or permitted.",5
"When the robbers broke in, at night.",6
Tripped on a busy street.,3
"Got a package from my parents, without even a small note  
enclosed.",4
"I saved up money for a good purpose. As I also have to organise a  
party I am afraid there will rest only a little money for the  
good purpose I feel guilty about this.",5
"When my little brother passed away mysteriously, at least from  
what I was told about it.",4
"When a member of the family complains about the food that is  
served, it disgusts me.",0
"Before getting back the results of a test in school, when I had  
worked very hard and was worried about not succeeding.",6
China winning the Asian Olympic games (TV).,1
My mother in law slept in my bed.,3
"Once when I was studying for my examination, I was asked to do  
some work which was unavoidable.",0
"I felt fear when one night my aunt and Uncle left me alone at  
their house to look after the baby when they went to a party.",6
Passing an exam I did not expect to pass.,1
"I don't remember about a situation when I have experienced this  
feeling. Maybe it was when I saw a drunkard in the street.",0
"When I look at people around and know that people who are stupid  
look stupid.",1
"I had quarelled with a friend of mine and I later realized that  
it was also my fault.",5
"I detested my father who was a drunkard.  He would rave,  
threaten and blame my mother and me.  He finally drove us away  
from home.",0
"A railways officer, when asked by the ticket checker to produce  
his tickets, got very aggressive and started abusing and using  
his authority in a very wrong way.",0
"When my car froze, and I could not start it.",4
"When a cousin of mine took my bottle of T.B tablets, put water in  
it and threw it in the dust-bin.",3
When I received a beautiful birthday gift form my parents.,1
Finding out I was chosen for the English lectures.,1
"When I slept with a guy because my best friend wanted me to.   
He had never had intercourse with anyone and had a terrible  
complex about it.",0
"When I committed a sin mentioned in ANGER. A sin of sexual  
immorality.",0
When an unknown person provoked me verbaly and physically.,3
"The behaviour of a fellow towards me and some others in the army  
was really mean.  I detested this.",0
"A girl entered in the division where I work and greeted everybody  
but not me.",3
When my mother's heart nearly stopped.,6
"I share my small flat with my friend. On her birthday we could  
not see each other until evening because we had to stay at the  
University all day. In the evening I left a lecture before it  
finished to be able to buy flowers for her. When I was at home  
she called me to tell me that she would stay the night with her  
boyfriend.",3
"When having a relationship, I made love with another girl.",5
"When I took the B.A exams,I was expecting a 1st class even though  
I had not done very well. When the results came out I felt sad as  
I had missed the 1st class by 12 marks.",4
"While doing some calculation exercises, I neglected a part of it,  
though I had marked it as done.  By chance, I was asked to  
demonstrate this very part on the blackboard.",5
"Losing a pet chick. Our family had just put the chick outside a  
few days before and then one morning it was gone.",4
"Dad had just married his second wife (my step-mother) and I did  
not like her so I went to the wardrobe and set fire to her  
dresses.  Eveyone suspected my brother and he had to bear the  
consequences.  Nobody ever got to know that it was me who had  
done it. ",5
"I fell down in the bus when it braked suddenly and everybody  
started looking at me.",2
"When I and the person mentioned above had a suspicion of  
pregnancy.",6
Going to take my driving test.,6
"My mother told me that the enveloppes that I had been tearing (I  
had torn the stamps away) in good faith had been the first-day  
enveloppes which my father had collected as a young man.",5
"I am disgusted at the number of second year students who are  
pregnant illegitimately.",0
"When I went to town in a double dekker bus.  The bus was about to  
fall on the way when the driver controlled it.  It had almost  
fallen.",6
"I could have died when I was caught cheating on a test in high  
school. That was my first and last time.",2
"When I failed Psychology examination when most of the students  
passed.",2
To fight with a sister and to know that she doesn't care.,4
Saw a snake unexpectedly.,6
"When I decided not to out any longer with a girl whom I liked  
quite a lot.  This made me feel low for a some time.",2
"When I was 4, we spent our holidays at the seaside. My sister and  
her friend wanted to go to a bay on an undangerous way. I wanted  
to arrive before them and went on a shorter, but more dangerous  
way. When I arrived, I found nobody there. I waited for a long  
time, but nobody came. On my way back I met my mother who had  
been searching for me desperatly. She did not scold me, but I saw  
how much she had worried (herself).",5
"I felt disgusted when my cousin decided that she would stop  
going to school saying she wanted to get married. She was only 14  
years by then and she didn't understand what she was thinking.",0
"Too busy to write letters to friends and they said I had  
forgotten about them.",5
"When I received the mark well above requirements for the course I  
wanted to enter, yet I was not accepted - anger at the injustice  
of it, because I didn't receive early release of H.S.C. marks.",3
When my son has a pain in his leg (for no apparent reason).  ,6
"As I usually do not start learning until a short time before an  
examination,, I once made up my mind to try to work for a longer  
time. But once again I did not do it - and got a bad mark.",3
When I was caught in an elevator and it got stuck between floors.,6
"My father and I had an argument because I do not help enough at  
home.",3
NO RESPONSE.,3
"When I was misleaded by a person who assured that something would  
not occur, that I had no reason to prepccupy myself, and suddenly  
I saw myself implicated by the fact, because of the incompetence,  
and irresponsibility of that person.",3
When bathing at surf beach & lost togs.,2
When I failed an exam I thought I could pass easily.,5
"I felt guilty at not having practised the piano.  I waste my  
teacher's time and guidance.",5
"Sitting alone in a quiet room concentrating on things happening  
around me which pleases me.",1
"When I was a child, one day, I was going home late at night and I  
did not notice an uncovered man hole and fell in it.  I was in there for  
several minutes.",6
Disgust at myself when I stroked a sleeping girl's private parts.,0
When I heard that I had made it to the second year at UNZA.,1
"I was saying bad things about a man I had never seen.  I was  
with a friend and did not know that she was related to this man.   
My friend did not tell me about it and I discovered this myself.",2
Finding out that my best friend could not go to university.,4
A girl I love does not love me.,4
"When I am travelling by car and have to meet an oncoming car  
while overtaking.",6
"I was a passenger in a vehicle when suddenly another vehicle came  
from behind to overtake us.  However another one was coming right  
in front so the other vehicle changed course and blocked our way  
and so we crashed against the side of the road.",6
"When I was still a child I was told off in face of other persons  
for having touched an object that didn't belong to me.",2
"During military service I heard the story of someone who tried to  
commit suicide and as a result of this got a week custody.",0
"I was walking down a road and suddenly a few dogs appeared at a fence  
and started barking angrily.  They were jumping and it seemed  
that they would come for me any time.",6
"I was disgusted when our cricket team manager dropped me from the  
team.",0
Lying to my cousin about the form five examination fees.,2
"When I was in the army, we got a certain dish for dinner that I  
do not like at all. We were not obliged to eat, but I was very  
hungry.",0
"I felt guilty after getting really angry with a friend and having  
an argument. I was being stubborn and proud, and selfish, because  
my friend let me down, through no fault of her own.",5
"My brother lost his temper and started smashing things in the  
house.  I was quite scared, that something terrible might happen,  
till the situation was brought under control.",6
"My sisters asked me to fetch them at a discotheque which is 5 km  
off. There was a thick fog and snowfall. There was not enough  
room in the car for all of them and they asked me to go there  
once again. When I did not do that they had a way to make me feel  
guilty.",5
"As a child - stepping on a rusty nail - being told that I might  
get tetanus.",6
"My paternal grandmother had died. We weren't close but she was  
blood. I didn't cry but I was sad, partly due to her death and  
partly I think, due to the fact that I couldn't/didn't cry.",4
A dear friend was removed from the division whre I work.,4
"I slipped and fell in to a puddle and people started looking at  
me.",2
"A gigantic spider climbed over my face and what is more - in my  
own flat.",0
"In our class we had a test on Nursing, so a friend from the Army  
was caught peeping, by using a paper which had already answers  
which was written by him. So all of us from the Army got ashamed.",2
"South Korea winning more gold medals in the Asian Olympic (more  
than China).",3
"Yesterday my boyfriend and I wanted to play billiards. However  
there were boys playing (5 times). My boyfriend then is fed up  
and chagrined. In such case I think it is my fault.",5
"My nephew's mother just left one day (my brother and she were  
not married). My nephew, Anthony, was shaken. I was sad for him  
because a similar situation happened to me.",4
"When I watched a report about El Salvador on TV, I saw people who  
had been murdered by terrible methods.",0
Shouting at my parents because I was angry about something else.,5
I was so angry with a patient who refused to take drugs.,3
"A very close friend from Victoria visited me over the holidays.  
Having enjoyed his company immensely over 10 short days, I was  
overwhelmed by sadness when he left to return to Victoria. 
",4
"I don't use to lie to my parets about what I do, and the two  
times that I felt anger were when they doubted me I said that I  
was going to the club, and they didn't believe me because the day  
before they had met me at FLIPERAMA. I had the wish to kill them.",3
"I talked to my boyfriend on the phone when I was in high spirits  
and had a lot to tell him.  I had been looking forward to this  
conversation and he did not listen to me to the extent that I  
had anticipated.",4
"Foreign students playing loud music in the night before the  
biology examn.",2
When I accepted a lunch invitation from a past male friend.,5
I witnessed a scene in which two women were abusing each other.,0
"I feel disgusted since I am unable to cope with all the wordly  
affairs as I spend much precious time to pursue my hobby and  
to be admist the people I love and long to be with.",0
"When I saw the certificate results, I did not feel very happy as I  
did not realize that I had got all the credits until my  
classmates pointed it out to me.  My parents and my relatives  
praised me and I realized that my results were good i.e 2A, 5B,  
2C.  I felt satisfied with the results and was happy.",1
"I had an argument with my mother because I criticized the rules  
she imposes at home, which are too rigid and arbitrary for me.",3
"Afraid I wouldn't catch the train when I was going to see my  
sweetheart.",6
"I remember about an unpleasant event in relation to my mother. I  
felt guilty before her.",5
"When I had wrongly explained someone an important exemple for an  
examination.",5
"My flatmate and close friend living and sleeping with another  
close friend of mine.",0
"When, as an adult I have been caught lying or behaving badly.",2
When I had my four children.,1
After having quarelled with a relative of mine about politics.,3
When my parents complimented me very nicely on something.,1
"When I see that some people remain cold and egoistic with regard  
to close friends, even in situations that those friends need  
them.",0
When I was caught with someone's daughter.,2
"We were in the country and I walked away from the others one  
night.  Suddenly something moved sharply in front of me and I was  
not able to see what it was.",6
"I was alone at home and I could hear odd noises coming from above  
our bedroom.  I knew that nobody lived there since it was an  
office.  I got frightened (later I was given a ""natural""  
explanation).",6
"A young, close relative of mine died, leaving behind a baby a few  
months old.",4
Saw a real party leader.,0
"I behaved in a nasty manner towards a friend, I said things which  
I could have said in a more friendly way. After that I felt  
guilty.",5
"When I went home alone early in the morning, I had to go through  
a wood.",6
"When summer is over and I have to leave the town where I spend my  
holidays.",4
Fooling around with this guy I did not know.,2
[ I am joyfull to be alive every night.],1
"In a dark street at 4 o'clock in the night and there was  
complete silence.",6
"After a terrible quarrel with my family, I withdrew in my room. I  
felt guilty because I had caused this scene by my aggressive  
behavior.",5
"I am chosen for the English lectures instead of my good friend  
and people told me that girls are more likely to be chosen.",2
Not being able to help my friend.,5
"I started a new branch of studies after having failed a former  
one.  When I got back my exam papers I was very happy to know  
that I almost had full marks.",1
"I experience that feeling when I am unsulted without deserving  
it or when someone deceives me.",3
"When I was in grade one, one day I felt like going to the toilet  
during class but I was very scared of the teacher so I urinated  
in the class.",2
"When I was a child, my uncle came to see us. I spit at him and  
ran out - I do not know the reason for that. My father came after  
me and insisted on my apologizing.",2
I had a quarrel with my parents,3
"Going out for dinner, or during one ice-cream and four spoons.",2
Death of my grandmother.,4
"After having told an authority figure a very large lie I was told  
she believed me, because she believed I had never lied to her. ",5
"I was very happy when I discovered that I had passed my first  
year examination and was among the thirty students who would  
major in economics.",1
"I planned to travel a distance of 20 kilometres on my bike. I  
planned this when I was working in the hospital. When I went to  
the house I found that a friend had taken my bike without my  
consent.",3
"My father died. I was away at the time and did not know until two  
days after.",4
When one of my closest friends died unexpectantly.,4
[ Being close to another person.],1
"We were at a party, this guy I liked and me.  I really loved him  
and gathered enough courage to ask him to kiss me.  He did not do  
it but instead asked me what I would like for my birthday.  I  
told him that I would like a kiss more than anything else but he  
excused himself and said that it was impossible.  I really felt  
embarassed.",2
"When I was told that I could take a week off and go for a trip  
with my friends.",1
One day I went to see a rather disagreeable film (X).,0
"When I had been obviously unjustly treated and had no possibility  
of elucidating this.",3
I was admitted to the University and a niece was born to me.,1
"The same as in ""shame"".",5
When confronted and in my opinion hassled by the police.,6
When I had a serious argument with a dear person.,3
"When at school, I threw a duster at another child and hit him in  
the head. The blow caused a flesh wound and I was afraid of what  
would happen to me when the teacher found out the circumstances.",6
"When we were on holidays my girl-friend had to leave me after 4  
weeks and I had to stay in Turkey for some more weeks because I  
had a job there.",4
"Winning a tight tennis match. One set to play, and the team was  
behind by 3 games. We won the last set 6-2 and won the match by a  
game.",1
"During the last academic year i.e 1983/1984 just before the  
closure, we were surrounded and threatened by the paramilitary  
forces.",6
"Not being chosen for the English lectures (my girl-friend  
chosen).",4
"Two summers ago my best friend and I drove into unknown mountains  
at midnight to pick up my broken car. We told one another  
horrifically scary ghost/murder stories and succeeded in scaring  
eachother pretty well - even though somewhere in our heads we  
knew the fears were unjustified.",6
"When I found out that a set task (i.e. 2 essays and a test), the  
thought of which had oppressed me, were not on the date I had  
thought.",1
"When my aunt took her own life, I felt guity for not  
understanding that she needed support.",5
"In a cottage in a large forest, I was alone for a while in the  dark.",6
Movement in bush late at night while camping.,6
"I made a very insulting remark against a person whom I care for  
very much. This event was caused by a third person who didn't  
like the person I insulted.",2
I was angry when my abilities of a singer were underestimated.,3
When the man I loved decided to leave me forever.,4
"My parents inherited an appartment and this made them behave in a  
peculiar manner.",0
Saw the village I come from still pay money to buy wife.,4
Being slandered by friends.,3
"When my relatives and I were in a car going slowly on a frozen  
road.",6
"A drunk walked out in front of a car at night. Both lower legs  
were broken. His shoe was thrown about 50 yards after the  
accident.",0
"It was in a group situation: suddenly it was my turn to say something, 
but I felt that I was not able to express myself very well - I felt  
ashamed and blushed.",2
"I lived together with my boyfriend. One night he stayed away and  
next day he told me that he had chat up with another girl.",0
"When I spoke ill of a fellow worker in the absence of this  
person.",5
"My mom told me not to gamble, but I did anyway. Sometimes I would  
even take some money from my parents and brother. She found out  
and yelled at me.",5
"When I walked to church with my roommate, a bum told us to call  
the police and he started following us.",6
"When my roommate's boyfriend assaulted me. He was threatening me,  
calling me names and pushing me around.",3
"I did not like it when a little girl was crying for her dead  
mother and was calling her by her name.  I was sad.",4
"Disgust with oneself after being intoxicated enough to go to bed  
with a stranger.",0
When I went to my first dental appointment.,6
"When I recently thought about the hard work it takes to study, and   
how one wants to try something else.  When I read a theoretical  
book in English that I did not understand.",4
"I deliberately avoided a person who I wanted to hurt, and who  
wanted to talk to me.",0
"One night a friend found out that I dumped one girl for another  
and he proceded to lecture me.",2
"Before Christmas I got to know a girl but our relationshop could  
not consolidate before the holiday. Therefore it was a big  
surprise to get a carefully hand-made present from her. - Our  
relationship grew closer.",1
I lost my driver's licence because of speeding.,2
"My class leader told me I am not chosen for your English  
lectures.",3
"After having been ill, when I was coming back to the hostel, I  
felt very sad leaving home.",4
When I triffled with other people.,5
When someone is accused or punished instead of me.,5
"It was when my Instructor awoke me late at night to get prepared  
for the training at Military college when he was coming back from  
his personal social activities.",3
"My teacher reminded us not to do a Summer job, however I did it  
for two months.  Yesterday I was chatting with my teacher and  
when we talked of the Summer job, I felt ashamed.",2
"I was very fat, and was ashamed of my body.",2
"When an untidy and heavyly drunk person made endeavours to  
approach me.",0
"When I was told that my daughter, who is at a boarding school,  
was very ill and that they needed me there the same day.",6
"I feel shame mixed with anger with the behavior of some  
incultivated people because my fiancT is a foreigner.",2
"When taking part in the mobbing of one of my best friends in  
primary school.",2
"When friends found out that I had been lying about where I had  
been on a particular occasion.",2
"I was at the University dining room, alone, and at a table next  
to mine thre were several professors.  One of them asked me to  
join them.  I refused but she insisted.  All the others started  
looking at me and I had to move to their table.",2
"I wandered by mistake into the safety zone of a shooting range,  
and was shot at.",6
"We owned a shop and I used to serve in it occasionally. We  
sometimes took lollies out of the stand and Dad caught me one  
day.",5
"My friend took me to Civo Stadium to watch and listen to the  
music of the International singer Sam Mangwana. I had no hope of  
going there since I had no money so he gave me the money for  
admission.",1
"When I had to move away from home to study, and I knew that I  
would not be coming back home for a long time.",4
"When I had to eat scraps from a dust-bin, because of a bet.",0
"When I was 17, I told Mum I came in at midnight, when really it  
was 3.30.",5
"I omitted to do a favor to a friend, while he was very much in  
need for help.",2
"I felt disgust with the alcohol, after I happened to see a young  
man, who was dead to the world and who wallowed on the pavement.  
This ""sight"" I watched from the bus.",0
"I was walking to school and I passed by a red cross post where  
there were many soldiers.  They began to pass remarks at me.",2
"I greeted and embraced the wrong person thinking that it was my  
friend.",2
"When I was doing research a few months ago, I had asked the  
Institute to sponsor me for a computer course which was held in  
TISS.  However, because of the administrative officer I could not  
get the money.",3
"When I passsed the M.S.C board exams with first class, which I  
had not expected.",1
"I had an argument with a friend of mine.  She would not let me  
speak and then I began to shout at her.  She got angry and left,  
I did not try to prevent her from leaving.",5
"When I realized that the person I was courting hadn't been really  
by my side for a long time already. He had deceived me and I let  
him deceive me.",3
When I was in the sauna bath.,1
When I heard about a murder of a 16-year-old girl.,0
"One day I was in the countryside with several friends, and we  
began to eat figs, after we were all full we noticed that all the  
figs were full of worms.",0
"My mother revealed personal details about me and the  
negative aspects of my character to other people when I was  
present but unable to defend myself.",2
"When I bribed the person who caught me doing something I was not  
supposed to have done.  I was very ashamed of what I had done.",2
"At primary school the teacher caught me cheating during a  
dictation.",6
When I was fined for speeding.,5
"I realized that a fellow member had grown spiritually.  I was the  
leader of a spiritual group and had prayed for him.  He did not  
want to burn the incense but his mother forced him to do it.   
Finally his mother told him that he could discontinue if he got  
good results at school.",1
"When I heard that my girlfriend was talking behind my back and  
looking down on me.",3
"When Dad went to a Sports Day and was the only parent there, and  
he was cheering for us.",2
Failed to be elected to be a class leader.,2
"When I stood first in the B.A exams.  Earlier I had heard of  
these boys and girls who were toppers, but when I first heard of  
me having topped I could not believe it.",1
"Talking about a person's unattractiveness, not realizing that the  
person was listening.",2
"After I saw my family and good friends back after staying one  
year in a foreign country. ",1
"I entered the hostel this year.  My mother was ill and could not  
move and needed people to look after her.  Every week I left home  
to go back to school, I felt guilty.",5
"A friend told me that a boy wanted to get to know me.  At that  
time I felt disgusted and thought that it was a nonsense thing.",0
"Your prejudice against psychology students and education students  
(not allowing us to go to the medical university lectures).",3
"A friend whom I had gone out of my way to do something for did  
not bother to acknowledge my efforts, and treated me badly  
thereafter.",3
"I was really disgusted when I saw one of my friends soiling on  
his clothes. I thought he was mad.",0
"The parents of a friend of mine surprised us and another couple  
sleeping in thier place.",2
"I felt disgust when I kissed a guy that I know. I was on the outs  
with my boyfriend and this person appeared but he has nothing to  
do with me.",0
"I was rock-climbing and absailing & felt OK, but suddenly as I  
was going over the cliff I was hit by fear - I couldn't go on  
absailing down the cliff and had to be actually hauled back up  
it.",6
"My first real experience with a boy. We were alone. I was quite  
young and pretty naive and he was pretty crude and real, sort of,  
macho. It was dark, at night during the summer and we were  
talking.",2
I got a job right after school was over.,1
"When my ex-girlfriend and I discovered that there was a certain risk  
of her being pregnant.",4
"When I passed the last exam, which I had doudts about.",1
"After the first of May, I detested my fiance's friends, who had  
piled on to our party and spoilt it completely.",0
"At one point in a relationship, my boyfriend was seeing an old  
flame more than me. At our confrontation tears were shed.",4
"When I was young I got lost on the street and the police found me  
after a day.",6
When I passed an exam.,1
When my son was born.,1
"I was disappointed and angry at the bad quality of a documentay  
program on TV.  In my opinion, the topic was important and the  
program should have been made with seriousness and consideration.",3
"When I was not selected to go to the University of Malawi I felt  
very sad.",4
"When I was 4-5 years old my mother gave me some parts of a  
chocolate bar and ordered me to bring it to my father working  
outside. On my way I could not resist the temptation and ate it  
myself.",5
"When I found out that the girl, with whom I was in love, loved me  
too.",1
When I saw a person I had not seen for a long time.,1
"I went to visit a friend in hospital.  He was going to be  
operated the next day.  I was afraid that they would not let me  
in and I did not know what his reaction would be on seeing me.",6
"When I knew that there were, at last, no problems in making a  
journey that I had been wanting to make for a long time.",1
"I felt disgusted about a teacher who had rejected all that was  
human in her. She refused to accept the flowers we gave her for  
the eighth of March and asked for a foreign parfume instead.",0
"In September 1984 I got two girls pregnant and the families of  
both the girls confronted me .  The fact was that my parents were  
around and I felt guilty answering some of the questions.",5
"When I was in primary 6, my father died.  I was very young then  
and did not know what had happened.  The weeping of my relatives  
and my tears made me sad.",4
Being hooted at when I was learning to drive.,3
Having a car accident.,6
"Being harrassed for being gay; suggestions of being physically  
beaten - acting as informal bouncer in a gay bar.",6
"I am going steady with a boy, but I had sexual intercourse with  
another one, and I felt guilty about it afterwards.",5
Heard about someone telling lies about me to my best friend.,4
"When I was accepted as supervisor for a student teacher.  The  
notification came by post.",1
"One Saturday afternoon, I deliberately dressed up nicely (I had  
been in a bad mood of late).  I hoped to go for a walk in the  
soft sunlight to try and uplift my spirits.  When I was having  
lunch in the canteen, two of my male classmates asked me as to  
why I was dressed so nicely (they had seldom joked with me  
before).  One of them said that he had a lounge suit and we would  
look very nice if we wore them together.",1
"When my grandmother died. I had a very deep relation to her (I  
lived with her for several years).",4
"The transport to pick us up for lunch was always late and the  
driver made the same excuse every day.",0
"I felt joy when I was admitted to the Higher Agricultural  
Institute.",1
"I was angry with a friend of mine who behaved in an affected  
manner.",3
"When I visited a creche. The conditions weren't too precarious  
but the children were in conditions of physical and emotional  
penury.",0
"When I just took a shower with a girl down the hall. I felt that  
I had let my devotion to God go out the window. Although nothig  
happened I felt ashamed.",2
Being rude to somebody who was impolite to me.,3
"It was during the beginning of the term. I had K100 and kept it  
in my handbag. I left the handbag in the wardrobe but didn't  
lock it. Next time I found that K30 were stolen.",3
Receiving my result slip (pass) on my birthday.,1
Does not apply.,0
"When I wanted to kiss a friend and didn't succeed, I felt shame.",2
Once I was not ready for a seminar and I was asked to leave.,2
"A person I trusted a lot gave me many false explanations to  
justify a wrong action.",3
When my grandfather died.,4
"I was spending a few days at my aunt's place.  One night I got  
home very late, I had told them I was going to a party but I went  
to another place.  They were very worried.",5
"When I became angry at my boyfriend without any reason. I know he  
cannot bear me being angry at him and that he can't study anymore  
then.",5
"I was 4-5 years old when I hid the bicycle keys of a not very  
good friend.  After a few hours I pretended that I had found  
it.",5
"When I was young, one day in the car we fell sick and ended up  
vomitting on each other.",0
I said something which was against my conscience.,5
When I wore a grotesque figure hanging down my back.,2
"When it became clear that a man had used many people sexually  
and psychologically, despite the fact that many people looked up  
to him.  I understood that one could not trust him and I was  
forced to hide this for a while.",3
"I felt ashamed when a friend, I had always respected, insulted me  
in public.  He was drunk.",2
"One evening when a boy who was drunk made a pass at me by trying  
to kiss me.",0
"The day my fiancee told me that it was bad that I could not write  
my mother tongue.",2
"I once saw an old man up the road, fossicking through the rubbish  
bins and the gutter. I was really disgusted at first but I've  
seen him a few times since then and now I feel really sorry for  
him and I often give him cigarettes when I see him, because he  
mainly goes after cigarette butts and it is revolting.",0
"A bus drove over my right leg.  The event itself was not very  
frightening but when I had to wait in the emergency ward for  
three hours and then my leg began to swell, I was frightened.",6
"I vividly remember having feelings of disgust toward some of my  
jr. high classmates who didn't work at all on their schoolwork  
and who would coplain and take my tax money when I was older and  
more successful than they were. At the time I pictured some  
adults like this that I knew in the complaining situation.",0
"When the result of the certificate exam was announced.  I was  
surprised and happy as the result was better than I had  
expected.",1
"When I was in P3 I was always punished as I would forget to do my  
homework.  The first time that I was punished and not allowed to  
leave school, I slipped out of school.",5
My bicycle was demolished.,3
"When my friend needed my help very much and I, at that moment, made  
an end to our relationship.",5
Walking home in the dark from college.,6
"When I heard that I had been selected fot the first year at the  
university of Zambia.  This was after my form five at Chikola  
secondary school.",1
I like someone who does not like me and was rude to me.,4
"Our neighbour came and gossiped, about others, with my parents.",0
"I lost a conference because I hadn't got in touch with a certain  
person to inform her that I would go with her. I thought she knew  
what I wanted.",5
"I was talking to my mom on the phone and she told me that she had  
just gotten an award that day in front of all these people and  
she asked me if I wanted her to send me the article in the temple  
newsletter to me. I said no very quickly and felt guilty for not  
being more interested and hurting her feelings.",5
My uncle died - I felt sad at the funeral.,4
"I received the results of the test paper of my major subject and  
I found that my result was not as good as a classmate who had  
recently changed his major subject.    I felt very ashamed.",2
"I was most angry when India lost the Triangular Cricket trophy  
held in Australia.  I was so angry that I fought (orally) with my  
friend.",3
When I passed an exam which I had failed last year.,1
"When I applied for a job which I thought I had a good chance of  
getting, I was not even granted an interview and did not get the  
job.",4
"An ex-colleague asked me if I was interested in working in their  
accounts bureau.  They needed ""clever people"" and he had  
""immediately thought of me.""",1
"As a child I suffered of nightmares. Even since than, I have  
never been so anxious and fearful.",6
"I came home from a discotheque at half past four in the morning,  
although I had promised my parents to come home at midnight. From  
3 a.m. I felt guilty towards my parents.",5
"I borrowed my classmate's notebook one week before the  
examination and I promised to give it back to her in two days  
time.  I was very busy at that time and forgot many things; as I  
was not very often at home she could not contact me.  When I  
started my revision I realized that her notebook had been on my  
desk for five days.  I contacted her immediately and gave it back  
to her.  Though she did not say anything I felt very guilty.",5
"I watched a football match with my old friend.  The performance  
of the team was very good and the team members were full of  
spirit.  The match was excellent and every time a goal was scored  
I felt excited.",1
I forgot something I agreed upon with a good friend.,2
I had a very pleasant conversation with one of my friends.,1
On the way down a ski slope which was difficult and steep.,6
When I was selected at TISS X.,1
"I am disgusted with a nieghbour who is looking for all sorts of  
quarrel with my parents and me. He feels we are hampering his  
living close to us. This has been going on for quite a long time.",0
When my application for studying the masters degree was accepted. ,1
When my grandmother died very suddenly without warning.,4
"I remember that my form 2 teacher was very fierce and dogmatic.   
My feet would tremble whenever I saw her but I had to face the fact that  
I had to go for her class. ",6
"When I was starting in romance with my husband, we went out to  
curt, and we stayed in the car ""making love"". At the time I was  
seventeen and I was very immature until a day I lost my  
virginity.",5
"I was angry when my sister began to talk nonsense and to laugh at  
the way I swept the room.  My anger grew (I tried to control  
myself).  After telling her to leave me alone, I vented my anger  
on her as she did not obey me.",3
"I had to leave Den Helder and all friends and acquaintences,  
after having spend two weeks there with my friends.",4
"I was waiting behind a car which was going to leave the parking  
place, because I wanted to park my car there. Because of uncoming  
traffic I had to wait for a short time - another driver placed  
his car on the place.",3
"Our tutorial group was soon to be divided, and we got a list of  
names of freshmen, out of which five were to be in my group.  We  
read the names and then each group went its own way to a seminar  
room.  I wondered how I would cope with the new situation and if  
I would succeed as a group leader.",6
"One day I went to the cinema to see a film in which I was  
interested.  On arriving there I saw a long queue (which I had  
not expected) and went back home without seeing the film.",6
"In an examination ,which other students found easy I could hardly  
think and did not know what to answer.",2
"I work for a journal. Once the lay-out came to nothing, due to  
thoughtlessness of some colleagues.",3
When they told me that my grandfather was rather ill.,4
"When my mother found me in her bedroom ""stealing"" sugar in her  
bedroom.  According to our customs there comes a stage when a  
child stops using the parents bedroom and I was well past that  
age.",5
China cannot give your lectures bigger place and sound system.,2
When I was going to take the practical exams.,6
"When I think about my family (parents, brothers, sisters) guilt  
is a part of my feelings.",5
I locked myself out.,3
"One evening I went out with some friends of mine, although I was  
supposed to stay at home with my little sister who is 11.",5
"I was stood up for a date function by someone who I really cared  
for.",3
"When I blurted out an answer in class without having been asked  
to do so.  The teacher told me that it was bad manners to do so.",2
"My girlfriend who had been very far away from me came to my  
place. She saw me and ran after me. I didn't know that she had  
come. I couldn't see her. She held my shoulders standing behind  
me.",1
Disgust with a subordinate.,0
When I crashed my car.,6
"I was accused of having done something, which I hadn't and got  
very angry.",3
"When during Winter the water pipes froze and we did not have any  
water for two days.",3
"A friend of mine played a joke on another friend over the  
telephone.  This friend, crying, called me and I got very angry  
and made the other person apologize.",3
I felt very sad when I heard that a friend had committed suicide.,4
"When I wanted to go into a house, there was suddenly a big dog  
standing beside me. It was hardly moving, but I did not know how  
it would react later on.",6
"I woke up at the house of someone I knew, not remembering very  
much about what had been said or done during the party on the  
previous night.",2
"I think I have hardly had a situation where I felt disgusted.  
Perhaps once, when I saw a big spider.",0
"I was disgusted with my girlfriend's behaviour. She was going out  
with other boys who were also my friends.",0
"When a man who had a knife grabbed me and threatened me with it,    
during my holidays in Monze. 
",6
"The time I lost a badminton match, that I should have won at the  
Zambia closed badminton championships.",4
Guy I cared for went back to Canada to live.,4
"The way this particular girl spoke, behaved, and reacted the  
first time I was introduced to her, I felt certain that something  
between us would materialize.",1
"The first time that I caressed a girl, I was about thirteen and  
she was eighteen.  I noticed that it did not affect her at all.",2
"When I was a child, I thought that I had to be ashamed when  
asking and doing certain forbidden things.",2
Given duty by the leaders which I do not like to do.,0
"The night before my wife had given birth to our twins. I felt  
fear in the hospital yard, I feared if everything was going to be  
in order.",6
"My sweetheart left me, or rather we decided to break it off by  
mutual consent.  The consequences were - unrestrained weeping,  
feelings of loneliness, hopelessness and disconsolation.  I felt  
that I should find a friend, to talk to joyfully and to forget.",4
When I quarelled with my parents.,3
"A person that eat half of a cockroach in a cake without knowing  
it.",0
Going out alone in the dark.,6
I was angry when my boyfriend did not turn up as promised.,3
Nothing.,0
When I broke something and a friend of mine was blamed.,5
When I was told that I had no right to control my lover.,0
"One day I was busy day dreaming along the road and suddenly I  
heard the sound of jamming car braked behind me. I woke up from  
my dreams and it was about to crash me.",6
"Skiing down a very icy slope, very fast in white-out conditions.  
Out of control with no idea of what I was doing or where I was  
heading.",6
"I was caught doing something I was not supposed to do.  I did  
something with the person who caught me (bribe) and even though  
he promised not to report me, I am still frightened.",6
"When I am not able to fulfill any request of my son - can't take  
him out to ride his byke, because I am tired.",5
"Standing in a crowed shop or in a closed room with too much  
people in it. This gives me a fearful experience.",6
"I went singing with a group of young people on January 6th (The  
three Magi), a local custom called ""star singing"". One of the girls, my  
girlfriend, broke the star. Being the accompanying person, I felt very  
angry thinking of the consequences.",3
"One day my colleague misbehaved with me.  I felt disgusted and  
thought to myself that he could only do this because I was a  
woman.",0
"A few days back I had a tutorial class and the teacher randomly  
assigned one person in each group to make a presentation.  The  
discussion in our group had been confused and the presentation  
was not very well prepared.  Unfortunately I was selected to  
present and I could not keep calm, was confused and result was  
very poor.  I really felt ashamed.",2
"When a friend of mine died in a hiking accident.  I was not  
present there and only got the news later.",4
"After being depressed because of a very bad relationship, my  
first love called me and told me that he would always care for me  
no matter what I did.",1
"Watching a football game. This remindes me of the time when my  
father was still alive and when we watched football games on TV  
together.",4
Scoared a goal in a football match.,1
When I learnt of the death of a friend.,4
"I feel joy usually after each taken exam, the last one was in  
February.",1
"Some time ago I was disgusted with the ""cleanness"" of the  
refectory of our institute.",0
"When I was travelling home by bus and suddenly the bus hit and  
the bus leaned against a wall.",6
When my father died.,4
When I knew that my husband and I were going to have a child.,1
"Yesterday, when the final whistle blew at the final match between  
OIS and IFK and it was certain that OIS had won the Swedish  
title.",1
"I was double crossing Mercy and Maria. They one day came to know  
each other. I was found by Mercy red-haded when I was with Maria.",0
"After mischieviously ringing on the chemist's trade-entrance  
doorbell and getting caught by him.",6
"While shopping, a person close to us created an uncomfortable  
situation for those who were with her.",2
"My room-mate was drunk, he vomited on the floor and fell face  
down on the vomit nearly choking himself to death.  Then he  
fainted and so I called the first aid.",0
"My girlfriend disliked it when I played majong (a game of gambling).   
I expressed my regrets and when I went to see her she neglected my  
existance.  I was very angry and left in displeasure.",3
"I felt it when playing I pushed my brother and he fell down  
cutting himself in pieces of tile.",5
When I got to know the details if the famine in East Africa.,0
Bad temper of the serving lady in the students' dining hall.,0
"Many years ago I saw the film ""Psycho"" by Hitchcock for the first  
time. When I saw the film I was alone and afterwards I hardly  
dared to go to bed and hardly was able to sleep.",6
When I heard a lion roar for the first time.,6
When I was getting so fat.,0
[ When my elders do not understand me in the right way.],4
"My mother wrote me and said that I would not writ enough letters  
home.",5
"When I heard on the radio that the football match in Belgium had  
ended in a catastrophe, and several people had died.  I could not  
 understand how normal people could behave in such a way.",3
A close friend of the family died.,4
"When I began to date a boy with whom I am till now. This was 16  
months ago.",1
"For a few days I felt very miserable, distressed and listless,  
with crying fits. When this was over I felt very happy, although  
there was no special reason.",1
"My ex-boyfriend began to date my best friend. After they had been  
seeing each other, I found out that he had been sleeping with  
another girl, without my friend knowing, I told my friend what he  
had been doing behind her back.",3
Mad at my dad.,3
Being insulted on a bus.,3
"I found a problem in homework which would not get solved although  
I tried my best.",6
"When you are satisfied with something, when you achieve something  
you have striven to.",1
"Someone in my family (my brother I suspected) ate a bun which I  
had made for myself. It was during a long telephone call after I  
had just made it and put it in the oven warming drawer.",3
"When I almost drowned myself in the municipal swimming pool that  
I use to go almost not excaping.",6
"During labour when the foetal sounds became faint and there was a  
big alert for a forceps delivery.",6
"Can't remember specific event - besides just being moderately  
happy until a year or so ago.",1
"I went to eat at my aunt's house and she served macaroni with a  
horrible appearence. I felt the sensation above. The worst was  
that I was practically obliged to eat.",0
"I was supposed to fetch some friends at the bus stop, but I did  
not do it because my father was in a bad mood and I was afraid  
that he would grumble.",5
Late for a lecture and therefore missed it.,5
"I was amongst a group of people talking about how the Maori  
people were stirrers and causing trouble in our country. I felt  
shame to be a pakeha when other pakehas had such narrow  
conservative views.",2
"I wanted to see a friend, I had been looking forward to it and  
had certain expectations, but he did not pay any attention to me,  
played cards with other people.",3
"I can not think of any incident when I have felt very ashamed.   
There are small incidents that I am ashamed of, for instance,  
not sending money to the children in Ethiopia.",2
"Last Summer I went camping with some C.U students.  As I was  
working then, I had to leave the second night (some of them had  
joined us the first night).  Next morning, 6 o'clock, a female  
classmate knocked on our door and tried to wake us up.  I was not  
fully conscious and I said something which I should not have.  I  
realized the trouble I had made and wanted to hide.  Later I  
said sorry to her and the matter came to an end.",2
"When I was ringing up a guy who was my teen idol, and was in  
Auckland. I was really scared, I didn't know what to say or do.",6
A pig in the well from which we drink.,0
"When my nephew was born. The birth was hard, it was a big baby.",1
"Arriving home from work after a long and tiring day to find no  
dinner prepared as I had expected.",3
"Being sexually assaulted (not rape, but passionate kissing) by a  
friend's father - he stopped when he was driving me home. I  
hadn't wanted the lift, had refused 3 times, and then felt it'd  
be rude to refuse again. Was really afraid of what he might do.",6
"I had to call someone and make an appointment for a conversation.  
I was very afraid to fail.",6
Lack of respect for my parents.,5
"A teacher at my former secondary school forced my darling to  
marry him.  The girl tried to refuse but her parents would not  
leave her alone.",3
When I passed the university entrance exam.,1
When I happen to witness some sadistic acts.,0
"I feel guilty when I should have done something at any rate but I  
haven't done it.",5
Low evaluation of other people's cares.,5
"When I cheated my father about the book allowance at university.   
He discovered that we were given K150 per year for books.",5
"Losing my job that I had for 4 summers. I took it personally and  
cried for 6 hours off and on. I wanted to hide away and did for a  
few days.",4
"When the grandmother of my friend died in a hospital. My friend  
was crying and I was sad, too.",4
Having a good trip on a boat with good friends.,1
Insulted by teacher.,2
"The patient whom I expected to get well suddenly passed away  
after he showed had his meals.",3
"I was sad when I heard that my cousin died because of being  
bewitched by her husband's second wife.",4
"When I was young my mother told the neighbour that I had wet the  
bed.  I felt ashamed thinking that the neighbour's children would  
get to know about it.",2
"When I received my results and found out that I could not go to a  
school of my choice.",4
"When I was at S.Y.Bajaj I wanted to get admission in another  
college and this was not easy and I felt angry. ",3
"I had an intimate relation with my boyfriend, but unfortunately  
we had sexual problems; therefore I deceived him, but I was  
ashamed when I told my friend about it.",2
Helping in the nursery school.,1
"When I was young I felt ashamed when our relatives visited us and  
I hid myself.",2
"When my grandmother died; I had a stronger relation to her than  
to my mother.",4
Doing this pointless questionnaire.,3
"When the girl whom I have lusted after expressed reciprocal  
feelings and then days later changed her mind.",4
I felt very sad when my son died after a short illness.,4
"When I was confronted by a policeman one night around 11 o'clock.  
 I was afraid when they threatened to take me and my girl to the  
gallows.",6
Being told that I am a stupid person.,3
"My cousin and I were at the farm and at night we drunk like fools  
and made a lot of noise.  We had drunk two much of wine.",2
"Very often I take care for my little sister and oversee her  
duties. Most of the time everything went fine, but sometimes she  
absolutely didn't want to obey; then I hit her (we frequently  
were hit by our father).",5
"Arriving in New Zealand as a teenager - first overseas trip -  
something ""exhilarating"" about the change of scenery etc.",1
"I had told a person unpleasant things in a bad manner. He was  
very depressed and caused an accident.",5
The disqualification of two of my mates in the military service.,4
"When my boyfriend was away, I flirted with his best friend; I  
felt guilty the next day.",5
"I had met someone and we became good friends. Our relationship  
grew closer and now he is my boyfriend. I felt joy when I found  
out how he felt about me.",1
The death of my grandmother.,4
"In a playground I was playing at the seesaw with a little niece.  
I wanted to stop but nobody came to help me. When I got off, all  
alone the seesaw fell down with a big smash. My niece got hurt  
above her eye. Now there is a scar.",5
"""Boy, you have been admitted to the medicine school and your  
uncle is coming back fron Canada next week,"" my father told me  
and it was a happy moment.",1
"The girl with whom I was going around had been forbidden to be  
alone with me in the house.  We paid no attention to this  
prohibition but one day her parents appeared and I jumped out of  
the window.  They saw me.",2
"When I had to lie about my age to be accepted as a member of a  
group.",5
"Returning home in the late afternoon I saw an indecent act made  
by a man with the purpose that I saw it.",0
"Was threatened with a knife ... in the military by soldiers form  
another unit. The reason was girls.",6
"I was going to my village, after having been rather oppressed in  
Madrid. ",1
"I felt disgusted at the environment while getting back to my  
student lodging. I did not see anything in the suburb which had  
been planned by taking people's comfort into account.",0
"Receiving a letter form a girl that means a lot to me  
emotionally.",1
When I thought that I had failed the examination.,6
"In an exam I answered the questions rather carelessly and  
afterwards I thought that the exam would have been better had I  
answered more carefully.",5
"I went to practice in Sweden during summer, and I was afraid that  
I would not do well.",6
When I found out I got accepted to Berkeley.,1
"My brother came to see me and found me with a boy friend.  When  
my boyfriend greeted him, he did not answer and instead started  
shouting at me and scolding me in the prescence of my boyfriend.",2
"When I get into the tube or the train without paying for the  
ticket.",6
"There was a scene of shooting in front of my house, I was very  
afraid. Two armed men confronting. I didn't discover the reason  
of the incident.",6
When another person's mother died.,4
"I read a book about the sexual phantasies of women; I read about  
a woman having sexual intercourse with a dog.",0
"When my friend ended up pregnant by a gentleman whom I considered  
to be good and faithful but he ended up neglecting her and not  
bothering about her.",5
"Heard some postgraduate students talking about girls being  
unsiutable to do medicine.",0
"English papers are due on Friday. They are returned on Tuesday.  
This Tuesday I was afraid to go to class and get my paper because  
I knew it was bad.",6
"When I was told that I was selected to attend Medical Assistant  
Training.",1
My roommate's lack of consideration of me.,0
Watched a horror movie which involved sexual attacks on women.,6
Obscene phone calls.,0
"When one of my parents insinuates something about the other  
(they are divorced).",5
"One morning I was standing at the bus-stop and the bus passed by  
without stopping, even though there were only 8-10 passengers  
inside.  I felt angry at the rude behaviour of the bus driver and   
conductor.",3
"Sincerely I'm a very timid guy and so even in very simple  
situations sometimes I am ashamed.",2
"Fear is an emotion that I experience very often.  Naturally this  
is during exams and subsequently while waiting for the results.   
However there is one occassion when I was paralyzed with fear.   
This was when I was doing my M.A.-I, and we had a series of student  
lectures.  I was one of the participants and my lecture happened  
to be the opening lecture.  I had been confident all morning, about  
twenty minutes before the lecture, my confidence started failing  
me.  I felt my heart go cold, my lips go dry and I was really  
paralyzed.  This incident of fear is still fresh.",6
"My friend often played a joke on me and sometimes I thought that  
he was a nonsensical person. Once when we went to a friend's  
house he walked in first and shut the door firmly behind him.  I  
felt that he did not respect me and moreover I was his friend so  
he should not have behaved like that.  I was very angry (as it is  
I was in a bad mood then).",3
"I was drinking coffee in a cafe and I found a piece of scrubber  
in my cup.",0
My grandfather's death.,4
"The breakup of a relationship. After the event I was upset/sad  
then angry maybe 2/3 weeks later.",3
"The landlord had selected a new lodger on her own, while we used  
to do that it was not what she had done, but how she did it that  
made me angry.",3
"[ When some difference of opinion occurs in a silly situation.]   
",3
"When my boyfriend came form Rumphi to Lilongwe for a visit I was  
very happy to see him and couldn't believe it was him with me.",1
Railway station good-bye.,4
A murder.,3
"Once in a public ladies room, I opened the door of a cubicle that  
was taken, although it was not locked.",2
"Not being alowed on a school camp with the class I'd been in for  
11 years (I had stayed down due to illness)",3
"Feeling guilt after greed, buying chocolate and pigging out to  
the point of feeling sick, especially as I am fat.",5
"I had planned to go to town with my friend at 1500 hours but she  
went for the registration and I waited for a good 1 and a 1/2 hours.  It  
was vital for me to go to town but I could not as it was she who  
had the money.  Finally I borrowed some money from friends and we  
went to town.  I was really angry with my friend.",3
"When I failed one of my courses at school - the university of  
Zambia.",4
"When after a storm in the country, I left my shelter and saw a  
big, fat, slimy green toad by my side.",0
"I was skiing alone and the mountain became covered with mist and  
I thought I was lost and was going to panic.",6
"I had reacted angrily at a friend for no fault of his.  I had  
raised my voice and had not cared for his opinion.",2
"Last year I was asked to look after my niece while her mother was  
cooking.  Unfortunately the kid fell off the bed, I was confident  
that she would not fall and had not been paying much attention.",5
"In Sweden, a friend and I lived in an appartment owned by a Finn.  
 One day, this man came back to the appartment heavily drunk  
(hashish and alcohol).  He was quite dizzy and he broke down, and  
I could not foretell his reactions.  However, nothing happened.",6
When my husband quarrelled with me for no reason at all.,0
"In a flat in Sydney - rough area at home on my own - the flat had  
been burgled the night before and no way of locking the door.",6
"My flatmate was asking questions about my relationship with my  
boyfriend, whether I wasn't treating him as unfairly as I claimed  
he'd been treating me. As a result, I was angered, and became  
defensive.",3
"When I came back to my hostel, my bed was full of newspapers and  
dirty clothes.  My room-mate asked me to wash the clothes for him  
as he had no time (this was his responsibility).  The food we  
shared had been eaten up by him (I ate little).",3
"I last really felt sad when I left home for I was leaving all my  
long time, pre-kindergarten relationships behind.",4
"It was when my father was taken into detention by the CIDS for  
two years for a reason I don't know up to now.",4
When I failed my first exam at the Higher Institute.,6
Finding out my grades at the end of my Sophomore year.,0
When colliding with my car. I myself was to blame.,3
Listening to my roommate boasting about her new clothes.,0
"When I went out with my dog in a forest late at night when we  
were on a camping.",6
"I have chosen to put my son in a private school were the  
examination marks are low.  Every time that he gives me his term  
results I am left with a sense of guilt.",5
"When I got into a bus I found that my wallet had been stolen.  
It was not a great loss from the monetary point of view but I  
lost some documents - identity papers.  As a result I had to  
spend several days in order to get a new one.  I will always  
remember all the work I had to do and the bad treatment I  
suffered because of the bureaucratic behaviour of the civil  
servant.  I had already had bad luck and they treated me like a  
criminal.   At one point of time I really wanted to quarrel with  
them.",3
When my girlfriend's nephew passed away.,4
"I just opened the bathroom without knocking not knowing that  
someone was bathing inside, it happened to be my father.",2
When I was robbed in a bus.,3
"I've a situation of responsibility an employee who had a habit of  
being late, came late again after promising to say he would be at  
work in a few minutes, then arrived 3 hours later. He had been  
drinking.",3
"To go through the underground way at suburb station of LAPA. Poor  
people and the ambulants badly dressed up in a passage badly  
kept.",0
"Stealing money from a milk token jar from a close friend of the  
family when visiting.",5
"A close friend first said he accepted an agreement, but later  
used that agreement as a reason for attacking me.",3
"While at primary school, I did not let a friend ring a bell  
although he would have liked to do it.  Afterwards I felt bad.",5
I felt sad when my father was sick.,4
"In the last day of carnaval I met a boy and began to flirt with  
him. I was in love with him. When he introduced me to his friends  
I died of shame because I was with them before, I met my  
boyfriend in carnaval.",2
"My mother carried on using mental pressure concerning something  
which was serious and a real burden to me.",3
A close friend took part in a racist violent action.,0
"My girl-friend and I live in one flat with another couple. We get  
along very well and usually we share everything. Once we two were  
sitting in our room and eating a cake when the others came in.",2
"When I opted for my research field, for them the percentage of  
marks was more important than my knowledge.",0
I saw a sort of black worm being attacked by many ants.,0
"I received an unexpected B+ on an engineering midterm. I did not  
study nearly as much as I should have and it was a difficult  
test.",1
"When I was a child, I had a medical check-up. I had to undress  
myself and was examined by several doctors.",2
"When my father banned me from going to his sister's home due to  
some misunderstanding between the two.",3
"When my husband talked about the restrictions he will have to  
accept in his life to make our marriage work.  I felt that it was  
directed at me as it was me who had demanded the changes.  We  
were with a marriage counsellor then.",5
"I was in grade seven and my class was planning a protest against  
a rude and immoral teacher.  I sneaked out and told the  
headmaster about it and so the plan was foiled.",5
"I was driving a friend's car, and I got close to the pavement to  
ask my way and I struck a parked car.",5
"Realizing that school will soon be over, and we will all go  
different ways, perhaps never meeting again our friends from this  
year.",4
"Getting University Entrance accredited and arriving home from  
boarding school on accrediting leave.",1
"When I was accused of having planned my friend's outing at  
secondary school (boarding) as we were not allowed to go out.",3
When the girl I loved turned me down.,4
I got to know that I had been accepted at university.,1
"Calling lecturers nicknames when talking to housemen (They told  
ne you are even younger than they are so you should not be giving  
public lectures).",5
I was told to do something I did not want to do.,3
"When one teacher unjustly gave me zero in a test saying that I  
was cribbing.",3
"A daughter in court for staff pilfering, she was dressed like a  
""street walker"" - I had a friend form overseas with me and was  
falsely trying to impress with my family.",2
"I was ashamed at being the only one to have got a C+ in ED120  
assignment.",2
When I got 1 mark in an Abnormal Psychology exam.,2
"When a boy I hated most in our classroom took my T Jersey from my  
desk and put it on.",0
Finding out that life span in China is shorter than in the West.,4
"I once failed a test miserably and my friend did very well and  
someone made a nasty comment while comparing me to my friend.",3
"When I heard that a 14 years old girl had been raped by four  
rikshaw drivers in our town.",0
"I wrote a letter to my father to ventilate my bottled up  
feelings. Afterwards I thought it was too negative.",2
"When I was denied my favourite dish at the dinning hall (shima  
with roast chicken), I felt disgusted.",0
"I felt disgusted when we (family) avoided a problem which could  
be solved readily.",0
Got through first semester University.,1
When I saw my brother being attacked and I could not do anything.,3
When I heard that I had achieved a place in form I.,1
"When I had insulted my father two years back, at that time I was  
very angry due to some reasons.",2
"I wanted something in particular and did not get it, also there  
was no possibility of getting it.",4
"I was at a boarding school during my primary school days. I was  
broken so I pretended I was very sick. My father came and he  
picked me up. He spent a lot of money on medical expenses which  
all proved to be negative.",5
"A very close friend of mine was refused entrance to the medical  
school.  Her grades were very good and she should not have been  
left out.  Biased judgment !",3
Talking with a nice girl.,1
"I was drunk one night and I insulted three ladies.  The following  
morning they approached me and asked me the reason behind my  
bahaviour, I apologized for my unruly behaviour.",5
"Making bloopers: e.g. telling something negative about a certain  
person, while that person is standing besides you and hears  
everything.",2
First time in anatomy.,6
"Once while playing tennis with my classmate I lost a few tennis  
balls.  I found one near the tennis court and took it to be mine  
despite thinking that it might belong to the student in the next  
court.  I felt guilty.  Later someone came to me to claim the  
ball and I gave it back to him.",5
When I was ditched by my girlfriend.,4
"A rainy day, I was cycling downhill and a car door suddenly  
opened and while trying to avoid it the back wheels of my bike  
got caught in the tram tracks.  I somersaulted but had no  
injuries.",6
Cooks refused to give me food.,4
"Finding out that China is poor, so we cannot have good reference  
books.",4
When I got a bad result for one of my assignments.,2
Not handing in homeworks in time.,2
"When I was selected to this university despite my having  
studyied in difficulty throughout my secondary school days.",1
"When a friend of mine told me that he was going to commit  
suicide.",4
The day I finished my military service.,1
"When I was deputy manager during the Summer, certain deputies  
took liberties, more than what was normal.",3
"Several weeks ago, I had problems with friends, I felt disgusted  
by a friend.",0
"When I took a car which was not mine, and suddenly it stopped  
working.",5
Spontaneous picnic with sister and friend and children - great.,1
"When I was detained one day in school, by the vice-principal, for  
indiscipline.",2
"I told my elder brother that he was irresponsible and that I did  
not care for what he did because he was teasing me.",5
"The shooting started and we all lay down to protect ourselves  
from the flying bullets.  This incident occured on our way to  
Feira, during the Zambia army patrols in the Rhodesia war.",6
"When I almost fell down from some rocks because I had been acting  
foolishly and playing dangerously.",6
"I discovered some pornographic literature in a workmates drawers.  
The literature featured pictures of naked women defecating on one  
another.",0
Saw my roommate messing up our room.,0
At an irrevocable loss (with respect to human relations).,4
"I felt anger at my last exam, I felt angry with our teacher,  
because he did not rate me objectively and I failed.",3
"I had been away all night without having told my parents about  
it.  In the morning when I came home, my mother looked tired.   
She said that she had been awake all night because of me and that  
she was angry and disappointed.",2
"My son's mother told me that she wanted to move to Vienna and  
take the child with her. This means a rather long distance for  
me. My whole family was sad and dumbfounded so that my own  
feelings were intensified.",4
"Missing lectures and avoiding university work for no reason when  
it had to be done.",5
I was very sad when my first boyfriend finished our relationship.,4
"It was in the evening when I heard that my girl went to Zambia  
and that she would never come back.",4
"A fear from the loss of a close friend as a result of his  
behavior.",6
"Accidentally seeing a friend in a compromising situation with a  
stranger.",0
"I slipped on butter one evening in the Dining Commons landed on  
my rear causing my tray also to land on the floor.",2
"Once late at night (around midnight) a person asked me to give  
him a lift. He suddenly tried to attack me but I could escape.  
After this he followed me for a little while.",6
"I told my pesent boyfriend that I was an Australian as are my  
parents. As the relationship developed I found it harder and  
harder to confess and became sure it would end our relationship.  
He eventually found out when told in front of me by my mother.",5
"I told my primary teacher I hadn't done my homework as my mother  
was in a car accident. My teacher rang that night to see how my  
mother was - she was fine i.e. no accident !",2
"Together with a little brother I biked on a lonely road in the  
Polder. Then we were annoyed by a boy on a motorbike: he  
took over, stopped, took over, etc. Then we saw he had something  
in his hand, we turned until we came across a man, who  
accompanied us.",6
"When I heard that I had passed my end of first year exams and I  
was ready to enter 2nd year because I felt I had failed as they were  
very hard.",1
"[ It irritates me when people talk about me behind my back.  I     
prefer people to tell me what they have to, on my face instead  
of talking behind my back.]",3
"A few days back a friend of mine had asked me to call on him on  
Sunday.  I had accepted it but later did not go for no specific    
reason.  I just slept in my room.  The next day this friend called   
me up and told me that he had been expecting me the day before and  
his wife had prepared a very good lunch for me, which had gone  
waste.  I felt very bad about this incident and it has been  
growing in my heart ever since.",5
"When my grandmother died. She stayed with us until I had the age  
of 10. When she died I was 13 and I remember the moment after the  
funeral: I sat on the table and cried.",4
"My mother accused me of not visiting her enough when she was in  
hospital for an eye operation.",5
"Naturally when I got myself discharged this was my second  
birthday.",1
"One day I was walking with my boyfriend. We met my ex-boyfriend  
and out of jealousy he started calling me names.",0
"Due to laziness, I failed the term studies completely at  
University.  I also wanted, to some extent, to protest against my  
parents' expectations.",5
"I felt happy when I received the letter telling me that I had  
been admitted to the university.",1
"When a car ran into me. The moment that I felt on the street I  
thought ""This is my end, I am going to die"".",6
"Sadness - this is an emotion which I have felt very often  
recently. I can't remember a concrete example. I will describe my  
general impression from severl situations which evoked this  
feeling in me.",4
"About not helping my sister when she asked me to help her on her  
chemistry class. I pretended to be busy.",5
"On my birthday, when I was given my presents.",1
"My mother always took my side. That brought about quarrels with  
my father. I knew she didn't like that and I felt very sorry for  
that.",5
"I was attacked, standing in a doorway, by a pack of 5 dogs,  
alsatians and farm dogs with my escape route blocked by a shut  
fence.",6
"Having finally to admit I was wrong, after having denied it for a  
long time.",2
"On TV I saw a report about church in Amerika. A priest was shown  
who was performing miracles in front of the camera - I felt  
disgusted.",0
"A series about Freud was shown on TV.  In it, a tampon had been  
set in the nose of a woman, and forgotten there.  After great  
pain it was taken off (close-up picture), the woman was bleeding  
from the nose and the mouth.",0
"At the death of my husband's father's mother which occurred  
during university examinations and therefore I was unable to  
attend her funeral.",4
"My examination results were not satisfactory even though I had  
tried my best.  Then I started wondering about my abilities for  
the major subject.  However I did not know how to choose my major  
subject if I were to change it.",4
"When going for my driver's licence for the third time, because  
everything, it seemed, hinged on getting it. I was really nervous,  
and the testing Officer made me a little afraid as well. There  
were lots of things to worry about. I passed however.",6
Saw a very arrogant girl walking like a queen.,0
"The day that my boyfriend appeared at home with a pair of rings  
for our wedding.",1
"When I decided to take a week s holiday without consulting the  
family first.",5
"I had never made a malicious joke in front of my boyfriend. Last  
week I did it I was funny, he loved it, and I died of shame.",2
"When I argue with my mother about the way she treats her two  
children differently.",4
"I often feel guilty, and it has to do with other people, e.g. if  
I haven't visited my older relatives for a while.",5
"It was the time when I was in no position to secure a Ist class  
in the M.Sc exam and this was likely to affect my career.",6
"When my library books were overdue and I did not have the money  
to pay for them.",5
"When someone I had had a relationship (purely sexual) with came  
up to me after I had used her and acted as if nothing had  
changed.",0
"The time I went to see one of my girlfriends at Area 18 I found  
that she was not there but in the room she was sleeping, in the same  
room there were some women visitors with children so the room was  
smelling very badly with some faeces and urine in it so I didn't stay  
any longer.",0
"While dining with some accquaintances I was asked something  
which I should have known but I did not know.",2
"A new gas connection was to be installed and the mechanic who came  
to do it was very rude to my mother and me.  I rushed to thhe  
dealer with my mother and had a fight with the dealer as he  
seemed to be unreasonable and was taking the mechanic's side.   
Ultimately the matter was resolved after my father went and spoke  
to him.  The mechanic was asked to apologize.",3
"On own reading book. Recall came to mind of slight sexual  
exploitation of a female (years ago) i.e. had her on even for  
sexual motives.",2
"When a professor of this faculty laughed at, and was suspicious of  
a composition written by a class-mate and me.",3
Saw my brother-in-law insulting my sister.,0
My admittance to the University.,1
"I am ashamed of the horrible way I used to treat my little  
sister.",2
"Not keeping a promise of delivering materials of great importance  
to the receiver.",5
"During these Summer vacations a schoolmate who was not in my  
class went to Britain.  Before he left, his classmates and some  
of us who were accquainted with him had a B.B.Q on the beach.   
When I arrived I saw that some people , who were not close  
friends of the departing person(person A), were playing mahjong.   
Some others were playing bridge and A had nothing to do, besides  
it was A who had prepared the food.  Later when we wanted to talk  
and his classmates did not even have the decency to listen to him.   
They only asked him a few questions half-heartedly and then they  
talked on their own.  Some of their conversation was against me and   
another classmate.",0
"I experienced it once when we were on a drive. Our car passed by  
the one comming from the opposite direction at an incredibly  
small distance.",6
"When I drove to Stockholm for the first time and drove off the  
Stora Hissingen road at the wrong exit.",6
When my brother was held up and robbed.,3
"When I stayed alone in a house in Great Brittain and there was a  
lot of rumour in the newspaper about a murderer still being free.",6
"I bet that I would jump down from a window. I was sure that I  
would jump but before I did it I rather felt fear.",6
"When I began to date, the first gestures of affection made me  
feel ashamed.",2
"I was watching T.V with my parents and some pornographic scenes  
came on, I felt uncomfortable and tried to distract my parents  
attention by talking to them.",4
"I felt the emotion when I fought somebody who was drunk and tried  
to disturb us while we were having meals.",5
"When I heard of the death of a friend who had just finished her  
training I felt very sad for she was young.",4
"Adolescent guilt growing up feeling ""bad, immoral"" sexual  
desires, some 10yrs ago.",5
"I felt guilty when I read an advertisement for a job as a chemist  
in the newspaper and when my friend asked me if I had applied for  
that job, I told him that I had not even seen the paper of that  
day.",5
"[ This is an everyday feeling.  Many situational events : causes  
are unclean and dirty environment, illiteracy, poverty and  
neglect of human resources, disgust at the lack of perception on  
the part of us ( educated few) for the lack of drive and drive  
towards their redemption. ]",0
Someone played a trick on me.,3
"When I received the S.Y.J.C results, the marks I obtained were  
not up to my expectations and I missed admission in engineering.",4
I felt joy when my two twin sisters were born.,1
Thinking about death when walking alone at night.,6
"When I have to go in for an exam and the examinor is a person  
with a whimsical character and unsteady requirements.",6
"When my boyfriend was leaving to go home one night, I had a very  
deep sense of uneasiness and an unwarranted fear that I wouldn't  
see him again.",6
"After my little sister's Graduation from High School my  
grandmother became very sick. She passed away a few months later.",4
"I was in grade 7.  We had an inter-house volley-ball competition.  
 In Luapula I was the youngest member of the team and I scored   
the winning goal using my head.  I jumped up with joy and fell  
down.",1
Blank.,1
"I am disgusted with the fact that bad singers play at the opera  
(and not only there) only because they are protegTs or lovers of  
an important felow while at the same time some young and able  
singers work in a quite different field of life.",0
Always when I am well succeded.,1
"When I was watching a movie in which there was a pit full of  
dangers and there was only a small safe place on which a man was  
standing; he had to catch the lady who was thrown in or else !  
The pit was 20 feet deep.",6
"When I unjustly accused a person of my family of something she  
didn't really do.",5
"On the way back from a Summer spent in Sweden, I drunk with a man  
in the train.  I had drunk so much that when I got home I fell  
asleep in the entrance hall.  I have never drunk that much,  
neither before nor after that incident.  I was ashamed because my  
mother and my sister had to see me in that state and my father  
had to carry me to bed.",2
When I first had a sexual intercourse.,2
"[ During inter-rail-trip, after troubles, I met my little  
sister.]",1
"I was involved in a ... attempt on a man I had developed a close  
warming relationship with. Although I knew I had done everything  
I could and that his progress of a ""normal"" life was poor I felt  
guilty as if I could have done more.",5
When my grandmother died.,4
When my 6 month old son is happy and well.,1
"At my grandmother's detestable and selfish conduct towards my  
elder sister, although her behavior was due to senility and lack of  
understanding.",0
"[ Generally when I am shopping I feel like I were guilty of all  
the thefts through the year (I have never stolen).]",5
"When I argue with my sister.  It feels sometimes that I have the  
upper hand and I use it.  I often argue better and this makes her  
terribly angry.",5
Lying to a friend about something that was trivial.,2
Saw a beggar on the street (China still so poor).,0
"I felt angry when my mother-in-law did not handle my daughter  
properly and she fell down from the bed and hurt her head.",3
"Arguing with a friend over politics. She was more informed on the  
issues and made me feel very ashamed of my political ignorance.",2
"Once when I was babysitting for some neighbors children I found  
roaches in ther bathroom. I had never seen a roach before but I  
called my mother to make sure that's what they were. And she came  
over and checked.",0
"My brother told me that a person (whom I know) had insulted him.   
I am very fond of my brother, and as he himself can not get angry  
or hurt, my protectiveness was aroused and I got angry.",3
I felt guilty after I battered to death a classmate of mine.,5
I realized the girl liked to be with me.,1
"My elder brother often criticizes my mother's cooking.  Once he  
did it very impolitely and lost his temper.  This made all of us  
very sad.  I was very angry and I scolded him.  He asked me not  
to interfere with what was his buisness.",3
"When cleaning up a pile of junk under our house, a huge spider (a  
""Jungle Spider"") ran out near me. (I do not like even small  
spiders).",6
"I told Mr Winter of Downtown Fashion to go to - when he did not  
accept my Visa !",2
I fell outside the door of my house.,2
"When I was about 14 years old, I ""borrowed"" a can of drink from  
the refrigerator, intending to replace it later that day. But it  
was found missing before I could do anything - no one owned up to  
its disappearance.",5
When I tried to steal a book from the bookshop and was caught.,2
When I heard of the death of my mother.,4
Getting back with my boyfriend after a year away - apart.,1
"When I had an argument with my grandfather the day my younger  
brother was born.",5
"One day, I discussed a very important question with A.  A  
suddenly declared that he would not accept my position and  
thought that he himself was right.  Moreover, he attacked   
strongly, not my opinion but me personally.",3
"I have always felt ashamed for some people's behavior to their  
too old parents. I have felt hurt and shy when they have left  
them to the mercy of fate.",2
"In the army, my result at the shooting exercises got  
me a three day furlough.",1
"I went to visit Montrose home for crippled children to interview  
a handicapped child. I interviewed two boys and it went really  
well. I promised I would visit them, but never got the time. Now I  
hope they've forgotten me, but I feel ashamed of letting them  
down.",2
"Bus driver driving roughly - old man fell off seat into aisle -  
driver wouldn't stop - disgusted with her behaviour.",0
As a child when I was blamed for peeing in the swimming-pool.,2
"When my family heard that my Mother's cousin who lives in  
England wrote us to tell that he had cancer of the lymph glands.",4
When somebody stole my brother's disco machine.,3
When one of my friends started misbehaving.,0
"One day my mother forced me to eat more and I refused, the next  
day she served me more rice and mutton pieces than usual.  When I  
saw this I got very angry and scolded her, and refused to eat.   
Later I felt guilty and asked her to excuse me.",5
"Every year during carnival I am very joyful I have an intense  
feeling of happiness then.",1
"A quarrel with my mother because I thought she said very  
unreasonable things about me, that hit me strongly.",3
"When I took blood from a patient for alcohol estimation and  
urine for some other examination, he told me that something bad  
would happen to me as he would play magic on me.",6
"When I entered the dissecting room for the first time. I think I  
felt disgusted mainly because of the bad smell of formaline.",0
"A girl whom I hadn't seen for a period of time told me that she  
had been pregnant and had an abortion - I was the father.",5
"I had a date with a boy, but I didn't feel liked, and didn't go,  
I wasn't home purposely at the time we arranged.",5
"One day my boyfriend put my hand on his penis and I felt well,  
but after I felt a guilty conscience because I hadn't thought  
about the consequences that this could have brought if I had gone  
farther.",5
"I felt something akin to shame after a heavy night of drinking,  
along with waking up with a woman I had just met whose husband  
was an epileptic. I was later to know that she knew my mother.",2
"At the railway station, while waiting for the last train at night  
I noticed that a drunk young man was appraching me in a  
purposeful mannner.",6
"We had gone to our native village and I went to visit a tribal  
group which believes in Goddess Kali.  As it was a festival day they  
had to offer a hen to the Goddess so they cut the head off a hen  
right in front of my eyes.  I felt disgusted and evenb gave up  
eating meat after this incident.",0
"We had fixed time for practice as we had to participate in the  
inter-department song contest.  I arrived and found that there  
was nobody there.  When I went to the canteen I found them eating  
lunch.  I was so angry that I aired my greviances to one of them  
and then left.",3
When I see someone vomitting.,0
I felt fear when my mother was heavily ill.,6
Nearly caught masturbating.,2
I had a car accident.,6
Before the examn.,6
When my friend had a child out of wedlock.,2
"When I met a good friend after a long time. We had had a quarrel  
but after two weeks I was really glad to see him again.",1
"On the last day of my school life I was very sad, specially on  
the farewell party day.  I felt sad to leave behind my beloved  
teachers and friends.",4
I cheated my boyfriend.,5
"I was on the Inter Rail in Naples alone. After an evening in a  
restaurant I was going back to the hotel when a prostitute  
approached me to sell herself. I refused but as I carried on  
walking I felt that I was being followed by someone.",6
"When my best friend got a boyfriend. Because of this a  
relationship of ten years was finished abruptely.",4
My friend who was in the Bago was kicked out of the sorority.,4
When my honest intentions were marred by another's jealousy.,4
Due to some reasons my boyfriend and I decided to separate.,4
"At an exam in pharmacology I tried to prompt a coleague (she  
asked me something) and the assistant professor made me a sharp  
remark.",2
Held under water by a large wave and thought I was drowning.,6
"Getting a D in a class last semester and knowing it was because I  
didn't study.",5
"At a certain situation I felt myself neglected and undeservedly  
harmed.",3
"When I received the letter informing that I had been accepted to  
be a Chinese university student, I was excited as I had longed  
for it.",1
"I experienced this feeling when the doctors found a nodule in one  
of my mother's breasts. It turned out to be an occlusion  
resulting from continious sucking but for a few days I was not in my  
reason.",6
"When I forgot to cook something that my mother had told me to,  
and at supper time the food that I was supposed to have prepared  
was not there.",5
"I cannot remember a situation in which I felt ashamed. I was  
eating with some people and a little boy I took care of. I warned  
him often not to knock down his glass of mild. When I took  
out his chair I knocked down my own glass.",2
"When I was a child it was found out that I had taken off my  
clothes outdoors.  It was summer and my friend and I were out  
in the woods.  It had felt exciting at that time.  My parents  
discovered that my trousers were back to front and I felt  
ashamed.",2
"Last night - finding that someone in the house had eaten an  
entire packet of almonds I had bought for a family treat.",3
"I ride my motorbike in my village and everyone stares at me as if  
I was a rare specimen.",2
"Last week a friend of mine called on me and said I was moody and  
difficult to persuade. With this I got angry with her.",3
"I was furious when the teacher pointed out in class that I  
was the quietest girl in class.",3
"When I saw that I had passed the university entrance exam.  It  
made me forget all my problems.",1
"On my way to a concert I went with a man who tried to molest me.  
At that moment I did not care much but now the impression fills  
me with disgust.",0
"I told evil lies about a close friend of mine.  I was evil in  
order to sound jolly, to charm a person whom I wanted to impress.  
 I sold my friend, I was despicable.",2
"I lived in a student-house, where you shared the lavatory and  
shower with a fellow student. the shower cubicle formed the  
connection between both appartments. My neighbour very often was  
drunk and aggressive. One night, I was afraid that he would enter  
my room.",6
"Losing my girlfriend who made an end to our relationship. By this  
I lost an important source of support, certainty and joyful  
moments. I cried very intensly when that happened.",4
When I learnt that my close friend was going to immigrate.,4
"After my graduation exams I was waiting to get admitted to a post  
graduation course, however the situation was not very favourable  
for me and I was upset.  Suddenly, Bombay university offered me a  
seat and I landed up in Bombay for my post graduation studies.   
This happened last year and was very pleasant for me.",1
"I didn't tell my parents that I was going to Sofia. I told them  
that I was going to a seminar. My mother knew that I was lying but  
she didn't stop me.",2
"A situation where I ignored my beliefs and principles for a trip  
of whimsy.",0
"I had a friend who was very kind to me.  I tried my best to like  
him and understand him but when I was with him I could not help  
rejecting, criticizing and blaming him.  I wanted to get away  
from him as soon as possible.",0
"Before going to school I usually take something to eat right at  
school and this time I took Father's money without him knowing  
it. I felt guilty and I returned the money.",5
"When on Christmas day my grandmother died. I received the  
news when I was coming back from a party on the 24th at 5 am.",4
Finding out that I was deceived by a friend.,3
A friend I had missed very much came to see me unexpectedly.,1
"As I could not be home before midnight I called home at 11.30 and  
asked them to leave the door open so that I could get in.  I  
actually woke up the whole family by calling them so late.  My  
mother could not go back to sleep, besides she had a conference    
the next day and really needed to sleep.",5
"At a carneval-party I smooched with a man - some days later I was  
rather ashamed for that.",2
When my sister's boyfriend accused her of having been sleeping around.,0
Insulting other people.,0
When I let a person assume a fault that I committed.,5
I felt disgust of dirty.,0
"After some friends had come to see me. They had stayed for  
several days and we had got on very well. When they had left, I  
had a feeling of emptyness.",4
"At my native place I was riding my cycle, which did not have  
lights, at night and so a police man caught me.  I requested him  
to let me go but he would not so after a few minutes I just  
escaped.",5
"My 2 year old daughter disappeared in a moment of inattention; I  
was responsible for her.",6
"I was really shameful when my mother beat me in the presence of  
my friends because I didn't cook lunch up until 2 o'clock.",2
"Getting terrible meals, but paying heaps for them.",3
"I felt ashamed of myself the first time I drank as nobody in the  
family drinks.  I felt that I had let down my parents and my  
friends.",2
"In the bus I was sitting next to a colleage who was drunk and  
behaved in keeping with his state.",0
"I have high expectations for my future but if I pursue the  
subject in this manner I will not attain this.",4
"I ate 12 biscuits one night after tea while watching TV - I don't  
know why.",5
"During lunch with some classmates, a priest was also there.  He  
was eating desperately as if someone was going to take his plate  
away.  He did it with gluttony.  He wiped his hands on his suit  
several times and it was full of crumbs.",0
"We had friends to dinner and one of them threw a beer bottle in  
the air, and it bounced on an expensive table and damaged the  
table .The person did not apologise.",0
"When I came very late one night (or morning !) and my parents  
were waiting, not so much angrgy as disappointed.",5
"A very good friend of mine had been away for three months. When  
we met again, we ran up to each other and embraced.",1
"In a film there was a scene in which a rat was sliding on a bed,  
leaving a trace of blood behind, finally it entered the mouth of  
one of the actors.",0
"The teacher of one course gave me 10 questions with sub-questions  
going from a to e for each question.  She asked me to do all this  
in one and a half hours.  It involved a lot of describing and  
explaining and even though I knew all the answers, I could not  
finish the work.",0
"I was moving in the graveyard at 6.00 pm one day and was griped  
by fear because I was told that ghosts detain people moving there  
at night.",6
"I broke a window of a neighbouring house and I feared my mother's  
judgement and action on what I had done.",6
"When I heard that a close relative of mine had given birth at a  
very young age, in a very remote area and had had very few problems.",1
"My girlfriend mentioned a certain girl's name who was my girl  
some time back and she is no longer mine that she said she was  
still mine.",3
Once I had some homework to do and I did not do it.,5
While paddling in the river during a storm.  I feared drowning.,6
When I passed an exam.,1
"When realizing that my girlfriend and myself in fact had started  
the process of breaking up.",4
My parents came to visit me.,1
"While having a discussion with a colleague of mine, I realized that her  
conception of man and work were similar to mine.",1
"When I was little I lost control of my bike and started to go  
into a buay intersection but my neighbor stopped me just in time.",6
"After confronting the person who stood me up, I blew up and said  
all the wrong things.",5
Before examination.,6
"When I did poorly on a test and I knew that there wasn't an  
excuse for not doing better. Made mistakes I could not believe I  
made.",2
Staying in a relative's house which was broken in before.,6
I won a sport contest.,1
"As a ten-year-old I was at the funeral of my grand-father.  It was more  
the ceremonies held in the church and not really the death of my  
grand-father which made me sad.",4
"My dog had been run over and died near the house.  We had to pick  
him up, cold and glassy eyed, to get rid of the corpse.",0
"Through the media and their presentation of a kidnapped child who  
was raped.",0
My son passed grade 7 and was accepted for form I.,1
Not collecting homeworks in time to give the teacher.,2
When I was admitted to the Bulgarian State Conservatoire.,1
"After I said something that my boyfriend disagreed with, he  
walked away from me without discussing what bothered him. I  
became very angry with him for treating me this way. Yesterday,  
November 14.",3
When I failed at the first entrance exam.,4
When I was weeding the garden I found a lizard in my hand.,0
"I was hunting, and was lost in the fog in the mountains.",6
"Inter-national sports events won by my favourite national team or  
player brings me joy, e.g when India won the World cup cricket  
match.",1
"When I think about the short time that we live and relate it to  
the periods of my life when I think that I did not use this  
short time.",4
"I phoned two friends and was not able to arrange a meeting with  
either of them, so I had to change my plans.",4
"When I got a first class in the twelveth standard exams, I was very  
surprised and happy and I had a very good time with my friends.",1
"When I pulled a chair from under someone at kindergarten and he  
hit his head.",5
"When I realized that I was directing the feelings of discontent  
with myself at my partner and this way was trying to put the blame  
on him instead of sorting out my own feeliings.",2
Not doing well in the examn.,2
"In the traffic with a car, I nearly got crushed between a bus and  
a tram.  The attention of other drivers saved me at the last moment.",6
"I was looking after a dying patient at work one night, a young  
woman, my colleague was talking to her relatives and .... to  
offer them any support emotionally, physically and then sent them  
down to the coffee shop to have a dinner rather than offering the  
facilities available for their use cause it involved her having  
to do some work. Seeing them again I felt disgusted at her  
attitude.",0
"I visited a place in Morocco where they worked the leather.  I  
saw the skins emerged in a liquid which ressembled putrification.",0
"When I did not succeed in finding a job after having finished a  
nonacademic degree.",5
"I saw a friend of mine who had suffered a very heavy contusion  
after an accident.",4
When I saw a dog which had been knocked down by a car.,0
"When high level results were declared, I found my candidature  
number.  I was very happy as I had not expected it.  As I had been   
injured before the examination and I had performed poorly.",1
"I told some acquaintances of mine something that I regretted  
later.",2
A fear of lack of personal powers.,6
"I wanted to get in contact with a girl I loved, but I was afraid  
she would refuse me.",6
China winning the Asian Olympic games.,1
"I felt very sad when I saw the first list from the names of the  
people who entered at the University and my name wasn't there.",4
I was forced to leave an unforgettable friend.,4
"When a very close friend of mine went into hospital for a major  
operation and I couldn't see her for a while as I was not a  
relative she had no relatives in N.Z.",4
"I felt it when I saw a colleague of mine eating like a beast. At  
the same time he was making gestures, speaking and making the  
hell of a noise.",0
I felt sadness when my grandfather died.,4
"I asked my friend to come with me to a disco because I wanted to  
be with a person I know well. But when I amused myself with  
others I let my friend sit alone, although I had asked her to  
come.",2
"One day a fierce looking man came to our house  and said that my  
father should apologize to him, however I was alone at home.",6
"When I was dreaming that I was being chased, in the upmost of  
horror the door of the closed felt down synchronicaly with the  
dream scare.",6
Can think of no time that I have felt fear.,6
When a thief entered the house in which I was sleeping.,6
"In our flat the bath-tub is in the kitchen. At the beginning I  
had very intensive feelings of shame when I had a bath and people  
were in the kitchen.",2
"In a discussion the leader wanted to stop because she was of the  
opinion that we were not involved and she misjudged our reactions  
as negative. We however only posed several questions which she  
couldn't answer.",3
"I was in the library of medical psychology and walked into the  
wrong direction. A man who came out of a room threated me very  
denigrating and I became very angry in a resisting manner.",3
"I had a cousin whom I loved so much. Unfortunately she passed  
away suddenly and one time I had a dream in which I was talking  
to her yet she is dead.",6
People impolite with me because I did not get a good report.,3
"When a boy tried to fool me so he would be OK trying to show me  
that he is a gook boy.",3
"I was walking quite quickly and unthinking through a children's  
playground, when a toddler ran in front of me I knocked him over  
and he hit his head quite hard and began crying.",5
When I won the first prize in a cross country race.,1
"I went to fetch my girl-friend at the station. When the train  
arrived and I saw her descending and running up to me, I felt  
glad.",1
"I borrowed a gold bracelet without the girl's knowledge. I had it  
for so long I had to keep it. To this day I feel ashamed at  
myself for having it. I never wear the thing anymore.",2
"When you betray the trust you have been given. This is connected  
with copying at a class-work at school.",2
NO RESPONSE,2
Found out my wife is pregnant.,1
"I should have given a test lesson to get a job. I had no courage.  
I didn't make the test.",6
"Before an exam which I, finally did not take.",6
"I was sleeping when I heard the neighbours screaming, I peeped  
through the window and saw a thief  trying to enter my  
neighbour's house.",6
When I had been angry at my friend without any reason.,2
"On boat trip - saw mother giving young child (aprox 6-7 years)  
cigarettes.",0
"I saw in an ice-cream kiosque a cockroach walking through a  
cornet.",0
"My brother had bowel obstruction, having heard that he was going  
for surgery, I was afraid he might not come back to life after  
hearing of the General Anaesthesia.",6
"When I felt I had let my parents down, especially my mother, by  
having sexual intercourse for the first time, and a few times  
after that. Also, when I went on the Pill.",5
I found myself a place after looking for one for a long time.,1
My uncle died in the Vietnam War.,4
"I had been watching a triller a dark night in the country and I  
had to go the outside toilet on my own. ",6
"When I am out in the dark and a suspicious looking character  
comes towards me.",6
"My sister, whom I like very much, asked me for a favour which I  
refused her for some flimsy reason. Some time later I felt sorry  
for that and something like sadness.",4
"It was at the time of my M.Sc exam, when I was not in a position  
to take the exam after having studied seriously.",4
Cannot remember such a situation.,2
"When I was six years old we were on holiday in France. There was  
very heavy weather then.",6
"This happened when I was selected to go to Secondary school to  
start Form I in October 1980.",1
"When I had sufficient amount of money, I brought more clothes for  
myself than for the children - I  felt bad about it.",5
"One night I had a sexual intercourse with another man.  My sexual  
desire and my curiosity had made me jump into bed with him.  I am  
ashamed of myself now.",2
"One of my best friends was found lying flat on the road because  
he was drunk and was taken by the police and put in a cell. I  
went to see him the following morning, the place was really a  
mess and was smelling badly. I didn't like it.",0
Broken a friend's cup.,5
"I had not told my parents about my bad marks in school. One day,  
my father wanted to speak to the teachers. Fortunately I could  
influence my parents to take it easy.",6
"I got a good reaction from my tutor and tutorial group for a  
presentation I'd given that I was very worried about.",1
Cueing in the students dining hall.,0
Left alone in the dining hall at night.,6
When I asked my girlfriend to marry me.,1
"This happened when one of my uncles died just whan I was  
planning to go and visit him during the next holidays.",4
Promising to do a task for a friend and just forgetting about it.,5
Had a letter from my father (usually he does not write to me).,1
"When my son omits to carry out certain duties at home that he  
knows needs doing.",3
"I had spent the weekend visiting relatives and friends and didn't  
study for Anatomy class on Monday.",5
"I once saw a programme on TV describing how certain wild life  
films were made and was disgusted by the treatment of certain  
animals in this particular programme of the polar bear.",0
"Waiting for a bus not coming for a long time, and the bus drivers  
were having a long lunch.",0
"One day I went to see a movie without my parents permission.  It  
was an adult movie and I was scared that my parents would not  
allow me to see the movie.  However after coming home I felt very  
guilty at what I had done.",5
When I understood that I was admitted to the University.,1
"I passed an exam which I was not sure at all to pass.  I rejoyced  
at the result because the possibility of continuing my studies  
depended on it.",1
"When a very near person got into an awkward situation but showed  
only helplessness and indecision.",0
"I tried my level best to care for my client, I took an  
appointment with a doctor and before meeting the doctor he  
expired - a poor small boy from Uttar Pradesh.",4
When I got the scholarship letter from Australia.,1
"When a boy who was drunk came into my room and misbehaved in the  
presence of my boyfriend.",3
I confronted a bigger person than I and almost got into a fight.,6
"When I travelled all the way to my former school to collect my  
certificate, only to be told that I owed them some money, I knew  
nothing about this.",3
"When we could not land our plane and we knew that the fuel was  
running out.  Bad weather had already frightened us.",6
"Friend (male) hinted that my talking to other men at a pub was  
immoral. He implied that I should remain only with my boyfriend  
the entire evening.",3
"When in a car accident where car was total wipe off (wipe out, or  
write off).",6
When inadvertantly I found myself in the ladies room.,2
"My brother wanted money but I refused to give it to him, two days  
later he stole it from my father.",5
"Climbing a mountain to see a view, towards the top we suddenly  
came across a ledge with a nearly sheer drop on either side,  
which I had to cross.",6
"When I lied at home.   I told them that I was going to a  
Christian meeting and I went to see my boyfriend instead.",5
"I saw a cripple in rags with small children in Italy.  He was  
probably an imposter.",0
"When my father managed to begin a ""new life"" after the divorce  
from my mother; resulting in a new little sister for me.",1
"When I was pointed out as a problem child in primary school and  
my mother took the teacher's point of view.",3
Encouter with a prostitute.,0
"When my brother had an epileptic attack and I was scared as to  
what would happen to him.",6
"New Year's Eve party in the country, I hardly knew a person; my  
partner spent most of the time at the bar. I had little  
opportunity to get to know people because our table was separated  
and my boyfriend's parents were present.",3
Finding out that the person I love understands me.,1
"My brother came to tell me about some problems we had in the   
family.  I felt sad because I thought that if my mother had not  
gone away when this brother was younger, things would have been  
different.",4
"Doctors ignored relative who complained about pain, and is now  
dying of cancer.",0
"When a classmate of ours knocked on our door at 2 o'clock in the  
morning.  I was disgusted at his behaviour.",0
"After waiting impatiently for the results of the form 5  
examinations for almost a year, at last I received a letter of  
acceptance from the Senate of the university of Zambia telling  
me that I had made it to the first year course at UNZA.",1
"I was in a camp and went out for a walk at night on my own.  I lost   
my way and spent several hours looking for the camp.",6
"A fellow student who seemed very nice later on proved to be a  
slimy fellow towards a professor.",0
"One day I was going through the street door of my house, when a  
man asked me for a doctor.  He then showed me his genitals and  
asked me to cure him myself.",0
I feel a strong anger when I am treated unjustly.,3
"A friend of mine suggested that I become a film extra.  The idea  
seemed very funny to me and my reaction seemed rather outlandish  
to the others.",1
"When my girlfriend left me to go out with another guy, even  
though she knew that she was wrong.",3
"I was visiting my parents in law when the house was invaded by  
three strange men, and they committed an armed assault.",6
"When I went in a clinical hospital and saw in what conditions  
people are attended there.",0
"When I failed the entrance exam of the medical school and was  
studying biochemistry which has no job prospects in Zambia.",0
Accepted by the college football team.,1
"After some time of work I was transferred to another place and in  
an other quite harder job.",6
"My friend and I were to attend a very important meeting and he  
had promised to come and pick me up.  But he did not turn up and  
I felt very angry at him.",3
I spread abroad an intimate secret.,5
"When I realized that I was in hospital after a car accident and  
that I had a scleral tear in my left eye.",4
"I didn't tell my parents exacly what had made me so late in  
getting home one night. I left out some details and somehow, I  
felt I had lied to them.",5
"I was alone walking in a deserted part of the city and I had some  
fear that some men would attack me and rob me.",6
"When I was unable to respond to a welcome in my indigenous  
language of Maori at an important function where I was the only  
woman in the group and it was expected of me.",2
"When I knew that my niece did a bad schoolar examination because  
I couldn't explain her the lesson.",5
Meeting a male friend with whose wife I was having an affair.,5
"I felt guilty after hearing that my girlfriend with whom I had  
spent most of my time was pregnant.",5
"At the end of my senior yr. in high school I found out that a  
friend of mine I knew had cancer had been diagnosed as terminally  
ill.",4
"When once again I drank too much and felt very rotten the morning  
after.",0
Insulted by a woman in public.,2
"When my wife died in hospital, she was pregnant and had undergone  
an operation.",4
Taking a chemistry midterm.,6
"I went to the prayer meeting at night and unfortunately the car  
broke down, so my other sister said I had to walk alone from  
Ndirande to Chirimba at around midnight. So we reached home at  
1 am. I was afraid of robbers and dardness.",6
"I had been living in an overseas city and made the decision to  
leave the city and come home about 12 months before I met a whole  
new set of friends, leaving them at the airport was sad and  
traumatic as they had helped me in many ways and I knew I  
wouldn't see many of them again.",4
When my mother was operated.,4
"Getting a good mark for a subject I had worked hard at but  
expected only a moderate mark.",1
"A kitten had wandered into our office, and I was told to take it  
back across the street. When I crossed back, the kitten followed  
me and was run over and killed by a car.",5
"I thought that I was going to fail a subject and so I began to  
study for the final exam, then my friend told me that I had  
passed it.  That meant that I could go home, as I do not study in  
my hometown.",1
"After having watched a crime show on the TV, I was about to take  
the dog for a walk. Then, suddenly, there was a man on the  
porch... (We live some distance away from other people).",6
When I was called for an Interview at Kamuzu College of Nursing.,6
"When my rights to use a shared house had been usurped by  
co-owners out of pure selfishness.",3
At work being shifted to another area.,3
"When my son returned from mountaineering - healthy in body and  
soul.",1
When we got a young dog.,1
"Fear overwhelmed me when right against the car I was in I saw  
another one, as if out of control of the driver.",6
"When I was getting up, I found a live cockroach in my bedroom.",0
"I had an implicit agreement with my sister about meeting her,  
however she had not understood the situation the same way so she  
did not turn up.",3
"One day at school I had quarrelled with a school-mate, and  
ultimately I had hit him hard.  He, being physically weak had to  
visit his doctor and remain absent from school for two days.",5
"I feared that I would not be able to hand in the book-report on  
time as I had started working very late.  The book was difficult  
to read and my teacher did not accept my work as it was handed in  
late.",6
"I had been on friendship with a certain girl for sometime and the  
love was going on well, but it happened that I made the  
friendship come to an end suddenly without good reasons.",5
"One day my friend told me that she had heard that I was moving  
about with her boyfriend. I was disgusted with the news.",0
"I came home and discovered that someone had broken in. Then I  
realized that they probably were still there.",6
"I broke my Uncle's Radio player accidentally and so I feared that  
he was going to cut me off from going to his house as well as  
playing it again.",6
Having received an offer to do post-graduate work.,1
"When I saw a TV program on the North American military plan  
called ""The startwar"".",6
"When I got associated with a boy one year ago, I neglected my  
best friend. When the relation with this boy finished she behaved  
very easy-going towards me. I felt guilty then.",5
"I was entrusted with an object and while using it I handled it  
carelessly and it broke.",5
When going out I am threatened regularly by two punk-girls.,6
"This situation happened when my friend John ate my banana which I  
kept in the cupboard.",3
"When I was caught by the police and was kept with a group of  
delinquents, which added to my fear of being shut up.  I was  
afraid of the people near me and the future consequences.",6
"I was at school and afterwards went to work. After work I went to  
see a friend and stayed out late. when I got home my mother was  
awake and I felt guilty.",5
When I was bluffing in front of my mother to get more money.,5
"I couldn't fulfill a request of a girlfriend of mine, though I  
categorically promised her and I believed there wouldn't be any  
hindrance. It was partly for objective reasons but also because  
I couldn't organize myself.",5
"On the road there was a dead animal with its entrails showing and  
its skull crushed.",0
"I met a girl some time ago and I cared very much about her but it  
happened so that we left each other. I felt some sort of sadness, I think  
I can call it so.",4
"When India won the Prudential cup by beating West-Indies in the  
final match and became the world cricket champion.  West-Indies  
was the strongest of the eight countries which participated in  
the competition.",1
"When I was 10 years old I stained our bench with a fountain-pen,  
I tried to twin the cushions, but then there were colour nuances.  
Then my mother catched me, she saw it and became very angry.",2
When my affairs with the girl I love settled positively.,1
"When I purposely locked my babysitter out of the house at age 4  
because I DIDN'T LIKE HER.",2
"I moved to Nijmegen for my study. Soon after this my mother had  
to be admitted in hospital because of cardiac compliants. I knew  
that my moving was an important reason for this.",5
"A sister broke a cup and when mother asked I was reported to have  
been responsible.",0
"When my sister - after a history of one abortion and one  
stillbirth - gave birth to a perfectly healty boy.",1
At my sister's wedding.,1
"Seeing a close friend who had just returned from twelve months  
overseas.",1
"Someone smoking on Electric train (Electric trains are  
non-smoking) with alcohol smell coming from person.  ",0
"When I betrayed my lover, she told me something in confidence, I  
felt at the time I had to relay the information back to the  
person concerned, as I felt the situation volitile, did this  
without telling my lover, she felt like piggy in the middle, as  
she was not directly concerned. Maybe you could call it gossip I  
felt different after I had slept on it. If I had waited, thought,  
NOW I would not have done it.",5
"When I was taking my girlfriend out, she seemed to have taken  
her time.",0
When I failed an exam.,0
"Once I was caught by thugs aged between 20-35, they asked me to  
surrender all the property I had and I remember feeling very scared.",6
"I felt disgusted when somebody told me that my previous boyfriend  
was her boyfriend.",0
"Moving to an unknown place, away from the familiar surroundings  
and into a situation of loneliness.",4
"A friend of mine was hurt as he thought that our relationship was  
not the same as before and something had gone wrong.",4
A person died (not really a friend).,4
When I was rude to my mother and got angry with her.,5
When I got first division in the exams before leaving school.,1
"I saw a magazine with photographs of dead and maimed people whose  
limbs were separated from their body like a head on one side and  
the leg on the other.",0
"At the hairdresser's, I got two stains of dyestuff on my new  
trousers. These stains are not removable, so I cannot put on the  
trousers again.",3
"I once caught a letter in my girlfriend's handbag from a certain  
man. I felt anger.",3
"One night I had a feeling that somebody was stealing my car,  
but I was too frightened to go and see.",6
"My mother was always fastidious about my room, bed time, etc.   
She treated us strictly and punished us physically.   These  
things were intolerable.",0
"Saying something quite rude, but in jest, about a photograph of  
someone, but it didn't quite turn out that way.",2
"When I was victimized for running away with a girl who was  
somebody else's wife and niece at the same time.  I was very  
angry over this issue because I was told to pay him money after  
having been punished for it. ",3
Betraying someone's trust.,5
"I was double crossing my fiancee and one day she caught me red  
handed.  She forgave me later.  I was very ashamed of what I had  
done.",2
"I know that a certain person feels very lonely, and that she  
always looks forward to seeing me. However, often I am too  
busy to visit her, then I feel guilty.",5
"Yesterday in the elevator a man started smoking, this is  
something I just can not tolerate.",0
"At my wedding - standing with the man I love and acknowledging  
that fact to members of family and friends.",1
"When I had come home drunk the day after a party, I felt very  
ashamed in front of my parents.",2
"My son lives with my parents in the country and I feel this  
feeling always when leaving for Sofia, but the last time it was  
quite strong.",4
"I was annoyed when a person higher up asked me why a particular  
job was not done, it was not my job to do it.  ",3
When I had passed MCE examinations.,1
"I had been rude to my mother at a time when she needed  
comforting, not anger (death of my sister).",2
"When I impregnated a certain girl, I thought that I would be  
forced to marry her or go to court.",6
"I felt angry when I failed in an exam about which I knew quite a  
few things and I did not deserve to be plucked.",3
"At the police centre a man between 40-50 was brought in.  He was  
very drunk and in all likelihood had not slept indoors for a long  
time and had relieved himself in his trousers.",0
Someone vomited on the street.,0
"While trying to get my little brother over a ditch, he fell on  
his head and started crying.  I was scared of having caused him  
permanent injury.",5
"Walking around the University at night by myself, having been  
previously warned of rapes, etc.",6
"We were on the road in a car when a lorry bypassed us.  We had to  
swerve and we almost got run over.",6
"My mother unjustly became very angry with me and sent me to my  
room while my father explained that the way she saw things was  
not correct. I had done things with the best intentions.",4
Can't remember any episode of disgust.,0
"When my Bictorian ""friend"" was staying at my house we ere going  
places together, and sleeping together. At the time I had a  
boyfriend locally. The first time I had to face him after  
sleeping with the guy from Melbourne I felt very guilty.",5
"When I was found urinating, behind a toilet instead of inside it,  
by my class mates and the teachers.  I was told to pick up my own  
urine from the wet soil, I did it.",2
"After seeing a terror movie at the cinema, I was so scared that I  
couldn't even drive the car into the garage. I often thought  
about the film afterwards, hoping such things couldn't exist in  
the ""real world"".",6
When I was on holiday someone vomited in front of me.,0
"I was angry when I heard that my only girl was going about with  
another man. So I decided to drop her but later the story came to  
be untrue.",3
"One evening my father told me to go into the cellar and get him a  
beer. I was terribly frightened at the idea of a man sitting in  
the cellar and assaulting me. For my defence I took an empty  
bottle with me.",6
"It is some years ago when my mother found me stealing relish in  
the pot. It was fresh fish which was very appetising.",5
"I went to see a movie and I went with a friend, it was really  
frightening and it made me stop and think about the world around  
me and what it is really like out there. I was frightened all  
that night.",6
I pointed a failure of a friend of mine.,5
"When I heard that there had been some women raped at uni, just  
near where I usually park my car and walk by myself at night.  
Although I wasn't in danger it unnerved me for days and I was  
fearful whenever walking through the area.",6
Not finishing homework.,2
"I had planned to study for my mid-term exams on a certain day and   
my room-mate called me to ask me to go out for a stroll.  I tried  
to make an excuse so as not to go out but she refused to listen  
to me and insisted that I go out with her.  I find it unnecessary   
to talk to her anymore. 
",3
"When I was in form 3, my aunts lied to my daddy telling him that  
I had told them that I was pregnant.  My daddy  told my mother  
and she asked me if it was true.  I was very angry with my aunts.",3
"I can't remember being truly angry. Usually it's just  
disappointment that I feel. One situation would be with my  
brother. He and I used to be close but now he seems to be  
avoiding me.",3
"A woman I know is slowly dying from cancer. Observing this  
process makes me sad.",4
Listening to long speech of the party leaders wasting my time.,3
Had an insulting letter from my father.,2
"On a camp - boys and girls in one cabin. One guy forced himself  
upon another girl and was having intercourse, while the girl in  
the bunk beneath was pretending to be asleep and not be ill.",0
"When I realized that I belonged to a country which is amongst the  
poorest in the world and that inspite of having the resources we  
do not utilize them.  I was ashamed at myself and my country,  
shame at the lack of parity between the lifestyles of the  
citizens.",2
"When the Cambridge results came out and I obtained a first  
division.  I had been thinking that I had not done very well.",1
The sight of vomit on the street.,0
"When I was an exploration with my friends and almost got lost in  
an unfamiliar environment.  It was getting dark and we did not  
know how to get back home.",6
"A friend got angry and drove ""like a lunatic"" with me and others  
in his car. I was angry about his dangerous driving.",3
Finding out that I am not an as able student as I thought.,6
"At a discussion a friend took a ""faschistic view"", what I had not  
expected.",0
"I once got a phone call stating ""one of your friend is in jail,  
please come and see him"".  When I went to the jail and saw him, I  
was disgusted.",0
"When I was 6 or 7 years old, I pulled down the trousers of a  
friend because I wanted to know what she looked like. My mother  
watched that and (as a punishment) sent me into the house. We  
never spoke about that; I think it was as embarassing for her as  
it was for me. ",2
"Fear of the loss of a close friend, of feeling the ground slipping  
from under my feet.",6
Thinking about friends overseas.,4
When I was nearly beaten up by the brother of my girlfriend.,6
"I was escorting a relative on a bike, we passed by a dark road  
with bushas on each side.  Half way down this road, suddenly, we    
saw a white dog appear from one side.  Before we could do  
anything, it had vanished and moreover it did not seem to have  
any legs.",6
"When as a 7 year old, I stole money from my mother.",5
"On a boat trip to Denmark, 14 of us had a lot of fun and we  
spent SEK 10 each on one armed bandits and against all odds we  
won the jackpot of SEK 1000.",1
My friend told me he really likes me.,1
"When I was a child, my beloved cat gave birth to four beautiful  
little kittens. Before she had them, she came up to me and I  
followed her out, then witnessed them being born.",1
"When I had slept with a boy for the first time I felt ashamed for  
three reasons. First, because I was only 13 years old, second,  
because I did not really like him, third, because he had caught  
me napping.",2
Not acting on my promise.,2
Leaving high school.,4
"The day I went to eat dinner in the dinning hall and found a  
dead fly in my gravy.",0
"I was testing my new roller skates in the street, suddenly a dog  
ran barking in my direction, very threatening. I was very  
startled and terribly upset.",6
"I am not good enough to join any team to play sport for the  
class.",5
"One day I got on the bus without any money or season ticket and  
the driver threw me out.",2
"When I passed the first year and so I could come back for my  
second year.",1
"I was coming home from a relative's place and it was about  
9.30/10 P.M.  I felt slightly apprehensive when I got off the bus  
and started walking towards my place.  I was confident that  
nothing would happen to me, yet there was this slight feeling of  
fear.",6
China winning the Asian Olympic.,1
Watching the Asian Olympic game (China winning).,1
Long illness.,4
"I was driving my parents' car into a carpark in front of a shop  
we own, and scraped the corner of the front panel on the back  
corner of my father's utility. I didn't tell anyone, I lied about  
the bump (later I had to confess).",5
"Passing my pharmacy exams which meant my tertiary education for  
pharmacy completed.",1
When I saw an insect going up my arm.,0
"When the person I am going out with let me down in a situation  
that I was depending on them, and didn't show respect or care.",3
Insulted by a teacher in front of the class.,2
I was misbehaving in the agency.,2
"My sister lost one of her twin sons (my first nephews) and then  
the older one died a week later.",4
Not getting a job.,4
"At an undeserved attitude toward a man, when human personality is  
not treated decently.",3
"When a car is overtaking another and I am forced to drive off the  
road.",3
"Once I offended a friend, instead of her coming to me to ask and  
discuss the matter she was just telling other people about it and  
say all she could about me.",0
"Shifted from Melbourne to Brisbane. All my old school friends  
gave me a party and I had to say good-bye to them all.",4
As for disgust.,3
When I lost my father in a car accident.,4
After an operation I had to stay in bed for a long time.,4
"I attended a ceremony in Denmark which is comparable to our  
Halloween. They build a large bonfire and place a life size dummy  
of a witch. The crowd cheered when the dummy burst into flames.",0
"A friend of mine trusted me to back her in a decision she had  
made.  But when the moment came I did not agree with her opinion.",5
A friend forgot his appointment with me.,5
"One night I was lying in my bed awake but I had my eyes closed. I  
saw figures with terrible faces and black frocks bending over me  
and touching me. I opened my eyes but I could still see them. I  
had the feeling that somebody was in the room. It was terrible.  
Only when I turned on the light I was able to go to sleep.",6
The loss of a person I loved very much.,4
"I had asked the Salvation Army to take away a piece of furniture  
of mine, but I forgot to cancel the agreement (a friend of mine  
took it) and I thereby caused the Salvation Army people some  
unnecessary work.",5
"The time when my sister had her first baby I was so happy and  
joyous because she stayed for two days after marriage before she  
had a child.",1
"I was on a farm with a few friends and during the talk I  
discovered that a friend of mine, was being betrayed by her  
boyfriend and a 3rd friend of ours.",3
I am not good enough for your experiment I am doing.,5
"When I cheated my father and told him that the school  
administration wanted K80 for the purchase of a mini-bus.  Two  
months later the school authorities wrote back to my father for  
the money.  I could not go back and ask him for the money again  
as he had already given it to me once.",5
Cueing for bath for a long time.,0
When my brother bought me a nice pair of shoes from South Africa.,1
When I got my B.A degree with first class.,1
"When an old schoolfriend phoned me to arrange an appointment to  
talk about old memories. I hadn't seen him for 8 years.",1
"I took my grandmother's money without telling her and when asked  
if it was me who had taken the money, I denied it.",5
"When I saw several people washing their car with water from a  
drain.",0
When my kid brother broke my reading spectacles.,3
When one is alone and knows that all the others are celebrating.,4
"Fear - paralysing - that I would not be accepted by the God who I  
believed to be there because I was ""morally bankrupt"" (before  
becoming a Christian and realising that that was why Christ came to  
free us from sin and to forgive us).",6
"When, for example, someone is calumnating.",0
I met a friend I had not seen for a long time on the street.,1
Not doing well in the examn.,2
"My roommate leaving my drawers in a mess after plowing thourgh  
them looking for something.",3
"Once again, my life partner came back home drunk at midnight.",0
When going to the exam.,6
When I came back from my holidays.,4
When my car suddenly broke down !,3
"During our last exarcise in agricultural machines we went out in  
the yard to examine a row of machines. But we seemed not to have  
fulfilled our task well, because when our teacher came and asked  
me a question I was unable to answer. I felt awkward because he  
didn't deserve it.",2
"I was alone in a cottage I often stay in.  I was woken up by a  
rustling sound in the middle of the night.",6
"I saw in a movie a block on which affluence and poverty existed.  
I saw that the rich made no attempts to help the poor.",3
When I don't fulfill my obligations.,5
"I sensed such a feeling when I understood I was admitted to the  
University. I was at home, the atmosphere was still, though I  
myself was full of suspense. I tried to do different things. When  
the telephone rang and...! Yes, of course there were other  
situations when I felt a similar feeling but I was unmindful of  
them.",1
"A friend prepared a soup with chicken heads and invited me to eat  
it. I saw the eyes staring at me and the tongues hanging out of  
the bills. I was so disgusted that I felt nausea and had to leave  
the room.",0
"When my elder sister had a baby girl.  She was the first girl in  
the family after 19 years of baby boys.",1
When I met friends I had not seen for the last 2-4 years.,1
"When I was a soldier I quarrelled with my commander and may be in  
revenge for this he detailed me on duty two successive nights.  
Naturally he checked me up on the second night and found me  
asleep for which he sent me to the cells.",3
My cat died painfully and slowly.,4
"I read a book about torture. The book described exactly how the  
torturing was done.",0
"I tried to pass an examination particularly well, but I did it  
worse than ever. I felt ashamed.",2
"My boyfriend with whom I had a longlasting relationship, fell in  
love with another girl, then he asked me something which implied  
that he loved that girl more than he loved me.",4
Could not find my way out in the college building at night.,6
"When my cousin's wife refused him sex and claimed that she was my  
girllfriend.  I think that there is something wrong with the  
woman as I have never even thought of having sex with her.",2
I angered a close friend and he was injured.,5
"Listening to the opening bars of Tchaikovsdy's symphony No.2  
fourth movement at my sister's wedding.",1
"I was less than 10 years old when our neighbour's dog chased me  
to the roof of a small shed and there seemed to be no hope of  
getting away from there.",6
When I passed the TOEFEL with very good marks.,1
"When I got my fingers stuck in one of the side holes of the door,  
in the tube.",2
"I wanted my boyfriend to stay when he didn't. He stayed but when  
he left I felt ashamed because I should have let him leave when  
he wanted. I was too selfish.",2
"[ I felt guilt when I was not co-operative with my mother for my  
exam.]",5
"I read in the newspaper that the Student Lodging Fund was going  
to build new appartments for refugees (in my opinion this is the  
state's affair).  This is when only a fractoin of the students  
can find an appartment.",3
"When my father talks about our relatives and favours them, I feel  
angry.",3
First anatomy lesson.,0
"Before the certificate examination I was very poor in Biology  
(the worst result in my class).  Ever since F.5 it had been  
getting poorer and poorer.  I had tried my best and had spent  
most of my time studying this subject.  Finally my results were  
so bad that I thought that it was just not fair.",3
"I was alone at home when I broke a figure and then mended it.  A  
few days later my mother noticed it and asked me about it, I told  
her that I had no idea.",5
"Breaking the left hand indicator box by moving too close to  
structure.",5
"Few days ago I really experienced fear. It was connected with  
unexpected actions on the part of a group of people. This evoked  
in me many negative emotions.",6
"When I am alone at night after having read horror stories, and  
then I heard unexplainable noises.",6
"When a girl I knew aborted and threw the seven month foetus in a  
man-hole.",0
"I felt disgusted when a fellow student asked me to marry him.  I  
had not expected this from him as he was a mere friend.",0
"I had been having a heated argument with a lover - whose  
intention was that we should marry in the near future - and was  
rejected by her when I started to cry. When I stopped crying for  
a moment she said ""There, have you got it all out now ?"".",3
The joy came when I first proposed a girl at Secondary School.,1
Not being able to answer question in a seminar.,2
"My intimate girlfriend told me that her father was opposed to our  
relationship  and had insulted my integrity.",3
When my friend (girl) went abroad for two years.,4
I experience feelings of guilt because I do not study enough.,5
When I was selected to the university of Zambia.,1
"A certain girl asked me what my major was and when I told her  
that it was P.A she started criticizing it saying, ""I hate that  
course.""  She just shows off in front of other people.",0
"The long lasting illness of my grand-mother, and the changes in  
family relationships caused by it.",4
Being close to drowning.,6
When I was not chosen to go to your English lectures. ,4
"After my final examination at school I was glad that the  
examination was over and that I had passed it.",1
"A neighbour's girl had disappeared and many people were looking  
for her.  Someone had gone to notify the police.  Something had  
certainly happened to her.",6
"When I went home by train from Sicilia, I was molested by a man.",0
"When a study tour got confirmed, I was happy all the time till     
the tour began.",1
"When I was transferred from Chichiri Secondary School to St.  
Mary's Sec. School. I was happy at Chichiri as a day scholer and  
had made a lot of friends. I was going to a boarding and that  
meant parting with my friends as well as my boyfriend for the  
first time.",4
Ignoring my parents'wishes.,5
"I was given a gift by my sister. There were many pleasant things  
in this parcel.",1
"When a teacher though pretending to be a highly cultivated  
teacher and a man, slapped a classmate of mine in the face quite  
undeservedly.",3
"At end of school - function to ""celebrate"" ? Leaving friends who  
I'd known for up to 12 years.",4
After 3 weeks I saw my girlfriend again.,1
[ An unfair punishment.],3
"Last week a former school (secondary) mate of mine, who is now in  
a differentt school came to my room here at UNZA in my absence.   
He was drunk and he vomited in my room.  I was unhappy.",0
"I was teaching someone to drive and when we were about to crash I  
was scared.",6
"When a certain boy went about saying that I am his girlfriend. I  
wrote him an insulting letter to him and called him names.",3
"My first feeling of falling in love.  Coming across a person who  
made me feel love, happiness, joy, giving me a new and beautiful  
future, who made me dream.",1
Made a mistake at work.,3
"My 21st birthday celebration, when I cut the cake and received  
the presents.",1
Anatomy lesson and told we have to do it at night sometimes.,6
"When I told a person something that had happened to my friend,  
and this person went and told my friend.",5
"I lost my grandfather whom I loved very much.  I had not known  
that he had been ill for a very time, when I received this  
message he was already dead.",4
"A situation of overt unfairness, manipulation of people and its  
consequences.",0
Before I had a tooth pulled out.  I was very upset and ill.,6
"When I was young, I became very angry as I was not allowed to  
stay up all night for the fair in my town.",3
"When a friend of mine had her period, while thinking she was  
pregnant.",1
"While playing basketball I broke a team member's spectacles.  His  
face was injured by the  pieces of glass.  It was not serious but  
I felt guilty and blamed myself for being too careless and  
vigorous in my game.",5
"A close acquaintace cried for me. I felt happy because somebody  
cared.",1
When people next to me play the fool.,2
When I answered to my mother with rudeness.,5
When I could not fulfill my expectations.,5
"I experienced long ago when I was sightseeing Bulgarians in a  
foreign language.",2
Not winning a medal in the swimming contest.,4
Before giving a seminar to a rather large audience.,6
"That I didn't want my friend to leave on holiday for 10 days  
because I thought I would miss him. I was constantly trying to  
persuade him.",5
I found I was pregnant and unmarried.,2
"When I realised that I had become too emotionally involved with  
the person I'm going out with, and when I began to like someone  
else and questioned whether I really care about person I'm with.",2
"I got a letter from my best friend, whom I had not heard from for  
a long time (a good letter).",1
"During the Christmas holidays, I went to see my parents and  
stayed with them for two weeks. After two or three days, we had  
the same conflicts we had had ten years before when I had lived  
with them. They were glad when I left.",4
I made another person cry for an unjustified cause.,5
My boy-friend an I seperated on his initiative.,4
"I had to give up my love, because it did not work out well.",4
"I ate a Runeberg's cake, though I knew that I would immediately  
put on a kilo.",5
My father left us for another woman.,4
"My mother and father had forbidden me to ride my scooter on the  
road, and I had transgressed (together with the ""wild"" kids from  
across the street) by riding my scooter down a steep hill near  
our house. My mother sent the boy next door to collect me, and I  
was severely scolded.",5
"I saw a physically handicapped young man whose spittle ran out of  
his mouth while speaking.",0
Day time robbery of our house.,4
"I have cut loose from my father a few years ago. I know he is  
very sad about this.",5
"When I slapped a nephew who did something that I considered  
wrong, and I was reprehended for this.",5
When I stole something.,5
"I was feeling really low - had been a series of fights with my  
siblings, been under pressure at school and wasn't going to the  
party I wanted to go - instead I was going out with my family. A  
guy called and said, in effect, that I was ""nice"" and he liked  
me. Hence the emotional joy.",1
When I got the first compound through column.,1
"My sister had promised to help me to do a translation from  
English into German. But the day I needed her she told me that  
she was busy - I was very angry.",3
"One of my fellow students used questionable and unfair means to  
advance her studies faster than others.  I detested her.",0
I felt it when I sat for my exam in anatomy.,6
"I felt glad when I took the rather difficult organic chemistry  
examination.",1
My boat didn't win a race which we were favored to win.,2
"I felt disgust when I saw a friend walking in stagnant water  
without putting on gum boots.",0
"When abroad, while driving a car along a dark, winding road.",6
When I passed the B.A exams with first class results.,1
"I was really angry when the President general of UNZASU was  
arrested by policemen.",3
"I have a horror of spiders and snakes. On a walk through the wood  
I saw the body of a slow-worm (without the head).",0
"My boyfriend promised to take me to see a game of tennis and rang  
saying he was going to the pub with some of his friends instead.",3
"Observation of people lost in the profit motive - i.e. business  
managers to their actions esp.",0
"I was waiting to receive the participation on the profits and did  
not receive it.",3
"I was jogging in the forest, in the central park area, when I saw  
a man hiding behind a tree.  I got frigthened, turned around and  
ran out of the forest.",6
"I could not find my monthly tickets for the bus when I was on the  
bus.",3
When my grandmother passed away.,4
When I am with a friend and we have to leave each other.,4
Falling off a cliff in the mountains.,6
"This issue worried me rather than saddening me.  In mid September  
I went to Guanggho alone.  I was looking for an accomodation in  
the evening and after having walked 2 or 3 miles I still could not  
find anything.  What could I do?  I was not worried about  
sleeping on the streets but because of some procedural problems.   
I finally found a place to sleep at 8 o'clock.",6
"Someone knocked on the door when I was alone at home (though  
there was a door bell).  I looked through the peep hole but it  
had been covered.  I called my sister but she could not help me  
as she was hundreds of kilometres away.",6
My father insulted by other people.,0
When the bus driver failed to stop and pick me up at a bus stop.,3
"I felt disgusted one day when, as we were eating, a child  
defecated on the table side.",0
"My boyfriend is a soldier. He was on a leave. I felt sad when we  
had to get separated again.",4
When my grandfather died.,4
"I had gone on a vacation and my mother left home without leaving  
me any thing - money to come back to school.",3
"I was sitting at a rock concert, listening to an extremely loud  
band. A tiny baby in a crawler had been left by his young mother,  
right out in the sun next to a speaker, and was screaming -  
probably in pain.",0
"In an express bus I sat on a seat meant for senior citizens and  
invalids.",2
"Walking at friday night through Nijmegen, going to a pub or a  
disco.",6
"When I realized that I had been wrong about a person close to me,  
because of pre-set ideas and prejudices.",2
Hearing Fran Wilde introduce the Bill.,1
A younger brother of a good friend of mine died (asthma).,4
"I was playing a sport in an advanced PE class and many of the  
people were not advanced.",0
"I didn't keep a promise I had made to a man, and in this way I  
lost his esteem and confidence in me. I caused him a lot of  
trouble.",5
"When I was young I was told to to the shop to buy a dozen eggs.   
I went and asked for one egg and the people in the shop laughed  
at me and so did my family when I told them what had happened.",2
"My brother gave me a beating because he could not beat me  
verbally.",0
"When the committee, to which I belong, was accused of having  
squandered the money of the association.",0
"Before an accident, my aunt offered me the front seat of the car,  
next to the driver. I declined, she took that seat and was killed  
there when the car crashed.",5
"Once I quarrelled with my sister and after this I deliberately  
messed up her belongings.",5
"I felt very sad when my boyfriend wanted to break our  
relationship. Our relationship lasted two years, we shared  
everything and all this was finished.",4
When I failed grade 7.,2
"When something unpleasant happens to a friend or relative of  
yours and you are at the bottom of it.",5
Close friends talking badly of other friends.,0
"A colleague and I were sitting on a bench next to an old man in a  
shopping centre. the old man coughed and spluttered somewhat,  
then with his fingers removed the resultant phlegm and mucous  
from his mouth, and transferred it onto the armrest of the  
bench.",0
"After a disagreement between my parents, when I was alone with my  
father and my sister, the aggression continued, when my father  
tried to put me and my sister against my mother revealing facts  
that had happened in the past like a talk between my father and  
his mother in law where she told him that my mother was not quite  
save.",4
"At a concert an old man arrived and began to danse, sing and do  
silly things.",2
"I was in the cafeteria at the university and a class-mate told me  
that a friend of hers had had all her teeth taken out because of  
an infection caused by her eating a rat's nail in her hamburger.",0
"I felt guilty when I tore a photograph I found at my boyfriend's  
place only to realise that it was his sister who was on the  
photograph.",5
"I had some sort of a stomach virus last week and  I vomited in  
college in the morning, then in the cake shop, three times during  
the trip home and again when I got home.",0
I got caught shoplifting a package of gummy bears.,6
"I was disgusted to see a person vomitting and I was told to clean  
the place where the vomit was.",0
"When I was travelling to school by bus, I went past a place  
where a sewer had been repaired.  There was a bad strong smell  
which suffocated me and I wanted to leave the place immediately.",0
"When I arrived home late at night.  I know that my mother gets  
worried and this made me feel angry.",5
"A friend who shares the room with me, opened the window in the  
morning and left the room the whole day. When I came home in the  
evening, the room was so cold that I couldn't stay there.",3
Watching TV about china is behind in winning gold medals.,1
"My joy knew no bounds when I was selected for a job even before  
having finished my studies.",1
Helping older people on the toilet.,0
"While I was pushing a court roller out of a ditch, I slipped and  
fell down and the roller rolled back towards me -down slope-It is  
a miracle that I still have my legs intact.",6
"After the funeral of an acquaintance I felt very depressed. That  
feeling turned into joy when I heard that I had achieved a good  
grade for an examination.",1
"When my grandmother after staying with us for awhile went back  
home.",4
When I could not complete my assignment on time.,5
When I nearly got my fiancee pregnant.,5
It happened that I was alone - with no contacts with friends.,4
"I misunderstood a girl and thought that she loved me.  One day  
when I was talking to her, her boyfriend appeared and I felt  
ashamed.",2
"When I deeply felt that I could lose the person I love best  
because of my foolishness.",4
"I borrowed $ 20.00 from a friend and paid him back much later  
than I had originally intended.",2
"There is a person whom I disgust. Evrey time I see her I get this  
terrible feeling I disgust her whole appearance.",0
"A large german shepherd dog ran and barked at me (he didn't bite  
fortunately).",6
"I feel disgust when hearing or seeing other people being treated  
inhumanely. For example torturing in chili.",0
"When I saw that the mark I had obtained in an exam was a good  
one.",1
"Joining in a research group studying consumer's behaviour and  
helping the people in the shop with the sales.",1
Running away from a fire.,4
"As a child - being sent to the shop by mother - buying some  
chocolate - getting caught by mother.",2
Telling a lie.,2
"Right before I went to a concert with my last boyfriend he told  
me that although he told me he was going to take me to the  
concert, he didn't want to see me anymore. After that we stayed  
overnight and I said ""well, when he leaves me I will be ruined  
for awhile, but for now we're together."" I woke up in his arms  
and it was the happiest moment of my life.",1
"After a party I spent the night with a friend. We both were  
drunk, the morning was disillusioning. A friend was me leaving  
the room and I felt shabby and immoral.",2
"All my friends arranged to go for an afternoon snack and they did  
not tell me.  They told me that they did not have my phone number  
but I do not think that this was true.",4
"A male, Honduran acquaintance of mine despised my opinions.",3
"Sometimes, when I'm alone I am seized by this feeling. But it  
always helps me to come round and at the same time to judge if it  
is worth. Very often this feeling is caused to me by people -  
friends who I love and respect.",4
"I felt guilty when the truth was known about my impregnating the  
girl we were staying with.",5
"When I learned that my parents were going abroad and leaving me  
alone for a few years.",1
I feel ashamed when I am praised.,2
"When I was in Bombay one of my good friends was getting married  
and he had not informed me about it, this made me sad.",4
"My mother wants to talk very often about her life. I dislike this  
because she always talks negatively about the same people  
whatever I do it doesn't help.",5
When my gradmother died.,4
"I felt disgust with a person whose behaviour was out of the  
elementary human norms.",0
"When my former boyfriend and I reconciled and he decided that I  
was very important to him. I had always wanted us to get back  
together again, but had doubted the likelihood of this, so I was  
very happy when my small amount of faith was vindicated.",1
"When I tried to breake it up with my boyfriend, and he refused to  
let me go.",3
"When I began dansing, the teacher came and told me that I was  
very good and would soon get into the ballet academy. ",1
"This occurred when my girlfriend and I have to finish our  
relationship due to some circumstances between her and her  
family. I was really sad, hurt and couldn't really find any  
reason why am I still living. Is this life is all about ? This  
was one of few question which crept up vividly every time I  
thought about what had happened.",4
"I felt ashamed when in a certain occasion I had to read a text  
and didn't stop stuttering.",2
"On my second plane trip, we ran into unexpected turbulence.",6
Love problems.,4
"Enrolling at varsity, being told I couldn't get in to certain  
papers.",4
"A certain friend evokes positive feelings, when I am with him but  
negative feelings when he is not present. I feel the need to  
express those negative feelings. However, when I speak about him,  
I always think: Why do I like this, he does not deserve this, but  
still I do so.",5
"With the job appointments committee when the headmaster in charge  
explained that a male teacher was more suitable for the  
particular post.  I had more years of service than the male  
teacher, but this was not taken into consideration.  I could have  
been given a less attractive job if things had gone the way the  
headmaster wanted.",3
"When I found out that my father had lung cancer and they did not  
know how long he would live.",6
"When I was 13 years old I wrote passionate love letters to my  
boyfriend and I later found out that his sister had read them.",2
"I remember when I was a little boy I broke a Swiss dinner set  
quite involuntarily.",5
"Several years ago I stayed with friends in the mountains for one  
week. We lived in a hut and had to cook for ourselves. One day my  
friend did not succeed in preparing spaghetti. That dinner was  
terrible - nevertheless we all ate rather much and had an  
improper and unsavoury conversation.",0
Failing an examn.,2
"Last week I had planned to play tennis and had booked a tennis  
court.   However when I arrived at the university gym the clerk  
told me that the court was being used for lessons.",3
To loose friends because of them over-estimating themselves.,0
"I feel this feeling most often before me not before the others.  
My outside is iron but actually I'm wasting away.",5
Failed in a piblic argument.,2
When I met a friend that I hadn't seen for some time.,1
"When I realized that we are living on borrowed time, and that the  
nuclear holocaust appears to come closer every day.",6
"Once, during a performance I did not sing the way I had to.",3
"When I went up the stairs in a high, dark house full of shadows,  
passed a door and had the feeling that someone or something was  
behind me, although I knew I was alone.",6
"When a close relative got quite drunk. It was a relative that I  
had respected for a long time and looked up to as a child.",0
I felt sad when my boyfriend and I were apart for some time.,4
"The death of a relative, friend, or someone I esteem.",4
"One day I was near home, kissing my boyfriend in a car when my  
mother appeared and asked me to go home, because she didn't know  
about the event.",6
When I was walking in a field which had a lot of manure.,0
"While having a discussion with my mother, I realized that she  
does not for a moment doubt the justification of her making the  
decisions concerning my life.",3
"I felt very lonely, was very dissatisfied with myself when I  
realised that I could feel very jealous of other women because  
of my boyfriend.",4
When I first suffered from syphilis.,4
"A time when I was very afraid of something was when I broke my  
father's antique lamp.",6
After the car accident in GUILT.,2
"Sometimes when I go to work my crazy boss (a hyper Jewish lawyer)  
insists I do things his way (filing, typing, etc.). He sometimes  
blames me for things I didn't do, and I can't yell back at him.",3
"When my friends left without waiting for me, after we had arranged  
to go out together.",3
"Disgust - no. Maybe it is more precise to say revultion at a worm  
or a snake. But I mean it in a social aspect when somebody had  
behaved like a scoundrel to you, when by his actions he has made  
you change your attitude towards him but I thing this feeling the  
way I meant it, is not typical for the people interrelations.",0
"I was sad at the expulsion of some of my comrades during the UNZA  
demonstrations.",4
"When I was very young, one day, I was in the street with my  
father and brother.   While my father was talking to some  
friends, I saw a dog and began to pat it.  My father told me  
sharply to stop doing it because the dog had mange.  Then my  
brother told me that I would die and I could not stop crying  
after this.",6
"When we still attended school, my brother and I usually went to  
see our aunt and to show her our term's report. She rewarded us  
with money. Although my reports were as good as my brother's, he  
got more money.",3
"I felt ashamed to be Brazilian and to live under a military  
dictatorship that despoiled the people, when during my military  
service.",2
"A girl asked me why I didn't dance. I told her I was ashamed to  
dance. I felt myself ashamed having to tell her this.",2
Finding out my best friend cannot go to the English lectures.,4
"Being insulted in front of my parents, and they believed other  
people (those insulting me).",2
"When I was 9 years old, I got a cat, but after 3 days he died. I  
was very sad, because I had nursed him and taken him to the  
veterinary's - but in vain. Although I had had him only for a  
short time I had liked him very much.",4
[ I was thinking about death.],6
"Unofficially I was informed about my results of the final  
examination of the secondary school. A teacher wrote them up for  
me. When I went outside, I started crying with joy.",1
When my friend was involved in a car accident.,6
"Loneliness, being uncertain of myself in the Autumn.",4
When I broke the window pane of my next door neighbour's house.,6
"It was mid May 1985, When we had a Test on Nursing. My classmate  
had an answer sheet, so he tried to peep. The Nursing Tutor  
caught him. During this time I was turning my question paper and  
it made noise. This friend blamed me of causing the whole matter  
for him to be caught.",4
When I got married.,1
"When my husband suddenly came to see me at my new job and  
brought some flowers and cake with him.",1
"I passed successfully the preliminary exam for a participation in  
the children Assembly.",1
"When I saw my niece (5 yrs) crying in the hallway for her mother  
who had passed away about a month ago.",4
"When I was afraid to tell my sports teacher at secondary school  
that I had not participated in the sports activities the previous  
day.",5
"I went shopping with my mother and sister (17 years old). Mother  
always told my sister what she should buy. Instead of assisting  
my sister in defending herself against mother's interference, I  
just behaved aggressively towards my sister.",5
"When I got an unexpected letter from  a guy, who had been my school  
mate.",1
I felt this feeling during the exam in higher mathematics.,2
"I arranged with a friend to go skating the next day. He asked me  
to wake him up by telephone at twelve o'clock because we had come  
home late in the morning. Next day I called him - he was not at  
home. As something like that had happened to me several times  
before, I came to the conclusion that one cannot rely on anybody  
and I felt very sad.",4
"My main disgust is against codfish because I detest even the  
smell of it.",0
"I had to terminate a training because I wasn't suited for it. I  
was very sad about this, because I very much wanted to finish  
that training.",4
Falling in love with a close friend.,4
When I was jumped by three men in a deserted area.,6
Death of a relative.,4
"While having an argument with my daughter, I got angry and  
over-excited and said angry words.",5
"I used to have two boyfriends in the past. Then one of them  
wanted to get engaged to me. I agreed but was guilt-conscious for  
disappointing the other one.",5
When my elder sister died.,4
"I feel it when I see that somebody is traying to made a stupid of  
me.",3
"We were riding in a friend's car.  He was driving very fast and  
suddenly a another car crossed the road in front of us.  My  
friend had to turn the car rapidly.",6
"My classmate got a ""B"" for his homework while I only got a ""C"".   
When we got the results he acted as if he did not merit this  
grade.  I found that his humility was hypocritical and I found it  
disgusting.",0
"Since I've been here I haven't written to any of my relatives. I got  
a letter from my mom telling me how upset my grandparents are  
from not hearing from me.",2
"My boy-friend told me that he would take me to the training of  
the life-saving dogs.",1
When I took drugs.,5
When a little brother of mine damaged a cassette.,3
"I was in the dark room, it's insecure and has holes covered with  
wooden sheets in the roof the establishment had already been  
assaulted and could be assaulted again.",6
"When I heard that I had passed my MCE Exam, I spent the whole  
day dancing and eating sugarcanes from our garden.",1
"I feel afraid of the way a great friend looks at me, and also a  
little afraid of the directions that it's going.",6
"The assistant professor saw me cheat at the preliminary  
examination.",5
Doing well in the examn.,1
Finding out that I was deceived by my friend.,2
After my father's death.,4
"I was disgusted at the way the bus conductor threw out an old  
woman oiut of the mini-bus simply because she could not pay the  
fare for her luggage.",0
"As part of the assessment I had to speak on a subject in front  
of the class. I was not really prepared and I was just reading  
the stuff I had on a piece of paper, when some of the students   
asked me something I could not give them an answer.  I felt  
ashamed as I had not prepared the topic.",2
As a child - having a dog - it getting a disease and dying.,4
"[ I feel disgust at people lying.  It means that they say one  
thing to one person and the same thing in another way to another  
person and this makes people quarrel among themselves.]",0
"When I made an excuse to get out of participating in an important  
family occasion that I should not have missed.",5
"When I entered the dissecting room for the anatomy class and saw  
several dead bodies lying on the benches.",6
"Saw two Canadian students boasting about how rich they are in  
Canada.",0
Whenever I see an alcoholic.,0
"A friend (female) and I were on holiday on Great Barrier Island  
by ourselves. One night we were nearly raped by about 20 locals -  
they came to our bach and tried to break the doors down. All of  
them were stoned or drunk and we hid under the bunks and were  
totally terrified. Eventually these guys gave up and went looking  
for us on the beach. We escaped and slept in the bush for 2  
nights.",6
"When, for example, I left for the first time my parents and I  
went to live in Sofia.",4
"A few days back my mother was not feeling too well and still did  
all the house work.  I felt guilty as I had not offered to help.",5
When I entered a toilet in a bar and it stank.,0
"I had not eaten anything for 2 days to be able to pay the fine  
for my fiancT. But he stayed in another town and spent one  
thousand shillings in the restaurant during the same time.",3
"In a Mathematics class, the professor asked me a question and I  
gave the wrong answer.",2
"I'm very disgusted when I see people abusing their body with  
drugs and alcohol. They take advantage of these things usually  
for an excuse for the fantasies which they like and so they do  
things stupidly and unjustly.",0
"Attending to a demand made by a client (I work in a bank) I  
suggested her an application of money in a week ahead, but I  
informed her wrongly. The client arrived a week after and the  
application wasn't made and she lost with this a lot of time and  
money.",5
Not getting the class paper in time for the lecture.,2
"I worked in a harbour and emptied latrine containers from the  
back of the lorries.",0
"A person whom I had not seen for a long time called me and  
invited me for a party.",1
My love proposal was turned down by a lady I really loved.,2
Every time I went home with my school report.,6
[ While approaching to test the situation.],6
"In arguments with a close friend or relative where my point of  
view is completely disregarded.",3
"When my sister came home late one day and thus disobeyed my  
parents.",3
"When my mother returned from a holiday, I told her a lie i.e my  
father had brought another woman home while she was away.",5
"When it suddenly appeared that our dog was dangerously ill and  
probably would die. We had not expected this because he  
was always very healthy. Fortunately he survived because we, in turn,  
gave him medicines during the night.",4
"When I saw all the starving people in Ethiopia on T.V.  It felt  
awful to see such suffering.",0
When my father was involved in an accident.,6
When I won the best prize in the National science fair.,1
My grandmother died.,4
"I had lied to a person because I had thought that I could not  
tell him the truth. When he found out he was not angry but  
understanding. We talked the whole thing over.",2
"When I failed my grade 7 exam at the first attempt in 1975.  My  
father and the entire family thought that I was finished in life.  
 I really felt like hiding.",2
"[ When I am, in my opinion, not understood correctly. ]",4
"I had climbed on a cherry tree alone and there was a thick  
caterpillar beside my fingers. I feel disgusted by caterpillars  
and snakes. I was terribly afraid of the caterpillar crawling on  
my fingers. Out of the fear I was almost unable to climb down.",6
"In a film, there was an episode where they used a chain saw to  
cut a man.  I could not look at it, but I could not avoid  
listening either.  I sought shelter in my boyfriend's arms.",0
"When I found out some family friends were embezzelling the  
company they worked for - using company petrol and food supplies  
and claiming furniture and crockery.",0
They had returned much less of my taxes than I had expected.,3
"In a fit of temper I told things that were unjust and they  
greatly hurt my mother though she didn't show it.",5
"I remember that once, a friend did not co-operate with me due to  
some unavoidable reasons.  Unaware of this I treated her unjustly  
till I realized everything, and then I felt ashamad of my deeds. ",2
"When I did not get the salary increase that I had been expecting  
and understood how little one's work was appreciated.",4
I get angry when people disbelieve me or misunderstand me.,3
"During a lecture six students (including me) were asked to leave  
the class as we had not prepared for the lesson.  I felt ashamed  
and angry.",2
"I felt disgusted when I was in a helpless position at the loss of  
my fiancee.",0
When I failed my first biochemistry test.,0
"When my father told me that I should help my mother more often,  
because she was so busy. And I realized that he was right.",5
"When the others did not do their bit of work on a group  
assignment task, and I had to do all the work.",3
I was scared in the dark when I was a little boy.,6
"I got angry at my mother for something trivial.  We were in a  
bad mood because my father was very ill and I knew that my mother  
really needed support.  I had reacted wrongly.",5
When my father bought me a suit.,1
The death of my father.,4
I did not reply to my friend's letter in time. ,5
"A few days back, I walked on a heap of faeces while walking on  
the road.  I got goose flesh because of this.",0
"My boss on the job failed to keep his promise about something he  
knew was extremely important to me.",0
"On holiday, seeing the lanscape in Gerona.",1
"I had applied for a job and they had assured me that the exams  
would take place a few months later.  A week later I went to  
obtain some more information and they told me that the exams had  
already taken place.",3
"Saw in TV that China had the most gold medals in the Asian  
Olympic.",3
Someone had stolen an article from a library journal.,0
When my parents did not let me go on a study tour.,4
[ The same as in anger.],0
"At the funeral of my uncle, I was one of the bearers.  I was not  
familiar with the etiquette and acted tactlessly because of my  
ignorance.",2
I felt very ashamed at having got a book by force from a girl.,2
Mentioning a book to the person who borrowed it.,5
"When I heard the examination results and when I recovered after  
having been sick for a week.",1
"At a gathering I found myself involuntarily sitting next to two  
people who expressed opinions that I considered very low and  
discriminating.",0
"I faced this feeling when I realized I wasn't admitted to the  
institute in the first classifying, in spite of the high mark I  
had got at the entrance examination. 
",3
"I was going to go on a vacation to Texas this summer but was  
unable to go because of registration.",4
"This situation keeps occurring - when my little sister disagrees  
with me or vice-versa. We have very similar temperaments and I  
always end up feeling angry at her and myself for fighting so  
much over unimportant trivial matters.",3
"When I was doing my last year at Secondary School I was robbed of  
my clothes, wristwatch and my pair of shoes. After investigations  
it was found that all the things were stolen by one of the boys  
in our hostel.",3
"For the loss of a close friend or relative, but you feel grief  
when you are away from home, too.",4
"The only guilt I considered reasonable was my reproval at the end  
of the semester at the University.",5
"When my girl and I decided to get back together after our  
separation.",1
The day I heard that I passed the high school exam.,1
"When I told the driver at my workplace to lie and tell the boss  
that it was not me who was responsible for the delay.  The boss  
was very annoyed and the driver was punished and a day's salary  
was taken away from him.",5
"When my cousin put feaces in my washing.  A silly idea which was  
meant to be a joke.",0
A friend who was 22 years old died.,4
"As we were going to Area 10 a dog chased me. I was afraid it  
might bite me.",6
Not having good marks like other people for homeworks.,2
When I failed my Standard 8 Examination for the first time.,4
"I was ashamed when my classmates discovered that I fell in love  
with an uneducated girl.",2
"I had just moved to the town where I study and I got a postcard  
from a good friend (from my home town).",1
"Next door nieghbour ran over his cat in driveway, he tried to  
finish it off with a flat shovel. I would have taken cat to  
veterinary to either kill humanely or cure.",0
"Very intoxicated men who incite each other to fight.   I met a  
vile smelling man on the tram who got closer and closer to me  
till I got up, then he got angry.",0
"When I came again in contact with a girl I liked very much. And  
most important she also liked me.",1
"During military service a superior reproached me unjustly. This  
led to friction in a lot of situations.",3
"An invitation to spend 5 days at the seaside with all expenses  
paid.",1
When I am at home alone.,4
"I felt guilty about going out when I should have been studying  
for a presentation I had to give on Wednesday the next week.",5
"I travelled on a bus and I forgot to punch the ticket. A ticket  
collector came in and I had to pay the fine. I did it with a feeling  
of shame.",2
"When I was blamed for some of my attributes which are very often  
misunderstood, especially when one is very frank.",3
"When I got home I found that the electrical supply had been  
disconnected despite my having paid ZESCO the full bill a few   
days earlier.",3
"When I heard that my father had been involved in a car accident  
in Lusaka.  This happened when he had gone to get the car which  
had been stolen in Lusaka.",4
"When I noticed two spiders running on the floor in different  
directions.",0
"I was disgusted the other day I was told to take off the dog's  
faeces around the house since they smelled bad I did the job but  
in the end I felt disgusted.",0
"I am filled with gloom and sadness at the death of a person.   
More specifically, I felt sad after hearing the news of a  
death of a person who was hale and hearty and full of life, with 
vigour and plans for the next day but had no next day to cherish it.",4
When I forgot a promise made to a friend of mine.,2
"I experienced this feeling when I was accepted as a student.  
Because everything turned out different from my expectations.  
Although I passed the exam successfully I was accepted as a  
student only when I didn't expect it at all, namely at the  
beginning of September.",1
"One day in a clinic, the father of a child came in and assaulted  
a colleague for something that she had not done deliberately.",3
When my grandmother passed away.,4
"When my boyfriend and I went out for a dinner and subsequently  
went to his family. We had a very nice evening.",1
"When my father died I felt myself alone and the fear possessed me.  
I was a child and all my sisters and brothers (8) were young.",6
When I saw an accident where the man lost his head.,0
"The day I got a telegram telling me that I had been selected for  
a B.A at UNZA.  I felt happy because I had not expected to be  
selected.",1
"When I saw a program on Ethiopia on T.V, a fews hours earlier I  
had thrown away some clothes and food.",5
"I got disgusted with a man who was beating a woman in the street.  
I just happened to be there but I was abhorred by the rudness.",0
I forgot about a close relatives's birthday.,5
"Some classmates said I did not do enough social work. Therefore I  
was not elected as a ""Tree Good"" student.",3
"Walking along the beach with a friend (another girl), talking,  
picking up shells, laughing, chasing seagulls.",1
When I arrived late at the job and met the most troublesome boss.,2
"When I told a lie to a friend of my sister on April fool's day.   
She later came to see me and told me that it was a very foolish  
thing to do.",2
"I do not seem to feel emotion such as shame, guilt or fear - far  
out !",2
"When I was in my village one of my enemies had written a  
non-sense letter to a girl and he told the father of this girl  
that I was the culprit.  When I got to know this I was scared as   
the girl's father was a worse man.",6
"Leaving a friend of mine alone at a dance - I felt I should have  
kept her company.",5
"Unfair and unjust attitude toward a person close to me, what I  
was the witness of, caused anger in me.",3
"A close friend of mine was to get married in a weeks time when  
her father died of a heart-attack.  I knew him well and felt bad  
on hearing of his death.",4
Doing poorly on an exam that I thought I should do well.,2
"One night, at a friend's place I realized that I had everything I  
most wished, around me.",1
"With the N.Z. Rugby Union wanting to send the All Blacks to South  
Africa.",0
Can't remember any such feelings now.,0
"When my father addressed me directly and maliciously, thus  
including me in the ""family war"".",3
"A drunk man attacked his wife and wanted to humiliate her by  
insulting her. Then he turned violent and started to beat her in  
front of her child. She left it happen without saying a word in  
order not to make things worse. I watched the scene and tried to  
calm the man, but without success. Just because he was stronger  
we had to comply. From that day I detested him.",0
I got a present from a great friend (a dog).,1
When my grandmother died.,4
"I feel angry at people's indifference at our ability to be  
present at an event and to stay partial to what happens.",3
"I bought an aquarium which made me much pleasure. I was watching  
the fish when my father came in and asked me how much I had payed  
for it. He said he would not pay for the current that it would  
require.",3
"I saw a film about the nazi concentration camps during the war.  
After the film I felt disgust.",0
"One camping night, I listened to the ghost stories told by my  
classmates.  ",6
"I was in a train when a woman started talking loudly and  
attracting everybody's attention.  The worst thing was that she  
was discussing something, about which she knew nothing, with another person.",0
"I was very angry at my father when he didn't give me as much  
money as my brother to use for studying. Once again my brother  
was better off then me.",3
"My girlfriend came home after a business dinner at the most  
expensive place in town drunk as a skunk. Whats more she drove  
home and couldn't remember doing so. I was disgusted by her state  
and her actions.",0
Death of grandmother.,4
"When I sat in the wrong discussion section in the beginning of  
the semester. I insisted on being in the right section and the  
TA's list should have included my name. When I found out that I  
was in the wrong, I apologized, turned red and left.",2
"I was living at home during the Summer vacations and towards the  
end decided to take some of my clothes and other belongings to  
the appartment in Guttenburg.  When I had finished I went to my  
ex-boyfriend's (relationship uncertain) home and stayed there  
till 5 A.M.  I had to leave then as my parents needed the car for  
work in the morning.  My parents do not like my boyfriend.",5
Telling my parents that I did not well in an examn.,6
"When my mother scolded me for something, very insignificant, without  
knowing the real cause of what had happened. ",4
"I was a passenger in a jumbo-jet which was accelerating down the  
runway and almost at the point of take-off, when the pilot  
suddenly braked and put the engines into reverse thrust, in an  
obviously urgent attempt to stop the aircraft. The hostesses show  
signs of concern and my first thought was that something was on  
the runway in our path and that we were in danger of hitting it.",6
To be kissed by soembody I didn't expect to.,0
When I got the loan for my studies.,1
Friends calling me fat - pear shaped in front of a nice girl.,0
"Meeting best friend at the airport (boyfriend) who I had missed  
terribly.",1
Peeping.,5
"When I had not done well in Geography at my MCE I was expected to  
get more than I did.",2
"Years ago I fell in love for the first time. as natural for every  
school-girl I was day-dreaming. Later (after 3 years) we left  
each other. No one was to blame but I felt deep sadness. Even now  
I remember about it quite often.",4
"My mother, sister and I were thinking about old times, our  
childhood, and we had a very happy time.",1
"After lot of explanation, to fail in my work.",2
When I won a tennis match.,1
"While playing I urinated on grandma's floor and did not go to the  
lavatory.  My cousin told grandma and she came.",2
"A few weeks back, as I was in a hurry to leave the house, I left  
some of my things lying around.  This is something I never do. My  
uncle,who lives with us, as we live in a joint family, remarked that  
we were always doing things like  this.  This really got me mad.",3
"When my fiancee travelled 2000 Km to visit me, and I hadn't seen  
her for 4 months.",1
"I was sitting in the bus and a man with a very unpleasant  
smell came and sat next to me, to top it all he smoked  
continously.",0
"When I found out that I had failed to pass my exams during the  
term by one point.  The fact that exactly the same thing had  
happened last term did not help.",4
"In class I had to say something aloud and people reacted  by  
laughing.",2
"When I nearly drowned in icy water wearing ice skates.  It was  
difficult to get out.",6
"I was angry when I had not been granted a leave out pass during  
the last weekend.",3
"When my flatmate put me down because she ""thought"" she was better  
than me, or she felt she was.",3
"I was an instructior in a youth organization.  Whenever we, the  
instructors would have a meeting the advisor would be present.   
He did not understand our worknig conditions but talked a lot  
and had a lot of outdated ideas.  Whenever we disagreed with him  
he was very discontent and said that we had a prejudice against  
him.  Why did he have to treat us as his subordinates ?",0
"I felt sad at having to leave my girlfriend after constant problems  
and failed attempts at reconciliation.  My sadness was caused by  
the irreversibility of the decision.",4
Saw a blue film in a cinema.,5
"Once while studying for my exam I found so many complicated words  
that it disgusted me.",0
"I promised to fulfill an errand. Later I understood it was  
impracticable. The explanation I gave was accompanied by a sense  
of guilt.",5
"In the past I used to think that my mother was a very nagging  
person.  When I started living at the hostel we had little time  
to meet each other.  Whenever I went home she would take care  
of me.  I gradually realized that what she had done was for my  
own good.  So very time I saw her I felt guilty.",5
When I approached a person of the opposite sex and was rejected.,2
"I saw a man falling on the walkway. He seemed half dead, and was  
immobile. I felt disgust for the people who passed by without  
doing anything to help.",0
"I went to a restaurant with my boyfriend for dinner. There we saw  
a couple. the man of the couple was a negro and he hadn't manners  
for eat.",0
"The last day of school is traditionally celebrated by singing a  
song about all the students who are leaving.  In the song  
about me, there were things which irritated me a lot.",3
When one is unjustly accused of something one has not done.,3
"I caught a huge eel on a fishing line which I had pulled into the  
boat. I cut the line and threw the whole lot back into the water.  
Later that day and about ten miles away I went swimming and  
someone made the comment wondering how far eels could swim, I  
abruptly ended swimming for fear at an unseen eel for a few days  
until we had left the district.",6
"When I saw that my bed at the hostel was a mess I guessed that  
someone else had used my daily necessities.  I felt that my  personal  
sanity had been affected.",3
"When I discovered that the people I trusted most were talking  
behind my back.",3
"I was badly beaten up by one of my friends during a wedding  
party.",3
When the contract about my shop was signed.,1
"During a summer holiday at a bar I happened to see a dead to the  
world woman.",0
"I had asked the teacher to write a recommendation letter for me,  
but I had not provided enough information and had run short of  
time.",4
"I had been searching for housing for Fall at UCB and I was  
finally offered a place - then an ordeal followed, first I  
accepted then refused - related to my parents judgment (they're  
paying for me). Turns out that I was so upset at what my Dad said  
to me that I hung up on him. He called back and threatened to cut  
me off financially and emotionally.",3
"A sunny Autumn day, after a long rainy period.",1
Some students deliberately disobey me as a class leader.,0
"We went fishing some 5 or 8 kilometers off the shore of Lake  
Malawi. Before we could settle down the lake became very rough to  
the point of threatening our lives.",6
When I had to walk along a dark road alone.,6
"When I was travelling by tram, I tripped and fell against the  
door.  I thought that I was going to fall out.",6
"When I was not in a position to control myself.  I had said too  
much and had been cruel with no other than my mother.",2
"When my sister had the opportunity to do some modelling work. And  
I was quite jealous - later on the photographer decided not to  
take her photograph, and she was very upset - I felt guilty as a  
result, almost as if I had caused her to lose her opportunity, by  
not being genuinely happy for her in the first place.",5
The first time that I had to go up on the stage to give a speech.,2
"One of the greatest joiy was when I succeded in acquiring a  
motorcycle through my own efforts.",1
"Last Summer in Italy I was attacked by a dog.It was terrible to  
feel that untidy dirty dog against my naked skin.",6
Watching a TV documentary on seal clubbing.,0
"I was away to school (Primary). In my abscence my young brother  
at home got sick suddenly. My parents took him to hospital. On  
the way he died. It came to me as a sad, sudden and shocking  
news and I felt very sad.",4
"This also happened when I was very small.  I was beaten up by my   
mother for no fault of mine, I had just beaten up my younger  
brother for what I thought was his fault.  I was very angry with  
my mother.",3
"When I played in a chess championship, I was disturbed by other  
people. I asked them to be quiet, but in vain.",3
First public speaking.,1
"My mother had for some time been trying to separate me from a  
good friend who, she thought, was not good company for me.   
Finally, at breakfast one day, we had an argument and I tried to  
defend my friend.",3
"I was biking with my boyfriend, the sun shining after a long  
period of bad beather, afterwards we spent the evening and night  
together.",1
When my sister broke my china tea set.,3
"I was coming home in a taxi with a fellow worker of mine.  He was  
criticizing my earlier conduct towards him, which to my mind was  
unfounded.  When I reached home, I ran out of the taxi and  
slammed the door.",3
"I forgot to zip up my trousers, this was not noticed by anyone.",2
"When I was young I stole something from a shop and got caught,  
then I was taken to the police station and my parents had to come  
and get me.",5
"[ I would classify subjectively, a certain gesture or the way of  
talking of a person as disgusting or inacceptable.]",0
"When a boy put a handful of cooked potatoes down my dress and  
there was no water to clean up.",0
I finished my homework,1
"My friend told me in a fairly loud voice the blunders she  
committed last night.",2
When my father shouted at me for going to a party with my sister.,0
Doing poorly on a midterm.,0
"I had not done my assignment seriously.  I only pretended to  
finish the work as the work did not have any meaning for me.  The  
whole thing made me feel guilty.",5
"When I saw a woman subjugated by money and not being able to hide  
how she hated herself for not having the will power to get out of  
such a situation because it was convenient, according to what she  
told me.",0
"When I was a child my parents caught me with a pornographic  
magazine.",2
"I made friends with a classmate whose behaviour I did not like -  
he tried to flatter other people and did not respect me.",0
"There was a time when my room looked terribly untidy; just at  
that time my aunt came to see me; fortunately I could prevent her  
from entering the room.",2
"One day, when I was sitting on the bus, there was an old woman  
standing beside me.  I was very tired and sleepy and did not  
think of giving her my seat.  A 50 year old woman who was sitting  
beside me got up and gave her seat to the old woman and said,   
"" Old woman, please take my seat, the youngstters these days are  
not used to giving their seats to others.""  When I heard these  
words I was very ashamed of myself and wanted to get off the bus  
at once.  ",2
My parents told me that they do not like my friend.,4
"I thought that the guy I had been associating with for over a  
year went out 2 or 3 times with a high school girl whom he claimed  
not to like.",0
"In the tram there was a fat, sickly looking woman in front of me  
who was asking for directions in a thick voice.  When she got up to  
go a disgusting smell of urine came from her.  I felt that I  
would choke.",0
"I think that I am rather shy and do not mix with people as I  
would have liked to, out of shyness.",2
"I was walking on a street alone in the afternoon when there were  
not too many people on the street.  A couple of guys were  
following me and I was ignoring them.  Suddenly one of them came  
in front of me and started using dirty language and harrassing  
me.  I got very angry and wanted to strike back at them.",3
"I was travelling in a local train when a drunkard, smelling  
terribly, entered the same carriage and started eating fish that  
was stinking.",0
"I had a quarrel with my father, because I was of the opinion that  
he decided in an authoritarian way which TV program we should  
watch. I became very angry and started throwing things through  
the room.",3
"I am ashamed at myself sometimes when I am working with  
handicapped people and don't wish to be seen in public with them.",2
"I thought him a good friend but he tried to lie to me several times.  
Last time was the height of impudence. He promised he would come  
home but he didn't. I felt a sense of anger and insult.",3
"My older brother who gives me unwanted advices about problems in  
my relationship with my girlfriend.",3
"My parents scolded me a lot for something I had not done.  It was  
my sister who had done it.",3
"When I went to report a stolen good at the police station, the  
woman-officer-in-charge was very rude and did not seem to have  
respect for anyone.",0
"Students on campus were unnecessarily creating trouble just to  
heckle the authorities - not to achieve something concrete, but  
to further their own interest.",0
"I felt something close to that when I saw that there was a man on  
the terrace of the flat.",6
"One day my elder brother badly scolded my father.  This was the  
first time that I heard such abusive language from my brother.  I  
requested him humbly not to use this kind of language but he did  
not care for what I was saying.  Finally I picked up an axe to use  
against him, in the meanwhile people intervened.",3
"When I was a little girl about eight years old I broke the bey  
from a closed. Mother asked who did it. I said that it wasn't me, as  
I almost never lied, and my brother did it more frequently in  
spite my brother denieing it my mother gave him a few slaps.",5
"When I promised to help a friend over a weekend and did not keep  
the promise.",2
Something was stolen.,3
"A sense of guilt I felt once when I couldn't defend the  
confidence my teacher had in me and thus discrediting him at a  
concert.",5
"I criticised an action of my mother and for the first time she  
genuinely took notice of it. I felt shame that I was almost  
taking the part of a husband, or at least an equal which I should  
not.",2
"I was driving very fast on a small road and I met an oncoming car  
in a right handed bend.  The other driver was on his own side of  
the road and I had to skid out of it to avoid a collision.  It  
was dark.",6
"When I cancelled an appointment with an idle story. Afterwards  
it appeared that the person had looked forward to it and reserved  
time for it.",5
"I read a book whose plot and expressions were obscene and in very  
bad taste.",0
"When I was ten years old a classmate laughed at me because I had  
told him that my father had retired.",2
When I saw President Reagan get elected.,0
"I threw away an object, which belonged to a friend, because I did  
not know what to do with it. My friend was very sad about that  
and I felt guilty.",5
When I was accepted at UNZA.,1
"A certain woman had asked me to make something for her and I kept  
putting it off.  When I finally made it, I did not see her for  
days only to be told one day that she had collapsed and died.  I  
felt quite guilty as she had jokingly said that I might not do  
what she had requested me to do.",5
Because I had not studied.,5
"When I was 12 years old, some friends of our family had come to  
watch TV. I lay on the floor and moved my pelvis. When the other  
people had gone, my mother told me that it had looked as if I had  
wanted to make sex.",2
When a close friend wilfully cheated me.,0
"The moment I got the news that I had been selected for the U.G.C  
junior national research fellowship.  It was a dream come true.",1
"I felt joy when I passed my Malawi School Certificate of  
Education.",1
When I did not give back a text book to a friend in time.,5
"The cat of my landlady escaped through the window which I had  
left open.",5
"When I went to meet the family of my boyfriend in a party in his  
house. His mother was eager to know me and all his friends ready  
to make jokes about the situation.",2
Someone I know and respect sexually assulted a girl.,2
"My boyfriend had drunk too much and beaten me. When I had to show  
the letter the door, which was almost crashed, I felt ashamed.",2
When I masturbated in my room.,5
"One of my best friends'fiancT broke off the relationship because  
his feelings for me were stronger than for her. I felt the same  
for him, but did not really encourage him to leave her or stay  
with her - still felt shame.",2
When I forgot the lyrics during a song contest.,4
"When I met a very close friend of mine after one year of  
separation.",1
"I worked with several classmates on a project.  I was very  
anxious about the project while my partners showed no concern   
and when we had meetings on the project my classmates  did not  
pay any attention.  Some of them read books while the others  
argued on irrelevant questions.  The meeting would go on for two  
hours without the main theme being discussed.  We wasted time and  
could not reach a compromise.  My classmates avoided doing the  
work and the responsibilities, they seemed to value other  
projects more than this one.",3
"My dog of 16 and 1/2 years - ""Lord Grey"" died in his sleep - His  
death caused me more and deeper sadness than I thought.",4
"When I went to my room-mate's drawer to see if she had an iron   
which I could use, she came in.  I felt guilty as she may have  
thought that I had been stealing.",5
The dying of a close member of the family.,4
"When I scored the third goal to my own side at a football match  
against William Murray Secondary School and we were badly  
defeated.",5
I asked someone to go out and she accepted right away.,1
Watching a horror film.,6
When my new jeans split while I was with the youth group.,2
When I met my mother after not having seen her for three years.,1
"During the funeral of my grandmother, when I saw my mother and  
other family members crying.",4
"I promised to join a meeting but did not turn up as I did not  
want to do the work.",5
Comments from other children on my alcoholic father,2
"I and my cousin went to a filmshow at night. We went without  
making it known to my mother. While we were there at interval, I  
came across my mother just close to where we sat.",6
"I felt disgusted on seeing my boyfriend after our separation.   
One day he was begging at the mass transit railway station and at  
that moment I hated him.",0
Every time I do not write something well in English.,2
"I wanted to be pregnant and did not succeed, so I was depressed     
at every menstruation.",4
"After much trouble getting together in the first place my  
boyfriend and I celebrated our first anniversary.",1
"Winning a race that I had been training for, for many weeks.  
(Running Race).",1
"When I was with a girl who seemed to love me, while I was with  
her just to go to bed with her.",5
"I forgot my mother's and sister's birthdays (they fall on the  
same day).",5
I felt guilty when I lost K43 for my friend when he was arrested.,5
"My elder sister forced me to do a few things which I did not like  
to do.",0
"I felt guilty because I stole some sweets from my father's  
grocery. When he asked me who stole the sweets I told him it was  
my brother who stole the sweets and he was scolded.",5
A night spent with a group of friends.,1
"When a soppy poem that I had written to a boy was found and every  
one read it and started teasing me about it.",2
"At hostel, my roommate was a very selfish person and would avoid
doing anyhting that did not concern him.  A few of us prepared lunch  
together and had decided to share the work.  My roomate had  
promised to do the same but I had to wash the bowls everytime  
after dinner.  I tried to wait and thought that he would realize  
his fault.  I did not want to tell him to do the work as he is a  
university student and ought to have self-respect.  He  
disappointed me and so every time I saw him I tried to avoid him  
and did not want to keep any contact with him.",5
"When a friend told me a story and I stayed dumb because I had no  
story to tell.",2
Article published in the college newspaper.,1
"I'm afraid of not being able to go to the school I want because  
of suffering grades.",6
"While watching a film of an experimental operation on a cat's  
brain in which the cat had metal pieces protruding from its eyes,  
mouth etc. to keep the head stable while being cut open.",0
"It was at a comsomol(??) meeting, the last one because we were to  
graduate. The way one of my fellow-students behaved made me feel  
disgusted.",0
"When our religion teacher presented shocking sectarian thoughts  
and doom's day as official teaching.",3
"When I was complimented and called ""delightful"".",1
"When I had to go through lonely streets in the middle of the  
night.",6
"When I am with friends and I do what pleases me this often  
happenes.",1
"I get disgusted with the inherent racist attitudes of my  
brother-in-law in putting down various ethnic groups and also my  
unwillingness to challenge him about these attitudes in order to  
keep the peace.",0
Being treated unfairly.,3
"I read in the newspaper about a 21 yr. old woman who was found  
naked and dead along a roadside. It turned out she had had two  
relatives 14 and 19 who were kidnapped, raped and killed earlier.",0
"When I left all my friends at school (break up) knowing we would  
probably all go our separate ways, and none see one another for a  
long time.",4
"After closing the front door I realized that I had left the key  
inside the house. I felt even more guilty since it was not my own  
house but the house of people I hardly knew.",5
"I was angry when my friends said that I should not receive  
Nursing Science books because there was a rumour that I was  
intending to leave the college.",3
During the short period of my unemployment about six years back.,3
My father told me in the letter that my mother is ill.,4
When I understood I was admitted to the Sofia University.,1
"When I almost ran over a small boy who suddenly was in front of  
my car.",6
Not thanking relatives for a favor done.,5
"I was talking with an aunt of mine that I adore and I found  
courage to say ""I love you"" and just after that came the shame.",2
"I was ""best man"" at my brother's wedding a year ago.",1
"The first time I saw a pornographic film, all that in practice is  
so beautiful but on the screen appered as something mechanical,  
irrational, disgusting and dehumanizing.",0
"[ I had, by being silent, disapproved my love and made him  
unhappy.  He had not been able to keep his promise.  I thus was  
thinking about my own conduct towards another person.]",5
When I was attacked by a teenage boy and had my wallet stolen.,6
"As an evening class teacher I got positive feedback.  When the  
atmosphere is good and a kind of relaxed understanding exists.",1
"Our Headmaster came to our hostel. The lights were off but there  
was a lot of noise. We shouted at him when he knocked at our  
door. We later saw that it was the Headmaster.",5
Saw some young people fighting for seats on a bus.,0
"I went to the ballet lessons with a little friend in the dark. On  
a very quiet place a boy approached us from behind and asked at  
what time the lesson would be finished. I gave him an avoiding  
answer, he took me up and wanted to run away with me.",6
"Looking up end-of-semester results, and finding I'd failed three  
out of seven (subjects).",4
Criticized by a teacher in public.,2
"When I overtook a car on the mainroad, misjudging the distance of  
an oncoming car and this resulted in tooting and flashing from  
the other driver (we could have collided), and I had an  
acquaintance in the car with me.",2
I felt guilty when once I made my mother angry.,5
"I felt disgust toward meat when I felt sick with the steak after  
a week only on meat.",0
"I had promised to say goodbye to a person who was going on a  
trip, and I did not turn up.",5
Winning the local soccer championships this year was a great joy.,1
When I was told that my uncle had passed away.,4
"I was given an exam which I thought did not measure at all my  
ability or my knowledge of the subject.",3
"When I was twelve I was babysitting some children but I did not  
act very responsibly and one of them was injured.",2
"When I realized that my girlfriend, whom I like, and I were going  
to separate.",4
The day I left my first girlfriend.,4
"When my demand for accomodation on the campus was refused and the  
rooms were allotted to first year students who were from ""Rucher""  
and came from influential families.",0
"One day I took a packet of sweets from a certain Grocery at  
Nathenje. Then later on I started to feel guilty and realised  
that I had done a wrong thing to him.",5
When I received a letter of acceptance to CAL.,1
I unexpectedly got a present from my father.,1
"When the teacher asked me a question in class, concerning  
something I had read earlier, and I did not know the answer, so I  
felt ashamed in front of the whole class.",2
"I felt a physical fear, if I can call it this way, today, in the bus where  
I was sitting on the first seat. While turning the driver didn't  
see the tram which was making a dash towards us (coming from the  
side I was), and whose driver intended to cross in yellow  
light.",6
When my mother kept me in leading-strings.,3
"A very close friend of mine invited me to spend the holidays with  
him.  He was very kind, good and understanding.  However it  
turned out that he had two of his cousins at his place.  He,  
however gave me everything I needed - even transport money.",5
"When I cheated my trusting girlfriend by telling her that I was a  
qualified doctor and later she found out that I was only a  
medical student at the preclinical level.",5
"After yelling at my girlfriend, I felt bad because she was ?  
crying and upset.",5
"I was afraid when my first boyfriend threatened to make an end to  
our relationship because he didn't love me enough while I loved  
him very much.",6
"We were writing Primary school leaving Examinations when I had  
fallen at the steps going into the Exam room.",2
"I feel disgusted at my cousin, who is bad-mannered, does not know  
how to behave and talk to others, he does not respect elders and  
lies all the time.",0
A saturday night a bus full of drunken people.,0
"My friends and I were sitting at a restaurant. We were talking  
and a few of them said awful things about women. I became  
disgusted by their narrow-mindedness.",0
"It was when I was selected to go to a Secondary school to start  
form I.",1
"When my boyfriend asked me to go out with him and I refused  
because I wanted to go out with another guy.  I did go out and my  
boyfriend found out.",5
When my sister was born.,1
"Before Uni started, I had to leave home and take up residence in  
Brisbane (the ""big smoke"") leaving home, my family, and moving to  
such a big place was quite intimidating at first, and I was  
anxious about it.",6
"I was very angry with a girlfriend for interferring a little too  
much with my personal affairs. I told her so rather strongly and  
she started crying.",5
"When I was in lower six I joined an interview group to  
interview the general public.  One of my friends in the group  
lost her purse and she was very nervous.  Five of us had to go  
another place so we left her, and planned to see her later.  Then  
I heard her describing how her purse looked.  I realized that I  
had seen her purse on the floor and had not wanted to do any  
thing about it. ",2
"The sense of guilt came over me too, when I interrupted my  
studies. Why ? Because I felt guilty before my parents ! They  
believed in me though this event did not make them disbelieve me.",5
"I was in form five at the boarding school and my friends and I  
had gone drinknig beer in the nearby village.  And we were caught  
red handed there by a form master.",6
"I was in a dark cellar and saw a glowing red point. I thought  
that it was a person with a cigarette - but it was only the red  
switch.",6
"A piece of work was marked as bad by the teachers I and some  
fellow students didn't agree with their vague criticism. I felt  
myself taken in by the teachers and felt disgust.",0
"I liked to see off my aunt (from Zaire) to the airport. That  
appeared to be impossible because I had to go to school. For long  
time I wasn't sure if I could accompany her. Two days before the  
departure they told me I was allowed to miss school.",1
"I heard that a friend had died in an accident; group situation:  
suddenly a friend came in and said ""Have you already heard  
that...""; there was a terrible consternation, silence, then  
everybody shouted excitedly ""How could that happen..."".",4
"When someone I know was caught in an ""adultery"" situation.",2
"I was very sad when I heard that my uncle had passed away  
untimely at home.",4
Robbery mentioned under sadness.,0
"I was alone in my parents' house, having made plans to spend the  
afternoon with a lover (plans which the lover cancelled),  
watching a movie and considering my life and circumstances -  
pressures of examinations in particular.",4
When my grandmother passed away.,4
"The only event I can remember is having a nightmare when I was  
very young (3 years old) I dreamt about a machine which was going  
to crush me.",6
"I kicked the dog outside on a cold night because he was annoying  
me. The next day he came down with the flu and we thought he was  
going to die.",2
"My boyfriend and I did not have any contact with each other during   
the Summer holidays.  I met him the day of the registration and looked   
through him.  In the canteen he asked me if I wanted to have a drink and   
I said no as I did not want him to do me a favour.",0
"I felt disgusted when I was in a restaurant which didn't appear  
to be clean and orderly. (I do not like to be in unclean  
environments).",0
"When a teacher tells a story which isn't true. It only reflects  
his way of interpreting reality.",3
"When my husband discovered I was having an affair with another  
man.",5
Having my luggage checked at Customs.,6
"I was talking badly about a person to some friends, and  
discovered that his daughter was listening.",2
"When I took a small boy's share of choclale.  He was our guest  
and so had been given a larger share of the sweets.",5
Seeing this badly made questionnaire.,3
"My sister and brother in law returned from Sri Lanka where they  
adopted a child. I went to pick them up at the airport.",1
"[ One day I arrived home rather tired and found the house..... In  
addition I was asked many questions which I did not want to  
answer.]",3
"My baby sister was 2-3 months old and when I was trying to get  
her on my back, she slipped and fell.",5
"This summer I got into a fight with one of our patrons (at a  
theatre). He hit me and I hit him and her friend, he hit my friend  
and we all hit eachother.",3
I had just masterbated with another boy.,2
A very close friend left me.,4
Car accident in the middle of the night.,6
"Day before yesterday my mother bought me a new pair of shoes,  
without my having asked for them.  She told me that when she saw  
the pair of shoes she felt like buying them for me.  I really  
liked the shoes and they made me feel that my mother cares for  
me.",1
"Someone signed up for a workshift at the co-op where I live and  
she did not want to work the switchboard. I became very angry.  
She had mentioned earlier that she wanted and needed the  
workshift to me so I did not sign up.",3
"I get angry with people who attain certain status without  
deserving it, only with the support, authority and influence of  
other people.",3
Not being able to have a party at home with friends.,2
"When I was told that a boy did not want to be my friend without  
any apparent reason.",3
"In broad daylight I saw an untidy old man pissing and playing  
with his penis in the middle of the town.",0
My roommate's sister committed suicide.,4
"When I study my butt off for a midterm and still get an average  
grade.",0
"I felt afraid when I smoked maryhuana for the first time in my  
life with a lot of friends in the middle of the street at day  
brake.",6
"My mother was unwell and went for many cancer tests. She spent  
time in hospital being opened and closed many times.",4
"Waiting for my girlfriend to come from her apt. to mine. She was  
very late and I thought something awful had happened.",6
Walking in the dark by myself.,6
When my mother surprised me while masturbating.,2
"When I had a psychical crisis, I met a girl, who told me that she  
had had almost the same problems and how she had finally overcome  
them.",1
When I did not go to work because I had to study for a midterm.,5
"During my Summer vacations I planned a carnival for the community  
youth center with a few other volunteers.  I was the head of the  
organizors and we spent over a month planning it.  During this  
period we got to know and understood each other.  We  
discovered each others potential and we planned many interesting  
things for the carnival.  The day of the carnival everything was  
bright, the programmes went well and the attendants enjoyed it.   
I felt extremely excited about it.",1
"After seeing a horror film - Omen.  I could not sleep at night   
even though I closed my eyes.  The last scene of the film kept  
coming back to me, I seemed to hear the girls in the film  
shouting at the devil.  The devil did not have any expression on  
his face and I thought that he would choose me.",6
"In a disco, there was a dirty little chap who punched my bottom.",0
Same situation as before - having my car stolen.,3
"A few monthe ago, when my brother's wife told me that I had bad  
manners.  To make matters worse she did not let me use their  
telephone as she only allowed people of her own tribe.",3
When one of my lovers told me that I was a flirt.,5
When I have been overhastingly offending or hurting.,5
With an alcoholic.,0
"I studied medicine for several semesters. I was always disgusted  
when we had the dissecting-course. I cannot understand why some  
persons like this course.",0
Did not read reference when other people read them.,5
"I was seriously injured in a road accident. The very first steps  
I took with only one crutch to support me I felt so good. I enjoy  
being alive.",1
"I felt shame and I couldn't look into my teacher's eyes, after  
not attending his lectures.",2
[ When I see that the toilet is unclean.],0
"My cousin asked me to be a bridesmaid for her. This made really  
happy because I was adopted into the family and her asking me  
made me realise that she saw me as a cousin and not just another  
person. There were other cousins she could have asked but she  
asked me.",1
"Stopped at lights in Mangere late one Friday night on way home  
from work. Alone in car when someone came up behind the car and  
started banging and shaking it. Light was red and had nowhere to  
go until light changed. When green I took off.",6
My dog died of a cerebral tumor.,4
"The first time that I saw a dead person.  This was when I started  
my gross anatomy practicals.",6
I felt angry when my friend told me that I had stolen her money.,3
"A friend of mine ridiculed me, telling me that I would never  
accomplish anything. I felt that he had interfered with my life.",3
When a friend left me and went back home for good.,4
"I was using my sister's stereo while everyone was out. I know she  
wouldn't want me to and I would get into trouble if she found  
out. But she was only partly justified in forbidding me to use  
it. She never found out.",5
"After my boy-friend had beaten me for the first time, I always  
trembled when somebody knocked on my door or when I heard steps  
coming nearer.",6
Forgot to give a present to my little nephew.,5
"I felt disgusted when I went to one of the Central hospitals  
where my hope of getting good treatment was turned down by one of  
the doctors who said I was alright despite my feeling pain.",0
"I met a certain lady at the bus depot who was using a bad  
language but was a very smart looking lady.",0
"During my holiday I met again a friend who had tried to commit  
suicide. She had just left hospital, her lips were trembling, she  
looked miserable.",4
"A few weeks back I had a very important seminar and I had  
circulated my papers to all the panel members.  A day before the  
seminar I realized that I had inadvertantly burdened certain        
derivations and I had failed to correct it.  I feared that this     
would reflect very badly on my performance.  Fortunately none of   
the panel members detected it and I felt relieved.",6
"When I read the diary of the girl with whom I was living, it was  
about another boy with whom she had been going around some time back.",4
"One night we, all the family members, were sitting in the front  
corridor of the house when a gentleman looking person came in.   
He was my father's client and he had come to bribe my father in  
connection with the proceeding case.  At my father's refusal he  
abused my father, my brother and I could not control our temper  
and we rushed at him.",3
"When my father's new fiancee treats me like a child.  She does  
not trust me and constantly misunderstands me.  I get  
particularly angry when she says nasty things about my boyfriend  
with whom she works.",3
When I was admitted to the University.,1
"When I caused needless anxiety to a person close to me because of  
my lack of self-insight.",5
"My feelings towards would-be in-laws for their participation in  
recent broken relationship.",3
My good friend misunderstood me.,4
"I read about the national and social spirit and self-discipline  
of the people of developed coutries like U.S.A, England, France,  
Germany etc.  Comparing this to the Indian people I felt guilty  
as they have no national spirit or self-discipline.",5
"When I received the news that my beloved grandmother had died.  I  
was at the boarding school and was only 13 years old.",4
Passed the last exam.,1
"I get angry with my brothers and sisters when they do something  
that I do not like.  They know this and still do it so as to  
tease me.",3
Saw someone licking his dining bowl.,0
"We had had a party the night before and we still had some liquors  
left the morning after. I went to the kitchen pretending to  
prepare some tea and was caught by my fiancee pouring some rum  
down my throat.",5
"When I spoke to my daughter and wished her luck for the  
examinations she was about to take.",1
"Someone told me he was chosen for the English lectures because he  
was a good friend of the class leader.",2
"I missed the train and had to wait for the next for two hours.  
For this reason I missed an appointment which had been very  
important for me.",3
"When I behaved improperly - fought in a public place.   
Afterwards, I felt guilty about my conduct.",5
"I felt joy when I heard that I was accepted for the Free  
University in Driebergen.",1
"My brother is a soldier. He promised to come home in a furlough  
but in the last moment he phoned and said that he could not come.",4
"When my roommate came home at 10 in the morning after sleeping  
with a guy she did not know because she got drunk. (Se has a  
boyfriend too).",0
Unable to help my mother to cook.,5
"When I found my boyfriend, who I had been dating for a year, at  
another girl's house. We had had previous conflicts concerning  
the girl, but he had always claimed they were just friends.",3
"When I attended school, our class visited an institution for  
mentally and physically handicapped persons. Although I tried to  
control my feelings, I was disgusted.",0
"When somebody behaves like a scoundrel. Recently a colleague of  
mine used the name of another one for his own benefit.",0
"One of my friends came to know through some other friends that I    
had applied for some course in an institute.  He asked me ""why  
did not you tell me, I would also have applied.""  At that I felt  
guilty.",5
"In the house where I live there is a new flatmate. His friends  
unfortunately are the dirt of society, intelligent, fashonable,  
rich and bored. At a party recently they were doing things I  
didn't like done in my house. I felt angry at them.",3
"I was once nominated as an Officer Cadet in the Armed Forces and  
my name was cancelled on the list of nominees of those who were  
sent to Kenya for Training.",4
My father dying.,4
"My friend got married and went abroad, this made me feel sad and  
lonely.",4
"My father was very angry with another man in the presence of my  
friends.",2
"When I needed another job and tought that a good and known person  
(my employer) could help me. He simply said that he couldn't help  
me.",0
"When my uncle gave me my first year's results.  I opened the  
envelope and my eyes ran into two ""B+"" - in EC110 and M160, this  
meant that I had qualified for a major in economics.",1
"I am disgusted by people who spoil their identity because of  
misbehaviour.  This morning when I was in a crowded bus, I found  
a seat on which a university student was sitting on one side and  
he had put his bag and files next to him.  There was very little  
space left and I sat down while he kept on reading.  Even when I  
leaned on him he did not put his bag away.  He did not respond and  
I felt very angry.",0
"Not attending school, when  am not sick - but in need of mental  
rest. Staff on your return query your ""sickness"" - it is easier  
in N.Z. to be sick, rather than confide other personal reasons  
etc.",5
Wrongly accused a classmate.,5
"I had prepared a special meal for my boyfriend but when my  
brother came home he ate it all.  I was really disgusted about it.",0
"This happened when it was finally confirmed that I had stood  
first in the university for the M.A exams.  A few days before the  
official results were declared a clerk had brought the results  
unofficially.  So I had been expecting the results but the  
confirmation allowed me to legitimately feel happy at my  
success.  
",1
"When I was cycling to school, I nearly got knocked down by a car  
which (overtook me too closely) did not give me any swerving space.",6
"I felt disgusted when a certain lady spoke words of sarcasm when  
I was trying to propose to her.",0
"A Maori language oral test, yeaterday - Although I had studied  
intensely - once in the examiners room ""I blew it"" -  I was so  
nervous I couldn't reply easily - It was very important, but I  
got only blankness.",6
"When I came to know that my exams were on two successive days and  
that there was very little time (about 9-10 hours) to study in  
between.",6
The results of the mid term examinations were very poor.,5
"When I met a girl and asked her for a date and she agreed, (I  
thought this girl would never like me), this was an emotion of  
joy.",1
"I was walking in the wood at night with my boyfriend. Very  
romantic. Suddenly I heard a car driving very slowly with the  
lights out, it looked as if they were looking for something.",6
"I was not given a chance to explain to my close relatives as to  
why I could not go to visit them when they were ill.  When I did  
go, they thought that I had been selfish and irresponsible during 
their illness.",3
"When my aunt told me angrily that I was a good-for-nothing and  
she was fed up with my behaviour.",3
"I argued with my father on matters concerning marriage.  
Traditionally speaking, I was not supposed to, so I felt guilty  
of violating my traditions which I must hold in esteem.",5
When I first passed a job interview.,1
When I decided to separate from my husband.,6
"When I was at the end-of-term party last week and had fun - was  
happy and sang and drank only soft drinks.  It is possible to  
have a good time without alcohol.",1
You told me psychology can help people to be happier.,1
"Getting a friend an open container ticket because I got caught  
speeding.",5
"When I was going home for my holiday, I almost drowned in the  
Zambezi river.",6
Acting in a play at the orientation camp made me feel timid.,2
"When in grade 3, late home from school every day for weeks  
because of harassment from a grade 7 boy I lied to mother about  
why I was home late.",5
"Few years ago my father was very ill. He stayed at a hospital for  
a long time. Then I experienced that terrible feeling that I  
might lose him.",6
"When I saw my brother in Church, and publically accept Jesus  
Christ as his saviour and Lord.",1
"When I contacted a sexually transmitted disease and the  
lecturer came to know about it as it was he who treated me for  
it.",2
"I was angry about 3 months ago and I kicked backwards against the  
wall. It caved in and so I had to show it to my parents. I had  
been angry after my mother said something to me about not being  
able to find clothes in my size - something that I'm sensitive  
about. (6' 5'' 210)",2
"I feel anger when I see a ""parent"" beating and punishing his child  
in the street. Recently I was a withness of a similar case.",3
I hapened to overhear something which I was not meant to hear.,5
"When people without my permission pry in my belongings and take  
things out of it.",3
When I dreamed that I was being attacked by a friend.,6
"When I was hungry, I tried to take the money that my mother  
had saved up for something else.",2
"During the Chinese lessons a student often showed off. Moreover  
he misbehaved and dressed very badly.  So disgusting !",0
I stole carrots and got caught.  I had to apologize to the owner.,5
"Recently when my sister, who is four years younger than me and  
very spoiled, shouted at my mother for no apparent reason .  The  
heart-broken expression on my mother's face made me feel very  
angry.",3
"I was very angry when one day I went to see my girlfriend I  
talked to her and could not answer back. She was depressed for  
reasons which were not known to me.",3
"When the university withdrew the accomodation that it had given  
me.",3
"A condition in which I was disgusted followed when I lost money  
on my way home from the college.",0
"When I was a child I hid under the sheets out of fear of  
darkness.",6
Being made to look like a fool by a girl.,3
"An argument that grew out of an ordinary conversation with a  
person very close to me, when we should have been having a good  
time together.",2
"My girlfriend gave me some feed-back and I understood that it  
meant that our relationship was about to turn even closer.",1
"When my father asked me if I was a communist, at the same time he  
made it clear that I should no longer see myself as his daughter.",3
"Finding out that the university police was afraid to stop the  
foreign students playing loud music (China's shame).
",2
"I wrote a bad letter to someone concerning our relationship which  
we created ourselves.",5
"When my brother went to shoot wild ducks, I feared that the  
boat would overturn and he would drown or that the gun would  
accidentally go off.",6
When I betrayed my former girlfriend.,5
"There was a lot of irritation between me and a person who lives  
in the same house where I live. Suddenly it became too much for me and I  
accused him of several things.",3
When I got a low grade in an administration course.,3
"When I had to give a speech about some historical event, to an  
audiece of about 200 people my own age whom I did not know.",6
"I was ashamed when my friend and I were cross with each other  
till we apologized to each other.",2
"When it was found that I had gone out of the school premises  
without permisssion and at the wrong time.",6
"I was about to begin a journey in a car with an acquaintance of  
mine.",6
Getting slightly intoxicated at the 1984 I.C.C. Ball.,2
"This morning I spent a lot of time on my toilet and missed the  
train to the university.  My mother told me that I spent more  
time than a woman on my toilet.  I felt a mixed emotion of shame  
and anger.",2
"When we were at home, my husband and I, he made a remark about  
something I had done, in a perfectly friendly manner.  My deed  
had been unjust and I knew that my husband was right, therefore my  
sense of shame.",2
"I was on this amusement park ride at Marriots Great America. It  
went way up in the air and then around and around. Heights are  
not my favorite spots in life.",6
Staying alone in the dark.,6
"I was afraid when my boyfriend came home because my parents  
disapproved him of his coming home. I thought they would chase me  
out of the house.",6
"When I learnt that my offer to study at the university had been  
withdrawn  and so I would not get hostel accomodation at UNZA,  
even though I registered as a student later.",0
People spitting in railway stations.,0
"I was very sad when I had to leave persons with whom I had a very  
intense relationship I also had to leave the environment which  
was part of this.",4
When my father passed away.,4
"During a family reunion, they started talking about me wearing an  
ear-ring.",2
"At the age of 12 years I always had to take care of my little  
brother and sister I never could sleep then. I always imagined  
creepy men sneaking into our house.",6
"When I was baby-sitting at my cousin's place, I tried to have a  
pleasant time and did not really take care of the child.  I do  
not care very much about children.",5
When I got separated from my first love.,4
"I had a short lasting sexual relationship with someone I didn't  
love.",2
"I had to go to the doctor's because of a veneral disease. I told  
the doctor that I must have been infected by my boy-friend. This  
was not true, but I was ashamed to tell the truth.",2
"Day I received my T.E. score and acceptance into my chosen course.  
",1
"When present boyfriend's mother approached my parents and self -  
to leave her son alone - as she did not want me for a future  
daughter-in-law.",3
"The time I was at secondary school during the holiday I appeared  
to my father while heavily drunk and I talked nonsense like in  
some sort of carefree.",5
Failing an examination.,4
Before taking an exam.,6
When my mother treats me as a 10-year old boy.,3
Shame I feel when I am not properly dressed.,2
"After having left the company of someone who gave me a lot of  
support and made me laugh, found myself alone for days on end.",4
My roommate talking and shaking her bed at night.,0
Finding out my grades at the end of my freshman year.,1
"It was last September when I felt very sad. It was when I heard  
that I was not selected to study in the University of Malawi.",4
"After a one year's stay abroad, I returned home. I was even more  
glad to see how much my family was pleased to see me.",1
Being mistreated by other people.,3
"We had a birthday party with 5 friends. One of us frequently used  
hard drugs. On the party I discovered that the other 3 friends  
also used them. While we agreed we would help the big user to  
stop using it.",0
"When I had had the possibility to act or to do certain activity  
better but I had not done it because of reluctance or  
carelessness.",5
Person talking about a situation while eating.,0
When I was told that my friend's wife had cancer.,4
"When finally I found a place to live, I felt relieved, predicting  
changes in my life, and I became happy.",1
"In the 12/83 my boyfriend asked me to forget him, as it would be  
easy.",4
When I heard that a good friend had committed suicide.,4
I felt guilt when I betrayed the person whom I loved.,5
"I felt disgust as a result of one of my midterms - I thought I  
had prepared well for it, but the end result wasn't what I had  
expected.",0
"I had fear when I was left alone at the bus depot at night. I had  
problems of how to move to this place.",6
"I was to take part in a cocktail party on the occasion of our  
national holiday as a servant.",2
"I felt very guilty when I tried to teach swimming to my younger  
brother, as I myself could not swim very well and my brother  
had started sinking to the bottom, however my elder brother  
saved him.",5
"I was accused of a misdemeanour, unjustly.",3
"I had an appointment with a good friend. He came 3 hours later  
than we agreed upon. During the last hour of waiting I was afraid  
something might had happened, because usally he is in time.",6
When my last relation broke up.,4
"Riding through a bush fire on an island of Australia - on a  
pushbike as a little boy - all alone, lost and surrounded by  
smouldering wood and flame.",6
"When somebody suddenly said something (about me) at a wrong  
moment and I didn't agree (at that exact moment I was needing an  
extremely positive word).",2
"My sister forgot to bring presents for my birthday, I was rude to  
her.",5
"When I was going downhill on skis, and fell down twice the first  
time.",2
A close married friend has just had his first child.,1
"When some people, including me, are treated in a way which  
equates them to an animal or a thing.",0
"Some time ago I promised to meet an acquaintance of mine and to  
carry him some promised papers. I haven't done it until this day.  
Now I feel quite awkward when I meet him.",2
"A good friend of mine told me in comfidence that once he had  
tried to commit suicide. To meet him you wouldn't think so. I  
told another friend of mine about this when she was feeling  
depressed about her twin brother's suicide. I broke a bond of  
confidentiality.",2
A friend came to visit me and I was not there.,5
Forced to fill in a questionnaire.,5
"A friend once reacted childishly (he is 23 yearrs old) to my not  
responding in his favour to a request, that is: he asked me for  
some money I refused, and his reaction was quite childish.",0
"A relative of mine had come to see my husband to talk to him  
about a problem concerning his sister and me.  I was angry  
because this relative of mine did not dare to speak to me and  
instead spoke to my husband.  I got to know about it later the  
same day.",3
"For example, when I have promised something but I haven't  
fulfilled it.",5
The first time I left home.,4
I have a new born child.,1
[ When some people act very important in any situation.],0
A reoccurring fear that something will happen to my relatives.,6
"After 10 days of hard work and having suffered many changes I  
passed my last exam.",1
When I was selected for the university.,1
"It was when we were beaten or lost the football match by 5-1 and  
then I scored the third goal to my own side.",2
When I hurt a person's feelings.,5
"Stopped at a Fast Food shop with friends and a few locals wanted  
to fight us for no apparent reason. They hit and picked on one of  
my friends.",3
When I beat up my son for having beaten up his sister.,5
"I was walking home with a friend at night along a quiet street.   
Something started rustling in the bush : it was an exhibitionist.",6
"One time I was injured when I was playing football at School in  
Blantyre. I was brought to the hospital while my leg was totally  
swollen. The x-rays confirmed there was no fracture but  
collection of blood n the muscles. I feared when they started to  
incise the swollen part with surgical blade.",6
"I got into an argument with a photographer for whom I had to pose  
twelve times, over  a period of four weeks, before I could get a  
snap of mine.  Every time the film was processed my snap did not  
come out although the others did.",3
"I felt very disgusted at a friend to whom I had given a Psychology  
book to read, and she did not care to give me back the book  
during the exams.",0
"About my girlfriend's sister who is a viper as I discovered some  
time ago.",0
Left alone in the biology building surrounded by empty buildings.,6
Yelled at my parents for not buying me a car like other parents.,5
To see damaged lettuce (with worms) in the icebox.,0
"Not succeeding in a cross-country skiing competition, which I  
intended to win.",4
"My friend half-teasingly called me a bad nickname.  I felt  
insulted and kicked his hip in anger.  I was stable later and did  
not feel angry at him.  In fact I was afraid that the other  
friends who were with us would think that I was an intolerant  
person.  However I could not apologize, so I pretended that  
nothing had happened and smiled when I left.  My friend did not  
say anything but just watched me leave.",3
"My mother, my sister and I were sitting in the sitting room and  
watching a film on TV. My father came home drunk and told us to  
turn off. When we did not do that he switched off the fuse and  
started shouting. We were sitting in the dark and I was afraid  
that he would do us a harm.",6
"The thought of having to read a boring book of 400 pages in  
English.",4
I am afraid before an exam or colloquium.,6
"When my lover and I felt like we had gone full circle. And our  
relationship was new, fresh, vital etc. once again.",1
"When I as a Pakeha (white) new Zealander, was just as racially  
prejudiced as other people whom I had condemned.",2
"One day I took my playmates to the river to swim and play. One  
of them was epileptic so he drowned into the water. I felt guilty  
because it was me who took them there.",5
Going to CAL not knowing anyone.,6
"I was watching a procession during the Holy week, and a penitent  
approached me.",6
Some students trying to please the lecturer.,0
When I excreted on the mat instead of the potty.,2
"The shame came when I was beaten by my teacher at school in front  
of boys and girls some of whom were my friends and a girlfriend  
apart from being classmates.",2
"I took a psych. experiment with a totally unappealing gay man as  
the experimentor, some homosexuals are funny or cute, but this  
guy was disgusting. Plus the experiment was about gays too.",0
"I had to tell someone that I was interested in remaining celibate  
and alone. And that my spiritual master strictly prohibited  
sexual relations outside of marriage. This caused great fear  
through lack of conviction afraid to hurt someone's feelings  
despite my own being hurt in the process.",6
"A story I heard recently about a baby dying after sexual  
abuse.",0
"I went to spend a night with a relative of mine and there I  
found that the bed had been wet the previous night.",0
"When I went to the clinic for a medical check-up and saw the way  
the lecturer was conducting the lecture and the kind of responses  
he got from the patients.",0
Fear of doing well on a midterm.,6
"When I noticed obvious marks of old age (in a negative sense) on  
a close relative of mine.",4
"At the crowded conditions of living.  I always quarrel with my  
elder brother as he puts the T.V volume at a deafening level and  
I can not practise my piano lessons.  Thus I feel that my home is  
disgusting.",0